Just laid off last Friday. Mid level IT position in financial services, 12 years of service. HR lady zoomed me 15 minutes before I signed off for the day. I made the lay off list first round. No severance, just my last check and medical coverage till end of the month. Signed up for unemployment, got side gig income. But, this is stressful us all. Also, going through some medical issues that need to be addressed. Good luck to us all. You are not alone, the best to you all.
You got laid off because you probably don't pull your weight. You aren't the top performer right? Be honest. Blame it on your "medical" condition if you want but you know you deserve to get cut.
I was laid off last month from my escrow Officer job with a huge national home builder. I saw it coming though. Sales fell off a cliff when rates spiked last year. Those terrible sales months came home to roost starting in January. Closings were projected down 75+%. I’ve been a barber for 10 year now and I’m a huge proponent for having a skilled trade on your resume. I cried for a day, made a phone call, and had a job making my same income the next day. 29 year old me is really thanking 19 year old me for sticking it out and getting licensed. It’s such a great feeling knowing I have a safety net for when shit hits the fan.
Man. I wish I had ever had a job that made me cry at losing it. I was never laid off, always quit. In most cases, something better is right around the corner. But it is scary not knowing where your next dollar is coming from. Wishing you all the best and that your next situation is amazing.
My husband is a real estate appraiser and we saw it coming also. Made adjustments to our monthly expenses. Even with making those changes, it did not give as much breathing room as it should have. With groceries and just about everything else that has gone up so much it's mind-blowing! We will hang on and ride this roller-coaster the best we can. Just like the wave in 2008! 🎢 Good luck to everyone. Hopefully, things will change soon 🙏🏼 📿🤲🏼🪬✌🏼💕😊
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually learned how to code (and then experienced being laid-off and replaced by H1Bs) I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista is now becoming “the new normal”
After graduating into a recession in the early 90s and then suffering unemployment in the Dot Com Bubble Implosion of 2001, I learned skill diversification is key. It’s like mixed martial arts - do not rely on just one skill in on area. A one dimensional Java developer would face a tough job search. But if the skills were diversified to include defense security clearance and aerospace engineering, then the job search gets easier.
I turned a layoff into one of the best things that's ever happened to me. I launched a RUclips and a business helping people do the same and proud to say I've fully replaced my income (and then some). Navigate the murky waters in the beginning, but have a plan. You may find a sweet ending to your story as well. Good luck with the job search and I'm sure you'll land squarely on your feet!
Funny seeing you here. I love your channel! It has been so helpful in improving every aspect of my job search while building confidence that was so lacking before. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge with everyone!
Here to testify! Life After Layoff saved me. I listened to your sage advice. Fixed my resume with your tips, and landed a really secure job. You provide solid information, and wisdom. You saved me while I was doom scrolling in the dead of night, in terror of facing sunrise. Thank you, for turning many bad stories and situations into lessons from which we can all grow, and benefit.
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually learned how to code (and then experienced being laid-off and replaced by H1Bs) I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista is now becoming “the new normal”
I lost my job back in 2019 right before Covid hit. I felt like a complete failure but God had bigger plans. Sometimes he removes us from situations that we would of otherwise never left on our own only to place us right where he needs us to be. God has a plan!
Exactly. The problem is we get so used to feeling safe doing the same routine that when we change things up it's scary. We associate out identity with our jobs and feel lost. Change is good. Apply for unemployment, take a few weeks to get things in order and figure out what you want to do now. It will be ok and work out. Sending prayers for peace.
@@yepperooyepperoo5800 thank you so much! You are absolutely right. I feel so guilty for being laid off and my husband has told me multiple times that I need to stop being so hard on myself. I just hate the feeling of the unknown.
There are no gods. Assuming you are a Christian ? Or maybe Muslim or Jewish. Doesn’t matter you all believe in the same god Do you know there are a billion Hindus that believe in completely different gods? Are a billion people wrong and you are right ? Nope. You’re both wrong. All gods are made up by people to control other people. We all have to have our own plans cause their ain’t no sky beings
@@Whatisthisstupidfinghandle my God is the one and only. The almighty and the Great I Am. And he loves you! He gave his only begotten Son to save you. Much love to you! ❤️
I’m right with you. I’m going through this right now. I got laid off on Monday from a Tech company. I’m still in shock. I’m a single mom, living paycheck to paycheck. I am putting my son through college. I’m worried, scared, all kinds of emotions. I pray that you and I will soon find jobs that we love. ❤🙏🏽
@@Iaintbrokenomo I did work remote, but not everyone in tech works remote. A lot of tech companies are having people go back to the office. Most likely I won’t be working for another big tech company. They aren’t hiring Recruiters, they are laying them off instead. LinkedIn and Twillo just laid off a ton of Recruiters yesterday and Disney is about to layoff 7k people. I’m going to assume many of them are going to be Recruiters. There are not a ton recruiting roles available right now and most of them are hybrid or fully onsite.
This might sound crazy but since you have the talent acquisition experience, why not do videos talking about what managers should look for in potential candidates. Also, what someone looking for a job should do/say in an interview...resumé advise, etc. Your channel will probably blow up.
I am actually starting to do videos about being laid off and the journey of finding a new job and giving advice for other job seekers. I just posted a new video yesterday taking about the warning signs that I missed/ignored and next week I plan on doing a video about updating/creating a resume.
The first thing you do is celebrate and treat yourself to a fabulous meal. Congratulate yourself on the great job you did, and then get a good night's sleep and start looking for another job the next day. This is normal anytime you work in the corporate world. Always begin with the end in mind, as Stephen Covey said. Believe me, it works!!
Please don't EVER cry for your employment. It's a business arrangement, as long as they write the check, they control the leverage. You are very eloquent and passionate and willand and be successful, there are always oops out there
I was ahead of the curve: I was laid off in November. I'm currently working at a counter-service seafood restaurant, and really knuckling down on my budget, living paycheck to paycheck while I figure out what comes next. I can't imagine how scary it is to be a mother in this position. May we all endure the lean times, and come out on the other side with experience and wisdom.
I am also a working mum and I send you loads of love. I agree with people saying you can make videos about your expertise. There are actually already some channels about it, ex. your video was suggested to me because I usually watch Life After Layoff. You were courageous to post this video, I am certain you will overcome
Tech Recruiter here on day 6 of being laid off. First time for me as well. I must say I’m right there with you with all those emotions. It’s scary, anger inducing, and mostly clouded in self doubt. I’m glad you posted as it’s comforting knowing I’m not alone with these emotions. Thank you! We will hopefully find something soon.
