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  • Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
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Комментарии • 608

  • @beedabee1221
    @beedabee1221 3 года назад +171

    Popping that tongue then saying “ohhh” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kishiamay3478
    @kishiamay3478 3 года назад +282

    “You’re tired of singing on microphone after microphone and you ain’t got nothing to show for it but a sore throat” Now you ready to go eat you some Peach Cobbler .. lmbo Tony idk where you get this stuff from but I enjoy every minute of it

    • @TiffanyBTV
      @TiffanyBTV 3 года назад +7

      😂😂😂😂😂 chiiiiiiilllleeeee

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 3 года назад +9

      I hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!!

    • @sabrinalibakari1
      @sabrinalibakari1 3 года назад +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @kambajatarr9090
      @kambajatarr9090 2 года назад +8

      Wooooooow when he was saying that I was so confused, now that I'm reading it out loud it clicked😅

    • @donnajeffreys8252
      @donnajeffreys8252 Год назад +1

      😂🤣 he cracks me up

  • @Jazz.Ministry
    @Jazz.Ministry 3 года назад +223

    Do not rush your healing process 🙏🏾

    • @mochahontas4840
      @mochahontas4840 3 года назад +5

      ... And don't let anyone ELSE rush you😑😉.

    • @markesastewart4741
      @markesastewart4741 Год назад

      I'm determined an committed to allowing God to healing my woundedness. I devorce licking my wounds to no longer beating myself up.Pursuing divine healing in journaling, taking notes no longer counseling myself out .

  • @araceliscollazo5067
    @araceliscollazo5067 2 года назад +35

    “Love like you’ve never been hurt before” Amen!

  • @latricelynettemirroroflove8175
    @latricelynettemirroroflove8175 3 года назад +140

    I love it. I decided to take 6 months from dating to allow God to heal my heart and renew my mind, but its not east.

    • @Neaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @Neaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад +17

      I’m doing the same thing sis. And it is not an easy task by far. But God got us and we will come out renewed and restored.

    • @latricelynettemirroroflove8175
      @latricelynettemirroroflove8175 3 года назад +4

      @@Neaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Thanks. I will be praying with you. We worthy of the best.

    • @tinajones1932
      @tinajones1932 3 года назад +8

      My Sister, no, it won't be easy, however, it is necessary . You will be pleased with yourself and the end results. Please don't give up, stay determined.

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 года назад +4

      Latrice Luckett congratulations on that decision 💖

    • @InspiredUno
      @InspiredUno 3 года назад +5

      Congratulations, that is one of the best decisions you could make to truly and fully engage the healing process. I took some time, I call it a dating sabbatical. The Lord actually led me to that time and instructed me not to date. I’m grateful because I would have attracted the same type and been even more broken and bitter!

  • @JustBeingJae01
    @JustBeingJae01 3 года назад +48

    *lipsmack* followed by the Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh takes me out every time *slaps knee* 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nadeidgedorcelus9607
    @nadeidgedorcelus9607 3 года назад +61

    Tony, today my son asked me” did you subscribe to Tony Gaskins “? Because he is in my recommendations. I told him” I sure did. You are on every device in my home

  • @kishacalhoun6414
    @kishacalhoun6414 3 года назад +243

    Thank you for addressing this. I myself as a single woman will not do any chasing but I am open and willing to love.

    • @erynd.9911
      @erynd.9911 3 года назад +23

      Nah we not out here chasing sis! The Bible says “HE who finds a wife”..but unfortunately there are some women out here that really think it’s ok to chase/pursue a man..I just can’t do it ..it doesn’t feel natural for me

    • @kishacalhoun6414
      @kishacalhoun6414 3 года назад +2

      @@erynd.9911 amen!!!

    • @peggyoneal325
      @peggyoneal325 3 года назад +1

      @@erynd.9911 , I am in agreement with you......

    • @tanikawashington8246
      @tanikawashington8246 3 года назад +1

      Exactly

    • @nikolinabynina
      @nikolinabynina 3 года назад

      @Ashley Genius - - - 'u

  • @ashleycbla
    @ashleycbla 3 года назад +61

    It’s the women who go into the relationship like this 👀 “wide-eyed and don’t understand men”. Men know right from wrong it’s just too many women accepting the wrong because they either don’t have standards or truly don’t understand men.

