I see now , why I was never successful with women. I made all the mistakes he is talking about. Unfortunately it seems to be too late for me now ( I am almost 60). Well I still have a chance, if reincarnation exists ...
It's even heavier in many cases. I've ignored and didn't gave energy to women who were beautiful (not even knowing) and they ended up chasing me, needy as hell. It's a game of energy
A lot of truth in this. I remember I met this really cute woman who I thought was way out of my league. I don't respect stuck up women who use looks as leverage, I will never respect that, period. So I genuinely didn't give a shit and she liked that and became really interested. Good video thanks..
One time I took medicine and fell asleep for 6 hours... She blew up my phone texting me 5 times. Each text she was more insecure.... she was a crazy one though.
Perfect so much sense I noticed when i showed an attractive girl i liked her she fastly lost interest,but when I did total opposite be mean in jokeing way like not want anything it raised her interest
OMG this is so true it almost makes me cry. The idea of a tame guy is SO unattractive. It has nothing do do with not liking honesty, fidelity and fairness but with a limp and lifeless person who follows bc they are too weak to lead.
holy shit when he said "I am an I.T nerd, you likes nerds, don't you? you are into nerdy guys aren't you?" it made me smile smile like a girl lmao this guys is goood
I don't know WHY youtube is suggesting videos about relationships and stuff to me today but im happy to have found this guy from my personal experience i agree with almost 100% of what he says
I did all of this in my late teens and early 20s (now im 47) without realizing it.it just seemed normal and natural.i was average looking and i never met anyone that had more girls then me.thats the truth!
I told this girl i sold drugs jokingly, she laughed and we talk throughout the whole party... Now if only she was prettier... At least this works, go for it y'all 👌🏼
Yesterday a girl asked me that question and I just avoided saying what I do for a living and if I have kids , when I avoided answering her she suddenly started becoming allot more interestid in her way of speaking to me.
Cool - will add it to my list of videos to make. In the meantime: Attracting women online isn't like attracting them in person. Online, women's standards go way up, even if the woman is unattractive or average. If she's hot, then pretty much every guy messages her.
Right on the point. I figured this out myself through my early years but most of my buddies never did even after they would be told about it. Still stepping on the same rakes next time and then next time...
So I have subconsciously done this bad boy trick a few times and it honestly works all too well if you do it right. Gotta be careful with this power. Dan is too good at telling dudes how women work. With great power comes great responsibility lol.
Absolutely spot on, Danno! To illustrate your point let me tell you; I was an ugly ducking. Had no experience with girls through my school years. But I got to 19 and suddenly started getting interest from them left, right and centre. My confidence soared, which meant it was a snowballing effect. I continued getting women. And I mean as I got into my 20s I was getting some very attractive girls. But.... As you say, my lack of early experience meant I became smitten with the beautiful ones. I was like totally in love with them very quickly. In every case, becoming too enamoured too soon repelled them. So I learned what you're talking about - and how to deal with it better - the hard way. Your advice to some of these younger men tuning into your channel is invaluable. Incidentally, having learned what I learned meant I was still pulling great looking women well into my 40s. And no, it's not because I myself am a stunner. I'm not too shabby, but I'm no Brad Pitt. It all comes down to the confidence you talk about in all your vids. You're doing good work, Dan. And the best thing about you is you never espouse being an asshole.
I was too clingy and she began to lose some interest. She still talks to me, but without the same connection we once had. How do I let her know I’ve realized my mistakes. I don’t think telling her directly would be the best thing to do. What should I do?
Thank u Dan. Your points make sense. Kindly put sub titles too so that those who are not very good at English they also may b smarter. Your efforts are indeed eye opening.
When they ask me what I do for a living I say I sell sweet potatoes, that leaves them wondering at what scale, if in a farmers market or I export, I just laugh lol
When asked what I do for a living, I usually say, "I'm a celebrity horse surgeon. It's just like regular surgery only... You know, on horses." If they don't immediately laugh and just look confused, she isn't worth my time.
