My Abusive Jehovah's Witness Mother Tortured Me For 13 Years | Minutes With

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2024
  • In this week's episode of Minutes With, Christopher Spry describes the neglect, starvation and torture he and his siblings endured under his abusive adoptive mother Eunice Spry. For over a decade, Christopher faced daily beatings including being nearly drowned in freezing cold water, force-fed washing up liquid and made to eat his own vomit. Christopher explains how it was only luck that the children in Eunice's care didn't die.
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  • @LADbible
    @LADbible  2 месяца назад +213

    Thank you to Christopher for taking part. You can follow him on instagram @christopher.spry88
    If you need help or support, Shout offers a 24/7 text service here: giveusashout.org/about-us/about-shout/

    • @fsociety.dat101
      @fsociety.dat101 2 месяца назад

      Shout is garbage. They just want to make sure you aren't going to kill yourself so you can keep paying taxes. Beyond that, they can't wait to close the conversation.

    • @Lynette-sv3ti
      @Lynette-sv3ti 2 месяца назад +6

      Christopher I feel joy for you and your family in my heart💗 Even tho u cant see your sister Veronica, share happy stories of you and your sister on holiday with your son. Your sister, your gurdian angel, is with you and your beautiful family always😇🌈💫🦄🦋🌿🕊

    • @assas1nscreed
      @assas1nscreed 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@Lynette-sv3ti Victoria. Her name was Victoria, or Tori, as she liked to be called as a child.

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 2 месяца назад +1

      My goodness, this is so terrible. I hope your able to have a better life now. I'm so sorry 😢

    • @jackiedowling3288
      @jackiedowling3288 16 дней назад

      So glad you found happiness..I went through a bad childhood but with my really parents ..but dad being the cruel one ..my heart was broken listening to you ...then you said you had a little boy " I think" that put a smile on my face knowing you had so.eone to truely love you . Real love ❤️

  • @drdrai7479
    @drdrai7479 2 месяца назад +1219

    Imagine going through 13 years of abuse so bad that it drives your sister to suicide, and the monster that inflicted it on you gets off with 7 years. What an absolute farce.

    • @Matthew-bu7fg
      @Matthew-bu7fg 2 месяца назад +30

      yeah it's one of those which is "blame the system, not the judge" type things though. Sounds like had the judge been able to sentence to longer than 14 years, they would've done.

    • @zanedietlin7645
      @zanedietlin7645 2 месяца назад +18

      It would not be the same in the United States. European penal consequences are such a joke.

    • @erickiyoshiphillips2323
      @erickiyoshiphillips2323 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@Matthew-bu7fgexactly there is guidelines min and max they can sentence you to.

    • @user-fu4zj2rw8o
      @user-fu4zj2rw8o 2 месяца назад

      I've seen this kind of abuse.

    • @karaamundson3964
      @karaamundson3964 2 месяца назад +1

      😢😢😢

  • @georgia8592
    @georgia8592 2 месяца назад +1845

    This gentleman has been through a living hell and still manages shine like a star❤

    • @user-yt8hm4oc5r
      @user-yt8hm4oc5r 2 месяца назад +16

      spot on

    • @hauntedhalo2264
      @hauntedhalo2264 2 месяца назад +9

      The most gentle souls have been born of suffering... we know what NOT to do and sensitivity near empathic having to grow in a home you must read and observe behaviors

    • @xSamiXDlol
      @xSamiXDlol Месяц назад +1

      took the words right out of my mouth .

    • @shunsloman9313
      @shunsloman9313 Месяц назад

      Too scared to fight back

    • @paula622
      @paula622 28 дней назад

      Freeze response, survival instinct

  • @christopherspry9682
    @christopherspry9682 2 месяца назад +2338

    Thanks for all the love folks 😊
    if you have any questions, please feel free to leave them below, and I will try and answer them to the best of my abilities

    • @MoominMama6061
      @MoominMama6061 2 месяца назад +141

      Sending you much love, Chris ❤❤❤

    • @_mondz
      @_mondz 2 месяца назад +48

      When did you last see her and what’s your relationship with her like now?

    • @FaeRae-333
      @FaeRae-333 2 месяца назад +32

      Thanks for sharing your story ❤

    • @fsociety.dat101
      @fsociety.dat101 2 месяца назад +29

      How do you move on and overcome your traumas? Do you find your childhood experiences have impeded your adult life socially and professionally? How have you overcome that?

    • @akoe2023
      @akoe2023 2 месяца назад +55

      Your life story is hard to hear Christopher. It is both sickening and heartbreaking that this person that was meant to care for you, instead tried to break your body and soul. Thank you for sharing this, I feel the utmost respect for you. You so deservedly now have love in your life, and I am wishing you much more love to come x

  • @wisdomforwellness5509
    @wisdomforwellness5509 2 месяца назад +523

    There is no abuse greater than someone who claims to be a good religious person whilst using this to mask evil itself. Thank you for sharing your story you brave brave man.

    • @susiex6669
      @susiex6669 2 месяца назад +18

      The world is full of sociopaths who want power over others, in this case, a captured audience of young children.

    • @gordonaliasme1104
      @gordonaliasme1104 2 месяца назад

      Religion is the problem

    • @ThatGirlOverThere211
      @ThatGirlOverThere211 2 месяца назад

      The foundation of all religions is abuse. Abuse of the word of God. Men taking the so called word of god and using it to abuse women and children and ppl of other faiths.

    • @aclark903
      @aclark903 2 месяца назад +3

      Yeah, atheists & secularists like to talk about religion as if they are all the same but they aren’t. They are totally different. This is JWs we are talking about here. So why don’t you get a clue?

