10 Signs Someone Only Likes You as a Friend

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @pineapplehead5123
    @pineapplehead5123 5 лет назад +23250

    Single gang, where u at? 😂

  • @johnmartinmazo1511
    @johnmartinmazo1511 5 лет назад +2098

    HOW T0 GET A FRIEND?
    *-tell your crush that you like her/him and say do you like me too*
    *-If she/he says no,were only friends*
    *-BOOM YOU GOT A FRIEND*

    • @XxROBATOxX
      @XxROBATOxX 5 лет назад +198

      ...I once got, "No, we're enemies." It was an awkward time.

    • @muayyad4303
      @muayyad4303 4 года назад +56

      What if she remains silent?

    • @alanferil4114
      @alanferil4114 4 года назад +10

      @@muayyad4303 idk

    • @himizu5256
      @himizu5256 4 года назад +35

      I told her I liked her over text and she thought I was joking and with my friends when I said that... 😢 and I said it was not a joke and she just said. “Oh ok”

    • @giulitriestoart142
      @giulitriestoart142 4 года назад +16

      I feel bad for you guys some girls be cruel and then complain they never get confessions

  • @DoktorSo
    @DoktorSo 5 лет назад +4934

    If they like you, you'll know.
    If they don't, you'll be confused.

    • @hose3262
      @hose3262 5 лет назад +284

      Honestly the best piece of advice

    • @erincampbell3931
      @erincampbell3931 5 лет назад +389

      Sort of but not 100% accurate. Past relationships also change how you view situations.

    • @marinacover8699
      @marinacover8699 5 лет назад +141

      Erin Campbell true lol a guy will show me every sign of interest and I’m just like 🤔 “hm... that’s def not it”

    • @erincampbell3931
      @erincampbell3931 5 лет назад +88

      @@marinacover8699 same here. I've had two really bad break ups and I'm only 20.
      The first, I was 15 dated the guy for 3 months. When I ended things he threaten to kill himself, messaged me over every type of social media, getting new accounts when I blocked him. Getting his friends and family to contact me and also contacting my friends and family. His messages ranged from how I'm a b-word and easy to how he loves me and needs me. He is still trying to contact me 5 years later.
      The second I was 16. I fell head over heels for the guy, we dated for a year and a half. By the end we started fighting a lot (all apparently my fault, for example: he said girls are gross when on their periods and I got upset. He told me I was too sensitive). One day he ignored me out of the blue for a few days and ended things by going "I don't love you anymore" then tried to kiss me a week later.
      I finally pulled myself together from that heartbreak and met an amazing guy. He is always there for me, all the signs are there and everyone can see it but not my brain. I flip between the he loves me, he loves me not cycle.
      Past experience change you

    • @marinacover8699
      @marinacover8699 5 лет назад +31

      Erin Campbell I’m sorry you had such crappy experiences :( I know it’s natural to but try to be open to this new guy. There are some messed up manipulative dudes out there as you know but that means there’s the opposite as well. I’m trying to figure it out too but just try to be more open and friendly with him. Keep me updated. Idek what makes me retreat from guys but I met someone so “perfect” for me that it’s shocking and I pull away idk what to do

  • @astridbrumbach6905
    @astridbrumbach6905 5 лет назад +6761

    Me: I like you
    My crush: I like you too
    *wait that’s illegal*

  • @samaelthelightbringer
    @samaelthelightbringer 3 года назад +3400

    I love how everyone is here to suffer

  • @GeNeG01
    @GeNeG01 4 года назад +4518

    “Most conversations are over text”
    Welp, everyone’s getting friendzoned now in quarantine lol

    • @fixafix69
      @fixafix69 4 года назад +3

      Can you just stop saying bullshit for a full day?

    • @annaw4823
      @annaw4823 4 года назад +36

      woah there...

    • @clare_9438
      @clare_9438 4 года назад +3

      i’m not lol i c them every week atleast twice

    • @annaw4823
      @annaw4823 4 года назад +2

      yea lol i see them 3 times a week they’re on my swim team 😂

    • @bookmadgirl94
      @bookmadgirl94 4 года назад

      Pretty much how I talk to my old friend once I had moved away 😂

  • @duchi882
    @duchi882 5 лет назад +4093

    *10 Signs Someone Only Likes you as a Friend:*
    1. You defeat a villain with the Power of Friendship

    • @harrizhakimi2578
      @harrizhakimi2578 5 лет назад +98

      Anime in a nutshell 😂😂

    • @vgamer11
      @vgamer11 5 лет назад +80

      (My Little Pony theme plays)

    • @artificialidiot1654
      @artificialidiot1654 5 лет назад +20

      I've seen people defeat vilians with the power of friendship from everyone around him and then proceeds to ask his crush out.

    • @AngelaMerici12
      @AngelaMerici12 5 лет назад +3

      Hahahaha!!!

    • @maripaws
      @maripaws 5 лет назад +2

      xD

  • @Gwynhyvr
    @Gwynhyvr 5 лет назад +11969

    If being 'friendzoned' is the end of the world to you, get a better world.

    • @OhManAFatRabbit
      @OhManAFatRabbit 5 лет назад +199

      ok buddy

    • @markcastillo2622
      @markcastillo2622 5 лет назад +706

      Unfortunately earth is still the only known planet which can support life, and even if we find one interstellar travel is still a feat that is impossible for mankind. So in short even though we want to find a better world present circumstances make us unable to do so.
      I really hope people understand that this is just a sarcastic comment and not take it too seriously, have a good day.

    • @OhManAFatRabbit
      @OhManAFatRabbit 5 лет назад +133

      @@markcastillo2622 i love this explanation

    • @Gwynhyvr
      @Gwynhyvr 5 лет назад +16

      I hope you have a good day too, man. ♥

    • @markcastillo2622
      @markcastillo2622 5 лет назад +31

      @@OhManAFatRabbit Glad to be a source of happiness :D

  • @penelopedanyelle0805
    @penelopedanyelle0805 4 года назад +3224

    The gist:
    1. Mostly only talk over text
    2. "Wrong gaze"
    3. Match Maker
    4. Confiding to you about their relationship problems
    5. They set boundaries
    6. No hints of infatuation
    7. They don't make you a priority
    8. They prefer to hang out with you in groups
    9. They don't make a move on you
    10. Deep down you know but you still deny.

    • @jaypipeup8054
      @jaypipeup8054 4 года назад +23

      G I S T

    • @SoldierOfFate
      @SoldierOfFate 4 года назад +22

      In current times talking over text is the norm....but tbh I just feel like even before this quarantine shit people only felt like talking through text.

    • @kandiikrushh3253
      @kandiikrushh3253 4 года назад +1

      Addition to that if they are gay they probably don’t like you no matter how much they flirt with you and how funny they are and how much you talk about each other’s butts and how nice he is calling you his valentine but turns out he’s the second closed guy you had a crush on but you had this one for about a year and friend zoned a couple guys and your cousin who is friends with his brother thinks you like each other and won’t stop saying it but you can’t tell them because he’s not out YETtT
      Well I can’t relate

    • @rosepetunia1829
      @rosepetunia1829 4 года назад +35

      11: They always call you a "good friend"

    • @zeonmoo192
      @zeonmoo192 4 года назад +8

      When none of them are true except for #10...

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +1741

    *If your feelings/wishes/desires are not mutual - walk away and spare yourself a lot of heartache*

    • @supriyaraor3607
      @supriyaraor3607 5 лет назад +11

      Thanks

    • @bruh4196
      @bruh4196 5 лет назад +7

      i cnt walk away...we have to meet 2 times a day everyday....how can i ru away😳😳😳...only heartaches everyday😟

    • @MrGatsu
      @MrGatsu 5 лет назад +3

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me ironic when you walk away, she comes back and wants you

    • @MikhaelAhava
      @MikhaelAhava 5 лет назад +8

      No no, what if you feel fine as a friend and that someone you could help and Desire for their well being not necessarily something intimate.

