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Evolution of Marriage | S4 E4 | Couch Conversations

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2022
  • With growth brings change.. but sometimes change is uncomfortable. Kevin and Melissa sit with Destiny & Devontae and Jacquelyn & Shaun as they discuss the ups and downs of evolving as individuals, together as partners and parents.
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Комментарии • 83

  • @hishandmaiden718
    @hishandmaiden718 Год назад +135

    This is the best season of Couch Conversations. Kevin and Melissa have a conversational approach that seems natural and creates real and easy discussions.

    • @sharioden5853
      @sharioden5853 Год назад

      Yesss ❤

    • @PJ-hs5gl
      @PJ-hs5gl Год назад +3

      True Tab and Chance are cute but it just wasn’t giving! I’m trying to help others learn about marriage.

    • @lise.99
      @lise.99 Год назад +1

      I completely agree! 🙌🏾 I’ve enjoyed these episodes a lot and they are funny too 🤣

    • @Trice44
      @Trice44 Год назад +1

      🎯💯

    • @ajordan1847
      @ajordan1847 Год назад +1

      Agree; it's so natural.

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments Год назад +37

    Children grow up, move out, & move on. It’s best to highly prioritize your spouse.
    Ask God to help you balance family life in each season.🥰
    Marriage is a beautiful, beneficial, developmental, passionate, covering covenant of faith and adventure.☺️ ~ Wife & Mother of 2 Adult Children
    Great video, everyone!!!🙌🏾

  • @Got2BOshun
    @Got2BOshun Год назад +18

    The absolute BEST Black couples conversations on the internet, y’all are truly a blessing to our community

  • @Shemashay
    @Shemashay Год назад +38

    This was the first couch conversation that I like both couples! Both seem to be balanced!! No struggle love here!! This was a healthy watch!

    • @jonathanisaac17
      @jonathanisaac17 Год назад +6

      THIS!!! Key word: Healthyyyyyyyy.

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 Год назад

      @@jonathanisaac17 exactly! 👏🏽❤️🙌🏽

    • @alb5801
      @alb5801 Год назад +3

      Glad to see this comment just because a couple encounters difficulties that they must navigate doesn’t automatically equal struggle love. I had postpartum issues with my son, something totally out of my control that we couldn’t have foreseen. Which cause a huge financial hurdle with the lose of my income and the expenses of a newborn ( formula and diapers- I was unable to breastfeed) About a year later I was able to go back work, and worked 2 jobs to help dig us out of debt…we were/are a team that had to navigate a difficult time.

  • @mrsblackson1
    @mrsblackson1 Год назад +30

    Great conversation! Evolution of love for me has been an adventure at 57 and married to my greatest love for the last 3.5 years! ❤️ We are 2 old heads who are really young lovers just trying to figure stuff out.

  • @mrdavidashley6892
    @mrdavidashley6892 Год назад +13

    Great episode. I meant to watch only like five minutes and I end up staying the whole time.
    As a single person who looks to be married one day, it seems like understanding when and how to love somebody who will eventually change is key to longevity.

  • @texasgoddess323
    @texasgoddess323 Год назад +20

    ❤I am so happy that these gentlemen realized their jobs were killing their spirits and their marriages! As people of African descent, we must redefine what success looks like for US! We live in a Western, consumeristic, capitalistic, competitive nation. These values will never bring us peace and happiness. We were not put on this earth to make money to become super consumers. Love, peace, family, relationships, and purpose that ultimately makes the community at large stronger, is what our ancestors valued. The 42 Principles of Maa’t! NOT the 48 Laws of Power! LOVE!❤❤❤

  • @tiffanysaddler3964
    @tiffanysaddler3964 Год назад +18

    I wish this was longer!! Great conversation ❤

  • @Heartcoachtalk
    @Heartcoachtalk Год назад +6

    This conversation needs to happen more often. Thank you for sharing the honest truth that many married couples go through.

  • @alewis2812
    @alewis2812 Год назад +6

    The way Liss giggled becuz she knew Kev would just cut it off, lolol!

  • @peakpotentialwithjulia
    @peakpotentialwithjulia Год назад +2

    I absolutely love Kev & Melissa!!!! Thank you both for doing the work and demonstrating the sweet spot that nourishes the marriage and the family.

