Dan, your advice actually works. I can have my choice of women from now on. I recently bought THE FLOW and it sky rocket my confidence.i watched almost all your youtube videos and your dating advice is 100 times better and real then those pick up artists you have revealed the truth how womens attraction actually works for men. Loved your vidios please keep helping us. Thankyou so much dan.
Dan! You have been really awesome! You took my game up to a whole nother level and I can't be more thankful as instead of being those awkward "sigma" males, I became a man with confidence, since I followed your rules. Though, I also have a dilemma, I did do the things you wanted me to do to a co-worker, I like her and I think she's worth it. I didn't take chances, though she did recently with her boyfriend of 2 years, I already started showing the look, but kept everything minimal due to her situation. Then, after 2 months til now, I have been a bit aggressive, I became more aggressive recently. However, she has rejected me once, and now has friendzoned me. She confessed that she did like me, but eventually, I guess she has trust issues, she thought I was a player, and decided to be good friends with me instead since she did like me as a person. I'm deciding to use your other video to turn things back around, but do you have any advice for me to make sure I succeed? I'm positive I can still get her, she is afraid of losing me as a friend when I said that I wanted to be more
Dan, middle aged man (46) here just thrown back into the dating pool - you changed my world brother. I've been told that I'm good looking, I'm physically fit but all my life have been 'the nice guy' -- it's learned behaviour from how I was brought up .. be 'nice' to women, and surprise it's gotten me absolutely NOWHERE when dating recently. Watching your videos and just a few tweaks to my dating behaviour -- the difference is incredible. I mean this respectfully but now I could go on a date with a smoking hot, smart, interesting, accomplished woman every day of the week if I wanted to and I'd get to first base (at least) every single time. Thank you, thank you, thank you !
Dan. You're honestly the best relationship coach for women out there. Average guy in terms of looks, kind, very helpful, competent, experienced. By yourself you destroy every concept of all the redpills, blackpills channel. I understand now. Thank you for everything. I'll think about buying your book ;)
Hi Dan , I'm the man in early forthys. My last relationship with the girl was ten years ago. My confidence level is at the basement around girls that I found as attractive to me .This week, I purchased your book. I read it two times, and l hope that will give me results in the future. Cheers
You're on the right path now Mario. First step for someone like you is to at least start using the confidence technique at the start of the section on Confidence in The Flow. When you use that, you will notice that women show you more interest and you feel more confident. From there, you need to start using the other attraction techniques to actively create a spark and then go through the rest of The Flow. You will laugh at how easy it is once you start doing it. Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan 👍
Dan! Good to have you back with new content. Thankx fr all the work and efforts to theses vedios. Since I got the flow it made my dating routine so easy and best of all my confidence is high at all time. I personally encourage any man out there to use the flow, Keep the good work.
Dan, you are the only dating expert I trust. Quick question: My very shy, female coworker (she knows me, we have spoken many times before) was walking inside the building as I was walking out. She saw me, smiled, and said "Hi, Josh" in a very feminine voice and then looked down while continuing to smile. Could this mean she may be crushing on me too?
I have been following Dan since 2017 and I've become more confident ever since, all his teaching works perfectly for me. Its easier to make women like you if youre confident in yourself, use flirting words and nake her laugh 🤣
Hey Dan, just wondering if you have a video about getting into a relationship with a friend you’ve know for a few years. I’ve known her for about 3 years and within the last 6 months we have become basically each other’s best friend now for a majority of the time I’ve known her I had a girlfriend but we have recently broken up and it has opened my eyes to the fact that I’ve had a crush on my friend for the past like 5 months. I think im slowly opening her eyes to the possibility of dating I’ve been flirting a bit and I’ve always been playfully challenging. But she has agreed to go out for ice cream when she gets home from her holiday. Any tips or even a link to a video would be great. Thanks for all the help so far
Mitch - that's like getting your driver's license, but then sitting in the car being too afraid to drive 😄 If you make a woman feel attracted to you and connected with you, then she will usually want something to happen. Go through The Flow and enjoy fun times with her, or settle down with her if she's the one for you. Cheers, Dan 👍
For a while there, I would do all the right things and get a girl interested, but then knowing that I had a hard time keeping it upright in the bedroom, I would back away from taking it to the next level. I had a few humiliating moments and was terrified of it happening again, so I just deliberately sabotaged my own chances. Luckily I got over that after a while but I’m still having a hard time holding a relationship down for other reasons.
