If you really think about it “Flipping the Script” is at the HEART of what Dan teaches AFTER you getting, re-establishing, or strengthening existing attraction. It is a recurring theme throughout all of his work whether you are talking about your initial meeting with a woman, texting her, dating her, being in a relationship or getting her back. In every single case, his approach comes down to first getting, re-establishing, or strengthening existing attraction (read: getting her to see you aa valuable) and then flipping the script before proceeding to leading her through the rest of The Flow (which I have, BTW).
Awesome - be sure to believe in yourself and know that she is arriving with at least a medium level of interest and possibly a high level of interest in you. Don't forget to show some interest in her via flirting, so she can see and experience that it's not a 'just friends' vibe between you and her. Let it be a date where sparks are flying back and forth and then get to a kiss if possible. BTW: What to say and do to initiate a kiss, or sex on the first date is explained in The Flow: store.themodernman.com/in/119cb88 Cheers, Dan
Hi Dan I am currently 18 been watching ur videos since 17yrs of age . I have reached a level of success with woman that’s unimaginable. I am currently dating a girl that’s not my race , hot , 4 inches taller than me . All thanks to learning how to properly make woman feel attracted . Thank you Dan . You were a game changer for me .
GREAT mindset video, Dan. I've been wondering if I should buy The Flow. But, after watching all your free stuff over the past couple of weeks - it's a done deal. Personally, I think you're the best at what you do in a field that's getting more and more saturated. Less tricks, more mindset. Gives me hope.
I've gotten used to being the one who chooses because looks aren't enough for me. I also need to feel a spark and want to know how she ticks. For this I have to talk to her for a little longer and feel her out. Unfortunately, I find few women exciting and suitable. Forgot to say.. i get in contact relatively easy cause on first sight i have no expectations. Therefore i'm pretty relaxed.. When i'm bantering her i check exactly her reactions and i like quick witted girls👍
Thank you man! I am following that advice! However, I start to struggle when the girl I interact with is an 8 or more. My brain starts making me submissive without my permission 😅, that sucks
What happens if you went on a 1st date and it went well plus she was attracted to you but she ended it shortly after because she felt you were distant and not willing to open up to her? Do you let it be and go no contact or try and save it?
But I am a local celebrity haha! But I like to be downtoearth, I hate when anyone dig his nose up, I think all human being are equal, nevertheless the role or status we get or earn during lifetime.
I think when a girl tells you "Isn't that a boring sport?", another good and confident reaction would be to disqualify her by playfully and jokingly say "You think it's boring? Oh no.. I hoped you had better taste in sports. Ah well, we had a good run, but this is not gonna work out. 😏But hey, we can be friends though". Bit of a ballsy move, but ballsy is how I like it. And it worked for me many times. Usually makes her start qualifying herself.
Hey Dan... How do you handle women who can't keep eye contact that's when you want to go in for a kiss and do you always need to wait for signals before going in for a kiss? How do you start a conversation with a girl who starts off with being rude? Do you ignore them? I had a case recently where I spoke to a girl, after she told me her name and then I asked her, "so what do you do"" and she said "nothing" and started pressing her phone.
Hi Dan Am one of your best follower from Nigeria, I even went a notch by purchasing one of your products (the flow)quite interesting, but founded it was 61 page...... quite contrary with your explanation, i mean if i could remembered from some of your RUclips video, you said the page is about 100+, and 61page was forwarded to to email, was it that, I was Froude in process of purchasing it,or something?
Hi there - yes, The Flow is 318 pages long: store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html We don't send it via email though, so you might be confusing it with something else from another website. After you purchase The Flow, you will have instant (and then lifetime) access to download it in your account. If you purchased it, you will be able to log in to your account here: store.themodernman.com/login.html Cheers, Dan 👍
Dan, I'm about to break up with my girlfriend. Interesting because both of us is reliable and trustworthy, and like each other. I read the flow and I know what to do if I want to make her mine again. But the thing is I'm not sure if I want that... I'm 25 now. What would be your suggestion in this situation? Thank you very much for everything, for the love towards woman. 😊
Interesting. Well, if that's what your gut instinct is telling you, then go for it. When you're with the right girl, you don't want to break up with her. You just want to remain with her. So, if you feel like you want to break up with her, then it's highly likely that she's not the one for you. BTW: Many women break up with men that they 'like' because something just doesn't feel right deep down. All the very best 🙏 Cheers, Dan
Break up with her and get yourself a new girlfriend. Going through this cycle will help you to develop your dating and relationship skills, including how to select the right woman for you. Now that you've read The Flow, you can approach this fresh start with confidence.
