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Emasculating a man | UMU | Tony Gaskins

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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024

Комментарии • 522

  • @vanessasmith3081
    @vanessasmith3081 3 года назад +377

    Men cut their losses immediately when they are mistreated. Women sit there see red flags, tolerate bad treatment, disrespect and sacrifice their dignity to grown boys in the name of love and loyalty. It’s sad and that needs to change.

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 3 года назад +189

    "A man would rather be dead than to be disrespected." If women moved this same way the world would be a different place...

    • @AidaRivera
      @AidaRivera 3 года назад +4

      HONESTLY 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @jessepera2457
      @jessepera2457 3 года назад +12

      @@AidaRivera I just became a woman who would rather die than be disrespected. I never received this messaging as a little girl....just wow is all I can say

    • @AidaRivera
      @AidaRivera 3 года назад +3

      @@jessepera2457 yeah same here.

    • @beedabee1221
      @beedabee1221 3 года назад +2

      Factssss!!!!!

  • @destinyuplift
    @destinyuplift 3 года назад +309

    Queens don’t level down to a man level by disrespecting him. Queens walks away!

  • @DD-mg2se
    @DD-mg2se 3 года назад +139

    If a man cheats and you take him back you are letting him know it's ok to do it again and again and again..now he has no respect for you and will love you less..and eventually leave you

    • @nuriyahsworld5317
      @nuriyahsworld5317 3 года назад +9

      On the flip side most men cheat, where are you running too, to the next cheater. You could be bouncing round from man to man.
      All that you teach men your worth and how you want to be treated, they can hide and cheat. Like most of them do...

    • @justbu3797
      @justbu3797 3 года назад

      @@nuriyahsworld5317 You are RIGHT ✅

  • @sierram.6046
    @sierram.6046 3 года назад +322

    “The most dangerous being in the world, is an insecure man.”- I understood this completely, smh.

    • @disapphire
      @disapphire 3 года назад +11

      Yep basically Trump is a perfect example of that

    • @mbrook4983
      @mbrook4983 3 года назад +2

      Wow!!!!!

    • @her.saving
      @her.saving 2 года назад

      No doubt, I experienced that kind of man smh

    • @gencamp4014
      @gencamp4014 2 года назад

      True Story!

  • @makedat3904
    @makedat3904 3 года назад +177

    “She might look like...the Lord was in a rush” 😂😂 Dropping these gems while making us laugh. We appreciate it

  • @SimplyFitwithJay
    @SimplyFitwithJay 3 года назад +172

    Great message Tony. One thing I can never wrap my head around is how men demand respect but are so disrespectful 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kcornejo44
      @kcornejo44 3 года назад +1

      I e h

    • @precioushabeene2974
      @precioushabeene2974 3 года назад +5

      One needs to earn the respect

    • @lindalovehearts
      @lindalovehearts 3 года назад

      💯

    • @essiethebestie1
      @essiethebestie1 3 года назад +11

      Because those type of men think women don't "deserve" respect. They think we have to "earn" respect. While men deserve it.
      Once he disrespects you CHECK HIM right in that moment and put some distance between you and him. Let him know you're not the one💯

  • @kgodsmasterpiece6625
    @kgodsmasterpiece6625 3 года назад +80

    I will NOT tolerate any form of disrespect...therefore, I will not disrespect my man💯

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA 3 года назад +72

    "Remain a Queen" "operate from your Queenship" got it, Uncle Tony

  • @jsue6994
    @jsue6994 3 года назад +24

    This is also why you shouldn’t deal with men not on your level. Even if you don’t emasculate him directly, he feels insecure because he knows he does not measure up. He will cheat on you to take his power back.

  • @jessepera2457
    @jessepera2457 3 года назад +38

    Raise your standards for respect not ur tolerance for disrespect.

  • @BlacMomVet
    @BlacMomVet 3 года назад +159

    “I don’t even fight. I shoot “ 😂😂😂 only those who have a past life, caught it!!

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 года назад +14

      I caught it 😄 never shot though lol 😆

    • @tyoung3509
      @tyoung3509 3 года назад +2

      Lol 😂

    • @mstijuni
      @mstijuni 3 года назад +2

      I just laughed so

    • @ladyempire5921
      @ladyempire5921 3 года назад +9

      Oh yes! It was low but my ear caught that detail. It's real out there 😂😂😂

    • @arielhenry1189
      @arielhenry1189 3 года назад

      I definitely caught it 😂😂😂😂

  • @saetae9208
    @saetae9208 3 года назад +92

    I'm argumentive when I feel I'm losing or being dismissed. Just being transparent. Pray for me.