    • @brennuvargr4638
      @brennuvargr4638 2 месяца назад +13

      ​@@aclark903Eh? Most religions have inherent evils among them. Don't think your religion gets a free pass because it isn't perceived (by you) as strict, orthodox or extreme.

  • @joshuasmithson7476
    @joshuasmithson7476 2 месяца назад +640

    That holiday in Orlando was probably the worst torment of all because that's psychological abuse to go from extreme abuse to loving and back to torture

    • @waffles700
      @waffles700 2 месяца назад

      There is no way she didn't sell those children to sexual predators in Florida. Business class flights across the Atlantic, theme parks, swimming with dolphins, fancy villas with pools, all with no income? That beggars belief, if you ask me that crazy psycho trafficked her own kids.

    • @angelbaybay5874
      @angelbaybay5874 2 месяца назад +26

      Very true! Physical scars heal but the psychological abuse she inflicted on them will probably never go away but be managed, for some. For others, they’ll be living hell for the rest of their lives!
      What an awful woman!

    • @aalluunaa
      @aalluunaa 2 месяца назад +14

      literally. so so evil for her to do that.

    • @colleenc.9900
      @colleenc.9900 2 месяца назад +2

      Well said

    • @chickenlover657
      @chickenlover657 Месяц назад +1

      Interestingly, the nazis applied this exact same technique.

  • @peacefulguitar38
    @peacefulguitar38 2 месяца назад +804

    I can’t understand why someone would harm children in this way. So sickening. I’m so glad he’s doing much better now. Sending love ❤

    • @wasd3108
      @wasd3108 2 месяца назад +9

      study psychology and u'll find out

    • @vero9348
      @vero9348 2 месяца назад +12

      That's called UNTREATED MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES. Thank your government for not funding that. You're welcome.

    • @roryteal5940
      @roryteal5940 2 месяца назад

      You can not understand? The history of child abuse around the globe is astounding. One of the most common medical procedures in Victorian England was repairing ruptured anus on little boys who were handed over to pedorast men to toughen them up.

    • @nutcracker2916
      @nutcracker2916 2 месяца назад +13

      Especially when they claim to be Christians. ( or other religious cults)

    • @flamingosaregreat
      @flamingosaregreat 2 месяца назад +14

      It is typical predator behaviour. Abuse the weakest. It's vile.

  • @jamiecarroll1627
    @jamiecarroll1627 2 месяца назад +275

    Can we just take a moment to acknowledge how incredible the interviewer is in this series. She puts all guests at ease and asks every question in a sensitive manner. The series itself is a fantastic addition to the channel.

    • @katarzynamariamuszynska2811
      @katarzynamariamuszynska2811 13 дней назад

      Yes I would like to see this Lady
      Where She finding these guests?

    • @safiyahhhhhhh
      @safiyahhhhhhh 7 дней назад

      Exactly my thought as well. So controlled and measured. It's hard finding interviewers who empathise just enough.

  • @naomiemoore5725
    @naomiemoore5725 2 месяца назад +516

    Exactly why there should be surprise visits from social workers and mandatory physicals throughout the year. If pulled out of public (or private) school - they need to find out why. There are so many red flags and nobody wants to get involved?
    I went to school with a girl that was in a family like this. She didn't say a word until she was 18 and could go the authorities. She stayed until 18 because she had to protect all the younger siblings.

    • @simonetta-ta
      @simonetta-ta 2 месяца назад +10

      😢😭

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 2 месяца назад +5

      Imo, CPS is lazy and too scared to do the job correctly 🎉

    • @naomiemoore5725
      @naomiemoore5725 2 месяца назад

      ​@theresaohman7187 Totally agree, especially in Los Angeles County where I live.

    • @joannbowden6220
      @joannbowden6220 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@naomiemoore5725I don't doubt you, but it's a nationwide problem.
      The entire system needs a major overhaul!

    • @naomiemoore5725
      @naomiemoore5725 Месяц назад +1

      @@joannbowden6220 And I agree wholeheartedly. It makes me sick that people are paid poorly and abused.

  • @amyjennthg123
    @amyjennthg123 2 месяца назад +360

    When I heard that Victoria took her own life, I completely lost it. That woman took everything from these children… I know she will rot in any religion’s hell. I am so deeply horrified and upset.

    • @ria2159
      @ria2159 2 месяца назад +24

      I read Victoria's book a few years ago and it went into quite some detail of the horrifying sadistic abuse Eunice would inflict. I felt a deep sadness when I found out Victoria took her own life. Utterly tragic.

    • @4baconandbeans
      @4baconandbeans 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Cottonball-gz4cr theyll make one for eunice

    • @the.ariesbabe8179
      @the.ariesbabe8179 Месяц назад

      @@ria2159what’s the book called please I thought this story felt familiar and that I’d read it before

    • @racheltaylor8235
      @racheltaylor8235 28 дней назад

      What's the title of Victoria's book .I'd like to find it

    • @EpicNovA97
      @EpicNovA97 27 дней назад

      @@racheltaylor8235 Tortured. (I think)

  • @kelseyspivey9644
    @kelseyspivey9644 2 месяца назад +169

    My biological father was abused by my biological grandmother his entire life, in horrific, similar ways, until he turned 13 and ran away, and was homeless until his early 20's....and even though he was an amazing, loving, good man, he was never able to be an actual father to me and my brother...the little we saw him, it felt like being with a friend, not a parent.... i think something about being abused by a parent, made it impossible for him to be an actual parent himself... he passed away when i was in my early 20s, but now, as a parent myself, i am always amazed at the love he was able to give to us... because it could not have been easy... Christophers story reminds me a lot of my fathers.... But it is beyond amazing to see that Christopher is able to be an actual father to his son, and breaks those walls down.... its amazing, and he should be so proud if himself for it... what an amazing man♥

    • @Froggele
      @Froggele 19 дней назад +2

      It’s amazing that you have so much empathy for your dad, when you could be bitter and angry with him♥️

  • @ghaznavid
    @ghaznavid 2 месяца назад +195

    What a horrible story. You can tell he still blames himself for part of it. Really sad that people can treat an innocent child like that.

