@@kitlee172 , look at King Charles and what he did. It’s not just the looks; by all accounts, Diana was basically a nice person. Camilla sounded like a self-centred skank from the time she first met Charles and he still chose her over Diana. Some people, men and women, are just as*es who don’t know when they are fortunate to have a good partner.
Ashlee said: "Why wasn't I enough? Why wasn't I enough for a husband who had a moment and a chance.... I begged him to stay home and fight for me, but instead he died fighting for someone else's wife." Feel really bad for her and of course her children as well!
This is the type of sh!t that breaks a person's heart and soul !! People don't realize the cascade of unnecessary BS and heartbreak they cause their partner and family!!
I feel absolutely zero compassion for the dead bloke. Screwed around with another man's wife and then challenges the husband when confronted. I feel so sad for Ashlee.
so if getting your head blown off for being an adulterer is ok..then maybe you should lose a leg if you look at a married woman in the street..you are sick
I agree with you 100%, Ashlee and her children are the only victims in this, and I’ll add, I think Rob (the mistresses husband) is a victim too, just not to the extent that Ashlee is. He’s a victim in that he was put in an un-winnable position.
@@billdavis6900 Yes, easy to suggest that he should just have walked away from his unfaithful wife; yet it's not that simple, especially since they had children. She - most guilty of all - will have to live with herself, after losing both her husband, and lover. Also feel sad for their two daughters, and as Ashlee pointed out, the grandparents on both sides.
@@maricamaas2326 I have no idea what you’re talking about. I never once said the husband should’ve walked away, I actually said to the contrary. I said he was also a victim because he was put in a losing position. Obviously I have a lot more compassion for Ashlee, but I do feel sorry for him as well, mainly because he didn’t ask for any of this.
Don't feel sorry for her now. She found a better man and has remarried. There is a Dr Phil episode with both women on it. Maybe it was God's will to get her a better husband and father. It's hard to feel sorry for a man that when not working should be at home with his wife and kids. can't stand a thief and can't stand a cheater. people just don't have any morals.
"Your husband died in the arms of another woman, how did that make you feel?" Let's pour a little more salt into that wound! Why do they constantly ask these kind of questions that we already know the answer to? I find it to be extremely "mean" spirited on their part. Shame on them! Unless, they have no shame and/or zero insight because they tend to do this, all the time, to the innocent victims that are left to deal with the literal rug being pulled out from underneath them.
I agree and disagree because there a 95% chance they told her before the interview that they were going to ask things like that. I would assume she gave consent to do so.
I caught that too. Such a dumb ass question to ask but they gotta dramatize it as much as possible, they probably hoped she’d break out into tears….to boost ratings.
Can I ask you why you married him in the first place? So many of these stories seem to be about extremely young people getting married after only knowing their spouses for a few months. And I’m saying this as a woman who married my high school sweetheart. The difference is I wasn’t about to marry him straight out of high school or college. We’ve been married now for 35 years and got married almost 10 years after we got together in high school. But I never understood the rush to get married other than appearances. So I don’t get this. Getting to know the person who you are potentially going to spend the rest of your life with makes more sense to me. One of the silliest things I ever read was how newly married couples had a rough time in their first year of marriage. I had no problem since my now husband and I had already lived together for two years and, earlier, when one of us was between residences, would crash at the other’s house. So we knew each other pretty darn well by the time we got married.
If a 30-year-old man is having passionate, racy, tantalizing tantric side sex with a 40-year-old woman in a truck - Ashlee definitely did something to make Emmitt's little friend go somewhere else...
She's an adultress and a homewrecker and so is the guy. The only people in this story with any integrity are the wife Ashlee (the one who wasn't cheating) and the poor kids. She gave him 5 children (what a wife!) and it wasn't good enough for him. If you don't love them don't marry them and if you fall out of love, get a divorce. Don't cheat on and humiliate them.
@Grantgoldberg1663 and this is the keyword he was a Betrayer toward his wife Ashlee that didn't deserve that he basically sot himself up trying to be funny and telling lies to his wife
instead of being at home he's/or was in the streets that are he should have given his wife a divorce and on the other vice versa his wife should have given him his papers divorce that is
The mistress, Candy - what a terrible person. The interview she did with Dr. Phil really showed exactly who she was. She didn’t just have an affair. She was actively, openly trying to hurt Ashlee, the murder victim’s wife. Candy was also imprisoned due to embezzling from her former employer. Ashlee was the purest of victims in the whole situation and yet years after the murder, Candy continued to publicly badmouth Ashlee who had long since remarried and was trying to move on with her life.
Narcissists love to triangulate their lover with their spouse. It is cruel sadism and gives them much supply. They enjoy humiliating and demeaning their victims.
What's disgusting is that Candi started an affair with Emmett knowing that Emmett was married to a beautiful young woman with 4 kids and one on the way. Then Candi rubs salt on the wound by sending gifts to Ashley after Ashley has the baby. Candi is an absolute disgusting and selfish human being. Her affair effected everyone around her yet she didn't care. I mean she could've rejected Emmett's advances if he in fact was the one who started the affair. She has no morals or ethics. Candi's story is an insult to the investigator's intelligence. They knew from jump that she is not the victim and caused this entire situation.
@tigerlily102511 it takes two to tango. He’s just as much at fault as she is and threatening Rob over the phone when he was sleeping with his wife was incredibly stupid. Couldn’t believe it when I heard that! And let’s not forget that Emmett was the one with four young kids and another on the way (don’t know why it’s necessary to have quite so many kids but that’s beside the point!). I’d say he’s more at fault than she is, given his situation and his poor wife having to produce so many kids while he’s gallivanting around. Oh well… you reap what you sow! No sympathy from me for anyone except Ashlee.
@@alasskaluna2446 They're both at fault and they're both home- wreckers.....Candi is as equally narcissistic as Emmet was.They both started it together, but I think Candi enjoyed the power of being an adultress at her older age, Emmet enjoyed the "physical relationship" Sorry to speak in a gray area. I wish Ashlee and her kids all the best, they didn't deserve that situation. She was a good wife and person and I saw that she is now happily remarried with her new husband and they have 2 or 3 new babies together as well. I Hope Candi knows she didn't break Ashlee! And that Ashlee has a family! Candi's is broken forever due partially to her actions.
_There is some truth to be learned here that Cheaters can be worse then murderers in some ways. They ruin families, abuse, destroy peoples hearts and ruin childrens lives. That being said murder is a selfish choice - you will only make things worse for yourself, parents and your kids. Think of your kids and just leave and move on. Low-Life Degenerates are not worth it, because Amoral people usually live very unhappy lives because they're so screwed up themselves they don't know what genuine love is for themselves. Their idea of love is based on material and the attention from others onto themselves. They don't know how to love or care about others._
@@alasskaluna2446the threats over the phone could be a lie Candi made up to make rob look better for what he did. I agree they are both at fault for the affair. As far as the amount of kids..that’s just a Mormon thing.
An insecure man will have an affair with a less attractive woman because he's jelous of his wife and wanted her to question her self worth. He was a full blown narcesisst.
Yeah my cousin's husband left her for a ugly slut and my cousin is so pretty and so good. This girl dug her heels into him to get his money. She tried to get my friend's husband but his wife set her straight real fast. All she wanted was someone with money and my cousins stupid husband couldn't grasp that. It want be long before she moves on to someone else and destroy someone else's marriage. Karma always hits back.
@@Bianca-yt7pd 100% that man was on roids. They sort of hinted at it. They start attracting women like that too. ALso gives men a mascuine blocky look and f*s their mind.
You’re not worthless or ugly, my dear. You were unfortunate to have entered into a relationship with a man who chose not to honor his word by keeping his marriage vows.
Women shouldn't feel like men cheats because she is ugly or fat. A man cheats because he has no integrity. It has zero to do with how his wife look but with the fact that he has no integrity. He would still cheat if she looked like Gisele Bundchen.
Yeah, he was clearly a narcissist not worthy of you -- it's not the other way around. Any guy would be lucky to have you, even with five children. What a tragic shock that must have been.
Ashlee is so beautiful and classy. Her children are precious! She did not deserve this man. Hope she and her children will have the peaceful, joyful life they deserve.
I admire Ashlee so much. She turned her life and her kids life around. She is a motivational speaker and she tells her kids the truth about what happened to their Dad.
Ego, ambition and complete failure by the younger "father", caving in to the illicit choices of an older man's older wife destroyed the lives of both families!! Been there, considered that!! Ashlee is a queen of great value as a person, as a woman, as a mother and as a child of God!!
