FOMO - Fear of missing out. Like now I feel content with my own pace, achievements and priorities. Just minding my own business kumbaga. When I was younger kasi ang dami kong gustong gawin, example sa pagttravel. Yun bang feeling ko dapat makapunta ako sa ganitong bansa/lugar or dapat maexperience ko rin yung ganito or ganyan kaya madalas sumasama ako kapag may mga friends na nag-aaya kahit di pasok sa budget ko. Feeling ko kasi noon, parang magiging missed opportunity kung di ako sumama. But as I grew older, I felt happier nung nagstart ako iappreciate yung mga bagay na meron ako at kaya kong gawin without any pressure from peers and in my own timeline.
@@meguchan05 this too! Kani-kaniyang timeline plus it’s always better to enjoy things when you’re not burdened financially. We tend to look forward to the next project, a new milestone, and a bigger goal that we overlook our wins in life.
@@TheaSyBautista Super agree! Tbh I can't remember when it started to happen, idk if signs of ageing, maturity ba or what haha but I swear your vlogs have influenced me a lot in my adulting journey. Kaya I really love your tita talks serye kasi I feel like I'm talking to a friend like, "Hey, me too sizt!" Relate much. Haha! Thank you ms Thea! Keep it up and more power to you and your channel.❤️
Now that I’m in my 30s I started to give less attention to the opinions of other people, stopped posting my achievements or even browsing through social media. I just value peace and great mental health all the more now :)
1. Posting too much drama and kababawan on social media. 2. Umangat ng corporate ladder. (Hindi na ako interested dyan) 3. Pag ginawa or napuntahan ng iba dapat gawin or mapuntahan ko din 😂 (hindi na ko masyadong inggitera/gaya-gaya) 4. Too much socialization. 5. Maging masyadong ambisyosa sa buhay. (Mas simple na na buhay gusto ko ngayon, as long as npprovide ko needs and konting wants ko, okay na ko. Basta, masaya ako 😊)
1. I am Too old for drama. 2. I stopped doing above and beyond for ungrateful people. I only reciprocate the amount of energy the other person is giving . 3. I don’t reply to “hey” chats. Greeting and purpose dapat. We can’t just be “hey-heying” all the time. 4. I stopped defending myself whenever I hear someone talking bad against me. I now practice the “LET THEM” method. 5. I don’t lower my standards just to FIT IN. Hence, I stopped pleasing people. 😊
As someone who grew up as a people pleaser, lately ko lng na realize na if you keep on doing things kahit di mo gusto para lng ma please yung iba or to avoid conflict, dadating at dadating yung time na mapapagod ka and you'll regret na there were things you had to let go para sa iba. And life is short, why spend it living for other people? So now that I just turned 30, I'm learning to say no and being more honest with myself with the things I want (or my boundaries) and honoring how I truly feel. Great video po btw, dami ko din insights from it 😊
Hi Thea! I found this video/vlog very relatable. As for me: 1. I am no longer posting my achievements in socmed. Spent also less time scrolling through those platforms. 2. I learned how to value myself. I stopped comparing myself with other people and I always tell myself that we all have different timelines. 3. Agree on paying more (if we have the means) to trade for inconvenience. 4. Agree also on “not too late to do the things we want”. I enrolled in driving class last week and excited to drive my own car soon. #manifesting 5. Pause. Give yourself some timeoff and relaxation. I don’t know but more than shopping, found myself always going to massage spa and treating myself for a swedish massage after a full tiring week. ❤
Nakafollow na po ako sa inyo nung early college days ko, tapos fast forward ngayong 2023, it feels surreal lang ang bilis ng time. Di pa naman ako ganap na tita kase mid 20's pa pero ang aga kong napagod lol. 1. Boundaries with people and with myself in general. 2. Mas maingat na ako sa self ko, like preserving my health and energy for things that matter most. 3. Di na ako gaanong nag iinom and nag stop na ng occassional na pagssmoke kase ang gastos lang tsaka nakakapagod mag recover from hangovers.
Hi Tea-ta, I totally agree with your list especially with no. 10. I am also in my 30's, I don't have a lot of friends who share the same activities or sports that I do or trying something new, so instead of waiting for someone to do it with, I try to do them alone. It's uncomfortable as I am not the friendly and outgoing type of someone, and also fearing for my security, but I can't let that stop me from doing what I want to.
yasss try lang nang try teata!! you also get to know yourself better in the process.. like when i did leather crafting, nalaman ko na magaling pala ako mag stitch (and mabilis)! haha. hope you enjoy your time alone, and get to make new friends too!
Number 10 resonates so much 🥲 ang dami nang pressure in life, sana more people realize that we don’t need the added pressure of what’s suppose to happen if we reach 30
As a woman turning 30 next year, I learned a lot in my 20s. Ang dami kong mistakes and accomplishments as well. I only hope na in my 30s I will achieve more in life, not because of others but for myself. Gusto ko lang din ng peace of mind.
just celebrated my 30th bday recently. trying for a committed journaling both gratitude and stream of consciousness journaling for mental health. taking poetry and creative writing courses online as hobbies. feel ko parang high school lang but learning at my pace indulging my childhood curiosities. Pati issues about god's existence and history inexplore ko ulit 🤭🤭 di ko kasi naenjoy to dati puro pressure and high grades nlng with anxieties. i graduated na mentally pagod... now i dont feel too old for any of these na. i look at my hobbies and passion for knowledge as my self care😊
1. Having no time to invite friends for a weekly inuman - Nakakapagod and you'll think napakagastos din pala when you're older. 2. Diving in the tea/drama. - hindi maganda to live a life around chismis. Parang walang growth. 3. To comment/give an opinion - lots of things going on sa buhay tapos you get to think pa ng opinion mo sa isang issue. If it doesn't concern you at all, let it be nalang. 4. Too much clutter - started declutter in my early 20s, ang sarap sa feeling kapag mas konti at reasonable yung mga gamit mo. i.e. What will I do sa mga damit na masisikip na sakin o yung mga hindi ko gusto. Unnecessary stuff takes space lang. Mas madaling magisip kapag di makalat o walang tambak space mo.
