JESUS! 💔 KEKE PALMER WAS BEING ABUSED BY DARIUS JACKSON WHILS'T PREGNANT, MOTHER CONFIRMS! 👀
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- Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2023
- It's unbelievable to think that this kind of unspeakable act goes on in homes that should be were we feel safety and security. But no my loves, Keke and many women, some we even know but are unaware of the nightmare that's going on in their homes. 💔
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❤ WRITE THE BOOK, MAMA FUMI, SEE WE NEED THIS.........HELP US NOT TO BE OR CONTINUE TO BE WHERE KE KE WAS. HELP US TO PREVENT, BY DOING THE WORK IN ADVANCE. SOME OF US NEED YOUR EXPERIENCE, GUIDANCE DARLING, AND YOUR DIRECTION.............MAMA'S!!!!!❤😂 HELP US, MOMMA FUMI!!!!😊
Aunty Fumi’s sister to sister talks are EXCELLENTL! An additional resource I’ve used over the years to level up are the videos by RC Blakes. He’s here on RUclips. He does father to daughter talks and his videos are on point! I’ve learned so much from him over the years and I can 100% attest to the advice that he and Aunty Fumi give.
Amen!
Yes please ❤💯🙏🏾
Fumi is speaking the truth! A whole sermon on a Sunday afternoon. I am African American Muslim. My father is the same man as Fumi's! My now husband of 30 years had to ask my father permission to take me on our first date. My father said yes and proceeded to tell him that our first date would be dinner with our family at our house. My husband and I grew up as neighbors so my family knew his family well. We were all accountable to each other. Unfortunately, many of us don't have the family support that my husband and I had or that Fumi had coming from a traditional African family.
@Nyame-ama o man you believe the family connection can save you from abuse? Good lucky my sister, many learned the hard way.
GIVE THIS WOMAN A TV SHOW!!! A voice we need!
Agreed!
I second this 🙏🏾🙏🏾
no way, they'll make her change. They always do
Pleeeease
I love her fresh and honest perspectives. RUclips is the new TV so let’s do everything to help her show and channel grow.
Any woman can be stuck in this nightmare I was saved by a police lieutenant that had been to my home 2x in 6 weeks. He took some extra time to convince me it wouldn’t get better. Will never forget him and will forever thank him. I’m in a loving relationship with a good man.
I washed my hands with black women like this! Y’all will be in these abusive no good relationships and act like everything is good and y’all are so happy. Telling other women to mind their business and when shit hits the fan. Y’all want these same black women support and will then tell the truth. Nope! Not doing it anymore
Glad you are out. Do you mind sharing what he said to convince you?
Thanks be to God 🙏🏽. Happy you got out and you deserve all the happiness 🫶🌸❤️
That was a perfect decision
When a man is abusive towards you for more than once then you must know that you’re in for trouble
Most at times the LoVe makes us bLind
But de fact that you’re in love doesn’t mean you must shut your eyes…and not look within
@@prayerpower1585 He told me I seemed to be a smart lady and that he had been visiting these situations a very long time and that it never ever improved over time. I grabbed my dogs and never looked back. I was lucky had a ton of support and a decent job.
This is why it’s so important ladies to maintain standards, boundaries and expectations!! Guard your hearts ladies! ❤❤❤
Absolutely. Also deal with trauma and/or desperation/ self hate that would lead you to chose or stay with an abuser!!
So very true!!!
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Wombs as well!!! Smh
Please tell them again.
How can you be BROKE and UGLY?? Pick a damn struggle. This makes me so ANGRY to the core. Like, this scum bag is called whatever he is. I'm so speechless and, who GAVE him the right? The ordained nerve to put his hands on her. Like what??? We didn't know who he was nor his brother until he got with Keke.
For the fact that he is aware of the cams in the house and yet, he didn't care smh. God I'm proud of her getting OUT now. All these beatings have got to STOP.
Shout OUT to Aunty Fumi because, she's definitely NOT LYING with this episode. ❤
I mean, if he wants to exercise his testosterone or power, please go fight some war in Iraq. Join the service and fight for your Country. Don't exercise your freaking power on a woman and, definitely NOT Keke.
