How To Be The Most Charming Person In The Room
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- Опубликовано: 28 май 2024
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Have you ever wished there was a blueprint you could follow to make people instantly like you? Good news, there kind of is! All you have to do is follow the 3 Fs. Be Fascinating, Funny, and make them Feel Good.
I know, easier said than done. But in today’s video, you’ll get a set of tools that make it easy to do each. We’ll do this by breaking down some of today’s most charismatic celebrities, most prominently Will Smith and Chris Hemsworth, so you have real life examples you can model.
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⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:26 - #1: Set stakes to hook people
1:22 - #2: Make your stories Immersive
2:33 - #3: Make your story relatable
3:53 - #4: Use the charades method
6:16 - #5: Use the fake out method
7:36 - #6: Use contagious laughter
10:10 - #7: Give high quality compliments
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Lmao I love how every time the narrator says to avoid being fake, Jimmy Fallon is on screen. Your editing is noticed and appreciated 🤣
💀💀💀
Not his fault Jimmy earns it
and when he said sarcasm can be interpreted wrong he showed brie larson lmao
😂😂😂😂😂
Gotta keep consistency hehe
Will's just enthusiastic and attractive to anyone but his wife
Dammmmmn
It's easy to like someone when you get to see bits and pieces of someone's personality. In a day to day life people tend to take it for granted, OR there's other sides of it. We can't know the whole picture, but just the people close to him.🤷♀️
@@24irishka either Will's a humongous simp or its all just negative publicity stunt.
lmao damn man 😂
It's cause he's bi sexual and his sugar daddy is a guy named benny madine. True story.
After watching several videos of charisma on command I've found little bits and pieces of the advice creeping into my conversations so I'm hooked going to keep watching and rewatching.
Bro I rewatch videos I already watched because this information is golden and I always forget most of them
You'll notice you absorb things gradually, but real improvement comes a lot quicker if you consciously apply their tips
@@kendawgthemasterdude This☝️
that's what I.m going to do, watch this for days. I remember when I was a teen I'd watch friends all the time and pretty soon I started joking like Chandler. It's been years since then and I don't do it as much, but watching something can really help
It's always really uplifting when you watch a Charisma on Command video, and you already do some of the things in the video.
*7 habits that make people instantly like you*
0:27 - Set stakes to hook people into your stories
1:25 - Make your story immersive
2:36 - Make your story relatable
3:58 - Use the charades method
6:18 - Use the fake-out method
7:41 - Tell stories you find funny to trigger contagious laugh
10:13 - Give high quality compliments
Hope this helps!
*High Living* 🚀🌙
Thank you!!
GIVE THIS MEN A CAPE
Question: How to tell interesting stories, and also keep people off your private property?
Answer: Set stakes to hook people.
@@GHIBaal its already present in the description
Tricks to tell fascinating story
1. Tell the story in present tense
2. Use sound effects
3. Embody yourself and your characters
I'd love to have the charisma Will Smith has. The ability to walk up on stage and slap a comedian across the face in front of the world, and later, make a speech about how good of a person I am. so brave.
3FF’s. Be fascinating, funny and make them feel good! Good storytelling is a gift. Setting stakes is a massive tip!
Watched these videos for years and can confirm, they work. Being genuine, open, honest, and funny are critical. Working on being funny. The rest shouldn't be that difficult for most. 💪
"The great relationships will come in facing great change and difficulty because it is within this environment that the deeper and truer nature of people becomes evident. And people will have to choose a greater allegiance within themselves and a greater allegiance to others. This is where great relationships become recognized, cultivated and expressed."
A quote from *The Great Waves of Change* - a free online book I warmly recommend!
My haters throw rocks at me and IT hurts. I hope they don't throw The Rock at me because I like him as an actor. GAGAGAGAGA!!! I am funny!!! I am the funniest RUclipsr EVAH! Please agree, dear ib
@@AxxLAfriku what did I just read
Thank you
Thank you, Ivan.
I just want to say..
I used to watch your vids with only people I liked in the thumbnails but you've proved yourself to be a good youtuber and now I watch all of the vids.
Basically what I'm trying to say is that I was so picky and judgemental but you have helped get my out of that state.