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Dan, before I go out every night to the club or anything like that I read 2 pages out of your book and I am instantly in the right mindset to approach and make stuff happen with women. The Flow is a masterpiece Dan great job on that book 👍 Also, text attraction has been incredible for me too. I get really good results with texting women, and I even use the techniques to text my friends and family sometimes. It really does evoke a much better energy now that I learned from you. Thank you 🙏
Your my hero when it comes to dating sex and relationships, thanks to you Dan I have my choice of women. It’s not possible to attract every girl in the world but i can attract the ones compatible for me
Great to hear that you are now enjoying your choice of women Juan! It only gets better from where you are now my friend. Every day, you become more skilled at displaying confidence, masculinity and charm in a way that makes women feel deeply attracted. As a result, the quality of women you can attract goes up and up. It's such a good time. Enjoy the fun times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan 👍
I'm glad you're enjoying the vids Marky 👍 Yes, you can listen online in your Modern Man account after purchase and/or download it to any of your devices: store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html Enjoy The Flow and the great times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan
I'm so glad I found this channel, and this video. I think I messed up with this one girl. In short, this girl was interested in me- in the beginning, she tried to initiate convos with me but I had been watching videos with titles like; be stoic and they will chase, or ignore her and she will beg for sex.... essentially, these videos fucked my game up.
Exactly. Videos like that say things that men want to hear, not what actually works on most women. People in general love to hear "Do nothing and you will get a result" sort of advice. Always gets lots of views, but also ruins so many lives. In reality, you almost need to lead the way to get a woman initially. You can make her chase AFTER sex, but prior to then, you need to move things forward in almost all cases with women. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/GZlpWQniKIM/видео.html
For sure. It's so simple, but this kind of thing just isn't taught to guys at school, or via TV or the media in general. You have to either know this stuff naturally, get taught it by a friend or do what I did and go out, interact with women and figure it out. At the end of the day though, you will realize that this is how it's done. Once you understand it and start doing it, women immediately begin to treat you differently. They want you sexually and romantically. It's an amazing thing to experience, especially after being friend zone and rejected by women for such a long time prior to that. Cheers, Dan 👍
Hey Dan I found my self independent confidence again and my girl became very attracted but I can't seem to bring that to the table again? I'm working out and staying consistent and putting myself out of my comfort zone. Please help.
Same here! 😄 It would have been great to have a big brother, cousin or father who could explain all this stuff to me as I was growing up. All of them were clueless though. So, I'm glad to be able to get on RUclips and help guys like yourself with this area of life, after mastering it myself. Being able to attract women is such an important skill to have as a man. Without it, you have to rely on getting lucky once in a blue moon, which rarely, if ever, happens with the kind of women you really want anyway. You have to get yourself ready to attract women when you have the opportunity, rather than just hoping that a woman will 'like you as a person' and then want to be with you. Be ready to attract her sexually, do it and then enjoy fun times with her, or settle down if you feel ready. Enjoy the great times ahead! Cheers, Dan 👍
Another issue i have is most of women that i like are already taken and even though some of them really like me i can't bring myself to "steal" her away because it's like taking additional resposibility and feeling like if she left her previous boyfriend so easily for me she will do it to me too, but i also understand that this is a competetive world and if you want a woman you need to take her.
Where do you get the flow.. my situation is with a woman i initially started out with by hooking up with her, she was happy with it and excited to see me the very next day(her pursuing).. lets say i failed some of her "tests" and proceeded to blow it about every way possible from there. But shes stuck around and we get pretty close to back to a romantic relationship until it seems like i say or do something wrong again, or she might think it will ruin or friendship, when in actuality, this would.. i need to start that fire again. Can you help lol.
Dan Bacon vro, I’m your big fan when it comes to get a knowledge about relationships. Make a video for long distance relationship because my girlfriend only making a chat conversation which means she hasn’t make any video calls to see me on last 7 months in our long distance relationship. I wanna solution for that
Good question 👍 Answer: Definitely not! What I teach in my programs is always kept separate from what I teach on RUclips. If I didn't do that, it wouldn't be fair to me (i.e. you may have noticed that no ads ever play before my videos. I don't turn on advertising. I only earn a living if and when my programs are purchased. So, if I gave out everything for free on RUclips, no one would ever buy anything and I couldn't afford to spend time making videos and help like I do. I'd be back in the corporate world working in management) and to guys who purchase my programs. So, what you see on RUclips is very specific advice, insights and examples about certain topics. However, for example, I have never and will never explain the process of The Flow on RUclips, or give examples from The Flow on how to be confident, what to say, etc. That will only ever be taught here: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
Hey The2King! I give an example of what I said when approaching a woman on the street (who I then had a relationship with for a while) here: ruclips.net/video/CoXC2pBRGUY/видео.html For my best ever conversation starters that I used 100s of times and taught to 100s of clients who used them successfully, check this out: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
Hey Dan thank you for this video, over time i forgot how to act like that once i got my confidence broken, so being masculine is about being disagreeable and going after what you want? and femine about connection and getting along? Can you explain it how to be in that masculine mindest with women even when you don't want to have sex. Because lately i focued on gym and other things and i stopped that and girls like me but i don't get any chances anymore like back in the day. (When i was confident it was like a spiral that made me more confident and it was normal and now that i stopped i feel low confidence like i can't flirt with women anymore, when before it was my default mode and it was easy) I lost confidence because i didnt escalate in time and she closed the window and we went back without doing anything and then she still liked me but she was emotionally turned off and we went no contact, felt terrible. Biggest spike in attraction i have ever seen was when i told a girl where to go(leading) and then i told her what she did wrong and playfully that she is fired for doing something wrong at work, she got so turned on by this i've never seen something like that, she was making weird face biting her lips etc.
