Hey guys! Which psychology tricks do you usually use? Here're some other tricks ruclips.net/video/l4tWdTmYZoM/видео.html. They're simple yet they do work!
Yeah that's me. I can't maintain eye contact with my crush for more than 0.3 seconds. Seriously. One time I saw her as I was going down the stairs, and I literally looked her in the eye and instantly looked away. Can anybody help me?!
"However, if they're doing this during coitus, they may be trying to turn you on with their autoasphyxiation fetish. But, if you can't breathe and try to indicate for them to stop and they ignore you, it may mean they're a psychopath or sociopath, and you're being murdered."
OR if someone appears to be strangling themselves while eating this does not mean they dislike themselves it just means their food is going well and they feel fine. I’m good at this.
1. Closing eyes=not interested in convo 2. Cover mouth=hide info 3. Chewing on glasses=worried 4.present face=attracting 5.rub chin=decision making 6.cross arms=irritated 7.fixing posture=attention seeking 8.lean forward=interested in someone 9.leaning back=tired of the convo 10.swing their heels n toes=confident 11.rub hands=positive feeling 12.Glove handshake=trustworthy 13.facing floor palm handshake=respect dominance 14.cupping handshake=sympathize you/or charge reminder 15.handsome w/ touch=need more attention 16.fixing tie=w/ women(attraction) w/out uncomfortable 17.collecting lint=disagreement 18.feet on desk= comfort/disrespect 19. horse chair=dominant person 20.playing w/shoe=women:comfortable/attraction 21.eye contact=BIG:attraction Small:mad 22.avoiding eye contract= thinking or dishonest/discomfort 23. Unbroken staring=intimidating 24. A lot of blinking= attracted This is mostly for me but I'll share the love lol
@@melody._..-. but notice how i said i am a dancer... i do ballet and i always need to fix my posture as i always slouch, so when i see my self slouching, i fix my posture
It doesn't mean you are attracted to yourself... Just use common logic. You just don't want to look bad and know that you are suppsoed to keep posture and not slack like a sloth. Getting used to a bad posture just keeps you doing it without you noticing it. So when you see yourself in a mirror and notice it you try to fix your posture but forget it afterwards as majority of us do anyway, it's pretty normal. So short answer: no you are probably not... The ballet is just important to you and you really try to do all you can for it including the posture (which everyone should keep their eye on anyway).
That or your trying to act like a villain. Rubbings your hands, smiling crazily or weirdly, and trying your best to cackle, are all good signs of attempts at being a villain. Or your just ridiculously happy about something. But it's generally the former.
De̸͟͞rpy Potato 1946-1964🤔 I’m more after generation X. BTW. Still like to gather facts before making assumptions. If you ok with just interacting with your phone and become the greatest keyboard warrior, DO YOU!
The actual fact is when u talk, u can't breathe. You can inhale and exhale while keeping the smile... Just like air hostesses do. But you need to stop talking if you want to take breathe.
Maybe crossing your arms is an emotional defense mechanism to keep people from getting too close to you and you have become comfortable that way.😂 Lol I'm jp that was just a random thought
I know this is out of topic but, what if you can already read people. Some of these techniques aren't true. For some reason it is easy for me to read people easily, even strangers. I only read people if I take curiosity. Other than that, people aren't my business and I have no reason to know who someone is or how they think about themselves. If someone ever asked me what this person thinks of them is wouldn't say anything other than "find out yourself, ask the person what they think of you. Problem solved." If they asked me who this person is and the details I'll just say "easy, be friends with the person and you've got your answer." I have no interest in anyone or even genders since they act all the same in their own ego. Some people may but it's rare to see the free people who don't even care how people think of them or if they are bullied. Those are the only people that catches my curiosity. Though not in a love way just in curiosity. Other than that people in my school is just jerks and only shove their problems to mines.
Many readings of body language can have more then one reason. They're not all black and white. Someone could be crossing their arms because they're are physically cold but not closed off. Covering the mouth can also mean they are not confident speaking. The direction a leg is crossed can change not because they aren't interested in you anymore but because they had their legs crossed towards you so long it became physically uncomfortable and they had to switch directions. Sigmund Freud pointed this out with his famous line "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar".
Ginger the Espeon embarassing, but i cross my arms when im trying to show off my pecs... it makes my chest look super buff, and draws attention to it as well... yeah, lame
“20+ psychology tricks to read anyone like a book” If someone does “this” it has many different reasons. But if someone does “that” it also has many different reasons. The meaning of “this” gesture depends on the situation While the meaning of “that” gesture could mean “this”, but it could also mean “that”. What I took away from this video is that every gesture, posture, handshake, movement, etc. has so many different meanings that you’ll need the CliffsNotes to the so-called book that you’re trying to read.
You can read someone by their hands For example if they are holding a gun they are angry Or if their fist is coming towards your face quickly they are also angry
I have a comment about eye contact: I agree with the examples given for eye contact and would add that someone avoiding eye contact are likely to be uncomfortable because of social anxiety for a number of reasons. Though I want to add that intentional long-lasting eye contact with other positive gestures or a positive conversation can be an intentional way of having a deeper connection; it is like peering into each-others' soul looking into the depths within. The connection (with interactive/reactive content) only happens when both people allow the other "in" and both intentionally allow this connection.
