So true, I walked away from my kid's father after 10 years. Although I am a single mother, I now have a great credit score. My hair has grown longer than it ever was the entire time I was with him. my children are happy we feel safe and at peace. We are our children's 1st. teachers ladies let's STOP teaching them it's ok to be miserable.
Yes ma'am.. My skin got brighter from the dullness and hair stop falling out.. Glad for you and all of us that had to learn and grow. But got strong and now have a peace of mind!!
I'm one of your single 50 plus listeners. One question I've learned to ask myself when I was actively dating is, if I was ill, would I want this person at my bedside making important decisions for me or would I want to be at his bedside? Most cases it was a no both ways for me. "Gat to go".
@@LaSultrySoul The sooner you learn and practice discernment on which situations are advantageous for you will only benefit you at any stage of life. Unfortunately for me, there was no RUclips with hundreds of videos. Even with that you have to vet who and what you are listening too. Mr. Gaskin has made it more than clear, some of us are sheep in middle of wolves. Happy to see his cup runneth over.
I'm closer to 60 than 50 and I am using that same concept for discernment...would he take off work to take me to/from a colonoscopy (let's be real)? I knew it was over when my husband of 30+ years would not do this for me, even though, of course, I did it for him. I'm loving my freedom...if God says I'm to be single the rest of my life, I will be alright!
WOMEN...PLEASE LISTEN TO. TONY....HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH..IVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT...AND WASTED SO MUCH TIME AND YEARS...BELIEVE ME IF HE LEAVES YOU DO NOT..DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..IM JUST LIKE PAUL WILLIAMS WHO LEAD THIS SONG WITH. MOTOWN RECORDS GROUP THE TEMPTATIONS.."DONT LOOK BACK"...I LISTEN TO THAT SONG..ALL OF THE TIME..VERY UPLIFTING SONG BY THE TEMPTATIONS....I LOVE THE VERSION OF THE SONG THATS ON THE TEMPTATIONS LIVE ALBUM WHICH IS ON YOU TUBE..."DONT LOOK BACK"...DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..TONY IS TELLING THE TRUTH..MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE...YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER..THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT AND WILL LOVE YOU.. WITH .NO DRAMA..YOUR LIFE IS NOT A REVOLVING DOOR..REMEMBER THAT..PRAYERS TO YOU ALL ..
@@yemedemure414 sis i was born with that name and God has blessed me with a father that was born with that name and a mother that was proud of that name cause she was a Savage for Christ so it has been thru the test of time. I would like to Add that I’m Savage for God” my maiden name is one that I’m proud of cause its made me into a strong, positive, and resilient woman of God. When the right man come into my life only then will i consider changing it. Stay blessed my sista 🙏🏾 sister Love 💯❤️👍🏾
Yessss very lonely...so I have become my own BEST FRIEND. When I get weary of being to myself then I just start praying and God cradles me in His loving arms and rocks me and redirects my thoughts.😊
Don’t ignore the red flags 🚩 sis! What you ignore and disregard right now will be the very thing that causes discord later on! I learned my lesson with ignoring the red flags smh.
I’m convinced fear of being alone is probably one of the most toxic traits someone can have aside from being envious. I enjoy my own company so that allows me to not let just anybody into my space and do what I need to to maintain my peace. Solitude and sanity > than keeping toxicity in your life. You also stunt your personal growth this way.
If I can do it, you can do it. Single mother of 4 in a shelter then a friend’s couch. The Bible says “ It was good that I was afflicted “ it was. God provided for me and my children. I’m thriving in my business and God keeps blowing my mind with new opportunities. I’ve been single 5 years if I date again good, if not I’m still good.
I have 3 and I'm pregnant. Just found out my boyfriend cheated on me. Just straight up shocked... The dr called me to come in for my swab results..he confessed.... Just in shock I paid for this mans attorneys while he was locked away in immigration. I paid for his down payment for his other attorney this year for his child case because he wanted to fight for her. I have done so much. I'm leaving and I believe in God and that we will be okay.
@@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 You and the children will be okay. You deserve better and your health is very important. Trust God and find a family or friend that can help you in your transition. I’ll be praying for you. You got this 😘🙏🏾❤️.
Can you please do a video on how a toxic father and daughter relationship can affects the daughter's dating life(when the father is present). I would love to hear your thoughts on how a father shapes his daughter's view of men. Especially when he withholds validation and no matter what you do it seems like you never good enough in his eyes.
Omg...It’s what I’ve been growing through. My mother was the bread winner. My father was present and we lived as a family but he is very controlling and berated me as I got older after my mother passed. I
Once a guy leaves you, it's a wrap. They have to like you more than you like them. That's the only way it works. If he left, he was willing to take the chance of losing you
Omg!! That exact thing happened to me a few months ago. My cousin called me talking about her abusive boyfriend and asked me to help her get away from him. Now I'm out of $2500 and two weeks later she posting pics of them together calling him the love of her life.
Tony is so right. I met a man and he knew I was in wife in a month. For me, I never had that before so I wasn’t prepared or ready to step in that place but ladies pls know that a real man knows and it doesn’t take long.
