JOSHUA JACKSON AND LUPITA NYONG'O! THIS RELATIONSHIP IS NOT GOING LAST! ❤️‍🩹 AND I'LL TELL YOU WHY!

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  • @FumiDesaluVold
    @FumiDesaluVold  2 месяца назад +6

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  • @earphbound720
    @earphbound720 3 месяца назад +220

    I can’t believe Lupita is 41! She looks amazing 😻

    • @dionneappuhamyge25
      @dionneappuhamyge25 3 месяца назад +16

      What 😮😮😮 She looks 25. She looks so beautiful and youthful ❤❤❤

    • @annholl1603
      @annholl1603 3 месяца назад +7

      Thought she was 36

    • @damita4336
      @damita4336 3 месяца назад +11

      Black don't crack... lol

    • @meilina3475
      @meilina3475 2 месяца назад +3

      Me neither, I rewinded to make sure I heard right

    • @Forgive658
      @Forgive658 2 месяца назад +4

      41 is not old please

  • @roxannecowlesrosado3449
    @roxannecowlesrosado3449 3 месяца назад +315

    When a woman looks at a man's past relationships and notice a negative pattern, she should take that as a preview of what is more likely than not to come. Unfortunately, many of us believe we are the exception, and not the rule.

    • @anydae
      @anydae 3 месяца назад +15

      Yes we always think we'll make the difference and make him be better

    • @mariaseidi4023
      @mariaseidi4023 3 месяца назад +11

      ​​@@anydaeYes but In life people Change and mature ,i know the saying :"once a cheater always a Cheater",but sametimes a man get tired of the cheating life or he find a woman that he really likes and dont want to loose her...i use to be very harsch with men but i understand now that men also have alot of issues in love...insecurities ,fears ,self estime...

    • @jasbo4003
      @jasbo4003 3 месяца назад +4

      But most people have some sort of negative in their past relationship. This doesn’t denotes that same same thing may happen in the new relationship.

    • @mariaseidi4023
      @mariaseidi4023 3 месяца назад

      @@jasbo4003 A man can have 1000 women but when One the One he really likes came along he Marry her very fast because he dont want to loose her, look at Prince Harry and George Clooney ...Prince Charles and Camila,does not matter if she is black or white,ugly or beautiful ,even a prostitute in the streets...

    • @sonyamoore5082
      @sonyamoore5082 3 месяца назад +2

      Agree 100%

  • @terryemoorer296
    @terryemoorer296 3 месяца назад +563

    Woman do not give yourself to any man but the man that God has designs for you

    • @silinadauda8314
      @silinadauda8314 3 месяца назад +8

      You're so right, ma'am. But how I know the one God has design for me, please?

    • @Rethabile-wk6sl
      @Rethabile-wk6sl 3 месяца назад +14

      Pray to God while dating that if he or she is not the one it must not work out so you don't marry wrong
      Before dating make sure you have a relationship with God and don't have sex before marriage ❤

    • @terryemoorer296
      @terryemoorer296 3 месяца назад +7

      @@silinadauda8314 the one God designed will not give you a hard time.he/ she will be likeminded.no worries .God got you

    • @terryemoorer296
      @terryemoorer296 3 месяца назад

      @@silinadauda8314 & pray every step of the way together

    • @bohemienneprincesse8665
      @bohemienneprincesse8665 3 месяца назад +2

      good point...any suggestions on how one know the man God has designed especially for you?

  • @elleobi
    @elleobi 3 месяца назад +488

    People he wouldn't be saying he had a type if he dated two barbies back to back or two brunettes back to back. It only warrants discussion when its two black women, as if it's surprising for anyone to prefer dark skin

    • @JoyceTaylor
      @JoyceTaylor 3 месяца назад +40

      THIS!

    • @BlessedLady82
      @BlessedLady82 3 месяца назад +31

      TRUTH!!!

    • @patriciazandilencube4597
      @patriciazandilencube4597 3 месяца назад +18

      Yessss !!!

    • @missmiss6516
      @missmiss6516 3 месяца назад +52

      Exactly. He was with a white woman for over a decade. Then he married, and now is dating a dark skin woman. What do they know about type

    • @kreegee4449
      @kreegee4449 3 месяца назад +45

      No lies detected! Emphasis on the dark skin. If he dated two light skinned sisters, folk wouldn’t blink.

