Answering gay questions straight people are too afraid to ask

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  • Опубликовано: 16 янв 2025

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  • @TravisBryantNYC
    @TravisBryantNYC  2 года назад +75

    JEFF KASSER RETURNS ON MY OTHER PLATFORM TONIGHT! Check us out there! 🔥 linktr.ee/Travisbryant

  • @garybregel1572
    @garybregel1572 2 месяца назад +778

    Don't let them fool you, this is two gay guys.

    • @braddavid9173
      @braddavid9173 2 месяца назад

      blonde is gross too, circuit queen

    • @JMR-c6g
      @JMR-c6g 2 месяца назад +18

      who cares ?

    • @giulia1775
      @giulia1775 2 месяца назад

      I mean.... the sexual tension between them is pretty obvious...

    • @danielkoher1944
      @danielkoher1944 2 месяца назад +8

      As in EXTREMELY HAPPY 😆 GURLLLY GURLZ!
      ENOUGH!
      They’re KILLING ME!

    • @danielkoher1944
      @danielkoher1944 2 месяца назад +4

      @@JMR-c6g
      Evidently?
      They do always referring to ‘She’s NOT!’
      GOT IT?
      GET IT?
      GOOD! 😌

  • @mannygutierrez7654
    @mannygutierrez7654 2 года назад +1943

    "And this is a straight heterosexual man" as Jeff literally looks like he wants to devour Travis

    • @Grey-Talon4198
      @Grey-Talon4198 2 года назад +1

      Well Travis did take Jeff's virginity on a only fans video.

    • @Angelika5378
      @Angelika5378 2 года назад +114

      XD same thought. I was like nahh you sure about that?🤣

    • @marcos-ll2yr
      @marcos-ll2yr 2 года назад +70

      he said sort off. So he is not 100% he is heteroflexible he said on Mario

    • @timothysaathoff3115
      @timothysaathoff3115 2 года назад +59

      Right... im like my boy is hungry

    • @zonkengejane4341
      @zonkengejane4341 2 года назад +24

      Lol yeah thought I was the only one who noticed😹

  • @mules8662
    @mules8662 2 года назад +901

    There’s nothing straight about this video. Not even Jeff.

  • @lukesmith2725
    @lukesmith2725 2 месяца назад +310

    A) Jeff wants Travis. You can’t hide or fake that look. His eyes say all you need to know. B) Travis speaks 1000% truth. Everything outta his mouth is spot on true. “You can’t play by the pool and not get wet”. Truer words never spoken. This video was wonderful.

    • @Giaduzza89
      @Giaduzza89 2 месяца назад +7

      I think that he's just flaunting the fact that he's not intimidated by the situation 😂

    • @stephaniegoddard9397
      @stephaniegoddard9397 Месяц назад +4

      Yes he wants Travis. Is he gay-curious? Most likely.

  • @professortrelawney
    @professortrelawney 2 года назад +793

    Jeff looks at Travis like he badly wants to top him as if it's their last day on earth. hahah.

    • @4cuttime
      @4cuttime 2 года назад +8

      Lol right!

    • @sxnder
      @sxnder Год назад +8

      @@4cuttime I think its them being playful. The constant touching and looks has to be..

    • @curiousnerdkitteh
      @curiousnerdkitteh 6 месяцев назад +22

      They're queerbaiting us and for once I don't mind queerbaiting lol

    • @SupratimSaha-z2z
      @SupratimSaha-z2z 2 месяца назад

      Yes,, its true 😂

    • @toxiccupcake7954
      @toxiccupcake7954 22 дня назад

      I'm not gay or a guy for that matter and I wanted to top him.

  • @gem3614
    @gem3614 2 года назад +564

    I think Jeff is anything but straight and that’s perfectly perfect! 😊

    • @anthonyr7208
      @anthonyr7208 2 года назад +17

      AGREED

    • @Alterlove3
      @Alterlove3 2 года назад +21

      Or he is comfortable with his sexuality?

    • @ashsummermakaio4756
      @ashsummermakaio4756 2 года назад

      Isn’t there an onlyfans video of Travis f*cking Jeff?

