What is Flirting and Why Does it Turn Women On?
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- Опубликовано: 20 янв 2015
- www.themodernman.com/
Flirting allows you to immediately create a spark between yourself and a woman and it is also one of things that you need to do to help keep the spark alive in a relationship.
Don't forget, men, after you get the girl, she still needs appreciation and spark. It can't just be an act you put on during the initial period. Keeping the spark alive won't just be her job. And your sense of humor and telling her she's sexy will go a long way after you're together as well.
I once saw a dude flirt with a waitress at 7 a.m. and turn her on.
Waitress: Hello, how are you today.
Player: What's that pendant on your necklace? It looks like handcuffs.
Waitress: Hee hee that... oh... hee hee it's just a pendant... what can I bring you?
Player: Handcuffs.
Waitress (giggling, smiling, blushing beet-red): oh hee hee let me...well... um... I'll come back.
Corey Wayne is pretty good and I definitely like his approach of reading emails of success stories and failures. It definitely highlights things in a guy's life where he screwed up or did right. But Dan straight up explains better and is way easier to follow. I'm on a Dan Bacon video binge now.
Dan knows how to...bring home the Bacon
Everything in this video is golden (said from a girl disguised as the rock).
What is the difference between a friend and a lover? A lover makes you feel a certain way. There is chemistry. Flirting creates that chemistry. She starts to take you out of her mental category of a friend and you become a potential mate because you make her feel good. It's hot, believe me.
I am naturally a flirt by nature and extremely good with words...but I never knew that I could turn my skills to getting a girl attracted to me.
Thank you Dan
One you are married to your "perfect 10," you'll find that you need to KEEP flirting, keep making it fun, keep creating sexual tension all your life to keep the marriage both hot and vital. Your wife will love you all the more if you do keep pursuing her. I find these videos just as worthwhile for the married guy - this stuff DOESN'T come easy (for me) and isn't something that I innately sensed or know. But once Dan reveals them, they seem obvious. Who knew ?
i hate to say it, but you are the man dan
Colin Byron - Haha...thanks mate. I appreciate that. More videos coming soon...
Dan Bacon This has helped understand flirting a lot better. I've just realized that I've just recently used it without me noticing it. I
l'll read The Flow again just to grasp flirting. :)
you have to play with her to "play with her"
Flirting isn’t serious, but if your serious about her you will flirt.
All this is true guys, I have nailed girls (not prostitutes) in less than 2 hours of first time meeting them. How, it is all about a confident approach towards them and flirting really speeds up the whole process. But as you grow older, you better use this skill more responsibly, use it to get a life time partner not a hooker. Thanks DB!
It is great presentation. The delivery of subject matter is excellent. This gentleman qualifies to lecture at Harvard,
Think this also illustrates the phenomenon that you seem to get much more interest from women when you have a girlfriend and aren’t looking. It’s much easier to be relaxed/cheeky when you just don’t care.
Dan Bacon: [walks up to barista]
Customers in line: Ah fuck this is gonna take a while
This man deserves a million subscribers!!! Dan Becon you are The Real Love Guru
Now I see why my girlfriend gets funny when I ask someone (woman) how their day’s going at a drive through. Thought I was just being polite/breaking their monotony.
Most genuine channel out on RUclips about dating
Brotha this dude is going to help me get out of depression!!!! I really need this stuff
It's essentially foreplay.
Dude, all this stuff is way cool. I'm 41, well into my second (!) marriage. I've already learned some of these lessons. All lessons learned the hard way, of course. I really enjoyed watching this video, all this stuff is right on!
+Óscar Palacios Ruiz - Thanks mate - glad you enjoyed the video!
Mr Bacon - You Sir are spot on with all of your advice. No BS, no fluff just cold hard truths all warmed up so they go down nice and easily!
I went through a phase after breaking up with the girl of my dreams (I thought) and I just wasn't that interested in women. Amazingly, they were interested in me, and some of the things you say Dan about being unpredictable, being flirtatious, as well as being perceived as a nice guy I must have been doing, because I went through the women one after another. I never thought I was good looking, and found it confusing when really pretty girls told me they thought I was 'gorgeous' but rejected me when I asked them 'do you want to go out with me'. I just thought 'wtf'?