    • @EvelynDeCobain
      @EvelynDeCobain 2 месяца назад +6

      yes! it was very interesting listening to how he has processed some bits of it but the torture was so gruesome and prolongued he still reacts with guilt or as a child to other bits of it. There's evil in this earth and most of it is hiding in religions.

  • @henyosdilly8999
    @henyosdilly8999 2 месяца назад +105

    What a beautiful quote to come from a once tortured soul "Just because you're not feeling love right now, does not mean it doesn't exist". This lad has a beautiful outlook on life despite that horrendous woman, somehow I get the feeling he'll be alright. Truly Amazing & inspirational!!

  • @LindsayClancy
    @LindsayClancy 2 месяца назад +114

    Omg, 7 yrs total 4 the insane amount of abuse. That is utter, and complete bullsh*t

  • @aamrs7863
    @aamrs7863 2 месяца назад +87

    I m amazed how he actually managed to survive mainly mentally and not to becoming an addict or abuser himself.
    This gentleman deserve more from life.
    Talking about justice, just shame on you judges who couldn't give enough justice to this poor children.

    • @TeaCup1940
      @TeaCup1940 2 месяца назад +5

      I think it is not the judges fault, it is the fault of the law. The law should be much stricter with such cases of child abuse.

  • @hiddenhand6973
    @hiddenhand6973 2 месяца назад +121

    😭 She must have forgot to read the part of the Bible that says PARENTS, DO NOT PROVOKE YOUR CHILDREN TO WRATH. What an absolute borderline psycho.

    • @trteeerryfse-wy2ww
      @trteeerryfse-wy2ww 2 месяца назад

      I was abused by my mother. This was the 80s. I begged to go with my dad. The courts didnt let me. My mom tortured me. She especially hated me because I was her son and she had been raped by mostly men throughout her life and took it out on me. She tortured me by locking me in a closet. Telling me she cooked and fed my dad to me. Slapping me in the face. Beating me when I made a sound. She took scissors and snipped my penis when I was in the bathtub. She always said she wanted to snip my penis off and would grab the scisssors and snap them to intimidate me. She would say "I brought you into this world, I can take you out".... she was OBSESSED with cutting my penis off so much that I woke up and found her in my room standing over me with the scissors. She would wait at the edge of my bed and bite my toes and tell me demons were gonna have my soul. When i get older she would do psychological torture like playing music loud all night when i had school. I dont really trust women after all of this. If you notice women are actually the colder ones. We expect to be nurtured by them but thats just cultural conditioning. 😢😢😢 god help all the little boys being abused by wretched witch mothers. I hope they have to answer to god for the evil they have done.

    • @julianalanfrey8965
      @julianalanfrey8965 2 месяца назад +9

      My god, that quote brings up so many memories of my mom yelling that back at my dad when he tried to justify beating us. Honestly gives me a pit in my stomach even today after he’s been dead for five years now. I haven’t heard that passage leave her lips since, but I still remember

    • @hiddenhand6973
      @hiddenhand6973 2 месяца назад

      How sick that anyone would use the Bible to justify beating children. God will not be pleased. I hope you’re able to find some semblance of healing. The Lord Jesus can turn our suffering into a path to sainthood. @@julianalanfrey8965

    • @waltuh2.3bviews3secondsago3
      @waltuh2.3bviews3secondsago3 2 месяца назад +1

      borderline?

    • @Danielle-nz9tn
      @Danielle-nz9tn Месяц назад +1

      Not sure what about this behavior is “borderline”. Please research what borderline is, it’s not THIS.

  • @clairewheeler2937
    @clairewheeler2937 Месяц назад +59

    As an ex Jehovah's witness who left home at 13 due to abuse my heart goes out to this young man for the extent of what he suffered. Absolutely wonderful to hear he's found joy in love of his son.

    • @heatherdawnchamberlin9191
      @heatherdawnchamberlin9191 17 дней назад +2

      I am also an ex JW . I was physically and emotionally abused by my dad.

    • @rubiperk1103
      @rubiperk1103 11 дней назад +2

      When I see these comments my heart becomes saddened. I wish I could hug you all. I grew up as a JW, but when I became older I left for my own reason. I wish you all are doing great now ❤

    • @holly6102
      @holly6102 3 дня назад +1

      Fellow ex jw who left home at 16

    • @clairewheeler2937
      @clairewheeler2937 2 дня назад

      ​@@rubiperk1103 bless you.

