You don’t realize how Blessed you are! You have avoided so much crap by remaining a virgin for so long. Sex outside of marriage is not only sin but it’s just not worth everything that comes with it. One of my friends was a virgin until last year when she got married at age 41. I think God will definitely send you a Husband and I also think you will have babies for sure because your trust is in God and all things are possible with him. You are an inspiration.
@@everybodytalkstodemons5892 Thank you so much for your kind words. This means the world to me. It’s very hard at times. People don’t always have a kind reaction to my faith. I get blocked and ghosted for the most part and it really takes a toll on my mental health. It’s especially hard when religious men reject me because of my age. But again, thank you so much for your comment. It brightens my day!!☀️✨
Wait sister wait God bless you ,they push you because they are lukewarm you are a threat to them ,wait for the one God has a plan for you and not all of us will get married but wait on the Lord praise warship him
My husband left me and married someone else and I was losing hope because I love children and I'm 33 turning 34. I was so scared I won't have children but your story has shown me that I still got time and a chance to have children again.
I remember being 33 leaving a relationship and saying i guess i gotta let go the thought of havint a child ..well life had other plans met my hubby at 34 got married and have a 6yr old now 😊
You certainly do, One of my favorite individuals said that if he could not keep, he did not have the capacity to contain you. You are awesome and deserving of love. God bless 🙌
@@Midwest_Gyrl It's statements like this that make it hard for woman in this world. And for another woman to be the one saying it, is frankly disappointing, and ignorant. @lizzyo9029 - Sis, be encouraged. We don't base our lives on the limitations and boundaries of what imperfect people like Miss Kayla here say. We believe in Jesus, who is holding our lives in His hands. Who says all things work together for the good of those who love Him. He's got our back. He will reward our obedience to Him. He always does! I'm 35 and in exactly the same position, ONLY now God has just brought someone who has just appeared in my life. Perfect timing. God uses what seems foolish to confuse the Kaylas of this world. Keep going. @lauraIdahosa this is for you too! You are not alone Sis
Patty- I am 73 yrs old and am still believing that God will bring the right man he has saved, especially for me. I am just beginning to get into painting, and I have a friend who wants to buy one of my pieces. I remind myself of Grandma Moses all the time. A very good friend gave me a book about late bloomers. They are people who started their careers late in life and went on to become famous. Proof positive that things happen when they are supposed to. Thank you, Fumi, for your comments about who you are supposed to marry, which may or may not work for that person. I have been told that I need to stay in my culture or else my life just won't be right. I believe God made me the way he did for a reason. I don't fit in most groups, but I have learned to just keep going down the path God has set for me. Thank you, Fumi. You are very special.
I got married at 40. I met my husband in July and we were engaged September and married that October. He was a wonderful husband. One daughter. We went through so much with his cancer. He didn’t make it. Even yet, what a blessing.
Wow!! Our lives mirror a little. I married at 40, had my first and only little princess at 47 and hubby is pushing me to go on RUclips. You are an inspiration !! Keep going Sis!! You got this for real!!
Hmm, I'm 47 single but never been so fulfilled in my life because I discovered God afresh, and life has a new meaning and liberating. I will be on a platform to impact lives. It's a journey, but I thank God for helping me
This resonate with me because I got married this year at 44 to a wonderful man when I had given up on marriage and now believing God for my own children because both my husband and I do not have… truly all things are possible
Married my best friend and had our first child at 43. 44 now and trying for a second. Our marriage isn't perfect, but I couldn't ask for a better husband. Keep the faith.
I am 47 and I am a wedding events manager. It's hard to see couples tour after tour after tour. I am the only one of my cousin's who is unmarried and/or childless. For the most part, I stay positive, but there are days I cry out because it can get hard. I know the man God created for me is out there. I know it. God is gonna give me double for my trouble!!
Look, a lot women won't get married for various reasons. Just go have a baby either via adoption or via IVF before it's too late. I think women need to be realistic, just start your family alone. It's okay and kids still turn out fine.
@toyajohnson6290- lf you haven't received your Kingdom spouse as yet, it's usually because of idolizing marriage. God will not send someone until deliverance is done. Derek Prince teaches about this in his video called Deliverance from Demons.
The best thing that has happened to me is finding you and your channel. I’m still struggling with my self worth at 51. I’m a single mom, divorced and financially unstable. But then I wake up and find that you posted and I feel a surge of positivity to get through the day. Thank you for everything you do and share with us. I’m a proud member of fumination. Keep being fabulous you’re beautiful soul!
U are a strong woman we need more like u. I think I'm pretty strong too been on my own for 23 years single mom. I'm ok on my own would love to meet that someone but uf I don't it's ok.😊
I needed this message today. I’m 39 and I’m about to walk across the stage a get my masters degree. What was delayed was not denied. I’m still waiting on marriage and children but I have faith that what is delayed is not denied. God is ushering me into the best time of my life thus far🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow!! Praise God, God bless you and I'm so proud of you God is going to reward you for your discipline and your perseverance. God is truly pleased with you and I know that all that you went through to get you where you are today was very difficult. Congratulations👏👏👏, this is a new beginning for you and I'm so excited for what else God has for you!
Watching this with such a BIG Smile! Turning 40 in 3 days and still believing God for marriage and children. Especially as an African woman, 40 and no kids it’s like a curse. God is Great! Thank you Fumi for being YOU!
Happy Belated Birthday!! My Grandma had her last child naturally at 52 and she turns 95 this month. My mom had me in her 40s naturally. In fact she had 4 kids in her 40s. You got time. Be careful what you eat, the gmo they put in the food is causing infertility issues. Go natural and you’ll be fine.
Am inspired, am 42 and single without children. I know there's a man out there for me and he will come when the time is right for me and I believe no matter my age I will have children and fulfil all my dreams.
Thank you so much Fumi for your words. I got married at 45 and will turn 49 in a week and still hope that I can have a baby. Almighty God can everything. God bless you
Waoh glory if God has done it for you at 45 He will do it for me, I’m trusting God for a husband. The same God who gave you a husband He will bless you with a baby
FUMI you are an inspiration to so many black women across the world. My African father told me when I was younger, “go where you are wanted and admired.” He didn’t care about skin color, as long as those men loved his daughters. Today, I’ve with my husband 17 years and married for 10. Take care of yourself ladies, Pray for the right person and God will deliver him to your front door.
Thank you for this powerful message! I am 52 and recently had major trauma that resulted in me leaving my career as a teacher, left a toxic marriage and am a single mom with no plan B! I had my son at 40, and thought it was too late! I am finally learning to love myself and take the limits off! Nothing is wasted or late in God’s economy! ❤
I feel pity for you why leaving your career am also a teacher from Zambia I had my Fourth child at 46 and still having my monthly period however have told my God that this my last born but am looking 40
@@agnesskaoma9599 Why say that to her ? If you cannot be nice do not comment it is not easy be en a teacher! and she is trying to get back on her feet. Why are you so toxic?
I am 28 and will be turning 29 soon. I am single with no kids, never been in a relationship ever in my entire life, and sometimes I am scared I might end up alone but see stories from other women in the comment section under this video, I am wowed and want to say thank you fumi for this video. I have been encouraged by your story and the stories of other women. Thank you.
Almost my story too. I'll be turning 28 in a few months, and I feel you in every way, referring to the pressure we go through when heading to 30s. It's funny that regardless of all the hustle we do to make a living, not so much is considered an achievement as long as you are a single lady; but watching this video and reading these comments, I feel different, wiser, stronger and really hopeful for what we truly deserve. May God bless you all, and guard you to keep moving foward. What is delayed, is not denied... (Merci Grande-soeur Fumi)
I'm not surprised you went viral at al. Your story is unique. Without you knowing you inspire so many. Especially us who are 40 and up who haven't found the one, never been pregnant, think that life is just passing them by etc. Thank you for sharing your story with us Fumi❤.