    • @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast
      @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast 3 года назад +1

      🙏🏾

    • @princessking2460
      @princessking2460 3 года назад +9

      Giirrrllll I respect the honesty and transparency. Not alot of people have the balls to admit that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Monce08
      @Monce08 2 года назад +4

      I'm with you.
      And I’m losing big time.
      Not only in romantic relationships but in the family also.
      I can't seem to shut up and walk away. I wanna always have the last word.
      Yesterday my mom proved that silence is powerful and it got me so frustrated that things didn’t turn out so good .. Lesson learned

    • @KeyisGodsdaughter
      @KeyisGodsdaughter 2 года назад

      I have this issue to when I’m being disrespected. My soon to be ex use to call me all kinds of name and I would ignore him, then he would keep going and I would lose it! He would then in turn call me immature and childish after provoking me. It’s my fault for not leaving early.

    • @laurajones9971
      @laurajones9971 2 года назад

      @@Monce08 me too and I’m not even working on it either sometimes I’m ok other times no pray for a sister

  • @ericajanellelifecoaching
    @ericajanellelifecoaching 3 года назад +175

    I honestly can’t stand when I hear women talk down to and disrespectfully to men. It’s like nails on a chalkboard to me. If you gotta do all of that , it’s best to break up.

    • @juliemorris2569
      @juliemorris2569 3 года назад +8

      Erica I watched a family member give her back to her man at a party and air out his dirty laundry in front of his closet friends all while I'm observing him looking at her like he was pisssssed he didnt say 1 word. Errbody gone but me its 1am. He looking for his keys like hey hone ima run to the gas station! I said to myself oh he going to call his sidepiece to see her next morning! Best believe he got revenge on her ass for giving him her ass in public. I stay out of messy stuff women gone
      Learn.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 года назад +14

      Not necessarily. If a man is with a woman like that then it’s for a very good reason. Put him with somebody nice and respectful and he would act indifferent and cold to her. Playing her for a sucker and taking her for granted. So with the disrespectful one, he may break up with her, but then go to a nice woman and use her. Taking her niceness for weakness.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 года назад +9

      @@juliemorris2569 I hear you. But the thing is though, that men do the same thing. They humiliate their nice companion before an audience. Men do it and nobody talks about it or seems disturbed by it. Seems like only women who do it are considered bad. Men can do it but women can’t.

    • @ericajanellelifecoaching
      @ericajanellelifecoaching 3 года назад +4

      Wow that is crazy! Tony is telling the truth! Men’s egos are fragile and if a woman intentionally tries to emasculate him, he will seek revenge. I have four brothers and they told me how they get back at women who disrespect them.

    • @bc1248
      @bc1248 3 года назад +12

      @@ericajanellelifecoaching If a man’s ego is fragile then everything is emasculation to him when not everything is. So that places women in a fear zone of speaking up for herself or speaking truth in general which shouldn’t be. A woman doesn’t have walk on eggshells around a man.

