For those of you who are lazy to watch the entire video 9 Are not afraid to lose 8 Show they're glad to meet you 7 Look for mutual understanding 6 Use the power of touch 5 Know how to use facial expressions and gestures 4 Not afraid to look silly 3 Good at asking questions 2 Always remembers names 1 Listen more and Talk less😉 Here u go...😊
I will save some time now: 9. Don't be afraid to lose 8. Show you are glad to meet them 7. Look for something common with them 6. Use the power of touch for expressing your feelings 5. Use gestures and expression correctly 4. Don't be afraid to be silly or awkward 3. Ask about them. Let them talk about themselves. Ask many questions 2. Always remember Names. Of their relatives friends and even their pets 1. Listen instead of talking about yourself all time. You are welcome 😊
My primary school bestie was always like this and she actually influenced me to be like her. When she first came to the school I thought she was gonna be some stuck up girl who expects to get what she wants, but she's actually kind, and has a beautiful personality. When I told her about my first impressions on her when she came to the school, we couldn't stop laughing. And now we're going our seperate ways at our new secondary schools. I'll miss you mia, I hope your reading this.
You don't need to pretend like someone else in order to look charming. You just have to be true to yourself and be who you are because it's better to be hated for who you are rather than be loved for who you're not.
Yeah but the catch is I don’t actually care about who I’m talking to, I just want a fun time. So it’s all good. Plus I’d work on meshing my true personality with it ..... plus I don’t even have a personality.........
list starts at 0:51 9. charming people are not afraid to lose 8. they show they're glad to meet you 7. they look for mutual understanding 6. they use the power of touch 5. they use facial expressions correctly 4. they are not afraid to look silly 3. they're good at asking questions 2. they remember names 1. listen more and talk less that's about it
Because you do this while thinking about it. Once it becomes second nature, you have people eating out of the palm of your hand. Growned yourself. It helps a lot.
All points match my personality. I'm goofy, too honest, have alot of empaty and self ironi. People i barely know open up to me about their problems, bc I'm easy to talk to, don't judge and don't talk behind others back. I hate when people give me compliments, but I give compliments to everybody all the time. The key to be charming is just to be aware about your own actions and see how people react. Thats how i learned it.
If wasting your time in internet is important part of your day , spend it with BRIGHT SIDE ,and time isn't wasted. Thanks for such interesting videos. They all are helpful.
9.They r not afraid to loose 8.They show they are glad to meet you 7.They look for mutual understanding 6.They use the power of touch 5.They how to use facial expressions and gestures 4.They are not afraid to look silly,not awkward 3.They are good at asking questions 2.They always remember names 1.They listen more talk less
Look at the bridge of their nose (in between their eyes) it looks just like giving eye contact. It might seem silly, but definitely gets the job done. This is an excellent trick I learned from someone really smart. Go for it!😊
Ink sans I have social anxiety too and it took me so much of practicing and struggling to look into people’s eyes .Believe in yourself and I believe that you can do it and beat anxiety.Practice practice and practice 😁👍🏻
9. They are not afraid to lose 8. They show they are glad to meet you 7. They look for mutual understanding 6. They use the power of touch 5. They know how to use facial expressions and gestures. 4. They are not afraid to look silly 3. They are good at asking questions 2. They always remember names 1. They listen more and talk less
Sareda Rizzo Probably because people agree with what he said. That's generally how likes and dislikes work. I wouldn't exactly consider them a reward, though.
There are lot of ways of learning about how to learn and happen everyday body languages. Living that way, we can descover and learn much more about others. Very good.
Great video. Common sense, etiquette, and how to be genuinely charming are so rarely taught anymore. These are skills which are invaluable, even in the ever more isolating, technological world in which we live. "How to Win Friends and Influence People " ,by Dale Carnegie is a must read for all ages. I was given a copy by my lovely and very successful grandfather when I was a kid. He urged me to read it monthly, then quarterly, and so on. I read a great deal, but this book has helped me perhaps even more than my three earned college degrees when applied it's principles are applied. Education simply doesn't teach wisdom, common sense, or how to problem solve in most cases. God bless!