    • @obamas.big.juicy.bazingaz3383
      @obamas.big.juicy.bazingaz3383 5 лет назад

      Then I will hug you

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +1505

    *#1 Relationship you can have - is with your own SELF*

  • @sillyfloofer
    @sillyfloofer 5 лет назад +1288

    "1, They only talk to you over text"
    *That moment when it's an online friend*
    Edit: I know it's quarantine now, I commented this before quarantine :D

    • @jkstcibg
      @jkstcibg 5 лет назад +16

      SnowyDoggie
      Y E P

    • @xxFay
      @xxFay 4 года назад +10

      YES

    • @rainIiIy
      @rainIiIy 4 года назад +8

      Exactly what I was thinking lol

    • @Bonnie17
      @Bonnie17 4 года назад +8

      Lol relatable

    • @rhysburns5420
      @rhysburns5420 4 года назад +4

      Yup

  • @simonerandazzo753
    @simonerandazzo753 3 года назад +924

    This should be renamed: "The hardest 10 pills to swallow about crushes and friendship."

  • @avamoore6461
    @avamoore6461 4 года назад +3364

    I fell on top of my crush, I didn’t realise it was him after like 30 seconds 😂

    • @cowpriestess7931
      @cowpriestess7931 4 года назад +225

      Um, h o w ?

    • @drowsified2782
      @drowsified2782 4 года назад +747

      You're living in anime.

    • @michelleeec_
      @michelleeec_ 4 года назад +190

      i remember i almost fell on top of my ex crush lmao 😂 he's already ready to catch me but i didnt fall ssksksk 😂

    • @ladydragon2908
      @ladydragon2908 4 года назад +126

      Avacado, i dont know you. But, i ship it 😉😏

    • @Catsdrivingatruck
      @Catsdrivingatruck 4 года назад +71

      GACHA LOGIC ALERT XD

  • @tz777_yx3
    @tz777_yx3 5 лет назад +1719

    Me: I Like You
    My Crush: I Like You To
    Me: Impossible 🤔

    • @huelikduhimbecile1365
      @huelikduhimbecile1365 5 лет назад +17

      That happened to me at the end of May

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 5 лет назад +13

      @@huelikduhimbecile1365 I discovered i have a straight best friend... but i needed 2 years to find out and accepted it... but it was a lot of work for me and him ^^

    • @bonecoldplays8518
      @bonecoldplays8518 5 лет назад +1

      Ya got em

    • @imlivingunderyourbed7845
      @imlivingunderyourbed7845 5 лет назад +5

      Is this an endgame meme?

    • @BasoSonia
      @BasoSonia 5 лет назад +1

      i understood that reference

  • @messicomps344
    @messicomps344 5 лет назад +1744

    Anyone else in love with her voice? It's just so ... Lovely. IDK anyone else??

    • @christiansnaturestudio6599
      @christiansnaturestudio6599 5 лет назад +20

      Yea plus she's also taken just in case you're curious but I still like her as a RUclipsr

    • @messicomps344
      @messicomps344 5 лет назад +57

      @@christiansnaturestudio6599 not interested in her that way

    • @orangeradios
      @orangeradios 5 лет назад +22

      Her voice is very calming

    • @miserylovesme
      @miserylovesme 5 лет назад +6

      yeah, her voice is so relaxing

    • @woof1495
      @woof1495 5 лет назад +12

      @@christiansnaturestudio6599 woah where did that come from

  • @ESunshine24
    @ESunshine24 4 года назад +156

    U forgot it’s actually easier to look at a friend in the eye than a crush. If ur crush stares rightly u a good amount of time than they probably aren’t in love or they could be hella confident

    • @moonjae-in12thpresidentofr20
      @moonjae-in12thpresidentofr20 3 года назад +2

      Yea

    • @Noemie291
      @Noemie291 Год назад

      But would a man that likes you look at you in the eyes on purpose to show you they like you or see your reaction?

    • @cigxhang486
      @cigxhang486 Год назад +6

      For me it's way easier to look lengthily at a crush than at a friend. because to me looking into someone's eyes for a long time is my way of showing my special interests for them. I can't look at a friend for too long because I don't like them that way. But not a crush... I'll have to force myself to look away and not make it creepy. Also because my crushes have beautiful eyes it's pleasing to see anyway.

    • @ermother7
      @ermother7 Год назад

      I can look at my friends’ eyes all day, but my crush’s?? Forget it, eye contact is too scary lol 😂

  • @SasukeUchiha-ss8lb
    @SasukeUchiha-ss8lb 5 лет назад +1496

    Why do people say "its time to move on" as if it was a choice we could make

    • @pyroitei8249
      @pyroitei8249 4 года назад +226

      because ultimately it is a choice. Catching feelings isn't, but moving on is. You might find yourself slipping from time to time but you need to pull yourself up mentally if that makes any sense.

    • @eatablekolas7506
      @eatablekolas7506 4 года назад +73

      You can't be the only one to choose who will make your life happier. If the person doesn't like you, you can't force them to be your lover. It's not the only person in the world who can make you happy.

    • @justchelsea4176
      @justchelsea4176 4 года назад +3

      Vanessa Mamo right 😭

    • @ebtrax4081
      @ebtrax4081 4 года назад +40

      Moving on as in focusing attention on someone else that might be better for you, or just focusing on yourself and what you love.

    • @lh4883
      @lh4883 4 года назад +9

      Catching feelings most definitely is a choice. Get your head out of your own asshole and stop sniffing your bullshit.

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 5 лет назад +872

    "It's not going
    To happen
    Overnight
    But eventually
    Someone New
    Will walk into
    Your life and
    You will forget
    About them.."

    • @crisgamesomg7418
      @crisgamesomg7418 4 года назад +36

      I‘m still waiting...

    • @anush1087
      @anush1087 4 года назад +16

      Kinda needed to see this, reminders are helpful because sometimes I forget

    • @Sevro720
      @Sevro720 4 года назад +8

      NaturalDivineGoddess
      “O
      k
      a
      y
      .”

    • @NaturalDivineGoddess
      @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 года назад +16

      Be Patient.. Good things come to those who wait 👊

    • @NaturalDivineGoddess
      @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 года назад +10

      The FORGET stage is the hardest of the growing pains.. like until *someone new walks in* you're stuck in a time zone?? Nevertheless take back your emotions and grab hold to possibility.. *Be Encouraged: LOVE YOURSELF*

  • @zuko1569
    @zuko1569 5 лет назад +4060

    I have a girl that likes me
    as a friend
    *_The end._*
    (Seinfeld theme plays)

    • @cofefe2269
      @cofefe2269 5 лет назад +18

      Oof

    • @duckyduckyducky209
      @duckyduckyducky209 5 лет назад +32

      I have a guy that likes me
      As a friend
      But idk
      BECAUSE HE GIVES ME MIXED SIGNALS SOMETIMES, AND I JUST WANT TO *ACCKTOEOQODVOEOWJKDVKDOWJAGHDJFOW9Q9TBOFJWJDKVOFOWKSKJD* 😤

    • @みかん-e8d3e
      @みかん-e8d3e 5 лет назад +1

      Did she have glasses?

    • @pres3356
      @pres3356 5 лет назад +4

      @@duckyduckyducky209 UGH SAME

    • @tonywalker1954
      @tonywalker1954 5 лет назад +1

      Lol

  • @cat_flap12
    @cat_flap12 4 года назад +681

    "most of the relationship is over text"
    me crushing on an online friend: welp, we're done here bois :')

    • @jjenapark
      @jjenapark 3 года назад +18

      I feel you.. and he already made the "friendzone" clearer..

    • @xTwilightWolvesx
      @xTwilightWolvesx 3 года назад +14

      Even if it’s an online friend, he’d want to call you and chat to you over Skype or something, if he was that interested in you.

