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  • In this week's episode, we spoke to the incredible and resilient Var Ashe Houston about her experience of living under the brutal Khmer Rouge regime in Cambodia during the 1970's. Var, along with her blind mother and two young daughters, were pushed from their home as the dictator Pol Pot ascended to power and forced to work twelve hours a day on the land. Var's husband was tricked and murdered by the regime and Var witnessed scenes of unimaginable cruelty and torture, including the beating of her own five-year-old daughter. Var's story of survival shines a light on the atrocities of Cambodia's 'Killing Fields' and the horrific murder of a quarter of her countrymen in just four years of the Khmer Rouge's rule.
    00:00 - 00:30 - Intro
    00:30 - 02:11 - Life Before The Regime
    02:11 - 07:34 - Forced From Our Homes At Gunpoint
    07:34 - 10:01 - We Were Not Allowed To Wear Shoes
    10:01 - 12:30 - My Daughter Was Beaten
    12:30 - 14:20 - A Prison Without Walls
    14:20 - 15:40 - Intimidation Tactics
    15:40 - 17:15 - They Killed Babies
    17:15 - 20:00 - The Killing Fields
    20:00 - 22:08 - They Threw The Body Out The Window
    22:08 - 24:05 - Horrific Torture
    24:05 - 26:09 - Survival
    26:09 - 31:26 - Escape
    31:26 - 35:52 - I Still Have Nightmares
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  • @LADbible
    @LADbible  13 дней назад +191

    Thank you to Var Ashe Houston for taking part in this episode and sharing her story. Additional thanks to the Holocaust Memorial Day Trust, the charity that promotes and supports Holocaust Memorial Day in the UK. For more details, please follow this link www.hmd.org.uk/

    • @SarahJaneSproson
      @SarahJaneSproson 13 дней назад +4

      First comment!

    • @LeahDyson-kq4bd
      @LeahDyson-kq4bd 13 дней назад +4

      I hate to admit I learned about Pol Pot from the Dead Kennedys lol

    • @TheWhitefisher
      @TheWhitefisher 10 дней назад +2

      Do you think it's mildly disrespectful to publish this interview under LADbibleTV and have it populated by such inanities as "First comment!"
      I think that's a little bit troubling.

    • @honved1
      @honved1 4 дня назад +1

      @@TheWhitefisher That’s not ladbibles fault is it

  • @jonny5_
    @jonny5_ 13 дней назад +288

    "We gain nothing from keeping you and we lose nothing from killing you."
    I just can't imagine...

    • @marisamartin3664
      @marisamartin3664 10 дней назад +5

      It's about the same message our kids are getting through evolution and other anti-God education in our schools. Many of them don't believe they have a purpose.

    • @laurenstancliffe3773
      @laurenstancliffe3773 9 дней назад

      @@marisamartin3664what

    • @fanaticforager6610
      @fanaticforager6610 7 дней назад

      This is the atypical chant of Abject Despotism, incapable of understanding that actually without you, there is No one to do their unconscionable bidding.
      Rsanow ban your nouv ponlu da te v pheap now khangoknong 🌻🙏🏽🥲

    • @honved1
      @honved1 5 дней назад +12

      @@marisamartin3664Mate, religion has been the cause of suffering deaths and atrocities through the ages.

    • @malcolmkirkwood3684
      @malcolmkirkwood3684 3 дня назад +3

      @@marisamartin3664 I assume you consider yourself to be amongst God's 'elect' then? Understanding that God doesn't give a f*ck about your worldly actions for salvation doesn't exactly inspire much purpose either, tbh

  • @danielly96
    @danielly96 13 дней назад +354

    Every time I listen to a survivor of the Khmer Rouge regime. I hear my family’s voices. I hear my ancestors reaching out to me. I am grateful to my family for having been able to survive through that atrocity. They survived so that I could be born somewhere else, and live my dreams. A privilege that I will never take for granted.

    • @heyitssarah7545
      @heyitssarah7545 12 дней назад +11

      I feel similarly, though about the Holodomor. We’re here because our ancestors are the ones who survived unimaginable horrors. Our ancestors’ strength and resilience lives on in us. It’s a small comfort when you look at all of the terrible things going on in the world.

    • @louieo.blevinsmusic4197
      @louieo.blevinsmusic4197 7 дней назад +4

      When I think of how I was born in America and how some folks are born in certain countries that are basically a living hell all day/everyday, a lot of them not even surviving birth or only hours/days after, I usually chalk it up to strictly luck. I forget how it took the will of generations to survive wars, (grandfather was in WW1) disease along with the elements as they were pioneers which was hard/rough living. (my 1st ancestor to touch North American soil landed in Virginia 100+ years before the U.S. gained independence/became a county) Which makes me feel a bit less $hitty about it being so fortunate. But to know your grandparents (I’m assuming) /family members/generations that you’ve actually spoken to were put through hell on earth, luckily survived then fled so that the next generations could have opportunities, a free life worth living must give you an extremely proud feeling. Perhaps bittersweet knowing that they may of had it particularly difficult for X amount of years, but for sure proud. Good on you for making the best out of the opportunities you were gifted via their blood, sweat and tears, brethren. We need more folks like yourself to tell their story and perhaps wake up what so many take for granted, not realizing there are liberties we just can’t do without.

