Moral of the story: know your worth and don't settle. Life is too short to settle for anything less than what God has for you and if you have something ignorant to say about his message make sure you make it good because you will get BLOCKED! 😂
So very true! Whoa, this was a deep video, but Tony is right, you won't hear this truth in the church so he has to teach it. I appreciate it!! I might be 99 and never married and on hospice waiting to meet the Lord and I still won't be desperate and sette. I just can't do it!
Perhaps you said it better Rachel, but he may have said it incorrectly ....saying women may not deserve what they are yearning for, yet explaining we were designed this way.
“There are single men out here can't find a woman because the good women so caught up looking at men for the wrong reasons or putting up with a grown boy." TG
Coming from a toxic household as a child, I can fully attest to the fact that children DO in fact know when their mother should not be with their father. Growing up, I never wanted my father around us.
I used to pray to God to release me from living (kill me and let me go to heaven early) , because of the physical,verbal,mental,emotional abuse by my dad toward myself,and one of my two siblings (😱yes there was a sibling that was favored&recieved healthy parenting ,despite that same parent being a monster to the others). I used to fantasize & daydream of being rescued by my "real" parents. Which later in spuurred on a fictional storyline for a book. I wrote my first book for that series, in 7th grade (not published). How sad is that. Glad I have grown and gotten past that way of thinking. It was a coping mechanism.
I'm 26 and Tony is the wise male figure I've never had. I listen to the videos from start to finish. Thank you for your hard work Tony it's appreciated
my mom died when I was 9, it was all downhill from there. My dad was heartbroken with 4 children. My mom's besties were convinced he needed to remarry and helped him find a mate. He remarried within a year. They had a new baby. Then my dad checked out of our lives (but stayed close to the new wife and daughter). I married a criminal basically and no one really tried to stop me. You make your bed.....we had 3 kids, he cheated from day one, we separated a few times. He was verbally abusive but made sure to keep himself out of the slammer. After 34 years, my boss helped me get away, slowly but surely. Saw thousands of dolphins on a hike yesterday==my 1-year anniversary of freedom. Too bad I didn't know about TG many years ago, but I tried everything, counseling, Dr. Laura, Dr. Dobson, christian counseling, church (which I still go) my children are raised and out of the house as of 1 year ago also, all doing well. Time for me now.;)
Over the past few months I definitely have been renewing my mind about the way that I relate to men and see them. I’ve been changing my mind to not care about what they think or their opinion and not being desperate for their attention and validation and I feel more and more confident. I’m renewing my mind to only focus on what God says and God’s opinion of me. Genuinely not caring and not needing to have a man will prevent desperation.
@@joi5787 you got that right a person must be insane to put up with some BS like that that would tell me off that bat that he is no good and I wouldn't waste my time on somebody like that that's just nasty I have too many morals and value and standards and respect for myself a man like that couldn't even sniff my way
Tonyyyyy! You ain't neva lied. My mom left my dad with 4 kids...let me repeat...FOUR kids! I was three years old! My youngest brother was 1 years old and the oldest was 5! She did NOT look back! So you're telling the truth when you say these women are DESPERATE if they stay for the wrong reasons! And less than a year after my mom left another man (step-dad) came into our lives and raised us like his own! Tony is telling no lies! Ladies, stop the desperation and pick yourself up, leave and move on with your life!
I love this comment. I left my kids dad and my youngest isn’t even 1 yet. But i knew i had to go. I am getting myself together because one day i want an amazing man to come into me and my kids life. My bd always try to tell me no one will want me because of my kids but i know i will one day. This gave me some hope.
I want a provider man because my father was a bum, as well as every man in my family. Every man my mother ever dealt with was a loser. I refuse to entertain bums and be like my mom. I want better for myself, or I’d rather be by myself.
Only a woman can be uniquely her own woman: “A Phenomenal Woman” by Maya Angelou. She wrote about it well. So many women don’t feel complete because they are alone. Aloneness is a good thing. I like what you said before Tony in another video that “Eagles fly alone”. That stuck with me so much. Life doesn’t stop because you are alone. Learn to live with yourself. Love yourself. Learn to love the system and the system will love you. Just be the best woman you can be married or single and God will take care of the rest.
I want to be a wife really bad, but let me tell you I will leave a man in a heart beat if I'm not treated like the queen I am. I know my worth and I dont let no man play on that!!
@@charityshamese9967 For your information I am a husband and a very happy one at that. But from my experience, most men don't want the responsibilities that come with being a husband. They prefer the freedom of playing the field until they reach a certain age.
@Euphora eup I don't want to grow old by myself. I'm ready for companionship, I'm ready to make memories with my husband. I'm ready to submit, I'm ready to build. I'm ready to serve God with my husband. I'm ready for my forever etc....
