TIMESTAMPS Gripping your arm behind your back 0:43 Crossing your ankles 1:04 Clasping your hands 1:33 Elbows on the table and fingers laced together 1:54 Slouching 2:18 Smirking 2:44 A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to 3:10 Hands on your hips 3:44 A hitch-hiker’s thumb 4:11 Clenched fists 4:36 A hand covering your mouth 5:06 Shaking your finger at someone 5:32 Pointers that’ll help you leave a good impression of yourself 5:50
I’m the expressionless type so I can only laugh with my lips opening only a little I need to cross my fingers and put it on the table to concentrate I can constantly look at a persons eyes for more than a minute until he or she does what I want them to do
Gosego Kamfwa Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day. From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
Kladza - Thank you! There are exceptions to every single one of these “suggestions”. Why not go into the really interesting body language of lying vs telling the truth vs looking for the correct/proper way to express something? Much more helpful than these. Be well & keep that eagle-eye open! Jet 🧡🎸🎶⚡️🦇
Asiya AR Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day. From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
You know, this video fails to point out that every gesture shouldn't be read so much into. For example, I have a habit of crossing my arms when someone is telling me something. It's just something I do to tell my body not to make a move and actually pay attention to what is being said to me. It helps me think more because my arms act as a sort of 'blockade', so that I do not act or respond until I have processed all information and actually considered my options carefully.
This is one of very few advice videos that's nearly uncontroversial. The top comments usually bash the video, but I can't find any this time! Great job with this video!
Blue Dragon Always look someone in the eye when talking. If you have a hard time doing that look at them between their eyebrows. They won’t be able to tell...
Please don't believe any of this BS. The messages that people send with body language are a totality of the positioning and movements of all parts of their bodies and faces. These gestures alone have no definitive or single meaning. Also, the relationship between two individuals will alter how body language is intended and interpreted.
A body language you also shouldn't do: Grab your arm with one hand makes you look uncomfortable, shy and, uninterested in talking to someone. It also looked like something bad has happened. Putting all your fingers against each other is also a sign of shyness and timidity. Or tapping your index finger against the other index finger, which is fidgeting.
My fiancé doesn’t believe in body language and yet he shows many of the things you have displayed. Very interesting facts. Thank you for proving my point. Happy Holidays to you all.
12. Gripping your arm behind your back; 11. Crossing your ankles; 10. Clasping your hands; 09. Elbows on the table and fingers laced together; 08. Slouching; 07. Smirking; 06. A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to; 05. Hands on your hips; 04. A hitch-hiker's thumb; 03. Clenched fists; 02. A hand covering your mouth; 01. Shaking your finger at someone.
Hi Bright Side , if you would like to could you make a video about sport like athletics . How to improve your speed or brain to do the sport better . I'm just love your videos and love to learn . Thanks !
great info, I was raised to watch my moms eyes for approval and sometimes body language, regardless of what she says, I must respond to the eye or body language, because she doesn't want us accepting anything from anyone, friend or stranger.
TIMESTAMPS Gripping your arm behind your back 0:43 Crossing your ankles 1:04 Clasping your hands 1:33 Elbows on the table and fingers laced together 1:54 Slouching 2:18 Smirking 2:44 A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to 3:10 Hands on your hips 3:44 A hitch-hiker’s thumb 4:11 Clenched fists 4:36 A hand covering your mouth 5:06 Shaking your finger at someone 5:32 Pointers that’ll help you leave a good impression of yourself 5:50
Cross your hands at your wrists, or have your hands clasped without the fingers laced. Stand with weight on one leg predominantly. Move your hands animatedly during conversation, but never toward your partner. All of these are welcoming and show a more at-ease conversationalist
Romeo Raizada Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day. From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
swiftierunner .89 yeap..it is 'on me' and I'm not ashamed of it. once you have a larger person in your life, they draw you down to their depression level and it's not healthy for anyone. people will always judge with their eyes first. it's human nature.
Needless restrictive rules. This stuff will change over time. Be yourself and learn what works instead of following rules with no experiential or empirical origin.
the BIG Tech Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day. From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
This is a REALLY EXCELLENT GUIDE to UNDERSTANDING BODY LANGUAGE!💜❤️💗I am a Psychologist and it’s all very very important in my best helping patients and best communicating with them! It’s truly an ART that needs clarity and to be brought back into general public life-skills ALL OVER AGAIN! 💜❤️💗Wonderful Thank you!!