    • @slowedversion6393
      @slowedversion6393 6 дней назад

      Amen bro

  • @KingHayabusa384
    @KingHayabusa384 13 дней назад +499

    A former workmate of mine fled from Cambodia. Since I know about S21 and the Killing Fields I never asked him about the genocide. He knew that I knew and we never talked about it. One day he came to me and said that the Khmer Rouge took everything from him. Sadly he died in the Summer of 2022. I miss that guy.

    • @Yourdoomawaitsyou
      @Yourdoomawaitsyou 13 дней назад +2

      Chapter 1 in the big book of things that never happened

    • @BlueJelly47
      @BlueJelly47 12 дней назад +10

      @@Yourdoomawaitsyou I mean this isn't that unbelievable or out of the ordinary

    • @KiriKiriKiki
      @KiriKiriKiki 12 дней назад +4

      "he knew that i knew"
      yes because it was a global atrocity, your knowledge isnt special.

    • @samn6498
      @samn6498 10 дней назад +7

      You usually find that the kindest people have seen some very fked up things or been through a very tough life. RIP to your friend.

    • @samn6498
      @samn6498 10 дней назад

      ​@@Yourdoomawaitsyoukindly gfys

  • @abbieroseholden4174
    @abbieroseholden4174 12 дней назад +91

    Poor woman shes so strong. To see them killing loads of babies is beyond sick

  • @Tinjinladakh
    @Tinjinladakh 14 дней назад +281

    I visit the Phnom Penh, Cambodia. Visiting the Killing Fields of Phnom Penh is a profoundly heart-wrenching experience. As I walked through Choeung Ek, the air was heavy with the silence of the past and the weight of unspeakable atrocities. Each step brought me closer to the remnants of a harrowing history, where countless innocent lives were brutally taken. Seeing the mass graves, the bones, and the fragments of clothing left behind, I felt an overwhelming sadness and a deep sense of loss for the people who suffered here. It was a stark reminder of the depths of human cruelty, yet also a call to remember and honor those who perished. The visit left an indelible mark on my heart, a somber testament to the resilience of the human spirit amidst unimaginable suffering.
    May the Buddha bless all who suffered, and may we strive to create a world filled with compassion, understanding, and love, so that such atrocities may never occur again.

    • @brek5
      @brek5 13 дней назад +6

      Yes, I went there as well and also been to Siem Reap (took family as well once), and it is the single most troubling and painful travel experience I've had (I never went to the camps in Europe, though, so I don't have any reference). The thing that inspires me is how much it's changed even just in the 20 years since I first went. While it still has massive challenges (massive), at least on the experiential level, there seems to be a lot of positive developments for the people there (possibly seemed drastic to me because I had 15 years between trips).

    • @Tinjinladakh
      @Tinjinladakh 13 дней назад +2

      @@brek5 yes it develop very much since then. Hope younger generation learn about this make not mistake like this in future.

    • @brek5
      @brek5 13 дней назад +4

      @@Tinjinladakh Yeah, when I went back a few years ago with my wife, she was expecting me to know everything, haha ('cause I've traveled a lot in Asia and all over the world, really, so I'm used to it), and we got off the bus, grabbed a tuk-tuk, and I didn't recognize anything. All the roads were paved (when I was originally there in Siem Reap, it was mostly dirt roads except for the walking street, which was also just a short road with a few restaurants and pubs). It was basically like I had never been there at all!
      But yeah, I know all that development is a rocky road, but I have my fingers crossed and am rooting for Cambodia and its people!

    • @scottblack7182
      @scottblack7182 12 дней назад +1

      Damn liar 🤣

    • @KiriKiriKiki
      @KiriKiriKiki 12 дней назад

      oh brother, shut the fuck up. so bored of all these facebook post-card posts.

  • @hamatoJade
    @hamatoJade 9 дней назад +72

    I went to Cambodia in January 2020, just before COVID. Our tour guide told us so many grin stories he witnessed, like his brother being killed for drinking water out of a palm tree leaf or his best memory, catching and eating a small snake raw and not being caught.
    He met his mother on the road when the Vietnamese attacked, just by coincidence and thought they might both be dead. They were evacuated into a German school where he learned the language and became a tour guide. He bowed to us and thanked us for the developmental help, I felt so ashamed since I didn't even know Germany gave money to Cambodia until then.
    It was heart breaking.
    He said that he personally thinks that Pol Pot is worse than Hitler, since Hitler at least meant well for how own people.

    • @Gneskos
      @Gneskos День назад

      That’s actually very true, in Asia we saw Hitler differently. And in the case of Cambodia, if you were to compare Pol Pot to Hitler, we would regard Hitler as a true nationalist.