  • @73grapes
    @73grapes 3 месяца назад +445

    I would never degrade myself into asking a man to marry me

    • @fatladychats
      @fatladychats 3 месяца назад +33

      Me either

    • @chequemate449
      @chequemate449 3 месяца назад +25

      Never

    • @emmajones9975
      @emmajones9975 3 месяца назад +19

      I would. For the right man. Clearly this one was not worth it

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 3 месяца назад +37

      Josh comes across as a feminist and so his statement was celebrating Jodie, not putting her down so i feel like Aunty's Funmi showed her age with this post. It was also unnecessarily and unusually negative. Jodie herself has told that story with pride. What century do we think we're in where its so foreign for a woman to propose? The same agency she demonstrated by divorcing him is what she used to propose. Shouldn't we be tesching women to take ownership and agency over their lives?! . It seems like a rebound relationship since she was so betrayer in her last one so it definitely might not last. But even high school sweethearts dont always last, so there was no need to be so judgemental. Just wish them the best and keep it moving.

    • @VBoo459
      @VBoo459 3 месяца назад +8

      Everyone is entitled to be against women proposing. Who are you say otherwise? We’re not all sheep of the same herd. I don’t support it at all, and I can debate until Kingdom come because for me it’s not about it feminism but about preparedness and intent. Men are GENERALLY slower to even commit compared to women, so I won’t be proposing to a man who isn’t even sure yet. Bcos if he’s sure, he would do it. But whatever no judgement to women who do. But OP said she was never. And she doesn’t have to because YOI would. Kudos to Jodie for going after whatever she wants, but you see he was not prepared for marriage nor did he truly want it so hey ho. Proposed and asked for divorce. *applauds*

  • @euniceizevbigie7975
    @euniceizevbigie7975 3 месяца назад +224

    I think they are both each other’s rebound, the relationship is not going anywhere and apart from their complexion, they both have zero resemblance.

    • @Lavender_2002
      @Lavender_2002 3 месяца назад +26

      Exactly 💯 They're just having fun

    • @kgreen8527
      @kgreen8527 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Lavender_2002
      Yes let's celebrate whoredom!

  • @kindandinternationl9386
    @kindandinternationl9386 3 месяца назад +266

    Lupita and Jodie are also FOREIGN born woman Jodie is Jamaican British and Lupita is Kenyan bornin Mexico. This is important to note, too. I have had this experience in America as a foreign female that American men find foreign women 'exotic'

    • @jahmekmi2165
      @jahmekmi2165 3 месяца назад +56

      Every man in every country is like that. They always find foreign women exotic.

    • @soniarichardson1566
      @soniarichardson1566 3 месяца назад +34

      Please let them enjoy
      If it last or not
      Let it be 🙏🏿👏🏿🌺
      No prediction is needed
      The best to both persons

    • @beewoke
      @beewoke 3 месяца назад +18

      @@soniarichardson1566. I agree with you. If they weren’t famous, we wouldn’t know. As you, I wish them the best.

    • @momi1610
      @momi1610 3 месяца назад +20

      He's Canadian.

    • @kindandinternationl9386
      @kindandinternationl9386 3 месяца назад

      @@momi1610 Those too

  • @user-wu2om6hj1v
    @user-wu2om6hj1v 3 месяца назад +169

    She knows what she is dealing with. I think she's just having fun with him.

    • @elleobi
      @elleobi 3 месяца назад +36

      Seriously, she's in her 40s. And they are both single. What's the problem

    • @virgochic8415
      @virgochic8415 3 месяца назад +25

      Yup I'd ride that train and get off at the next stop. I don't blame her.

    • @Khiarika1
      @Khiarika1 3 месяца назад +19

      You don't go in public with a dude you're having fun with. Rihanna was having fun with Drake. That's why she never claimed him. We just have to admit that Lupita is a little stupid.

    • @joanflemmingkendrick1107
      @joanflemmingkendrick1107 3 месяца назад +25

      ​​@@Khiarika1That's unkind and a little judgemental. The paparazzi are probably taking these photos. Stupid lupita isn't.

    • @user-wu2om6hj1v
      @user-wu2om6hj1v 3 месяца назад +17

      @@Khiarika1 - Public or not she's an adult. It's her life and her choice.

  • @siriusakari6729
    @siriusakari6729 3 месяца назад +51

    I think Lupita has just entered 'I don't give a damn' phase of her life. She has always been the humble, flirty and sweet girl ideally she should be a top pick for plenty of eligible men but alas she ends up with that Masekela guy that broke her heart and humiliated her. And now I think she realises the world isn't going to be fair just because you are nice.

    • @isebi7592
      @isebi7592 3 месяца назад +7

      Spot on. Especially at this point that she is 40 years old. Life is short😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Aisha.Ricci005
      @Aisha.Ricci005 3 месяца назад +3

      I think so. She seems like a faithful person who got really heartbroken

    • @MeMe-ht2hd
      @MeMe-ht2hd 2 месяца назад +1

      Well, said.😅

    • @selinammatsheko797
      @selinammatsheko797 2 месяца назад +2

      This is true, when you so humble and love for real yet get played, you get to that"I don't care" phase.

