So, I believe in second chances but, I’m not sure if I would give a second chance if he cheats on me. I don’t believe in cheating. I’m at the point in my life where I want to live a drama free life. I’m older now and, I just want to enjoy the rest of my life in a great relationship with a man of God that loves God for real!
Yeh once a cheater I would never be able to trust and would always be paranoid that ain’t healthy But if the split was just because you feel out of love then that’s different I have 2nd chance what a risk I took. I’ll be ok just focus on me DATE MYSELF
Same sis!!! In my situation we have a 20 history and a few years back we decided to give us a try and he’s such a great guy. Ugh why do relationships have to be so much work? Although I think this is God helping me to stay focused on what He wants me to do instead of focusing on this man.😝
Like please! And that’s the thing guys ask us for our number and time to waste it like we don’t have a life to live and things to do without being interrupted or distracted by a little boy!
@@90charim Those players. You didn't vet good enough to see through his smooth talking shit ma. And there are Plenty of women that we holla at that they give us their number and seem pretty interested...but don't text back after the 1st intro text. SMH 🤦♂️
Yea idc how stressed out you are there is no excuse for lack of communication especially when there has been a conversation concerning the matter! If you can’t send a txt or call to let me know what’s going on when it takes less than 3min I’m sure you gots to go! We had a great time Friday and had lunch then he disappeared over the weekend and txt me at 10:30 to tell me he stressed! Smh
Yeh we were amicable with each other then early this year he asked to start again like a fool I said why he goes coz it’s you tis always been you I prayed to God to help me make this decision so I just went with my gut extinct and he said let’s do this again. But 4 months in I was like feelings like this is not working and I said I don’t want this we either have a future or not he said I need space and No we don’t she future I said well it’s either we do or don’t so I just said NO I ghosted him. He’s been texting and today rang ‘pocket dialed he says’. But I didn’t reply I’m done with 2’d chances I just keep hurting myself But this time I never told anyone we were trying again so I feel the 2nd time around makes me stronger .
Never give them a chance because they will repeat the same offenses over and over again! If they done it before they will do it again. ACCESS DENIED FOREVER!
Is cheating a "mistake" that is deserving of this second chance? What if the expectation was clear (cheating is a deal-breaker) before the cheating happened? We've been broken up for a few years now, but he's sniffing around again...
Cind iubești trebuie sa găsesti puterea de a ierta. Atuncea ai devenit puternic într-adevăr. Cel care este iubit și iubește trebuie să găseasca echilibru. Uneori e nevoie de multa răbdare și unitate. Iubirea autentica vine cind nu te aștepți. Trebuie doar sa te lași iubit și sa iubești. Restul iubirea îți arata de ce. Acolo este răspunsul.
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How long before you can build that TRUST up again? It takes concious effort
That is so important to give the opportunity to lay out the expectations and discuss. This is good advice. Keep going sir💙❤💜.
So, I believe in second chances but, I’m not sure if I would give a second chance if he cheats on me. I don’t believe in cheating. I’m at the point in my life where I want to live a drama free life. I’m older now and, I just want to enjoy the rest of my life in a great relationship with a man of God that loves God for real!
Yeh once a cheater I would never be able to trust and would always be paranoid that ain’t healthy
But if the split was just because you feel out of love then that’s different
I have 2nd chance what a risk I took. I’ll be ok just focus on me DATE MYSELF
Going through the same and it's bad cause I really like him 😢
🙏🏼🙏🏼praying for you to get strength to do the right thing for you !
Same sis!!! In my situation we have a 20 history and a few years back we decided to give us a try and he’s such a great guy. Ugh why do relationships have to be so much work? Although I think this is God helping me to stay focused on what He wants me to do instead of focusing on this man.😝
I'm tired of that. Just leave me alone
Like please! And that’s the thing guys ask us for our number and time to waste it like we don’t have a life to live and things to do without being interrupted or distracted by a little boy!
@@90charim Those players. You didn't vet good enough to see through his smooth talking shit ma.
And there are Plenty of women that we holla at that they give us their number and seem pretty interested...but don't text back after the 1st intro text. SMH 🤦♂️
@@jayc5756 I’m not your ma & I did exactly what I supposed to do!
Yea idc how stressed out you are there is no excuse for lack of communication especially when there has been a conversation concerning the matter! If you can’t send a txt or call to let me know what’s going on when it takes less than 3min I’m sure you gots to go! We had a great time Friday and had lunch then he disappeared over the weekend and txt me at 10:30 to tell me he stressed! Smh
EXACTLY!!! Facts! Those my dealbreakers too. FR
You're Absolutely 💯
Yeh we were amicable with each other then early this year he asked to start again like a fool I said why he goes coz it’s you tis always been you I prayed to God to help me make this decision so I just went with my gut extinct and he said let’s do this again.
But 4 months in I was like feelings like this is not working and I said I don’t want this we either have a future or not he said I need space and No we don’t she future I said well it’s either we do or don’t so I just said NO
I ghosted him. He’s been texting and today rang ‘pocket dialed he says’. But I didn’t reply
I’m done with 2’d chances I just keep hurting myself
But this time I never told anyone we were trying again so I feel the 2nd time around makes me stronger .
Never give them a chance because they will repeat the same offenses over and over again! If they done it before they will do it again. ACCESS DENIED FOREVER!
Is cheating a "mistake" that is deserving of this second chance? What if the expectation was clear (cheating is a deal-breaker) before the cheating happened? We've been broken up for a few years now, but he's sniffing around again...
My dad told me. A cheater is t just a cheater -- It’s in their veins.
He didn't chase me back 😢💔💔💔💔So I let go of Him 💔💯
Cind iubești trebuie sa găsesti puterea de a ierta. Atuncea ai devenit puternic într-adevăr. Cel care este iubit și iubește trebuie să găseasca echilibru. Uneori e nevoie de multa răbdare și unitate. Iubirea autentica vine cind nu te aștepți. Trebuie doar sa te lași iubit și sa iubești. Restul iubirea îți arata de ce. Acolo este răspunsul.
💯 agree
I cant risk my peace .. 🚩means (“DANGER”)!