    • @Angel..32
      @Angel..32 3 года назад +1

      that's me

    • @qwerty64ish
      @qwerty64ish 3 года назад +9

      @@xTwilightWolvesx not me I hate calls

    • @merimackara
      @merimackara 3 года назад +2

      @Baby Vroh if they even live in same country

  • @harryg9203
    @harryg9203 5 лет назад +678

    0:36 most of your relationship is over text
    1:07 the gaze - chest/hip if into, legs/feet if not into
    1:32 they want to be your matchmaker
    1:51 they come to you for relationship advice
    2:13 they set boundaries - eg only want to see you at specific times
    2:38 they never hint that they like you
    2:57 they don't make you a priority
    3:27 if they hang out with you, they prefer it to be as a group
    3:51 they never make a move on you - never flirt etc
    4:11 you already know but choose to ignore it - listen to your gut

    • @MrJoshie333_
      @MrJoshie333_ 5 лет назад +22

      Thanks for doing this, my parents are in the same room as me, so I can't have the sound up, so this helps out a ton 👍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 лет назад +52

      Thanks for putting this list together. We will add it to our video description and credit you :)

    • @christinamitrovich7554
      @christinamitrovich7554 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah, that’s true or so they make you believe until they see you are happy with someone else and then they feel sad.

  • @razorblade3561
    @razorblade3561 5 лет назад +4308

    Crush: *Tries to kiss me*
    Me: *VIrGin shIEld ACTIVATE*

    • @bonecoldplays8518
      @bonecoldplays8518 5 лет назад +69

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rainsara2795
      @rainsara2795 5 лет назад +58

      100%

    • @domo3491
      @domo3491 5 лет назад +226

      This is so me. My crush totally misunderstood why I didn't want her to touch my knee. My heart just couldn't take it.

    • @S20171
      @S20171 5 лет назад +8

      can relate

    • @theunpleasantone5978
      @theunpleasantone5978 5 лет назад +6

      Yes

  • @reitodoroki4599
    @reitodoroki4599 5 лет назад +2218

    I was thinking about asking my crush out today........I feel like the world is trying to tell me something
    Edit- THEY SAID YES
    Thanks for the support or I definitely would’ve given up before I tried XD

    • @ClutchZee
      @ClutchZee 5 лет назад +108

      You’ll never know for sure till you try, think of this message as a sign to go and ask her/him/they

    • @saminachowdhury2144
      @saminachowdhury2144 5 лет назад +29

      Don't lose hope

    • @mintichoco211
      @mintichoco211 5 лет назад +54

      you might as well do it soon. theres no telling if that special someone likes you now. if you arent quick enough, they might get over you. don't be afraid of rejection, it's an experience that'll help you understand life, and admitting your feelings will be one of the most liberating feelings of all time. and ya never know, you might enter a life-long happy relationship. go get em.

    • @icession4872
      @icession4872 5 лет назад +7

      yeah... do it if none of us cant atleadt you can fufill it in us by getting your crush we support you

    • @graycrownedcrane8408
      @graycrownedcrane8408 5 лет назад +3

      If you feel you should do it then do it it's no good to keep it in for to long

  • @maximusmilazzo5760
    @maximusmilazzo5760 4 года назад +4492

    Me: *tells my crush I like her*
    Her: *actually likes me back*
    And 100 other hilarious jokes you can tell yourself

    • @notaweeb7936
      @notaweeb7936 4 года назад +167

      maximus milazzo me: tells crush I like her
      Her: I like you too
      Me: wakes up

    • @alanferil4114
      @alanferil4114 4 года назад +18

      r/woooooooooooosh

    • @notaweeb7936
      @notaweeb7936 4 года назад +44

      Alan Feril ummmm, I get the joke

    • @mjolnir1256
      @mjolnir1256 4 года назад +40

      My ⏰: HAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @landofdaisies
      @landofdaisies 4 года назад +19

      I died at this

  • @sarahandsubaru
    @sarahandsubaru 5 лет назад +2311

    “People attracted to you stare at your chest and hip to waist area.”
    Oh I just knew that the creepy guy in my neighborhood had a crush on me!

    • @justchelsea4176
      @justchelsea4176 4 года назад +25

      Sarah Goodman my crush is 6’2

    • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943
      @iliveinsideyourhouse3943 4 года назад +35

      Literally every girls I seen, I always check out the milk area and the peepee poopoo area. It's my instinct, don't hate.

    • @veloc.raptor9136
      @veloc.raptor9136 4 года назад +83

      When im attracted to someone i usually stare at their eyes

    • @nelmae6026
      @nelmae6026 4 года назад +10

      @@veloc.raptor9136 same

    • @sprikitik4936
      @sprikitik4936 4 года назад +27

      @@veloc.raptor9136 Is it normal to stare at eyes to assert dominance?

  • @BrotherTree1
    @BrotherTree1 5 лет назад +412

    11: They honestly tell you directly straight up (but you think it's just a joke or playing hard to get).

    • @jimenatharealest
      @jimenatharealest 5 лет назад +1

      wait a seconddddd .

    • @connorwest465
      @connorwest465 5 лет назад +10

      Mine didn't. Strung me along for a couple months before she actually told me. Worst couple months of my life & when I finally had the strength to walk away she didn't let me.
      The whole thing has mentally screwed me over soo much.

    • @BrotherTree1
      @BrotherTree1 5 лет назад +5

      @@connorwest465 I'm sorry to hear that Connor, sounds like a terribly painful situation to be in. Thanks for sharing your feelings on the matter, that is a great start towards resolving matters and for wellbeing recovery.

    • @connorwest465
      @connorwest465 5 лет назад +6

      @@BrotherTree1 thank you.
      Past few months have felt like a living hell.
      I only wish that it turned out differently. Regardless of whether how she felt about me, she should've be honest with me & expressed how she felt instead of flirting/giving me hope.
      I can't stop blaming myself on how it turned out, even though deep down I know that I've done nothing wrong.

    • @RM_80
      @RM_80 5 лет назад

      😂😂😂

  • @mariar4514
    @mariar4514 4 года назад +178

    The ten signs:
    1: most of ur relationship is over text
    2: they look at u with wrong gaze (look at ur feet or legs)
    3: wanna be ur matchmaker
    4: go to u for relationship problems
    5: they set boundaries
    6: they never hint that they like u
    7: they don’t make u a priority
    8: they prefer to hang out with u in a group setting
    9: they never make a move on u
    10: deep down u know that they don’t

  • @e-memes808
    @e-memes808 5 лет назад +621

    1:23 - 1:30
    Everyone with a foot fetish: *Peers through open space in a wall* "Are you sure about that?!"

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 5 лет назад +8

      hahaha made my day!

    • @driftkon
      @driftkon 5 лет назад +5

      Literally me when I saw that part.

    • @sierra-rayw.9202
      @sierra-rayw.9202 5 лет назад +6

      LMFAO I'm in the dark, laying in my room rn and I immediately thought about the hole in my wall behind my back. I immediately moved my blanket over me covering my back and burst out laughing. Thx dude

  • @entropymikaela607
    @entropymikaela607 5 лет назад +138

    Also another thing I wanted to put on the table:
    If you flirt with some and they don't flirt back, it may be because they don't know how to react to flirtatious comments or are just simply the oblivious type. It could also be that they just don't realize you're being serious and mistake it for a joke. Or, maybe they don't want to assume things in order to protect their own feelings so they don't take your flirty comments seriously. It all depends on what type of person your crush is, really.
    For those who invite other people to the events you plan to do with them, such as watching the movies or just hanging out someplace, it's not always because they feel awkward because they don't like you. They may feel awkward because they don't want others to assume that something is going on between the two of you (anxiety may be taken into consideration for this), or because they don't want family members to get suspicious of you two. After all, parents and family in general can also be quick to jump into conclusions.

    • @_.ilo.
      @_.ilo. 3 года назад +3

      You're giving me hopes 😂😂

    • @clareustration
      @clareustration 2 года назад +2

      Adding onto your second one, I have a crush on a close friend of mine and I’m extremely nervous around him and I’m worried he may think I like him so I invite others along whenever we hang out. So yeah, if this stuff is happening I wouldn’t lose hope.

    • @ChibiKeruchan
      @ChibiKeruchan Год назад +1

      it all depends on how old are you. this video's advice are not for kids. this are for young adults.
      but if you look carefully. if you follow her advice and keep yourself away from them he or she would notice it if they are into you and they would ask is there's something wrong. and if they do. you tell them. and that's when you realize they are into you too coz they noticed.

  • @Missmi
    @Missmi 5 лет назад +45

    Awh, the "matchmaker" bit is so truly legit - thanks for this video dears x

  • @athendity2567
    @athendity2567 3 года назад +53

    The moment you realised you’re worried about your crush sending you mixed signals that you weren’t aware that you have been sending mixed signals to them as well...

