When A Man DOES THIS, He DESERVES A Second Chance

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Комментарии • 36

  • @StephanSpeaksClips
    @StephanSpeaksClips  Год назад +1

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  • @JackieS812
    @JackieS812 2 месяца назад +4

    I do believe in second chances with the exception of cheating! The key is changed behavior so we don’t have to keep giving the same second chance time and time again.

  • @sacampbr1
    @sacampbr1 Год назад +13

    The truth is hard to accept or face sometimes but necessary in order for us to learn from our mistakes and grow. Thanks again for your unfiltered truths, they surly make a difference in our lives… so thanks again!🙏🏾

  • @cryptointegrations9854
    @cryptointegrations9854 Год назад +14

    I just was broken up with. I have had a problem with alcohol and so this was my wake up call. I am quitting drinking now so it does not ruin my ability to be in relationships. It’s sad and hard but I have to learn from my mistakes.

  • @janetkirsten6233
    @janetkirsten6233 Год назад +5

    This has to be frontline information. Women are putting up with poor quality, sloppy partners and trying to coach, lecture men out of it. This is teaching men you have low standards, so don't complain when you are getting low output

  • @DS-wv7lf
    @DS-wv7lf Год назад +9

    Wow! God knew I needed this confirmation. Thank you again Stephan for saving me from me.

  • @Neecy
    @Neecy Год назад +7

    TRUE, SO TRUE, YOU CAN'T KEEP GETTING ANGRY ABOUT THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER!

  • @MiriamShelton-ed9ri
    @MiriamShelton-ed9ri Год назад +1

    Deliberately !!!!!

  • @vernvilar6922
    @vernvilar6922 Год назад +3

    Being cheated on is the worst. There's no heartbreak, just disgust/contempt.

  • @andreadrake4890
    @andreadrake4890 Год назад +2

    I didn't want to get married until my last kid was grown is something wrong with that, some men had a problem with it, I really don't care if they had a problem with it I'm just making a statement

  • @JC50-joy
    @JC50-joy Год назад +3

    Yup! Finding out he cheated was my answer! That was my closure! Good riddance!

  • @andreastarr9382
    @andreastarr9382 Год назад +3

    It takes a strong man to apologize and admit he's wrong. I've not experienced that. I'm usually the one owning up to my issues, but they can't seem to see their role. It takes 2.

    • @Pala-t2p
      @Pala-t2p 6 месяцев назад +2

      36M here...
      I wrote my ex of 5.5 years a lengthy e-mail about 10 months after we split - I apologized before but not in as much detail - where I explained all of where I went wrong in our relationship and all I got in return was "... we just turned into different people who wanted different things." 😂
      I learned a lot from that relationship and how to do better in the next one but for a guy that took full responsibility and accountability for his errors, it's pretty sad when you do all that and it didn't seem to matter one bit - lets just say that was my red pill moment 😝 I will mention also that there was no cheating, lying, abuse, theft, gaslighting, etc. in our relationship

    • @bannyadeka1180
      @bannyadeka1180 Месяц назад

      ​someday i will be with a man who can be honest and won up to his mistakes. Because I do, even for the smallest of things which may have hurt him.​@@Pala-t2p

  • @sheilasimmons1719
    @sheilasimmons1719 Год назад +1

    I certainly agree with you. We are talking about God's wisdom. Letting God do what he does oh so well we can't go wrong. God also gives us common sense to know when you need to walk away and don't look back.
    I agree the cheating is a blessing
    1 King 2: 19 tells us
    They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us;; but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 Год назад

    Hello Stephan, I always enjoy watching your empowering relationship advice videos. 😊

  • @Lorcan_Caradoc
    @Lorcan_Caradoc Год назад +1

    I do agree with this. I don't think people are bad. I feel people can be unaware of their own actions and behavior. How someone reacts to physical harm is understandable and unfortunate. When I really looked at the relationship, this person was controlling. The harm wasn't just physical but emotional. You could see that this person's life has been hurt so much. That now this person will hurt other's when they are upset and does not understand common sense. It was like everything was being blamed on me and that this person couldn't look in the mirror. The relationship was toxic but this one hasn't understood you cannot control another. This person blocked me and cannot look at themselves in the mirror. This person even controlled me upon what hairstyle she wants a male to have, this person also was controlling to not accept all of me for who I am, physical appearance wise. This person wanted me to be the guy of their dreams, not they guy who I am. I always make improvements upon myself, if I am in or out of a relationship. I still had this person's number in my phone when I looked at the whole relationship they did not deserve a second chance. They really did try to control me towards everything they wanted. Not what a guy should be.
    So thanks for this video, getting validation for what this person showed me. For sure it was a blessing that I got out of it.

  • @J-GMORE
    @J-GMORE Год назад +2

    Damn truth

  • @Kellyjosephine
    @Kellyjosephine Год назад +1

    Thank you confirmation ❤

  • @goddesskayeh9141
    @goddesskayeh9141 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this ♥️🙏🏽

  • @geribradley9354
    @geribradley9354 Год назад

    Yes sometimes it’s not God rejection but God protection. I’m glad God interfered because he knew I should not had given him a second chance only do him to do the same thing again. He has I knew he had unresolved childhood trauma, mommy & daddy issues immature a grown boy

  • @Aksingh43000
    @Aksingh43000 6 месяцев назад

    What if i have not cheated i had not done anything wrong i love her still i am facing problem...indeserve a second chance..please tell me how to tell her how to convence her that i really love her

  • @IslandGurl85
    @IslandGurl85 Год назад

    Can you show videos about second chances I’m in this situations now
    The other stuff fixable.

  • @MiriamShelton-ed9ri
    @MiriamShelton-ed9ri Год назад

    It was a Blessing . The Cheating, He got Caught. All a Blessing. Now what?!?!?

  • @staceysyvarth4452
    @staceysyvarth4452 Год назад

    The second cenario you described is exactly why I divorced my husband.

  • @staywellandstrong4199
    @staywellandstrong4199 Год назад

    Thank you, Very Much for: Gracious explanation = giving a chance for a solid understanding going forward. Everyone is raised differently. 👏

  • @shawanahickman6952
    @shawanahickman6952 Год назад +1

    No second chances 🙏🏽

  • @paulinewilliams9445
    @paulinewilliams9445 Год назад +4

    Yes Stephan I was so happy when God's intervention happened in my so call relationship because now I am free free free

    • @paulinewilliams9445
      @paulinewilliams9445 Год назад +1

      Free from the toxic dark movements of a narracisstic man thank you Jesus every thing is about him he never does any thing wrong I am the one who is always wrong thank you Jesus 😊 🙏 ❤️ ☺️ ♥️ 🙂

  • @thehitmaster102
    @thehitmaster102 Год назад +1

    Amen❤❤

  • @juliesalins-kennedy8846
    @juliesalins-kennedy8846 Год назад

    Very timely! Thank you!

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 Год назад +2

    EXACTLY!!! Thank You!

  • @trini_a_Lana
    @trini_a_Lana Год назад

  • @shan8613
    @shan8613 Год назад +2

    WOW 😯 I never saw the cheating part that way!!! I knew one can become stronger in the aftermath, but not break someone’s stubborn a$$ free to begin with. This man always goes above and beyond, makes him stand out of others, a true inspiration 🫡