Trans People Answer The Most Googled Questions About The Trans Experience

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  • @MissDarcei
    @MissDarcei 6 лет назад +3071

    "Only thing we share is a little mocha" lmao

    • @atlasabsentee3426
      @atlasabsentee3426 6 лет назад +71

      Pug productions
      Wow dude, aren't you charming

    • @simonkylen2663
      @simonkylen2663 6 лет назад +6

      Pug productions they're talking about their skin colour

    • @pugproductions4462
      @pugproductions4462 6 лет назад

      Atlas Absentee I was joking 💀

    • @MsClassicme
      @MsClassicme 6 лет назад +1

      favorite line! :)

    • @samsev
      @samsev 6 лет назад +4

      @adam zarbon what about intersex?

  • @jesxicamartxnez4784
    @jesxicamartxnez4784 6 лет назад +497

    i dont care about your sexuality, gender, race, religion, etc. as long as you don’t disrespect anyone because of their sexuality, gender, race, religion, etc.

  • @sommersonny
    @sommersonny 6 лет назад +353

    "Gender and sexuality are not the same thing." Thank you.

    • @bugfairy
      @bugfairy 4 года назад +5

      SOMEONE GETS IT

    • @datvsl8554
      @datvsl8554 4 года назад +13

      Yet they are. Sorry if you don’t like it. People like you mix up gender and personality traits. Ignorance awaits you.

    • @antonbrig5171
      @antonbrig5171 4 года назад +7

      imagine a 40 yr old pedoman see young girls walk in a toilet and walk in and say he iddentifys as a woman ....................... i mean thats preaty fucked up gender and sexuality are the same thing...........i cant beleive the world has come to this people who confront people lying about their gender are the bad ones i mean wtf

    • @sommersonny
      @sommersonny 4 года назад +7

      @@datvsl8554 trust me, I'm not ignorant on this topic. I don't think gender changes from day to day. I believe in psychological diagnoses to be transgender and such. Not personality.

    • @johnnybrown9120
      @johnnybrown9120 3 года назад +2

      @@datvsl8554 ARE YOU REALLY THAT DUMB?U THINK BEING A GIRL MEANS YOURE STRAIGHT OR IDK

  • @ConfusedGirlButSmartDude
    @ConfusedGirlButSmartDude 6 лет назад +646

    I know that the comment section is gonna get nasty, so imma just say this: Y’all trans people are so beautiful. Your gender is real, you’re real, and you’re so incredible, amazing, and strong. There’s so many people here for you

    • @eryksilver7926
      @eryksilver7926 6 лет назад +12

      Thank you!

    • @Esmeagolly
      @Esmeagolly 6 лет назад +28

      al hassan mola and you disagreeing doesnt make it untrue,
      In these kind of subjects its personal and objective
      Some think abstract art is beautiful others hate it, objective.
      If it doesnt Harm you or other people Why would you care what people like, do, say etc. Live your life and your truth

    • @heyhowareyou7777
      @heyhowareyou7777 6 лет назад +11

      thank you

    • @stresscouture5946
      @stresscouture5946 6 лет назад +14

      thank you. thank you for being a positive voice in this awful comment section.

    • @arronisgoodboy9169
      @arronisgoodboy9169 6 лет назад +5

      Thanks!

  • @danecobain
    @danecobain 6 лет назад +1056

    "How do you address a trans person?"
    Surely you just address them by their name? ;D

    • @sycophanticteenager4441
      @sycophanticteenager4441 6 лет назад +6

      Dane Reads lol exactly

    • @stayhydrated2371
      @stayhydrated2371 6 лет назад +1

      Same

    • @maayans.181
      @maayans.181 6 лет назад +16

      I think the question was more like if you don't know them so as a he/she, and in some languages you can't be vage about it. But this video was really good clearing stuff up cuz I felt completly ignorant in that subject...

    • @danecobain
      @danecobain 6 лет назад +8

      Yeah, I get you. I read a book recently which had a non-binary main character and the author managed to write the entire book without using gender pronouns. It worked really well but made it super hard to review!

    • @justinezey
      @justinezey 6 лет назад +1

      Dane Reads i would love to look into that book? could i catch that name from ya? :-)

  • @magentalilies8012
    @magentalilies8012 6 лет назад +2379

    I love Google. It's like the brain I don't have.

    • @Vinnafetish
      @Vinnafetish 6 лет назад +14

      Chivas Aurora lol 😂 great way to describe it nowadays

    • @truulyken
      @truulyken 6 лет назад +3

      Chivas Aurora 😂😂LMAO

    • @Nada-od5nv
      @Nada-od5nv 6 лет назад +1

      Chivas Aurora lmao 😂😂😂

    • @joannasaad298
      @joannasaad298 6 лет назад +7

      Yessss. I just fixed my microwave for $4 thanks to Google 😂

    • @afallavollita2995
      @afallavollita2995 6 лет назад +1

      Chivas Aurora yep

  • @jeri-lynnemarie3878
    @jeri-lynnemarie3878 6 лет назад +761

    The girl in the denim is stunning like i want her style, slay QUEEN

    • @koostory1776
      @koostory1776 6 лет назад +8

      Sorry, please do NOT used HER. You’re forcing your pronoun unto others.

    • @nyancollins1663
      @nyancollins1663 6 лет назад +86

      Fus Tah she is a woman? She identifies as a woman? They are using the correct pronouns.

    • @RebekahFinley
      @RebekahFinley 6 лет назад +25

      Right? I think she kinda looks like Shania Twain. I love her eye makeup.

    • @Nic-vf7hi
      @Nic-vf7hi 6 лет назад +4

      I thought she looks like a younger brunette Candace Cameron. Either way, I want her style too 💁🏻‍♀️

    • @ldg44
      @ldg44 6 лет назад

      Billi Lee, stunning and has great style. Love her 👍

  • @julienguyen6845
    @julienguyen6845 6 лет назад +217

    "The only thing we share is a little mocha."
    HAHA I LOVE HER ALREADY

  • @tinavorina7497
    @tinavorina7497 6 лет назад +645

    I am currently crushing on the girl wearing that black-red shirt because she's so stunning:)

    • @Noname-no5qf
      @Noname-no5qf 6 лет назад +41

      Tina Vorina dafuq it’s a boy?