  • @sisi5502
    @sisi5502 5 лет назад +693

    Looks like my crush fell in love with my best friend and she tried to push him away from me because she was secretly jealous of me.
    And I oop..

    • @yukiket5281
      @yukiket5281 5 лет назад +42

      That... Hurts...

    • @nguyen985
      @nguyen985 5 лет назад +71

      Let her have him if that makes her happy, if she keeps doing this, she’s not a good “best friend”

    • @TheMCzorro
      @TheMCzorro 5 лет назад +32

      That's a fucked up love triangle if I ever saw one. Opposites do attract though, this has a possibility of working out in your favor

    • @MG-hi9sh
      @MG-hi9sh 5 лет назад +15

      She sounds like a twat.

    • @goodvibes-eo1wj
      @goodvibes-eo1wj 5 лет назад

      Same

  • @JackOfAllTrades.YouTube
    @JackOfAllTrades.YouTube 5 лет назад +565

    Here’s what I’ve learned; humans are confusing as hell.

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 5 лет назад +522

    psych2go’s videos are getting unbelievably relatable it’s scary

  • @Blanche_255
    @Blanche_255 4 года назад +265

    11th sign : they use blue heart emojis when talking to u

    • @buzzluvsnuck
      @buzzluvsnuck 4 года назад +9

      I use green with my crush :((

    • @mizcha5369
      @mizcha5369 4 года назад

      Lol they do

    • @anki_yt
      @anki_yt 4 года назад +1

      Lmaoooooo

    • @kowaighozt
      @kowaighozt 4 года назад +5

      this hurt like a brick against my head....

    • @annapirgarousi7673
      @annapirgarousi7673 4 года назад

      @@katashinori she likes you maybe it's possible

  • @monstajohnx
    @monstajohnx 5 лет назад +470

    I'm so lonely that even darkness isn't my friend

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 5 лет назад +2

      yeah! i can confirm what "A" said!

    • @princesssheogorath1979
      @princesssheogorath1979 5 лет назад +3

      Get yourself out there honey. Network, have day dates by yourself.. You don't know who you might run into on the street. Literally. Speaking from
      experience & all the best x
      Edit: try and enjoy the adventure (you can) and more importantly, discovering more about yourself as time goes on. A cliche, but for a reason.

    • @MG-hi9sh
      @MG-hi9sh 5 лет назад +3

      @@princesssheogorath1979 I mean, how is 'get yourself out there' good advice? Someone has to want to get out there before they do. The advice should be 'rekindle your desire, do what you love, pour your heart into it, be happy, then get out there'.

    • @MikhaelAhava
      @MikhaelAhava 5 лет назад +4

      This is so edgy but damned right.

    • @aditiarya4941
      @aditiarya4941 5 лет назад

      Hey frd, don't be so discouraged. Y u talkin bout darkness when u worth all of the brighter side ha? Keep calm frd, everything will be fine 👍

  • @zaynahlliambitanga2879
    @zaynahlliambitanga2879 5 лет назад +1613

    The guy I like: *shows some signs that he likes me and signs that he sees me as a friend*
    Me: *These are confusing times*
    Update: Oh wow okay I forgot I made this comment. I’m actually aroace now, and am only attracted to cheesy garlic bread and weaponry. The guy mentioned here is one of my friends now, and even though I still get teased with him occasionally, I lost all my feelings for him. Thanks for the replies though, seriously it helped me move on from that guy.

    • @nekkobolas
      @nekkobolas 5 лет назад +15

      And i oop..

    • @tao2750
      @tao2750 5 лет назад +30

      I feel you T^T I’m in a similar situation as well

    • @SynnefaAsteria
      @SynnefaAsteria 5 лет назад +24

      Same over here, even if he knows i *LIKED* him before XD

    • @moonlightmagic8703
      @moonlightmagic8703 5 лет назад +70

      Crush:*one inch away from my face*
      Next day
      Crush:*Bitch Slaps Me*
      Next Day
      Crush:*hugs me*
      Next Day
      Crush:* Ignores me*
      Next Day
      Crush:*plays video games w me*
      Me: Wtf

    • @christinamitrovich7554
      @christinamitrovich7554 5 лет назад +18

      Zaynah Lliam Bitanga just move on. Find a guy that makes it beyond super clear he likes/ loves you instead.

  • @bc5163
    @bc5163 5 лет назад +137

    Anything on toxic/clingy friends?
    I cant stand toxically clingy friends. They are draining, controlling and self-entitled.

    • @abhilasha9608
      @abhilasha9608 5 лет назад +6

      they made a video on toxic relationships :)

    • @zlain5572
      @zlain5572 5 лет назад

      same bruh

    • @keira04
      @keira04 5 лет назад

      omg i need a video on that

    • @bc5163
      @bc5163 5 лет назад +2

      @@abhilasha9608 like romantic relationships? Not really interested. I think incompatible relationships have been talked about to death by society generally. But not really toxic friendships or the idea of being bullied by your friends or having overly controlling overbearing friends. It's like society looks at romantic relationships through a microscope of criticism and portrays friendships as flawless places of comfort and safety. When the reality is sometimes far from it.
      Another thing overlooked is toxic family relationships as an adult.
      Always instead relationship this, relationship that. Yawn.

    • @leasim6574
      @leasim6574 5 лет назад +2

      Stop talking to them it ain't that hard

  • @Mochaphoenix
    @Mochaphoenix 4 года назад +248

    “They don’t show any sign of liking you”
    Tsunderes: am I a joke to you?

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  5 лет назад +392

    So.. who's your secret admirer? Comment below ;)

    • @sunshine-df3tc
      @sunshine-df3tc 5 лет назад +107

      nobody lol I'll always be a single pringle

    • @yuri-wu6oo
      @yuri-wu6oo 5 лет назад +26

      I don't have one :/

    • @sketchyskies8531
      @sketchyskies8531 5 лет назад +8

      No one that I know of

    • @LeFlyingPenguin
      @LeFlyingPenguin 5 лет назад +12

      @Phych2Go Used to be my good friends. So sad one of my other friends decided to take ruin my friendship with her and keep them all to himself.

    • @helenarivers3822
      @helenarivers3822 5 лет назад +1

      No one :(

  • @saragrauso9904
    @saragrauso9904 5 лет назад +490

    "Instead of continuously chasing them, do yourself a favor and find someone who values you". It never happens. And when you're tired of being alone you're content with someone that doesn't deserve you

    • @himmlerlovesbeer8867
      @himmlerlovesbeer8867 5 лет назад +57

      Who doesn't deserve you? You need to find things to do. Stop chasing people. Chase your dreams. If all you want is a man, then you're looking for all the wrong features at all the wrong places. You need to find someone who mirrors. Quit looking for a handsome boy to brew your infatuation. Look for someone who reflects you.

    • @gabenewell3955
      @gabenewell3955 4 года назад +8

      Ling Ling but “doing you” and not trying to find that person you will be left behind time doesn’t care rather your looking for love or not and if we didn’t need it we wouldn’t care

    • @StephanieRZ
      @StephanieRZ 4 года назад +18

      @@gabenewell3955 Honestly agreed. I agree in personal development, honoring ourselves, our moral values, and doing sufficient to know who we are & what our life needs etc, self-love... but there will be a point where we do need to be centered in love, and to yes, seek it. Otherwise, it's not just going to naturally set us up on its own lol. You made a true point.

    • @StephanieRZ
      @StephanieRZ 4 года назад +7

      Reverse this. Be worthy to yourself first, and when it comes to love, ask yourself, are They worthy of me? Or do they need to have their own worth/healing first? ♡ And do they align with your values? Or plans in your life? I.e pets or children/starting a family, views, etc. If all goes well, then go for it, especially once knowing one another well for a good amount of time, and it's mutual loving interests. :)

    • @gabenewell3955
      @gabenewell3955 4 года назад +5

      Stephanie TM exactly we have to be able to do both

  • @arnoldbarahona417
    @arnoldbarahona417 5 лет назад +179

    Come on. If they dont "feel comfortable" hanging out with you at night or if they set "boundaries" they are not even friends. Walk away

    • @mariamgorjian
      @mariamgorjian 4 года назад +22

      Completely agree. Also, a real friend prioritizes you ...if you are dead last in all things at all times, that’s not even a friendship. That’s being a doormat.

