I love u Dan. :D Your tips helped me a lot. Long story (quite) short: I'm a really handsome and intelligent bloke. I know it and my social circle knows it. They always wondered why I had so less girlfriends in the past. I wasn't really successful with women. I merely lacked CONFINDENCE. I was the guy walking down the street with his head down.. But this year I started to change my life. I read a lot about confidence and it's impact in social life. I thought it would be something some lucky people were kinda born with. I started to put my head up while walking. In the beginning it was hard because my dumb subconscious mind wasn't used to it. I walked through the city. Head up, torso straight and a slight charming smile. For the first time I looked random women consciously in the eyes. I was overwhelmed at first. I practiced hard, though. The women started to smile, submissively looked down after encounters. Flipped their hair and so on. I know these signs aren't always a hundred percent accurate. But everything started to feel different. My social circle noticed my new confident energy as well. Even guys show me more respect than before. I started to work out boosting my confidence even more. I talked to random women and had amazing dates and hook ups. My overall social life went from 3 to 5 out of 10 to 10 out of 10. And I keep on working on myself. I just faked my confidence to overcome my baseless social fear and it became real. I'm really grateful for people like you teaching us things which really matter in life and give people like me a fundament they can build on. I truly appreciate that.
As a man we need to make women realize they need to bring more to the table then just looks and sex . If udont a man will find himself doing all the housework and not getting laid . I watch females put on five pounds of makeup and spend two hours picking the right outfit ,only say I want you to like me for me . I remember a pastor say if you want to know a girl really like show up at her house at five in the morning for coffee !!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are so good at this . Unbelievable how canny you are and have figured this out completely. Sure wish I had this information 40 years ago. It is a game. And we men have been totally unprepared up till now. Women get trained by their mothers and grandmothers since birth for all this. They learn about makeup and shopping to make themselves look attractive from age 5 or so.
Dan i lost my gf a few days ago an broke down an begged for her to come back an she didnt. An i spent 3 days watching ur vids an mopeing and worked on my flaws like u said in your videos an called her and everything u said worked. An i got my gf back thank u so much brother
Bruh people really just don't get it. I had a conversation with someone on reddit about why women don't like "nice guys". I argued that they don't know how to even talk to a woman. The argued that it's not that complicated and that you just need to be nice. The don't even realise that they are just as much to blame for the epidemic of "nice guys" as them!
Man, a lot of this hits home. I’ve been a “nice” guy most of my life. I’m the guy that has had tons more female friends than guys. At 48 I’m finally seeing what’s been the problem with settling for women that I should’ve passed over. Great vids man! Thanks for sharing.
bro you are an expert with the content, real talk man, first time I thought someone was so spot on. Primarily cause you are not american but from the UK perhaps or aus, so good mate! thank you so much for hitting the right notes and sharing insightful yet looked upon points. thanks again.
Dan Bacon so I've been watching your videos and they make a lot of sense. I haven't dated a woman in quite a long time, but I also don't try nearly enough. In other words, I don't try approach that many women. And when I do, I usually get rejected. I had a date with a very attractive girl I met from tinder several months ago, but she didn't want a second date because of my job---so it ended there. There's a girl in my class that I'd like to get to know...........but she sits on the opposite side of the room as me and I don't have many chances to speak to her. A few years back I tried using my class (we studied together for an exam) as a way to ask out a girl I was interested in----but she rejected me because she was only looking for a study partner and it probably caught her off guard. So Dan.....do you think I should pursue the girl who I currently take a class with?
Yes, but only if you have attracted her first. Watch these two videos: www.themodernman.com/blog/do-you-make-this-mistake-with-women.html www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-tell-a-woman-that-you-have-feelings-for-her.html
You should seriously reconsider having BEATING WOMEN in bigger fonts than everything else. I thought this was a video on how to beat women then I clicked on it to make sure you're not beating women. I'm glad no women were harmed in the making of this video.
Lol...no women were hurt. It's all good. About the title: Nah, I'm not concerned if people get worried about a title. When they watch the video, they will love what is being taught. Today's world is a little too politically correct and sensitive. I'm not going to add to that! ;)
Brah, this is far from a cry for political correctness or being overly sensitive. If you look at the thumbnail it just sticks out. BEATING WOMEN ... hilarious! intended or not.