  • @theywhoflyasacloud2961
    @theywhoflyasacloud2961 3 месяца назад +19

    Women, sisters, never, ever ask a man to marry you or give him an ultimatim/threat to marry you. No matter how "liberated" women become, some things still and hopefully always will follow a natural pattern. There is an old middle eastern saying that goes, "Happy is the woman who marries the man who loves her, unhappy is the woman who marries the man she loves." This saying is true. Not that you shouldn't love the man you marry, but one party in a relationship always loves MORE than the other one. For relationships to last and be truly happy, that party has to be the man. Men work harder at relationships that are really emotionally invested in. He either loves you, or he doesn't, and if he does, you're the first to know. If he doesn't, you CANNOT force it.

  • @joanflemmingkendrick1107
    @joanflemmingkendrick1107 3 месяца назад +127

    I'm not too happy with some of the judgemental self-righteous remarks. We do not know what is in these celebrity minds, or anyone's mind for that matter. Let's just live and live and pray that both Lupita and Joshua are both happy living their best lives, whether they move on from each or not. God bless you all. ❤🙏🏾

    • @queenjab8219
      @queenjab8219 3 месяца назад +21

      You are right, I beg to differ from some of the things fumi said, the issue of Jodie proposing to him, fumi took it out context, it was an interview and he was asked a question, so based off of that you want to judge his whole character?, also saying he is not with his kid, how do we know? What we see on the media is just a fragment of their lives , does vacating with lupita suddenly make him an absentee father, moreover we do not know the terms and conditions of their divorce and mostly we have to remember that the media only shows us what we want to see , I don’t think Jackson having a daddy day with his daughter will make such a headline compared to him vacating with Lupita… fumi made it look like lupita should gate keep for Jodie or owe her some kind of loyalty… is it because they are both black women, with “similar feature” Or because they work in the same industry, Were they friends? they might not even have met each other one on one. So I don’t get the point… how did he treat Jodie , we don’t
      Know their story
      Will fumi say the same if he was seen with an Asian or a white woman
      Lupita is 42 and knows what she wants
      Maybe she is just having fun and not looking for marriage or anything else serious on the table

    • @foulmouthjapanese6316
      @foulmouthjapanese6316 3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you. Fumi just jelly

    • @joanflemmingkendrick1107
      @joanflemmingkendrick1107 3 месяца назад +8

      I am referring to the remarks made by Fumination. I think Fumi means well, and I get what she is saying. Fumi is trying to protect her sisters, and having made mistakes herself is experienced in these matters. She doesn't think the relationship will last, however, considering the pattern. But I doubt Lupita cares what anyone thinks. She was badly hurt from her previous relationship and probably just wants to have fun. It's okay to have an open discussion about these scenarios if it means lessons are learnt from them. I think that is what Fumi is striving for. ❤️🙏🏾

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 3 месяца назад +11

      It's not judgment, it's wisdom. You women need to grow up and learn how men think. They don't think like we do.

    • @zabrinatheteacher
      @zabrinatheteacher 3 месяца назад +1

      Amen!

  • @treasellhenderson-thomas3124
    @treasellhenderson-thomas3124 3 месяца назад +335

    Congratulations, my Sister Fumi.. 🎉❤

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  3 месяца назад +15

      Thank you my love! 💗💘💕💓🩷🥰👋🏾😀

    • @mercydixon1958
      @mercydixon1958 3 месяца назад +1

      very true 👍

    • @brownejewel
      @brownejewel 3 месяца назад +3

      beautiful lovely elegant 💎💚the dress

    • @daniellerichardson23
      @daniellerichardson23 3 месяца назад +3

      Congratulations ❤beautiful and also for your advice and wisdom.

  • @Myraisins1
    @Myraisins1 3 месяца назад +987

    Black women need to stop with this "having a type" thing and gushing over WM or any man for that matter. This man dated several white women his entire life. He famously wouldn't marry Diane K who had to move on after 10 + years. He can stay with Lupita or very well move on to another woman white or black. He didn't want to marry Jodie T so much that she had to force him into it. Please stop with the worshiping of these men. It's looking stupid and desperate. Remember that reaction with the guy now dating Taylor Swift? Nobody owns him. He's just a man. Just because a man is dating a bk woman doesn't mean he has a "type"

    • @NatalieMartin-oy7ni
      @NatalieMartin-oy7ni 3 месяца назад +73

      Well said!

    • @Lavender_2002
      @Lavender_2002 3 месяца назад +34

      🎯🎯

    • @iamaminow
      @iamaminow 3 месяца назад +135

      People are entitled to enjoy their lives and preferences. I don’t agree he was forced to marry Jody. Her star was raising, they got together, had a child and now divorced. That’s life.