15:37 Candi, on the other hand, is stone cold and lies through her teeth, is a horrible person/wife, who knows what else she has lied about in her life to gain favors, money, etc
Emmit dug his own grave, he was a side-dude and made a grave error by talking sh*t to the husband of his mistress instead of just playing his part as a side-dude. I feel for Rob and Ashlee, they're the victims in all this.
How quick they are to soften his image “father of 5”. Let’s call it what it is “a man shot his cheating wife’s lover in a Walgreens parking lot”. Their families meant nothing while they cheated. Don’t mention them to soften his image and the news because you’re interviewing the wife.
Religious upbringing. These are the good girls those Redpill channels cry for! Yet, here we are, and this fool ruins his good life for a weird pre-menopausal 304!!!!
Murder is wrong and all but could you imagine calling your wife and have the man shes sleeping with take the phone and curse you out? Seeing red is an understatement.
They should stop calling this disgusting relationship of "Love Triangle" to "Lust Triangle". People in love don't hurt others, don't destroy others families, deceive their loved ones, disrespect their life partner, cheat on their spouse, and have affair with married people. These people are blinded by lust and not love.
Did Ashlee tell her children the hero (adulterer burning in the eternal fire) was in the coffin? Telling your children he's a hero is cheating to your children.
All I can say is Karma comes around. How can a man cheat on a wife that’s given him children and had the nerve to do it while she was pregnant. I wish nothing but blessings, success, happiness, and love for Ashley and her children. I can’t even begin to imagine how much turbulence she went through.
Totally agree, karma exists, imagine how his poor kids felt having dressed up, looking forward to daddy returning home, and then he makes an argument, doesn’t eat the food and goes out for his married mistress. Ashley comes across as so beautiful in her nature.
My ex cheated on me when I was 8and a half months pregnant with my best friends sister. I left the marriage when my daughter was 9 months old as I couldn't get over the cheating. My dad had done the same thing to my mom only she was in the hospital having a stillborn baby when he cheated on her. My ex knew that it would be the one thing I couldn't accept..
@@lynnegackstetter2779 sorry to hear. Hope you give the best life to your daughter and find a decent partner deserving of you. Also sometimes our past traumas (e.g. your dad doing this to your mum) can have a negative impact on our self confidence. So keep your head held up high and find the best person for you 💕💜
I’m the youngest of 7. My mom was cheated on throughout her marriage, and divorced him by the time I was a year old. After moms death my sisters and I found a letter she had kept for 50 years from a woman who wrote it to my biological co-creator (I don’t call him my dad) who was contemplating if she should go be with him since he’s married and has 7 children because she didn’t know if that would be right with God. What a POS female.
Jessica, sex means something much deeper to many of us. I suppose to you it''s just pleasure or baby making? I am a man and can totally relate to Rob's actions. I thank God I have never been driven to such an act, but I understand the hurt, anger, and anguish.
Men and women do not blame yourselves for a marriage failed because your partner was too juvenile to value a family! Move on and your love for yourselves and your kids will grow and you will see the problems were not and never are yours to carry upon your shoulders!
Dumb? She was home busy with 5 kids and a family. This should not have even been a concern of hers. Her immature husband took his own life, when he strayed from his family. I feel sorry for all the children, they didnt think about.@@CommonSenseIsNotCommon13
Poor Emmett, no one to tell his side of the story! He did not deserve to die because he cheated on his wife. Looks like Rob started the cheating and stayed alive. Candi was looking for an escape and found Emmett whom she likely seduced, being the older woman. Emmett the hardworking attorney who had likely got married too early, found a diversion in his very office, especially where he and Candi had shared interests. Candi appeared to him as the confident woman, and perhaps his wife was more naive, overworked with children and feeling the children would help hold the marriage together. Emmett was young and driven, the very qualities Candi admired but used against him later saying he was aggressive. How was Rob injured? Was it self inflicted or did Emmett also have a gun? Candi's biggest crime was trying to make Emmet look like the aggressor in the end in order to appease killer Rob who knew what he had set out to do that night. Bet he had their daughter spy on the mom. RIP Emmett, hope you are in a better place. (He was the only real victim here as everyone else has a chance to change their lives and learn from this horrible experience, but he did not.)
@@nimue4325 how you gonna go this hard for the man who was with full knowledge cheating on his wife and gaslighting her about it? He deserved it, Candi should have gotten hers too with her funky elderly manipulative self. It's not mutually exclusive, we can easily conclude they were BOTH garbage sub-humans based off of their behvior.
Candy is absolutely disgusting. Why in the world would these two men destroy their lives and the lives of their children like this over this woman. Don't get it. Absolutely disgusting 🫣
Let’s not forget what Emit did. If he hadn’t had an affair he would still be alive. Emit shares some of the blame in his death. It looks like the family members of Emit completely forgot about his part in all this giving victim statements like he did nothing wrong.
Yea I think candy's husband didn't deserve 30yrs, more like 15, it was not premeditated it was a crime of passion, ofcourse he lost it from his wife having an affair & happened to own a gun. If I was Emmett's wife would have asked for leniency for the man he wasn't such an innocent victim
You're correct. He shouldn't have screwed around with a married woman and disrespected his own wife. He kinda made his own bed. If I were Rob, I would have pled guilty. Maybe been faced with 25yrs and get out in 15 on good behavior.
that's why he was killed, that family had no sense of other people's life and reality..the narcissistic statements that they're entitled to do anything they want without facing its consequences..
I feel empathy for the deceased though. He was young and dumb. He never really dated before. He was a book worm nerd, met and married his wife right out of college. Candi was older, wiser, more experienced, manipulative and he fell for her BS. She probably told him what a bad guy her husband was and how much she hated her marriage, etc. He was just naive and believed her lies. It's ashame
@@thrshwll1526stupidity isn't an excuse guy was a piece of shit i feel bad that the other guy in prison though. Emmet sounds like the type that would attack and give the man no choice
Ashlee is such a strong and courageous woman, she's the real hero in this story. If there's a villain... there's definitely a hero, to me it's her. She's a ray of light even what she's been thru, those kids lost their father which is horrible.... but they were blessed with strength from Momma, I wish those kids safety, love and happiness. This one pulled at the heart strings.
@@user-jc8py7dw7r oh but you’re so wrong, He died on the cross for your sins so you can have salvation. HE is very much ALIVE. I challenge you to ask him to show you how real He is 🙏 Seek and you shall find
Her lover and her husband both bleeding, and she goes to her lover. If she were my mother, I'd never speak to her again. Doubt this was the first time she cheated.
He married her ‘wanted kids’ she gave him children but he didnt want the daily relationship with them. He liked the idea of playing house, but he just wanted the fun part, not the actual raising them and being there for them part. Poor children (all 7 of them) and Ashley.
I am 100% agree with you !! She is beautiful, intelligent and I hope that one day, she will be able to have faith in someone. If I was at her place, I would never be.....
@@rogerrosen2323 I would be inclined to agree with you, except his actions paint a different story: 1. He had started to consistently put his mistress above his family meaning he was neglecting them for her. He was going home late, spending nights away, not spending the evenings and weekends with his kids, to the point the wife says the kids were asking if he still lived there. Whatever issue he had with the wife does not excuse him neglecting the kids. The night he was shot he basically left the family dinner at night to go get a BJ from her in some parking lot. That's shows love/possession/obssession..something more than just fun. I think he was planning on divorcing his wife for her; 2. He contacted the husband to let him know of the affair and to taunt him. He was jealous of the husband. They were clearly planning to divorce their spouses and Emmet was getting jealous of his mistress' husband. She probably lied to him that she wasn't having sex with her husband anymore, but I bet he suspected she still did and it drove him crazy. He got into a fight with her husband because he probably wanted to push her or him to divorce already. Clearly, they weren't going to and were just arguing at that point. The mistress was shrewed; she wanted to pick her best option and was probably still thinking about who it was. Or maybe it was just sex for her and the idiot ruined it by catching feelings and telling her husband. The video also mentions some emails her husband received about the affair.
dosent indicate murder but it happens all the other personal things dont matter i can remember a case of a@@ciobalina7445 cop in ny found out a dog walker or something was meeting his wife he confronted at a rstaurant and killed him and himsself many more stories we know like on crime watch daily still you need to love family first not some other women
There’s nothing worse than going to a therapist with your cheating husband (hoping with all your might that he will agree to try and fix things) but instead having him gush about how awful he thinks you are in every way. And then saying he doesn’t love you and he’s done with the marriage. You were lucky he didn’t show up. Trust me.