Haha... :) Yeah, nevermind - it's fine. I really don't care if someone takes it the wrong way. It's about beating women at their own game...or beating women with a stick...not sure - people have to watch the video to find out...lol.
Love the thumbnail 😂 I was watching another of your videos and this one was at the top of the reccommend and I was on the treadmill with ‘beating women’ in bold for all to see 😂
Still watching Dan's videos on a regular basis. Many things one learns from Dan's dating advices actually benefits a man's self far beyond his success with women.
hey dan, iam in a relationship for more than 1 yr .2 month before she went out of country seeking of job.but now i become needy and insecure .i become so jealous when she go out with guys..now she is saying doesnt have feel like before for me .
Dan just want to send some love your way bro you’re the man you’ve changed my life it really made me a whole man listening to your stuff you’re awesome you made such a impacted my life so I’m sure a lot of men’s lives keep up the awesome work bro you’re a blessing!
Interesting. Now, let's say you bring the pressure, bring the tension, would a woman feel unworthy because of the makeup truth, and reject you, because she feels as though you would reject her once she removes the war paint?
Good question. Women like that will often start to play hard to get to not look too eager. You just need to remain confident in your attractiveness to her and keep moving forward to kissing and sex or a phone number, date and then sex. Never doubt yourself.
what kind of advice would you give to a guy who is shy since he was a child? I mean, there are a lot of people who lived bad experiences in the childhood and can't overcome theses bad stuffs by themselves.
That's right - you need help. I went through some horrible things as a child that destroyed my confidence. Becoming good with women forced me to improve all aspects of my personality (i.e. my confidence, social skills, social intelligence, presence) and it naturally cured my shyness as a result. When most of the women that you meet feel attracted to you, there's nothing to be shy about. When most of the people you meet respect you and like you, there's nothing to be shy about. When you are great at conversation and feel confident wherever you go, there's nothing to be shy about. Here's where you should start: www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html
I Have A Question I hope that you can answer My question I'm with a girl for Two Months Now of chilling and We Still not have kissed she also sees me as a friend and sometimes she calls me bro on the text but I know that there's something about it it she likes to be with me a lot two calls me everyday or message me me and I want to go a step further but my question is do I have still a chance after this long time
ROFL MAN THE MOMENT I START THE VIDEO HE PICKS SUCH AMAZING PHOTOS LOLZ, THEY GOT THEIR MAKEUP TRICKS HAHAHA CHOICE OF WORDS, MAN THIS GUY IS A MASTER@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GURUJI!!!! :D
Hello Dan. your videos are really life transforming, but apart from the fact that women test men. how do you react to a girl who is trying to avoid you and is seriously responding in a harsh way? (sorry for my English)
Thanks RUclips for the recommendation :,D yup it's not about looks that much, most women want someone who is confident and makes them feel safe and relaxed. Often during conversations with new people I have to do most of the work to maintain the conversation and it's kind of tiring, so it's really cool if someone is able to add to it equally. Truly confident guys aren't jerks to others, aggressive, homophobic, macho etc because they are comfortable with themselves. Subconsciously most women are still wired to look for a mate who can protect them if shit goes down, but also want someone who is pleasant to be around and compatible with their personality.
I never thought I would dare to take the plunge but I've read so many pua blogs and books over the years yet your articles are always the most truthbound ones. I need help and I want to improve, do you recommend the flow and then do you do coaching?
Hi Jose - yes, I'd recommend that you start with The Flow. It's what every guy needs to read if he wants to experience easy, consistent success when picking up women for sex or relationships. www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Yes, I also offer phone coaching: www.themodernman.com/phone_coaching.html Chat soon. Cheers, Dan
I love your videos!! The reason I love them is Becuase you speak the truth!! I wish I would had this when I was in 🏫 high school Becuase I messed up bad
Hi Steve - I haven't done a video on it, but we briefly explain how to do that in the section about online dating in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html Most of the techniques we focus on when discussing online dating are about how to get to dates with women. Cheers, Dan
Hey Dan, I think, i need some help here, when a girl who knows you for years (4+) and rejects your for not being sexually attractive (F***ing hurts) however, she had been in a relationship with a guy who is not so attractive personality wise than you; how should a guy deal with that BS? EXPLAIN Plz?