Thank you for your video. I am a working single mom of two kids, and this is my Day 1 being laid off and I’m at loss. I am feeling exact same as your Day1 but glad I found your video (obviously I searched RUclips by ‘laid off day one’. ) to see someone in the same situation .It probably takes sometime to sort out my feelings and thoughts, but I need to move on quickly.
My mom has been laid off from mid level marketing 3 times in 6 months. She FINALLY got a job last week. And it’s the same job she was offered, but declined for her last position due to the cost of healthcare benefits. It’ll all work out!
2001, 2002, 2009 were my years of layoffs in the tech industry. You'll get through it - it is a bit tougher getting the same kind of job in tech being non-technical. I am a developer but back in 2001 and 2002 it took many weeks (2002 was 6 weeks or so) to find a another job. Anyway, I've been through it 3 times and back out the other side. You'll be ok! Good luck!
Yep, 2001. There had been rumors, our supervisor couldn’t say anything but dropped hints (“ this is not a good time to make large purchases.”). I figure I’d beat the rush and quit early 2001. I knew I wanted a job where I didn’t have to work nights, holidays, & weekends-I was in tech. I worked in a bookstore, learned to drive a bus, did security and finally got my dream job with my own office. Stayed there till I retired 12 yrs later.
I am sorry that you got laid off. It feels terrible. Imagine what the coal miners felt like after they got laid off and a bunch internet creators told them “ learn to code”. To you and anyone else who has been laid off life is not over, only different.
I have been laid off several times. It is not the end of the world. Get started immediately looking for work and be realistic. In these days, having a good emergency fund is critical.
Don't sweat it too much. You will look back years from now at this episode of your life and see it as the next great opportunity it will turn into. I speak from the tech field and with experience in working at multiple places that have gone out of business. Pretty much the same thing as being let go but without any safety nets or severance in those cases. One day you go to work and are told you will be staying to "turn off the gear and turn out the lights". Every time, I and every one else I worked with bounced back better and higher. Breathe ! This too shall pass. :)
You are spot on about that. When the next door opens, it will be a better path for you. Hard to believe in the moment, but my experience agrees with what you state here.
Thank you for sharing. I lost my job a couple of years ago. It felt like my world came crashing down. In retrospect, it’s best I parted ways because it wasn’t working out, but the sense of defeat and failure was all-encompassing when it happened. What I learned is that the only thing you can control, is your own mental health and your job performance. For me, these two are intricately linked. Over time, some doors will close. But other doors open. Hope you get a new job soon!!
That’s a great idea! I will definitely make a series of videos taking everyone along on my job search. I’m so used to helping other people find jobs as a Recruiter, it’s weird to be on the other end.
I was amongst one of the first round of layoffs in tech a year ago. Its been pretty crazy! I was quite fortunate, besides a couple of freelance gigs here and there, I managed to land on a fairly stable tech company. Admittedly I have been trying to leave this job because its a constant fire-drill. But its been difficult because its hard to get a switch jobs now. So I try and remain grateful that I have a job until I find something else. Anyway, ALOT of people have lost their jobs this year. We're all in this together.
Thank you for sharing despite the pain it took just to get the words out. I wish you all the best. I'm sure you will land on your feet and I'm hopeful this event leads to something better. Many years ago it did for me. Bless you and your son.
You will find another job. Just stay strong. It is terrible that companies are becoming ruthless with no human touch. God bless you and your son. You will definitely come out of this stronger and better.
I am a Behavioral Therapist and I would like to suggest that you continue your child’s IEP, request an appointment with his primary physician, and see if your health insurance provides ABA therapy. The tight knit environment that your child had in his last classroom is probably WHAT HE NEEDED. His kindergarten class should have the same variables. *New Subcriber ❤️
I totally understand what you are going thru. I was just laid off on June 1st after working for 10 years ughhh Luckily they gave me a severance that I’m extremely great full for. However I had no warning just an impromptu meeting appeared on my calendar with HR my manager and others receiving the same devastating news as me. So now I’m trying to stay busy and not think about it so much because I get angry all over again
So sorry. It can be a punch in the gut. When I was younger, I was told I was laid off from a corporate job the morning after working until 2 in the morning to finish a project that was needed. Two weeks later, I was already hired by another company. This experience made me realize that everyone is even every payday. I don't owe them anything and they don't owe me anything. This mindset served me well through the rest of my career. Don't look back just look forward.
Losing a job you've had for years can be tough. Take time to process, assess your finances, update your resume and network, consider upskilling, explore new opportunities, and take care of yourself. It's important to stay positive and take small steps towards your goals. I've decided to write a book and move to another country with my 6-year-old which gives me the life that I can afford and deserve. Good luck❤
I’m so sorry for the stress that you must be going thru! I have a feeling that you will come out in better circumstances than you had previously. Wishing you the very best for you and your family 💜
I feel for you and hope things get better soon! I was laid off in 2019 and again at the beginning of the pandemic (also in tech) and the biggest hit for me was finding purpose in my every day routine so your thoughts about the immediate aftermath resonates so much. It’s been a few years since I went through the ringer but definitely messed with my head for a bit but eventually turned out great in the end. Best of luck for you and the fam!
Laid off in September 2022 and still unemployed now. Tons of applications and 4 interviews and no hires. Former IT network tech. Company shutdown. Sucks not working.
I’ve been laid off in September 2021 after 26 years. I got a one year severance. I was soooo miserable the last two years at that company so I was kinda ok with it. My mom also passed the year before which turned my life upside down and to this date I’m still grieving and crying for her. Things will get BETTER for you !!! I now work in a total different industry and did I tell you I’m 50+ so I thought I would work at my previous employer until retirement or close to it. As they say when one door closes another opens and many doors will open for you !!! I have faith in you !!! You’ll be ok !!!
I somehow came across this video. I subbed. Would love to see your journey in getting back onto your feet and finding yourself again. I wish you the best.
Oh that’s so shitty you had to go through this on the same day as your sons special ed team meeting! Glad at least that went well, it’s a huge relief! I think one professional skill you could leverage in your RUclips content is your perspective as a recruiter - tell people what will help them stand out, get hired, negotiate their offers. That’s what people who are in the same position as you are probably going to benefit from the most right now.
Thanks! I think I am definitely going to start a series of videos about my search for a new position while giving interviewing and resume tips for others with my background in recruiting!
Being a regular blue-collar worker is as risky bas the high-tech route. We get laid off too, best thing is to say a prayer , then go right out and get a job, one that pays enough for you and your son to just barely make itr. That's your starting point. Gotta go.....