@DanBaconTheModernMan I had kissed my classmate for two times in the school and now, everytime I try to set a date with her, she always reject a date, saying "that she doesn't like to go out and all those excuses to avoid me." Now, she hasn't accepted me to give her kisses anymore, so, what advice would you give to me about it?
Hi Dan, was wondering if you have any advice for my situation, my girlfriend broke up with me, and she basically wants nothing to do with me - except she's 8 months pregnant with my child, and her mother has been making statements that i'm narcisstic, coercive and manipulative, and I can clearly see that she doesn't want me in her daughters life anymore. How do I handle this situation where any opportunity I make to re-attract my ex gets shot down by her mother? I feel like her mother broke up with me, not my ex. I couldn't even get my ex to meetup with me without her mum with her... After the meetup, I tried to play around and meetup again but now she's unfriended me on snap and insta and is sending me invites to co-parenting apps and saying that we're not friends.
Oh boy....how old are you two? It sounds like the mother is taking control of the situation and not your ex. So obviously you're quite young, its normal for any parent to be freaking out tbh. Are you sure its your kid 100%? It is up to your ex to make the decision not her mother if she wants to get back with you or keep you in her life. I'd just stay silent and try to reconnect later. As for the co parenting apps its up to you if you want to be involved in the childs life or not. Depending on what country you're in, the ex can also make the decision to have you pay child support. (Contact a laywer or ask your parents for more advice or look up on google) As for you being narccisistic, coercive and manipulative. I doubt that as I can see the type of person you are trying to get back with her and take accountability. People make dumb mistakes all the time but women are in control of getting pregnant or not. Its like 50% of your fault, but the rest is on her. If you want to get back with her romantically, just stay silent for a bit, let things cool down, don't talk to the mother unless she wants to. Comply with the co parenting apps. If you don't want to become a parent and move on, thats your decision.
Hi Dan, what to do if a girl didnt respond to text after i reached to her after 9 months, i cant find her irl so i have to text (ive been attracting her earlier in school but just for fun) is there any way to change that and get her
👍👍👍 Had to laugh though because after watching all my videos, you called me Don, rather than Dan. Hi, I'm Don Bacon 😄 All good man. I'm glad you enjoy the videos my friend. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ I missed your videos and time 2 time checked your channel page if you had posted anything. becoz i was so addicted to the wisdom you share. and yes i have turned on the notifications still i was crazy to check your channel every now and then for new videos
Yo. Actually my friend, I'm an Irishman living in Australia. Both my parents were born in Ireland. I lived there for a couple of years when younger as well 👍
Thanks Dan, you are great! Please give your comment, regarding situation with a girl you know from some time and are 100% sure she likes you, and you tell her you like her (from previous videos we know is not the best way), then she rejects you (that happened before find the Modern Man information). Does that mean you lost you chances with her or it is still possible to win her back in that situation?
@@DanBacon_ She said that will not have time for relationship now and the near future, but admit she likes me also. We still see each other often, but now she is playing hard to get. Complete change in behaviour in compare before i tell i like her.
Hey Dan been chatting with a girl for a while now lomg distance and i acted needy once and she has stopped contacting me or vary sparce and says she doesnt want to meet me if she knows we will argue over trival things. She was oretty uoset a while ago but sicne then no arguing and that was the only time i acted needy like that, how can i show her that i am not like this, she says she knows etc, but at the same time she doesnt really respond if not now for days bot like it was i guess the best thing would be to applogise and i can show you otherwise and then just no contact. Anyway thanks
Planned a date with this girl tomorrow. Glad I got these reminders to put myself in the right mindset.
Enjoy! Remember to believe in yourself, judge her and also show interest in her via flirting. Cheers, Dan 👍
Good luck buddy.! You got this
Good luck man. Come back and let us know how it went. You got this 👍🏼👏🏼
Be the man , pay the bill .
Good Luck!
If you really think about it “Flipping the Script” is at the HEART of what Dan teaches AFTER you getting, re-establishing, or strengthening existing attraction. It is a recurring theme throughout all of his work whether you are talking about your initial meeting with a woman, texting her, dating her, being in a relationship or getting her back. In every single case, his approach comes down to first getting, re-establishing, or strengthening existing attraction (read: getting her to see you aa valuable) and then flipping the script before proceeding to leading her through the rest of The Flow (which I have, BTW).
Spot on as usual Dan!! Women mostly get it that the guy's not try hard so promptly flip the script but the bottom line tends to be BE THE SELECTOR 😅
You know you are unintentionally funny as hell when you talk about scenarios? haha love it bro
Good timing Dan I literally have my first date tomorrow 😀!! Lets go Dan!