  • @siadams9241
    @siadams9241 Год назад +6

    Kev you wrapped it up just fine... just being yourself is everything this is one of the best couch conversations. .... blessings to you and your wife I pray you all are blessed with many more 💕

  • @avaholloway32
    @avaholloway32 Год назад +14

    I just love Kev & Liss...I miss #TheLoveHour but #CouchConversations is dope too 🎬🦋💖

  • @M.....................
    @M..................... Год назад +12

    Stop giving 100% of your time to work and wondering why you have 0% left for everyone else

  • @DonBrownII
    @DonBrownII Год назад +5

    love the birds chirping in the background lol 8:00

    • @BlackLove
      @BlackLove  Год назад +3

      they were interested in the conversation too!

    • @ajordan1847
      @ajordan1847 Год назад +2

      I loved the birds, too; it was so calming.

  • @kimberlygray7629
    @kimberlygray7629 Год назад +11

    MELISSA WEAR THE NICEST CLOTHES

  • @christinebryant8354
    @christinebryant8354 Год назад +12

    True friendship with your husband or wife etc… is a beautiful thing when nothing is off the table. You’ll can be yourself. It’s a lot of people that feel trapped in their marriage. I have a friend that speaks badly about her husband & I say to myself how can you lay down with someone that you have no respect for. That’s something I would love to ask.

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 Год назад +5

    "Love and learn your spouse!" We can put on a tee-shirt 💖

  • @frandomsss
    @frandomsss Год назад

    I just love Kevin and Melissa marriage... the energy, friendship. It works!! Thanks for letting us in. I enjoy Couch Conversations.

  • @kwynkaq
    @kwynkaq Год назад +4

    I really enjoy these conversations. Can you consider having a session for separated/divorced couples? Just a thought.

  • @listenlisten7522
    @listenlisten7522 Год назад +3

    Amen to Black Love!!!🤗...Great discussion and great energy from everyone. Live the life you love, and continue to love the one you're with.🙏🏾💕

  • @nunyabusiness3516
    @nunyabusiness3516 Год назад +4

    Every conversation they have Kev uses the iPhone analogy that he stole from Melissa and she gets quiet. He's going to hear about it later 😂

  • @chrisjohnson926
    @chrisjohnson926 Год назад +2

    I love these conversations. I related to so much. I never heard what my wife says. I’m a texter and I love it because it’s concise. If you run on about everything for 20 minutes, don’t expect me to remember this one specific thing you talked about.

  • @sagittarius1112able
    @sagittarius1112able Год назад +3

    Loved both of these couples, very insightful.

  • @Reeses710
    @Reeses710 Год назад +2

    Love the evolution stage...another great episode w/refreshing conversations

  • @shellyshantel1
    @shellyshantel1 Год назад +1

    Loving this season of Couch Conversation

  • @LoverofGod1992
    @LoverofGod1992 Год назад +1

    I pray God will continue to bless these lovely unions

  • @esthera3883
    @esthera3883 Год назад

    Great ep, but also not gonna lie, the ending (Kev’s sign out) was my fave bit 😂 love a lil raw authenticity

  • @islandgirl8914
    @islandgirl8914 Год назад +5

    Loving and Learning your spouse. Epic. Yes, your wife is not your employee.❤

  • @tanjarenee_24
    @tanjarenee_24 Год назад +3

    Such a beautiful dress, Ms Melissa

  • @beechannel27
    @beechannel27 Год назад +2

    Great conversation. I was waiting for yall to do a full episode on this topic!

  • @bheepeey
    @bheepeey Год назад +1

    Great conversation. Good job guys!

  • @elijahperry3454
    @elijahperry3454 Год назад

    I did not expect to see Kevonstage in such a more serious setting or topic

  • @ajordan1847
    @ajordan1847 Год назад +3

    I love hearing how couples evolve. Taking notes. 😌

  • @msnikmic
    @msnikmic Год назад +1

    Great episode!!

  • @anonymoustube1
    @anonymoustube1 Год назад +4

    bring ling and lamb on the show!

  • @roslyndouglas2184
    @roslyndouglas2184 Год назад +3

    A very important discourse.

  • @jayjohnson2875
    @jayjohnson2875 Год назад

    Wasn't expecting to see AUC representation today! Love the episode and this season so far!

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 10 месяцев назад

    Good episode I enjoyed everyone story.