I know this feels scary. But, zooming out on the job market, beyond tech there are some really healthy sectors that could use your recruitment skills. Tech is not the only industry that needs staff recruited. I hope that in a few months, when you're path is clearer, you can look back at this and be glad that you were able to make a change.
Thank you for sharing this. I work in the mortgage industry and this is my fear on a daily basis. The only thing that keeps me sane is that my employment agreement requires a 3-month severance.
My family is going through this right now. Even with a degree in IT and many years of experience, he is being laid off. Getting the max in unemployment does not even pay the mortgage here in CA. Yes, share your tech knowledge and related fields for finding work, maybe one day a week, or whatever you might enjoy.
I have every confidence that you are completely hireable. You seem like a very dedicated/hard worker. Let us know when you get that new job. I am positive great things are on the horizon for you and your son.
Getting laid off is tough! Give yourself a little time to grieve, but then remember it is an opportunity to reassess what you want and find something better. I'm sure that there will be something much better in store for you. Perhaps it's sticking with IT, or perhaps it will be a whole new field. New opportunities can be very exciting!
I am sorry that you lost your job. Sometimes, bad things happen to good people, and it’s not their fault. I hope that you are able to find a suitable new position soon.
I don't have a job so I just happened to land on your video but I'm so glad I did bc what you're going through with your son is something I can relate to and I felt so unrelatable about it but I'm happy for your outcome!
You just have to reinvent yourself and have to budget and get help from family members and any other resources You can do it ..positive vibes just started watching ur video .👍
The reason why companies have to layoff. Most especially tech is because of the interest rate being higher than zero. Most tech companies got over leveraged for the past 10 years, thus creating a bubble, but now that US FED has increased interest rate, most of those companies can't borrow money for free, so hence the layoff, also the stock prices of these companies have dropped also due to high interest rate. It's all to fight inflation. Sorry for losing your job
I thought IT would be the best career ever. Scary seeing those jobs, lost. Just keep positive and getting back to work asap, don't get use to not working.
Here’s is my 2cents do what makes you happy! I have been lay off several times, many emotions running all directions but life continues. I have to stay focus for my daughter. I’m currently I ride share driver/food delivery/ Real Estate Agent! The best thing that happened to me was loosing my job! I will never ever look back! God has a plan for everybody, you must take most opportunity into acción! Good luck 🍀 on you new journey! Life is more beautiful when you’re your on boss peace ✌️
Prayers for you and your family! I've been laid off a couple times in my career but always managed to find something else relatively soon. You got this 😊!
So sorry! I’m sure you’ll fine a better place to work. God laid it on my heart lately to prepare myself for a layoff. I’m noticing that they are hiring more people over seas and may fire me first since I’ve been there since 1998 so they may move the jobs to lower paid workers.
I got laid off twice in 4 years, the second worked out for the best as I was able to be home with my kids during the pandemic, plus somehow i made more money being laid off then as i was working.
Majority of our tech department was cleaned up yesterday. We all got our notices however as per UK law they need to do a consultation for 45 days before handing over redundancy.
Thank you so much! Yes, my son is more important than any job or anything else going on. I have made sure to put on a brave face around him because I don’t want him to see me stressed. He is loving the fact that I am now picking him up from school now instead of my mom who watched him after school for me while I worked. He made sure to tell his entire class and teachers that his mom lost her job. He thinks it’s a good thing because it’s more time with mom! 😂 I did love my Dyson, but it recently broke so I had to get a new vacuum that isn’t a Dyson. I still need to take off the charger from the wall. I’ll get to it eventually!
Unreal, I've been laid-off in the construction industry in 2008. I didn't have a need to give a play by play. Instead of doing a tik tok or YT video. I just obtained new skills and became an electrician. It really is not hard, but you do have to get out of your safe zone and become an adult.
I got laid off last week, my saving grace is that im in Florida really close to the parks, I can always just apply for a job at any of them and im back working in like a week. Godspeed to everyone going thru this, hang in there everyone, you can do it.
@@seriejohnson698 most of it is things like marketing and technology, there will always be manual labor jobs open all the time, they are too big for them to layoff any of the workers that actually run the parks and hotels, I have worked at Universal already and the amount of people that apply, get hired and quit before they even get past training its absurdly high, like 50%+ to put it safely, and those that make it past training a lot quit in less than 3 months. Its not because the jobs are demanding, people just think they can get away with a lot of stuff while working in those places and they are very quick to fire people off.
Sorry to hear…😢 I think linked in has become very important for continuing contact due to these abrupt disconnect policies. Best wishes for a new opportunity!
I feel I must be from another planet or something. I have never felt connected to a corporate job in this way that I didn't understand that we are all just cogs in a giant wheel and really not that relevant to the operation or concern of the company. This is probably the reason I have resigned after 3 or 4 years at any company because that's all of my soul I was willing to give them. Our youngest son is autistic. Those IEP meetings are gut wrenching. Any time I was between jobs I devoted it to our son and family life in general. I have never been laid off, but I have heard many people say it's very emotional.
Oh my god I thought some one died when you said "very very very bad news". It is just a job, thanks god nothing worse happened. Upgrade your skills, just keep going, don't have pity for yourself, at least after a while 🙂
Sucks. Sorry to hear. Heads are rolling at my company, too. Luckily (?) I only got my hours cut, not fired. Now I need to find another part-time job. Fun. I feel like I'm too old for this s***. Let the transitioning begin. :/
I'm not in the same boat as you and as many people losing their jobs. I am someone who, in my opinion, planned for the change in the world and lost people while doing it. Now? Those people are jobless and in panic mode. I subscribed to your channel. At least you put something together to build a solid foundation.as a backup. I'll be watching. Good luck. I hope you reach 1000 subs soon. All your channel's topics are relative. Go for it!!!!
My life story. I'll keep it vague so no one can figure who i am 😂. Got laid off in 2016 from my dream job after 2 years, got paid £30k a year. Got a job 5 months later(took longer cos we had a baby soon after so i only started my job search 3 months later), was getting paid 45k i did that job for 5 years. Then i changed job and got laid off after 3 months i was getting 150k, then i thought it's the end for me as i lost the jackpot but found another job 3 months later at 130k
I’ve been laid off 3 times since the age of 50. My average time back in the workforce was 6 weeks. I worked like a demon dawn to dusk networking and sending out resumes.
Let me share my layoff experience. I got laid off when the tech bubble burst during the early 2000s. I can't find work for 3 years. I lost 2 of my teeth because I didn't have dental care. I actually had a cracked and infected tooth in my mouth for months and I was spitting out blood on a daily basis. My family abandoned me. My mom actually told me not to call until I find work. Things got so bad that I actually considered being a nurse. When I finally got work, it was with a contracting agency that took more of the money. Yeah, layoffs build character.