Even though you are a better guy than that other guy, it sounds like you were in the friend zone with her for 4 years...and still are! This video should help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/do-you-make-this-mistake-with-women.html
"When I like them, they don't like me...When they like me, I don't like them" - George Constanza
You had me at "beating women."
One dan's video a day, keeps the insecurities away. Lol
I love u Dan. :D Your tips helped me a lot. Long story (quite) short: I'm a really handsome and intelligent bloke. I know it and my social circle knows it. They always wondered why I had so less girlfriends in the past. I wasn't really successful with women. I merely lacked CONFINDENCE. I was the guy walking down the street with his head down..
But this year I started to change my life. I read a lot about confidence and it's impact in social life. I thought it would be something some lucky people were kinda born with. I started to put my head up while walking. In the beginning it was hard because my dumb subconscious mind wasn't used to it. I walked through the city. Head up, torso straight and a slight charming smile. For the first time I looked random women consciously in the eyes. I was overwhelmed at first. I practiced hard, though. The women started to smile, submissively looked down after encounters. Flipped their hair and so on. I know these signs aren't always a hundred percent accurate. But everything started to feel different. My social circle noticed my new confident energy as well. Even guys show me more respect than before. I started to work out boosting my confidence even more. I talked to random women and had amazing dates and hook ups. My overall social life went from 3 to 5 out of 10 to 10 out of 10. And I keep on working on myself.
I just faked my confidence to overcome my baseless social fear and it became real. I'm really grateful for people like you teaching us things which really matter in life and give people like me a fundament they can build on.
I truly appreciate that.
*BEATING WOMEN*
Oh?!..
*at their own game*
Ah...
Confidence charisma and charm , these are the things we need to develop. Guys with these traits always get all the women.
No women were harmed during this video 😂
Can all "nice guys" watch this, please?
I just saw BEATING WOMEN and the big smile on his face
As a man we need to make women realize they need to bring more to the table then just looks and sex . If udont a man will find himself doing all the housework and not getting laid . I watch females put on five pounds of makeup and spend two hours picking the right outfit ,only say I want you to like me for me . I remember a pastor say if you want to know a girl really like show up at her house at five in the morning for coffee !!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You man are truly godsend
You are so good at this . Unbelievable how canny you are and have figured this out completely. Sure wish I had this information 40 years ago. It is a game. And we men have been totally unprepared up till now. Women get trained by their mothers and grandmothers since birth for all this. They learn about makeup and shopping to make themselves look attractive from age 5 or so.
Dan i lost my gf a few days ago an broke down an begged for her to come back an she didnt. An i spent 3 days watching ur vids an mopeing and worked on my flaws like u said in your videos an called her and everything u said worked. An i got my gf back thank u so much brother
Bruh people really just don't get it. I had a conversation with someone on reddit about why women don't like "nice guys". I argued that they don't know how to even talk to a woman. The argued that it's not that complicated and that you just need to be nice. The don't even realise that they are just as much to blame for the epidemic of "nice guys" as them!
Man you are so refreshing! Blunt and not worried about being politically correct yet honest and true.
This information never gets old.
A woman’s game is passive and a man’s game is active.
"Wasting Time" thats Hits me Hard
B E A T I N G W O M A N
I really like your channel. It really give men more power, something that is rarer now a days. Go you!
Man, a lot of this hits home. I’ve been a “nice” guy most of my life. I’m the guy that has had tons more female friends than guys. At 48 I’m finally seeing what’s been the problem with settling for women that I should’ve passed over. Great vids man! Thanks for sharing.
I came for the _"beating women"_ , and stayed for the _"at their own game"_ .
even those girls that do play a lot of attention to guy's looks but if he ain't got the personality she will walk away
all of your arguments makes sense.
BEATING WOMEN... at their own game.
At quick glance, the title of this video reads, Beating Women. Lol
Dan bacon puts in a lot of effort to help man understand women. The content he publishes and shares with video editing is beyond outstanding..
I cracked up at the title😂😂😂 BEATING WOMEN.....at their own game
Where were you 30 years ago! Great advice! Wish I had this info then! Best wishes mate!
bro you are an expert with the content, real talk man, first time I thought someone was so spot on. Primarily cause you are not american but from the UK perhaps or aus, so good mate! thank you so much for hitting the right notes and sharing insightful yet looked upon points. thanks again.