  • @TChelle91
    @TChelle91 Год назад

    “You ain’t got no socks on” 😂😂

  • @yolandalcheek462
    @yolandalcheek462 Год назад +1

    This is beautiful ❤️ couples hanging in there past one year

  • @carolynlong8701
    @carolynlong8701 Год назад

    Love the conversation ❤between couples 😊God bless you all. Remember that your children will grow up and move out one day 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ChynaB391
    @ChynaB391 Год назад

    You really are amazing, thank you for this

  • @TheCSPretty
    @TheCSPretty Год назад

    Such a great conversation 👏🏾👏🏾❤

  • @reginaldthomas1257
    @reginaldthomas1257 Год назад +2

    This is interesting

  • @abster4709
    @abster4709 Год назад +2

    A big transition was when I became a mom(he became the primary parent) and i was kinda jealous...but also a huge one was losing my dad last year, loving your partner through grief is hella different and difficult.

    • @cpc439
      @cpc439 Год назад

      It is very difficult. Also pain-grief can change who you are its not just about making it through that but also maintaining who you were before it

    • @abster4709
      @abster4709 Год назад

      @@cpc439 Absolutely! It's definitely changed me as a person and I know my husband struggles to get used to who I am now as I'm still changing and learning to work through my grief while trying to maintain a relationship with my child and be a "good" wife.

    • @XxMercuriiXx
      @XxMercuriiXx Год назад

      What do you mean primary parent? Was he a stay at home dad?

    • @abster4709
      @abster4709 Год назад +1

      @@XxMercuriiXx I went back to work when she was 2 weeks old(by choice) and was struggling with postpartum depression so I wasn't able to "care" for her like normal. He fed her, bathed her, did her hair, she slept next to him and 4yrs later, he's still the first person she runs to when she's hungry or gets hurt or needs anything.

  • @reginawheeler966
    @reginawheeler966 Год назад +1

    God Bless you Brother for choosing your wife over work.

  • @all_things_busishozi1721
    @all_things_busishozi1721 Год назад +8

    First one here all the way from South Africa and I'm not married 🤣🤣can I get an American husband

    • @christine8767
      @christine8767 Год назад

      😂😂😂

    • @zamam8216
      @zamam8216 Год назад +1

      Same here, I love this series

    • @avaholloway32
      @avaholloway32 Год назад +8

      Are you sure you want an American husband?😏☺

    • @all_things_busishozi1721
      @all_things_busishozi1721 Год назад

      @@avaholloway32 YEEEEES!! Oh no don't tell me it bad like SA men jesus we are in the pits out here(well not all of them but like you get the gist)

    • @all_things_busishozi1721
      @all_things_busishozi1721 Год назад

      @@avaholloway32 YEEEEES!! Oh no don't tell me it bad like SA men jesus we are in the pits out here(well not all of them but like you get the gist)

  • @aundriawilliams2040
    @aundriawilliams2040 Год назад

    Love it ❤

  • @reginawheeler966
    @reginawheeler966 Год назад +3

    Is it me or is everyone having a hard time expressing their emotions and also feel like the wives don't know how to communicate or appreciate their husbands as you should. It's just the way things are being said. Especially in the beginning. Sometimes we take our spouse of our youth for granted. Love that Kev, loving and learning your spouse in every stage.

    • @TamiaPeach
      @TamiaPeach Год назад

      I agree.

    • @OaklandMind
      @OaklandMind 4 месяца назад

      I’m not getting it, is there something specific you took that from?

  • @smilesometimes3102
    @smilesometimes3102 Год назад

    I like what she said if you hang on it becomes a beautiful rainbow at the end I think that is so sweet
    I'm a nurture I like to take care of mine I always been that caring type of person even towards a stranger this comes with a good heart /mind
    And that's true in your thirties that's when you really start looking at life differently and you're 20 do be ratchet LOL

  • @ncfitness1438
    @ncfitness1438 Год назад +1

    I normally love these conversations, but I feel like why doesn’t the husband feel the stress of splitting himself between his children and being a husband I feel like a lot of pressure is put on wives/mothers. I hate that that’s a difficulty that you all experienced

  • @GrowingGlowing87
    @GrowingGlowing87 26 дней назад

    The jealousy towards their kids from the men is insaneeeeee!!!