As bad as I feel for Will, I think more attention should be given to August. They keep saying he was a family friend, but let's be clear. He was a friend of Jada's kid, not her. So imagine coming to the parents of your friend in distress, dealing with mental health problems and a death in your family, and instead of helping you, the much older parental figure seduces you. This is soooo sketchy and not ok. It's one thing to cheat and gaslight your husband about it (bad), but it's a whole nother level to do it with a young and vulnerable friend of your kid.
I couldn’t have said it better myself! What she did was NOT OK, on ANY level… She is a true narcissist who does NOT care about anyone but herself… not even her kids! She has been gaslighting Will for a LONG TIME! She has put him through HELL the past few years and you can see it in his appearance, he has aged A LOT! Shame on Jada… I doubt she even realizes how awful she has made herself look 🙄 I really hope Will comes to his senses SOON and gets as far away from her as possible! I can tell he’s the kind of guy who probably stayed with her for so long “for the kids”. Now that they’re grown I hope he truly comes to his senses and runs for the hills!
Jada played it off like “We Were On A Break!!” - but she was in a position of power and trust while August was at vulnerable point in his life, and she took advantage. I can’t help but think Will would’ve been reviled for creeping on his daughter’s friend in a vulnerable position like this. I think Will and Jadad are in a toxic downward spiral with escalating destructive behaviors
The fact that August was not mentally stable is probably the only reason Will did not beat his ass. No one has taken this into consideration. They both emphasised that he was really really Ill. Will was going to dump her ass but I guess she talked him around by minimising the whole entanglement. Entanglement literally means a difficult or complicated romantic situation. That's a roundabout definition. It's ridiculed because everyone just calls it an affair. She was trying to give that affair depth by using an obscure word. Let's face it. Will was always away. Jada was also alone, she got left with this young boy, I'm sure she meant well in the beginning. Sometimes when a woman hasn't had the affections of her man they look elsewhere. August probably complimentary towards her and she probably hadn't heard that for a while. She did stress that she had been feeling alone for a long long time. Will worked all year round bar 2 weeks he had off I read somewhere. So even though we think they told us quite a lot, I don't think they told us as much as they could have. In order for that to have happened, a more mature conversation should gave been had, instead of joking about it in parts. I mean it sounds like I'm team Jada but honestly, I have never really rated her as an actress. So she wasn't really on my radar. The mistake they made was to address the issue. They should have left it to black twitter and just not acknowledged it. Like many many many celebrities do. I do think Jada latched onto him for what she could get from him. Even if only to raise her profile. Which while Tupac was alive, she used him for that too. Social climber more than anything else. Both Tupac and Will were already successful. Jada, not so much.
Myself and most of America will feel relieved when we hear “Wil Smith remembers his worth and says goodbye to Jada.” She’s actually cruel, but tries to get us to believe she’s anything but. Wil, you’re being gaslighted
You said it right, once he remembers his self worth AND monetary worth he will hopefully wake up and realize she has no respect for herself, marriage or him.
It's sad how much he loves her and as much as we see her as bad for him his fans will support him through her head f*c*ING until he sees his own worth and eventually leaves her..
You can tell Jada's empathy doesn't include her husband, Will. She claims she wanted to help August with his issues, trying to appear as if she cares about others and as if she's a selfless person while Will's feelings were dismissed and invalidated.
@@mommom3172 You're absolutely right. It's not August that made her feel good, but the "ego boost & control" that made her feel good. The same can be said with her children and Will. It has nothing to do with the other people and EVERYTHING to do with her "ego & sense of control".
She never cared for August either...she knew what she wanted the moment her son introduced him to the family. It's all about what she wants... consequences be damned.
@@TheBehavioralArts do you think that Will might have cheated on her in the past and this was a possible form of revenge? I wonder as she's made comments about how she doesn't like blonde white women and there's been speculation that Will hooked up with a couple of blonde white co-stars in the past.
It makes me sad that the whole conversation ends with him saying “How am I doing?” Like he feels he’s the one who needs to prove his worth to her even though she is the betrayer.
Yes I cringed and didn’t understand why Will would even ask this question, the whole reason this whole situation was happening is because of Jada. The entire red table forum should have never existed, all of their private business has been exposed in public by Jada herself. Who does this?
He says “ How am I doing ?” to give her an entry point to praise him and say something affirming to HIM. He needed her affirmation and it was his only opportunity because throughout the interview it was all about HER , her needs and his love for her. He even begins the interview ( not shown) by saying he told her in the beginning of their relationship “ I could love you through anything ?” The “ How am I doing ?” refers to his commitment, devotion, self sacrificing spirit , and love for HER as promised in his vow. Sad to watch. Looks a bit like Narc Abuse .
@@vonch33 Yes yes yes. She is a dangerous manipulator and 'loving her through anything' as if this is was love is is misunderstanding what love is. Love is NOT abuse at any cost.
@Jay Sharp I bet if he hooked up with some pretty 20 year old she wouldn't be able to handle it. I think in this case it might actually be very telling concerning showing how she would react.
That whole red table talk was basically 'The Narcissist's Prayer' from Jada to Will: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. That is what Will hasn't figured out yet, but is still feeling the sting of.
At the end, when HE asked HER "how he was doing" it almost made me cry. She flipped it so hard, he was seeking HER approval of his behavior after HER transgression & all she gave him was a high-five & you're awesome. I had flashbacks of being 10 yrs old & the child of a narcissist. My heart just flies to Will.
Early in the relationship, with a group of 20 people, she told him to “shut the fck up” , he said “I’m not going to live like this” , she said “are you going to break up with me over fkn words” , he said I’m done , its over , then she cried and they stayed together. She has an anger/control/ego problem . Not sensing any love , just need greed anger hate
Yes, this thing popped up in a group I am in for men who have survived a narcissist or borderline woman. I could see in wills behavior definitely complex PTSD going on, but I don’t think he’s a cluster B. Jada however…
I remember when I watched this, feeling soooo uncomfortable. I felt like the emphasis on Jada's need to explain her guilt from a very removed place - while simultaneously almost pushing Will to agree that "yeah, things are okay" - was really obvious here. I also was disappointed that she didn't use the platform of The Table to actually apologize to him; to take some ownership and ask him how she could do better. He looked so uncomfortable and sad. It was painful to watch.
yes, but i bet if she would do it, public would take it as fake, justify taht she said it only bcs cameras...we dont know how much and wat exactly they talked between themselfs about it, if at all, as they said at begining its privat matter wich became public, so they were basically pushed into any reaction...they decided into this, despite they ofc had right to not react at all...ppl have relationships rollercoasters on whoel globe, no one knows about it, bcs they not known...but as soon soemthing happens to celebrity couple, suddenly everyone neds to know everything, every smoll detail, judging judging judging like they have any right to stick their nose into other ppls life...this was very difficult for both of them to come this publicly, ofc they not confortable, specially will...but its part of past, part of life, tiem to move on
I think she's very comfortable because she's a narcissist and doesn't think she did anything wrong. I think she's also very comfortable because of the fact that Will is not and she's lording it over him, humiliating him- she has all the power. When you're repentant and sorry for what you've done, harm you've caused someone you profess to love, you're crying, you're begging. Even if you've gotten past the initial emotions, you'd still be eyes downcast, humble and there's none of that.
“This is minuscule.” Is that what she said. Yes, it is in comparison to world affairs, but it is everything to her husband and her family. Self absorbed.
