What To Do If Your Parents Keep Fighting ? Clarity For Youth
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Bhut acchi lgti he mulyam और shiny ❤❤
Please bta dijiye.
Mujhe bhi order krni he.
Loved this series of yours....😂😂!!!
Agreed!!!
So glad that someone is talking about this constant energy guzzler. Lack of harmony at home causes irreparable damage to kids outlook to life and relationships...either they grow up as emotionally desensitized zombies to cope with such strained environment or they themselves become quarrelsome, peaceless, restless disturbed individuals.
Very true...experincinggg
So true
And yet there are others who always try to figure a way out of this problem that was not of their choosing. I am one of them... Very difficult
This is another example of how 'money can buy happiness'. If you, as a kid, have a good job and decent income, you can easily move out and live without this kalesh. Not possible if you can't afford to opay rent for another place.
Not exactly who is employing kids tho?
@@rohankumarlal468he is talking about the American way .
@@rohankumarlal468 Arre akal ke dushman, I didn't mean literal kids.. I meant the kids (who are otherwise working adults) who are dealing with fighting parents.
Video bhi unke baare mein hai naa?? Ki woh bhi samajh nahin aaya?
@@mohitpardeshi 😂
Maan toh sabka karta hai bhai par kuch bacche aise bhi hote hai jo apne maa baap ko chor ke nahin jaana chahte.
Kyuki maa baap ki parwah kuch zyada hi hoti hai kuch bacchon ko. Woh toxicity mei reh kar bhi unki badti umar ke saath unka dhyan rakhna chaahta hai. :)
In india many couple doesn't get a divorce even if we r not happy in a relationship and r constantly fighting. Those same couples brag about culture and family values 😂
@@Aryatva So children will be happy seeing their parents fighting daily in the name of petty things. No children will be happy in such an environment. Its going to effect the children more, even no wife will settle down with a guy whose parents are constantly fighting... in coming future none of the wives will tolerate toxic parents.
@@Aryatvaone side the children will have less money on the other their parents who are everyday fighting, u will tolerate such parents, but most people doesn't have the energy for it
Hahaha true😂
This is truth can't be changed. It's very much at rural area and parents drag everything even if u talk about divorce. They say aaj kal ladki nai mil rahi aur tu natak karra, abhi bachche ho gaye unko taklif hogi n all
@@itn0687😂 or fir bolte hain ashram me chor ayya parents ko
Sir ye bahut hi acha topic aap laye hai, I am suffering since last 10 years...needed it...
m also
I have personally gone through these problems since my childhood and at times it was so horrible that it cannot be explained in words and it has left such a scar in me and siblings lifes that it can not be healed however hard we try but somehow for the past year got a hold by letting them solve their problems on their own as u have mentioned and the fights have reduced drastically.
Sir aap kaha the itne saal se,kash aapka channel 10 year pehle Aya hota...
Bohot important life lessons mil rahe hai apse...
thank you so much ❤❤😊😊😊
Thanks for kind words
Truly agree
@@ClarityForYouth kidhar thhe aap guruji . Ap mere ko 10 sal pahle kyu nhi miley
Really very good content, thank you very much.Personally gone through this problem, but it took me 38-40 years for me to figure out this solution for myself, if i found a person like you to guide me earlier maybe my life could have become much more happier.
Thank you once again.
Hey bhagwan guruji aap dev maanus hain. Abhi Diwali ke agle din hum adult bacche ro rahe the ki humaare old parents ghar pe rehne dene jaisa mahaul nahi dete, diwali me ghar khaali kaise chhorein bol ke humaare saath diwali manate nahi hain or fir tyohaar ke din me phone karo toh aise baat karte hain jaise kisi ki mrityu hogai ho aur Ghar me matam ho raha ho. Wahi same parents apni married beti se baat karenge toh kahenge diwali celebrate karne ke liye resources nahi hain aur bete ko call karenge toh bolenge ab akele kya hi celebrate karein, ab khush hone ka Mann nahi karta.
Bhai Dil ki baat kaha di solve bhi nhi karni problem aur shanti bhi nhi chahiye😢😢
😂we used to say this but nothing changed. They don't give a shit . Instead blamed children all their Life. Parents would never take anything from kids but will feel bad when something like " Baghaban " happened to them !!
Buhahahahahaaaaaahaha😅😅😅😅
Yeah... Its just tiring and emotionally draining, they always cry cry and cry..
Han aaj hi bolta hun "talaq lelo"
😂😂
Dono apna gussa tere uper hi nikal denge
Dr Sir,
Vry truly said tat there are lot of egos in the fly. No one listens 2 anyone. Everyone has their own role to play but finally it comes to realise tat no one agrees with anyone's view n there is ultimately no happiness around.
