Florida’s Crystal Pifer case: Boating death cover-up backfires

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  • Опубликовано: 6 мар 2020
  • On the night of August 11, 2015, Thomas Prins planned to take Crystal Pifer out on his boat on the Halifax River in Florida, a boat he bought from Crystal's ex-husband -- a boat he knew had mechanical problems. More: bit.ly/2TIl9AK

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  • @mdee860
    @mdee860 2 года назад +2130

    To all the women reading comments: My Mom told me this - "If someone ever hits you once, no matter how many apologies, flowers, gifts, etc. - don't ever see them again. If someone can hit you once, they'll do it again." TRUTH ladies. (Obviously, same applies to men, too!)

    • @WendySpeedpaints
      @WendySpeedpaints 2 года назад +37

      TRUTH

    • @01wonderful
      @01wonderful 2 года назад +31

      Truth indeed

    • @mdee860
      @mdee860 2 года назад +10

      @@WendySpeedpaints - 😘

    • @mdee860
      @mdee860 2 года назад +7

      @@01wonderful - 😘

    • @SKC193
      @SKC193 2 года назад +24

      I can attest to that! I got married young cause I wanted to get away from my mom & stepdad. Three months into the marriage, he broke my nose & blacked my eyes. This went on for 8 years! I was too proud to tell anyone. Even though it was obvious. This went on & every time he would apologize & swear it wouldn’t happen again! Then he would threaten to hurt me & my family if I left him. I believed him. Six years in, I got pregnant. I didn’t have any plans for kids but 2 years later, she was the reason I finally had the courage to leave. I was afraid of him hurting her. Even after the divorce he wouldn’t leave me alone! Later, I met a man from another state & he asked me to marry him & move. So I did! Even though my attorney told me that I absolutely could not do that. We eventually moved back here & he contacted me about seeing his daughter. I told him that he could pick her up from my husband & he wouldn’t do that! If he had to face another man & not see me, he refused! He never tried to see her again! Then 2 weeks before her 18th birthday, she died from a brain tumor. I let his sister know. He didn’t even attend her memorial service! He’s lower than chicken shit!

  • @maryjaneerardfineartllc4979
    @maryjaneerardfineartllc4979 3 года назад +2297

    How did a girl like that end up with this gross guy?

    • @redda2
      @redda2 3 года назад +216

      He must have a lot of money

    • @gregbester3855
      @gregbester3855 3 года назад +163

      Florida Man has many powers.

    • @joshuac6389
      @joshuac6389 3 года назад +190

      Drugs and money

    • @nickdura
      @nickdura 3 года назад +30

      Florida man... place is the home of... ::insert negative adjective::

    • @m.g.debruin8294
      @m.g.debruin8294 3 года назад +32

      Yep what is he ugly.

  • @kongmanythiphakhinkeo3345
    @kongmanythiphakhinkeo3345 Год назад +105

    The initial call by the older gentleman with his daughter should've been enough to dispatch the police over to help her! Why did they wait for the second call from the husband?? Apparently, that was way too late!! He already knew his wife was gone, the call he made was just a CYA (cover your ass)!! Poor beautiful lady! May her soul RIP!

    • @TacoMonster4eva
      @TacoMonster4eva Год назад +2

      Some people just don’t give a shit. 911, someone is beating her? Nah, things are ok.

    • @gjd1942
      @gjd1942 Год назад

      Exactly!

    • @BjorgenEatinger
      @BjorgenEatinger Месяц назад

      How did you know he was old?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Месяц назад

      It's not like they can send a cop car. They'd have to get the water police or something. That takes time. They DID get there.

  • @mmaggiehartt
    @mmaggiehartt Год назад +34

    At 22:45 Crystal says “I don’t want him (Tom) to hurt your daughter.” And swims back to her abuse. The fact that shows how much she cared for a stranger shows what an amazing person she was. Her brother broke my heart. May she rest easy 🥺

    • @johnl9977
      @johnl9977 Месяц назад +1

      This reminds me to stress with my daughter what to do if a man who claims to care for her, ever lays a hand on her. Some poor gals just do not understand that there is no excuse, and it will only get worse. A man willing to do that in the first place, does not change. Women need to realize that and get the hell away from him whatever it takes.

    • @jmtolerico
      @jmtolerico 18 дней назад

      Oh she's a nightmare

  • @gladnessmdugo7349
    @gladnessmdugo7349 3 года назад +1928

    Who else feels like the first 911 call could hv saved her??

  • @lisadeav73
    @lisadeav73 4 года назад +1465

    You don't have to even be a detective solve this case, the man killed her.

    • @Keepskatin
      @Keepskatin 4 года назад +11

      @KLN 4 🤔

    • @mehmeh7567
      @mehmeh7567 4 года назад +14

      KLN 4 Are you Mad, Angry or upset 🤔

    • @stanclcforclearskin5123
      @stanclcforclearskin5123 4 года назад +10

      @KLN 4 What is wrong with u like really that is disgusting 🤮you make me sick

    • @fcukugimmeausername
      @fcukugimmeausername 4 года назад +2

      @KLN 4 Sad to say this but you are correct :(

    • @teebeanie6174
      @teebeanie6174 4 года назад +3

      @@Debbietnp lmfaoooooo.....Maybe your right

  • @quita504j
    @quita504j 2 года назад +80

    It’s so disgusting how ppl lie after they murder someone.

    • @MK-ge2mh
      @MK-ge2mh 2 года назад +12

      Do you expect a murderer to be honest? Isn't the murder the disgusting part?

    • @hopeinfused7127
      @hopeinfused7127 2 года назад +3

      They're cowards that's why.

    • @David-vf7if
      @David-vf7if Год назад

      I hate that they’re hypocrites. That’s the worst thing you could be. - Norm McDonald

    • @JunaidWolf3
      @JunaidWolf3 Год назад +1

      It’s because they don’t want to be catch and they want to be innocent like they did it over defending themselves

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 Год назад

      I feel bad she worried so much about the daughter she probably wouldn't have been hurt because crystal was the target but it is common for abuse victims to be ashamed and not want others to get hurt

  • @TedsHoldOver
    @TedsHoldOver 2 года назад +135

    21:34 The dude looks like a giant toddler. The world is grateful that his arrogance and/or stupidity prevented him from uttering the words, "I'd like to speak to an attorney."

    • @michellegomez9114
      @michellegomez9114 2 года назад +4

      😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @freddiesandoval5047
      @freddiesandoval5047 Год назад +1

      When he said "not even 5 minutes ago"then says, ABOUT 10 MINUTES AGO 😂

    • @keythdanielsen8316
      @keythdanielsen8316 Год назад

      He's terrible liar.

    • @kayboy6055
      @kayboy6055 10 месяцев назад

      @@freddiesandoval5047 erm thats so negligible why even point it out.

  • @BARBAROSSAofficial
    @BARBAROSSAofficial 4 года назад +871

    "Not even 5 minutes ago, maybe 10 minutes ago...". That's not how math works, buddy.

    • @NoMoreBsPlease
      @NoMoreBsPlease 4 года назад +28

      Or time...

    • @goose7574
      @goose7574 4 года назад +24

      EXACTLY!
      And he was supposedly a smart man?
      Not so much!

    • @EllicottCity1
      @EllicottCity1 4 года назад +26

      😆 was hoping to see this comment!

    • @juniormcclure8501
      @juniormcclure8501 4 года назад +2

      😂😂🤣🤣

    • @rebellefleur435
      @rebellefleur435 4 года назад +17

      And her brother somehow found this guy 'articulate'. 🤨

  • @lorenzoflex7074
    @lorenzoflex7074 2 года назад +81

    What's sad about domestic violence is that when you going through it you almost in a state of shock because you can't believe what's happening. As bad as it sounds you try to fix it..and the whole time it's still getting worse and worse! The thought of everything going good and getting better overshadows your better judgement. Some people snap out of it and other wait until it's too late

    • @kissoffire1
      @kissoffire1 2 года назад +2

      And the worst of it is you believe it's your own fault - I didn't warn the next lady in the abuser's wife as I thought I had probably provoked him🙄🙄 We were also in a business relationship, and he had taken over control of all my finances, and I felt helpless without him.

    • @bjvu9460
      @bjvu9460 5 месяцев назад

      Really!!! domestic violence isnt new and have been around for centuries so why would you be shocked if it happened!!!
      women hate nerds and intelligent people and tend to like these type of on the edge guys. I bet if she was approached by a guy who spoke proper, well educated, wouldnt hurt a fly etc she would have still taken this guy over the one that she could push around .. So, why complain about things you look for in a man !!!