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Facts leave why wait it gets worse not better it is good for a few and boom he's he's back at it
That part 💯
Go fight in a gym, somewhere else, never a women.
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I love fumi ❤❤❤ she's that experienced female figure that women need. Especially younger black women. We need that person to be honest with us so we can open our eyes and make better choices. She teaches us game that a lot of our mothers didn't teach us
Yes ma'am! Man if she was my auntie I'd be over her house everyday asking all types of stuff!
@@DJG0214right!! I'm 45 and I feel the same way
I am the same age as Fumi and still learn an incredible amount about life from her!
FACTS!!! But, even with an eye opener of a speech, some folks still don't get it. I mean, how's it OKAY to STAY. I have never been abused physically but, trust me I was once in a relationship that had the signs..Oh gosh, I can never forget. His tone, his controlling and demanding habits, always trying to prove he's the man. We couldn't even have a decent conversation without ending up in an argument or yelling. I had enough and told myself it's a relationship (dating) and, not a Tix to Heaven. I picked up my stuff and showed myself the way OUT. I made sure the door didn't hit me and the hood Lord didn't split me 😂😂. Knowing what I know now, I'm forever GRATEFUL I didn't end up with him.
@@kassypele4662 we don't know what upbringing keke had
My uncle (may he rest in peace) was so nasty to a boyfriend the instant he met him. If you knew my uncle, you would know that this was totally out of character. But he could sense how sinister this man was. And he said: "You don't have to break up with him today, but know that you cannot marry him!" And he was right. That was the most abusive relationship I was ever in.
Oh no. Sorry to hear. May his soul rip. He saw what you couldn’t see
LADIES LET’S NORMALIZE LEAVING AFTER THE FIRST RED FLAG! IT’S NOT WORTH RISKING YOUR PEACE AND SANITY BY STAYING!!!!!
FACTS GIRL ONE RED FLAG AND I'M DONE !!!!
Amen. It’s them red flags they insist on ignoring.
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The first raised voice, run!
@@shachede6828 PERIOD!
When I was 18 and working, I got close to a 26 year old baby mama who warned me about men who waste your time, you cook, clean and play wife only for him to leave you broken and start a home with someone else when he gets to a better economic place. When I said can never be me she told me never say never as you’d be surprised the kind of women in such situations. I truly hope it can never be us, and if it is, we have the courage to leave! Ending a 2 year marriage is better than a 25 year old marriage, as it is better than a 50 year old marriage. Ending a relationship with a child is better than 2 children later, as it is better than 4 children later. If can never be us becomes us, just flee.
Hi. Additionally, Judge Lynn Toler 👩🏾⚖️ (from "Divorce Court"📺) said to "Never do wifely duties at girlfriend prices!"
OMG. You said it. I remember a boyfriend doing that to me. The next l know, he left to marry another woman. I was left to lick my wounds. Lost so much weight. I was broken. Many years after, l met him at a party. He wanted me back. I looked at him and l thought to myself. I know my class. Thank you Fumi. We have to know our class 🙏🏾
Words cannot describe how much I love and appreciate Fumi🤧
Stumbling across her channel was like finding a hidden gem
I'm so grateful that we have such a maternal figure like her on RUclips❤
Amen. I second this. I love u mom
I can relate with your story, because I am that son that rejected my father's ways and stood strong against his Narcissism. It's amazing how many black American men are saying the victim is Keke's boyfriend because she used the video of him beating her to gain custody of the children, which shows how many black men in America have not grown up.
Auntie Fumi, I was in an emotional abusive relationship, to the point I almost took myself out to escape from him! I was completely drained took everything out of me. He didn't have to hit me...his words were a massive blow!!!! I hope she gets the peace she deserves poor Keke 😢🙏🏿
Yes, the massive blows from his WORDS, so devastatingly painful. I understand.
So glad you got out before he totally destroyed you.