    • @gem3614
      @gem3614 2 года назад +3

      @@ashsummermakaio4756 love to see that

    • @Mahogui.
      @Mahogui. 2 года назад +4

      Look the definition for QUEER

  • @derekvandeventer4973
    @derekvandeventer4973 Год назад +353

    I want to find someone who looks at me the way Jeff looks at Travis!

  • @keithblevins5093
    @keithblevins5093 2 года назад +277

    I think Jeff just needs to go for it. He's really curious, or a hell of an actor.

  • @pete4087
    @pete4087 2 года назад +110

    9:45 - 10:30 YOU NAILED IT! I moved to the gay community five years ago with the best intentions of living openly and authentically, making new friends, and perhaps meeting someone special. The reality is that it can be unfriendly, dismissive, and beyond cliquey. I stopped going out after a while and can honestly say that straight men treat me with more dignity. At 54, I crave friendship and connection the most. Does this mean I'll move? NO. I love the openness and diversity. I love that LGBTQ+ people can walk anywhere here and hold hands and kiss. Add the stunning natural beauty of my town on top of that and I'm still sold. As for these challenges, I'm hoping to work around them with time and keep the door open. Thank you so much, Travis, for the great content!

    • @curiousnerdkitteh
      @curiousnerdkitteh 6 месяцев назад +2

      OMG you're describing my experience so well!

  • @haopowei
    @haopowei 2 года назад +311

    Travis just described bottoming so well and beautiful , the mentally submission and connect to another person.

    • @MGSHM1
      @MGSHM1 Год назад +20

      Yes. But… the mentally submission to your boyfriend can also be misused. I experienced this in my own relationship. There was later no love feelings anymore from him, only to satisfy his dominance feelings and to hurt me in my soul.

    • @haopowei
      @haopowei Год назад +10

      @@MGSHM1 I am sorry to heat that. Thank you for sharing this experience.

    • @MGSHM1
      @MGSHM1 Год назад +5

      @@haopowei thank you too for reacting👍. If you think you know your guy… take care

    • @viderethevaccinatorfromhol7536
      @viderethevaccinatorfromhol7536 7 месяцев назад +3

      what about the prostate

    • @maximeboissonneault6203
      @maximeboissonneault6203 6 месяцев назад +16

      Bottoming is not necessarily about submission. You can be “bottom” while being on top and actually dominant…

  • @timothyxosullivan
    @timothyxosullivan 2 года назад +245

    Sexuality is such an interesting topic. I am bi, and i far prefer to mix with gays than straights. Gays tend to be independent thinkers which i love.

    • @tomas2668
      @tomas2668 2 года назад +7

      Comments like yours are so refreshing to hear man😁👍🏻

    • @willgawne2633
      @willgawne2633 2 года назад

      Hello

    • @willgawne2633
      @willgawne2633 2 года назад

      How r u

    • @VihaanBelani
      @VihaanBelani Год назад

      So you're saying that everyone should not be straight

    • @timothyxosullivan
      @timothyxosullivan Год назад +14

      @@VihaanBelani no such thing as should. You are what you are.

  • @joshyB1992
    @joshyB1992 2 года назад +108

    Love how comfortable you two are together 😊. You’re right on how toxic the community is though 😢it’s a shame really.

  • @churrymurray
    @churrymurray 11 месяцев назад +161

    Jeff's heart is racing with desire in a lot of this vid.

  • @HollyWils92
    @HollyWils92 2 месяца назад +34

    Jeff is so gay he swung back to straight, also my word, both of you are so attractive and have lovely personalities!

  • @leomack4432
    @leomack4432 7 месяцев назад +67

    So I’m a gay man and my two best friends are straight…both married and they were part of my wedding to my husband and I was part of their weddings to their wives. I just want to say that of all the videos out there that try to deal with subjects this is the best. I found it respectful and honest and it meant so much to see the closeness you share.

