I saved my marriage by living separately from in-laws otherwise it could not have last long.It was too risky but I had to do.In every 3-4 days ,there were big fights between me and my husband for even small reasons.
Even if women is earning and doing all household chores and responsibilities it doesn't matter husband and in-laws want her whole salary account in there access , micromanaging her life and belongings. There is no autonomy for women even if she is working .
The Best & absolutely realistic Three lines of your video: 1. "Tolerance level of new generation females have gone down" 2. "Ladkiyon ne apni maa ko unki shaadi se bahut khush hote nahi dekha". 3 Sence of HIGH "Insecurity" in females.
Divorce is not a problem, it's a solution to a problem. India is still a very patriarchal country and women are still pressured to stay in unhappy and unfulfilling marriages because of family and social pressure. If either the man/woman is not happy in the marriage they have the right to seek divorce and look for happiness elsewhere.
I have find the same,whenever my inlaws come along with sister in law, they make issue of pitty things,which result in conflict between me and my husband
PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil. सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना। असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते। सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है। बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं। जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ। पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
You forgot one important thing...The boy needs to share all the work 50% with his wife...I have deliberately not mention helping the wife....it's not a favor you are doing... I am soo proud that women in India are standing up for their rights... and even more glad that their parents are supporting their daughters...It's so shameful to come from a culture know worldwide for woman being exploited and tortured.... I come from a westernized family and so do my friends with equal if not more opportunity and freedom that our male siblings....I guess that is why these issues it hurt me a lot more ... what is normal for me is unthinkable for another female...
50-50 NEVER WORKS... ZINDAGI GUZAR JAYEGA YE GIN NE MEIN KI KAUN 50 KAMA RAHA HAIN AUR KAUN 49... THERE ARE UP AND DOWNS IN LIFE... KABHI BHI ZINDAGI EK SAMAAN NAHI CHALTA... MERA MANNA YE HAIN KI CHOOSE YOUR DOMAIN AND DO 100% OF IT AND LEAVE THE REST FOR THE OTHER PERSON... HAR CHEEZ MEIN 50-50 KARNE JAOGEY TO KOI KAAM NAHI HOGA SIRF LADAI-JHAGDA HI HOGA...
Kyu ki most of boys were raised like "mere laal mere hare mere pile" . "Ladko se kam nhi karate" wale mindset se jis wajah se they still want to have the special aristocratic feeling of being served.
@@2.0JUSTDOITyes even men should not take dahej instead his parents must also contribute 50% in the wedding expense. As u know more than 90% girl's parents have to give dahej and even cars and furniture but only 1% of marriages end in divorce that means only one percentage of men end up giving alimony.😊
Its so true my mom always in kitchen & doing household work but her in laws never happy.. I see her suffer becoz my father never take a stand.. now they r dead my mom is in relief but in what cost? My father is a good man (Cursed) but sometimes i feel he should never married ( Mummy ko sath rehna tha pr papa n nhi rakha all beoz of Mere Maa paa ki seva) Now I see it I don't want to marry ( Until I find A man who stands or take household responsibilities).
Before marriage i discussed all these things with my husband and he agreed that he will be supporting in household work as well. And ours is love marriage. But now after yrs I can say he was completely lieing or he has changed. He never support in any thing. So dear it's better not to get married and enjoy ur own life. because its not easy to get divorce.
@@Ritu-ci6liस्त्रियां प्रेम और भावना को ज्यादा महत्व देती हैं, इसलिए कमजीर पड़ जाती हैं। अगर भावना इतनी ज्यादा न होती उनमें तो वो अपने को बेघर करके पराए घर जाके अनजान लोगों को अपना कैसे मानती? अपनी जान पर खेल कर पैदा की औलाद से अपना वंश न बढ़ा कर दूसरे का वंश कैसे बढ़ाती? अब जरूरत है स्त्रियां भी इमोशनली टफ बने। आप भी तोड़ी tough हो जाइए। आपके पति को emotionally Tough होकर ही सुधार सकती हैं । और emotionally tough होने का मतलब झगड़ा नहीं, बल्कि आसानी से न टूटना है। दिल को बाजू में रख, दिमाग से काम लो और उसे धीरे धीरे कसना शुरु करो।
@@Ritu-ci6li शाबास। My best wishes. अपनी लाइफ को नए सिरे से सुधारो। मेडिटेशन करो, आधे घंटे का। मन मजबूत होगा। शुरू में एक दो महीना ध्यान में बैठते ही बहुत सारी बातें खयाल, रोना सब आएगा, भूतों के जैसे। पर ध्यान में बैठे रोज तो धीरे धीरे मन साफ होंजाएगा । Try it. अपनी जिंदगी बदल के दिखाओ। ❤️
you hav picked up some real ground reality reasons...difficult times fr new age generation and for everyone around....but I believe parents also have responsibility to teach thr children either boy or girl some real life values which are important like Respect, Care, understanding and most importantly importance of relationships n only thn any relation will flourish....And I strongly believe these r missing big time in this world today and these r the foundation for any relation....Sir separate home n job r also fine but I think people missing out on real things in life today....something to think about seriously.
@@RahulGupta-ih1ue Those other women who are equally outsiders in the home, trying to establish themselves in alien home. Like you try to find ur strong ground in offices. Actually, PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil. सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना। असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते। सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है। बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं। जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ। पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
Yes, even I myself suggested my mom to not get involved in suggesting alliances to others because later she will be blamed.Initially she was interested but later she also felt it may be risky.