What do you do if you just turn red? I turn red when I talk to someone attractive, it’s always been me, even after being in relationships it still happens. How do you get past “red face”? Because that’s a sign of anxiety and weakness. For me I feel like I just can’t control it.
Literally yesterday I was putting on my best behaviour while some attractive girls showed a bit of interest in me. I was very curious about why that actually turned them off instead of showing them that I have good intentions about them and so on. Well now I know the answer. Make that two bottles, Dan! Sambuca, right? : )
Dan, any thoughts on which product will be more effective between the Better Than a Bad Boy program and The Flow? If anyone else here has any input, that’d be appreciated as well.
He is totally right. When I was young I was the bad boy. Had all I could want without effort and woman always chased me. In my 20s I calmed down and it was as easy. Now at 40 I'm confident, successful, and don't give a f@#k. Girls half my age are hitting on me regularly again. Strange fact about attraction but he is so right. Listen and learn boys and you will have alot easier job.
From today, starting with my date this weekend, I will turn the tables on all women who enter in my life. I am a really great guy, strong, confident, good looking but I have hindered myself at moments over the last few years at times with some women in my life at times by being too decent, too kind. Be confident, be strong but don't be a pushover, be relaxed, good sense of humour and turn the tables, don't be so serious when they test you with their questions. Keep it cool and funny. I realise now that its all about knowing ahead of time how women think and perceive men and their reactions, and no man on this Earth is born knowing how women think. No man! Dan has provided this awesome knowledge in this upload, from his life experience with women, his study of women and a serious passion for learning in this area, " The Dating Arena ". Experience and having the ability to learn, change, adapt and apply is always the answer.
This is very helpful. It all makes sense. I have been too tame. That’s how I have been taken advantage of. From now on, I don’t have to prove anything to a woman. I’m gonna make them prove themselves to me. No more being trusting
You know I love this guy. Every so often a girl on tinder who is way too hot for me and just wants to chat matches. I mess them up chatting. It's like your not what I was looking for but I don't know now.
This guy is spot on. I've been doing this for years now and it does make them want to do all kinds of things for you. The best thing is if you blow them off a couple times. Give them ample time. If you do it at the last minute after she's already halfway through her process of getting ready. It will just piss her off. and then she will finish getting ready and then go out looking for somebody else to show her attention
Hi Dan. I had a realtionship with my gf for 8years, now she says that she does not have any feelings for me, does not want to do anything with me ,she says please leave me alone as the love is over. Please guide me Dan , as I need her back in my life . I have never ever cheated her and I dont want anyone else as my gf.
Lol...don't worry - still alive. I've been writing articles for my blog: www.themodernman.com/blog/?topic=exback Will get back to videos later. All the best in the meantime. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ lol was kinda worried about the 'Twin dad' It's been quite a long time since you gave us something. We need more "Relationship videos" after this lock down. Today I decided to go through your videos and re-update my 'armoury a bit. Have a safe stay, I appreciate the work. Cheers!
If I may add in..I think basically it's like the saying " too much sweetness is sour".. bro's right!! I see this in movies and real life too😂 I'm gonna apply this too and see how it goes
I didn't know that I am that bad of a guy. I am the kind that can't be tamed though I'm a nice guy. And, this draws women easily to me whether I like them or not.
Hi Dan, you have the most truthful and accurate advice that Ive seen. Corey Wayne and Brad Browning led me down the wrong path but I trust you and I have a very important, quick question. My wife of 8 years left 1 1/2 years ago and at first she said she might eventually be open to trying again, then after a year she filed for divorce. The final steps are about to happen but I know not to pressure her in any way. My question is, do I do everything in my power to try to change her mind now or just let it happen and keep trying after?
What do you do for a living? I'm a Jewel Thief and wanted by the FBI....They stumble at that one. As they have no clue if I'm serious or just kidding..
thanks for ex back videos. kindly make video on what to message your ex if she doesn't respond your calls or messages at all as she hates you. cheers bro!
I see now , why I was never successful with women. I made all the mistakes he is talking about. Unfortunately it seems to be too late for me now ( I am almost 60). Well I still have a chance, if reincarnation exists ...