I can't look at people directly, as in eye to eye contact unless I know them well. I think it's generally an uncomfortable thing to do ! Am I the only one ???
you know what . this vdeo is sooo meeeee . i always do this to my friend . but sometimes when i wanna tell em a story about myself they just dont pay attention as much as i do . so its kinda rude😂 but it sokay , im tryning my best to not be angry at them
As for rule number 6, I hate it when people I don't know well touch me. Most people like their personal space, so touching someone just comes off as weird and even patronizing at times.
so i should start talking about myself even when i´m not asked? because i just finished a book where it said that you should share only if the other person asks you, and if they don´t ask that means they don´t care and you should not take it personally
Great another personality trait I did not know I had. I seem to have been on the right track. The only issue I have is that nobody wants to just hangout go for coffee, hike or just visit with me. They all want to tell me thier problems like I am a pshycologist instead of a good friend. I have toomich patience and I listen to long.
Be present and at ease as much as possible and curious. Also, be sincere. If those characteristics don't come naturally, don't do them. You have some great qualities, know it and be happy. If I see a truly charming person, I feel the positive energy. If they are acting charming, it's gross and you wonder what they want.
I can, no wait... I already do everyone thing in this video.. except to call people by their names.. I just can't remember their names &, in some cases, their faces. But that's not my fault that everyone in the school remembers my name & face .. sometimes they just come calling me up by my name & talking to me so friendly & I dunno what to call'em. & all I do is "Yeah.. yes.. yup.. yeah ... fine. Good.."
well in my humble opinion, without the desire to offend those who think different from my point of view, but looking at it in depth, taking into account the characteristics of each person I honestly think....I forgot what i was going to say..
It's not necessarily true that if you have charm, you will have charisma too. I, as a natural charmer, can please people and earn their trust but I have charismatic friends. They lead. For some reason they are highly confident even if they know they've made a bad decision.
9. They are not afraid to lose. 8. They show they're glad to meet you. 7. They look for mutual understanding. 6. They use the power of touch. 5. They know how to use facial expressions and gestures. 4. They're not afraid to look silly. 3. They're good at asking questions. 2. They always remember names. 1. They listen more and talk less.
What if the person you’re talking to doesn’t talk much or kinda doesn’t know how to keep an engaging conversation going? Any help? Idk if some people are just shy but this happens a lot where it feels like I’m doing more contributing to the convo than them. If they don’t bring up a subject what do we talk about? Then sometimes someone will keep talking to the point where it isn’t a conversation, do I just sit there and listen?
For those of you who are lazy to watch the entire video
9 Are not afraid to lose
8 Show they're glad to meet you
7 Look for mutual understanding
6 Use the power of touch
5 Know how to use facial expressions and gestures
4 Not afraid to look silly
3 Good at asking questions
2 Always remembers names
1 Listen more and Talk less😉
Here u go...😊
thank you 😘
manasa R thank u b
Thx save me a lot of time
manasa R thank you so much
manasa R thanks
I will save some time now:
9. Don't be afraid to lose
8. Show you are glad to meet them
7. Look for something common with them
6. Use the power of touch for expressing your feelings
5. Use gestures and expression correctly
4. Don't be afraid to be silly or awkward
3. Ask about them. Let them talk about themselves. Ask many questions
2. Always remember Names. Of their relatives friends and even their pets
1. Listen instead of talking about yourself all time.
You are welcome 😊
Aniazah you should be on top comments! Thanks
Thank u!
Thanks
Life saver :)
thanks
My primary school bestie was always like this and she actually influenced me to be like her. When she first came to the school I thought she was gonna be some stuck up girl who expects to get what she wants, but she's actually kind, and has a beautiful personality. When I told her about my first impressions on her when she came to the school, we couldn't stop laughing. And now we're going our seperate ways at our new secondary schools. I'll miss you mia, I hope your reading this.
Girl, look for her on FB and add her. That's the type of friend you keep for life. Don't lose touch!
Don’t lose her
#1 tip on how to be the most hottest person in the room: be the only person in the room
Little Romy YESS
Or just sit by the fire. Get it?
still not hot...found my shadow hotter thn me 😢
+Aishath NooRa yup ...what happen ?
So then, that also makes you the un-hottest one and so on... lol
2:55 I once patted my boss. Now I am searching for a job
Samiuddin Khaja you should not have patted his crutch.
In that case you should have shaken hands
Khaja Sami Uddin. That is a cultural thing
Not good here in USA.