Be yourself don't fool yourself, at the end of the day you are what you are so do the things you love if a person love you has to accept what you are, even you do all this things it doesnt mean negative it give a diff meaning to a people who judge you their not you be real don't be blinded by this system teaching you to nothingness and wasting your time....
After that video I am afraid to move my hands/body. 😂 Oh come on! Nobody is thinking all these! You said all the gestures. So..which one is the perfect? To cut our hands?
Cally Stone Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day. From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
Cally Stone im pretty sure im less attractive cause I did all of them before you shouldn't say that about yourself tho because I'm the less attractive one like less lessssss
While attending college in 1987 body language was a big part of a human resources class that was required. This is 1 reason I find "people watching" entertaining.
People who have arms, need a place to put them. An angry look, the finger, a fist, a real gun, a knife, these are threatening. Anyone who takes the time to analyze every move and posture is a sick individual. I can tell all of these without the analysis. Mostly, this is just bovine fecal matter, and with that I am moving on to a useful site.
Its crazy they give meaning to all of this as a negative signs 😔 i talk sometimes with my hands in my pocket when i feel cold outside ory hands on the table because im interested to listen and now i know it negative sign 😅
Interesting video that was very insightful. However, in future I, and I think many people, would appreciate it if you quoted sources in the description. Still, I enjoy the content 👌
"Just bring to mind any happy moment from your life that makes you smile everytime you think about it." Never thought such an easy task would be so difficult.
This isn't even true in the US. For example, hands in pocket just shows more casual "ness" and holding your arm behind your back can show your shy. 90% of this is BS and is just fake as heck. Poor them, trying to look professional.
So according to you I’m always angry and lying. I always grip my arm behind my back because I’m fidgety and I do’s it when I get nervous not angry. I cross my ankles because I have a bad balance and I sway when I stand in place. What does that have to do with lying? Thanks a lot Brightside! You really know how to make me look bad. 😂😐
The Don Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day. From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
When I see someone with gripping their hands behind their back, crossing their ankles, hands in their pocket, clasping their hand, elbows on the table fingers laced together, hand reaching toward me, hands on their hips,hitch hiker's thumb, or hand covering their mouth I'm not the least bit offended or not want to be with that person. So why would they feel negative toward me if I subconsciously did those things.
Regarding the comment about tilting the head when istening. I find that when I'm being told something that I consider interesting and useful then I naturally tilt my head, and I give the person who is talking a slightly sideways look. I point both my ears and eyes towards them.
When avoiding the fonts and doing the do where should your hands be. Seems like the do’s are mostly focused on the face so what should you do with your hands so they aren’t doing a dont?
I perceive that most of this, except for the obvious, which one can discern, is for those who want to pursue and work with a high-level management system. There are too many technicalities regarding this; akin to a musician who knows all the notes and chords but cannot make it flow from the fingers. A good mentor would help. My long experience with body language and psychology as a denizen in various parts of the world, that sometimes, good things in certain cultures make a less positive impact in other nations. Ironically, A good thing in one may offend in another. To turn the other cheek: necessitates finding a fortified foundation, change the angle -- and bring the Vaseline!
People can be so judgemental towards someone just because they didn'tsmile 'correctly'. I prefer to see people in what they do in their lives, their real actions, charities, kindness, love, caring attitudes and not focus on their body behaviour.
Maybe I should just stand or sit like a robot ..everyone have that personality that they are attracted to 😤 it's good to express how you feel at times okay👍
I've seen some people with this body language gesture: Walking with their hands in their pants' pockets I'm sure this is a negative, but what's the meaning?
So when I have my hand over my mouth it actually is saying "I am listening to listen not respond or what you are saying is shocking". Also tilting my head is saying " I can relate or I empathize with you". Really the only point in this video I can agree with is pointing. If you want to be attractive be your self and sincere with your body language as well as your words. If you are focusing so much on what you are doing you aren't focusing on the other person.
I sometimes cover my mouth, not while I'm talking, but to show I'm listening while others are talking. The extra advantage is that when you finally take that hand away, it’s a strong signal that you're going to respond.