Yes there is a space for Fumi. We often felt forgotten. Unmarried without children but I was attracted to Fumi and her effervescent personality like moth to a flame. It is what I needed. She gives me the validation I need and then I start to see myself as important even if I never got married or have children I know I have so much to give. She came into my life when I was so down and out. Diagnosed with a life threatening disease God led me to Fumi. She reached out to me and encouraged me and I am eternally grateful. God bless her
@@iamannabeautiful I wish you and Didi will find a lovely, attentive and respectful partner that will love you and that you will have a blessed and amazing life!🙏🏽💝
Fumi I’m so glad to hear your story. A friend sent me a link and that’s how I found out about you. Here I am 45, no husband, no children, ended relationships. I thought I was hopeless for a while. I come from a culture where we are pressured to marry early as possible. I’ve had negative comments especially from other African women about my singleness if not sarcastic questioning. I had to put my foot down on them and make it known that we all have different timelines. We’re not all meant to marry at 25
As a Northerner in Nigeria 39 and almost clocking 40, no husband, no child I be lost faith but with this video my faith is revitalized. Thank you so much for the video.
Amen !! This is everything that I needed today❤ its been an extremely rough journey after failed Ivf and doctors giving up on me! I'm still trusting God for a loving husband and a baby despite being in my mid 40s! So thank you Fumi for this encouraging testemonial 🙏🏾
Listen. FUMI, you roooccck. You're inspiring me big time. Got divorced at 59 years old...lost everything...starting over at 60....I'm very much on my way now.. repairing the breach, studying technology learning a year now....exercising weekly ......Whether or not the world is ready. I'm coming back better....Go Fumi, joining you in the RUclips area soon. 😊😊😊😊😊.
Fumi thank u, am 57 and never married before. Why? I was BUSY taking care of my sick mum. My mum parralised for 18yrs. One thing i believe is that GOD NO GO SHAME ME. Am Sally from Ghana .
Wow, wow, wow! I’m married but your testimony touched my soul. I cried and laughed as I listened. You’re so fabulous inside and out. God is amazing, and His timing is always perfect. Keep inspiring us Queen. 👑🙏🏾💕
Here I am at 30 thinking that am too old to find a husband coz of some bad decisions I made earlier in life😢, I heard your story like a year ago but I really needed it more today, thank you so much ,
Fumi my dear sis- You give me hope, as a 53 yr old just starting my own online store and brand. I too did everything at my own pace..got married at 35, had my daughter at 37. You go sis, you look great and definitely motivate me daily. XOXO
Am heading 30 in august,and still childless and single.the pressure is so bigger than i can handle,but am fasting and waiting for a purified marriage in the presence of God,this video has given me life and hope again ,thanks so much for sharing
You spoke directly to me. I am 51 years old and it seems like I am not where I want to be. I am living hand to mouth and I know there is a lot more to achieve. Thanks for this
I'm 31 I have 4 kids by 3 different men and I with the last father I don't work as 2 of my children have disabilities i have autism so I struggle a lot socially and I sometimes look at my life and think aside from my kids who even am I what else do I have to be proud of you've given me hope that I have time to find my passion x
Auntie Fumi you went super viral and I am here for all of this fabulosity. I love you and am so happy for you, your family and future. Love from the USA. ❤❤❤
Thank you, Fumi, for the encouragement! What is delayed is not denied. Im 63, divorced twice, but still have hope. God is the architect! Fumi this video gave me chills! God is speaking speaking speaking
How many of you found this channel through the BRA HACK SERIES? My boobs will forever be grateful for those videos. I'm not a LIMOUSINE girl{like Aunty Fumi calls u}, but my boobs grew in my late thirties. Those hacks made me embrace them, love them, and even wear the push up tapes, or just go braless. And, I've never regretted fining Aunty Fumi. She's literally our Aunty here on RUclips. May God bless you richly for all you do.
This is very inspiring 👏🏾 At 42yrs young, working as a Registered Nurse for the past 21 years, I'm mentally and physically burnt out. Post divorce after a 10 year marriage, I was 267 pounds and depressed. I managed to work on myself, still a work in progress, and I delved into my passion for art and event decorations. I love fashion as well. I'm waiting Patiently for my time to shine🥰 Thank you soo much for this message 💗 💓 💖
Congratulations queen. I am so happy that you now will do something that is close to your heart. I am 34 and I recently left my job and is now embarking on my passion and that is to own my own luxury lingerie and underwear’s brand. Especially working in retail and there’s a need for it here where I am from. I too was burnt out and holy it took a toll on my mind, body and my soul I was miserable to the point where I became dizzy, just thinking of going to work, one week later and my dizziness is at ease, headaches gone. Yeah my job was literally slowly Illing me. Now it’s time I embarked on this entrepreneurial journey and shine in my own time on my own terms.
It's refreshing to see someone like you with all those guys on the internet saying that women hit the wall at 20 or somthing silly like that. We need you Fumi keep going.😊
Such a breath of fresh air and real wisdom. I’m so sick of these RUclipsrs who mislead young girls telling them that their dreams of education should be second to pleasing a man and preach ‘the wall’. Find who loves you. Of course compromise is important in any relationship but minimising yourself to make someone else feel big is not a solution.❤❤ Live &love
Gal, your talk is healing. I married my man not because of identity, but because he possessed qualities I was looking for. A father figure, a genuine person, full of maturity, loves education, etc. And I have never regretted.
I’m 34 years old and single, no kids and want a family. I only date black men as well but every relationship failed me. My friend told me to stop limiting myself to only black men and ask God to send me a man who would love me . I’m still waiting for my husband but to hear your testimony only confirms to me that God listening and right now is not my time. ❤ thank you 😢
This is so inspiring to see. I am also starting later in life. I am practically just able to read and write at 40. Sometime I do feel deflated when I see other are at the peak of their success at 40. You have given me the courage to carry on. I really would like to study after the little that I know.
Last night I went to bed and started thinking to myself if I died today God forbid what legacy would I leave behind? Because I feel worthless at 31 and a single mum still living with parents with no job or potential friends my age mates are doing more than good in life why me. Thank you because God has confirmed it to me through you that DELAY IS NOT DENIAL. A big hug and kiss from Kenya
My dear, marriage is not sn achievement, finding your purpose is. Your child is your gift, find your purpose. My marriage was hell and it ended thank God. Find God and gind your purpose no man can save a woman. We are need a saviour and it's not a man.x
omg I almost cry listening to you. I love your calm wise voice. I see myself in you. I already have children but I wasted 10 years with their father. My prime years were stolen. He knew everything I wanted and used it at his advantage to manipulate me. I was young with nobody to teach me. and getting beaten by a male who didn't want to do better in life, while I had so much dreams and wanted to explore the world. You give me hope that it's not too late
I did cry. Embarrassed🤦🏽♀️ Several times. She’s not just dropping gems or giving us spiritual wisdom; she's also humbly empowering us with knowledge. Why?! Even her mannerisms towards us are accounted for. She encompasses and embodies everything one would hope to be in this industry. I’m so happy for her and her ability to exude encouragement, effortlessly. I’m here for it. Much ❤ #DelayedIsNotDenied 🙏🏾Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB, a branch and affiliate of ⚜️HairByB
I'm sitting here listening to this with tears in my eyes. I've been so angry and feeling hopeless. I've been asking God for my husband for several years now and I want children so bad. I've longed for them both to the point of crying out for them. I will be 38 next month. I really needed to hear this because I was ready to give up. I'm still praying and I'm still holding on and I won't give up on waiting.
