Can you add to these ways to flirt with any woman? Add your wisdom below!! Also, watch How to Compliment Beautiful Women Without Being Creepy: ruclips.net/video/0yAO2cBemqY/видео.html And if you want the step by step road map to finding, attracting and keeping an amazing girlfriend, get WakeUP2Luv today... guaranteed to change your life!: members.wingmam.com/get-women/
Where were you this whole time I’m excited to watch your videos and I’m a huge fan of your work and it’s the first time I started watching your videos. I’m looking forward to see more of your content. Keep it up🎉🎉🎉
I get along well with married women, they seem too attracted to me? But I can't get time of day from single women? Married women ask me How are u still single? Ask the single women? They all ignore me?
To build confidence quickly, practice making eye contact with everybody in public and talking to everyone you can. I intentionally go grocery shopping several times per week just to practice. The practice has paid off tremendously.
1. Avoid sarcasm 2. Touch her 3. Tease her. 4. Humour 5. Hold eye contact 6. Be confident If any or all of the above fail then an Amex Platinum card works wonders.
@@scotttabak6755 There are some very good ways to touch her that seem innocent but still have the desired effect. Yes you should learn them and use them regularly. It works.
… well, and all that is fine | may work out smoothly if she likes you to begin with. otherwise you‘re likely to be criminalised for just this. and sooo… just refrain from fk.n simping and wasting undeserved attention | validation. there‘re abundances of fem.s out there that multiple gents sigh in relief to have gotten rid of and | or that you‘d do alike once not having avoided getting in touch with.
(Laughing to myself; Thinking about previous videos.) I was golfing this morning and got paired up with a 22yo "young buck". Eventually the "snack girl" (19yo) came around with her food cart. I deliberately stopped her so she could see the "young buck". He didn't follow through with anything and she left. She cycled around 45 minutes later and I stopped her again (to buy a beer and give the buck a second chance). This time he walked up to her and started talking. She smiled, looked at the ground and started fidgeting a lot with her necklace (both hands). Her eyes kept darting back and forth between the ground and the buck. After she left again, I filled in the buck about what her fidgeting indicated and her quick glances. I got a text message from him twenty minutes after leaving the golf course. They have a date tomorrow for him to teach her golf.
That same thing happened to me when I was a young buck.........the girl never showed up. That was forty years ago we've been divorced for about twenty now.
The day a woman will tell me ‘I am here to be with you, help us, provide for us and willing to go through hardships to build something together and support each other towards becoming better humans and partner’… I’ll carefully give her a chance… until then, I’ll remain on the road to self realization
That's the ideal! Of course, no woman, no matter how ideal she may be, will show up like that before she's seen proof that's a safe decision. In the meantime, you are on the right road!! :)
@@YourWingmam I agree. The same should be said towards men. I spend time watching your videos to educate myself further about ways to be able as a human prior to getting in a serious relationship with someone who does not want to put effort, coordinate or take pride in a vision that is possible but rather put every part of the relationship on her emotions.
I'd suggest you build a time machine and back to 1930, before woman became entitled feminists. Woman destroyed marriage/relationships. Good luck with that.
@Ms. Y W - That is the part I seem to be missing ( and I ain't no expert ) . SHE has to see proof, SHE has to be comfortable, SHE holds the cards . . . maybe guys do not appreciate that anymore . . . .
Was told that I am a natural flirt when I don't realize that I am doing that. When I consciously try gets all tongue tied and doesn't know what to say. When you said about trying to talk with a woman and doesn't know what to say, definitely relate to that
about Posture - i think what she describes shows how fit you are. i was living a very unhealthy life and couple years back i started working out a little (nothing crazy. just like 30 mins or so a day with a few push ups/pull ups). when you're muscles tighten up, all the things she said just happened. you're no longer hunched. your back becomes straight, shoulders are back. this alone i feel made a huge difference.
i started similary.... now im going 3 times a week bouldering(3-5 hours) and at home i try my best that the chest gets the last bit of strenght. its crazy how much changes (not only the physique of the body) and its good for the mentality :)
I used to be a locksmith. One day I got a call to go and make a key. Once I got the address, the lady asked me on the phone if I'm as good looking as my voice sounds. I laughed as I said, "No, I'm absolutely hideous". As soon as I arrived, she laughed and said, "Oh you're such a liar!" And she was smiling, and flirting, the whole time I was there.
Same here .. lady clients hitting on me .....some married with families .... Been called out to calls where the only objective was to get me alone with them for their pleasure. Arrive to carry out the work and a complete love nest was set up . One was a German porn actress with a complete dungeon . I got the hell out of Dodge not wanting to have myself whipped by amorous Madam Helga .😂
Yesterday I literally stepped outta my door to the sidewalk and noticed the woman's perfume that walked right past me. Right away I'm like "is that patchouli?" & she smiles and says " it's my favorite" and I smile and say " mine too" . I saw her later in the day and got a huge smile. I think I'm going to introduce myself. I noticed no wedding rings 😎
This is one of your best videos - thank you! I watch a lot of your videos and I've been critical several times in addition to learning from and enjoying many of your videos as well. But this one is one of your very best and one of the most useful. This helped me on my first date with a younger girl (I'm 55 she's 34) and I knocked it out of the park. I flirted with her via text a little before the date and on the date my flirtying was perfect and it led to a lol of hugging/kissing/making out. I met her online on a dating app but your advice on the humor, playfulness, etc. helped me so so much. It worked like a charm. It broke the ice, put her very much at ease, kept things light, and allowed for some very light, courteous touching that broke the physical barrier. The teasing also was a great tip - I never teased her in any way that could be seen as mean but definitely kind of critical - but the KEY to the teasing is make sure she'll take it as a joke and even maintain a very subtle (or even not so subtle) smile so she is "in on the joke". She never got upset, she always laughed - an example, she knew I thought she was hot, and at one point she complimented me on how I looked, how I was dressed, etc. and my reply was "You look ok tonight"... lol - she thought it was hilarious. I stretched it out, "What? I'm just being honest....that's not bad, i didn't say you look bad, you look fine...." she "got it" and she loved it. I also did the touching - shoulder mostly. I came up with things to say where the shoulder touch would fit. It worked - it broke the barrier down and the touching progressed and we ended up hugging, cuddling, and doing a lot of kissing.... when I walked her to the car I held her hand but she quickly let go and instead she was hanging all over me - hanging on my arm, hugging me, touching my chest, etc. even while walking.. Seriously I used those tips of yours and kept them in mind. About a third of the way in we were getting along great and it was very friendly and she mentioned something about how "well we'll be great friends at least" - that was a five-alarm fire bell to me!!! I moved QUICKLY into the flirting and using innuendo - I wouldn't even call it "Sexual" innuendo, more like "romantic" innuendo. Just enough to remind her I'm a date, not a friend. Things like "so what did you like about my profile?" and she'd mention some hobby or something and I'd say "and of course my stunning good looks..." which she laughed at but also validated "of course!" This stuff really works - it worked for me. I turned what would have in my past been a definite "friend zone" date into a romantic date that she loved - she gushed about it in texts to me afterwards, knowing I'd see them after driving home. Date number 2 is in a couple nights - I plan to keep the momentum going!!! Thanks again!!!
I walked confidently into the Walmart and found a golden girl to practice on. I’m 43 so was 20+ years older. Practiced flirting. Great way for me to break ice of doing this. She really appreciated it and was even very witty and funny herself. We had a great laugh and I suggested she buy the Miss Santa suit she was holding up.