In 2022, I got laid off the day after my 10 year anniversary and right before Christmas. I was also going through a divorce. I was devastated. I was never going to leave my marriage (15 years). However, I was being abused in every way. My job paid very well but was toxic. I was never going to leave my toxic job because I had a family to support and no one would pay me the salary I was earning. Everyone said this company pays above and beyond the industry standard. I now have a dream job and peace in my home. Hang in there, it gets better.
Take a look back at the description of your channel, and read what you wrote : "Come along with me and my family as we [...] try new adventures and just have fun" This is the moment for new adventures. As scary as it may seems, it can also be the beginning of new opportunities, and new fun. Good luck !
I went to lunch with the HR manager and was told I would get a promotion on my next review. I had free lunch at Olive Garden. After driving back to the office, my badge didn’t worked. The company logo outside the building was covered in plastic tape and I knew I was laid off. Lesson learned. Don’t fall for free lunches.
I’m sorry you lost your job. This video seems to really resonate with a lot of people. Maybe you could shift a little bit in your content and do more of a podcast style and interview some of the people who commented about their experiences with layoffs.
I get it it is such a terrible feeling especially when blind sighted- but good things will come from this and when you look back, you will be happy this happened. I know cliche but I promise it will be true!❤
Thank you so much! I guess the good thing about all this is that my channel has blown up thanks to this video and I can now be monetized on RUclips! It won’t replace my salary, but it is great to see all the support I have gotten and I am excited more than ever to continue to grow my channel!
@@theveldmanway i will subscribe my dear and i wish you all the best. Don’t forget what i mentioned. This happened to me 15 years ago and im way better off now!!!
I know there are layoffs... and sometimes there's nothing we can do about it... BUT- the way it was done... OMG, in my origin country (Israel) that is so illegal !!! An employee needs to be handed a hearing invite note, explaining that this is a hearing about their employment and what will be discussed there (for example- company cut-downs, productivity, tardiness, etc...) - 24 hours at least before that hearing !! Some choose to say- I don't need the warning- let's go into the hearing, but it is still mandatory. As a fellow RUclipsr- my heart is with you. Even though I have not been employed for years now... (was fired from my IT job when I started showing symptoms of PTSD) Maybe this will be the beginning of an epic new journey, focusing more on RUclips (you could also take some of the ideas for DIY projects you're making and turn them into classes to upload to skillshae...) OR- hoping you'll find employment soon. all my love to you and your kid (I'm autistic myself, and there is so much on that spectrum. I mean, no one would even guess I have autism, haha)
You just need to allow yourself to settle down for a while after an unwelcome '"surprise". We have to embrace it as part of life in working class society. Take this quite moment as opportunity to do what you were not seriously thinking before / wish to but didn't when you had a job. Eg : Go to gym, do yoga or whatever you like. No one is 100% dependent on a single company to survive. Just like love, not able to get the loved one to accept you doesn't mean there is no one else out there (despite we feel heart-breaking). As long we are healthy and be positive, just a matter of time for your new journey. Through my career, I have been laid-off once and it took me 1 year to secure a new job. Life was horrible at that time (cutting expensive to the bear minimum). Looking back, that was 20 years ago and now, life is pretty decent. Hold in there, my friend.
Public programmers of government is always in demand. I hope some of these IT smart people run for public office. Cannot run away from problems with federal deficit spending indefinitely.
The company I retired from 18 months ago (YAY! I survived to retire), one time hired an outside company to come in and tell people they were laid off, it wasn't even someone from the company.
I got laid off of two job in one year one was a job I had worked at for almost ten years I was laid off of that job on Jan 1st then that same year I was laid off from my second job I had only been working at for almost 2 years on Christmas Eve and I had a baby to support then it was hard but I did it and if I can you can too just don't give up hope keep your head up maybe this is what god has in store for you
I'm sorry for anyone who gets laid off. I am not going to pretend to understand the situation you are in, but know this... You for sure can get back on your feet. Try looking into IT contracting positions. You can also take the time to get new certs if possible. Contracting can be great for a short time or can possibly lead to full time employment. Best wishes to all of you that are impacted.
So sorry about that...but we can all learn from this. We need to have loyalty for ourselves, just like they do. If I ever get that email, will call out sick and report a substance abuse issue, which will secure my job for at least a few months. All the while look for a new one.
Three years ago, I was happy with what I did for work because I was very passionate about it and I have just started working more hours and I thought I would be around at the same company for awhile Then once we were in Covid came into America yeah my job was at a car dealership. Pretty much, I got laid off right away
Just laid off last Friday. Mid level IT position in financial services, 12 years of service. HR lady zoomed me 15 minutes before I signed off for the day. I made the lay off list first round. No severance, just my last check and medical coverage till end of the month. Signed up for unemployment, got side gig income. But, this is stressful us all. Also, going through some medical issues that need to be addressed. Good luck to us all. You are not alone, the best to you all.
Good for you. Taking control of your life and going to make the most of it.
What company doesn't pay severance? No, really. Out your companies. That's rrrrrr.
You got laid off because you probably don't pull your weight. You aren't the top performer right? Be honest. Blame it on your "medical" condition if you want but you know you deserve to get cut.
You didn’t get any severance that fucking sucks I’m sorry
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I was laid off last month from my escrow Officer job with a huge national home builder. I saw it coming though. Sales fell off a cliff when rates spiked last year. Those terrible sales months came home to roost starting in January. Closings were projected down 75+%. I’ve been a barber for 10 year now and I’m a huge proponent for having a skilled trade on your resume. I cried for a day, made a phone call, and had a job making my same income the next day. 29 year old me is really thanking 19 year old me for sticking it out and getting licensed. It’s such a great feeling knowing I have a safety net for when shit hits the fan.
Man. I wish I had ever had a job that made me cry at losing it. I was never laid off, always quit. In most cases, something better is right around the corner. But it is scary not knowing where your next dollar is coming from. Wishing you all the best and that your next situation is amazing.
My husband is a real estate appraiser and we saw it coming also. Made adjustments to our monthly expenses. Even with making those changes, it did not give as much breathing room as it should have. With groceries and just about everything else that has gone up so much it's mind-blowing! We will hang on and ride this roller-coaster the best we can. Just like the wave in 2008! 🎢 Good luck to everyone. Hopefully, things will change soon 🙏🏼 📿🤲🏼🪬✌🏼💕😊
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually learned how to code (and then experienced being laid-off and replaced by H1Bs) I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista is now becoming “the new normal”
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After graduating into a recession in the early 90s and then suffering unemployment in the Dot Com Bubble Implosion of 2001, I learned skill diversification is key. It’s like mixed martial arts - do not rely on just one skill in on area. A one dimensional Java developer would face a tough job search. But if the skills were diversified to include defense security clearance and aerospace engineering, then the job search gets easier.