I’m in my late 30s and last year lang naka try makipagsapalaran abroad and you know what they say that living in another country evolves you in ways you cannot imagine.. and that’s what exactly happened to me! Now, I learned to: 1. Assert myself more and truly stand up for myself. Mas naging klaro what I really want sa mga bagay2x and what I will not compromise on 2. Truly enjoying my company and doing solo travel (kahit sa malapit na countryside lang) 3. And the rest are sone of the things you mentioned sa video, like last minute gala i no longer do bcoz adulting na nga 😅
so happy to hear about how you travel these days, kasi i can totally relate! i'm a certified tita too, and people tend to question how i travel (bakit ka mag Sagada and not go spelunking? bakit ka mag LU and not party?) I travel at my own pace and preference now. thank you for your content, i agree with all of them (#9 too... still working on this)
Re traveling - di na talaga kaya ng teata body and maybe not as excited narin ako to explore explore. Haha pati just being away from work and everything that reminds me of it is enough to consider the trip a “vacation” 😅 no more pa peer pressure no sa mga bagay na di natin bet?
Im in my last year of 20’s. Im 29 btw. And ayun nga medyo natatakot nako mag30. Wala parin akong jowa and working. My list goes this: ~i save money na talaga ~skincare is a must. I invested na talaga on skincare lalo na mga anti aging 😅 ~im too old for toxic friendships. Im at the age now na i lessen my circle of friends. ~travel if i can ~i don’t reply to msgs that much. I feel like i don’t have the energy to do so. Lol ~too old to use facebook. I deactivated and use IG nalang. So much drama there e ~private life is the key ~i go out alone and that’s pretty okay
Relate sa replying to messages. Sometimes i get stressed when i hear phone notifs. I think nagstart matrigger to nung nagka pandemic then WFH mga tao- my gosh sound of horror talaga yung pings and call rings sa MS Teams. Hahaha. Now all apps naka off notif except sa sms, calls and viber for work. All the rest i just check when i feel like doing so. +1 rin sa skin care-let’s all age gracefully haha
I feel affirmed. Haha Thank you for this video! Too old to care about what other people think - I used to be very conscious of wearing sleeveless because of my big arms but now, nope it makes me comfortable! 🥰
yasss teata!! pati ang init init sa pinas!! and when you think about it, pinapansin ba natin yung braso ng ibang tao? hindi rin naman, so most of the time it's really our insecurities talking! i-mute nalang natin ang self judgment and keriboom sa gusto suotin and gawin!
Yay last minute meet-ups no no na din ako 😂 its super true to schedule my meetups! My social batteries are low na. I love your tip for the social calendar
Relate ako sa lahat pero especially dun sa receiving discomfort. Grabe i remember things like nag-offer lang yung friend na sumundo at humatid (which usually mas ako ang gumagawa for them), and during the ride, i can’t help but feel shy kasi feel ko inconvenience ako sa kanya. But i realized, not allowing your friends to treat you to favors like these may make them feel like you don’t treat them as friends. Like you’re being distant ganon.
omg same! feeling ko super abala pag isasabay ako ng mga tao but fortunately i have great friends who never made me feel like an inconvenience to them.
Damang dama ko yung being a chill traveler! Akala ko ako lang haha Anyway, this video reminded me na isusulat ko nga pala yung mga goals ko pa as an I'm leaving my 20s next month. Siguro para sa akin, don't antagonize yourself lang. Masyado akong harsh sa sarili ko during my 20s so I'm allowing myself to forgive my mistakes and just learn from them.
Dibaaa? Yung travel talaga isa sa mga pinaka naapektuhan ng pagka tita ko. Hahaha. Welcome to the teata/teato club!! Love what you shared! Sometimes we become overly self critical na hindi natin napapansin growth and improvements natin. Yes to accepting our mistakes, failing a little more, and learning from our experiences ❤️
Thanks Thea for sharing. I resonate with all 10. The chill travel hits me most since I have an upcoming 2 weeks vacation travel abroad pero I am delaying my preparation for it. Before Id be too prepared a month before the trip compared to now when it is a week before I am still chill. Your post reminds me I am at my own pace.