    • @tinavorina7497
      @tinavorina7497 6 лет назад +46

      No name isn't she transgender? Did I make a mistake? If I did, I apologize as that was definitely not my intention.

    • @briana8404
      @briana8404 6 лет назад +93

      Tina Vorina you didn’t make a mistake she’s a transgender women and she’s beautiful

    • @rmo8922
      @rmo8922 6 лет назад +39

      And her accent 😍

    • @corvus950
      @corvus950 6 лет назад +28

      Man*

  • @arlo-3884
    @arlo-3884 6 лет назад +202

    I'm trans and Christian! I just decide not to go to church because of the judgmental looks and expectations.

    • @flyorwalk1743
      @flyorwalk1743 6 лет назад +14

      Obnoxious Lion that was deep but I agree😇 it's always that the most religious people are judgemental (but I think they are just jealous cause they can't control us like they always do)😣😑

    • @benswarbrick1354
      @benswarbrick1354 6 лет назад +8

      stay out of the house of god you monster

    • @heyhowareyou7777
      @heyhowareyou7777 6 лет назад +15

      i am too, I'm sorry you don't feel like you are welcomed there

    • @heyhowareyou7777
      @heyhowareyou7777 6 лет назад +30

      the only monster here is you, those who judge shall be judged. we are created by god stop saying he made some things wrong, he does not make mistakes so we are not mistakes.

    • @RebekahFinley
      @RebekahFinley 6 лет назад +19

      charlie 745 Being trans ain’t a mistake honey! I can’t speak for trans people because I’m cis, but from my own bisexual perspective - being bi is not a mistake, it has made my heart bigger and that is an integral part of my faith. I hope I’m right in saying that this goes for trans people too. Being something other than cis and straight is NOT a mistake, it is a part of you and it makes your heart bigger and your mind more open. Both are tenets of Christianity.

  • @larari1
    @larari1 6 лет назад +132

    if you’re gonna be negative why are you even here?? leave.

    • @AvaNightingale
      @AvaNightingale 6 лет назад +29

      Bryant Nelson opposing views are for football teams and music preferences.
      Not whether someone has the right to exist as their authentic self without being murdered for it, so long as they are harming no one else.

    • @thgnotorious
      @thgnotorious 6 лет назад +2

      Cause I like to see people try to spread their cultist delusions and try to defend it against actual fact.

    • @nuuskamuikkunen3465
      @nuuskamuikkunen3465 6 лет назад +1

      lara how about you just stfu

    • @lordwhoopi9132
      @lordwhoopi9132 6 лет назад +1

      lara That's a negative comment. Leave.

    • @art-oq1pi
      @art-oq1pi 6 лет назад +1

      Stop lieing and telling people fake facts the trans people didnt switch genders cause they didnt seitch genitals they just look like oppisite gender u cant change just cause u want to and feel like it

  • @augustnemeth7341
    @augustnemeth7341 6 лет назад +75

    Rocco is such a role model for me i’m so glad he was finally in a video again

    • @tedriko3242
      @tedriko3242 6 лет назад +1

      August Nemeth she

    • @thotpatrol5023
      @thotpatrol5023 5 лет назад

      @@tedriko3242 you're under arrest for calling someone a she even tho they aren't anymore

  • @kirathompson3653
    @kirathompson3653 6 лет назад +147

    The lady in the black dress is beautiful.

    • @SirSwerveEm
      @SirSwerveEm 6 лет назад +4

      kira thompson its a man

    • @oceanm9045
      @oceanm9045 6 лет назад +14

      Sir Cartier no... she’s transgender - aka she’s a woman (though she may have been born a man)

    • @GoldenRetrieverOakleyy
      @GoldenRetrieverOakleyy 6 лет назад +4

      YES! She looks amazing!!!

    • @nuuskamuikkunen3465
      @nuuskamuikkunen3465 6 лет назад

      Wtf thats a man

    • @mcc6926
      @mcc6926 5 лет назад +2

      Xavier Parker if she/he whatever you want to call her/him identifies as a woman therfore she is a woman to my eyes and it should be the same for everybody

  • @TheVideoChatter
    @TheVideoChatter 6 лет назад +181

    Transgendered people are people, and I think all of these people are beautiful. #LoveandTolerance

    • @TheVideoChatter
      @TheVideoChatter 6 лет назад +9

      Gross, kill hatred.

    • @genevieveweiland7177
      @genevieveweiland7177 6 лет назад +12

      Denise Hudgens you have a very good and positive attitude but you used some terms that tend to be considered problematic. Maybe try to avoid referring to groups of transgender people as “transgenders”, and avoid using the phrase “born in the wrong body”. Thank you, have a nice day :)

    • @okdowke7027
      @okdowke7027 6 лет назад +2

      To kill them? No. Are they beautiful? Yes. Are they healthy? No. Should we accept them? Yes. Mentally they are not ok, but you don't need to hate them. Isn't so hard to live with them and accept how they are right now.

    • @okdowke7027
      @okdowke7027 6 лет назад

      Sir Cartier god damn it man :D

    • @Sarahbuildsstepsequencers
      @Sarahbuildsstepsequencers 6 лет назад +3

      Denise Hudgens I wish I knew you. Thank you! 🙋🏻💐💝

  • @dudldhoo2423
    @dudldhoo2423 4 года назад +12

    Honestly, as trans myself (ftm pre-everything) I wish I wasn't trans even though it's such a unique experience and I probably wouldn't be the same person if I was cis, I can't cope with dysphoria, it gets really too bad at times

    • @radwooah
      @radwooah 4 года назад +2

      you're just a woman and will always be, deal with it.