All this went out the window with the invention of smart phones. If you're bored, stare at your phone. If you're nervous, stare at your phone. If you're lying, stare at your phone. If you're uncomfortable, stare at your phone. It you're disinterested in someone, stare at your phone. If you're interested is someone, state at your phone. The default jesture for everything is stare at your phone!
Wait, the blonde guy is crossing his arms, does that mean that he's frustrated and or feels uncomfortable? Conspiracy theories. What're you hiding, sir...?
TIMESTAMPS Closing their eyes 0:45 Covering their mouth 1:00 Chewing on their glasses 1:26 “Presenting” their face 1:52 Rubbing their chin 2:16 Crossed arms 2:34 Fixing their posture 3:02 Leaning forward 3:22 Leaning back 3:50 Swinging from their heels to their toes 4:14 Rubbing their hands 4:37 The "glove" handshake 4:59 A handshake with the palm facing the floor vs ceiling 5:29 Cupping someone’s hands during a handshake 5:57 A handshake with a touch 6:25 Fixing their tie 7:09 Collecting imaginary lint 7:30 Putting their feet on the desk 7:50 Mounting a chair like a horse 8:11 Playing with their shoe 8:35 Eye contact 8:57 Avoiding eye contact 9:34 Unbroken staring 9:50 A lot of blinking 10:16
Which psychological approach we use depends on what the other person is doing! Knowledge is power. Thanks for listing the hidden meanings of common gestures and postures. I bet they will be very useful.
I was raised in a military family and been around military personnel a good portion of my life, so the crossing arms thing is extremely natural to me; I’ve always used that gesture as a “I plan on sticking around and talking a while” sign. Also, if someone is adjusting their tie in the presence of Darth Vader, it probably means they’re in the process of being choked.
This is something I've learned to not take for granted. I used to assume that everyone naturally was very intuitive when it comes to what others are thinking or feeling. But a couple boyfriends later, I know that not everyone naturally has this ability built in.
Keïta Teferi when someone elderly is talking to you especially if they are scolding you, looking them in the eye is a form of disrespect in africa but in england looking away is disrespectful. Struggled with that growing up.
Or maybe… 1. Closing their eyes - when I didn’t get enough sleep 2. Covering their mouth - when I yawn 3. Chewing on their glasses - never. 4. Presenting their face - when there’s nothing to rest my head on 5. Rubbing their chin - nope. 6. Crossed arms/ Rubbing their hands - when I’m cold 7. Fixing their posture - I always try to sit with a straight back Unbroken staring - maybe there’s something on your face A lot of blinking - when my eyes are dry
Too add to this for anyone reading body language, different gestures can have multiple meanings. So to get accurate results, you have to think of each gesture as a word. From there you continue to do so until those words makes sentences. It’s the combination of words and sentences that gives an accurate reading, not individual words.
i cross my arms because its comfortable and i don't like my hands in free fall deadhang but i also like to lean back because its comfortable, if i don't like a conversation then i will just change the subject or leave with an outro like "gotta go" or "bye" so yeah i just do whats comfortable.
Gil Oribello Most Probably Confidence. Hands on the hips is generally something only confident people do. Sometimes people in minor positions of power, like shift managers, do this all the time. Not really sure why, just something ive noticed.
We, as human beings are Electrically powered. From Brain to Muscles, and back, thru nerves via electrical energy. Each of us operate on a very personal Frequency., just as either a persons finger print and or, their DNA. When we come in contact with another person, if the frequencies are in "Tune" the connection is comfortable, then we have harmony, two frequencies, even tho' not the same, they work well together. Then there are people that we just can't get along with, because something is just out of tune. This seems to be working on a very sub-conscience level, like reading body language. This brings to mind the 1960's sayings of being in the right "vibe" or "in tune" with ones surroundings.
@@nazgull3001 I know right? Such criminals! Playing with out feelings! We should..... Oh wait, so sweet music, sweet video, there's a subscription button? Is it a candy? I want candy! Oh wait what I am saying.... I AM MANIPULATED! SEND HELP! 112!
If a girl runs at you, douses you in gasoline and sets you on fire then runs around in circle yelling incoherent gibberish... she might be crazy. So pay attention!
So inaccurate LOL, I cross my arms all the time when I talk to people and it's just because it's a position I'm comfortable with when I don't know what to do with my arms. Doesn't mean I'm bothered when people talk to me, people can talk to me even if I cross my arms.
You forgot one more thing for the lack of eye contact thing: it's also a sign of being on the autism spectrum. I have realized that due to my aspergers (I know its technically ASD now) people have made assumptions about me due to my lack of eye contact. It is uncomfortable and causes me to feel very anxious, we can force ourselves occasionally but not for very long. I think it's ridiculous that you are socially unacceptable if you can't stare directly at peoples faces for long periods of time. Its just weird to me.... Also, the US is one of the only countries that considers lack of eye contact rude, did you know its actually considered rude in China?
midnight rain Agreed 100% I experience the same issues along with stuttered and higher registered speech. I avoid eye contact in a public situation so much I don't even notice. I think in the new age of things, people are coming around and taking notice that people aren't doing that intentionally.