Thanks for sharing ❤️🩹 there is hope, faith, abundance etc to still live for 🫂 I’m grateful to see other women coming together & not isolating themselves for the sake of shame that has no business being apart of your life! I’m genuinely so sorry you & the countless/endless amounts of women globally that had to endure such a traumatizing/heinous/inhumane/trauma/pain/suffering/ptsd/confusing/mind boggling crime! etc ETC whatever it is (not assuming whatsoever ijs 🤷🏽♀️) but nonetheless just to hear & see other people are NOT alone in this fight for something as simple as peace is astounding to say the least , it’s bitter sweet, a lifetime lesson to NEVER underestimate yourself your self worth your strength for getting through something so difficult that some people cannot. It’s something to seriously marinate in & also as a friendly (not so friendly) reminder to NEVER go back to that dark place EVER AGAIN knowing YOU deserve better! All things in life are a blessing & a curse in disguise 🥸 lessons we cannot fantom the words to expel from within to break down for the others to digest/understand/comprehend those who not know any better but by experience alone… but with the experience & knowledge all things are possible 🙏🏾 you never know who you could possibly be helping … long story short again thanks for sharing, I’m happy you made it through to do exactly just that #Change #LessonLearned ❤️🩹
I'm so sorry my sis about what you were going through but thank God you did escape be healed
Gal me here.silent torture i walked out this weekend after he asked for a separation. Am not the problem he is
9 rounds of IVF.
I have been trying for 3 years, Fumi thank you for mentioning this. I cried so much.
My dear sister don’t ever lose hope on your lord! Believe me he is Most Merciful, Generous, all knowing, Forbearing, Wise, Provider and Bestower of Blessings. Never doubt the power of your lord it will happen soon or later when his timing for your is right . Whenever you found yourself in doubting just read the story of Sara and Abraham in Bible and you will find peace and hope again. I pray that God will Answer your prayers soon . Amen Sending you love and blessings💕
Don’t loose hope sis. God is right about the corner! He never fails to show up!!❤❤❤❤
Womannnnn you killed this! I had 6-brothers who would let me know they’d put them in a garbage bag and leave them in a dumpster if they messed around with me! My father played no games either. I knew I was openly protected, but felt I couldn’t meet anyone because they blocked everyone they didn’t think were suitable. But there’s nothing like letting men know that this woman has men in her life. A father. Brothers. Men who are looking out for the men who are coming in her life.
Facts. I was an only child but the amount of male cousins who met my now husband let it be known that they did not play when it came to me. Luckily I met an amazing man...aka my husband who takes care of me so good that I had to realise how this is how EVERY woman should be treated in marriage or relationships.
All cute and all but why does have take men to get an ounce of respect.... I don't find this cute at all
@@keepitfrankwithfentsey 😮 yybo
i envy you....i had a disagreement with my brother and he threatened to beat me up now i have to be the one protecting myself
This becomes more heartbreaking with every fresh revelation.
This was an electrifying and powerful episode! Fumi reminded all of us to remember our value! Wow! The interspersed parables have their weight in gold. Praying for Keke and her family!❤
Yup! The violence often escalates during pregnancy because they feel they’ve “got you” - that you’ll be less likely to leave if you get pregnant or have a child with them. Sometimes, abusive men will tamper with a partner’s birth control to get them pregnant. Regarding Sarunas- he was describing himself and his brother!
Yes make you or break you , leave
All of this is so true.
Confirmed. That's what i'm going through
My heart breaks because Keke raised me for real!!!! My parents still call her Akeelah as they always played that movie constantly and told me to always try my best in school like Akeelah. I would also run home after summer school to catch her brief talk show , “Just Keke”. I would always get joy from seeing her smile and listening to her advice. I pray God protects and covers her and her baby. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I also remember her as Akeelah. She deserves better. That guy should be arrested. Keke deserves support. There are plenty woman s who are suffer from domestic violence. Another case is from another brazilian lady Ana Hickman who was attack in from of her 10 years old from is husband on 11 of this month. No wonder why plenty women today choose to stay single.