He left me for the one he cheated me on,she dumped him after two years of them been together,he wanted her back she left and he back to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and asking me why I'm so upset about he just done a mistake ,so I said if she never left you ,you never back to me and you know what the manipulative man says that I should not think like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wish him to go to hell,I never took him back he can propose beg wherever I will never again love him again or even look to him as man or have respect for him.
Haha same!! He hit me up wanting to get back and I was thinking about everything he said right now when I saw this vid posted a min ago. Perfect timing!!
Hey 👋 Tony, good advice as always. I left my toxic husband after 11 years of marriage. Our daughter was 10 years at the time and for the first time I had to rent my own apartment, be a single mom and pay my own bills. Life was stuff financially. I didn’t entertain a new man because I was too busy working and raising my daughter right. Now she’s 23 years old graduated with her medical degree from university and now doing her residency in a hospital. Ladies I’ll not lie it was difficult but I refused to give up, my daughter kept me focus and with God’s grace I survived. Now my daughter is on the right path and I’m doing well. I’m now ready to date the right man God has for me. “Be strong ladies, believe in your ability”🙏💕
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 i sooooo had to hear this today. He left and 8 months later came back talking about wanting to work on our marriage (I’m his 3rd marriage). So glad I didn’t break and go back.
Keep going about your father’s business Tony...Kingdom work is rewarding. I pray for you and your family brother because your obedience is better than sacrifice. God bless!
He is a mama’s boy. He left me to go back to his mom. That was the nail in the coffin for me. Now months later he misses me and knows that I’m his wife? Um no sir your mom is your wife carry on and God bless!✌🏽
I always say there is a woman somewhere!!! She either under the bed, in the closet, in his bathroom, behind the curtain, in his car, or on his couch. I don’t get fooled when a man says oh I’m not seeing anyone. Right!!!!
A grown boy will be offended by what you are doing but a mature man with a healthy mind will take the message and change his ways. God said it himself “ New King James Version When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” 1Corinthians13:11 So those men have to respect what God has put on your spirit to speak about. Point blank Perioooooood in my Tony Gaskin’s voice 🤣
Right on time! Weak moments tempts me to get back an abus husband. but. God answered me when he sent you my way to wake me up.. but I feel so much peace without him. The kids are happy without all that mess.. Thanks love your Great!
Unk you made really good points as always. As someone who has been in a former abusive relationship, I’ll say that when you are really done and at your breaking point then no excuse will hold you back from leaving. I let that financial aspect keep me there because we were living in a home that was 2500 a month. I was worried about how I would be able to maintain all the bills as a single mom of two small children but I had to take that leap of faith. I kicked him out (it wasn’t easy but when u mention that Popo 👮 oh that got him) When I tell you God provided and made sure I never missed a payment on ANYTHING and my kids was all the way straight! I could write a whole book on how much God looked out and worked through ppl to make sure I was able to stay in that home until lease was up, it amazes me. God is a amazing. When you let go and Let God handle it he blesses you in ways you wouldn’t even imagine. Now I’m a proud home owner and he put me in a better place. Turn your pain into purpose. God gives us the gift of Life. Don’t waste it on people who don’t value you.. Thanks Tony, God works through you to empower us!!
Your attitude is what defines you. This man is giving away the game and you complain about advertisements!!! Wow! Everything in life worth having requires sacrifice! Grow up LISTEN to wisdom so that God will Bless you. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Brother Tony is walking with the Lord. At 58 he is telling me things I wish I would have learned from my father. Years wasted for lack of knowledge. Stay humble, keep your spirit calm, pray and Thank God you came across this channel. It will save you a lifetime of heartache. I am crying 😢 just thinking of 40 plus years of relationship trauma! But I am full of hope that one day after working on the three B’s, well I have one down God will send my Boaz. In His timing... Be Blessed🙏🏽😇💕
Hello Tony not only some men are upset because u giving advice. But also your Success and turning your life around👍. You right never ever take a man back who Emotionally and physically abuse you. May God continue to bless you and your family always 😊.
Tony Ive said this before but I gotta say again Thank Yu So much for just educating us grown women on The Game! Listen I was just with a group of women recently and Im telling you lots of women are just not up to The code! I told them they need to listen to your channel and get some education. It will save them a lot of heartbreak. Blessing to you Tony. Ive listen and learned from you Tony and im 58 years old, Never to old to learn this stuff, get you some education, point blank period!