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TIMESTAMPS
Gripping your arm behind your back 0:43
Crossing your ankles 1:04
Clasping your hands 1:33
Elbows on the table and fingers laced together 1:54
Slouching 2:18
Smirking 2:44
A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to 3:10
Hands on your hips 3:44
A hitch-hiker’s thumb 4:11
Clenched fists 4:36
A hand covering your mouth 5:06
Shaking your finger at someone 5:32
Pointers that’ll help you leave a good impression of yourself 5:50
Seriously....
No more interrview will happen... only sees the gestures
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Hi
why is the majority in this video women? is it more important for women to be attractive than men?
So basically just cut off my arms.
Andre Pinnock haha😂😂😂
Andre Pinnock. Yeah! I got that too! Lol
Yeah! And I actually started wondering where to put my arms or hands instead. 😂
👍🏻
Andre Pinnock or maybe a straight jacket 😆
I guess I'll just lay down emotionless as not to offend anyone
I’m the expressionless type so I can only laugh with my lips opening only a little
I need to cross my fingers and put it on the table to concentrate
I can constantly look at a persons eyes for more than a minute until he or she does what I want them to do
Hehe!
😁 😁
That'd still offend someone lol.
👍😂😂😂😂😂
clicked on this out of curiosity, but then I realized that the only people who are unattractive are those who judge others based on how they pose.
Who watchs and reads comments
Gosego Kamfwa Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄
Gosego Kamfwa Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
Astrolabe ok
+Gosego Kamfwa
Me, all the time.
What do you mean
as someone who studied psychology, i can tell you this is so wrong
Kladza : what do you mean? Can you explain please
Kladza - Thank you! There are exceptions to every single one of these “suggestions”. Why not go into the really interesting body language of lying vs telling the truth vs looking for the correct/proper way to express something? Much more helpful than these. Be well & keep that eagle-eye open! Jet 🧡🎸🎶⚡️🦇
me too, its so dumb what the bright side says about things like this, es ist sheiss
Kladza yeah most this stuff seemed completely wromg
This channel is most of the times wrong :) They just trying to talk about so wide spectrum of things with no real professional knowledge.
By watching this video I can conclude that I am not attractive.😂😥
Asiya AR Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
Asiya AR lol
Asiya AR don't think that of yourself everyones attractive
Asiya AR no your wrong cuz you are very attractive.
same
How the heck should i pose then!!!!!!
Ocean Days 😂
stand at attention maybe lol
Ikr
T-pose
How the heck should I pose then!!!!!!
You know, this video fails to point out that every gesture shouldn't be read so much into.
For example, I have a habit of crossing my arms when someone is telling me something. It's just something I do to tell my body not to make a move and actually pay attention to what is being said to me. It helps me think more because my arms act as a sort of 'blockade', so that I do not act or respond until I have processed all information and actually considered my options carefully.
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That is quite true, I like the way you think actually
to me that means guarding yourself
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This is one of very few advice videos that's nearly uncontroversial. The top comments usually bash the video, but I can't find any this time! Great job with this video!
Can you please do a video on the opposite of this, like: which body language is really important and we should adapt
Sianeh Johnson :
On the contrary, we CAN LEARN body language tips. Just needs practice to put into use
Watch the full video please
Blue Dragon Always look someone in the eye when talking. If you have a hard time doing that look at them between their eyebrows. They won’t be able to tell...
David Oliveira yeah, what should I do with my hands😂
I'm thinking these may be different for other cultures who agrees?
Your Videos are soo POPULAR in India!
Great Work!!
I can't read body language completely but still i can differentiate between rude and cool
Thank you
Please don't believe any of this BS. The messages that people send with body language are a totality of the positioning and movements of all parts of their bodies and faces. These gestures alone have no definitive or single meaning. Also, the relationship between two individuals will alter how body language is intended and interpreted.
Yes, this vid really is BS. Plus, the animations and voice-over are amateurish & unattractive. Don't listen to these self-proclaimed "experts".
Colleen Riordan are you related to Rick Riordan? Because I love his books!
*casually does almost all of these so far* g r E a t
A body language you also shouldn't do: Grab your arm with one hand makes you look uncomfortable, shy and, uninterested in talking to someone. It also looked like something bad has happened. Putting all your fingers against each other is also a sign of shyness and timidity. Or tapping your index finger against the other index finger, which is fidgeting.