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Месяц назад

      It's a TRAUMA BOND. Experts say it stronger than heroine addiction and harder to break

  • @shantiaiyer
    @shantiaiyer Год назад +19

    The guy who tried to rescue her is a gem🙏🙏🙏
    And Crystal too. Poor brave lady.
    Beautiful inside and out.

  • @morries007
    @morries007 4 года назад +1583

    Note to self: Never light up a room...

    • @vaughangarrick
      @vaughangarrick 4 года назад +87

      that's what I always say. These murder victims always seem to have been the life of the party

    • @nazsic3503
      @nazsic3503 4 года назад +27

      Vaughan Hamilton the aspen lady is the only “bitch” that i’ve seen them do a story on😂

    • @jotarokujo3603
      @jotarokujo3603 4 года назад +24

      nazsic I watched one recently about a stripper and her mother was very forthcoming about her daughter, she clearly still loved her despite obviously disapproving of her lifestyle.
      It was very refreshing to actually get an accurate description and I actually felt a lot more sympathetic towards someone who seemed realistic, despite her being by far the most reckless victim I’ve seen.

    • @almonzowilder4091
      @almonzowilder4091 4 года назад +7

      Haaaa. Damn. Your comment beats mine. Good one.

    • @thejamnasium6447
      @thejamnasium6447 4 года назад +10

      haha they only cast people on Intervention if they "used to light up a room"

  • @NikkiC777
    @NikkiC777 4 года назад +1104

    That guy James Wagner with the boat who tried to rescue her was very brave. He acted like true hero and a gentleman. She should have stayed.

    • @hillbillymods2866
      @hillbillymods2866 4 года назад +74

      Sad part about that...he risked his well-being, his daughter's well-being, and she would have survived that night to take him back after they both sobered up. He did the right thing but the irony is defeating.

    • @ronibopshop
      @ronibopshop 4 года назад +80

      His boat could only carry 2, so if she stayed, it would have meant leaving his handicapped daughter with that monster until he could come back for her. That monster would have hurt that girl, Crystal knew that, and made the ultimate sacrifice. I wish she would have called her mom from the restaurant :( RIP Crystal

    • @NikkiC777
      @NikkiC777 4 года назад +21

      @@ronibopshop Well he had a fishing boat it definitely would hold more than 2 people. It was the small rowboat attached to that that supposedly would only carry 2. She could have stayed there they were fine. In fact the dinghy would most likely have also been fine for 3 people to ride back to shore. The reason she went back was because she was afraid her boyfriend would harm them. Plus lets say they couldn't make it back all 3 of them on the dinghy. Then they could've waited in the fishing boat for the police to come. I know what part you are talking about but I think that is just an assumption made by someone at the crime watch show or something.

    • @ronibopshop
      @ronibopshop 4 года назад +14

      @@NikkiC777 It's so sad 😞 I really wish things had turned differently. At least that horrible jerk is in prison.

    • @NikkiC777
      @NikkiC777 4 года назад +7

      @@ronibopshop It is sad. It's absolutely horrible that that happened to her. He is in prison where he belongs and he will never be able to hurt another young woman. I feel sorry for her and for her family.

  • @Ksizzle316
    @Ksizzle316 Год назад +13

    That brother really broke my heart. He wanted to stop his sisters abuse cycle but he couldn’t. My brother helped, rescued and forced me away from my abusive ex n at the time it really was a hard pattern to stop with all the love bombing after abusive episodes. It’s all manipulation.

  • @leemarie414
    @leemarie414 Год назад +32

    Battered and beaten, terrified. Still went back to protect others....sacrificed herself. I can name on one hand the amount of people I've met in my lifetime that have that much courage. She was/is amazing!

    • @divinecommerce3912
      @divinecommerce3912 Месяц назад +3

      She was drunk and dumb. She’s not a hero for abandoning her child for this landscaper 🤡

    • @leemarie414
      @leemarie414 Месяц назад

      @@divinecommerce3912 On one hand I can say we all see things differently. On the other I can say maybe I wasn't paying as much attention to the story as you. But then again, by the likes on my comment, you just might be crazy. I won't decide, I left all 3 options to the public.

    • @jmtolerico
      @jmtolerico 18 дней назад +2

      You're nuts. She wasn't trying to protect anybody

    • @leemarie414
      @leemarie414 18 дней назад

      @@jmtolerico well 32 people seem to disagree with you so who's really nuts here?

    • @jmtolerico
      @jmtolerico 18 дней назад

      @@leemarie414 like Mark Twain said often times the majority means all the idiots are on the same side of the fence

  • @arabbit9396
    @arabbit9396 3 года назад +1094

    He’s articulate?? Really, he sounds like a 5th grader.

    • @bigbawlzlebowski8886
      @bigbawlzlebowski8886 3 года назад +17

      @Tom Thumb Obama was articulate and had a sense of professionalism unlike trumpy poo

    • @katiemay139
      @katiemay139 3 года назад +11

      He sounds like Joe Pesci in the movie Gone Fishin'. If you haven't seen it just search it on RUclips and watch any clip. It's so uncanny and strange that I'm to the point of thinking that he saw the movie and decided to use his voice for the rest of his life lol.

    • @SusanWillful
      @SusanWillful 3 года назад +3

      @@katiemay139 Or vice versa.

    • @chitown3368
      @chitown3368 3 года назад +2

      @Tom Thumb what trash. Florida, Texas, or Troll?

    • @chitown3368
      @chitown3368 3 года назад +4

      I get it now. You're twelve. I'm not gonna waste my time with you

  • @kdbwiz
    @kdbwiz 3 года назад +1140

    “Thomas wasn’t the most appealing guy”
    - understatement of the decade

    • @joniworthy2602
      @joniworthy2602 3 года назад +9

      😭

    • @vienogola1421
      @vienogola1421 2 года назад +11

      I wish he lit up the room and. He'd be toast.

    • @HeroHeather
      @HeroHeather 2 года назад +67

      She was way too beautiful and good for that low life crazy creep!🥲

    • @kdbwiz
      @kdbwiz 2 года назад +3

      @@HeroHeather yup 👍🏻

    • @debbysinger60
      @debbysinger60 2 года назад +27

      She could have done wayyyy better !!

  • @brittbrat4977
    @brittbrat4977 Год назад +77

    Thank you for covering this tragedy. I'm from New Smyrna Beach, neighboring to Daytona Beach. This guy was a real creep. Crystal didn't deserve this, but then again who really does, right? Sending prayers and comfort to her loved ones, especially her son❤

    • @drock7325
      @drock7325 Год назад +11

      I agree I'm from Ormond bch and worked on this man's vehicles many times I would have never thought he was a monster.

    • @bjvu9460
      @bjvu9460 5 месяцев назад +2

      why didnt he deserve what he paid for? who decide who deserves what and why was she better than him !

    • @Mike-01234
      @Mike-01234 4 месяца назад +3

      Always the same story good looking girls go for these types of guys while rejecting the good and decent men out there who would treat them right. I know you might think I'm one of those guys who blame woman like an Incel nope I'm on my 2nd marriage happy for 25 years. I dated was rejected many times by these types mostly because I was shorter than most men. My friend's sister was like this she always had mean disrespectful men who were tall good looking had money she loved trying to make them happy.

    • @gomersmith1061
      @gomersmith1061 4 месяца назад +1

      Prayers!!!
      What exactly is your intended outcome of prayers?
      Resurrection?
      Reincarnation in another form?
      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Group_Anonymous
      @Group_Anonymous 4 месяца назад +1

      “Creep”🤣 dude is a murderer

  • @Ariel-ut8fp
    @Ariel-ut8fp Год назад +24

    Don't argue with anyone when you don't have protection on you. I don't argue with anyone period just because you never know who you're dealing with even if they're family.
    It shouldn't take so much to arrest someone. People are gonna lie if they're guilty 99% of the time so needing a confession is shouldn't be a thing. I've seen cases that we're undeniable according to evidence but just because a person won't admit to the crime.
    Side note don't give every ugly guy a chance

    • @kayboy6055
      @kayboy6055 10 месяцев назад

      You shouldnt be afraid to go to a bar dressed up because youre afraid someones gonna assault you. Its the same logical rule and basically you shouldnt be afraid to speak your mind

  • @susiepoo51
    @susiepoo51 4 года назад +1581

    Why didn’t the first dispatch call respond anyway? That would’ve saved her life!

    • @BE-ho6kz
      @BE-ho6kz 3 года назад +60

      Exactly!