Yesterday I had a dressy appointment (Im 57 btw). I was ready early so I grabbed a coffee at a local shop that I do not frequent. As I got to the head of the line I saw a very lovely young lady & gave her a very genuine smile as she was just a doll. I will say that should my gaze & smile have been a bit obvious I was only too happy to let them be. When she returned w my drink she flashed me a gaze & a very playful grin that just delighted. The whole things lasted 10 seconds & was just sweet. Too young for me but relatively harmless & it brightened my day. Always loved flirting, its always such a really nice surprize when someone does so with you. The subtleties gain more of your attn as you get older.
Since I’m married I don’t flirt anymore but flirting is so very easy. All you have to do is say something about her or a similar circumstance you both are experiencing. The more you think about it the more awkward flirting is. The more offhanded and less you think about it the better you will be at flirting. Remember a conversation is nothing more than asking and answering questions.
@@ErichH68 no harm flirting with your wife to keep things interesting. My marriage recently ended as we didn't put the effort in! I'm having fun now anyway 😆
I liked this, Wingmam. I'm sixty-five, single, and spend most of my time alone. I flirt and make women of all ages laugh, and I make a point of remembering names. I'm considered 'academic' in a positive sense, or intellectual, but people say I'm perceptive, sensitive, and witty, or even poetic say a few. These days, most of my human contact comes when I shop for food and I appreciate the boredom retail jobs can entail, so I tell people I value and appreciate the work they do. I'm reluctant to touch anyone, although in flirting, the gestures you suggested are appropriate if you know each other a little and well enough to share humour. Last month, I treated two women to a restaurant meal but feel that if I pushed it further, I'd begin to feel like a creep because I'd be acting like a creep. I had a young friend, years ago, who had been invited out for a meal by an American, holidaying golfer she met that day and described him as a 'gentleman' that evening but she would be back at ten o'clock to meet me for a drink. I told my friend that he would expect her to 'take [her] knickers off by the end of the evening' and to 'watch out' which she felt was 'ridiculous'. I went out to meet her later that evening, and she turned up early thanking me, apologising for not heeding my suspicion earlier that day. He expected her to sleep with him. I don't think humans, male and female, will ever fully understand each other. Flirting is light enough but men shouldn't expect nor assume too much from it until the female expresses that desire. There is something else that came to mind while I was thinking about it. When I was in my teens, I went to a good university but many of the students had been educated privately in non-coeducational schools. The number of my female friends who were 'freaked out' by being presented with engagement rings and proposed to by these 'public schoolboys' was legend. They didn't grow and learn alongside girls and didn't know better. Thankfully, there aren't so many of such 'boys only' non co-ed schools these days. Extreme feminism and misogyny? I believe in couples being companionate, and every couple has to find their own balance for themselves. Not all men are 'Chad' or 'Tyrone' but that doesn't make them MGTOW or 'simps' either. I value your perspective, Wingmam, and know many will benefit from your efforts, bless you.
Hi AJ (Your Wingmam), it's AJ again. The video was very helpful and I do believe that I have the following down pack: #6. Be confident #5. hold eye contact #4. add humor #3. tease her #2. touch her ( without worrying about rape charges). #1. Avoid Sarcasm [ I actually find sarcasm to be funny depending on the tone of the conversation however this was something I had to work on myself]. Also do the rules in the video apply online when you're trying to seal the deal with a particular lady that you want to get to know??? To make a long story short there's this particular lady that I want to talk to (in person) and I'm going to try to seal a deal with her by getting her a gift for her birthday 2 months from now, just to throw another hint that I'm interested. I figured since she was somewhat of a beginning content creator this would be the right opportunity for me to do this. [I hope that I'm pursuing and not chasing in my plans right now.] Am I on the right path?? ~AJ
AJ! Yes, these apply online; eye contact if using video chat; mentioning of touch "I would pinch your arm for that one, lady!" ;) or "Are you a hugger or not so much?" playful smile... etc. I'd be careful with giving gifts early on unless they're both: playful/jokey and obviously super cheap/cheesy but called out for being both so she knows you're not actually a cheapskate. But you should close for a date sooner than later. And if she's not ready for an in person date then try to close for a video chat non-date. (She'll need prep time.) Watch some of the videos in my online dating/texting playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dmL9oX8sipAqb8dA58sBHCU And build chemistry through text playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dl-whY_zax1xxyRukwxPHzQ You got this, AJ! :)
Thank you for posting the list! i am running behind so wont get to watch it. I would certainly score an F+ at avoiding sarcasm! Sarcasm is an essential part of my repertoire with self-deprecating humor a close 2nd! Thanks again, AJ!
That's dumb. As a 57 y/o man you should have more sense than that. Of course there are terrible women out there who can ruin your life but that doesn't mean you should deprive yourself of one of the greatest experiences know to human kind. People need to stop lazily characterizing all people in a group based on their personal experiences. Human beings are complicated (which includes women) so how ever many women you've had experience with is hardly enough to characterize all women. Besides that have you considered your role in this? Were you deserving of a good woman? We're you good at reading their characters and choosing good women? This way of thinking is just as asinine as when women say "all men are trash". Stop being a bot.
With the eye contact , my experience has been that in a recurring situation ( shop , gym etc ) women deliberately go warm and cold ( the testing again ? ) with it. Although i don't mind some testing during conversation , the eye one kills it before it begins. Sarcasm is okay if she isn't a negative person in general. The touching ( shoulder squeezing ) can be a problem , especially if i don't know her very well. Since i like smart , funny and empathic women , and am usually not that impressed by looks alone , i find most very attractive women can sense that and don't mind me making a physical compliment about their , let's say, auburn hair ( wink , wink ) Have a sunny week , Mademoiselle AJ !
Does not matter how good you are at flirting. The only thing you have to learn are the signals women will give you if they’re interested, and there’s only one rule. If a woman is interested she will give you a lot of attention irregardless of wether it’s negative or positive.
Yeah, but remember man's nature is being active. So when take action around women especially in a bold and confident way, you draw their attention and become much more attractive in their eyes. If you just sit around and wait for them to send you signals, more often than not you never gonna get those signals. My two cents.
@@top_looser It doesn’t matter how confident a guy acts, or pretends to be. For instance: let’s say a guy is quiet, shy, and not good in social situations. If he’s unattractive he is awkward, and weird, and a little creepy. If he’s attractive he is dark, and mysterious. Which will make them that much more curious about him.
What a first world problem to have so many men compliment your looks to start a conversation that you're then instantly turned off to him for being like "all the rest." Must be nice. Shows you the difference between men and women, as I have LOVED it when a woman hits on me and begins the conversation with a compliment about my looks. I swear, dating was so much easier when I and most of the women I dated were each in our 20s back in the 90s. Less game playing, and I just approached a random girl, talked to her, often got her number easily (still do), asked her out to dinner, had an effortless conversation about our backgrounds, family, and pop culture interests and often ended up dating for over 6 months NOW, in my early 50s, I use the same formula with women in their 40s to early 50s, and it's rarely enough to create any chemistry on their end to get even a second date, smh, but I digress. Maybe social media and their woke friends (as you mentioned in a previous video) have given them an over valued opinion of themselves
@@YourWingmam and what is "truly best," lol? I'm confused, lol. On a side note, fortunately, I've actually been in a great relationship the past 4 months, so hopefully it will continue.