    • @joeyjointjebaiter1275
      @joeyjointjebaiter1275 4 года назад +5

      Oh, so when my friends get uncomfortably close to me i cant tell them to stop? Thats setting boundaries

    • @rockeando1
      @rockeando1 4 года назад +2

      In the context of the video the person doesn't feel comfortable IN A DATE with the other guy. Com'on, it's really easy to distinguish between a dine with a mate and a fucking date. I had a friend who was into me (I pretended not to notice) and she invited me to a fancy restaurant, and was flawless dressed and she tried to pay the full check. Only the roses missing 😂 Friends don't do that. Obviously, the next times I rejected to go for a dine again or I invited other people.

    • @rhys4489
      @rhys4489 4 года назад +1

      Agreed. Also, it’s not unheard of for people to set boundaries with people they are attracted to. It’s called putting your walls up because you are terrified of rejection. I did it for most of my adult life.

  • @burninsherman7196
    @burninsherman7196 3 года назад +52

    I got friendzoned for 3 years, as it turns out we actually both liked each other and were just both too afraid to say anything. Now that I finally I've got a girlfriend, and the last few days have been some of the happiest of my life.

    • @Pancake_Dragons
      @Pancake_Dragons Год назад

      The last days? Are you dead?? I mean if ur dead ig you can't answer lol but if you're alive...
      ????

    • @BlueMinionIW
      @BlueMinionIW 11 месяцев назад

      I’m getting friend-zoned by her but she actually admitted that she’s shy often and yet, she still shows many many signs of interest.

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow 5 лет назад +167

    *Ouch, being friend zoned is probably one of the worst things that can happen, IF you fell for that person BUT! You need to let go* 🙏

    • @grahamaltemare1376
      @grahamaltemare1376 5 лет назад +3

      No its not lol

    • @ZaxorVonSkyler
      @ZaxorVonSkyler 5 лет назад +10

      One of the worst things that could happen? Uh try again please.

    • @MindNow
      @MindNow 5 лет назад +1

      Zaxor Von Skyler IF you fell for that person I mean

    • @ZaxorVonSkyler
      @ZaxorVonSkyler 5 лет назад +1

      @@MindNow even then, if you actually care about them most people would rather still be friends than being absolutely hated by them.

    • @Ty-mu7gl
      @Ty-mu7gl 5 лет назад +3

      Nah, it's okay. It's a life thing and definitely not as tragic as we make it out to be

  • @sleepyna3222
    @sleepyna3222 4 года назад +115

    My crush: **only made a few conversations with me**
    Me: Yes, he definitely likes me.

    • @myfarts
      @myfarts 2 года назад +1

      My crush: **has never spoken to me in my entire life**
      Me when he sits behind me instead of literally anywhere else in the class:
      Yes, he definitely likes me.

  • @mewmew8259
    @mewmew8259 5 лет назад +21

    I feel like the only one here who appreciates the friendship between me and my crush. Even if he doesn't nor ever see me the way that I see him, I still value him as a friend. Just being around him makes me happy.

  • @adrijabiswas4564
    @adrijabiswas4564 4 года назад +346

    Single bell
    single bell
    I confessed to my crush
    Getting friendzoned all the way 😭

    • @azza3325
      @azza3325 4 года назад +5

      It’s all good

    • @chelseaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @chelseaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 4 года назад

      Me 🥲

    • @nidhi8900
      @nidhi8900 4 года назад +6

      Literally I say everyone to be friends with me not becuz I m friend zoning them just because I want to know them first but then I am the one who end up liking them and mostly they don't even friendzone me 🙄🙄😭😭😭 and then when someone actually likes me , I atleast friendzone them 😅

    • @leenabuhijleh9035
      @leenabuhijleh9035 3 года назад +1

      Army identified😂💜

    • @crispycornflakes7850
      @crispycornflakes7850 3 года назад

      @@nidhi8900 Reminds me of my "crush" she also kind of friendzoned me but also not really? It's rly confusing sometimes.

  • @sceptre80
    @sceptre80 5 лет назад +44

    What I learned is that you're not entitled to someone's romantic love (even though I've only been friendzoned once). That helped me. Didn't hurt that much though (so maybe I'm just different). I really felt that therapist part though.

    • @IrinaJaposhvili
      @IrinaJaposhvili Год назад

      i actually mistook my anxiety into my friend liking me, i fidget with my fingers and avoid eye contact, and the wrong gaze yes he was staring in my soul often and that made me uncomfortable but i thought i liked him so i texted him but then told him i liked him as a friend and i did tbh i didn't like him romantically at all but that just got into my head, but next time i would not analyse everything when not needed i am actually going to a new school so if i have a crush i would let him tell me his feelings first and if i do get a bf i want it to be unexpected, ill just focus on my studying and be there for him as a friend and talk about my interests and who knows what will happen.

  • @RealBrodyRussell
    @RealBrodyRussell 5 лет назад +355

    Can next vid be:
    “10 signs someone doesn’t like you at all”
    It would help

  • @christinaavery7096
    @christinaavery7096 3 года назад +33

    "most of your conversation is over text." Me, who's never gotten a text back "oh yay, he loves me!"

  • @LindsayandPeytonShow
    @LindsayandPeytonShow 4 года назад +188

    Who else is in the stage of “I’ll never find someone who is as perfect as they are” 😎

  • @joeygilbert3558
    @joeygilbert3558 5 лет назад +71

    Her: All 10 signs in this video
    Me: She'll come around one day.

  • @mecisbuvelle4025
    @mecisbuvelle4025 4 года назад +630

    Crush: Yeah I like you
    Is she into me?
    Really you cant tell, maybe she is from canada and was just being polite

    • @toothpaste4402
      @toothpaste4402 4 года назад +44

      I love that videos from casually explained

    • @lh4883
      @lh4883 4 года назад +16

      If she's from Canada she'll apologise.

    • @eunac3037
      @eunac3037 4 года назад +6

      Even if shes from Canada, us Canadians shouldn't lie like that-

    • @honeyfli332
      @honeyfli332 4 года назад

      Euna C It’s a joke 😔✊🏻

    • @eunac3037
      @eunac3037 4 года назад +1

      @@honeyfli332 Mine was a joke, too- 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @tanihehe
    @tanihehe 5 лет назад +38

    Why are these videos always SUCH *MOODS??*
    *WHY???*

  • @AM-ur7ow
    @AM-ur7ow 3 года назад +14

    The priority one really hit hard. Sometimes I feel like I just do more for people no matter what even if they are my crush. I keep telling myself that if they come at me with the same energy then they like me. But it hasn't happened yet with my crush and I try so hard to believe she will, but I just have to accept its never happening.

  • @ileana2901
    @ileana2901 4 года назад +44

    I came here after being friend zoned by my crush. We are kind of really close friends and I thought maybe he felt the same but nah. But I shot my shot and I don't regret it.

  • @nkko9822
    @nkko9822 3 года назад +10

    The fact that I do pretty much all of these things as a defense mechanism to shield myself from possible rejection, so that if my crush doesn’t like me I won’t get hurt.

  • @herobeasttcg3501
    @herobeasttcg3501 4 года назад +52

    It hurts to see when all of these signs are true.

    • @dolanvs4515
      @dolanvs4515 3 года назад +2

      yea… it really hurts. :/

  • @ketereissmore3967
    @ketereissmore3967 5 лет назад +58

    Now I need this:
    10 signs someone see you as a close friend.
    Or even
    10 sings someone see you as a friend.
    T_T

  • @Ella-bh1dn
    @Ella-bh1dn 5 лет назад +66

    it also feels horrible when you are the one who has to tell the friendzoned person that you don't love them

    • @ssr8555
      @ssr8555 5 лет назад +18

      Agreed. I had to friend zone my best friend (who I still hang out with btw) and knowing what an awkward and selfcouncoius person she is, it was really hard to tell her I don't feel the same way without being scared of hurting her feelings since I really care about her (as a friend)

    • @Ella-bh1dn
      @Ella-bh1dn 5 лет назад +4

      @@ssr8555 wow... I you still hang out with her? I'm glad for you it didn't end up in a worst case scenario. for me it was a little more difficult... she used to be like a big sister to me but it got awkward after she became touchy and threw hits everywhere, I didn't know how to adress this issue and talk to her about it, still thought there's a way to save the friendship... now she's entering the military and we will probably never see each other again

    • @ssr8555
      @ssr8555 5 лет назад +3

      @@Ella-bh1dn I'm sorry to hear that it isn't going that great for you. I hear a lot of stories of how one-sided crushes have destroyed friendships and it's really awful... I hope everything goes well with you. Best of luck for the future!

