I think it’s possible when you’re really young. Sometimes you know someone is not perfect, you love them with their flaws, you don’t want a fairy tale bcs everyday life is enough. You don’t expect someone to resolve your problems, but you still love them and think about them all the time, especially when they are in denial and rejecting phase. You can feel authentic connection and still hurt so much bcs of the situation
In your journey from limerence to love, limerence itself means absence of love, so in the process were you ever afraid of if you will ever be able to love this person genuinely?
This is one of your Best videos! I definitely was there, in limerence. I had never heard of that word before. It is disappointing when you see their flaws. I was ready to work with that but he wasn't.
Is it possible to move from limerence to unconditional love? I lately realised that in a such like this and I feel really broken and miserable, I doubt if I ever will be able to love this person from a place of pure love and that is all I want to feel, irrespective of me being with this person or not in future because from a place of that love I wouldn’t care if I am with him or not, any response will really help :)
Can you make a video on dealing with Sp in 3d daily. Like you see them daily. And no matter what something or other triggers us! I’m in a situation where he already has a gf. But we got physicall too! Its been more than a year. Now I have set a boundary. But we are still friends. I know he is affected too! But he is very good with hiding his feelings and not reacting. And I’m living in constant anxiety because iam stopping myself from reacting.
I'd be interested in that too. I've been in a relationship with a divorcing man but he went back to the 3p even though he loves me . After ½ months of hot/cold behaviour and actually asking for me to take him back, only to change his mind a week later, . I've finally set boundaries the other day and we're not communicating anymore. But I keep thinking about the 3p that triggers me.
@@anjatoledo8078 I can understand. But in my case he says he cannot leave his girlfriend because he has to keep his word. Because she is with him from 10 years. But on other side he says he says he is not attracted to her at all. And since he met me. He only has got intimate with me. We have an amazing bond when we get intimate. He talks to me, gives me time and does everything any boyfriend would do. But the moment I set boundaries that I cannot continue this. He is not talking to me that much. We only meet in gym. But still there are some things that keeps triggering me. When he doesn’t act like before. I don’t know what he is trying to do. Even he is training some other girl with me now. And she doesn’t talk to me that much. Even when I am good with girls. How can i stop myself from reacting. I’m so drained. As I work from home only. Sometimes these thoughts keep running in my head all day long. I have no one to share this with. I just dont want to react to anything. Even if he doesn’t reply or doesn’t call me back. I don’t want to react. I want to act and feel unbothered.
I think it’s possible when you’re really young. Sometimes you know someone is not perfect, you love them with their flaws, you don’t want a fairy tale bcs everyday life is enough. You don’t expect someone to resolve your problems, but you still love them and think about them all the time, especially when they are in denial and rejecting phase. You can feel authentic connection and still hurt so much bcs of the situation
In your journey from limerence to love, limerence itself means absence of love, so in the process were you ever afraid of if you will ever be able to love this person genuinely?
This is one of your Best videos! I definitely was there, in limerence. I had never heard of that word before. It is disappointing when you see their flaws. I was ready to work with that but he wasn't.
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you Corri 🩷😊
Yeah I'm from the Conscious Creators Academy and I was one of them asking...I knew you would a video about limerence 😉
In limerence there is also a feeling of trying to justify your love, how to get over it? Any response is appreciated
Is it possible to move from limerence to unconditional love? I lately realised that in a such like this and I feel really broken and miserable, I doubt if I ever will be able to love this person from a place of pure love and that is all I want to feel, irrespective of me being with this person or not in future because from a place of that love I wouldn’t care if I am with him or not, any response will really help :)
Can you make a video on dealing with Sp in 3d daily. Like you see them daily. And no matter what something or other triggers us! I’m in a situation where he already has a gf. But we got physicall too! Its been more than a year. Now I have set a boundary. But we are still friends. I know he is affected too! But he is very good with hiding his feelings and not reacting. And I’m living in constant anxiety because iam stopping myself from reacting.
I'd be interested in that too. I've been in a relationship with a divorcing man but he went back to the 3p even though he loves me . After ½ months of hot/cold behaviour and actually asking for me to take him back, only to change his mind a week later, . I've finally set boundaries the other day and we're not communicating anymore. But I keep thinking about the 3p that triggers me.
@@anjatoledo8078 I can understand. But in my case he says he cannot leave his girlfriend because he has to keep his word. Because she is with him from 10 years. But on other side he says he says he is not attracted to her at all. And since he met me. He only has got intimate with me. We have an amazing bond when we get intimate. He talks to me, gives me time and does everything any boyfriend would do. But the moment I set boundaries that I cannot continue this. He is not talking to me that much. We only meet in gym. But still there are some things that keeps triggering me. When he doesn’t act like before. I don’t know what he is trying to do. Even he is training some other girl with me now. And she doesn’t talk to me that much. Even when I am good with girls. How can i stop myself from reacting. I’m so drained. As I work from home only. Sometimes these thoughts keep running in my head all day long. I have no one to share this with. I just dont want to react to anything. Even if he doesn’t reply or doesn’t call me back. I don’t want to react. I want to act and feel unbothered.
Does this mean there is genuine love for the person when one makes a choice to move from limerence to love ?