Hello Anna, First of all I love your advice videos and your sense of humour about all the dumb mistakes us men make. Please keep doing what your doing. Secondly, you mentioned in a video I saw to, “… treat her like a bratty sister…” can you please elaborate on this? I had 2 brothers so I don’t have personal experience. Would greatly appreciate the advice.
1. Be attractive; 2. Be in shape (connected to number 1, but not the same) 3. Take care of your appearance (hair, clothes); 4. Be confident; 5. Be tall. Once you have all of the above, then you have her permission to flirt. Women will only consider flirting as creep from a guy who isn't at least 3 or 4 out of the above 5.
I think I have found a trick to discover a narcissist. During the love-bombing ( the primary stage a narcissist uses to hook you in), I found that when I occasionally used self-deprecating humour and put myself down jokingly, I found that she (the narcissist) just did not understand such humour. Not at all. In fact during the love bombing she will actually deny it and say thats not true at all, as if I was totally serious. When I say, I'm only joking, she just has that vacant confused look. I think perhaps a narcissist cannot relate to such humour because they could not even dream of putting themselves down not even jokingly and therefore they cannot understand someone else doing it.
Brilliant point! I'm working on a narcissist video and may mention this if it fits in... if I miss it, please post it in the comments when it comes out! :))
There's a lot of women that for whatever reason makes you think they are flirting with you & sends off all the signals but then she has a "bf" & does it with everyone else. I've been caught up in it & it really sucks especially if you had liked them before they started "fake flirting"
Ooh the attitude in this video. Also the lighting 😂 looks like you came alive out of the shadows. Listening as in doing my morning exercises. Enjoying the content. Take care.
Good tips. I'm 75 and still flirt - and get flirted with. You've honed some of my techniques and given me a few new ones. Thanks! Good job maintaining interest with foreshadowing and segues into the next video!
Excellent, keep those skills sharp. It's fun to make them blush. Along with the right place at the right time, you need the right might mindset. You are on track.
I’m 44 only one time a woman actually flirted with me. She had everything prolonged eye contact, they mirroring, the leaning in, the feet pointing to me, sat next to me every chance she got, the touching of my arm as she was walking by saying hi. And she is 21. I met her in church.
I'm absolutely natural at flirting, it's not so difficult for me. I graduated three times so this cannot be a so difficult thing. The only problem I have is my body, that was destroyed by doctors. For this reason no woman wants to talk with me, unless I pay
I used to be painfully shy & could barely speak to women (and men) at all, let alone be flirtatious. I only learned how to come out of my shell by being forced to do so in a customer service job I took. Now I am in a similar job, & most of my customers seem to like me. I still sometimes put my foot in my mouth, but that's an improvement over saying nothing.
I have Asperger's and it hard for me to realize when a woman is flirting with me. Also I have trouble realizing when I maybe flirting without realizing that I am.
To get good at flirting, practice! Make a daily attempt to cause at least one person to smile. No matter if you are sexually attracted or not. Don't make it about sex. Make it about brightening somebody's day. And try to work in an honest compliment - but not a generic "You look good" line. You should make eye contact with everybody to whom you speak. If the person responds favorably and you want to take it to a different level, then a light and brief touch on the hand or arm is your next move.
The more I ignored women the more I got married...Married 4 times so far. I enjoy a great wedding when I'm the groom and I have a cool collection of wedding bands. Side note divorces costs half of what a wedding cost. So plan accordingly. Don't share a house just visit when she doesn't think of you as a sack of potatoes with a T shirt. If you can't afford an attorney when you get married well good luck when you get divorced. Have fun and stay hydrated.
So sad to say our culture has tanked,the media/ movies/ advertisements has put a huge wedge between men & women,a man wants to hold a door open for a lady but its not welcomed anymore,,women in asia still appreciate a considerate man,
Solid advice and content. I needed a lot of self development before I could do this stuff but if you can do it authentically it really does work and it can be super fun flirting with girls if you do not have any agenda behind it; maybe feels safer for the receiver and frees up the person initiating the flirtation. Now I feel like the phrase "there's a lot of fish in the sea" doesn't so much describe the dating situation, it's more an attitude you need to have to be successful in the dating game. You might live somewhere with only 3 fish but you'll flirt a lot better if you don't give those fish importance they do not yet have.
For sure one of the best summaries on youtube about how to flirt as a man. Instead of avoiding sarcasm (which is something, I guess everybody knows), I'd like to have conversation skills included: Don't ask decisive questions. Instead there are certain questions that tend to raise positive emotions, like "What do you do in your spare time?", "Tell me about your last travel/holiday", "Where would you like to travel to?", "Tell me about your hobbies!" etc. If you have found her "Golden Nugget", she will tell you a lot about her, her dreams and future plans. All you have to do then is listen actively and occasionally interrupt her with another question to show your interest in her person/personality. You can also go deeper with your questions later, like: "Imagine you were able to succeed with everything that you do and everyone would support you and you have no boundaries, what would you like to do/become, where would you like to get to?" or "What was the most courageous thing you ever did? Did you experience fear?" a.s.o. You could also ask her to do you a little favour. It's psychologically proven that if someone has already done you a favour, the possibility, he'd do that again is higher. This way you can gently make her start making small investments into you, which also tightens a tender bondage. You can also use conversation to get more se.ually later, but indirectly. You could tell her a story for instance about what you have heard about someone saying erotic things to his girlfriend. After all, it's not something you say to her directly, its just a story about someone doing so. You may also use words in your story with strong erotic connotation. But you have to build some skills in story-telling first, otherwise such things may come a bit creepy.
Im natrually shy so every morning starting my day i make it a point to speak to at least 3 new people before i start work. Not for flirting but just not to be an introverted wierdo. And ive talked with some amazing people. Ive noticed more attractive women generally are more aloof. But i dont mind, im the nicest guy I know. Too bad for them. Just because they are pretty doesnt mean they are smart.
Excellent! I talk about this in my program, practice talking to people just for practice. You train your brain to get comfortable with conversation. And yep, if they're not into you... their loss!
Fellas you can flirt all you want. Unless this toxic environment is dealt with only players will ever have a girlfriend. The key is they are cool and confident because they don’t mean a word they say. Same goes for the girls. They can take it or leave it which removes the jitters. Then they get their meal and are gone.
I've got to tell you this, because there is no real chance that I'll ever meet you in person. Even thought you are not the most beautiful woman I've ever seen (you are quite pretty!), you are definitely one of the most adorable I have ever come across!! Your personality, mannerisms and confidence are really fun to observe!
Flirting is high risk. If a woman is receptive it's flirting ... Is she is not...it's harassment and your a creep and generally Women can't except it as a compliment...
Pretty much complies with my experience. I had success when I acted like suggested. And failed when violated some of these guidelines. Man I screwed up a lot, especially when younger, but it's never too late to learn.
Great channel and tips. I just came out of a 13 year relationship. I can't say I'm devastated or with low morale., but my question is how long should I wait for me to start meeting woman.? ❤
Just tuned in to your channel. What is your viewpoint on asking a co-worker on a date? There is this girl I like at my job and though we don't see each other that often during the week, the times when we do I get an endorphins tingle sensation and my breathing quickens. We've also made eye contact on numerous occasions and smile at one another but have not at this point held a conversation beyond the boring surface level "hi, how are you doing?" type stuff. I like this person and though I don't know for sure if the feeling is mutual I am curious to see if there might be any compatibility. Main reasons why I haven't pursued her is 1) I feel like there might be a 10+yr. age gap 2) it always seems like an inopportune moment and 3) I don't feel like it's the best idea to date co-workers but I don't know how else to meet someone. I also don't want to reveal myself to this person and end up facing embarrassment and rejection.