Was waiting for new videos of marital series since long 😊. I agree that these advices will help controlling the friction. But I think, there are much more reasons which are causing this in the society.
Nothing about eastern ir western. Girls are objecting to exploitation and slavery and Men still havent grown up yet, but Men has his family team'by his side in his erongs even. Thats the crux of the problem. .
Currently most *Girls are pampared by many boyfriends before marriage* ,and the way of living is changed ,so when they get married to new guy they missed the older days and then they act neurotic.
And those boyfriends marry other girl and then tney have to behave responsible and then those "boyfriends" of other girls, turned husbands of a new girl, Miss those days where they were all awara, doing their मुंह काला without any responsibilities. 19:23
Not many girls didi only few......hamare yaha aur I personally don't find it right .....aur mere aaspass school collge meri frnd circle even my cousin sister girl's are out of this relationship drama.
@@ankitamishra0405 क्योंकि आपके यहां लड़के संस्कारी और चरित्र वान होंगे। उनके मां बाप से अच्छी शिक्षा मिली होगी उन्हें। तो लड़कियां बिगडेंगी कैसे? Mars से तो कोई आता नही उन्हें बिगाड़ने।
@@Ninanani-4085 well " currently most girls are pampered " when you use most you target larger audience or majority of that larger audience so I defended saying u are wrong and even today only fewer sections of girls are involved in this gf bf drama .
Even high earning girls are forced to live in joint and take care of parents and relatives,without understanding their physical and mental capabilites to take care of double responsibilities.
House price in Mumbai is above 1 cr and if you buy 2 houses your life qill be spent in paying EMI Morever present day job market is highly insecure Many people are thrown out of there jobs by age of 45 ( burn outs) And if the guy is on heavy EMI then this will lead to financial collapse and eventually the marriage ends .
Actually, बेटों को घर में काम नही करना, पर संपत्ति के लालच में घर रखते हैं। बेटियों से घर में ही काम करवाना, पर उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर दूसरे घर भेज देते हैं। जब घर में ही करना है तो अपने घर रहे, जिस घर की उसे आदत है। फिर घर के काम को लेकर कोई लड़ाई नहीं होगी। मां पिता की सेवा भी होगी। लड़के के घर से दूसरे घर जाने पर घर की व्यवस्था और सेवा बिगड़ेगी नही। पर नहीं बेटे को और मां बाप को एक दूसरे की संपत्ति का लालच जो है। ये सब पितृसत्ता में, मां बाप का बेटे की कमाई का लालच और बेटे का मां बाप की संपत्ति का लालच। यही सारी समस्याओं की जड़ है। बेटियां तो सिर्फ इस्तेमाल होती हैं। बेटियों से उनका घर छुड़वा कर समाज और परिवार अपने ऊपर श्राप लेता है। PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil. सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना। असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते। सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है। बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं। जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ। पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
Very very good excellent messages. Thanks a lot. But sir Dee queries (1) why bicholi system totally fail. (2) girls parents are most responsible then girl for divorce . It is 90% to 95% correct. (3) boy parents special MOTHER are very zeolus; not supporting or not cooperative. Do you think correct?..
Sir sirf North India me nhi.... I belong to a part of India jaha women have more liberty than other parts of the country but still my mother couldn't give birth to a son and have two daughters or is wajah se aaj tak i.e. 31 years papa ki family mummy ko sunate rahi he ki you are good for nothing coz you couldn't give us a son.
If you think a women should live in a different house, then from a man's side, who is going to take care of his parents? How his parents will be taken care of?
Who's taking care of man's parents?? Observe in such a same way...if woman marry and leave her parents, then who's taking care of woman's parents?? Solution..... man's parents are not the responsibility of woman, yeah but the responsibility of man's himself
बेटों को घर में काम नही करना, पर संपत्ति के लालच में घर रखते हैं। बेटियों से घर में ही काम करवाना, पर उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर दूसरे घर भेज देते हैं। जब घर में ही करना है तो अपने घर रहे, जिस घर की उसे आदत है। फिर घर के काम को लेकर कोई लड़ाई नहीं होगी। मां पिता की सेवा भी होगी। लड़के के घर से दूसरे घर जाने पर घर की व्यवस्था और सेवा बिगड़ेगी नही। पर नहीं बेटे को और मां बाप को एक दूसरे की संपत्ति का लालच जो है। ये सब पितृसत्ता में, मां बाप का बेटे की कमाई का लालच और बेटे का मां बाप की संपत्ति का लालच। यही सारी समस्याओं की जड़ है। बेटियां तो सिर्फ इस्तेमाल होती हैं। बेटियों से उनका घर छुड़वा कर समाज और परिवार अपने ऊपर श्राप लेता है। PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil. सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना। असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते। सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है। बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं। जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ। पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो। सभी परिवार सुखी हो जायेंगे।
Yes bichola system collapsed . Best way to find rishta is whatspp ur boy or girl bio data to ur WhatsApp all contacts and check if anyone has suitable alliance . But only via someone who recommends
Sir actually man should spend for the house why should a lady do coz already she is looking after many things in his life as well which money can’t buy...Sir nowdays all men want to get married to working women so that they think they can take her earnings as well... sir it’s not that coz the lady is working they don’t get divorce d... the main issue is even after work when the lady heads home all expect the same services like a housewife & especially if in-laws are there they will start making issues that wanted the girl is coming late to the house & they always want to eat fresh food... come on we are also humans how much energy we will also have to manage outside & inside works, but the sad truth is nobody is bothered how a working women feels actually
Girls need to become thick skinned and emotionally tough. A thing that society is going to regret later. Patriarchy ladkiyon ki भावुकता पर ही टिका है. वरना लड़की अपना घर छोड़, ससुराल क्यों जाए? अपने बच्चे से अपना वंश क्यूं ना बढ़ाए?
