How to Control the Conversation - The One Powerful Strategy

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    Some people attempt to command people in speeches, meetings, and simple chats by using a powerful tone of voice and a long thorough discussion.
    However, this passion in speaking does not necessarily translate to persuasion.
    If you are looking for a long-lasting and true empowerment of yourself, in your communications, and in your career and life... this video is for you.
    Discover the one powerful strategy on how to control a conversation anytime and anywhere as advised by executive coach and mentor, Dr. Grace Lee.
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Комментарии • 73

  • @kosinskr
    @kosinskr 2 года назад +19

    It’s seems like asking good questions is also a good leadership skill to get better context around work those reporting to you are doing.

    • @barrysmith8193
      @barrysmith8193 Год назад +2

      Learning how to ask better questions is skill of higher leadership. Better questions will produce better results.

  • @phyllisboynton5748
    @phyllisboynton5748 13 дней назад

    It's amazing!! Truly I appreciate your advice.

  • @garycummingsjr.6896
    @garycummingsjr.6896 2 года назад +4

    i would like to be passionate about what I'm saying and persuasive. I think when you really care about something it comes across as passionate.

  • @dianamachado2415
    @dianamachado2415 Год назад

    Most of the time when I am in the group of people and I don't know the topic or nothing to say, I make a lot question and it is always good because I learn a lot than monopolise the conversation. I have the opportunity to listen to and improve my abilities in term of becoming a good listener.

  • @stephena1196
    @stephena1196 4 месяца назад

    This reminded me of when I was a child: my dad would rant at us (he had mental health concerns). My sister timed it once, it went on for two hours. We found asking questions worked then too.

  • @janesmy6267
    @janesmy6267 27 дней назад

    I find the one who can tell the best story and logic/solution is the one with the power in the meeting lol. It’s awkward as hell when it’s not your job to provide it though lol. They always give you a scared look 👀

  • @dianamihaela9448
    @dianamihaela9448 11 месяцев назад +5

    It totally resonates with me as well. Thank you so much. I am captivated by what you say.

  • @nicholass.
    @nicholass. Год назад +3

    This is great material. Only now (after 15 years in the industry) I start to understand the meaning of it.

  • @bendmountainbiker
    @bendmountainbiker Год назад +1

    Fantastic videos. Excellent. Thank you for your coaching!!

  • @paulodili751
    @paulodili751 9 месяцев назад +1

    Dr. Grace I feel liberated by your intervention. Kudos for your formulation.

  • @hinkeambe1738
    @hinkeambe1738 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks very much Dr Grace.

  • @tumisangmogapelwa1990
    @tumisangmogapelwa1990 2 года назад

    It is genius to find the questions🙌, this is such a great truth.

  • @hasanovai
    @hasanovai 7 месяцев назад +1

    Last time I was asking questions at work I ended up being called for a private meeting where my supervisor told me that she feels disrespected when I do it. I am assuming because she didn't know the answers and it made her feel bad about herself. I left that job.

  • @rickykwokshingsun
    @rickykwokshingsun 7 месяцев назад

    thank you Dr. Grace, I love what you teach, very clear

  • @fckuyt3160
    @fckuyt3160 Год назад +7

    The quality of this information worths gold. Thank you a lot. The authenticity of this video leverage my vocabulary. Your kindness demostrates the power behind this channel. Greetings from Colombia.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад +2

      I appreciate your support from Colombia and hope that you continue to find helpful content on the channel. Welcome to my channel!

  • @chris49509
    @chris49509 Год назад +2

    Much appreciated

  • @honghoangthuy3962
    @honghoangthuy3962 10 месяцев назад

    Great!thank you

  • @MelGph
    @MelGph 2 года назад

    Thank u for the knowledge

  • @silvershit_28
    @silvershit_28 7 месяцев назад

    Currently working in BPO industry, this helps a lot. Thank you!

  • @mehriaalbert6263
    @mehriaalbert6263 7 месяцев назад

    You are, indeed, the best. Thank you❤🙏

  • @drsundipshenoy2471
    @drsundipshenoy2471 2 года назад +2

    Great Approach Madam,very helpful 👍

  • @abrahammorales3266
    @abrahammorales3266 Год назад

    Great advice here!

  • @tracyhoe3178
    @tracyhoe3178 Год назад +1

    Wonderful

  • @akkumakku01
    @akkumakku01 Год назад +6

    You are doing a great job. All your videos are so insightful

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад

      I appreciate that, Akanksha. Welcome to my channel!

  • @sandeepkondur6121
    @sandeepkondur6121 7 месяцев назад

    You are amazing , you have deep understanding about human psychology ....

  • @dr.chinese6932
    @dr.chinese6932 Год назад

    You are next level speaker

  • @neilmoral7118
    @neilmoral7118 Год назад

    Thanks🌹

  • @user-gr4wm5mv5p
    @user-gr4wm5mv5p 6 месяцев назад

    Awesome channel!!

  • @I_got_the_keys
    @I_got_the_keys Год назад

    Thank you Dr Grace

  • @arifnun
    @arifnun Год назад

    thank you

  • @user-ty3bm1kq7e
    @user-ty3bm1kq7e 9 месяцев назад

    Great video

  • @palawenia2
    @palawenia2 Год назад

    I love listening to you. I need to learn how to communicate effectively to my coworkers and higher managers

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад

      Glad to have you here, Enia.

  • @NoncedolucyNtsangani
    @NoncedolucyNtsangani 8 месяцев назад

    Great material only now

  • @tinadefeo2145
    @tinadefeo2145 Год назад +2

    Thank you. Your videos are very helpful. 🙂

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад

      You're welcome, Tina!