    • @atthismoment3006
      @atthismoment3006 3 месяца назад +73

      😢 amen he a dusty!! A Dawson's Creek dusty lol

    • @bume.e7280
      @bume.e7280 3 месяца назад +17

      Yesssssss! New York meet & greet. Finally sister Fumi.. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nhoyte6955
    @nhoyte6955 3 месяца назад +152

    Congratulations on your award and recognition

  • @saltycat662
    @saltycat662 3 месяца назад +43

    I agree. A woman proposing is always a red flag. She is now becoming the man in the relationship. If a man isn't proposing within 2-3 years, you are his placeholder until he finds someone better. He will always have one foot out the door.
    Men go for what they want and when they really want something, especially when it comes to women, they don't hesitate. Women need to learn how men think.

  • @harmony3279
    @harmony3279 3 месяца назад +48

    Fumi calling this out just like she called out Porschas marriage. This lady has soo much wisdom❤️!!

  • @MyMinkaMind
    @MyMinkaMind 3 месяца назад +259

    They do NOT look alike!

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  3 месяца назад +66

      I absolutely agree!!

    • @Maremare680
      @Maremare680 3 месяца назад +9

      @@lindseypettit208 Exactly, Lupita is cute, Jodi is sexy.

    • @AfricanWifeinPakistan
      @AfricanWifeinPakistan 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Maremare680👀

    • @mysticheart1049
      @mysticheart1049 3 месяца назад +7

      @@Maremare680Lupita is no less attractive than Jodie.

    • @celiameaux7880
      @celiameaux7880 3 месяца назад +6

      The features are different.The body shape is different period.

  • @VIsidore
    @VIsidore 3 месяца назад +25

    I hope that Lupita is having fun.

  • @SweetAdjeley
    @SweetAdjeley 3 месяца назад +93

    Congratulations & a Happy Women’s Day mama ❤❤❤

    • @divinecharity4083
      @divinecharity4083 3 месяца назад +3

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    • @adwoaboakye265
      @adwoaboakye265 3 месяца назад

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  • @kudalavida3494
    @kudalavida3494 3 месяца назад +121

    My face 🥹🥹🥹 as I experience the FOMO of the upcoming meet and greets…as i wait for our turn in South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @emmajones9975
    @emmajones9975 3 месяца назад +272

    She was never this open about her relationships. This is strange. Is like the are in a contract.

    • @jenniferngure1136
      @jenniferngure1136 3 месяца назад +29

      Hollywood

    • @britjj5126
      @britjj5126 3 месяца назад +59

      I really believe she’s trying to stick it to her ex boyfriend.

    • @annabrown5712
      @annabrown5712 3 месяца назад

      It's a contract. Called a showmance. Fake Hollywood relationships.
      This is why of you focus you will see strange things like him never looking at her when he does he is not smiling, her holding his thumb, she in the new ones with glasses, the hand near her buttcheack in one is not touching her. So if you stay calm you will notice the oddities. And who knows what is photoshopped and what is not. That all might not have even happened.
      Also u see a build. Not looking at each other in one set ....then booed up in this last one. Bizarre.

    • @ucheiwuajoku1037
      @ucheiwuajoku1037 3 месяца назад +9

      You're right Fums. If you don't protect your sister's interests, it will Backfire

    • @annabrown5712
      @annabrown5712 3 месяца назад +3

      @ucheiwuajoku1037 If you dont stick with your people, it will back fire too.

  • @bajanboinoho5378
    @bajanboinoho5378 3 месяца назад +44

    Joshua is a good time boy and that’s all. He’s in it for good time not a long time. Lupita should protect her heart and be in a safe place when the expiration date comes

    • @elleivers9387
      @elleivers9387 3 месяца назад +5

      Who said Lupita don't like a good time without strings too🥰

    • @Nic2Blk
      @Nic2Blk 3 месяца назад

      THIS!!

  • @jogozc
    @jogozc 3 месяца назад +96

    🎉A very Happy International Women's Day to you, dear Phenomenal Fumi ~ from one of your 80's Aunties. 🎊 Very proud of your accomplishments.

  • @heavenlyprincess9502
    @heavenlyprincess9502 3 месяца назад +29

    It won't last period.
    Your prognosis are on point FUNMI.
    Just like on Porcha and Guobadia.

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 3 месяца назад +1

      Who says they want it to last. Not every relationship about lasting. They are both in the same boat, no longer a serious relationship. They are both on the rebound having fun with each other. They are both real grown adults over the age of 40 years old. They know what they are doing. If it lasts it lasts. If it doesn't, it was good while it lasted. Having a long-term relationship is probably what they don't want, so soon after their last ones. People are making a mountain over a molehill over them dating.

