A Bad Boy Attraction Secret That Good Guys Can Use

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @misanthrop1958
    @misanthrop1958 6 лет назад +1321

    I see now , why I was never successful with women. I made all the mistakes he is talking about. Unfortunately it seems to be too late for me now ( I am almost 60). Well I still have a chance, if reincarnation exists ...

  • @sivan1342
    @sivan1342 6 лет назад +372

    It's even heavier in many cases. I've ignored and didn't gave energy to women who were beautiful (not even knowing) and they ended up chasing me, needy as hell. It's a game of energy

  • @Soturtz
    @Soturtz 5 лет назад +204

    "...and then have a laugh with her about that." This is the bottom line guys

  • @Wuestenwiesel
    @Wuestenwiesel 4 месяца назад +6

    Without a doubt this guy is one of the few dating experts whose advice is not cringy

  • @gainsbourg66
    @gainsbourg66 6 лет назад +521

    Brilliant advice - this guy knows what he's talking about.

  • @atifaboobecker7752
    @atifaboobecker7752 Год назад +10

    1:57, 2:38, 6:32, 7:50, 9:00 also be universally kind to everyone not just specific person

  • @simonvance8054
    @simonvance8054 6 лет назад +365

    A lot of truth in this. I remember I met this really cute woman who I thought was way out of my league. I don't respect stuck up women who use looks as leverage, I will never respect that, period. So I genuinely didn't give a shit and she liked that and became really interested. Good video thanks..

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 5 лет назад +73

    One time I took medicine and fell asleep for 6 hours...
    She blew up my phone texting me 5 times. Each text she was more insecure.... she was a crazy one though.

  • @stefanross8129
    @stefanross8129 3 года назад +16

    Being playfully cocky is also very attractive as a Bad, bad boy.

  • @Arejen03
    @Arejen03 5 лет назад +82

    28 Years Old single no Kids there is hope for me

  • @philmcculla4941
    @philmcculla4941 6 лет назад +88

    Perfect so much sense I noticed when i showed an attractive girl i liked her she fastly lost interest,but when I did total opposite be mean in jokeing way like not want anything it raised her interest

  • @basti_marr
    @basti_marr 6 лет назад +164

    holy shit when he said "I am an I.T nerd, you likes nerds, don't you? you are into nerdy guys aren't you?" it made me smile smile like a girl lmao this guys is goood

  • @arminharper510
    @arminharper510 6 лет назад +91

    I don't know WHY youtube is suggesting videos about relationships and stuff to me today but im happy to have found this guy from my personal experience i agree with almost 100% of what he says

  • @Kristiansp7
    @Kristiansp7 5 лет назад +112

    I feel lucky being 20 years old and already know all this stuff .

  • @blowthewhistle3352
    @blowthewhistle3352 6 лет назад +210

    nice advice don't be no doormat just be you if she ain't feeling it to bad someone else will..

  • @lh2435
    @lh2435 4 года назад +45

    OMG this is so true it almost makes me cry. The idea of a tame guy is SO unattractive. It has nothing do do with not liking honesty, fidelity and fairness but with a limp and lifeless person who follows bc they are too weak to lead.

  • @jlrob85
    @jlrob85 5 лет назад +98

    Dude you’ve cracked the code

  • @keithmorgan4883
    @keithmorgan4883 6 лет назад +445

    You deserve more views

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +89

      Thanks Keith! Hopefully it will happen one day. Imma just keep posting until it does...guys need to know this stuff.

    • @keithmorgan4883
      @keithmorgan4883 6 лет назад +8

      Dan Bacon can you do a video on dating sites and if they work for socially awkward guys

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +41

      Cool - will add it to my list of videos to make. In the meantime: Attracting women online isn't like attracting them in person. Online, women's standards go way up, even if the woman is unattractive or average. If she's hot, then pretty much every guy messages her.