Remember Hannah in the Bible. She was barren and she prayed to Jehovah God for a son. He granted Hannah’s petition and hat next year, she gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel and she promised Jehovah that she would lend her son to him as soon as he was weaned. God grants our petitions as long as we keep Matthew 6:33 in our lives and obey our Heavenly Father. Read 1 Samuel 1: 1-20. I hope this will lighten your heart and give you hope. Take care❤😊❤
Same here. Thank you God for speaking through Fumi to me and so many others! Many many blessings to you and your family Fumi❤. My testimony will be next
I was so enraged when I saw a Facebook Group that featured your story as a negatively as it did. I love you and what you stand for Fumi. Let the haters hate. More of us love you than you can ever imagine.
I needed this so much! The confidence, the style you are fabolous!! As a 22-year old you give me so much motivation! I just want to be like you when I'm 50!
Never let society dictate or put limitations on your for sex,race or age!!! We can accomplish anything at anytime in our lives! Happy for you Sister Fumi!!! It’s well deserved! #Fumination
Totally agree with you Fumi. As a 60+ year old, I can tell you that I'm in my prime. Still smart, still energetic, still got the fellas checking me out, and folks who respect me for the words of wisdom (gems) that I drop. They see me walk the walk that I talk. Independently so. Don't have drama in my life because I'm wise enough to prevent it from coming my way. Look younger than my years because I don't stress about anything. You see, I smartly handle minor things before they become major things. Easy peasy, baby!
Fumi you are so inspiring. As a women who married in my very early twenties, because this is what I was told. I believe woman and men should marry when they are older and learn who they are and not who they are told they should be. We don’t know enough to choose a life partner in our younger age. Keep spreading your wisdom. ❤
I'm a 'late bloomer' also. Not interested in marriage but I do have financial goals that are still to be achieved. It was lovely watching this because a lot of us Gen X ers are late bloomers and grew up with a lot of negativity.
Thank you Aunty Fumi ❤ I am 33yrs and I used to think I have missed so many opportunities in my little life but right now, I’m convinced there’s hope for me and everything is achievable ✅ you are my biggest inspiration and I am hoping that some day I will share a bottle of champagne with you. I cherish you ❤❤❤❤
Fumi girl, I love you!😘 You’re fabulous and very inspiring for this generation of women who are constantly being discouraged and devalued. The Bible says, “The older women WILL teach the younger women.” I celebrate all the women out there whose dreams have been delayed, NOT denied!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! 🎉
This is beautiful! This is what I’m talking about! The manosphere who hates on women and doesn’t value women as we age, your story shit their whole projection down. I love Auntie Fumi, I can’t wait for you to come to Miami
Those r d wrong men. There are plenty of great men who value women generally. These men who dont value women as they age dont value younger women either. They just value getting in bed without a challenge
I don't watch much of you, but every time I see you, you look like a celebrity, and your makeup, style, everything. You make life looks perfect though we know nothing is perfect in this world. I just like to say you're a great inspiration, and people can learn a lot from you; not to forget class, and mannerism. Thank you for being you.
Wow! I actually cried. This video came mins after I had a discussion with my sister about my married friends, who have kids and even live out of the country. I literally felt bad after that reality check but this was what I needed! It isn't over for me. I can still have it all even in my 30s and it's going to be the most beautiful experience and my life will be FULL. Jesus is on His way for me; when He comes, all that is dead will rise to Life as He calls me FORTH! Hallelujah.
Fumi, you inspire more ppl than you know, particularly those of us who want to start again to live a more fulfilling life. I’m 33 and on this journey, and your story has definitely been a beacon of hope for women like me that it’s not too late. Much love and success to you always ❤❤❤
I forgot to say that I know that you will go further than you have ever dreamt. You are helping a lot of women who have felt left behind, and felt like they were out of time. Keep insipiring, and speaking your wisdom. Much love and blessings
There’s no coincidence I came across you r page as in over a week I am turning 50. Reevaluating my life and wanting to do something I love, to balance work and family life. A single parent for the past 18 yrs.Thank you for being such an inspiration and your quote ‘what is delayed is not denied’ is engraved in my mind. God bless ❤
Wow this is so inspiring...I'm 43 years old and in a dead end job that I am grateful for but don't enjoy. You've inspired to go after my dreams. God bless you beautiful sister!
I was 38 when I met my husband. We had our baby girl at 40. Got married at 44. I’m now 51 and starting a new phase in my life. Life’s journey can be amazing. I am grateful for what I had and happy to be blessed with my amazing daughter. I am also looking forward to what the future holds. Why, because I am working on myself so I will be prepared to embrace the future. Live, love and life. Life can be seasons. We roll with the punches. There is so much out there for us to experience. Great testimony Ms Fumni. I’ll be starting a channel on what life has taught me soon. Stay blessed everyone. 😘
Am a Kenyan 🇰🇪, and am 30,no kids,no permanent man, they come and go, I was so afraid that I am going to get old without a husband nor a kid,, you have really inspired me 🥰 I can be anything, it's never too late 🙏🏽❤ God bless you Fumi darling 😘
You've inspired me so much. I'm very emotional whenever you touch on this aging topic. I'm 46, never married, and have no kids (at 45 I had to remove my womb because of fibroids). I still dream of getting married but I'm not noticed. I just don't have that kind of luck. Thank you, Fumi to be there for us with your grace and loveliness. YOU ARE APPRECIATED.♥♥
This message is very timely for me. I am 42, never married and no kids. I am in a place where i am losing hope. In a job that i don't like but grateful for...you have renewed my hope for a husband and kids....i believe...
Sister Fumi, I want to thank you so much for this message. I’m starting life over. Got married at 34. Separated by 37. Abusive marriage that I left with my beautiful son. I’m starting life all over again in a new country and God has been faithful but what I’ve realized from this video is that I’ve not been grateful enough. I keep looking back at the failed marriage and what I don’t have. I’m glad I left the marriage but as a Nigerian first born daughter, the failure of it is not just a pain point to me but my parents as well. And I’m really hurt and bothered by that. But God made it possible to leave and start all over again. I really should be more grateful and I thank you for showing me that. God bless you. I love watching you. You truly are a big sister to me even though we may never meet. Thank you for being faithful to the calling of God upon your life and opening yourself up to be used by God as a blessing to people like me. Your wisdom and objectivity blows my mind everytime. It seems other worldly and I’m delighted to know that it’s source is the grace of God. I appreciate you so much Sis. Thanks for everything.
This is blessing me right now & I just shared this link with a friend who is 41 and losing hope. I’m 39, unmarried & without a child yet. I stay thankful and positive everyday because I know my situation isn’t a surprise to God. The period of waiting is hard and looks unending, but I hold on to my faith bcos I know God will satisfy me at the right time. Thank you so much for giving me another day of hope. I’m all smiling and oozing a tank full of positive vibes. ❤❤❤
I saw that picture and post on LinkedIn. But the post didn't name you, so I made sure to identify you in the comments, to get the proper credit!!! 😂👏🏾 You are such a ray of light and your story is so inspiring. Keep shining, auntie Fumi!!!!! 🎉❤
Madam Fumi, you are speaking the truth. A lot of women of a certain age listen to the rubbish about “the danger zone” and “hitting the wall”, and they think that since they’re older, their career and love life is kaput. I’m glad that you’re sharing your story. We see a lot of women content creators that are over 40 that are becoming successful, and we’re hearing about women over 40 who have met their soulmate.
@7:16 💯 I had that same conversation with God. After I stopped looking in the garbage for a good man, the right man came to me at 50. We’ve been together 14 years and happily married. So happy for you sister.
Bless your heart ❤️ I had a child at 25, he's in college now. I married the man God manifested for me at 45. You are right, it is never too late! My 1 year anniversary is May 7th ❤ Thank you because I didn't even know I needed to hear this, but I did. Have a beautiful day.
My sister, I am almost in tears listening to you. I am getting ready to walk away from my marriage because I settled, gave in to what society said, and allowed myself to be put in a box. It killed my spirit and dreams. I am going to be 55yrs old and I am ready to start living the life I was meant to live with God on my side. Marriage with a man with a Narcissistic personality is the worst thing that can happen to us women. It's better to be single. Thanks for your videos and I pray that God's grace and mercy will continue to be with you and your lovely family.