No way! No money or status in the world can influence me to deal with a man who has baby mamas and deals with men. I don’t know how women can even kiss a man who just got off the microphone 🤦🏽♀️
At 51yrs of age I'm learning more & more from you Tony every day. Because of your motivational video's, next week I will be training with a personal trainer 4x a week to get my body in shape & maintain good health. In a couple of months I will be taking your Life & Relationship Coaching classes and writing my first book. I plan to start my classes Dec 1st. (My X-Mas gift to myself😊) I have a AS degree (Legal Secretary) and will be continuing my education in Jan to receive my BS degree in Accounting so that I can become a financial advisor as well. Thank you Tony for your dedicated & motivational video's to Utube. God bless you.
Just had a breakup 1month ago,Im 32 years old,I wonder if they disrespect you on purpose because they think you are older and you gona tolerate bs-I told myself I was NOT going to become desperate-I was not going to tolerate disrespect and controlling behaviour even if I love the guy.I also thought about the fear of being alone-I had to overcome my fear and this ladies is courage.Dont listen to that clock in case you are worried-God Loves you and He wants the best for us!Remember that
I value me too much, I thank God I'm healthy, in my right mind and I have a heart that desires to love God. After marriage to the same man (twice) together over 25yrs, I can not give a man an opportunity to waist my time again. I would love to be with a wonderful grown man who loves me and can shows it, but if I never meet him I'm good in this world by myself. It want be the first time and I know I will never lie, cheat, belittle or stab my own self in the back or heart for that matter!!! God is Love!
Malgorzata C the pain is gone!!! But it was truly like morning a death. I now know it was never real, 2 sons and a daughter (20,23&28). He manipulated and used our relationship until i wised up. We where together but i was the mom and dad for our kids, even now. But i thank God my heart now knows the truth!!!! I’m above him and the pain and I’m going even higher each day!!!
I was married to my ex husband for 18 yrs but together 27 yrs I had to get out he took me for granted I could never go back I was hurt betrayed etc I gave my all to the marriage but I thank God for deliverance it's been 3 yrs since the divorce and I'm doing great I don regret a thang
One of your best videos ever, Tony. You addressed so many delicate subject matters so well and with real courage, says this white woman who usually says nothing but clicks on "like". I am truly grateful for the lessons of honesty and integrity that you present that affect all human beings everywhere. Thank you, too, for the American cultural expression explanations. That helps to follow the examples. Resonated with be desperate for and trust in the Lord, read your Bible, and why. Thank you for caring about us and keeping it real. You're absolutely right - we would not hear about these matters at church or, I believe, anywhere else. It is a privilege to be here. Please stay safe and be blessed - you and your beautiful family. 🇨🇦
God has not blessed me with children yet at 30+ years old but I find myself very nurturing and motherly like. I also know I need to put my fears in check.
This had to be the funniest one thus far. My laughter was so loud the whole video. I can’t with him🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️ This is why I love him. Funny and informative at the same dang time💪🏾😊
Tony how come I always get the bad guys I'm a good woman I'm faithful and loving and loyal and more I was with a narcissist for like 12 years and ever since then I've been getting bad men dating Bad Man how come????
Both hilarious and enlightening! I cannot express with words how much my life has changed since I found your videos. Every day, one or 2 videos. Sometimes I watch the same video several days in a row when I feel like I need more time to get the message, I keep learning from you, and your words mean the world to me ♥ Thank you for everything you do
He just wants us to do better. . Self love... we can do it . . A little boss up .. glow up... i am not going to lie . I want to be right with or without a man lol.. but he's going to be mine hes going to have good character.. treat me right ..team work .ambition too .. .no more revolving door. Time to do right by me.
Even though Tony's words raw words made me cringe a bit, he is so right on!! The church does not speak on truth like this. We need this Tony.. thank you!!
Tony your videos have brought me out of a dark place. You have spoken so much life into me. Coming out of a 9 year toxic relationship I needed major HEALING. I was desperate for love for so long. Thank you helping to know and understand my worth. I knew it but my desperation clouded my judgement. After watching “ be ok being single” “ your healing” and numerous others. I feel so much stronger in my womanhood. To be able to WAIT FOR MR TIME. Your videos are amazing, your words resonate in my soul and I have been able to apply it to my everyday life. You don’t know how much you’ve built me up.
Tony you are right on point....some women are so desperate to be married or in a relationship. I sale furniture and some of my customers confide in me since I'm an older woman. This woman is dating a man in prison who will be released in January 2022. They are engaged to be married and he wants her to move with him to the country, away from her family and 3 teen children! I informed her that this is a red flag!! He wants to isolate her so he can have total control over her life. She is in her 40's and never been married. I told her not to act like a wife until she becomes one. Take it slow he need to get a job, a place of his own, a car, and savings for their future. Also they need to go to the doctor to get tested for STD's...she can't wait to have sex with him! I told her to keep her legs closed, but she said" I'll try." So sad she really need God in her life!!
