What Are Long Term Effects of Emotional Abuse

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 32

  • @Betternow1974
    @Betternow1974 3 года назад +19

    Leaving is the best thing. It's scary at first, but in time the fear intensity gets lower and lower. Last thing I told my abuser is that I come first and I haven't looked back since

    • @bella7789
      @bella7789 2 года назад +1

      god how i wish i could do that. in my case, my abuser is my brother and even though my mom knows what he does, she won’t get him out of the house even though he is 23 and no job. he is emotionally and physically abusive to me especially when i was younger. i cry to my mom to kick him out but she says stuff like “when you have a kid, you’ll understand” like what? hes driving me crazy

    • @randomperson1weekago295
      @randomperson1weekago295 6 месяцев назад

      Omg are you me!? Im in the same situation, just a 2 years until I cam leave this place. ​@bella7789

    • @sgm6603
      @sgm6603 Месяц назад

      I left in May after 21 years of living together. It's really sad but I had tom how long were you together? Kudos. ❤️

  • @zestydude87
    @zestydude87 2 года назад +8

    Been dealing with emotional abuse for almost 40 years now...my self esteem is almost non existent. I'm a shell of who I used to be...not sure of how much more I can take.

    • @DrEmilyMayfield
      @DrEmilyMayfield  2 года назад +2

      That is difficult. Emotional abuse is draining mentally and physically. I hope you can find a way out of the fog soon.

    • @Mary-ne5we
      @Mary-ne5we 25 дней назад +1

      I,ve been one for 30 years didn't even know it I'm so tired and confused I'm having trouble typing this comment it took a hour just to send it I can't remember how to spell or what words make sense

  • @pragatipandey9271
    @pragatipandey9271 2 месяца назад +1

    Never ever shy from accepting that you accidentally fell for the wrong person and get out from their hold as soon as possible. Always remember it's better late than never.

  • @lisaalane7694
    @lisaalane7694 3 года назад +9

    I'm just here trying to figure out why my up till now perfectly normal 50 year old sibling is anxious, depressed, paranoid, hasn't slept in weeks, and suicidal.

    • @BAKER22-l4u
      @BAKER22-l4u 3 года назад +2

      Emotional abuse adds up

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 3 года назад +3

    Very good topics, I'm glad I found your channel 👍

  • @jessicavalley7469
    @jessicavalley7469 3 года назад +7

    I felt physically sick for months puking I thought I was pregnant or had the flu but it continued now I know it was from his abuse

  • @Betternow1974
    @Betternow1974 3 года назад +2

    Excellent thanks 👍😊

  • @michellecastle1267
    @michellecastle1267 3 года назад +6

    Truth 101

    • @DrEmilyMayfield
      @DrEmilyMayfield  3 года назад +4

      Thank you for your comment and I hope you enjoyed the content of the video!

  • @lenora9987
    @lenora9987 2 года назад

    Sad but TRUE 👍😔😞😪😢

  • @Cucurigu813
    @Cucurigu813 3 года назад +2

    TY

  • @yellosunshine7568
    @yellosunshine7568 3 года назад +2

    I cannot leave bc she has gone to every strata of society to have leaders against me on her side doing her dirty work for her.

    • @DrEmilyMayfield
      @DrEmilyMayfield  3 года назад +2

      It sounds like she has recruited flying monkeys and that makes it so much harder for you. I’m sorry you have to go through that.

  • @jamjantz
    @jamjantz 6 дней назад

    thank you

  • @Techrideretc.6793
    @Techrideretc.6793 Год назад

    When I was young my abusers(parents)hit me now they mentally abuse me I have no idea what to do.Should I record them doing it and ask my brother to drive me to the police station?

  • @suntzu6122
    @suntzu6122 2 года назад +2

    Abuse doesnt have to come from a desire for control.
    My dad is just a dickhead.

  • @atomicblonde2180
    @atomicblonde2180 7 месяцев назад

    I've been dealing with abuse for so many years. I left my wx husband bc his ex wife wouldn't let us be happy. I wascwith him for 7 years and I couldn't take it. I got remarried and my husband is an alcoholic. When he drinks everyone is nuts and at blame for everything. I knew it was bringing me down but them 2 years ago I was diagnosed with a Brain Tumor. I had it Removed April 2022. It's been really hard recovering. His abuse almost started right after surgery but I warned him. He stopped for about a year and last week it started again 100%. My head is pounding so hard! I can no longer do stress since my Craniotomy but I can't see leaving bc I need the insurance right now. This is going to kill me!!

  • @ClearYourMindTravel
    @ClearYourMindTravel 2 года назад

    My ex verbally and emotionally abused me and it got worse when my mom got sicked and died. He was not supportive and he showed no empathy. He ghosted me on 1/27/2018. I'm trying very hard to put my life back together.

    • @DrEmilyMayfield
      @DrEmilyMayfield  2 года назад +1

      It will be difficult. Some days you will have the strength to give it your all and other days will be just too hard. That is ok! It will come with time and remember to take care of yourself.

  • @beckyjones3578
    @beckyjones3578 2 года назад

    Well I can't leave,not with this insane economy and I only get $840.00 per months on SSI! I've tried sheltors,friends,churches,church friends,family,211,social worker,section 8(they closed down here in June 2019),HUD,and low income places(they told me I violated there rule,since I left him stay with me because he was homeless back in 2006),group homes(violated there rules because I couldn't volunteer once a month with not having a winter coat to wait hours for the RRTA van to pick me up. I also tried 211. Nadda,zip. I feel so trapped and sick emotionaly and physicaly!

  • @joeschmo1516
    @joeschmo1516 2 года назад

    She's a pretty lady

  • @suzyleo1
    @suzyleo1 7 месяцев назад

    Smochinsky?!!?