    • @dudldhoo2423
      @dudldhoo2423 4 года назад +4

      @@radwooah yup I'll take hormones and have surgeries and guess what on my ID there'll be written that I'm male
      but yes I'll always be a woman (to you, a random person on the internet) and this is how I'll deal with it
      ✌️

    • @R.A.A.
      @R.A.A. 2 года назад

      @@dudldhoo2423 As a trans woman, I understand how hard sometimes to cope with the dysphoria. You’re not alone me too, Specially the inconsistencies... one month I’m full of life energetic & glowing from happiness, the next month I’m depressed & don’t wanna leave my bed... But let me tell you something... THERAPY help me a lot more than I consciously realize, My therapist helps me find my inner peace & gives me the tools to handle this inhumanly viciousness.
      P.S: please don’t let this transphobic C**T get to you, If we’re face to face I’ll drag this b*tch down like a lady. To me you’re my brother & I’ll always be your protective sister. 💜

  • @elywalker9590
    @elywalker9590 6 лет назад +198

    There is so much hate in the comments, I'm so disappointed in our society. Why does it bother you so much about what other people do with their bodies, let them live their lives. Everyone has their right to be true to themselves.

    • @jacksonlehman4086
      @jacksonlehman4086 6 лет назад +7

      Ely Walker god made everyone the way they are for a reason. Why would someone want to change that? You’ll always be the same person but who wouldn’t like themselves for how they were made

    • @elywalker9590
      @elywalker9590 6 лет назад +29

      Lol, you're in for a surprise... If God made them who they are for a reason and they were born knowing they were trans, then your point is valid.
      But personally, I'm not religious and think people should be who they want/know they are.

    • @elywalker9590
      @elywalker9590 6 лет назад +19

      I'm not even going to bother with you lmao.

    • @hezizyahya6590
      @hezizyahya6590 6 лет назад +5

      Ely Walker I have nothing against trans people, or people who desire to be someone else. The thing I am against is the LGBT community pushing their agenda's (including transgender propaganda) onto other people.

    • @elywalker9590
      @elywalker9590 6 лет назад +31

      "I have nothing against trans people"... well, you obviously do if you're not willing to listen with an open mind..

  • @jordanwombles8164
    @jordanwombles8164 6 лет назад +2

    A note on the dating remark, my ex came out to me after 4 1/2 years and while I was 5 months pregnant. We tried to make it work because even thoughI'm straight, I loved her soul, but ultimately she decided she wanted to put all her focus on transitioning and not on me or our son. She sees our son and she is trying to be active in his life, but it's not how I invisioned or was told our lives would be. She even admitted she was almost trying to "trick" me and wasn't going to tell me after we got married, but me being pregnant sped up thw proccess. PLEASE be honest in your journey to the people you love so you don't end up in the emotionally and legal mess we're in now.

    • @jordanwombles8164
      @jordanwombles8164 6 лет назад

      And yes, I use the proper pronouns and call her Allie or 'baba" when referring to her in front of our son because I've always been a supporter and won't change my views on that just because she was ultimately, extremely selfish.

  • @lake9203
    @lake9203 6 лет назад +405

    Ahh they are all so attractive!

  • @florienpostema4258
    @florienpostema4258 6 лет назад +130

    girlfriend with the blonde weave, needs a warmer tone foundation.

    • @raniadey722
      @raniadey722 6 лет назад +50

      LaTayshia Hill she does.. it’s too ashy for her skintone, doesn’t match her. It’s too much of a cool tone, she indeed does need a warmer tone. Or well, she doesn’t need it but she is wearing the wrong shade.

    • @leahisme3513
      @leahisme3513 6 лет назад +2

      THANK YOU

    • @tedriko3242
      @tedriko3242 6 лет назад +1

      That’s a man

    • @SirSwerveEm
      @SirSwerveEm 6 лет назад

      Its a he

    • @hekkmelife
      @hekkmelife 6 лет назад +8

      True :/ doesn't blend, and it's not hating? It's an observation and a helpful suggestion jfc. Just because someone is trans doesn't mean that everything you say has to be sunshine and butterflies.

  • @misssharahzard
    @misssharahzard 6 лет назад +173

    The British woman though ! Stunning

    • @bums009
      @bums009 6 лет назад +10

      Sharah Jones-Field isn't she that racist who got fired from a L'oreal campaign?

    • @unaermanovic9185
      @unaermanovic9185 6 лет назад +19

      Halapecia shaniqua Wtf ? No ? She was fired by L'Oreal because she CALLED OUT the racism of the company. Because she was brave enough to do it. And how can a PoC even be a racist ? ughhhhh

    • @misssharahzard
      @misssharahzard 6 лет назад

      Ay i got no idea. I don't think her views and the way she carries herself have anything to do with one another, she's a beautiful woman. That's what i was emphasizing.

    • @user-nz7mv2iy6d
      @user-nz7mv2iy6d 6 лет назад +3

      Sharah Jones-Field British man.

    • @misssharahzard
      @misssharahzard 6 лет назад +10

      That's where you are wrong mate.

  • @Aushirye
    @Aushirye 6 лет назад +48

    wowww the bone structure on the girl with the braids!!!!!! her cheekbones are INCREDIBLE

    • @bums009
      @bums009 6 лет назад +5

      Lysca You know what else is incredible? The fact that she got fired from a L'oreal ad campaign a few months ago for being a massive racist and Buzzfeed puts her in their video...

    • @Aushirye
      @Aushirye 6 лет назад +1

      Halapecia shaniqua hmu with the sources

    • @jjchacon7084
      @jjchacon7084 6 лет назад +1

      Lysca *man

    • @SirSwerveEm
      @SirSwerveEm 6 лет назад +1

      man*

  • @dizh2581
    @dizh2581 6 лет назад +19

    I feel so sad thinking about them dating it’s very hard

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b 4 года назад +4

      Balmain Chanel
      Yeah, I heard it’s called passing privilege. I feel bad because I’m a transgender man who passes so easily due to lucky genetics. People called me a man before I even started trying to pass. But trans women have it so much harder, especially if they didn’t go on blockers. That and testosterone naturally deepens the voice, so my voice just became deeper, but estrogen doesn’t lessen how deep of a voice you have. Oh well.

    • @flexcuber3525
      @flexcuber3525 4 года назад +1

      They just date themselves

    • @isaisaisa2
      @isaisaisa2 3 года назад

      don’t feel sad. they make it hard for themselves.

    • @xavierthompson4506
      @xavierthompson4506 3 года назад

      Being a trans woman is a very lonely life if you’re not passable. A lot of confusion, rejection and depression. This is when loving yourself becomes more important.