Hey Dan, how do i go about fixing my neutrality around woman and people in general? i get around these really confident woman and its like i turn into the woman almost or i just neutralize myself so im not coming off feminine. i find the more comfortable i get with people, the more i become me but in the beginning especially, im really neutral and afraid to speak my mind
Someone like you needs examples of what to say and do, so you can have something to use that works when in situations like that. When you use the examples, see that women feel attracted to you and feel great about yourself, you then feel more willing and able to do it again - especially since you are now getting kisses, sex, dates and so on. You then become comfortable with actively being attractive when interacting with women, rather than just being a passive, neutral guy. If you want to learn my best examples of what to say and do, check this out: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
suppose if we talked initiated conversation and then she start asking me question what is the next thing to do .men lead again or let the women lead and ask questions?
I was gonna ask a girl out atleast 11/12 out of 10 over text as i dont see her very often l had the thought of face timing. Never did so im still young... i say young i mean 17 What should i do i can go over or even take out what can i do
I love how Dan resorts to using clear pictures and diagrams to make his point as if were actually this dumb and need it spelled out like this. Well the truth is, thats correct lol
😄 As Albert Einstein once said, “If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.” The topic of attracting women is very complex, but I always make sure to explain each concept in simple terms to ensure that anyone, at any level of knowledge and skill (i.e. beginner to master), can understand it as I go through the video. The most important thing is that the viewer understands the information, so he can then level up and begin experiencing better results with women. That's what matters. Cheers, Dan 👍
Without having listened this before l made some of this mistake with this girl l like and felt like she saw me as a good friend, on the otherhand l had the behavior he mentioned in the video wirh girls l wasn't trying to like and they were attracted to me, so if you like a girl act the way you do with girls you aren't trying to get
I think one reason why so many men make these mistakes is the media. We are being conditioned to act like this. Just watch a romantic movie or sitcoms. In the end the nice guy gets the beautiful girl. Or they are friends for years but he has feelings and once he admits it to her they start dating, etc. The real world does not work that way.
Hi Shawn - Yes, each product has unique discount packs. See the [Packs] tab on each product page: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c After becoming a customer, you can also get discounts if you log in to your account and go to the Downloads area. There you will see an option to purchase additional programs at a discount. Cheers, Dan 👍
You need to actively make her feel the pain of losing you, rather than just making her feel reassured that you still love her and want her back. I explain how to do that in this program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Cheers, Dan
Hey Dan, I adore you man. And I desire so greatly to be like you. As usual, I have a few questions 1) After attracting and connecting with a woman, do you need to wait for signs before you kiss her? 2) Does it work to invite a woman to your house on first meeting or do you always have to take her out to public places? 3) is it good to say "Hey excuse me... I want to talk to you" to a girl walking along the street when you want to stop her? 4) How do you handle women who find it difficult to maintain eye contact? Perhaps when you sit with them side by side? 5) How do you develop courage and is it ideal to use the 3sec rule when approaching 6) Back when you were learning, were you having some sex with women or was it after the said 2years that you started having some sex with women? 6)
Since women are a natural challenge to men as Dan talked about at the end of his previous video, it seems to me that you can see a woman seeing you as a friend as a chance to level up and show her naturally attractive traits such as confidence. If you keep on doing that she will probably soon see you as something more than a friend.
Yes, that's true. However, make sure that she never senses a, "Now do you like me?" kind of vibe coming from you. If a woman senses that from a guy, then he is coming across as desperate and insecure, which is unattractive. You just have to behave in an attractive way (i.e. confident, charming, masculine) and not seek her approval for it. If she senses that you're not seeking approval for your attractive behavior, she will then feel turned on by your confidence, emotional independence and self-belief. Success with women comes down to the subtle stuff, which is why so many guys get confused. For example: As I explained in the video, if a guy is confident in a nice, friendly way, he will usually just get placed in the friend zone, unless she likes him for other reasons (e.g. he's very good looking, other women want him). So, just being confident in a nice, friendly way is not the way to attract women and turn them on. You've got to use your confidence in a sexually attractive way (i.e. in a masculine way, a flirtatious way, a playfully challenging way). It's all about the subtle stuff. Get it right and you unlock access to your choice of women. Other guys look on and wonder, "How does he do it? Why does she like him?" and they never understand it. Cheers, Dan 👍
Hi Dan, great presentation as always! I recently approached a woman at the grocery store and we seemed to have good chemistry, she asked for my name and introduced herself and agreed to go for a coffee. I gave her my number and left. I acted confidently when we talked but didn't do enough flirting and honestly I felt nervous inside because she looked so hot. Still I thought she was very interested. She never texted or called me.