Haha this is so trueee! Before kakabook palang ng flight pinaplano na whole itinerary but now i just google the best restos and attractions a few days before then screenshot screenshot nalang 😅
Hi Ms. Thea, this video reminded me why every time I see you have a new video, click agad ako haha. I love how you are able to convey helpful tips while showing up as your authentic self. I will turn 28 years old in a few months and I am happy to have learned so much from you!🥰💖
Thank you for sharing this super relatable content 😍 Yung akala ko nag iisa lang akong ganun pero hindi pala 🙂 Now that I just turned 30, I feel like I’m too old for not trying anything new. Akala ko okay lang yung super chill, nasa comfort zone lang. pero hindi pala. I most of the time feel like it’s too late to learn new things but now, I make a step of faith to try. Like learning how to drive, going for a job interview, etc. cause i know my future self will thank me for trying. :)
Just turned 30 last months, and for me too old to force bonding or convo with my old friends who used to be my besties before. I always forced them before to have chat or meet up with me, but they always reject me. So, now? Nahhh.. I will live my life with or without them. Also, too old for me to post too much on FB or other social media. I've been inactive on my FB and IG for 3 months straight now, as in wala tlagang any post. And I feel a sense of peace, and I feel more secure with my life, and cultivating low-key life na parang mas deeper yung joy and happiness when you get to enjoy and appreciate things more privately before posting on socmed. And minsan hndj na nga na popost pa 😆
Too old for old family drama. I have my own kids now. I need to reserve my energy for them. Same thing with not making things complicated or hard for myself when I can pay someone or buy something to make life easier. Hindi yun katamaran
Funny enough, I'm still in my early 20s (I just turned 22!) but I feel like I've grown so mature. I'm studying vetmed and I'm a scholar but I stopped schooling for a couple of years because of work since my parents aren't really financially capable. Here are what's on my list: 1. I no longer post a lot on social media. I unfriended 90% of my FB friends (let's be honest here, most of our FB friends are just acquaintances). Being private and lowkey brings me a lot of peace and tranquility. 2. I no longer post my achievements. 3. I just don't see the point of dating seriously. Your 20s is the era that should be all about you. Your growth, your schooling, your career, your goals, etc. Leave the man hunting in your 30s (if you want to). 4. I just don't care. I mind my own business. People's opinions don't matter to me.
At no.3, Nope if you're a female in your 30s you're very close to the "wall" and need to make extra effort if you want to settle down. Men will also chase you less and less, remember you also have a biological time limit, use it wisely.
hahaha 😂 panalo yung home economics era. haha! 😂 As a teacher, yan ang di ko magagawa na priority ko mag conserve ng energy. pero relate ako sa most list. hehe
Im in my early 30s and things that are too old for me is thinking too much about what others think of me, of my life and how I handle my money. Also, I really don't spend time with people na backstabbing or plastic anymore. Like I know you're there and we can be in the same room but I dont spend even a little energy to do small talk, civil nalang. Im learning to say NO to things and to anyone na I really dont feel like spending time on. And I dive more into different hobbies than before, I am still open to changing my career. And last, I won't be spending too much energy, effort and time sa professional work, I'd rather be stressed at home doing chores than stress at work.
I'm 28 but feel like this is me already. I might add na rin na I'm too old for toxic friendships, like I know my boundaries on how to let go and moved on without giving any explanation (hahaha hugot yarn). But it's the most important for me, I valued my PEACE :)
Being a true tita, I can say that all categories mentioned here, check na check. I am trying Gardening, interested in Woodworks tsaka Sewing. Pero totoo yung sa travel, Drinking. Basta lahat check hehe.
Blooming!!! Edit: meal delivery reveal po haha Edit ulit: sobrang ganda ng last point mo ms thea. My dad has a habit of putting down my mom when she tries or wants to try things. "Kala ata dalaga pa kung kumilos." It affects her confidence, and in turn affects mine too, esp since I was raised a people pleaser. Anyway for my realizations and goals naman - kaka-29 ko lang hihi - biggest goal ko ay to finally move out! And I'm too old to care what other people think na. Tama na ang people pleasing era!! Nahihirapan lang ako sabihin sa parentals so laging na-popostpone haha pero I'll make it happen!
Salamat sa pa-blooming compliment! 🥰 Delivery meals -- either I order from The Six Pack Chef. Medyo mahal sila pero ginagawa ko is bumibili ako ng credits nila pag naka 20% off, then umoorder lang ng meals pag naka 20% off promo ulit sila. So essentially nakaka 36% discount sa SRP. But recently sa ReadyHeatGo ako umoorder ng frozen meals for the week. Every Thursday 7AM cutoff ng orders, tapos Sunday delivery. Reheat-reheat nalang. Masarap in fairness.. Around 180-200 per ulam pero pwede nang pang 2 kainan kung hindi super lakas kumain. Haha! They have an IG account tapos you can message them to add you sa FB Messenger nila kung saan naguupdate ng menu weekly. Side kwento lang, yung may ari ng ReadyHeatGo, nakatabi ko lang sa Eastwest event which I mentioned dito sa video. Napakasmall world kasi batchmate pala sya ng Ate ko back in highschool. Haha! Regarding your last edit, it's true talaga no na our parents' way of treating not just their children but also their partner affects how we view ourselves. Environment plays a big factor, so I'm sure teata when the time comes na you decide to have your own family, you'd be more nurturing and encouraging with your words. Claim na natin yang adulting milestone mo to be able to move out! I swear iba yung growth na maeexperience mo when you live an independent life. Sending you virtual hugs with consent!
You have such interesting life, I’m surprised you still have the energy to study different things lol that’s impressive. Most of us just stick to one type of hobby or a job but you keep trying many other things that will help you grow as a person and honestly education is the best investment 😊 there should be more people like you hindi takot mag try!
This video was very humbling, comforting, relaxing, eye-opening, and feel-good na reality check. Haha. I really needed this today. Thank you for this vid, Ms. Thea. 🤍
Got teary-eyed sa part ng "Receiving discomfort". May ganun pala talagang term. Hahaha. Now that I'm also in my 30s, hopefully I'll try to be more receiving of affection and love and everything nice that sometimes I think I don't deserve. :">
Yesss yes!! I’ve always felt undeserving of people’s time and effort but slowly learning to do better ❤️ para we all get to be a blessing to each other ☺️
Made this content on Tiktok and I so so love your entry here on RUclips ❤ love your content as always, my go to creator when it comes to finances. Keep it up 😊
I’m 38 turning 39 next year 😅 lagi na kong pagod 😂 hindi na carry lagi nagttravel, nakakapagod. I push trying new hobbies tulad ngayon sewing tina try ko. At 38, I’m studying again, keber kung matanda na. I’m doing things that I want to do.
