CASSIE FILES A $30M LAWSUIT AGAINST DIDDY & HE PAYS THAT BILL REAL QUICK! 💰 I WAS THERE IN THE 90'S

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  • @Ohemaa
    @Ohemaa 7 месяцев назад +286

    What a life Fumi! Wow! And this situation I didn’t know of. You literally break news to me all the time.

    • @imangiomo
      @imangiomo 7 месяцев назад +10

      🎉🎉 agreed! 🎉🎉

    • @nancykerrigan
      @nancykerrigan 7 месяцев назад +4

      HEYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @s1a2n3ashd8
    @s1a2n3ashd8 7 месяцев назад +537

    The way diddy settled that lawsuit
    Tells me everything i need to know
    That man is guiltier than sin

    • @WanjiruMuya
      @WanjiruMuya 7 месяцев назад

      Am not surprised Caleesha confirmed if she wanted the other girl who spoke up at TK to come and s*ck her v*g*na Diddy would make her do it. She tweeted that during that back and forth

    • @yanikeonpurpose
      @yanikeonpurpose 7 месяцев назад +8

      But did anyone ever doubt whether her claims were valid? To me it all made sense. Listen these are very wealthy people. I expect this kind of salaciousness & debauchery. It isn’t shocking to me whatsoever. It is sad that she went through all that violence.
      But I keep saying, this doesn’t sit well with me. This was all a money grab masquerading as trauma & victimhood. This lady lived a life of having everyone of her needs taken care of for well over a decade. There was ample time to get a hold of her senses & leave as she endured some sick isht. Then she had the cahoonas to leave, only to return demanding 30 mill. I don’t like this mindset at all. This is taking away a woman’s ability to recognise right from wrong. At what point do we hold women accountable!?!?
      She stayed for the money. And when she left she had none coming in so she went after more. Her intentions are not genuine. How is the money relieving her trauma? My former partner was emotionally abusive towards the end of our relationship. I still have nightmares about that time. Shall I go & sue him now? Recognise how often Fumni says *I DID NOT CHOOSE* to do certain things. Cassie always had that agency & she must be held accountable for not choosing it.

    • @evf8974
      @evf8974 7 месяцев назад +8

      @@yanikeonpurpose- Of course, it was about the money. Isn't it always? And let me just say, MONEY is not the problem-it's all these greedy characters that's the problem! I hope Cassie is able to heal, though money doesn't always heal, sometimes it can exacerbate the problem. But, I wish her well. I'm more
      concerned with the Kim Porter situation.🤔

    • @justbeingmesparks6538
      @justbeingmesparks6538 7 месяцев назад

      @@yanikeonpurpose - Cassie was a "dear in headlights" when Sean mislead a situation and took her from the boyfriend that she had at the time. We can always look at things from the perspective that we have as an "elder," or as an outsider looking into the situation, but we don't know what all she was dealing with at the time as an "innocent" young lady thinking she could make music, and that the (new) man who was showing her attention and affection - a big name in the industry like "Diddy" would help her achieve success in the industry. A lot of people get swept up into the magic and machine of it all, and by the time they look up, they've gone so far down a road that they didn't plan, and going back to a "regular life" seems unreasonable, so they stay in what's familiar - even if they are being abused and manipulated like he was doing to Cassie. Thankfully, she had the where-with-all to get out; thankfully, she connected with Alex - who was a God-send, and he nurtured and loved her for real. Sean is a sinister character - people have been letting things out and putting pieces of info out over the years, but you see that there are people who are STILL tip-toeing around him - putting their toe in the water to see if it's safe for them to tell their experience with him. I think, kind of like the Olympic doctor, Weinstein, and Cosby situations, there will be more spillage after this settlement with Cassie, and more accountability is coming for Sean "Puffy, Diddy, No-Love" Combs. He may have to take the route of another of his industry colleagues and go live in a different country. We shall see...

    • @zephyrmajor5618
      @zephyrmajor5618 7 месяцев назад

      ​@yanikeonpurpose So, you think a drug addicted teenager has as much power as a middle aged billionaire?! Unbelievable, smdh. He used his $$$ to beat, rape, and stalk her each time she allegedly tried to leave. The only question anyone should ask is why is Diddy so abusive allegedly?

  • @buzzstinger
    @buzzstinger 7 месяцев назад +160

    I was abused by my second husband. One day I fought back and almost killed him, and I KNEW I had to get away from him. I did and I do NOT regret getting away from that marriage. We had a beautiful baby girl and God took her back because of the situation I was in. She was too precious to be fathered by a man like him. God bless you, Cassie. I now have a husband who loves and honors me, but I had to work hard to overcome the trauma. I thank God for giving the wisdom and strength..

    • @toni-ann18
      @toni-ann18 7 месяцев назад +24

      I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @nicolataylor536
      @nicolataylor536 7 месяцев назад +5

      I'm happy you're in a happy place..

    • @mimi-dq3xc
      @mimi-dq3xc 7 месяцев назад +6

      Glad you overcame and sorry for your loss❤

    • @elizabethwambui9901
      @elizabethwambui9901 7 месяцев назад +1

      Awesome! 👍

  • @MsCruzan
    @MsCruzan 7 месяцев назад +480

    I believe you, Cassie, and I stand with all women who are survivors of abuse. She took her power and her voice back and I am so proud of her.

    • @Sid_218
      @Sid_218 7 месяцев назад +14

      I’m wating on that surviving Diddy Documentary Lifetime wya?👀

    • @Bklyn112
      @Bklyn112 7 месяцев назад +8

      Yes Fumi! Heavenly Father forgive us. However, be sure, he knew what he was doing -allegedly- and he enjoyed it.