Hi Ralf - Pretty simple mistake; you gave her your number. You have to get her number and then either call so she has it, or send a text right away. What to say and do to get a number, the first text to send after getting it and what to say on a call, is all included in The Flow: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
@DanBaconTheModernMan well shit i made the exact same mistake and gave my number. I figured it was less pressure on her than asking for hers. I guess might as well go bold and ask for hers all the time?
Hi Dan, I hope you're doing well. I have a question for you ¿How do you manage to keep coming up with funny things to say and teasing jokes while flirting with a girl in the long run? It happened to me a few times that in the beginning some girls found the jokes and teasing funny but overtime when they already got used to my humor and the kind of jokes I tend to make, then they didn't find it funny anymore. This was a fantastic video by the way, thanks for giving us so many lessons🤘
Good question. The answer is that you shouldn't try hard to 'keep being funny' in the long run. Instead, you just need to get used to playfully messing with women at times. You don't have to do it all the time. You just add it in when it feels right to do so (i.e. don't force it). Since I got used to it over many years, I naturally do it about 20% of the time in my relationship and that's more than enough. Women can feel attracted to you for so many other reasons (i.e. your confidence, masculinity, social intelligence), so it's not just about humor. Essentially, you need to know how to behave in an attractive way around a woman (i.e. be confident, be masculine, etc) and then do that without trying. You get to the point where you don't have to try when it comes natural. It becomes natural with practice. The result is that you are always attractive to women and to your woman and it just happens naturally and on autopilot. I don't have to try in my relationship. The attraction flows naturally as a result of the attractive behavior that is happening on autopilot. Think of how you first felt when driving a car compared to now. It's like that. You just drive now and it's easy, but it used to be a challenge and something you had to think about and really try hard to do. Cheers, Dan 👍
I had this date with a woman. Was very masculine and she loved the vibe. We made out a lot. She bit my neck and ear and all that. She told me right after the date I was a great kisser. Text her about setting up date 2 about 24 hours later, ghosted. Even had a girl I was texting, was very masculine with my texts. I remember at one point I waited 6 hours to respond to one of her texts, she then responded in one minute. Yet started making every excuse not to meet up. I’m bewildered with all this.
how do you compliant a women's appearance on social Medea? I know this girl who posts herself in bikini's a few times this summer I know to playfully tease her (but not sure how in this instance) but how do I compliment her body tastefully? I was gonna say she has the best bating suits or I don't know what it is about those bathing suits but there the best ones I've ever seen. obviously because shes wearing it..
Don't forget like button. More likes means, the video will be recommended to more RUclips viewers. Who knows how many guys lifes it'll change with women, like it did mine.
Im in my 40s had a failure for a marriage and i just want girls as friends i just miss the companionship, dont care for intimacy, A lot of modern women turn me off as they resemble hookers or prostitutes, i enjoy being alone but every once in awhile i miss the smile of a beautiful women and conversations with them. I seam to be maturing quickly i feel more like im in my sixtys rather then 40 lol
I've been following Dan since modern man days. And I will tell you everything he teaches actually works. It's insane.
Great to hear man! 👍
@@DanBacon_ I'm glad to see you're back man! You helped me a lot and I got my ex back. Thank you!
Dan, your advice actually works. I can have my choice of women from now on. I recently bought THE FLOW and it sky rocket my confidence.i watched almost all your youtube videos and your dating advice is 100 times better and real then those pick up artists you have revealed the truth how womens attraction actually works for men. Loved your vidios please keep helping us. Thankyou so much dan.
Awesome to hear Deepak! I will be back on RUclips soon. Looking forward to it! Cheers, Dan 👍
Dan! You have been really awesome! You took my game up to a whole nother level and I can't be more thankful as instead of being those awkward "sigma" males, I became a man with confidence, since I followed your rules.
Though, I also have a dilemma, I did do the things you wanted me to do to a co-worker, I like her and I think she's worth it.
I didn't take chances, though she did recently with her boyfriend of 2 years, I already started showing the look, but kept everything minimal due to her situation.
Then, after 2 months til now, I have been a bit aggressive, I became more aggressive recently. However, she has rejected me once, and now has friendzoned me.
She confessed that she did like me, but eventually, I guess she has trust issues, she thought I was a player, and decided to be good friends with me instead since she did like me as a person.
I'm deciding to use your other video to turn things back around, but do you have any advice for me to make sure I succeed?
I'm positive I can still get her, she is afraid of losing me as a friend when I said that I wanted to be more
Dan, middle aged man (46) here just thrown back into the dating pool - you changed my world brother. I've been told that I'm good looking, I'm physically fit but all my life have been 'the nice guy' -- it's learned behaviour from how I was brought up .. be 'nice' to women, and surprise it's gotten me absolutely NOWHERE when dating recently. Watching your videos and just a few tweaks to my dating behaviour -- the difference is incredible. I mean this respectfully but now I could go on a date with a smoking hot, smart, interesting, accomplished woman every day of the week if I wanted to and I'd get to first base (at least) every single time. Thank you, thank you, thank you !