    • @km2100
      @km2100 10 часов назад

      Pol Pot was not worse than Hitler. I watched a documentary which Duch the S-21 warden said that Pol Pot was too busy with miliary plannings. Pol Pot didn't orders many of the killings. It was his generals. I'm not a supporter of Pol Pot nor did I ever like him as the leader of Cambodia during the second half of 1970s. A lot of people don't know this, but the Khmer Rouge had many different factions. Some factions were brutal whereas some others were less. This was also depicted in the movie, "The Killing Fields". The Khmer Rouge even had wars among themselves. Comparing to other mad men in history, I think historians got him wrong. Ho Chi Min who started all of the BS caused millions more deaths that directly and indirectly led to the Khmer Rouge.

  • @suegibson9643
    @suegibson9643 9 дней назад +40

    Her final message about three younger generation questioning the authenticity of her evidence and her plea for future generations to avoid such atrocities sounds so much like the sentiments of Shoah survivors. How many times do we need to be told?

  • @hongsamwine
    @hongsamwine 13 дней назад +82

    Cambodians are some of the most easy going, hospitable people I’ve met. It’s truly amazing how they still manage to be such a wonderful community despite the pain and horror that marked their history.

    • @mokabunz4334
      @mokabunz4334 6 дней назад +5

      Growing up we were raised to be kind and respectful of others, we’re happy folks 😊

    • @cap3207
      @cap3207 2 дня назад

      they were raised to have manners!!! i like that about them and most southeast asian countries (im s.e.a too!!)

    • @sampahtetapsam21
      @sampahtetapsam21 День назад

      Same goes to Japanese
      Nice people and highly intellect
      But during WW2 they become animal
      A country leader is very important
      It can change the way their people think

  • @peterjayes7388
    @peterjayes7388 13 дней назад +187

    I live in Phnom Penh, just behind the killing fields, it's a truly eerie place. The stories i have heard about that time are haunting.

  • @dsith102180
    @dsith102180 13 дней назад +138

    More than half of my mother’s family was executed as they were chased out of their home without any questions. Thank you for sharing your story, there are so many more thousands of families that are unable to express their grief. No matter how much time has passed, my parents can clearly remember each knife wounds and having to hold a dying child from starvation. I live everyday praying that we can all find solace in each others experiences!!!

    • @angela_somanythings5670
      @angela_somanythings5670 День назад

      I am so sorry for the atrocities of the past... I wish that education will rebuild our world for the better and that time can heal your family's memories and wounded spirits...

  • @vampirosita.
    @vampirosita. 13 дней назад +79

    Seeing your daughter go through that is something absolutely nobody deserves, and you can tell it truly hurt her because she held herself together until she had to talk about her baby.

    • @ester9326
      @ester9326 5 дней назад

      Yea this was heartbreaking to hear. Bless her heart ❤

  • @kathymay3980
    @kathymay3980 9 дней назад +36

    My two sons and I visited Cambodia in 2006 and went to the killing fields. It was one of the saddest moments in our lives. Seeing pieces of fabric and also teeth in the dried mud pathways. Visitors were asked to place in containers along the pathway of course out of respect. A local man guided us through and told us that babies were beheaded using palm leaves as a saw! I can’t look at palm trees without being reminded of this atrocity. We also visited the “school “ which was used as a place of torture. Pictures line the walls of the main room of the victims. I had to run out as it was so upsetting. I couldn’t begin to imagine the horror and pain these poor souls went through. People of Cambodia are still asking why it all happened. Personally, I can’t understand why we didn’t help these poor people at the time. Cambodian people are so gentle with beautiful souls. 😢

  • @The_Libationist
    @The_Libationist 13 дней назад +108

    I grew partially in Cambodia in the early 2000s. Even decades later you could still see how scarred the country was. It’s crazy to think a society could go through so much horror and keep going after.

    • @barbarella.artist
      @barbarella.artist 12 дней назад +11

      If you haven’t noticed - a massive chunk of humanity is seriously traumatised
      Especially around world war 1 / world war 2
      Poland, Ukraine and other countries suffered such horrors under similar regimes
      Even Russia … people forget 20 million Russian people die slowly bloody deaths (and survived cannibal islands)
      I even know someone in her 20s who was born in a concentration camp in Bosnia
      - that have to go on cause they have no choice
      But that generation is heavily heavily traumatised (our parents and grandparents generation) - and hence they perpetuate the trauma and violence
      - high amount of DV , high amount of serial killers, high amount of child predators, high amount of beating / hitting children
      Well really the fact that North Korea still exists in these fascist model is disgusting
      But that’s just humans - we are resilient
      Holocausts, prison work camps , North Korea , big countries bullying little country’s , apartheid , genocides in Africa, child soilder survivors of Africa
      Humans are complex that’s for sure

  • @jennyng2994
    @jennyng2994 12 дней назад +118

    People often forget the US government’s *cough* Kissinger *cough* role in the ascendency of the Khmer Rouge.