Sir ese bhi log h jo salary bhi lete hai or ghar me maid bhi nahi rakhne dete or uske baad roj sunate bhi hai, ladke ko pagal banake bhi rakhte jai, ese logo ke bare me aap kya kahenge
Sabse jyada divorce cases ladkiyon ke ex boyfriend ki wajah se ho rha hai... N to wo apne boyfriend ko chod pati hai aur n hi apne husband ke taraf loyal ho paa rhi hai
And those boyfriends marry other girl and then tney have to behave responsible and then those "boyfriends" of other girls, turned husbands of a new girl, Miss those days where they were all आवारा and बदचलन, and doing their मुंह काला without any responsibilities. So they find it difficult to stay with one woman with इज्जत।।
In my case also I want to be separated from my In laws because of my mother in law's behaviour and husband has the same issues with her mother but he don't want to get seperate bcoz of his selfish reasons.It had made my marriage about to end.Bcoz i m unable to live in this type of environment .I don't know what to do I have a 2 years baby also
Same issue I m facing my husband don't want to live away from his parents. He can leave me but not stay away from parents. Jbki before marriage we decided that his parents will come to stay only after 20-25 yrs when they will be old
Men have not been brought up to value relationship with their partner. They only have been groomed to look after their blood relatives. Their empathy, sensitivity is for their blood relationships... women are not really finding this kind of namesake relationship with husband, really worth doing that 40% sacrifice which Men's mom is expecting. She should have raised their sons right to buy those services. "Humne bhi to kiya, chaahe pati jaisa bhi ho!".. Kyu kia? Nahi karna chiye tha... you have reduced the value of Women.
sir aaj kal alag to kar dete hai par fir bete k sath phone pe baat karke bhu ko unglli o par nachate hai Matlab bete kandhe par gun rakh ke gun chelate hai, aur jiski do beti aur ek beta hai ek beti mahine ka 50,000 rupees kama rahi hai aur shadi bhi nahi hui hai 40 years ho gai poor bhi aur bhu pote se nafrat karte hai Kyoki beta bhu aur bacche ko khush rakhta hai aur beti ki life aage hi nhi badh rahi bahut hi complicate life ho gai hai meri pls koi suggestion chahiye aur badi beti aur damad to ma baap k sath pade rehte hai
Apni family ka to karna hi padega Saas ne apna ghar apne hisab se apni circumstances se ghar set kiya hota hai ya to bachche alag rhe alag rhe tab bhi ghar to dekhna padega Maids ka time ke saath apna time synchronise karna
9 बेटे हों एक बाप कै फेर भी ना पेट भरण पावैगा घर घर मै पंचाती होज्यां कोण किसनै समझावेगा बीर मर्द रह न्यारे न्यारे इसा बख्त आवैगा मनुष्य मात्र का कर्म छोड़ नर धन जोड्या चाहवेगा बीर उगाड़े सर हांड़ेगी महाभारत मै थल खपगे थे 18 बेदव्यास जी कलु काल का हाल लिखन लगे सारा
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आप बेटों के परिवार को समझाइए, की वे लडको को राजा बेटा mode से बाहर निकालें, और उन्हें घर के काम भी करें, जिससे वे खुद अपने मां बाप का कर्जा उतारें। इससे वे लड़के बेहतर इंसान बनेंगे, और लड़की को पसंद आयेंगे जीवन भर।
Sir, your calculation is partially true .major reason of divorce - misuse of women protection laws as section 498A & maintenance even to an earning wife in case of divorce. De criminalisation of adultery laws helps women to disown husband with a small pretext. Society is afraid of criticising women , against such social malady. The day majority male will get the pinch, another revolution will be there. , SC says such laws are misused by women as judicial terrorism.Modi , the lawmaker has to act , but Dhritarastra is silent , for fear of loosing women votes.
@@bnmishra2751 i dun favour feminism. But there are males who are being taught this. Moreover if a lady is not working that doesn't entitle her to do all the work. You still have to help her. Housewives are the worst treated in our society. So what if they are not earning? They work all day... Do things that makes ur life easier... Hire a maid for all the work she do n u will knw her value. Working husband also have duties to help their non working wives... Its about what u give so u get...
@@sweetyrajput88 biwi job bhi nehi karegi. Ghar me kuch kam bhi nehi karegi. Phir bhi izzat chaiye? Agar mai office me kam na karu pura din gappe Maru to mera manager mere ko izzat dega? Har insaan ko kuch na kuch values Lana chahiye na
@@bnmishra2751 apna kaam khud kerna kya matlab hai?? Is ur own mom a housewife??? Unhe pura din kaam kerte nhn dekha?? Dun u feel any pity? U want this tradition to go on? Aks urself
Hi sir , m in relationship..m not married yet but this guy forcefully asking me to do job...but he mentioned he wants my finincial support..isnot it a money demand before marriage from me..m earning more than him..i declined bcz i feel his aim is my money..whats ur opnion on this
Sir my marriage life is not going, because of that i am getting lot of health related issues also , i want your personal consultation to make my marriage life happier , please tell me how can i get that ?
appointment letter dekh kar shadi karne ke baad bhi kya pata woh 1 ya 2 saal tak job kar lengi.Phir kuch time baad chod de job.Phir kya karega ladke wale
Agar in-laws and husband ka support nhi hoga to zaroor choregi. Agar expectation ye hai ki thaki haari ghar aake wo gharwalon ko rotiyan sek ke khilaye, to ek din uski himmat toot hi jayegi. Wo bhi insaan hai!