Dan. You're honestly the best relationship coach for women out there.
Average guy in terms of looks, kind, very helpful, competent, experienced.
By yourself you destroy every concept of all the redpills, blackpills channel.
I understand now. Thank you for everything. I'll think about buying your book ;)
Hi Dan , I'm the man in early forthys. My last relationship with the girl was ten years ago. My confidence level is at the basement around girls that I found as attractive to me .This week, I purchased your book. I read it two times, and l hope that will give me results in the future.
Cheers
Same boat you are in
You're on the right path now Mario. First step for someone like you is to at least start using the confidence technique at the start of the section on Confidence in The Flow. When you use that, you will notice that women show you more interest and you feel more confident. From there, you need to start using the other attraction techniques to actively create a spark and then go through the rest of The Flow. You will laugh at how easy it is once you start doing it. Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan 👍
You saved my life Dan
My man. My hero,never fails me. 💪
Glad you enjoyed the vid man. Cheers, Dan 👍
Dan! Good to have you back with new content. Thankx fr all the work and efforts to theses vedios.
Since I got the flow it made my dating routine so easy and best of all my confidence is high at all time.
I personally encourage any man out there to use the flow,
Keep the good work.
Right on Dan
Nice Video Dan. you are amazing.😅😊
Cheers - glad you enjoyed it 👍
Dan, you are the only dating expert I trust. Quick question: My very shy, female coworker (she knows me, we have spoken many times before) was walking inside the building as I was walking out. She saw me, smiled, and said "Hi, Josh" in a very feminine voice and then looked down while continuing to smile. Could this mean she may be crushing on me too?
U r unmatchable. Ur advice really works.
I have been following Dan since 2017 and I've become more confident ever since, all his teaching works perfectly for me. Its easier to make women like you if youre confident in yourself, use flirting words and nake her laugh 🤣
Hey Dan, just wondering if you have a video about getting into a relationship with a friend you’ve know for a few years. I’ve known her for about 3 years and within the last 6 months we have become basically each other’s best friend now for a majority of the time I’ve known her I had a girlfriend but we have recently broken up and it has opened my eyes to the fact that I’ve had a crush on my friend for the past like 5 months. I think im slowly opening her eyes to the possibility of dating I’ve been flirting a bit and I’ve always been playfully challenging. But she has agreed to go out for ice cream when she gets home from her holiday. Any tips or even a link to a video would be great. Thanks for all the help so far
Dan Bacon - I love you man 👍
You changed my life by your wisdom & teaching since the last 4 years. God bless you big bro 🙏🙏🙏
Whats a charming response for when my wife asks if she looks fat?
Im always stuck in a situation like this. I have the flow but im too scared to use it cause i know it will work.
Mitch - that's like getting your driver's license, but then sitting in the car being too afraid to drive 😄 If you make a woman feel attracted to you and connected with you, then she will usually want something to happen. Go through The Flow and enjoy fun times with her, or settle down with her if she's the one for you. Cheers, Dan 👍
So ask yourself, honestly, what you are afraid of. Is it feeling vulnerable? Being found out? Past trauma?
For a while there, I would do all the right things and get a girl interested, but then knowing that I had a hard time keeping it upright in the bedroom, I would back away from taking it to the next level. I had a few humiliating moments and was terrified of it happening again, so I just deliberately sabotaged my own chances.
Luckily I got over that after a while but I’m still having a hard time holding a relationship down for other reasons.
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Dan, before I go out every night to the club or anything like that I read 2 pages out of your book and I am instantly in the right mindset to approach and make stuff happen with women. The Flow is a masterpiece Dan great job on that book 👍 Also, text attraction has been incredible for me too. I get really good results with texting women, and I even use the techniques to text my friends and family sometimes. It really does evoke a much better energy now that I learned from you. Thank you 🙏
Your my hero when it comes to dating sex and relationships, thanks to you Dan I have my choice of women. It’s not possible to attract every girl in the world but i can attract the ones compatible for me
Great to hear that you are now enjoying your choice of women Juan! It only gets better from where you are now my friend. Every day, you become more skilled at displaying confidence, masculinity and charm in a way that makes women feel deeply attracted. As a result, the quality of women you can attract goes up and up. It's such a good time. Enjoy the fun times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan 👍
This guy is just awesome. Mr. Bacon, how do i listen to the audio of the flow? Do I listen on your website? 🥓
I'm glad you're enjoying the vids Marky 👍 Yes, you can listen online in your Modern Man account after purchase and/or download it to any of your devices: store.themodernman.com/the_flow.html Enjoy The Flow and the great times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan
What an amazing video! I’m 37 and still struggling with this. Thanks Dan!