Also when it comes to outer world, only the rich will associate themselves with rich n if you really want to really want to break thru all the barriers of life, still you will fnd there is no way ahead, becoz each n evey step in life hs tests to pass n by the time you come to your real path what your life has to offer you, you realize tat it is too late n with all the heavy baggages you hv carried right frm the beginning of your life till the time you hv reached a part stage, you find yourself still striving to come out of tat pace where you will want to free yourself frm all the struggles n bitterness tat your life hs gone thru' with no one or no true person at your side or no rt person to give you tat support fr you just to b Happy n be freed frm all this toil n sufferings, hope we see the best in everyone n bring out the best by offering jobs according to one' likes not dislikes can one really achieve the true sense of happiness in life.
I remain,
Yours truly🙏♥️👍
Sir really its big problem..bahar duniya se ladne ke liye kisi ka toh sahara chahiye ghar par aisa mahol ho toh bohot takhleef hoti hai
Guruji ek accha lesson ye itni sacchi bat hai
Guruji thank you, you really listen to your audience, 3-4 months ago i messeged rearding exactly this topic. Thank you so much
Mere saas sasur bahut ladte the saas ki death ke baad shanti h ab lagta h ki kash inki death pehle hi ho jati
जैन होकर ऐसी बात करते हो?? तुच्छ प्राणी😂
😂
😂😂😂😂
@@anjalisehrawat3377to ab tum shaadi karlo aur fir apne Pati se lado.
@@loveyourpresent833 😂
Ye kam mai bht pehle se hi kr rha hu, aap she keh rhe hai, jb kosis krta tha solve krne ki to bht bitterness rehti thi and kisi ek ka side leta tha, but bad me pata chla ki doni ki glti hai, itna complicated hai, bilkul kichar ki tarah, usme patthar marne pe khud hi gande ho jayege
Thank u sir. I am struggling with the same pain. ❤ u r amazing. Love and respect.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😄😄😄😄 True Dude, Topic bahot sahi hai aur jitne baate ki hai wo bhi sahi hai.
Every other household has this problem in north India
Sirf north?
@@KPlyfit is prevalent in every other household in North India.
I've gone through all this throughout 2023😢
Really Frustated with my in laws for same reason... We both are working but ghar ka kalesh khatm hi nahi hota inka.. In logo ko dusari ki happy married life sehan nahi hotti
We need more videos on this parents topic
What if family fights affected the child more than they should. I got anxiety disorder and I'm just in my 20s, been on medication for a year. What should I do.
Bhai kar ko to pagal bhi hogya na ghar wale jab bhi blame game khelenge
Tumhari wajah se tumhari wajah se
Sorry par
Sachhai ye hi haa😊😊😊😊
53 to 93 😂😂😂👏👏👏🙏🙏 gone thro this stage
Parents paise mangte h, nahi dene pe kalesh ho raha h, i have a daughter, mai kya karu, or unki pension v 45k aati h tab v kalesh ho raha h
Hope u doing good! Agr unko jrurt nhi h bs apni ego ko satisfy krne ke liye maang rhe to clearly avoid but if there is genuine need that u feel they need then u can give a part of ur wealth.. That too considering ur own need and find balance between ur need nd their need.. But agr sirf apne paas rkhne k liye ya kisi shauk pure krne ke liye mang rhe to mna kr skte ho.. Considering u hv ur emergency needs in ur future..so save for urself
Thanks a million sir, for this video. Last night itself, I & my sister cried a lot over call for the trauma our mom has given us in our childhood and is still doing that to me by calling me each day. My sister is a doctor so she has found her way to get out of this mess. But, me being the less intelligent one is still suffering. My sister is insisting me for psychiatrist visit to get therapy. But thank god for this video, I'll try to refrain from my parents.
Just a advice, u can study if ur age allows u to give exams.. Judge urself and see what level of govt exams u can clr.. Like state psc Or group b c and if good at studies look for upsc Or ssc vgera.. Or go for ur field related job get financial independent and finally get married to good guy.. And leave the place for ur mental peace.. Hope this basics helps u🙂 start working on urself get any decent job then try for better
I'm so glad that you talked about this 'not so talked about issue'.
I've been going through this phase😢 throughout 2023. I agree, there are two sides of a coin, but it peaked when my father decided to take VRS this year. I'm their youngest child(aged 23) and got graduated this year. This year was very tough, both mentally and emotionally. I'm trying to get better with every passing day but I'm confused.
Please guide me sir, should I prepare for competitive exams(I'm a law graduate, judiciary or other exams), or should I start practice or just move abroad(My parents have been discussing this ever since 2020 covid 19 outbreak), something which I'm reluctant because they are ageing and both are suffering from some illness, be it diabetes or any other disease. I'm concerned what if something happens to either of them, who will be taking care of them if I'm not available.