You've helped in more ways than you know, thanks. Keep on doing a great job 😁
I have natural charisma and have allway's had people tell me that i'm the life of the party but through depression and some hard times i kind of lost my spark for life but these video's remind me of the good times, when i used to really connect with people.
Thankyou, it's such a positive way to encourage people to use their qualities to the best of their ability and to feel more confident, liked and included.
Everyone likes to feel seen and heard and that's important.
Just remember that you're all beautiful and unique in your own way and you all have something awesome to offer.
Just believe in yourself.
This is a really great channel! 👍
Much love!
Sometimes people with natural charisma are the last ones anyone thinks to check in on. They seem so confident and at ease it can be difficult for people to consider that is only part of that person’s persona and experience. I hope you have reclaimed some of your spark and that your friends are supportive.
Be genuine and people will gravitate to you
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
Agreed he should be a video on power or being a leader cause I’d follow him anywhere
Yesssss
There are certainly some very strong psych and social methods he puts to good use.
If you're a celeb people will hang on your every word and find everything you say delightful.
I’ve been acting like this lately and can confirm it’s a great way to make connections
I was watching a video on the Breaking bad Crew on the Graham Norton show, the way Bryan Cranston tells stories is amazing, there has to be a video on him.
Binging videos from this channel.... never gets old, like a refresher even after yrs
SUMMARY:
0:27 - Set stakes to hook people into your stories
1:25 - Make your story immersive
2:36 - Make your story relatable
hope this helped :)
This is soooo accurate! So many people I love have these traits!
This is a GEM. Thank you so much charisma on command for sharing this amazing video
*"Just keep in mind: the more we value things outside our control, the less control we have." -Epictetus*
48 laws of power, just read this line a few days ago
tried these and im engaged right now! you've changed my life
Can you please start using non celebrity people as examples cuz yk , majority form a positive bias towards celebs making them automatically charismatic in people's subconscious mind I feel . Thank you ❤️❤️
Why would someone click on a video talking about someone who is not famous? They want people to watch this videos. They can talk about criminals, but those are also famous in a way.
@@peterDcontact still man , my point being celebrities automatically form a charismatic charm in the audience's subconscious mind because of their status , and I've seen many people as " charismatic " as Will Smith who are not treated the way will Smith is solely because they weren't " WILL SMITH "
@@sriram181 that true. Fame beauty and money influence people's opinion, unfortunately
@@peterDcontact because everyone knows famous people are charismatic. You would want to know and see how it works for people that are not in the public eye.
Love storytelling techniques, will be trying to remember these when out 😂 practice, practice, practice.
7:44 "It's not about forcing yourself to laugh,..."
Shows clip of Jimmy Fallon. 😉
This is very helpful
Always very good, is your job! Thank you!
consistently good content -- never stop guys
Raise the stakes! What great advice to give an aspiring storyteller. Thanks
Who immediately applies what they learn from these vids?
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@@LexyMe123 how come so sad?
I keep the lessons in my head for some next interaction "later" that I'll actually never have soon enough to remember the lessons. And then I'll replace what I learned here with another video/email. Rinse and repeat. Because like most people I'm an info junkie.
I'm an author, and I actually watch these videos for my characters. Does that count?
Yes.
Any advice for people with Asperger’s? I’ve been asking around for tips on learning how to interact but I keep getting drown out by “teach us how to be confident again”
What do you find the most challenging when it comes to interactions?
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 adapting to the “rhythm” (as Ezra Miller’s Flash would say) of new people
@@notproductiveproductions3504 ah yes, it can be really powerful to start taking a look at where your discomfort is coming from. So when did it develop and what is causing the heavy 'resistance' to new people. Usually it boils down to something internal. Does this help?
@@notproductiveproductions3504 Use small conversation "probes" say things that someone could react in any way, and then based on their reaction you could have a better grasp of what they are all about.
Have you ever done a video on Sam Rockwell? He's definitely one of the most charismatic and charming guys around. So lovable.
Charisma on Command with another great video, I hope you'll reach 5mil this week. Good luck guys! 💪
This is an excellent video and it does speak truth! Especially with the helping other people feel good. One of the major things I have noticed about being a likable person is ENERGY! Positive energy is essential and is the underlining factor on if people will like you or not. Everyone shown in this video as great examples ALL exhibited positive energy!