It's not a sign of being autistic, or having Asperger's. Avoiding eye contact is also hypothesized as a behavioral trait to manage stress. Making eye contact with only those you are indeed comfortable with and know/trust.
I don't make eye contact when having talks with people about things that requires a lot of thinking. I focus away from people's faces so I don't get distracted by their body language.
Also a thing that when you are in group like : classroom, playground,etc. You unwillingly stare at someone and you can't take eyes off from that person means that you have started grewing feelings for that person or it can be that you are checking on that person or curious about that person.
Brightside forgot one thing about blinking too. If someone is blinking A LOT it usually means they are very tired. Or something is in their eye Bad dum ts.
I think the best advice would be dont over analyse, dont over think just be your good self and only do things with good intentions. Sometimes keeping it simple reliefs a lot of the stress and worry people put on themselves when they try to learn too much about things.
Oh uh, yeah, that, uh, what was that again? I'm totally not a lizard person, you know, I just forgot, cause, that would be crazy, right! So why can't yo- we breath under water?
Some of these tips work some of the times, which is why it's advised today by many body language readers to read signs collectively rather than basing a reading off one. For instance, arms crossed can also mean a person is feeling cold and needs a jacket, or it's just a way to feel more comfortable for them in that posture. However, arms crossed with no eye contact or smile and feet pointing away definitely means an opposing view or feeling.
If I person who eyes keep moving around during conversation, they give you eye contact but look away after, it's either they trying to avoid the conversation or they're shy.
So let me see if I get this straight. You aren't supposed to avoid eye contact. You aren't supposed to maintain eye contact. But now you're not even supposed to look away at times?!? I'm so confused as to how to go about this.
I feel like a lot of these signs mentioned can also be miss read , we aften sometimes do thing by not realizing, due to nervousness or various reasons , this is really helpful information that I'll definitely take advantage of . Thank you
When I want to show to people that I trust them, I tilt my head slightly. It shows that you trust someone and sometimes that you are asking for their trust in return
When someone is smiling and talking at the same time that means that he or she is attracted to you , once this happened to me and I was completely shocked.
Eye contact and a friendly smile will most of the time make more people trusting and open. Watching someone feet or looking to see where they are pointed will let you know if they are listing or interested in you. They say laughter is go for the soul for a reason. It helps to loosen tension and makes people feel more connected. Body language is easy to read if you just put yourself in the other person's perspective.
Hey guys! Which psychology tricks do you usually use?
Here're some other tricks ruclips.net/video/l4tWdTmYZoM/видео.html. They're simple yet they do work!
I don't know give me a Nintendo Switch
Putting legs on the table and leaning forward and backward and swinging from their heels to their toes
BRIGHT SIDE 5th Reply
This is so accurate ive done all of these with the emotions you described...I've never done #3, 16, 17 or unbroken staring
BRIGHT SIDE sorry but idk
Hint: "If somebody points a gun at you, they don't like you."
Also: "Anybody who shoots you doesn't like you A LOT."
bobbi mke for real?
really? how interesting! tell me more
bobbi mke MINDBLOWING
Mind blowing discovery
if someone is sticking an optical fibre tube up your bottom it probably means that they are a doctor or that something has gone horribly wrong
You forgot one. If their middle finger is pointing up and the other fingers aren't, they're angry.
😂😂😂 good one
Lol
😂😂😂
Lol 😂😂😂
Ok that's really good
Remember kids, if they don't maintain eye contact, they are lying to you. And if they maintain eye contact, they are also lying to you. Trust no one.
Robert Sides yup
That's the world man
So ur telling me that I should just trust my teddy bear?
As long as it isn't voiced by Seth MacFarlane.
If i think someone is trying to stare me down, i love looking away and then right back
Feel so sorry for the introvert guy who cant look people in eye but always gets judged as being dishonest!
Hardik Bothra Exactly. Each one of these has major exceptions and hopefully nobody is taking this too seriously..
Yeah that's me. I can't maintain eye contact with my crush for more than 0.3 seconds. Seriously. One time I saw her as I was going down the stairs, and I literally looked her in the eye and instantly looked away. Can anybody help me?!
Autistic people have a hard time with eye contact.
Same with people who were abused or have anxiety.
@@billybob-dp7ui look at people's noses
Not all introverts can't look at people in eye.
"Strangulation: If a person starts pummeling you and choking you with their bare hands, that can be a sign that they do not like you."
Oh oops I thought that was how kids say hello these days excuse me I have to apologize to some people in the hospital
What
"However, if they're doing this during coitus, they may be trying to turn you on with their autoasphyxiation fetish. But, if you can't breathe and try to indicate for them to stop and they ignore you, it may mean they're a psychopath or sociopath, and you're being murdered."
OMG! That's so true!
OR if someone appears to be strangling themselves while eating this does not mean they dislike themselves it just means their food is going well and they feel fine.
I’m good at this.