    • @caronhenry
      @caronhenry 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yup, I believe her too 💯.....brother love is a monster

    • @evf8974
      @evf8974 7 месяцев назад +3

      ✍️🏽No, she didn't-she settled! No judgment; not everyone is a warrior, I get it. Cassie settling was the smart thing to do. But it was not the moral thing to do! Why? Because if this man did all she said he did, why is he still walking around free?🤔Rape, human trafficking, attempted murder, years of abuse? Hell, R. Kelly & Cosby went down with less evidence & allegations, no? Perhaps it's just me, but what woman feels safe around this man if what she said is true? And full disclaimer, I believe her! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Bklyn112
      @Bklyn112 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​ @evf8974 I hear you loud and clear. Please let me offer this; I survived SA and didn't speak a word until 25 years later. Someone, out of ignorance said to me, if I spoke sooner I would have "saved" others from being abused which is absolutely ludicrous! The shame, blame, stigma and responsibility for others was not mine. It was squarely on the abuser. This was the moral thing for Cassie because she has a responsibility to her healing process, health and well being. It is the morality of Sean Combs that is questionable.
      Perhaps he WILL have his day in court. When one -victim- survivor tells her truth, many will usually follow. Cassie is on the path from SA survivor to THRIVER! May we all find a pocket of peace in a world that is unkind.

  • @clow5517
    @clow5517 7 месяцев назад +146

    Apparently at a recent award show he had the nerve to thank Cassie for being there for him through the dark times. He has had a nasty habit of doing things like that, giving her phony shout outs in social media posts, etc. I would imagine hearing about that award show moment was a horrible trigger for her.

    • @melliegotsoul
      @melliegotsoul 7 месяцев назад

      i bet you his disgusting arse will stop now!

    • @msboss7406
      @msboss7406 7 месяцев назад +23

      He did indeed and whilst watching it I couldn’t believe it he is pure evil

    • @marig9236
      @marig9236 7 месяцев назад +22

      nerve of him. he created those dark times

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 7 месяцев назад +16

      I think that was such an evil thing to do knowing what he had done to her. I hope he goes to jail for something.

    • @elizabethwambui9901
      @elizabethwambui9901 7 месяцев назад +26

      Classic example of gaslighting. It's the narcissist way of glossing over things and a subtle warning to their victims.

  • @PrincessSharifa434
    @PrincessSharifa434 7 месяцев назад +452

    I'll just say this: if the allegations *we'ren't* true, wouldn't Diddy have gone the way of Johnny Depp and Jonathan Majors?: to have their day in court, to argue their innocence.
    That said, Diddy absolutely did everything spelled out in that 30-page complaint! Notice that Cassie was not required to release a post-settlement statement downplaying any of it, nor apologizing for any of the allegations mentioned in the complaint. Also, notice that Diddy's post-settlement statement mentioned nothing disparaging about Cassie, nor alleged that she lied, nor alleged that it was all make believe. As they say in law school: look at the facts and circumstances.
    Further, attorneys can be disbarred (which means lose their law license and ability to work as a lawyer) if they file false statements with the court and acitvely assist a client with presenting false evidence or false testimony to the court.
    Cassie hired the same attorney (Douglas Wigdor) that took down Harvey Weinstein. Wigdor also represented the SA victim in a civil suit against the chief of the International Monetary Fund. In a nutshell, Cassie had the receipts and hired the best lawyer in the world for this type of case to represent her!
    Disappointed about the case being settled? Understand that this was above and beyond Diddy. ALL those GOVERNMENT agencies (including police), international hotel brands, the record labels (including Sony), doctors and hospital workers, security, and all the people who Diddy paid to turn a blind eye by taking his pay-offs over the DECADES probably applied MASSIVE pressure and told Diddy that if he didn’t settle, it would be his life. The truth would have taken down - like dominoes - people above and beyond even Diddy's influence, social strata, and pay grade! Naturally, Diddy settled.
    Cassie is sooo brave and liberated soooo many women when she filed this suit against Diddy. In one act, she 1) got justice for herself; 2) took back her power; 3) provided a playbook for prosecutors to bring criminal charges against Diddy (that 30-page complaint is the paper trail of all paper trails!), and 4) provided a playbook for all of Diddy's victims (to file similar, civil court cases) that I am sure will be coming out soon, such as Danity Kane.

    • @annabelconstantine1241
      @annabelconstantine1241 7 месяцев назад +12

      I fail to see how playing innocent in court is proof of innocence. As you mentioned before, the truth would have won in the end due to so many people not having the ability to withstand the exposure and consequences. I still think JM is guilty because bm always expect their bm pathology to be accommodate. They think disrespecting women is cool and he messed up choosing a ww.

    • @fabteengh4615
      @fabteengh4615 7 месяцев назад +6

      💯 facts

    • @PrincessSharifa434
      @PrincessSharifa434 7 месяцев назад +40

      @@annabelconstantine1241 I never said anything about agreeing with or siding with Depp or Majors. I personally don't care for Majors, but as we are seeing things unfold in his case, he was - in fact - telling the truth and charges were brought against his ex-gf.
      Narcissists aside, my point I that the natural reaction to someone making false allegations against you is to go all the way in defending yourself. Not settling for north of $30M just 24 hours after a case is filed against you.

    • @vaclinciapounds8859
      @vaclinciapounds8859 7 месяцев назад +29

      💯 agree!!! He did the group Danity Kane and other people so wrong. Diddy's karma is here and its time to pay up!

    • @nouriaatangana5241
      @nouriaatangana5241 7 месяцев назад +14

      So beautifully said

  • @blessedher
    @blessedher 7 месяцев назад +393

    F - fashionably fabulous
    U - unapologetically herself
    M - magnificent Queen
    I - impeccably exxtra
    I'll leave this here,❤❤❤

    • @staywell7217
      @staywell7217 7 месяцев назад +9

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @HS-ie8tj
      @HS-ie8tj 7 месяцев назад +11

      This is so cute ❤❤❤

    • @franlo1960
      @franlo1960 7 месяцев назад +9

      Creative acronym!!