The other important thing is your own personal development! Personal development will allow you to be more comfortable and relaxed about yourself. Allowing you to come across as authentic instead of artificial.
I speak so much about personal development on my NeoOneness Subliminals RUclips channel because I am a personal development consultant.
My other channel is here.
*“It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.” - Marcus Aurelius*
I love your videos! Can you make one for teachers? And, if possible, for teaching different ages of students? Children, pre-teens, teens and adults? Please? Please?
*"Impressing people is utterly different from being truly impressive." -Ryan Holiday, The Ego is the Enemy
Great Stuff!*
Also, not to be rude or whatever but everyone that’s demonstrating these “hacks” are all really good looking people and they’d captivate me off the bat anyways
What’s funny is I started watching Norm McDonald clips and pretty much learned that by making myself laugh others will laugh with me which made me more confident socially. Rest in peace Norm
Can you The Real talk show and do a breakdown on each cohost?
Will is really good at talking with his hands, especially when he talks to Chris Rock.
With Craig Ferguson you are already gonna unlock the next level dude!!!!
i really hate how charming and humble and tall and also handsome chris hemsworth is
Amazing video
Would you be able to do a video on English comedian Morgana Robinson? She is so funny, charming and personable and I'd love your analysis! I'd love to see more examples of charismatic women in general.
KEEP IT UP!!
"Be fascinating"
Thanks.
Would love to see a video on what makes Bill Murray so funny and cool
Very good
Can you do a video on Jason Silva? He is a speaker on flow.
Every time he speaks, you get the chance to fall in love with his mesmeric poetry.
1:29 this is the correct character for this scenario lol
I NEED y'all to do a breakdown on Vince Staples' charisma
No.
polite--confident--knowledgeable.
Please, make a video about Starlord's charisma (Peter Jason Quill's) from Guardians of the Galaxy! Exactly about the character's charisma!
you should use the story Leonardo told on Ellen about the engine of a helicopter exploding. It's not a bid geal, nothing happened, but the way he narrates it, is amazing. Just a suggestion, I love your content!
PLEASE I NEED THIS i constantly need everyones approval :'O
Omg thank god my friend BruceLeeEditz recommended your content. Awesome stuff
3:17 Everybody has to see that podcast. The chemistry between Von and Peterson was magic and for me quite unexpected.
I lost it when they added Rusita at 7:46😂😂😂
G I Jane ..can't wait to see it
What I have learned from this video. 1. Be really attractive. 2. Be good looking. 3 Don't be ugly.
Should've watched attentively lmao
not every good looking person is charismatic
How to make people instantly like you.
Tip #1 Do not slap them in the face
How to approach someone who takes things seriously all the time? My manager is the type that won't laugh at anyone's joke unless it's someone respected (aka the higher ups or her clients), she won't go out to socialize and would rather stay home (even if her clients invited her, she'd send one of her staff), and if you tried to discuss about her awkwardness she'd make it your fault. She's too strict that she asked us to stop addressing each other (between staffs) casually and that we should tone down our laughter (which made us completely silent when she's around). She told me twice that she's especially hard on female staffs because she doesn't want to hurt male staffs' ego, so it's even harder for me to approach her. I'm really thinking of changing jobs because of her but I want to try win her over. Any ideas?
To me it seems like in the workplace she’s really worried about what people think of her. I think maybe you could speak to her and try to bond over your mutual understanding of male ego and how it has affected you personally.
@@faayumcheese bonding over a common enemy is a great idea.
Nice video
I've done a lot of this stuff naturally. The being funny, the hand movements, but I never knew I was being "charismatic"...lol.
That's why he's an actor...
I am not an entertainer or a clown...hahhagagaha
*"If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can't hear them..."* If you are reading this, I hope you have an amazing day!
"I disagree"
- Jada Smith (probably)
Video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar
The fact that your story got a follow up joke from RDJ means you did good
Be good looking and super famous. You’re automatically charming 😂
"some behaviours only acceptable for Will Smith" :D
This channel help us very much..
But I didn't know this language as well but i understand by your comments freinds...
And one thing I didn't understand in this video is what set stakes means??