I met a guy true my sister , I didn't date after my divorce for 4 years when I met him I thought he were different telling me all u can trust women and do much more ,I moved from tx to va got us a place , I did everything for him , helped him getting cars cooked dinner washed his clothes just everything , but he really didn't do anything with me , going out or anything , one he was gone I went true a old phone and saw that he been cheating , I kicked him out , we got back together , and it happened again so like 3 weeks ago I told him to leave now he is very disrespect full towards me calling me all kind of things , but I've been watching ur videos and all what u say is so true I'm way happier now again Thank you
It took the guy I dated 2 dates. I left because he was confused and wanted to and I quote “build an empire with someone” but didn’t say he wanted that with me. I wasn’t bitter just simply moved on. We parted for 5 weeks, he messaged me and said he knows what he wants now. After having time to think. And that was a relationship. Deep in my spirit I feel in that gap he didn’t manage to find better & I’m just convenient or something. Just a lot of mind games that I can’t deal with. Peace of mind is invaluable
Omg! When your child has the right shoe on the left foot and you didn’t catch it because you were up all night crying...😂 I promise I have heard everything you said before this Tony but I appreciate the comic relief that allows me to not be as distraught about my situation... Thank you so much for giving it to us straight. It has helped me so much😊
I like the fact that you said that your calling can sometimes feel lonely . It’s true . Not everyone can go where God is taking you . Not everyone wants to grow . And that’s ok !
Awesome video stayed with him until my son had completed high school and I left life is good and my son has finished college and he is an army reserve Sargent Always consult God with any decision you make concerning your life and your children never let a man know you are desperate Bless you for your inspirational teachings
Thank you so much Tony for helping women all over! I’m 23 years old and I’m so thankful that my mom introduced me to your channel a while back. I have a whole new perspective now!
WOW! I NEVER REALLY CONSIDERED THE SPIRITUAL WARFARE U MUST BE UP AGAINST IN ORDER TO DELIVER THIS MESSAGE. I WILL BE SURE TO KEEP U LIFTED UP IN PRAYER UNCLE TONE. MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO YOU
Know your worth, value your life, love yourself, in America you can be anything, you can do anything , there are many outlets out there to earn money and keep going caring for yourself and your kids. It might not be the dream life but it would be peace of mind.
Love this Tony!!! There’s a whole lot of us women dating Jesus these days and I can vouch that its worth the peace of mind that comes with it! Be blessed!! 🙏🏻🙌
When I say Tony Gaskins is speaking the truth I’m so glad he spoke on this subject so many women need to hear this! TG been on a roll! If a man ever leave you! Never take him back! Speak on it! TONY GASKINS! 🙏🏾💯💯💯
My ex texted me A few hours ago after he said he didn’t wanna relationship, so here I am seeking advice. New subscriber, hello. Sorry about the bro-code 😩
dont take back a man who left you! Never! He's probably bored right now and needs someone attention. Please don't fall for it. Speaking from experience!
Actually, after getting through the full video, I'm getting a sense of peace about what actually happened. At 42:20 I realize I was left, because after I walked away 4x due to his disrespectful behavior, giving him chances, he knew it would happen again...he knew he was not up to my level, which is why he went back to the grown girl he left for me. She is and always will be his slave. And will always take him back after he leaves her ...NOT ME!♥️
Some men do leave women so that they can grow. My boyfriend did that with me. I was really negative in our relationship bc of things I’ve gone through in the past. I was stressing him out but he loves me so much. He said he’s not going anywhere but I need to work on my mental health. He didn’t cheat, he didn’t talk to another woman. He confessed his love for me everyday and checked up on me everyday. When I got my mind right we came back together. We even agreed to study the Bible together. He even has my name tattooed on his ring finger. So it is possible for a man to leave a women so that they can “grow”
That doesn’t completely make sense because he kept in contact with you everyday. He wanted to be single too and make sure you weren’t going anywhere. If he really wanted you to get better, he would have gave you space and not talked to you everyday , or he would have stayed with you in the relationship and helped you get through it.
@@veronicam2159 it does make sense. It’s not that he wanted to be single if that was the case he would of walked out my life completely. He wanted to make sure my mind was right. You can’t be in a relationship with that kind of toxicity. It’s not healthy at all so if changing the title of our situation temporarily is the motivation I need to work on myself then so be it. Actions speak louder than words and he shows me everyday that he will always be here for me. Checking up on me daily,visiting me and telling me he loves me every single day while we are on the path to fixing our differences is what a real man does. We are back together and everyday we work on getting better. So it’s not about wanting to be single it’s about fixing the problem before taking anymore steps to move forward and it worked for us. He didn’t go anywhere we just temporarily changed to status of our relationship. Anyways I hope this helps you understand. Everyone’s situation is different
It’s just me, my purpose, and God. I’m living that. That’s me. More men should learn to do that too. “Leather black jacket man” lol. My husband was wearing a black leather jacket when I met him at the club. Together 22 years.
Thank you so much! I wish I would have known all this stuff 20 years ago, but I guess it's better late than never. I left my grown boy, and I myself realize that I still have some growing to do bc of your videos♥️
I wish I heard this before the first of 4 times of taking the grown boy back...he was not for me and I knew it. I walked away when he started disrespecting me, trying to make a point. He begged, cried, etc... I took him back. He got worse, and I walked away again 3x. Grand finale, he got his revenge.
Yes, we love and appreciate Tony Gaskins! Many women are too tired of the games. There should be No games - both men and women need to grow and develop. Most Importantly Tony Gaskins, continue to please GOD.
This is a good topic we women make a big mistake when we take a cheater back my moto is never go backwards a Zebra never changes his stripes I don't care how much he tries to impress you or convince you that a change has come baby Duces!