  • @whatsinaname7149
    @whatsinaname7149 2 месяца назад +350

    Why is Eunice spry released and only did a reduced sentence? She should've gotten life in prison, and subjected to the same torture she subjected these poor innocent kids to. She never should have been introduced back to society can you imagine the damage she's potentially doing right now ? Plus the C-PTSD caused in these 3 people that must be ongoing. 80,000 doesn't cover even a day of the torture she enacted 😢
    Christopher and the other survivors are amazing to be able to share their experiences and share awareness on abuse and how awful it can be so we can learn and make sure if we see any signs we speak up

    • @wasd3108
      @wasd3108 2 месяца назад +3

      the only reason she's out is because she poses no danger to no one, so idk what you're talking about

    • @Juanz_ttv
      @Juanz_ttv 2 месяца назад

      yeah i was gonna say how dumb of a comment that was. @@wasd3108

    • @TombRaider666
      @TombRaider666 2 месяца назад +84

      @@wasd3108looks like we found someone in her unfortunate gene pool 😂

    • @wasd3108
      @wasd3108 2 месяца назад

      @@TombRaider666 the fact is, you are not smart and you have no critical thinking

    • @Worthy1234
      @Worthy1234 2 месяца назад

      ​@@wasd3108no risk or not. If you was tortured drowned, burnt, starved and beat with wepons aswel as having your sister pushed to her death would you want her release!? The woman destroyed at least 3 lives and may have even pimped the children out in America. How can you say she poses no risk she should never see day light again!

  • @rossanalopes3114
    @rossanalopes3114 2 месяца назад +163

    14 YEARS?? The justice system is a joke

    • @vanessale1903
      @vanessale1903 2 месяца назад +25

      And served 7.. that’s insane

    • @joelgarner1961
      @joelgarner1961 2 месяца назад +3

      It’s always leaner on women .

    • @British_vlog24
      @British_vlog24 2 месяца назад

      That who're got only 7

    • @bemoreravens
      @bemoreravens Месяц назад +2

      For destroying and torturing children?!?! Unreal

    • @alexmajax
      @alexmajax 11 дней назад

      It's infuriating but the justice system can't dish out whatever they want, they have to apply the law.

  • @KAAnn-uc8nn
    @KAAnn-uc8nn 2 месяца назад +201

    Thank you, Christopher, for sharing your story. I was taken from my mother during the 60's Scoop in Canada. My foster family did horrific things to me including attempting to kill me twice - once by drowning. I found a curious release listening to you. I have kept those experiences to myself and have never spoken of them to anyone. You're an amazing person and you give me hope! Kindest regards to you and LADbible.

  • @MA-zg2pz
    @MA-zg2pz 2 месяца назад +100

    This breaks my heart. I wish so badly he and those other children never endured this torture. It’s absolutely terrible.

    • @davewarner5664
      @davewarner5664 2 месяца назад +5

      Little children. Left me weeping.

  • @moranlamont2516
    @moranlamont2516 2 месяца назад +33

    Thank you Christopher for having the courage to speak out. I'm 62 and no longer speak to my mother. 4 years now. I have forgiven her in my head. But never want to see her again.

  • @user-je9ll5by5s
    @user-je9ll5by5s 2 месяца назад +49

    I'm not gonna lie. This story hit me hard. Something in me broke after hearing him saying all of these indescribable things he went through. He is smiling in spite of his unimaginable trauma. Unbelievable, simply unbelievable. I never comment on videos but this one is just something else... I had to comment because THIS MAN is the strongest human being I've probably ever seen. I'm so happy to know that now he has a beautiful baby boy. He deserves THE WORLD after the hell he experienced.

  • @user-tb8se8fm1w
    @user-tb8se8fm1w 2 месяца назад +200

    I’m in a Jehovah’s Witness family right now been raised in it my whole life, I’m so excited to get out when I’m old enougy

    • @ria2159
      @ria2159 2 месяца назад +28

      I escaped my abusive family when I was 23 after years of believing I had to save for a mortgage first. Stay strong. Try to speak to someone who is perhaps not a JH to get an outside perspective. Good luck.

    • @CelesteKing
      @CelesteKing 2 месяца назад +25

      If you are being abused, tell a teacher!

    • @lauriemarvel
      @lauriemarvel 2 месяца назад +14

      Are you being abused? You need to talk to a social worker, the police and those in charge of the religion! Then find a good therapist and start healing yourself so you can have a happy life and good relationships.

    • @twotimes774
      @twotimes774 2 месяца назад +52

      @@lauriemarvelno cannot speak to those in charge of the religion! It will be even worse! You won’t be believed or they will question the parents and they will make his/her life even harder

    • @rachaelford5525
      @rachaelford5525 2 месяца назад +20

      If youre being abused you need to tell someone. The religion doesnt teach abuse

  • @van-gabondramblinrose6398
    @van-gabondramblinrose6398 2 месяца назад +43

    My abuse started at age 5 in the care System, in multiple homes. I just thought it was normal and that I'd been taken from my home as punishment for being bad. No-one ever explained anything to me, so i was left to rationalise it in my 5 yr old mind.
    Those years have never left me. I still have issues with being hungry or being disrespected or any kind of perceived injustice. Im single at 57 and doubt I will ever feel comfortable being in a relationship or accepting love.
    Human beings are so intensely evil to one another and yet I still have hope for humanity. Bless this young man and I'm so happy that he is finding some peace in his life.

    • @ria2159
      @ria2159 2 месяца назад +12

      I felt so sad reading your message. You still have plenty of life left in you. I know therapy isn't for everyone, but worth considering if you haven't already. I've been having it on and off for years, but have finally settled with a charity that provides low cost counselling - they are prepared to work with me for as long as I need as I was chronically abused throughout childhood and beyond. Our brains are clever - they can be rewired but sometimes we need outside help. Hope you're able to feel comfortable in a relationship one day. It sounds corny but you can start with the relationship with yourself.