His commentary and stories make me laugh so hard because I'm visual and I just can't 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂 sometimes I have to pause and breathe 😂😂😂😂 The Woman Coalition Rescue Squad!!!!!😭😭😭😭😂😂😂 Designated to Rescue You...Wake You Up and then Send You On Your Way 😂😂😂😂😂
Can’t pin point a particular part ....this whole video though 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 microphone ,olive oil stick on shoulder, I just can’t 🕳🚶🏾♀️larina aaaaahhhhaaaa, sense men on his breath ,cryingggggggggg....archangel bring the head scratcher 😂😂😂😂 no no no no ......BLOCKED!!!!.
You are literally an Earth angel. You saved my life; I am so grateful to have bumped into your videos. I’m 18 y/o and I am now closer to God growing into the woman I desire to be. May God bless you and your family thank you so much.
You are the ABSOLUTE BEST!!!!!!! We ALL NEED TO HAVE OUT TOES STEPPED ON every now and then. Thank you my Brother in CHRIST! You are DEFINITELY LIVING in your PURPOSE. Truly GRATEFUL TO GOD FOR YOU.
I just think that desperate is a harsh word.. Some of us just dont know any better. I did put up with a toxic relationship in the past but once i was educated on domestic abuse, battered wives syndrome, self worth, etc... I broke away from the toxicity, not just in that relationship but with everyone that is toxic. Keep making these videos. Keep spreading the word. I wish i would have stumbled upon you when i was with my ex. I would of blasted these videos on the tv so he could hear em day in day out lol. We just gotta pray 4 bitter women, that God will open up there eyes and minds 2 understand the negative mindset they are content with. But i salute you 4 accepting your calling 2 educate the masses. It a beautiful thing 2 witness.
Agreed. Sometimes it may seem like desperation, but many women are not hip to the games men play and so it can be easy to fall into their traps unless we know better. I am thankful for men like Tony who share this knowledge and truth because it can be hard to do better unless you know better.
even though some of us do not know any better it is the spirit of desperation, we feel it inside, we have a brain we know when something feel right or nah
@@nathalie8497 i agree. I knew that something was off. I knew that i was off and thats why i saught help. And once i was educated, i walked away and never looked back. I am still humble and modest but i am no longer gullible. When tony speaks, its like hes holding up a mirror forcing his viewers 2 look at their own reflection. And when hes says desperate its like "ahhhh yeeea dannng i was a lil desperado..." Lol. That word hits like slapping a person in the face when trying 2 get them 2 wake up! Some women just have 2 learn 2 soak in that constructive criticism 2 begin 2 see the world with open eyes instead of trying 2 keep them closed bc ur feelings are hurt...
Wow, I always knew my purpose was to be a mother & nurturer & I was always excited to get there. I am for independent women but I don't get wanting to be like a man.
The way you said bisexual sent me🤣🤣🤣..Man this was the realist, most funniest video ever. I love how you can joke about different matters, but yet be very informative at the same time. Watching your videos has definitely changed my mindset and way I date. If someone watches your videos and still does the same stupid things in their dating life, they just can't be helped. You are so blunt, yet so gentle.
Ok Tony. I am enjoying this video because you always keep it 100. I was not fortunate to bear children. I have my nieces and nephews and I treat them as my own. Since my divorce they keep me busy.
Omg! You crack me up I'm listening to you on my ear piece at work bout to get caught laughing out loud like I'm crazy😂😂😂. As funny as it may be it is so real thank you for delivering a message so powerful with humor.
I can't thank you enough for these videos. I have a best friend who recently got married to a man who's no good. The desperation was/is so clear. Meanwhile, I left a guy I really liked cause I realized he's a grown boy and that kind of relationship isn't going to add anything to my life. I'm hoping she realizes soon he's not good for her.
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Tony is turning into a comedian, I'm crying over here with laughter. 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
He really is funny 😂
Girl he been a comedian. You ain’t know? 😭😭😭
He possesses a lot of qualities I would like to find in a man🙂
“Men don’t have Womenopause” lol
@@NR-yt4ku Don't worry. Yours is coming
Dudes want to be treated like a female nowadays it doesn't resonate with my spirit.
😂 so true
😂😂
Big facts
These men want to wear a skirt and be treated like a princess.