    • @GhostCell47
      @GhostCell47 11 дней назад +1

      I did not know that.

    • @icecoldsodapop8564
      @icecoldsodapop8564 9 дней назад +18

      @@GhostCell47 because America " Henry Kissinger" played a major role which brought Pol Pot into power, due to the tons of illegal bombing in Cambodia that was a neutral country.

    • @klown463
      @klown463 6 дней назад

      Which is what? Sihanouk was friendly to the communists so they would’ve taken over anyway

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 6 дней назад

      True

    • @nataliev.149
      @nataliev.149 6 дней назад +2

      And Viets as the Americans were bombing the illegal Viets who were moving closer to the villages. Remember Cambodia was not at war with the US.

  • @thefadingmoonlight
    @thefadingmoonlight 14 дней назад +141

    My neighbors managed to escape. No person should go through what they went through.

  • @hannahlindback9173
    @hannahlindback9173 13 дней назад +70

    The minutes with series has quickly become my favorite. No matter the story, it is always fascinating and I learn something new. Thank you for sharing these stories

  • @abehme
    @abehme 13 дней назад +73

    This is a hard video to watch and equally as Important. Huge respect to this incredibly brave and strong lady. It is very important to remember these horrible atrocities so we may prevent them in the future but also honor the victims and survivors!

  • @suerossi4693
    @suerossi4693 13 дней назад +32

    Anyone who can kill a baby or do these things to others is pure evil.

  • @shyamlynn243
    @shyamlynn243 13 дней назад +63

    So many lessons to be taken from her story. We need to be so mindful of the governments and policies that we support. This is what happens when we are deceived by ideals.

  • @Wild_west_84
    @Wild_west_84 13 дней назад +48

    It just incredible the despicable acts that humans are capable of inflicting on each other.

    • @greendragonspirit1646
      @greendragonspirit1646 12 дней назад +4

      The babies being knocked against a tree was so painful to hear .

    • @JosedeJezeus
      @JosedeJezeus 10 дней назад

      Human MALES.* Don’t blame all of humanity for the acts of MEN.

    • @honved1
      @honved1 5 дней назад

      @@greendragonspirit1646First time I heard of that “method” was from a survivor of the Armenian genocide, then from a book written by a Treblinka survivor, and then a book called “survivors of the killing fields”. Of all the books I’ve read on these horrific subjects, full of cruelty and suffering as they are, this particular act never ever ceases to shock me.

    • @charlesxavier3489
      @charlesxavier3489 4 дня назад

      The US. Be specific with this one.

  • @problem9222
    @problem9222 13 дней назад +82

    my friend's grandmother had 7 siblings and all but her and i believe a brother survived. How someone lives through these things is beyond me.

  • @thetechbox9122
    @thetechbox9122 8 дней назад +16

    I was in the Killing Fields in December 23'. You can still see teeth and bones scattered across the fields that have been left untouched. I got a much worse bad gut feeling there than any nazi concentration camp I've been to. The baby killing tree made shed a tear, and I never cry.

  • @Tony-ey5zl
    @Tony-ey5zl 12 дней назад +15

    She's an absolute rock, i have spent quite a bit of time in Cambodia and the people are different level with their kindness and hospitality, they will never ever forget but they just want a chance to move on and prosper.

  • @sarahs1849
    @sarahs1849 8 дней назад +23

    It always amazes me how Hitler gets so much credit for his evil ways, yet no one ever talks about Pol Pot

    • @CharlieJ69
      @CharlieJ69 8 дней назад +6

      or Stalin, Mao, Sung, Castro

    • @the_koo3151
      @the_koo3151 8 дней назад +1

      It’s a lack of education and people pushing it. The ADL came together and made Holocaust education a thing and wouldn’t have happened if people who were affected didn’t push it so much. While it sucks, people who have suffered from such a regime need to band together and demand the education to be taught. Communism and Marxism never ends well and it needs to be taught over and over against so kids get it through their thick skulls

    • @JR-jp7mi
      @JR-jp7mi 6 дней назад +4

      A lot of people do just not western people

    • @hoibsh21
      @hoibsh21 5 дней назад +3

      @@CharlieJ69 Lenin, Idi Amin.

    • @honved1
      @honved1 5 дней назад

      Are you serious? The Khmer Rouge and Pol Pot are infamous and well known.

  • @Megadextrious
    @Megadextrious 13 дней назад +22

    What a strong woman, I hope her life is full of blessings and happiness

  • @Roseycheeks86
    @Roseycheeks86 10 дней назад +16

    Never again for anyone. Genocide is despicable.

    • @vickythefist7062
      @vickythefist7062 2 дня назад +4

      Yet it's happening in PALESTINE RIGHT NOW .AND I DARESAY WE DON'T KNOW THE HALF OF WHAT IS HAPPENING

  • @ConradSpoke
    @ConradSpoke 13 дней назад +18

    Thank you, Var, for having the courage to tell this story. Cambonians like you will prevent these horrors from happening again.