Yeah keber talaga kahit tumatanda na tayo! Go lang ng go haha. Though ang challenge sakin now is i find it more difficult to concentrate and absorb info 🤣 medyo challenging mag school ulit after 10yrs
Hindi ko na binibigyan ng attention yung mga inggetera or mga bad comments saken ng tao sa paligid ko. We can't please everybody. Focused ako sa pagpapa-unlad ng financial side ng life ko, sa education ng daughter ko and hoping na magkaron pa ng kapatid sya at gumanda pa ang relasyon namin ng aking pamilya every single day. Graduate na din ako sa barkada nights and dates. More on saving funds din for the future, eating and cooking healthy foods and making sure na nakakapagsimba kami every Sunday.
I feel old to do : - get multiple ear piercing; lets go for classic regal look - make patol sa mga away; i just shrig it off and leave -go home too late from a party -random meet up; drain na social battery ko by 5pm😅
I'm too old to give a damn whether people like me or not lmao. Nasa phase nako na to each our own ung journey natin and as long as I like myself, I'm all set hahaha
Hi Ms. Thea. May I know kung saan ka nagpa haircolor and how much did it cost or average cost for it? I'm planning to have my hair done the same. Thank you
Naku my hair is super dry and frizzy. Stinyle ko lang sya, but i had my hair colored at behind the chair by mark castro. U can check them on ig ganda ng work!
HALLO ARLO!! Pag nagluto kasi lahat ng condiments binibili pa kahit na once lang magagamit. :)) Pati sa sobrang busy (and yaman) mo, kayang kaya mo nalang i-order lahat 😄
Also in my 30s and relate ako sa mga sinabi mo hehe. San ka omoorder ng meal plans? I’m looking din ng weekly delivery lng. Walang makaka receive kung daily 😅 Thanks.
in my 30s I don't gave a crap of what other people thinking of me, Lol. We are not everyone's cup of tea, don't try to live my life pleasing everyone. mostly iaapply ko na lang din cguro list mo ms. thea. 😂😂😂.
My friend just called them Home Econ classes but I actually enrolled in them separately - pottery at tahanan pottery, bag making/leather crafting at soulflower co, cooking at heny sison culinary (they have 1 day sesh lang), pilates at onelife studio 😁
ako nman i dont party too much na like I had too much during that in my early 20s, tas napansin ko before hilig ko manood ng anime now mas gsto ko pang manood ng drama or live action fantasy film kesa s anime mdli nkong mabore...tas now i prepare comfort like in travelling and clothes mas comfy mas ok
Halloooo teatas and teatos!! Comment 👇 ano yung things na you’re too old for na now that you’re an adult 🥂
Crashing at friend’s place to spend the night, wasted 😂😂
FOMO - Fear of missing out. Like now I feel content with my own pace, achievements and priorities. Just minding my own business kumbaga. When I was younger kasi ang dami kong gustong gawin, example sa pagttravel. Yun bang feeling ko dapat makapunta ako sa ganitong bansa/lugar or dapat maexperience ko rin yung ganito or ganyan kaya madalas sumasama ako kapag may mga friends na nag-aaya kahit di pasok sa budget ko. Feeling ko kasi noon, parang magiging missed opportunity kung di ako sumama. But as I grew older, I felt happier nung nagstart ako iappreciate yung mga bagay na meron ako at kaya kong gawin without any pressure from peers and in my own timeline.
@@Thekneecap03this one too! Haha pati hirap ako makitulog sa iba na, uuwi at uuwi palagi 😂
@@meguchan05 this too! Kani-kaniyang timeline plus it’s always better to enjoy things when you’re not burdened financially. We tend to look forward to the next project, a new milestone, and a bigger goal that we overlook our wins in life.
@@TheaSyBautista Super agree! Tbh I can't remember when it started to happen, idk if signs of ageing, maturity ba or what haha but I swear your vlogs have influenced me a lot in my adulting journey. Kaya I really love your tita talks serye kasi I feel like I'm talking to a friend like, "Hey, me too sizt!" Relate much. Haha! Thank you ms Thea! Keep it up and more power to you and your channel.❤️
Now that I’m in my 30s I started to give less attention to the opinions of other people, stopped posting my achievements or even browsing through social media. I just value peace and great mental health all the more now :)
I guess ganon no? As we age we value the simple things more? Material things provide fleeting happiness.. but peace of mind fosters gratitude
agree on this!!!
I just want to post it for myself, for memories. online album
Weee hindi nga? What about noontime shows? Big fans of certain celebs. 😅
1. Posting too much drama and kababawan on social media.
2. Umangat ng corporate ladder. (Hindi na ako interested dyan)
3. Pag ginawa or napuntahan ng iba dapat gawin or mapuntahan ko din 😂 (hindi na ko masyadong inggitera/gaya-gaya)
4. Too much socialization.
5. Maging masyadong ambisyosa sa buhay. (Mas simple na na buhay gusto ko ngayon, as long as npprovide ko needs and konting wants ko, okay na ko. Basta, masaya ako 😊)
1. I am Too old for drama.
2. I stopped doing above and beyond for ungrateful people. I only reciprocate the amount of energy the other person is giving .