Sir aap jo bata rahe hai , ladke aisa nahi karte aur na hi unke maa baap karte hai. Sas sasur aur pati sara kamaya hua paisa aurat se mangate hai. Toxicity Sasural me itni badh jaati hai ki aurat waha rah hi nahi sakti. Mai 4.5 years se apne mayake me hu, koi bhi court case nahi kiya to bhi mere pati ko mujhse mutual divorce chahiye. Maine use notice bhejne ko kaha wo bhi nahi de raha. Mere ander himmat hi nahi hoti separation ke liye. Mere mayake walo ka diya gahne jewar bhi usi ke pas hai
@@Ninanani-4085solution is guy should only marry when he can afford a staff to take care of both parents and wife and a big house jaha sabko space mile if not better enjoy your single life😊
@@Ninanani-4085 nahi Kam honge Because still female will feel entitled to everything in life Better to marry non Indian wife as immigrant and safeguard thus law wala thing
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I saved my marriage by living separately from in-laws otherwise it could not have last long.It was too risky but I had to do.In every 3-4 days ,there were big fights between me and my husband for even small reasons.
Mra toh shadi tod die inlaws ne
Do say chaar saal lagte hai adjustment karney mai thoda patience bhi rakhna jaruri hai dono couple mai say ek ko
@@tiffgplu2590 ha mayke me hu...job ki preparation kr ri hu
I better stay single.. I'm single n happy
Separately means in different floors ? Is it OK to live on different floors .
Even if women is earning and doing all household chores and responsibilities it doesn't matter husband and in-laws want her whole salary account in there access , micromanaging her life and belongings. There is no autonomy for women even if she is working .
The Best & absolutely realistic Three lines of your video:
1. "Tolerance level of new generation females have gone down"
2. "Ladkiyon ne apni maa ko unki shaadi se bahut khush hote nahi dekha".
3 Sence of HIGH "Insecurity" in females.
Chutiya admi sab me tujhe aurato me hi dikkat lgi mrdo me nhi lgi yhi reason h divorce k
Divorce is not a problem, it's a solution to a problem.
India is still a very patriarchal country and women are still pressured to stay in unhappy and unfulfilling marriages because of family and social pressure. If either the man/woman is not happy in the marriage they have the right to seek divorce and look for happiness elsewhere.
True
एक तरफ़ से सब नहीं होता
दोनों तरफ़ चलता है
@@Pawans21 But you are grossly wrong, you patriarchal misogyn.
Yes, somuch patriarchy that even wife don't want property from their parents but want from husband parents 😂😂😂
Whoever filled for divorce for whatever reasons only one gender will pay a hefty amount of alimony and maintenance .
I have find the same,whenever my inlaws come along with sister in law, they make issue of pitty things,which result in conflict between me and my husband
@@manikyum inspite of that we are together
PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil.
सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना।
असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते।
सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है।
बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं।
जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ।
पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
You forgot one important thing...The boy needs to share all the work 50% with his wife...I have deliberately not mention helping the wife....it's not a favor you are doing... I am soo proud that women in India are standing up for their rights... and even more glad that their parents are supporting their daughters...It's so shameful to come from a culture know worldwide for woman being exploited and tortured.... I come from a westernized family and so do my friends with equal if not more opportunity and freedom that our male siblings....I guess that is why these issues it hurt me a lot more ... what is normal for me is unthinkable for another female...
50-50 NEVER WORKS... ZINDAGI GUZAR JAYEGA YE GIN NE MEIN KI KAUN 50 KAMA RAHA HAIN AUR KAUN 49... THERE ARE UP AND DOWNS IN LIFE... KABHI BHI ZINDAGI EK SAMAAN NAHI CHALTA... MERA MANNA YE HAIN KI CHOOSE YOUR DOMAIN AND DO 100% OF IT AND LEAVE THE REST FOR THE OTHER PERSON... HAR CHEEZ MEIN 50-50 KARNE JAOGEY TO KOI KAAM NAHI HOGA SIRF LADAI-JHAGDA HI HOGA...
Kyu ki most of boys were raised like "mere laal mere hare mere pile" . "Ladko se kam nhi karate" wale mindset se jis wajah se they still want to have the special aristocratic feeling of being served.
@@2.0JUSTDOITyes even men should not take dahej instead his parents must also contribute 50% in the wedding expense. As u know more than 90% girl's parents have to give dahej and even cars and furniture but only 1% of marriages end in divorce that means only one percentage of men end up giving alimony.😊
Its so true my mom always in kitchen & doing household work but her in laws never happy..
I see her suffer becoz my father never take a stand.. now they r dead my mom is in relief but in what cost?
My father is a good man (Cursed) but sometimes i feel he should never married ( Mummy ko sath rehna tha pr papa n nhi rakha all beoz of Mere Maa paa ki seva)
Now I see it I don't want to marry ( Until I find A man who stands or take household responsibilities).
Before marriage i discussed all these things with my husband and he agreed that he will be supporting in household work as well. And ours is love marriage. But now after yrs I can say he was completely lieing or he has changed. He never support in any thing. So dear it's better not to get married and enjoy ur own life. because its not easy to get divorce.