The last clip is very revealing: she had no guilt, no sorrow, no reason to ask forgiveness, no, all the burden is on him, he had to pass a test, was his love for her big enough to survive her "entanglement"? And he asks how he's doing, seeking her approval.. "You're awsome," she said, her teeth clenched and her mouth twisted in contempt. This is so sad, I feel sorry for him. Your analysis was brilliant, as always!
Wow!!! Well said. I agree with you all the way. She showed no remorse. And that test annoyed me. 😒 August was MUCH more relatable and revealing in his interview.
@@bebenut123 Of course we don't know everything, we talk about what they themselves have made public. And I'm not a WS fan, in fact I think he was pathetic at the Oscar ceremony and they should have "invited" him to leave inmediately.
The “you’re awesome” and high five felt like she was treating him like a child. It’s something your kindergarten teacher would do when you are “being a good listener.”
When she said she didn’t feel he had the capacity to love her, and him asking how he was doing, told me everything I needed to know about why he slapped Chris. Will sitting there laughing at Chris’ joke, somehow equated to Jada that he didn’t love her, so he had to do something grandiose to prove otherwise. 😳
She will say anything to him to manipulate him and his feelings. She will use any and all comments situations relationships to make will feel like he has hurt her and owes her so much back and constant reminding of any time (doubt there's very many) that he did or said something that hurt her
And i mean that was actually justified in both their eyes as being a mean or messed up thing to say or do. Have no idea how often she clings to every slight and microagression and just drills them into his concious so even as he is dreaming he'll be thinking he did some huge horrible actions that he must pay for with his soul and anything and everything she wants whenever she wants it
Imagine if Will had slept with his daughter's friend.... The world would've cancelled Will Smith. But because Jada is a woman and slept with her son's friend, people assume equal blame to them. Instead of a Jada seducing a young kid in vulnerable situation
I think she's actually comfortable. I believe she feels superior or in control of Will. In fact I think she wants to control him to overcompensate for her jealousy of his power and success.
It’s true cause I’m other videos she’s omitted to being bitter over his love for his career and how his life is while she became a stay at home wife when she didn’t want to be a mom in the first place
I bet she hates that he’s the centre of attention when they’re together. I don’t think she even has alopecia, looks really even. She’s shown a micro scratch which looks like tight braiding/weave stress. Not worth quite the hype imho. I can just imagine how hurt he is, that sweet face he has, but really - we know very little. Perhaps he was unfaithful first (although she’d sure mention it if he had). So this boy was ‘sick’ - kind of sounds like she took advantage. He seems to think Will gave his blessing too... I wonder who told him that. Have to say... I see nothing of him in those kids.
She never apologizes. She never checks on him or how he is doing. She never acknowledges his pain. She is condescending to him at the end. She's just a nightmare. ( but quite possibly he is as well). The whole thing is PAINFUL to watch.
Jadas disposition through this whole interview is very - I've done nothing wrong. I can justify all my actions. Where as Will's is like he is humiliated and broken. Jada reminds me of the kind of person that will hurt you and then say "I'm sorry you feel that way."
OMG. So on point. I see women say I'm sorry you feel that way to people deferring and DEFLECTING on you with no ACCOUNTABILITY in their brain. it's outright repulsive, super DISRESPECTFUL and EXTREMELY disgusting
You being aware of Will Smiths ability to defuse serious situations with humour is spot on. In his book he also talks about always being a “pleaser” starting from his youth in family relationships etc. Basically he himself has confirmed that he always just wants everybody to get along and be happy so he is in fact using humor as a sort of a tool in those hard situations.
My family has strife that goes way back too. And I have fulfilled the same role as will smith . Our love for others is more important than our love for our selves as we see it although it is also destructive. I’ve had to step away from my entire family some of it’s my fault and some of its not . However it’s the important lesson my soul came to learn in this life . Peace to you all .
It’s def an ability , but it can be a weakness in situations like this.. maybe for a tense business meeting it’s good . But here the power dynamic is already so off that I think doing that makes it even more lopsided.
What you're saying Makes me sad 😥. Why in the world did he have to do that!! He really is a great guy although i truly believe he should be cancelled for the next decade to set an example and for such a thing to never repeat again!!
It’s a classic adult child of alcoholics and dysfunctions trait. You can basically find that in any of the class clowns/comics you have met through life.
I so agree. At the end I noticed how the high five gesture had a tight squeeze at the end before releasing hands. Obviously they are not on the same page emotionally, lending to the whole event as nothing more than a PR staged event. You're good as a behavioral analyst. I'm impressed. This being my compliment to you from a retired psychotherapist after 43 years working with sociopaths, serial predators etc. Keep up the good work. Sincerely, Sandi
Jada's sitting posture, broad, sweeping hand gestures conveyed to me "this is my territory, I am in control of the narrative". As much as she says it's private and she doesn't want to talk about it, here she's determined and getting comfortable as it may last a while. I don't know, just really struck me as a difference in their approach to this talk. Her "no, we were over" very much sounds like justification to me. Also, while Will does often smile, his eyes look incredibly sad.
@@jessyncust76 I never said otherwise or meant it negatively, only that it looks to me like they are there for different reasons - she to hopefully give enough clarity to stop further media talk about this and he to gain some answers.
Her behavior--downplaying her indiscretions, refusing to apologize, justifying her wrongdoings, making light of something that clearly brought him a lot of sadness--reminds me so much of my narcissistic ex. Unfortunately I reacted so much like Will during the relationship, constantly seeking reassurance that I was doing a good job in the relationship and that I was loving him enough (even blaming myself for his bad behavior), and giving him way too much leeway. Seeing everyone in the comments calling out how self-absorbed and abusive her behavior is is *so* reaffirming and so helpful to me right now, as I'm still struggling with understanding what the hell happened to me in my relationship. Thank you everyone and thank you Spidey for giving me the tools for spotting this kind of behavior in the future!
It took me 10 years almost after the breakup with my ex to realize what went wrong and WHY, and be okay with it, and realize it WASN'T my fault, but rather hers and stop blaming myself.
You can tell Will has experienced a lot of trauma. He uses humor to deflect pain, a role individuals take on during childhood. The amount of attention their family has recieved has been too much for him, along with whatever personal betrayals. Jada seems to enjoy the attention despite the pain it causes him.
@@dellagriego7032 imagine being attracted to an older, narcissistic and possibly psychopath woman when you have all the options on the world. That makes absolutely no sense...
@@fergoka it makes perfect sense when you’re dealing with a broken person who has low self esteem. I can speak from personal experience. Broken people don’t really understand that they’re broken. They have think they understand it… but until you’re healed, you can’t truly see just how broken you were. Narcissists feed off of brokenness. It’s like a magnet drawing them in. It’s a game. So they will give you the world while making themselves irresistible in the beginning to give you something to hold on to and long for. Once they’ve got you.. fully, that’s when they flip. They convince you that you’re worthless, you’re not a good person, no one wants you, and they’re doing you a favor by being with you. They constantly brag about themselves and build themselves up while they do this to you so it convinces you even more that you’re so lucky to have them. It’s just evil.. This cycle traps people. It causes those broken pieces to break down more and more over time. It honestly takes a lot for a person to take a step back and see what’s really going on. But even still, you have to be the one to ultimately decide if you’re worth more or are they worth the torment. Some never see it. Just my opinion, but I think Will has brokenness that has never healed from his childhood up until present day. Jada feeds on this brokenness and uses it to her advantage. Which in turn, keeps him holding on tight. I could be completely wrong and they both could be toxic as hell. But I know that look in his eyes.. and I sure as hell know the look in hers. Another good example, Amber and Johnny. Johnny freaking Depp.. with a C lister Amber Heard. She abused him and drained his money. Mans could literally have anyone in the world. But instead he’s with her. Makes no sense on the outside looking in but to them, it makes the most sense.