I think its because people don't want to die to self. If both the guy and the lady die to self and choose to please each other and the Lord, there is no way that relationship will not be beautiful.
A peace of mind it's worth being single.
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Whew! TRUTH! Wish it was a 1000 button! 😂
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Be Blessed 😊
Facts..exactly
So true, I walked away from my kid's father after 10 years. Although I am a single mother, I now have a great credit score. My hair has grown longer than it ever was the entire time I was with him. my children are happy we feel safe and at peace. We are our children's 1st. teachers ladies let's STOP teaching them it's ok to be miserable.
There is no better example than a healthy mom...period... Keep thriving!
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Thank you 🙏🏾
Yes ma'am.. My skin got brighter from the dullness and hair stop falling out.. Glad for you and all of us that had to learn and grow. But got strong and now have a peace of mind!!
Congratulations to you I’m in progress now after 8years you’re right my kids don’t need to keep seeing me sad and the cheating wasn’t stopping.
“A man knows very well what he is doing and is taking a chance because he is willing to lose you.” TG
A word and a sermon! 👏🏾
Yes if he wants you he never leave you for anything!!! Love yourself. Thank you.
Amen!!!
Tony: “Hey Hey”
Me: *hits the like button*
Same😁
Honestly, truly!!
Same!
Always
Popin in~
Why does it have to be a game though?! Why can't people just be real and true and honest with each other....
Exactly! We need more honest and genuine people in this world. There’s too many game players just manipulative and ego driven
Because most ppl don't even know their OWN truth and aren't HONEST with themselves. As a result, they play games..sad but true
That's too much like right.
Ask it LOUDER 💯😩
YES!!!’n Say it louder so they can hear 👂🏾 you in the back!!!!!!
My mom told me once if it didn’t work out the first time why would it the second? Stuck with me ever since, now I cannot unsee it
Your mom is a genius.
Very smart indeed!
Well, it might work… if they both grow during the break.
Women need to listen to their intuition and use those 3 words "got to go".
Never make a man tell you he don't want you more than ONCE! I heard this from JUDGE LYNN TOLER and I kept it in my mind.
Love her
Why not? People keep saying this quote but never gives the actual reason why you shouldn’t let him tell u more than once😮
I'm one of your single 50 plus listeners. One question I've learned to ask myself when I was actively dating is, if I was ill, would I want this person at my bedside making important decisions for me or would I want to be at his bedside? Most cases it was a no both ways for me. "Gat to go".
That's a good question I think different ages different stages and when you at a certain stage in life uneccsary disruptions is just not nessary.
@@LaSultrySoul The sooner you learn and practice discernment on which situations are advantageous for you will only benefit you at any stage of life. Unfortunately for me, there was no RUclips with hundreds of videos. Even with that you have to vet who and what you are listening too. Mr. Gaskin has made it more than clear, some of us are sheep in middle of wolves. Happy to see his cup runneth over.
@@carolyn4realife Agreed 🤗
I'm closer to 60 than 50 and I am using that same concept for discernment...would he take off work to take me to/from a colonoscopy (let's be real)? I knew it was over when my husband of 30+ years would not do this for me, even though, of course, I did it for him. I'm loving my freedom...if God says I'm to be single the rest of my life, I will be alright!
@carolyn urdy your comment blessed me!!!!!!!
Never take a man bk if he left you
... spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and/or financially. Nope, don’t and never do it. Keep it moving forward. Never look back.
Never, never and I mean never!!
What if you’re married? Shouldn’t you reconcile?
Yeah because he will do it again.
WOMEN...PLEASE LISTEN TO. TONY....HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH..IVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT...AND WASTED SO MUCH TIME AND YEARS...BELIEVE ME IF HE LEAVES YOU DO NOT..DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..IM JUST LIKE PAUL WILLIAMS WHO LEAD THIS SONG WITH. MOTOWN RECORDS GROUP THE TEMPTATIONS.."DONT LOOK BACK"...I LISTEN TO THAT SONG..ALL OF THE TIME..VERY UPLIFTING SONG BY THE TEMPTATIONS....I LOVE THE VERSION OF THE SONG THATS ON THE TEMPTATIONS LIVE ALBUM WHICH IS ON YOU TUBE..."DONT LOOK BACK"...DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK..TONY IS TELLING THE TRUTH..MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE...YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER..THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE THAT WILL TREAT YOU WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT AND WILL LOVE YOU.. WITH .NO DRAMA..YOUR LIFE IS NOT A REVOLVING DOOR..REMEMBER THAT..PRAYERS TO YOU ALL ..
If a man can't even show and return the love a woman is giving him, don't need any other reason to bounce. Enough is enough!👌🏽✌🏽
10hrs and he knows u are the one, for convenience or marriage. That hit me like SMASH 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾 pow 💥
@@yemedemure414 sis i was born with that name and God has blessed me with a father that was born with that name and a mother that was proud of that name cause she was a Savage for Christ so it has been thru the test of time. I would like to Add that I’m Savage for God” my maiden name is one that I’m proud of cause its made me into a strong, positive, and resilient woman of God. When the right man come into my life only then will i consider changing it. Stay blessed my sista 🙏🏾 sister Love 💯❤️👍🏾
Leave when he won't commit.