God Bless you Ashey! I went thru something similar...you don't realize how lucky you we're really we're! There was no fixing the marriage...he was too selfish...God Bless your children, may you all heal from the trauma, completely!
@@quinncreel6091 Oh no, I agree! He did this to his wife and children and ended up paying the ultimate price. I just remembered watching this on one of those crime shows and seeing her on stand during the trail of her husband. I was so disgusted at the whole thing but mostly her after watching her on the stand. I agree with you, the man was just as wrong as she is. 👌
@@annabellelee4535 No one even said that. Her employer is dead, her husband in jail and she walked away with unscathed. Besides, they said in the documentary she wanted to get back at her husband for having an affair, so who seduced who?
I remember the story on Dr, Phil. Kandi showed absolutely no remorse for the affair or her part in this whole thing! This happened many years ago and I do know that Ashlee is now happily remarried and had 2 more children.
I feel for the wife; she has a beautiful spirit; my only issue is that she refers to her husband as her children's hero. He is not. He's actually the opposite of a hero. Heroes come home and are dedicated to their families completely. Heroes don't get killed defending the "honor" of another man's wife. He's receiving heroes' honors because he died, and romanticizing him is easier. I understand that her grief is layered and complex, but one day, one of her children will likely point out that their dad destroyed their family.
Wow, the mother of 5 is like a rock for her family. Her forgiveness will be like a burning guilt for that couple. I prayed that God will continue to give her wisdom and bless her with all her needs.
With 5 kids you should never be a nest-pooper, and neither should you be with one. Anyone you stray with is a danger to yourself and your family. STI, stray pregnancy, stalking, violence, the list is endless. Respect yourself and your family. Never go for someone that is taken, they made that choice for a reason and have their energy tied to that person.
@The Nippy fee right and especially if you are trying to spite the other person and who you are getting with I'm talking about the new person that's helping you do wrong to that person especially if that person is innocent that you are trying to hurt the only one that you're hurting is yourself and 9times out of 10you in up hurting yourself and the new person only and they got the nerve to help you do wrong toward the innocent person that had nothing to do with what was going on cause you and them are making you as a fool basically and are helping them do that you think that you're being smart
Agree. Emmett bears significant responsibility here. Further, it is not clear to me that this was not in fact self-defence. If Emmett had threatened the husband and was charging him... it rather looks like self defence to me.
@RandyRandall9289 well all depends on the situation that or don't work it out especially for the children sake cause you didn't marry the children or you should have married for the children that's the wrong reason to get and or stay with them for that reason cause it's not real it's bogus and I know that bogus stands for not real
Especially a married employee in their 40s. What was the best case scenario in this situation? Both parties abandon their spouse and children and live happily ever after? Would it one day just end and everything would continue on as if nothing happened? This situation is the definition of "play stupid games, win stupid prizes".
I'm so glad Ashlee chose to be truthful with her kids and turned it into a life lesson to stop and think of the choices made in life. I used to have a quick temper but as I've gotten older, I don't make quick emotional decisions. I had my own children and now my grandchildren that are the inspiration to not make rash decisions.
@halroxdynasty8683 😆 Thanks 😊 yeah my 22 year old daughter and I just left a bridal shop for her wedding and the stylist there couldn't believe we were mother and daughter. Both of my parents were younger looking for their age so it's definitely genetic. I appreciate the compliment for sure.
Imagine your husband coming home to tell you that he is leaving you for a man. What do you tell the children? Do you forget about God and go and have sex with women? This will either make or break you. Our hope is in God. I have witnessed God sending my first lady of faith a god-fearing man who truly loves her and her children. Yes, the Lord sent her a good man! Hallelujah ❤️ When God sets us free from mean people we must never return to them. These are evil times and being unequally yoked by marching with groups of rebellion and perversion can become deadly. Going to these pride bars and entertainment venues are high risks! Children of entitlement are blind to these dangers becoming prey to violent hate groups. We must not allow our relatives of faith to frequent these places. Also parents are responsible for checking out the friends that children keep. If any of them are bullies and aggressive you must encourage your children to end these harmful relationships since teenagers are killing people daily. These children of the darkness are Satan disciples determined to uproot everything good. God is good therefore serve him alone. 🗝️
What really bothers me is when Rob tells Emmett to go back to his wife and 5 kids. They said Emmett got enraged over this comment. Nothing like getting pissed off after hearing the truth.
@@Tonya39420 Well,according to the wife.. The boyfriend had the nerve to talk shiii to him and he was with the man’s wife.. That’s crazy..He put his life in danger then.. should have kept quiet and dropped her off around the corner and went home..
@@JustMe-pu3xm according to the woman in the middle, whose the only one that even has a story.. I'm just saying she could say it went any way she wants.. ya know what I mean? I'm not trying to argue
28 with 5 kids OMG. I’m 25 and can’t even imagine having 1. That’s a strong woman and it’s sad her husband was a conniving liar cheating with an old lady his “mother figure”🤮
40 isn’t old, not too mention a lot of 40 year olds look hell of a-lot better than some 25 year olds “ hint hint” meaning you probably! Ask any guy would they choose an ugly overweight 25 year old or a HOT 40 year old and guess what the answer would be? sorry honey we read right thru your jealousy in that comment! Lol
@@kellyf5004well the unnecessary demeaning you just did to OP shows your incredible immaturity. I know you think you did something here but the only thing you did was show you’re clearly an older individual and easily offended by the word “old” 🤨 weird little attack you did there.
I remember this first story about father of 5 and the affair with much younger boss, Followed story and what's really shocking is that the mistress acts like she's a victim and she was being stalked!! OMG are you kidding me? If your having marital problems, get counseling! This amazing mom and 5 children will never be the same because of you... homewrecker.
The dirtbag husband Emmett was the "homewrecker". If it wasn't Kandi, it would have been someone else. There were probably many Kandi's that he cheated on sweet Ashlee with.
This story is a very important lesson to all of us. It will never be old. Please continue showing it so that people can learn from it. I am watching it for the first time. Please continue airing it. It will always be the first time for someone.
I heard this story before, but I didn’t know Rob (Candy’s husband) had cheated on the wife first! I mean…..how you going to get mad at the wife for doing the same exact thing you initiated? Regardless, Emmitt bought this tragedy on himself. His wife is fine as hell and he had kids and yet…he knowingly still became a home wrecker in someone else’s marriage. Not saying this guy deserved death, but he put the quarter in the jukebox.
Actually there’s no proof of his affair. It’s alleged. They had literally just moved to Idaho. This was her first job in the city. She was trying to defend herself to turn her husband into a monster. Emitt also picked up the phone while they were fucking and yelled at her husband. Threatened him. Also what’s alleged is her started the fight by being honest, and telling him to go home to his family. She’s a liar. There’s a reason the daughter called the dad. Kids are normally loyal to the parents who’s the most honest. I wouldn’t believe anything she said. Emitt started all this nonsense.
Wow, she's acting emotional, distressed before the interrrogator comes in. But when she says, "I know, I do it alll day long," she sounds chipper, fine, unaffected. Then quickly shifts to let out a gasp to bring the mood down again. I think they were both narcs/ psychos, you have to be to selfishly hurt people like that.
She prolly fed his ego and he seemed like a narcissist. She also prolly made herself available to him sexually and would do things that his wife wouldn’t do.
Yeah,she want to prove that she's pretty,but Ashley is more prettier and younger than her,,so I'm moral woman,phycho,like her husband' ,Ashley husband just want attention also' , like candy' the cheaper woman...
The wife was mad because he cheated BUT then she cheats and then he offs her lover and pretends to try to off himself and then now she stands back with her husband! She's absolutely 💯 ridiculous 🙄
Ladies do not hesitate to leave anyone that does this to you your family! Don’t argue it’s a waste of time ! Better days ahead for you your kids if you just love you your kids and know your safety your children safety is most important!
Men do not hesitate to leave anyone that does this to you your family! Don’t argue it’s a waste of time ! Better days ahead for you your kids if you just love you your kids and know your safety your children safety is most important!
Yeah, but it's easy to say that. It's very hard to just up and leave when you've built your life around someone for better or worse. That's something a privileged white women would say. Not so for the rest of the world.
I feel so sad for his sweet wife who deserved much, much better. What an awful man this guy was. Fine if you want to have an affair but treat your wife with dignity and respect and leave her first.
You Ashley are absolutely Gorrrgeous!!!! My heart breaks for you! I knowww the pain of dealing with a cheater and or narcissist. I’m sooooo sorry this happened to you😢!!!! My Prayers for you and your beautiful children. May GOD give you the strength to carry on and take care of those babies🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Man, screw this jury and screw Emmett's family. Rob did exactly what he had every right to do. Emmet family, your son was a dirtbag and got EXACTLY what he had coming to him.