  • @Pammie1221
    @Pammie1221 3 месяца назад +33

    If they're not a couple, they should be. I really like how kind and respectful they are with each other. ❤❤

  • @marielhoey5821
    @marielhoey5821 2 года назад +84

    I have always loved Travis from the very beginning he is so loving and lovable and kind and always exciting to watch him and Jeff have a great time together and enjoy the bromance with Jeff ❤

    • @marielhoey5821
      @marielhoey5821 2 года назад +1

      @@magicalmomentswithloni4835 me too my name is Mariel

  • @jamesdensmore1816
    @jamesdensmore1816 Год назад +78

    You guys are so cute together. I've seen your onlyfans video so I know Jeff is not100% straight and I'm glad he is so open to sexual experiences.

    • @Musicafiz
      @Musicafiz 2 месяца назад +8

      Omg tell me more what he did???😮

    • @elma02530
      @elma02530 Месяц назад +4

      I NEEED DETAILS

    • @JustanotherJLO
      @JustanotherJLO Месяц назад

      I mean if it’s with someone who looks like Travis….well that is easy to understand why… and Jeff is a pretty “straight” guy🤭

  • @JT-ok6re
    @JT-ok6re 7 месяцев назад +29

    I like when you introduced him as a straight heterosexual man! He looked at the camera, and shook his hand sideways as he's like maybe HAHAHA

  • @Tee90s
    @Tee90s 2 года назад +35

    Travis, I like the way you explained your blend of masculinity and femininity. I’ve only met one person who has that perfect blend. It truly is beautiful seeing it in person. #stayin true to self

  • @MrLovelycristy
    @MrLovelycristy 2 месяца назад +25

    he's trying so hard not to look your mouth when you explain something looking at him...😂

  • @joshryantt
    @joshryantt 2 года назад +44

    One thing Travis neglected to mention was the simple "hurt people will hurt people" in relation to the last question.

  • @fatmahssengo3429
    @fatmahssengo3429 2 года назад +54

    Jeff straight 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he literally just wants to eat u up😄

  • @WilsonWatt-q2e
    @WilsonWatt-q2e 6 месяцев назад +14

    As a gay man who has been out since before Stonewall, I have really enjoyed this because what you feel free to talk about and how you talk about it tells me that our culture is still growing and moving.

  • @JoseHerrera-hm7bv
    @JoseHerrera-hm7bv 6 месяцев назад +27

    The way they look at each other 🔥

  • @paulsehstedt6275
    @paulsehstedt6275 2 года назад +36

    Shit happens, mostly, when you're unprepared for some action.

  • @Will_ghb
    @Will_ghb 2 месяца назад +14

    I had to pause the video every 5 seconds cus i just cant stop laughing at how does the "straight" friend looks at the gay one 😭 I JUST CANT- ITS SO GAY OMFG

  • @lloyd2364
    @lloyd2364 2 года назад +13

    So cute the look at each other in the eyes and it's adorable sending love from a new Zealand gay

  • @kailahcoleman3393
    @kailahcoleman3393 2 года назад +33

    They want each other

  • @amydon7431
    @amydon7431 2 года назад +71

    Oh my gosh kiss already 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kdnu27
      @kdnu27 7 месяцев назад +14

      Blonde guy doesn't even try to pretend he's straight. Worst acting ever xD.

    • @curiousnerdkitteh
      @curiousnerdkitteh 6 месяцев назад +7

      LITERALLY

    • @curiousnerdkitteh
      @curiousnerdkitteh 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@kdnu27im sure hes straight they're just queerbaiting so hard looool

  • @toddvandenkirk6442
    @toddvandenkirk6442 9 месяцев назад +7

    TRAVIS - you have such a great insight and a very confident/educated/informative way of presenting yourself -- and answering these questions - BRAVO and Kudos to you .

  • @levijennings1352
    @levijennings1352 2 года назад +16

    I cannot believe how wise you are, so young…. Very complete inclusive observations. Perhaps there is hope. Good on you…. Very good work. Thank you.

  • @lnr33
    @lnr33 7 месяцев назад +13

    Love is in the air. The way they look each other😊

  • @curiousnerdkitteh
    @curiousnerdkitteh 6 месяцев назад +14

    This is top tier content. Real answers and real queerbaiting. 😂 In a way I actually don't mind! It's adorable seeing what close friends they are that they can be silly and mess around yet so authentic for us with real questions we really appreciate the answers to!