I turned a layoff into one of the best things that's ever happened to me. I launched a RUclips and a business helping people do the same and proud to say I've fully replaced my income (and then some). Navigate the murky waters in the beginning, but have a plan. You may find a sweet ending to your story as well. Good luck with the job search and I'm sure you'll land squarely on your feet!
Funny seeing you here. I love your channel! It has been so helpful in improving every aspect of my job search while building confidence that was so lacking before. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge with everyone!
Here to testify! Life After Layoff saved me. I listened to your sage advice. Fixed my resume with your tips, and landed a really secure job.
You provide solid information, and wisdom. You saved me while I was doom scrolling in the dead of night, in terror of facing sunrise.
Thank you, for turning many bad stories and situations into lessons from which we can all grow, and benefit.
Thanks! I subscribed to your channel. I look forward to watching some of your videos!
Fancy meeting you here, Life After Layoff! LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!
I can’t but help remember the Tech Kids of the day condemning laid-off factory workers “learn to code!” back when the Government and Wall Street were bankrolling the Chinese Communist Party replace American workers with virtual factory slave labor… as one of the few who actually learned how to code (and then experienced being laid-off and replaced by H1Bs) I have to say that 2/3rds of Americans are saying now “learn to drive a truck” or work as a barista is now becoming “the new normal”
I lost my job back in 2019 right before Covid hit. I felt like a complete failure but God had bigger plans. Sometimes he removes us from situations that we would of otherwise never left on our own only to place us right where he needs us to be. God has a plan!
That’s a great way to put it! Thank you for the moral boost!
Exactly. The problem is we get so used to feeling safe doing the same routine that when we change things up it's scary. We associate out identity with our jobs and feel lost. Change is good. Apply for unemployment, take a few weeks to get things in order and figure out what you want to do now. It will be ok and work out. Sending prayers for peace.
@@yepperooyepperoo5800 thank you so much! You are absolutely right. I feel so guilty for being laid off and my husband has told me multiple times that I need to stop being so hard on myself. I just hate the feeling of the unknown.
There are no gods.
Assuming you are a Christian ? Or maybe Muslim or Jewish. Doesn’t matter you all believe in the same god
Do you know there are a billion Hindus that believe in completely different gods? Are a billion people wrong and you are right ?
Nope. You’re both wrong. All gods are made up by people to control other people.
We all have to have our own plans cause their ain’t no sky beings
@@Whatisthisstupidfinghandle my God is the one and only. The almighty and the Great I Am. And he loves you! He gave his only begotten Son to save you. Much love to you! ❤️
I’m right with you. I’m going through this right now. I got laid off on Monday from a Tech company. I’m still in shock. I’m a single mom, living paycheck to paycheck. I am putting my
son through college. I’m worried, scared, all kinds of emotions.
I pray that you and I will soon find jobs that we love. ❤🙏🏽
I am so sorry to hear that. It’s so scary out there right now. I’ll be praying that we both find something better! You got this!
@@theveldmanway thank you 🙏🏽
Quick question. Isn’t it easy for you guys in tech to get remote work. Just asking??
@@Iaintbrokenomo I did work remote, but not everyone in tech works remote. A lot of tech companies are having people go back to the office. Most likely I won’t be working for another big tech company. They aren’t hiring Recruiters, they are laying them off instead. LinkedIn and Twillo just laid off a ton of Recruiters yesterday and Disney is about to layoff 7k people. I’m going to assume many of them are going to be Recruiters. There are not a ton recruiting roles available right now and most of them are hybrid or fully onsite.
sorry to hear that
Work feels so important until you realize how replaceable you are. What you have in the end, if you are lucky, is family.
This might sound crazy but since you have the talent acquisition experience, why not do videos talking about what managers should look for in potential candidates. Also, what someone looking for a job should do/say in an interview...resumé advise, etc. Your channel will probably blow up.
I am actually starting to do videos about being laid off and the journey of finding a new job and giving advice for other job seekers. I just posted a new video yesterday taking about the warning signs that I missed/ignored and next week I plan on doing a video about updating/creating a resume.
Subrscribed for this, good luck.
The first thing you do is celebrate and treat yourself to a fabulous meal. Congratulate yourself on the great job you did, and then get a good night's sleep and start looking for another job the next day. This is normal anytime you work in the corporate world. Always begin with the end in mind, as Stephen Covey said. Believe me, it works!!
Please don't EVER cry for your employment. It's a business arrangement, as long as they write the check, they control the leverage.
You are very eloquent and passionate and willand and be successful, there are always oops out there
I was ahead of the curve: I was laid off in November. I'm currently working at a counter-service seafood restaurant, and really knuckling down on my budget, living paycheck to paycheck while I figure out what comes next. I can't imagine how scary it is to be a mother in this position. May we all endure the lean times, and come out on the other side with experience and wisdom.
I am also a working mum and I send you loads of love. I agree with people saying you can make videos about your expertise. There are actually already some channels about it, ex. your video was suggested to me because I usually watch Life After Layoff. You were courageous to post this video, I am certain you will overcome
Thank you so much!
Tech Recruiter here on day 6 of being laid off. First time for me as well. I must say I’m right there with you with all those emotions. It’s scary, anger inducing, and mostly clouded in self doubt. I’m glad you posted as it’s comforting knowing I’m not alone with these emotions. Thank you! We will hopefully find something soon.
Congratulations on your new beginning. Embrace and celebrate this new opportunity to grow and diversify yourself to the needs of society
I'm sorry this happened to you. Wishing you success in getting back in the work force ASAP.
Thank you for your video. I am a working single mom of two kids, and this is my Day 1 being laid off and I’m at loss. I am feeling exact same as your Day1 but glad I found your video (obviously I searched RUclips by ‘laid off day one’. ) to see someone in the same situation .It probably takes sometime to sort out my feelings and thoughts, but I need to move on quickly.
My mom has been laid off from mid level marketing 3 times in 6 months. She FINALLY got a job last week. And it’s the same job she was offered, but declined for her last position due to the cost of healthcare benefits. It’ll all work out!
2001, 2002, 2009 were my years of layoffs in the tech industry. You'll get through it - it is a bit tougher getting the same kind of job in tech being non-technical. I am a developer but back in 2001 and 2002 it took many weeks (2002 was 6 weeks or so) to find a another job. Anyway, I've been through it 3 times and back out the other side. You'll be ok! Good luck!