Everyone at my school walks around with their hands in their puffer jackets. We are all unattractive and nervous af 👌😂
My fiancé doesn’t believe in body language and yet he shows many of the things you have displayed. Very interesting facts. Thank you for proving my point. Happy Holidays to you all.
12. Gripping your arm behind your back; 11. Crossing your ankles; 10. Clasping your hands; 09. Elbows on the table and fingers laced together; 08. Slouching; 07. Smirking; 06. A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to; 05. Hands on your hips; 04. A hitch-hiker's thumb; 03. Clenched fists; 02. A hand covering your mouth; 01. Shaking your finger at someone.
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Hi Bright Side , if you would like to could you make a video about sport like athletics . How to improve your speed or brain to do the sport better . I'm just love your videos and love to learn . Thanks !
great info, I was raised to watch my moms eyes for approval and sometimes body language, regardless of what she says, I must respond to the eye or body language, because she doesn't want us accepting anything from anyone, friend or stranger.
TIMESTAMPS
Gripping your arm behind your back 0:43
Crossing your ankles 1:04
Clasping your hands 1:33
Elbows on the table and fingers laced together 1:54
Slouching 2:18
Smirking 2:44
A hand reaching towards the person you're talking to 3:10
Hands on your hips 3:44
A hitch-hiker’s thumb 4:11
Clenched fists 4:36
A hand covering your mouth 5:06
Shaking your finger at someone 5:32
Pointers that’ll help you leave a good impression of yourself 5:50
So what shall we do?? Just be in attention position???
Pradip Kumar Borah Sometimes in a stand at ease position for relaxing 😂😂😂
Just copy the eyes, the smile, sit on your hands!
Cross your hands at your wrists, or have your hands clasped without the fingers laced. Stand with weight on one leg predominantly. Move your hands animatedly during conversation, but never toward your partner. All of these are welcoming and show a more at-ease conversationalist
pretend you are singing your National anthem hand over heart standing at attention,singing LOL
Pradip Kumar Borah 🤣🤣🤣
I can't be anymore unattractive
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Romeo Raizada Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄
Romeo Raizada Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
Astrolabe you are doing good. Keep it up. I hope you will grow rapidly.
Body language depends upon the situation.we may not be conscious always.some times it depends upon the genes too.
I don’t think it depends on genes it might depended on the environment u lived in not genre :/
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Personality is what matters the most not your looks. you never judge a book by its cover📙🚫😀
swiftierunner .89 ok cool
It's easy to say that, because people tend to judge ones by his or her looks first... cause that's what we see in the first place
I judge a 'a book by it's cover' and I'm usually right. Who in their right mind asks a 300 pound person to go hiking for the afternoon? !
Sonja Williams well thats you're way of thinking so ....thats on you.
swiftierunner .89
yeap..it is 'on me' and I'm not ashamed of it. once you have a larger person in your life, they draw you down to their depression level and it's not healthy for anyone. people will always judge with their eyes first. it's human nature.
Needless restrictive rules. This stuff will change over time. Be yourself and learn what works instead of following rules with no experiential or empirical origin.
Best way to solve all this video gestures problem, cut off both arms at the shoulders...boom! You're 200% more attractive now!
AJ Jay your q
Very good video, most of the things I knew, but also learned some other pointers on body language. Thank you! :)
hands on hips is an indication of "keep away from me" often seen in a football match, when an opposing team score a goal.
Now this is what’s called judgement, it’s best to just learn the person, because guessing can be so bad!!
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Im an Indian
the BIG Tech Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
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ugh so i basically have to fake more stuff and show emotion
Shottoru Just be yourself
TheAtm12345 that isn't the point of body language. you have to "fake it" so that people will understand your body language.
This is a REALLY EXCELLENT GUIDE to UNDERSTANDING BODY LANGUAGE!💜❤️💗I am a Psychologist and it’s all very very important in my best helping patients and best communicating with them! It’s truly an ART that needs clarity and to be brought back into general public life-skills ALL OVER AGAIN! 💜❤️💗Wonderful Thank you!!
I have habit of tilting my head while talking to someone. But l do this because it comforts my neck.