  • @kimmourino3051
    @kimmourino3051 3 года назад +119

    God was in a rush...lol
    An insecure man is dangerous and the most bitter

    • @mbrook4983
      @mbrook4983 3 года назад +1

      Haha!! God was in a rush😂

  • @bcallhoum7269
    @bcallhoum7269 3 года назад +32

    Study notes from the video:
    To put things in perspective, think about how a king/queen would act vs. a person of no class
    Even when a man does something to "deserve" mistreatment, don't stoop to that level.
    A good man is going to behave similarly to a good woman. He will not tolerate a woman who mistreats him.
    Think about: How many women have been cheated on (like a dog) vs. how many men have been cheated on. Why does it seem like women "Lose" more in relationships than in relationships?
    ***It is because men refuse to be beat,*** which is why they don't "lose" as much in relationships.
    There are reasons which fuel a man "refusing to be beat," though. It is usually because of the emasculation a man endures.
    You NEVER get the upper hand when you emasculate a man. A man would rather be dead than be disrespected. This goes for work, friendships, and of course in relationships. This is the way "every man" moves. For example, even before a "good" man leaves, he will likely want to get even (take out revenge) with you.
    Do not ever deal with a man who will make you have to cuss him out, fight him, etc. Because one day, it will come back, with 10x the force which you threw "your's" with. It's not worth it to have someone pump you up to knock you out, give you HIV, etc. A man would contract something on accident and give it to you on purpose just because you cursed at him. Why? Because men are sensitive, fragile. Some cry more than women cry.
    Every man has a bit of insecurity in him, because of the burden and expectations put on a man. Some men won't introduce their wives to another man out of fear she will cheat with him.
    A highly insecure man is the most dangerous man. Run if you find a man who's extremely insecure.
    Men handle disrespect much worse than women. It is because men are typically less emotionally intelligent. Men don't tolerate the same kind of crap women tolerate--this is a double standard--but can be corrected by HOLDING A MAN ACCOUNTABLE. He should rise to your level rather than you stoop to doing what he does. if he doesn't change for the better, go on about your business.
    If you meet a man and don't think he's handsome, never string him along. If you feel a man is not looks-compatible with you and you're rejecting him/pushing him away, you're emasculating him and his goal is to do whatever it takes to get you. Like a helicopter with 14k roses 🚁🌹🌹🌹😆 Pay attention to how well-known wealthy/powerful men (who are looks challenged & used to struggle with girls) treat "beautiful" (I.e. models) women. They divorce or cheat on them. The reason he does her that way is because she *knew she looked better than him* and he wanted to get revenge. He knows many women don't want anything to do with a man she finds ugly besides money, which is why he cheats. He goes for the beautiful model type to prove he can get a kind of woman who would usually go for a handsome/attractive man.
    To clarify, Tony is not saying go for men you're not attracted to at all but to prioritize character over appearances, money & status. Never go for a man who you find ugly, immature, or insecure; don't entertain him or let him wine and dine you because it isn't worth it. There are consequences.

  • @ttime9987
    @ttime9987 3 года назад +191

    No woman is esmaculating a man she respects!

  • @thevisionofbeautycoaching
    @thevisionofbeautycoaching 3 года назад +35

    Some women are triggered by a grown boy in disguise and without hesitation her masculine energy jumps up and before you know it it’s on 🗣😩. Tony’s transparency in his life and relatable stories are a blessing!!

  • @lizzylewis5793
    @lizzylewis5793 3 года назад +45

    This is so true, silence is very loud! It really works.

  • @bariannmartin8728
    @bariannmartin8728 3 года назад +57

    My mom taught me to never belittle a man in public.

    • @mmommo2025
      @mmommo2025 3 года назад +1

      mine loved to disrespect me ESPECIALLY in public.

  • @KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo
    @KnollyJamesandJoJoOreo 3 года назад +49

    “You never got the upper hand when you emasculate a man.” That’s a bar, Mr. Gaskins 💥🔥

  • @sarahmitchell4010
    @sarahmitchell4010 3 года назад +51

    I’ve been arguing a lot lately with this guy. I’ve raised my voice and got upset, but he’s busy calling me names. But I’m going to believe Tony. I’m going to do my best to walk away, I’m not the type to enjoy arguing. Thanks for the message

  • @sharicebryant8149
    @sharicebryant8149 3 года назад +26

    I’ve def dealt with very insecure men and it wasn’t fun. It only got worse with those types. Ladies, listen to Tony and run.

  • @ashleyangel1450
    @ashleyangel1450 3 года назад +38

    I’m so glad I don’t stoop down! I don’t have the time! Another thing is a lot of women that are emasculating these men are not seeking the healing needed prior to getting into relationships.

    • @Ummkelechi
      @Ummkelechi 3 года назад +1

      Very true!

    • @ashleyangel1450
      @ashleyangel1450 3 года назад +1

      @Taylor Anne you see the fact that he likes dysfunction is red flag I would have been and bounced! girl you can’t let these men get you up to ten! simply keep it cute and feminine talk in a calm voice and they have no choice but to lower their voice, it worked like a charm on my kids dad 😘it’s like reverse psychology lol!

    • @her.saving
      @her.saving 2 года назад

      This right here!