Khaja Sami Uddin rightly said
😄
Great content! But what happens if two charismatic listeners talk to each other? 🤔
Patrick Goppold They explode and make "Lucky Charms" cereal 🍀🌛⭐❤🌈🎈🎠
That's the very best way to listen to a emotional and intelectual "firework "!
FIREWORK!!!!
They both goes skraaaaaaaa popopopopopop skriaaa boom boom boom boom boom phoom... phoom phoom yea
It would be the weirdest conversation ever, a lot of "did you say something" and "no I thought you did".
I already am the most charming person in the room.. cuz I'm the only one in here. plzbemyfriend
I can be ur frnd not a problm
Wow I already like you
Yay
can you tell me a little more about who you are? i mean not everyone can afford to be my friend-- you know?
Stocks Stocks
I am the most charming person in the room
OH wait I am the only person in the room.......
Marie Mcqueen lol
XD
Me too
Same
Same when I look into the mirror. ..I look good
But...
When I go out Im fine but not ....
Why ?? (Shame)
You don't need to pretend like someone else in order to look charming. You just have to be true to yourself and be who you are because it's better to be hated for who you are rather than be loved for who you're not.
Yeah but the catch is I don’t actually care about who I’m talking to, I just want a fun time. So it’s all good. Plus I’d work on meshing my true personality with it ..... plus I don’t even have a personality.........
am I the only one that scrolled down the comments while watching?
gamergirl225 lol I am doing the same it's just a habit
No! I Do that, too! I'm really interested in the answering of others!
No
Warrior Cat Fan me 2
Yeah just wanna know if Im wasting my time on this video
list starts at 0:51
9. charming people are not afraid to lose
8. they show they're glad to meet you
7. they look for mutual understanding
6. they use the power of touch
5. they use facial expressions correctly
4. they are not afraid to look silly
3. they're good at asking questions
2. they remember names
1. listen more and talk less
that's about it
I do these things all the time, but I don't think I do them right because I end up making my self look like an idiot. 😂🤣😅
It's okay not to be okay.
you're not alone,buddy
These videos are just made for fun, do what makes you happy, once you are happy everything will go right.
As long as you're having fun then everyone does
Because you do this while thinking about it. Once it becomes second nature, you have people eating out of the palm of your hand. Growned yourself. It helps a lot.
All points match my personality. I'm goofy, too honest, have alot of empaty and self ironi. People i barely know open up to me about their problems, bc I'm easy to talk to, don't judge and don't talk behind others back.
I hate when people give me compliments, but I give compliments to everybody all the time. The key to be charming is just to be aware about your own actions and see how people react. Thats how i learned it.
Why am I watching this? Im so awkward I wont be able to do anything in the list
Akiyama Ukine No you r thinking wrong, I m sure u will. 😊
No! I am sure you are great! 😊
Akiyama Ukine I am sure you can do it!! Don't care about what other people say about you!!🖒 Just be yourself and have fun!!💚💚💗
Awkward girls are really adorable.. it's awkward guys that end up looking weak or creepy
I was watching this and I realized and said to myself, "honey you're already charming!" 😂😂
If wasting your time in internet is important part of your day , spend it with BRIGHT SIDE ,and time isn't wasted. Thanks for such interesting videos. They all are helpful.
1 Trick to Get People to Watch this Video
1. Put a thumbnail of a woman.
2. Profit.
TheJonGlasses3245 I really thought its about glowing up
DONT SAY JUST A WOMAN THAT WOMAN IS MARGOT ROBBIE
+jesaplaysminecraft she is flawless😍😍
jesaplaysminecraft Who is Margot ?
gavin Reid She is an actress...She played harley quinn in suicide squad
9.They r not afraid to loose
8.They show they are glad to meet you
7.They look for mutual understanding
6.They use the power of touch
5.They how to use facial expressions and gestures
4.They are not afraid to look silly,not awkward
3.They are good at asking questions
2.They always remember names
1.They listen more talk less
I love meeting people and find it easy to communicate. I hadn't realized that I do most of these things. I think it is right on.
how to attract me:
Buy me chicken nuggets and i'll love you forever
😂
Dawnxtr here you go 🍗🍗🍗🍗
Dawnxtr really..it is pretty easy to please u
Hahaaahaa...come with me
Let’s meet at KFC
This is one of the best produced advice-giving videos I've ever across on RUclips. I'm charmed!