    • @Ella-bh1dn
      @Ella-bh1dn 5 лет назад

      @@ssr8555 thanks, it really means a lot. It bothers me that we never had the chance to talk it out, and that it all ended this kinda sudden way with her deciding to enter the military. I wish I could at least tell her in all honesty that I wish her the best but I don't dare to see her one last time again. The only thing that made me feel a bit better about this whole issue is that maybe we both learned and grew with it but that's just me protecting myself from getting even more introverted and insecure

    • @kewald3671
      @kewald3671 5 лет назад +11

      Welp. I’m lesbian and my old friend knew this, and he told me he liked me. Basically he tries to act like we’re a couple even though he knows I don’t like him and that I’m a lesbian. So I don’t want to be friends with him anymore since it’s getting toxic.

  • @cathy9810
    @cathy9810 5 лет назад +641

    wow... thats depressing for me then, but thx for all the info!
    EDIT: am i just going crazy or do i have like 350 likes? wow thx u guys!

    • @everydaygeek8715
      @everydaygeek8715 5 лет назад +9

      Welcome to the club mate.

    •  5 лет назад +3

      Same here.

    • @cathy9810
      @cathy9810 5 лет назад +1

      @@everydaygeek8715 haha thx

  • @LizNguyen
    @LizNguyen 4 года назад +39

    Do not end up feeling entitled and getting mad when you find out they don’t reciprocate your feelings. I’ve had people essentially treat me like I’ve wronged them. I do not owe you anything.

    • @DrCasey
      @DrCasey 4 года назад +7

      It's natural to feel some anger at anyone who hurts you, whether that's fair or not. Experiencing normal human emotions doesn't make someone 'entitled.' If being hurt by unrequited love makes one entitled, then almost every human being in world history is an entitled asshole.

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma 4 года назад +8

      @@DrCasey having a temper tantrum over it (which a lot of guys do) isn't normal. They don't have to be angry. Being upset or let down is fine but angry? That's kinda scary and they need to grow up. It's like when you get rejected by a job or school. Like that's just life 🤷🏻‍♀️ some things go your way and sometimes it doesn't. We as humans need to get more used to rejection so we aren't getting angry or throwing hissy fits or turn to yelling at the girl or throwing her into a dumpster (all real life experiences)

    • @DrCasey
      @DrCasey 4 года назад +2

      @@PGOuma Saying anything mean to the girl is obviously wrong or unjustified, of course (and going any further than that becomes progressively more wrong, as it goes without saying). I wouldn't say that feeling any kind of bitterness is bad or wrong in and of itself, though, so long as they don't express those feelings to the girl in question. Everyone's entitled to have whatever thoughts they want about any subject they want.

  • @studyme-selftaughtlife4958
    @studyme-selftaughtlife4958 5 лет назад +89

    Without *CONFESSION,* you’ll never know. Always tell your emotions.

    • @yorbendw5035
      @yorbendw5035 5 лет назад +6

      Exactly !! The confession is a huge relief and after that, there's a time where you'll learn a lot about yourself regardless !! Go for it, you'll thank yourself for it on a later day. Good luck 🍀

    • @studyme-selftaughtlife4958
      @studyme-selftaughtlife4958 5 лет назад

      Yorben D W love the message!

    • @yorbendw5035
      @yorbendw5035 5 лет назад

      @@studyme-selftaughtlife4958 Thanks. I ❤️ love, but sadly that isn't always easy. Learning some things do hurt 😭 But maybe they will therefore be even more beautiful in the end 😘

    • @lucianna7005
      @lucianna7005 5 лет назад +9

      @@yorbendw5035 Even if it hurts, it will eventually get better, and you can move on. Much better than suppressing your emotions indefinitely. Everyone says the worst thing is a no. I disagree. The worst thing, is a "maybe".

    • @D4mnis
      @D4mnis 5 лет назад +1

      That's basically my situation. Trying to get closer with a friend of mine I see once a week in school rn. I'm not that optimistic after the classic friendzone-talk (like she only gets together with assholes and stuff), but I simply want to know for sure if there is a possibility. Even if my my blood pressure showes 187 to 108 just before asking her out

  • @ATOAnders
    @ATOAnders 5 лет назад +73

    "they gaze at your feet if they see you as a friend" What if they look into your eyes?

    • @xman7695
      @xman7695 5 лет назад +3

      @Marī Beilschmidt well that could maybe depend on if he is shy or something. I like looking into the eyes but if I'm feeling shy or feeling not confident I would not do that. I don't know if it's the same to other men though.

    • @Weeeelium
      @Weeeelium 5 лет назад

      Marī Beilschmidt I look into the eyes of my girlfriend for pretty Long. You are right!

    • @richerDiLefto
      @richerDiLefto 5 лет назад +1

      It’s tricky because most girls naturally look at eyes when they’re only being friendly, like if they’re waitresses, cashiers, or with friends. If a girl really likes you, her pupils would be dilated if she looks at you.

    • @moonlightmagic8703
      @moonlightmagic8703 5 лет назад +1

      What if he stands like a inch away from my face?

    • @neewp4985
      @neewp4985 4 года назад +1

      @@richerDiLefto *laughs in dark brown eyes*

  • @JenniM1197
    @JenniM1197 5 лет назад +4

    I could've used this video last year but thank you so much! Being friendzoned hurts initially but if the friendship is meant to be....the two of you would remain the best of friends. (I'm in that situation, I confessed to him but he didn't feel the same way, but still good friends) :)

  • @melonlord4606
    @melonlord4606 3 года назад +12

    Actually, I came here because a friend recently confessed, but in this situation, I'm the person that just sees him as a friend. I feel bad, but its for the best.

  • @JKern-rg9si
    @JKern-rg9si 4 года назад +60

    I stare at my crushes feet when I'm talking to him because I'm too nervous to look up. MaYbE hE'S fEeLinG tHe sAme wAy💀💀

  • @shinminhee6711
    @shinminhee6711 5 лет назад +368

    When you like the same gender and they only see you as a friend.
    "Deep you know, but it hurts"😭💔

    • @breadpotatos7864
      @breadpotatos7864 5 лет назад +4

      H Yee F

    • @crystal_nymph1537
      @crystal_nymph1537 5 лет назад +27

      Same bud, I can relate. I'm crushing on my girl best friend hard.

    • @shinminhee6711
      @shinminhee6711 5 лет назад +9

      @@crystal_nymph1537 😭hurts more ain't it? *pats*

    • @crystal_nymph1537
      @crystal_nymph1537 5 лет назад +37

      @@shinminhee6711 And to top it off, I live in a very ignorant country with little to no knowledge about any type of sexuality. (Although my best friend does know that I crush on a girl and she's okay with that, she just doesn't know that it's her.)

    • @shinminhee6711
      @shinminhee6711 5 лет назад +7

      @@crystal_nymph1537 I want to know more of your story;-; that feels so painful I'm rooting for you I hope someday you'll find the right one

  • @rmduwk
    @rmduwk 5 лет назад +265

    Take a moment of silence for all the brothers in the friendzones...RIP

    • @jacquelinep8311
      @jacquelinep8311 4 года назад +13

      Lmfaoo try a girl who put herself there😭💀

    • @ileana2901
      @ileana2901 4 года назад +17

      And the sisters😢

    • @onlyhuman5669
      @onlyhuman5669 4 года назад +7

      And the sisters, and the sad gays who fell in love with their straight best friend😔✊

    • @kilssj2250
      @kilssj2250 4 года назад +4

      And 'Sisters'...