Age gap is no problem. If she's your coworker, there are plenty if opportunity moments. If you feel otherwise, the problem is your lack of confidence. But you're right with not wanting to deal with a coworker. That means trouble.
I can talk with any woman, any age even if she’s a 10. I think part of is I worked as a retail manager for many years and approached all of them. Of course I had to keep things positive and keep her engaged. No big secret just realize that you being confident and not being put off easily and dismissed, that in fact she could benefit from opening up to you. By opening up to you you could steer her more quickly to what she was interested in or suggest something better as an alternative. Now that was retail. But timidity is off putting and confidence is their kryptonite.
Thanks for a great insight into the complicated circumstances of communication between men and women my wife passed 4years ago and I have been trying to date with no success because we were together for 35 years I’m somewhat out of touch I guess it’s a bit like going to school for the first time as one has to relearn everything again b t w love your channel you have a great approach to the content you deliver it’s invaluable to men like me.
Thanks for the great tips! But i feel like every time i speak it doesn’t get intimate. And even if it did i feel like i won’t know what to talk about next and that it wont get to anywhere
An old post I know, still gonna post anyways: I was with a buddy at a coffee shop one time and we both noticed and pretty gal. I looked over and then looked back, my friend Sean looked and then just kept looking, and looking and looking. I called his name and asked why he was acting such a keeper, he just brushed me off. It was hard not to feel awkward and protective of her after a while…
With the hight difference, I think a better way to put it is, "that only really matters when we're standing"! A bit more subtle, only alluding to being "horizontal"!!
Guys this kind of advices telling by her works! I was a very lonely guy but building myself and taking care advices like this and those 'seduction plans' starts acting positive in me lol. Of course don't rush the things, but if you are very introvert like me, this may be helpfull for you, belive me.
Thank you so much. Excellent advice. I saw the most beautiful girl in the gym this morning. I got my courage and told her you were the most beautiful woman in this gym. Then I asked her tell me I’m wrong and she laughed. I told her was nice meeting her and have a nice weekend. I know I will see her in the gym again so I have laid the seeds so I can talk to her again in the future and she will have a positive feeling when she sees me
In my experience the “fake it til you make it”, after you’ve watched all the rest of Anna’s videos (and others), and research a bit is the tip with the longest legs. So many people want quick results! Sometimes it does happen. Everyone is a bit different with hypergamy though, and it takes a lot of life experience to learn some of the clues to reading people. Intuition/gut feeling is innate, and can be sharpened and learned. Women notice and test in many ways, and it takes so much subconscious confidence (after practicing in real life) to be able to gauge the situation, and then think on your feet, without tripping on your tongue. Confidence is usually the bottom line and wins over everything initially. Unless it’s a strong woman, then that’s another type of flirting game. Overconfidence to an extreme, (over used) can also be a turnoff. Sarcasm is used far too often imo, and is not the most intelligent form of humour, so great tip re:saving it til later when you know and can use a clever entendre based on similar morals and ethics. I try to compliment a woman on anything EXCEPT looks initially, even though women love hearing it every time. The details you notice about a woman will show her you have been paying attention, and that she’s not just some random woman, as it shows sincerity. Don’t be too specific, though. Women often aren’t specific with comments and questions, to try and test you. Test them too, leave something open to fantasy and interpretation. Maintain a metaphorical line in the sand (like touch) and once she crosses the line to your side of the fence it’s a good sign! So after awhile you’ll be able to tell if she’s interested. It all leads to emotional attachment and that’s when everything depends on your mutual trust and respect. They’re the foundation of every healthy relationship. Once trust and respect are lost, it’s very hard to rebuild them. Resentments arise and couples keep score. Good luck, and thanks again mamacita Anna, for your caring, and eruditions in the evermore complicated world of dating and relationships!❣️
The wink is good cos, even if the person isn't interested, you can always just brush it off as a joke or something. But if there's a smile or wink back... really, its win-win 100%
AGE: I'm 67, When they ask I say, Jack Benny's age 39 or sometimes I'll say 29. It has never failed to get a good laugh. I actually watched this video twice. You do a great job.
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Where were you this whole time I’m excited to watch your videos and I’m a huge fan of your work and it’s the first time I started watching your videos. I’m looking forward to see more of your content. Keep it up🎉🎉🎉
Well, lets take your shoes off?
I get along well with married women, they seem too attracted to me? But I can't get time of day from single women? Married women ask me How are u still single? Ask the single women? They all ignore me?
Touch her? Sexual Assault! Going to jail!
I Love your hair color? I've always loved redheads?
How is that?
To build confidence quickly, practice making eye contact with everybody in public and talking to everyone you can. I intentionally go grocery shopping several times per week just to practice. The practice has paid off tremendously.
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1. Avoid sarcasm
2. Touch her
3. Tease her.
4. Humour
5. Hold eye contact
6. Be confident
If any or all of the above fail then an Amex Platinum card works wonders.
#4: check! ;)
Maybe not so much on the touching but I agree with all the rest
@@scotttabak6755 There are some very good ways to touch her that seem innocent but still have the desired effect. Yes you should learn them and use them regularly. It works.
… well, and all that is fine | may work out smoothly if she likes you to begin with. otherwise you‘re likely to be criminalised for just this. and sooo… just refrain from fk.n simping and wasting undeserved attention | validation. there‘re abundances of fem.s out there that multiple gents sigh in relief to have gotten rid of and | or that you‘d do alike once not having avoided getting in touch with.
@@x-man5056 any suggestions for that? Links, books, etc..
(Laughing to myself; Thinking about previous videos.) I was golfing this morning and got paired up with a 22yo "young buck". Eventually the "snack girl" (19yo) came around with her food cart. I deliberately stopped her so she could see the "young buck". He didn't follow through with anything and she left. She cycled around 45 minutes later and I stopped her again (to buy a beer and give the buck a second chance). This time he walked up to her and started talking. She smiled, looked at the ground and started fidgeting a lot with her necklace (both hands). Her eyes kept darting back and forth between the ground and the buck. After she left again, I filled in the buck about what her fidgeting indicated and her quick glances. I got a text message from him twenty minutes after leaving the golf course. They have a date tomorrow for him to teach her golf.
The Wingmam Fam strikes again! Excellent story, thanks for sharing... and teaching!
That same thing happened to me when I was a young buck.........the girl never showed up. That was forty years ago we've been divorced for about twenty now.
A 19 year old can serve alcohol (beer)in what state?
The story was probably from one of those handful of countries in the world that's not America.
@@capncrush6729 In most of Europe, you can drink from 18
The day a woman will tell me ‘I am here to be with you, help us, provide for us and willing to go through hardships to build something together and support each other towards becoming better humans and partner’… I’ll carefully give her a chance… until then, I’ll remain on the road to self realization
Ditto,and I openly say that to women
That's the ideal! Of course, no woman, no matter how ideal she may be, will show up like that before she's seen proof that's a safe decision. In the meantime, you are on the right road!! :)
@@YourWingmam I agree. The same should be said towards men. I spend time watching your videos to educate myself further about ways to be able as a human prior to getting in a serious relationship with someone who does not want to put effort, coordinate or take pride in a vision that is possible but rather put every part of the relationship on her emotions.
I'd suggest you build a time machine and back to 1930, before woman became entitled feminists. Woman destroyed marriage/relationships. Good luck with that.