3. I don’t reply to “hey” chats. Greeting and purpose dapat. We can’t just be “hey-heying” all the time.
4. I stopped defending myself whenever I hear someone talking bad against me. I now practice the “LET THEM” method.
5. I don’t lower my standards just to FIT IN. Hence, I stopped pleasing people. 😊
As someone who grew up as a people pleaser, lately ko lng na realize na if you keep on doing things kahit di mo gusto para lng ma please yung iba or to avoid conflict, dadating at dadating yung time na mapapagod ka and you'll regret na there were things you had to let go para sa iba. And life is short, why spend it living for other people?
So now that I just turned 30, I'm learning to say no and being more honest with myself with the things I want (or my boundaries) and honoring how I truly feel.
Great video po btw, dami ko din insights from it 😊
Omg so true. Thanks for this reminder.
Hi Thea! I found this video/vlog very relatable. As for me:
1. I am no longer posting my achievements in socmed. Spent also less time scrolling through those platforms.
2. I learned how to value myself. I stopped comparing myself with other people and I always tell myself that we all have different timelines.
3. Agree on paying more (if we have the means) to trade for inconvenience.
4. Agree also on “not too late to do the things we want”. I enrolled in driving class last week and excited to drive my own car soon. #manifesting
5. Pause. Give yourself some timeoff and relaxation. I don’t know but more than shopping, found myself always going to massage spa and treating myself for a swedish massage after a full tiring week.
❤
Nakafollow na po ako sa inyo nung early college days ko, tapos fast forward ngayong 2023, it feels surreal lang ang bilis ng time.
Di pa naman ako ganap na tita kase mid 20's pa pero ang aga kong napagod lol.
1. Boundaries with people and with myself in general.
2. Mas maingat na ako sa self ko, like preserving my health and energy for things that matter most.
3. Di na ako gaanong nag iinom and nag stop na ng occassional na pagssmoke kase ang gastos lang tsaka nakakapagod mag recover from hangovers.
Hi Tea-ta, I totally agree with your list especially with no. 10. I am also in my 30's, I don't have a lot of friends who share the same activities or sports that I do or trying something new, so instead of waiting for someone to do it with, I try to do them alone. It's uncomfortable as I am not the friendly and outgoing type of someone, and also fearing for my security, but I can't let that stop me from doing what I want to.
yasss try lang nang try teata!! you also get to know yourself better in the process.. like when i did leather crafting, nalaman ko na magaling pala ako mag stitch (and mabilis)! haha. hope you enjoy your time alone, and get to make new friends too!
Number 10 resonates so much 🥲 ang dami nang pressure in life, sana more people realize that we don’t need the added pressure of what’s suppose to happen if we reach 30
As a woman turning 30 next year, I learned a lot in my 20s. Ang dami kong mistakes and accomplishments as well. I only hope na in my 30s I will achieve more in life, not because of others but for myself. Gusto ko lang din ng peace of mind.
just celebrated my 30th bday recently. trying for a committed journaling both gratitude and stream of consciousness journaling for mental health. taking poetry and creative writing courses online as hobbies. feel ko parang high school lang but learning at my pace indulging my childhood curiosities. Pati issues about god's existence and history inexplore ko ulit 🤭🤭 di ko kasi naenjoy to dati puro pressure and high grades nlng with anxieties. i graduated na mentally pagod... now i dont feel too old for any of these na. i look at my hobbies and passion for knowledge as my self care😊
Thank you for this content. Navalidate lahat ng thoughts ko as a 35 yrs old struggling woman 😅
As a 23 year old who is just starting my career, i loveeeeeee thissssss content! ❤❤❤
1. Having no time to invite friends for a weekly inuman - Nakakapagod and you'll think napakagastos din pala when you're older.
2. Diving in the tea/drama. - hindi maganda to live a life around chismis. Parang walang growth.
3. To comment/give an opinion - lots of things going on sa buhay tapos you get to think pa ng opinion mo sa isang issue. If it doesn't concern you at all, let it be nalang.
4. Too much clutter - started declutter in my early 20s, ang sarap sa feeling kapag mas konti at reasonable yung mga gamit mo. i.e. What will I do sa mga damit na masisikip na sakin o yung mga hindi ko gusto. Unnecessary stuff takes space lang. Mas madaling magisip kapag di makalat o walang tambak space mo.
Feeling ko merong akong kachikahan habang pinapanood ko to hehe.. Love you Ms Thea ❤❤❤
I’m in my late 30s and last year lang naka try makipagsapalaran abroad and you know what they say that living in another country evolves you in ways you cannot imagine.. and that’s what exactly happened to me!
Now, I learned to: 1. Assert myself more and truly stand up for myself. Mas naging klaro what I really want sa mga bagay2x and what I will not compromise on 2. Truly enjoying my company and doing solo travel (kahit sa malapit na countryside lang) 3. And the rest are sone of the things you mentioned sa video, like last minute gala i no longer do bcoz adulting na nga 😅
so happy to hear about how you travel these days, kasi i can totally relate! i'm a certified tita too, and people tend to question how i travel (bakit ka mag Sagada and not go spelunking? bakit ka mag LU and not party?) I travel at my own pace and preference now. thank you for your content, i agree with all of them (#9 too... still working on this)
Re traveling - di na talaga kaya ng teata body and maybe not as excited narin ako to explore explore. Haha pati just being away from work and everything that reminds me of it is enough to consider the trip a “vacation” 😅 no more pa peer pressure no sa mga bagay na di natin bet?
I love number 9!! 🙏🏻 bless others and allow others to share their blessings as well ❤️
Yesss! Allow people to be a blessing to others as well! Love it! ♥️
Number 9; give others a chance to be blessed and let them be a blessings; thats how it works.
Im in my last year of 20’s. Im 29 btw. And ayun nga medyo natatakot nako mag30. Wala parin akong jowa and working.