Dan Bacon so I've been watching your videos and they make a lot of sense. I haven't dated a woman in quite a long time, but I also don't try nearly enough. In other words, I don't try approach that many women. And when I do, I usually get rejected. I had a date with a very attractive girl I met from tinder several months ago, but she didn't want a second date because of my job---so it ended there. There's a girl in my class that I'd like to get to know...........but she sits on the opposite side of the room as me and I don't have many chances to speak to her. A few years back I tried using my class (we studied together for an exam) as a way to ask out a girl I was interested in----but she rejected me because she was only looking for a study partner and it probably caught her off guard. So Dan.....do you think I should pursue the girl who I currently take a class with?
Yes, but only if you have attracted her first. Watch these two videos:
www.themodernman.com/blog/do-you-make-this-mistake-with-women.html
www.themodernman.com/blog/should-you-tell-a-woman-that-you-have-feelings-for-her.html
You should seriously reconsider having BEATING WOMEN in bigger fonts than everything else. I thought this was a video on how to beat women then I clicked on it to make sure you're not beating women. I'm glad no women were harmed in the making of this video.
Lol...no women were hurt. It's all good. About the title: Nah, I'm not concerned if people get worried about a title. When they watch the video, they will love what is being taught. Today's world is a little too politically correct and sensitive. I'm not going to add to that! ;)
Brah, this is far from a cry for political correctness or being overly sensitive. If you look at the thumbnail it just sticks out. BEATING WOMEN ... hilarious! intended or not.
Haha... :) Yeah, nevermind - it's fine. I really don't care if someone takes it the wrong way. It's about beating women at their own game...or beating women with a stick...not sure - people have to watch the video to find out...lol.
At first glance I saw Beating Women in big letters and thought this was a law enforcement training video
This guy is on the godly level, gives GR8 advice regarding women..!
Beating women -YEAAA!!
At their own game - oh
Best advice ever thanks
Love the thumbnail 😂 I was watching another of your videos and this one was at the top of the reccommend and I was on the treadmill with ‘beating women’ in bold for all to see 😂
Dan you understand female nature is what makes you good thanks for sharing your gift
This guy literally 'speaks to me'! Good video!!
200.000 followers
Respect bro
Still watching Dan's videos on a regular basis. Many things one learns from Dan's dating advices actually benefits a man's self far beyond his success with women.
he's absolutely right ..
It''s that not difficult you just need to pull. Maybe it's a gift but you can work at it to become better.
Dan! What a wonderful channel. You really understand women. How refreshing and cool! Thank you!
I love what you say, you say it how it is. So many will put excuses behind it, but you speak the reality my friend, well played 👏
6:31 You know how he loves saying that, it just shows on his face and I couldn't agree more lolz !
hey dan, iam in a relationship for more than 1 yr .2 month before she went out of country seeking of job.but now i become needy and insecure .i become so jealous when she go out with guys..now she is saying doesnt have feel like before for me .
Aussie David Guetta .. amazing topic thank u
Thank you so very much....I can't believe the internet has such perfect delivery of content 🔥
I read that as BEATING WOMEN so I clicked
Am a simple man
I literally love your last name.
Rotflol 😂😂😂 damn! You are always on point.
Lmaoo the title throws you off at first I see what ya did there lol
THIS. VIDEO. IS. A. MASTERPIECE. !!!!
Dan just want to send some love your way bro you’re the man you’ve changed my life it really made me a whole man listening to your stuff you’re awesome you made such a impacted my life so I’m sure a lot of men’s lives keep up the awesome work bro you’re a blessing!
Any feedback on The Flow??
Aussie Dan leading the way again
tbh i was just scrolling through my yt playlist and overflew everything, then I red "Beating Women" and I was like tf😂😂
You sir are the best advice giver.
This guys a God amongst men !
This video sure makes sense.
Interesting. Now, let's say you bring the pressure, bring the tension, would a woman feel unworthy because of the makeup truth, and reject you, because she feels as though you would reject her once she removes the war paint?
Good question. Women like that will often start to play hard to get to not look too eager. You just need to remain confident in your attractiveness to her and keep moving forward to kissing and sex or a phone number, date and then sex. Never doubt yourself.
what kind of advice would you give to a guy who is shy since he was a child? I mean, there are a lot of people who lived bad experiences in the childhood and can't overcome theses bad stuffs by themselves.