I can attest that when you make a commitment to live your life for God and a life of standards, it can be very lonely.
Yes
Yup.
It can be but I would rather be lonely and have peace and happiness, trust me I completely understand 🙏🏾
It can be lonely, but look at it from the perspective that maybe God is protecting you because he knew what was going to happen down the line.
Yessss very lonely...so I have become my own BEST FRIEND. When I get weary of being to myself then I just start praying and God cradles me in His loving arms and rocks me and redirects my thoughts.😊
Don’t ignore the red flags 🚩 sis! What you ignore and disregard right now will be the very thing that causes discord later on! I learned my lesson with ignoring the red flags smh.
Oh same here and it ended badly and boy have I wished I would of called out them red flags
So so true! 💯💯
Me too
Agreed
I’m convinced fear of being alone is probably one of the most toxic traits someone can have aside from being envious. I enjoy my own company so that allows me to not let just anybody into my space and do what I need to to maintain my peace. Solitude and sanity > than keeping toxicity in your life. You also stunt your personal growth this way.
This is so real, a man will come back after he left just to keep dragging you along... Tony’s as always 100%
""When you choosing from the wrong place in your heart you have a price to pay"" Deeeeepp
If I can do it, you can do it. Single mother of 4 in a shelter then a friend’s couch.
The Bible says “ It was good that I was afflicted “ it was. God provided for me and my children. I’m thriving in my business and God keeps blowing my mind with new opportunities. I’ve been single 5 years if I date again good, if not I’m still good.
I have 3 and I'm pregnant. Just found out my boyfriend cheated on me. Just straight up shocked... The dr called me to come in for my swab results..he confessed.... Just in shock I paid for this mans attorneys while he was locked away in immigration. I paid for his down payment for his other attorney this year for his child case because he wanted to fight for her. I have done so much. I'm leaving and I believe in God and that we will be okay.
@@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 You and the children will be okay. You deserve better and your health is very important. Trust God and find a family or friend that can help you in your transition. I’ll be praying for you. You got this 😘🙏🏾❤️.
Can you please do a video on how a toxic father and daughter relationship can affects the daughter's dating life(when the father is present). I would love to hear your thoughts on how a father shapes his daughter's view of men. Especially when he withholds validation and no matter what you do it seems like you never good enough in his eyes.
YESSS! This needs to be addressed!
Omg...It’s what I’ve been growing through. My mother was the bread winner. My father was present and we lived as a family but he is very controlling and berated me as I got older after my mother passed. I
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@@jadew9177 I'm sorry you went through that 😥, how did this affect your dating life? So before your mother passed he wasn't being mean to you?
Yes this is an amazing topic!
Once a guy leaves you, it's a wrap. They have to like you more than you like them. That's the only way it works. If he left, he was willing to take the chance of losing you
Omg!! That exact thing happened to me a few months ago. My cousin called me talking about her abusive boyfriend and asked me to help her get away from him. Now I'm out of $2500 and two weeks later she posting pics of them together calling him the love of her life.
Love yourself first
@ezking 2729 me too, because I don't wanna have to bust her knee caps over my money. Lol..jk
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@@SistahJay27 thank you.
OMG.
That emotional abuse hurts deep. Then comes physical and verbal. Sucks when you love someone.
Tony is so right. I met a man and he knew I was in wife in a month. For me, I never had that before so I wasn’t prepared or ready to step in that place but ladies pls know that a real man knows and it doesn’t take long.
Not always the case, my ex left me for another chick, now hes divorced, so she wasnt the one for him, i was.
@@jesuswilljudge7296 no, that means that neither of you were
Ignore them Tony. We all the friends you need. 🥰
LMBO!!!😂😂😂
Yes!
He left me for the one he cheated me on,she dumped him after two years of them been together,he wanted her back she left and he back to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and asking me why I'm so upset about he just done a mistake ,so I said if she never left you ,you never back to me and you know what the manipulative man says that I should not think like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣 wish him to go to hell,I never took him back he can propose beg wherever I will never again love him again or even look to him as man or have respect for him.
Love Yourself first
exactly! if she never left you, you wouldn’t be here begging me. i went through the exact same! goodbyeeee
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They try to come back after being dumped so glad you moved on it’s someone better for you! 🙏🏾
You are a smart woman Silvia...God bless you!
peace of mind is priceless
You betta say that
I swear your video popped up about the time he messaged me LOL! Definitely a sign to not reply! 😩
😂😂😂don’t reply sis
Haha same!! He hit me up wanting to get back and I was thinking about everything he said right now when I saw this vid posted a min ago. Perfect timing!!
@@MoodyA1999 I’m not going to but the timing was insane! 😩🤣🤣
Yes it is! Follow through. You got this sis 🙏🏾❤
Don’t do it girl. You deserve better.