I was in a relationship with someone like this for 11 years. The verbal and physical abuse grew into hell on earth for me. You do not see it coming in the beginning of the relationship, but once it grows, the abuser makes it very hard to leave, both physically and psychologically. I pray she has support to keep that man's very toxic energy away. She will need it.
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Me too and it was not easy to leave its easy for people outside to say why you don't just leave but it doesn't work like that when you are in it
Let me just say, I was in an abusive relationship for 11 years before I married him. He always said he would change & I believed him( I was divorced with 4 young children from my 1st marriage) He made me believe he was the only one that would want me. After the wedding he went from slapping to choking & punching me. Shortly after this started to occur I found the strength & courage to leave him. With the help of the courts I got away & started over. It is possible to go on with your life & be happy. To anyone out there just know YOU CAN DO IT. Your are worth sooo much more take the leap of faith and go. Before your chances to leave are taken away from you.
@@vanda3393you are so right, because no one knows the WHOLE of what’s going on but you. Unless you tell it. Best wishes to you for a bright abusive free life.
1 MILLION + VIEWS on the horizon for FUMI. These words of wisdom are so much needed in our society!
As much as we think twice before marrying someone, let’s think many times before having a child with someone (especially when not married to the person). That is a bond that becomes nearly impossible to break. Even if you don’t get along with the other parent, your child would like to connect with them. Co-parenting can become a nightmare when all that the other person wants is to hurt you.
In past interviews Keke talked about some health issues that would make getting pregnant difficult. She probably didn’t think it would happen, pregnancy, but saw it as a miracle. I wish her the best. I wish the pregnancy happened with someone worthy of it.
I agree with you. I just wish her the best.
My man told me, "you grew up watching your dad beat your mum and your brothers beat up their wives and they still stayed. That is why you apologize even when you're not wrong " that statement made me cry I knew I had things to heal from
“Not about the good looks! It’s about the good heart!” Amen 🙏🏽
Totally agree!
I left my abusive boyfriend even though things looked like they were getting better, the thought of having children and this abusive behaviour surfacing again scared me to leave. I honestly don’t regret taking this decision. I pray anyone in an abusive relationship gets the strength to leave. It’s hard but know your worth, think about the future and leave❤️
YES, FUMI!!! I LOVED THIS VIDEO!!! I JUST TURNED 65 IN OCTOBER AND I SWEAR I NEEDED A AUNTIE OR MAMA LIKE THIS IN MY EARLY YEARS! YOUNG LADIES, LISTEN TO MAMA FUMI!! SHE SPEAKS THE TRUTH. FOLLOW AND LEARN HER LESSONS!!! YOU ARE QUEENS!! DO NOT LOWER YOURSELVES. YOU ARE THE DAUGHTERS OF THE ALL MIGHTY. HOLD YOUR HEADS HIGH AND LIVE AND LOVE A BEAUTIFUL LIFE❤🙏🏾
Fumi has a special gift from God and is a blessing indeed❤️
I'm so grateful you shared this opinion today. I wish you were here to give me this message when I was 20 -30. My husband liked to hurt me. He never loved or valued me. He didn't realize I have family that loved and adored me. Not everyone because I had a lot of family that were jealous and hated me. I had 2 aunties that hated me. One that said no one will ever love you and the other who called me a whore and told me if he doesn't hit you he doesn't love you. I've dated beneath me thinking I didn't want anyone to think I'm better than them. The truth is I am better. God placed something special in each of us. Remember you are his crown and glory. I speak life and love over Keke. I pray she feels valued. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
You are special, wonderfully made by GOD.🤗😘
Don't believe the contrary.❤
That's a Caribbean slang. "If he doesn't beat you, he doesn't love you," 😊the devil is a liar
I dated a guy years ago....after he hit me the first time... i was in shock he apologized with flowers etc...then he hit me a second time.... I was like what is happening.... the 3rd time which was 1 time too many I slapped him and left and have not spoken to him since.... that was over 10 years ago.... I advice anyone leave after the first one...cause it gets worst... love yourself enough 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Women in abusive relationships don’t see their self worth when they are mentally, emotionally, physically or financially abused. Unfortunately it sometimes takes having children to take themselves out of an abusive situation because she will see that her children are more worthy of having a better life and do not deserve what she went through with their father.