    • @melliegotsoul
      @melliegotsoul 7 месяцев назад +1

      is fumi her husband?

    • @tigerlilly9038
      @tigerlilly9038 7 месяцев назад

      ❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🗣🗣🗣🗣

  • @howcanyoudothistome1
    @howcanyoudothistome1 7 месяцев назад +326

    I'm horrified for his daughters... Can you imagine reading court documents and finding out your father did these things? I'd feel sick and disturbed. I believe his daughters are going to need therapy. xx

    • @ilovementhol
      @ilovementhol 7 месяцев назад +77

      We don’t know what’s going on in that house or what has been going on. I feel sorry for all of these innocent children.

    • @nca4794
      @nca4794 7 месяцев назад +11

      That's if they believe what they read. It was never proven and, at least in this case, it never will be.

    • @KellieAlston
      @KellieAlston 7 месяцев назад +50

      Yes, when Kim passed, my heart went out to her beautiful daughters. I knew that they would be exposed to so much under Puff's care. He has no business raising children.

    • @jazzylady5245
      @jazzylady5245 7 месяцев назад +29

      Kim's sons are adults and they hear all of this stuff and I'm pretty sure they have seen some things but it seems like he has a tight grip on them.

    • @Momma_AL
      @Momma_AL 7 месяцев назад +29

      I got into a discussion on another channel yesterday with some guys who were siding with diddy. It ended with me saying I hope you don’t have any daughters. That was the end of that.

  • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
    @BlackBeauty-yl8uq 7 месяцев назад +63

    I believe Cassie. I was raped by my “friend’s” brother. When her brother attacked me, the sister also dragged me along and pushed me to her brother to rape me at their house. I was only 16 years old and couldn’t tell anyone. Her brother was older and she was my schoolmate. I didn’t talk about it until I was a decade later. It’s hard to tell when you are afraid and shocked.

    • @amazingchiddy
      @amazingchiddy 7 месяцев назад +17

      Almost happened to me at a younger age too. My friend from school said i should visit,but when i turned up she wasn't around but her big brother was around. He tried to rape me but i don't know how i got the strength to break away and ran away

    • @TeeCG
      @TeeCG 7 месяцев назад +8

      So sorry this happened to you. Please seek therapy if you haven't.

    • @graciouslyloved10
      @graciouslyloved10 7 месяцев назад +10

      You can still report him

    • @tiffanyanderson9437
      @tiffanyanderson9437 7 месяцев назад +4

      I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope you are well on your way to healing from this. You are very brave.

    • @bellebeaute8370
      @bellebeaute8370 7 месяцев назад +3

      Sending you love ❤️ and healing light. I’m so sorry you went through this. Love up on your inner 16 year old. Heal her with God’s Infinite Love, In Your Mind’s Eye While Meditating See Her Filled Up With God’s Living Light. This Will Heal All Things🙏🏽♥️Blessings 🩷

  • @MichelleMichelle203
    @MichelleMichelle203 7 месяцев назад +60

    Diddy has a reputation since the 1990s. I’m surprised it’s just coming up en mass now. Kim Porter and Misa Hylton were his first well known victims. The bodyguard was all over the internet doing interviews about his behaviour. Caresha is the new victim it’s more than the golden showers that’s happening. Cassie’s story is their story. She may have settled the case but I hope if any of the other victims are still around they need to come forward.

  • @JaceHarnage
    @JaceHarnage 7 месяцев назад +91

    I had a situation where I was told if I did the "right thing" my singing career would skyrocket. I didn't do it! The "casting couch" is real!! Thank you for this video. ❤😢

  • @micheleking3160
    @micheleking3160 7 месяцев назад +93

    That’s amazing your mom went with you. I think more young girls/women entering entertainment should have someone with them in the room at all times

  • @FashionFarfalla
    @FashionFarfalla 7 месяцев назад +20

    I had the suspicion about Diddy years ago. 10 album contract is a joke, he set Cassie up to fail, and to control her. Everything you said Fumi is so true.

  • @shellybuchanan5772
    @shellybuchanan5772 7 месяцев назад +73

    She is coming out because she is 37. She is coming into her own. I saw things different when I turned 40. That is when I understood what it was like to be manipulated.

  • @ArtemisUnderscoreJ
    @ArtemisUnderscoreJ 7 месяцев назад +34

    And the walls of Jericho came tumbling down. Cassie deserves every cent!

    • @carenmanyonge7795
      @carenmanyonge7795 7 месяцев назад +1

      She deserved even more😢😢😢 what he allegedly did to her was horrible

  • @LittleMissDeeDee
    @LittleMissDeeDee 7 месяцев назад +93

    Any fan or follower of musicians signed to Bad Boy Records, knows of P Diddy’s abusive ways towards men and women. I’m proud of her for standing up against him. Diddy thought he was calling her bluff by shutting down the release of her Autobiography but she came back harder. I reckon she has way more dirt on him, and that dirt includes other people. Going to court would have put many others in the firing line, so it would as in Diddys best interest to settle immediately - direct deposit allegedly.

    • @72Crabadams
      @72Crabadams 7 месяцев назад +11

      She knows where all the bones 🦴 are buried. All the dead artists………

  • @TaliWho9
    @TaliWho9 7 месяцев назад +100

    30 page document of "allegations"? I'm willing to bet she has receipts for each one. I believe her and proud of her decision. ❤

  • @fistandpen2505
    @fistandpen2505 7 месяцев назад +14

    Funmi, I'm a Nigerian male occasional listener of yours. I love your perspective. Never sensational, always speaking truth to power with utmost sensitivity. It is a shame what Puffy allegedly did and he himself needs to be saved from the darkness. I hope Cassie finds her footing and her peace. May the lord above protect and heal.