1. Closing eyes=not interested in convo
2. Cover mouth=hide info
3. Chewing on glasses=worried
4.present face=attracting
5.rub chin=decision making
6.cross arms=irritated
7.fixing posture=attention seeking
8.lean forward=interested in someone
9.leaning back=tired of the convo
10.swing their heels n toes=confident
11.rub hands=positive feeling
12.Glove handshake=trustworthy
13.facing floor palm handshake=respect dominance
14.cupping handshake=sympathize you/or charge reminder
15.handsome w/ touch=need more attention
16.fixing tie=w/ women(attraction) w/out uncomfortable
17.collecting lint=disagreement
18.feet on desk= comfort/disrespect
19. horse chair=dominant person
20.playing w/shoe=women:comfortable/attraction
21.eye contact=BIG:attraction Small:mad
22.avoiding eye contract= thinking or dishonest/discomfort
23. Unbroken staring=intimidating
24. A lot of blinking= attracted
This is mostly for me but I'll share the love lol
Sydney Milagro thank you
This whole time his arms are crossed, even the "animator" knows he hates his job
I was just realising, that his lips are hardly moving. 🤷
Hahahha yup noticed that too.
haha
😂😂
HAHAHAHA
as a dancer, i fix my posture when i see my own reflexion. does this mean i am attracted to myself?😂
yes
U looove ur self ❤️💜🧡💛💚💙💕💘💖💗💓💞
@@melody._..-. but notice how i said i am a dancer... i do ballet and i always need to fix my posture as i always slouch, so when i see my self slouching, i fix my posture
Get over yourself
It doesn't mean you are attracted to yourself... Just use common logic. You just don't want to look bad and know that you are suppsoed to keep posture and not slack like a sloth. Getting used to a bad posture just keeps you doing it without you noticing it. So when you see yourself in a mirror and notice it you try to fix your posture but forget it afterwards as majority of us do anyway, it's pretty normal.
So short answer: no you are probably not... The ballet is just important to you and you really try to do all you can for it including the posture (which everyone should keep their eye on anyway).
I love how when he says "crossed arms are to show we are irritated," there's a guy smiling in the background as he crosses his arms.
mixed message
Assassin Aquilus i cross my arms because it’s more normal to be than letting my hands down by my side 😂
Girl:*chews gum*
Dude:*silence*
Girl:*chews gum*
Dude:”ARE YOU DEPRESSED”
The funniest comment on this comment section😂
AfroCast tamilnadagam
AfroCast lol
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When I rub my hands it usually means I'm cold
Let's Give it up for Steeeveenn!!
Steven Hernandez ikr
That or your trying to act like a villain. Rubbings your hands, smiling crazily or weirdly, and trying your best to cackle, are all good signs of attempts at being a villain. Or your just ridiculously happy about something. But it's generally the former.
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True😂
'Crossing arms means that the person is not feeling it today' this dude is obviously in the bad mood the whole video.XD
hose maria omg, haha
hose maria lol
hose maria I was thinking that too
hose maria thought the same thing too! XD
hose maria who can blame him...... looks like he had a rough day.
I have my arms crossed all the time and I'm in a perfectly fine mood.
I can relate to this 🤭
Possibly! :D
Yes
I cross my arms because I don't know what to do with it 😂 I feel like I look weird with my arms hanging down
It’s because that’s your comfy zone once you don’t crossed your hands u will feel distressed and insecure so anyone can get the best of you
Body language today: people’s eyes are on their phone while doing anything.
De̸͟͞rpy Potato 1946-1964🤔 I’m more after generation X. BTW. Still like to gather facts before making assumptions. If you ok with just interacting with your phone and become the greatest keyboard warrior, DO YOU!
Ok boomer
De̸͟͞rpy Potato I like boomer though. Makes me feel like a Yoda or wise man. I knew it was a joke😉 I was trying to bust some balls.😂
*Ok boomer*
Ok boomer
Another body language... When you smile u can't breathe
Thanks for smiling.
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The actual fact is when u talk, u can't breathe.
You can inhale and exhale while keeping the smile... Just like air hostesses do.
But you need to stop talking if you want to take breathe.
😁
also inhale and exhale is a sign a person is breathing...;)
EDEN much smart
LOL
my life is now complete just by reading this single comment..... and im still underage ....lolol
Woah.... Cool!!
EDEN how could that be?
I like how the cartoon man is saying that crossing your arms means your not in the mood .etc. But he is crossing his own arms😂
Lol!
I was about to say that
Ian I'll scf that
Elyssa Hassan yea😂
Elyssa Hassan 😂😂😂
I don't get why people think crossing arms is negative. I do it everyday because it's comfortable to me.
Jacob Takes different meanings depending on context
Maybe crossing your arms is an emotional defense mechanism to keep people from getting too close to you and you have become comfortable that way.😂 Lol I'm jp that was just a random thought
Jacob ikr
Jacob Same dude. I actually enjoy conversation and I lean back as well.
I know this is out of topic but, what if you can already read people. Some of these techniques aren't true. For some reason it is easy for me to read people easily, even strangers. I only read people if I take curiosity. Other than that, people aren't my business and I have no reason to know who someone is or how they think about themselves.