    • @Get2cash
      @Get2cash 3 года назад +111

      9 out of 10 times they won’t 🤦‍♀️ Too busy eating donuts

    • @willbrown423
      @willbrown423 3 года назад +46

      I’m guessing they called it off when the guy calling them said the girl was going back

    • @Goldiegirl2009
      @Goldiegirl2009 3 года назад +67

      @sue downey - she was strangled. She was dead when she hit the water - no fluid/water in her lungs. I agree they should have responded from the first 911 call. That dispatcher needs to be retaught his job.

    • @charleyshaaz
      @charleyshaaz 3 года назад +18

      She was dead already when she thrown off the boat

  • @xsupahx9619
    @xsupahx9619 3 года назад +518

    “He beats me because he loves me” .... what my neighbor said when others told her to leave her abusive bf. Ladies, if a man beats you he doesn’t love you. Move on with your life!

    • @Sueloveschoc
      @Sueloveschoc 3 года назад +33

      There’s a lot of mental abuse and breakdown of the person’s self esteem before the abuser takes control. At some point. Your neighbor would’ve been made to believe that how she was behaving wasn’t right and that he was “correcting her” for her good. Which sounds logical but isn’t.

    • @jeananig3613
      @jeananig3613 3 года назад +4

      I just don't get this women for me even pointing a finger is a very huge red flag

    • @Kaigirl27
      @Kaigirl27 3 года назад +8

      I will never understand how a woman stays with a man like that! I’m blessed I e never had an abusive bf but damn, I feel for those girls. I guess no self love will do that.

    • @unaninanine3743
      @unaninanine3743 3 года назад +3

      @@Kaigirl27 I honestly don't understand any of them. I suspect there's a lot of sexual fetishism involved. After getting beaten up, they go on to have sex and more children with them. Idon'tgeddit!

    • @luisaranadi483
      @luisaranadi483 3 года назад +3

      She was just 20 dating a 40 year old.. out wouldn't be easy for her . A man who could be old enough to b her father would talk his way through her. And she would stay .. poor girl

  • @user-sl8gp6gs4d
    @user-sl8gp6gs4d 7 месяцев назад +6

    She was strangled and thrown into the water then he went on to say that she had jumped off the boat. Killers lie all the time more than ever. Justice was served. RIP Crystal

  • @etherealradar
    @etherealradar Год назад +6

    Boat can only take two people? Give me a life jacket and tow me.

  • @kimberlykv4313
    @kimberlykv4313 4 года назад +694

    How is that creepy old dude with that pretty young gal? He looks like her grandpa.

    • @Jessesgirl0307
      @Jessesgirl0307 4 года назад +16

      For some reasons younger girls go for older guys.
      The first time he touched her she should of left and never talked to him again. But damn it if they don't go back.

    • @oliverxhmll
      @oliverxhmll 4 года назад +57

      She was addicted to meth. There are many mugshots of her showing her decay. That's why she was easily manipulated by this ugly goblin

    • @m.downie4031
      @m.downie4031 4 года назад +3

      @Dodge Ram Nailed it

    • @pattymelt20002000
      @pattymelt20002000 4 года назад +9

      @Dodge Ram but she could have found a better looking supplier...he's bad

    • @cleew8762
      @cleew8762 4 года назад +31

      Sv Vr exactly. I saw 4 mugshots and it was grand theft, stolen property , contempt of court. She was beautiful but she was on a path of destruction.

  • @janeillepitter
    @janeillepitter 4 года назад +1859

    Ladies if a guy is abusive don't ignore the signs. LEAVE !! I know it can be hard but it’s definitely not worth your life 🤍

    • @Lonesome__Dove
      @Lonesome__Dove 4 года назад +64

      Also, dont do meth.

    • @101Meeko101
      @101Meeko101 4 года назад +54

      You say leave like it’s easy, lots of woman feel trapped and have no where to go or feel there will be more retaliation if they leave. Sadly how it goes

    • @sal6641
      @sal6641 4 года назад +65

      Ghost in the Shell those scratches are from her trying to save her life after he strangled her with her own bikini top

    • @KevinJohnson-sm4jc
      @KevinJohnson-sm4jc 4 года назад +21

      There are reasons SOME people have no place to go, lots of times people have alienated their family and friends because of abuse or drugs. If rather sleep in my car than get beat up

    • @WillBlindYouWithLight
      @WillBlindYouWithLight 4 года назад +20

      We need to define abusive.
      Mentally. Physically. Emotionally.
      If he is controlling, jealous of everyone you know even family. If he throws a fit, screaming, yelling, gaslighting you when he doesn't get his way.
      Say good bye AFTER you are safe and far away from him. It gets worse, and it can and will last a lifetime.

  • @tybussy1912
    @tybussy1912 4 года назад +965

    Damn he even said “after we got in an accident...ughh I mean an argument” guilty right there

    • @TheMason011396
      @TheMason011396 4 года назад +9

      Tyce Abbott I noticed that too.

    • @nota4688
      @nota4688 4 года назад +16

      Tyce Abbott isn’t that like a Freudian slip or whatever

    • @weantoine
      @weantoine 4 года назад +11

      @@nota4688 SURE IS! He kept slippin ! Oh my hand prints will be on her neck from sex. Oh I was all of my clothes...on and on and on he confessed. IDIOT

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 4 года назад +6

      Yes, he let out a freudian slip!

    • @wynncrmll5
      @wynncrmll5 4 года назад +10

      “Uh not even 5mins ago maybe 10mins ago” 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @scaredy-cat
    @scaredy-cat 4 месяца назад +4

    Bad choices have consequences

  • @ascent8487
    @ascent8487 Год назад +15

    Oh. When she expressed concern for the strangers daughter, someone she’d never met, my heart broke. The world lost a good one.

  • @ali56
    @ali56 4 года назад +302

    So he has a history of beating her, was last seen violently arguing with her on a boat in the middle of nowhere, and she washes up the next day with bruises all over her face and body. I'm not the world's greatest detective but still...

    • @catrinahartz944
      @catrinahartz944 3 года назад +3

      Remember they were drinking also. You aren't in the best shape to swim anywhere with alcohol in your body. Just saying. And he was punching her in her head, she probably passed out in the water and died but he caused it!

    • @jaymeedillon9361
      @jaymeedillon9361 3 года назад +6

      @@catrinahartz944 well no she died from asphyxiation. There was no water in her lungs, did you even watch it?

    • @steviejrr
      @steviejrr 3 года назад +1

      they need evidence bud they knew he did it all along

    • @JessBlake2
      @JessBlake2 3 года назад +1

      Yes and the cops didn't look for her. "She swam to shore" and they towed him in.

    • @canefan17
      @canefan17 2 года назад

      Ya, I’ve seen them hold people for less (knowing they’d get the evidence they needed).
      He’s obviously a flight risk.

  • @lind5929
    @lind5929 3 года назад +643

    The nature of abusive relationships should be taught in the early part of high school. This tragedy is repeated so often.

    • @Duval-Dame
      @Duval-Dame 2 года назад +16

      I totally agree. It should be some type of class teenage kids take to recognize the signs and how to get out of a abuse relationship or person.

    • @marknasia5293
      @marknasia5293 2 года назад +5

      Condoms and safe sex are taught in 7th grade yet teenage pregnancy is on the rise. Do you really think public schools are successful at teaching? In the US alone the illiteracy rate is on the rise, high school drops outs increasing. You want the schools to teach how to spot abuse. Why not just have send the kids a link to true crime daily, wouldn’t that be enough. Do you really need a curriculum in a public forum to teach kids about abusive relationships? Most kids can’t label 50 states correctly if given a blank map of the US. At what point are the parents not responsible to be parents? Abusive relationship is so vague in terminology, it could apply to just about anything. “Mom, the teacher forcing me to read chapters 11 and 12 in one night, when i was supposed to watch twilight has turned into an abusive relationship and I think i need to report her.” They are teens, you actually think they are listening to the teachers?