  • @guyontheinternet8891
    @guyontheinternet8891 2 года назад +10

    I feel the same way as Jeff after that bottom explanation. I think you just convinced me as well.

  • @ZariBacardi
    @ZariBacardi 2 года назад +22

    Just saying that there are a few of us who don’t have numerous intimate encounters.
    Me personally I’ve only had 2 and I’m 24.
    The stereotypes never have applied to me.
    But I agree with you on what’s commonly known. And some of us are more feminine while also confident in the fact that we are men. I personally don’t desire to change that fact

  • @moumitareads3738
    @moumitareads3738 2 года назад +20

    The way he is looking at him

  • @nancyborden5860
    @nancyborden5860 2 года назад +20

    Travis, I've listened to a lot of your wisdom for a long time. You are one smart cookie 🍪! You make me want to be a gay , young, handsome, versatile man. Being rich would be nice too.

  • @deelovesbruce1977
    @deelovesbruce1977 19 дней назад +1

    Wow thank you for being so open to discuss such a taboo topic. This is information I didn't know I needed in my life! ❤

  • @Tee90s
    @Tee90s 2 года назад +19

    I have been judged as being a different gay. Like I’m not the type that screams gay. I’m not overly masculine but not feminine either. So I hardly get approached by other gays. Even back when I wanted to be approached. The gay community can be some complexed at time lol.

  • @jakebetz5795
    @jakebetz5795 2 года назад +8

    I loved the way you answered everything, and you seem like a very outstanding friend and person. Your response to the question at 9:18-10:45, especially stood out for me. "The culture is so much about 'Love,' and 'Acceptance,' and 'Be Who You Are,' but when you're actually /in/ the culture...."
    I started snapping right there. That discrimination you speak about, amongst gays, is a very real thing. I can cite moments I was on the receiving end. but I also admittedly have caught myself in moments that I was having at least thoughts that were toxic in a judgmental manner, decided who I would talk to/engage with based on those thoughts, or played on the various labels, identifiers, or qualifiers that gay guys tag on one another in order to categorize and decide who is more "important," more "beautiful," or more qualifying to be someone we are willing to date, or be friends with... But this is all harmful as fuck.
    And gays need to stop harming other gays. I agree, it can very much be a toxic culture- I'd even venture to say it's rampant, with the online dating communities and our ever-growing capability to dismiss or "next" every person that falls beneath our abstract lines of "acceptable..."
    We effectively narrow down our social circles to people who all look similar. We un-diversify gays all the time, when what we originally wanted to celebrate was that in itself, "different" is beautiful. And that's how I want to change to be, is someone who is not so angry or dismissive of those who have different perspectives, or different opinions... It's almost like we've stopped wanting others to have thoughts of their own. Just so wrong, so opposite of the progress we've worked towards- toxic, like you said.
    I suppose I couldn't know what it's like to be a content creator on RUclips, nor to work with you, so I can't say with certainty how it would go... But but I am invested in being the change I want to see in the world- I hope to always cleanse myself of bitterness, resentment, toxiciity, and I imagine we'd be great friends and work very well together, and I would certainly support your endeavors in creating content and spreading your wisdom.
    You have valuable things to say!! Thank you for representing, I appreciate you!

  • @justmeoz845
    @justmeoz845 4 месяца назад +12

    Jeff closet is the one in the chronicles of Narnia 😅

  • @richardbuckwalter8571
    @richardbuckwalter8571 6 месяцев назад +11

    Sometimes I feel really embarrassed being gay!! Like you mentioned our community can be very judgmental, condescending, and rude!! As someone else mentioned, it is sad!! This video was well done, Travis!! ❤

  • @sarthakchakraborty12
    @sarthakchakraborty12 3 месяца назад +6

    3:41 and Travis says he's "heterosexual" lmfao 🤣

  • @JoeW-n3l
    @JoeW-n3l 3 дня назад

    Travis and Jeff,I love your friendship! You both look great, and tge discussion is very interesting. Good job!