1:57, 2:38, 6:32, 7:50, 9:00 also be universally kind to everyone not just specific person
It's even heavier in many cases. I've ignored and didn't gave energy to women who were beautiful (not even knowing) and they ended up chasing me, needy as hell. It's a game of energy
Without a doubt this guy is one of the few dating experts whose advice is not cringy
"...and then have a laugh with her about that." This is the bottom line guys
Brilliant advice - this guy knows what he's talking about.
A lot of truth in this. I remember I met this really cute woman who I thought was way out of my league. I don't respect stuck up women who use looks as leverage, I will never respect that, period. So I genuinely didn't give a shit and she liked that and became really interested. Good video thanks..
nice advice don't be no doormat just be you if she ain't feeling it to bad someone else will..
One time I took medicine and fell asleep for 6 hours...
She blew up my phone texting me 5 times. Each text she was more insecure.... she was a crazy one though.
28 Years Old single no Kids there is hope for me
Perfect so much sense I noticed when i showed an attractive girl i liked her she fastly lost interest,but when I did total opposite be mean in jokeing way like not want anything it raised her interest
Being playfully cocky is also very attractive as a Bad, bad boy.
I feel lucky being 20 years old and already know all this stuff .
OMG this is so true it almost makes me cry. The idea of a tame guy is SO unattractive. It has nothing do do with not liking honesty, fidelity and fairness but with a limp and lifeless person who follows bc they are too weak to lead.
holy shit when he said "I am an I.T nerd, you likes nerds, don't you? you are into nerdy guys aren't you?" it made me smile smile like a girl lmao this guys is goood
I don't know WHY youtube is suggesting videos about relationships and stuff to me today but im happy to have found this guy from my personal experience i agree with almost 100% of what he says
Dude you’ve cracked the code
be a lion, not the prey itself
I did all of this in my late teens and early 20s (now im 47) without realizing it.it just seemed normal and natural.i was average looking and i never met anyone that had more girls then me.thats the truth!
I told this girl i sold drugs jokingly, she laughed and we talk throughout the whole party... Now if only she was prettier... At least this works, go for it y'all 👌🏼
Yesterday a girl asked me that question and I just avoided saying what I do for a living and if I have kids , when I avoided answering her she suddenly started becoming allot more interestid in her way of speaking to me.
You deserve more views
Thanks Keith! Hopefully it will happen one day. Imma just keep posting until it does...guys need to know this stuff.
Dan Bacon can you do a video on dating sites and if they work for socially awkward guys
Cool - will add it to my list of videos to make. In the meantime: Attracting women online isn't like attracting them in person. Online, women's standards go way up, even if the woman is unattractive or average. If she's hot, then pretty much every guy messages her.
Dan Bacon thanks so much
Right on the point. I figured this out myself through my early years but most of my buddies never did even after they would be told about it. Still stepping on the same rakes next time and then next time...
Dan your the only legit person in your field :)
Thanks Journeyfan - more videos next week!
These advices give a lot of confidence
You are so spot on Mr Cool. I am now Looking back to my cool days and ways and you have just reinforced things and gotten perspective back for me .
So I have subconsciously done this bad boy trick a few times and it honestly works all too well if you do it right. Gotta be careful with this power. Dan is too good at telling dudes how women work. With great power comes great responsibility lol.
It would be great if Dan would have a playlist section regarding marriage situations
Dan is a genius.
Absolutely spot on, Danno! To illustrate your point let me tell you; I was an ugly ducking. Had no experience with girls through my school years. But I got to 19 and suddenly started getting interest from them left, right and centre. My confidence soared, which meant it was a snowballing effect. I continued getting women. And I mean as I got into my 20s I was getting some very attractive girls. But.... As you say, my lack of early experience meant I became smitten with the beautiful ones. I was like totally in love with them very quickly.
In every case, becoming too enamoured too soon repelled them. So I learned what you're talking about - and how to deal with it better - the hard way.
Your advice to some of these younger men tuning into your channel is invaluable.