    • @01wonderful
      @01wonderful 2 года назад +4

      @@marknasia5293 🤦 dude stop. Sex education is great and people do learn from it. There is nothing you can do because of the tiktok and all the stupid trendy social media mentality. If some popular teenage kid on tiktok gets pregnant you bet your arse the mob will follow suit and you'll have teens getting pregnant just because it's cool. Abuse isn't a broad spectrum, the moment you see a child being beaten, with bruises a over the body, when they are belittled, mocked, bullied and shamed for who they are then you don't say "hmm I wonder if that classifies as abuse" you go straight to the authorities and say "THIS IS ABUSE". If my kid goes and says that I didn't let him play Minecraft and told him to do his homework and he'll call CPS , do you know what the guys on the phone will say" WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD DO YOUR HOMEWORK FIRST" and hang up.
      There is nothing wrong in teaching kids what abuse is. Instead of shoving down their throats that they have no gender or they are gay or to accept pedos as "humans with special need"( like they do in UK) it's better to teach them self defence, how to get away from abuse, how not to get pregnant and not follow everything they see online.
      Not all parents are perfect, there are people that were abused and now they abuse because that's the only way they can cope with everything. There are people that are sick in the mind and don't even classify as human beings. We are all different and there are people out there that behave worst than animals. It benefits to have someone else tell you what an abusive relationship is, sometimes you don't see it yourself. I didn't see it that my parents favour my sister over me until my husband pointed it out. How she gets to do whatever she wants, she screams at my parents, insults them and has tantrums at 21. While I'm here working my arse off, getting mocked for my life choices that don't even interfere with anyone or have any negative impact on anyone, constantly told how to parent my child, gaslight into sending him away to spend time with grandma and grandpa that spend every day and night with guests or out and about during a pandemic🤷🏻‍♀️. Being cared a stuck up b when I said "don't hand my kid to people I don't know" and then have the kid handed to the whole village. I didn't see because I love them.

    • @marknasia5293
      @marknasia5293 2 года назад +3

      @@01wonderful any parent that thinks that schools are there to teach basics of life, like abuse is wrong is failing as a parent. Thank you for pointing that out. And if you look as statistics, countries with little or no internet, or tiktok have some of the highest teenage unwed birth rates. You really are forgetting there is an entire world besides 1s world/developed countries. Even telling me to stop, laughable. Using terms like “gaslight” seriously thanks for sharing all about your family, Schools are failing to teach children reading, writing and arithmetic, proper non-biased history and the classics. They don’t teach cursive handwriting and are completely failing students. I saw this first hand in 2001 of how teens were graduating HS, but couldn’t complete the first semester/term at a local college because they were ill prepared. Public schools are horribly unaccountable for failing, and yes, the first responsibility resides at home. If you allow the “village” to raise your child good luck with that, it doesn’t work in trailer parks or section 8 housing, history is proof enough. Why ask public schools to teach something that should have been taught by the parents? Another good reason that parents shouldn’t entrust their children to daycare, too much. Sometimes, of course baby sitting and day care is needed; however, the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world. If parents would stop dumping their kids off as daycare being ran with good people, (not saying they are bad people) but most people working at a daycare are not “Childhood development graduates” they normally are highschool drop outs, mothers desperate for work and this doesn’t make them bad people, just maybe not the right person to be influencing children. I left the US in 2004 when i realized that what was acceptable as far as a lack of standards was too much. In society, entertainment, religion, public education, a lack of any reinforced standards, not to mention the shell shock i had when i realized how many parents were over medicating their children on permanently mind altering substances as a chemical baby sitter. I was working in a govt job interacting with teens about to graduate, and they couldn’t do simple math, fractions, long division, etc. They couldn’t actually do basic math without a calculator. I worked daily with public schools in 3 counties going to a different school about ever other day. There were 14 schools total 1 of which was private and very expensive. The smartest teens, (because i was involved in testing them in a multi battery aptitude test) were actually the homeschooled teens. Many were under a program being supervised by a local church etc, but these were the kids of parents that couldn’t afford the super expensive private school 2K a month, and didn’t want to fail their kids with public school. 2 of the 13 public schools actually did a pretty decent job of educating the teens. They were large schools and had strict principals had a total hands on approach to trying to get that children (hound adults) to succeed or to set them up for success. The other 11 schools were a complete waste of taxpayer money, basically young teen daycare.
      I understand abuse, and before schools can really teach concepts like abuse, they need at least one person that has 90 post secondary education focusing on counseling concerning abuse. Abuse is such a broad and generic term it will be coopted into teaching trends. Daycare could teach abuse is wrong. Whoever you are talking about throwing tantrums at 21, “why don’t they have their own place, own job and own bills, that would do wonders to not give them time to have tantrums, especially at 21.
      Do you normally silence people’s opinions online?

    • @abdulhadi9948
      @abdulhadi9948 2 года назад +4

      Stupidity should be a crime

  • @keepingit100integrity4
    @keepingit100integrity4 2 года назад +22

    Such an awesome little brother. So sad. Thank God for so many bystanders and may God bless that man with the handicapped daughter that tried to save her. May he have peace and comfort knowing he did all he could do, in Jesus's name. Amen

  • @jonathanmosher72
    @jonathanmosher72 Год назад +3

    I've physically defended two women from there abusive boyfriends. They both said the same thing "don't, he'll hurt you" in both instances the only thing I suffered was being a little out of breath.

  • @crystalvillareal3729
    @crystalvillareal3729 4 года назад +777

    Damn I'm so glad I don't light up a room! Every girl that does lands up getting killed!

    • @changes2015
      @changes2015 4 года назад +18

      Crystal Villareal right?!? Cuz dull folx don’t get murdered.

    • @bootboy710
      @bootboy710 4 года назад +16

      Crystal? Ironic

    • @Saltine_American
      @Saltine_American 4 года назад +21

      Crystal Villareal I bet you do light up a room and you just don’t know it 🙂

    • @michellelowe7082
      @michellelowe7082 4 года назад +24

      @J P I don't know who u were watching because the guy in this video looks broke as hell!

    • @taradactule6052
      @taradactule6052 4 года назад +6

      Ive dated older men my whole life..both broke and with a lot of money..of course I have always worked a lot of hours and took care of myself...ive dated some real a holes but these types of situations aren't an epidemic..that I know of anyways lol

  • @anthonydeltoro5207
    @anthonydeltoro5207 3 года назад +690

    The fathers smile after saying just give me 10 minutes with him was GOLD

    • @ellemmenn2930
      @ellemmenn2930 3 года назад +40

      I bet he’s thinking of all the lovely things he’d like to do to that piece of crap for taking his daughter’s life

    • @warshipsatin8764
      @warshipsatin8764 3 года назад +18

      he'll never get those 10 minutes and his daughter will always be dead

    • @lyndamoong5142
      @lyndamoong5142 3 года назад +1

      I think the husband was framed by cops and his wife's family. This could be a wrong coviction. The husband story seems to be true and that's possible

    • @Belle-ql1jd
      @Belle-ql1jd 3 года назад +2

      @@lyndamoong5142 what? you think the husband was right?

    • @kummakummakummakummakummac8606
      @kummakummakummakummakummac8606 3 года назад +23

      He knew the man beat his daughter to the point she was bleeding and didn't do anything about it. He should have done something then.

  • @myrtellelee2857
    @myrtellelee2857 Год назад +3

    The first time you hit me, shame on you. The second time you hit me, shame on me.

  • @XXccvm
    @XXccvm 2 года назад +4

    I know he's a creep, but when will people learn; NEVER let yourself be interrogated without a lawyer! NEVER!

  • @drewsg22
    @drewsg22 3 года назад +283

    "She's not a very good swimmer" sounds like she was swimming just fine every other time she jumped in the water and why did they not send someone out when the guy called 911 the first time

    • @philiptucker7590
      @philiptucker7590 2 года назад +6

      Police really don’t like any involvement into domestic disputes sadly

  • @jriley4131
    @jriley4131 3 года назад +807

    Her kindness and selflessness regarding his disabled daughter is so heartbreaking.

    • @bdmenne
      @bdmenne 2 года назад +20

      I don't believe that shit. She prolly felt bad having a young girl see such a wreck of a woman as a disappointment. I totally believing she jumped out of their boat out of shame and not wanting to lose her meal ticket with the troll.

    • @deannamarshall8894
      @deannamarshall8894 2 года назад +54

      @@bdmenne Wow, you sound bitter.
      I can see her being embarrassed and not wanting the police to be involved.

    • @bdmenne
      @bdmenne 2 года назад +6

      @@deannamarshall8894 I know shame. It takes over your mind & body. And if you know shame, it is often born in early childhood where our Shane care givers put it, (to feel better themselves) that is an addicts dream though.
      Children are often VERY triggering, even just their existence, their innocence, anger and definitely happiness.
      And a good father-figure in the Good Samaritan Could literally throw her back in the water as shame-facing is OFTEN “worse than death”.
      I have run away FASTER from the sweetest people in the world than I have the toxic that are dependent w/ & on me. It’s a shit show. It’s what helps people throw themselves off buildings.
      Yes, I’m unresolved, but I’m taking steps. 🙏🏼

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 года назад +2

      Wait what? Who had a disabled daughter? Thought she just had her own son it said?

