Healed People Heal People | After Love | S3E5 | Black Love

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
  • La'Myia Good & Eric Bellinger, Alimi & Dahn Ballard and MyLin & Lindsay Stokes Kennedy all join After Love to discuss how parenting inspired them to start to vulnerably explore the parts of themselves that need growth, healing, and compromise.
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Комментарии • 39

  • @berylooko2318
    @berylooko2318 2 года назад +11

    Being a 28 year old struggling to find love, I always smile with a glimmer of hope while watching Black Love. Love from Kenya

  • @saidatoke3124
    @saidatoke3124 2 года назад +43

    One thing that resonates with me is the love from parents give kids confidence. I agree. My dad's love means I don't look for validation anywhere else. Thank you for this episode 😊❤️

    • @6georgiapeach
      @6georgiapeach 2 года назад

      AMEN! CONFIDENCE! It keeps the human traffickers away. It keeps the schemes away. It keeps the low lifes away. INSTILL CONFIDENCE IN YOUR CHILDREN. We will raise MEN and WOMEN and not boys in male bodies and little girls in women bodies!!

    • @saidatoke3124
      @saidatoke3124 2 года назад

      @@6georgiapeach Yessssss 👍

  • @sonyapittman7523
    @sonyapittman7523 2 года назад +5

    This episode was nothing short of A-MA-ZING!!!! My daughter (32) just had her first and is now dealing with setting boundries. This conversation is transformative and nurturing and shows the power of sharing our vulnurabilities!!! If nothing else, I think it shows, you guys can't stop this, you have to continue!!!!

  • @natalieblair4001
    @natalieblair4001 2 года назад +12

    This episode was one of my favorites. So genuine. So authentic. I loved these couples. I wish them the best !!!!

  • @striving1
    @striving1 2 года назад +11

    Healing is powerful
    Trauma is transformational
    Ending cycles is imperative!!!

  • @gretablackwood
    @gretablackwood 2 года назад +20

    As the mother of a trans son (I found out when he was 18. He's 20 now.), I know that you don't just become an expert on transgender people overnight. It takes some getting used to that your child who was once one gender is now another. We don't automatically understand how their minds work for them to see themselves as a different gender. It's a learning process. I love him just like I've always loved him. He's still the same person to me. He just presents differently. Just like Ali said, we're a soul first.

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 2 года назад +1

      Well said! ❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @striving1
      @striving1 2 года назад +1

      Wow. I pray for parents but it breaks my heart that Jazzs 💔 parents were signing on for surgery for their ore-teen...it's disgusting and I feel for her-of course you love your children but surgery on a child is a NO from me!!

    • @gretablackwood
      @gretablackwood 2 года назад +1

      @@striving1 Disgusting is the wrong word to use. What we learn as a parent of a transgender person is sensitivity, respect, kindness, and understanding. When it comes to my child, I only worry about how others will treat him. I can't say when a person should have surgery. I probably wouldn't do that to my child but I'd definitely have him/her in therapy because, mentally, the incongruence of the mind and body is a difficult thing to go through.

  • @simplymichelle7380
    @simplymichelle7380 2 года назад +9

    These couples were so transparent I have learned so much thanks for sharing #blacklove 😊👏🏽👏🏽

  • @trayshana
    @trayshana 2 года назад +10

    Codie, great show and thanks for your great work.

  • @camilleandriette
    @camilleandriette 2 года назад +1

    The one thing I love and appreciate about this show is the transparency that everyone gives. That in itself is healing ❤️. My children are 8 years apart, having them in different parts of my life has caused me to give them different types of love going through my own personal journey. I can relate to the wife in New Zealand. My mom passed in 2020 as well and never apologized for anything. I had to learn how to forgive her without an apology and get over the traumas I went through because of the lack of love shown to me. With that being said, I had to apologize to my daughter because she came into my life during and throughout a period of me being traumatized and it just spills over to the next closest person. Also, I can relate to Lamaiya (sorry if spelled incorrectly) about fussing at her son for being too emotional and/or crying. We have to love our children unconditionally and allow them to be their own person, of course with guidance, but in love. Great show!

  • @yvettegmf1638
    @yvettegmf1638 2 года назад +5

    This is why this show should not end. The best black platform for black peoples to confidently express themselves positively, without judgment.

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 2 года назад +1

    Another great, transparent, much needed episode!!

  • @maryluvsmusic9298
    @maryluvsmusic9298 2 года назад +7

    These talks are definitely appreciated 🙏🏾! Thank you for the great content & mature convos!

  • @oneof7billion627
    @oneof7billion627 2 года назад +4

    I was thinking this episode doesn't apply to me. Why Lord forgive me...calling my son now to apologize. Tysm Black ❤️

  • @beatricealexander2102
    @beatricealexander2102 2 года назад +2

    I'm such a big fan of Tommy. His words definitely need to be heard. I appreciate him so much Pisces gang. But Cody is built for the hosting. I bet she wants Tommy right next to her but she really takes over and guides everything so well by herself. I wish he was on but I wouldn't change it. Cody is immaculate. Hince why he choose her

  • @mrs.hopson9426
    @mrs.hopson9426 Год назад

    I hate the black love show ended. Love love loved the show.

    • @Dream-Me
      @Dream-Me Год назад

      No way didn't know that its finished

    • @mrs.hopson9426
      @mrs.hopson9426 Год назад

      @@Dream-Me the one that came on tv

  • @maryluvsmusic9298
    @maryluvsmusic9298 2 года назад +4

    Amen to that comment…this platform is “nourishing”. Luv it 🙌🏾✊🏾❤️🖤🤎❣️

  • @D2J8
    @D2J8 2 года назад +3

    I’m curious why their son chose the name Zion. Anytime I hear that name for a child, I think of Lauryn Hill’s song “To Zion” 🤗

    • @DahnBItsyoubutnew
      @DahnBItsyoubutnew 2 года назад +1

      Hi There thank you so much for watching and commenting. Zion chose his name and it was originally a part of my list of names for them in their baby book before I knew the gender so it felt so amazing and so right when he told us that was his name. I was like Yes yes that's your name:) And yes I also loved it from Lauryn Hill incredible song and songtress:)

  • @LBright4444
    @LBright4444 Год назад

    God is love and his position on who He is will never change.

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 2 года назад +1

    I can't wait to watch this!!!

  • @MsIcollins
    @MsIcollins 2 года назад +1

    Healed people also hear different

  • @janmccan7621
    @janmccan7621 2 года назад +1

    I loe this so muck thanks for sharing

  • @pamcochran2546
    @pamcochran2546 2 года назад +1

    Love the conversation

  • @jarell1165
    @jarell1165 2 года назад +4

    I recommend people also watch dane calloway's channel, black americans are the true american Indians

  • @crystalhaynes5472
    @crystalhaynes5472 Год назад

    Love this very good video😊🎈

  • @Tsdiquah369
    @Tsdiquah369 2 года назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣 sooo goood

  • @k22897
    @k22897 Год назад

    Imma be that person. And I apologize for that. but...... I thought Ali was the singer Joe for a hot minute there 😄

  • @Acosta1774
    @Acosta1774 2 года назад +1

    LaMya is Meagan Good sister right?