@@Ritu-ci6liस्त्रियां प्रेम और भावना को ज्यादा महत्व देती हैं, इसलिए कमजीर पड़ जाती हैं।
अगर भावना इतनी ज्यादा न होती उनमें तो वो अपने को बेघर करके पराए घर जाके अनजान लोगों को अपना कैसे मानती? अपनी जान पर खेल कर पैदा की औलाद से अपना वंश न बढ़ा कर दूसरे का वंश कैसे बढ़ाती?
अब जरूरत है स्त्रियां भी इमोशनली टफ बने।
आप भी तोड़ी tough हो जाइए। आपके पति को emotionally Tough होकर ही सुधार सकती हैं ।
और emotionally tough होने का मतलब झगड़ा नहीं, बल्कि आसानी से न टूटना है। दिल को बाजू में रख, दिमाग से काम लो और उसे धीरे धीरे कसना शुरु करो।
@@Ninanani-4085 sahi keh rahe hai ap. Hum logo ki weakness hai humare emotions. Aur Hume unhe control Krna seekhna hoga. Thank u😊
@@Ritu-ci6li शाबास। My best wishes. अपनी लाइफ को नए सिरे से सुधारो।
मेडिटेशन करो, आधे घंटे का। मन मजबूत होगा।
शुरू में एक दो महीना ध्यान में बैठते ही बहुत सारी बातें खयाल, रोना सब आएगा, भूतों के जैसे।
पर ध्यान में बैठे रोज तो धीरे धीरे मन साफ होंजाएगा । Try it.
अपनी जिंदगी बदल के दिखाओ। ❤️
@@Ninanani-4085 main meditation krungi. Thanks 😊
Very nicely told sir, as per the current scenario, every body should do job .That should be the criteria for doing marriage
you hav picked up some real ground reality reasons...difficult times fr new age generation and for everyone around....but I believe parents also have responsibility to teach thr children either boy or girl some real life values which are important like Respect, Care, understanding and most importantly importance of relationships n only thn any relation will flourish....And I strongly believe these r missing big time in this world today and these r the foundation for any relation....Sir separate home n job r also fine but I think people missing out on real things in life today....something to think about seriously.
Well many women wish to spend more time with their children after childbirth and that's healthy for both and that's very difficult with a job
Hope that's not just a hidden excuse toʻ not to get a job . Or incapable of getting a meaningful job.
Your each n every word is true.. N it's a fact in North India that ppl treat you differently when you don't hv a son.. It's painful but true..
ppl ? you mean other women ?
Very true n practical, Parents of both sides r also responsible, Beti sabhi ki achhi hoti aur bahoo sabhi ki kharab.
@@RahulGupta-ih1ue Those other women who are equally outsiders in the home, trying to establish themselves in alien home. Like you try to find ur strong ground in offices.
Actually, PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil.
सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना।
असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते।
सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है।
बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं।
जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ।
पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
Sir I am ur big fan
U are relatable and practical.
Good work 👍🙏
Thanks for kind words
Well done
Badiya gyan hai. 👍
Yes, even I myself suggested my mom to not get involved in suggesting alliances to others because later she will be blamed.Initially she was interested but later she also felt it may be risky.
Very well articulated and I agree with north indian culture about giving birth to females and the snubbing of females is now has spring back effect.
Good and general topic sir for everyone !
Yes bicholiya system has collapsed it's true 👍sir very true coz nobody take risk for their marriage problems
No bicholiyas today
@@drrenusirohi6939 why not to keep paid marriage counselor type .
keep a record of all possible divorc.e reason
Very right sirjee.....practical advise
Behtareen!!
Very practical advise. I am sharing this with all North Indian friends
Was waiting for new videos of marital series since long 😊. I agree that these advices will help controlling the friction. But I think, there are much more reasons which are causing this in the society.
Yes bicholia system has totally completely collapsed. This is troubling too.
Sir, u r absolutely right. Absolutely right 👍
Sir I may be wrong but I feel that an Indian life has become a cocktail of Eastern and Western cultures leading to coe issues in life.
Nothing about eastern ir western. Girls are objecting to exploitation and slavery and Men still havent grown up yet, but Men has his family team'by his side in his erongs even. Thats the crux of the problem. .
As always....apt
Currently most *Girls are pampared by many boyfriends before marriage* ,and the way of living is changed ,so when they get married to new guy they missed the older days and then they act neurotic.
And those boyfriends marry other girl and then tney have to behave responsible and then those "boyfriends" of other girls, turned husbands of a new girl, Miss those days where they were all awara, doing their मुंह काला without any responsibilities. 19:23
Not many girls didi only few......hamare yaha aur I personally don't find it right .....aur mere aaspass school collge meri frnd circle even my cousin sister girl's are out of this relationship drama.
@@ankitamishra0405 आपके यहां लड़के चरित्रवान होंगे। जहां लड़के चरित्रवान हो, वहां पर।लड़कियां बिगड़ ही नही सकती। संभव ही नही।
@@ankitamishra0405 क्योंकि आपके यहां लड़के संस्कारी और चरित्र वान होंगे। उनके मां बाप से अच्छी शिक्षा मिली होगी उन्हें। तो लड़कियां बिगडेंगी कैसे? Mars से तो कोई आता नही उन्हें बिगाड़ने।
@@Ninanani-4085 well " currently most girls are pampered " when you use most you target larger audience or majority of that larger audience so I defended saying u are wrong and even today only fewer sections of girls are involved in this gf bf drama .
Sab ko apni oqaat main rehna hai good tips 👍
Even high earning girls are forced to live in joint and take care of parents and relatives,without understanding their physical and mental capabilites to take care of double responsibilities.