Emmett wasn’t an innocent victim, he was the proximate cause of the madness that harmed so many people, along with Candy who seems like a modern day Siren, escaping responsibility for her direct role in this ugly mess. Some justice dispensed here with the 30 year sentence, but much denied.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.....lynerd skynerd write a song called "gimme three steps" ....guess Emmett never heard it. Smh. When you step into someone else's marriage, you can expect bad things to happen either right then or a little ways down the road. I feel for Ashley and the kids. All because one person couldn't keep it in his pants and one couldn't keep her legs together.
@joutoob9 not this incident. Lol the song is from the 70s. In the song The guy gets caught just DANCING with a married woman and the husband pulls a forty four on him.
I feel bad for the wife and kids, but Emmet was a dirt bag. Rob didn't deserve the sentence he got for it. I'm sure he regrets being in prison for the likes of Candy.
"With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk. 22 All at once he followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose 23 till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life. 24 Now then, my sons, listen to me; pay attention to what I say. 25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. 26 Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng. 27 Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death." (Proverbs 7). "For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is." (Proverbs 6:34-35). Many are destroyed for lack of knowledge!
I dont understand why guys will cheat on a beautiful woman with women who could pass as a pit bull. Grandma should have spent some time in jail over that as well. If she wouldnt have spread her legs open than Emmet wouldnt have been cheating on his wife with her and ended up dead.
They will cheat with anything, I've seen some things 😂😂😂 but for real...the Candy lady probs thought he "liked" her too 🙄 mfer wanted some strange, the end.
Dude has an absolutely BEAUTIFUL wife at home with 5 kids and wants to challenge another man for HIS wife? What a 🤡!
He was a lawyer.
Wife is beautiful but 5 kids sounds like my worst nightmare.
Over the border insurgents.
She gives Jennifer Aniston a run for her money, and I’m talking 90’s era Jennifer.
Cheating on her with a horse of a woman… unbelievable.
@@kitlee172 , look at King Charles and what he did. It’s not just the looks; by all accounts, Diana was basically a nice person. Camilla sounded like a self-centred skank from the time she first met Charles and he still chose her over Diana. Some people, men and women, are just as*es who don’t know when they are fortunate to have a good partner.
Ashlee said: "Why wasn't I enough? Why wasn't I enough for a husband who had a moment and a chance.... I begged him to stay home and fight for me, but instead he died fighting for someone else's wife." Feel really bad for her and of course her children as well!
And she was beautiful and youthful. People make some bad decisions 💔
My heart broke for her when she said that. I hope she and her children are able to heal from this
I think she's married now@@ahub87
This is the type of sh!t that breaks a person's heart and soul !! People don't realize the cascade of unnecessary BS and heartbreak they cause their partner and family!!
5 kids before the age of 30? That's a telling sign what was always on his mind.
I feel absolutely zero compassion for the dead bloke. Screwed around with another man's wife and then challenges the husband when confronted.
I feel so sad for Ashlee.
so if getting your head blown off for being an adulterer is ok..then maybe you should lose a leg if you look at a married woman in the street..you are sick
I agree with you 100%, Ashlee and her children are the only victims in this, and I’ll add, I think Rob (the mistresses husband) is a victim too, just not to the extent that Ashlee is. He’s a victim in that he was put in an un-winnable position.
@@billdavis6900
Yes, easy to suggest that he should just have walked away from his unfaithful wife; yet it's not that simple, especially since they had children. She - most guilty of all - will have to live with herself, after losing both her husband, and lover. Also feel sad for their two daughters, and as Ashlee pointed out, the grandparents on both sides.
@@maricamaas2326 I have no idea what you’re talking about. I never once said the husband should’ve walked away, I actually said to the contrary. I said he was also a victim because he was put in a losing position. Obviously I have a lot more compassion for Ashlee, but I do feel sorry for him as well, mainly because he didn’t ask for any of this.
Don't feel sorry for her now. She found a better man and has remarried. There is a Dr Phil episode with both women on it. Maybe it was God's will to get her a better husband and father. It's hard to feel sorry for a man that when not working should be at home with his wife and kids. can't stand a thief and can't stand a cheater. people just don't have any morals.
"Your husband died in the arms of another woman, how did that make you feel?" Let's pour a little more salt into that wound! Why do they constantly ask these kind of questions that we already know the answer to? I find it to be extremely "mean" spirited on their part. Shame on them! Unless, they have no shame and/or zero insight because they tend to do this, all the time, to the innocent victims that are left to deal with the literal rug being pulled out from underneath them.
Agreed. It’s a tabloid interview. That’s what our country has descended to.
I agree and disagree because there a 95% chance they told her before the interview that they were going to ask things like that. I would assume she gave consent to do so.
This is why I will not speak to these " birds of prey"
I caught that too. Such a dumb ass question to ask but they gotta dramatize it as much as possible, they probably hoped she’d break out into tears….to boost ratings.
we don’t know the answer too because i honestly wouldn’t have gave a flying fuxx karma sucks don’t it
Never cheat, if you dont love them just leave them
I agree totally
No one loves anyone for long.
Also, dont murder?
Exactly.
Yes, and always think about the kids.
As a victim of an adulturous husband, this story hits close to home. I have so much sympathy for Ashlee and wish her and her children well.
Same 🙃 Best Wishes 2 us all 😌.
Can I ask you why you married him in the first place?
So many of these stories seem to be about extremely young people getting married after only knowing their spouses for a few months. And I’m saying this as a woman who married my high school sweetheart. The difference is I wasn’t about to marry him straight out of high school or college. We’ve been married now for 35 years and got married almost 10 years after we got together in high school. But I never understood the rush to get married other than appearances.
So I don’t get this. Getting to know the person who you are potentially going to spend the rest of your life with makes more sense to me.
One of the silliest things I ever read was how newly married couples had a rough time in their first year of marriage. I had no problem since my now husband and I had already lived together for two years and, earlier, when one of us was between residences, would crash at the other’s house. So we knew each other pretty darn well by the time we got married.
@@christystewart4567Oh, shut it🙄🙄🙄
@@christystewart4567you'd be surprised at how many women just like you never find out their husband has had a mistress for decades.
If you know your husband was cheating, it's time for a divorce. Hard to make it on your own but better than a life of deceit.
I feel horrible for Ashlee and the 5 kids. She did nothing wrong, followed her husband throughout and was loyal to him.
We don’t know that for sure
I also feel bad for Candi s 2 kids :/
She's gorgeous too
If a 30-year-old man is having passionate, racy, tantalizing tantric side sex with a 40-year-old woman in a truck - Ashlee definitely did something to make Emmitt's little friend go somewhere else...
Very sad yes and for the other couple kids too cause they... dont have one good parent bit 2 'bad'
She's an adultress and a homewrecker and so is the guy. The only people in this story with any integrity are the wife Ashlee (the one who wasn't cheating) and the poor kids. She gave him 5 children (what a wife!) and it wasn't good enough for him. If you don't love them don't marry them and if you fall out of love, get a divorce. Don't cheat on and humiliate them.
Agree, he pooped into his own nest like a fire hose. And so did she and her idiot husband. Those poor kids and Ashlee.
It's not always about love, males are generally wired differently.
@Grantgoldberg1663 and this is the keyword he was a Betrayer toward his wife Ashlee that didn't deserve that he basically sot himself up trying to be funny and telling lies to his wife
instead of being at home he's/or was in the streets that are he should have given his wife a divorce and on the other vice versa his wife should have given him his papers divorce that is
he wasn't that important enough for her to go through all that mess
Of course she survived. Like a drunk driver who ruins a family’s life and lives on.
The mistress, Candy - what a terrible person. The interview she did with Dr. Phil really showed exactly who she was. She didn’t just have an affair. She was actively, openly trying to hurt Ashlee, the murder victim’s wife. Candy was also imprisoned due to embezzling from her former employer. Ashlee was the purest of victims in the whole situation and yet years after the murder, Candy continued to publicly badmouth Ashlee who had long since remarried and was trying to move on with her life.
What could that trash have to say about Ashlee?
Narcissists love to triangulate their lover with their spouse. It is cruel sadism and gives them much supply. They enjoy humiliating and demeaning their victims.
So very sad! I am so sorry for your loss Ashley, bet she's lying! Candy should be doing time... She's EVIL!
