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The real issue here is pornography. Watching porn creates unrealistic expectations and can lead to dissatisfaction with real-life relationships. Most performers have undergone surgery, and this comparison can make genuine attraction difficult. Over time, porn can desensitize you, leading to the pursuit of more extreme content, some that even involve children. which is harmful and damaging. Pornography is forbidden for a reason. Encourage each other in your health and fitness goals and work together on weight loss. Support and motivation strengthen bonds. marital relationships require effort and respect. REMEMBER also to make dua for it to be successful “And those who say: Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders for the Muttaqun.’” (Al-Furqan 25:74)
@@miovicdina7706Muta,ah marriage is haram in islam. These who practice are small % of Shia in Iran. So, learn the basic before you talk what you don’t know next time.
He definitely needs rehab. This will not go away. Because of his habits his mind has created an unrealistic and unhealthy expectations that will be damaging to him and his family. May Allah help our youth and safeguard them from these types of harms. Ameen Great video MashaAllah
Didn’t watch whole video yet but I feel like that high and the weight much really well. That guy need to lower his gaze and pray to Allah SWT that He bless his marriage
hes very shallow...but he should have an open conversation with and he tries to build with her a healthy lifestyle together setting weight gaol together ....and pretty much sure hes overweight too
Its not just pornography but all the forbidden things also girls in general or movies they should not watch There is a certain standard created and sometimes even through the mother that likes to be vocal around her sons about what a woman should look like Ditch all the fairytales. It seems they are ok or even atttracted sometimes to women of that height but after a little while they become too much for them to see Terrible is a man that makes a woman feel bad about herself
Subhaallah that's kinda weird....he just comparing her with those nagoos he which on the site....may Allah protect us from a man like him.and he need to get rid of it
If you're a woman, you should be giving your husband the best possible version of you. Alot of women have this attitude of 'i am who i am', yet all this means is a lathargic lifestyle and bad eatinf habits. Just a side-point away from the video because the guy has his own issues.
Well if y’all let her leave the house to go for a walk or to the gym maybe she can improve . Y’all want her services for yourself and your parents 24/7
Just start asking men about their wallet and why they are broke when they start asking you ahit like this,,,,see how quickly conversations about love and how a man is more than money😂😂😂😂
I can't believe he is complaining about 5'8" 160 lbs. Even if she was 400-500lbs, he should still love her. You should only want her to get her weight down so that she can live long. The problem is definitely him and corn.
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Wow. What a considerate response! Thank you!
I CANNOT BELIEVE THERE ARE ACTUAL PEOPLE LIKE THIS IN THE WORLD! he actually thinks she is the probrem?😅 the poor woman 😱🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
I like the advice you give 🌺
How is she overweight at 160lb and 5’8”
We can thank 🌽 for this
She isn’t.
I feel like it’s perfect weight for that high. That guy must be body builders to even feel like he needs the same girl with 6 packs 😒
it is technically overweight but not by a large margin, if she's consistent she can loose the extra pounds fairly quickly
Love your response 👏👏👏👏 wise words
deff one of the best channels cl
Husband is deluded
I wouldn’t go as far as that lol but at least he now knows
The real issue here is pornography. Watching porn creates unrealistic expectations and can lead to dissatisfaction with real-life relationships. Most performers have undergone surgery, and this comparison can make genuine attraction difficult.
Over time, porn can desensitize you, leading to the pursuit of more extreme content, some that even involve children. which is harmful and damaging.
Pornography is forbidden for a reason. Encourage each other in your health and fitness goals and work together on weight loss. Support and motivation strengthen bonds.
marital relationships require effort and respect.
REMEMBER also to make dua for it to be successful “And those who say: Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders for the Muttaqun.’” (Al-Furqan 25:74)
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That's all cute but what about Mut'ah marriage??
@@miovicdina7706Muta,ah marriage is haram in islam. These who practice are small % of Shia in Iran. So, learn the basic before you talk what you don’t know next time.
He needs a personal trainer to raise his own self esteem, this will also encourage his wife to exercise
Great Advice
I think this is very common nowadays! The brother needs to reevaluate 🤦♂️
It’s more common than we think unfortunately
Or maybe she does...
You ate him up😭😭😭😭
He definitely needs rehab. This will not go away. Because of his habits his mind has created an unrealistic and unhealthy expectations that will be damaging to him and his family.
May Allah help our youth and safeguard them from these types of harms. Ameen
Great video MashaAllah
Ameen! and thank you
Didn’t watch whole video yet but I feel like that high and the weight much really well. That guy need to lower his gaze and pray to Allah SWT that He bless his marriage
Wrong intentions from the start. How do you want it to work? Clean yourself first then seek marriage
hes very shallow...but he should have an open conversation with and he tries to build with her a healthy lifestyle together setting weight gaol together ....and pretty much sure hes overweight too
I agree
5’8 and 160 is not overweight
He needs rehab asap
Some form of rehab would help for anybody in this situation
2:16 I’m crying😭😂
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Its not just pornography but all the forbidden things also girls in general or movies they should not watch
There is a certain standard created and sometimes even through the mother that likes to be vocal around her sons about what a woman should look like
Ditch all the fairytales. It seems they are ok or even atttracted sometimes to women of that height but after a little while they become too much for them to see
Terrible is a man that makes a woman feel bad about herself
Some good points raised. Thank you
Subhaallah that's kinda weird....he just comparing her with those nagoos he which on the site....may Allah protect us from a man like him.and he need to get rid of it
He needs to lower his gaze
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she should glow up and divorce him!
I’m sure they can work it out since they’re newly married
Stop advertising divorce, you’re weak
Shes not even overweight??
If you're a woman, you should be giving your husband the best possible version of you. Alot of women have this attitude of 'i am who i am', yet all this means is a lathargic lifestyle and bad eatinf habits. Just a side-point away from the video because the guy has his own issues.
if you are a husband, you should be the best version of yourself for your wife. The way he is talking about her, he isn't.
She’s of normal weight.
Well if y’all let her leave the house to go for a walk or to the gym maybe she can improve . Y’all want her services for yourself and your parents 24/7
@@blueberrycupcake6999 80% of it is controlling what goes in your mouths
Just start asking men about their wallet and why they are broke when they start asking you ahit like this,,,,see how quickly conversations about love and how a man is more than money😂😂😂😂
She is not overweight. Her body is overweight.
Also bodyfat distribution can be misleading
Wait, I’m 5’8 and 170 and considered slim lol. How is that overweight?? 😅 maybe the guy has the numbers wrong 😩
It’s all the stuff he’s been watching unfortunately
That's what I'm saying!!!!
Can we see what the guy looks like just to be fair???
lol you know we can’t do that
This ent right
It’s definitely not
I can't believe he is complaining about 5'8" 160 lbs. Even if she was 400-500lbs, he should still love her. You should only want her to get her weight down so that she can live long. The problem is definitely him and corn.
Well I don’t know about 500lbs 😅 but I get your point, thank you
@@TheMuslimMarriageCoach no problem brother. Keep up the great work!