    • @isaisaisa2
      @isaisaisa2 3 года назад

      @@xavierthompson4506 they choose to identify as trans tho

  • @Equus21
    @Equus21 5 лет назад +4

    I may never understand the entire thing of being trans, as I was born male and am happy as a male and feel content. However, I will ALWAYS support trans people, I will always respect them-because they're human beings who have found themselves. If my money is going to trans surgeries I have absolutely no issue with that. I want happiness in the world, I want people to love not only others, but themselves.

  • @rm2915
    @rm2915 5 лет назад +6

    I'm a young, in the closet, trans and pansexual human.

    • @kimw8743
      @kimw8743 5 лет назад +7

      im bea 💜You❤️are💙valid💜and wonderful❤️and💙beautiful💜 never let no mothafuckas tell ya otherwise.💘

    • @fatema861
      @fatema861 4 года назад

      Are u even a human lol

  • @eryksilver7926
    @eryksilver7926 6 лет назад +109

    Awesome video! This trans guy sends love!

    • @maia79
      @maia79 6 лет назад +7

      Eryk Silver Agreed! and this cis girl sends you love! 😘

    • @leonieto1827
      @leonieto1827 6 лет назад

      Eryk Silver Woman

    • @maia79
      @maia79 6 лет назад +10

      Eryk Silver don't listen to them! You're amazing and they are just haters, hiding behind the computer and their keyboards

    • @eryksilver7926
      @eryksilver7926 6 лет назад +6

      Aww thank you!

    • @Chummychumchum
      @Chummychumchum 6 лет назад +2

      Same

  • @ann_taundra
    @ann_taundra 6 лет назад +2

    I've had an experience in university of being the only cis person at a table, and I tell you, it was an amazing learning experience! They were super kind and loving, and eventually became some of my best friends.

  • @mizzbelle97
    @mizzbelle97 6 лет назад +30

    I can’t fathom hating someone based solely on a choice they’ve made. Especially when that choice doesn’t effect you or literally anybody else besides themselves. I don’t get how you could try to hurt someone emotionally or even physically only because they are different than you. It’s terrifying that there are people in this world who are THAT ignorant. Y’all don’t deserve to breathe our air. Just let people live and love and mind your business it’s so easy.

    • @meowdynyall9284
      @meowdynyall9284 5 лет назад +5

      It's not a choice, just like sexual orientation isn't a choice.

    • @feederdiaries4862
      @feederdiaries4862 4 года назад

      A. It sounds like you hate some people cuz you don’t think they deserve to breathe B. Hatred is normal and good because there’s evil in this world

    • @feederdiaries4862
      @feederdiaries4862 4 года назад +1

      The trans issue affects everybody because we pay taxes that go towards some of their “healthcare,” lockerooms/bathrooms are an issue, sports teams, and the fact that adults are making decisions for children on this that will permanently affect their health and we are supposed to protect kids. I hope you stop trying to stifle conversation in the future with ignorant comments like yours.

    • @OmniMale
      @OmniMale Год назад

      Here is where it hurts ppl. Did you see the story about the trans woman in maimi. Slept with a bunch of guys without telling them and then tried to expose them for sleeping with him.
      The problem is, trans people are Co opting another's identity. It funny how there are so man genders yet they onky choose two to represent themselves.
      A woman is an adult female. If you're not a female, then stop calling one's self a woman or man. That's the part that sticks in people caws.

  • @elhussaingamal3513
    @elhussaingamal3513 6 лет назад +142

    I think, it is a human right, no question.

    • @elhussaingamal3513
      @elhussaingamal3513 6 лет назад +2

      Nico V u sarcastically think that i am talking about aliens right, now i am fuckin happy to talk to u Mr alien 😂

    • @Liannabelle8
      @Liannabelle8 6 лет назад +1

      Or it's a mental disorder. Ever heard of body dismorphia?

    • @massman1216
      @massman1216 6 лет назад +1

      Nico V You sure about that?

    • @Liannabelle8
      @Liannabelle8 6 лет назад

      elhussain farouk I never said anyone should be killed or harmed in any way whatsoever! Nor did I say these people aren't just that, people. But there is something wrong mentally and today's society nurtures that issue instead of facing it. Everyone talks about the high suicide rates amongst the transgender community but no one talks about the facts. They see themselves as something they aren't, they go to huge lengths to reach that "ideal" image of themselves and yet more often than not, they still aren't happy.

    • @Liannabelle8
      @Liannabelle8 6 лет назад

      Nico V please provide me with the "science" you're referring to. And please don't provide a BuzzFeed video link as reference. "transgender" is literally the text book definition of dismorphia.

  • @lindaselina7134
    @lindaselina7134 6 лет назад +14

    I never understood why people have a problem with dating a transgender person. Maybe it's because I'm pansexual and I really don't care about genders, but aren't it the feelings that count in the end? To hear what these people had to go through hurts so much. I only wish them the best!
    Greetings from Switzerland

    • @lo-fiFromChicago
      @lo-fiFromChicago 6 лет назад +1

      Linda Selina Because no matter how YOU identify, it doesent matter to me. I want to be with a woman not a man. How dare people force their views on others while accusing everyone else of the same?

    • @kyraw5768
      @kyraw5768 6 лет назад +1

      The only reason I can think of is preferring certain genitals and not wanting to date a trans person who hasn’t transitioned yet

    • @chilip7386
      @chilip7386 5 лет назад +1

      To some people sex is very important and if a trans person hasn’t had bottom surgery then the sex is different from how it usually is. Though as a 100% gay guy I’ve dated trans guys in the past and it hasn’t been any different than dating a cis guy.

    • @VictorMatthieu
      @VictorMatthieu 5 лет назад +1

      I probably wouldn't date a trans person and I am trans

    • @heroinfathr
      @heroinfathr 5 лет назад

      Aisty they don't date someone who doesn't have genitals they're attracted to. i wouldn't date a trans woman who still had male parts because i'm not attracted to penises. i also wouldn't date a trans guy because i'm not attracted to men.
      i'm a trans guy fyi

  • @tickedoffnow
    @tickedoffnow 4 года назад +3

    Trans Male here,
    I'm glad that the Transgender Community is fighting to become the norm.
    It's our time to shine and be heard.