  • @AngieLolaPagan
    @AngieLolaPagan 3 года назад +9

    Tony should really consider Christian standup comedy or something lolll! My 19 year old son just came to my room to ask me if I was ok, I couldn’t stop laughing at the family reunion part 🤦‍♀️🤣! Hey it’s happened to me! Now it’s funny but it was the most uncomfortable feeling ever at the moment ! Ladies listen to Tony ,grown boys are real! They are everywhere and they will make you feel like you are the one that’s crazy! Do the work ! Trust God, trust the process, keep your legs close, if you make a mistake ;do not be so hard on yourself, forgive yourself ,move on , continue working and re-focus! Best wishes to everyone!
    By the way,
    Currently reading A woman’s influence (what a Gem) ,and have been a subscriber for a while! Thank you Tony & Sheri!

  • @thehuskygirl3346
    @thehuskygirl3346 3 года назад +26

    If a man tells a good classy woman she is old & ugly ; yet you clearly can see she is beautiful......true & loyal to him....he is one stupid man.

  • @magnificentmile9684
    @magnificentmile9684 3 года назад +43

    QUEENS don't stoop to the level of a Grown Boy. PERIOD!!! Queens walk away!!!!

  • @realalldway-raw4996
    @realalldway-raw4996 3 года назад +21

    This is very true.
    I did this to my Fiance.
    The final argument, I kicked him out, never responded to his text, no phone call.
    That is when he started chasing & realized that he was taking me for granted.
    I told him to get back with me, he will need to be better than what he is now.
    He cannot throw tantrum for no reason or next time he will not just be spoken to, he will get a restraining order.
    If you respect yourself, walk away from a person who disrespects you.
    Never ever settle for garbage.

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad 3 года назад +40

    Imma be honest Tony this is one I am working on. I have had some very toxic men in my lifetime & they can take you there. I've walked away from every last one of them, but not before I said some words I couldn't take back. Thank you for opening us up to the mind of a man. These are lessons that are critical to us as women!

  • @ClowneryAtItsFinest
    @ClowneryAtItsFinest 3 года назад +23

    Future met Scottie Pippen awhile back and he was very nasty towards Future. The way he got his revenge on Scottie was by having an affair with Larsa......the man’s wife and mother of his children.
    Tony ain’t lying when he said men are sensitive and some cry more than women do!

  • @araya9316
    @araya9316 3 года назад +33

    my ex said his new girl always cusses him out & disrespects him. he went right back to her... must be something some men like.

    • @charmekiawhite3633
      @charmekiawhite3633 3 года назад +5

      Yeah an insecure man

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 3 года назад +3

      Either he have low self esteem or she put the juju on him and find it hard to leave.

    • @ladyjvlogs7463
      @ladyjvlogs7463 3 года назад +6

      It's probably because he can't find nobody else.

    • @marybell2002
      @marybell2002 3 года назад +6

      A lot of men like women like that. Theres fewer healthy balanced people in the world than there are ones who seek out terrible partners.

    • @sunflowerrayne6026
      @sunflowerrayne6026 2 года назад

      @@ladyjvlogs7463 this one, I've heard many men say "no one else would want me".

  • @lial6061
    @lial6061 3 года назад +39

    “Although he look like Shrek’s first cousin” 😅😂🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

  • @RocSkater09
    @RocSkater09 3 года назад +19

    Thats facts. I cry about 2 times a week. Probably weep bout 1 a week. On my personal time.

  • @whatsnextsis2904
    @whatsnextsis2904 3 года назад +16

    “She might look like the Lord was in a rush.” 😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭😭😭
    bye Tony!

  • @RubyRoxxie
    @RubyRoxxie 3 года назад +25

    This is another awesome/needed topic but I’m over here cracking up.. you just said “she look like the Lord was in a rush.” I can’t 🤣🤣🤣

  • @flydollronda1926
    @flydollronda1926 3 года назад +51

    "IF YOU CHEAT ON A MAN...RUNNN,,,facts!

  • @Leaveit2_Vee
    @Leaveit2_Vee 3 года назад +111

    The quiet person is the strongest...aht aht gotta go

  • @92Tweetylove
    @92Tweetylove 3 года назад +13

    Listen to this man! He know what he is talking about!!!