Bhai India mein he kuch karle...25 lakh tere bahar jaane mein bhi lagenge minimum aur MBA karne mein bhi. Bahar ka matlab agar "Canada" hai toh wahan job nahi hai bhyankar Paisa fookne par bhi aur upar se visa ka issue (I am same situation but with disease)
@@shubhsehgal9127 law and MBA jese courses mein fees 25 lac setoh jyada lagegi.
Actually fees ka issue nhi hai itna, even sister ki bhi hai Canada mein PR hai lekin parents ko lekar concerned rehta hoon, father 60s approach kar rahe hai and mother bhi mid 50s mein hai, koi na koi medical issue hai dono ko, isliye mein bhi reluctant hi hoon Canada ya kisi bhi country jaane se.
But yaha bhi Practice(First gen Lawyer) pe laga hoon abhi, stipend ke naam pe mazaak kar raha hai senior.
@@mrdaman99 starting mein toh har jagah mazak he hai salary...tabhi MBA ya koi aur post graduation karlo taaki 50k tak toh salary aa he jaye.... All the best brother🪔
Move abroad and make a better career...I'm facing the same issue .. my father mother both are fighting and I want to move abroad but they are not allowing me ....I suggest you to move abroad and stay away from them as early as possible.... Otherwise u will suffer
And regarding ur parents age and health issue ....what will happen will happen nothing can stop it ...
U r one step away from a different life!!!
aaj hi hum nakli talak ka kagaj banvaleta hu taki parents ko dara kar conflict ko rokh saku
Sir bilkul sahi topic dhoond ke Larry ho aap. Sach me bitterness bahut Hoti hai
Real life situations..thanks for sharing🙏
U r a man of guts sir ❤
Hi, Guruji most of boys and girls like facing issue with homesickness after returnung from the home after Diwali. please make a video to clarify and inspire for a young generation.
So so so true. It makes so much sense!!
I am 19 and parents are 40s...keep fighting 😊but nothing like best
So glad to know that the platform is very nice
Mentally strong kaise bane es topic par video banaye
🙏❤ Thnks for solving the problem
My father being impartial just because of there fight with mother now I have to face the issues
I can relate to each and every word of yours...😢
Make a video on alcoholic father's in India
Yess
Thanks!
You nailed it.
I just saved myself from this shit recently.
Thank You
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa 🔥🪅🔥
Thank you for touching this topic
Is video ka hi to intezar tha ❤
I will suggest to use English as well as Hindi writing..one on thumbnail another below video...same thing written in both languages will engage more audience...youth as well as their parents
True'
Really very true
Gòddd... Kitni sahi baat bolte ho aap uncle ji😊😊
My dad and step mom don't go much smooth and then I ask only 1 question to dad that why even u got married again?
Thanks for sharing this video Sir
Mann ki sari problems jantay hain sarji aap 😢❤
Very helpful insight sir, I am suffering this problem since my early schooldays and I really think this is an serious issue and should be looked upon as the child suffers in this situation for the trapped egos of their parents which ultimately results in the disruption of mental stability of the youth.
My God... so true
Very Important Issue Sir!!! I'm thankful that you chose the topic
Guruji please make a video to resolve the problem of an alcoholic father
Yes a big problem in Indian families
My parents don't fight usually but when they fight it gives me feeling of hell....they dont talk to each other for atleast 12-15 days father eats outside home , mother keeps busy herself by doing work indirectly punishes herself ....This happens Thrice every year since I am 8 year old & now I am 22 ...I can tell you accurate dates to when they faught with each other ....I literally avoid going or staying in my house during this days ..Once I stayed for 2-3 days in my college watchman's room to avoid negative vibes coming from home such Its really traumatic
Guru ji aap ho badai kalakaar
Aap kaa pravachan sunnai mai bahut anand aayaa ha
sir thanks a lot for this clarity...
Thank you for giving clarity.
Tons of Regards to you sir.
mere parents mere bachpan se ladte aaye hai or abhi bhi ladte hai. i'm 35 now. i dont know how to resolve the things.
So sorry to hear.. but pls ignore them .. u have ur own life .. har ek Ka nasib hota hai .. tum unka nasib nahi change kar sakte.. ignore karo and at least Khud ki life better karo
@@mswr3351 ya, I'm doing the same thing
समाज के कुछ माता पिता ही ऐसे होते है।
Very true 🙏🏼
Loved it
Whether one should donate one's body to medical college after death or the body should be given last rites as per traditions... please share your views on this by making a video..
What you want?