    • @keithmorgan4883
      @keithmorgan4883 6 лет назад +6

      Dan Bacon thanks so much

  • @yourijevriend730
    @yourijevriend730 4 года назад +37

    be a lion, not the prey itself

  • @john-bi9gq
    @john-bi9gq 6 лет назад +18

    You are so spot on Mr Cool. I am now Looking back to my cool days and ways and you have just reinforced things and gotten perspective back for me .

  • @dimashevchenko1360
    @dimashevchenko1360 5 лет назад +28

    These advices give a lot of confidence

  • @mohamedzkr9402
    @mohamedzkr9402 4 месяца назад +1

    It would be great if Dan would have a playlist section regarding marriage situations

  • @Uvray
    @Uvray 6 лет назад +34

    Absolutely spot on, Danno! To illustrate your point let me tell you; I was an ugly ducking. Had no experience with girls through my school years. But I got to 19 and suddenly started getting interest from them left, right and centre. My confidence soared, which meant it was a snowballing effect. I continued getting women. And I mean as I got into my 20s I was getting some very attractive girls. But.... As you say, my lack of early experience meant I became smitten with the beautiful ones. I was like totally in love with them very quickly.
    In every case, becoming too enamoured too soon repelled them. So I learned what you're talking about - and how to deal with it better - the hard way.
    Your advice to some of these younger men tuning into your channel is invaluable.
    Incidentally, having learned what I learned meant I was still pulling great looking women well into my 40s. And no, it's not because I myself am a stunner. I'm not too shabby, but I'm no Brad Pitt. It all comes down to the confidence you talk about in all your vids. You're doing good work, Dan. And the best thing about you is you never espouse being an asshole.

  • @mrporsche4236
    @mrporsche4236 4 года назад +19

    I did all of this in my late teens and early 20s (now im 47) without realizing it.it just seemed normal and natural.i was average looking and i never met anyone that had more girls then me.thats the truth!

  • @maksimspivak
    @maksimspivak 5 лет назад +14

    Right on the point. I figured this out myself through my early years but most of my buddies never did even after they would be told about it. Still stepping on the same rakes next time and then next time...

  • @sumitd500
    @sumitd500 2 года назад

    Brit Gent...you are the most clear, least irritating, & least bs guy I have heard on d tube👍🏼🥇✅

  • @Sir.YeetusIII
    @Sir.YeetusIII 5 лет назад +82

    I told this girl i sold drugs jokingly, she laughed and we talk throughout the whole party... Now if only she was prettier... At least this works, go for it y'all 👌🏼

  • @journeyfan1995
    @journeyfan1995 6 лет назад +286

    Dan your the only legit person in your field :)

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +31

      Thanks Journeyfan - more videos next week!

  • @arjansingh8285
    @arjansingh8285 5 лет назад +12

    Thank u Dan. Your points make sense. Kindly put sub titles too so that those who are not very good at English they also may b smarter. Your efforts are indeed eye opening.

  • @shepherdwarriorKING
    @shepherdwarriorKING 6 лет назад +130

    Yesterday a girl asked me that question and I just avoided saying what I do for a living and if I have kids , when I avoided answering her she suddenly started becoming allot more interestid in her way of speaking to me.

  • @riseup902
    @riseup902 Месяц назад

    This is some really great advice. Definitely I could use this advice to improve my interactions with women

  • @Waymen.
    @Waymen. 6 лет назад +16

    I was too clingy and she began to lose some interest. She still talks to me, but without the same connection we once had. How do I let her know I’ve realized my mistakes. I don’t think telling her directly would be the best thing to do. What should I do?

  • @Dat_Dude_Danny1
    @Dat_Dude_Danny1 5 лет назад +4

    Proud you are also named Daniel, mate! Great video!

  • @Anthony-nq9ih
    @Anthony-nq9ih 5 лет назад +43

    Yoooo😳
    This dude makes hella sense
    Thank you Dan Bacon. I appreciate you Bro

  • @livingurdreams09
    @livingurdreams09 5 лет назад +24

    Dan is a genius.