That's right - you need help. I went through some horrible things as a child that destroyed my confidence. Becoming good with women forced me to improve all aspects of my personality (i.e. my confidence, social skills, social intelligence, presence) and it naturally cured my shyness as a result. When most of the women that you meet feel attracted to you, there's nothing to be shy about. When most of the people you meet respect you and like you, there's nothing to be shy about. When you are great at conversation and feel confident wherever you go, there's nothing to be shy about. Here's where you should start: www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html
I Have A Question I hope that you can answer My question I'm with a girl for Two Months Now of chilling and We Still not have kissed she also sees me as a friend and sometimes she calls me bro on the text but I know that there's something about it it she likes to be with me a lot two calls me everyday or message me me and I want to go a step further but my question is do I have still a chance after this long time
Can’t find your book.
ROFL MAN THE MOMENT I START THE VIDEO HE PICKS SUCH AMAZING PHOTOS LOLZ, THEY GOT THEIR MAKEUP TRICKS HAHAHA CHOICE OF WORDS, MAN THIS GUY IS A MASTER@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GURUJI!!!! :D
Before I acquire the woman I really want I want to thank you Brother 🙏👌🏾
You make so much sense thankyou
Title had me in the first half not gonna lie
wtf man 👨 I wasted all my life without this knowledge 😢😢😢
Top stuff Dan. 👍
Great topic your an expert in this field man
I cant quit watchin all ur videos
Dude you look great with beard.
didn't have my glasses on when i saw the thumbnail......
This is some good information guys. Soak it up like a sponge...
Hello Dan. your videos are really life transforming, but apart from the fact that women test men. how do you react to a girl who is trying to avoid you and is seriously responding in a harsh way? (sorry for my English)
Very insightful advice; thanks!
Bringing home the Bacon... Dan Bacon 🥓
Thanks RUclips for the recommendation :,D yup it's not about looks that much, most women want someone who is confident and makes them feel safe and relaxed. Often during conversations with new people I have to do most of the work to maintain the conversation and it's kind of tiring, so it's really cool if someone is able to add to it equally. Truly confident guys aren't jerks to others, aggressive, homophobic, macho etc because they are comfortable with themselves. Subconsciously most women are still wired to look for a mate who can protect them if shit goes down, but also want someone who is pleasant to be around and compatible with their personality.
Sade Metsävirta interesting recommendation ! Maybe you are gay
I completely agree with Dan
Women seeing this video... OMG...! My life is done... 😰
I never thought I would dare to take the plunge but I've read so many pua blogs and books over the years yet your articles are always the most truthbound ones. I need help and I want to improve, do you recommend the flow and then do you do coaching?
Hi Jose - yes, I'd recommend that you start with The Flow. It's what every guy needs to read if he wants to experience easy, consistent success when picking up women for sex or relationships. www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html Yes, I also offer phone coaching: www.themodernman.com/phone_coaching.html Chat soon. Cheers, Dan
I love your videos!! The reason I love them is Becuase you speak the truth!! I wish I would had this when I was in 🏫 high school Becuase I messed up bad
Stick it in
Fantastic guidance.
Wow, accurate af!
Hey Dan great video
Cool information straight too the point..
Airbrushed right on time. Let me get airbrushed. Lol
Y’all gotta do something about that thumbnail 😂
this is real 💯one of the realist videos💯
Have you done a video on how to write a profile on a dating website?
Hi Steve - I haven't done a video on it, but we briefly explain how to do that in the section about online dating in 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend: store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html Most of the techniques we focus on when discussing online dating are about how to get to dates with women. Cheers, Dan
Well all I can when you look at that thumbnail I hope people with bad eyesight don’t read it wrong “Beating Women” 😂
This is funny just because it’s true!
Why am I watching this?🤣
Hey Dan, I think, i need some help here, when a girl who knows you for years (4+) and rejects your for not being sexually attractive (F***ing hurts) however, she had been in a relationship with a guy who is not so attractive personality wise than you; how should a guy deal with that BS? EXPLAIN Plz?
Even though you are a better guy than that other guy, it sounds like you were in the friend zone with her for 4 years...and still are! This video should help you: www.themodernman.com/blog/do-you-make-this-mistake-with-women.html
The thumbnail on this one got my attention. haha
Dan, are you a Leo ?
Omg the makeup pics were crazy as f lmao 😂😂
BEATING WOMAN (wtf?)... in their own game (ow, ok)