  • @shanjchan
    @shanjchan 2 года назад +10

    Awesome and informative vid!! I agree with pretty much all you said!!

  • @itskhaotic
    @itskhaotic 2 года назад +8

    6:43 hit so hard! I can relate to it all. I am more “masculine” vs when I was younger. 9:51 straights and Bi’s are more accepting of me, while the gay guys aren’t. One guy I was talking to said I wasn’t gay enough. It had me going “what in the actual 🤬uck!” 😂🤣😭 but I get it I guess/I think 🤷‍♂️

  • @noelliebtsie
    @noelliebtsie 2 года назад +25

    In black america that was called code-switching. The different modes (a lot of) black folks would employ depending who they're talking to. The fact that almost never comes up in films/shows is one way you know they don't have black writers. lol

    • @flexparachute
      @flexparachute 3 месяца назад +4

      The psychological term for this is "social role" which is more of a cultural element then a racial one. It exists in all cultures in the world.

  • @MannyVegaNieves
    @MannyVegaNieves 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for reposting this bro

  • @voxveritas333
    @voxveritas333 7 месяцев назад +6

    They are both so great-looking. It's nice to watch them.

  • @AriesAtThree
    @AriesAtThree 7 дней назад +1

    First time watching this channel, and no one and nothing is straight in this vid, including the sheets! 😉😂😊

  • @tonyaguon251
    @tonyaguon251 4 месяца назад +2

    This was very educational for all straight and gay men to watch! It's great when we can have an open dialogue to better understand each other. Thanks for sharing !!!

  • @notjay581
    @notjay581 2 года назад +11

    both of them r into each-other, change m mind

  • @Arockpromoter
    @Arockpromoter 2 года назад +7

    Y’all are both still so funny and great!

  • @tomas2668
    @tomas2668 2 года назад +33

    I subscribed to Jeff's OF, there's a particular video where I would kinda disagree Jeff is a true "straight" dude lol

  • @ezelldaniels6064
    @ezelldaniels6064 2 года назад +3

    I am here for all the old content videos being re- uploaded. 😜😂 I love you Travis & Jeffy. ❤ this made my day.

  • @francisagyemangantwi5181
    @francisagyemangantwi5181 2 года назад +7

    U guys look good together

  • @iagoteles9627
    @iagoteles9627 5 месяцев назад +5

    Jeff keeps eye contact for far too long…😂

  • @fitrockx
    @fitrockx 2 года назад +12

    My god, Travis is such a cutie! 😍

  • @timatimtim4858
    @timatimtim4858 2 года назад +16

    Are we sure the other guy is straight? Errr...

  • @livinglifetoday9171
    @livinglifetoday9171 2 месяца назад

    Happy to see more convos like this after watching QAF recently - you guys cracked me up! Travis loved your honesty - Jeff - is that the key to your heart?!!

  • @betty3154
    @betty3154 6 дней назад

    Thank you for your honesty!

  • @jim9520
    @jim9520 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great video. Thank you both of your honesty.

  • @JudithHoffman-t1n
    @JudithHoffman-t1n Месяц назад

    Thank you for your openness. You two are beautiful together.

  • @steevenhyde3505
    @steevenhyde3505 2 года назад +46

    Jeff is straight? Yeah, right...

  • @Vonte444
    @Vonte444 Год назад +3

    Why is this conversation so sensual between them both 😭

  • @Mohammedbasim-fq6qu
    @Mohammedbasim-fq6qu 8 месяцев назад +2

    travis is so nice and adorable , thank you guys for making this video , one day i will watch it and tell if it was worth it

  • @yeulr
    @yeulr 2 месяца назад +5

    he wants that cookie so effing bad

  • @beaubritton2125
    @beaubritton2125 7 месяцев назад +9

    Width is more important than length.

  • @Angelika5378
    @Angelika5378 2 года назад +30

    Ehm you sure your friend is straight? XD when you explained bottoming he looked really...intrigued

  • @GuangtianGong
    @GuangtianGong Месяц назад +2

    you guys are totally having the chemistry there.