I am 35years old, not married. I am believing God for a good man, I have always wanted to marry a black African man from my country. But this video inspired me to open my mind. Thank you for this Fumi. You are indeed a big Aunty to many of us.God bless you for this video😢
Am senegalese woman. 53 years old. When i was young, a lot white mens wanted to marry me. But i did not want to marry with them. I only wanted to marry with Black africans mens. Blacks mens use me. They betrayed me, make me suffer. They never married me. I lost my time with africans mens. Now i feel old and tired. I have no husband. Am alone.. I learn something, don't listen what People say. Do want you want, do what is good for you. Not what the others want you to do. I regret to do not agree to marry with white mens. I always like Black mens but they never married me. They use me and let me fall down.. So i want to tell to Black girl, if you meet a white man who love you and take care of you go go..
@aishabaidydiop so sorry to hear this, but I still trust God's timing for you. It's never too late to find love ❤️, sending lots of love, light and hugs 🫂
I love you're RUclips channel because it's a safe place to check in and watch and listen, and get uplifting messages ,tips on fashion and beauty, and so much more. I love reading the positive comments from you're followers .Thank you for everything that you're doing on you're RUclips channel. Keep up the good work.
Wow! Your story is so inspiring! I’m 67, going on 68 and I haven’t found him. It’s too late for children, but maybe there’s still hope for some of my dreams…?
It was only a matter of time. I found your channel about a year ago. I'm 41 and reevaluating alot of things in my life. You channel was like a breath of fresh air. Absolutely love your vivacious, unapologetic , warm personality. I had given up on marriage and more children ( I have 1) because I felt like I had hit too many brick walls . When I had the opportunity to get married I declined twice and as the years past I started to question whether I made the right decision. I started to think maybe I should have just settled. Then I came accross your channel and thought to myself, come on look at this fabulous queen living her best life in her 50's . Thank you so much for reminding us that life doesnt have to be cookie cutter. There is a season for everthing and my season will come when the time is right.
Wow. It’s not over until God says it’s over! I got married @25 two kids and divorced at 31, when my son was only two years old. I’m from Africa as well. I’m a single mother of two amazing children, my daughter second year in college studding to become a doctor. I bought my first house at 43 last year. And I’m hoping to find some one in the future. Thank you so much Auntie Fumi.! Ladies, you all rock!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow!! This is incredibly encouraging!!! I'm 36....still waiting on marraige but working on myself at the moment. All the comments......this story....gives me hope!!
I started watching you because of your passion for Shanquilla 👏 and I love your confident walk in your intro, you got me 🎉Now hearing your story is even more inspiring as I am growing older ❤I am grateful I found you Thank you 🙏
Still a virgin at 40 plus and I have multiple dreams like you but very difficult to Cary it out, I cry almost every day seen myself wasting, I wish to chart you on whatup, am in Nigeria, though I met you late but it alright, thanks for your encouragement. Phil.
I cried and laughed. Fumi, you move the World!!! I love you. I'm living my "What is delayed, is not denied" Got my man -later , waiting on the family -THANK YOU!!!❤
I love you so much. I'm 58yo and I'm grateful for this video today. I have been saying this to others and you just said this to me. I'm going back to school and get my degree not because I promised my mom but because I dream this for me. I'm so excited and happy. And you exposed this video to us o. Resurrection weekend which only makes it more valuable. Thank you Fumi. God Bless and keep you and yours.
Thanks! Aunt Fumi, this BLESSED My soul and I RECEIVED EVERY WORD! I am the 1st of 10 in my family to be in financial/sales services. It tough but I'm not a cookie cutter type of girl. I'm showing up for ME!
I got married at 36, got our first child at 37 and the second at 42. What is delayed is indeed NOT denied❤
God bless you
Thank you for sharing. I'm almost 30 and want to have kids of my own someday. You're testimony is encouraging. Bless you and your family❤️
That was beautiful thank you for sharing i actually cried ❤
@@Anna.21.No worries, i got married at 37, got my 1st boy at 38, my second baby at 44, am now 56...❤🎉
@@amazingmary8805 thanks for encouraging me.....am gonna make it...
As a religious 35 years old virgin, this video really restored a bit of my long lost hope. Pray for me! 🙏
You don’t realize how Blessed you are! You have avoided so much crap by remaining a virgin for so long. Sex outside of marriage is not only sin but it’s just not worth everything that comes with it. One of my friends was a virgin until last year when she got married at age 41. I think God will definitely send you a Husband and I also think you will have babies for sure because your trust is in God and all things are possible with him. You are an inspiration.
@@everybodytalkstodemons5892 Thank you so much for your kind words. This means the world to me. It’s very hard at times. People don’t always have a kind reaction to my faith. I get blocked and ghosted for the most part and it really takes a toll on my mental health. It’s especially hard when religious men reject me because of my age. But again, thank you so much for your comment. It brightens my day!!☀️✨
Wait sister wait God bless you ,they push you because they are lukewarm you are a threat to them ,wait for the one God has a plan for you and not all of us will get married but wait on the Lord praise warship him
You are preserved..
Well ... i hope you find a G'd-fearing man too who has not run around. Pray to G'd for guidance. Then you would make a great union. 🙏🏽 G'd is Great
My husband left me and married someone else and I was losing hope because I love children and I'm 33 turning 34. I was so scared I won't have children but your story has shown me that I still got time and a chance to have children again.
I remember being 33 leaving a relationship and saying i guess i gotta let go the thought of havint a child ..well life had other plans met my hubby at 34 got married and have a 6yr old now 😊
You certainly do,
One of my favorite individuals said that if he could not keep, he did not have the capacity to contain you. You are awesome and deserving of love.
God bless 🙌
@@Fashionluvbee oh wow, that's encouraging.
@@histreasurehismasterpiece4298 amen to that. Amen and thank you
@Lolo Yasanada, you are still young please don't loose hope, you can search Akothee she is getting married again, God is so faithful.
I’m a Christian 36 year old virgin woman. This blessed me incredibly, thank you.
Keep up!
At lizzy, can we be friends? I'm 38.
Thanks.
Women, please stop being virgins.🙏🏼 God want you to have relations bc who waiting on an almost 40 yr old virgin? It's not realistic. So pls stop.
@@lauraIdahosapls stop. Nobody is waiting for a almost 40 yr old virgin. It's not realistic.
@@Midwest_Gyrl It's statements like this that make it hard for woman in this world. And for another woman to be the one saying it, is frankly disappointing, and ignorant. @lizzyo9029 - Sis, be encouraged. We don't base our lives on the limitations and boundaries of what imperfect people like Miss Kayla here say. We believe in Jesus, who is holding our lives in His hands. Who says all things work together for the good of those who love Him. He's got our back. He will reward our obedience to Him. He always does! I'm 35 and in exactly the same position, ONLY now God has just brought someone who has just appeared in my life. Perfect timing. God uses what seems foolish to confuse the Kaylas of this world. Keep going. @lauraIdahosa this is for you too! You are not alone Sis
Patty- I am 73 yrs old and am still believing that God will bring the right man he has saved, especially for me. I am just beginning to get into painting, and I have a friend who wants to buy one of my pieces. I remind myself of Grandma Moses all the time. A very good friend gave me a book about late bloomers. They are people who started their careers late in life and went on to become famous. Proof positive that things happen when they are supposed to. Thank you, Fumi, for your comments about who you are supposed to marry, which may or may not work for that person. I have been told that I need to stay in my culture or else my life just won't be right. I believe God made me the way he did for a reason. I don't fit in most groups, but I have learned to just keep going down the path God has set for me. Thank you, Fumi. You are very special.
I got married at 40. I met my husband in July and we were engaged September and married that October. He was a wonderful husband. One daughter. We went through so much with his cancer. He didn’t make it. Even yet, what a blessing.