Awesome - be sure to believe in yourself and know that she is arriving with at least a medium level of interest and possibly a high level of interest in you. Don't forget to show some interest in her via flirting, so she can see and experience that it's not a 'just friends' vibe between you and her. Let it be a date where sparks are flying back and forth and then get to a kiss if possible. BTW: What to say and do to initiate a kiss, or sex on the first date is explained in The Flow: store.themodernman.com/in/119cb88 Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ Thanks Dan 🙏. I'll do my best, feeling nervous haha.
Hi Dan I am currently 18 been watching ur videos since 17yrs of age . I have reached a level of success with woman that’s unimaginable. I am currently dating a girl that’s not my race , hot , 4 inches taller than me . All thanks to learning how to properly make woman feel attracted . Thank you Dan . You were a game changer for me .
This has been a great channel for me, helping to purge all the BS that was dogging me for years & years… you’ve given me Hope Dan-boy!!
GREAT mindset video, Dan. I've been wondering if I should buy The Flow. But, after watching all your free stuff over the past couple of weeks - it's a done deal. Personally, I think you're the best at what you do in a field that's getting more and more saturated. Less tricks, more mindset. Gives me hope.
I've gotten used to being the one who chooses because looks aren't enough for me. I also need to feel a spark and want to know how she ticks. For this I have to talk to her for a little longer and feel her out. Unfortunately, I find few women exciting and suitable.
Forgot to say.. i get in contact relatively easy cause on first sight i have no expectations. Therefore i'm pretty relaxed..
When i'm bantering her i check exactly her reactions and i like quick witted girls👍
Thank you man! I am following that advice! However, I start to struggle when the girl I interact with is an 8 or more. My brain starts making me submissive without my permission 😅, that sucks
Dan is the Don in dating & relationship💯💯
What happens if you went on a 1st date and it went well plus she was attracted to you but she ended it shortly after because she felt you were distant and not willing to open up to her? Do you let it be and go no contact or try and save it?
Great vedio. Thankx dan
Epic fire advice 🔥👌 Gentlemen this is the best of the best. Thanks so much Dan. You are the best 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Luv the content the more videos the better. Thanks Dan your videos help me so much keep up the good work and thanks again.
Exactly the content i need for my future date
My great man 👍
thanks, good video
But I am a local celebrity haha! But I like to be downtoearth, I hate when anyone dig his nose up, I think all human being are equal, nevertheless the role or status we get or earn during lifetime.
I think when a girl tells you "Isn't that a boring sport?", another good and confident reaction would be to disqualify her by playfully and jokingly say "You think it's boring? Oh no.. I hoped you had better taste in sports. Ah well, we had a good run, but this is not gonna work out. 😏But hey, we can be friends though". Bit of a ballsy move, but ballsy is how I like it. And it worked for me many times. Usually makes her start qualifying herself.
For sure - that is also an attractive response. I've said things like that to women before and it works. Great example. Cheers, Dan 👍
Hey Dan... How do you handle women who can't keep eye contact that's when you want to go in for a kiss and do you always need to wait for signals before going in for a kiss?
How do you start a conversation with a girl who starts off with being rude? Do you ignore them? I had a case recently where I spoke to a girl, after she told me her name and then I asked her, "so what do you do"" and she said "nothing" and started pressing her phone.
I like the new background
Cheers man - new studio 👍
Hi Dan
Am one of your best follower from Nigeria, I even went a notch by purchasing one of your products (the flow)quite interesting, but founded it was 61 page......
quite contrary with your explanation, i mean if i could remembered from some of your RUclips video, you said the page is about 100+, and 61page was forwarded to to email, was it that, I was Froude in process of purchasing it,or something?
Hi there - yes, The Flow is 318 pages long: store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html We don't send it via email though, so you might be confusing it with something else from another website. After you purchase The Flow, you will have instant (and then lifetime) access to download it in your account. If you purchased it, you will be able to log in to your account here: store.themodernman.com/login.html Cheers, Dan 👍
Dan, I'm about to break up with my girlfriend. Interesting because both of us is reliable and trustworthy, and like each other. I read the flow and I know what to do if I want to make her mine again. But the thing is I'm not sure if I want that... I'm 25 now. What would be your suggestion in this situation? Thank you very much for everything, for the love towards woman. 😊
Interesting. Well, if that's what your gut instinct is telling you, then go for it. When you're with the right girl, you don't want to break up with her. You just want to remain with her. So, if you feel like you want to break up with her, then it's highly likely that she's not the one for you. BTW: Many women break up with men that they 'like' because something just doesn't feel right deep down. All the very best 🙏 Cheers, Dan
Break up with her and get yourself a new girlfriend. Going through this cycle will help you to develop your dating and relationship skills, including how to select the right woman for you. Now that you've read The Flow, you can approach this fresh start with confidence.