    • @mbrook4983
      @mbrook4983 3 года назад +2

      Or just thinking they can change the man.. I’m preety sure all of us women can relate

  • @melodichomage1832
    @melodichomage1832 3 года назад +52

    “A slug is not going to settle down with a bottle of salt.” Hahaha!! Truth!!

    • @mmommo-hx4dx
      @mmommo-hx4dx 3 года назад

      wow trying to grasp that.....very good...

  • @lovingme6896
    @lovingme6896 3 года назад +132

    I have a biter soul and spirit after my ex broke up with me. I am trying to find myself and truly heal. The days are hard and I know things will get better. I will watch this because I know I need to hear it.

    • @aze7324
      @aze7324 3 года назад +4

      Me too

    • @peacefulbliss323
      @peacefulbliss323 3 года назад +18

      Acknowledging that you need to heal is your first step to healing. It gets better as you continue to grow and heal. Stay blessed!

    • @cocoj2252
      @cocoj2252 3 года назад +11

      God can take a feeling away from you. Read the Bible, heal and grow. Don’t feel that way. God has even you grace to move on with your life. You can be a better person for yourself. Time heals all of that, you just need to start the process of healing.

    • @chocty03
      @chocty03 3 года назад +11

      I went through that last year I know you probably heard this but it will get better an eventually you thank God for not giving you what you thought u wanted. I will pray for you.

    • @andreamagyar7776
      @andreamagyar7776 3 года назад +4

      Just feel the feels, be angry, bitter, whatever comes up. That is the right way to acceptance. In a year you will be fine. Give yourself time. Take care.

  • @erynd.9911
    @erynd.9911 3 года назад +42

    When he sucks his teeth and rolls his eyes omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 whew he cracks me up lol bc this is exactly how some of us act ! But let me tell you something! I’ve learned to close my mouth right on up and just listen lol

    • @cynthiasmith1583
      @cynthiasmith1583 3 года назад +2

      Ya. Always. 100. On. Time. Peace. And. God's. Blessing

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 года назад +3

      One of the first lessons I received once I started watching his videos was to just stop talking and listen.

  • @NaudiaLittle
    @NaudiaLittle 3 года назад +112

    “Independent Woman University” yay! I love this already 🥺😪🙌🏾😌🥰 Tony plz talk abt getting rid of the spirit of fear & distrust 🙏🏾

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 года назад +2

      Anaudria UrFavorite Rapper yassss love this topic 🙌🏼🔥

    • @TakishaDanet
      @TakishaDanet 3 года назад +6

      Hallelujah 👏🏾😌 yessss I rebuke the spirit of fear and distrust.

    • @NaudiaLittle
      @NaudiaLittle 3 года назад +1

      Takisha D. Fields I touch & agree with u. Amen 🙌🏾

    • @SilverDragon.222
      @SilverDragon.222 3 года назад +2

      Yes please, I need that the most 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 3 года назад +3

      Prayers and doing the work to begin again intelligently

  • @avianne
    @avianne 3 года назад +65

    Lol, the fact that i was able to bring to memory the story of the woman who was annoyed at Tony for handing her a flyer tells me that i am probably on his channel too much, lol! I feel involved and in tuned. Thanks, Tony!

  • @Annahbri
    @Annahbri 3 года назад +134

    I’m ready to hear this. I feel a dark cloud hovering over my head today. I just booked my first therapy session on your site and I hope it gives me some clarity.

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 года назад +7

      Annah congratulations on booking your session 🙌🏼💖 God bless you.

    • @Annahbri
      @Annahbri 3 года назад +7

      WatchAmber thanks! It’s actually with you 😂

    • @Annahbri
      @Annahbri 3 года назад +3

      Fiya ❤️

    • @deonnadenae
      @deonnadenae 3 года назад +3

      Prayer helps, praying for your strength and endurance 🙏🏽

    • @deonnadenae
      @deonnadenae 3 года назад +3

      Prayer helps, praying for your strength and endurance 🙏🏽

  • @tinnyhartwill547
    @tinnyhartwill547 3 года назад +88

    I’m so happy that you decided to to this for the ladies! We woman have been put through the ringer and we need some guidance. I’m not giving up on men but it is hard to see these good qualities in the men when their representatives is vouching for the grown boy.