  • @lastofthe70schildren70
    @lastofthe70schildren70 7 месяцев назад +56

    He defiled someone’s precious baby girl and many others to feed his evil and sexual perverted ways!😏 He has 4 daughters, yet as a father he didn’t have compassion for someone else daughter. Since the 90’s Diddy has been known in the music industry as a terrible person, not only for the Cassie abuse, but for also exploiting all his artists who came through Bad Boy records! I sincerely hope he gets to go behind bars where he belongs for the public’s safety.

    • @omemaskema9012
      @omemaskema9012 7 месяцев назад

      Aaaanddd yet this girl's cant wait to be with this disgusting puff RUBBISH 🚮

    • @The_torero
      @The_torero 7 месяцев назад +4

      This is exactly what I thought, but this is how narcissists think - one rule for them/theirs, another rule for everyone else. I have met people just like him in real life. Cassie did the right thing by exposing him. When you expose narcissists, they scarper like cochroaches. I have done this to them and it works like a treat. Diddy will never change, but he will exercise more caution with his wickedness from now on.

  • @sorenadix6411
    @sorenadix6411 7 месяцев назад +105

    "The talent never dies!" "You have your star!" Thank you, Fumi! I'm so grateful that you made it out of the industry! 🎉🙏🏾❤

  • @user-yc3ki2sq3e
    @user-yc3ki2sq3e 7 месяцев назад +6

    Diddy - "She's lying to get my money!"
    Also Diddy - Gives money

  • @shycurves82
    @shycurves82 7 месяцев назад +109

    I'm happy Cassie was able to settle so she doesn't have to torment herself with years in court testifying against him and reliving the traumatic events.
    At least with her speaking out will help others to tell their story and not be afraid of being silenced.
    I hope that all his victims press charges and sue him so they can suck him dry 🤑

  • @ThatsEunice
    @ThatsEunice 7 месяцев назад +22

    He was taunting her by giving her a shout out last year. He has audacity.

  • @anitracottman7506
    @anitracottman7506 7 месяцев назад +22

    When Rick James wrote his tell-all autobiography, he said he left certain things out to protect the hearts of his children. I feel for Sean Comb’s children. They are all gorgeous. Hopefully, he is such an awesome Dad to them, they will be able to look past anything they learn about him in the public domain. Sending support and healing vibes to Cassie. So many women don’t make it out of horrific relationships. She fought her way out. She is winning her battles against drug addiction, sexual trauma and is speaking out against one of the most powerful men in entertainment. Cassie is amazing. I send her all the best in life!

    • @kaywilliams1529
      @kaywilliams1529 7 месяцев назад +4

      The sins of the parents fall upon five generations, pray he repent. God words do not lie

    • @skqq3250
      @skqq3250 7 месяцев назад +1

      Check how he was “raised” it ain’t the money honey. Check his childhood.

  • @restlessfae2407
    @restlessfae2407 7 месяцев назад +5

    "Time doesn't heal anything. It just teaches us how to live with the pain."

  • @AllegraF0X
    @AllegraF0X 7 месяцев назад +43

    The details are specific and graphic and it so traumatising to read. No job or relationship is worth this mental and emotional violence. I feel so sad for Cassie. May she be healed, Amen

  • @patricialantigua
    @patricialantigua 7 месяцев назад +38

    YOURE SO SO RIGHT BECAUSE WHEN I WAS 14 And my older sister was 15 years old. Back in those days, we went to a famous producer and I willl say this. My sis had the voice of Whitney and we were always compared to the Jackson’s because we had more then just musical talent’s. We also talented in business and 🖼️ arts and dancings and building and many many things God Blessed us with. I was Talented in Fashion and could make a dress or any out fit from and idea in my head. I made scrubs for my mom and quilts and many outfits for some HS students and they paid me for it too. But, I remember My older sister couldn’t stand up for herself because she wanted to be famous so bad. She stood up to other kids at school and would protect me from bully’s but sometimes I would be quicker to run 🏃🏿‍♀️. So, this famous producer (funny how it’s this dude) told us we would have to sleep with him. I grabbed her hand and we ran down the stairs and I told my mom hurry drive off. It’s crazy because I always knew I’m more then a star. I’m am Gods walking trophy 🏆 for HIS KINGDOM. I NEVER WANTED FAME AND STILL DONT BUT GOD SAID IT WILL HAPPEN BUT NOT LIKE MANY THINK IT WILL. It will be HIS STORY. Unfortunately, there is a sad story to me. I did. lose my little disabled sister to the abuse we endured from our evil dad rapping us and torture and all the abuse and then four months after that. I lost my older sis too. So, I learned that I won’t allow anyone or a man or any person abuse me mentally, emotionally and physically abuse me because I was that naive girl. I didn’t have my mom protection because it was me protecting them and I tried my best. But I knew I survived so that I can tell Gods story but help others like me and my sisters who are my hero’s but with God now. But also for the rest like Cassie and the innocent ones who have no voice!!!! I agree 100%
    If u get a gut feeling
    That is the HILY SPIRIT SPEAKING RUN RUN RUN

    • @jinkai598
      @jinkai598 7 месяцев назад +3

      🇯🇲💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏾🇯🇲

    • @BBFLYRISEN
      @BBFLYRISEN 7 месяцев назад

      Your sister did NOT have the voice of Whitney.👀🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @Missreepee
      @Missreepee 7 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@BBFLYRISENoh keep quiet. There's really no need to open your mouth for everything.

    • @BBFLYRISEN
      @BBFLYRISEN 7 месяцев назад

      @@Missreepee You must have lost your mind.