  • @joycesexton2495
    @joycesexton2495 3 года назад +13

    This man is something else like a comedian he be cracking me up God bless him 🙏

  • @AidaRivera
    @AidaRivera 3 года назад +15

    I’m literally laughing so hard right now. He said “I don’t even fight I shoot” 😂😂 I haven’t laughed this hard in a while. Thank you Tony

  • @kathart5045
    @kathart5045 3 года назад +25

    “The Lord was in a rush” 🤣

  • @ThisIzKena
    @ThisIzKena 3 года назад +79

    I'm on the floor in the first 2 mins..
    "Ah, come here Chancellor..Um, the gentlemen right there...OFF with his head. Thank you"..
    Lemme rewind and try to focus! 😂😂💀

    • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
      @AllThingsTiffanyTV 3 года назад +8

      Girl rewind it. I’m on my third run 😂😂😂😂😂😩😩😩

    • @ThisIzKena
      @ThisIzKena 3 года назад +6

      @@AllThingsTiffanyTV Gurl....I JUST made it thru..😂😂😂

    • @Ms.Haleyy
      @Ms.Haleyy 3 года назад +1

      Third time here we go gur 🤣🤣

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 года назад +3

      If we lived in those days and I was the Queen, I would have done that for real !

  • @simplysimone7174
    @simplysimone7174 3 года назад +26

    “You built like a binocular holder”🤣🤣

  • @sharonlee7296
    @sharonlee7296 3 года назад +38

    I DO NOT get it. When I love someone, I celebrate them. I add to his strength. I lift him up.

    • @julesshind2331
      @julesshind2331 3 года назад

      Amen!!!

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 года назад

      I understand you but Tony is talking about what to do when your man is not treating YOU in a loving way and does things that make u feel like cursing him out or smacking him etc

    • @adinacollins2870
      @adinacollins2870 3 года назад

      @@durbansaladyinaccra2173 He's showing you how much he does not respect you. Love & respect yourself and exit quickly. It won't get better sis and you deserve better...be blessed

  • @jimmyharrison290
    @jimmyharrison290 3 года назад +14

    Once again Mr Gaskin Servin up solid gold truth on a platter of silver.

  • @naturallyfree01krj50
    @naturallyfree01krj50 3 года назад +7

    That is true, so so true when a man even think you cheated . Lady's run and please don't look back. He WILL put you through it. Even after yall break up he will bring up it and still want to argue about it.

  • @jessicathompson7392
    @jessicathompson7392 3 года назад +6

    your the big brother i never had,i love hearing a honest man perspective,the good bad and the ugly

  • @rrb2895
    @rrb2895 3 года назад +24

    Dirty mean and insecure men never play fair. He is telling the truth!!

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 3 года назад +17

    Queenship that part! Stay in your queenship 🙌🙏👑❤

  • @missadug
    @missadug 3 года назад +5

    It gets me every time when Tony does the woman impersonation lip smack "Owooo, Tony you don't know".... Insert whatever we don't like to hear that steps on our toes🤣🤣🤣
    This makes me laugh every single time!

  • @desereeme5084
    @desereeme5084 3 года назад +21

    Between ... Aggressive, Assertive, or Passive Aggressive....
    Goal state is "Assertive".
    You are correct

  • @kennyn5605
    @kennyn5605 3 года назад +16

    Tony, you are right about soul tie as a result of someone sleeping with many partners, which also leads to fragmentation of the soul. Pieces/fragments of the person's soul are in the different people the individual slept with. But only Jesus can heal that fragmented soul and make it whole again.

  • @nikkimiller594
    @nikkimiller594 3 года назад +8

    When he cheated, he already left the relationship (or he’s gonna leave soon).

  • @silvana-brazil-usa9422
    @silvana-brazil-usa9422 2 года назад +3

    My heart is melting of joy, I always behave exactly like that with me and others trying to tell me I was soft, I was a loser, and trying to change me. I'm in peace to hear about your knowledge about men. God bless you and your family, you don't have idea how it s helping a lot people. I'm so thankful my parents teach me this now I appreciate them more. Love and peace

  • @aurer4002
    @aurer4002 3 года назад +49

    It’s the “Satan get thee behind me” for me🤦🏾‍♀️😭

    • @Ms.Haleyy
      @Ms.Haleyy 3 года назад +7

      “Don’t call me satan!” 🤣🤣

  • @elmastar55
    @elmastar55 3 года назад +5

    I’m always here for Tony’s re-enactments 😂🤣😂🤣
    I’m learning and laughing at the same time! Lol!