What an old miserable woman smh
She is the lowest of the low.. no self control, just takes what she wants.. and her husband wants her back 😡😡😡
What's disgusting is that Candi started an affair with Emmett knowing that Emmett was married to a beautiful young woman with 4 kids and one on the way. Then Candi rubs salt on the wound by sending gifts to Ashley after Ashley has the baby.
Candi is an absolute disgusting and selfish human being. Her affair effected everyone around her yet she didn't care. I mean she could've rejected Emmett's advances if he in fact was the one who started the affair. She has no morals or ethics.
Candi's story is an insult to the investigator's intelligence. They knew from jump that she is not the victim and caused this entire situation.
@tigerlily102511 it takes two to tango. He’s just as much at fault as she is and threatening Rob over the phone when he was sleeping with his wife was incredibly stupid. Couldn’t believe it when I heard that! And let’s not forget that Emmett was the one with four young kids and another on the way (don’t know why it’s necessary to have quite so many kids but that’s beside the point!). I’d say he’s more at fault than she is, given his situation and his poor wife having to produce so many kids while he’s gallivanting around. Oh well… you reap what you sow! No sympathy from me for anyone except Ashlee.
I feel like she & Emmet should’ve been together forever. A true love story 🤮🤮🤮 (note the sarcasm)
@@alasskaluna2446 They're both at fault and they're both home- wreckers.....Candi is as equally narcissistic as Emmet was.They both started it together, but I think Candi enjoyed the power of being an adultress at her older age, Emmet enjoyed the "physical relationship" Sorry to speak in a gray area. I wish Ashlee and her kids all the best, they didn't deserve that situation. She was a good wife and person and I saw that she is now happily remarried with her new husband and they have 2 or 3 new babies together as well. I Hope Candi knows she didn't break Ashlee! And that Ashlee has a family! Candi's is broken forever due partially to her actions.
_There is some truth to be learned here that Cheaters can be worse then murderers in some ways. They ruin families, abuse, destroy peoples hearts and ruin childrens lives. That being said murder is a selfish choice - you will only make things worse for yourself, parents and your kids. Think of your kids and just leave and move on. Low-Life Degenerates are not worth it, because Amoral people usually live very unhappy lives because they're so screwed up themselves they don't know what genuine love is for themselves. Their idea of love is based on material and the attention from others onto themselves. They don't know how to love or care about others._
@@alasskaluna2446the threats over the phone could be a lie Candi made up to make rob look better for what he did. I agree they are both at fault for the affair. As far as the amount of kids..that’s just a Mormon thing.
Candi's like "My boy toy is dead so I may as well make up with my husband."
When the wife is 5x more attractive than the mistress. 🥴 #FAIL
That shows that men cheat because of his lack of integrity an not because how the wife looks.
An insecure man will have an affair with a less attractive woman because he's jelous of his wife and wanted her to question her self worth. He was a full blown narcesisst.
Yeah my cousin's husband left her for a ugly slut and my cousin is so pretty and so good. This girl dug her heels into him to get his money. She tried to get my friend's husband but his wife set her straight real fast. All she wanted was someone with money and my cousins stupid husband couldn't grasp that. It want be long before she moves on to someone else and destroy someone else's marriage. Karma always hits back.
Beauty doesn't mean a good person! So shallow.
@@Bianca-yt7pd 100% that man was on roids. They sort of hinted at it. They start attracting women like that too. ALso gives men a mascuine blocky look and f*s their mind.
You’re not worthless or ugly, my dear. You were unfortunate to have entered into a relationship with a man who chose not to honor his word by keeping his marriage vows.
Women shouldn't feel like men cheats because she is ugly or fat. A man cheats because he has no integrity. It has zero to do with how his wife look but with the fact that he has no integrity. He would still cheat if she looked like Gisele Bundchen.
Yeah, he was clearly a narcissist not worthy of you -- it's not the other way around. Any guy would be lucky to have you, even with five children. What a tragic shock that must have been.
Maybe she withheld sex from her husband. Men need sex. You either get it from your wife or somebody else.
YES, HE WAS OFF HIS ASSIGNMENT. SOOOOOOO STUPID. LEAVE THAT MAN'S BONE ALONE.
soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true!!! than you
Ashlee is so beautiful and classy. Her children are precious! She did not deserve this man. Hope she and her children will have the peaceful, joyful life they deserve.
Ashlee - a gracious, dignified, forgiving mother and widow. Wow!
Beautiful women inside and out.Candy is garbage!
@@taliabraver candy is very very hot
I admire Ashlee so much. She turned her life and her kids life around. She is a motivational speaker and she tells her kids the truth about what happened to their Dad.
She’s a pretty amazing person, exercising self control, forgiveness, and honesty.
Ego, ambition and complete failure by the younger "father", caving in to the illicit choices of an older man's older wife destroyed the lives of both families!! Been there, considered that!! Ashlee is a queen of great value as a person, as a woman, as a mother and as a child of God!!
15:37 Candi, on the other hand, is stone cold and lies through her teeth, is a horrible person/wife, who knows what else she has lied about in her life to gain favors, money, etc
Emmit dug his own grave, he was a side-dude and made a grave error by talking sh*t to the husband of his mistress instead of just playing his part as a side-dude. I feel for Rob and Ashlee, they're the victims in all this.
I second that.
Emmit was not available for comment after the incident.
How quick they are to soften his image “father of 5”. Let’s call it what it is “a man shot his cheating wife’s lover in a Walgreens parking lot”. Their families meant nothing while they cheated. Don’t mention them to soften his image and the news because you’re interviewing the wife.
Sensationalism. Media does it each day, everyday.
All “father of five” signifies is that he can copulate.
The wife is a classy woman. I can’t imagine how complicated her feelings are yet she articulates them beautifully.
Religious upbringing. These are the good girls those Redpill channels cry for! Yet, here we are, and this fool ruins his good life for a weird pre-menopausal 304!!!!
Writing 3 books probably helped get the feelings out & seeing it on paper its a clear picture.
She remarried. She got over him
I feel bad for the husband who got prison time.
@@williamhoward5100why, he was a dumb brute
Video title should read "Affair partner shot by cheating wife's husband", instead of trying to drum up sympathy by calling him "father of five".
Murder is wrong and all but could you imagine calling your wife and have the man shes sleeping with take the phone and curse you out? Seeing red is an understatement.
I am telling you ! That's a level +1000 humiliation.
Yeah, at that point Emmitt dug his grave
You dont poke a bear and not suffer the consequences of it!
Put me on that jury and I vote not guilty. Emmitt was a POS.
He shouldnt be in prison
They should stop calling this disgusting relationship of "Love Triangle" to "Lust Triangle". People in love don't hurt others, don't destroy others families, deceive their loved ones, disrespect their life partner, cheat on their spouse, and have affair with married people. These people are blinded by lust and not love.
You’re absolutely right!
@@aprilbrooks7114 Thank you April.
Did Ashlee tell her children the hero (adulterer burning in the eternal fire) was in the coffin? Telling your children he's a hero is cheating to your children.
Cheating may be hazardous to your heath. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
and hazardous to the health of coward killer who gets to spend a lot of time with Bubba and Otis and hundreds of others looking for fresh meat
Let's go one further............Marriage can be hazardous to your health.
@@brentinnes5151 cheater still dead, whoomp whoomp
All I can say is Karma comes around. How can a man cheat on a wife that’s given him children and had the nerve to do it while she was pregnant. I wish nothing but blessings, success, happiness, and love for Ashley and her children. I can’t even begin to imagine how much turbulence she went through.
Totally agree, karma exists, imagine how his poor kids felt having dressed up, looking forward to daddy returning home, and then he makes an argument, doesn’t eat the food and goes out for his married mistress. Ashley comes across as so beautiful in her nature.
How could a man cheat on his wife who’s pregnant with a porn star (Stormy Daniels)🫤
My ex cheated on me when I was 8and a half months pregnant with my best friends sister. I left the marriage when my daughter was 9 months old as I couldn't get over the cheating. My dad had done the same thing to my mom only she was in the hospital having a stillborn baby when he cheated on her. My ex knew that it would be the one thing I couldn't accept..
@@lynnegackstetter2779 sorry to hear. Hope you give the best life to your daughter and find a decent partner deserving of you. Also sometimes our past traumas (e.g. your dad doing this to your mum) can have a negative impact on our self confidence. So keep your head held up high and find the best person for you 💕💜
I’m the youngest of 7. My mom was cheated on throughout her marriage, and divorced him by the time I was a year old. After moms death my sisters and I found a letter she had kept for 50 years from a woman who wrote it to my biological co-creator (I don’t call him my dad) who was contemplating if she should go be with him since he’s married and has 7 children because she didn’t know if that would be right with God. What a POS female.