  • @keepingitrealgoesright1308
    @keepingitrealgoesright1308 6 лет назад +32

    the best in the business, at least from what I’ve seen

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 5 лет назад +11

    What do you do if you just turn red? I turn red when I talk to someone attractive, it’s always been me, even after being in relationships it still happens. How do you get past “red face”? Because that’s a sign of anxiety and weakness. For me I feel like I just can’t control it.

  • @Mx6D
    @Mx6D 6 лет назад +60

    Bro you had me dieing with those responses

  • @dbo1111
    @dbo1111 6 лет назад +111

    Damn wish I found this earlier. Better late than never. Powerful stuff Dan

  • @aten8953
    @aten8953 6 лет назад +18

    When they ask me what I do for a living I say I sell sweet potatoes, that leaves them wondering at what scale, if in a farmers market or I export, I just laugh lol

  • @awakealphachadbro3336
    @awakealphachadbro3336 5 лет назад +27

    So I have subconsciously done this bad boy trick a few times and it honestly works all too well if you do it right. Gotta be careful with this power. Dan is too good at telling dudes how women work. With great power comes great responsibility lol.

  • @MrMastera
    @MrMastera 6 лет назад +139

    Literally yesterday I was putting on my best behaviour while some attractive girls showed a bit of interest in me. I was very curious about why that actually turned them off instead of showing them that I have good intentions about them and so on. Well now I know the answer.
    Make that two bottles, Dan! Sambuca, right? : )

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +18

      Two bottles and counting...haha.

  • @lancechris.2592
    @lancechris.2592 6 лет назад +62

    These videos are getting better each time, keep coming up with great advises.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks Lance! More videos next week.

  • @Daniel-xs6mk
    @Daniel-xs6mk 6 лет назад +107

    Thanks, Dan.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +7

      You're welcome Daniel! More videos next week.

  • @robertcurrey1929
    @robertcurrey1929 4 года назад +3

    I was on a thru-hike and the "where are you from" question is common on trail. I answered this cutie once with "last night, mile 719". yes, it worked

  • @Coolmnky773
    @Coolmnky773 6 лет назад +25

    Dan, any thoughts on which product will be more effective between the Better Than a Bad Boy program and The Flow? If anyone else here has any input, that’d be appreciated as well.

  • @JackedBlack88
    @JackedBlack88 5 лет назад +6

    Excellent video dude. You breal it down in a very clear and concise way that every man can appreciate!

  • @warrenabis6756
    @warrenabis6756 4 года назад +2

    Thanks Dan. That was really useful. Work in progress.

  • @devendratina5839
    @devendratina5839 6 лет назад +15

    This is a gem of a tip ,Thanks baddie ,it totally makes sense n it's true

  • @sonoftheabundantuniverse2552
    @sonoftheabundantuniverse2552 6 лет назад +13

    This dude is genius

  • @simonseth1000
    @simonseth1000 4 года назад +4

    Hey Dan you are a great man best on the net .wish nothing but the best for you. Cheers from the states

  • @TheTuriyain
    @TheTuriyain 6 лет назад +9

    That is the thing , Dan. I will repeat. You are post graduate in woman chemistry. Keep posting. Listened many time.

  • @millermanhal
    @millermanhal Год назад +1

    He is totally right. When I was young I was the bad boy. Had all I could want without effort and woman always chased me. In my 20s I calmed down and it was as easy. Now at 40 I'm confident, successful, and don't give a f@#k. Girls half my age are hitting on me regularly again. Strange fact about attraction but he is so right. Listen and learn boys and you will have alot easier job.

  • @elijahsamlimbaco1091
    @elijahsamlimbaco1091 6 лет назад +5

    Thank You Dan Bacon! Really got a BIG Realization! Thanks Man!

  • @brandontheprizenorwood5797
    @brandontheprizenorwood5797 6 лет назад +10

    Excellent advice. Thanks man.

  • @TheAmbitiousFilms
    @TheAmbitiousFilms 6 лет назад +8

    This is very helpful. It all makes sense. I have been too tame. That’s how I have been taken advantage of. From now on, I don’t have to prove anything to a woman. I’m gonna make them prove themselves to me. No more being trusting

  • @alansamuel2454
    @alansamuel2454 4 года назад +1

    Guys need to watch this. A woman giving advice generally says be nice to her and give her compliments.