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So sorry sis, sending you hugs,love and light❤
Thank you for sharing I'm 41yrs still waiting and believing God time to find soulmate from God
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May God bless you and your family
Wow!! Our lives mirror a little. I married at 40, had my first and only little princess at 47 and hubby is pushing me to go on RUclips. You are an inspiration !! Keep going Sis!! You got this for real!!
Hmm, I'm 47 single but never been so fulfilled in my life because I discovered God afresh, and life has a new meaning and liberating. I will be on a platform to impact lives. It's a journey, but I thank God for helping me
Hi Did you freeze your eggs in your 30s?
Thanks for the inspiration! Can you please share your diet and vitamins to achieve natural pregnancy?
Lové this for you!
How?? How are y'all having babies at 47??
This resonate with me because I got married this year at 44 to a wonderful man when I had given up on marriage and now believing God for my own children because both my husband and I do not have… truly all things are possible
Married my best friend and had our first child at 43. 44 now and trying for a second. Our marriage isn't perfect, but I couldn't ask for a better husband.
Keep the faith.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
My Lord said; This is your year of multiple fruits IJN❤❤❤
It is well, We serve a Living God who answers prayers🙏 His timeline is not our timeline
I am 47 and I am a wedding events manager. It's hard to see couples tour after tour after tour. I am the only one of my cousin's who is unmarried and/or childless. For the most part, I stay positive, but there are days I cry out because it can get hard. I know the man God created for me is out there. I know it. God is gonna give me double for my trouble!!
Amen he will
Look, a lot women won't get married for various reasons. Just go have a baby either via adoption or via IVF before it's too late. I think women need to be realistic, just start your family alone. It's okay and kids still turn out fine.
@toyajohnson6290- lf you haven't received your Kingdom spouse as yet, it's usually because of idolizing marriage. God will not send someone until deliverance is done. Derek Prince teaches about this in his video called Deliverance from Demons.
It's amazing having got married at 40 years and had a baby at 48 years. Glory be to ALMIGHTY GOD. Really you have encouraged me so much!!
You are an inspiration.Thank you so mch love.l was almost giving up but you have brought me back to the track.❤
Thank you for sharing l believe l will come back with a testimony it's not too late🎉 that's owesome
The best thing that has happened to me is finding you and your channel. I’m still struggling with my self worth at 51. I’m a single mom, divorced and financially unstable. But then I wake up and find that you posted and I feel a surge of positivity to get through the day. Thank you for everything you do and share with us. I’m a proud member of fumination. Keep being fabulous you’re beautiful soul!
Sis. Come On! You are gonna make it!!!!!
U are a strong woman we need more like u. I think I'm pretty strong too been on my own for 23 years single mom. I'm ok on my own would love to meet that someone but uf I don't it's ok.😊
You can make it, sis.
Thank you so much ladies. That means so much. It’s so hard, so very very hard.
Seek first the kingdom of heaven and All the rest shall follow. It works believe me.
I needed this message today. I’m 39 and I’m about to walk across the stage a get my masters degree. What was delayed was not denied. I’m still waiting on marriage and children but I have faith that what is delayed is not denied. God is ushering me into the best time of my life thus far🙏🏾🙏🏾
Just to let you know that you still have a couple of years to be pregnant . science has done wonders
Wow!! Praise God, God bless you and I'm so proud of you God is going to reward you for your discipline and your perseverance. God is truly pleased with you and I know that all that you went through to get you where you are today was very difficult. Congratulations👏👏👏, this is a new beginning for you and I'm so excited for what else God has for you!
Wow u are a blessing
That's awesome. I got married at 38, had my 2nd child at 40 and graduated with my masters at 46. God can do it if you just believe!!
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Watching this with such a BIG Smile! Turning 40 in 3 days and still believing God for marriage and children. Especially as an African woman, 40 and no kids it’s like a curse. God is Great! Thank you Fumi for being YOU!
Happy belated birthday!
Please don’t. 40 is too old for children. You can contribute in many other ways that are less selfish!
Happy Belated Birthday!! My Grandma had her last child naturally at 52 and she turns 95 this month. My mom had me in her 40s naturally. In fact she had 4 kids in her 40s. You got time. Be careful what you eat, the gmo they put in the food is causing infertility issues. Go natural and you’ll be fine.
Happy belated birthday!
@@sapphirelane1714 Nonsense 🙄.
Am inspired, am 42 and single without children. I know there's a man out there for me and he will come when the time is right for me and I believe no matter my age I will have children and fulfil all my dreams.
Thank you so much Fumi for your words. I got married at 45 and will turn 49 in a week and still hope that I can have a baby. Almighty God can everything. God bless you
Waoh glory if God has done it for you at 45 He will do it for me, I’m trusting God for a husband. The same God who gave you a husband He will bless you with a baby
I’m in tears. I’m 43 and this hit home. U took us to Fumi church with this word today!!!! 🙌🏽
Amen Auntie Fumi
Me too.i am 45 single no kids struggling financially 😢I have come back here just to listen to Fumi once again.this is so uplifting
@@noelieassengonethe Lord is your strength my Sister. It is never too late with God.
Amen thank you auntie Fumi❤
FUMI you are an inspiration to so many black women across the world. My African father told me when I was younger, “go where you are wanted and admired.” He didn’t care about skin color, as long as those men loved his daughters. Today, I’ve with my husband 17 years and married for 10. Take care of yourself ladies, Pray for the right person and God will deliver him to your front door.
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Absolutely ❗💯💯💯
Amen.
So true!! Amen, Amen!! 🙏🏾
Absolutely❤
Thank you for this powerful message! I am 52 and recently had major trauma that resulted in me leaving my career as a teacher, left a toxic marriage and am a single mom with no plan B! I had my son at 40, and thought it was too late! I am finally learning to love myself and take the limits off! Nothing is wasted or late in God’s economy! ❤
I feel pity for you why leaving your career am also a teacher from Zambia I had my Fourth child at 46 and still having my monthly period however have told my God that this my last born but am looking 40
God is good all the time
@@agnesskaoma9599 Why say that to her ?
If you cannot be nice do not comment it is not easy be en a teacher! and she is trying to get back on her feet. Why are you so toxic?
🙏🏾Amen
"As happy as I was for her, I was starting to get embarrassed." This is the realest statement I've ever heard.
I am 28 and will be turning 29 soon. I am single with no kids, never been in a relationship ever in my entire life, and sometimes I am scared I might end up alone but see stories from other women in the comment section under this video, I am wowed and want to say thank you fumi for this video. I have been encouraged by your story and the stories of other women. Thank you.
Same here
Haha you just need to relax. You are still young and I understand you're a lady but no pressure. Wanna talk maybe?
Feel you...
@@ngalahansel6066 28 is too old for a first kiss
Almost my story too. I'll be turning 28 in a few months, and I feel you in every way, referring to the pressure we go through when heading to 30s. It's funny that regardless of all the hustle we do to make a living, not so much is considered an achievement as long as you are a single lady; but watching this video and reading these comments, I feel different, wiser, stronger and really hopeful for what we truly deserve. May God bless you all, and guard you to keep moving foward. What is delayed, is not denied... (Merci Grande-soeur Fumi)
"What is delayed, is not denied!" Yes, preach sister Fumi!🙏🏽💝👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hallelujah 🙌🙌🙌
Amen ...
Yes it's true "what is delayed is not denied "
Amen
I'm not surprised you went viral at al. Your story is unique. Without you knowing you inspire so many. Especially us who are 40 and up who haven't found the one, never been pregnant, think that life is just passing them by etc.
Thank you for sharing your story with us Fumi❤.