This story still baffles me. All these years later and I still cannot fathom the utter waste of life over sex.
Double negative?
The drive of life is a waste of life?
it is a kind of drug
Jessica, sex means something much deeper to many of us. I suppose to you it''s just pleasure or baby making?
I am a man and can totally relate to Rob's actions. I thank God I have never been driven to such an act, but I understand the hurt, anger, and anguish.
To anyone wondering Ashlee is now married with two new borns:)
Whoopie. quit having kids and following a cult.
Men and women do not blame yourselves for a marriage failed because your partner was too juvenile to value a family! Move on and your love for yourselves and your kids will grow and you will see the problems were not and never are yours to carry upon your shoulders!
I mean I agree to a degree but how dumb was she? Like come on. Rob did her a favour because she never would have left him.
Dumb? She was home busy with 5 kids and a family. This should not have even been a concern of hers. Her immature husband took his own life, when he strayed from his family. I feel sorry for all the children, they didnt think about.@@CommonSenseIsNotCommon13
She fine. She remarried
Emmett was an extreme narcissist and the mistress was manipulating. There’s no way Rob should have taken her back.
Poor Emmett, no one to tell his side of the story! He did not deserve to die because he cheated on his wife. Looks like Rob started the cheating and stayed alive. Candi was looking for an escape and found Emmett whom she likely seduced, being the older woman. Emmett the hardworking attorney who had likely got married too early, found a diversion in his very office, especially where he and Candi had shared interests. Candi appeared to him as the confident woman, and perhaps his wife was more naive, overworked with children and feeling the children would help hold the marriage together. Emmett was young and driven, the very qualities Candi admired but used against him later saying he was aggressive. How was Rob injured? Was it self inflicted or did Emmett also have a gun? Candi's biggest crime was trying to make Emmet look like the aggressor in the end in order to appease killer Rob who knew what he had set out to do that night. Bet he had their daughter spy on the mom. RIP Emmett, hope you are in a better place. (He was the only real victim here as everyone else has a chance to change their lives and learn from this horrible experience, but he did not.)
@@nimue4325 how you gonna go this hard for the man who was with full knowledge cheating on his wife and gaslighting her about it? He deserved it, Candi should have gotten hers too with her funky elderly manipulative self. It's not mutually exclusive, we can easily conclude they were BOTH garbage sub-humans based off of their behvior.
@@nimue4325 Emmet was a cheat and fool, his foolishness played a major role in him ending up dead.
@@nimue4325the victims are Ashley and the kid's from both families. The rest are all selfish people
@@nimue4325 You have a delusional take. Everything you said should be the opposite for it to be correct.
Emmett is vile and worthy of contempt.
To those that mess around with married people, take a lesson from this.
I think younger people call it FAFO.
They were all married.
If married don’t commit Adultery with a single or another married person. 👍🏽
Those people are called homewreckers!.
To married people who mess around with other people, take a lesson from this.
Candy lied to the police. She cheated on her husband. She embezzled from her employers. She was part of the reason Emmett is dead. SMH
No Emmet is he could’ve said I’m good I have a family, don’t blame 1 party when it takes 2 to tangle
@@mista-ys5if did I blame one party?
@@mista-ys5ifshe literally wrote that Kandi “was part of the reason…” P-A-R-T. Parttttt. 🤦🏻♀️
She’s not conscious. She has brain damage. Because nobody with a healthy mind is doing all this.
Need to reread that. @@mista-ys5if
If your that unhappy just leave .
Candy is absolutely disgusting. Why in the world would these two men destroy their lives and the lives of their children like this over this woman. Don't get it. Absolutely disgusting 🫣
Some men are just as disgusting as candy 😊
Pride before the fall.
Let’s not forget what Emit did. If he hadn’t had an affair he would still be alive. Emit shares some of the blame in his death. It looks like the family members of Emit completely forgot about his part in all this giving victim statements like he did nothing wrong.
Emitt made his decision, now he died for the consequences of that decision.
Yea I think candy's husband didn't deserve 30yrs, more like 15, it was not premeditated it was a crime of passion, ofcourse he lost it from his wife having an affair & happened to own a gun. If I was Emmett's wife would have asked for leniency for the man he wasn't such an innocent victim
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You're correct. He shouldn't have screwed around with a married woman and disrespected his own wife. He kinda made his own bed. If I were Rob, I would have pled guilty. Maybe been faced with 25yrs and get out in 15 on good behavior.
that's why he was killed, that family had no sense of other people's life and reality..the narcissistic statements that they're entitled to do anything they want without facing its consequences..
Don't fool around with another man's wife. If you do, then be willing to pay the consequences.
I'm not sorry for the husband who cheated. I only feel sorrow for the wife. She is the only one with integrity.
And the children. This must have been horrible for both sets of children.
someone said she remarried who would she ever support the family
I feel empathy for the deceased though. He was young and dumb. He never really dated before. He was a book worm nerd, met and married his wife right out of college. Candi was older, wiser, more experienced, manipulative and he fell for her BS. She probably told him what a bad guy her husband was and how much she hated her marriage, etc. He was just naive and believed her lies. It's ashame
The loser husband got dispatched, she is now remarried with someone better so it worked out.
@@thrshwll1526stupidity isn't an excuse guy was a piece of shit i feel bad that the other guy in prison though. Emmet sounds like the type that would attack and give the man no choice
Ashlee is such a strong and courageous woman, she's the real hero in this story. If there's a villain... there's definitely a hero, to me it's her. She's a ray of light even what she's been thru, those kids lost their father which is horrible.... but they were blessed with strength from Momma, I wish those kids safety, love and happiness. This one pulled at the heart strings.
Yes agree🙏❤️
Yes yes yes yes yes and yes. Yes.
She truly is an amazing pillar of strength, grace, beauty, courage, perseverance, and all that is good.
Your husband wasn’t a hero young lady!!!
Kandi is one of the perfect definition of selfish human,
"its fine to hurt others as long as i'm happy, who cares"
And she could not face the truth, her poor children
Totally appropriate name 😂kandi lol
That's exactly like my b.m
What about Emmet!?
@@olgayarovaya3920They attracted each other because they're exactly the same
His wife is beautiful and NONE of this is her fault. May God provide and protect her family in Jesus name, Amen 🙏🏼
Jesus has nothing to do with all of this. He died long ago.
@@user-jc8py7dw7r oh but you’re so wrong, He died on the cross for your sins so you can have salvation. HE is very much ALIVE. I challenge you to ask him to show you how real He is 🙏 Seek and you shall find
Her lover and her husband both bleeding, and she goes to her lover. If she were my mother, I'd never speak to her again. Doubt this was the first time she cheated.
Ashlee is so gorgeous. Her husband was so stupid.
He married her ‘wanted kids’ she gave him children but he didnt want the daily relationship with them. He liked the idea of playing house, but he just wanted the fun part, not the actual raising them and being there for them part.
Poor children (all 7 of them) and Ashley.
I am 100% agree with you !!
She is beautiful, intelligent and I hope that one day, she will be able to have faith in someone.
If I was at her place, I would never be.....
Yes, nice voice too.
nuttin' like a good old mormon marriage...
5 kids with a beautiful woman and he chooses another man’s wife . Way to go
no he wanted fun and it ended up in murder
dont know what you mean strange if you have family to do this too late now still murder not warranted@hello-vy5lb
@@rogerrosen2323 I would be inclined to agree with you, except his actions paint a different story: 1. He had started to consistently put his mistress above his family meaning he was neglecting them for her. He was going home late, spending nights away, not spending the evenings and weekends with his kids, to the point the wife says the kids were asking if he still lived there. Whatever issue he had with the wife does not excuse him neglecting the kids. The night he was shot he basically left the family dinner at night to go get a BJ from her in some parking lot. That's shows love/possession/obssession..something more than just fun. I think he was planning on divorcing his wife for her; 2. He contacted the husband to let him know of the affair and to taunt him. He was jealous of the husband.
They were clearly planning to divorce their spouses and Emmet was getting jealous of his mistress' husband. She probably lied to him that she wasn't having sex with her husband anymore, but I bet he suspected she still did and it drove him crazy. He got into a fight with her husband because he probably wanted to push her or him to divorce already. Clearly, they weren't going to and were just arguing at that point. The mistress was shrewed; she wanted to pick her best option and was probably still thinking about who it was. Or maybe it was just sex for her and the idiot ruined it by catching feelings and telling her husband. The video also mentions some emails her husband received about the affair.
dosent indicate murder but it happens all the other personal things dont matter i can remember a case of a@@ciobalina7445 cop in ny found out a dog walker or something was meeting his wife he confronted at a rstaurant and killed him and himsself many more stories we know like on crime watch daily still you need to love family first not some other women
There’s nothing worse than going to a therapist with your cheating husband (hoping with all your might that he will agree to try and fix things) but instead having him gush about how awful he thinks you are in every way. And then saying he doesn’t love you and he’s done with the marriage. You were lucky he didn’t show up. Trust me.