  • @ianisawesome778
    @ianisawesome778 4 года назад +7

    When asked what I do for a living, I usually say, "I'm a celebrity horse surgeon. It's just like regular surgery only... You know, on horses."
    If they don't immediately laugh and just look confused, she isn't worth my time.

  • @armonpajouheshnia4837
    @armonpajouheshnia4837 3 года назад

    From today, starting with my date this weekend, I will turn the tables on all women who enter in my life.
    I am a really great guy, strong, confident, good looking but I have hindered myself at moments over the last few years at times with some women in my life at times by
    being too decent, too kind. Be confident, be strong but don't be a pushover, be relaxed, good sense of humour and turn the tables, don't be so serious when they test you
    with their questions. Keep it cool and funny. I realise now that its all about knowing ahead of time how women think and perceive men and their reactions, and no man on
    this Earth is born knowing how women think. No man! Dan has provided this awesome knowledge in this upload, from his life experience with women, his study of women
    and a serious passion for learning in this area, " The Dating Arena ". Experience and having the ability to learn, change, adapt and apply is always the answer.

  • @muzwot9603
    @muzwot9603 5 лет назад +3

    Superb and original example (at 6.00), I'd never thought of it that way.

  • @RJavierYepesDeV
    @RJavierYepesDeV 6 лет назад +7

    Brother you are awesome, you should have more subscribers.....

  • @TheBlueskyson
    @TheBlueskyson 2 года назад

    You right. I work in IT. Lots of bad boys in this industry. ty 4 vid.

  • @Takeonm
    @Takeonm 7 месяцев назад

    This works. When I switched up and became more playful and witty she wanted to meet

  • @TakomaChris
    @TakomaChris 2 года назад

    Good advice and super useful examples - many thanks Dan

  • @Raziel97
    @Raziel97 5 лет назад +9

    Bro you’re legit, subbed and liked. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @najibelaoufi2221
    @najibelaoufi2221 4 года назад +4

    You Are only excellent... keep on Man ! Don't stop .
    Holly shit ! Now I'm on the right path under your wise guidance...

  • @elijahsamlimbaco1091
    @elijahsamlimbaco1091 6 лет назад +12

    Totally a Big Eye Opener!

  • @R83GB
    @R83GB 4 года назад +1

    Good knowledge. Thanx big brother from another mother.
    Keep the good job .thank u.

  • @paulwestwood4417
    @paulwestwood4417 6 лет назад +6

    Thanks for explaining the bad guy thing.

  • @milekrizman
    @milekrizman 5 лет назад +8

    I'm 37. Is it too late?

  • @itaintmebabe714
    @itaintmebabe714 5 лет назад +3

    I hope The Flow has a Cyber Monday deal this year

  • @zaccarrah6159
    @zaccarrah6159 3 года назад +2

    Hey man this video really helped me out a lot!! Thanks boss!!

  • @chriswilliam4123
    @chriswilliam4123 6 лет назад +15

    The redhead top right @ 5:30. What a fine specimen. Anyone knows her name?

  • @chiweyufortune
    @chiweyufortune 3 месяца назад

    If I may add in..I think basically it's like the saying " too much sweetness is sour".. bro's right!! I see this in movies and real life too😂 I'm gonna apply this too and see how it goes

  • @dean0101
    @dean0101 6 лет назад +4

    Great advice Dan.

  • @danbowers20
    @danbowers20 4 года назад +1

    I've been doing the wrong things for so long and suddenly I found these videos and everything changed. Dan Bacon is a wonderful educator.

  • @flyingturtlemonkeyindatrees
    @flyingturtlemonkeyindatrees 5 лет назад +6

    THIS IS FING GENIUS

  • @aleksandarprelevic7750
    @aleksandarprelevic7750 6 лет назад +9

    Hey Dan can you please explain in a video why girls always go for older guys

  • @d-vision2426
    @d-vision2426 6 лет назад +12

    Thanks Dan. Great explanation on the definition of a bad boy.