@@dimediamond 😂😂👍🏼
Moral of the story: know your worth and don't settle. Life is too short to settle for anything less than what God has for you and if you have something ignorant to say about his message make sure you make it good because you will get BLOCKED! 😂
BLOCKEDDDD!!! With the quickness honey! I love it
@@lialia8073 yes ma'am! 😂😂
Yes very true🤣
So very true! Whoa, this was a deep video, but Tony is right, you won't hear this truth in the church so he has to teach it. I appreciate it!! I might be 99 and never married and on hospice waiting to meet the Lord and I still won't be desperate and sette. I just can't do it!
Perhaps you said it better Rachel, but he may have said it incorrectly ....saying women may not deserve what they are yearning for, yet explaining we were designed this way.
If you want to be desperate for a man, be desperate for the Love of Jesus Christ!! You spoke a word here nah Tony!!!
A whole word. I needed to hear that.
put that enery towards you sis!
Amen amen
“There are single men out here can't find a woman because the good women so caught up looking at men for the wrong reasons or putting up with a grown boy." TG
This! ☝️👏
Coming from a toxic household as a child, I can fully attest to the fact that children DO in fact know when their mother should not be with their father. Growing up, I never wanted my father around us.
I used to pray to God to release me from living (kill me and let me go to heaven early) , because of the physical,verbal,mental,emotional abuse by my dad toward myself,and one of my two siblings (😱yes there was a sibling that was favored&recieved healthy parenting ,despite that same parent being a monster to the others). I used to fantasize & daydream of being rescued by my "real" parents. Which later in spuurred on a fictional storyline for a book. I wrote my first book for that series, in 7th grade (not published). How sad is that. Glad I have grown and gotten past that way of thinking. It was a coping mechanism.
I'm 26 and Tony is the wise male figure I've never had. I listen to the videos from start to finish. Thank you for your hard work Tony it's appreciated
I"m 52 & learn something good ever time I hear Tony. He has lots of knowledge & he is blessed to be a blessing.
Amen . Same age and i agree ❤️
No one should force themselves to be with someone they are not attracted to. You can look good for your own self worth, not to attract someone.
Amen.
Knowledgeseeker lishaQw358 It works both ways. I made the comment with both men and women in mind.
When he paused to go on an ad, youtube actually put an ad😂😂
He Forgave Her Cellulite But she Didn't Forgive His Hairline 😂😂😂😂😂
🤣 so many won't forgive anything. That's why they don't get great love & relationship.
my mom died when I was 9, it was all downhill from there. My dad was heartbroken with 4 children. My mom's besties were convinced he needed to remarry and helped him find a mate. He remarried within a year. They had a new baby. Then my dad checked out of our lives (but stayed close to the new wife and daughter). I married a criminal basically and no one really tried to stop me. You make your bed.....we had 3 kids, he cheated from day one, we separated a few times. He was verbally abusive but made sure to keep himself out of the slammer. After 34 years, my boss helped me get away, slowly but surely. Saw thousands of dolphins on a hike yesterday==my 1-year anniversary of freedom. Too bad I didn't know about TG many years ago, but I tried everything, counseling, Dr. Laura, Dr. Dobson, christian counseling, church (which I still go) my children are raised and out of the house as of 1 year ago also, all doing well. Time for me now.;)
🎯 1 year anniversary of freedom 👌
Over the past few months I definitely have been renewing my mind about the way that I relate to men and see them. I’ve been changing my mind to not care about what they think or their opinion and not being desperate for their attention and validation and I feel more and more confident. I’m renewing my mind to only focus on what God says and God’s opinion of me. Genuinely not caring and not needing to have a man will prevent desperation.
“If you got some ignorant to say you might as well make it good cause it’s gone be yo last message... BLOCK” 😂😂😂😂😂
No it wont because all people have to do is keep making different accounts😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao
“It’s 2020. I don’t understand why women wouldn’t accept a man with 6 baby mommas and sleep with Menn” 😂😂😂 Nah imma head out ✌🏾
RIGHT!✌🏾
Did he say that?
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U gotta be insane to allow this!!!!
@@joi5787 you got that right a person must be insane to put up with some BS like that that would tell me off that bat that he is no good and I wouldn't waste my time on somebody like that that's just nasty I have too many morals and value and standards and respect for myself a man like that couldn't even sniff my way
She NEXT level !!! I love that you honor your wife !!!
Amen
Tonyyyyy! You ain't neva lied. My mom left my dad with 4 kids...let me repeat...FOUR kids! I was three years old! My youngest brother was 1 years old and the oldest was 5!
She did NOT look back! So you're telling the truth when you say these women are DESPERATE if they stay for the wrong reasons!
And less than a year after my mom left another man (step-dad) came into our lives and raised us like his own!
Tony is telling no lies! Ladies, stop the desperation and pick yourself up, leave and move on with your life!