  • @luxuryrentalsriviera
    @luxuryrentalsriviera 2 месяца назад +46

    I was raised as a JW. It is true that the religious brainwashing is pretty intense. 6 hours a week every week at church plus bible studies & door knocking. I experienced absolutely no abuse and the JWs surrounding me were lovely people. The most disturbing part for me was how they isolate people who leave the religion from their families in an attempt to emotionally control them to come back into the “fold”.
    Very sad story ❤

    • @amandabeaty1492
      @amandabeaty1492 Месяц назад +9

      His abuse wasn't because of religion. It's because this woman was a sadist.

    • @Danielle-nz9tn
      @Danielle-nz9tn Месяц назад +7

      @@amandabeaty1492I agree that this abuse is totally on another level. “Sadist” is an apt word to describe her. However, I do believe, from my personal experience and observation, that physical abuse (as well as mental and emotional abuse) is common among Jehovah’s Witnesses. They teach that the father has the right to use corporal punishment against his children.

    • @bluehorizons8913
      @bluehorizons8913 29 дней назад +4

      I was raised as a JW. I have horrible abuse stories. My parents beat the ever loving poo out of me and my siblings ever other day. They’d also scare us into telling on each other. It’s is or perhaps was a common thing your told in the religion, “You will have that persons blood on your hands if you don’t tell anyone of their wrong doings.” Also the verse “Spare the rod spoil the child” was often used to justify the abuse. We are to appear nice and loving but everyone is different behind closed doors. Other kids in the JW children who were my friends were abused as well. Most of my friends raised in the religion left. I did as well. It disturbs me how people can harm a child. I don’t get it.

    • @amandabeaty1492
      @amandabeaty1492 28 дней назад

      @@bluehorizons8913 That's terrible. It's not my experience and it's not the experience of the kids I grew up with either.

  • @beinbeau
    @beinbeau 2 месяца назад +78

    You seem like such a sweet person after all that horrible abuse😊. Keep loving your new life and yes, love is real and it is awesome and you are breaking the cycle of abuse by being a good father to your little one! You should be proud of yourself❤

    • @simonetta-ta
      @simonetta-ta 2 месяца назад +5

      So well said and I absolutely agree!👍🏻🌟❤

  • @StelaPunk1
    @StelaPunk1 2 месяца назад +23

    After what he has been through he still manages to light the room with his charisma and positivity. Real hero 💙

  • @sammytaylor9509
    @sammytaylor9509 2 месяца назад +31

    CHRIS......you are a true inspiration. I could cry after listening to your story. The courage and resilience you have shown is beyond compare. Thank you for being you! You are an inspiration ✨️

  • @MsTeo91
    @MsTeo91 2 месяца назад +31

    I can’t even begin to imagine what physical and emotional trauma Chris and his siblings experienced, thank you for sharing

  • @gabiburns2289
    @gabiburns2289 Месяц назад +14

    Somehow I was able to keep it together because I was enraged but then he said “just because you aren’t feeling love now doesn’t mean love doesn’t exist” and now I’m crying at my desk trying to start work. As someone who was abused and neglected I too needed to hear that as a child and apparently even still as an adult. ❤

    • @illmawomble479
      @illmawomble479 Месяц назад +1

      I hope you are able to heal and know love. Blessings to you

  • @thatfootyshirtguy1450
    @thatfootyshirtguy1450 Месяц назад +16

    I hate this country. 7 years for the crimes she committed. She should never have been released.

    • @maeterith1984
      @maeterith1984 9 дней назад

      I totally agree. 7 years is pathetic. Absolutely pathetic 🤬🤬🤬🤬

  • @tracielouise85
    @tracielouise85 2 месяца назад +47

    My parents were very mentally emotionally neglectful of me when I was growing up, they didn't do anything this bad but I was called all the names under the sun at times and referred to as an IT, I didn't get beaten up or anything but words and just how cold they were can be just as harmful, and my dad used to say that i should think myself lucky i didn't get beaten up like he did with his dad, I have my own boys now and I broke the cycle and I could never ever in a million years hurt them, I do everything for them to make them feel loved and happy, I could never ever want my boys to ever feel unwanted and unloved the way I used to feel, I just don't know how you could hurt a child like I can't fathom it at all, some people are cruel and heartless and inhumane, I hope this poor guy is doing ok now away from that evil old hag

  • @cwenwflute
    @cwenwflute 2 месяца назад +32

    i’m so sorry to hear that happened to you and that you had to live with that monster. You are so brave to speak up, and you seem like a nice, compassionate person. I hope you end up with a nice life and someone who treats you lovingly.

  • @jaclynflowers7331
    @jaclynflowers7331 2 месяца назад +25

    I remember reading the book on this! Absolutely awful things they endured and incredible the way he can speak about this so bravely. What a strong man he has become, I hope he finds some sort of peace and happiness

  • @nebulasfart3590
    @nebulasfart3590 Месяц назад +13

    He looks like such a good man. I hope life is treating you better. You deserve a happy life ♥️

  • @zadkya
    @zadkya 2 месяца назад +62

    we should start a petition so Eunice goes back to jail

  • @tonynickels6452
    @tonynickels6452 2 месяца назад +24

    I was sent away as a child, a bit older at age 9, to a boarding school. It was terrible. The headmaster was not shy to punish us. Stomping feet, spankings, sit ups for hours, running hills. What a piece of shit the dude was. And the older kids would dole out punishments to those smaller then themselves. But I hear this guy talk about his childhood and I feel guilty. Those poor kiddos had it terrible. God bless them and all that have had to deal with abuse as children

  • @meganbella8262
    @meganbella8262 2 месяца назад +27

    He is so sweet now, can’t imagine how sweet and innocent he would have been as a child. Why? Why would she go out of her way to take in children just to abuse them? 😢 I just would love to know the reason. Then again, we probably wouldn’t be able to comprehend the enjoyment they seem to get out of it. I’m glad he’s here today and sharing his story. I wish he didn’t have a story to share. Good look to this brave man.