  • @indoora
    @indoora 3 месяца назад +111

    I do not think this will last either.

    • @leewhitaker538
      @leewhitaker538 3 месяца назад +5

      ~ I hope it does, if they’re both happy.

    • @indoora
      @indoora 3 месяца назад +1

      @@adelinenyarko701 I do not personally know them so I am as you put it letting them "be", and I will point out I am reiterating what Fumi said so hope you let her know your feelings.

    • @indoora
      @indoora 3 месяца назад

      @@leewhitaker538 I feel the same as Fumi.

    • @merclineavallon378
      @merclineavallon378 3 месяца назад +1

      He may give her 5-8 yrs into the relationship

    • @NovemberReigne
      @NovemberReigne 3 месяца назад +1

      I don't think that it will last either

  • @SallyMef
    @SallyMef 3 месяца назад +28

    South Africa🇿🇦 meet and greet? Logging in for that "Life is great" infectious laughter

  • @terryemoorer296
    @terryemoorer296 3 месяца назад +24

    Beauty goes beyond skin deep like someone that makes a difference in ones life , a hero someone that models good Godly behaviour

  • @MediBot36
    @MediBot36 3 месяца назад +70

    Well, Said Fumi. As a 63-year-old Jamaican, I agree with you 100%. These ladies let themselves be used in and out then discarded by men who are not worthy to be seen with them much sleep with them.

  • @Tina37212
    @Tina37212 3 месяца назад +106

    I agree with you so much! Like why would he say that on a talk show!?! Like Simone Biles husband, Josh told the world he is the catch!! You are beautiful and you crack me up!! 😂

    • @LifeAsDrJenn
      @LifeAsDrJenn 3 месяца назад

      Jonathan*

    • @NellaEnn
      @NellaEnn 3 месяца назад +7

      He could be John for all we care. 🙄

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 3 месяца назад +7

      Jodie also told that story. What century do we think we're in where its so foreign for a woman to propose? The same agency she demonstrated by divorcing him is what she used to propose. Shouldn't we be tesching women to take ownership and agency over their lives?! Josh comes across as a feminist and so his statement was celebrating Jodie, not putting her down so i feel like Aunty's Funmi showed her age with this post. It was also unnecessarily and unusually negative. It seems like a rebound relationship since she was so betrayer in her last one so it definitely might not last. But even high school sweethearts dont always last, so there was no need to be so judgemental. Just wish them the best and keep it moving.

    • @lifewithsuzzyq2039
      @lifewithsuzzyq2039 3 месяца назад +1

      Wait Simone Biles husband said that??

    • @LifeAsDrJenn
      @LifeAsDrJenn 3 месяца назад

      @@lifewithsuzzyq2039 Yup. Best believe that ..

  • @YvetteKnight-pz1bp
    @YvetteKnight-pz1bp 3 месяца назад +25

    Now that's the most powerful thing she said when anybody shows you how they treat another human being that is what they are

  • @Turtle_2024
    @Turtle_2024 3 месяца назад +96

    CONGRATULATIONS, Beautiful, fabulous🥰, Fumi!

  • @LLnTTSquared
    @LLnTTSquared 3 месяца назад +13

    If the divorce was filed in October 2023, is it even finalized? I don’t know any one of them personally, but I do recommend dating someone who is legally free to date

  • @MyMinkaMind
    @MyMinkaMind 3 месяца назад +18

    You are SUCH❤AN inspiration!!!🎉Congratulations, Goddess!

  • @chimuamakasandra7677
    @chimuamakasandra7677 3 месяца назад +8

    Congratulations beautiful Fums❤on your award recognition 👏you deserve it

  • @loiscobb687
    @loiscobb687 3 месяца назад +14

    Congratulations Fumi🎉Of course you'd get this award. You're Fabulous (said in my Fumi voice)😊

  • @cynthiabutler-hayden2054
    @cynthiabutler-hayden2054 3 месяца назад +23

    Good talk! Very wise, matured.
    Support our sisters no matter of the culture.
    Important, how did he treat his previous relationship, reason for parting !
    Peace and Love

  • @buttersmoothe2002
    @buttersmoothe2002 3 месяца назад +32

    My Mum used to say, you can't find happiness at someone else's expense. He was married, he had a family and it's clear their paths crossed before that marriage was over! Life is going to slap them in the face for this!

    • @sherrigrant573
      @sherrigrant573 3 месяца назад +3

      Is it clear?

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 3 месяца назад +2

      Just because they crossed paths doesn't mean they were involved with each other back then. People cross paths working in the same industry often without getting intimately involved. Later, when both are single sparks might or might not fly.