House price in Mumbai is above 1 cr and if you buy 2 houses your life qill be spent in paying EMI
Morever present day job market is highly insecure
Many people are thrown out of there jobs by age of 45 ( burn outs) And if the guy is on heavy EMI then this will lead to financial collapse and eventually the marriage ends .
Actually,
बेटों को घर में काम नही करना, पर संपत्ति के लालच में घर रखते हैं। बेटियों से घर में ही काम करवाना, पर उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर दूसरे घर भेज देते हैं।
जब घर में ही करना है तो अपने घर रहे, जिस घर की उसे आदत है। फिर घर के काम को लेकर कोई लड़ाई नहीं होगी। मां पिता की सेवा भी होगी। लड़के के घर से दूसरे घर जाने पर घर की व्यवस्था और सेवा बिगड़ेगी नही।
पर नहीं बेटे को और मां बाप को एक दूसरे की संपत्ति का लालच जो है।
ये सब पितृसत्ता में, मां बाप का बेटे की कमाई का लालच और बेटे का मां बाप की संपत्ति का लालच। यही सारी समस्याओं की जड़ है।
बेटियां तो सिर्फ इस्तेमाल होती हैं। बेटियों से उनका घर छुड़वा कर समाज और परिवार अपने ऊपर श्राप लेता है।
PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil.
सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना।
असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते।
सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है।
बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं।
जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ।
पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
Latestest informations.... very good... 👍
Very practical and true
Great video.. reality of life..
Very very good excellent messages. Thanks a lot. But sir Dee queries (1) why bicholi system totally fail. (2) girls parents are most responsible then girl for divorce . It is 90% to 95% correct. (3) boy parents special MOTHER are very zeolus; not supporting or not cooperative. Do you think correct?..
Absolutely agreed with both the solutions 👍👍
Superb 👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir sirf North India me nhi.... I belong to a part of India jaha women have more liberty than other parts of the country but still my mother couldn't give birth to a son and have two daughters or is wajah se aaj tak i.e. 31 years papa ki family mummy ko sunate rahi he ki you are good for nothing coz you couldn't give us a son.
Which area?
If you think a women should live in a different house, then from a man's side, who is going to take care of his parents? How his parents will be taken care of?
If woman wants separate house , she should pay for at least 50 % of house cost
You should go and take care of your parents
The same way girls' parents will be taken care of!!
Who's taking care of man's parents??
Observe in such a same way...if woman marry and leave her parents, then who's taking care of woman's parents??
Solution..... man's parents are not the responsibility of woman, yeah but the responsibility of man's himself
बेटों को घर में काम नही करना, पर संपत्ति के लालच में घर रखते हैं। बेटियों से घर में ही काम करवाना, पर उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर दूसरे घर भेज देते हैं।
जब घर में ही करना है तो अपने घर रहे, जिस घर की उसे आदत है। फिर घर के काम को लेकर कोई लड़ाई नहीं होगी। मां पिता की सेवा भी होगी। लड़के के घर से दूसरे घर जाने पर घर की व्यवस्था और सेवा बिगड़ेगी नही।
पर नहीं बेटे को और मां बाप को एक दूसरे की संपत्ति का लालच जो है।
ये सब पितृसत्ता में, मां बाप का बेटे की कमाई का लालच और बेटे का मां बाप की संपत्ति का लालच। यही सारी समस्याओं की जड़ है।
बेटियां तो सिर्फ इस्तेमाल होती हैं। बेटियों से उनका घर छुड़वा कर समाज और परिवार अपने ऊपर श्राप लेता है।
PATRIARCHY is fail and mother of all evil.
सारी समस्या की जड़ है बेटी को ससुराल भेजना और बेटे को घर में रखना।
असली लालची बेटे के मां बाप होते हैं जो बेटे की कमाई के लिए उसे ज्यादा प्यार करते हैं और उसे अपने पास रखते हैं। और असली लालची बेटे होते हैं जो मां बाप की दौलत के लिए उसी घर में रहते हैं और विदा होकर अपनी ससुराल नही जाते।
सब मां बाप और बेटे, दोनो की पैसे की लालच का का खेल और लड़की बार बार बेघर होकर दर दर भटकती है।
बेटी होती तो सेवा करती। पर लोगों को तो बेटों का लालच होता है इसलिए बेटी को भेजते हैं और दूसरे की बेटी को दासी बनाते हैं।
जब बेटी ने घर में ही काम करना है तो दूसरे घर भेज के झगड़ा क्यूं लगवाओ।
पैसों का लालच छोड़ो, बेटे को विदा करो।
सभी परिवार सुखी हो जायेंगे।
Yes bichola system collapsed . Best way to find rishta is whatspp ur boy or girl bio data to ur WhatsApp all contacts and check if anyone has suitable alliance . But only via someone who recommends
That itself is bicholia
Proper analysis 👍
Sir actually man should spend for the house why should a lady do coz already she is looking after many things in his life as well which money can’t buy...Sir nowdays all men want to get married to working women so that they think they can take her earnings as well... sir it’s not that coz the lady is working they don’t get divorce d... the main issue is even after work when the lady heads home all expect the same services like a housewife & especially if in-laws are there they will start making issues that wanted the girl is coming late to the house & they always want to eat fresh food... come on we are also humans how much energy we will also have to manage outside & inside works, but the sad truth is nobody is bothered how a working women feels actually
Girls need to become thick skinned and emotionally tough.
A thing that society is going to regret later.