  • @sorex_68
    @sorex_68 2 месяца назад +3

    3:46 Jeff was too stunned to speak😂

  • @sifilore
    @sifilore 2 года назад +20

    These 2 r adorable together, but I would like to c some of Travis and Reno together. I don’t think there r any vids.

    • @ErinMartijn
      @ErinMartijn 2 года назад +1

      @sifilore - There are some with Travis and Reno, both on here and elsewhere.😉 Look back a year or more ago on Mario Adrion’s YT channel for a vid called “Real Talk with Reno Gold and Travis Bryant... “. As for “elsewhere”, that one of Reno with Travis is on Travis’s page.

  • @sandraserafini4351
    @sandraserafini4351 7 месяцев назад +7

    I think there's a spark of romance there .

  • @briany2456
    @briany2456 2 года назад +4

    This discussion is the first time in my 47 on this earth that i can relate to!

  • @mrzenox9835
    @mrzenox9835 2 года назад +51

    It's so weird for me hearing how all gay men have tons of sex, while lil me here is still a virgin at 23 and I'm not even ugly lolol
    edit: I just realized I may have offended people who aren't so fortunate on the look wise, and I'm sorry for that I'm just rambling... damn our community is indeed toxic

    • @mrzenox9835
      @mrzenox9835 2 года назад +4

      @@Discodancez gee thanks pal. Hugs back lol

    • @gbx1570
      @gbx1570 2 года назад +5

      I am experiencing the exact same thing but I feel like I'm not ready yet though to date at 23 yrs, and as a love lover I seem to admire more other people relationship.

    • @mrzenox9835
      @mrzenox9835 2 года назад +1

      @@gbx1570 I agree, it's just kinda hard to not feel a lil bit left out though, even though at the moment I'm not ready for a relationship either, I have tons of shit I need to get done first, including leaving this third world country lol

    • @kittylil9934
      @kittylil9934 2 года назад +2

      Omg me too, but in ma case I’m ugly😭😂

    • @mrzenox9835
      @mrzenox9835 2 года назад +2

      ​@@kittylil9934 nuuuuu I soo feel ya rn😭😭

  • @IamFuffi
    @IamFuffi 2 месяца назад +2

    These guys should be in a BL movie , omg so perfect and beautiful bonding for each other

  • @robi9973
    @robi9973 2 года назад +6

    You guys are awesome

  • @lesleycaron2396
    @lesleycaron2396 28 дней назад +1

    There’s no way Mr Demin jacket is straight, he’s to close to his “friend”.

  • @ChippyChickadeeOrFadeMacaw
    @ChippyChickadeeOrFadeMacaw Месяц назад +5

    I’m glad that this video exists. Like, just ignoring how taboo something is and posting this anyway is such a W for these guys.

  • @00nigirimeshi
    @00nigirimeshi 2 года назад +9

    Well I think this Jeff guy cannot take his hands and eyes off you...

  • @Dampfhuhn
    @Dampfhuhn 2 года назад +2

    Broo, Intro was the best 😂👌

  • @raikantopenny7335
    @raikantopenny7335 2 года назад +4

    I feel so much for Travis about his transition to masculinity. I used to cross dress as a kid.. thanks to bullying i decided to act str8. Now my family thinks am straight and are forcing me to get married. 😢

  • @bimaltwayana2058
    @bimaltwayana2058 Год назад +16

    gay romance is amazing...

  • @gzmodel
    @gzmodel 2 года назад +2

    Well said! And you wear your pride very well!!
    # Respect

    • @davestephen8679
      @davestephen8679 2 года назад

      God hates pride all most people say is God is love but truth is God also has hate don't be fooled with this pride systems the end is destruction

  • @BTURNER1961
    @BTURNER1961 9 месяцев назад +3

    I just happened upon this. It addresses some interesting topics. Its absolutely true that the gay subculture has a very long way to go, if it expects to be taken seriously about not bullying, being inclusive and being empathetic towards people's differences. Try being gay, and not conforming to the preferred body images, lauded and celebrated by gay subculture. You can be shallow, or petty, or mean, or controling or clicquish, but you dare not be overweight!