Yep, 2001. There had been rumors, our supervisor couldn’t say anything but dropped hints (“ this is not a good time to make large purchases.”). I figure I’d beat the rush and quit early 2001. I knew I wanted a job where I didn’t have to work nights, holidays, & weekends-I was in tech. I worked in a bookstore, learned to drive a bus, did security and finally got my dream job with my own office. Stayed there till I retired 12 yrs later.
I am sorry that you got laid off. It feels terrible.
Imagine what the coal miners felt like after they got laid off and a bunch internet creators told them “ learn to code”.
To you and anyone else who has been laid off life is not over, only different.
I have been laid off several times. It is not the end of the world. Get started immediately looking for work and be realistic. In these days, having a good emergency fund is critical.
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Don't sweat it too much. You will look back years from now at this episode of your life and see it as the next great opportunity it will turn into. I speak from the tech field and with experience in working at multiple places that have gone out of business. Pretty much the same thing as being let go but without any safety nets or severance in those cases. One day you go to work and are told you will be staying to "turn off the gear and turn out the lights". Every time, I and every one else I worked with bounced back better and higher. Breathe ! This too shall pass. :)
You are spot on about that. When the next door opens, it will be a better path for you. Hard to believe in the moment, but my experience agrees with what you state here.
Thank you for sharing. I lost my job a couple of years ago. It felt like my world came crashing down. In retrospect, it’s best I parted ways because it wasn’t working out, but the sense of defeat and failure was all-encompassing when it happened. What I learned is that the only thing you can control, is your own mental health and your job performance. For me, these two are intricately linked. Over time, some doors will close. But other doors open. Hope you get a new job soon!!
Make a job searching video!!! Take us on the journey with you and we will share tips with you along the way. Good luck!!
That’s a great idea! I will definitely make a series of videos taking everyone along on my job search. I’m so used to helping other people find jobs as a Recruiter, it’s weird to be on the other end.
I was amongst one of the first round of layoffs in tech a year ago. Its been pretty crazy! I was quite fortunate, besides a couple of freelance gigs here and there, I managed to land on a fairly stable tech company. Admittedly I have been trying to leave this job because its a constant fire-drill. But its been difficult because its hard to get a switch jobs now. So I try and remain grateful that I have a job until I find something else. Anyway, ALOT of people have lost their jobs this year. We're all in this together.
Thank you for sharing despite the pain it took just to get the words out. I wish you all the best. I'm sure you will land on your feet and I'm hopeful this event leads to something better. Many years ago it did for me. Bless you and your son.
You will find another job. Just stay strong. It is terrible that companies are becoming ruthless with no human touch. God bless you and your son. You will definitely come out of this stronger and better.
Thank you so much!
I am a Behavioral Therapist and I would like to suggest that you continue your child’s IEP, request an appointment with his primary physician, and see if your health insurance provides ABA therapy. The tight knit environment that your child had in his last classroom is probably WHAT HE NEEDED. His kindergarten class should have the same variables. *New Subcriber ❤️
I totally understand what you are going thru. I was just laid off on June 1st after working for 10 years ughhh Luckily they gave me a severance that I’m extremely great full for. However I had no warning just an impromptu meeting appeared on my calendar with HR my manager and others receiving the same devastating news as me. So now I’m trying to stay busy and not think about it so much because I get angry all over again
So sorry. It can be a punch in the gut. When I was younger, I was told I was laid off from a corporate job the morning after working until 2 in the morning to finish a project that was needed. Two weeks later, I was already hired by another company. This experience made me realize that everyone is even every payday. I don't owe them anything and they don't owe me anything. This mindset served me well through the rest of my career. Don't look back just look forward.
Just being a Mom and the person who takes care of the home is a full-time job. That is worthy of all the praise in the world.
Losing a job you've had for years can be tough. Take time to process, assess your finances, update your resume and network, consider upskilling, explore new opportunities, and take care of yourself. It's important to stay positive and take small steps towards your goals. I've decided to write a book and move to another country with my 6-year-old which gives me the life that I can afford and deserve. Good luck❤
I’m so sorry for the stress that you must be going thru! I have a feeling that you will come out in better circumstances than you had previously. Wishing you the very best for you and your family 💜
I’m so sorry to hear this, i truest hope (and know you will) land on your feet. 🙏🏿
I feel for you and hope things get better soon! I was laid off in 2019 and again at the beginning of the pandemic (also in tech) and the biggest hit for me was finding purpose in my every day routine so your thoughts about the immediate aftermath resonates so much.
It’s been a few years since I went through the ringer but definitely messed with my head for a bit but eventually turned out great in the end.
Best of luck for you and the fam!
Laid off in September 2022 and still unemployed now. Tons of applications and 4 interviews and no hires. Former IT network tech. Company shutdown. Sucks not working.
Yeah I’m hardly believing that the economy is and thing but garbage right now.
I’ve been laid off in September 2021 after 26 years. I got a one year severance. I was soooo miserable the last two years at that company so I was kinda ok with it. My mom also passed the year before which turned my life upside down and to this date I’m still grieving and crying for her.
Things will get BETTER for you !!! I now work in a total different industry and did I tell you I’m 50+ so I thought I would work at my previous employer until retirement or close to it.
As they say when one door closes another opens and many doors will open for you !!! I have faith in you !!! You’ll be ok !!!
Thank you so much! I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.
I somehow came across this video. I subbed. Would love to see your journey in getting back onto your feet and finding yourself again. I wish you the best.
Oh that’s so shitty you had to go through this on the same day as your sons special ed team meeting! Glad at least that went well, it’s a huge relief!
I think one professional skill you could leverage in your RUclips content is your perspective as a recruiter - tell people what will help them stand out, get hired, negotiate their offers. That’s what people who are in the same position as you are probably going to benefit from the most right now.
Thanks! I think I am definitely going to start a series of videos about my search for a new position while giving interviewing and resume tips for others with my background in recruiting!
@@theveldmanway please do!
Being a regular blue-collar worker is as risky bas the high-tech route. We get laid off too, best thing is to say a prayer , then go right out and get a job, one that pays enough for you and your son to just barely make itr. That's your starting point. Gotta go.....
I know this feels scary. But, zooming out on the job market, beyond tech there are some really healthy sectors that could use your recruitment skills. Tech is not the only industry that needs staff recruited. I hope that in a few months, when you're path is clearer, you can look back at this and be glad that you were able to make a change.
I would tell everyone to be prepared for this, especially now. Network and make all your connections before it happens.
Thank you for sharing this. I work in the mortgage industry and this is my fear on a daily basis. The only thing that keeps me sane is that my employment agreement requires a 3-month severance.