@Ms. Y W - That is the part I seem to be missing ( and I ain't no expert ) . SHE has to see proof, SHE has to be comfortable, SHE holds the cards . . . maybe guys do not appreciate that anymore . . . .
Was told that I am a natural flirt when I don't realize that I am doing that. When I consciously try gets all tongue tied and doesn't know what to say. When you said about trying to talk with a woman and doesn't know what to say, definitely relate to that
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Same, feel like a Headdick when i get tongue tied and stumble for words.
about Posture - i think what she describes shows how fit you are. i was living a very unhealthy life and couple years back i started working out a little (nothing crazy. just like 30 mins or so a day with a few push ups/pull ups). when you're muscles tighten up, all the things she said just happened. you're no longer hunched. your back becomes straight, shoulders are back. this alone i feel made a huge difference.
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i started similary.... now im going 3 times a week bouldering(3-5 hours) and at home i try my best that the chest gets the last bit of strenght. its crazy how much changes (not only the physique of the body)
and its good for the mentality :)
You're very correct, I'm a veteran, just standing up straight, pulling your shoulders back, builds back muscles
I used to be a locksmith. One day I got a call to go and make a key. Once I got the address, the lady asked me on the phone if I'm as good looking as my voice sounds. I laughed as I said, "No, I'm absolutely hideous". As soon as I arrived, she laughed and said, "Oh you're such a liar!" And she was smiling, and flirting, the whole time I was there.
Ha! Love it... under promise over deliver! ;)
Same here .. lady clients hitting on me .....some married with families .... Been called out to calls where the only objective was to get me alone with them for their pleasure. Arrive to carry out the work and a complete love nest was set up . One was a German porn actress with a complete dungeon . I got the hell out of Dodge not wanting to have myself whipped by amorous Madam Helga .😂
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When wanted you to unlock her padlock.
No offense to you, but she sounds desperate.
Yesterday I literally stepped outta my door to the sidewalk and noticed the woman's perfume that walked right past me. Right away I'm like "is that patchouli?" & she smiles and says " it's my favorite" and I smile and say " mine too" . I saw her later in the day and got a huge smile. I think I'm going to introduce myself. I noticed no wedding rings 😎
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Nailed it.
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This is one of your best videos - thank you! I watch a lot of your videos and I've been critical several times in addition to learning from and enjoying many of your videos as well. But this one is one of your very best and one of the most useful. This helped me on my first date with a younger girl (I'm 55 she's 34) and I knocked it out of the park. I flirted with her via text a little before the date and on the date my flirtying was perfect and it led to a lol of hugging/kissing/making out. I met her online on a dating app but your advice on the humor, playfulness, etc. helped me so so much. It worked like a charm. It broke the ice, put her very much at ease, kept things light, and allowed for some very light, courteous touching that broke the physical barrier. The teasing also was a great tip - I never teased her in any way that could be seen as mean but definitely kind of critical - but the KEY to the teasing is make sure she'll take it as a joke and even maintain a very subtle (or even not so subtle) smile so she is "in on the joke". She never got upset, she always laughed - an example, she knew I thought she was hot, and at one point she complimented me on how I looked, how I was dressed, etc. and my reply was "You look ok tonight"... lol - she thought it was hilarious. I stretched it out, "What? I'm just being honest....that's not bad, i didn't say you look bad, you look fine...." she "got it" and she loved it. I also did the touching - shoulder mostly. I came up with things to say where the shoulder touch would fit. It worked - it broke the barrier down and the touching progressed and we ended up hugging, cuddling, and doing a lot of kissing.... when I walked her to the car I held her hand but she quickly let go and instead she was hanging all over me - hanging on my arm, hugging me, touching my chest, etc. even while walking.. Seriously I used those tips of yours and kept them in mind. About a third of the way in we were getting along great and it was very friendly and she mentioned something about how "well we'll be great friends at least" - that was a five-alarm fire bell to me!!! I moved QUICKLY into the flirting and using innuendo - I wouldn't even call it "Sexual" innuendo, more like "romantic" innuendo. Just enough to remind her I'm a date, not a friend. Things like "so what did you like about my profile?" and she'd mention some hobby or something and I'd say "and of course my stunning good looks..." which she laughed at but also validated "of course!" This stuff really works - it worked for me. I turned what would have in my past been a definite "friend zone" date into a romantic date that she loved - she gushed about it in texts to me afterwards, knowing I'd see them after driving home. Date number 2 is in a couple nights - I plan to keep the momentum going!!! Thanks again!!!
The double wink (quick squint) is one of my favorites.
LOL! Especially if you do it twice! ;)
@@YourWingmam Cat slow blink kisses
Thanks!
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I walked confidently into the Walmart and found a golden girl to practice on. I’m 43 so was 20+ years older. Practiced flirting. Great way for me to break ice of doing this. She really appreciated it and was even very witty and funny herself. We had a great laugh and I suggested she buy the Miss Santa suit she was holding up.
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Yesterday I had a dressy appointment (Im 57 btw). I was ready early so I grabbed a coffee at a local shop that I do not frequent. As I got to the head of the line I saw a very lovely young lady & gave her a very genuine smile as she was just a doll. I will say that should my gaze & smile have been a bit obvious I was only too happy to let them be. When she returned w my drink she flashed me a gaze & a very playful grin that just delighted. The whole things lasted 10 seconds & was just sweet. Too young for me but relatively harmless & it brightened my day. Always loved flirting, its always such a really nice surprize when someone does so with you. The subtleties gain more of your attn as you get older.
Since I’m married I don’t flirt anymore but flirting is so very easy. All you have to do is say something about her or a similar circumstance you both are experiencing. The more you think about it the more awkward flirting is. The more offhanded and less you think about it the better you will be at flirting. Remember a conversation is nothing more than asking and answering questions.
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@@gordonsrus so your saying it doesn’t get any easier without work…
@@ErichH68 no harm flirting with your wife to keep things interesting. My marriage recently ended as we didn't put the effort in! I'm having fun now anyway 😆
I liked this, Wingmam. I'm sixty-five, single, and spend most of my time alone. I flirt and make women of all ages laugh, and I make a point of remembering names. I'm considered 'academic' in a positive sense, or intellectual, but people say I'm perceptive, sensitive, and witty, or even poetic say a few. These days, most of my human contact comes when I shop for food and I appreciate the boredom retail jobs can entail, so I tell people I value and appreciate the work they do. I'm reluctant to touch anyone, although in flirting, the gestures you suggested are appropriate if you know each other a little and well enough to share humour. Last month, I treated two women to a restaurant meal but feel that if I pushed it further, I'd begin to feel like a creep because I'd be acting like a creep.
I had a young friend, years ago, who had been invited out for a meal by an American, holidaying golfer she met that day and described him as a 'gentleman' that evening but she would be back at ten o'clock to meet me for a drink. I told my friend that he would expect her to 'take [her] knickers off by the end of the evening' and to 'watch out' which she felt was 'ridiculous'. I went out to meet her later that evening, and she turned up early thanking me, apologising for not heeding my suspicion earlier that day. He expected her to sleep with him.
I don't think humans, male and female, will ever fully understand each other. Flirting is light enough but men shouldn't expect nor assume too much from it until the female expresses that desire. There is something else that came to mind while I was thinking about it.
When I was in my teens, I went to a good university but many of the students had been educated privately in non-coeducational schools. The number of my female friends who were 'freaked out' by being presented with engagement rings and proposed to by these 'public schoolboys' was legend. They didn't grow and learn alongside girls and didn't know better. Thankfully, there aren't so many of such 'boys only' non co-ed schools these days.