    • @kerrygold4719
      @kerrygold4719 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@BBFLYRISENyou are sick.get help

  • @agnesphilips2714
    @agnesphilips2714 7 месяцев назад +71

    I feel so sorry for Cassie what he put her through was horrendous.

  • @elizabethrose5007
    @elizabethrose5007 7 месяцев назад +5

    My mother use to say "everything that glitters isn't gold". Ladies be careful out there.🙏🙏🙏

  • @tipennya
    @tipennya 7 месяцев назад +39

    Im so glad you spoke about her youth and inexperience. I also had exposure to that world, and as an artist myself, the '10 album' deal would never have flown with anyone with experience. No unknown, untested artist would ever be offered such and most would not take it if they were for many reasons. He conned her from the beginning with his only interest being dating her. He didn't even give her 10 songs let alone 10 albums! That alone speaks to his level of conniving control and manipulation. He will not come back from this one. I believe a lot more is on the way out. And i believe that will include an immense scrutiny of Kim's death, at least in the public eye. I pray for the strength of his children, especially his daughters, in the face of such public embarrassment

  • @vickies.3701
    @vickies.3701 7 месяцев назад +22

    Fumi, God blessed you with a "real man...real husband." That's beautiful! May God continue to bless you, your husband, and your son!

  • @FreeBird2.0
    @FreeBird2.0 7 месяцев назад +33

    Oooh Aunty Fumi✨✨ this is giving Whitney Houston/The Bodyguard vibes. This is everything!💅🏾 Thank you for this video❤❤❤

  • @YabbaDabbaDooooo
    @YabbaDabbaDooooo 7 месяцев назад +57

    Sister Fumi, I pray & hope that the words you shared today reach all the ears and hearts of all those who need to hear it. Even those of us who’ve never walked those roads need to be reminded of our worth, and know that our talent never dies, and that our moment will come in time ✨.
    Much love to you & Ole for creating this amazing platform ❤️.

    • @Paula-nt6ix
      @Paula-nt6ix 7 месяцев назад +2

      This. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @leeleemee
      @leeleemee 7 месяцев назад

      Amen. ❤

  • @MzMJ77
    @MzMJ77 7 месяцев назад +111

    Feel so sad for Cassie. He had to pay or let everything come out. He needed to pay for therapy and medical bills alone.

  • @royald9469
    @royald9469 7 месяцев назад +25

    He is a terrible and wicked man. I hope this is just the beginning of his downfup. I pray other women who he's abused comes forward and he goes to jail.

  • @Dotthel
    @Dotthel 7 месяцев назад +12

    She needs at least $300 million. I believe her. I want to see that man on the same path as R. Kelly.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 7 месяцев назад +34

    The guilty are always afraid...
    Anyone who noted all the influential men no one spoke about the saga even weighing in just Cassies ex?
    She took her power back by speaking ✊✊✊

  • @leashines9937
    @leashines9937 7 месяцев назад +7

    My therapy started when I started to talk about what I went through. Even after I got married, what I went through stayed in my head and almost ruined my life but my husband, just like Cassie’s husband, hold my hands and encouraged me to tell it as it was. I saw different therapists to assist with my healing journey m. This is so triggering. I am so proud of her for filing. She got her power back.

  • @AllegraF0X
    @AllegraF0X 7 месяцев назад +28

    There is no sin being naive, but there are predators in this world. Be safe out there Ladies
    Cassie be healed and stay blessed. Kid Cud bless you

  • @RLJackson102
    @RLJackson102 7 месяцев назад +11

    Yes Fumi, you are right... you don't simply 'move on' after trauma. You just don't. There is a process and it's a loooong process. It took Cassie a lot of courage to do what she did. NOW she can begin to heal. Pray for her continued healing. And pray for Sean Combs too!

  • @OHoneyPot
    @OHoneyPot 7 месяцев назад +73

    Cassie will be the final blow to Diddy's well-being with this chess move.
    She has witnessed and experienced so much.
    My heart breaks for her.
    By Diddy settling so quick fast in a hurry, lets us know he is GUILTY of all of the things mentioned in that lawsuit. I hope she got more. I think the 30 million was Diddy number, not hers.
    Kim Porter's soul is restless.
    This just opened the flood gates to investigate Kim Porter’s death.

    • @hermanlane9846
      @hermanlane9846 7 месяцев назад

      For decades now we have been hearing about these types of allegations but people dismiss them because they were mostly under the whole Illuminati conspiracy chatter. But that 30 page lawsuit is confirming so much of that chatter

    • @Linda-mh5zf
      @Linda-mh5zf 7 месяцев назад +2

      No she preferred the money... After all of that I would not have settled.😮

    • @anncrane6451
      @anncrane6451 7 месяцев назад +1

      She got more then the 30 mil she asked for.

    • @OHoneyPot
      @OHoneyPot 7 месяцев назад

      I’m almost sure he paid at least 8 figures

  • @mariusarrondell4210
    @mariusarrondell4210 7 месяцев назад +95

    Like Rihanna said: this can happen to anyone. I just feel bad for the other women that gone through this kinda messy situation. I have a sister that went through the same thing and she stayed strong,not only for herself but for her kids as well and I applaud her for that.

    • @malancy
      @malancy 7 месяцев назад +1

      I have to respectfully disagree. There were many times Cassie and Rihanna could've called it quits earlier on.

  • @divadoll606
    @divadoll606 7 месяцев назад +11

    For him to pay so quickly, I feel Cassie probably got double that $30M and good for her. All he paid was money, he's lucky to get away with his life.

