How to Let Go: 4 People You MUST Forgive

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  • Опубликовано: 8 июн 2024
  • The greatest obstacle to peace of mind is to let go of anger and blame. In order to eliminate anger, you must learn how to forgive and forget. Watch this video to learn how to let go and how to be positive about the relationships in your life.
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  • @yidman111
    @yidman111 8 лет назад +82

    'The greatest gift you can give yourself is forgiveness."

  • @gybx4094
    @gybx4094 6 лет назад +44

    It's best to compose the letter, read it repeatedly until you no longer feel anger, then burn the letter! That way, it's strictly personal and there's no reaction from the other person.

    • @daRich_X
      @daRich_X 3 года назад

      Thank you

    • @MonoDevYT
      @MonoDevYT 3 года назад

      @@daRich_X I forgive you

  • @TIFLAG
    @TIFLAG 4 года назад +12

    1- Parents: Don't keep the anger all the time
    2- Relationships: that didn't work, don't blame, forgive and forget negative emotions and say 'I forgive them'
    3- Everybody hurt you: your boss, friends,... repeat it; 'I wish them well and forgive them till that negative emotion has go away'
    4- YOURSELF: your are different person compare to the past, you have more experience and repeat; 'I forget myself for all mistakes I have done' 'I am a good person and gonna have a wonderful future'
    Let it go TECHNIQUE:
    Write a letter or email of forgiveness
    1- I forgive you for...
    2- List of why you angry about...
    3- End of letted: 'I wish you well'
    >>SEND

  • @stanlindert6332
    @stanlindert6332 9 лет назад +11

    I've done this and it's the most amazing darn thing.

  • @mjcarollson2
    @mjcarollson2 10 лет назад +46

    I agree about forgiving parents-- it's an important step to take for oneself. HOWEVER, if a parent is still continuing the destructive behavior, simply forgiving him or her will not bring peace. For example, where one's parent has a personality disorder. Sometimes forgiveness must be accompanied by measures of self-protection, such as low or no contact. It seems shortsighted to give people the impression that the only thing holding them back from having a healthy relationship with their parent(s) is choosing to forgive. Skipping off into the sunset with happy, healthy, supportive parents isn't a possibility for many folks, unfortunately.

  • @MrFdfdfg
    @MrFdfdfg 7 лет назад +24

    Before watching this video, I thought forgiving myself was not important. When I tried it, it was magical. Thank you very much Sir.

    • @deniskhakimov
      @deniskhakimov 5 лет назад

      I had (have) the same problem, now I realise that forgiving yourself is one of the hardest step on the way to the best future.

  • @billybob9961
    @billybob9961 6 лет назад +5

    Brian is 100% correct I forgot this rule for success and it has haunted me the last few years remember forgiving doesn't mean forgetting it just means you let loose of the burden of the hatred and anger can you set yourself free they no longer have power over your thoughts or feelings this is a wonderful thing

  • @SBALBUENA
    @SBALBUENA 6 лет назад +19

    Your voice is so soothing

  • @starkid77
    @starkid77 5 лет назад +20

    We can forgive and keep our distance from the toxic ones, right?

    • @tnt01
      @tnt01 2 года назад +3

      100% forgiveness does not mean reconciliation.

  • @aiahaya
    @aiahaya 7 лет назад +2

    I had this conversation with my sister today. This is so true, begin with forgiving the other person, process of forgiving my mistakes, and ends up forgiving myself. Weeks, months, maybe years, but no matter how difficult each day i have peace of mind.

  • @nandychess
    @nandychess 2 года назад +2

    I really needed this!
    I forgive the whole world but I find it very difficult to forgive myself & my parents (if it’s a serious mistake on their part and they aren’t sorry). I mainly never forgive myself. I have been working on this, and I’m making progress 😇
    This video helps me think positively in seconds. Downloading it so I can listen to it again whenever required!
    Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @jadammouri994
    @jadammouri994 8 лет назад +40

    One thing stops me sometimes from forgiving people is that they might repeat what they did...

    • @thaihongnguyen3651
      @thaihongnguyen3651 7 лет назад +5

      it is like we give them our trust again and after that they make us down :(

    • @Afrinaturality
      @Afrinaturality 7 лет назад +26

      +Thai Hong Nguyen You don't have to give your trust back. Forgive and let go.

    • @thaihongnguyen3651
      @thaihongnguyen3651 7 лет назад +2

      Afrinaturality :)) thank you, I'll follow your advice

    • @rashmig901
      @rashmig901 6 лет назад +9

      Jad Ammouri , forgiveness is, not allowing the people to do same mistakes, you don't have to trust them again, you don't have to give permission for them to do the same thing again, take responsibility...

    • @WashingtonDC20032
      @WashingtonDC20032 5 лет назад +1

      I feel that same way

  • @jessindeed
    @jessindeed 8 лет назад +12

    What a mature perspective. This helps me add to my goal based on character.