    • @Anthony.and.Bigsis
      @Anthony.and.Bigsis 2 года назад

      @@bdmenne no way ..he prob k×lled her and threw her off the boat. No one just jumps off a boat in the dark and tries to swim to the shore like that in cold dark water with other boats driving around. That's just stupid AF.

  • @k.m.5819
    @k.m.5819 2 года назад +7

    Rest in peace Krystal 🕊🌻
    Prayers for your family and friends 🙏

  • @billmeriwether605
    @billmeriwether605 2 года назад +4

    Look at beautiful Crystal …… and then look at that apology of a guy she “found” ……. What a cautionary tale - sickeningly real and horrific

  • @jamesoskey5582
    @jamesoskey5582 3 года назад +1046

    Unbelievable unbelievable how the f*** did he get a girl like that and then end up killing her

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 3 года назад +101

      He was jealous that she was beautiful, and he knew he would never be her true match...true story!

    • @disneyfanatic9658
      @disneyfanatic9658 3 года назад +132

      James Oskey. He got her because she had low self esteem. Just because she’s beautiful, doesn’t mean she likes herself. It’s true. It happens every time. A guy friend of mine, told me, guys can sense, when a woman has low self esteem. I believe it.

    • @vanadians3819
      @vanadians3819 3 года назад +39

      @@disneyfanatic9658 thats why he killed her, he was never going to be able to keep her to himself any other way.

    • @michaelcarpenter7044
      @michaelcarpenter7044 3 года назад +1

      Not

    • @asmrjudie
      @asmrjudie 3 года назад +34

      So that's what I was about to comment. What did she even see in that!? She was beautiful!

  • @jeanfish7
    @jeanfish7 4 года назад +460

    Worst quote ever, " she lit up the room..."

    • @dd-xz7je
      @dd-xz7je 4 года назад +8

      Just what i thought

    • @HereIsWisdom1318
      @HereIsWisdom1318 4 года назад +1

      Why?

    • @wafawaffles
      @wafawaffles 4 года назад +38

      @@HereIsWisdom1318 Because it's so overused

    • @Jordyn_loveeew
      @Jordyn_loveeew 4 года назад +65

      You ain’t lying! When I die, Just tell the truth, tell them I was a bitch and I literally hated everyone...

    • @drholly3940
      @drholly3940 4 года назад +5

      Diane Parr LMFAOOOO

  • @MrHarley950
    @MrHarley950 2 года назад +4

    That would be almost every dad's wish; I just wish I could have 10 minutes with him. RIP Crystal.

  • @flaviuskern225
    @flaviuskern225 4 месяца назад +3

    Wow, self esteem, or lack there of, got this girl killed…no other way to explain how a girl like that ends up with such a crumb of a man.

  • @xokree
    @xokree 4 года назад +253

    The cops didn't think it was weird for this man to "just go home," after his girlfriend jumped in the middle of the water during the night?

  • @jamiemichael4190
    @jamiemichael4190 4 года назад +469

    “Not even 5 min ago, maybe 10 min ago” 🤔🤔🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @gradeez
      @gradeez 4 года назад +18

      That's what I thought 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @lilarussell3203
      @lilarussell3203 4 года назад +17

      Right I'm like huh 😒...you suppose to say a lesser time(1-3 mins)wtf #GuiltyAsf

    • @candacemail1
      @candacemail1 3 года назад +7

      I noticed that too I was like wait what lol

    • @rickg5597
      @rickg5597 3 года назад +10

      you had an accident? I said we had an argument! 🙄

    • @luxurykills415
      @luxurykills415 3 года назад +1

      I was literally about to type that

  • @griseldabankroll
    @griseldabankroll 2 года назад +9

    “I wanted to smell her again” I sniff my babies everyday because I love them soo much . Idk if it’s just a mom thing but I can only imagine her pain 😢

    • @shaheerbajoo2865
      @shaheerbajoo2865 2 года назад

      My daughter is just 1 years old n I smell my daughter ever chance I get, it's very calming... This was my daughter he only get that first chance he hit her and it's would be over. Am not sure but what goes on in people mind? men should protect our women not hurt them.... father we have to teach our princess self defense. This world full of poor excuses for men.

  • @savvyelder4588
    @savvyelder4588 4 года назад +499

    Let’s all take a minute to appreciate James Wagner such a kind hearted man

  • @christinaharris2504
    @christinaharris2504 4 года назад +294

    This poor girl went back to bf fearing he would hurt the man and his daughter that called 911. If that isn't proof he killed her I don't know what is.

    • @sherpaderpdingo3405
      @sherpaderpdingo3405 4 года назад +4

      She was high as a kite. If you've ever been around someone like that they think and say a lot of things that aren't true.

    • @tiffanyjohnson103
      @tiffanyjohnson103 3 года назад

      sherpaderp dingo wowwww

    • @101kasus9
      @101kasus9 3 года назад

      @@sherpaderpdingo3405 what do you mean. Were she use meth?

    • @sherpaderpdingo3405
      @sherpaderpdingo3405 3 года назад +5

      @@101kasus9 she was a tweaker. And they literally do and say shit all the time to manipulate a situation to their favour. Anyone that says otherwise has never been around meth addicts

    • @Flatleava
      @Flatleava 3 года назад

      sherpaderp dingo she was using some worse than dope?

  • @KHallesy
    @KHallesy 4 месяца назад +2

    My heart and prayers go out to the family. May they find peace.

  • @yolandaporter6914
    @yolandaporter6914 Год назад +1

    The fact that the 1st 911 operator didn’t send police out was horrible. She wasn’t even concerned. She could have saved her life!

  • @daniellamccarthy2181
    @daniellamccarthy2181 3 года назад +713

    I love how she was worried for the callers daughter she knew she was risking her life but still thought of others❤️

    • @Dannniellleee
      @Dannniellleee 3 года назад +1

      Should have grabbed a weapon....

    • @sleepless9994
      @sleepless9994 3 года назад +1

      @@Dannniellleee if I remember correctly the callers boat was a dingy? What type of weapon would you have on a dingy and the caller said there was 2 men beating on her? What can a girl do against 2 men? She clearly can’t overpower them
      EDIT: it was a row boat

    • @Dannniellleee
      @Dannniellleee 3 года назад +1

      @@sleepless9994 Im not a boater and I wasn’t thinking that far... but I would have to grab something if possible, especially on the water in the dark... but typically abused ppl struggle standing up to their abusers (bullies) anyway... 🤷🏽‍♀️
      I just wish her fate was different, and I hope other people in abusive situations know their life is too valuable to not fight.

    • @scarlettletterman9271
      @scarlettletterman9271 3 года назад +12

      She knew his danger and didn't want anyone else to suffer. I know first hand. God bless her and her family

    • @julesasher105
      @julesasher105 3 года назад +10

      That moment when she says she “doesn’t want him to hurt your daughter” absolutely hurts my heart. What an amazingly selfless woman. I watch a lot of these but this really got me.

  • @MN-de9ek
    @MN-de9ek 4 года назад +123

    The first time that man called the dispatcher..they should have sent somebody out to do a welfare check on her.

    • @sanchez831tech
      @sanchez831tech 3 года назад +5

      dispatchers dont give a dam about any case ,they want to figure out the story while people are getting killed ,they are stupid workers

    • @joanamariee_cruz
      @joanamariee_cruz 3 года назад

      Exactly!

    • @iambored678
      @iambored678 3 года назад +3

      A patrol boat responded to the 9-1-1 call that night but didn't find Prins, Pifer or their vessel. Prosecutors said Prins had turned off his engine and lights and was drifting off channel to avoid being seen. (Taken from an article)

    • @aiqf3189
      @aiqf3189 3 года назад

      Exactly, they could save her life

    • @aiqf3189
      @aiqf3189 3 года назад

      @@sanchez831tech I agree.. they should drive off once the caller tells the location of the incident, but they still questioning him .. so terrible

  • @deborahkurek2988
    @deborahkurek2988 29 дней назад +1

    Condolences to Crystal's family. Her sweet spirit will live forever in your hearts.
    Yes violence, harassment, stalking and others evils need to be exposed and be brought to light.