Yes there is a space for Fumi. We often felt forgotten. Unmarried without children but I was attracted to Fumi and her effervescent personality like moth to a flame. It is what I needed. She gives me the validation I need and then I start to see myself as important even if I never got married or have children I know I have so much to give. She came into my life when I was so down and out. Diagnosed with a life threatening disease God led me to Fumi. She reached out to me and encouraged me and I am eternally grateful. God bless her
Same boat girl, but I'm keeping the faith
@@kennypryce4617 I pray for your healing and you'll have a blessed and amazing life from now on.🙏🏽💝
@@iamannabeautiful I wish you and Didi will find a lovely, attentive and respectful partner that will love you and that you will have a blessed and amazing life!🙏🏽💝
@@kennypryce4617 God bless her indeed. Take good care of yourself🙏🏿
Fumi I’m so glad to hear your story. A friend sent me a link and that’s how I found out about you. Here I am 45, no husband, no children, ended relationships. I thought I was hopeless for a while. I come from a culture where we are pressured to marry early as possible. I’ve had negative comments especially from other African women about my singleness if not sarcastic questioning. I had to put my foot down on them and make it known that we all have different timelines. We’re not all meant to marry at 25
@L Musima- same here
Exactly 🔥🔥
Me too! Same age as well 💕
Hugs to you ❤
Let's pray for each other. All is not lost. God has a plan and His time is not as ours.
“What Is Delayed Is Not Denied”!!❤🙏🏾🔥
As a Northerner in Nigeria 39 and almost clocking 40, no husband, no child I be lost faith but with this video my faith is revitalized. Thank you so much for the video.
Must be very hard, I know the north can be very traditional. Dont worry, everything will work out well.
Thank you Aunty Fumi. I am 43, no kids and no married. You are very inspiring.
“What Is Delayed, Is Not Denied!” 🙏🏽❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Amen !! This is everything that I needed today❤ its been an extremely rough journey after failed Ivf and doctors giving up on me! I'm still trusting God for a loving husband and a baby despite being in my mid 40s! So thank you Fumi for this encouraging testemonial 🙏🏾
Listen. FUMI, you roooccck. You're inspiring me big time. Got divorced at 59 years old...lost everything...starting over at 60....I'm very much on my way now.. repairing the breach, studying technology learning a year now....exercising weekly ......Whether or not the world is ready. I'm coming back better....Go Fumi, joining you in the RUclips area soon. 😊😊😊😊😊.
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕💗💗💗💞
🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
❤ God bless you ❤
Courage sister
May God's blessings rain on you
Fumi thank u, am 57 and never married before. Why? I was BUSY taking care of my sick mum. My mum parralised for 18yrs. One thing i believe is that GOD NO GO SHAME ME. Am Sally from Ghana .
El Roi sees you.
I'm 31 and a single mom of two kids. Hell no I won't worry no more and I won't settle for less either. Thank you so much mam
Wow, wow, wow! I’m married but your testimony touched my soul. I cried and laughed as I listened. You’re so fabulous inside and out. God is amazing, and His timing is always perfect. Keep inspiring us Queen. 👑🙏🏾💕
Here I am at 30 thinking that am too old to find a husband coz of some bad decisions I made earlier in life😢, I heard your story like a year ago but I really needed it more today, thank you so much ,
Am 30 as well but not giving up stay strong
You're 30 not 50 😒
Fumi my dear sis- You give me hope, as a 53 yr old just starting my own online store and brand. I too did everything at my own pace..got married at 35, had my daughter at 37. You go sis, you look great and definitely motivate me daily. XOXO
Am heading 30 in august,and still childless and single.the pressure is so bigger than i can handle,but am fasting and waiting for a purified marriage in the presence of God,this video has given me life and hope again ,thanks so much for sharing
I’ll be 30 in July and we will be just fine. God has our back and will give us the desires of our heart. I wish you the best always!*💖
You spoke directly to me. I am 51 years old and it seems like I am not where I want to be. I am living hand to mouth and I know there is a lot more to achieve. Thanks for this
I'm 31 I have 4 kids by 3 different men and I with the last father I don't work as 2 of my children have disabilities i have autism so I struggle a lot socially and I sometimes look at my life and think aside from my kids who even am I what else do I have to be proud of you've given me hope that I have time to find my passion x
Hugs darling. You've your whole life ahead of you. You will do it
Always remember..nooo matter what we are going through...we are not alone. God answers prayers..congratulations ms. Funmi❤
Sending you ❤️ you've got this
Be strong sis. Jesus loves you
Auntie Fumi you went super viral and I am here for all of this fabulosity. I love you and am so happy for you, your family and future. Love from the USA. ❤❤❤
Thank you, Fumi, for the encouragement! What is delayed is not denied. Im 63, divorced twice, but still have hope. God is the architect! Fumi this video gave me chills! God is speaking speaking speaking
Amen!
Thank you for your encouragement! I’m 47 now and I all of a sudden would love to have a kid. You are giving me hope that I can still do it in my age!
Don't worry my dearest sister.
I needed this today! Thank you FUMI! At 60 now, I am inspired again to trust God for a mate and an amazing life!
How many of you found this channel through the BRA HACK SERIES?
My boobs will forever be grateful for those videos. I'm not a LIMOUSINE girl{like Aunty Fumi calls u}, but my boobs grew in my late thirties. Those hacks made me embrace them, love them, and even wear the push up tapes, or just go braless. And, I've never regretted fining Aunty Fumi. She's literally our Aunty here on RUclips. May God bless you richly for all you do.
Me 😂
This is very inspiring 👏🏾
At 42yrs young, working as a Registered Nurse for the past 21 years, I'm mentally and physically burnt out. Post divorce after a 10 year marriage, I was 267 pounds and depressed. I managed to work on myself, still a work in progress, and I delved into my passion for art and event decorations. I love fashion as well. I'm waiting Patiently for my time to shine🥰
Thank you soo much for this message 💗 💓 💖
Hello from an RN to another RN,God loves you more than you can imagine.put all your worries to him,and he will give you rest.
Congratulations queen. I am so happy that you now will do something that is close to your heart. I am 34 and I recently left my job and is now embarking on my passion and that is to own my own luxury lingerie and underwear’s brand. Especially working in retail and there’s a need for it here where I am from. I too was burnt out and holy it took a toll on my mind, body and my soul I was miserable to the point where I became dizzy, just thinking of going to work, one week later and my dizziness is at ease, headaches gone. Yeah my job was literally slowly Illing me. Now it’s time I embarked on this entrepreneurial journey and shine in my own time on my own terms.
God bless you for me ❤❤❤
It's refreshing to see someone like you with all those guys on the internet saying that women hit the wall at 20 or somthing silly like that. We need you Fumi keep going.😊
Such a breath of fresh air and real wisdom. I’m so sick of these RUclipsrs who mislead young girls telling them that their dreams of education should be second to pleasing a man and preach ‘the wall’.
Find who loves you. Of course compromise is important in any relationship but minimising yourself to make someone else feel big is not a solution.❤❤
Live &love
Gal, your talk is healing. I married my man not because of identity, but because he possessed qualities I was looking for. A father figure, a genuine person, full of maturity, loves education, etc. And I have never regretted.
I’m 34 years old and single, no kids and want a family. I only date black men as well but every relationship failed me. My friend told me to stop limiting myself to only black men and ask God to send me a man who would love me . I’m still waiting for my husband but to hear your testimony only confirms to me that God listening and right now is not my time. ❤ thank you 😢
This is so inspiring to see. I am also starting later in life. I am practically just able to read and write at 40. Sometime I do feel deflated when I see other are at the peak of their success at 40. You have given me the courage to carry on. I really would like to study after the little that I know.
You got this, it WILL happen......
Congratulations to you!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yes! Yes! Yes!👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
Well done 🎉🎉🎉 May God bless you
Well, congrats thus far on your writing. Never give up. You are doing well!
I sent your story to my colleagues for inspiration, and to never give up. Thank you!