  • @mokulenable
    @mokulenable 6 лет назад +26

    The speakers in the video bring up a good point. If society was more accepting, gender norms weren't so strict, or that "blending in" wasn't such an need to feel comfortable in day-to-day life...would so many trans people require/want surgeries?
    If you allow kids to be themselves -- without saying "this is a boys colour, or girls piece of clothing" ...Just allow play to be play, and clothes to be clothes...style, manner, actions, etc...to not be define as gendered thing. Would more Trans, and CIS people, accept their bodies, love their bodies..without feeling a need to change it? Its the same as plastic surgery...if we didn't have this beauty standard...a lot less people would care or see the benefit of it vs. the pain and cost.

    • @willd6319
      @willd6319 6 лет назад +9

      Mokulen There's a difference between gender non-conforming and trans. Although trans people could be somewhat less overwhelmed in a society more open to blended presentation, sex characteristics (voice, chest, hips, etc) can be a harsh line between other and self and would still be a source for dysphoria.
      Gnc people would blend in with the crowd in such a society, but trans people would still struggle.

    • @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice
      @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice 6 лет назад +3

      OP is absolutely right. It wouldn't really help people with *body* dysphoria very much, but it would help a lot with *social* dysphoria, and it would drastically improve the safety and happiness of *all* trans people in their daily lives.
      Like, if everyone accepted me as a boy/man from day one, I would still get on T to grow a beard, and get top surgery. But so many of my other problems would be easier, like applying for jobs, using the restroom, worrying about my trans friends being attacked, dealing with misgendering, etc... And some of my body+social combination dysphoria would be better, like anxiety about my height and hip size.

    • @ethanshattuck
      @ethanshattuck 6 лет назад +3

      Xavier Parker: I have a Masters In Psychology. You're incorrect about trans people having a mental illness. They no more have a mental illness than other intersexed conditions or for that fact, women had "hysteria" pre women's sufferage. The reason it's in the DSM at all is because Society creates a problem that makes it difficult to be part of society. Unless you're a trained psychologist, you may want to refrain from diagnosing mental illness in others.

    • @VictorMatthieu
      @VictorMatthieu 5 лет назад

      Yes, the amount of people who need surgery or want it would be the exact same.

  • @sbudke8607
    @sbudke8607 3 года назад +5

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate every single one of these beautiful strong brave people here like they are all gorgeous and amazing and confident

  • @kpopruinedmylifefam3859
    @kpopruinedmylifefam3859 6 лет назад +34

    Honey all I’m focusing on is that Gucci belt!!! 💁Yassss!!!!

    • @Johnshong
      @Johnshong 6 лет назад

      Kpopruinedmylifefam also the Gucci cardigan she is decked out it Gucci

  • @johnnybrown9120
    @johnnybrown9120 3 года назад +1

    i like how they weren't rude
    but cis gay people are usually more aggressive in these videos

  • @mila9831
    @mila9831 6 лет назад +66

    all these people are so beautiful

    • @arch81l32
      @arch81l32 5 лет назад

      @@xp8343 agree

    • @cas2324
      @cas2324 4 года назад

      I know right!! It’s amazing! they all have such wonderful and colorful personalities too.

    • @isaisaisa2
      @isaisaisa2 3 года назад

      u assumed they all identify as humans 😤

  • @LAURA---
    @LAURA--- 6 лет назад +2

    The lady with the braids has a beautiful voice - I could listen to her talk all day long! Also I’m so happy to see Rocco again :D

  • @hypatiastanhope4716
    @hypatiastanhope4716 6 лет назад +1

    I just stoped answering questions concerning my transition long ago , if someone ask me I just look at them like I'm going to claw out their eyes lol they leave me alone lol

  • @luanaduma4233
    @luanaduma4233 6 лет назад +136

    Wonderful 😏
    So happy that you found your true selves ✌

    • @luanaduma4233
      @luanaduma4233 6 лет назад +1

      You're right, it'd have been better if i said "true selves"
      Thank you for the info, i'll edit

    • @SillyTubereal
      @SillyTubereal 6 лет назад

      So a man's true self is a woman and vice versa? Idiot.

    • @luanaduma4233
      @luanaduma4233 6 лет назад +3

      SillyTube, If that's what you understand from what I said, I'm not the idiot here.

  • @Fernandaaa96
    @Fernandaaa96 6 лет назад +3

    Buzzfeed needs to work on crediting the people starring in the videos

  • @jasmined7113
    @jasmined7113 5 лет назад +2

    As a young trans person I admire these people so much just because they’re all so fuckin hot

  • @maddielister4365
    @maddielister4365 6 лет назад +233

    This is cool

    • @chad7917
      @chad7917 6 лет назад +1

      Maddie L ok.

  • @tayaalldaya8530
    @tayaalldaya8530 5 лет назад +4

    The black girl in the black shirt is SOOO beautiful!! She looks like one of my family members lol, we related sis? Jk 😂

  • @ningyou1978
    @ningyou1978 6 лет назад

    Wish my cousin could have the same mindset as these beautiful ladies and gentlemen. They’re so worried that since they haven’t been transitioning since day 1 that they’ll never look natural. Trying my best to keep them optimistic, but it’s so hard when I can’t empathize well with them. These videos always make me so happy and hopeful for my cousin, for the world, and for myself, in understanding trans people more and more.

  • @CocoaBeachLiving
    @CocoaBeachLiving 5 лет назад +1

    Showing people you are people, with hopes and dreams just like everyone else is important. I think I know why transgender upsets some so much, they're terrified they might have to question their own gender issues if they accept a transgender person. As some folks here said, learning loving yourself is the best part- Something everyone needs to do. Best wishes from Florida! 😎🌴

  • @828lilou
    @828lilou 6 лет назад +3

    i truly hope that more people educate themeselves on the matter of Trans people, and if you don't know enough please make sure you do.