  • @evocentricpodcast1643
    @evocentricpodcast1643 3 года назад +134

    😂😂😂😂... these women voices kill me.

    • @CrownedxKay
      @CrownedxKay 3 года назад +3

      I cackle EVERYtime ‼️😂😩🤣

    • @TARLEASE02
      @TARLEASE02 3 года назад +3

      They are Hi-larious!!! Right!?!? And he's always spot on.

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 года назад +1

      EVOcentric Podcast 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @erynd.9911
      @erynd.9911 3 года назад +6

      Right i be rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣 especially when he rolls his eyes lol

    • @MoodyA1999
      @MoodyA1999 3 года назад +6

      Omg yes 😂😂😂... he’s so damn funny man

  • @LuhkeyCurls
    @LuhkeyCurls 3 года назад +36

    Tony’s transparency is pure comedy...
    Nobody:
    Tony: “I got to take my hat off, spray my hairline on and gone get in this gym” 😂😂

  • @cocoj2252
    @cocoj2252 3 года назад +44

    I would love a video on how your wife teaches your son how to study.

  • @ShiaGirl18
    @ShiaGirl18 3 года назад +19

    56:08 You're right, Tony! Ever since I changed my thoughts and started to speak what I want in my life, God has blessed me with so much more. i'm not saying God was not blessing me before, but it has increased.

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 года назад +68

    “When you are an independent woman, you cannot see yourself.” TG

  • @tiffaniimichael
    @tiffaniimichael 3 года назад +26

    I hollered when you said you look like 12:01 am💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @cocoj2252
    @cocoj2252 3 года назад +25

    I never thought about how my energy makes him a different man. I needed this video.

  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire6844 3 года назад +31

    Very true, you do have to heal before you can start a new relationship. The process & timeframe are different for each individual. Show yourself a deep abiding love, before expecting it from someone else. Sounds corny, but no one can love ME better than ME. Peace & Blessings to those who continue to work on themselves. Don't give up!❤❣🙏🏽❣❤

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 3 года назад +1

      Sounds ACCURATE and BEAUTIFUL to me Queen!

    • @jewelsafire6844
      @jewelsafire6844 3 года назад

      @@akuasalaam490 Thank you🌹

    • @SilviaHernandez-lx4zz
      @SilviaHernandez-lx4zz 3 года назад +1

      Thank you girl, the support while you in pain feels so good 😘

    • @jewelsafire6844
      @jewelsafire6844 3 года назад

      @@SilviaHernandez-lx4zz Keep pushing forward. Hugs🤗

  • @DeoneeEats
    @DeoneeEats 3 года назад +14

    You a COMEDIAN, I'm screaming!!🤣🤣🤣👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

  • @Thebramefam
    @Thebramefam 3 года назад +29

    I was raised since young by a single mother to be independent and strong willed. My dating life was affected because of that thought process. I now see potential daters as room to know them as a real person with emotions and baggage. Thank you for this channel and your Godly advice! God bless you and your family!🙏🏽

    • @emmabennett1100
      @emmabennett1100 2 года назад

      May God continue to bless you and your family. Thank you for all that you do for us ladies.

  • @syrethashirley
    @syrethashirley 3 года назад +26

    I would love it if your wife created a book on motherhood. I would love to get her insight on what it takes to be an awesome mom before I decide to have children someday. :)

  • @tiffanyg1419
    @tiffanyg1419 3 года назад +49

    Uncle Tony dropping Gems 💎 once again....Let’s goooooo!! 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @2LoveJones
    @2LoveJones 3 года назад +15

    Good afternoon Queens 👑

  • @paradiselivinginpurpose
    @paradiselivinginpurpose 3 года назад +7

    "You could've been on the treadmill...But you here in the comments..." I died a little there hahaaha

  • @anik6523
    @anik6523 Год назад +1

    When you said a man would rather leave than cross over you cuz you’re pure I actually had a man tell me this. That I was very pure and he knew he was not and not ready to change. Fair enough.