If you read his auto biography, you would understand how true this is... Will has always been the man to diffuse with humor. He's acknowledged this. And despite his faults, I will always admire him. He is human. Doing the best he can in the spotlight of humanity.
At the end, when he asks "how am I doing?", it's striking how she high fives him from across the table like he's just some buddy of hers. It's not tender or warm, it's macho. Even when she says "you're awesome" her eyes are shifting AWAY from him. It's so dismissive and aloof, not like someone giving loving, sincere reassurance to a life partner expressing fear at losing her. She takes him fully for granted.
To me, for him to ask that. "How am I doing?" That statement comes from NEED. Its a needy statement. Like he is looking for approval from her, that everything is okay, and we can go back to normal. This is very telling of the power dynamic.
Yup, for me this point was so telling. Like someone patting a puppy for doing the right thing. Good job for towing my narrative and keeping my reputation. This is a very messed up relationship.
Yes..exactly , the examples that he provides are the very best ..Eases in to a understandable way of explaining in addition to variety of clips. Loving it.
Maybe I can take sides; it seems Jada ultimately wears the pants in this relationship, Will loved her and maybe she manipulated the relationship so she could boink August and maybe cause Will pain. Will is of course deeply hurt and the child in his soul doesn't trust her anymore, his innermost desire is for things to be the way they were before the rupture of their relationship, and the slap on Chris Rock was an exaggerated gesture by Will to reassert dominance over and possession of Jada in public. By reacting like a Macho-Man in defense of his "Woman", he is, in reality, saying that this is really how I would like to slap Jada for all the shit she created. I would go so far as to say Will is between a rock and a hard place with his feelings, on the one hand he is in danger of appearing to be pussy-whipped weakling in public and on the other hand his sense of self-respect demands a demonstration of machismo in response to his "Woman" being dissed in public by another man. Remember that most men need the four women rolled into one, in the woman they are with, i. the trophy wife ii. the mother substitute, iii. the homemaker, saintly mother of his children, iv. the harlot, whore and debauched sex object. I fear Will has had to share the fourth one and is never going to be happy with her or trust her again.
“Even though this is minuscule…” She has NO idea how betrayal affects others. To some it IS their whole world. Wills face said it all. I feel bad for him in this, he seems to be doing what I used to in my abusive relationships: hoping they’ll love me, laughing it off and making jokes when they don’t/can’t.
I feel sorry for their son, a loss of trust of his parents, loss of a friend, and media embarrassment that your parents organize. I dont know how she could sit through that interview and look at his hurt face
I think it's very telling that when Will says "I was done with you" she turns it into "yeah we were finished". She's trying to claim some of that strong action for herself. She comes across as a narcissist to me
Yes! I paused the video to say, Will Smith clearly didn’t want Jada using the word “entanglement.” I believe he knew something was off about that word. It felt so wrong to me when she used “entanglement” and after learning about “distancing” words I knew why. I’m so glad you felt the same! Also, you had me cracking up with the balloon animal. 👏🏻🤣
Entanglement is a synonym of adultery. Using the former word has a euphemism tone to it. Dig deeper with morality, it is adultery. We all fall short of the glory of God. I can't judge her. However people such as Jada should just say it as it is-- "I committed adultery", period.
she used that word to 'lessen the guilt' for cheating on Will.. to make it like a lessor value of cheating. but hey, its still cheating!! she don't wana be wrong.
Narcissists take any expression of love as failure or weakness on your part. The more he loves her, the more she will keep her distance and manipulate him. Painful to watch. Hope Will gets it trough his skull that this fight can’t be won and cuts her loose.
It's difficult for those in such relationships to get out. They think they need to love more and show more understanding. In the meantime, they lose their families, friends, support network, reputation and self worth. Sometimes they even believe that the other person needs them. Whichever is the case, they would continue to have some lucid moments when their subconscious tells them to run 🏃♂️ but they simply have had their confidence eroded to the point where they are no longer certain about what they need to do.
I love body language analysis. I learned new concepts here but I am glad I knew a few great concepts, too! Great teaching style - powerful concepts with simplicity! I can see all of what you have said!
For me, when Will questions her "Entanglement" line, Jada gives a small yet telling smirk from one side of her mouth and then gives a child-like (teeheehee) laugh, which only gives away the fact that she knows she's doing and is trying to dismiss the whole thing and distance herself. Like when a child is caught with their hands in the cookie-jar but lies and says they're just putting more cookies in there and laughs it off when that lie isn't believed. Another great body-language breakdown video! Thank you for your great insights!
The video where she's hounding and humiliating him, and he asks her not to record him, is heartbreaking. In this video, I took the "getting her back" as getting revenge. I don't believe Jada truly thinks she's done anything wrong. I think Will is trying to pretend everything is fine and he's come to terms with it, when he hasn't.
I too took the “getting you back” in a different context than the presenter did. I took it as a revenge statement like you. Will’s ego needs to get that revenge. He gonna “get her back.”
@@deadpoolgaming997 Thanks I didn't want to use that name, but that, once I became aware of even who she was, will, as a result of that trial, I will now and FOREVER think of Amber Heard as, A.T. And yeah, I agree that Jada is just another Amber Terd.
i love how it ends with Will needing to be willing to find the deep capacity to love her. not even like his ability to forgive or something. she puts it all onto him for their willingness to repair. you didn't show it in this video but at some point when she talks about the affair, she basically says it was a healing experience for her. it's all so without thought for him and his pain. even if she actually felt like this somehow ended up being a positive experience, there is no reason to say that to your spouse. they don't need to know that the act that betrayed, hurt and angered them was also a great spiritually healing experience. she reads like a huge narcissist to me.
@@lindap.p.1337 i'm not sure how that's relevant to what i said at all. i'm sure he has been unfaithful to her in the past, it's pure assumption on my part but i would not be surprised. that being said, this was about her 'entanglement,' not his. whether or not they are privileged, financially, socially and otherwise, doesn't take away from the fact they are still human beings. they may not live the same way the rest of us do but they still have the same emotions and feelings as the rest of us.
Mind blowing... When all you see when you look into the mirror is 'I'm a victim', I think you can forget that anyone else is there and you don't feel the need to qualify your own actions, or apologize for things. Just explain it to them in whatever twisty way you feel they'll believe.
He doesn't love her anymore, I think what happened is because of Pride, Ego or proving his Masculinity. Because if I am Will, I have left Jada long time ago.
For personal reasons this is fascinating, because I learned something about myself. I say "honestly" A LOT. And your coverage of Jada made me think about that and why I do that? In my case, I think it's because in my childhood I was never believed when telling the truth. So, I always over-use and over-emphasize words like "actually"... "honestly"..."truly"..." in truth". I honestly (lol 😊) was not consciously aware I did this until you mentioned it here. I'm actually really bad about it.
