How Do We Handle Conflict With Parents? - Sadhguru
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- How Do We Handle Conflict With Parents? - Sadhguru
Answering a student's question at JNU, Sadhguru gives clarity on one's choice of pursuing what one wants. He also says that there is a price to pay for everything one chooses to do in life.
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What a life I’m really on RUclips searching this
Yes bro can feel you
Even more, people are sharing their feelings in public without knowing it
Same ❤😭
Same here
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I struggled lot to chase my career going against all.. today im criticized for being single but I feel it's worth it..
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Sometimes I just hate my parents but I am bound to the love and the things they gave me. But sometimes it just so hard, i can't even have a single conversation with them without being in conflict.
Formula :
->You do a small mistake
->They bring all of your past and irrelevant mistakes
-> you defend yourself
-> "how dare you talk back to me, I'm not gonna give you a permission to play games, how about that??" 💩🦶🖕
learn to forgive they are only human and make mistakes and learn from them mistakes. Let me tell you a story when i was young this was 24 years ago i was young very dumb i was 18 and thought i knew the world i was hot headed constantly getting into fights i took drugs got drunk pretty much every night i was an awful human being me and my dad had a very big argument one morning i sat out all night i only came home to get ready for work we had a huge argument a lot of hatful nasty words was said on my way out of the door as a slammed it i told him to go die the guilt of them words have stuck with me ever since that morning he got into his car and never came home again he had a very bad car accident and it killed him when the cops came to my work place i actually first thought it was about the shouting we did but they came to tell me my dad passed away. i would do anything to talk to him again and would do anything to take back all them words i said to him i grew up pretty fast after that learn to forgive your parents because one day they wont be there anymore.
My only goal now is to leave my parents in their situation and fly somewhere else after college. Forever.
nice choice
Ok good influence of western education 👍👍
@@bebekhalder4379 kisiki situation jaane bina jyada gyaan mat chod lodu.
JUST DO IT👌🏽
for me right after 12th. mahn fuck this shit. I'm more likely to split their heads open than nothing if I'm stuck here.
Whenever I have conflict wid people I must make sure from Sadhguru before i exchange harsh words... 🙏🙏🙏
The way he explains such big problems into simpler words is truly remarkable, thank you so much Sadhguru 🙏🏻
*MY BOTH PARENTS ARE VIOLENT AND FORCED ME TO GO BEYOND MY ABILITY WHEN SOMEBODY GETS GOOD MARKS AND I GOT LESS THEY BEAT ME, ALWAYS ARGUE WITH EVERY POINT OF VIEW AND REPRESENT MY PERSPECTIVE I CRIED AT NIGHT ALONE SO MANY TIMES THEY ALWAYS THINK IM NOT UP TO DATE LIKE OTHERS THEY CANT FEEL MY PAIN BUT IM STILL LIVING WITH HIM BECAUSE I HAVE NO ENOUGH MONEY TO GET SEPARATE I DO 12 HOURS JOB, COOK FOOD FOR ALL AND GIVE THEM 50% OF MY SALARY STILL THEY TREAT ME AS A WASTE WHAT A LIFE KAIBAR AISA LAGTA HAI KI AGAR MUJE PUCH KE JANM DETE TO ME HI NAA BOL DETA SAALA JITI LAAS JAISI ZINDAGI HAI 😔*
Oh so sorry to hear that....if they don't want to understand what you want and what makes you happy then better should leave separate ....Being an only boy to my parents then also my married sisters are making my parents stay alone as they don't agree with my and my wife's point of views on every aspect of social life...parents think what they do in any household work is only right and better for all...they give taunts and harsh words for non listening to their advices and make us suffer....finally decided to leave separate from my parents in few days to let them live their life and for us our life......strength to you.....jai shree krishna 🙏🙏
I hope you are doing better now... I see you left this comment a year ago. I hope things changed for the better since then.
@@danslatetededidi3868 thanks for your concern for the past couple of months I left home and living in rented house I got peace but I have to do all things on my own nowadays no girl wants to married with people like me 😞
@@RadheShyam-sp1kr thanks for your advice
This is a problem with every generation.
If you're in a learning mode at least you must have a new problem
There is always a price to pay for things. If you really want what you want to do.
I made a huge mistake that I came back to parents home from Chennai now I wish to leave my parents and their home as I no longer feel confident tied up with their daily issues
I am a clg student and my parents yell at me for even trivial things. I feel like ending my life and I am eagerly waiting for my judgement day to come
same here
Have you been made to feel like a criminal for even the smallest of things by your parents who never even performed their duty as parents in the first place.
my father is crazy
You are not alone.
Just don't do tribal thing teach them the value of education,They will automatically understand what they are doing
Yeah, Thank you very much krub. Sadhguru, I also have a very toxic mother who love to do oppressive violence to her own childs even his or her already grown up. As long as she still alive, there is no hope of getting freedom for me. It’s very frustrating krub…😿❤️🌎👍🇹🇭
Hope parents understand us . But lost all hope . Now actions would speak . Better be earning and leave them so they would get time to know their mistakes and then be in good terms with u
Sometimes, people say forgive your parents as they gave birth to you....I say,death is better than this life,if i would have known what kind of family am gonna get,I would have preferred lifelessness over birth.
Sometimes when going to sleep wish I never wake up… fighting for useless things
Shared great topic
Making us too much dependant and making us a waste worth nothing !
Right 😢
Thanks
whenever my youtube channel get monitize then I leave my home and i complete my all study in my hostel , never ever in my home
I feel my mother is killing me about having children and my cousin is also starting to talk about it. And it's getting too much that i lost the interest to have a kid. I'm trying to do things on my own pace. But the funny thing is when I just move a bit away I feel better. So iam starting to learn to not be so much affected by their idea of having a child. What's right or wrong depends how a person sees things.
So life itself a price
Bcoz of my parents nature m still single not married yet
why nobody is talking about how cute the questioner is...
Bcoz not everyone was out here looking for cute girls.. most needed an important answer to an important question
@@naturelover3872 noice reply...
nobody except you here is a simp i guess 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@shinosukeff2925 😂😂😂
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i think Sadhguru missed the point of the question. The analogy he gives does not fit in this context. This answer can be confusing rather than helpful for young people.
For some people he will always miss the point no matter what...n for those people, Sadhguru is not even talking to them
Actually he means some people will never change like parents so you can do two things
1. You accept you avoid conflict with / parent society and leave out what you want
2. You pay the price of disagreement and leave or cut connection , face everything .
Hope it helps
@@debarghyachattopadhyay2614 Thanks for explaining.
Please explain this more. Still confused
Do you think he did this to only this question? 😂
Most of the questions youth or whoever so asks, he gives some answers but they truly misses the context of the question 😂 asked by one.
I really messed up w my life choices
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