So sweet of you hunnie 🥰
Last night I went to bed and started thinking to myself if I died today God forbid what legacy would I leave behind? Because I feel worthless at 31 and a single mum still living with parents with no job or potential friends my age mates are doing more than good in life why me. Thank you because God has confirmed it to me through you that DELAY IS NOT DENIAL. A big hug and kiss from Kenya
My dear, marriage is not sn achievement, finding your purpose is. Your child is your gift, find your purpose. My marriage was hell and it ended thank God. Find God and gind your purpose no man can save a woman. We are need a saviour and it's not a man.x
omg I almost cry listening to you. I love your calm wise voice. I see myself in you. I already have children but I wasted 10 years with their father. My prime years were stolen. He knew everything I wanted and used it at his advantage to manipulate me. I was young with nobody to teach me. and getting beaten by a male who didn't want to do better in life, while I had so much dreams and wanted to explore the world. You give me hope that it's not too late
I can relate dear this is exactly my story. I am still in the situation, wasted 20 years plus, but your story really gives me hope
I did cry. Embarrassed🤦🏽♀️ Several times. She’s not just dropping gems or giving us spiritual wisdom; she's also humbly empowering us with knowledge. Why?! Even her mannerisms towards us are accounted for. She encompasses and embodies everything one would hope to be in this industry. I’m so happy for her and her ability to exude encouragement, effortlessly. I’m here for it. Much ❤ #DelayedIsNotDenied
🙏🏾Blessings
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I'm sitting here listening to this with tears in my eyes. I've been so angry and feeling hopeless. I've been asking God for my husband for several years now and I want children so bad. I've longed for them both to the point of crying out for them. I will be 38 next month. I really needed to hear this because I was ready to give up. I'm still praying and I'm still holding on and I won't give up on waiting.
Keep holding on sis!
Remember Hannah in the Bible. She was barren and she prayed to Jehovah God for a son. He granted Hannah’s petition and hat next year, she gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel and she promised Jehovah that she would lend her son to him as soon as he was weaned. God grants our petitions as long as we keep Matthew 6:33 in our lives and obey our Heavenly Father. Read 1 Samuel 1: 1-20. I hope this will lighten your heart and give you hope. Take care❤😊❤
This was a word STRAIGHT from God, to your lips and to my ears!! Thank you for sharing your story with us, Fumi ♥
Same here. Thank you God for speaking through Fumi to me and so many others! Many many blessings to you and your family Fumi❤. My testimony will be next
I was so enraged when I saw a Facebook Group that featured your story as a negatively as it did. I love you and what you stand for Fumi. Let the haters hate. More of us love you than you can ever imagine.
What!! What negative thing they d have to say...I bet one of the haters snucked in their and started all the negativity
What?
Please can you give us their address, we want to say a little 'hi' ?
I needed this so much! The confidence, the style you are fabolous!! As a 22-year old you give me so much motivation! I just want to be like you when I'm 50!
Amazing Story, I am so Inspired. I am 54 on my fitness Journey and Haven't been Married YET!! God Will Get The Glory.! God Bless You ❤🙏
Never let society dictate or put limitations on your for sex,race or age!!! We can accomplish anything at anytime in our lives! Happy for you Sister Fumi!!! It’s well deserved! #Fumination
Amen ❤
YESSSSSSSSS!!!
Definitely 🔥
God's timming is the best
Totally agree with you Fumi. As a 60+ year old, I can tell you that I'm in my prime. Still smart, still energetic, still got the fellas checking me out, and folks who respect me for the words of wisdom (gems) that I drop. They see me walk the walk that I talk. Independently so. Don't have drama in my life because I'm wise enough to prevent it from coming my way. Look younger than my years because I don't stress about anything. You see, I smartly handle minor things before they become major things. Easy peasy, baby!
Inspiring! 💕
Fumi you are so inspiring. As a women who married in my very early twenties, because this is what I was told. I believe woman and men should marry when they are older and learn who they are and not who they are told they should be. We don’t know enough to choose a life partner in our younger age. Keep spreading your wisdom. ❤
I'm a 'late bloomer' also. Not interested in marriage but I do have financial goals that are still to be achieved. It was lovely watching this because a lot of us Gen X ers are late bloomers and grew up with a lot of negativity.
What is delayed is not denied, thank you ma’am!
Thank you Aunty Fumi ❤ I am 33yrs and I used to think I have missed so many opportunities in my little life but right now, I’m convinced there’s hope for me and everything is achievable ✅ you are my biggest inspiration and I am hoping that some day I will share a bottle of champagne with you. I cherish you ❤❤❤❤
Fumi girl, I love you!😘 You’re fabulous and very inspiring for this generation of women who are constantly being discouraged and devalued. The Bible says, “The older women WILL teach the younger women.” I celebrate all the women out there whose dreams have been delayed, NOT denied!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! 🎉
This is beautiful! This is what I’m talking about! The manosphere who hates on women and doesn’t value women as we age, your story shit their whole projection down. I love Auntie Fumi, I can’t wait for you to come to Miami
Those r d wrong men. There are plenty of great men who value women generally. These men who dont value women as they age dont value younger women either. They just value getting in bed without a challenge
I don't watch much of you, but every time I see you, you look like a celebrity, and your makeup, style, everything. You make life looks perfect though we know nothing is perfect in this world. I just like to say you're a great inspiration, and people can learn a lot from you; not to forget class, and mannerism. Thank you for being you.
Wow! I actually cried. This video came mins after I had a discussion with my sister about my married friends, who have kids and even live out of the country. I literally felt bad after that reality check but this was what I needed! It isn't over for me. I can still have it all even in my 30s and it's going to be the most beautiful experience and my life will be FULL. Jesus is on His way for me; when He comes, all that is dead will rise to Life as He calls me FORTH! Hallelujah.
Glory 🙌🏿
Me too, and this video was everything I didn’t know I needed to see right now actually.*😩
30's is still very young. Everything is possible! Don't listen to the bitter and mysoginistic manosphere telling you otherwise.
Your exposure was way over due, but beautiful way to kick off the world tour ❤😊
Fumi, you inspire more ppl than you know, particularly those of us who want to start again to live a more fulfilling life. I’m 33 and on this journey, and your story has definitely been a beacon of hope for women like me that it’s not too late. Much love and success to you always ❤❤❤
I forgot to say that I know that you will go further than you have ever dreamt. You are helping a lot of women who have felt left behind, and felt like they were out of time. Keep insipiring, and speaking your wisdom. Much love and blessings
There’s no coincidence I came across you r page as in over a week I am turning 50. Reevaluating my life and wanting to do something I love, to balance work and family life. A single parent for the past 18 yrs.Thank you for being such an inspiration and your quote ‘what is delayed is not denied’ is engraved in my mind. God bless ❤
What is delayed is not denied ❤... much love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Wow this is so inspiring...I'm 43 years old and in a dead end job that I am grateful for but don't enjoy. You've inspired to go after my dreams. God bless you beautiful sister!
I was 38 when I met my husband. We had our baby girl at 40. Got married at 44. I’m now 51 and starting a new phase in my life. Life’s journey can be amazing.
I am grateful for what I had and happy to be blessed with my amazing daughter. I am also looking forward to what the future holds. Why, because I am working on myself so I will be prepared to embrace the future. Live, love and life.
Life can be seasons. We roll with the punches.
There is so much out there for us to experience.
Great testimony Ms Fumni. I’ll be starting a channel on what life has taught me soon. Stay blessed everyone. 😘
What is delayed , it’s not denied! Amen to that!
Eish this is giving me goose bumps! thank you for renewed hope , got married at 36 , currently 40 and still waiting on God for a baby.