  • @felixkangwa3315
    @felixkangwa3315 Год назад

    U are the greatest gift to this world....I can't pay you back! Bless you always.

  • @ChrisLeRose
    @ChrisLeRose 7 лет назад +4

    I watch your videos every day now. I never know what I'm going to learn about myself.

  • @TheFinancialAdvocacyPodcast
    @TheFinancialAdvocacyPodcast 4 года назад +1

    This is a little thing, but it felt really good. Back in my 8th grade year (nearly 30 years ago now), I had insulted another girl. That stayed with me. A few years ago was my high school reunion and I contacted this girl (now obviously grown) and reached out to her on Facebook... and I apologized. She didn't remember... but *I* did. And now, whenever I happen to think of that incident in my life... I can also remember that I reached out and apologized for it and took responsibility for it.

  • @annaaslanyan1580
    @annaaslanyan1580 6 лет назад

    Just want to give a word of appreciation for what you do for millions of people, Bryan. Million thanks and best regards from Armenia.

  • @uranne
    @uranne 3 года назад +2

    I forgive anyone and everyone who has ever hurt me wittingly or unwittingly. I forgive myself completely. Happy 2021!

  • @alemnehtsegaw3375
    @alemnehtsegaw3375 8 лет назад +4

    wow!!!it is an outstanding video...i am changing with your teachings....great thanks,Mr.Brian Tracy

  • @111mrnice
    @111mrnice 8 лет назад +2

    After this video i realize that forgiveness is the basic key to success in the life without forgiveness there is no piece of mind and no meaning of life. Thank you very much Mr Brian Tracy

  • @khalidhewadpal3585
    @khalidhewadpal3585 6 лет назад

    World of thanks, dear Brian Tracy!

  • @fuerzajr1
    @fuerzajr1 6 лет назад +1

    Very true and powerful teachings in this video. Thank you Mr. Tracy!

  • @tlgf7638
    @tlgf7638 8 лет назад

    Brian,
    You truly have a gift for impartation to people. This message is very powerful and you present it excellently.
    I know your videos are part of a bigger picture. I hope you continue to bless people with your positive insights and knowledge.
    It's a joy to watch you.

  • @bborgan7611
    @bborgan7611 6 лет назад

    I started to cry towards the end of this video. WOW! Thanks!

  • @emilybets418
    @emilybets418 5 лет назад +2

    This Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much 🌹 Love you ❤

  • @cristianpetri1
    @cristianpetri1 5 лет назад

    Hey Brian! Your channel is gold. Thank you for the information you share for a better world.🌏❤

  • @noufalhuraybi7548
    @noufalhuraybi7548 4 года назад

    Thank you very much Brian. I love listening to you. Beside your clear explanation & calm confident tone, your advices always doable and useful ...many thanks.

  • @SR-se1ye
    @SR-se1ye 10 лет назад +34

    wow. amazing video. Thank you!

    • @BrianTracyOfficial
      @BrianTracyOfficial  10 лет назад +19

      You are very welcome. To YOUR success, Brian Tracy

    • @tobiasbengtsson2112
      @tobiasbengtsson2112 7 лет назад +3

      +Brian Tracy The parent on was really good for me because I'm 14 and I was starting to develop the inferiority complex as you called it in the video, I would like to thank you for making these videos they are super helpful answer thing me on the right path in life.

    • @suonbuntem9066
      @suonbuntem9066 6 лет назад

      Thank for your videos

  • @rishikeshpandey6484
    @rishikeshpandey6484 3 года назад

    This video has made a drastic impact on me. Thanks Brian.

  • @abc10203
    @abc10203 7 лет назад

    Thank you Mr Tracy! Your words are like remedy, they are so curing 😊🙏🏼

  • @rebinsky9
    @rebinsky9 7 лет назад

    Thanks Mr. Tracy. Your "Psychology of achievement" series changed my life about 11 years ago. You are a class act and great teacher.

  • @madslug7139
    @madslug7139 Год назад

    Thank you Brian! Great video as always!

  • @mysticvisionsvideos
    @mysticvisionsvideos 11 лет назад

    This is one of the most important topics in personal growth and one of your best videos. I have been working on this myself a lot recently, and it has been very helpful.

  • @periperihustle4561
    @periperihustle4561 5 лет назад +1

    As usual Brian hits the nail right on the head at the exact time

  • @iikimida
    @iikimida 6 лет назад +3

    So hard but so important. Thank u!

  • @Mufaddalqn
    @Mufaddalqn 9 лет назад +2

    Excellent advice. We are doing ourselves a favor by forgiving other in order to get mental peace. Otherwise the constant negative thought of hatred and anger would eat our mind and body.