My list goes this:
~i save money na talaga
~skincare is a must. I invested na talaga on skincare lalo na mga anti aging 😅
~im too old for toxic friendships. Im at the age now na i lessen my circle of friends.
~travel if i can
~i don’t reply to msgs that much. I feel like i don’t have the energy to do so. Lol
~too old to use facebook. I deactivated and use IG nalang. So much drama there e
~private life is the key
~i go out alone and that’s pretty okay
Relate sa replying to messages. Sometimes i get stressed when i hear phone notifs. I think nagstart matrigger to nung nagka pandemic then WFH mga tao- my gosh sound of horror talaga yung pings and call rings sa MS Teams. Hahaha. Now all apps naka off notif except sa sms, calls and viber for work. All the rest i just check when i feel like doing so. +1 rin sa skin care-let’s all age gracefully haha
I feel affirmed. Haha Thank you for this video! Too old to care about what other people think - I used to be very conscious of wearing sleeveless because of my big arms but now, nope it makes me comfortable! 🥰
yasss teata!! pati ang init init sa pinas!! and when you think about it, pinapansin ba natin yung braso ng ibang tao? hindi rin naman, so most of the time it's really our insecurities talking! i-mute nalang natin ang self judgment and keriboom sa gusto suotin and gawin!
Number 9 speaks volumes. I can relate so much, Tita!!!
Keep on creating contents like this!
Yay last minute meet-ups no no na din ako 😂 its super true to schedule my meetups! My social batteries are low na. I love your tip for the social calendar
I am so grateful for your videos. Thank you, Thea. ❤
Relate ako sa lahat pero especially dun sa receiving discomfort. Grabe i remember things like nag-offer lang yung friend na sumundo at humatid (which usually mas ako ang gumagawa for them), and during the ride, i can’t help but feel shy kasi feel ko inconvenience ako sa kanya. But i realized, not allowing your friends to treat you to favors like these may make them feel like you don’t treat them as friends. Like you’re being distant ganon.
omg same! feeling ko super abala pag isasabay ako ng mga tao but fortunately i have great friends who never made me feel like an inconvenience to them.
Kapag mag isa ka lang talaga, mas tipid pag di na nag-luluto. Medyo marami rin food waste eh kapag magluluto tapos isa ka lang.
Damang dama ko yung being a chill traveler! Akala ko ako lang haha Anyway, this video reminded me na isusulat ko nga pala yung mga goals ko pa as an I'm leaving my 20s next month.
Siguro para sa akin, don't antagonize yourself lang. Masyado akong harsh sa sarili ko during my 20s so I'm allowing myself to forgive my mistakes and just learn from them.
Dibaaa? Yung travel talaga isa sa mga pinaka naapektuhan ng pagka tita ko. Hahaha.
Welcome to the teata/teato club!! Love what you shared! Sometimes we become overly self critical na hindi natin napapansin growth and improvements natin. Yes to accepting our mistakes, failing a little more, and learning from our experiences ❤️
Thanks Thea for sharing. I resonate with all 10. The chill travel hits me most since I have an upcoming 2 weeks vacation travel abroad pero I am delaying my preparation for it. Before Id be too prepared a month before the trip compared to now when it is a week before I am still chill. Your post reminds me I am at my own pace.
Haha this is so trueee! Before kakabook palang ng flight pinaplano na whole itinerary but now i just google the best restos and attractions a few days before then screenshot screenshot nalang 😅
Ang ganda ng video mo na ito Ms.Thea... relatable and substantial. More viewers and subscribers to come!
Thank you for this video! Needed to hear this so much.
Hi Ms. Thea, this video reminded me why every time I see you have a new video, click agad ako haha. I love how you are able to convey helpful tips while showing up as your authentic self. I will turn 28 years old in a few months and I am happy to have learned so much from you!🥰💖
Thank you for sharing this super relatable content 😍 Yung akala ko nag iisa lang akong ganun pero hindi pala 🙂
Now that I just turned 30, I feel like I’m too old for not trying anything new. Akala ko okay lang yung super chill, nasa comfort zone lang. pero hindi pala.
I most of the time feel like it’s too late to learn new things but now, I make a step of faith to try. Like learning how to drive, going for a job interview, etc. cause i know my future self will thank me for trying. :)
Yasss cheers to that teata!!! Pati driving is an important skill rin! ❤️
Just turned 30 last months, and for me too old to force bonding or convo with my old friends who used to be my besties before. I always forced them before to have chat or meet up with me, but they always reject me. So, now? Nahhh.. I will live my life with or without them.
Also, too old for me to post too much on FB or other social media. I've been inactive on my FB and IG for 3 months straight now, as in wala tlagang any post. And I feel a sense of peace, and I feel more secure with my life, and cultivating low-key life na parang mas deeper yung joy and happiness when you get to enjoy and appreciate things more privately before posting on socmed. And minsan hndj na nga na popost pa 😆
@TheaSyBautista
#9 hit me hard.. Thank you for sharing.. Now I can better explain how I feel and do things to make it better moving forward.. 💛🙏
Too old for old family drama. I have my own kids now. I need to reserve my energy for them.
Same thing with not making things complicated or hard for myself when I can pay someone or buy something to make life easier. Hindi yun katamaran
Funny enough, I'm still in my early 20s (I just turned 22!) but I feel like I've grown so mature. I'm studying vetmed and I'm a scholar but I stopped schooling for a couple of years because of work since my parents aren't really financially capable. Here are what's on my list:
1. I no longer post a lot on social media. I unfriended 90% of my FB friends (let's be honest here, most of our FB friends are just acquaintances). Being private and lowkey brings me a lot of peace and tranquility.
