Thank you, i just sat and watched 2 adult men have an intelligent conversation with not 1 profane, vulgar or curse word. Are there any more like you out there?
I think this is what I struggle with. I relay things with emotion, and that's probably why I can't get across what's important and be able to resolve the conflict in love.
When my husband uses the self-deprecating card, I've said " please don't talk about yourself like that..." and another time I said, "and what if you are (fill in the blank whatever he calls himself), are you willing to do something about that so we can work it together? That second one gave him a pause to make him realize he doesn't need to make a self sabotage response. *note, I said that as delicately as I could to make him understand that yes we make mistakes, but we can get though this kind of tone.*
Be vulnerable…. but be careful who you are being vulnerable with….. limits are important…
Thank you, i just sat and watched 2 adult men have an intelligent conversation with not 1 profane, vulgar or curse word. Are there any more like you out there?
You can tell this really hits home when there are no likes. Society need’s this message.
Legit loved this! Taking a deep breathe is a great way to reset and relax.
We need more from you two!!
Whoa!!! Two of my faves collab!! Fangirling like crazy. 🥰🤩😍
What is the name of the other guy (the lawyer)? Does he have a RUclips channel?
I was hesitant on this one … but 👏 very good . Was worth the watch .
Genius!
I think this is what I struggle with. I relay things with emotion, and that's probably why I can't get across what's important and be able to resolve the conflict in love.
When my husband uses the self-deprecating card, I've said " please don't talk about yourself like that..." and another time I said, "and what if you are (fill in the blank whatever he calls himself), are you willing to do something about that so we can work it together?
That second one gave him a pause to make him realize he doesn't need to make a self sabotage response. *note, I said that as delicately as I could to make him understand that yes we make mistakes, but we can get though this kind of tone.*
how do deal with someone who just hangs up on me when its a dificult discussion. its so hurtful to be talking to air.
not married so i wish more general
You can apply it generally. Just because someone says "wife/husband" doesn't mean the same skills don't translate elsewhere. Just apply it elsewhere.
The one of the right is sich narcissist. He just couldn't stop talking
I love how Jefferson mentions “women too” but this host is so deep in his gendered stereotypes he can’t respect that or hear or use that idea.
He is a prick