  • @chancedapuppy465
    @chancedapuppy465 6 лет назад +27

    This was
    •Great
    •inspirational
    Did buzzfeed become good😮

  • @MrBklein31
    @MrBklein31 6 лет назад

    This is a great video. I think that the only way to achieve equality is to educate. I don't know anyone personally who is trans, but I wish I did. I always thirst to know more about others so I can understand what makes them who they are. In my opinion, the people who open up and tell their stories are the upmost example of bravery.
    The only thing that gets in the way of understanding more is fear. Not fear of a trans person, but of saying the wrong thing, using the wrong pronoun, or just not knowing how to ask questions so I don't offend them. The last thing I would ever want to do is insult them or the difficult journey they have gone through.

  • @rockroad17
    @rockroad17 6 лет назад +37

    While trying to date as a trans I feel it’s their responsibility to let them know that they are. They need to let each other know, you don’t want either of you to be uncomfortable.

    • @okushinabasu
      @okushinabasu 6 лет назад +8

      rockroad17 Well sometimes coming out to someone who thinks we’re cis, as being trans can get us killed. So why don’t you leave that up to us, yeah?

    • @rockroad17
      @rockroad17 6 лет назад +17

      I'm all for trans rights, but you have a certain responsibility to let people know who may be attracted to you, or you be attracted to them. That person may not be comfortable with that and you need to respect that and not play the victim all the time.

    • @jacksonlehman4086
      @jacksonlehman4086 6 лет назад +7

      rockroad17 exactly. Like if I love someone but i think they are a woman but it turns out that they are a man. Then I will not think the same after because I may feel weird about it

    • @rockroad17
      @rockroad17 6 лет назад +7

      Yeah and I think that trans people have an obligation to let the other person know. They always can't be the victim.

    • @asylumOG
      @asylumOG 6 лет назад +5

      ThePhenomenalBro But if they tell you they’re a woman, then they’re a woman. They’re not “actually a man”. People get killed for telling future dates that they’re trans, so maybe get over yourself and realize that they don’t owe you an explanation about their gender

  • @dylaneverett4ever
    @dylaneverett4ever 6 лет назад

    The girl in the flannel and the girl sitting next to her are literally hair goals

  • @sarahcoleman5269
    @sarahcoleman5269 6 лет назад

    I'm a-sexual, but I only really discovered what that was in the last 5 years.
    Growing into an adult and not being hetero-normative kind of _makes_ you do a lot of soul searching. Like, I spent at least 5 years wondering if I was a Lesbian, I seriously didn't know. I didn't have a definition for what I was so I kept asking myself if I fit into what definitions I did know. I finally decided to accept that I just wasn't sexually interested in men or women shortly before I found out what "a-sexual" was. When I heard about it I was like, "Yeah, that's me."
    Listening to these people talk about their journey just made me remember what it's like to just know that you're "not normal" and not being able to define your normal. I applaud these people, at least I didn't have to make a physical change to be who I am.

  • @charleyfiveash573
    @charleyfiveash573 6 лет назад +25

    So good and so inspirational

    • @chad7917
      @chad7917 6 лет назад

      Charley Fiveash apparently your definition of inspiration is mental illness.

    • @Mobius118
      @Mobius118 2 года назад

      @Mr Clean
      So true! And it gives me hope to see people like you and the legend above your comment. I appreciate that 🤙🏼

  • @alxndradoll
    @alxndradoll 4 года назад +2

    “I love my mones” 😂

  • @kaceface3277
    @kaceface3277 6 лет назад

    “I mean look at you and I honey, all we share is a little mocha” 😂

  • @jessh5310
    @jessh5310 6 лет назад +4

    i discovered that the only thing worse than being trans is being trans and disabled, the hate from some people could not be imagined by your worst nightmares,
    I prefer the company of my guinea pigs to most people they judge you friend or foe depending wether you are nice or not to them.

  • @vibeglass
    @vibeglass 3 года назад +4

    "Us transgender women have a strength, unlike any other." Ya don't say???

  • @Dan-vn4he
    @Dan-vn4he 6 лет назад

    The questions about surgery and hormones are so important. This video was so well done - so many people think you hAve to want hormones and surgery to be trans

  • @johnnyvuong3837
    @johnnyvuong3837 6 лет назад

    I'm a mixed race transnonbinary afab person, strongly on the masculine side. And I don't plan to take hormones but I do plan to have top surgery done. My best friend has been taking hormones for a few years, he's having his top surgery consultation very soon!! But that just shows that every single trans person is so different. And we're all handsome, beautiful people.

  • @thebreestylez
    @thebreestylez 6 лет назад +106

    If I saw any of these people on the street I would never think they were trans like slayyy

    • @yeiiid6633
      @yeiiid6633 6 лет назад +1

      When I saw the miniature of the video I thought that there were interviewers sitting with one trans person lol

    • @kingkiitt7355
      @kingkiitt7355 6 лет назад

      I'll probably drool over the guy with tattoos😍😍

  • @flying_pig_girl
    @flying_pig_girl 6 лет назад +1

    The biggest surprise is that that guy is over 35!!!

  • @darkanddandy6898
    @darkanddandy6898 6 лет назад

    Everyone's makeup is freaking flawless.

  • @cookiemonster19
    @cookiemonster19 6 лет назад +9

    Is it just me or are they literally just typing a question into google and not using commonly googled questions?

  • @iunironicallyusewattpad-8034
    @iunironicallyusewattpad-8034 6 лет назад

    all these people pass so well i feel so proud

  • @connoranderson3380
    @connoranderson3380 5 лет назад +1

    I'm a trans guy and when I used to present female creeps used to catcall me and stuff
    Well
    I don't want to know what TRANS WOMEN go though every single day...

  • @jenhezlenbanzuelo3613
    @jenhezlenbanzuelo3613 6 лет назад

    These people are so eloquent and can express their answers to the question clearly and with understanding. They are so positive towards life aswell, love it.

  • @Just-Darcy
    @Just-Darcy 6 лет назад

    God I love Rocco. Can buzzfeed give him his own show already?!