Hey 👋 Tony, good advice as always. I left my toxic husband after 11 years of marriage. Our daughter was 10 years at the time and for the first time I had to rent my own apartment, be a single mom and pay my own bills. Life was stuff financially. I didn’t entertain a new man because I was too busy working and raising my daughter right. Now she’s 23 years old graduated with her medical degree from university and now doing her residency in a hospital. Ladies I’ll not lie it was difficult but I refused to give up, my daughter kept me focus and with God’s grace I survived. Now my daughter is on the right path and I’m doing well. I’m now ready to date the right man God has for me. “Be strong ladies, believe in your ability”🙏💕
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 i sooooo had to hear this today. He left and 8 months later came back talking about wanting to work on our marriage (I’m his 3rd marriage). So glad I didn’t break and go back.
Keep going about your father’s business Tony...Kingdom work is rewarding. I pray for you and your family brother because your obedience is better than sacrifice. God bless!
"Choosing from the wrong place in your heart, there'll be a price to pay!!!!" ALL FACTS!!!!!
Keep breaking the code Tony. God has been using you in setting the captives free and I thank God for that. My eyes have been truly opened💯💯God Bless!
He is a mama’s boy. He left me to go back to his mom. That was the nail in the coffin for me. Now months later he misses me and knows that I’m his wife? Um no sir your mom is your wife carry on and God bless!✌🏽
His mama didnt raise him right
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Just went thru the same thing. Can’t marry a momma’s boy!! And yes, it’s like she is his wife!! Blah
I always say there is a woman somewhere!!! She either under the bed, in the closet, in his bathroom, behind the curtain, in his car, or on his couch. I don’t get fooled when a man says oh I’m not seeing anyone. Right!!!!
It always makes me laugh when he says “Commercial Break” and here comes a commercial!
A grown boy will be offended by what you are doing but a mature man with a healthy mind will take the message and change his ways. God said it himself “
New King James Version
When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” 1Corinthians13:11 So those men have to respect what God has put on your spirit to speak about. Point blank Perioooooood in my Tony Gaskin’s voice 🤣
My pet peeve is a man asking me for money and to feed him 😩 I hate it.
The internet is now filled with males indirectly begging women for money.
Sounds like a standard. Hashtag dealbreakers!
I hate it when men ask me if they can stay with me for a couple of days.
@@lettya3993 bLLOCKED! 😂 All of the way
@@Ms.Haleyy . Absolutely
Right on time!
Weak moments tempts me to get back an abus husband. but. God answered me when he sent you my way to wake me up.. but I feel so much peace without him. The kids are happy without all that mess.. Thanks love your Great!
Unk you made really good points as always. As someone who has been in a former abusive relationship, I’ll say that when you are really done and at your breaking point then no excuse will hold you back from leaving. I let that financial aspect keep me there because we were living in a home that was 2500 a month. I was worried about how I would be able to maintain all the bills as a single mom of two small children but I had to take that leap of faith. I kicked him out (it wasn’t easy but when u mention that Popo 👮 oh that got him) When I tell you God provided and made sure I never missed a payment on ANYTHING and my kids was all the way straight! I could write a whole book on how much God looked out and worked through ppl to make sure I was able to stay in that home until lease was up, it amazes me. God is a amazing. When you let go and Let God handle it he blesses you in ways you wouldn’t even imagine. Now I’m a proud home owner and he put me in a better place. Turn your pain into purpose. God gives us the gift of Life. Don’t waste it on people who don’t value you.. Thanks Tony, God works through you to empower us!!
You speak the divine truth. The thousands of women you help will far outweigh those players who are pissed you're revealing a code. God bless you.
Left him because hes a cheater, a liar, a grown boy & a decepticon
Decepticon🥴😂
@@ena__we4205 💯
That made me giggle...💪
@@nicolemcclintonwilks4421 😃😂🤦
At this rate I will never be with another man again!!!! I just cannot deal with all this falseness with men’s behaviour it’s too much to deal with.
Same here it's just too much maybe next lifetime if they ain't cheating they wanna kill your ass
@@chickwitthagoodies exactly!!! Doesn’t seem worth the while in my eyez! I’m just staying man free!
Sisters...Never give up ..but Surrender to trust God completely with your life and His purpose for your future. Grace and Peace🙏🏽
Don’t give up. When it’s the truth it can’t be denied.
Amen...too much effort...happier alone.
Your attitude is what defines you. This man is giving away the game and you complain about advertisements!!! Wow! Everything in life worth having requires sacrifice! Grow up LISTEN to wisdom so that God will Bless you. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Brother Tony is walking with the Lord. At 58 he is telling me things I wish I would have learned from my father. Years wasted for lack of knowledge. Stay humble, keep your spirit calm, pray and Thank God you came across this channel. It will save you a lifetime of heartache. I am crying 😢 just thinking of 40 plus years of relationship trauma! But I am full of hope that one day after working on the three B’s, well I have one down God will send my Boaz. In His timing... Be Blessed🙏🏽😇💕
Hello Tony not only some men are upset because u giving advice. But also your Success and turning your life around👍. You right never ever take a man back who Emotionally and physically abuse you. May God continue to bless you and your family always 😊.