Extreme feminism and misogyny? I believe in couples being companionate, and every couple has to find their own balance for themselves. Not all men are 'Chad' or 'Tyrone' but that doesn't make them MGTOW or 'simps' either. I value your perspective, Wingmam, and know many will benefit from your efforts, bless you.
Thanks Anna, these videos always make me smile with a new assurance!
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What a great video. Professional, warm, educational, lots of great tips and engaging. Thank you!
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Love the way you explained confidence, and how physiology affects psychology and vice versa. Thanks for this video!
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Fantastic video Anna - love your delivery, voice inflection and injections of humour. Take notes gentlemen.
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Flirting is easy, starting the conversation and approach is the hard part!
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Words to live by. It''s clever. I like it. I'm gonna turn that into a t-shirt.
I am always amazed with your coaching. You are so fluid with everything you talk about. So magnetic. Thx Anna ❤
Hi AJ (Your Wingmam), it's AJ again. The video was very helpful and I do believe that I have the following down pack:
#6. Be confident
#5. hold eye contact
#4. add humor
#3. tease her
#2. touch her ( without worrying about rape charges).
#1. Avoid Sarcasm [ I actually find sarcasm to be funny depending on the tone of the conversation however this was something I had to work on myself].
Also do the rules in the video apply online when you're trying to seal the deal with a particular lady that you want to get to know??? To make a long story short there's this particular lady that I want to talk to (in person) and I'm going to try to seal a deal with her by getting her a gift for her birthday 2 months from now, just to throw another hint that I'm interested. I figured since she was somewhat of a beginning content creator this would be the right opportunity for me to do this. [I hope that I'm pursuing and not chasing in my plans right now.] Am I on the right path??
~AJ
AJ! Yes, these apply online; eye contact if using video chat; mentioning of touch "I would pinch your arm for that one, lady!" ;) or "Are you a hugger or not so much?" playful smile... etc. I'd be careful with giving gifts early on unless they're both: playful/jokey and obviously super cheap/cheesy but called out for being both so she knows you're not actually a cheapskate. But you should close for a date sooner than later. And if she's not ready for an in person date then try to close for a video chat non-date. (She'll need prep time.) Watch some of the videos in my online dating/texting playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dmL9oX8sipAqb8dA58sBHCU
And build chemistry through text playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLQ8Q-8-X18dl-whY_zax1xxyRukwxPHzQ
You got this, AJ! :)
Thank you for posting the list! i am running behind so wont get to watch it. I would certainly score an F+ at avoiding sarcasm! Sarcasm is an essential part of my repertoire with self-deprecating humor a close 2nd! Thanks again, AJ!
Post your result dude! Whether she says yes or no, youre growing. And growth is rarely easy
@@64maxpower I most certainly will. Just keep a look out for my comment. Or maybe I'll notify Your WINGMAM on my results💯🔥🔥
As a 57 y/o man that has been through it all, take MY flirting advice. DO NOT FLIRT. Stay single. Stay far away from women. You've been warned.
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What are you doing on a dating tips channel lol
Probably reccomended
That's dumb. As a 57 y/o man you should have more sense than that. Of course there are terrible women out there who can ruin your life but that doesn't mean you should deprive yourself of one of the greatest experiences know to human kind. People need to stop lazily characterizing all people in a group based on their personal experiences. Human beings are complicated (which includes women) so how ever many women you've had experience with is hardly enough to characterize all women. Besides that have you considered your role in this? Were you deserving of a good woman? We're you good at reading their characters and choosing good women? This way of thinking is just as asinine as when women say "all men are trash". Stop being a bot.
Mch appreciated sensei 🙏🏻👊🏻
With the eye contact , my experience has been that in a recurring situation ( shop , gym etc ) women deliberately go warm and cold ( the testing again ? ) with it. Although i don't mind some testing during conversation , the eye one kills it before it begins. Sarcasm is okay if she isn't a negative person in general. The touching ( shoulder squeezing ) can be a problem , especially if i don't know her very well. Since i like smart , funny and empathic women , and am usually not that impressed by looks alone , i find most very attractive women can sense that and don't mind me making a physical compliment about their , let's say, auburn hair ( wink , wink ) Have a sunny week , Mademoiselle AJ !
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Does not matter how good you are at flirting. The only thing you have to learn are the signals women will give you if they’re interested, and there’s only one rule. If a woman is interested she will give you a lot of attention irregardless of wether it’s negative or positive.
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Yeah, but remember man's nature is being active. So when take action around women especially in a bold and confident way, you draw their attention and become much more attractive in their eyes. If you just sit around and wait for them to send you signals, more often than not you never gonna get those signals. My two cents.
She won't give you any attention if you haven't worked on yourself.
@@top_looser It doesn’t matter how confident a guy acts, or pretends to be. For instance: let’s say a guy is quiet, shy, and not good in social situations. If he’s unattractive he is awkward, and weird, and a little creepy. If he’s attractive he is dark, and mysterious. Which will make them that much more curious about him.
And the best way to get attention is be indifferent.
What a first world problem to have so many men compliment your looks to start a conversation that you're then instantly turned off to him for being like "all the rest." Must be nice. Shows you the difference between men and women, as I have LOVED it when a woman hits on me and begins the conversation with a compliment about my looks. I swear, dating was so much easier when I and most of the women I dated were each in our 20s back in the 90s. Less game playing, and I just approached a random girl, talked to her, often got her number easily (still do), asked her out to dinner, had an effortless conversation about our backgrounds, family, and pop culture interests and often ended up dating for over 6 months NOW, in my early 50s, I use the same formula with women in their 40s to early 50s, and it's rarely enough to create any chemistry on their end to get even a second date, smh, but I digress. Maybe social media and their woke friends (as you mentioned in a previous video) have given them an over valued opinion of themselves
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@@YourWingmam and what is "truly best," lol? I'm confused, lol.
On a side note, fortunately, I've actually been in a great relationship the past 4 months, so hopefully it will continue.
@@Lonstermash How did it go?
@@Brian.001 still with her.
@@Lonstermash Well done - I'm happy for you!! 😍
Hello Anna,
First of all I love your advice videos and your sense of humour about all the dumb mistakes us men make. Please keep doing what your doing.
Secondly, you mentioned in a video I saw to, “… treat her like a bratty sister…” can you please elaborate on this? I had 2 brothers so I don’t have personal experience.
Would greatly appreciate the advice.
*It’s refreshing to hear that less can be more when it comes to flirting - keeping it light and fun really allows for a better connection.*
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1. Be attractive;
2. Be in shape (connected to number 1, but not the same)
3. Take care of your appearance (hair, clothes);
4. Be confident;
5. Be tall.
Once you have all of the above, then you have her permission to flirt.
Women will only consider flirting as creep from a guy who isn't at least 3 or 4 out of the above 5.
i have made the sarcasm mistake a few times and really regretted it later. good point!
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I think I have found a trick to discover a narcissist. During the love-bombing ( the primary stage a narcissist uses to hook you in), I found that when I occasionally used self-deprecating humour and put myself down jokingly, I found that she (the narcissist) just did not understand such humour. Not at all. In fact during the love bombing she will actually deny it and say thats not true at all, as if I was totally serious. When I say, I'm only joking, she just has that vacant confused look. I think perhaps a narcissist cannot relate to such humour because they could not even dream of putting themselves down not even jokingly and therefore they cannot understand someone else doing it.