Your videos have made quite a lot of sense of my history with women, but I think it goes beyond that, I think you're talking about relationship skills that would benefit a man in all his relations, to his family, his friends and colleagues as well as, obviously, the women. Thanks Dan.
Iv just started following Dan in the last week and i have had the best interactions with women i have ever had in my life this week
All this info is gold. Its up to you to make a woman feel attraction.
I have discovered that my eyes are my best asset to flirt in a natural way.
I use to wonder why i would see beautiful women with scummy looking guys and my mother told me it might be because he treats her good or he makes her feel safe or she enjoys his company. She was right.
I feel attracted to this man whilst he’s speaking bro, he’s a true inspiration
Think of it this way...it is a lot like how men and women are sexually built. Men act outwardly. Women act inwardly. So it is with interaction. Men must move into the "inner space" of a woman's mind in a sincere and loving way. Be fun and playful too.
thanks man youve made me way more confident with women! you are amazing!
Love you my hero Dan. You changed my life from 0 (perhaps below) to today’s. God sent you
This is great. Who knew that you can flirt just in the way you say 'hello' ? Thanks mate.
Just pure genius...
I should have watched this channel earlier...
but It's never too late
Went to an eatery once early in the morning after a mile run coz I'm starving. This young lady asked me what she can get for me but I noticed nothing on display yet so I said, " I want to order you". She immediately realized her mistske so she giggled and replied "dine in or out?".
Well im about to watch this every morning
You’re one of the best teachers in this area. Maybe the best! Thanks
very good advice wish I knew that years ago he he
Hi Dan, first I wanna say you are really amazing at sharing and teaching all these highly valuable and helpful information. Having experienced what a big difference a great teacher makes, I wanna thank you for what you do. If you have time, I have a few questions related to this video. Assuming a man and a woman are a couple, how should the man react if ... 1- Another man flirts with the man's woman, right in front of him? .. 2- if she flirts back with that other man, right in front of her man? ... 3- if he was not there when those 2 cases happened, and only found out later, by either she telling him, or by someone else telling him. Thanks again.
One of your best videos Dan
I instantly applied each and every word you just said and guess what? I got a facebook and a lotta hahas.. will definitely keep experiencing this.. you sir are a legend
this guy is great i have looked at many relationship people but dan is one of the best
From a rather shaky start conversing via text with a woman I recently met, and after concluding that I was of no interest to her, she just now got back in touch and we wound up having a no-holds-barred seriously erotic chat all via text, and in complete defiance of conventional wisdom which maintains that all meaningful flirtation must be face to face. I am absolutely certain now that this gorgeous woman and I will be grappling with no clothes on the very next time we meet, thanks to the insightful flirtation wisdom shared by this modern-day legend called Dan Bacon.
Run-of-the-mill dating coaches abound in RUclips's archives, but there is only one Guru, and he is Dan the Man, the real deal, the real McCoy whose every word is pure gold. My hat is off to you sir, with humility.
These videos are awesome.
Bro thanks ! for creating this channel/content..I’ve subscribed to many other dating content, but yours is the best
Thank you so much. I hope these videos are in RUclips forever so I can always go back when I forget
Hey Dan, awesome video, keep up your good work.
But I have a question: Do all your ideas and systems of sexual attraction and flirting count for teenagers, especially virgins? I'm both (16 years old) and the girl I'm currently interested in is 17 and most probably a virgin, too. Do I still have to apply all the techniques you mentioned, like telling her during a date that she's sexy, or do I have to specialize it a bit? Thanks for your awesome videos nevertheless.
Great video. This is informative and helpful.
Dan is a rock star. Great presentation. Peace
Great video Dan!
Awesome!
Thanks!
Wow, this is pure GTO strategy with women, nice!
Thanks for your videos, that's amazing !
I bought your book because I find your information entertaining and fun to watch!
Thanks Matt! Enjoy the great times ahead with women!