I don’t know what’s happening! Why is Tony making video that is reading my mind! Damn! It was meant to be!
This message was badass. I feel very strong after that. Thank you Tony. Blessings to you 100x
Tony Ive said this before but I gotta say again Thank Yu So much for just educating us grown women on The Game! Listen I was just with a group of women recently and Im telling you lots of women are just not up to The code! I told them they need to listen to your channel and get some education. It will save them a lot of heartbreak. Blessing to you Tony. Ive listen and learned from you Tony and im 58 years old, Never to old to learn this stuff, get you some education, point blank period!
I'm also 58 and still learning about men!
amen
I met a guy true my sister , I didn't date after my divorce for 4 years when I met him I thought he were different telling me all u can trust women and do much more ,I moved from tx to va got us a place , I did everything for him , helped him getting cars cooked dinner washed his clothes just everything , but he really didn't do anything with me , going out or anything , one he was gone I went true a old phone and saw that he been cheating , I kicked him out , we got back together , and it happened again so like 3 weeks ago I told him to leave now he is very disrespect full towards me calling me all kind of things , but I've been watching ur videos and all what u say is so true I'm way happier now again Thank you
He is a narcissistic sociopath...run sister run fast and delete block and don't look back.
“This is about me pleasing my Lord and Saviour “ - grateful for it Coach. 💫
100% single club here. We meet on Tuesdays and Thursdays! 😂👋🏾
Time for class! 🍎🔑
It took the guy I dated 2 dates. I left because he was confused and wanted to and I quote “build an empire with someone” but didn’t say he wanted that with me. I wasn’t bitter just simply moved on. We parted for 5 weeks, he messaged me and said he knows what he wants now. After having time to think. And that was a relationship. Deep in my spirit I feel in that gap he didn’t manage to find better & I’m just convenient or something. Just a lot of mind games that I can’t deal with. Peace of mind is invaluable
Block him!
@@nathlitakarnley7495 thanks but I did and ended up changing my number because he kept on calling me off no caller ID
God is my provider! 🙌🙌🙌
Omg! When your child has the right shoe on the left foot and you didn’t catch it because you were up all night crying...😂 I promise I have heard everything you said before this Tony but I appreciate the comic relief that allows me to not be as distraught about my situation... Thank you so much for giving it to us straight. It has helped me so much😊
Got.. to.. go.. 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️ immediately 💯🙌
I like the fact that you said that your calling can sometimes feel lonely . It’s true . Not everyone can go where God is taking you . Not everyone wants to grow . And that’s ok !
Awesome video stayed with him until my son had completed high school and I left life is good and my son has finished college and he is an army reserve Sargent Always consult God with any decision you make concerning your life and your children never let a man know you are desperate Bless you for your inspirational teachings
Tony, we need to know, sooo we as Women know how to better deal with Men in 2020,
So I Thank You and Appreciate you and your
Information!!!!😊🙏🏽
Thank you so much Tony for helping women all over! I’m 23 years old and I’m so thankful that my mom introduced me to your channel a while back. I have a whole new perspective now!
WOW! I NEVER REALLY CONSIDERED THE SPIRITUAL WARFARE U MUST BE UP AGAINST IN ORDER TO DELIVER THIS MESSAGE. I WILL BE SURE TO KEEP U LIFTED UP IN PRAYER UNCLE TONE. MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO YOU
WATCHED IT 3 TIMES :D AND LEARNED SOMETHING NEW WITH EACH REPLAY :)
Know your worth, value your life, love yourself, in America you can be anything, you can do anything , there are many outlets out there to earn money and keep going caring for yourself and your kids. It might not be the dream life but it would be peace of mind.
Thank God for a man like you integrity, values and honesty want he do. I pray God continue to bless you and your family.
Love this Tony!!! There’s a whole lot of us women dating Jesus these days and I can vouch that its worth the peace of mind that comes with it! Be blessed!! 🙏🏻🙌
This was a great episode... And hr definitely well spent.
When I say Tony Gaskins is speaking the truth I’m so glad he spoke on this subject so many women need to hear this! TG been on a roll! If a man ever leave you! Never take him back! Speak on it! TONY GASKINS! 🙏🏾💯💯💯
My ex texted me A few hours ago after he said he didn’t wanna relationship, so here I am seeking advice. New subscriber, hello.
Sorry about the bro-code 😩
So don’t give him a relationship or anything else
dont take back a man who left you! Never! He's probably bored right now and needs someone attention. Please don't fall for it. Speaking from experience!
Tony we appreciate you for being a beacon of light in a world of darkness 💖
“When you do the work, the results follow” thank you so much Tony! I needed this video so much, had to watch it twice! Great message
Actually, after getting through the full video, I'm getting a sense of peace about what actually happened. At 42:20 I realize I was left, because after I walked away 4x due to his disrespectful behavior, giving him chances, he knew it would happen again...he knew he was not up to my level, which is why he went back to the grown girl he left for me. She is and always will be his slave. And will always take him back after he leaves her ...NOT ME!♥️
Keep giving away the game 🙌🏾
Yes Tony!!!! Put the Lord 1st!!!!