  • @johndeboard2843
    @johndeboard2843 2 года назад +6

    Loved this video ❤

  • @AnarchyAva
    @AnarchyAva 17 часов назад

    I love these guys!

  • @ErinMartijn
    @ErinMartijn 2 года назад +12

    I enjoyed this interesting, informative vid.❤ I know some guys on the bisexual spectrum (they’re between 20 and 70% gay) and they’ve relayed to me that some fully gay guys hate women and some gays also have an issue with bisexual men. It’s really pretty sad that bi men are getting reviled by BOTH straights and gays. There’s no shortage of intolerant, bigoted people on both sides. That said, my own interactions directly with gay men and bi men over the years has thankfully been positive thus far (I’m a het female).

  • @samprimera5545
    @samprimera5545 2 года назад +5

    Okay I had to smoke a cig at the 3:30 mark cause I got off.Just kidding.I quit smoking two February's ago.Lol
    Ok here's the big one.The gays being feminine.I do agree with you it's easier to be feminine if you talk like it.However...I also believe we were pushed into a closet so much that acting feminine is a way to 1).Fight back against the breeders but also 2).It might be to ridicule the straights."You tried to push me into a closet but I'm here.Im queer.Get over it."
    And porn guys say they douche before a scene so they don't have a poopie dookie.
    And finally I agree with you about another thing.We do talk to a fellow gay differently than a straight.I had gay freinds that worked at a crossdressing cabaret and almost all lived in the same apt complex.One always used the word biscuit to say/describe he made a mistake."Oh.Muh God!I feel like such a biscuit".You might have a freind that uses a similar term.
    Anyway,I'm introducing him to my dad and he uses that term.He turned to my dad and said "Oh damn.I feel like such a biscuit."
    My dad to his credit calmly said "you don't have to feel that way.You didn't know"
    I was mortified at first but my dad was a trooper.
    Sorry going on so long.

  • @farddinabdula2541
    @farddinabdula2541 2 года назад +4

    The answers trav gave are so true!! Specially the gays being the bitch. Got so much downs being a chubby gays , frustrating and sad

  • @tonystone1016
    @tonystone1016 Месяц назад +2

    Thanks for nornalizing size. In a fictional story huge sounds amazing. IRL average is good.

  • @kentamccarter9580
    @kentamccarter9580 2 месяца назад

    I had a friend that died in 2021, I loved him and miss him very much, there was no one like him💔😔
    You too love each other , and perfect for each other, don't ever let go of each other😢

  • @FallenTrinty
    @FallenTrinty 4 месяца назад +1

    This was definitely educational. Wish there was more videos on RUclips like this

  • @tarvainenKris
    @tarvainenKris 7 месяцев назад

    Love this question and answer session you guys had !

  • @saynasohily7246
    @saynasohily7246 Месяц назад

    It's my first time watching you guys and... you are really lovely🥺😭

  • @alxr.4522
    @alxr.4522 23 дня назад

    KUDOS 2 U GUYS!!! F**K, Yesssss!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼#realgaytalk 🙏🏼✨🩷🦄🩷🫧 I just shared this with my HETERO STRAIGHT dude friend & he is very appreciative of the real blunt info. #straightdudeally Thank you! 🌈☀️🫵🏼🥰🥇🏆

  • @alejandroolmedo5848
    @alejandroolmedo5848 Месяц назад

    As "the culture" there's a lot of work to be done... I think for the most part if you can find 1/2 good gay friends that you can really count on and trust and love you for YOU then who cares if all these other people don't appreciate your uniqueness! We're also WAY more than our sexuality, so learn to love that side plus all the other sides of you!

  • @scottmwilhelms2437
    @scottmwilhelms2437 Год назад

    With you on the idea many confuse sex with their actual desire for intimacy.
    As for femininity, I've come to believe it's, at least in part, an over correction from the toxic aspects of masculinity. Too many lean into femininity for they're clinging to stereotypical definitions of masculinity rather than redefining it into a more emotionally intelligent version. Emotions always have been universally human yet were mistakenly gendered which lead to the toxicity and manhood's multiple issues.