  • @daniellesullivan5
    @daniellesullivan5 3 года назад +2

    I def watch your videos on auto play 🙌🏾

  • @jussjess2829
    @jussjess2829 3 года назад +7

    When Tony said, “ A slug is not gonna settle down with a bottle of salt.” I almost threw my phone out the window from laughing so hard. 🤣🤣 I just can’t

  • @madisonboucher8579
    @madisonboucher8579 2 года назад +2

    He be dropping gems & making me laugh 😂

  • @TakishaDanet
    @TakishaDanet 3 года назад +26

    “ he at Master P and nem college IDC “ 😩😂

    • @purpleDescent
      @purpleDescent 3 года назад +2

      Is IDC I don’t care or for something else?

    • @heyyashleyyy2669
      @heyyashleyyy2669 3 года назад +3

      Mekeda ICDC College lol

    • @TakishaDanet
      @TakishaDanet 3 года назад +2

      HeyyAshleyyy exactly ! ICDC 👏🏾😂

    • @purpleDescent
      @purpleDescent 3 года назад

      Takisha D. Fields whAt does it stand for? @Heyyashleyyy

  • @amykbarnes
    @amykbarnes 3 года назад +14

    I’m so glad I hit that subscribe button! As a 27 year old single woman this coaching has helped me a lot. I’ve really been working to better myself and get closer to God. Thanks Tony for all your advice and words of wisdom, as well as a bit of humor mixed in😅🙏🏻

  • @RoslynRaymie
    @RoslynRaymie 3 года назад +11

    "We Speak From Where We Are" -TG...Facts!

  • @saliciapresley8764
    @saliciapresley8764 3 года назад +2

    🤣🤣🤣🤣Spray your hairline on and go train! Tony you are so funny. Having me crack up during my lesson!

  • @lashawnda.michelle
    @lashawnda.michelle 3 года назад +32

    The last book that I read was A Woman’s Influence. ✨ I enjoyed it so much. It has definitely helped me on my healing journey and understanding my worth. Thank you Sheri and Tony Gaskins! 💕🙌🏽

    • @reneehernandez4797
      @reneehernandez4797 3 года назад +2

      I've been single for 4 months now. My relationship with God is stronger, focused more on work, working on me, my credit has gone up and now I'm going to purchase my own place soon, so many blessings I have coming my way... I have been watching and listening to Tony Gaskins now for 1 year and he has taught me so much and motivated me to be better thank you Tony Gaskins! you're a blessing to so many of us 💛 Bless you 🙏 ❤

    • @Longliverey
      @Longliverey 3 года назад +1

      Same here !

  • @cheekscheeks5840
    @cheekscheeks5840 3 года назад +2

    Hear listening again thank God fir favor

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 3 года назад +4

    yep my cheating ex of 38 years loved it each time I found out. he loved to see the reaction. sickening. not anymore, so happy now I cry.

  • @SFreeanna
    @SFreeanna 6 месяцев назад

    I am in love with this series!! So thankful for your content, courses, and your authenticity!! God bless you and your family!🤍✨

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 Год назад +2

    I appreciate you telling us about men because just like you said, men know men and women know women. Reading books and listening to good God fearing men like you has really helped me to make much healthier choices, infact I've stop dating about five years ago, been celibate 11 years. Enjoying the peacefulness of singleness 💙 working on me.

  • @venda1008
    @venda1008 3 года назад +7

    Yes i listen to Tony everyday, and I certainly have a mindset shift. I have grown tremendously ,Thank you so much Tony. I am constantly working on the 3bs to live my God given purpose

  • @jayray420
    @jayray420 Год назад +1

    Tony, God speaks through you. Praise the Lord!

  • @MinaMina-nb5tl
    @MinaMina-nb5tl 3 года назад +11

    Thank u, Tony! U helped me dodge a bullet concerning a man a few months bck! One of ur vlogs talked abt grown boys mind games. He tried 2 run those mind games on me. They worked @ first but I started watching ur vlogs. Everything changed 4 me 4 the better. I think he's given up 4 now. I think he will try again but this time with ur help. I will b prepared 4 him! Thanks, again! 🙏🏽

  • @goldanai
    @goldanai 3 года назад +11

    Bapbapbap! Tony Gaskin seh Independent Woman University!!! I'm Jamaican and fully here for it🙏🏽 love your videos! Shout out to your wife for raising such a well educated man!