2. I no longer post my achievements.
3. I just don't see the point of dating seriously. Your 20s is the era that should be all about you. Your growth, your schooling, your career, your goals, etc. Leave the man hunting in your 30s (if you want to).
4. I just don't care. I mind my own business. People's opinions don't matter to me.
Same 21 here haha deleted fb now I only use twitter for news. Never posted an achievement.
I agree with number 3
At no.3, Nope if you're a female in your 30s you're very close to the "wall" and need to make extra effort if you want to settle down. Men will also chase you less and less, remember you also have a biological time limit, use it wisely.
hahaha 😂 panalo yung home economics era. haha! 😂
As a teacher, yan ang di ko magagawa na priority ko mag conserve ng energy. pero relate ako sa most list. hehe
Im in my early 30s and things that are too old for me is thinking too much about what others think of me, of my life and how I handle my money. Also, I really don't spend time with people na backstabbing or plastic anymore. Like I know you're there and we can be in the same room but I dont spend even a little energy to do small talk, civil nalang. Im learning to say NO to things and to anyone na I really dont feel like spending time on. And I dive more into different hobbies than before, I am still open to changing my career. And last, I won't be spending too much energy, effort and time sa professional work, I'd rather be stressed at home doing chores than stress at work.
I love you, Thea!! I always get the urge to keep my whole life organized whenever I watch your videos! Hahahaha
I'm 28 but feel like this is me already. I might add na rin na I'm too old for toxic friendships, like I know my boundaries on how to let go and moved on without giving any explanation (hahaha hugot yarn). But it's the most important for me, I valued my PEACE :)
Being a true tita, I can say that all categories mentioned here, check na check. I am trying Gardening, interested in Woodworks tsaka Sewing. Pero totoo yung sa travel, Drinking. Basta lahat check hehe.
Blooming!!!
Edit: meal delivery reveal po haha
Edit ulit: sobrang ganda ng last point mo ms thea. My dad has a habit of putting down my mom when she tries or wants to try things. "Kala ata dalaga pa kung kumilos." It affects her confidence, and in turn affects mine too, esp since I was raised a people pleaser. Anyway for my realizations and goals naman - kaka-29 ko lang hihi - biggest goal ko ay to finally move out! And I'm too old to care what other people think na. Tama na ang people pleasing era!! Nahihirapan lang ako sabihin sa parentals so laging na-popostpone haha pero I'll make it happen!
Salamat sa pa-blooming compliment! 🥰
Delivery meals -- either I order from The Six Pack Chef. Medyo mahal sila pero ginagawa ko is bumibili ako ng credits nila pag naka 20% off, then umoorder lang ng meals pag naka 20% off promo ulit sila. So essentially nakaka 36% discount sa SRP. But recently sa ReadyHeatGo ako umoorder ng frozen meals for the week. Every Thursday 7AM cutoff ng orders, tapos Sunday delivery. Reheat-reheat nalang. Masarap in fairness.. Around 180-200 per ulam pero pwede nang pang 2 kainan kung hindi super lakas kumain. Haha! They have an IG account tapos you can message them to add you sa FB Messenger nila kung saan naguupdate ng menu weekly. Side kwento lang, yung may ari ng ReadyHeatGo, nakatabi ko lang sa Eastwest event which I mentioned dito sa video. Napakasmall world kasi batchmate pala sya ng Ate ko back in highschool. Haha!
Regarding your last edit, it's true talaga no na our parents' way of treating not just their children but also their partner affects how we view ourselves. Environment plays a big factor, so I'm sure teata when the time comes na you decide to have your own family, you'd be more nurturing and encouraging with your words. Claim na natin yang adulting milestone mo to be able to move out! I swear iba yung growth na maeexperience mo when you live an independent life. Sending you virtual hugs with consent!
Definitely one of your best videos yet, Thea! As a 30-something woman myself, I can relate to all of these! 🤍
Can’t wait! 💖
You have such interesting life, I’m surprised you still have the energy to study different things lol that’s impressive. Most of us just stick to one type of hobby or a job but you keep trying many other things that will help you grow as a person and honestly education is the best investment 😊 there should be more people like you hindi takot mag try!
OMG I learned so much in this video. Thank you so much for sharing this, Thea!
Blooming Ms. Thea 😍😍😍😍
Eyyy selemet powhzzzz ❤️😍🥰
This video was very humbling, comforting, relaxing, eye-opening, and feel-good na reality check. Haha. I really needed this today. Thank you for this vid, Ms. Thea. 🤍
Thank you!! Hope you feel better soon 🥰
Got teary-eyed sa part ng "Receiving discomfort". May ganun pala talagang term. Hahaha. Now that I'm also in my 30s, hopefully I'll try to be more receiving of affection and love and everything nice that sometimes I think I don't deserve. :">
Yesss yes!! I’ve always felt undeserving of people’s time and effort but slowly learning to do better ❤️ para we all get to be a blessing to each other ☺️
Superb 100% ❤ tita tito goals hehe
Made this content on Tiktok and I so so love your entry here on RUclips ❤ love your content as always, my go to creator when it comes to finances. Keep it up 😊
Hi Thea. Can you talk about fear of growing old and watching people around you are growing old?
Omg so relate 😂😢 HAHAHAH! lalu na sa no. 2. Legit Tita here 😂
Thats why I love watching your vlogs kasi swak na swak lagi yung mga sinasbi mo ❤❤❤
Aww thank uuuu! ❤️
Sobrang relate ako sa #8 and I'm still working on it. Love you Thea
I’m 38 turning 39 next year 😅 lagi na kong pagod 😂 hindi na carry lagi nagttravel, nakakapagod. I push trying new hobbies tulad ngayon sewing tina try ko. At 38, I’m studying again, keber kung matanda na. I’m doing things that I want to do.