Thus is how to be the most charming in the room
Go in a room by yourself
Darth1nsidious7 the Wise bhi bhi hi
be simple and badass!
asad maj YESS
Ikr. Just be your simple and badass self! ;"3
How to make other people like you?
Erikas Narušis mhn
Give em' millions of money
Otaku Guy red Rio 0 no they will Like ur Money not u
Ralle123 4
Gleichschaltung.
Everyone will be like you.
Just be SWAG 😄😄
i cant do the eye contact one... i have anxiety
Ink sans wear sunglasses and you should be fine.
Look at the bridge of their nose (in between their eyes) it looks just like giving eye contact. It might seem silly, but definitely gets the job done. This is an excellent trick I learned from someone really smart. Go for it!😊
Ink sans I have social anxiety too and it took me so much of practicing and struggling to look into people’s eyes .Believe in yourself and I believe that you can do it and beat anxiety.Practice practice and practice 😁👍🏻
9. They are not afraid to lose
8. They show they are glad to meet you
7. They look for mutual understanding
6. They use the power of touch
5. They know how to use facial expressions and gestures.
4. They are not afraid to look silly
3. They are good at asking questions
2. They always remember names
1. They listen more and talk less
very nice video for communication thanks...☺️
Health And passion HBD,
I subscribed 🤗
Vinit Gambhir Hi.. pls have a look of my channel also if u like the video of mine than pls subscribe it too.. thanks
How come this comment has so many likes... because he is thankful? I can be thankful too but no one gives me a reward for it.
Vinit Gambhir 9llll
Sareda Rizzo Probably because people agree with what he said. That's generally how likes and dislikes work. I wouldn't exactly consider them a reward, though.
Remembering names and making more eye contact is what I must work on more. Thanks.
just be yourself..😏
*Just be your best self
LDDT TDDL *Just keep trying to be your best self
Aria i can use those tricks and still be real myself
Aria unless you’re boring, then do what they suggest.
Thats like be awkward if u r awkward
There are lot of ways of learning about how to learn and happen everyday body languages. Living that way, we can descover and learn much more about others.
Very good.
buddy your videos help me develop my personality day be day,thank you so much
I learned a lot from this, thanks. It's info like this that helps to make a better world we share.
I use all of what you said.... Guess what, it works. I was born with it but it took time to learn how to master it. thank you for this video.
I am in love with the narrator
Great video. Common sense, etiquette, and how to be genuinely charming are so rarely taught anymore. These are skills which are invaluable, even in the ever more isolating, technological world in which we live. "How to Win Friends and Influence People " ,by Dale Carnegie is a must read for all ages. I was given a copy by my lovely and very successful grandfather when I was a kid. He urged me to read it monthly, then quarterly, and so on. I read a great deal, but this book has helped me perhaps even more than my three earned college degrees when applied it's principles are applied. Education simply doesn't teach wisdom, common sense, or how to problem solve in most cases.
God bless!
You just described the sort of person I would undoubtedly be friends with for life! ✌🏼
My whole family heard the first couple of seconds and they automatically started laughing at me... great
honestly speaking my personality contains a lot of those points and now I know why I have lots of friends and no one hates me😊
All these times we intuitively know, but often forget. It's nice to have it verbalized.
Awesome video! Thanks for sharing!
Eff this ! wanna know how to be the most charming person in the room ? Bring Gum 😘
yES
I can't look at people directly, as in eye to eye contact unless I know them well. I think it's generally an uncomfortable thing to do ! Am I the only one ???
Saz Khan No I can assure you that you are not 🙋
Nope
When #1 came up, I instantly thought:
"Talk less, smile more!"
Frozencupcake Roler
Last time a guy said that he lost everything....
everything is soo true , I love love love your channel !
Thank you I tried these hacks and my friends kept on saying how nice and charming I am!!! 😀💜
Great video! Will you do a video on how to attract people while outdoors next?
Lovely video. Thank you!
you know what . this vdeo is sooo meeeee . i always do this to my friend . but sometimes when i wanna tell em a story about myself they just dont pay attention as much as i do . so its kinda rude😂 but it sokay , im tryning my best to not be angry at them
I agree with these points. Thanks for the vid!
great tips. thanks for sharing..