  • @maryamsed6023
    @maryamsed6023 6 лет назад

    Thank you dear Mr.Brian for your best speaking you are the best and your books really have changed my life.

  • @fassica9853
    @fassica9853 6 лет назад

    This video changed my life. I am so grateful, Sir!

  • @themikewacshow7786
    @themikewacshow7786 9 лет назад

    Thank you Brian Tracy, you make the difference for me!

  • @MinorityDoc
    @MinorityDoc 8 лет назад +1

    thanks for the guidance Mr Tracy, you literally read out my life story and sorted it out. there must be many more with the same opinion I think.

  • @nomfundomahlalela3977
    @nomfundomahlalela3977 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you Mr Tracy it helps a lot

  • @shonlove40
    @shonlove40 8 лет назад +1

    Thanks for this...I needed this

  • @queeniesuello8079
    @queeniesuello8079 3 года назад

    Thank you Brian!! It helps me a lot.😇

  • @LindaLinda-ry3ss
    @LindaLinda-ry3ss 7 лет назад +2

    i did it..the thing about a letter. by e mail..to my husband..and sure i felt instantly well...i did that before i saw this video..and when i saw it ..i was like wow..thank you so much dear..for these beautiful words

  • @acelguevarra4331
    @acelguevarra4331 4 года назад

    Thank you Mr. Brian Tracy for being my therapist

  • @AngelaPhuongBui
    @AngelaPhuongBui 3 года назад

    Thanks so much Brian, I need thisssss 😊😊😊

  • @thecommunitymediator
    @thecommunitymediator 12 лет назад

    Excellent points Mr. Tracy. I found this video on one my LinkedIn groups, and will forward to a friend who is having problems letting go of a relationship gone bad. And because this person can't let go, it is ruining their life, but what is worst, they can't see it.

  • @cristianperez8187
    @cristianperez8187 11 лет назад

    thank you so much, now I feel so better and don't have to worry anymore in my life.

  • @mannan2403
    @mannan2403 7 лет назад +1

    wow. this was a master piece..thank u Brian.. keep it up

  • @mellitabarretto9751
    @mellitabarretto9751 7 лет назад

    Beautiful Thought Sir... Thank you so much for sharing this with us.

  • @alirezasaatchi7212
    @alirezasaatchi7212 9 лет назад

    All of your lessons are fundamental ,important and easy to understand. I cried while watching this video,very impressive!

  • @user-hk8gp6zp2k
    @user-hk8gp6zp2k 4 года назад

    So thanks brian tracy too much for making this video!!

  • @knunez4862
    @knunez4862 5 лет назад +1

    Thank God I had the courage of doing this prior to reaching this video! It took me years. He’s right; it works. Excellent advice😍

  • @samuelmakeramuor136
    @samuelmakeramuor136 7 лет назад

    this is the part i was looking for.thank you.

  • @rachidsahraoui4072
    @rachidsahraoui4072 8 лет назад +1

    Very beneficial. Thanks for the upload. I feel many people may hold some sort of anger or resentment towards someone in their lives and in some cases, themselves. Each point mentioned in this video is useful. Thanks again!

  • @happyworldpyatina6938
    @happyworldpyatina6938 8 лет назад +5

    I absolutely agree!!! That`s a great way to go ahead.

  • @gabrielahojgrova
    @gabrielahojgrova 2 года назад

    I love you Brian !

  • @Juliana-gt9zq
    @Juliana-gt9zq 8 лет назад +1

    GREAT, BRIAN! 💞✨

  • @kobathedread
    @kobathedread 3 года назад

    This is the second time I have watched this video. But something this time hit me like a freight train. Thank you Brian Tracy.

  • @TheWildbill242
    @TheWildbill242 7 лет назад +3

    Very good, thank you.

  • @LearnEnglishESL
    @LearnEnglishESL 7 лет назад +1

    Very good talk. This concept of 'forgive and forget' is within every major world religion. "... be ever ready to overlook each other’s mistakes, apologize for harsh words they have uttered, forgive and forget..." Baha'i Faith, Lights of Guidance

  • @nazmulislammabroorvision1362
    @nazmulislammabroorvision1362 7 лет назад +1

    This helped me the most, Thank you sir

  • @K9emerald
    @K9emerald 8 лет назад

    thank you so much.. I couldn't let go of something that hurt me in the past.. but watching this video made me let go of some of it. thank you once again.

  • @mayanne1041
    @mayanne1041 3 года назад

    This video made me emotional. I think holding on to anger really affected my life in so many ways. Sometimes I'm thinking that I have already forgiven the people who had hurt me but sometimes when they suddenly appear in my thoughts and the hurtful things they did, I realize I'm still affected and hurt. From now on, little by little, I will do my best to forgive them completely including myself for all the wrong decisions and mistakes I did. By then, I'll be living a free and happy life with a genuine peace of mind ♥️.
    Thank you Sir Brian Tracy. Even if I haven't met you personally, I consider you as my life mentor. 🙂

  • @sherrypaintings3431
    @sherrypaintings3431 4 года назад

    One of the best lessons

  • @TAO7TAO7
    @TAO7TAO7 4 года назад

    Thank you Bryan

  • @nitigyan9336
    @nitigyan9336 5 лет назад

    Thanks sir every single day you make me happy and confident.