    • @donnahemmings6265
      @donnahemmings6265 3 года назад +2

      Girl these video has been a blessing. Fellow Jamaican here, we both know our Jamaican men🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @goingmyrightway
    @goingmyrightway 3 года назад +5

    You can see how comfortable Tony is in front of the camera now. The voices, the skits, the tangents. It's hilarious.

  • @nooraoraha9294
    @nooraoraha9294 3 года назад +10

    Tony you have really inspired me. I have been working and getting a promotion, going back to studying online in construction and will be opening up a business in a few years (I always meet my goals), I have been taking myself out on dates, getting into the word, delving deeper in my relationship with God, working on my body and it has been so life changing ever since I have come to look at your videos. You are doing amazing because I was a woman with a reprobate mind to the Nth degree because I was so hurt, bitter and so disgusting and angry! But slowly and surely, I am slowly healing.

  • @kadinethompson9442
    @kadinethompson9442 3 месяца назад

    I just had this conversation. I will not allow any bad situations that I’ve been in before cause me to be a monster to new people that want to come into my life.

  • @angelawatkins1234
    @angelawatkins1234 3 года назад +8

    Tony is hilarious 🤣
    He said you tired of the video but you come to my page and click the video 😂

  • @sabrinalibakari1
    @sabrinalibakari1 3 года назад +38

    God bless you Tony, thank you for putting out all this free content✨ Just bought 2 of your books from amazon which are, ‘What Daddy never told his little girl’ and ‘Dream chaser’🔥& God bless all the women trying to better themselves and putting in the work🥰

    • @faye_bulous
      @faye_bulous 3 года назад +1

      I’ve bought ´Mrs Right’ and I’m about to buy ‘woman of influence’ book, read je first one in few hours 🤩❤️

    • @sabrinalibakari1
      @sabrinalibakari1 3 года назад +1

      FatooBoop check you! My aim is to get a collection of all his books!😂 keep going sis and you’ll see such a big change in all aspects of your life, now don’t forget the 3B’s😘

    • @officialwatchamber
      @officialwatchamber 3 года назад +3

      Sabrina Ali-Bakari Dream chaser was the bomb!!! 🙌🏼

    • @sabrinalibakari1
      @sabrinalibakari1 3 года назад +1

      Alexia Bartholomew oo thanks for the review!💓 can’t wait to start🥰

    • @sabrinalibakari1
      @sabrinalibakari1 3 года назад +1

      WatchAmber honestly can’t wait😜 just subscribed to your channel💓

  • @Amih1018
    @Amih1018 2 месяца назад

    Once again, thank you for what you do.

  • @poetcapri17
    @poetcapri17 3 года назад +13

    Listen Mr.Gaskins and Mrs. Gaskins book came into my life and help me understand what i was doing wrong and helped me to let go of what has been the worse relationship experience. They filled on the holes my mother left in my education on how to navigate matters of the heart.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 года назад +11

    Good afternoon blessed tribe ✨

  • @kimberlyyoung4843
    @kimberlyyoung4843 3 года назад +15

    I receive your insight Tony. I will not be eating any peach cobbler! (Niecey Nash)

  • @brianicole181
    @brianicole181 3 года назад +13

    Definitely about to create a notebook to give to my daughter. That is such a great idea!!!

  • @daughterofzion2146
    @daughterofzion2146 Год назад +1

    Healing is a constant work I believe. I find when I call myself taking too long of a break, I start back falling off wagon all over again

  • @Glamrocs
    @Glamrocs 3 года назад +8

    Just by the TITLE I’m ready!

  • @evocentricpodcast1643
    @evocentricpodcast1643 3 года назад +16

    Assess the situation and then make changes...

  • @keeplivingintruth
    @keeplivingintruth 3 года назад +2

    You know Mr. Tony Gaskins you have Kind eyes. I could tell by mens eyes when theyve let their egos go. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

  • @JabouJ.
    @JabouJ. 7 месяцев назад

    You’re a great storyteller I be over here cracking up 😂 but while learning!! Your insight is a gift, thank you! 👏🏾

  • @bosslady325ilme
    @bosslady325ilme 3 года назад +6

    Tony said “Worry about yourself”🤣

  • @deonnadenae
    @deonnadenae 3 года назад +10

    You’re always on point. Healing was the best thing I could have done for myself. Everything has been better since I decided to heal from my past trauma. Sometimes it just takes some self examination to really see what others see.