@@blueseptember2174 💪🏾 Strong and knew her worth. That showed me alot!
I love this comment. I left my kids dad and my youngest isn’t even 1 yet. But i knew i had to go. I am getting myself together because one day i want an amazing man to come into me and my kids life. My bd always try to tell me no one will want me because of my kids but i know i will one day. This gave me some hope.
I want a provider man because my father was a bum, as well as every man in my family. Every man my mother ever dealt with was a loser. I refuse to entertain bums and be like my mom. I want better for myself, or I’d rather be by myself.
Only a woman can be uniquely her own woman: “A Phenomenal Woman” by Maya Angelou. She wrote about it well. So many women don’t feel complete because they are alone. Aloneness is a good thing. I like what you said before Tony in another video that “Eagles fly alone”. That stuck with me so much. Life doesn’t stop because you are alone. Learn to live with yourself. Love yourself. Learn to love the system and the system will love you. Just be the best woman you can be married or single and God will take care of the rest.
Well said Sis!😊
Yes and Amen!!
Amen cinder gone girl you better preach Hallelujah thank you Jesus be blessed 🙏
I'm sorry I missed spelled your name cindee gone girl preach it 🙏
Agreed 🙌🏾.. I always say to the "peanut gallery 😒" I'm alone but I'm not lonely, it's a big difference" 😊
I want to be a wife really bad, but let me tell you I will leave a man in a heart beat if I'm not treated like the queen I am. I know my worth and I dont let no man play on that!!
Okkkkkaaay
It's funny women want to be wives so bad, but the last thing dudes want to be is husbands.
@@allenmack5589 Speak for yourself. There are some men who want it just as bad as women.
@@charityshamese9967 For your information I am a husband and a very happy one at that. But from my experience, most men don't want the responsibilities that come with being a husband. They prefer the freedom of playing the field until they reach a certain age.
@Euphora eup I don't want to grow old by myself. I'm ready for companionship, I'm ready to make memories with my husband. I'm ready to submit, I'm ready to build. I'm ready to serve God with my husband. I'm ready for my forever etc....
All your classmates done got married. And you ain’t even “SNIFFED A RANG!”💀💀💀😂😂😂😂
Men on pause lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Slumdog millionaire lol🤣🤣🤣 forreal
“You gonna attract what you deserve” Amen 🙏🏽
I will remember that.
I almost needed CPR after that statement. TG 🤣
@@elainepjones2478 Gurl! Me too!
Rolling here!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Did I wipe good ... cus I had chilli... “
Sir... I am speechless .... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😆😆😝😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I almost choked. Whew, that man is hilarious!!!!!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 I was eating breakfast and I laughed out so loud I spit out my food..lol.😄😄😄
Tonyyyy I’m dyingggg. These undercover conversations are toooo muchhhhh 😂😂😂 i cant stop laughing. But it’s really true. They are nastyyyyyy
No way! No money or status in the world can influence me to deal with a man who has baby mamas and deals with men. I don’t know how women can even kiss a man who just got off the microphone 🤦🏽♀️
Perversion and nastiness!
The microphone 😂😂😂
"She wants Ddris Selba" 🤣🤣🤣
You are the best Relationship Coach that has ever happened to me ...God bless you richly 🙌
The desperation comes from emotionally unhealed attachments (detachments/open wounds) and sexual desire.
Very true!
So true for me. I have an anxious attachment style. I'm working on it.
So true! Key is to stay focused on God to decrease those fleshly desires. It’s hard work but worth it.
@@Th3lite same here
“Your two month old don’t know you!!! .”😩😩😂😂
Pause, RUclips run an ad. Ad over Tony started again. 😂😂 I’m over here three years later rolling! 🤣🤣🤣
“He den forgave her cellulite, but she won’t forgive his hairline!” That just sent me! 🤣🤣🤣❤️
I’m white and I love the funny comments regardless of who it’s applied to, and even if it is about white girls, it’s true so why get offended hahaha
At 51yrs of age I'm learning more & more from you Tony every day. Because of your motivational video's, next week I will be training with a personal trainer 4x a week to get my body in shape & maintain good health. In a couple of months I will be taking your Life & Relationship Coaching classes and writing my first book. I plan to start my classes Dec 1st. (My X-Mas gift to myself😊) I have a AS degree (Legal Secretary) and will be continuing my education in Jan to receive my BS degree in Accounting so that I can become a financial advisor as well. Thank you Tony for your dedicated & motivational video's to Utube. God bless you.
Go Sheree 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾!
@@oliviam5890 Thank you so much.😊
"Listen! A sin is a sin!...Stop bein' Desperate for Love!" ~TG
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Facts 💯
Exactly therr is no SIN greater ... Sin is Sin.... ie , stealing, lying, etc... all the same...