  • @beverlygilmore2926
    @beverlygilmore2926 7 месяцев назад +7

    If only ALL of the young girls n the industry could hear ur message!!! U r SO rite!! God bless u 4 ur wisdom & speaking out!!🗣🗣🗣🗣👏👏👏

  • @TheMissthang84
    @TheMissthang84 7 месяцев назад +9

    I saw a video of Diddy going on an errand after Kim Porter's death. Cassie got in the car with Diddy. Although, she and diddy no longer was involved , she was still loyal to him.. It was so strange. But,, considering trauma I've been through with my abusive mother. You stay LOYAL to the abuser because it comes natural.. It takes time to heal and get away from the abuser. It takes years to recognize, accept and then heal,,

  • @TheCeebereal07
    @TheCeebereal07 7 месяцев назад +36

    Thank you for your word we need more Aunties speaking facts and telling us the real about toxic relationships. Also thank you for showing that we must have patience to reach our potential because when we know ourselves we get the best of what we deserve.

  • @ketaakin33
    @ketaakin33 7 месяцев назад +23

    Aunty Fumi is a jack of all things fashion

    • @valeo3508
      @valeo3508 7 месяцев назад +1

      All things being a woman

  • @azania3817
    @azania3817 7 месяцев назад +6

    His first wife Kim died mysteriously

  • @haleyclarke1332
    @haleyclarke1332 7 месяцев назад +20

    Auntie Fumi, I mainly watch your videos on situations such as these, because you add depth, understanding and grace, so that your audience can bare up to listen to these traumas. This week has been a heavy one and it just feels so overwhelming now. Just over-saturated with one abuse after the other. Lord have mercy.

  • @StefunnyStrange
    @StefunnyStrange 7 месяцев назад +36

    Fumi makes me feel like a BUM and I’m a successful civil engineer and my RUclips channel has blown up recently as well. She’s just fabulous. It’s not fair. 😩

    • @mimi-dq3xc
      @mimi-dq3xc 7 месяцев назад +1

      Would love to follow you on RUclips 😊

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 7 месяцев назад +9

      Why do you feel like a bum. We are all successful in our own ways.

    • @AfuaKD
      @AfuaKD 7 месяцев назад +5

      You can't be her but you can learn from her, all the best to being uniquely you!

    • @StefunnyStrange
      @StefunnyStrange 7 месяцев назад

      @@brendakabanda2181That is just my comedic way of saying she is more fashionable than me and a compliment to her style. Though I cant lie, I do feel a tad bummish when watching her. Lol Either way, thanks for the encouragement! Even though it was a joke, it’s nice to see kindhearted people in the comments uplifting a complete stranger.

    • @chinelonelzpaul7453
      @chinelonelzpaul7453 7 месяцев назад +1

      Happy your RUclips channel is blowing up. Is it about engineering stuff? More grace!

  • @matlhodimatsei1420
    @matlhodimatsei1420 7 месяцев назад +11

    Cassie's timing was great, otherwise she might have ended up like Ms Kim, who apparently was in the process of publishing her tell-all memoire when she passed...

  • @brandymercedez
    @brandymercedez 7 месяцев назад +18

    Auntie Fumi got a new subscriber. I loved this video and her encouraging words for the girls who seek fame and success in that industry.

  • @yaadapaah887
    @yaadapaah887 7 месяцев назад +15

    She should have made it 100 million with all that he put her through.

    • @aimeescreativekitchen7224
      @aimeescreativekitchen7224 7 месяцев назад

      There reporting that it was that about diddys lawyers put that out 30 million the streets is talking 😳👀

    • @fabteengh4615
      @fabteengh4615 7 месяцев назад +6

      That 30 Million was what Puffy's legal team offered her and she refused. Other bloggers are speculating she got over 50 Million. I hope so.

  • @user-xx4nm3mz4p
    @user-xx4nm3mz4p 7 месяцев назад +9

    He’s the type of man, who will make a young man disappear if they did this to his daughters. As you say, “What A Mask…” I appreciate your wisdom, and your willingness to share your knowledge. Have a blessed weekend, everyone.

  • @zion28able
    @zion28able 7 месяцев назад +24

    Fumi needs to have a million subscribers already.. she never miss.. we need a TV show

    • @chicchica44
      @chicchica44 7 месяцев назад

      That part🙌🏽🙌🏽💯

  • @rababmohamed1023
    @rababmohamed1023 7 месяцев назад +22

    You are everything I aspire to be as a classy black woman❤️ love LOVE your videos😍

  • @BSmith-yl3je
    @BSmith-yl3je 7 месяцев назад +29

    LOVE this head piece- re: Cassie, I totally believe her. I only wish this case had gone to court so others could tell their stories

  • @tashadavis4936
    @tashadavis4936 7 месяцев назад +14

    The music industry is completely WICKED & TAINTED!! You are beautiful! You wearing that head piece remind me of #Strang’e from Boomerang ❤❤❤

    • @droosyg252
      @droosyg252 7 месяцев назад

      Yes! Grace Jones was EVERYTHING in that movie!! ❤❤❤

  • @tamich1047
    @tamich1047 7 месяцев назад +1

    Trauma is one of those things you just can't really explain to someone. It is a journey in it's own right, one that you have to come to terms with and accept.
    Even among abuse victims, no journey is the same as no experience is identical and it's mostly pain that occurs internally. It's mostly lonely even if you have alot of support. It's not always dark though. Your understanding of healing grows in the same way as everything else in life does. You learn to appreciate the ups and downs, to listen to the triggers to guide you where you need healing or protection, and to find the courage to rediscover yourself and love yourself unashamedly.
    I'm super proud of Cassie and the support she has. May God bless her in her healing journey❤❤

  • @JustG1980
    @JustG1980 7 месяцев назад +14

    I always found puffy to be a very creepy guy. Something about him didn’t sit well with me at all. He paid that money real quick cause he didn’t want a lot to be revealed

    • @grandcanesque
      @grandcanesque 7 месяцев назад

      @JustG1980 google his infamous NYC start city college stampede deaths

  • @jhaynes1090
    @jhaynes1090 7 месяцев назад +3

    Fumi my love, you are not lucky, YOU ARE BLESSED AND HIGHLY FAVORED!!! Always remember that.