Be yourself don't fool yourself, at the end of the day you are what you are so do the things you love if a person love you has to accept what you are, even you do all this things it doesnt mean negative it give a diff meaning to a people who judge you their not you be real don't be blinded by this system teaching you to nothingness and wasting your time....
After that video I am afraid to move my hands/body.
😂
Oh come on! Nobody is thinking all these!
You said all the gestures. So..which one is the perfect? To cut our hands?
hhhhhhhh
Joanna _ lol
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Same I don’t care I about what gestures I have to do to look attractive I’m not remembering these I guess just cut your arms off
Sir really minute details of body language discussed. Thanks for that.
I don't care what others think about me😅😅
BM SHAIK creations yeah......i will think about it.......😊😊
Positivity is the answer
TheAtm12345 Exactly i do agree with u
Sameee
same
please share any video about feeling confident or while on the stage feeling relaxed and confident
But I’m not attractive…
Like at all😂😂
Cally Stone Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
There's someone for everyone just be patient
Cally Stone im pretty sure im less attractive cause I did all of them before you shouldn't say that about yourself tho because I'm the less attractive one like less lessssss
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Cally Stone 😜
Thank you for these best Gestures points
I say do whatever the f*** you want people are going to have opinions of you anyways nice or not.
Rain River ---EXACTLY opinions are like azzholes everybody's got one ;) so be yourself and say f^@k it
Nice.
I do most of these things so that I can get to know the real person
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Oh no i do a lot of these, especially the hands in pockets, although mostly back pockets as opposed to front ones
Ironically the “more attractive” people are obviously models. I could do without the cheese-ball smiling.
While attending college in 1987 body language was a big part of a human resources class that was required. This is 1 reason I find "people watching" entertaining.
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They dont deserve it lol
Thank you for sharing this vedio .. now I know
People who have arms, need a place to put them. An angry look, the finger, a fist, a real gun, a knife, these are threatening. Anyone who takes the time to analyze every move and posture is a sick individual. I can tell all of these without the analysis. Mostly, this is just bovine fecal matter, and with that I am moving on to a useful site.
Its crazy they give meaning to all of this as a negative signs 😔 i talk sometimes with my hands in my pocket when i feel cold outside ory hands on the table because im interested to listen and now i know it negative sign 😅
I dont think the persons I like analyse my body language everytime I talk to them.... this is BS😂
Exactly
Yeah but they do it unconsciously
Info very worth knowing.
Love you bright side
Wow interesting notions 😊👍
Interesting video that was very insightful. However, in future I, and I think many people, would appreciate it if you quoted sources in the description. Still, I enjoy the content 👌
"Just bring to mind any happy moment from your life that makes you smile everytime you think about it." Never thought such an easy task would be so difficult.
This seems tobe US motivated.
In Europe many of these a gestures are quite normal and used daily.
And not considered rudeness
This isn't even true in the US. For example, hands in pocket just shows more casual "ness" and holding your arm behind your back can show your shy. 90% of this is BS and is just fake as heck. Poor them, trying to look professional.
I'm from europe and i find the people here more closed then the US
So according to you I’m always angry and lying. I always grip my arm behind my back because I’m fidgety and I do’s it when I get nervous not angry. I cross my ankles because I have a bad balance and I sway when I stand in place. What does that have to do with lying? Thanks a lot Brightside! You really know how to make me look bad. 😂😐
These are very true and I should get out of some of these bad habits
The Don Hi, can I ask you to give me your opinon about my channel and thank you 😄
The Don Hey ❤️ hope everyone has had a lovely week so far!🙈 you’re an amazing human being 😊 be awesome, and don’t forget to smile 💕, if you’re having any hard times with anything, I just wanted to say... you’re powerful, you’re amazing and you can count on me, so keep trying, have a great day.
From a small youtuber that wants to hit 600 subs ❤️ 💗🙈
Astrolabe I subscribed
Bulshit if you were sarcastic my bad
When I see someone with gripping their hands behind their back, crossing their ankles, hands in their pocket, clasping their hand, elbows on the table fingers laced together, hand reaching toward me, hands on their hips,hitch hiker's thumb, or hand covering their mouth I'm not the least bit offended or not want to be with that person. So why would they feel negative toward me if I subconsciously did those things.