    • @raphiyakis3104
      @raphiyakis3104 2 месяца назад +1

      I know a woman who met a man a few months after she divorced. When she started dating him people thought that she knew or was involved with him prior to the divorce. So it's not always that way; there are many possibilities you know.

  • @mabelayivi9584
    @mabelayivi9584 3 месяца назад +12

    I absolutely admire you auntie Fumi, such wisdom from God. Your advice to sisters hv helped me a lot. Luv you and God bless you. Congratulations mummy and happy international womens day to you.

  • @bluespagirl1
    @bluespagirl1 3 месяца назад +6

    Congratulations, Ms. Fumi!
    🎉 YOU DESERVE IT 🎉
    I don't live in NYC, but I'm joining in for the Meet & Greet! 💅🏽🌹

  • @angielu3273
    @angielu3273 3 месяца назад +11

    Fumi- telling it like it is once again. Love you Fumi and you are more stunning than ever with your new hair!

  • @sarahmuzaki4656
    @sarahmuzaki4656 3 месяца назад +4

    Hi Doctor Fumi. Congratulations! This is very well deserved💪🏾🌹

  • @positive647
    @positive647 3 месяца назад +14

    I LOVE THE BELT. You always look FABULOUS!

  • @bvl98
    @bvl98 3 месяца назад +7

    CONGRATULATIONS FUNMI.
    YOU DESERVE, AND WORKED HARD FOR EVERYTHING❤❤

  • @nneki1
    @nneki1 3 месяца назад +55

    Probably just both are just having fun and nothing serious

    • @momi1610
      @momi1610 3 месяца назад +3

      The article that those pictures come from state that they are exclusive and serious. But, that's not surprising. The first few months of relationship is usually hot and heavy, and you do end up being wrapped up in a person -- especially, in there situation where they both got out of a relationship supposedly right before they started dating.

    • @myopinion1773
      @myopinion1773 3 месяца назад +1

      Gwan fool yourself 😂😂😂

    • @myopinion1773
      @myopinion1773 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@momi1610wait till the honeymoon is over and she realizes she ain't special.

    • @60Airflyte
      @60Airflyte 3 месяца назад +2

      Until she finds herself pregnant.

    • @myopinion1773
      @myopinion1773 3 месяца назад +2

      @@60Airflyte right

  • @fatalfenly6696
    @fatalfenly6696 3 месяца назад +11

    Congratulations Fum 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 !!! 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @Egypttology
    @Egypttology 3 месяца назад +7

    Congratulations Fumi you are the Best. I Love your mind you are so Intelligent and Such a Vibe. I love your Laughter also.

  • @nanaciira
    @nanaciira 3 месяца назад +8

    Very accurate assessment sis! When a man shows you who he is, believe him.

  • @Jawasounds
    @Jawasounds 3 месяца назад +3

    Congratulations auntie FUMI you deserve this you put the work in I’m so happy for you

  • @ucheiwuajoku1037
    @ucheiwuajoku1037 3 месяца назад +12

    You're right Fums. If you don't protect your sister's interests, it will Backfire

  • @Olivesmilesmua
    @Olivesmilesmua 3 месяца назад +58

    He could have said no then! Lupita better be careful.

  • @jenetwaldenmills8643
    @jenetwaldenmills8643 3 месяца назад +4

    Absolutely 💯 Your insights are on point as usual. Thank you much ❤

  • @XeniasWorld
    @XeniasWorld 3 месяца назад +5

    Congratulations on your award Mrs. Desalu-Vold!

  • @summertime6692
    @summertime6692 3 месяца назад +30

    Fumi..you could not have said it any better. you are 100% correct. I'm sorry for Lupita's coming heartache

  • @terryemoorer296
    @terryemoorer296 3 месяца назад +14

    Yes you are beautiful for telling the truth ...As a young woman raising a young woman, I love this advise.thank you my darling ❤❤❤wish I could be there for the meet & greet

  • @claudetteholmes1019
    @claudetteholmes1019 3 месяца назад +7

    Mrs. Fumi, I certainly agree with everything you said in this video because it’s the true

  • @atondefreit8888
    @atondefreit8888 3 месяца назад +3

    Congrats Fumi. Love your honesty, relatability and sincerity. Congrats.

  • @jan854
    @jan854 3 месяца назад +5

    Omgosh Aunty Fumi is coming to NYC this summer ❤❤❤. I can not wait to hear that laugh in person, it's just divine!!

  • @linda7251
    @linda7251 3 месяца назад +3

    Your laughter is infectious. I love it ❤ God bless you always.