  • @HurricaneScully
    @HurricaneScully 14 дней назад +50

    These are fantastic videos! Thank you to every single one of you who helped make these! We all need to know about these heinous acts

  • @asymmetricfuzion970
    @asymmetricfuzion970 13 дней назад +27

    I visited cambodia. It is an overwhelmingly lovely and friendly place that is fiercely peaceful. The real touristy areas are a bit scammy as are all of them but the vast vast VAST majority of the country as I traveled through it were warm friendly and kind. We met with a lot of monks and went to a peace museum that looked at how the peace was brought about. Peace is such a core important thing to Cambodians because it's still relatively new and very hard fought after. They all live in the shadow of that tragedy and they just want to celebrate their culture and share it with others and to see this never happen again
    The sick thing is Pol Pot still has a grave there that people visit. Literally, Asia's Hitler and people still pay him respects. It's disgusting
    I don't believe in heaven or hell but I would love to image a world where when bad people die, they are forced into the bodies and situations of everyone they ever wronged, forced to fully experience all of the pain and suffering first hand in excruciating detail with persistent memory of when they chose to commit it, then they are pulled into the next horrific situation they caused and created and have to endure the pain they put into the world and for this to continue until they endured the final evil act, then they get looped back to the beginning and have to live out the torture over and over again until the sheer weight of the pain they put out into the universe erodes and wears away their existence until they eventually fade away into complete madness

    • @ForageGardener
      @ForageGardener 13 дней назад +5

      Thats why it was so easy for th3 Khmer Rouge to take power and hurt so many. The people there had no comprehension that such violence was even possible

  • @monicagoodman2877
    @monicagoodman2877 13 дней назад +40

    Wow! It's shocking to learn about the depths of human depravity. There are so many holocausts that are not taught.

    • @thestarseeker8196
      @thestarseeker8196 13 дней назад

      One happening right now that the USA is doing its absolute utmost to spin and censor

    • @User-hn1wg
      @User-hn1wg 11 дней назад +2

      💯

    • @noboy345
      @noboy345 9 дней назад +8

      And ongoing today. Every day. Children being killed. Starved.

  • @verityowens9638
    @verityowens9638 13 дней назад +20

    I can see the pain in her eyes

    • @C-SiCK650
      @C-SiCK650 13 дней назад +6

      Honestly painful and I saw it to.

  • @dragonstooth4223
    @dragonstooth4223 11 дней назад +9

    there's a lot of people who need to hear these stories in this world.
    thank you for being brave enough to talk about it. My heart broke to listen to the horror that you lived through. This is exactly why we need lived stories like this. Only these stories can really do justice and hopefully others will listen to history so it isn't repeated.

    • @mokabunz4334
      @mokabunz4334 6 дней назад

      It’s sad because a lot of my people need therapy, I can’t even ask my mom about it she breaks down

  • @lianiruhl-cm9hd
    @lianiruhl-cm9hd 8 дней назад +7

    I visited Cambodia years ago when I was backpacking thru SE Asia. I have never been to a place that I connected to so emotionally before. I cried every day and I didn’t know why. Their faces, the kids, knowing a little about the atrocities the people had suffered thru, all of it just hit me right in the heart. This woman is remarkable and her resilience and bravery is humbling.

  • @makikami3014
    @makikami3014 5 дней назад +4

    So heartbreaking. Sending so much love and peaceful energy to this brave and strong woman.

  • @soup_enthusiast
    @soup_enthusiast 4 дня назад +2

    Just went to Cambodia this year. Just about everyone over the age of 40 has a story to tell. Thank you for sharing

  • @80sGamerLady
    @80sGamerLady 8 дней назад +6

    My best friend in high school, his parents were from Cambodia and they never talked about anything from there. Even my best friend. Their son, knew nothing. Probably because they were so traumatized.

  • @YourLoyalHighness87
    @YourLoyalHighness87 13 дней назад +20

    12:15 that’s a whole different level of sorrow I feel for her. I don’t know what I’d do if I had to watch that happen to my baby and couldn’t do a damn thing. And for me there’s another level of worseness cause it’s not even like her baby did anything bad per we, she was literally just starving.

  • @sonnyeast3862
    @sonnyeast3862 14 дней назад +47

    Brave woman.Deepest sympathies for the life she endured and atrocities she witnessed and people she lost…

  • @meliscools
    @meliscools 12 дней назад +6

    Thank you for sharing this courages lady’s story! May she and her family be blessed!
    I’d like to echo her words towards the end… it is very important that younger generations are aware of attrocities of past genocides all over the world and to try to prevent it from happening again. We must accept the fact that There is currently a genocide going on in Gaza that has been for 76 painful years - probably the longest modern day genocide to ever be prolonged for many decades! Please spread the word - never again means never again for anyone!