  • @mariw2185
    @mariw2185 3 года назад +8

    That ooohhhhh takes me out. I always find myself doing it with him 😂😩. Finding Tony has helped me finally let go of my grown boy soon to be ex hubby

  • @BlackPlightPeople
    @BlackPlightPeople 3 года назад +16

    Thank you for this because l was feeling some kind of way today. I was remembering what I went through with my ex-husband.

  • @luluxinator7935
    @luluxinator7935 3 года назад +5

    Been married 7 yrs & u are spot on with all ur wisdom it takes work ppl want results with no journey & wedding photos they can flex with it takes work my marriage is perfect & I wish I could bless the world with this love but the work must be done 💜gotta be the women he wants for him to be the Man U want

  • @arianna2679
    @arianna2679 3 года назад +13

    Hey Tony, how are You doing today? We need you and appreciate You for helping us. I plan to continue to listen and join your university for growth and wisdom.

  • @annafabjanczyk531
    @annafabjanczyk531 Год назад +1

    Thank You from the bottom of my heart for Your wisdom. I am a woman in the process of healing.God bless You . Greetings from Eastern Europe,Poland .

  • @yolamayo2689
    @yolamayo2689 3 года назад +9

    This is true about some women being done with men.... The girl that does my hair she has a girlfriend now after the last guy left her while she was pregnant

    • @nata6835
      @nata6835 3 года назад +3

      She probably had a thing for women and just didn’t know it. Lol

  • @yoyo-jt6yp
    @yoyo-jt6yp 2 года назад

    Discovering this channel. And watching and learning has been a game changer for me. I know you wont see this comment brother tony but you have changed my perspective regarding life and men. I am so grateful to Lord for sending this blessing to me.

    • @Micahsophia
      @Micahsophia Год назад +1

      Girl me too, I knew some of this stuff, but needed to go back into class to regain more knowledge & new skills to keep me moving in the righ direction with men & my relationship with GOD. Tony is defentiely a blessing to so many men & women, a Real one.

  • @small11989
    @small11989 3 года назад +8

    “I’m not making fun of you, Go ahead Go ahead” 😂

  • @katrinawilliams5928
    @katrinawilliams5928 3 года назад +6

    Not ready to go eat some “peach cobbler,” cause yo tired of “singing on microphones!!!” I just died!💀💀💀💀🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @donnahemmings6265
    @donnahemmings6265 3 года назад +2

    Oh my lord, Tony is hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣. I love listening him. He has helped me identify the grown boys.

  • @lauralei4446
    @lauralei4446 3 года назад +4

    You have great insight. I was in several relationships that were pretty bad and I then decided to step back and work on myself and follow my dreams and visions. I haven’t been in a relationship in years and I just really don’t want to be. I am doing all of the work on myself so when I do find someone in the future, I can be my best self. I will never regardless of what I have experienced be a man bashed because there are many great men. I have never had trouble attracting men but realized because of unconscious mindsets about myself I was allowing the wrong men into my life and with Gods help really started to heal myself. You’re appreciated

  • @natashavaugn1018
    @natashavaugn1018 3 года назад +1

    "that worked on the last one? that worked on the last one??" AHA me in my head 25/8.

  • @hillalthea5816
    @hillalthea5816 3 месяца назад

    😅😅 I’m dying with the comedy in this serious video. Tony you are the big brother I never had 😂

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 Год назад +1

    Great message! Listening to this video again. It’s not enough to just listen to fill in the time. You have to apply it and put it into action! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @denisedean8503
    @denisedean8503 3 года назад +6

    Yes Healing is very important I'm on my Journey right now taken my time. GOD BLESS YOU TONY GASKINS KEEP BRINGING AND SHARING THIS KNOWLEDGE 🙏

  • @Melissiabeats
    @Melissiabeats 3 года назад +3

    Tony sometimes i forget how funny you are literally im in stitches on this. Words of truth keep up the good work 😭😂😂

  • @MakeupTiffany
    @MakeupTiffany 3 года назад +3

    That deer story though!!! 😂 I can always count on Tony for lessons and laughs! 🙌🏿

    • @MakeupTiffany
      @MakeupTiffany 3 года назад +1

      I love the idea about putting negative thoughts in a jar and replacing them with good ones as you grow! Thanks Tony!