    • @susiex6669
      @susiex6669 2 месяца назад

      Evil people hate those who are genuinely good and want to snuff that goodness out of them and make them turn bitter and evil, just like them. Its very Luciferian.

  • @saraf9081
    @saraf9081 2 месяца назад +16

    So sorry you went through that abuse. You are brave educating the public

  • @maver-1990
    @maver-1990 2 месяца назад +10

    Becoming a parent after being abused as a child is so bitter sweet. Really makes you look at your own upbringing with a different perspective. I will never understand how someone can hurt a child.
    Thank you for sharing your story. Im so sorry you and your siblings had to go through that

    • @trteeerryfse-wy2ww
      @trteeerryfse-wy2ww 2 месяца назад

      I was abused by my mother. This was the 80s. I begged to go with my dad. The courts didnt let me. My mom tortured me. She especially hated me because I was her son and she had been raped by mostly men throughout her life and took it out on me. She tortured me by locking me in a closet. Telling me she cooked and fed my dad to me. Slapping me in the face. Beating me when I made a sound. She took scissors and snipped my penis when I was in the bathtub. She always said she wanted to snip my penis off and would grab the scisssors and snap them to intimidate me. She would say "I brought you into this world, I can take you out".... she was OBSESSED with cutting my penis off so much that I woke up and found her in my room standing over me with the scissors. She would wait at the edge of my bed and bite my toes and tell me demons were gonna have my soul. When i get older she would do psychological torture like playing music loud all night when i had school. I dont really trust women after all of this. If you notice women are actually the colder ones. We expect to be nurtured by them but thats just cultural conditioning. 😢😢😢 god help all the little boys being abused by wretched witch mothers. I hope they have to answer to god for the evil they have done. I don't have kids but I'm an uncle and the eldest brother and I don't understand how you can see a child and do something like that. SUPREMELY EVIL especially when it comes from the mother

  • @Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa1
    @Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa1 2 месяца назад +29

    Thanks for sharing this Christopher, I wish you all the best!

  • @melaniesmith1313
    @melaniesmith1313 2 месяца назад +14

    I was a JW for a decade. This fellow was abused by a terrible person, and her religion was an excuse for it. I knew a lot of JW families that were quite gentle and kind with their kids. This woman was just a psycho. I am a former JW, as I said. I have nothing to do with them for other reasons. I feel so bad for this guy. I hope he has a good life now. ❤️

    • @ICONICPARIS
      @ICONICPARIS 24 дня назад

      I've heard nothing but horrible things about JW

  • @TheBlubunni
    @TheBlubunni 2 месяца назад +9

    what a wicked and evil woman 😡 I'm soooo sorry you and the other children went through all that horrendous torture! Thankful that you survived.

  • @tobevincent7147
    @tobevincent7147 2 месяца назад +7

    I think you are one of the strongest people on this channel mate, I watch a lot. Well done on the interview, you should be so so proud. Love to you and your young family. X

  • @lovekatz3979
    @lovekatz3979 2 месяца назад +9

    My childhood wasn't perfect, but compared to this man"s experience I now understand the difference between parents who tried to do the best they could and pure evil. Christopher and his siblings - my heart goes out to you. Speaking about your torture & torment will help others I am sure, and I pray they find their inner strength to tell a teacher or someone else to begin the end of their abuse. God bless you Christopher, and thank you ❤ ❤❤❤

  • @1948MartinezJose
    @1948MartinezJose 2 месяца назад +25

    She should have been given 14 years for each child she abused!!

  • @elinbatman
    @elinbatman 2 месяца назад +9

    Heartbreaking. I hope Christopher has a great rest of his life with his lovely family. I love these videos, it's fantastic to listen to real people talk about their lives and experiences. Also, I've noticed that all these wonderful people who've gone through so much always has one thing in common; they have all found something beautiful in their hardships.

  • @SiobhanMaddox
    @SiobhanMaddox 2 месяца назад +12

    Whenever I see interviews by Christopher, I’m always in awe of how just exudes sunshine and kindness ☀️
    I know there’s a Nature Vs Nurture argument, and many horrible people use that as mitigating circumstance for their behaviour but I don’t think I’ve ever personally met someone with as much empathy & wholesomeness as Christopher and after the ‘hand’ he was dealt; nobody has excuses.
    I just feel so sad as a mum to a 6 year old boy, picturing little Chris 🥺 I know it’s not the principle - but I hope he got compensated by Social Services and everyone else in authority who failed him, Alloma and Victoria 😔

  • @titlingur2009
    @titlingur2009 2 месяца назад +17

    This is heartbreaking that someone can be this cruel towards anyone and then loose his sister on top of it all. I juat want to wish you all the best❤

  • @connagh11
    @connagh11 2 месяца назад +6

    Ok I have finished watching this after seeing your insta post LADbible and honestly he is such a strong man. You can see he has been mentally ruined as well as physically but I am proud of him becoming a father and showing his son life is meant to be lived with love & joy 🙌🏼.

  • @juliasharp2857
    @juliasharp2857 4 дня назад +1

    Sometimes there are people that you want to reach out and hug. You want to hug them and comfort them and give them a shoulder. Christopher is one of those people.

  • @chynarussell3024
    @chynarussell3024 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your story Christopher. You are truly incredible, especially to be able to have love in your life after so much pain. I’m so sorry for your loss and for all you and your siblings suffered.