I totally agree there’s no warmth it’s like they live in a competition. The thing that always bothered me about this interview is this; when she talks about her relationship with August and she says “ we were really really good friends“. You’re talking to your spouse about a man that you had a sexual relationship with. Even if you guys were broken up at that time it would still be painful to your husband to bring that up. Then on top of it to say that you and the other man were really really close that’s like cutting your husband with a knife.
Exactly. She never uses a word like a mistake or wrong doing or similar. It’s all positive about august while talking to will… of course that must have hurt him… just another proof she doesn’t love him…
Will and Jada both confuse me 🤦🏽♀️ What happened to the open marriage? They both allowed each other to have outside partners, so, why did this bother Will? I thought he was cool with having his wife sleep with other men.
Right! Rubbing salt in the wound! I felt the same way when she describes how the “entanglement” started (I don’t think it was shown in this clip) and how she was so “broken and wounded” and being with him made her feel better. I’m paraphrasing but that’s basically what she said. How that must have hurt Will. Breaks my heart for him. I pray his eyes are opened and soon!!!
Such a great analysis. At the end Will says “ How am I doing ?” to give her an entry point to praise him and say something affirming to HIM. He needed her affirmation and it was his only opportunity because throughout the interview it was all about HER , her needs and his love for her. He even begins the interview ( not shown) by saying he told her in the beginning of their relationship “ I could love you through anything ?” The “ How am I doing ?” refers to this promise … his commitment, devotion, self sacrificing spirit , and love for HER as promised in his vow. It’s a little sad to watch.
Jada takes NO responsibility for HER actions. She was helping him, they were really, really good friends, bigger things in the world, we were having issues… etc. She has many excuses that blame other people and situations but I haven’t heard her say it was her fault in any way! She makes me sick how she doesn’t step up and how she doesn’t think it’s a big deal.
Shame on her,,,to face her husband and discus# her affair like she’s planning A party,, she makes a fool out of herself discussing personal business at her”red table” she should be ashamed and embarrassed,,to admit to her husband and on tv her actions Personally I think Will Smit slapping Chris Rock was meant mentally for Jada she makes him look like a wimp shame on her can’t stand her I’m embarrassed for her children discussing such personal intimate entanglement in her children’s presence Her mother doesn’t correct her Will should dump her Unfortunately he will have to share his monies because she would starve otherwise Bye Jada
Personally I think when Will was asking Jada, “Tell us what you did?” “An entanglement?” Will was trying to get Jada to admit on record that she cheated/had an affair. That way when he moves to divorce her she’s already admitted she was cheating. But currently Jada can say, no I had an entanglement, meaning (fill in the blank with whatever gets her out of being guilty of cheating).
I grew up on The Fresh Prince, and seeing him in this situation is painful. The pain in his body is so obvious. He fought back the tears, and all she could say was, "you're doing great." I appreciate this video because it provides a glimpse into their relationship and how disconnected she is from her actions. She's taking no responsibility for cheating on her husband, AND she's used her child's friend to build up her self-esteem by taking advantage of this very sick friend at his lowest point. Maybe that is the reason for this "friend" to stop contacting her. Maybe he's realized how she didn't help him, that she took advantage of him, and used him to gain more power in her relationship with her husband. She is preying on people and it is scary to witness. I can only hope that the ones she has already harmed can find the strength to leave that toxic relationship.
I don't see a very bright future in this relationship. Jada is all about herself and she justifies her actions by putting everything on Will. And by trying to sound like a Hero by helping August. She makes me sick in my stomach. God Bless Will and Her bit hopefully she understands all the pain she is putting Will through.
I'm glad you covered this. After their exchange at the Oscar's, it was exceptionally clear that there is some pretty hard-core psychology going on there
I can't help but feel that he'd be much better off just walking away and start the healing process. There's no greater waste of life than being in a one sided relationship. He's better off being single, processing the hurt and heartache, he'd eventually pull through the other side and see her in a totally different light.
I bet he's tried many times, he was reeled back most likely with tears in jadas eyes, how many men melt at a woman's tears, then suckered back in with promises that never come true. Rinse and repeat it till you can't take it anymore strong men can go years before they are able to leave someone they love even if they don't like who their love turns into. If they were not rich with easy life this relationship would have been so over a long time ago. Of course maybe I'm wrong mind that iv never met any of them.
First time see your videos. Was attracted with this one in particular. I noticed couple of things . The way she sits tells not only that she is comfortable in this situation but also that she is a master of it . She is not faking it. This is what she is. She is relaxed and dominant like “who can tell me anything? I know better than all of you.”Her face is another story so much arrogance and pride, and she is obviously a narcissist. Her ego is bigger than her. I’m not a specialist at this field, but I’m naturally very sensitive and usualully I feel this kind of things. Poor Will.
If my wife cheated on me and we sat down and had a heart-to-heart talk like they did and she proceeded to give me a hi5 at the end instead of coming over to hug and kiss me it would be over, you can clearly see that there is no love on Jade is and she’s in the relationship for all the wrong reasons and I think everybody knows what I mean about that. On top of it she should be thanking him over and over again for giving her another chance after what she did not only did she cheat on him she did it with a family friend that they all knew and we’re spending time with as a family, it doesn’t get more messed up than that. Will is a weak man I don’t know if he will ever walk away from the hot mess that is named Jada
Allegedly they are in an open relationship. They both cheat...in agreement. However, I'm no expert, but one would think that you don't smash a guy who became/is a family friend. "Aug" should have been off limits. There has to be rules in the relationship, even when you have no rules.
It is difficult though, isn't it? I mean, Will agrees that he was done with her and they had agreed to go out and find what made them happy individually at the time. Is it hurtful if the first thing that happens after something like that is that your "partner" engages in a relationship with someone else? Definitely. But is it cheating? Is it cheating if even now, they both agree that they were separated at the time? Is it cheating just because they were still married? Even though that marriage was an open marriage? I don't know, that doesn't seem like as easy or obvious an answer to me as many people are making it out to be...
Totaly agree with the lack of real love and compassion between them. He said she was the one who wanted this subject at the red table. It was clearly her narrative driving here. Thank you for all these great clues on checking out how someone can signal stressors. So helpful in my business life as well as personal interactions.
This is not a wife. This is an enemy under your own roof. This is terrible eye contact, discussion content and body language. This is more uncomfortable than dinner with in laws. I couldnt finish watching.
"This is an enemy under your own roof" Spot On! I wrote what I thought she's done to her children in a reply to @Exotic Car Facts Official Challenge post above. I wrote more detail than I intended because I'd never witnessed anything like that before. It's heartbreaking.
This feels like it should have been a private conversation about where their relationship is and where they are going together. So frustrating seeing wife and husband pitted against each other.
"We became really good friends. And it started with me wanting to help" no Jada. You became involved sexually, he became involved emotionally. That's not helping. I don't care if she helped him by talking to him or teaching him some coping skills or whatever. You should never enter into any kind of relationship with someone who is coming to you for guidance. Ever. She hurt that boy deeply, it's obvious he was in love with her and she considered him a sex toy essentially.
Thank you for realizing this. People don’t believe that women are completely capable of using men for sex especially when men are emotionally vulnerable and men easily get emotionally involved. She just wanted a younger dick.
"I wanted to help his health, so I let him hit the coochie." - Jada Pinkett All jokes aside, you can tell Will is hurting throughout this whole thing. Just like Chris didn't deserve the slap, Will DID NOT deserve this treatment from Jada. It's obvious this happened so she could attempt to justify her sleeping with another dude.