“You thought I was sleep...nope, I was up...BLLLLOOOCCCKKK!😈😂😂😂😂
Hahaha that's funny blocked blocked you better say queen right Lol just saying cuz Tony will get mad 😂🤣👍👌😎😊🤩😋😛😁😀🌟🙏🤤🌞
You thought l wasn't paying attention huh Tony 🤣😂😀😁👍👌😊🤩
Just had a breakup 1month ago,Im 32 years old,I wonder if they disrespect you on purpose because they think you are older and you gona tolerate bs-I told myself I was NOT going to become desperate-I was not going to tolerate disrespect and controlling behaviour even if I love the guy.I also thought about the fear of being alone-I had to overcome my fear and this ladies is courage.Dont listen to that clock in case you are worried-God Loves you and He wants the best for us!Remember that
Im also 32. I have to fight against those thoughts of being older now with no kids. But I want what God approves for me NOT what my flesh says.
Mr. Gaskins be giving away gems no lie..💎
I value me too much, I thank God I'm healthy, in my right mind and I have a heart that desires to love God. After marriage to the same man (twice) together over 25yrs, I can not give a man an opportunity to waist my time again. I would love to be with a wonderful grown man who loves me and can shows it, but if I never meet him I'm good in this world by myself. It want be the first time and I know I will never lie, cheat, belittle or stab my own self in the back or heart for that matter!!! God is Love!
That's crazy. 25 years it's so much. Do you think it was real or completely wasted time? It must be much pain.
Malgorzata C the pain is gone!!! But it was truly like morning a death. I now know it was never real, 2 sons and a daughter (20,23&28). He manipulated and used our relationship until i wised up. We where together but i was the mom and dad for our kids, even now. But i thank God my heart now knows the truth!!!! I’m above him and the pain and I’m going even higher each day!!!
I was married to my ex husband for 18 yrs but together 27 yrs I had to get out he took me for granted I could never go back I was hurt betrayed etc I gave my all to the marriage but I thank God for deliverance it's been 3 yrs since the divorce and I'm doing great I don regret a thang
@@kendragrant7139 We gone be just fine without them! We just have to keep moving forward!!!💕✌🏾
Absolutely!!
One of your best videos ever, Tony.
You addressed so many delicate subject matters so well and with real courage, says this white woman who usually says nothing but clicks on "like". I am truly grateful for the lessons of honesty and integrity that you present that affect all human beings everywhere. Thank you, too, for the American cultural expression explanations. That helps to follow the examples.
Resonated with be desperate for and trust in the Lord, read your Bible, and why.
Thank you for caring about us and keeping it real. You're absolutely right - we would not hear about these matters at church or, I believe, anywhere else. It is a privilege to be here.
Please stay safe and be blessed - you and your beautiful family. 🇨🇦
God has not blessed me with children yet at 30+ years old but I find myself very nurturing and motherly like. I also know I need to put my fears in check.
Ladies, it will happen. Be patient and focus on loving yourself. I had my son at 36. I dont regret that age at all. I was mature and settled.
@@sandraperry8287 Thank you for your encouragement darling. God bless you!
Pray All things with Gd is possible
Believe that it will happen. 🙏🏾✨
@Euphora eup Thank you so much, Many Blessings to You!
This had to be the funniest one thus far. My laughter was so loud the whole video. I can’t with him🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️ This is why I love him. Funny and informative at the same dang time💪🏾😊
No one ... absolutely no one .... Tony Gaskins : Dookie Shoot 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I've been watching you all day u talk alot like me when I'm not shy what do I got to do to be like you a mentor right
Tony how come I always get the bad guys I'm a good woman I'm faithful and loving and loyal and more I was with a narcissist for like 12 years and ever since then I've been getting bad men dating Bad Man how come????
“Adultnap”. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You really need the holy Spirit in these days it's so much deception and when you are drawn away by your own LUST ..
Can I hit that like button more than once or nah? 😂😩😂
Wisdom and laughter every time
Leslie Hernandez facts!!!! 😂😂😂
Cheating isn’t limited to sex, at all.
Both hilarious and enlightening! I cannot express with words how much my life has changed since I found your videos. Every day, one or 2 videos. Sometimes I watch the same video several days in a row when I feel like I need more time to get the message,
I keep learning from you, and your words mean the world to me ♥ Thank you for everything you do
Yes!! Tell your wife I need her as a coach 😂😂
I literally spit out my tea when he said Osama bin Laden nephew😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m weakkkkk
Nyeesha Thomas 😩😩😩😩😩😭😭😭😭😭
PLEASE PLEASE NEVER STOP BEING REAL & MAKING THESE VIDEOS!!! Bless you sir!!