  • @cijmo
    @cijmo 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you, Christopher. This would have been horrible to live through and tough to remember. I appreciate your strength and wish you all the best from here on in!

  • @suziestanford4603
    @suziestanford4603 2 месяца назад +4

    What an amazing survivor. Sending my utmost respect and hope for a bright future full of the love you so deserve. Thank you for your honest bravery in telling your story ❤

  • @laibajubbein8745
    @laibajubbein8745 2 месяца назад +5

    I’m glad you survived Chris!
    I’m glad that you didn’t die and finally are in a happy place.
    There’s so many kids being tortured by their biological parents and foster parents and even siblings and they end up never leaving that environment and end up dead.

  • @jessicamacleod5336
    @jessicamacleod5336 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh, man...what an inspiration. I'm absolutely certain you will be the most amazing father to your son. Sending so much love and hope for healing.

  • @connorellery458
    @connorellery458 2 месяца назад +24

    Justice system is absolutely screwed

    • @trteeerryfse-wy2ww
      @trteeerryfse-wy2ww 2 месяца назад

      I was abused by my mother. This was the 80s. I begged to go with my dad. The courts didnt let me. My mom tortured me. She especially hated me because I was her son and she had been raped by mostly men throughout her life and took it out on me. She tortured me by locking me in a closet. Telling me she cooked and fed my dad to me. Slapping me in the face. Beating me when I made a sound. She took scissors and snipped my penis when I was in the bathtub. She always said she wanted to snip my penis off and would grab the scisssors and snap them to intimidate me. She would say "I brought you into this world, I can take you out".... she was OBSESSED with cutting my penis off so much that I woke up and found her in my room standing over me with the scissors. She would wait at the edge of my bed and bite my toes and tell me demons were gonna have my soul. When i get older she would do psychological torture like playing music loud all night when i had school. I dont really trust women after all of this. If you notice women are actually the colder ones. We expect to be nurtured by them but thats just cultural conditioning. 😢😢😢 god help all the little boys being abused by wretched witch mothers. I hope they have to answer to god for the evil they have done.

  • @vixschannel_igni
    @vixschannel_igni 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you Christopher for sharing your story! I wish only love and happiness for yourself and your family ❤

  • @insidebg8959
    @insidebg8959 Месяц назад +1

    I have the same pattern to say my story like a story and dissociate when I have to feel my feelings. You are strong. Thank you for sharing. That helps others too 💜

  • @debradaniels936
    @debradaniels936 2 месяца назад +8

    Omg! What a lovely man. Bless yr heart. She didn't kill yr spirit. What an absolute witch , evil, wicked and a bully.

  • @dreko1971
    @dreko1971 2 месяца назад +4

    thank you for sharing your story. It will help others who had a similar childhood

  • @sharonsomers5342
    @sharonsomers5342 2 месяца назад +6

    I've got 2 kids. I can't imagine either of them with an indelible mark that a beating would erase. I thought I understood this intellectually but the idea that he internalized and accepted this as normal and even defended it was shocking. And recognizing the abuse of another over himself is just so empathic and so good. If there is a hell, Eunice has done everything to ensure she goes there. And it is truly awful that somebody must live that term here on earth for being born in the wrong place and time. All that love he was denied will go into that child. What a wonderful bond that must be.

  • @BoneyMalone
    @BoneyMalone 2 месяца назад +11

    I don't understand how people like Eunice are still alive today. All the victims have amazing restraint

  • @AbdullahHashi-kw3qj
    @AbdullahHashi-kw3qj 2 месяца назад +1

    You are a true warrior in the most primal sense
    You have been thru things no human or animal should see

  • @nickyaarde
    @nickyaarde 2 месяца назад +4

    What an inspirational man - thank you for sharing your story.

  • @yurtyahearne9044
    @yurtyahearne9044 2 месяца назад +7

    This man is such a warrior. Strength & resilience personified

  • @MajesticGreen23
    @MajesticGreen23 20 дней назад +2

    I grew up as a Jehovah witness.. I was severely abused mentally and physically. The healing process takes time. I feel for you. I feel your pain

  • @georginabird9354
    @georginabird9354 2 месяца назад +2

    Wishing you all the best forever , thank you for sharing your life with us ❤❤❤

  • @user-yu7ud9yb2l
    @user-yu7ud9yb2l 2 месяца назад +4

    Im sorry you experienced this horrendous abuse. God bless you and your sisters. You seem like a lovely man. X Sending you all loveband peace for your futures.x

  • @lisasweeney8158
    @lisasweeney8158 2 месяца назад +10

    That woman would have been a sadist whether she was a JW or not. They do True Crime shows on people like her.

  • @autumnquigley1134
    @autumnquigley1134 27 дней назад +1

    I would just like to say THANK YOU to Christopher. You sir are an inspiration. You are proof that wonderful people can come from horrid situations. Please continue to live YOUR life to its fullest & PLEASE continue to be kind & loving. So happy to see you survived & continue to stride for happiness

  • @lara3540
    @lara3540 25 дней назад +2

    I almost cried when he started talking about his son. I can relate a lot to the doubts he shared about parenthood as an abuse survivor but I’m so happy he gets to be a dad now. I bet he’s a wonderful parent. You go Christopher!