If someone ever asked me what this person thinks of them is wouldn't say anything other than "find out yourself, ask the person what they think of you. Problem solved."
If they asked me who this person is and the details I'll just say "easy, be friends with the person and you've got your answer."
I have no interest in anyone or even genders since they act all the same in their own ego. Some people may but it's rare to see the free people who don't even care how people think of them or if they are bullied.
Those are the only people that catches my curiosity. Though not in a love way just in curiosity. Other than that people in my school is just jerks and only shove their problems to mines.
Playing with your shoe is definitely a sign that it doesn't fit correctly. The shoe is uncomfortable.
Becca B lol
nai nai it could have been a gift? 🤷🏻♀️
Many readings of body language can have more then one reason. They're not all black and white. Someone could be crossing their arms because they're are physically cold but not closed off. Covering the mouth can also mean they are not confident speaking. The direction a leg is crossed can change not because they aren't interested in you anymore but because they had their legs crossed towards you so long it became physically uncomfortable and they had to switch directions. Sigmund Freud pointed this out with his famous line "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar".
Covering of the mouth or crossing of the legs could mean bad odor.
I thought the exact same thing, I kind of gave up half way through the video because of this. I’m glad other people know this too 🙌🏻
Good points, and I wonder if this video was even based on any evidence based research.
Yea, this video is such a steaming pile of horse$#!t 😣
DoomFinger511 u are just amazing to debunk and show a new light on these theories. Bravo 👏 Have u studied psychology?
I always cross my arms. It's more comfortable for me instead of just standing there with my arms down.
Ginger the Espeon embarassing, but i cross my arms when im trying to show off my pecs... it makes my chest look super buff, and draws attention to it as well... yeah, lame
I do it to look intimidating
Ginger the Espeon I do that because its also comfortable and sometimes it means I'm cold. And teachers always ask me if I am mad or something lol
Ginger the Espeon same and it makes me feel less awkward
jaybull fan b same me everytime waiting for turns when forget to bring phone with..
hmm, the cartoon guy had his arms crossed throughout the video. What could he have been IMPLYING lol
scott mccowan editing would be hard
I know- :p
Yup irritated something
Or he was keeping distance from the audience to sound more professional, like a doctor :)
scott mccowan day made 😂
When I rest my face on my hand it’s because I’m about to fall asleep in class 😂
*type a in the chat to say "same"*
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100th like.
Same 😂😂😂
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You made a mistake. When someone covers his mouth while talking its because they are aware they have bad breath.
April Paine that's why I do it. 👍
or badly alligned teeth
Or they have yellow teeth
DEAD😂💀
April Paine it is both but I agree
“20+ psychology tricks to read anyone like a book”
If someone does “this” it has many different reasons.
But if someone does “that” it also has many different reasons.
The meaning of “this” gesture depends on the situation
While the meaning of “that” gesture could mean “this”, but it could also mean “that”.
What I took away from this video is that every gesture, posture, handshake, movement, etc. has so many different meanings that you’ll need the CliffsNotes to the so-called book that you’re trying to read.
You can read someone by their hands
For example if they are holding a gun they are angry
Or if their fist is coming towards your face quickly they are also angry
Just because someone is holding a gun doesn't mean they're angry.
@@tallen3251 sarcasm level..SAVAGE
Did you copy the comment above or did they copy yours?
On 66 to
I Speak Sarcasm they copied the other comment
I know my parents are angry is when their holding a hanger or belt
😂😂
Lol, dang that's tough
a hanger??
😂😂😂
😂
You blinked 23 times a minute are you trying to attract someone mr cartoon man?
23 likes lol
Mr. cartoon man 😂😂
Bro
Good one
lol good one, well said
What about showing the middle finger
Middle finger means f***
"I like you...NOT"
You've got your arms crossed
Edit:Thanks for the likes
i felt uncomfortable now (when it supposed to be comfortable)
Thanks for the likes everyone
Night Fury
I'm sorry
I have a comment about eye contact: I agree with the examples given for eye contact and would add that someone avoiding eye contact are likely to be uncomfortable because of social anxiety for a number of reasons. Though I want to add that intentional long-lasting eye contact with other positive gestures or a positive conversation can be an intentional way of having a deeper connection; it is like peering into each-others' soul looking into the depths within. The connection (with interactive/reactive content) only happens when both people allow the other "in" and both intentionally allow this connection.
I cover my mouth so people don’t see the food in my mouth while I talk lel
Buddyboomboom me tooo
And when I laugh a lot
OMG SAME
Buddyboomboom one shouldn't talk with a mouthful .
DON'T TALK WITH FOOD IN YOUR MOUTH
I don't keep eye contact because of anxiety.
Aero Zaxton Same here bro !
Aero Zaxton same here Aero, your not alone
Same here
I just pretend to do eye contact even tho Im scared to look into someone's eyes.
Anxiety about what?
I don't keep eye contact.
My limit is like 5 seconds i feel very uncomfortable with eye contact.
Alex King
Same.