  • @donnadaniels5095
    @donnadaniels5095 3 года назад +6

    Thank you Tony, 🎯 absolutely right people, are broken and hurting, but I find all they want to do is complain🙉 not heal🙏

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 Год назад

    You are honestly hilarious! You be so right .

  • @FutureAttyInTheMaking
    @FutureAttyInTheMaking 3 года назад +3

    Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!!!!Blessings to you all! 🙏🏼

  • @juliereams1720
    @juliereams1720 3 года назад +3

    Thank you! Couldn’t sleep and watching this at 230am. I really need to heal from my pain. Need help starting. Love your messages, thank you for being real

  • @pamelatpwmsend1691
    @pamelatpwmsend1691 3 года назад +3

    Yes!" We must look at our situation, and make a change".

  • @missangel412
    @missangel412 3 года назад +6

    BLESS YOUR HEART TONY, for putting up with that mess and STILL SHOWING UP
    AND SHOWING OUT, teaching ...
    Amen💛

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 3 года назад +6

    Thank you for this TG! I come ready to learn every time I sit down to watch one of your videos, because, I don't know what I don't know and I want to learn. Daily, I am watching and/or listening to your videos, podcasts, sermons, etc so that I can continue to grow so that when I get back out there, I am armed! So, THANK YOU Tony for passing on your knowledge. Many of us are so grateful!!!!

  • @laquetianewstartmercer
    @laquetianewstartmercer 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Tony!

  • @shereses.3298
    @shereses.3298 3 года назад +7

    I think I learned the way of man through my marriage and divorce. I am definitely still on my healing journey, although I have definitely dated since the divorced a year and a half ago. I think for me its the patience. Men require a lot of patience. Patience that I have yet to fully cultivate, and I am totally fine with saying that.

  • @EarthGurl08
    @EarthGurl08 3 года назад +15

    A little accountability goes a long way.

  • @loiskidd6228
    @loiskidd6228 3 года назад +11

    The haters really love you cuz they watching👀

  • @jenniferjohnson7310
    @jenniferjohnson7310 3 года назад +4

    I'm so grateful to have you to listen to Tony. It helps a serial monogamist like me from jumping Right back into the Wrong relationship

  • @mimidph
    @mimidph 3 года назад +2

    I started listening to Tony about 2 months ago. I wish I knew about Tony about 3 years ago or sooner. I hear you Tony. I appreciate your service to helping women. Your teaching and coaching really helps me. I just want to say that you are so funny. I get so tickled watching you talk about how women talk and act. You are the truth! Keep up the good work brother. God really has worked a beautiful work in you. You look like a man of God! May God continue to bless you!

  • @carlyellisemarie
    @carlyellisemarie 3 года назад +4

    Tony is such a good teacher ! Always get a good laugh , plus a load of valuable information ! Its a win win ! 😃😍🙏

  • @tinishawashington9110
    @tinishawashington9110 2 года назад

    Tony said oh cuz your hair natural you too good... He said another level what a sore throat 😂😂😂😂😂 I can just see him making his wife laugh on a daily basis that's how he got 12 years of happiness I appreciate that he can make us laugh at ourselves it's like when Katt Williams said what's that plum red nail polish oh no I can't even do it....

  • @LIVH_Olivia
    @LIVH_Olivia 3 года назад +5

    Tony did you say ‘you have inter-neck 🌐(internet)?’ I’m laughing but I’m healing at the same time.This message is necessary for women.

  • @craftedeyecandies
    @craftedeyecandies 3 года назад +1

    This is some good stuff Sir! Them "females with attitudes" impressions tho...! Lmbo, you got it down!!

  • @latanyabullard190
    @latanyabullard190 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Tony. May God continue to bless you with more wisdom to help us understand these men...Amen

  • @monicaivy2497
    @monicaivy2497 3 года назад +3

    Tony you are hilarious 😂 The deer and F150 analogy is on point. Yes sometimes women like to equate their worth and value on the trends, brand-names and other external/material things versus doing the internal work. I get side-eyed for wearing relaxer, but they don't know me, "I am not my hair!"(India Arie)

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 Месяц назад

      Whoever cares what you do with your hair (as far as relaxer or any style) is a straight WEIRDO! 🤣🤣🤣🤣