  • @jennie-ej1of
    @jennie-ej1of 6 лет назад +7

    TO THE LADY TRANSGENDERS OUT THERE, WELCOME TO WOMANHOOD! GLAD TO HAVE YA! 😍😘

  • @Denis-89
    @Denis-89 6 лет назад +4

    YES! More enlightening informative videos such as this! This is what I subscribe for..

  • @superawsomeblitz
    @superawsomeblitz 6 лет назад

    Watching people dueling it out in the comments>actual video

  • @miabrecks1102
    @miabrecks1102 6 лет назад

    informative and heartfelt. one of the only good videos from buzzfeed tbh. all these people are beautiful in and out, especially the girl in plaid!

  • @tristanpittman80
    @tristanpittman80 5 лет назад +2

    As a trans woman...... I cant say I love the label or the actuality of it all but Im proud to be able to be the real me and share my story with others and educate others on something they may know nothing about which has happened now quite a few times 😀

  • @lucindashirreffs6703
    @lucindashirreffs6703 6 лет назад

    Blinded by that british woman's highlight she is glowing sis

  • @Zero-1
    @Zero-1 3 года назад +3

    Before I ask this question I want people to know I’m only wondering about the trans community so I can understand more. I’m not hating in any way so please don’t hate me for being curious. My question is, how are there more then 2 or 3 genders? For my whole life there was only male and female. I understand there can be 3 with the non-binary community. But how are there more then 3? If a biological man decides to become a women I think they have every right to do so. But wouldn’t that just make them a women instead of a man and vice versa. To me it seems like there are only 2 genders to choose from. So what are the other genders besides male and female? If someone wants to change gender then there is only one other option to choose and again they have every right to do so. Really I’m just wondering what the other genders are, maybe it’s cuz I don’t understand the difference between gender and sex because for my whole life they have been synonymous. If someone could explain this in a non-aggressive way that would be great. You would not imagine the hate I got on Reddit for asking this question, maybe it was how I phrased it. I in no way mean anyone offense I’m just wondering how there are more then 2 genders because I want to learn. We shouldn’t call people transgender we should call them by the gender they choose/prefer, but aren’t there only 2 options to choose?
    Please no hate again I feel confused and I’m only trying to learn, thanks.

    • @R.A.A.
      @R.A.A. 2 года назад

      Sure, as a 32 years old trans woman I’m happy to explain. But let me ask you first: you know the difference between your Gender & your Genitals ? They’re not one right ? The exact same idea applies to transgender people. For example: Your male genitals are CONSISTENT with your male gender identity. Transgender people are unlike you they have inconsistencies between the two, it’s a medical condition called [GENDER DYSPHORIA]. So no one suddenly as you said if “WANT TO CHANG GENDER” it’s not that simple or about wanting it’s a serious medical condition. Otherwise can you change your gender tomorrow if you want ? You can’t because you don’t have Gender Dysphoria. I understand your curiosity about transgender people but remember this is a VERY PERSONAL PRIVATE ISSUE. Do you see transgender people on the internet asking about your sexuality or privates or personal life ? Why ? Because we’re like you HUMANS, it’s creepy and disrespectful to invade each other privacy right ?
      Anyway nothing wrong with asking, but remember you don’t need to understand to be kind :)

  • @thelordjesusismyrock3566
    @thelordjesusismyrock3566 6 лет назад +4

    I was once a man trapped inside a womans body......then I was born.

  • @reecedarlene
    @reecedarlene 6 лет назад

    I love this :)
    But I've also seen a lot of posts by transgender people saying that it's not "on them" to "teach other people" and kind of closing off the dialogue. But I'm glad videos like this exist, and also glad that Google is such an amazing tool.

  • @lavadad2629
    @lavadad2629 6 лет назад

    Every time I see the trans guy on the left, I think his name is Rocco, all I can think of is "HEY Vsauce, Michael here."

  • @honeybee5331
    @honeybee5331 6 лет назад

    LOVE this : "i've always been about beauty doesn't have a sex for me so at the end of the day, it's like what i'm gonna remember is whether or not you are a nice person"

  • @XsasunaruloveyaoiX
    @XsasunaruloveyaoiX 6 лет назад

    I'm happy that people are curious about transgender people. It brings me a little bit of peace that someone wants to know more. As a trans guy, its hard to know if someone is just curious or if someone wants to harass me. I honestly tell everyone up front that I'm trans because if they don't like me the moment we meet, I don't involve myself in their life. Had some guy hit on me at a bus stop recently because he thought I was a woman and the moment I told him I'm a trans guy, he stopped trying to hit on me, in fact I haven't seen him in months which I'm happy about. I apparently forgot to tell some friends of mine online and the moment they figured out I was a trans guy, they were surprised because they thought I was a cis male. Even my current partner didn't notice but they still love me anyway because people are people and we shouldn't judge someone based on what genitals they have and whats going on in their head.

  • @VictorMatthieu
    @VictorMatthieu 3 года назад

    I like how it says these are the most googled questions about trans people but nothing shows up on the little Google thing they show.

  • @Piesfan35
    @Piesfan35 6 лет назад

    Literally the most buzzfeed title of all time

  • @ashleyp243
    @ashleyp243 6 лет назад +3

    Great video.

  • @Windmelodie
    @Windmelodie 6 лет назад +3

    Okay what I really think about...can trans people who have undergone surgery still have orgasms? I mean, I'm sure that moderm medicine is able to change the parts without damaging the nerves too much, so you can still feel things...but I really wonder if science is able to get all the nuances in the nerves right to enable that. Since....it's a big cluster of tiny nerves down there that make you really sensetive. I have trans friends but I never asked, I don't want to be rude or intruding but in terms of scientific curiosity, I'd really want to know if it's possible or perhaps even normal.

    • @MyHeartIsOhMyGod
      @MyHeartIsOhMyGod 6 лет назад +1

      Windmelodie This is actually a very good question. Sadly, I cannot give a definite answer, but I’m pretty sure the answer is “yes”, since transgender people appear to have equally satisfying sex lives compared to their cis counterparts.
      I’d love to hear a more detailed answer though, if someone with personal experience is able to give one.