What a beautiful and intelligent woman Ashley is. Big hugs to you and your children.
Rob is not the reason Ashlee lost her husband, he was already gone.
God Bless you Ashey! I went thru something similar...you don't realize how lucky you we're really we're! There was no fixing the marriage...he was too selfish...God Bless your children, may you all heal from the trauma, completely!
It disgusts me that this woman had no regard for her own family and goes on to destroy another family. What a POS! Pure evil!
What about the male lover? Always the woman's fault, huh?
@@quinncreel6091 Oh no, I agree! He did this to his wife and children and ended up paying the ultimate price. I just remembered watching this on one of those crime shows and seeing her on stand during the trail of her husband. I was so disgusted at the whole thing but mostly her after watching her on the stand. I agree with you, the man was just as wrong as she is. 👌
And her employer who seduced her is innocent?
@@annabellelee4535 No one even said that. Her employer is dead, her husband in jail and she walked away with unscathed. Besides, they said in the documentary she wanted to get back at her husband for having an affair, so who seduced who?
@@greeneyesdante The person holding power over another person's life, like an employer, ethically shouldn't be having affairs with underlings.
I remember the story on Dr, Phil. Kandi showed absolutely no remorse for the affair or her part in this whole thing! This happened many years ago and I do know that Ashlee is now happily remarried and had 2 more children.
what emmit did was wrong but of course it shoyld have been dealt with without murder athough usually it isnt
she needs to stop having kids damn
The most beautiful, most respectful mother of 5 I have seen is you Ashley!! YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS ❤❤
Ashlee is a women of integrity and the real victim. Nobody deserves her suffering. God
Bless her.
If you have a cheating husband, good luck. They rarely change.
Ashlee is light years ahead of the 3 that were involved in this. Clearly Emmett did not see what he had. Unbelievable, my heart goes out to her.
Emmett truly had it all. His wife is beautiful inside and out. What a tragedy.
So happy that Ashlee got second chance on real love
Technically third since she married and divorced someone else before her current marriage.
YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS! I am sorry this happened to you!🙏🏾
Im not sure wjy theyre painting Candi as a victim. She is absolutely no good.
Agreed
I only have sympathy for Ashlee and her kids. And Candi’s daughters. The only innocents in this heartbreaking drama.
so getting your head blown off because you are a cheater is ok with you
I feel for the wife; she has a beautiful spirit; my only issue is that she refers to her husband as her children's hero. He is not. He's actually the opposite of a hero. Heroes come home and are dedicated to their families completely. Heroes don't get killed defending the "honor" of another man's wife. He's receiving heroes' honors because he died, and romanticizing him is easier. I understand that her grief is layered and complex, but one day, one of her children will likely point out that their dad destroyed their family.
Exactly that’s the Mormon brainwash talking.
You are right. He is no hero and she shouldnt portrait hi to his kids as hero.
Wow, the mother of 5 is like a rock for her family. Her forgiveness will be like a burning guilt for that couple. I prayed that God will continue to give her wisdom and bless her with all her needs.
This man threw away his wife and 5 children like they were fluff. What a fool!!
He was an idiot.
And got EXACTLY what he asked for.
With 5 kids you should never be a nest-pooper, and neither should you be with one. Anyone you stray with is a danger to yourself and your family. STI, stray pregnancy, stalking, violence, the list is endless. Respect yourself and your family.
Never go for someone that is taken, they made that choice for a reason and have their energy tied to that person.
@The Nippy fee right and especially if you are trying to spite the other person and who you are getting with I'm talking about the new person that's helping you do wrong to that person especially if that person is innocent that you are trying to hurt the only one that you're hurting is yourself and 9times out of 10you in up hurting yourself and the new person only and they got the nerve to help you do wrong toward the innocent person that had nothing to do with what was going on cause you and them are making you as a fool basically and are helping them do that you think that you're being smart
but you're not
all you're is a third wheel
Well said. The poor children have to grow up without their dad now. So sad
Agree. Emmett bears significant responsibility here. Further, it is not clear to me that this was not in fact self-defence. If Emmett had threatened the husband and was charging him... it rather looks like self defence to me.
She actually thought her fellow employees wouldn’t tell the cops was going on.
She thought wrong!😂
If you love someone, don't cheat on them. Especially when kids are involved. Work things out if possible.
@RandyRandall9289 well all depends on the situation that or don't work it out especially for the children sake cause you didn't marry the children or you should have married for the children that's the wrong reason to get and or stay with them for that reason cause it's not real it's bogus and I know that bogus stands for not real
or you shouldn't have married for the children sake that's sho nuff wrong
@@louisewilliams-s7e i guess I'm old school in that regard, marriage counseling works for some. And for some it doesn't. 🙂
Any man who would allow himself to crash and burn over a B is a darn fool.
Especially a married employee in their 40s. What was the best case scenario in this situation? Both parties abandon their spouse and children and live happily ever after? Would it one day just end and everything would continue on as if nothing happened? This situation is the definition of "play stupid games, win stupid prizes".
@malcador 😂 don't use logic. People don't like it.
I'm so glad Ashlee chose to be truthful with her kids and turned it into a life lesson to stop and think of the choices made in life. I used to have a quick temper but as I've gotten older, I don't make quick emotional decisions. I had my own children and now my grandchildren that are the inspiration to not make rash decisions.
You have grandchildren? You look tf good for being a grandma 😍
@halroxdynasty8683 😆 Thanks 😊 yeah my 22 year old daughter and I just left a bridal shop for her wedding and the stylist there couldn't believe we were mother and daughter. Both of my parents were younger looking for their age so it's definitely genetic. I appreciate the compliment for sure.
I've seen this before... I never believed ONE word Kandi said. Kandi enjoyed every minute of it.
Prolly still does
Imagine your husband gets murked and you find out he was a cheater.
The betrayal must’ve hit hard.
I feel so bad for her.
Imagine your husband coming home to tell you that he is leaving you for a man. What do you tell the children? Do you forget about God and go and have sex with women? This will either make or break you. Our hope is in God. I have witnessed God sending my first lady of faith a god-fearing man who truly loves her and her children. Yes, the Lord sent her a good man! Hallelujah ❤️ When God sets us free from mean people we must never return to them. These are evil times and being unequally yoked by marching with groups of rebellion and perversion can become deadly. Going to these pride bars and entertainment venues are high risks! Children of entitlement are blind to these dangers becoming prey to violent hate groups. We must not allow our relatives of faith to frequent these places. Also parents are responsible for checking out the friends that children keep. If any of them are bullies and aggressive you must encourage your children to end these harmful relationships since teenagers are killing people daily. These children of the darkness are Satan disciples determined to uproot everything good. God is good therefore serve him alone. 🗝️
That's why she remarried. 😗
Learn to spell, dodo bird.
@@rockon8174good for her, she already wasted lot of time with that pos husband !
Only one that sounds like a decent person is the wife that was cheated on. Rest were people I would never want to know.
He wasnt a hero by any means. There Father was no hero he was a cheater.
Well… He was cheating with a married woman and talking trash to the husband…That was a bit much..
If he really even talked shit, we'll never know
What really bothers me is when Rob tells Emmett to go back to his wife and 5 kids. They said Emmett got enraged over this comment. Nothing like getting pissed off after hearing the truth.
@@tigerlily102511 yep!! You’re exactly right…
@@Tonya39420 Well,according to the wife.. The boyfriend had the nerve to talk shiii to him and he was with the man’s wife.. That’s crazy..He put his life in danger then.. should have kept quiet and dropped her off around the corner and went home..
@@JustMe-pu3xm according to the woman in the middle, whose the only one that even has a story.. I'm just saying she could say it went any way she wants.. ya know what I mean? I'm not trying to argue
28 with 5 kids OMG. I’m 25 and can’t even imagine having 1. That’s a strong woman and it’s sad her husband was a conniving liar cheating with an old lady his “mother figure”🤮
She married an immature waste of space unfortunately
Mormon
40 isn’t old, not too mention a lot of 40 year olds look hell of a-lot better than some 25 year olds “ hint hint” meaning you probably! Ask any guy would they choose an ugly overweight 25 year old or a HOT 40 year old and guess what the answer would be? sorry honey we read right thru your jealousy in that comment! Lol
@@kellyf5004well the unnecessary demeaning you just did to OP shows your incredible immaturity. I know you think you did something here but the only thing you did was show you’re clearly an older individual and easily offended by the word “old” 🤨 weird little attack you did there.