Wan Udyn
Thanks I'll try this 😁
I see it as an engage to a conversation or some other interaction. Avoid it if I can't be bothered
Same
Alex King ...just close your eyes and you’ll disappear
That animated guy was definitely blinking more than 10 times a minute...
Around 14
someone blinking a lot may also be a sign of eye problems
Chibi-Angi ikr. My eyes are often dry
or tourettes
Or being surprised lol, when I get told something I don't expect I usually blink my eyes a lot to try to "come back into reality"
i need some eyedrops
😂 😂
All this went out the window with the invention of smart phones. If you're bored, stare at your phone. If you're nervous, stare at your phone. If you're lying, stare at your phone. If you're uncomfortable, stare at your phone. It you're disinterested in someone, stare at your phone. If you're interested is someone, state at your phone. The default jesture for everything is stare at your phone!
This, absolutely this. For the win. I’m gonna go back to staring at my phone since I’m thrilled right now someone realized this.
Spelling error ahhhhhhhh
In high school this is what I see
Genius!!
you my friend can read people
According to #6 the animated dude DID NOT want to narrate today😂😂😂😂
Good point.
😂😂😂
Indeed
oh frick sorry, I got you to 666 likes
Armyyyyyyy 😅😅💜💜💜
You nice keep going 👍☺️
Wait, the blonde guy is crossing his arms, does that mean that he's frustrated and or feels uncomfortable?
Conspiracy theories.
What're you hiding, sir...?
TIMESTAMPS
Closing their eyes 0:45
Covering their mouth 1:00
Chewing on their glasses 1:26
“Presenting” their face 1:52
Rubbing their chin 2:16
Crossed arms 2:34
Fixing their posture 3:02
Leaning forward 3:22
Leaning back 3:50
Swinging from their heels to their toes 4:14
Rubbing their hands 4:37
The "glove" handshake 4:59
A handshake with the palm facing the floor vs ceiling 5:29
Cupping someone’s hands during a handshake 5:57
A handshake with a touch 6:25
Fixing their tie 7:09
Collecting imaginary lint 7:30
Putting their feet on the desk 7:50
Mounting a chair like a horse 8:11
Playing with their shoe 8:35
Eye contact 8:57
Avoiding eye contact 9:34
Unbroken staring 9:50
A lot of blinking 10:16
That guy through the whole video looks a lot like me.
I don't know why don't u get comments
BRIGHT SIDE good
Thanks for the informations
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The HOST HAS CROSSED HIS ARMS BCUZ HE IS NOT INTERESTED 😂😂😂
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When I look down while talking to someone it's because I'm feeling shy and charmed.
KumaJoey its becuz you wont that D. Dont lie😉
Which psychological approach we use depends on what the other person is doing! Knowledge is power.
Thanks for listing the hidden meanings of common gestures and postures. I bet they will be very useful.
I was raised in a military family and been around military personnel a good portion of my life, so the crossing arms thing is extremely natural to me; I’ve always used that gesture as a “I plan on sticking around and talking a while” sign.
Also, if someone is adjusting their tie in the presence of Darth Vader, it probably means they’re in the process of being choked.
On the contrary, when I rest my face on my hand it's because I'm borderline falling asleep.
Diana Campbell but for the girls
im a girl and i do it for the same reason
i need to sleep all the time honestly ;u;
It depends on the situation.
Diana Campbell
That too. It's a huge list. Not always accurate.
I tend to give a "death stare" to fakes and folks who try to play me lol. It works the majority of the time. And from that point , they avoid me.
aww me too!!
Do a death stare to sales clerks when you're at a shop.
Smile then say I'm just looking ... Then go back to death stare... Until they leave.
Jazmine Lamont I give a "death stare" to everyone. It's my resting face.
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Ghost Same lol
This is something I've learned to not take for granted. I used to assume that everyone naturally was very intuitive when it comes to what others are thinking or feeling. But a couple boyfriends later, I know that not everyone naturally has this ability built in.
“Chair is not a horse” Kudos.
Hahahahha
Oh my gosh! I couldn’t believe it! My life is a lie!
I rest my hand on my face cuz its more comfortable.. not that im trying to get attention like
facepalm is probably then the most comfortable gesture ever xD
vovan1989 Yes😂
same
Sophie Jones It's on your subconscious
That's what you think. It's your subconscious speaking, listen to it
In some cultures looking in someone's eyes is a form of disrespect
Marjorie Thomas interesting
Thank you, african culture.
Don't forget it also means to challenge a fight
Kenny Leone what are you talking about?
Keïta Teferi when someone elderly is talking to you especially if they are scolding you, looking them in the eye is a form of disrespect in africa but in england looking away is disrespectful. Struggled with that growing up.
when i’m chewing on my glasses i’m just zoned out😂
Chewing gum in the mouth means anxiety? No problem put it in your nose and nobody will expect a thing.
Card Dunce XD LOL
Exactly I agree with you
I like the taste of my glasses.
Put it behind your ear
Or maybe…
1. Closing their eyes - when I didn’t get enough sleep
2. Covering their mouth - when I yawn
3. Chewing on their glasses - never.
4. Presenting their face - when there’s nothing to rest my head on
5. Rubbing their chin - nope.
6. Crossed arms/ Rubbing their hands - when I’m cold
7. Fixing their posture - I always try to sit with a straight back
Unbroken staring - maybe there’s something on your face
A lot of blinking - when my eyes are dry
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you'r ri8.....theres nothing like that as they say.