    • @ElusiveLion741
      @ElusiveLion741 6 лет назад +1

      Windmelodie yes they can still have orgasms. For example ftm(female to male) if they have gone through the surgery of having a penis, depending on the type of surgery preformed to give them a penis, surgeons will usually take the nerves and rearrange them so that the person can feel feeling on their penis. To put it simply yes both ftm and mtf can have orgasms

    • @heroinfathr
      @heroinfathr 5 лет назад

      A M. they're doing it to unhealthy people. mentally unhealthy

  • @owenshriver155
    @owenshriver155 6 лет назад +1

    what i dont like aboutt these videos is it glorifies being trans. being transgender isnt just sunshine and rainbows and just the amazing eye opening expperience they make it out to be. its hard, and 99.99% of the time it sucks. it never stops sucking. there are certain experiences that are good that you know youll never get while being cis, but overall it sucks.

  • @danif4050
    @danif4050 5 лет назад +1

    Why is everyone saying the Asian person doesn't look over twenty?? He looks 45 at least

  • @AEspera
    @AEspera 6 лет назад +66

    It’s hard to tell that the guy in tattoos used to be a girl (I️ do support this, I’m just saying something on my mind)

    • @okushinabasu
      @okushinabasu 6 лет назад +30

      L1ghtn1ng0330 They were never a girl. He was assigned female at birth, but he’s always been a male. That’s what being trans means.

    • @pixelette98
      @pixelette98 6 лет назад +26

      veganpoopxvx I keep seeing you in the comments being so bitter and harsh. The majority of people here support this. By acting this way you're kinda giving trans people a bad look.

    • @heyhowareyou7777
      @heyhowareyou7777 6 лет назад

      yeah no way because he has testosterone why all being so uneducated , you can never tell that its a transman only pre t

    • @asylumOG
      @asylumOG 6 лет назад +9

      Miku Hatsune You can’t give trans people a bad look. Every trans person is different and no one person can define the whole community. But some people in these comments need to be shut down for shouting their transphobia, and I’m glad this person is doing the right thing and calling them out

    • @SnoWhiteSally
      @SnoWhiteSally 6 лет назад +9

      veganpoopxvx I get what you’re saying, but this person wasn’t hating. And I would have said the same thing. I know what trans means, but would hVe meant it that physically they were female.

  • @CCPJAYLPHAN1994
    @CCPJAYLPHAN1994 6 лет назад +19

    Yay speak up Buddhist Trans!

  • @daniellel9994
    @daniellel9994 6 лет назад +99

    To be honest, the lady with the dreads, I would have never thought she was a male I’m sorry if this sounded rude

    • @80spurple13
      @80spurple13 6 лет назад +14

      Danielle Lee why would it be rude. It would be a compliment to them.

    • @LishB1011
      @LishB1011 6 лет назад +45

      Technically she's not male. She was assigned male at birth.
      It's hard for me to explain the difference as a cis woman, and hopefully someone can better explain this.

    • @user-nz7mv2iy6d
      @user-nz7mv2iy6d 6 лет назад +40

      Alishia Boyle Being assigned as male at birth makes you male... study some genetics and biology

    • @joshp8184
      @joshp8184 6 лет назад +3

      Marco Bren word

    • @tedriko3242
      @tedriko3242 6 лет назад +8

      Alishia Boyle he’s a man it’s called biology

  • @calliew8937
    @calliew8937 6 лет назад +2

    I JUST WANT TO JUMP THROUGH THE SCREEN AND GIVE THEM A HUG.....thank you guys🤗🤗😘

  • @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice
    @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice 6 лет назад +3

    I would say that being trans is a pain, cause dysphoria sucks and I don't think any of us like having to pay for surgery and hormones, or like being misgendered and misunderstood and sometimes attacked... But I also strongly feel like I love being trans. It's weird. Kind of like having a disability, it's in theory completely negative, but there's a lot of good things that come out of it, like learning new skills you never thought you'd be capable of, developing new strength you didn't know you could have, seeing the world from a perspective you never knew before, and in general, sort of just... relishing and honoring the complexity of life, and knowing that your life isn't a predetermined path but a large and expanding field of opportunities and surprises, and yeah a lot of pain, but also a lot of chances to ease the pain of others, too. It's an adventure and I appreciate being born this way.

  • @nadiaagoodwin6250
    @nadiaagoodwin6250 5 лет назад +3

    love all 💛💜💙💚💗♥️

  • @supernova1725
    @supernova1725 3 года назад +3

    Women are women and men are men and genetic mutations are exactly that

  • @samara6508
    @samara6508 6 лет назад

    These people pass really damn well.

  • @rutgerh
    @rutgerh 6 лет назад

    "We have a strength unlike any other" BRUHHHH😂

  • @XxvaxionxX
    @XxvaxionxX 6 лет назад +3

    Trans people are bold and I love it.

  • @brianshay6702
    @brianshay6702 6 лет назад +12

    Buzz feed your the best

  • @c_rye9825
    @c_rye9825 6 лет назад +6

    Being trans is hAVING GENDER DYSPHORIA, A MEDICAL TERM. ITS NOT JUST SAYING “WELL IM A GUY NOW”

    • @epicOway
      @epicOway 6 лет назад +3

      Its 2018 hun. Queer politics have regressed so far that now anyone can be trans! It's terrible.

    • @bornwithoutconsentobviously
      @bornwithoutconsentobviously 6 лет назад

      juu I'm glad that it bothers you.

  • @ConchitaProductions
    @ConchitaProductions 6 лет назад

    The african american girl with the black shirt is probably the most convincing.

  • @unaermanovic9185
    @unaermanovic9185 6 лет назад

    Omg there's Munroe Bergdorf! Such a queen! Why wouldn't Buzzfeed mention their names and social media ? 🙄

  • @pinkfloydmeddle6692
    @pinkfloydmeddle6692 5 лет назад +3

    This is gross.

  • @11jokerchen11
    @11jokerchen11 6 лет назад

    This is a wonderful video! Hearing trans people talk about their experience and explaining things many people don't know about is so important, it's an important step to fighting the ignorance that brings so much pain to the trans community.

  • @kelveesilbe1811
    @kelveesilbe1811 6 лет назад +1

    The girl on the right with the jean jacket and beautiful eyes kind of reminds me of Jennifer Lawrence.