@@kellyf500440 isn't old but the mistress Candi looks like an old hag.
Ashley, I hope and pray you get the support you need. You deserve a good life and so do your kids.
If this was the case in Idaho, it happened many years ago. Kids are probably grown up already.
She's fine. She is on her second marriage since and has made a career out of the situation.
@@hottiregottiA 2nd marriage already? God she has a problem then!!!
@@missfitmissfit8918what do you mean “already?” This man died in 2011. She doesn’t have a “problem.”
Ashlee is such a beautiful soul. God bless her. ❤
I remember this first story about father of 5 and the affair with much younger boss, Followed story and what's really shocking is that the mistress acts like she's a victim and she was being stalked!! OMG are you kidding me? If your having marital problems, get counseling! This amazing mom and 5 children will never be the same because of you... homewrecker.
The dirtbag husband Emmett was the "homewrecker". If it wasn't Kandi, it would have been someone else. There were probably many Kandi's that he cheated on sweet Ashlee with.
9@@vanillaghetto
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Cheating men who can't control what's in their pants has been an age old problem since the beginning of time...🙃
This story is a very important lesson to all of us. It will never be old. Please continue showing it so that people can learn from it. I am watching it for the first time. Please continue airing it. It will always be the first time for someone.
Unfortunately people think it will never happen to them.
Kandi is a real catch. I can totally see why he ruined his life for her 🙄
Lmfaoooo. With her big forehead self 😭
I heard this story before, but I didn’t know Rob (Candy’s husband) had cheated on the wife first! I mean…..how you going to get mad at the wife for doing the same exact thing you initiated?
Regardless, Emmitt bought this tragedy on himself. His wife is fine as hell and he had kids and yet…he knowingly still became a home wrecker in someone else’s marriage. Not saying this guy deserved death, but he put the quarter in the jukebox.
Rob didn't cheat on anyone .
@@gregbuckley7596that is what they said, are they lying? They’re a trash couple, not hard to believe.
he bought this on himself ? that's like blaming a SA victim for her skimpy clothes
Actually there’s no proof of his affair. It’s alleged. They had literally just moved to Idaho. This was her first job in the city. She was trying to defend herself to turn her husband into a monster. Emitt also picked up the phone while they were fucking and yelled at her husband. Threatened him.
Also what’s alleged is her started the fight by being honest, and telling him to go home to his family. She’s a liar. There’s a reason the daughter called the dad. Kids are normally loyal to the parents who’s the most honest. I wouldn’t believe anything she said. Emitt started all this nonsense.
Krazy Kandi made that up to justify her affair.
you DO NOT marry someone after 2 months of dating. Sooooooo many poor decisions made on everyone’s part but I only feel bad for the wife and kids.
💯🎯💯🎯
Another weird case where a guy had a mistress significantly less attractive than his wife.
Actually this is not that uncommon...
Cheaters cause so much pain and heartache to so many people for a very long time. I will never understand it.
Poor Ashlee. I hope she and her kids have peace.
Wow, she's acting emotional, distressed before the interrrogator comes in. But when she says, "I know, I do it alll day long," she sounds chipper, fine, unaffected. Then quickly shifts to let out a gasp to bring the mood down again. I think they were both narcs/ psychos, you have to be to selfishly hurt people like that.
Such a dramatic actress.
I caught that too
The mom of the five kids was WAY prettier than Kandi lmao. Guy was cheating on her for that? I can’t.
There is more to love and attraction than merely looks. Kandi is an attractive woman though. She had two men obsessed with her.
@@annabellelee4535Nah, the dude probably had a fetish for old people. She is not attractive 💀
It's all about looks, right ? 🙃
@@matildagreene1744 Some people are very shallow. smh.
She prolly fed his ego and he seemed like a narcissist. She also prolly made herself available to him sexually and would do things that his wife wouldn’t do.
ALL MY LOVE & RESPECT TO ASHLEE. She's a far better person than the three people involved in the triangle. God bless her and her children ALWAYS.
She remarried
THIS MIDDLE AGE WOMAN.ENJOYED TWO MEN FIGHTING OVER HER
Not just her. 90% of female population.
I call these kind of women Jezebel .
She definitely got an ego boost.
Yeah,she want to prove that she's pretty,but Ashley is more prettier and younger than her,,so I'm moral woman,phycho,like her husband' ,Ashley husband just want attention also' , like candy' the cheaper woman...
The wife was mad because he cheated BUT then she cheats and then he offs her lover and pretends to try to off himself and then now she stands back with her husband! She's absolutely 💯 ridiculous 🙄
never mess around with a married woman or married man. There are convequences
Ashley you’re beautiful Inside and out, you have nothing to feel lesser about. I’m sorry for your loss and wish you all the best.
Ladies do not hesitate to leave anyone that does this to you your family! Don’t argue it’s a waste of time ! Better days ahead for you your kids if you just love you your kids and know your safety your children safety is most important!
Men do not hesitate to leave anyone that does this to you your family! Don’t argue it’s a waste of time ! Better days ahead for you your kids if you just love you your kids and know your safety your children safety is most important!
Yeah, but it's easy to say that. It's very hard to just up and leave when you've built your life around someone for better or worse. That's something a privileged white women would say. Not so for the rest of the world.
@itsjustnopinionok that's the problem. Men stop building your life around anyone, not even your children
Emmitt wanted to mess around and find out. Narcissistic people like to roll the dice. Eventually you lose.
I feel so sad for his sweet wife who deserved much, much better. What an awful man this guy was. Fine if you want to have an affair but treat your wife with dignity and respect and leave her first.
Why people always think the outside is more important than the ínside?
You Ashley are absolutely Gorrrgeous!!!! My heart breaks for you! I knowww the pain of dealing with a cheater and or narcissist. I’m sooooo sorry this happened to you😢!!!! My Prayers for you and your beautiful children. May GOD give you the strength to carry on and take care of those babies🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Man, screw this jury and screw Emmett's family. Rob did exactly what he had every right to do.
Emmet family, your son was a dirtbag and got EXACTLY what he had coming to him.
Emmett wasn’t an innocent victim, he was the proximate cause of the madness that harmed so many people, along with Candy who seems like a modern day Siren, escaping responsibility for her direct role in this ugly mess. Some justice dispensed here with the 30 year sentence, but much denied.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes.....lynerd skynerd write a song called "gimme three steps" ....guess Emmett never heard it. Smh. When you step into someone else's marriage, you can expect bad things to happen either right then or a little ways down the road. I feel for Ashley and the kids. All because one person couldn't keep it in his pants and one couldn't keep her legs together.
Yep I agree! And I absolutely love your comment! That was perfectly said!
Yup yup yup, when being slutty gets you offed and your reputation ruined forever
@@Tonya39420 thank you.
Is this what that song's about?
@joutoob9 not this incident. Lol the song is from the 70s. In the song The guy gets caught just DANCING with a married woman and the husband pulls a forty four on him.
I feel bad for the wife and kids, but Emmet was a dirt bag. Rob didn't deserve the sentence he got for it. I'm sure he regrets being in prison for the likes of Candy.
Also wasn't Rob also cheating 🤦🏻♀️🤨🙄 I swear
"With persuasive words she led him astray;
she seduced him with her smooth talk.
22 All at once he followed her
like an ox going to the slaughter,
like a deer stepping into a noose
23 till an arrow pierces his liver,
like a bird darting into a snare,
little knowing it will cost him his life.
24 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
pay attention to what I say.
25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways
or stray into her paths.
26 Many are the victims she has brought down;
her slain are a mighty throng.
27 Her house is a highway to the grave,
leading down to the chambers of death." (Proverbs 7).
"For jealousy arouses a husband’s fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse a bribe, however great it is." (Proverbs 6:34-35).
Many are destroyed for lack of knowledge!
This happened couple of years ago, I remember, so sad for both sides of families 😢
I dont understand why guys will cheat on a beautiful woman with women who could pass as a pit bull. Grandma should have spent some time in jail over that as well. If she wouldnt have spread her legs open than Emmet wouldnt have been cheating on his wife with her and ended up dead.
They will cheat with anything, I've seen some things 😂😂😂 but for real...the Candy lady probs thought he "liked" her too 🙄 mfer wanted some strange, the end.