  • @cree187
    @cree187 2 года назад +2

    The way the dad says he just wants ten minutes with him and then smiles the way he does…I wish he was able to get his ten minutes

  • @sp-qj3uv
    @sp-qj3uv 4 года назад +299

    This is sad and horrible, as a DV survivor, this is a wake up for anyone staying in an abusive relationship. She went on the boat with him after she returned to him from previous abuse. my Dad's advise when I said he will kill me if I leave. Dad "He has a better chance to kill you if you stay." There are resources, get out

    • @berserko2008
      @berserko2008 4 года назад +9

      Best move you ever made in that situation.... ain't no point sticking around....

    • @OGitGirlJess
      @OGitGirlJess 4 года назад +12

      At some point you have to decide “I’m either going to stay here and live and die as a prisoner or I’m going to at least try to free myself and have a chance at life.” So many of us have been there. May GOD bless this poor girl’s soul and may HE bring as much peace as is humanly possible to her family. 🙏😞✝️🥀💔🕊

    • @berserko2008
      @berserko2008 4 года назад +4

      @@OGitGirlJess very true....

    • @johnnydtractive
      @johnnydtractive 4 года назад +8

      I'm glad you made it out alive.

    • @naturalhealthrevolution1518
      @naturalhealthrevolution1518 4 года назад +2

      So sad. Its a choice to stay or leave

  • @leelovegl
    @leelovegl 4 года назад +543

    Wow , after enduring a beating from this man she’s offered a ride to safety and she was worried about the handicap daughter and turned down the help. That speaks volumes to her character heroic act she can be remembered by .

    • @ritawashere5787
      @ritawashere5787 4 года назад +18

      I felt that way too. Although she was drunk and perhaps she simply went back to him because of abusive relationships are like yo-yos. Back and forth back and forth. but it is nice to think of it like that. My hat's off to the Good Samaritan that was willing to help her. He tried everything to get her to safety. He must feel really bad. It's a shame that people's poor choices in life can visit their misery on others. Every life has value to someone even for those that don't value their own. It's sad.

    • @chrisrichardson6527
      @chrisrichardson6527 4 года назад +9

      @@ritawashere5787 If you are witnessing this abuse and just let her go without waiting for the police or following her home... You're not that good of a person

    • @danoid7998
      @danoid7998 4 года назад +5

      She was an idiot

    • @lauraprewitt7475
      @lauraprewitt7475 4 года назад +19

      Chris Richardson this girl jumped into the sailboat dingy which was probably float a few feet behind his sailboat. He doesn’t know what’s going on & it’s dark outside with his handicap daughter onboard. He did what he could for her. Honestly he did more & offered more than most would in his shoes. He offered her refuge until someone could get there at risk to himself & his daughter. What was he supposed to do? She jumped back into the other boat & they floated away in a matter of a minute. I think the guy in the sailboat was a hero that night & had he not called 911, there wouldn’t be a record of the ongoing drama between the 2 people. It’s not like he could just step in between dude beating her ass.... HE WAS ON SAILBOAT! I can promise you that if I didn’t know these people & I got girl telling me the boyfriend would hurt my child, that would be the extent of the help she would get from me as well. She was offered help & chose to go back & only she knows why. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @HELLRZR-nm3vv
      @HELLRZR-nm3vv 2 года назад +13

      After a long history of bad choices, this is just one more bad choice that led to the end of her life.

  • @nilswestman4013
    @nilswestman4013 2 года назад +1

    Beside this tragedy.
    What a beautiful mother.

    • @jmtolerico
      @jmtolerico 18 дней назад

      If she was such a beautiful mother she would be with the biological father

  • @nicoleallen6792
    @nicoleallen6792 4 месяца назад +1

    One time me and my parents were out on our boat drinking at an island and the boat kept stalling and the way home and me and my mom got in to it and i jumped off and swam to shore and walked 4 hours home but was still about a mile away when my mom pulled up in her car to pick me up (i jumped off near a bar about 5 miles from home, i thought itd be an hour walk tops)
    So the boat stopping and going made it take them forever to get home to our creek so when they finally did, she hopped in her car and found me and she was freaking out because i was 18, drunk, walking home in the dark in only a bikini.. it was a dumb move ill admit, but it was just a heat of the moment thing and i was too stubborn to go back.
    Lord thank you for letting me make it back safely. ❤

  • @baierrrr28
    @baierrrr28 3 года назад +148

    Oh my god I HATE this guy and I’ve never even met him. Not letting her grieving mom come get her clothes?? EVIL.

  • @blueshootingstar6155
    @blueshootingstar6155 4 года назад +280

    note: ask friends and family if you light up the room and if they say yes, dim down.

    • @jesseblack3550
      @jesseblack3550 3 года назад +17

      Savage 😂

    • @natalierozean5989
      @natalierozean5989 3 года назад +13

      Damn... i don’t even know what to say to that...Brilliantly heartbreaking statement. I can’t imagine ever saying that to my daughter. Yet, so true.

    • @eb8681
      @eb8681 3 года назад

      Lmfao😂

    • @carlabeckford6021
      @carlabeckford6021 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @christinagriz3736
      @christinagriz3736 3 года назад +7

      Or shine brighter but pay close attention to the people around you

  • @undermyguns7509
    @undermyguns7509 Год назад

    Bring these kind of videos back

  • @ScarabChris
    @ScarabChris 4 месяца назад

    I'm a life long boater. I have been on boats my entire life and I'm 50 years old. I have owned several boats and have worked on many other boats. When it comes to starting a boat engine, especially an older boat, it's not like a car. There are no anti theft measures built in. You can easily start the engine without the key simply by "jumping" the connections on the back of the ignition. But...that would take a few mins to rig up even for experienced boaters. On the other hand, on old boats such as this, the ignition switch could be bad and able to be started with a screw driver or even a dime. Don't take me wrong, this guy did it. But they made it sound like the boat could never be started without the key. That part is simply not true. On brand new boats and engines it is all electronic like a new Mercedes. Some are push button start with an automotive type key FOB so they are not easy to start without the key. But this guys boat was an old one, looks like a 1980's Bayliner with a carburetor Volvo inboard/outboard engine. Nothing electronic about it. Hell you can start the boat by bridging the positive battery cables on the starter solenoid with a screw driver. But again, it would take a couple minutes and would be tough to do while holding the phone with 911 on the line.

  • @jriley4131
    @jriley4131 3 года назад +168

    “She was happy until one night she wasn’t”- Moving statement...

    • @Dannniellleee
      @Dannniellleee 3 года назад

      #personalitydisorder

    • @mumtas4469
      @mumtas4469 3 года назад

      No one knows if she was ever happy so that was annoying

    • @marissabones
      @marissabones 3 года назад

      Agreed

    • @jaethespookyboy
      @jaethespookyboy 3 года назад +1

      ive been looking for this comment🤣🤣🤣

  • @rogwarrior
    @rogwarrior 3 года назад +250

    To everyone in an abusive relationship: GET OUT AND DO NOT GO BACK!

    • @spitfirestake54
      @spitfirestake54 3 года назад +1

      Please and thank you.

    • @airsickspace9272
      @airsickspace9272 3 года назад +1

      It’s sad it can be hard to.

    • @jamiedavid8023
      @jamiedavid8023 3 года назад +1

      I'd say be smart & don't go in in the first place,,, but they won't take that advice,,, just like they won't take your advice...
      The danger seems quite thrilling

    • @graftedinforever971
      @graftedinforever971 2 года назад +1

      @@jamiedavid8023 you don't see them coming into it's too late.

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 Год назад

      Thanks we never thought of that problem solved

  • @judykancel5761
    @judykancel5761 Год назад

    I'm so sorry for your loss 💔
    May crystal RIP 🙏

  • @Mr__Geno
    @Mr__Geno 3 месяца назад +1

    "He didn't seem like the right guy for her". Well, what was the concern? If you have a concern, then give good reasons. smh

  • @laviniavanewijk9433
    @laviniavanewijk9433 3 года назад +280

    "She going back because she is afraid he'll hurt my daughter." In a moment like that thinking about that. It should be appreciated.

    • @julesasher105
      @julesasher105 3 года назад +15

      I agree- that breaks my heart. I commented on it previously. So selfless and caring.

    • @laviniavanewijk9433
      @laviniavanewijk9433 3 года назад +13

      Exactly, it shows what an amazing person she was and such bravery. Really sad her life had to end like that

    • @bdmenne
      @bdmenne 2 года назад

      You have no clue what she was thinking when she jumped off the guys dingy. She, like a lot of people, say shit to save face. Chances are she felt completely ashamed that a little innocent girl was seeing her example. A Drunk-wasted desperately sad/abused, sex and $$$$ obsessed single mother who allows herself to be in that situation repeatedly.