  • @BlaqKitty-sv5mv
    @BlaqKitty-sv5mv 7 месяцев назад +8

    Fumi, I can relate to what you are saying. When I was 25 years old I left my country and came to the U.S. I remember a male family talking to me on the phone for over 2 hours. He said you are 25 but you look 16 and people will offer you drugs and God knows what else. Neva, Neva eva accept it, Neva eva do you here me? I said yes sir. And do you know it came to pass and I told the hairstylist that I was working for to never ever offer me drugs, with a stern voice and face. You know? He never tried that ish with me again. Another time I was with a friend at a bar in Hollywood called The Cat and Fiddle, I was living my best life. Just having a good time. At some point, I felt like there were eyes on me. I just turned around and it was almost like these men were scoping us out. They came up and offered me a drink and I said I'm ok. Anyways they started chatting us up. They heard my accent and wanted to know where I was from blah, blah, blah. Eventually, one of them said to me come with us to a fabulous party in the Hollywood Hills. They wanted me to go and told my trans friend that she was not invited, straight up. I was like, what is this? I said no thank you and turned away from them. These vulture's are always lurking for the vulnerable, When I saw that pic of you and Sean, I was like we could be sisters.

  • @monyka_newinsky
    @monyka_newinsky 7 месяцев назад +8

    Diddy released a statement when the lawsuit dropped stating that the claims were “baseless”, then less than 24 hours later, there is a settlement reached. Don’t baseless claims usually get debunked? Ijs 🤔🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @brendapitts4928
    @brendapitts4928 7 месяцев назад +1

    I believe 1000% that she would have no reason to lie! Amazing what happens when we become woke!!!

  • @joanlissa
    @joanlissa 7 месяцев назад +2

    I think I’m a star..call me arrogant but I have my own star” - Fumi
    Very powerful words! God will make it on your own time🙏🏽
    “Support is everything “- Fumi

  • @tamekawarren4198
    @tamekawarren4198 7 месяцев назад +62

    Where was Cassie's parents at 19? The law may say 18 is an adult but it's not. These people better stop turning their children over to these vultures

    • @Hennygirl123
      @Hennygirl123 7 месяцев назад +6

      She was not honest with her parents about what was happening to her. When she finally told them it was already late. She was hooked

    • @essies4294
      @essies4294 7 месяцев назад

      18 is an adult. Adults can be abused. This is not an age thing.

  • @KUSZPREM
    @KUSZPREM 7 месяцев назад +1

    Auntie!!!! When I say I watch you RELIGIOUSLY lol…. Nothing but pure wisdom being shared on this platform. Love you!!!😊

  • @D.E.A_life-1nature.
    @D.E.A_life-1nature. 7 месяцев назад +7

    100% AGREE! I was in an abusive relation amd it took me 7 years to realize it was time to get away. Than, it took 7 years more to literally free myself fron the influence of my ex, until one day he bumped into another woman. This girl SAVED ME! And now I am worried for her. It has been very hard fon me and I ma still recovering. Until today there are people who describ my ex as a good person ,a kind soul, just a little bit troubled....I ma the one to blame becouse I decide to start a family with a person I didn't know well and that's a fact but nothing I have done justifies his behavoiour, the beating, the mental abuse. Aniways, after all these years the facts, my kids and the goals i reached are speaking for me.
    Thank you Fumi.

  • @ladysweetslime2388
    @ladysweetslime2388 7 месяцев назад +6

    Real Talk Support is soooo important!!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @andreamorgan3573
    @andreamorgan3573 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is important for women/girls to know - Thank you Fumi ❤❤❤❤

  • @MelissaKarmel
    @MelissaKarmel 7 месяцев назад +31

    I was waiting on you to make a video!! Daddy is horrible but this is only the beginning of his downfall. Prayers to Cassie and the other victims

  • @drodgerslv
    @drodgerslv 7 месяцев назад +1

    Preach! Thank you Fumi. You just spoke truth into the heart and mind of some young girl or women who thinks that her greatness is external. When will we learn that are treasure is inside of us. We must not give it away and it isn't for sale. Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @tiamarie1226
    @tiamarie1226 7 месяцев назад +9

    Love the advice about if you have the talent it will come to be. Reminds me of the country singer Jelly Roll he won best new artist at the country music awards in USA at age 39 which isnt typical he had been in the business awhile he was even associated with hip hop artists back in the day ....switched genres and now older and getting recognition.

  • @valentinaelizabeth9462
    @valentinaelizabeth9462 7 месяцев назад +12

    In those days men treated woman like property,no respect . Woman at that time did not have many choices. They thought this is how to get up in the game. Now women will speak out. I can imagine the pain those women went through, poor Cassie. Its an allegation that has to be proved. Shes still in pain. I hope shes safe. Shes found someone who loves her,I suppose her being a mother has given her the courage to speak out. There are stil men our there in powerful position who will manipulate to get women inbed as their are men who manipulate women also. Every women /men are different and are vuneral in their own way. We have to protect our children .😢

  • @tinajones2016
    @tinajones2016 7 месяцев назад +4

    This was so Awesome Auntie Fumi full of wisdom and love💗💗

  • @lovephoebeluna
    @lovephoebeluna 7 месяцев назад

    "Your body has matured more than your experiences".... Whew! A word right there.

  • @naomiking3630
    @naomiking3630 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Fumi for sharing your wisdom with everyone- especially the younger ones- thank you!

  • @rohannaludford
    @rohannaludford 7 месяцев назад +4

    speak Auntie FUMI... so much wisdom being poured into your following!