This man talking too much sense!! Love it!!
He just wants us to do better. .
Self love... we can do it . . A little boss up .. glow up... i am not going to lie . I want to be right with or without a man lol.. but he's going to be mine hes going to have good character.. treat me right ..team work .ambition too .. .no more revolving door. Time to do right by me.
Always look forward to the message from Uncle Tony.❤
Watching in London love the accent 😎
yasss!
Favorite phrase, “Got to go!” 😂🤣
You can always upgrade your RUclips account to avoid all advertising ads. It’s well worth it !!!
I got it and I love it... one of the best uses of my money 💰
Not “ satan’s nephew!” 😂😂😂😂
Wisdom 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And Lucifer Jr😂
Even though Tony's words raw words made me cringe a bit, he is so right on!! The church does not speak on truth like this. We need this Tony.. thank you!!
Lol when he talks about blocking I’m always on the floooooor.
Lord thank you for raising him up.... protect him Jesus
Most of us women are scared to be alone I had to get out of that mindset. Thank God for healing!!
Tony your videos have brought me out of a dark place. You have spoken so much life into me. Coming out of a 9 year toxic relationship I needed major HEALING. I was desperate for love for so long. Thank you helping to know and understand my worth. I knew it but my desperation clouded my judgement. After watching “ be ok being single” “ your healing” and numerous others. I feel so much stronger in my womanhood. To be able to WAIT FOR MR TIME. Your videos are amazing, your words resonate in my soul and I have been able to apply it to my everyday life. You don’t know how much you’ve built me up.
"You might favor Gladys Knight" 😂😂
Tony: Alright RUclips run an ad!
RUclips: Ok got you.
Basicallyyyyy😂😂😂🤝
😄I pay for Premium, did the ad play when he said?
That part is killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣
Joy yes it did, right on cue. 😂😂😂
@@Intuitivelyspeaking13 That Tony is the master of this here RUclips.
"OH you do both" pops lips.. I see a vision in him though🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂😂
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Tony you are right on point....some women are so desperate to be married or in a relationship. I sale furniture and some of my customers confide in me since I'm an older woman. This woman is dating a man in prison who will be released in January 2022. They are engaged to be married and he wants her to move with him to the country, away from her family and 3 teen children! I informed her that this is a red flag!! He wants to isolate her so he can have total control over her life. She is in her 40's and never been married. I told her not to act like a wife until she becomes one. Take it slow he need to get a job, a place of his own, a car, and savings for their future. Also they need to go to the doctor to get tested for STD's...she can't wait to have sex with him! I told her to keep her legs closed, but she said" I'll try." So sad she really need God in her life!!
Great advise to her. Don't give up.
That was great advice but sadly she won't listen.
Thank you Mr Gaskin.
You say you're not a comedian..
But this upload was hilarious.
Continue speaking the truth in love.
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His commentary and stories make me laugh so hard because I'm visual and I just can't 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂 sometimes I have to pause and breathe 😂😂😂😂
The Woman Coalition Rescue Squad!!!!!😭😭😭😭😂😂😂 Designated to Rescue You...Wake You Up and then Send You On Your Way 😂😂😂😂😂
Tony: "Marry this stapler?!" Hahahaa. This was ace 😁 👍 😂
Can’t pin point a particular part ....this whole video though 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 microphone ,olive oil stick on shoulder, I just can’t 🕳🚶🏾♀️larina aaaaahhhhaaaa, sense men on his breath ,cryingggggggggg....archangel bring the head scratcher 😂😂😂😂 no no no no ......BLOCKED!!!!.
The entire video while super helpful was straight up hilarious. Tony's going to cause all of us to choke:-)!!!!!
It’s a lot to process 😂
I’m dead! Tony hands down the funniest 😆 but real
😂😂😂😂😂 Tony cracks me up every time he does a video lol!!!!!
Tony....This has Many funny, hilarious parts, but ALL of it is 💯% TRUTH...😔👍🏽🔥
Sir I’m here to watch ALL of your videos. Point blank periodt!!
This is so real & raw but also HILARIOUS 😂…. I love this type of teaching ‼️💪🏽
I have to watch this two times!! The first time is to get alllllll my laughs out, the second time is to try and focus on all this wisdom 😂😂😂
You are literally an Earth angel. You saved my life; I am so grateful to have bumped into your videos. I’m 18 y/o and I am now closer to God growing into the woman I desire to be. May God bless you and your family thank you so much.
Love this! "Everything that you deserve comes to you. You will attract what you deserve."~Tony Gaskins
I ain't never laughed so hard in my life.....but he speaks truth, thank you Tony Gaskins
Blessed Tribe check in!