Ok so I’m not attractive when using my arms... ok I’m just not attractive anymore!
Very informative. I enjoy watching all your videos Bright side. Keep them coming!😊😊😊
I do all of these 🤣
Regarding the comment about tilting the head when istening. I find that when I'm being told something that I consider interesting and useful then I naturally tilt my head, and I give the person who is talking a slightly sideways look. I point both my ears and eyes towards them.
Why do you have to be so complicated?
I think that the only way to speak to someone without them being offended is to cutoff your arms.
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I do most of these not because I am in a bad mood,but because they just seem natural
I do no. 12 because Idk where else to put my hands while I’m walking (I feel weird and out of balance when they’re by my side)
I cannot read or understand body languages bt now i know it...thank u
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Excellent Guestures. Thank you
No. 13 middle finger up👆 can't find the emoji.lol.
You mean this 🖕one?? 😉
When avoiding the fonts and doing the do where should your hands be. Seems like the do’s are mostly focused on the face so what should you do with your hands so they aren’t doing a dont?
Place them relaxed, fingers clasped together, behind your back
James W
Thank you for your much appreciated reply. I will remember this in the future.
*I am not alive*
Jaiden Rocha i am from xyz u?😑😑☠
Jaiden Rocha i cant die because i am not alive lool
Me neither
Focal Mind good!
thank you so much for the advice❤
Then how tf do we sit there is nothing left
Sit like a robot
Thank you I really love this video
Don't make eye contact in asia, you'll be rude.
Why do I find this funny?
Also reminds me of not smiling in France. You'll either be seen as a foreigner and become a target or rude as well.
agree
kyoxtohru112 what lol...smiling is rude in France?
whoah news to me
Very good thank you.
What???? I love putting my hands on my hips 🤣
So do I. :D
I do that too so much even
I perceive that most of this, except for the obvious, which one can discern, is for those who want to pursue and work with a high-level management system. There are too many technicalities regarding this; akin to a musician who knows all the notes and chords but cannot make it flow from the fingers. A good mentor would help. My long experience with body language and psychology as a denizen in various parts of the world, that sometimes, good things in certain cultures make a less positive impact in other nations. Ironically, A good thing in one may offend in another. To turn the other cheek: necessitates finding a fortified foundation, change the angle -- and bring the Vaseline!
I don't need people to like me
They already do
desiree fessler I doubt they'd value a weeb.
Speak for yourself
Lucky
People can be so judgemental towards someone just because they didn'tsmile 'correctly'. I prefer to see people in what they do in their lives, their real actions, charities, kindness, love, caring attitudes and not focus on their body behaviour.
I do 11 things from this list around my crush😥
I love your videos with this content here 👍😊
I do all of them up to 8
Then i do 5,4,3,2
me doing all only because I’m socially awkward.. but also me searching up how to look less awkward while doing literally anything
When you realize you do all these things
Playing both hands palms down, relaxed, on the table in front of you is a Positive gesture. Open communication.
Maybe I should just stand or sit like a robot ..everyone have that personality that they are attracted to 😤 it's good to express how you feel at times okay👍
I need these pointers because I work at the front desk. Thank you brightside. 😃👏
"use your eyebrows"… he..that's a usseless advise for someone with BOTOX 😂😂
I've seen some people with this body language gesture:
Walking with their hands in their pants' pockets
I'm sure this is a negative, but what's the meaning?
James W The meaning is that they have their hands in their pockets while walking. I know. . .it's profound, isn't it.
It seems like a closed-off body language, but whatever floats their boat
Well, I'm a sloucher. 🤷🤦
I do a majority of all of those lol. I’m not trying to offend just be comfortable and some of those gestures put me at ease.
The unlikers hold their phones upside down
So when I have my hand over my mouth it actually is saying "I am listening to listen not respond or what you are saying is shocking". Also tilting my head is saying " I can relate or I empathize with you". Really the only point in this video I can agree with is pointing. If you want to be attractive be your self and sincere with your body language as well as your words. If you are focusing so much on what you are doing you aren't focusing on the other person.
Videos that can create neurotic persons... ;D
I sometimes cover my mouth, not while I'm talking, but to show I'm listening while others are talking. The extra advantage is that when you finally take that hand away, it’s a strong signal that you're going to respond.