Brilliant point! I'm working on a narcissist video and may mention this if it fits in... if I miss it, please post it in the comments when it comes out! :))
Hi Anna, sounds really great. Especially eye contact. Take care and have a great week. George
Thank you! You too take care and have a great week 🙏
Its so awkward when a girl flirts and you are not interested. I notice the less you care the more they want you
True
There's a lot of women that for whatever reason makes you think they are flirting with you & sends off all the signals but then she has a "bf" & does it with everyone else. I've been caught up in it & it really sucks especially if you had liked them before they started "fake flirting"
Your very smart 🤓 the way you have dissected things such nicely and easily to understand
I love your videos - so fun to watch, so much to learn. Thanks.
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Ooh the attitude in this video. Also the lighting 😂 looks like you came alive out of the shadows.
Listening as in doing my morning exercises. Enjoying the content. Take care.
Great video, appreciated it. Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you for all your tips! They're helping me a ton
I'm so glad! :)
I like the way you pace this video. You show assertiveness on what you say.
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Good tips. I'm 75 and still flirt - and get flirted with. You've honed some of my techniques and given me a few new ones. Thanks!
Good job maintaining interest with foreshadowing and segues into the next video!
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Excellent, keep those skills sharp. It's fun to make them blush. Along with the right place at the right time, you need the right might mindset. You are on track.
Love your hair 😘👌 and thank you for the wonderful tips 😎👍
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I’m 44 only one time a woman actually flirted with me. She had everything prolonged eye contact, they mirroring, the leaning in, the feet pointing to me, sat next to me every chance she got, the touching of my arm as she was walking by saying hi. And she is 21. I met her in church.
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Did you go for it?
@@uzernaimeshe was a scientologist 😂
I'm absolutely natural at flirting, it's not so difficult for me. I graduated three times so this cannot be a so difficult thing. The only problem I have is my body, that was destroyed by doctors. For this reason no woman wants to talk with me, unless I pay
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Anna,that you for these 6 flirting tips!
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I find letting them watch you walk out to your Ferrari and get in after they have rejected you provides 100% positive results. Love AMJ's videos.
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I used to be painfully shy & could barely speak to women (and men) at all, let alone be flirtatious. I only learned how to come out of my shell by being forced to do so in a customer service job I took. Now I am in a similar job, & most of my customers seem to like me. I still sometimes put my foot in my mouth, but that's an improvement over saying nothing.
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Asking a woman if her sister is hot is the best way to lose any chances
Not if her sister is hot, but if her sister is as hot as she.
Always enjoy your vids and advice. How does one get a date with you?
Well, the first thing you need to do is buy a Body Cam, and record the interaction....protect yourself guys
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I have Asperger's and it hard for me to realize when a woman is flirting with me. Also I have trouble realizing when I maybe flirting without realizing that I am.
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏
To get good at flirting, practice! Make a daily attempt to cause at least one person to smile. No matter if you are sexually attracted or not. Don't make it about sex. Make it about brightening somebody's day. And try to work in an honest compliment - but not a generic "You look good" line. You should make eye contact with everybody to whom you speak. If the person responds favorably and you want to take it to a different level, then a light and brief touch on the hand or arm is your next move.
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Very good advice
You're my favorite!!! Watched a few others but you are the best!
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The more I ignored women the more I got married...Married 4 times so far. I enjoy a great wedding when I'm the groom and I have a cool collection of wedding bands. Side note divorces costs half of what a wedding cost. So plan accordingly. Don't share a house just visit when she doesn't think of you as a sack of potatoes with a T shirt. If you can't afford an attorney when you get married well good luck when you get divorced. Have fun and stay hydrated.
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don't ever get married... i did it once but got 1 million $ out of it but it could have gone the other way
You might like to wear the wedding rings like Prince Albert did.
@@jamesparlane9289 My rooster is happy non pierced...lol...for now...
Lmao wtf did you not understand after the 1st divorce? 🤣
Thank you Doc for your knowledge and helpful tips. Stay safe and God bless.
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So sad to say our culture has tanked,the media/ movies/ advertisements has put a huge wedge between men & women,a man wants to hold a door open for a lady but its not welcomed anymore,,women in asia still appreciate a considerate man,
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Solid advice and content. I needed a lot of self development before I could do this stuff but if you can do it authentically it really does work and it can be super fun flirting with girls if you do not have any agenda behind it; maybe feels safer for the receiver and frees up the person initiating the flirtation. Now I feel like the phrase "there's a lot of fish in the sea" doesn't so much describe the dating situation, it's more an attitude you need to have to be successful in the dating game. You might live somewhere with only 3 fish but you'll flirt a lot better if you don't give those fish importance they do not yet have.
For sure one of the best summaries on youtube about how to flirt as a man. Instead of avoiding sarcasm (which is something, I guess everybody knows), I'd like to have conversation skills included: Don't ask decisive questions. Instead there are certain questions that tend to raise positive emotions, like "What do you do in your spare time?", "Tell me about your last travel/holiday", "Where would you like to travel to?", "Tell me about your hobbies!" etc. If you have found her "Golden Nugget", she will tell you a lot about her, her dreams and future plans. All you have to do then is listen actively and occasionally interrupt her with another question to show your interest in her person/personality. You can also go deeper with your questions later, like: "Imagine you were able to succeed with everything that you do and everyone would support you and you have no boundaries, what would you like to do/become, where would you like to get to?" or "What was the most courageous thing you ever did? Did you experience fear?" a.s.o.
You could also ask her to do you a little favour. It's psychologically proven that if someone has already done you a favour, the possibility, he'd do that again is higher. This way you can gently make her start making small investments into you, which also tightens a tender bondage. You can also use conversation to get more se.ually later, but indirectly. You could tell her a story for instance about what you have heard about someone saying erotic things to his girlfriend. After all, it's not something you say to her directly, its just a story about someone doing so. You may also use words in your story with strong erotic connotation. But you have to build some skills in story-telling first, otherwise such things may come a bit creepy.
My British self-deprecating humour has definitely tripped me up over the years. Learnt to tone that down, especially a no-no with Latin women
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Works better with Asian women.
Latin women can be oversensitive.
Thank you so, So much for your time doing this one for us Anna, The Astronomical❤.
Your Wonderful😇.
I mean your Absolutely Wonderful Darling🥰🥇🌸.
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@@YourWingmam You Are Most Welcome, Tremendous One😍.
Im natrually shy so every morning starting my day i make it a point to speak to at least 3 new people before i start work. Not for flirting but just not to be an introverted wierdo. And ive talked with some amazing people.
Ive noticed more attractive women generally are more aloof. But i dont mind, im the nicest guy I know. Too bad for them. Just because they are pretty doesnt mean they are smart.
Excellent! I talk about this in my program, practice talking to people just for practice. You train your brain to get comfortable with conversation. And yep, if they're not into you... their loss!
I do not really like women dating coaches much at all, but you seem to be very good at what you do so thank you for the video
Fellas you can flirt all you want. Unless this toxic environment is dealt with only players will ever have a girlfriend. The key is they are cool and confident because they don’t mean a word they say. Same goes for the girls. They can take it or leave it which removes the jitters. Then they get their meal and are gone.
Tell ‘em again
More on this in next week's video... but the takeaway from your comment is a "take it or leave it, no hard feelings" attitude.
@@YourWingmam exactly, always be willing and able to walk away.
Thanks for the confidence boost lovely Wingmam x
You're welcome!
That's the first 6 steps, only 94 steps to go to have success for 4 years, then she'll take half your assets in the divorce.