She is only concerned about #1. Not even her SON. She had sex with her son's friend, & said it was MINISCULE???!! She did it to ""help him??? Lol!! Will, save yourself, chuck her out with trash.
She is only concerned about #1. Not even her SON. She had sex with her son's friend, & said it was MINISCULE???!! She did it to ""help him??? Lol!! Will, save yourself, chuck her out with trash.
I normally don't pay attention to body language analyses but this was incredibly done, very thoughtful, and you didn't jump to conclusions. I'm a new fan!
When you are in a long relationship. You have tried loving the other person and meeting in the middle to make that relationship work. The other person in the relationship can only ever focus on themselves. It is time to take space for yourself. I was in a toxic relationship for 30 years and did everything I could to make it work. But little parts of you start to die. That is not ok. It is ok to take a step back and just work on yourself. At the end of the day, we live with ourselves. No one else is in our heads. If we stay somewhere, that just makes us angry and resentful. That is not ok. It is not good for us or the world. Thank you for your good work!
I mentioned in the Oscar slap video on this channel how emotionally distant they were, as represented by the physical distance and the fact her first response, after her double take, is fury and not turning to her husband simply to get some comfort. She felt angry and whether verbally or otherwise she communicated that anger to him. I don't think that he was just laughing without taking in what was said. He comes from a background of working with comedians and in comedy shows/movies where lots of quick witted people ad lib and you need to be quick off the mark to respond. Yes he was in the audience and not performing but surely his instincts in that regard are highly polished. I think he totally got the joke and didn't take offence until his wife conveyed that she did and then he felt like he let her down. But who did she say needs to learn from the incident? She hoped Chris Rock and her husband would move on and learn from the event! Not her! No, nothing to do with her! She totally takes no responsibility. It was quite a long walk from where they were sitting to where Chris Rock was standing. So I'm asking the question no one else seems to be asking. Why didnt she follow her husband and try and stop him? I would have stopped my husband, I know that my friends would have stopped theirs from making a choice that could damage their career, their reputation and their conscience. Instead she totally distanced herself from it as if it was nothing to do with her. That to me is the most telling fact of all. She knew it was going to happen. I hope I'm wrong, but I can't help feeling that, she probably wanted it to happen and she probably did something to ensure it did happen. If she had nothing to do with his actions she would have been trying to stop him. In fact if they were in a healthy relationship where they sought out each other for emotional support Will would be holding her hand not matching over and slapping another man. I admit a lot of this is supposition, but again I say why didnt she try to stop him? Why didn't she say I wished I stopped him? Perhaps she did but I haven't heard that. All of the quotes from her that I've read so far reference the behaviour of her husband and Chris Rock. As if she wasn't even there. But she was there and I saw nothing to indicate she tried to stop it happening.
I agree 100% with your comment! I thought the same thing at the time. Almost looked like she egged him on. And look what it’s cost him. Very sad situation.
She is a narcissist and is gaslighting the heck out of him while he is just sitting there displaying a misplaced loyalty to her. I know what this is like, and if it was me, I'd hit that afterburner button and disappear sooner rather than later.
@@katiebarber407 I can see how it might look like that. However, living with a narcissist (spouse, child, sibling, parent and whatnot - people you love) is a very very real challenge, and brings you all kinds of issues and problems. Surviving one of those relationships coming out with head high and functioning after years to decades of constant gaslighting - that brings extra challenge. The common for most of these relationship is that the narcissist will work hard to keep you around so that in practice they can keep on manipulating you because they are extremely insecure individuals. I'm aware my description of a narcissist is lacking, but I assure you I know a lot about this, it's just not the platform to discuss it in great details. But feel free to ask any questions. So are we treating Will like a child? I don't think so. I don't think so. Breaking a relationship can be a traumatic experience for all involved. I guarantee you breaking a relationship with a gaslighting narcissist, thats GONNA be EXTREMELY traumatic. Because until you're done and worked through it, you will constantly question your sanity. So Will is facing very very real problems with this, that he needs help figuring out. That's sound advice from one adult to another imho. Not treating him like a child. I know you didn't ask for an elaboration, but since I know this is a real problem that needs real life solutions and it's not healthy to stay alone with them problems - I thought I'd clarify that.
I'm from Philly, and I have a family member that went to high school with him and I met him when I was younger watching him play my cousins and others in a basketball game....and his personality was all over the place and his persona was amazing and memorable... that person sitting at that table was a zombie from what I remember.... he need to kick her out the door, be by himself for a while to heal, then start back to dating casually until he heals through and through.
😂 This man brought out the charging cables to get his point across about entanglement. I really appreciate it, I am a visual learner. Thank you for the analysis ❤️
Yeah it disturbed me she kept using that word. I'm guessing it's again, another distancing tactic, entanglement sounds like it's something that happens by accident, like whoopsie!
I think when Will said "I really thought we COULD be over" it shows that even though they were in a rough patch he wanted to work on things and she shut all hope of that just to save face by saying "NO we WERE over" it doesn't make what she did okay at all doesn't matter if your over or not you're still married and you're an adulterer
@@kittkattkiddy I don't know you can tell by his face and his reaction to what he said that it affected him I don't think he thought they were totally over and I wouldn't put it past Jada to coach him on what to say at this point and even if they were over it doesn't mean anything if you aren't divorced. In the eyes of the law, the public, and God she is an adulterer
Will is codependent with both his kids and his wife. Too afraid to set reasonable boundaries on any of them for anything no matter how much it hurts him, even going as far as to say that he wants them to behave the way they do. At his very core, Will is afraid that he can't be loved, and afraid they will reject him, and THAT FEAR is his violent dad's fault.
I am addicted to your videos! I would love it if you could voice over the parts where you're talking about something I want to see and point it out by seeing the action or expression as you describe it. Thanks so much for doing these!
You made me giggle when you held up the ENTANGLED phone cable and balloon dog 😂😂😂 You’re REALLY so good at what you do and I really appreciate how you don’t exaggerate or inflate your points for dramatic intent. Thank you 🙏
One of the best (if not the best) behavioral analysis that I've watched on RUclips. I couldn't believe that I had watched the entire clip which I initially intended to watch only a couple of minutes of! Everything you analyze in this video makes complete sense. Half an hour well spent! Just wanted to say thank you 🌹🙏
I'm sure this has already been said in the comments, but August was struggling with addiction, that's what they were referring to. The whole family helped him through it and then will and jada had troubles and she began her "entanglement " with him. Which he describes very differently. One part you left out was her going on about how great it felt for her "to heal somebody ", which he also describes quite differently saying that the heartbreak of his relationship with jada almost killed him. More narcissist Jada. You also skipped over the part where she corrects will for calling it transgression saying she didn't see it that way. But you were spot on about the rest. All about Jada.
Wasn't August also dealing with a physical ailment of some sort in addition to the addiction & grief? I really feel bad for that dude. Hopefully he recovers from this disaster area and will be able to have healthy relationships in the future.
@@JustIn-op6oy You're absolutely right. August has made it public that he has an autoimmune disorder, along with his mental health issues. He had to be put in a medically induced coma after getting injured falling off a stage. The pain killers he was given, let to yet another addiction. August is really the reason I started to dislike Jada
Wills face when she said “Entanglement” summed up that whole situation. She didn’t seem uncomfortable talking about it which was a bit of a surprise to me. And I think it’s something she’s trying to convey.