  • @tuliko8678
    @tuliko8678 13 дней назад +9

    Thank you for sharing your story Var. I consider Cambodia my second home. It always strikes me that every single person you see in the streets have been affected by Pol Pot in some way or another… but how many smiles there are. I love Cambodia and it’s people, and I will always feel blessed to have met Chum Mey, one of the few survivors of Tuol Sleng x

  • @lf3541
    @lf3541 8 дней назад +8

    Thank you for having the courage to speak out against the horrific genocide of the people of Cambodia and giving the next generation the very REAL HISTORY of their culture and their people.

  • @Mmch2112
    @Mmch2112 10 дней назад +2

    Thank you for sharing a little glimpse of your story. Many blessings to you and your family, and all the survivors.

  • @tinaa2437
    @tinaa2437 13 дней назад +11

    Very brave lady. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @angieau1586
    @angieau1586 13 дней назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your story Var. We will not forget.

  • @RubyGeeScuderia
    @RubyGeeScuderia 9 дней назад +5

    Some of the rich families, where I'm from in Australia, were able to sponsor high school students to go to Cambodia so they can help teach English, build water wells and schools/hut houses. I knew a couple of people who went... I never knew about the Khmer Rouge until few months ago- a decade after those kids took that trip. Watching walk throughs of S21 and the Killing Fields truly shocked me. Four years, 2 million people and it was only in the 70's... So close to home...

  • @iska788
    @iska788 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story with us! We love you❤

  • @ginasreview1030
    @ginasreview1030 13 дней назад +9

    Well...that was the worst 20 seconds I´ve ever heard. The poor babies. 😭😭😣😖😭

  • @victoriaryan1509
    @victoriaryan1509 12 дней назад +6

    I visited Cambodia and there were mass graves & memorials everywhere. I went to Choeng Ek & Tuol Sleng in Cambodia, but I think the worst thing I saw was the Samrong Knong Killing Field memorial which details (in words & pictures) all the torture methods around it. It's close to Battambang (the 2nd place Var went), so seeing someone who would have witnessed that torture first hand makes it all the more real. The few things she mentions are nothing compared to the full atrocities of the Khmer Rouge. I'm not surprised she doesn't talk about that aspect much. So glad she escaped.

  • @hattimounattimou8258
    @hattimounattimou8258 13 дней назад +4

    The passion and dedication are palpable, fueling meaningful exchanges and breakthroughs

  • @DowManDichter
    @DowManDichter 12 дней назад +3

    Unbelievable what these people had to go through. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mfranck1
    @mfranck1 13 дней назад +4

    Bless you for sharing your story. ❤

  • @LateNightVapeShow1
    @LateNightVapeShow1 13 дней назад +8

    Amazing documentary. Thank you.

  • @-crazypants-3199
    @-crazypants-3199 8 дней назад +3

    Such an Amazing video. Ashe is so strong and I can only imagine the pain she and her people suffered

  • @moved5272
    @moved5272 24 минуты назад

    🩵🩷 We hear your voice. Thank you for sharing with us.

  • @Scrapper.
    @Scrapper. 13 дней назад +9

    Miss Var paints a vivid, harrowing picture of a Hell on Earth. Nightmarish stuff. Best wishes and happiness to the great lady and her family. Respect from Ireland. Her story perfectly illustrates why countries should give sanctuary to war refugees. It is unfortunate that Pol Pot escaped justice, croaking of a heart attack (heart?) in 1998 aged 72. Ditto many of his brutal hench thugs, as like many Nazis after World War 2. The 1985 movie 'The Killing Fields' is a study in the horror of the monstrous, demonic-like Khmer Rouge.

  • @Chatterbox-94
    @Chatterbox-94 13 дней назад +9

    One of my former coworkers had family that survived the Cambodian Genocide. I never asked her about it cause i couldn’t even fathom the horrors her family had endured.

  • @kween410
    @kween410 3 дня назад +2

    She doesn’t cry, but you can see the overwhelming pain she’s carrying in her eyes.

  • @user-zv6vu8so8x
    @user-zv6vu8so8x 6 дней назад

    Very insightful and passionate about excellence and detail. Great interview.

  • @hmain7534
    @hmain7534 12 дней назад +2

    What an amazing women. To go through those horrendous things and be able to speak about it today. I'm so glad you managed to get out and hope you have been able to live a happier life ❤

  • @DZB666
    @DZB666 13 дней назад +2

    Wow amazing interview

  • @scottwaters998
    @scottwaters998 10 дней назад +6

    And nobody was held accountable.

  • @domonikoldham7387
    @domonikoldham7387 13 дней назад +9

    thank you var im so shocked to have never know of any of your countries history , i only recently saw it Cambodia referred to as the killing field from a tiktok video and am so thankful for you insight and account of the events that took place , thankyou for teacher me

  • @Khmerstreets
    @Khmerstreets 13 дней назад +4

    I live in Cambodia great to have her on!!! 🙏❤️ 🇰🇭 🙏

  • @bethanygentle3137
    @bethanygentle3137 13 дней назад +3

    Absolutely heat wrenching. I cannot imagine living through that. I’m just glad she got away and managed to live a better life ❤ prayers for you lovely lady ❤

  • @chanmeymeyroth2857
    @chanmeymeyroth2857 9 часов назад

    Having been born and raised in Cambodia, I've always deeply empathized with every story I've heard. This is yet another succinct and heart-wrenching perspective that helps me better understand the trauma experienced by the older generation.