  • @christinam1393
    @christinam1393 3 месяца назад +2

    Amen!! Speak darling sister❤❤ love you! Today you are looking radiant and beautiful as always ❤

  • @LURW0
    @LURW0 3 месяца назад +23

    Joshua isnt the one if shes looking for someone to mend her heart thats gonna be double the hurt. I hope its just for fun for her

  • @gretchenclark9837
    @gretchenclark9837 3 месяца назад +36

    Congratulations from California...You are correct. It is not about him, it is about sisterhood. Lastly, you are correct about the sugar. I cut sugar consumption in half and changed nothing else in my life and have lost almost 20 pounds in less than six months. I was prompted to cut it not for weight loss but to lessen inflammation in my body, the lost weight is just a bonus.

    • @tonyraissa864
      @tonyraissa864 3 месяца назад

      I lost 20 lbs like summer by cutting sugar and drinking a lot of water

    • @kgreen8527
      @kgreen8527 3 месяца назад

      They are not sisters! Two different black races!

    • @mysticheart1049
      @mysticheart1049 3 месяца назад +1

      @@kgreen8527 What do you mean two different black races? How many black races are there???

  • @shanarobinson7672
    @shanarobinson7672 3 месяца назад +52

    Love your dress. Arms looking amazing

  • @betsy5889
    @betsy5889 3 месяца назад +9

    Congratulations 🎈 I love you so much ❤. I’m in NJ so yep. Got my calendar 📆 open ready for the date #fumination New York 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @supernova7848
    @supernova7848 3 месяца назад +2

    Absolutely L❤VE , L❤VE , L❤VE our Auntie Fumi , coming thru with the glitz, the joy and the glamour! Congratulations on the award! Greetings from Belgium 🇧🇪 ❤

  • @lindaa6692
    @lindaa6692 3 месяца назад +5

    Fumi, can't wait for the details for NYC, I will be there in late June.🥳

  • @eurikaexile6430
    @eurikaexile6430 3 месяца назад +26

    You look great! Look at those arms!!!😍❤️🔥

  • @dlee-hinds7581
    @dlee-hinds7581 3 месяца назад +1

    I totally agree with you Fumi - it will all play out in due time!

  • @crystalalexis7946
    @crystalalexis7946 3 месяца назад +3

    Congratulations Great Mother!!!!!💖🎂🎈🥳

  • @nicolewatson2256
    @nicolewatson2256 3 месяца назад +5

    I love watching and listening to you ❤

  • @deniserussell8124
    @deniserussell8124 3 месяца назад +5

    Congratulations Fumi 🥰

  • @charmainenaidoo5333
    @charmainenaidoo5333 3 месяца назад

    Brilliant as Always
    Congratulations on your Award. I'm amazed at your insight.

  • @ababab799subscribe
    @ababab799subscribe 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you my dear
    Fomenetion ❤❤❤❤happy women’s day ❤❤❤

  • @rashidashabazz7319
    @rashidashabazz7319 3 месяца назад +14

    We are SOOO VERY HAPPY that YOU KNOW JUST HOW FABULOUSLY BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE, DARLING, FUMI 🎊🙌🏾🎉😍🤗😘💯‼️‼️‼️

  • @judyroth5461
    @judyroth5461 3 месяца назад +31

    Correctly said sis .
    Happy international womens day fumi ❤

  • @joycemary1586
    @joycemary1586 3 месяца назад +1

    Congratulations, Fumi! Much deserved🎉

  • @randizzomonty2768
    @randizzomonty2768 3 месяца назад +2

    Auntie Fumi. I just went through something similar. I really appreciate your insight, and I hope you know that you’ve brought me clarity. You’re the best. I am living and loving.

  • @bkallday8179
    @bkallday8179 3 месяца назад +23

    Congratulations Fumi!!! Well deserved!! ❤

  • @sophielifanda1495
    @sophielifanda1495 3 месяца назад +7

    Congratulations on your nomination. You are phenomenal ❤ can't wait for the meet and greet in NYC. I live in Chicago and will be checking for the date so I can request time off from work. Fumi, you are a gifted soul. God truly gives you so much wisdom to analyze every situation. You are always on point with me.

    • @FumiDesaluVold
      @FumiDesaluVold  3 месяца назад +2

      Awwwwwwwwwww, God bless you sis! I’ll look 👀 out for you! Please keep me updated as well so I can make overnight arrangements for you. 👋🏾😀😘🥰💘💖💓🎉🩷💗💯💕💖

  • @judithholder2537
    @judithholder2537 3 месяца назад

    Amen, Auntie Fumi! Say it. Thx for being so very you.

  • @hazelking1217
    @hazelking1217 3 месяца назад +2

    Happy International Women's Day! Fumi - you are phenomenal and contribute to the best of womanhood. God bless!