Incidentally, having learned what I learned meant I was still pulling great looking women well into my 40s. And no, it's not because I myself am a stunner. I'm not too shabby, but I'm no Brad Pitt. It all comes down to the confidence you talk about in all your vids. You're doing good work, Dan. And the best thing about you is you never espouse being an asshole.
I was too clingy and she began to lose some interest. She still talks to me, but without the same connection we once had. How do I let her know I’ve realized my mistakes. I don’t think telling her directly would be the best thing to do. What should I do?
I was on a thru-hike and the "where are you from" question is common on trail. I answered this cutie once with "last night, mile 719". yes, it worked
Thank u Dan. Your points make sense. Kindly put sub titles too so that those who are not very good at English they also may b smarter. Your efforts are indeed eye opening.
When they ask me what I do for a living I say I sell sweet potatoes, that leaves them wondering at what scale, if in a farmers market or I export, I just laugh lol
When asked what I do for a living, I usually say, "I'm a celebrity horse surgeon. It's just like regular surgery only... You know, on horses."
If they don't immediately laugh and just look confused, she isn't worth my time.
What do you do if you just turn red? I turn red when I talk to someone attractive, it’s always been me, even after being in relationships it still happens. How do you get past “red face”? Because that’s a sign of anxiety and weakness. For me I feel like I just can’t control it.
This is some really great advice. Definitely I could use this advice to improve my interactions with women
Guys need to watch this. A woman giving advice generally says be nice to her and give her compliments.
Thanks, Dan.
You're welcome Daniel! More videos next week.
Literally yesterday I was putting on my best behaviour while some attractive girls showed a bit of interest in me. I was very curious about why that actually turned them off instead of showing them that I have good intentions about them and so on. Well now I know the answer.
Make that two bottles, Dan! Sambuca, right? : )
Two bottles and counting...haha.
Brit Gent...you are the most clear, least irritating, & least bs guy I have heard on d tube👍🏼🥇✅
the best in the business, at least from what I’ve seen
What do you do for a livin? Eat work and exercise
Dan, any thoughts on which product will be more effective between the Better Than a Bad Boy program and The Flow? If anyone else here has any input, that’d be appreciated as well.
Yoooo😳
This dude makes hella sense
Thank you Dan Bacon. I appreciate you Bro
Bro you had me dieing with those responses
I'm 37. Is it too late?
He is totally right. When I was young I was the bad boy. Had all I could want without effort and woman always chased me. In my 20s I calmed down and it was as easy. Now at 40 I'm confident, successful, and don't give a f@#k. Girls half my age are hitting on me regularly again. Strange fact about attraction but he is so right. Listen and learn boys and you will have alot easier job.
This dude is genius
Damn wish I found this earlier. Better late than never. Powerful stuff Dan
This works. When I switched up and became more playful and witty she wanted to meet
This is a gem of a tip ,Thanks baddie ,it totally makes sense n it's true
Proud you are also named Daniel, mate! Great video!
These videos are getting better each time, keep coming up with great advises.
Thanks Lance! More videos next week.
From today, starting with my date this weekend, I will turn the tables on all women who enter in my life.
I am a really great guy, strong, confident, good looking but I have hindered myself at moments over the last few years at times with some women in my life at times by
being too decent, too kind. Be confident, be strong but don't be a pushover, be relaxed, good sense of humour and turn the tables, don't be so serious when they test you
with their questions. Keep it cool and funny. I realise now that its all about knowing ahead of time how women think and perceive men and their reactions, and no man on
this Earth is born knowing how women think. No man! Dan has provided this awesome knowledge in this upload, from his life experience with women, his study of women
and a serious passion for learning in this area, " The Dating Arena ". Experience and having the ability to learn, change, adapt and apply is always the answer.
Hey Dan you are a great man best on the net .wish nothing but the best for you. Cheers from the states
Thanks Dan. That was really useful. Work in progress.
You right. I work in IT. Lots of bad boys in this industry. ty 4 vid.