For anyone who is going through an abusive relationship, just know that you are loved, you are worthy, seek help because it’s out there, plan to get out when it’s safe to do so. You are much stronger than you think. You may not see it now but, You are not alone. Trust in God wholeheartedly and in his plan because he will lead you out of this pain and from this, you will see how beautiful your life truly is. 💖🙏🏼
You are right! Took me 3 kids, and calling the police to finally get my ish together!
When all the red pill went up in arms about her outfit and agreed with him. I shook my head. What you see in a relationship is the tip of the iceberg. She was the bread winner why did he think it would be ok to humiliate her publicly? Because he knew if she really could see her worth she would leave. He was doing way worse in private and he got too cocky yet everyone on the Internet tried to make it okay that he was defensive about his wife being a super star? The star he targeted and was draining with nothing to give back.
Between Keke and Will. Two folks who had a steller careers and kept us in tears....laughter....and proud. I pray they both find there way!!!!
Keke is a low class actor. What are you talking about????? Will Smith is a supper a list actor. Kiki is sick like jada. Nobody is abusing her. She still Belize Trey Songz is after her trying to put her in a secret music video why she's going around getting freaky with other men like Usher like Jada Pinkett Smith did with August Alsina
Will Smith? If so, he’s not a victim
"HAD??!! There's nothing wrong w/Keke's career. I'm pretty sure she hosted a game show, not too long ago. And she can surely book a show, movie or series just like that! 👏🏾💜
Now this Will you speak of, I have no idea.🤷🏽♀️
Really Will? No Boo! Not the same. Jada cannot beat Will and that relationship cannot be compared to this situation. Abuse is abuse but after that Chris slap, there is more to Will’s issues than blaming Jada. That reaction comes from childhood trauma. Now back to Keke . I pray for my sister. I have been there.
@@shamrockshow8490Why don't you consider Will a victim because he is a Man Jada is emotionally, mental, abusive to Will that's a fact and it's wrong and just as damaging!!!!
Yes, Queen Sis! Our baby sisters and daughters need this honestly.
This actually crossed my mind when I saw your first video. If he was laying hands, that means it was happening during pregnancy as well.
Yes
Fumi, I feel you sis. The passion and rage in your deluvery, spoke loud and clear . You said it all.
Auntie, I will be the first to buy your book. I am 24 and following wise women like you especially has saved me from so much heartbreak. Thank you so so much for being you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This video brought me to tears. It's so easy to accept less when you feel like less- regardless of the reason. I'll be 45yo and I'm crying tears of hope. It's like I can feel the hopelessness leaving my body. Leaving my spirit. Thank you.
THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO GO VIRAL SO EVERY DAUGHTERS, SISTERS CAN LISTEN!!!!
Auntie FUMI, this is a trailer load OF WISDOM NUGGETS ❤️🔥❤️🔥😊
Reports also say he was rough with the baby and said crazy things about infant harm. One time when KeKe intervened he punched her 😢
We women have to self check ourselves. I married down…ended disastrously after 18 years. He was wasn’t physically violent but the systematic dismantling of my self worth was horrific. I take accountability for allowing it to continue for so long. I had the save a man syndrome. I am so thankful for the lessons. Get out ladies if they don’t reciprocate emotional support. That is red flag that you should never ignore. They will be emotionally unavailable to your children too!!!
Fumi I feel your passion on this very sensitive topic. I am in no abusive relationship, but my heart goes out to those who have to endure sick trauma. I pray for everyone in this world who is going through this type of misery. Let us unite, and let our voices be heard to the perpetrators, that this type of behavior is not ok, and won’t be tolerated.🙏
The hairs on my body stood up with every single word Fumi said from start to finish. ❤
Leo Palmer is so young. I hope she protects him because he deserves a happy and healthy childhood that he'll remember
I like that, his last name should be changed ASAP
Yesssss. Thank you for this Fumi!!!!! The more I hear about this, it makes me wonder if Darius and his brother witness their mom gets abused. Makes me think of this is learned behavior.