Patriarchy ladkiyon ki भावुकता पर ही टिका है.
वरना लड़की अपना घर छोड़, ससुराल क्यों जाए? अपने बच्चे से अपना वंश क्यूं ना बढ़ाए?
Sir ese bhi log h jo salary bhi lete hai or ghar me maid bhi nahi rakhne dete or uske baad roj sunate bhi hai, ladke ko pagal banake bhi rakhte jai, ese logo ke bare me aap kya kahenge
Very interesting topic on the current topic
Wonderful sir👌
Sabse jyada divorce cases ladkiyon ke ex boyfriend ki wajah se ho rha hai... N to wo apne boyfriend ko chod pati hai aur n hi apne husband ke taraf loyal ho paa rhi hai
And those boyfriends marry other girl and then tney have to behave responsible and then those "boyfriends" of other girls, turned husbands of a new girl, Miss those days where they were all आवारा and बदचलन, and doing their मुंह काला without any responsibilities. So they find it difficult to stay with one woman with इज्जत।।
In my case also I want to be separated from my In laws because of my mother in law's behaviour and husband has the same issues with her mother but he don't want to get seperate bcoz of his selfish reasons.It had made my marriage about to end.Bcoz i m unable to live in this type of environment .I don't know what to do I have a 2 years baby also
So where are you staying now??
Mam you please take a stand ....and move on with your baby and job
Same issue I m facing my husband don't want to live away from his parents. He can leave me but not stay away from parents. Jbki before marriage we decided that his parents will come to stay only after 20-25 yrs when they will be old
Very good explanation sir
Men have not been brought up to value relationship with their partner. They only have been groomed to look after their blood relatives. Their empathy, sensitivity is for their blood relationships... women are not really finding this kind of namesake relationship with husband, really worth doing that 40% sacrifice which Men's mom is expecting. She should have raised their sons right to buy those services. "Humne bhi to kiya, chaahe pati jaisa bhi ho!".. Kyu kia? Nahi karna chiye tha... you have reduced the value of Women.
sir aaj kal alag to kar dete hai par fir bete k sath phone pe baat karke bhu ko unglli o par nachate hai Matlab bete kandhe par gun rakh ke gun chelate hai,
aur jiski do beti aur ek beta hai ek beti mahine ka 50,000 rupees kama rahi hai aur shadi bhi nahi hui hai 40 years ho gai poor bhi aur bhu pote se nafrat karte hai Kyoki beta bhu aur bacche ko khush rakhta hai aur beti ki life aage hi nhi badh rahi bahut hi complicate life ho gai hai meri pls koi suggestion chahiye aur badi beti aur damad to ma baap k sath pade rehte hai
Kuch samajh main nai aaya🖕
Well covered sir... sharing it ahead
Bichauliya system has definitely collapsed. I 100% agree.
Thank-you Sir
Yes bicholia system is colaps
Apni family ka to karna hi padega
Saas ne apna ghar apne hisab se apni circumstances se ghar set kiya hota hai ya to bachche alag rhe alag rhe tab bhi ghar to dekhna padega
Maids ka time ke saath apna time synchronise karna
Sir in your video voice quality is not properly.. If possible pl change your device.
9 बेटे हों एक बाप कै फेर भी ना पेट भरण पावैगा
घर घर मै पंचाती होज्यां कोण किसनै समझावेगा
बीर मर्द रह न्यारे न्यारे इसा बख्त आवैगा
मनुष्य मात्र का कर्म छोड़ नर धन जोड्या चाहवेगा
बीर उगाड़े सर हांड़ेगी महाभारत मै थल खपगे थे 18
बेदव्यास जी कलु काल का हाल लिखन लगे सारा
Big fan sir🙏🙏 satya vachan
Yes,it has collapsed.The "bicholiya".
Umda
Superbbb
🙏
Sach aaj ke samaj ki jaroorat ko dekhte huye aapne bahut hi achchhi video banayi hai...Thanks
Mai aapki advise se har baat se sahmat hu 🙏
Mujhe intrest hai apni community mai rishte karane ka
Kafi Kara chuki hu
Aapki kafi bato mai se
Ladki ki job aur
Bachcho ke bich alag rahne wali baat..unke bolne se pahle humko khud hi bol dena chahiye ,wali baat hamesha bolti hu...
Ab apni baat rakhne se pahle mai aapki video bhej diya karugi 😀
Kyuki aapne inn do bato ke alawa aur bhi bahut sachchai se avgat karaya hai .
aajkal bachche , parents sabhi shadi ka decisions lete huye darte rahte hai
Kya hoga ,kaise hoga ,bhagwan sab thik rahe.
Aapki video dekhkar jaroor decision lene mai aasani hogi.....Dhanyawad 🙏
Thanks
आप बेटों के परिवार को समझाइए, की वे लडको को राजा बेटा mode से बाहर निकालें, और उन्हें घर के काम भी करें, जिससे वे खुद अपने मां बाप का कर्जा उतारें।
इससे वे लड़के बेहतर इंसान बनेंगे, और लड़की को पसंद आयेंगे जीवन भर।
Bahut badiya
Sir, your calculation is partially true .major reason of divorce - misuse of women protection laws as section 498A & maintenance even to an earning wife in case of divorce. De criminalisation of adultery laws helps women to disown husband with a small pretext. Society is afraid of criticising women , against such social malady. The day majority male will get the pinch, another revolution will be there. , SC says such laws are misused by women as judicial terrorism.Modi , the lawmaker has to act , but Dhritarastra is silent , for fear of loosing women votes.