I'm so glad I found this channel, and this video. I think I messed up with this one girl. In short, this girl was interested in me- in the beginning, she tried to initiate convos with me but I had been watching videos with titles like; be stoic and they will chase, or ignore her and she will beg for sex.... essentially, these videos fucked my game up.
Exactly. Videos like that say things that men want to hear, not what actually works on most women. People in general love to hear "Do nothing and you will get a result" sort of advice. Always gets lots of views, but also ruins so many lives. In reality, you almost need to lead the way to get a woman initially. You can make her chase AFTER sex, but prior to then, you need to move things forward in almost all cases with women. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/GZlpWQniKIM/видео.html
Believe it or not, what he's saying is 100% accurate.
For sure. It's so simple, but this kind of thing just isn't taught to guys at school, or via TV or the media in general. You have to either know this stuff naturally, get taught it by a friend or do what I did and go out, interact with women and figure it out. At the end of the day though, you will realize that this is how it's done. Once you understand it and start doing it, women immediately begin to treat you differently. They want you sexually and romantically. It's an amazing thing to experience, especially after being friend zone and rejected by women for such a long time prior to that. Cheers, Dan 👍
Hey Dan I found my self independent confidence again and my girl became very attracted but I can't seem to bring that to the table again?
I'm working out and staying consistent and putting myself out of my comfort zone. Please help.
1:37 what was the example for that one?
This one: ruclips.net/video/VdCcQ3m3yoo/видео.html
@@DanBacon_ Yep, I just saw that. I should have watched the full video first before pausing and commenting lol. My bad & thank you!
Thank you, you are the best for teaching me this 😜
I have a friends that i like im just worried that i will say it wrong and she will think im insulting her instead of being charming to her
You always have the correct words to make me connect with my masculine energy. Thank you so much Dan. Greetings from Mexico
Could have done with this vid two days ago. Everything said in this video highlights exactly where I went wrong
The big brother we wish we had!
Same here! 😄 It would have been great to have a big brother, cousin or father who could explain all this stuff to me as I was growing up. All of them were clueless though. So, I'm glad to be able to get on RUclips and help guys like yourself with this area of life, after mastering it myself. Being able to attract women is such an important skill to have as a man. Without it, you have to rely on getting lucky once in a blue moon, which rarely, if ever, happens with the kind of women you really want anyway. You have to get yourself ready to attract women when you have the opportunity, rather than just hoping that a woman will 'like you as a person' and then want to be with you. Be ready to attract her sexually, do it and then enjoy fun times with her, or settle down if you feel ready. Enjoy the great times ahead! Cheers, Dan 👍
Another issue i have is most of women that i like are already taken and even though some of them really like me i can't bring myself to "steal" her away because it's like taking additional resposibility and feeling like if she left her previous boyfriend so easily for me she will do it to me too, but i also understand that this is a competetive world and if you want a woman you need to take her.
Well, this also work, I was told I like you like a brother. I think that’s kind of similar to saying I only see you as a friend.
Hey Dan what should I do because I really want to ask my crush out because she really likes me too
Where do you get the flow.. my situation is with a woman i initially started out with by hooking up with her, she was happy with it and excited to see me the very next day(her pursuing).. lets say i failed some of her "tests" and proceeded to blow it about every way possible from there. But shes stuck around and we get pretty close to back to a romantic relationship until it seems like i say or do something wrong again, or she might think it will ruin or friendship, when in actuality, this would.. i need to start that fire again. Can you help lol.
Hi Dan, can you also make a video talking about how you should keep the spark and tention in a long lasting relationship ?
Dan Bacon vro, I’m your big fan when it comes to get a knowledge about relationships. Make a video for long distance relationship because my girlfriend only making a chat conversation which means she hasn’t make any video calls to see me on last 7 months in our long distance relationship. I wanna solution for that
What if you don’t feel good enough for the women you are attracted to? 🤔
Hi Dan,
I want to know, if what you teach here on all your RUclips videos are also included in your programs.
Good question 👍 Answer: Definitely not! What I teach in my programs is always kept separate from what I teach on RUclips. If I didn't do that, it wouldn't be fair to me (i.e. you may have noticed that no ads ever play before my videos. I don't turn on advertising. I only earn a living if and when my programs are purchased. So, if I gave out everything for free on RUclips, no one would ever buy anything and I couldn't afford to spend time making videos and help like I do. I'd be back in the corporate world working in management) and to guys who purchase my programs. So, what you see on RUclips is very specific advice, insights and examples about certain topics. However, for example, I have never and will never explain the process of The Flow on RUclips, or give examples from The Flow on how to be confident, what to say, etc. That will only ever be taught here: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
exactly 💯 well said
thanks, good video
Much needed one for me ❤
Glad it helped man. Cheers, Dan 👍
Hey dan! When i approach a woman what can i say? I don't know what to do when interacting with a women. I get stuck or in awkward situation.