  • @halleelizabeth
    @halleelizabeth 2 года назад +2

    ong whenever something bothers me or hurts me i dont say shit. bc i needa make up my mind how to handle a situation before i do something ill regret

  • @Natalie-ro8ct
    @Natalie-ro8ct 2 года назад +1

    Tony is ON POINT!! Exactly what he said at the end of this video happened to me. I tried rejecting a man who I felt we were looks incompatible, he pushed & begged his way into my life, he came in paying bills, quickly posting me as his girlfriend on his social media…he was so proud to have me & those things won me over. years later guess who is pregnant & got left? ME! Over the course of the relationship he reminded me several times of how in the beginning I told him he was to over weight for me. I had good confidence before him, was very independent. I feel he tried to break me down over the years. I should have blocked & deleted him from the start & not let him force himself into my life.

  • @debsmith2789
    @debsmith2789 3 года назад +3

    I talked to a man I met for two months. He was a mature man , player, who approached me as a reformed Christian. When I asked him how many women he is dating , he named a woman he “talks to” . and a woman he had in a motel. He’s 62. I told him I’m not a No. 2. He continued to attempt to perform acts of service
    but I knew I would be asked to pay. I walked away. I believe I did the right thing as a Proverbs 31 woman. He had not changed his stripes.

  • @flydollronda1926
    @flydollronda1926 3 года назад +14

    "Naw I'm just playin,,,Ion even fight, I shoot" 🤣🤣😭😭😭

  • @curli-lettey4319
    @curli-lettey4319 3 года назад +8

    I say this, if your words dont make your mate understand your message, the volume of your voice wont do it either.

  • @concetta3436
    @concetta3436 3 года назад +2

    This message is so true , I’ve seen it , an insecure man is reckless and dangerous, anything goes . When they think they got nothing to lose , anything goes . Tony this is 💯 percent true

  • @IshanaeS
    @IshanaeS 3 года назад +8

    “You better stop looking at me like that” 😭😭😭😂 I’m yelling!

  • @courtneyt2794
    @courtneyt2794 3 года назад +4

    This is one of your best videos! Gave it to us blood raw and hilarious!! Thank you Tony! 🤣

  • @misst72
    @misst72 3 года назад +2

    Whew!!! I wish I'd known this years ago because I would have been spared the heartache of trying to love an immature man! Mr. Gaskins is on point yet again!!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @SittingPRETTY727
    @SittingPRETTY727 3 года назад +5

    I wish he would do a video on how man really and truly feel when their spouse don't get along with their family

  • @SueHerr
    @SueHerr 3 года назад +1

    Tony, this is information gold! Bottom line, never stoop to a man's immaturity and act like a Queen. It's all about protecting yourself as a woman from getting hurt in the future. Wow! Thank you Tony!

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney 8 месяцев назад +1

    Still true in 2023. Thanks for the wisdom.

  • @candidavasser4399
    @candidavasser4399 3 года назад +5

    I love the advice of Tony. I'm guilty of this but learning to do better.

  • @erynd.9911
    @erynd.9911 3 года назад +15

    Idk why anyone would date or entertain someone they aren’t attracted to..that makes no sense to me lol i wouldn’t be able to do it🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m definitely not shallow and looks aren’t everything but i would never waste a man’s time like that..it’s not fair to them! And stop using men for a foodie call sis !

    • @meadowc6058
      @meadowc6058 3 года назад +4

      Men do it all time! We have such high beauty standards but the reality is men will sleep with the majority of women while the opposite isn’t true.

  • @shecreates365
    @shecreates365 3 года назад +24

    Remain a Queen and be alone

  • @ginad8238
    @ginad8238 3 года назад +21

    I’ve been waiting for this topic🙏🏽

  • @peacearise2157
    @peacearise2157 3 года назад +10

    Omg. I am at work listening and I have to fight not to bust out laughing.

  • @courtnibooker85
    @courtnibooker85 3 года назад +2

    This is my first time watching TG content. I’m quite impressed. Can’t wait to watch more.

  • @kymistryw
    @kymistryw 3 года назад +3

    When I tell you, YOU ARE THE TRUTH. everything you saying is truth,

  • @isbellliverpool4697
    @isbellliverpool4697 3 года назад +6

    Loose men get married more than loose women❤️

  • @annpreacely3256
    @annpreacely3256 3 года назад +4

    I'm saving for you to coach me. You have really Blessed me.
    Thanks for being obedient to your calling.