  • @shortsweetandsimple8863
    @shortsweetandsimple8863 7 лет назад +2

    thank you so much☺👍

  • @augustin2105
    @augustin2105 2 года назад

    Wonderful advice....Thank You so much..🙏

  • @alikamiar606
    @alikamiar606 5 лет назад

    You are great Brian

  • @ktmatsetse7730
    @ktmatsetse7730 6 лет назад

    thank you Brian. This is an excellent video. x

  • @missburgundy9444
    @missburgundy9444 4 года назад +1

    This is exactly what i am thinking about lately: "peace of mind"

  • @8leonica
    @8leonica 8 лет назад

    thank you mister Tracey you really touch me with this video.
    God bless you and your life purpuse!

  • @AnaLopez-ip8iw
    @AnaLopez-ip8iw 8 лет назад

    Thank you brian this is a Very Powerful message , When we Learn to truly forgive all persons/ people in our past
    we move forward to a better & happier life & better goals. Thank You ,, May the good lord bless you Brian

  • @TungPham-wb3ji
    @TungPham-wb3ji 3 года назад

    Thank you, Sir

  • @javierloya4086
    @javierloya4086 10 лет назад

    Thank you very much for this video, it has been very useful in my practice of forgiveness.

  • @esperanzadekeling701
    @esperanzadekeling701 6 лет назад

    Awesome videos Brian .

  • @vivekbelekar1105
    @vivekbelekar1105 2 года назад

    yes i forgave them all and also forgave myself i am moving ahead with my own life now i have my dreams and goals set for me Thank You!!

  • @clashkin1014
    @clashkin1014 6 лет назад

    Thank you Sir for your amazing video. I was holding lot of regrets and repentance about my past . But your video made it easy to forgive myself. Thank you so much for sharing all your videos and advises and suggestions. It makes life seems so easy and achievable of newer possibilities. Thank you Sir.

  • @youtubelover2327
    @youtubelover2327 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you super duper much mr.Brain ur a Angel . This helped me so much God Bless you 4ever!!!

  • @janelboth7160
    @janelboth7160 4 года назад

    Thank you !

  • @umairshahzad9507
    @umairshahzad9507 8 лет назад +1

    thankYou very much sir

  • @gayatrijoshi1984
    @gayatrijoshi1984 6 лет назад

    Thank you ! Brain

  • @lisanicholls9026
    @lisanicholls9026 6 лет назад

    Thanks Brian 😊

  • @freyaskadi4673
    @freyaskadi4673 5 лет назад

    this was such a wonderful video thank you

  • @eddiemattison7792
    @eddiemattison7792 Месяц назад

    Mature, wise advice!

  • @ymearth
    @ymearth 6 лет назад

    I will try the advice. Thank you so much💐

  • @heatherfinch8661
    @heatherfinch8661 7 лет назад

    This is powerful.....bless

  • @moolrajkapoor4525
    @moolrajkapoor4525 5 лет назад

    Very good advice, I forgive myself and everyone for the did and said.

  • @ilovejustinBIEBER65B
    @ilovejustinBIEBER65B 10 лет назад

    Thank you! I definitely needed this video so much today! :D

  • @tammyjohnson2509
    @tammyjohnson2509 6 лет назад

    Thank you!!

  • @leoagosto7006
    @leoagosto7006 7 лет назад

    thank you so much for your wonderful tips and sharing of knowledge,a video that worth million times....

  • @lyricssong74
    @lyricssong74 11 месяцев назад

    I forgive him/her for everything and I wish them well.

  • @seonf
    @seonf 10 лет назад

    That's amazing, it worked.

  • @cylikhare
    @cylikhare 9 лет назад

    thanku and lots of love to you Mr. Tracy. i am thankful to you for sharing positivity.

  • @thuytien269
    @thuytien269 9 лет назад

    Thank you so much ♥️

  • @aleciahsims
    @aleciahsims 4 года назад

    Thank you

  • @nikhilkamathofficial
    @nikhilkamathofficial 10 лет назад +1

    GOD BLESS...THANKS

  • @tessielao2547
    @tessielao2547 10 лет назад

    thank you very much, these video helps me a lot in clearing some doubts in my mind. I know that I need to forgive those people who have hurt me in the past but dont know how. Now, I know and I will always remind myself. Thank you again.

  • @davidabraxton6286
    @davidabraxton6286 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this video, especially the one about the parents and also i apply this method to forgiveness of God.