  • @scotto7047
    @scotto7047 13 дней назад +4

    Heart wrenching

  • @ivy3913
    @ivy3913 10 дней назад +3

    I visited Cambodia 11 years ago, around 2013, and went to S21, still can't forget the things I saw and felt during that time.
    Too heavy and too sad.

  • @jasonsupra4209
    @jasonsupra4209 13 дней назад +4

    What an amazing story and insight into the atrocious regime of the Khmer Rouge 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @greendragonspirit1646
    @greendragonspirit1646 12 дней назад +2

    Such a strong woman , as well as all the other strong survivors, they are truly amazing .

  • @SirJellyFish08
    @SirJellyFish08 13 дней назад +4

    Wow the timing of this video is crazy, i actually am travelling cambodia at the moment from the UK and visited the killing fields in Phnom penh and the S-21 Prison yesterday. Absolutely chilling place, you can still see thousands of bone fragments in the soil especially when it rains and the mud washes away, the tree they used to smashed hundreds of children’s skulls on is absolutely terrifying. The scale of the killing was unbelievable with most people being executed with hand tools basically bludgeoned to death. Absolutely cruel, if you get the chance to come to Cambodia to learn the history and pay your respects i recommend you do.

  • @Bobrzanox
    @Bobrzanox 11 дней назад +1

    Thank You 🙏🏻❤

  • @Layla-pd4kp
    @Layla-pd4kp 13 дней назад +3

    That is so incredibly sad and to know its happening again makes everything so raw and painful 💔💔

  • @kittenclawsguitarvideos6147
    @kittenclawsguitarvideos6147 11 дней назад +4

    I saw an exhibit of portraits of prisoners. The expression in their eyes was something I will never forget. I felt the fear. These were human beings who had such a horrible fate.

  • @nigelcooper4285
    @nigelcooper4285 13 дней назад +2

    What a brave and remarkable lady. God bless you.

  • @kathyjoslin7781
    @kathyjoslin7781 9 дней назад +7

    My father was recruited to go there as an American. He didn’t want to go. He came home a different man and said he was ashamed to be alive. He committed suicide because he couldn’t live with what he was forced to do to you families. On behalf of my family, I am sorry. Truly sorry. Although sorry will never be enough. May God bless you always.

  • @aegontargaryen9322
    @aegontargaryen9322 3 дня назад +1

    This lady , among millions of others , really suffered at the hands of the Khmer Rouge . I couldn’t imagine living through the horrors she lived through , she is one tough cookie .
    There was a excellent movie made about this time in Cambodia called The Killing Fields , it’s well worth a watch

  • @METALUNICORNLTD
    @METALUNICORNLTD 13 дней назад

    Thank you.

  • @larrysayers1377
    @larrysayers1377 12 дней назад +1

    These survivors are so precious to hear and to learn from what happened to them. My heart goes out to her and those who suffered and died. I hope she lives a long peaceful life with many grandchildren.

  • @lvhao5105
    @lvhao5105 5 дней назад

    Cambodian teacher's story is valuable.

  • @ianwatson3315
    @ianwatson3315 13 дней назад +17

    I wonder how many of these animals are still alive and have nightmares of what they did..or any guilt

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. 13 дней назад +5

      Many and none, respectively.

    • @SAOS451316
      @SAOS451316 13 дней назад +10

      Never dehumanize your enemies. Everyone is human and everyone is capable of both good and evil. When you deny another's humanity you forget that you are the same as them. Dehumanization lets people justify atrocities and ignore warnings.

    • @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel
      @SBGNatureandCoffeeChannel 12 дней назад +5

      They have/had no remorse. I ve listened to interviews with Nuon Chea and Khieu Samphan. Leng Sary , another high ranking official was living in luxury in near Battambang in 1990/1991.

    • @GhostCell47
      @GhostCell47 11 дней назад +4

      ​@@SAOS451316 They're still monsters and a scourge of humanity.

    • @hoibsh21
      @hoibsh21 5 дней назад +3

      You might want to check out a movie called The Act of Killing. Though it's not about the Killing Fields, it covers a different genocide in Malaysia. However, the sociopathy is the same, the sadists are made of the same ingredients that made the Khmer Rouge.

  • @user-zm6nl6gz8b
    @user-zm6nl6gz8b 13 дней назад +2

    What a wonderful, brave lady.

  • @leannepalma7216
    @leannepalma7216 5 дней назад

    My old neighbors escaped the Khmer Rouge as well. I didn’t fully appreciate how much they went through until I got older and really learned about it. Even though they experienced the most painful things, they remained the kindest people. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Everyone should know what happened. Be well ❤️

  • @cijmo
    @cijmo 12 дней назад +2

    Thank you, Var. Your telling of what your witnessed and experienced will not be in vain. People will always be there to hear you. Am I hearing though that it's the youth in Cambodia who are not believing it? Or worldwide? I know that worldwide people need to wake up but it's always alarming when it happened to people you know and you don't believe it.