  • @ms.o9989
    @ms.o9989 3 года назад +2

    🤣🤣🤣 your delivery of the message is GREAT 🙏🏽

  • @rachealchikontwe2873
    @rachealchikontwe2873 3 года назад +1

    You are real when you start talking I always start playing what you saying like a movie in my head

  • @MrsLC-tp8oj
    @MrsLC-tp8oj 3 года назад +10

    I’ve been waiting for this topic. I haven’t heard the entire video but thank you for the insight. I did all this except for the slicing tires thing but things I Did do it was not worth it hurt me on the long run. I have been hit but I didn’t leave, I have also done some hitting in a next relationship when the man didn’t hit me and I could’ve went to jail he could’ve pressed charges on me. It was not worth it I have been disrespectful and I admit I paid for it I look back and see how horrible it was and how much it costed me.

  • @anointedra
    @anointedra 3 года назад +27

    Wow. Cousins?? If a man is that insecure or jealous, there's a major issue. Ijs.

  • @natalieorr1974
    @natalieorr1974 20 дней назад

    This video helped me so much. I am guilty of making those mistakes talking down to men and swearing and paying a price for this later. This video one of the best aside from ego vs heart the information and message is priceless

  • @carlycarls3104
    @carlycarls3104 3 года назад +24

    A deep topic.... a way to lose him fast

  • @LadyAngela678
    @LadyAngela678 3 года назад +29

    My grandmother emasculates her husband, Im expecting him to leave her anyday. Its disgusting.

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 года назад +8

      Well like Tony said he's probably already gotten back at her 🤷🏾

  • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
    @AllThingsTiffanyTV 3 года назад +5

    Tony when you said Tyler Perry movie and Cha Cha slide .... I BURST OUT LAUGHING 😆 😂😂😂

  • @LeafsIn2024
    @LeafsIn2024 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much, Tony!
    Those men in my life just came back with apologies. I was loyal and am not materialistic but three years with one and two with another, years apart from each other - their exes are a whole other story and I got mixed into the consequences.
    Six months later and I am almost back to my happy self again but, oh, so much more confident listening, learning, and applying the new knowledge!
    Going about my business now, thank you Jesus and the Gaskins family! Amen.

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 года назад +22

    “In the real world, so many women take Ls, take losses in relationships.” TG

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith 3 года назад +6

    This is true 💯 Thank you TG ❤️

  • @aladyindeed2604
    @aladyindeed2604 3 года назад +6

    I would have never know this like this if you hadn’t have shared it. Woooow! And omg 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @darlenesweet-wright7985
    @darlenesweet-wright7985 3 года назад +1

    Thanks TG just woke up to a text and saw this video. It was right on time. I surely was about to respond to this text in the wrong way. Now thanks to your video I’m gonna stay on my Queenship thrown and not stoop to his level as I have done so many times in the past. Thank God for opening my eyes and you for this video. Keep me in prayer.

  • @healthwiz
    @healthwiz 3 года назад +4

    😂 😂 😂 😂 Tony cracks me up.... And educates me simultaneously... 😂

  • @tisacharlylungu8396
    @tisacharlylungu8396 3 года назад +2

    men truly know their worth, that's why they don't take disrespect

  • @s.a.h6440
    @s.a.h6440 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for this message Tony. It explained a lot about the behaviour of an insecure man. Men think and react so differently..

  • @shellettebell1618
    @shellettebell1618 3 года назад +3

    Love 💘 the pillow nice touch..a woman's influence 🙏🏽

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 3 года назад +4

    He said the gnat went to flea Heaven😂😂! Tony is seriously hilarious😆🤣😂😅!!!

  • @krystallynne007
    @krystallynne007 2 года назад +1

    You have me laughing so much! Made my friday night 😂😂😂 awesome video!

  • @imjustsayin2393
    @imjustsayin2393 3 года назад +5

    You are a comedian! Join Kings of Comedy 😂😂😂

  • @dimediamond
    @dimediamond 3 года назад +26

    A queen doesn't get off her thrown to pick cherries 🍒 with peasants . ever.

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 года назад +4

      Yes more like never leave the throne to entertain foolishness ✅

    • @bullangel1936
      @bullangel1936 3 года назад +2

      Her throne you mean

    • @dimediamond
      @dimediamond 3 года назад

      @@bullangel1936 yes that spell check version

  • @InTheRecoveryRoom
    @InTheRecoveryRoom 3 года назад +1

    She could look like “ the Lord was in a rush!!”.......I CANNOT WITH MR G!!!!!!!!🤣🤣

  • @haydeejohnson8290
    @haydeejohnson8290 3 года назад +3

    THIS WAS AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!
    GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS🤗