  • @elleivers9387
    @elleivers9387 3 месяца назад +16

    Oh pls stop it, You guys carrying on like Lupita is a 16 yr old virgin with no experience with men. Who said she's looking for a serious relationship with this guy. Lupita is a grown woman. Its not a big deal...

    • @pj3770
      @pj3770 3 месяца назад

      Exactly. Both are on the rebound from their exes. I think they're just having fun enjoying each other. Not every relationship is about a long-term relationship or leading to marriage. They are both real grown adults over 40, they know what they're doing.

    • @AfricanUSA-th9ov
      @AfricanUSA-th9ov 2 месяца назад

      100% Lupita Is Having Fun. She Is Not A Kid. She Didn't Give A F What People Have To Say Period

  • @DLTJ78
    @DLTJ78 3 месяца назад +6

    Fumi, you spoke so much truth in this video. Hard truths that many women choose to ignore. I respect your unapologetic honesty. 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾

  • @alladeendouglas-knight7098
    @alladeendouglas-knight7098 3 месяца назад +1

    Congrats Aunty Fumi . Love and Light for Jamaica.

  • @deborahogebule8588
    @deborahogebule8588 3 месяца назад +1

    Congratulations, you are indeed an Icon

  • @Faircafe98
    @Faircafe98 3 месяца назад +32

    It’s a horrible dash of salt to his ex wife’s wound 😢sometimes you have to have your little thang behind closed doors.

    • @tracyb.173
      @tracyb.173 3 месяца назад +2

      True, but she left him so he is feeling salty and being petty with this move from what I read. I hope Jody moves on and enjoy her best life without him. Good luck to Lupita I think she will need it.

    • @CremeBrulee-qm8wi
      @CremeBrulee-qm8wi 3 месяца назад +1

      @@tracyb.173 But this looks a little embarrassing for Jodie because she proposed to him after two months of dating then she filed for divorce now he’s quickly moved on.

  • @jennieferakello5223
    @jennieferakello5223 3 месяца назад +4

    Why he left the previous relationship is important ,It could be a saving flag the next person stepping in.Thank you for the wise insight Auty Fumi. Love from Uganda and Congratulations for for your Upcoming meet & Greet🥰

  • @AMDay-xj7rb
    @AMDay-xj7rb 3 месяца назад

    Aww. That's so GREAT. Congrats, Fumi!

  • @natashadavis4489
    @natashadavis4489 3 месяца назад +1

    Well articulated fabulous sis Fumi. Right on the money👍🏾. Congrats on your award winning🙏🏽✌🏼🌹

  • @kathleenrichards5334
    @kathleenrichards5334 3 месяца назад +3

    Congratulation Auntie fumi

  • @lsheils1
    @lsheils1 3 месяца назад +19

    Good analysis Mrs. Desalu-Volt. I hope Lupita watches this. Ladies, let us respect ourselves, only then, men will respect us.

    • @queenjab8219
      @queenjab8219 3 месяца назад +1

      What did this two people do?

  • @sharona248
    @sharona248 3 месяца назад +1

    First time listening to you! You are amazing!
    Thank you! ❤️🎉

  • @denisemphahlele
    @denisemphahlele 3 месяца назад +2

    Congratulations Fumi you deserve it

  • @majamaja8136
    @majamaja8136 3 месяца назад +9

    Lupita is Kenyan and Kenyans have been dating wm and ww since x years . He can have a type and she too. It may last or not , its upto them .

  • @lavinavance7309
    @lavinavance7309 3 месяца назад +25

    You my dear are Spot On about Joshua!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @redblue21
    @redblue21 3 месяца назад +1

    Just love you mama. Thank you for BEING

  • @LadyLucille12953
    @LadyLucille12953 3 месяца назад +2

    You tell the truth, sis!!!
    Stay fabulous 👌🏾 👏🏽 ❤🎉

  • @joannmontfordmorris8008
    @joannmontfordmorris8008 3 месяца назад +8

    Congratulations on the Woman Icon Award! You deserve it. I am a long time fan and I love your channel, but I just recently started following you and I have sent your link to my sistahs. You are such an inspiration. I watch your Channel in bunches and earlier this week, I was following your self help series and saw your were using the Lume whole body deodorant. There have been some claims and questions and I don’t want to overstep, because there may be no issues, but I want you to be safe. Please check it out.
    Blessings and peace to you and your family!

  • @letiesmiles1801
    @letiesmiles1801 3 месяца назад +8

    Fumi your eyes are so beautiful ❤

  • @suzannebruneau212
    @suzannebruneau212 3 месяца назад +1

    A Blessed International Womans day to you sister Fumi. ❤🤎🖤💚💛💪🏽