    • @tyroneaugustine229
      @tyroneaugustine229 3 года назад

      Friendzone Cemetery!!! Im kicking Fate's ass on judgement day!!!!

  • @adamfils
    @adamfils 4 года назад +262

    Her: I want someone like you but not you!
    What zone is that?
    .
    .
    .
    Me: FOR EXAMPLE ZONE. 😂

    • @rosepetunia1829
      @rosepetunia1829 4 года назад +7

      That's called the "Keith Urban zone"
      🎵🎶🎶 *I wanna love somebody! Love somebody **_Like you!_* 🎵🎵🎵

    • @parichawlaa
      @parichawlaa 4 года назад +1

      Lmaooo

    • @parichawlaa
      @parichawlaa 4 года назад +4

      @@rosepetunia1829🤣🤣🤣 That's hilarious

    • @willjohnson5843
      @willjohnson5843 4 года назад

      Lol

  • @DilshanMarasinghe
    @DilshanMarasinghe 4 года назад +116

    I just told my best friend yesterday I have feelings for her and she said she only likes me as a friend :(

    • @mileyhernandez1817
      @mileyhernandez1817 4 года назад +11

      That’s so sad 😔

    • @Joseka
      @Joseka 3 года назад +17

      *_*Sounds a lot of shots and grenades_*
      *MAN DOWN MAN DOWN*

    • @Gsk815
      @Gsk815 3 года назад +5

      I think that’s the answer every men expects

    • @sanake2636
      @sanake2636 3 года назад +4

      F

    • @jingyi3997
      @jingyi3997 3 года назад +10

      Brooo that happened to me too 💀 I confessed to her and she said she sees me as a close friend 😔

  • @philosopher1912
    @philosopher1912 4 года назад +40

    Me: Already have my heart broken
    My Heart: Hey, i found a new one for you too get broken by, mate!

  • @dashcraft1012
    @dashcraft1012 5 лет назад +51

    “it feels like when you get friend zoned it feels like it’s the end of the world”
    I’ve been friend zoned over 9 thousand times
    A R E Y O U S U R E A B O U T T H A T

    • @justanotherguycommenting5754
      @justanotherguycommenting5754 4 года назад +4

      Damn its creepy that you crushed on over 9000 girls
      Edit:yes ik its a joke but this is too

    • @dashcraft1012
      @dashcraft1012 4 года назад +1

      idkhello I am too don’t worry

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 года назад +8

    "Unrequited love
    Can make us
    Unaware and
    Obsessive
    But it doesn't
    Have to
    Destroy us
    Unles we let it.." Speak Up

  • @hhgvvbNnj
    @hhgvvbNnj 5 лет назад +109

    If these are true then I’m getting hella mixed signals

  • @playknightboy
    @playknightboy 5 лет назад +119

    Can you make a video about losing and recovering previous passions? (Videogames, movies, books, sports)

    • @royerlraph7928
      @royerlraph7928 5 лет назад +4

      Sancorso that’s a symptom of depression mate

    • @pax1217
      @pax1217 5 лет назад

      Yes, if you feel depressed or sad, you need to solve that issue first

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 лет назад +12

      What are your thoughts on a video on cultivating passion?

    • @ieatcoochiebut7095
      @ieatcoochiebut7095 5 лет назад +5

      Yesss a video like this would be great, I want to feel happy doing my hobbies again. I've tried finding new ones but it's no help.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  5 лет назад +1

      Have you tried an integrative solution? Where you work on your physical well being so the joy from doing what you love also slowly comes back?

  • @kswannie
    @kswannie 5 лет назад +59

    Life's a disaster that always ends in tragedy....oh, my popcorn's ready!

    • @maia23zade98
      @maia23zade98 5 лет назад +2

      🍿!!
      This comment fucking killed me. 😂 (laughing at myself while crying at how sad and pathetic my life is)

    • @maridragonbenders7698
      @maridragonbenders7698 5 лет назад +2

      This is my favorite comment under this video.

    • @KK-wq1kk
      @KK-wq1kk 5 лет назад

      Im14andthisisdeep

  • @thmhenson
    @thmhenson 3 года назад +61

    The highest form of love according to Plato is platonic love. So if someone puts you in the friendzone, they are loving you in the highest form.

    • @olganicole8021
      @olganicole8021 2 года назад +4

      platonic love is not necessarily friendship

    • @jadegecko
      @jadegecko 2 года назад +9

      Plato's like "It's named after me, so it MUST be the best!" 🙄

    • @thmhenson
      @thmhenson 2 года назад +1

      @@jadegecko haha 😂

    • @gracestaw9030
      @gracestaw9030 2 года назад +1

      Firends zone is sooo much better then actual relashionships

    • @nakedmongoose6837
      @nakedmongoose6837 2 года назад +7

      Plato was for sure coping when he wrote that 😂😂😂

  • @pontusasmr8721
    @pontusasmr8721 5 лет назад +240

    Haha you all are friendzoned
    Cries in lonlyness

  • @talkingcowthatwasthereallalong
    @talkingcowthatwasthereallalong 5 лет назад +12

    Been through some of this, but it really conforts me when I think about how friendship and romance don't need to be different levels of the same thing, they can be different things
    "He's no more than just a friend" implies that "if he was more, he'd be a boyfriend", that love emerges as friendship evolves and so on...
    But that doesn't need to be a rule, you can love your friend, friendship can be a something other than "proto-romance"
    I've met a guy, I liked him, I told him, didn't go as planned, but now we are best friends, we love eachother, and I am happy to have someone like him in my life, he's awesome and taught me that there are more ways to love...
    ... and I taught him how to make quality gunpowder
    ("sorry 4 bad english", not a native speaker)

  • @kevinroobaert2246
    @kevinroobaert2246 5 лет назад +51

    Aaaand this broke my heart, hopes and dreams...

    • @ReapeX
      @ReapeX 4 года назад +2

      You'll recover, keep going forward

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess 4 года назад +44

    "If you're feeling BRAVE just tell them how you feel.." Recipe for Success

    • @jaredfritsch6833
      @jaredfritsch6833 4 года назад +8

      You make your own luck.
      Sometimes, you're best play, is to go all in. Damn the consequences. If you want to always be left wondering "what if" then do nothing. I am speaking from experience.

    • @fadedsophomore
      @fadedsophomore 4 года назад +5

      Jared Fritsch it’s true....I told a girl how I really felt cuz I’ve never been in love before and she put me in the friendzone. I’ve been able to move on quicker knowing I’ve been able to say what I’ve wanted to say and I feel like a weight is lifted off my shoulders

    • @kilssj2250
      @kilssj2250 4 года назад

      I don't know what to do.

    • @SC_Reaper
      @SC_Reaper 4 года назад

      I like to call this the Standard "Reaper gets rejected for the umpteenth time" play :P
      I've tried countless times over 30 years, and the times it has paid off is precisely 2 XD

  • @kitkatkatehh2400
    @kitkatkatehh2400 5 лет назад +35

    When u realize u friendzoned someone and u don't even know
    My frd: *talking about someone who might have a crush on her doesn't reply to her messages*
    Me: omg how can she love u and don't reply u?
    My frd : then why are u always replying?
    Me: because I'm always on my phone
    My frd: *went offline*
    I wish I was joking.

  • @LeeEverett1
    @LeeEverett1 4 года назад +44

    Me: Hello, my name is -
    I HAVE A BOYFRIEND

  • @valentiiine673
    @valentiiine673 5 лет назад +29

    Thanks to this, I’ve realised that I have been sending all those signs to my crush...
    Great...