No excuses. Many men grow up around violence and their good character and humanity is why they don’t hit women.
Thaaank u!
Fumi I’m at a loss for words! I love you to life! I never comment because I’m either binge watching/listening while I’m at work or watching while I’m cooking or listing while doing my sunrise walk or sunset walk with my German Shepherd so I can’t comment! lol! Keep doing what you are doing because with every video you share so much real talk truth! I’m so grateful to God I found your channel. I love the style of your videos, the impromptu mentions about what you are wearing, your Trichologist journey (I’m on one too), your nanny, your precious friend Christina and your entire set up (editing & especially story time!) I love it all! God bless you and your beautiful family! Ya know what? If you wrote a book you would be on Amazon’s best seller list in a day! You are highly anointed to be doing what you are doing in this season and I am grateful. 😘
Checking in beautiful from Miami! I pray for KeKe 🙏🏽🌹🥰😘
Yesssssss, speak Fumi !!!, all is said by you is true, you have touched me in a profound way this day, I was abused as a wife almost everyday, hit like a man, I was messed up for a long long time, he was weak, not me, I survived and no it’s not love, after having two babies for him, he called me fat and ugly and no one would care for me if I leave him, I gain my worth and left him and never went back in spike of the threats, get out sisters get out, fight, there is a God and he will help you, thank you Fumi, love you ❤.
Thanks for your truth and passion on abuse. I feel saddened and heartbroken for every woman who has endured such abuse... thank you for this podcast. I ❤️ U and it has been a blessing...
I started watching your show after the Shanquella Robinson tragedy... praying for your continued growth and prosperity 🙏
No woman should b taking, no abuse, from no man, from the minute u see he start with this type of behavior just get out. If he do it once, he will do it again.
I am a survivor of domestic violence, my sister took me to see Whats Love got to do with it that was my wake up call. Love the Lord Love yourself. Preach Fumi Amen 🙏
Literally just finished the previous video. This is scary but REAL
This is true some are just wasting our time 😢
Not some my sister most of them 95 percentage of men are waste of women time expecially bm. Smdh😢
Thanks Fumi. I was in an emotionally abusive marriage for abt 6 1/2 years. The words were so toxic. At some point I even told him to stop talking and beat me up instead because I cdnt take the verbal abuse and derogative language anymore. But God saved me and healed me. To all women and men being abused out there be courageous and walk out. You are better alive than dead. God will not only heal you but also restore what has been lost and broken. Tx once again Fumi for bringing this out!
Omo.....Never seen Fumi this MAAAAD.
but all you said is Spot On, can't agree more darling Sis
Thank you auntie, we maybe far from the motherland but I am glad you are keeping us checked here online. Thank you ma!
I was just talking today with a friend about male toxicity especially in the black community
Goosebumps tears ,laughter, I stood up, sat down. You really got me thinking, I adore you sis. Well said 👏
I thought I would marry an Idris Elba lookalike and my husband is Japanese 😂
Sadly a lot of girls think that a “struggle love” is a purer form of love 🤪. When she was talking with Steve Harvey that’s the feeling I got. She’s such a lovely, vibrant person and yet still got caught in the trap 😢
I saw Jidenna’s video on tiktok and I nearly cried ❤️🩹
Eff Jidenna and men like that. Then everyone is coming for women like "why y'all not having babies"
✍️🏽Very courageous of him to share his story. But that's what you do when you heal-help others. 🙏🏽
He was aware of being attractive to women and women accepting any type of treatment from him, these things combined are dangerous for both parties
@sarantoure7233 Sorry to sound silly, but I don't understand what exactly he is saying he has done to women?
@@madusutra2375@sarantoure7233 I don't know who will pick up this message so il'll send this to you to. Sorry to sound silly, but I don't understand what exactly he is saying he has done to women?