    • @josephrobinson5452
      @josephrobinson5452 2 года назад +1

      @@bdmenne yeah plus I believe she was drunk. Nobody in their right mind will keep jumping off a boat in the dark.

    • @ripbeckberlynn8376
      @ripbeckberlynn8376 2 года назад +4

      @@bdmenne woof, could you be any more bitter?

  • @mariapillay8196
    @mariapillay8196 3 года назад +569

    She went back to her abusive boyfriend because she didn't want someone else to get hurt may her soul rest in peace 🌼🥀

    • @sirjuju4766
      @sirjuju4766 3 года назад +19

      The greatest gift to another is sacrifice. She sacrificed her life to save another..

    • @mikehamelin7520
      @mikehamelin7520 3 года назад +44

      she could have stayed in the boat with the guy and his daughter and waited for cops to show up. its not like the police only have cars and bikes.

    • @steviejrr
      @steviejrr 3 года назад +25

      no she went back cuz she was dumb af

    • @zulubeatsprince
      @zulubeatsprince 3 года назад +3

      @@steviejrr amen.. shit pisses me off how dumb. Guy on boat was prolly armed. He wasn't worried bout nathan

    • @cryptotrader4307
      @cryptotrader4307 3 года назад +4

      @@steviejrr Exactly! She was an idiot. Simple as that.

  • @user-wt2wv5rx2w
    @user-wt2wv5rx2w Месяц назад +1

    She chose the violence to protect that handicapped daughter cos that father showed her kindness and protection but she knew her abuser would go to absolute lengths to get at her😢...bravo beautiful woman,I truly believe you tried to save yourself but chose to preserve thee lives of that father and daughter...MYSRIP,Amen!

  • @SeaCheles.Love.4
    @SeaCheles.Love.4 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hitting another wether woman or child, is evil. Stop teaching your child it’s ok. Hitting a woman is not ok!!!!!! A child is not ok!!!!

  • @ItsDevlcon
    @ItsDevlcon 3 года назад +334

    Just so everyone knows, the man was convicted and sentenced to life.

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee 2 года назад +19

      I mean they said that in the video

    • @Kevin-McLaughlin
      @Kevin-McLaughlin 2 года назад +3

      I like to watch people play battle royale better so I can play arenas and get the best of both worlds. Honestly BR isn't as fun to play as a "downtime game" and arenas makes it a lot more fair. That's what Apex Legends did right, they provided more than other brs.

    • @ShinkuGouki
      @ShinkuGouki 2 года назад +13

      @@Kevin-McLaughlin What does video games have to do with this. You must have been high.

    • @unicornmadness6286
      @unicornmadness6286 2 года назад +7

      We know we WATCHED IT

    • @gracem7967
      @gracem7967 2 года назад +2

      ItsDevlcon why comment it if we already know that he was convicted and sentenced, they had already said this in the video

  • @xokree
    @xokree 4 года назад +264

    Owning your own home does not make you a good guy or gal smh 🙄 Lots of good people rent or are homeless.

    • @karliann1
      @karliann1 4 года назад +15

      100%!! We've been brainwashed to believe material wealth or possessions mean nice stable person.

    • @tracylee3001
      @tracylee3001 4 года назад +6

      Then there's the crap load of absolute monsters who have their own homes and businesses, for people who have dark thoughts it seems the more money you have the easier it is to do (and get away with) the most awful things, such a sad shame for this girl and all the others still n his predicament 🙍🏻💖

    • @karliann1
      @karliann1 4 года назад +1

      @@tracylee3001 well said

    • @rd4454
      @rd4454 4 года назад

      Deborah Burks-Moore to a Floridian

    • @cy4330
      @cy4330 4 года назад

      Lack of money can make people kill too!

  • @areligaming6263
    @areligaming6263 Год назад +1

    The most unbelievable part for me is that a girl looking like that, gave a dude like that a chance in the first place.

  • @kissyboots59831
    @kissyboots59831 Год назад

    Not a single moment of true sadness from anyone. That's so sad.

  • @zoesilver6560
    @zoesilver6560 3 года назад +217

    So why didn’t the police come when that first guy on the boat called??

    • @Silver-cl2bd
      @Silver-cl2bd 3 года назад +7

      FTP

    • @barbiegarl9899
      @barbiegarl9899 3 года назад +4

      Silver is that short for fudge the police?

    • @maiqtheliar2465
      @maiqtheliar2465 3 года назад +11

      @@Silver-cl2bd u realize you'd be dead if there were no police

    • @NeverGoingToGiveYouUp000
      @NeverGoingToGiveYouUp000 3 года назад +1

      @@maiqtheliar2465 You know she's not being literal right?

    • @maiqtheliar2465
      @maiqtheliar2465 3 года назад +2

      @@NeverGoingToGiveYouUp000 she typed three letters how is anyone meant to know if she's serious

  • @SWEETSAINTNIC
    @SWEETSAINTNIC 4 года назад +428

    Her mother said if she knew she was getting abused she would have helped didn't she also say her daughter called her because the boyfriend had hit her and her brother beat him up

    • @fortieslocdandfine3134
      @fortieslocdandfine3134 4 года назад +69

      I didn't understand that either. She knew her daughter was being abused. I would have locked mine in a basement before I saw her go back to him. She knew, the dad knew, and sorry, but the victim knew her ass shouldn't have gone back to that boat. The abuser wouldn't have faught a real man, they never do! Even in the call, the man told him, she's not going back over there, even told her, that man wasn't going to hurt his daughter. She went back because she wanted to. So sad!

    • @carsonb3078
      @carsonb3078 4 года назад +44

      Saint Nic abusive relationships are really complicated it’s not all black and white. It’s not just physically abuse but also mental abuse. They make you feel worthless and like you have no one. You loose yourself and they make you feel like you deserve to be treated that way, or that it’s normal. It’s really hard to get out of those type of relationships. You can’t force someone out of it, they have to want to leave and have to make the choice themselves. I know it’s hard to understand and doesn’t make since but that’s just the way it is.

    • @tatyana137
      @tatyana137 3 года назад +41

      carson branz it’s not about that. It’s about her mom saying “if she knew”. She knew

    • @emilywiebel3238
      @emilywiebel3238 3 года назад +20

      Right she spoke about going to pick her up bc she was being abused but then says she didn’t know she was being abused... huh what? Lol

    • @Victoriagenix
      @Victoriagenix 3 года назад +8

      I know right? What’s actually happening there?

  • @TyGibbons-pl6sf
    @TyGibbons-pl6sf Месяц назад

    The initial 911 call that operator dropped the ball completely. When the older gentleman called the first time with all that information received should've been them coming smh 🙌🏿❤️.

  • @AAMM101
    @AAMM101 Год назад +1

    Who keeps raising these cowards. Bro, this is the type of cowardly men that's terrified of fighting other men.

  • @peekaboots01
    @peekaboots01 3 года назад +215

    God bless James Wagner who so sincerely tried to help.

  • @MarioGoatse
    @MarioGoatse 4 года назад +122

    This guy is my favourite narrator. That other LADY, is INSAAAANELY ANNOYING. The way she EMPHASISES different words kills me.

    • @BbyJLP
      @BbyJLP 4 года назад +22

      Pretty sure the narrator is Chris Hansen.

    • @JW-kl7no
      @JW-kl7no 4 года назад +17

      Jenna Proctor Chris *Handsome

    • @CinematicPenguin
      @CinematicPenguin 4 года назад +7

      @princewish ikr the only way this could get better if the narrator was Morgan Freeman lol

    • @carltonwalton9819
      @carltonwalton9819 4 года назад

      J W I likes you and I wants you 😂 (boondocks

    • @ghostdragon5735
      @ghostdragon5735 4 года назад

      Get over it

  • @theconscience01
    @theconscience01 2 года назад +2

    This is the same story with the same result. Battered wife/girlfriend leaves, then goes back until eventually they end up dead. If they don't ask for help, or accept help, the result is predictable. She swam from safety back to her abuser. Sad story, but not an isolated story

  • @0h2ezy
    @0h2ezy 4 года назад +297

    Articulate? More like unintelligible... he sounds like he has sardines in his mouth

    • @wafawaffles
      @wafawaffles 4 года назад +1

      @B B That would only explain the part about him sounding like he has sardines in his mouth

    • @catg8383
      @catg8383 4 года назад +5

      lamontshandy BAHAHAHAHA!!!😹 sardines in his mouth?! LMAO! Oh I laughed so hard! Thank You!