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
Thanks for the great advice; I need a friend like you on speed dial! I need all the help I can get ❤Happy Holidays
The age question - I always lead with.... "Don't worry, I'm old enough, you're not gonna get arrested or anything..."
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I've got to tell you this, because there is no real chance that I'll ever meet you in person. Even thought you are not the most beautiful woman I've ever seen (you are quite pretty!), you are definitely one of the most adorable I have ever come across!! Your personality, mannerisms and confidence are really fun to observe!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
man, you are very bad at flirting
Tried this today. Got pulled into HR by my ear and walked out the door by security. 😆 joking.
lol, 🙂 thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
Flirting is high risk. If a woman is receptive it's flirting ... Is she is not...it's harassment and your a creep and generally Women can't except it as a compliment...
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😂😂😂😂😂 You just have to get better at reading social cues 😅
Paws 🐾 up for the kitty 😺 I saw him again I love how you explain everything
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Pretty much complies with my experience. I had success when I acted like suggested. And failed when violated some of these guidelines. Man I screwed up a lot, especially when younger, but it's never too late to learn.
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Great channel and tips. I just came out of a 13 year relationship. I can't say I'm devastated or with low morale., but my question is how long should I wait for me to start meeting woman.? ❤
Just tuned in to your channel. What is your viewpoint on asking a co-worker on a date? There is this girl I like at my job and though we don't see each other that often during the week, the times when we do I get an endorphins tingle sensation and my breathing quickens. We've also made eye contact on numerous occasions and smile at one another but have not at this point held a conversation beyond the boring surface level "hi, how are you doing?" type stuff. I like this person and though I don't know for sure if the feeling is mutual I am curious to see if there might be any compatibility. Main reasons why I haven't pursued her is 1) I feel like there might be a 10+yr. age gap 2) it always seems like an inopportune moment and 3) I don't feel like it's the best idea to date co-workers but I don't know how else to meet someone. I also don't want to reveal myself to this person and end up facing embarrassment and rejection.
🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.
@@YourWingmam you were of great help, thanks.
Age gap is no problem. If she's your coworker, there are plenty if opportunity moments. If you feel otherwise, the problem is your lack of confidence.
But you're right with not wanting to deal with a coworker. That means trouble.
Thank you for sharing your tips ❤❤❤❤
My pleasure ❤️
You are amazing. Well suited for your endeavor.
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Spot on I do these all the time…
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Thank you young lady I'm 65 and your tips and information has helped me in everyday interactions with friends and ladies I like!
Wonderful!
I can talk with any woman, any age even if she’s a 10. I think part of is I worked as a retail manager for many years and approached all of them. Of course I had to keep things positive and keep her engaged. No big secret just realize that you being confident and not being put off easily and dismissed, that in fact she could benefit from opening up to you. By opening up to you you could steer her more quickly to what she was interested in or suggest something better as an alternative. Now that was retail. But timidity is off putting and confidence is their kryptonite.
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Thanks for a great insight into the complicated circumstances of communication between men and women my wife passed 4years ago and I have been trying to date with no success because we were together for 35 years I’m somewhat out of touch I guess it’s a bit like going to school for the first time as one has to relearn everything again b t w love your channel you have a great approach to the content you deliver it’s invaluable to men like me.
Glad I could help 🙏
Thanks for the great tips! But i feel like every time i speak it doesn’t get intimate. And even if it did i feel like i won’t know what to talk about next and that it wont get to anywhere
Glad I could help 🙏
An old post I know, still gonna post anyways: I was with a buddy at a coffee shop one time and we both noticed and pretty gal. I looked over and then looked back, my friend Sean looked and then just kept looking, and looking and looking. I called his name and asked why he was acting such a keeper, he just brushed me off. It was hard not to feel awkward and protective of her after a while…
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Good video.
I have a good sense of humour, but it is not usually sarcastic.
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I now know why I end up in the friend zone. Great video... again. Thanks 👍
The good news: something to work with! You got this!
With the hight difference, I think a better way to put it is, "that only really matters when we're standing"! A bit more subtle, only alluding to being "horizontal"!!
or maybe, "i thought all women wanted men to get down on one knee to make a proposition?"
Guys this kind of advices telling by her works!
I was a very lonely guy but building myself and taking care advices like this and those 'seduction plans' starts acting positive in me lol.
Of course don't rush the things, but if you are very introvert like me, this may be helpfull for you, belive me.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
More good, sound advice. thank you
My pleasure ❤️
Thank you so much. Excellent advice. I saw the most beautiful girl in the gym this morning. I got my courage and told her you were the most beautiful woman in this gym. Then I asked her tell me I’m wrong and she laughed. I told her was nice meeting her and have a nice weekend. I know I will see her in the gym again so I have laid the seeds so I can talk to her again in the future and she will have a positive feeling when she sees me
Hopefully it goes well!
Good tips. Thanks!
You're welcome ❤️
"You can't overdo touching" 12:20
You *know* somebody's going to take that the wrong way.
You are so right Anna
I have found a TRO is many women's way of saying "come closer". I have gotten so many, I know it is a sign of affection.
In my experience the “fake it til you make it”, after you’ve watched all the rest of Anna’s videos (and others), and research a bit is the tip with the longest legs. So many people want quick results! Sometimes it does happen. Everyone is a bit different with hypergamy though, and it takes a lot of life experience to learn some of the clues to reading people. Intuition/gut feeling is innate, and can be sharpened and learned. Women notice and test in many ways, and it takes so much subconscious confidence (after practicing in real life) to be able to gauge the situation, and then think on your feet, without tripping on your tongue. Confidence is usually the bottom line and wins over everything initially. Unless it’s a strong woman, then that’s another type of flirting game. Overconfidence to an extreme, (over used) can also be a turnoff. Sarcasm is used far too often imo, and is not the most intelligent form of humour, so great tip re:saving it til later when you know and can use a clever entendre based on similar morals and ethics. I try to compliment a woman on anything EXCEPT looks initially, even though women love hearing it every time. The details you notice about a woman will show her you have been paying attention, and that she’s not just some random woman, as it shows sincerity. Don’t be too specific, though. Women often aren’t specific with comments and questions, to try and test you. Test them too, leave something open to fantasy and interpretation. Maintain a metaphorical line in the sand (like touch) and once she crosses the line to your side of the fence it’s a good sign! So after awhile you’ll be able to tell if she’s interested. It all leads to emotional attachment and that’s when everything depends on your mutual trust and respect. They’re the foundation of every healthy relationship. Once trust and respect are lost, it’s very hard to rebuild them. Resentments arise and couples keep score. Good luck, and thanks again mamacita Anna, for your caring, and eruditions in the evermore complicated world of dating and relationships!❣️
Excellent points! Thank you for watching so many of my videos, sharing your life experience and wisdom :))
#whenthestudentbecomestheteacher!
Sage advice Bill, putting it into practice seems to be the challenge for Moi.
Thanks for the tips
My pleasure ❤️
The wink is good cos, even if the person isn't interested, you can always just brush it off as a joke or something. But if there's a smile or wink back... really, its win-win 100%
Great advice as always. Thank you 💖💖
Thank you, glad you liked it! 💞
AGE: I'm 67, When they ask I say, Jack Benny's age 39 or sometimes I'll say 29. It has never failed to get a good laugh. I actually watched this video twice. You do a great job.
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U r a good teacher!
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Long hair just works.
Appreciate your work. Always
Anna it is really helpful video
I did like it
Keep up
Glad you liked it! :)
@@YourWingmam Yes Anna keep up