Yeah keber talaga kahit tumatanda na tayo! Go lang ng go haha. Though ang challenge sakin now is i find it more difficult to concentrate and absorb info 🤣 medyo challenging mag school ulit after 10yrs
yeyyy new video, thank you for this 😊
Hindi ko na binibigyan ng attention yung mga inggetera or mga bad comments saken ng tao sa paligid ko. We can't please everybody. Focused ako sa pagpapa-unlad ng financial side ng life ko, sa education ng daughter ko and hoping na magkaron pa ng kapatid sya at gumanda pa ang relasyon namin ng aking pamilya every single day. Graduate na din ako sa barkada nights and dates. More on saving funds din for the future, eating and cooking healthy foods and making sure na nakakapagsimba kami every Sunday.
All points are correct! Super relatable 😅❤
the calendar hack is genius! i'll do this with my friends hahahaha
Yas! Life saver yan lalo na kung mabagal magreply friends mo. Hahaha at least walang back and forth :))
me as turning to 30 after 2 years from now,
ilove your videos
I loved this video! Lalo na yung shinare mo sa #8 and #9! 😭💕
Matanda na ang babaeng nasa 30s pero ang lalaki nagsisimula pa lang sila anihin yung pinaghirapan nila nung 20s sila.👑👑👑
I feel old to do :
- get multiple ear piercing; lets go for classic regal look
- make patol sa mga away; i just shrig it off and leave
-go home too late from a party
-random meet up; drain na social battery ko by 5pm😅
Huhu true yan no!! Parang auto off social battery after work
I'm too old to give a damn whether people like me or not lmao. Nasa phase nako na to each our own ung journey natin and as long as I like myself, I'm all set hahaha
You can try po spiritual or wellness activities 💜
Not yet in my 30s but this vlog is very insightful!
Try Doodle group poll instead of the calendar screenshot.😊
super bet this kind of vlog. my peace > other people's opinion/s or comment/s.
Thank you so much for this video. 😊💛
Btw love your here now🥰
I love your videos ngayon na lng ulit ako nkapanood sa sobrang busy ng life.
Hi Ms. Thea. May I know kung saan ka nagpa haircolor and how much did it cost or average cost for it? I'm planning to have my hair done the same. Thank you
I’m laughing every after number! #guiltytita here haha
You look beautitul Thea🥰 I love all your vlogs.. so inspiring.
Love this content! ♥️
Ganda po ng hair mo Ms. Thea ano po secret 😊
anyone know the phone model at 6:23? tia
I'm in my 40's already but I really learned a lot from your vlogs!
Ang ganda mo Thea!
I never drink( wine, beer etc.)nor smoke. I go out with my friends for outreaches once or twice a month.
hi ms thea! can you share your hair color? thanks
Your hair looks beautiful! 🥰 May I ask the salon where you had it done?
Naku my hair is super dry and frizzy. Stinyle ko lang sya, but i had my hair colored at behind the chair by mark castro. U can check them on ig ganda ng work!
It's the #9 and #10 for me!!! 🥰
Super relate!
On cooking. Same. I gave up. I can cook but I find it quite time consuming and more costly when I cook.
HALLO ARLO!! Pag nagluto kasi lahat ng condiments binibili pa kahit na once lang magagamit. :)) Pati sa sobrang busy (and yaman) mo, kayang kaya mo nalang i-order lahat 😄
@@TheaSyBautista Dun tayo sa sobrang busy lang. The end. Wag tayong fake news.😂
To take care more of my health and to eat healthy 🫣.
I wanted to try the leather class, san yan?
Very Georgeous ❤
Also in my 30s and relate ako sa mga sinabi mo hehe. San ka omoorder ng meal plans? I’m looking din ng weekly delivery lng. Walang makaka receive kung daily 😅 Thanks.
I love your hair color. Bagay sayo!
in my 30s I don't gave a crap of what other people thinking of me, Lol. We are not everyone's cup of tea, don't try to live my life pleasing everyone. mostly iaapply ko na lang din cguro list mo ms. thea. 😂😂😂.
Pa house tour po o kaya a day in life🥰
Gondohhh ni Tita Thea!!! Napa-wow ako!
lovette!! gusto ko yang pagka supportive niyo teata! hahahaha thank you!
ang genius nung calendar X tip thank you!!
Yass! Try it teato! Walang kahirap hirap mag sched. Unless siguro mga 10 or more kayo sa group - u can use a bigger calendar ☺️
Where did you search for the Home Economic classes?? I would love to explore what I can do on that part ❤
My friend just called them Home Econ classes but I actually enrolled in them separately - pottery at tahanan pottery, bag making/leather crafting at soulflower co, cooking at heny sison culinary (they have 1 day sesh lang), pilates at onelife studio 😁
#2 danas ko na in my 20s hahahaha gusto ko planned ahead of time 🥹
hi ms thea, out of topic
ano pong hair color niyo? ❤
ako nman i dont party too much na like I had too much during that in my early 20s, tas napansin ko before hilig ko manood ng anime now mas gsto ko pang manood ng drama or live action fantasy film kesa s anime mdli nkong mabore...tas now i prepare comfort like in travelling and clothes mas comfy mas ok
Ms Thea, any Pilates studio reco?
Onelifestudio! They have diff branches :) one on one session sya
number 9 is 👍👍👍