Too add to this for anyone reading body language, different gestures can have multiple meanings. So to get accurate results, you have to think of each gesture as a word. From there you continue to do so until those words makes sentences. It’s the combination of words and sentences that gives an accurate reading, not individual words.
yes - it is the whole cluster of gestures that you need to look at..
#04. "Presenting" their face
omg my crush always does that everytime he stares at me.
Ashley George so its been 3 months,is she/he your bf/gf now??
@@triplowski.1036 it's been 8 montjs
its already 9 months..... are u a mom
so what happened ?
does he still stare u ?
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*A CHAIR IS NOT A HORSE*
I feel awkward hugging people so I head but them instead
Richard Morton ha! That's funny
And....
They like it?
Reminds me of that guy that head-butted tony Abbott that one time.
I thought everyone headbutted people ._.
Thanks now I don't have to hug people during events or if I'm leaving
i cross my arms because its comfortable and i don't like my hands in free fall deadhang but i also like to lean back because its comfortable, if i don't like a conversation then i will just change the subject or leave with an outro like "gotta go" or "bye" so yeah i just do whats comfortable.
Wait, isn’t everyone going to change their body language because of this so that no one knows how they feel?🧐
i don't want other people to read me, that's why i always cross my arms. i know i'm weird.
No, it is the power of a subconscious mind.. It is psychology. They will most probably not change.
I look at these but then forget every single thing they said when I'm actually in these situations.
Ris Moody, how do you interpret if a lady is posed with her two hands on her wàist most of the time?
Gil Oribello Most Probably Confidence. Hands on the hips is generally something only confident people do. Sometimes people in minor positions of power, like shift managers, do this all the time. Not really sure why, just something ive noticed.
Mah brother😂😂😂😂😂
lol! same here
This was a great video!! Please do one about "how to know if someone is lying" or upset, or in love! Thanks!!
We, as human beings are Electrically powered. From Brain to Muscles, and back, thru nerves via electrical energy.
Each of us operate on a very personal Frequency., just as either a persons finger print and or, their DNA.
When we come in contact with another person, if the frequencies are in "Tune" the connection is comfortable, then we have harmony, two frequencies, even tho' not the same, they work well together.
Then there are people that we just can't get along with, because something is just out of tune.
This seems to be working on a very sub-conscience level, like reading body language.
This brings to mind the 1960's sayings of being in the right "vibe" or "in tune" with ones surroundings.
me: *casually chews on glasses*
this video: SHES TRYING TO REMEMBER WHEN HER MOM BREASTFED HER 😂
Underrated comment 🤣🤣🤣 this took me by total suprise
Why do I give this channel views
Idk why do u, only u can answer that
Its another psychological thing that they are applying
yea, like playing feel good music and when you put down your guard they casually ask you to like and subscribe.
dobbz _ ikr
@@nazgull3001 I know right? Such criminals! Playing with out feelings! We should..... Oh wait, so sweet music, sweet video, there's a subscription button? Is it a candy? I want candy! Oh wait what I am saying.... I AM MANIPULATED! SEND HELP! 112!
Guy talks about crossed arms .relise that the cartoon has crossed arms
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meowzerz broz its spelled Relize
2:05
No, my head is tired...
Bright side: *loosening their tie means they are uncomfortable or they like someone*
Me: he needs air because his tie is too tight?
If a girl runs at you, douses you in gasoline and sets you on fire then runs around in circle yelling incoherent gibberish... she might be crazy. So pay attention!
Imagine you walking while chewing a gum and suddenly someone hugs you and say don't worry 😂
So inaccurate LOL, I cross my arms all the time when I talk to people and it's just because it's a position I'm comfortable with when I don't know what to do with my arms. Doesn't mean I'm bothered when people talk to me, people can talk to me even if I cross my arms.
i cross my arms too, or if i'm wearing a hoodie or something with pockets i usually put my hands in them
I like your voice😍. So, chilling and easy to understand tone😊.
You forgot one more thing for the lack of eye contact thing: it's also a sign of being on the autism spectrum.
I have realized that due to my aspergers (I know its technically ASD now) people have made assumptions about me due to my lack of eye contact.
It is uncomfortable and causes me to feel very anxious, we can force ourselves occasionally but not for very long.
I think it's ridiculous that you are socially unacceptable if you can't stare directly at peoples faces for long periods of time. Its just weird to me....
Also, the US is one of the only countries that considers lack of eye contact rude, did you know its actually considered rude in China?
Interesting reply :)
midnight rain Agreed 100% I experience the same issues along with stuttered and higher registered speech. I avoid eye contact in a public situation so much I don't even notice. I think in the new age of things, people are coming around and taking notice that people aren't doing that intentionally.
It's not a sign of being autistic, or having Asperger's. Avoiding eye contact is also hypothesized as a behavioral trait to manage stress. Making eye contact with only those you are indeed comfortable with and know/trust.