Dan the man !you look Great 👍
Cheers Ndonwi 👍
Awesome
@DanBaconTheModernMan I had kissed my classmate for two times in the school and now, everytime I try to set a date with her, she always reject a date, saying "that she doesn't like to go out and all those excuses to avoid me." Now, she hasn't accepted me to give her kisses anymore, so, what advice would you give to me about it?
Hi Dan, was wondering if you have any advice for my situation, my girlfriend broke up with me, and she basically wants nothing to do with me - except she's 8 months pregnant with my child, and her mother has been making statements that i'm narcisstic, coercive and manipulative, and I can clearly see that she doesn't want me in her daughters life anymore. How do I handle this situation where any opportunity I make to re-attract my ex gets shot down by her mother? I feel like her mother broke up with me, not my ex. I couldn't even get my ex to meetup with me without her mum with her...
After the meetup, I tried to play around and meetup again but now she's unfriended me on snap and insta and is sending me invites to co-parenting apps and saying that we're not friends.
Oh boy....how old are you two? It sounds like the mother is taking control of the situation and not your ex. So obviously you're quite young, its normal for any parent to be freaking out tbh.
Are you sure its your kid 100%? It is up to your ex to make the decision not her mother if she wants to get back with you or keep you in her life. I'd just stay silent and try to reconnect later. As for the co parenting apps its up to you if you want to be involved in the childs life or not. Depending on what country you're in, the ex can also make the decision to have you pay child support. (Contact a laywer or ask your parents for more advice or look up on google)
As for you being narccisistic, coercive and manipulative. I doubt that as I can see the type of person you are trying to get back with her and take accountability. People make dumb mistakes all the time but women are in control of getting pregnant or not. Its like 50% of your fault, but the rest is on her.
If you want to get back with her romantically, just stay silent for a bit, let things cool down, don't talk to the mother unless she wants to. Comply with the co parenting apps. If you don't want to become a parent and move on, thats your decision.
He doesn't mention the 5th one!! Only 1 to 4.
Here's the 5th one: ruclips.net/video/b43C_z3fuWM/видео.htmlsi=cvBIS_XgC7uTeWj8&t=751
@@DanBacon_ I stand corrected! Thanks
Hi Dan, what to do if a girl didnt respond to text after i reached to her after 9 months, i cant find her irl so i have to text (ive been attracting her earlier in school but just for fun) is there any way to change that and get her
By the fun i mean it was just talking, ive never invited her out even though she had a crush on me
I want the one to marry
I think I watch all Don's RUclips videos now
👍👍👍 Had to laugh though because after watching all my videos, you called me Don, rather than Dan. Hi, I'm Don Bacon 😄 All good man. I'm glad you enjoy the videos my friend. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ 🤣🤣that’s away my mistake even at the search bar Dan
Where were you for all this time
Had some things to do. Back on RUclips now. Looking forward to posting as regularly as possible from now on. Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_ I missed your videos and time 2 time checked your channel page if you had posted anything. becoz i was so addicted to the wisdom you share. and yes i have turned on the notifications still i was crazy to check your channel every now and then for new videos
Oh its the English.... Aussie guy lol. Whats up Dan! 👀👊🏻
Yo. Actually my friend, I'm an Irishman living in Australia. Both my parents were born in Ireland. I lived there for a couple of years when younger as well 👍
@@DanBacon_ interesting, I never knew that about you.
Thanks Dan, you are great!
Please give your comment, regarding situation with a girl you know from some time and are 100% sure she likes you, and you tell her you like her (from previous videos we know is not the best way), then she rejects you (that happened before find the Modern Man information). Does that mean you lost you chances with her or it is still possible to win her back in that situation?
It depends on how she rejected you. What did she say/do exactly? Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ She said that will not have time for relationship now and the near future, but admit she likes me also. We still see each other often, but now she is playing hard to get. Complete change in behaviour in compare before i tell i like her.
Rather watch paint dry 😂 brilliant Dan, as always
Hey Dan been chatting with a girl for a while now lomg distance and i acted needy once and she has stopped contacting me or vary sparce and says she doesnt want to meet me if she knows we will argue over trival things.
She was oretty uoset a while ago but sicne then no arguing and that was the only time i acted needy like that, how can i show her that i am not like this, she says she knows etc, but at the same time she doesnt really respond if not now for days bot like it was i guess the best thing would be to applogise and i can show you otherwise and then just no contact.
Anyway thanks
speaking of international celebrity/sports star, what if a guy shares the same name as a famous person, is there value in that guy too?
Any tips on ending a relationship with a girl who is overly sensitive.
thanks ❤