🙄 apna kaam swyam kero.. bahu ko naukarani samnjhna band kero... Dekho fir shaadi kitni badiya chalegi .
@@bnmishra2751 i dun favour feminism. But there are males who are being taught this. Moreover if a lady is not working that doesn't entitle her to do all the work. You still have to help her. Housewives are the worst treated in our society. So what if they are not earning? They work all day... Do things that makes ur life easier... Hire a maid for all the work she do n u will knw her value. Working husband also have duties to help their non working wives... Its about what u give so u get...
@@bnmishra2751 netflix and chill
@@sweetyrajput88 biwi job bhi nehi karegi. Ghar me kuch kam bhi nehi karegi. Phir bhi izzat chaiye? Agar mai office me kam na karu pura din gappe Maru to mera manager mere ko izzat dega? Har insaan ko kuch na kuch values Lana chahiye na
@@bnmishra2751 apna kaam khud kerna kya matlab hai?? Is ur own mom a housewife??? Unhe pura din kaam kerte nhn dekha?? Dun u feel any pity? U want this tradition to go on? Aks urself
absolutely right, agree with you
True. 👍👍
Yes collapsed indeed .My son a student called us from Canada mom I'm getting married....
Superb
Bahut sahi Sir
I agree 👍
Aajkal itni chalu h. Jyadatar ladki shaadi se pehle naukri krti h uske baad naukri chhod deti h
Very well said sir
gzb points
nakuri kyu , business kyu nahi
Hi sir , m in relationship..m not married yet but this guy forcefully asking me to do job...but he mentioned he wants my finincial support..isnot it a money demand before marriage from me..m earning more than him..i declined bcz i feel his aim is my money..whats ur opnion on this
U did good
Get out of that relationship with that wretched man.
Well said
Sir my marriage life is not going, because of that i am getting lot of health related issues also , i want your personal consultation to make my marriage life happier , please tell me how can i get that ?
First of all, Be emotionally tough and strong.
Aap marital saas sasur bahu kalesh bht Hora h plz videos bnae
Some clever girls know getting divorce and accusing groom or husband family for all false reasons will make you rich.
Ye kaisi soch hai bhai🙄apke sath hua hai kya to iske piche b apki soch hi rahi hogi dono taraf se ap hi sahi hai🙏
@@speciallife2900 Did you understand what I am trying to say?
@@speciallife2900 r u kid?
@@SP-dc7od she is a femnisht
@@SP-dc7od r u playing Kiddi-- kiddi
Yes
Sir kuch ladkia ache ladko se shadi karne ke liye naukri Karti hai Shadi ke bad nuakri chod deti hain
Very true
appointment letter dekh kar shadi karne ke baad bhi kya pata woh 1 ya 2 saal tak job kar lengi.Phir kuch time baad chod de job.Phir kya karega ladke wale
Agar in-laws and husband ka support nhi hoga to zaroor choregi. Agar expectation ye hai ki thaki haari ghar aake wo gharwalon ko rotiyan sek ke khilaye, to ek din uski himmat toot hi jayegi. Wo bhi insaan hai!
Sir is it possible to talk to you over phone?
This type of system exist in some community in Maharastra
Yes agree
Sir jinki Shaadiyain ho chuki unke liye toh solution batao 😂
Sir aap jo bata rahe hai , ladke aisa nahi karte aur na hi unke maa baap karte hai. Sas sasur aur pati sara kamaya hua paisa aurat se mangate hai. Toxicity Sasural me itni badh jaati hai ki aurat waha rah hi nahi sakti. Mai 4.5 years se apne mayake me hu, koi bhi court case nahi kiya to bhi mere pati ko mujhse mutual divorce chahiye. Maine use notice bhejne ko kaha wo bhi nahi de raha. Mere ander himmat hi nahi hoti separation ke liye. Mere mayake walo ka diya gahne jewar bhi usi ke pas hai
Ap tension mat lo. Usi ko bolo notice bhejne ko. Most probably wo nahi bhejega. Apna maayke me aaraam se raho and job karo. I hope you are into a job.
Yes it's collapsed completely
Yes bicholia system has collapsed
Yas agree
100% Bichauliya system is collapsed.
Sir aaajkal divorce case mai jo 498a ke cases file kiye jaate hai ..usme aapka kya perspective hai?
Parent's ने बेटों को राजा बेटा mode से बाहर लाकर, घर के काम सिखाने और कराने चाहिए। Divorce और झगड़े बहुत कम हो जायेंगे।
@@Ninanani-4085wo hi exploit hoga bas
@@Ninanani-4085solution is guy should only marry when he can afford a staff to take care of both parents and wife and a big house jaha sabko space mile if not better enjoy your single life😊
@@Ninanani-4085 nahi Kam honge
Because still female will feel entitled to everything in life
Better to marry non Indian wife as immigrant and safeguard thus law wala thing
@@shubhamjoshi8762 Prove
rishte jaldi kin tarikon se kare big reason rishte jaldi & asan nahi hote make vedios on it
I agree
Sir affairs pe video bnao
Jurm krne vale aisa bolte h hume jhute case mai fasaya h
yes bacholi system has collapsed
better stay single and enjoy
Bhai humare yahan to inlaws 1bhk me bhi mahino rehne agaye the new shadi me
Yehi to yeh Bata nahi rahe
Hamare parents nahi to wo apne daalegi and the situation remains the same
Who wiil take care of parents in old age...????Your logic is out of my mind....
Then take care if your parents... Don't get married. Simple
You can rent home near your parents.