My family is going through this right now. Even with a degree in IT and many years of experience, he is being laid off. Getting the max in unemployment does not even pay the mortgage here in CA. Yes, share your tech knowledge and related fields for finding work, maybe one day a week, or whatever you might enjoy.
Congratulations on your new beginning. Embrace and celebrate this new opportunity to grow and diversify yourself to the needs of society
I have every confidence that you are completely hireable. You seem like a very dedicated/hard worker. Let us know when you get that new job. I am positive great things are on the horizon for you and your son.
Getting laid off is tough! Give yourself a little time to grieve, but then remember it is an opportunity to reassess what you want and find something better. I'm sure that there will be something much better in store for you. Perhaps it's sticking with IT, or perhaps it will be a whole new field. New opportunities can be very exciting!
I am sorry that you lost your job. Sometimes, bad things happen to good people, and it’s not their fault. I hope that you are able to find a suitable new position soon.
I send you a hug from Belgium. Wish you the best!
I don't have a job so I just happened to land on your video but I'm so glad I did bc what you're going through with your son is something I can relate to and I felt so unrelatable about it but I'm happy for your outcome!
You just have to reinvent yourself and have to budget and get help from family members and any other resources You can do it ..positive vibes just started watching ur video .👍
Hang in there be strong I'm going through the same thing right now we're gone come out of this better than we were before
Sending my prayers and good thoughts your way.
Thank you so much! Your kind words are very much appreciated!
Thanks for sharing. Helps to see what's in the news is real. Best of luck. Stay focused and have faith.
The reason why companies have to layoff. Most especially tech is because of the interest rate being higher than zero. Most tech companies got over leveraged for the past 10 years, thus creating a bubble, but now that US FED has increased interest rate, most of those companies can't borrow money for free, so hence the layoff, also the stock prices of these companies have dropped also due to high interest rate. It's all to fight inflation. Sorry for losing your job
Bring on the higher rates 😂
Take it as a break. Might be a gift for you to expand you YT channel and make more money.
I got laid off back in 2008 and it was a blessing.
Sending you my prayers🛐don’t lose hope, things happened for a reason, just have faith🙏🏻
I thought IT would be the best career ever. Scary seeing those jobs, lost. Just keep positive and getting back to work asap, don't get use to not working.
Here’s is my 2cents do what makes you happy! I have been lay off several times, many emotions running all directions but life continues. I have to stay focus for my daughter.
I’m currently I ride share driver/food delivery/ Real Estate Agent! The best thing that happened to me was loosing my job!
I will never ever look back! God has a plan for everybody, you must take most opportunity into acción!
Good luck 🍀 on you new journey!
Life is more beautiful when you’re your on boss peace ✌️
Prayers for you and your family! I've been laid off a couple times in my career but always managed to find something else relatively soon. You got this 😊!
Thanks so much!
So sorry! I’m sure you’ll fine a better place to work. God laid it on my heart lately to prepare myself for a layoff. I’m noticing that they are hiring more people over seas and may fire me first since I’ve been there since 1998 so they may move the jobs to lower paid workers.
I got laid off too in November, my heart is with u
I got laid off twice in 4 years, the second worked out for the best as I was able to be home with my kids during the pandemic, plus somehow i made more money being laid off then as i was working.
Majority of our tech department was cleaned up yesterday. We all got our notices however as per UK law they need to do a consultation for 45 days before handing over redundancy.
Your optimism and perspective is uplifting. Yes your son is all that matters.
I bought my wife the same vacuum.
Thank you so much! Yes, my son is more important than any job or anything else going on. I have made sure to put on a brave face around him because I don’t want him to see me stressed. He is loving the fact that I am now picking him up from school now instead of my mom who watched him after school for me while I worked. He made sure to tell his entire class and teachers that his mom lost her job. He thinks it’s a good thing because it’s more time with mom! 😂 I did love my Dyson, but it recently broke so I had to get a new vacuum that isn’t a Dyson. I still need to take off the charger from the wall. I’ll get to it eventually!
It's ok dear. We are also looking for a job too. Wish you all the best.
Unreal, I've been laid-off in the construction industry in 2008. I didn't have a need to give a play by play. Instead of doing a tik tok or YT video. I just obtained new skills and became an electrician. It really is not hard, but you do have to get out of your safe zone and become an adult.
What a bummer! And right before a school meeting! Your next step will be great! Enjoy your time off!
I got laid off last week, my saving grace is that im in Florida really close to the parks, I can always just apply for a job at any of them and im back working in like a week. Godspeed to everyone going thru this, hang in there everyone, you can do it.
I heard Disney was laying off
@@seriejohnson698 most of it is things like marketing and technology, there will always be manual labor jobs open all the time, they are too big for them to layoff any of the workers that actually run the parks and hotels, I have worked at Universal already and the amount of people that apply, get hired and quit before they even get past training its absurdly high, like 50%+ to put it safely, and those that make it past training a lot quit in less than 3 months. Its not because the jobs are demanding, people just think they can get away with a lot of stuff while working in those places and they are very quick to fire people off.
Sorry to hear…😢
I think linked in has become very important for continuing contact due to these abrupt disconnect policies.
Best wishes for a new opportunity!
I feel I must be from another planet or something. I have never felt connected to a corporate job in this way that I didn't understand that we are all just cogs in a giant wheel and really not that relevant to the operation or concern of the company. This is probably the reason I have resigned after 3 or 4 years at any company because that's all of my soul I was willing to give them.
Our youngest son is autistic. Those IEP meetings are gut wrenching. Any time I was between jobs I devoted it to our son and family life in general.
I have never been laid off, but I have heard many people say it's very emotional.
My prayer is that you will find the right job!
Oh my god I thought some one died when you said "very very very bad news". It is just a job, thanks god nothing worse happened. Upgrade your skills, just keep going, don't have pity for yourself, at least after a while 🙂
You are a strong lady, good things and better opportunities are gonna come along your way!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it!
Sounds like its nothing personal. I’m sure you will be back on top soon.
I'm so sorry this happened to you.
Sucks. Sorry to hear. Heads are rolling at my company, too. Luckily (?) I only got my hours cut, not fired. Now I need to find another part-time job. Fun. I feel like I'm too old for this s***. Let the transitioning begin. :/
I'm not in the same boat as you and as many people losing their jobs. I am someone who, in my opinion, planned for the change in the world and lost people while doing it. Now? Those people are jobless and in panic mode. I subscribed to your channel. At least you put something together to build a solid foundation.as a backup. I'll be watching. Good luck. I hope you reach 1000 subs soon. All your channel's topics are relative. Go for it!!!!