Brilliant analysis! I’m a new subscriber…very impressed. I don’t put a lot of stock in most of these body language experts, but I think you hit all the nails on their heads. I like how you point out Wills subtle rebellion at certain points. It’s obvious he doesn’t want to be there but he will do any and everything to please her (which would be such a beautiful thing if he had a wife that deserved that loyalty) You can tell by the look on her face that she’s surprised that he went “off script.” Like you pointed out that nervous laughing and side eyes at the camera was very telling. Way to go Will for that…he wasn’t going to completely conform to her bullshit. This is literally heart wrenching to watch. He loves her so much and she could care less. You can see how much he’s hurt all over his face. I hope he finally leaves her…he deserves so much better.
Obsessed with your channel since the smith/rock incident. Recent subscriber - thanks for your amazing content. Just watched Dr. Phil today and could have sworn the ideas of the analysis were directly from your viral video. Hope they consulted you or offered you credit or a guest spot. It was a direct copy 😳
Haha thanks! Dr. Phil uses the behavior panel for his body language analysis and I’m very close with Chase Hughes from the panel, we often see very similar things, he’s also taught me a lot. I’m very happy when analysts say the same things because it goes to show that we’re not making this stuff up. So no credit necessary 😊
ETA: Now that I've finished watching this whole video. At 25:00 when he asks how he's doing, she does that head shake again that she did earlier. I don't think she really feels that he loves her the way she wants him to love her. That probably explains their whole marriage. He does his best to show his love for her, but either she doesn't feel that it's enough or it's not the kind of love that makes HER happy. I think she's comfortable because she already has a game plan. She knows how she's going to spin it, she knows exactly what to say and what not to say (hence, using the word entanglement). This is all a role for her, the script is memorized, she's just reading the lines.
Jada is an absolute control freak. Of course she seems comfortable, this was her way of handling public perception for her own image before it got out of control. Will is in love with her and looks very uncomfortable and nervous, but has to do this to keep her happy. A toxic relationship, and very sad IMO. He will never be enough for her.
@@greenery03 She was young. Who can say what would’ve happened. My guess is they would’ve bumped into choppy relational waters … most couples cycle around with it. I have never cared for JPS.
Jada reminds me of my husband who I’m separating from. After his affair he tried blaming it on me and justifying it with words that made it seem smaller than it was. I love all of your videos!
She never once says she is sorry. I think that is the most telling thing about this whole interaction. It just seems like their relationship is very imbalanced. Unfortunately Will wants this more than Jada does which is why he chose the behaviour he did at the Oscars. Loved the analysis!!
Throughout this whole conversation Jada shows narcissistic traits, she's shows no remorse over her 'entanglement' with a young, vunerable boy, or that she has clearly hurt her husband. She is manipulative, cunning and calculating. Typical narcissist who thinks she is right in every situation and has no right to be questioned. Will needs to get away from this thing ASAP!!
Everybody knows by now that Jada doesn’t care about Will, she just want all the attention to herself and uses Will to have it.. she doesn’t even care if her entire family is destroyed in the process
I just watched a music video to a song called "A Thousand Kisses" that Will and Jada made back in the early 2000s I think. In the lyrics, Will is professing his unconditional love and affection to Jada in most of his lyrics, but when Jada sings her verse, all she talks about is how much Will adores her and how funny he is. That one song pretty much encapsulates their entire relationship through the years. Jada has never been in love with Will. She has only been in love with the idea of having someone worship her. Will left his first wife for her.
I saw an interview where Will admitted he equates success with hard work. He he said he only takes off two weeks per year! That is absolutely ridiculous, ESPRCIALLY for a multi-millionaire! Anyway, while he's on the other side of the country filming a movie, Jada is at home with her two kids being a semi- single mom and sleeping with Marc Anthony and then her son's friend August. I'm sure he will now admit that the extra money wasn't worth it. They have enough for five lifetimes. That is, before he has to pay Chris Rock for the adsault!
Heck yeah she's sitting comfortably. She's comfortable being the bully. There's not enough focus on how young that kid was...it's sick. She's the kind of abusive bully that literally just scrambles your brain and you just don't even know how to respond after a while you just give up
Yep! And no one knows more than Jada how DESPERATLY Will Smith has wanted to be the quintessential Husband & Father since he was a kid. To fail at that is not an option. ESPCLY since he (in his perception, Im sure) failed with his first child's mother. A 2nd "failure" is not an option; even if he has to talk himself into being okay with an open relationship. He's even participated in seeing other women. I dont believe FOR ONE SECOND its for the reason Jada steps out.
Small thing..as a young waitress, I was taught to nod up and down (subtlelty) when I asked customers if they wanted appetizers, the specials or desserts. It worked probably 80% of the the time. Jacked up the bill. People respond innately to our body/facial language. As a clinician, I have learned to steer aggressive patients and some with attitude, by commanding my voice, posture and facial expressions to help them to be open to receiving the treatment recommended, and to help them to feel safe in our care. Just a side note on human relations.
He's trying so hard to forgive her. But she's not sorry. He's trying so hard to be loved and valued; trying to"earn" it. He's shoving himself into a box. This conversation is full of fear
The entire relationship is filled with fear. She never wanted to marry HIM, her mom forced it.(baby bump). And she has been holding Tu-pac over his head since day one.
What I've learned about being with a narcissist or having one in the family is that the “victim“ (children or partner) always try so hard to gain the narcissist's love. It's like a mission: “I have to become better, and one day he/she will finally love me“. They depend so much on the narcissist's approval. I can see it here, too. Will asks her “How am I doing?“ regarding her statement whether he is willing to find enough deep capacity to love her (again, it's all about her; nothing about “I'm truly sorry, how can I show you that I love you?). And she answers with “You're doing...great“ while shaking her head. Looks like Will is still not showing enough effort in her opinion. I feel sorry for him...
It's really heartbreaking to see others be so dejected and desperate for that connection.. Narcissist strategy is to lovebomb their victim in the very beginning. Then they abruptly turn on their target and blame them for the withdrawal of love/approval, so the victim scrambles to fix their "flaws" so they can get that "amazing" relationship back. The method is sickening
That is so brilliantly put. That's exactly what I see in his behaviour. The strain of being good enough for a narcissist. I think that's exactly what drove him to getting violent at the Oscars. And it shows you how lost he is, a mere glance of disapprovel from her was enough for him to completely disconnect from himself and try to get her to be satisfied with him. At the end of the red table talk, he was almost teary eyed when he asked how he is doing. It was the child asking for his mother's love. Him growling through his teeth that he basically will endure anything " the hole bad marriage for life" thing is trauma bonding at its finest. He is aggressive because he is so determined to get her to approve of him, and so angry at the same time but the child in him is after all not able to turn away from the mother, its life depends on winning her over. And he is fighting for his life, he will not be abandoned no matter what. Ironic how well suited it was for him to play the ginie. He seems to be as powerfully bound in this life as well.
"Intertwined" is a word that provokes thoughts of weaving/endearment, I hear "Entanglement" and I immediately think spider legs weaving a web of deceit. You brought out so many cool points I totally missed. What's that phase,,, Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Can't wait for your next breakdown!
Another word often used is "enmeshed". It's used to excused inappropriate relationships and to explain it as involuntary, like an insect getting caught in a web through no fault or intention of its own.