Dan
You're the man,
Big fan
great vid mate
You helped me so much Dan, thank you! 🙂
Youre the best dating expert on youtube
thank you, thank you, thank you. You are fabulous
This one is helpful. ..thanks you're doing a great job kip it up hey
Buying the flow worth it ?
Very clear explanation Dan. And your voice tone is very convincing!
I think this video is brilliant.
This video makes sense. It shows some not so good looking men get the good looking women. They obviously had the banter and the art of banter.
At 11:40, I just want to point out the power of self-assured confidence and flirting, how it attracts not only the woman you're interacting with, the effect it also can have even on other women's perception of you that they can't help but notice. Observe.
Great peace of information.😁
Now I know what went wrong in my 26 year marriage we would have a conversation and it would fizzle me not knowing what to say next she had several men friends on Facebook who wanted to be with her I will bet they were flirtatious to her I was not interested in being flirtatious with her I thought I didn't have to now comes the divorce as she has discussed marriage with one of her friends but I will use this information with a new better woman
I love you Dan bacon , you are my inspiration
Well explained
You thought me what my father failed to teach me
U deserve more subscribers my man Dan! :D
+Lemonade Man - Thanks mate! Hopefully the channel will become more popular over time. Lots of work to do to get there.
Got a date with a hottie I have been crushing on for a while tomorrow. Going to be watching your videos all night.
Great stuff!!!
Very good video!
where can I get The Flow? preferably audio book.
Here's the link: www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-on-audio.html
Can you do a video about Casanova the famous ladies man
@Dan, I watched one of your videos and purchased the Flow. The only advice that I can give you is to promote your other programs because I thought you only had the Flow.....I just paid 1,400 for another program....Ultimately, the Flow is by far the simplest way to interact with a woman or man in non-sexual ways....the Flow should be taught in school.
Isnt women annoyed when they are hit on?I dont understand the difference between hittin on and flirting.Also im confused about people saying that you should be indiferent in women and not show intention.Whatever i try they dont seem to respond.
The only guy i trust...
thanks, good video
The photo at 6:29 made me laugh out loud! 🤣
What if this is the maybe zone for an ex? We kissed once but for the most part she is just acting hard to get, but as I flirt with her and walk, she is brushing up against me. Like I said. She is doing the hot and cold dance but I'm acting as if it doesn't affect me
Good question. I just happened to answer that with the 3rd tip in this new video: ruclips.net/video/tslNb2Zuzbs/видео.html
I am from India, please send me link of Rupay card or can I buy using Google Pay?
U opened my mind thank u s much...
ure the best coach out there. Thx
Where can I buy your book the flirt and the flow
This is so good. ;)
I guess if you're a short guy like me, It still works but, only with girls up to your height.. I "got" a bombasstick girl once,that was like 4 inches taller than me ,only because we met on a mountain,on tilted terrain and somehow she got so excited, she didn't observe that I'm actually shorter than she is :D. And I saw she's quite tall, but not AS tall..She was rushing to meet again, and when we met in urban conditions, her vibe was insta killed,when she saw how much shorter I actually am. She still liked me, but, I no longer fit her agenda. I understand that... I don't feel confortable around taller women than me.. I think it's natural, and not just social conditioning, to be a bit taller or maximum equal height with your woman.. I didn't have serious intensions with her anyway.. Not sure if I see this height issue accurately, or I'm just biased..
This will help you. I wrote it for all the short guys in the world: www.themodernman.com/dating/do-women-like-short-men.html
So I should in general flirt with girls subtly or obviously?
+Shing Lau - It depends on your personality type. Some guys get better results with subtle flirting, whereas others get better results with obvious flirting. Try it and see what works best for you.
Brilliant.💪
Man you should write a book
May you talk about those girls that flirt with you but yet act hard to get cuz I know a girl.. that ill love to have as a wife but acts like the way you mention on this video may you or someone else help me out
I’ve always been hopeless lol
@14:29 my favorite part.
NETFLIX SPECIAL!!
Ty I got a gf
I’m Asian and I’m not big enough 😂
should i flirt at the office?
Depends on the culture/dynamic in the office. See: www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/dating_women_in_the_workplace.html
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