Some men do leave women so that they can grow. My boyfriend did that with me. I was really negative in our relationship bc of things I’ve gone through in the past. I was stressing him out but he loves me so much. He said he’s not going anywhere but I need to work on my mental health. He didn’t cheat, he didn’t talk to another woman. He confessed his love for me everyday and checked up on me everyday. When I got my mind right we came back together. We even agreed to study the Bible together. He even has my name tattooed on his ring finger. So it is possible for a man to leave a women so that they can “grow”
That doesn’t completely make sense because he kept in contact with you everyday. He wanted to be single too and make sure you weren’t going anywhere. If he really wanted you to get better, he would have gave you space and not talked to you everyday , or he would have stayed with you in the relationship and helped you get through it.
@@veronicam2159 it does make sense. It’s not that he wanted to be single if that was the case he would of walked out my life completely. He wanted to make sure my mind was right. You can’t be in a relationship with that kind of toxicity. It’s not healthy at all so if changing the title of our situation temporarily is the motivation I need to work on myself then so be it. Actions speak louder than words and he shows me everyday that he will always be here for me. Checking up on me daily,visiting me and telling me he loves me every single day while we are on the path to fixing our differences is what a real man does. We are back together and everyday we work on getting better. So it’s not about wanting to be single it’s about fixing the problem before taking anymore steps to move forward and it worked for us. He didn’t go anywhere we just temporarily changed to status of our relationship. Anyways I hope this helps you understand. Everyone’s situation is different
@ Boss Society are you now married?
He is narcissistic n if he loved u he would b with u n he jus planting seeds to keep u stuck
@@veronicam2159 at all
That was a mouthful.
You help women to see plainly. We truly have to have the wisdom of GOD over our emotions.
"Anywhere on God's green earth you can triple your worth!" 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 Yessssss!!!!
It’s just me, my purpose, and God. I’m living that. That’s me. More men should learn to do that too.
“Leather black jacket man” lol. My husband was wearing a black leather jacket when I met him at the club. Together 22 years.
I read the comments while the commercials play, I gain so much from you Tony, that’s the least I could do
Always on point. When you take him back you will definitely loose something either you loose it all or you loose some. Is 50/50.
I said it before and I will say it again, you are heaven sent. Praise God!
I’ve literally been watching your videos since 6pm last night..it’s 3am now 😭✨ I’m hooked 🤌🏽
The passing gas ⛽️ part got me laughing so hard right now lol 😂 😆
Your child will have the wrong shoes on the wrong foot...😆 🤣 😂 😹 too funny. You speak the truth 💯 🙌 👏 thank you.
Thank you so much! I wish I would have known all this stuff 20 years ago, but I guess it's better late than never. I left my grown boy, and I myself realize that I still have some growing to do bc of your videos♥️
I wish I heard this before the first of 4 times of taking the grown boy back...he was not for me and I knew it. I walked away when he started disrespecting me, trying to make a point. He begged, cried, etc... I took him back. He got worse, and I walked away again 3x. Grand finale, he got his revenge.
It's ok.. that's what happens when you do Gods will..keep it going..his blessings is bigger than what they offer
I love my brother Tony Gaskins God be really really speaking through this Vessel praise Jesus holy name 💒💒💒💒💒💒💒💒⛪⛪⛪
Thank you Tony for answering to God because so many women are healing from life and relationship issues. God will continue to bless you for it.
For some reason I focus on these Chronicles better when I'm driving! 🙂💯
Yes, we love and appreciate Tony Gaskins! Many women are too tired of the games. There should be No games - both men and women need to grow and develop.
Most Importantly Tony Gaskins, continue to please GOD.
This what happened to me he resented me when he came back around
I want to start something for women, for those honestly stuck in abusive situations.
Motivation Wednesday
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@@ericajanellelifecoaching Peace&blessing sis🙏
@@cherh Peace&blessing Sis🙏
Thank God for you... God Bless you Tony Gaskins
THANK YOU AND I WILL NOT TAKE MY X BACK HE WAS A NARCISSIST PERSON I HAD NEVER DEALT WITH THAT TYPE OF MAN BEFORE BUT I PRAY I NEVER WILL AGAIN!!
Blessed this Talent Almighty God gave You 🙏🏽
This is a good topic we women make a big mistake when we take a cheater back my moto is never go backwards a Zebra never changes his stripes I don't care how much he tries to impress you or convince you that a change has come baby Duces!
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I felt that, about to have to decide to go back to the ghetto to start over! 😪 sanity & peace over $ and comfort though.
Why do relationships have to be so complicated? They could be so amazing🙄.
I think its because people don't want to die to self. If both the guy and the lady die to self and choose to please each other and the Lord, there is no way that relationship will not be beautiful.
Cause majority of males are little boys who cant lead
Tony is speaking truth and spewing knowledge!!
Tell the truth Tony and shame the devil !!!