This is very helpful. It all makes sense. I have been too tame. That’s how I have been taken advantage of. From now on, I don’t have to prove anything to a woman. I’m gonna make them prove themselves to me. No more being trusting
Excellent advice. Thanks man.
Totally a Big Eye Opener!
You know I love this guy. Every so often a girl on tinder who is way too hot for me and just wants to chat matches. I mess them up chatting. It's like your not what I was looking for but I don't know now.
Superb and original example (at 6.00), I'd never thought of it that way.
Thank You Dan Bacon! Really got a BIG Realization! Thanks Man!
Excellent video dude. You breal it down in a very clear and concise way that every man can appreciate!
That is the thing , Dan. I will repeat. You are post graduate in woman chemistry. Keep posting. Listened many time.
Brother you are awesome, you should have more subscribers.....
I mean... I just fucking love this guy!!!!
You Are only excellent... keep on Man ! Don't stop .
Holly shit ! Now I'm on the right path under your wise guidance...
It's the secret sauce....attitude!
I hope The Flow has a Cyber Monday deal this year
This guy is spot on. I've been doing this for years now and it does make them want to do all kinds of things for you. The best thing is if you blow them off a couple times. Give them ample time. If you do it at the last minute after she's already halfway through her process of getting ready. It will just piss her off. and then she will finish getting ready and then go out looking for somebody else to show her attention
Her:
Would you stay with someone who is putting on weight?
Me:
Why are you pregnant?
Good knowledge. Thanx big brother from another mother.
Keep the good job .thank u.
Good advice and super useful examples - many thanks Dan
Cheers Chris 👍
I searched bacon.. you showed up in my search..
Thanks for explaining the bad guy thing.
just Amazing. Thanks.
Hi Dan.
I had a realtionship with my gf for 8years, now she says that she does not have any feelings for me, does not want to do anything with me ,she says please leave me alone as the love is over.
Please guide me Dan , as I need her back in my life .
I have never ever cheated her and I dont want anyone else as my gf.
Hey man this video really helped me out a lot!! Thanks boss!!
Simple and effective!
4 months into the COVID-19 situation and Dan hasn’t posted anything.😨
Lol...don't worry - still alive. I've been writing articles for my blog: www.themodernman.com/blog/?topic=exback Will get back to videos later. All the best in the meantime. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ lol was kinda worried about the 'Twin dad'
It's been quite a long time since you gave us something.
We need more "Relationship videos" after this lock down.
Today I decided to go through your videos and re-update my 'armoury a bit.
Have a safe stay, I appreciate the work.
Cheers!
If I may add in..I think basically it's like the saying " too much sweetness is sour".. bro's right!! I see this in movies and real life too😂 I'm gonna apply this too and see how it goes
Great advice Dan.
3:50 Savage level GOD OMG ! haha
I didn't know that I am that bad of a guy. I am the kind that can't be tamed though I'm a nice guy. And, this draws women easily to me whether I like them or not.
Thanks Dan. Great explanation on the definition of a bad boy.
100% on point! 👏
Hey Dan can you please explain in a video why girls always go for older guys
Bro you’re legit, subbed and liked. Thank you 🙏🏻
I've been doing the wrong things for so long and suddenly I found these videos and everything changed. Dan Bacon is a wonderful educator.
Really cool talk thanks!
Hi Dan, you have the most truthful and accurate advice that Ive seen. Corey Wayne and Brad Browning led me down the wrong path but I trust you and I have a very important, quick question. My wife of 8 years left 1 1/2 years ago and at first she said she might eventually be open to trying again, then after a year she filed for divorce. The final steps are about to happen but I know not to pressure her in any way. My question is, do I do everything in my power to try to change her mind now or just let it happen and keep trying after?
Top Dan, nice video!!
THIS IS FING GENIUS
superb. thank you sir.
What do you do for a living? I'm a Jewel Thief and wanted by the FBI....They stumble at that one. As they have no clue if I'm serious or just kidding..
u are my hero XD
Great video
thanks for ex back videos. kindly make video on what to message your ex if she doesn't respond your calls or messages at all as she hates you. cheers bro!