My life story. I'll keep it vague so no one can figure who i am 😂. Got laid off in 2016 from my dream job after 2 years, got paid £30k a year. Got a job 5 months later(took longer cos we had a baby soon after so i only started my job search 3 months later), was getting paid 45k i did that job for 5 years. Then i changed job and got laid off after 3 months i was getting 150k, then i thought it's the end for me as i lost the jackpot but found another job 3 months later at 130k
I’ve been laid off 3 times since the age of 50. My average time back in the workforce was 6 weeks. I worked like a demon dawn to dusk networking and sending out resumes.
Let me share my layoff experience. I got laid off when the tech bubble burst during the early 2000s. I can't find work for 3 years. I lost 2 of my teeth because I didn't have dental care. I actually had a cracked and infected tooth in my mouth for months and I was spitting out blood on a daily basis. My family abandoned me. My mom actually told me not to call until I find work. Things got so bad that I actually considered being a nurse. When I finally got work, it was with a contracting agency that took more of the money. Yeah, layoffs build character.
In 2022, I got laid off the day after my 10 year anniversary and right before Christmas. I was also going through a divorce. I was devastated.
I was never going to leave my marriage (15 years). However, I was being abused in every way. My job paid very well but was toxic. I was never going to leave my toxic job because I had a family to support and no one would pay me the salary I was earning. Everyone said this company pays above and beyond the industry standard.
I now have a dream job and peace in my home.
Hang in there, it gets better.
Good is faithful and has greater plans for you
Take a look back at the description of your channel, and read what you wrote : "Come along with me and my family as we [...] try new adventures and just have fun"
This is the moment for new adventures. As scary as it may seems, it can also be the beginning of new opportunities, and new fun.
Good luck !
I’m actually looking forward getting laid off I’ve been going through allot with company changes. I’ve had 4 different managers in 2 years.
Thanks a lot for sharing this information ,We are trying to put in your shoes we can understand the situation
I went to lunch with the HR manager and was told I would get a promotion on my next review. I had free lunch at Olive Garden. After driving back to the office, my badge didn’t worked. The company logo outside the building was covered in plastic tape and I knew I was laid off.
Lesson learned. Don’t fall for free lunches.
Wow that is simply just sleazy of the HR manager!
That’s inhumane 😅
Congratulations on your new beginning. Embrace and celebrate this new opportunity to grow and diversify yourself to the needs of society
Truly it is said: There’s no such thing as a free lunch. Hope you got the leftovers to take home.
I’m sorry you lost your job. This video seems to really resonate with a lot of people. Maybe you could shift a little bit in your content and do more of a podcast style and interview some of the people who commented about their experiences with layoffs.
I get it it is such a terrible feeling especially when blind sighted- but good things will come from this and when you look back, you will be happy this happened. I know cliche but I promise it will be true!❤
Thank you so much! I guess the good thing about all this is that my channel has blown up thanks to this video and I can now be monetized on RUclips! It won’t replace my salary, but it is great to see all the support I have gotten and I am excited more than ever to continue to grow my channel!
@@theveldmanway i will subscribe my dear and i wish you all the best. Don’t forget what i mentioned. This happened to me 15 years ago and im way better off now!!!
@@maryrobby7134 thank you so much for the support. I really appreciate it!
Most important take care of your physical health.
I know there are layoffs... and sometimes there's nothing we can do about it... BUT- the way it was done... OMG, in my origin country (Israel) that is so illegal !!! An employee needs to be handed a hearing invite note, explaining that this is a hearing about their employment and what will be discussed there (for example- company cut-downs, productivity, tardiness, etc...) - 24 hours at least before that hearing !!
Some choose to say- I don't need the warning- let's go into the hearing, but it is still mandatory.
As a fellow RUclipsr- my heart is with you. Even though I have not been employed for years now... (was fired from my IT job when I started showing symptoms of PTSD)
Maybe this will be the beginning of an epic new journey, focusing more on RUclips (you could also take some of the ideas for DIY projects you're making and turn them into classes to upload to skillshae...) OR- hoping you'll find employment soon.
all my love to you and your kid (I'm autistic myself, and there is so much on that spectrum. I mean, no one would even guess I have autism, haha)
You just need to allow yourself to settle down for a while after an unwelcome '"surprise". We have to embrace it as part of life in working class society. Take this quite moment as opportunity to do what you were not seriously thinking before / wish to but didn't when you had a job. Eg : Go to gym, do yoga or whatever you like. No one is 100% dependent on a single company to survive. Just like love, not able to get the loved one to accept you doesn't mean there is no one else out there (despite we feel heart-breaking). As long we are healthy and be positive, just a matter of time for your new journey.
Through my career, I have been laid-off once and it took me 1 year to secure a new job. Life was horrible at that time (cutting expensive to the bear minimum). Looking back, that was 20 years ago and now, life is pretty decent. Hold in there, my friend.
Good luck young lady.
Public programmers of government is always in demand. I hope some of these IT smart people run for public office. Cannot run away from problems with federal deficit spending indefinitely.
Prayers 🙏
That was very disrespectful how they laid you off, but you seem like a strong lady who will bounce back
The company I retired from 18 months ago (YAY! I survived to retire), one time hired an outside company to come in and tell people they were laid off, it wasn't even someone from the company.
I got laid off of two job in one year one was a job I had worked at for almost ten years I was laid off of that job on Jan 1st then that same year I was laid off from my second job I had only been working at for almost 2 years on Christmas Eve and I had a baby to support then it was hard but I did it and if I can you can too just don't give up hope keep your head up maybe this is what god has in store for you
With all the layoffs, could't they have switched you to helping process others being let go and coordinating exit packages ?
Thanks for being real
the algorithm sent me this video. I am sending hugs and encouragement to you.
Thank you so much!
I'm sorry for anyone who gets laid off. I am not going to pretend to understand the situation you are in, but know this... You for sure can get back on your feet. Try looking into IT contracting positions. You can also take the time to get new certs if possible. Contracting can be great for a short time or can possibly lead to full time employment. Best wishes to all of you that are impacted.
So sorry about that...but we can all learn from this. We need to have loyalty for ourselves, just like they do.
If I ever get that email, will call out sick and report a substance abuse issue, which will secure my job for at least a few months. All the while look for a new one.
I would request a formal evaluation for your son. This is a strategy used by many school districts to avoid the additional cost of special ed.
good honest stuff. Thanks.
Three years ago, I was happy with what I did for work because I was very passionate about it and I have just started working more hours and I thought I would be around at the same company for awhile Then once we were in Covid came into America yeah my job was at a car dealership.
Pretty much, I got laid off right away