This is an inspiration for me thank you so much. Am a 40year divorcee with no kids. Your story gave me hope to hold on it's never too late ❤
Am a Kenyan 🇰🇪, and am 30,no kids,no permanent man, they come and go, I was so afraid that I am going to get old without a husband nor a kid,, you have really inspired me 🥰 I can be anything, it's never too late 🙏🏽❤ God bless you Fumi darling 😘
Am 27 and am so so scared😫😫😫😫
Mko sawa. Ombeni tu😊
@@hannahkamau85scared at 27. Gal relax
Pia mimi but tuko sawa
You are still young. Don’t give up
You've inspired me so much. I'm very emotional whenever you touch on this aging topic. I'm 46, never married, and have no kids (at 45 I had to remove my womb because of fibroids). I still dream of getting married but I'm not noticed. I just don't have that kind of luck. Thank you, Fumi to be there for us with your grace and loveliness. YOU ARE APPRECIATED.♥♥
You have that kind of luck❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are beautifully made yuo have everything sis
You need to change how you speak over yourself. Speak positive words over yourself
Hugs ❤ Simone
God will never disappoint
I needed this! I love your story! I’m 43 and a single mom of one. I am praying for my king and another baby.
Amen. Me too! God is faithful!
This message is very timely for me. I am 42, never married and no kids. I am in a place where i am losing hope. In a job that i don't like but grateful for...you have renewed my hope for a husband and kids....i believe...
Exactly same with me. May God answer our prayers, amen.
Sister Fumi, I want to thank you so much for this message. I’m starting life over. Got married at 34. Separated by 37. Abusive marriage that I left with my beautiful son. I’m starting life all over again in a new country and God has been faithful but what I’ve realized from this video is that I’ve not been grateful enough. I keep looking back at the failed marriage and what I don’t have. I’m glad I left the marriage but as a Nigerian first born daughter, the failure of it is not just a pain point to me but my parents as well. And I’m really hurt and bothered by that. But God made it possible to leave and start all over again. I really should be more grateful and I thank you for showing me that. God bless you. I love watching you. You truly are a big sister to me even though we may never meet. Thank you for being faithful to the calling of God upon your life and opening yourself up to be used by God as a blessing to people like me. Your wisdom and objectivity blows my mind everytime. It seems other worldly and I’m delighted to know that it’s source is the grace of God. I appreciate you so much Sis. Thanks for everything.
This is blessing me right now & I just shared this link with a friend who is 41 and losing hope. I’m 39, unmarried & without a child yet. I stay thankful and positive everyday because I know my situation isn’t a surprise to God. The period of waiting is hard and looks unending, but I hold on to my faith bcos I know God will satisfy me at the right time. Thank you so much for giving me another day of hope. I’m all smiling and oozing a tank full of positive vibes. ❤❤❤
I love you sister Fumi, you have given me hope again at 40!
I saw that picture and post on LinkedIn. But the post didn't name you, so I made sure to identify you in the comments, to get the proper credit!!! 😂👏🏾 You are such a ray of light and your story is so inspiring. Keep shining, auntie Fumi!!!!! 🎉❤
Madam Fumi, you are speaking the truth. A lot of women of a certain age listen to the rubbish about “the danger zone” and “hitting the wall”, and they think that since they’re older, their career and love life is kaput. I’m glad that you’re sharing your story. We see a lot of women content creators that are over 40 that are becoming successful, and we’re hearing about women over 40 who have met their soulmate.
@7:16 💯 I had that same conversation with God. After I stopped looking in the garbage for a good man, the right man came to me at 50. We’ve been together 14 years and happily married. So happy for you sister.
Bless your heart ❤️ I had a child at 25, he's in college now. I married the man God manifested for me at 45. You are right, it is never too late! My 1 year anniversary is May 7th ❤ Thank you because I didn't even know I needed to hear this, but I did. Have a beautiful day.
Beautiful testimony
Loving this I have hope.
My sister, I am almost in tears listening to you. I am getting ready to walk away from my marriage because I settled, gave in to what society said, and allowed myself to be put in a box. It killed my spirit and dreams. I am going to be 55yrs old and I am ready to start living the life I was meant to live with God on my side. Marriage with a man with a Narcissistic personality is the worst thing that can happen to us women. It's better to be single. Thanks for your videos and I pray that God's grace and mercy will continue to be with you and your lovely family.
Hugs hugs Our sister...it shall be well
I am 35years old, not married. I am believing God for a good man, I have always wanted to marry a black African man from my country. But this video inspired me to open my mind. Thank you for this Fumi. You are indeed a big Aunty to many of us.God bless you for this video😢
Am senegalese woman. 53 years old. When i was young, a lot white mens wanted to marry me. But i did not want to marry with them. I only wanted to marry with Black africans mens. Blacks mens use me. They betrayed me, make me suffer. They never married me. I lost my time with africans mens. Now i feel old and tired. I have no husband. Am alone.. I learn something, don't listen what People say. Do want you want, do what is good for you. Not what the others want you to do. I regret to do not agree to marry with white mens. I always like Black mens but they never married me. They use me and let me fall down.. So i want to tell to Black girl, if you meet a white man who love you and take care of you go go..
@aishabaidydiop so sorry to hear this, but I still trust God's timing for you. It's never too late to find love ❤️, sending lots of love, light and hugs 🫂
I love you're RUclips channel because it's a safe place to check in and watch and listen, and get uplifting messages ,tips on fashion and beauty, and so much more. I love reading the positive comments from you're followers .Thank you for everything that you're doing on you're RUclips channel. Keep up the good work.
Wow! Your story is so inspiring! I’m 67, going on 68 and I haven’t found him. It’s too late for children, but maybe there’s still hope for some of my dreams…?
Deserving of everything coming ur way mama!! We live , We love
It was only a matter of time. I found your channel about a year ago. I'm 41 and reevaluating alot of things in my life. You channel was like a breath of fresh air. Absolutely love your vivacious, unapologetic , warm personality. I had given up on marriage and more children ( I have 1) because I felt like I had hit too many brick walls . When I had the opportunity to get married I declined twice and as the years past I started to question whether I made the right decision. I started to think maybe I should have just settled. Then I came accross your channel and thought to myself, come on look at this fabulous queen living her best life in her 50's . Thank you so much for reminding us that life doesnt have to be cookie cutter. There is a season for everthing and my season will come when the time is right.
I’m a guy and I find so much value in your videos and I watch you a lot. I love you Aunty Fumi, keep thriving ❤️❤️
Wow. It’s not over until God says it’s over! I got married @25 two kids and divorced at 31, when my son was only two years old. I’m from Africa as well. I’m a single mother of two amazing children, my daughter second year in college studding to become a doctor. I bought my first house at 43 last year. And I’m hoping to find some one in the future. Thank you so much Auntie Fumi.! Ladies, you all rock!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow!! This is incredibly encouraging!!! I'm 36....still waiting on marraige but working on myself at the moment. All the comments......this story....gives me hope!!
I started watching you because of your passion for Shanquilla 👏 and I love your confident walk in your intro, you got me 🎉Now hearing your story is even more inspiring as I am growing older ❤I am grateful I found you Thank you 🙏
This was church honey ♥️♥️🙌🙌. Love you Aunty Fumi, this is so motivational. "What is delayed, is not denied"
Still a virgin at 40 plus and I have multiple dreams like you but very difficult to Cary it out, I cry almost every day seen myself wasting, I wish to chart you on whatup, am in Nigeria, though I met you late but it alright, thanks for your encouragement. Phil.
I cried and laughed. Fumi, you move the World!!! I love you. I'm living my "What is delayed, is not denied" Got my man -later , waiting on the family -THANK YOU!!!❤
I love you so much. I'm 58yo and I'm grateful for this video today. I have been saying this to others and you just said this to me. I'm going back to school and get my degree not because I promised my mom but because I dream this for me. I'm so excited and happy. And you exposed this video to us o. Resurrection weekend which only makes it more valuable. Thank you Fumi. God Bless and keep you and yours.
Thanks! Aunt Fumi, this BLESSED My soul and I RECEIVED EVERY WORD! I am the 1st of 10 in my family to be in financial/sales services. It tough but I'm not a cookie cutter type of girl. I'm showing up for ME!