  • @foxydlao264
    @foxydlao264 7 месяцев назад +16

    I was about 25 when I tried to get into the modeling profession. After the pics were taken… the next step was to… While the photographer was taking the pics, he said that I was going to make a lot of money. That statement was a cue for me to 🏃‍♀️ and never look back. Money was, is not my idol. I use money to do the necessities, but not to worship. Therefore, I was not impressed with him when he mentioned a lot of money. And I am happy that I did not pursue it. I was about 25, but I looked like I was a teenager. I was very skinny…. When my husband met and marry me I was about 34 going 35. The bones in my waist were out there… I was not starving myself… I ate healthy… in small portions. Yet I looked fabulous… and if you saw me at 35, you may think I was 25… My hubby… thought that he was racking the cradle…
    The reason gave the above information is because I knew I would have made it, but Jehovah said, “NO” Now, I am a teacher/counselor… I am happy I listened to my Lord… I am sorry Cassie!

    • @foxydlao264
      @foxydlao264 7 месяцев назад

      And the way he undressed me with his eyes were… (photographer)

  • @abamensah8879
    @abamensah8879 7 месяцев назад +6

    As always, well spoken, great advice ❤

  • @bealeboysmom4577
    @bealeboysmom4577 7 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve missed your makeup tutorials so much. I’m so happy you’re doing it again!

  • @Vintage_Karamel
    @Vintage_Karamel 7 месяцев назад +4

    So true on having support! It is a must! Without it, you are just out here with the sharks and they know who to pick. Thank you for bringing your experiences to the forefront. Your channel and Cassie's story are saving so many others.

  • @user-in3yq9fx8z
    @user-in3yq9fx8z 7 месяцев назад +4

    Everything you said is so true. It’s just shocking when one thinks of Cassie as this young, inexperienced teen being shallowed up by a vulture who was almost 2 decades older than her. I believe her story and also admire her strength ‘cause she’s still standing and sane. Many others, like Maia Campbell, were not so lucky and the vultures of the industry chewed them up and broke them completely.

  • @Newscrews10
    @Newscrews10 7 месяцев назад

    Wow! Thank you so much for sharing. Your strength is admirable!

  • @DianaPrince247
    @DianaPrince247 7 месяцев назад +3

    God bless you Auntie Fumi. Your wisdom is much needed and so valuable to all women.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Alma-999
    @Alma-999 7 месяцев назад

    I Love You Fumi 😥 You are the Mama, Auntie, Sister, Friend and Angel I always needed & wanted in my life. You have no idea how much you've just healed certain parts of my Mind, Heart & Soul ✨I'm eternally grateful 😘 God Bless You Darling! 💝

  • @MegaCandy1971
    @MegaCandy1971 7 месяцев назад

    Fumi! I really love that you’re taking the time to give this valuable counsel. While I do not know the details of Cassie’s experience, I remembered being very wary of this when they first got together. And just a note that some of our beautiful daughters aren’t ready to receive support from the people who care about them. In retrospect , they realize how hard friends and families had tried to suggest course corrections, tweaking, whatever the advice was, but due to their natural place as individuals needing to assert their own independence, they reject the counsel. And once again, NOT because they were rebellious or difficult or anything of that nature but by mere virtue of not having as yet gained the wisdom that comes from experience, they unfortunately made these poor choices. I know that Cassie would be a great source of wisdom and credible influence for those who are entering or considering entry to that particular industry.

  • @yvonnem1145
    @yvonnem1145 7 месяцев назад +2

    I have followed and listened to you for so long. You have no idea how many “regular” girls have been through this and don’t say anything because of shame. Thank you for highlighting this “alleged” preparation that even the quietest girl in the most remote areas has been going through for generations!!! This is why I have ALWAYS been afraid of having a girl child because I would honestly end up in jail if she experienced a quarter of what I went through as a kid

  • @vesbarrow
    @vesbarrow 7 месяцев назад +1

    Im so glad you're getting back to tutorials! ❤

  • @user-mr7pc5pt9p
    @user-mr7pc5pt9p 7 месяцев назад +2

    So true Fumi, parents have to be so protective of their child/ren...thank you so much for motivation to young girls who want to venture into these industries.

  • @aurora0330
    @aurora0330 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Auntie Fumi❤️😔
    I needed this message 🙏🏾

  • @urlaeversley-moses5308
    @urlaeversley-moses5308 7 месяцев назад

    Gorgeous headpiece!! Yes, the tutorial after the info is perfect.

  • @biggmonie
    @biggmonie 7 месяцев назад +1

    This spoke to me Mama Fumi!❤ "Talent never dies!"

  • @RejoiceOrganics
    @RejoiceOrganics 7 месяцев назад +1

    Preach on sister. Thank you for being your.

  • @Mack462
    @Mack462 7 месяцев назад

    Facts! Thank you Fumi!

  • @kimberlymorales4855
    @kimberlymorales4855 2 месяца назад

    I've been there it's so scary. I pray for all ppl in these positions. God be with us. Thank you Fumi❤

  • @daphneharris4231
    @daphneharris4231 7 месяцев назад

    Your flowers ❤❤❤❤keep blooming
    I have been trying and wanting to start a channel for about 7 years now.now im 50 but you have inspired me to not give up.thank you for your wisdom and truth

  • @mojisolaomolaradacosta1027
    @mojisolaomolaradacosta1027 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you auntie funmi, you stated facts

  • @veronavb6858
    @veronavb6858 7 месяцев назад +6

    Yes, yes, thanks fumi. I started wearing makeup at a later, because I didn’t know how;until I started watching you. Ian happy that u will start the tutorial again. I will certainly watch. ❤❤

  • @ebonyperry49
    @ebonyperry49 7 месяцев назад

    Beautiful Word Fumi….. very beautiful!!! Thank you.