Hey The2King! I give an example of what I said when approaching a woman on the street (who I then had a relationship with for a while) here: ruclips.net/video/CoXC2pBRGUY/видео.html For my best ever conversation starters that I used 100s of times and taught to 100s of clients who used them successfully, check this out: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_Thank you
Hey Dan thank you for this video, over time i forgot how to act like that once i got my confidence broken, so being masculine is about being disagreeable and going after what you want? and femine about connection and getting along? Can you explain it how to be in that masculine mindest with women even when you don't want to have sex. Because lately i focued on gym and other things and i stopped that and girls like me but i don't get any chances anymore like back in the day. (When i was confident it was like a spiral that made me more confident and it was normal and now that i stopped i feel low confidence like i can't flirt with women anymore, when before it was my default mode and it was easy)
I lost confidence because i didnt escalate in time and she closed the window and we went back without doing anything and then she still liked me but she was emotionally turned off and we went no contact, felt terrible.
Biggest spike in attraction i have ever seen was when i told a girl where to go(leading) and then i told her what she did wrong and playfully that she is fired for doing something wrong at work, she got so turned on by this i've never seen something like that, she was making weird face biting her lips etc.
Hey Dan, how do i go about fixing my neutrality around woman and people in general?
i get around these really confident woman and its like i turn into the woman almost or i just neutralize myself so im not coming off feminine. i find the more comfortable i get with people, the more i become me but in the beginning especially, im really neutral and afraid to speak my mind
Someone like you needs examples of what to say and do, so you can have something to use that works when in situations like that. When you use the examples, see that women feel attracted to you and feel great about yourself, you then feel more willing and able to do it again - especially since you are now getting kisses, sex, dates and so on. You then become comfortable with actively being attractive when interacting with women, rather than just being a passive, neutral guy. If you want to learn my best examples of what to say and do, check this out: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
suppose if we talked initiated conversation and then she start asking me question what is the next thing to do .men lead again or let the women lead and ask questions?
This video describes me too well. All five traits. I need to change.
I was gonna ask a girl out atleast 11/12 out of 10 over text as i dont see her very often l had the thought of face timing. Never did so im still young... i say young i mean 17
What should i do i can go over or even take out what can i do
I love how Dan resorts to using clear pictures and diagrams to make his point as if were actually this dumb and need it spelled out like this. Well the truth is, thats correct lol
😄 As Albert Einstein once said, “If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.” The topic of attracting women is very complex, but I always make sure to explain each concept in simple terms to ensure that anyone, at any level of knowledge and skill (i.e. beginner to master), can understand it as I go through the video. The most important thing is that the viewer understands the information, so he can then level up and begin experiencing better results with women. That's what matters. Cheers, Dan 👍
Without having listened this before l made some of this mistake with this girl l like and felt like she saw me as a good friend, on the otherhand l had the behavior he mentioned in the video wirh girls l wasn't trying to like and they were attracted to me, so if you like a girl act the way you do with girls you aren't trying to get
I think one reason why so many men make these mistakes is the media. We are being conditioned to act like this. Just watch a romantic movie or sitcoms. In the end the nice guy gets the beautiful girl.
Or they are friends for years but he has feelings and once he admits it to her they start dating, etc.
The real world does not work that way.
what should i do if she thinks i'm too good for her when dating?
Dan can you make a video on social anxiety?
Hey dan do you offer any discounts on the books?
Hi Shawn - Yes, each product has unique discount packs. See the [Packs] tab on each product page: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c After becoming a customer, you can also get discounts if you log in to your account and go to the Downloads area. There you will see an option to purchase additional programs at a discount. Cheers, Dan 👍
Sensei how do i get my ex to open up? She not responding to my messages anymore even if im just asking about our daugther? Thanks in advance
You need to actively make her feel the pain of losing you, rather than just making her feel reassured that you still love her and want her back. I explain how to do that in this program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html Cheers, Dan
Dan looks like you never made a video on She say she has a Boyfriend
Hey Dan, I adore you man. And I desire so greatly to be like you. As usual, I have a few questions
1) After attracting and connecting with a woman, do you need to wait for signs before you kiss her?
2) Does it work to invite a woman to your house on first meeting or do you always have to take her out to public places?
3) is it good to say "Hey excuse me... I want to talk to you" to a girl walking along the street when you want to stop her?
4) How do you handle women who find it difficult to maintain eye contact? Perhaps when you sit with them side by side?
5) How do you develop courage and is it ideal to use the 3sec rule when approaching
6) Back when you were learning, were you having some sex with women or was it after the said 2years that you started having some sex with women?
6)
Since women are a natural challenge to men as Dan talked about at the end of his previous video, it seems to me that you can see a woman seeing you as a friend as a chance to level up and show her naturally attractive traits such as confidence. If you keep on doing that she will probably soon see you as something more than a friend.