    • @DanielKoch-kw6fw
      @DanielKoch-kw6fw 4 месяца назад

      Hi Tina 🌹, good morning and also God bless you abundantly amen 🙏🍀

  • @faisonfaison679
    @faisonfaison679 Год назад +1

    I fox wit you Lee.
    ❤❤❤

  • @megaworldastra-jedrodrigue7551
    @megaworldastra-jedrodrigue7551 Год назад +1

    First time to watch your video. Will surely be watching more on your channel

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад

      That's wonderful to hear! Welcome to my channel, Jed Rodriguez!

  • @followJamesBrown
    @followJamesBrown Год назад +1

    What is the video you spoke of at 9 minutes that helps us to formulate or articulate who I am by knowing who I am

  • @anujbhardwaj5753
    @anujbhardwaj5753 5 месяцев назад

    Nice video

  • @danielvillarreal6610
    @danielvillarreal6610 11 месяцев назад +1

    In grad school, I used to direct softball questions to my Asian classmates that were on topics that they were likely to be knowledgeable on (“Isn’t there a concept in Buddhism that’s similar to what the journal article says?”). This would stop the show and allow them to participate. Please don’t tell Professor {REDACTED} at The University of {REDACTED}!😮

  • @kittycrow314
    @kittycrow314 Месяц назад

    yes something on those lines

  • @christophergardiner5351
    @christophergardiner5351 Год назад +2

    Not a bad presentation. I do agree with you that he or she who is the loudest, is the most passionate, uses the greatest range of vocabulary, or drones on and on (like I'm doing right now) is not necessarily the one who controls the conversation. Absolutely.
    I also believe that asking questions is more powerful then giving answers as that person chooses where the conversation goes directly (though when done right, answers control it indirectly).
    Where I differ in belief is that performance can not control conversation, and the plan laid out for authenticity is always dependable.
    Good performance does much to sway others and direct attention where one wants, and we as humans will have times when we are not able to be completely calm within ourselves that we cannot be phased. That is why I believe courage is the ultimate fall back.
    All in all, a good lecture.

  • @barrysmith8193
    @barrysmith8193 9 месяцев назад

    Anyone can ask questions. Truly successful people ask better questions. Creating a written plan before every meeting then debriefing by yourself immediately after that meeting will provide a platform that enables you to ask better questions as you go forward.

  • @joshuaang9118
    @joshuaang9118 Год назад

    Your wisdom is sweeter than pisa.
    Thank you for your help

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад

      I appreciate it, Joshua! Welcome to my channel.

    • @arifnun
      @arifnun Год назад

      my opologies, Arif Nun here; I am still finding the link that you mentioned.

    • @arifnun
      @arifnun Год назад

      I am still new to your talk

    • @arifnun
      @arifnun Год назад

      Dr Grace, I have to go now. Before that your words and advice were scary but also happy and relieved.
      Your description the ‘loud’, talking too much and talking too long made me uncomfortable because for a moment I really got the impression that you were talking about me. Thanks Doc😊

  • @eliciaabrahams8442
    @eliciaabrahams8442 2 года назад +3

    I love ❤️ critical thinking topic presented by you. It was wonderful, thank you, Dr. Grace Lee. You are impacting your nation 🌍 .

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for the kind words. Glad to have you here on my channel, Elicia!

    • @geetachaurasiya7432
      @geetachaurasiya7432 Год назад

      ​@@DrGraceLee@😊

  • @phyllisboynton5748
    @phyllisboynton5748 13 дней назад

    Yes

  • @madamhelenart
    @madamhelenart 11 месяцев назад

    When a question is asked you are at risk that people will roll their eyes.

  • @robertrixey8447
    @robertrixey8447 Год назад

    *TEACHABLE MOMENT🤔*

  • @arifnun
    @arifnun Год назад

    I could not locate the Link to press …

  • @sallyho146
    @sallyho146 Год назад +1

    Lol. It happens in our meetings. We have to wait for his train of thoughts. And the answers from him are not clear. I didn’t see your link Grace

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Год назад

      Hi Sally, glad to have you here! If you're looking for the link for my program, you can book a call to explore more with my team here: careerrevisionist.com/application

    • @DanielKoch-kw6fw
      @DanielKoch-kw6fw 4 месяца назад

      Hello say 🌹 good morning and also how are you doing today ?

  • @mariosalazar5837
    @mariosalazar5837 Год назад

  • @XxfreezEDxX
    @XxfreezEDxX 28 дней назад

    I want to convince, rather than persuade.

  • @johnkaufman9075
    @johnkaufman9075 2 года назад

    Here is a way to control a 2 way conversation is to ask question(s).

  • @ets2atstruckermartin527
    @ets2atstruckermartin527 Год назад

    that is manipulating not "control" middle-longterm comes back

  • @user-bv8we8ri6t
    @user-bv8we8ri6t Год назад

    So sick and tired and feel awful to be working with this person very day .I was so depressed..I do not give this person any credit but concentrate who need to be done and do it well .I have to be ready to defend myself kind of back strapped And this kind of behaviour was unexceptionable. If that effects me Then I will send the clear message and proof this person was lie ,this kind of this behaviour have bad impact for the team and organisation,😊

    • @barrysmith8193
      @barrysmith8193 9 месяцев назад

      Did you read this before posting it? It’s no surprise that you are challenged every day. Your communication skills are beyond pathetic. Don’t worry about others. Work on you first.

  • @drressahAYNigisiti
    @drressahAYNigisiti 10 месяцев назад +1

    Never, it's a myth indeed

  • @mystockmarketpicks263
    @mystockmarketpicks263 2 месяца назад

    Unfortunately in most cases - Money talks .