“Block!!!!!!!” Omg... I love it Tony!!❤️😂😂😂😂😂
You are the ABSOLUTE BEST!!!!!!! We ALL NEED TO HAVE OUT TOES STEPPED ON every now and then.
Thank you my Brother in CHRIST! You are DEFINITELY LIVING in your PURPOSE. Truly GRATEFUL TO GOD FOR YOU.
This was hilarious - I laughed from beginning to end.
I just think that desperate is a harsh word.. Some of us just dont know any better. I did put up with a toxic relationship in the past but once i was educated on domestic abuse, battered wives syndrome, self worth, etc... I broke away from the toxicity, not just in that relationship but with everyone that is toxic. Keep making these videos. Keep spreading the word. I wish i would have stumbled upon you when i was with my ex. I would of blasted these videos on the tv so he could hear em day in day out lol. We just gotta pray 4 bitter women, that God will open up there eyes and minds 2 understand the negative mindset they are content with. But i salute you 4 accepting your calling 2 educate the masses. It a beautiful thing 2 witness.
Agreed. Sometimes it may seem like desperation, but many women are not hip to the games men play and so it can be easy to fall into their traps unless we know better. I am thankful for men like Tony who share this knowledge and truth because it can be hard to do better unless you know better.
This is why God gave women an intuitive spirit, but, some women will overlook toxins due to desperation and inpatient behavior
even though some of us do not know any better
it is the spirit of desperation, we feel it inside, we have a brain we know when something feel right or nah
@@nathalie8497 i agree. I knew that something was off. I knew that i was off and thats why i saught help. And once i was educated, i walked away and never looked back. I am still humble and modest but i am no longer gullible. When tony speaks, its like hes holding up a mirror forcing his viewers 2 look at their own reflection. And when hes says desperate its like "ahhhh yeeea dannng i was a lil desperado..." Lol. That word hits like slapping a person in the face when trying 2 get them 2 wake up! Some women just have 2 learn 2 soak in that constructive criticism 2 begin 2 see the world with open eyes instead of trying 2 keep them closed bc ur feelings are hurt...
Prodigal Daughter Confessions and I am proud!!!! Of YOU!!!!!!!🔥
"Stop makin' Excuses for yo' Desperation!"
~TG
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Wow, I always knew my purpose was to be a mother & nurturer & I was always excited to get there. I am for independent women but I don't get wanting to be like a man.
The examples he's giving us is true reality, and very scary at the same time this was a wake-up call. Thanks Tony Gaskins
Well Tony ain't popping in today for 20 minutes! We getting the full lesson for a 59 minutes! Premium youtube dont have ads either!
The way you said bisexual sent me🤣🤣🤣..Man this was the realist, most funniest video ever. I love how you can joke about different matters, but yet be very informative at the same time. Watching your videos has definitely changed my mindset and way I date. If someone watches your videos and still does the same stupid things in their dating life, they just can't be helped. You are so blunt, yet so gentle.
Why I’m itching 😂😂😂! I can’t stop laughing.
I've never been stupid especially as being a mother when I see the train not moving or getting ready to derail I be gone
Ok Tony. I am enjoying this video because you always keep it 100. I was not fortunate to bear children. I have my nieces and nephews and I treat them as my own. Since my divorce they keep me busy.
Omg! You crack me up I'm listening to you on my ear piece at work bout to get caught laughing out loud like I'm crazy😂😂😂. As funny as it may be it is so real thank you for delivering a message so powerful with humor.
He makes my spirit feel clear. He really is too cool. Too funny.
This vid was may seem entertaining but got its point across!! Why am I laughing harder every time you seem to hit the nail on the head?
Tony you continue to make me sigh AND CRY!! You are always 100 percent on point. Your delivery truly drives home what’s real..!!
😂 i can't even. Learn something new every day! Also God didnt create us women to be side piece etc. Period.
He litterally could be a preacher and a comedian at the same time 😂 I go from Amen to WEAK with a quickness 😂❤
Such a blessing to have free 1 hour videos that are life changing! Never clicked so fast 🙏🏾
I've never had that "ticking to be a mother" or been scared to be alone but I respect & have learned alot as usual from TG.🤣
Tony that's the greatest complement I've ever heard a man give to his wife. That was amazing.
🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️…. All I can say is Brother Tony is so truthful.😂😂 Continue to let the Lord lead you…. I thank God for every message Brother Tony.
I can't thank you enough for these videos. I have a best friend who recently got married to a man who's no good. The desperation was/is so clear. Meanwhile, I left a guy I really liked cause I realized he's a grown boy and that kind of relationship isn't going to add anything to my life. I'm hoping she realizes soon he's not good for her.