Or not showing what you feel with someone you don't know, or distrust
I don't make eye contact when having talks with people about things that requires a lot of thinking. I focus away from people's faces so I don't get distracted by their body language.
Also a thing that when you are in group like : classroom, playground,etc. You unwillingly stare at someone and you can't take eyes off from that person means that you have started grewing feelings for that person or it can be that you are checking on that person or curious about that person.
I stare at clocks. Guess I don’t have the ability to love
Brightside forgot one thing about blinking too.
If someone is blinking A LOT it usually means they are very tired.
Or something is in their eye
Bad dum ts.
Or, they idolize Nancy Pelosi.
another jojo reference
I think the best advice would be dont over analyse, dont over think just be your good self and only do things with good intentions. Sometimes keeping it simple reliefs a lot of the stress and worry people put on themselves when they try to learn too much about things.
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Now the lizard people know all of our secrets.
Not all of them they still don't know we can't breath underwater
Oh uh, yeah, that, uh, what was that again? I'm totally not a lizard person, you know, I just forgot, cause, that would be crazy, right! So why can't yo- we breath under water?
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OMG LOL THE ADVENTURES OF GOD
I, uh... Forgot... They brainwashed me
For me, when I cross my arms I'm actually happy to be there or calm
Some of these tips work some of the times, which is why it's advised today by many body language readers to read signs collectively rather than basing a reading off one. For instance, arms crossed can also mean a person is feeling cold and needs a jacket, or it's just a way to feel more comfortable for them in that posture. However, arms crossed with no eye contact or smile and feet pointing away definitely means an opposing view or feeling.
If I person who eyes keep moving around during conversation, they give you eye contact but look away after, it's either they trying to avoid the conversation or they're shy.
or they have a crush on you.
So let me see if I get this straight.
You aren't supposed to avoid eye contact.
You aren't supposed to maintain eye contact.
But now you're not even supposed to look away at times?!?
I'm so confused as to how to go about this.
The only thing true about this video is that the chair isn't a horse.
Oooooh, that would explain why my horse doesn't move around much.... I thought he was just sick.
Yes it is, if I want it to be. I call the chair/horse "Trigger," which is apparently what this dude has done to a few people here. XD
That explains why old sally isn't eating and is way older then most horses such insight
What do you now about psychology that opposes these facts?
4:36 Excellent. Release the hounds.
Good one 😂
OMG IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO UNDERSTAND THIS JOKE BUT WHEN I DID I READ IT IN BURNS'S VOICE 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHA 😂😂
David Abraham omg that is so funny LOL!!
Oh, I GET IT NOW!
I lean back to get comfy and into the conversation, normally means I’m thinking more at that point.
If I lie I laugh or smile and if I tell truth I keep a straight face like this
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Salmina M tf wrong with you man atleast ask me out to dinner first
Gamerz are u mad
Me too
Beep beep ima car
Mines the opposite 😂
I use "presenting my face" to emphasize sarcasm. Thanks Gene Wilder!
I feel like a lot of these signs mentioned can also be miss read , we aften sometimes do thing by not realizing, due to nervousness or various reasons , this is really helpful information that I'll definitely take advantage of . Thank you
“Crossed arms=frustrated” *keeps talking figures arms crossed*
I was rubbing my hands when I was about to get into a fight in school.
Maybe people close there eyes because they are blinking
Ahmad Ali, and who chews on their glasses, seriously.
No people close eyes because they are sleeping
It’s different in different countries
Isak C yes
Isak C yh in Nigeria cupping someones hands show that you are trying to show respect to someone older than u
David Ohaegbulam HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
Isak C bruh😐
David Ohaegbulam bruh?
When I want to show to people that I trust them, I tilt my head slightly. It shows that you trust someone and sometimes that you are asking for their trust in return
When someone is smiling and talking at the same time that means that he or she is attracted to you , once this happened to me and I was completely shocked.
How about reading my own comment and liking it too.
FRANTIC I do that too! XD
Same
I do it
I do
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I've watched a few of these Pop Psych Vids...on my day off...tough work weekend...You are very insightful...!! Thanks, JS.
#1 is definitely nonsense, I often close my eyes or look away when I am listening as intently as possible to somebody's words.
Ye, i do the same
Blitherer Masterman AVERAGE person, not everyone. Outliers exist.
Blitherer Masterman only a few people can do that
Blitherer Masterman IKR
Chewing the glasses 👍👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌👌👌👌😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Arafat Kazi lol hahaha,.
Lol
I thought I was the only one who did that, guess I was wrong!
"Still trying to butch up while chewing on your glasses"
Brian Griffin
There's this girl and I think she likes me but I have trouble reading her signs, we've been dating for 2 years but who knows I'll wait for a sign.
What is her signs?
She's probably cancer ♋
Wait u don't know if she likes you but I've been dating for 2 years hmmm
Eye contact and a friendly smile will most of the time make more people trusting and open. Watching someone feet or looking to see where they are pointed will let you know if they are listing or interested in you. They say laughter is go for the soul for a reason. It helps to loosen tension and makes people feel more connected. Body language is easy to read if you just put yourself in the other person's perspective.