Can someone explain me please!!
Am I the only one that wanted to hear the end of all Chris’ stories.
I like these selfishly because I do most of these naturally already!
Would like to see a vid on your thoughts on Ricky Gervais' style of comedy
Step 1. Don't slap people
We need a video on James Spader!
You might want to update this video, one of your examples just won himself the "lifetime achievement award for unlikeableness" for his actions.
"Why have we never farmed the Dodo?"
- This question started a 2 hr conversation with a new friend at a Renaissance Faire.
And I had to find hooks early too, I was told by my grandfather not to be disrespectful and to stay away from Politics and Religion. So I literally look for random stuff to talk about everyday related to other interests and topics I like.
Not bragging or anything, but I'm doing all the things these guys recommend in their videos naturally. So, essentially I'm on a journey figuring out why I'm so popular and why people are always so friendly and nice to me 😅
Wow imagine if you were bragging 🙃
Cap
@@sukanyaiyer8776 Their videos are like a self discovery to me.
@@mr.nobody2244 well you certainly dont come of charismatic here. more like a selfabsorbed human
It worked! A buddy of mine just married Megan Fox.
What is meaning for set stakes??
Someone explain please !!
Can you analyze the charisma of Ronald Dacey in Startup
How to make anyone like you in one conversation:
Step 1: look like Chris Hemsworth
The end.
OMG Chris Hemsworth throwing the snake back in his son's bedroom. 😂
7:43 Yup I hate fallon's constant laughs as well
7:46 This guy on the other hand is a legend, RIP
@SSuperior Yes, a while ago
Nice video. Please make a video on Shah Rukh Khan charisma. He is one of the most charismatic actors in bollywood. Please
He is definitely not
Step 1: have a story to tell
It would be cooler to show more clips of other celebs and not only the same 2
There needs to be a breakdown of crocodile Dundee and his confidence!
Don't be a fake but listen to Dale Carnegie's how to win friends and influence people. Now I am confused; should I be a fake or not? To be honest I read that book about 15 years ago and got nothing out of it; Your videos are a million times more helpful than that book.
can you do a video on satarou gojou please
i just wanna be loved
Shed the sad guitar boy look.
love u
Great analysis, Will Smith is one of greatest entertainers of our time. Thanks for the video!
He wasn't able to entertain his wife 😢
Epic
Here are my 10 extra tips to INCREASE your daily manifestations that I’ve learned over the years..👇🏾
1. Practice gratitude every morning. When you wake up, list everything that you are grateful for and feel that gratitude in your core. Feel free to write things down in a journal so it is easy for you to remember.
2. Replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. Every time you feel a negative thought coming on, make a positive spin on it right away.
3. Take ownership for things that happen in your life. It's easy to blame others however you will feel much better when you realize that most issues stem from us.
4. ALWAYS believe that good things are about to happen. By being open to new possibilities you are inviting abundance into your life.
5. Remember that like attracts like so you get back whatever you put out, whether it is good or bad. So do good AND received good.
6. Meditate for five minutes a day. During this time focus on how you want your life to be; but place your focus on how you feel AND feel that feeling as if you have already accomplished those goals.
7. Step outside of your comfort zone. Stop playing it safe and make that decision to finally go for your dreams.
8. Focus on activities that make you feel truly happy. When you are truly happy you have the best vibrational frequency to manifest your desires.
9. Avoid the naysayers and surround yourself with people who only lift you higher. Downers will be downers, don't let them drag you into their misery.
10. Don't be afraid to dream and know that you are always supported by the universe.
Hope this helps!
- Your Friendly Neighborhood Coach ❤
"manifestations" ffs
Please please please make a video on ANDY SAMBERG!!! PLEASE!!!!
We forgot all this when we are in real conversation.
Will Smith " we all have that voice in our heads that calls us names" we all know he's talking about his wife
These interview shows have a team of writers. They also do a mock interview before. Even if Will really did sky dive there’s a writing team to punch it up.
Unless you’re just doing stunts or have some crazy career like a firefighter i don’t think this form of story telling would work for 95% of people.
I bet you cleaned the sewer yesterday, there's a story.
Well we spend enough time online, why not use it to practice social skills?