  • @NaturalWorld253
    @NaturalWorld253 5 дней назад +1

    My maternal grandmother died in the ‘killing fields’ , my mother a baby at the time was able to flee with her aunt. There were other aunts and uncles who were also lost, never to full know what happened to them. I have heard stories of the tree that is mentioned in the video. I am thankful my mother didn’t end up one of it’s many infant victims

  • @katieann7903
    @katieann7903 11 дней назад +1

    What a brave woman. This can't have been easy for her but she explained the horror she went through so eloquently. Even though it was so hard to stomach I'm glad I got to hear her story

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 2 дня назад

    A massive thankyou to this brave women for opening old wounds to educate people especially the younger generation . Its surprising how many people don't know about this grim time in history.

  • @barrysaunders5065
    @barrysaunders5065 13 дней назад +3

    I visited cambodia a few years back now, wbat they all went through was horrific beyound words, but the people are amazing and kind such a beautiful country.

  • @Sidecontrol1234
    @Sidecontrol1234 13 дней назад +6

    5:21 omg that sent shivers down my spine, poor woman.

  • @GeekGamer666
    @GeekGamer666 2 дня назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate the gift of knowledge you've given us.
    Edit: for people from places that use miles, 250 kilometers would take 5 hours at a regular city limits speed of 50km/h or less than 2.5 hours at the maximum legal speed (now 110km/h) on the open roads. So between 2 and 5 hours took 3 days.

  • @SUPERsneeky33
    @SUPERsneeky33 13 дней назад +12

    Terrible terrible suffering.

  • @d12dan20
    @d12dan20 9 дней назад +1

    @11:32
    No, I can't imagine, not in a million years what that feeling would be like...its unimaginable and heartbreaking to hear 😢

  • @jessilynmae
    @jessilynmae 10 дней назад +2

    People walk around with such pain in their hearts.

  • @sirfer6969
    @sirfer6969 13 дней назад +4

    I worked with a lady who was about 5-10 years old (she would never reveal her true age hehe) when the Khmer Rouge was active in Cambodia and her stories were just horrendous, much like those of the lady presented here. As a NZ'er it was truly eye opening and horrific to hear how people can be so awful to each other

  • @gottaluv_terry
    @gottaluv_terry 13 дней назад +2

    Bless her heart

  • @williamhartz8707
    @williamhartz8707 2 дня назад

    Thanks for sharing. I have been to Cambodia three times (I work in Thailand) The Khmer Rouge was a dark part of Cambodia's history. After 1976, the country hardly had anything left...no professional people, no schools, no infrastructure. It had to start all over again.

  • @mayhuynh8524
    @mayhuynh8524 14 часов назад

    My parents & brother escaped Cambodia and were in a refugee camp in Vietnam before they came to New Zealand. The stories my dad would tell me saddened me. I’m so glad they were able to escape.

  • @hairblairbunch81
    @hairblairbunch81 4 дня назад

    I had the pleasure of living there for 5 years with my teenage son. I can't express enough how kind, welcoming, curious, and engaging the Khmer people are. The beauty of that country and its captivating people. It still amazes how little knowledge is held in the UK about this gem of SE Asia. Temples, history, jungles and waterfalls, the most resourceful, kind hearted people ive ever met and after all they have suffered. Life is far from fair for Cambodians. Poverty is staggering. Corruption is prevalent. I do think great strides are being made in the right direction. I met so many naturally gifted people. In tune with nature. Traditions and customs and loads of holidays! The weddings are not just one day of celebrations, but three❤. I could go on forever about Cambodia. Oh and the food. It is insanely tasty.
    On our second time to the capital, PP, our friend and guide Bong T, accompanied my son and I to, Choeung Ek, killing field. Ive never been somewhere that moved me so much. What they went through is exactly what the word genocide means. I hope this brings clarity to those clouded with the delusion that leftist marxism leads anywhere but to misery death.
    Despite all the madness and cruelty the Cambodians have endured, genocide, famine, zero rights, being carpet bombed in someone elses war, having its archaeological gems plundered and looted, decades of dictatorship, generations of families inflicted with trauma, they make the absolute best of life! There is hardly any pitty me attitude. No victim mentality. The youth of western democratic countries could do with a sit down and a history and life lessons from Cambodia. It would benefit them greatly in many ways. 🇬🇧 ❤ 🇰🇭

  • @coyotelong4349
    @coyotelong4349 7 дней назад +1

    The cruelty and evil with which mankind is capable of treating fellow human beings is astounding

  • @markjacob2386
    @markjacob2386 13 дней назад +7

    I have no words my heart goes out to this lady and every person that lost their lives and that suffered… the human race you have alot and I mean lot to answer for… what have you done???😭💔