  • @microaggressive4954
    @microaggressive4954 5 лет назад +9

    This guy is spot on. I've been doing this for years now and it does make them want to do all kinds of things for you. The best thing is if you blow them off a couple times. Give them ample time. If you do it at the last minute after she's already halfway through her process of getting ready. It will just piss her off. and then she will finish getting ready and then go out looking for somebody else to show her attention

  • @lokeshwaran007xlr
    @lokeshwaran007xlr 4 года назад +7

    What do you do for a livin? Eat work and exercise

  • @narayananravindranathan5932
    @narayananravindranathan5932 6 лет назад +12

    just Amazing. Thanks.

  • @vincewayne6339
    @vincewayne6339 6 лет назад +26

    3:50 Savage level GOD OMG ! haha

  • @andrewgotti589
    @andrewgotti589 5 лет назад +7

    Simple and effective!

  • @SONORSQ2guy
    @SONORSQ2guy 5 лет назад +2

    100% on point! 👏

  • @MrMawnster
    @MrMawnster 5 лет назад +2

    It's the secret sauce....attitude!

  • @floydburkett2749
    @floydburkett2749 6 лет назад +12

    You know I love this guy. Every so often a girl on tinder who is way too hot for me and just wants to chat matches. I mess them up chatting. It's like your not what I was looking for but I don't know now.

  • @massimomarra5293
    @massimomarra5293 5 лет назад +2

    Top Dan, nice video!!

  • @harit610
    @harit610 6 лет назад +4

    thanks for ex back videos. kindly make video on what to message your ex if she doesn't respond your calls or messages at all as she hates you. cheers bro!

  • @yogeshbhojane187
    @yogeshbhojane187 6 лет назад +27

    Hi Dan.
    I had a realtionship with my gf for 8years, now she says that she does not have any feelings for me, does not want to do anything with me ,she says please leave me alone as the love is over.
    Please guide me Dan , as I need her back in my life .
    I have never ever cheated her and I dont want anyone else as my gf.

  • @AbdallahHassan01142840585
    @AbdallahHassan01142840585 6 лет назад +2

    Great video

  • @raymondforbes19
    @raymondforbes19 4 года назад

    Really cool talk thanks!

  • @scottspassivecryptoprojects
    @scottspassivecryptoprojects 6 лет назад +2

    Dan, slightly off topic, via text my ex agreed to meet up "as friends", but she's "extremely busy and it wouldn't be any time soon". I responded with "let me know when your schedule opens up". It's been 3 days now and I haven't heard back...how long should I wait to hear back before following up without seeming pushy or desperate? Thanks for all your work!!

  • @DestroyerTV
    @DestroyerTV 6 лет назад +1

    Hi Dan, you have the most truthful and accurate advice that Ive seen. Corey Wayne and Brad Browning led me down the wrong path but I trust you and I have a very important, quick question. My wife of 8 years left 1 1/2 years ago and at first she said she might eventually be open to trying again, then after a year she filed for divorce. The final steps are about to happen but I know not to pressure her in any way. My question is, do I do everything in my power to try to change her mind now or just let it happen and keep trying after?

  • @sergejcancelo
    @sergejcancelo 6 лет назад +8

    u are my hero XD

  • @davidalen9279
    @davidalen9279 6 лет назад +9

    superb. thank you sir.

  • @copyrightfree8644
    @copyrightfree8644 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much ❤😇👌💪

  • @TreGC69
    @TreGC69 4 года назад

    Basically use playful arrogance 🤔 I’ve watched many redpill/ pickup videos and I always seem to come back to u. thank you for displaying signs of authenticity 👏🏾💀

  • @Bas1969
    @Bas1969 6 лет назад +2

    Where r u from ? Ur accent Kinda British but American at the same time

  • @melonmusk6969
    @melonmusk6969 2 года назад +1

    I searched bacon.. you showed up in my search..