    • @sagi1lol66
      @sagi1lol66 5 лет назад +2

      Congratulations, you played yourself :P
      Jk, good luck my man😉

    • @valentiiine673
      @valentiiine673 5 лет назад

      sagi1 lol i’m a girl actually 😂
      Good luck to you too «my man» 😂

    • @vallerina_2
      @vallerina_2 5 лет назад +2

      Yep I have done the same. I think it is because I dont like to make it obvious that I like them so I try to hide it and it in these ways. Oh well I dont think I am even his type😅

    • @sagi1lol66
      @sagi1lol66 5 лет назад

      @@valentiiine673 ah, Tbh I am a boy
      But, I appreciate the blessing :D
      Sorry for the misunderstanding lmao

    • @valentiiine673
      @valentiiine673 5 лет назад +1

      Movie_Lover yeah, I’m scared of rejection so...
      You’ll not know if you never ask him, you could be surprise

  • @fornas2
    @fornas2 3 года назад +4

    this is straight facts that i dont accept yet, the hope never leaves

  • @thespraybottle7619
    @thespraybottle7619 5 лет назад +7

    Don’t assume when someone says they don’t like you and show every sign and hint of not liking you that their ‘playing hard to get’

  • @skystudios1899
    @skystudios1899 5 лет назад +62

    I was in the friendzone with my current boyfriend for the longest time. He was sweet about it, but he actually told me he only saw me as a friend once he found out I liked him. Many months later, he asked me out. We've been dating for 4 months now, and are happier than we've ever been before together.😊❤

    • @adelinamaria5573
      @adelinamaria5573 5 лет назад +6

      thankss
      it gave me hope

    • @lourdescalderon9443
      @lourdescalderon9443 5 лет назад +2

      Lucky girl !

    • @deemah3602
      @deemah3602 5 лет назад +1

      1) 4 months is too little
      2) therefore, I hope you'll break up soon

    • @stk5938
      @stk5938 5 лет назад +8

      Mikhail Merkulov what is the point of wishing this? Are you jealous of people's happiness?

    • @subforsub2873
      @subforsub2873 5 лет назад +3

      @@deemah3602 what the frick dude. the 4 months WILL move onto 8 months, 12 months, or even 16 months. You just seem so jealous that someone else has better happiness then you.

  • @marksalvador21
    @marksalvador21 4 года назад +3

    I used to have a relationship with my then girl best friend. I didn’t fall for her because of her looks, but the way she made me feel whenever she smiled and talked. When she broke up with me, i felt like i lost everything. She told me she could only see me as a friend. I began smoking and drinking frequently to stop thinking about her, but it never worked. I came over it from time to time, but it always came back to me. I only needed her. I just wish i could back and hold her tightly for the last time, before i completely forget about the life i had when i was with her.

  • @g.bruhin9342
    @g.bruhin9342 3 года назад +3

    "Don't be discouraged. Instead be thankful for that learning experience and find someone else."
    Yeah, I know that would be the best. But hey, that's not as easy as it sounds! You can't choose who you like. You're mind can't control your heart. So even if you know all these things and you like someone who doesn't like you back the way you do, you can't just stop feeling the things you feel when it comes to this person.
    Or at least I can't.

  • @skepticalV2
    @skepticalV2 5 лет назад +31

    "He belongs to me. He doesn't have a choice." -Ayano, 2019

    • @skyrah1365
      @skyrah1365 5 лет назад

      "I'm sorry, I love you."
      - A different Ayano, 2018

  • @ke1844
    @ke1844 3 года назад +27

    Sign that they only like you as a friend: “they don’t make a move.”
    Me: I liked him for 4 years now-
    my guts: GET UR ICE CREAM AND MOVE ON
    :,)

    • @Learnmathwithv
      @Learnmathwithv 3 года назад

      Nah for me it’s been 11 years

    • @SiulAlphonse
      @SiulAlphonse 3 года назад

      12 years and counting :,)

    • @Learnmathwithv
      @Learnmathwithv 3 года назад

      @@SiulAlphonse Why are we like this :')

    • @SiulAlphonse
      @SiulAlphonse 3 года назад

      @@Learnmathwithv Maybe masochism? I just can't let her go and move on.

  • @spotted556
    @spotted556 2 года назад +1

    I totally agree to that phrase "be thankful for this learning experience, and find someone else"
    On the other hand, it's not that easy to move on to the one person you really liked 🙂....etc

  • @AiceI
    @AiceI 4 года назад +13

    Me: I love you =//w//=
    Crush: I love you to :>
    Me: **Wakes up**

  • @kiramartin9899
    @kiramartin9899 5 лет назад +18

    Honestly I don't think I'm in the friend zone my feelings are getting played with :)

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 5 лет назад +1

      @ageofbogyo this is harsh but very true XD

    • @hose3262
      @hose3262 5 лет назад

      Ikr when a guy is playing with you

  • @khadijihgore3316
    @khadijihgore3316 4 года назад +3

    Yeah my crushes rarely like me, I use to pretend that I have an intimidating personality, but the truth is they are just friend zoning, but it's okay; my time will come.

  • @kimsoyoung2000
    @kimsoyoung2000 2 года назад +1

    Best advice giver , one who supports her at time of needs , one who could read her mind easily even over the text.....still just her friend 😭

  • @haha-xn3zu
    @haha-xn3zu 5 лет назад +25

    I have a crush. We used to talk a lot during 7th grade (I’m a freshman rn) and talked a bit more less in 8th. Now, we don’t talk at all. He has confided in me about his suicidal tendencies. I offered him support and he would always listen to me whenever I had a problem as well. I am a pretty awkward person, and have avoided any type of contact with him since the end of 8th grade, and he never reached out, so it was easier for me. I was doing it subconsciously though.. I have liked him for 3 years, and people say that I was very obvious back in 7th grade. Now, no one knows I still like him. I have managed to convince everyone (except my annoying ass best friend that keeps blowing my cover) that I don’t. I have thought of reaching out to him many times, but I figured I shouldn’t, since he never did either. He must not be interested.
    No one cares, but thank you if you read this! I had to get it out of my chest.

    • @darrylnelson2399
      @darrylnelson2399 3 года назад +2

      REAL SIMILAR TO MY "EXPECTING A FEW DATS OUTTING, WE'D PLANNED BUT SHE, WAS 1 WITH "SUICIDAL TENDENCIES~HER VOICE A FEW MO. AGO, SOUNDED LIKE SOME OLD BIKER STUD EX~WAS THERE ON METH, LISTENING IN ON CALL~ BUT I RESEARCHED ALL THE DATA, AND IN GRIPS OF A SUICIDAL HOPE, MADE CLEAR, TO ME FREAKED ME OUT A NURSE MORTIFIED BY CORONA PANIC~CCRAZED BY OVERLOAD WAS SINCERELY, THE PROBLEM, AND CLEARLY IF IWASN'T PART OF RESOLUTION, I WAS TO BLAME, BUT BAD MOUTHING BY HER"SIGMOND FRAUD. RM MATE, OR MORE I REALISED, WHAT A SUCK ~I WAS~LOVELY~THX FOR SHARING~SOME RESOLUTION, I'M NOW MORE AT EASE, AS WAR 3~BREAKS OUT GULP~LOVE"D"

    • @PretMetInternet
      @PretMetInternet 3 года назад

      I know this is one year old but if you love someone you should reach out, the fact that he hasn't reached out to you doesn't mean anything. I mean, he could be in the same position you're in now. Think about it. If you love someone, it's best to always end up telling them that you love them! Even if you get rejected (like me with my all two of my attempts lol), rejection hurts badly but it only makes you stronger in the long run. Good luck!

    • @haha-xn3zu
      @haha-xn3zu 3 года назад

      @@PretMetInternet oh hi!! thank you. had i reached out, we'd probably be together now. but i'm actually completely over him!! took me some time, but i made it. we're just friends now, not very close, and he's in a relationship with one of my friends (she doesn't know i liked him lol). i'll make sure to communicate next time :)

    • @PretMetInternet
      @PretMetInternet 3 года назад +1

      @@haha-xn3zu It's so fun to read how things have ended up a year later so quickly, I didn't expect you to actually read it lol. Good to hear things are good now!! And I told you! Always tell people you love that you love them! :)
      Also I know I'm just some random internet person but good luck with everything!!

    • @haha-xn3zu
      @haha-xn3zu 3 года назад

      @@PretMetInternet omg i love you. thank you!! i wish u the best as well

  • @myday6292
    @myday6292 5 лет назад +38

    Woah, a friend of the same gender as me just confessed to me over text when I was watching this :"D
    *help*

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 5 лет назад +6

      say the truth... if your interested and feel like it... give it a try...

    • @DasHeino2010
      @DasHeino2010 5 лет назад +3

      @@Ninwing if that is the case... yeah!