    • @annie68164
      @annie68164 4 года назад +1

      Looks and sounds like every meth addict I"ve ever come across.

    • @suzannebrady6201
      @suzannebrady6201 4 года назад +3

      lamontshandy he is soooo unattractive, and sounds like a moron !!!

    • @TelmanHasanov
      @TelmanHasanov 4 года назад

      😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @a_dan8693
    @a_dan8693 4 года назад +58

    What a failure from that 911 dispatch and police for not going out sooner.

    • @hoosierhiver
      @hoosierhiver 4 года назад

      Seems like it, but who knows, maybe they get a dozen of these calls a day.

    • @Pantomath.
      @Pantomath. 4 года назад

      I know. Shit how many people have to call 911 about a girl jumping off a boat because she's scared or fighting. Geez.

  • @lejlakhaleesi
    @lejlakhaleesi 7 месяцев назад +1

    What on Earth does a girl like this do in a relationship with a peasant like this Thomas character. Rest in peace Crystal!!

  • @suewomack5960
    @suewomack5960 2 года назад +1

    abuse never ends, it escalates. never EVER think its just one time or it ends

  • @thebest12700
    @thebest12700 4 года назад +192

    "she jumped off the boat" lol this guy did himself no favors doing all that talking.

    • @mehmeh7567
      @mehmeh7567 4 года назад +2

      They talk about “Child support” but out here caping heavy with “Bitch support” don’t throw him no LIFE JACKET...Let that clown sink bc he can float too 💯💯💯
      I’ve heard of a person being PUSHED off a boat but never ever have I heard of someone JUMPING off 🥱....He’s GUILTY as HELL 💯💯💯

    • @herwoofnessbostonterrier3420
      @herwoofnessbostonterrier3420 4 года назад

      Casey Levins whyhuujjjnnn

    • @joebutta7539
      @joebutta7539 4 года назад +2

      "She jumped off and took the keys."
      As he is turning the ignition with the keys.
      The microphone on that call preserved the truth. He deserves worse than a cell.

    • @joebutta7539
      @joebutta7539 4 года назад +2

      @DenialDeceitDelusion no water in lungs or stomach... you weren't paying attention...careful there judgey judgey.

    • @kennethburkhart8935
      @kennethburkhart8935 4 года назад

      @@ShayMarie.00 not all drowning victims have water in their lungs. You obviously forgot like the rest to do your research.

  • @conversationswithadrianne
    @conversationswithadrianne 3 года назад +45

    Once you get away from someone who hurts you - physically OR mentally - never ever ever go back.

  • @madisonbell6045
    @madisonbell6045 Год назад +1

    that first call could have possibly saved her life man….911 calls like that disappoint me

  • @CarmenCastro-ce2qk
    @CarmenCastro-ce2qk Год назад

    My condolences to the family 🙏

  • @debunkingdebunkers
    @debunkingdebunkers 3 года назад +53

    “Thomas wasn’t the most appealing looking guy” but he had money. Moral of the story, don’t sell your soul.

  • @elijahh3323
    @elijahh3323 4 года назад +104

    How can you even say this man was “articulate”?

    • @carlabeckford6021
      @carlabeckford6021 3 года назад +3

      He didn't want to say he was ugly👹👹👹👹

    • @JuxtJasmine
      @JuxtJasmine 3 года назад +1

      Carla Beckford Lmaoooooo

    • @little55pig
      @little55pig 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @hillarycolen1163
      @hillarycolen1163 3 года назад +1

      This family's description of people is overboard,no pun intended .

  • @danwally4754
    @danwally4754 Год назад +1

    I can't for the life of me figure out how the cops were never dispatched throughout this entire ordeal ?!
    The cops show up if I have my music up too loud on my boat.
    Clearly intoxicated, operating a boat, domestic violence, boat in distress floating out to sea, multiple Whitnesses and multiple calls to 911... wtf
    I can't believe he even got convicted.
    This is a huge fail by our judicial sysfem. The police are 100 percent at fault here. There Is absolutely no way to prove she didn't get hit by a boat, or killed by someone else. I agree he deserves to go to prison, but this was a complete failure on everyone involved for letting this happen... I would have sued that dispatcher and the police department immediately.
    And not to mention a final call, reporting a missing person who went over board?!!?!?!?!?!?!
    Fisherman had to find her ?
    Why the f*** wasn't anyone looking for this poor girl? Oh my God this makes me so unbelievably angry.
    I actually need more on this story. Has the family considered suing the department for this ? I'm so confused. I must be missing something. There is no way this is the whole story.

  • @divinecommerce3912
    @divinecommerce3912 Месяц назад +2

    A desperate and drunk single mom without regard for her child 👋

  • @travelgal8887
    @travelgal8887 3 года назад +111

    He seemed like a such a loser from the get go. I don’t know why she was with him in the first place.

    • @iambored678
      @iambored678 3 года назад +10

      She wouldn't have been with him if he was a pizza delivery guy, that's all I'm sayin'.

    • @xxblackgeishaxx
      @xxblackgeishaxx 3 года назад +4

      Out of pity. Women feel bad for the losers and end up hurt in the end.

    • @aiqf3189
      @aiqf3189 3 года назад

      His a control preak has lots of money i guess

    • @Palletknifepaint
      @Palletknifepaint 3 года назад +4

      Cos she was a loser

    • @HandbagDiva
      @HandbagDiva 3 года назад +3

      Because he had his own business a home & she was a single mother looking for stability

  • @phelony3973
    @phelony3973 3 года назад +137

    As soon as she heard about his daughter she immediately gave her life before theirs she didn’t deserve anything she seemed like a true beautiful brave soul

    • @spitfirestake54
      @spitfirestake54 3 года назад +5

      It was her burden to bear. I expected nothing less. No big deal here

    • @petekdemircioglu
      @petekdemircioglu 2 года назад

      She seems pretty stupid to me for not leaving a Place where she’s being beaten by 2 men

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 Год назад +1

      She was a little too worried in my opinion abuse victims seem to care about others well being more than themselves sometimes we're trained to think we're not worthy of safety but other people are 🤦

    • @Flamsterette
      @Flamsterette Год назад +1

      We do deserve punctuation when reading online comments, though. 🙄 Why does this have 119 likes?

  • @tracey5601
    @tracey5601 Год назад +1

    My heart goes out to you Crystal and to the rest of her family. What a senseless murder so tragic. I hope he rots slowly and painful in prison. RIP Crystal.🙏

  • @FIONA21ful
    @FIONA21ful 10 месяцев назад

    Too much drinking within an already toxic & volatile relationship is a recipe for disaster.

  • @babbyyoda1709
    @babbyyoda1709 3 года назад +461

    She is so selfless I love that she sacrifices her life for the strangers daughter.. if u think of it it's sad

    • @mycutecatfelix9845
      @mycutecatfelix9845 3 года назад +4

      Clinton Rusthoven I’ve been looking for you everywhere. How weird I find you under this comment section

    • @babbyyoda1709
      @babbyyoda1709 3 года назад +5

      @@Clintsessentials this is creepy I hope nothing wierd happens to u

    • @nugget1136
      @nugget1136 3 года назад +1

      Sally Sue ???

    • @tinacatz4217
      @tinacatz4217 3 года назад +22

      More like she was drunk and not thinking straight. They said that they had been drinking before going onto the boat. I dont get why people think alcohol and boats go together

    • @hillarycolen1163
      @hillarycolen1163 3 года назад +4

      No she didn't sacrifice her life!

  • @juanconner7867
    @juanconner7867 4 года назад +435

    Sounds like a really methed up situation.

    • @berserko2008
      @berserko2008 4 года назад +12

      @Fresh Mann "light up" light it don't hide it....😆😆😆😆😆

    • @LC-se8pw
      @LC-se8pw 4 года назад +15

      @Fresh Mann every meth-head I've met has been white. Literally every single one. Maybe the narrative is different in America, but here, that blond hair white girl is the poster child for meth lol.

    • @juanconner7867
      @juanconner7867 4 года назад +4

      @@LC-se8pw yo, you're both correct.
      C'mon. You've seen meth. That was meth if I've ever heard a meth story.
      I didn't even know the chicks drug history 😂 it's all meth brosephs. M-E-T-H.
      Would'ya just look at it?

    • @jameshargis7127
      @jameshargis7127 4 года назад +5

      You hit the nail on the head... Tweekers! lol

    • @Tinasburrito666
      @Tinasburrito666 4 года назад +4

      I see what you did there 😆