  • @jackieevans8852
    @jackieevans8852 2 месяца назад +11

    Child abuse happens in all walks of life and religion and how anyone who believes in God can commit these horrific violence against children is evil and are more onside of the devil

  • @elfelf5810
    @elfelf5810 Месяц назад

    Literally in bits watching this. Christopher, i'm sorry you had to endure that. Im so so sorry for the loss of your sister. Your strength and resilience is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you nothing but happiness for you and your family now x

  • @gavinsansom6266
    @gavinsansom6266 2 месяца назад +2

    You are one of the most amazing people I’ve ever seen and your story is one of the saddest. I wish you a fantastic future with your son you truly do deserve happiness. Good luck 👍🏻

  • @odettehunt3766
    @odettehunt3766 2 месяца назад +5

    I am so glad that you have been blessed with your own little boy ❤️
    You are ‘love’ personified - the love you possess inside is what pulled you through all this wickedness - I am so sorry that such a loving person as you have turned out to be was treated so appallingly 😢
    You found pleasure in the things that surrounded you( like the sun and the fields and dipping your feet in the stream in the summer months)
    I pray God will bless the rest of your life and that you have a wonderful life with your wife and your little boy and that if it is meant to be that you have a sister or brother for your little boy ❤️❤️❤️ you are amazing and what you went through was horrific and you have come out of this in tact and with ‘love’ still in your heart ❤️
    I am sad for your plight but I am glad you survived and got through so you can now witness the ‘love’ you knew in your little heart all those years ago would be there xxxxx
    All the love in the world to you ❤️

  • @criss8836
    @criss8836 2 месяца назад +4

    Congratulations to this lovely human ❤
    May you find only kind and respectful people on your path from now on

  • @SandySass
    @SandySass 6 дней назад +2

    Sheer evil. Just sheer, pure, unfiltered evil. I don't even have the words for what was done to those poor kids 😭

  • @Unity_1212
    @Unity_1212 18 дней назад +1

    Omg what a strong and a wise soul you are. Thanks for sharing your story. You are truly brave. Sending you love and light 💚🌟

  • @jamessheehy4895
    @jamessheehy4895 2 месяца назад +15

    Nice samaritans thing at the beginning great work guys ❤

  • @Truecrimeukdoc
    @Truecrimeukdoc 2 месяца назад +4

    You’re an amazing human Christopher.. you deserve to have the best life with your new family and I pray that you get all the luck in the world love❤

  • @chrisfield9777
    @chrisfield9777 19 дней назад +1

    You sir are a legend! Thanks for sharing.

  • @TheSpiciestGinger
    @TheSpiciestGinger 14 дней назад +1

    What an incredible man!!!!! Bet he will be the best father in the world as he knows exactly what not to do and what he missed. May his child give him the unconditional love he so deserves ❤

  • @susandurrant6357
    @susandurrant6357 2 месяца назад +29

    First sentence and I'm out. Cruelty to children is unacceptable 😢

  • @chloeclans
    @chloeclans 2 месяца назад +13

    I have the upper most respect for this man, what he has seen n experienced in life, yet such a respectful polite humble young man. I hope the future is better for you. I’m a child abuse survivor too, it’s not easy, but you’re smashing it x

  • @j.r.stewart3956
    @j.r.stewart3956 2 месяца назад +2

    Massive salute to Chris'. Inspirational strength and resiliency.

  • @brandievero5089
    @brandievero5089 17 дней назад

    can’t help to comment on what a genuine, down to earth resilient man. Thank you for your courage and for speaking out. i hear so many hope or stories of J.Witness

  • @Creepzza
    @Creepzza 2 месяца назад +5

    Oh my god, I don't know what to say. Glad you are doing better!

  • @nicksminicabs
    @nicksminicabs 2 месяца назад +4

    Imagine going through all that then having the strength of spirit and character to be a great person let alone just not a monster. Wish him all the best for the rest of his life.

  • @user-nz4zf2et1w
    @user-nz4zf2et1w 10 дней назад

    So much of your story is the same as my own , I'm proud of you for speaking out, thankyou for telling your story 💚

  • @alrightsky
    @alrightsky 28 дней назад

    Strength to you, Christopher. Healing from Child Abuse is hard (and sometimes it feels impossible) but it's always really encouraging to hear other survivor's stories like this.

  • @twingzable
    @twingzable 2 месяца назад +7

    Evil exists everywhere.

  • @danchapmanpiano
    @danchapmanpiano 2 месяца назад +3

    Such an inspirational guy after going through so much ❤

  • @helenezinszner2561
    @helenezinszner2561 Месяц назад

    What a smart and articulate young man. We are so glad you survive and going forward. Much love to you

  • @rosemariejarvis3705
    @rosemariejarvis3705 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your story it was very hard to listen to … you are indeed a survivor and a kind soul … enjoy your new found life and your family … 🙏

  • @shazieshaz7116
    @shazieshaz7116 2 месяца назад +6

    School finds out about the beatings and they let her get away with home schooling ?????? Wow

  • @LaReinaZorra
    @LaReinaZorra 2 месяца назад +5

    I am at a loss as to how these children came to be in this woman’s care. Was there legal documentation signed? So terrible!

  • @sharongetachew9360
    @sharongetachew9360 19 дней назад +1

    You seem like such a sweet and gentle, graceful man for every horrific thing you've gone through in such vulnerable years of your early life. I am so sorry about all of this severe trauma but touched to see that it hasnt hardened your heart. You're incredible and God bless you 🙏 😔💔

  • @TheKimberleeboo
    @TheKimberleeboo 2 месяца назад +1

    I remember reading your book or one of your siblings years ago. Has always stuck with me the dread it gave me reading it. You lived it and look at you shining bright and facing it head on. You are a wonder to be seen. Wish you all the best with everything you do. You deserve happiness, you've always deserved happiness 💕