Yes, that's true. However, make sure that she never senses a, "Now do you like me?" kind of vibe coming from you. If a woman senses that from a guy, then he is coming across as desperate and insecure, which is unattractive. You just have to behave in an attractive way (i.e. confident, charming, masculine) and not seek her approval for it. If she senses that you're not seeking approval for your attractive behavior, she will then feel turned on by your confidence, emotional independence and self-belief. Success with women comes down to the subtle stuff, which is why so many guys get confused. For example: As I explained in the video, if a guy is confident in a nice, friendly way, he will usually just get placed in the friend zone, unless she likes him for other reasons (e.g. he's very good looking, other women want him). So, just being confident in a nice, friendly way is not the way to attract women and turn them on. You've got to use your confidence in a sexually attractive way (i.e. in a masculine way, a flirtatious way, a playfully challenging way). It's all about the subtle stuff. Get it right and you unlock access to your choice of women. Other guys look on and wonder, "How does he do it? Why does she like him?" and they never understand it. Cheers, Dan 👍
Ok we need to be masculine.. what if that doesn’t always come naturally ?
Hi Dan, great presentation as always! I recently approached a woman at the grocery store and we seemed to have good chemistry, she asked for my name and introduced herself and agreed to go for a coffee. I gave her my number and left. I acted confidently when we talked but didn't do enough flirting and honestly I felt nervous inside because she looked so hot. Still I thought she was very interested. She never texted or called me.
Hi Ralf - Pretty simple mistake; you gave her your number. You have to get her number and then either call so she has it, or send a text right away. What to say and do to get a number, the first text to send after getting it and what to say on a call, is all included in The Flow: store.themodernman.com/in/384f55c Cheers, Dan 👍
Thanks Dan! I'd love to get the audio book version of The Flow.
@DanBaconTheModernMan well shit i made the exact same mistake and gave my number. I figured it was less pressure on her than asking for hers. I guess might as well go bold and ask for hers all the time?
Hi Dan, I hope you're doing well. I have a question for you ¿How do you manage to keep coming up with funny things to say and teasing jokes while flirting with a girl in the long run?
It happened to me a few times that in the beginning some girls found the jokes and teasing funny but overtime when they already got used to my humor and the kind of jokes I tend to make, then they didn't find it funny anymore.
This was a fantastic video by the way, thanks for giving us so many lessons🤘
Good question. The answer is that you shouldn't try hard to 'keep being funny' in the long run. Instead, you just need to get used to playfully messing with women at times. You don't have to do it all the time. You just add it in when it feels right to do so (i.e. don't force it). Since I got used to it over many years, I naturally do it about 20% of the time in my relationship and that's more than enough. Women can feel attracted to you for so many other reasons (i.e. your confidence, masculinity, social intelligence), so it's not just about humor. Essentially, you need to know how to behave in an attractive way around a woman (i.e. be confident, be masculine, etc) and then do that without trying. You get to the point where you don't have to try when it comes natural. It becomes natural with practice. The result is that you are always attractive to women and to your woman and it just happens naturally and on autopilot. I don't have to try in my relationship. The attraction flows naturally as a result of the attractive behavior that is happening on autopilot. Think of how you first felt when driving a car compared to now. It's like that. You just drive now and it's easy, but it used to be a challenge and something you had to think about and really try hard to do. Cheers, Dan 👍
@@DanBacon_ This is GOLD! Thanks man!
Hello
Tattooed in blood 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿🔥 this is another level of knowledge about female and male dynamic. Well explained, clear and straightforward 👏🏿
Watched, Good
I had a girl ask me about her hair and I told her she was better off just shaving her head before I complemented her
I had this date with a woman. Was very masculine and she loved the vibe. We made out a lot. She bit my neck and ear and all that. She told me right after the date I was a great kisser.
Text her about setting up date 2 about 24 hours later, ghosted.
Even had a girl I was texting, was very masculine with my texts. I remember at one point I waited 6 hours to respond to one of her texts, she then responded in one minute. Yet started making every excuse not to meet up.
I’m bewildered with all this.
Yeah dating is rough tbh it be like that sometimes
how do you compliant a women's appearance on social Medea? I know this girl who posts herself in bikini's a few times this summer I know to playfully tease her (but not sure how in this instance) but how do I compliment her body tastefully? I was gonna say she has the best bating suits or I don't know what it is about those bathing suits but there the best ones I've ever seen. obviously because shes wearing it..
Don't forget like button.
More likes means, the video will be recommended to more RUclips viewers. Who knows how many guys lifes it'll change with women, like it did mine.
Thanks Levan! 👍 I appreciate that. Great to hear of the life-changing effect for you as a result of watching my videos. Cheers, Dan
Pin Point 🤩
Im in my 40s had a failure for a marriage and i just want girls as friends i just miss the companionship, dont care for intimacy, A lot of modern women turn me off as they resemble hookers or prostitutes, i enjoy being alone but every once in awhile i miss the smile of a beautiful women and conversations with them. I seam to be maturing quickly i feel more like im in my sixtys rather then 40 lol
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Damn! All these are subtle f*ck up aspects brought forward and clearly cut out for soy boys. Thank you Dan!