You’re so right Auntie Fumi! And it is so scary out here! I thank God I’m married and have good husband. I truly to do feel for the young women in my generation! Even with my own little sisters. I want them to value themselves more! We’re more than just our bodies! Yes, it is true what we have between our legs is powerful! We have to know it though! I’m currently pregnant right and will teach my daughter the value of her womanhood! And how she is more than what is between her legs and to NEVER accept a man who will try to put his hands on you! He isn’t a man he is coward! She will know this! Her father and I will show her value of relationship where we respect and love each other. So, that when some Lil boy tries to come in her ear. She’ll know her worth and value because we have it instilled in her since her birth!
You are really speaking to the daughters. I am a daughter too. It makes me emotional to remember my pregnancy. Thank you for addressing the real thing in what Keke Palmer has been going through. It is easy for the other people to blame Keke. It is not easy to be in touch with her and all the daughters' pain. They prefer to believe that it would never happen to them.
it typically takes a woman 5-11 times to finally leave an abusive relationship. If you know anyone who is being abused, don't leave them, DO NOT ALLOW them to self-isolate or to be isolated. Stay a safe place for them so that when they are ready to leave, they have someone to plan with or run to!
I ❤ you FUMI! Thank you for this! I wish I would’ve heard your teachings 25 years ago! Even after being in a 21 year relationship, I would’ve known more of the “warning signs” and “red flags”. I did exactly what you said to do about NOT OPENING MY LEGS to a man, but there signs even after that.
Agreed. Vigilance is key. The crazy, the decline of respect can shift any moment.
What happen !?
@@marlenequialarafael1408 we separated 4 children and 22 years later. He’s a good person, just hasn’t dealt with his own traumas and at nearly 60, chances are, he probably won’t.
I felt this to my core. Come on Fumi!!!
Fumi EXACTLY!!!! At an older age I was there back in 2017! 7 months into the relationship and recovering from fighting breast cancer! 2019, I left with what was on my back. Pressed charges, and lived in a hotel for almost 2 months. Moved with my big sis, until I found. My own place where I'm living now. And I thank God 🙏🏽 I never settled down in a relationship. BC I did not want to raise my now daughter 38 and son soon to be 28. In a household where I grew up, my mom was abusive, and still is. I promised I would never allow my kids to grow up the way I did and I kept my word!!!! 🙏🏽 Now 56 I've never been happy and I will never settle, ever‼️‼️ I love you Fumi, and I'm looking to start a RUclips channel and podcast about DMV. And my experience, yes it's not that easy. But I know God had me ❤️🙏🏽 One love, Ramona New York ❤❤❤❤❤ Fumi you are gorgeous, sis 🔥🔥
You are a queen and start that youtube channel. Be ready mentally for thr pick mishas as they will comment regularly, telling you how you had to do this better, do that better, and this and that. Start that channel and speak your Truth. Wish you the best
Yes! Our young sisters need to hear this message. I’m from Africa and you explained the dowry meaning very well. Never mess with a woman even after you marry her. It’s a whole tribe watching. May Keke family surround her with love and protection.
I hope this video is shared with Keke, her family or closest friends. Thank you Ms. Fumi for your encouraging words and hope anyone who encounters this video receives the compassion, support and empathy from your words. God bless you💜
Glad I get to take this from you auntie.
You spoke like a True African Auntie Indeed, those with ears will hear 😢
U are so right Fumz . This nonsense needs to stop and it starts with us woman to stand and say No ! Enough is enough
Happy Sunday Fumi! This conversation needs to go viral!📢 This is why we love Fumi!💕
Abusers get so creative in taking different kinds of women down.
It was so brave and epic of keke to go to that usher concert, and to leave Darius
Fumi, if it was possible to like an episode 1000 times, this would have been that day for me. The wisdom was pouring ❤
Fumi you are being praised on TikTok for this video!!! Thank you for speaking on this!
I have never commented on here but i was compelled to. Fumi I agree with you 100% especially the bit about not sleeping with the guy until you're married!! I'm 52 and if I could do it all again I would not sleep with a guy until I was married!!!