When he said, "There's a real POWER in knowing someone is riding with you no matter what." I feel like he spat that at her because he's angry and hurt that he was and still is that person for her, but she can't do the same for him. He doesn't know what that feels like, and she does, buy she takes it for granted every day. I don't condone what he did to Chris Rock, but I feel awful about what this woman has turned him into.
Wow. What the f*ck! Why does a superstar actor need a toxic relationship like this?! This is wrong. Get the hell out of this, Will, respect yourself, you can see what it lead to in the Oscars. Let this ship sail! ⛵
A whole lot of drama from two intense actors. And they're doing it all the way to the bank. Don't waste your time wagging your fingers at either one of them. After all they got you to watch whatever crazy ass shit that's going on between them. Every second, a sucker's born.
I think you're forgetting that they're human beings just like the rest of us. None of us "NEEDS" this type of relationship. But just like all the rest of us, they aren't truthful and they are not protective enough of their hearts individually nor as a couple.
1:04 Jada: "This is miniscule." And in the next frame, Will's face says it all. Heartbreak and helplessness. It's in the eyes that reach out as the chest sinks in.
I watched this interview shortly after it happened and I thought he looked pissed throughout the entire thing. IMO, she played him with this interview and it didn’t dawn on him until mid-way through it. She wanted the world to know her “entanglement” was ok because Will was “ok” with it. Jada is no dummy - she knows she is married to a very popular man, a beloved celebrity and if she “wrongs” him, she’s the one who will be on the outs. She needed Will to do this red table nonsense in order to save her reputation. RUN WILL RUN
She is an intelligent woman, but she is obviously able to throw anyone under a bus to save herself, her family will be harmed and she will always be safe. I think she downplays her actions, and that's narcissist abuse.
Listening to you explain this makes me think Jada is really deranged. You're the first one to really give a detailed perspective about this relationship. I didn't know August was sick. Who has a sexual relationship with someone who is dealing with very serious mental issues, much less someone who is the age of your son. It's borderline abuse, right? I'm starting to think she gets off on being with wounded men. Either she met them wounded, or she creates the damage in the people she claims to love. It's really messed up! I read Will's book and felt it gave a good perspective of who he is and why he does the things he does. I wonder if that slap was really him unleashing all the anger he's had over August, Tupac, Chris trying to get with his wife, and the stress of keeping up appearances, and constantly trying to be the good guy. He said in his book, that he often felt like a coward. I think he wanted to empower himself in that moment. It's too much pressure for anyone, especially someone who is constantly in the public eye. His explosion was long overdue. I view that slap now as the culmination of everything that was pent up inside. He needed to explode. It's just unfortunate that it played out the way it did. I feel bad for Chris too. He definitely didn't deserve that. But Will deserved that Oscar, and he deserved to get it without the drama. Jada is drama. We've learned it follows her everywhere. I wish Will could have a do-over. He should of just taken one of his kids or his mom to the Oscars. How great would that night have been with the woman who raised him by his side. All the years of hard work, the wonderful brand Will has created for himself, would have been celebrated. I still root for Will, and wish him continued success. I hope he's able to earn another Oscar when his 10 yr. ban is up, and he gets to do it the way he had intended. I will NOT be reading Jada's book. She's used men to make a name for herself, and she's proved she is NOT "worthy."
I'm going to stop talking and just be staring at people trying to figure out what they're really doing after binging on these uploads!😊 Thank you, greatly appreciated!💫🏴
I see pain and hurt in Wills eyes and Jada is she controls everything in their relationship. She controls him. She doesn't take responsibility for her actions. She believes she's done no wrong.
This was a powerful and insightful read. As a Reiki Master I look a body language as well as read the energy centers (Chakras) of the body. People tend to cover and block where energy leaks are happening in their bodies caused by the physical/emotional/ psychological and spiritual trauma that occurred in their lives. Another thing with Jada, her putting up her hands as she did was not only to shut her husband down, but to also block the anger and energetic attack being put off by Will. Not to mention to subconsciously say, "You have have nothing to say that is going to convince me that I did anything wrong. Your opinion on this situation is invalid. "
Yes!!! Thank you! This is a very interesting perspective. I as an intuitive, interpret body language unconsciously for the most part. But I’ve noticed, with a Narcissist, they believe their own lies, so it’s almost impossible to get a read. I agree she is putting up a block to his anger and stopping him from Convincing her she did anything wrong. I also believe Will did get her back by possibly going out and having one night stands 🤷♀️ or really making her feel extremely guilty. I also have heard people say they had an open relationship. I believe the reason this hurt Will so bad is because her and August did get very close and intense emotional feelings developed between them.
My next video will be a tutorial on how to make balloon entanglements. You’ve been warned. 🎈 🐕
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That was the best entanglement I've ever seen
I am all eyes and ears for this!
We can't wait LOL
I also want to say if my hubby called something like this an "entanglement" I would first say "entanglement my ass" and then pack his bags.
the contrast of jada glowing and sitting all fancy while will looks drained and like he hasn’t had any sleep is really sad to me.
So true.
Hey the video is "7 times Jada embarrass will"
And the one specifically was" Jada record will without his permission"... Thats a site to see
Jada is a Devil. She Broke Him to pieces. Grrrrrr
Will reeks of defeat. Fatigue.Exhaustion.
A man clueless of his next course of action.
Will needs to leave.
As bad as I feel for Will, I think more attention should be given to August. They keep saying he was a family friend, but let's be clear. He was a friend of Jada's kid, not her. So imagine coming to the parents of your friend in distress, dealing with mental health problems and a death in your family, and instead of helping you, the much older parental figure seduces you. This is soooo sketchy and not ok. It's one thing to cheat and gaslight your husband about it (bad), but it's a whole nother level to do it with a young and vulnerable friend of your kid.
Yeah imagine being like 60 and fucking your teenage kid’s friend. Absolutely frustrating this is somehow being normalized
August knew what he was doing when he started sleeping with Jada he is nothing more than a bitter side piece
She was in power over the entire situation. It was a power trip for her, irregardless of Will's or August's feelings. It was all about her.
Wow!!!! Didn’t know it was a friend of their child! That paints a whole nother picture of Jada! Wow!!!
I couldn’t have said it better myself! What she did was NOT OK, on ANY level… She is a true narcissist who does NOT care about anyone but herself… not even her kids! She has been gaslighting Will for a LONG TIME! She has put him through HELL the past few years and you can see it in his appearance, he has aged A LOT! Shame on Jada… I doubt she even realizes how awful she has made herself look 🙄 I really hope Will comes to his senses SOON and gets as far away from her as possible! I can tell he’s the kind of guy who probably stayed with her for so long “for the kids”. Now that they’re grown I hope he truly comes to his senses and runs for the hills!
Jada played it off like “We Were On A Break!!” - but she was in a position of power and trust while August was at vulnerable point in his life, and she took advantage. I can’t help but think Will would’ve been reviled for creeping on his daughter’s friend in a vulnerable position like this. I think Will and Jadad are in a toxic downward spiral with escalating destructive behaviors
Excellent point.
The fact that August was not mentally stable is probably the only reason Will did not beat his ass. No one has taken this into consideration. They both emphasised that he was really really Ill.
Will was going to dump her ass but I guess she talked him around by minimising the whole entanglement. Entanglement literally means a difficult or complicated romantic situation. That's a roundabout definition. It's ridiculed because everyone just calls it an affair. She was trying to give that affair depth by using an obscure word.