Husband's ,even you are right, just say Sorry..............peace 😊
Sir family mein nanado or bhabhi ke upar bhi solution batayiye plz .....
Maan. Gaye guru ji, antarmaan ki. Baay
बोहट अच्छा काम कर रहे हो ।
kaha the guruji abhi tak ? kaha the...?
bhot takleef ke baad aap avtarit hue ho
Sir I am totally mentally destroyed by my own parents
Bilkul shi baat krte hn sir aap
Sir...i said same things and actually helped me a lot
sir ji, this information is good but we need A COMPLETE SEMINAR on how to deal with toxic parents. When you don't listen to them and don't become their toxicity dustbin, they become toxic to you which is even more dangerous. I request you to create and share with us templates and "what to say" kind of things while dealing with toxic, narcissitc, manipulative, enmeshing etc parents.
Sir me 23 years old girl hu sir mere mata or pita jabardusti mujhe 2 attempt pe neet niklane pe bhi 4 Sal tak mujh se neet ko daina ko darted he aj mujhe 4 Sal ho gae dete hue or
Sir its my humble request how to deal if someone is of alternate sexuality.Pls sir do shed light on this matter.Would be of great help to me and others as well!!!!
Guru ji aisa lagta h parents ne shehar me ek ghar rutba banane k liye .apna jeevan nyochavar kar diya . Ab bas frustration h unme ki life jiye nahi . Aur ham pe bhi wohi discipline ka fata joota hame bhi pehnana chahte h .
Sir main tired hu yesb. Today our newly bride of my brother saw my father mom fight . My father is very toxic bht dukh diya unhone and he kind seems like physio aj mere mummy ke upr hat uthya 😢 and main unemployed hu sir and you telling every truth word to word
Very good video sir
Sir mere father to mujhe apki video dikhane pe or datne lage or bole hum jo bolte he wahi kar 😑 sir ab ese parents ke liye kya kare
6:44 😅😅😅
Bhai kis level ka dimag h aapka ❤❤❤❤
Thanks sir. This was for me
Mere pita ji help nahi karte
Pata ji pata nahi mujhe de dubone mai lege hue hai...
Shadi ho ker mera to divorce ho giya hai....7 sal ho giye bahut pareshan hu
Jivan mai happiness nahi hai
Very nice sir ji
Amit ji, Many times Maa-BAAP apni hi aulad se pareshan hokar tension me rahte hai, Beta padh likh kar berojgar ho kar ghar me hi baitha rahe, MAA BAAP apas me baat tak nahi kar skte, 24 ghante 35 - 40 saal ki aulad ke aankh, kaan apne maa-baap ki bato par hi lage rahe to ghar me shanti kahan se rahegi. Baap office jata tha ki beta padh likh kar kamayega aur mujhe aaraam milega lekin bete ne to bhishm pratigya kar rakhi hai ki mai to kahin nahi jaunga kamane ko, yahi baith kar khangunga. Yah hai asli klesh, is ko bi include karo apne topic me.
to parents ki sanskar me dum nhi
Totally true🥹🥹
yehi ek video ki koi barso se inteejar thi. youth fedup ho chuke h aise issues se
Sahi baat mere walo ne to 64 or 60 ki age mai lad lad k baat karna hi band kardia ab sukoon hai but thoda thoda kured dete hai abhi but ab adat hogyi hai bachpan se dekha hai26 ki hogyi hu ab or kitna khao piyo khush raho bhai
Sir your videos are very helpful,in facing real world issue
Please take care of your health sir
Bhai un sabko bole ki apni mehnat se kamaye phir kisi ko de ke dekhe
Best video
Simple rule : not my circus, not my monkeys
Amit Sir please ek video banaiye ,how India become more happy , India ka rank 126 th hai happiness index me , and ye bhi bataiye Finland jo 1st rank me hai vaise aapni country bhi ban sakti hai ya nahi
Na mera upi he 23 me hu or distance ki bsc degree he or 5 Sal se ghar me ked hu
Guruji…Meri peeda bahut alag tarah ki hai… Zindagi me acha mukam haasil krne k baad bhi mere father mujhe bahut humiliate krte hai aur neecha dikhate hai.. I am unmarried aur mai inse apna peechha chhurana chahti hu..lekin koi rasta nhi dikh rha… Family ko har tarah se ki hu…mere fatger toxic hai.. family me sabko unki toxicity ki aadat ho gyi hai.. sab kuch sun kr ye log jee lete hai… lekin mujhe batein bahut chhubhti hai.. bahut jyada peeda hota hai andar tak…kya kru please bataiye…
I love this video
Thank you sir
Love you sir❤❤❤
Roj meri kamjori ko strength banane ke liye bola jata he