I truly wish I could like this more than once Fumi. Thank you for thinking about us and giving us guidance💓
Fumi....that message came out of your soul! If whoever is listening to you didn't feel it, they need to listen to it again. If a person tries to disrespect my children, they disrespect me, and I'm not having it. My husband is a great example to his children, a loving, kind, God fearing man, and I'm so glad he is. Blessings to you Fumi for speaking truth.
This Video should go Viral. Excellent Teaching here and the First "USELESS" should be a Meme.
I got the chills listening to this message. Thank you for sharing your council, blessings to you lovely!
Everyone is saying “this is what we needed” and I don’t disagree, Fumi is my Auntie in my head. But just shocks me that ALOT of people haven’t been told this type of quality information from your own mothers and/or grandparents, Aunties, older sisters, etc. here lies even a bigger issue. Thank you Fumi, we love you for filling the void!! ❤
I came back for another ass whooping 😅
But seriously though as the child who saw violence. Stop putting your children through this nightmare with you. Get advice and support to make secret plans to leave and follow through on it.
I'm so glad my mum left my dad.
Auntie Fumi can you do some research then create an episode on how to leave an abusive partner. It might help someone. ❤
That's a great idea!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you Aunty Fumi. This would be so nice
You was PREACHING Fumi!!!!
Not the soaked panties, Fumi! 😂😂😂 The way I just screamed🤣🤣
Domestic Violence is so easy to get comfortable in! It’s sad because I hate it happening so much but it’s certainly hard to think of a world where women are safe.
Preach it Sister I stand with you and all that you're saying ❤ KEKE I am so sorry my dear but we got you girl don't worry you will get there ❤
Thank you young man for your revelation and truthfulness... These young women need to hear this.
Yessss!!!! I love this 1000x over. Write the book…I absolutely ❤ u!!!!!
Fumi you slayed this story.
I know you helped many young woman with this one.
You told no lies.
Love ❤️ you SiS
Thank you for speaking on this. You nailed it! Unfortunately a lot of women are stuck because they have no way out, let alone the victim blaming that one has to endure.
Its always a way out...its just never easy
You are full of wisdom. God bless you for teaching and inspiring the world. Keep going. Keep teaching. ❤
You're absolutely right, Aunt Fumz. Thank you for the words of wisdom.
Fumi - The intensity of the emotions in this video is palpable. It was difficult to watch, especially for someone like me who has experienced a similar situation. I am 51 years old, and in my previous marriage, my now ex-husband also attempted to harm me in our new home. Being Jamaican and standing at 5' 3", I stood my ground when he reached the bottom of the stairs and looked up at me. I had a broken glass bottle in my hand, prepared to defend myself. He quickly turned around and never attempted such behavior again. I am willing to face jail time if necessary, rather than allow a man to lay his hands on me. It is heartbreaking to witness this kind of abuse, but I am relieved that Kiki managed to escape and that her son is now safe with her and without him . We definitely do not need another person like Darius in the world.
I love how auntie Fumi turns mere gossip into a full session of teaching and empowerment. Such wisdom. Viva, mama!
I appreciate you! I am so happy that you exist and all the work you are doing! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾❣️Thank you!!!
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 No one else could have summed it up better than this
TLC wrote the song “No Scrubs”’for a reason.
Keke was so brave to call out trey songs, to help other women, and to try and help chrisean rock recently
She's amazing and so loving
What about herself she was not thinking about her self you first 🥇 then help others
Maybe she was close to their pain she was actually 😊crying out for help for herself.
The last 7 mins...ELECTRIFYING!!! Thank you Aunty Funmi
This is really good, strong talk, much needed. I do believe someone has been rescued by this conversation. Thank you Mama Fumi.
At this point I am scared of man
I feel you....they can't protect us because #1: It's not in their nature to do so (woman is usually the one running to the rescue of others)
and #2: THEY (men) are the only ones we need protection from....
Preach Fumi!! Sending to both my 20 something daughters asap!!
All I can say is God is using you!! Preach my Darling!!!!!! You are Amazing!!🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Fumi you are an exceptional human being