😱IM A CHARMING PERSON?! I matched every single one of them!!! I didn't know this!!!!
thanks that was a really helpful video
i always remember people's name, but nobody remember my name
this is fifi. Same.
red hot chili peypah you are not charismatic enough
I thought I was the only one!
As for rule number 6, I hate it when people I don't know well touch me. Most people like their personal space, so touching someone just comes off as weird and even patronizing at times.
This 10 things r enough to make anyone charming!! I do some of these things!! Nd really it's awesome!! Wonderful video it is!!!😁
Each word of this video is helpfull
Thank u
So thankful of knowing this channel
I'm very learning this point ..
Thank you ...
To lots many videos on RUclips channel ...
so i should start talking about myself even when i´m not asked? because i just finished a book where it said that you should share only if the other person asks you, and if they don´t ask that means they don´t care and you should not take it personally
basically open your heart and be BRAVE
Realy nice information
Well I agree with your points and they are gonna help me. I have learned things from it so... Thank you Bright side
Thanks for this
That meaw sound made me laugh which was used when the word 'pets' was said..Professional editing. Good channel
Its helpful
Good and practical tips of confident, easy going fun people.
Great another personality trait I did not know I had. I seem to have been on the right track. The only issue I have is that nobody wants to just hangout go for coffee, hike or just visit with me. They all want to tell me thier problems like I am a pshycologist instead of a good friend. I have toomich patience and I listen to long.
I absolutely agree with this!
That was a good vidio about talk with people!!🖒🖒🖒🖒🖒 I am going to use theese tips!!
I am agree with you Vinit Gamhir🖒
thank you for the advice from all of your videos bright side.
I believe these to be true because I've used a few of them and they work.
Waow... i have all the qualities mention in this points.. i guess i am charming then. 😋 thanks for letting me know.. 😇
thanks for this video..
I find someone charming who genuinely celebrates my achievings and good occasions.
it was awesome
how u presented it i liked that the most
Excellent One
Good tips to create good taughts in another person's mind.
3:23 is there any fault on my mobile......😂
The way he says details though
Be present and at ease as much as possible and curious. Also, be sincere. If those characteristics don't come naturally, don't do them. You have some great qualities, know it and be happy. If I see a truly charming person, I feel the positive energy. If they are acting charming, it's gross and you wonder what they want.
I enjoyed it a lot... I am bad at remembering names. 😥 I am looking for some ways to remember names better, though.
I already use all of these, (except the last one, I love to talk.) so I guess I’m the most charming person in my class.
I am like that.
I also watch people only in their LEFT eye! With a calm/calming and sincere smile.
luticia
Why only the left eye?
yes
thank you for your advise
I can, no wait... I already do everyone thing in this video.. except to call people by their names.. I just can't remember their names &, in some cases, their faces. But that's not my fault that everyone in the school remembers my name & face .. sometimes they just come calling me up by my name & talking to me so friendly & I dunno what to call'em. & all I do is "Yeah.. yes.. yup.. yeah ... fine. Good.."
well in my humble opinion, without the desire to offend those who think different from my point of view, but looking at it in depth, taking into account the characteristics of each person I honestly think....I forgot what i was going to say..
Excellent!!!!!!!
Really very effective
i had this horse and he was so so majestic that we named him charming
It's not necessarily true that if you have charm, you will have charisma too. I, as a natural charmer, can please people and earn their trust but I have charismatic friends. They lead. For some reason they are highly confident even if they know they've made a bad decision.
This all came to me naturally when I was in kindergarten. Such a long time ago!
To be honest I already do these things
9. They are not afraid to lose.
8. They show they're glad to meet you.
7. They look for mutual understanding.
6. They use the power of touch.
5. They know how to use facial expressions and gestures.
4. They're not afraid to look silly.
3. They're good at asking questions.
2. They always remember names.
1. They listen more and talk less.
For those who lazy to watch the videos.
this was so true.
I just realized I'm trusting this video's advice more than my therapists... lol ^_^
What if the person you’re talking to doesn’t talk much or kinda doesn’t know how to keep an engaging conversation going? Any help? Idk if some people are just shy but this happens a lot where it feels like I’m doing more contributing to the convo than them. If they don’t bring up a subject what do we talk about? Then sometimes someone will keep talking to the point where it isn’t a conversation, do I just sit there and listen?
good to see this I loved it
Good to know.
Thx a lot
😄
nice tricks I will try and I hited the like button