Let's face it. Will was always away. Jada was also alone, she got left with this young boy, I'm sure she meant well in the beginning. Sometimes when a woman hasn't had the affections of her man they look elsewhere. August probably complimentary towards her and she probably hadn't heard that for a while.
She did stress that she had been feeling alone for a long long time. Will worked all year round bar 2 weeks he had off I read somewhere.
So even though we think they told us quite a lot, I don't think they told us as much as they could have. In order for that to have happened, a more mature conversation should gave been had, instead of joking about it in parts.
I mean it sounds like I'm team Jada but honestly, I have never really rated her as an actress. So she wasn't really on my radar.
The mistake they made was to address the issue. They should have left it to black twitter and just not acknowledged it. Like many many many celebrities do.
I do think Jada latched onto him for what she could get from him. Even if only to raise her profile. Which while Tupac was alive, she used him for that too. Social climber more than anything else. Both Tupac and Will were already successful. Jada, not so much.
Agree if the rolls were reversed it would be talked about as so wrong and sick!!!! She was so so wrong! She doesn’t care about anyone but herself!
Yep
Truly!
Myself and most of America will feel relieved when we hear “Wil Smith remembers his worth and says goodbye to Jada.” She’s actually cruel, but tries to get us to believe she’s anything but. Wil, you’re being gaslighted
He is spineless, he vent it on Chris Rock, a tiny man compared to him.
He doesn't have it in him to divorce her.
She hits on her kid's friend for an affair. Creepy lady.
You said it right, once he remembers his self worth AND monetary worth he will hopefully wake up and realize she has no respect for herself, marriage or him.
It's sad how much he loves her and as much as we see her as bad for him his fans will support him through her head f*c*ING until he sees his own worth and eventually leaves her..
@@TraceyMariexx At this point TM I think she has something on him. And he simply cannot Leave.
You can tell Jada's empathy doesn't include her husband, Will. She claims she wanted to help August with his issues, trying to appear as if she cares about others and as if she's a selfless person while Will's feelings were dismissed and invalidated.
Agree. It's not true caring for August either. Seems like she wanted the ego boost & control from rescuing August. She just "wanted to feel good". 🙄
@@mommom3172 You're absolutely right. It's not August that made her feel good, but the "ego boost & control" that made her feel good. The same can be said with her children and Will. It has nothing to do with the other people and EVERYTHING to do with her "ego & sense of control".
Ooooo great point! She wanted to help August. Why not help Will! I love this
She never cared for August either...she knew what she wanted the moment her son introduced him to the family. It's all about what she wants... consequences be damned.
@@TheBehavioralArts do you think that Will might have cheated on her in the past and this was a possible form of revenge? I wonder as she's made comments about how she doesn't like blonde white women and there's been speculation that Will hooked up with a couple of blonde white co-stars in the past.
It makes me sad that the whole conversation ends with him saying “How am I doing?” Like he feels he’s the one who needs to prove his worth to her even though she is the betrayer.
She's probably convinced him that he's the problem. It's beyond manipulative. I honestly couldn't imagine treating my spouse this way.
Yes I cringed and didn’t understand why Will would even ask this question, the whole reason this whole situation was happening is because of Jada. The entire red table forum should have never existed, all of their private business has been exposed in public by Jada herself. Who does this?
He says “ How am I doing ?” to give her an entry point to praise him and say something affirming to HIM. He needed her affirmation and it was his only opportunity because throughout the interview it was all about
HER , her needs and his love for her. He even begins the interview ( not shown) by saying he told her in the beginning of their relationship “ I could love you through anything ?” The “ How am I doing ?” refers to his commitment, devotion, self sacrificing spirit , and love for HER as promised in his vow. Sad to watch. Looks a bit like Narc Abuse .
@@vonch33 Yes yes yes. She is a dangerous manipulator and 'loving her through anything' as if this is was love is is misunderstanding what love is. Love is NOT abuse at any cost.
@Jay Sharp I bet if he hooked up with some pretty 20 year old she wouldn't be able to handle it. I think in this case it might actually be very telling concerning showing how she would react.
His laughter through the entire thing is so full of pain
😢
My man is getting torn to pieces
Agreed and hers is, yep I'm getting away this
That whole red table talk was basically 'The Narcissist's Prayer' from Jada to Will:
That didn't happen.
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
And if it is, that's not my fault.
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
And if I did, you deserved it.
That is what Will hasn't figured out yet, but is still feeling the sting of.
Yup, deflection and justification is all I heard from her in this interview. Not even an apology.
Will and Jada to each other: "Look at what YOU did to ME!" Those two were made for each other...who else would want either of them?
Definitely.
Book definition of gaslighting
Damn that was good.
At the end, when HE asked HER "how he was doing" it almost made me cry. She flipped it so hard, he was seeking HER approval of his behavior after HER transgression & all she gave him was a high-five & you're awesome. I had flashbacks of being 10 yrs old & the child of a narcissist. My heart just flies to Will.
And he's probably thinking okay you say you're here but who you going to cheat with next I think will should run and run fast don't look back
So many things in this "discussion" and interviews, et cetera throughout the years make me think she's been walking all over him for a long time.
Early in the relationship, with a group of 20 people, she told him to “shut the fck up” , he said “I’m not going to live like this” , she said “are you going to break up with me over fkn words” , he said I’m done , its over , then she cried and they stayed together. She has an anger/control/ego problem . Not sensing any love , just need greed anger hate
@@guysumpthin2974 Oof. It really breaks my heart for him.
Yes, this thing popped up in a group I am in for men who have survived a narcissist or borderline woman. I could see in wills behavior definitely complex PTSD going on, but I don’t think he’s a cluster B. Jada however…
"I didn't know if you'd be willing to find the deep capacity to love ME"
This was NEVER about Will. This was ONLY about her and her control over him!
Then he’s stupid
Everything she says makes me cringe! No, makes me RECOIL!!!
I remember when I watched this, feeling soooo uncomfortable. I felt like the emphasis on Jada's need to explain her guilt from a very removed place - while simultaneously almost pushing Will to agree that "yeah, things are okay" - was really obvious here. I also was disappointed that she didn't use the platform of The Table to actually apologize to him; to take some ownership and ask him how she could do better. He looked so uncomfortable and sad. It was painful to watch.
Right? If you have the table to talk why not use it to apologize
I totally agree. That RTT episode was very hard to watch. I felt for Will.
yes, but i bet if she would do it, public would take it as fake, justify taht she said it only bcs cameras...we dont know how much and wat exactly they talked between themselfs about it, if at all, as they said at begining its privat matter wich became public, so they were basically pushed into any reaction...they decided into this, despite they ofc had right to not react at all...ppl have relationships rollercoasters on whoel globe, no one knows about it, bcs they not known...but as soon soemthing happens to celebrity couple, suddenly everyone neds to know everything, every smoll detail, judging judging judging like they have any right to stick their nose into other ppls life...this was very difficult for both of them to come this publicly, ofc they not confortable, specially will...but its part of past, part of life, tiem to move on
Totally
She didn’t apologize because she wasn’t sorry.
I think she's very comfortable because she's a narcissist and doesn't think she did anything wrong. I think she's also very comfortable because of the fact that Will is not and she's lording it over him, humiliating him- she has all the power. When you're repentant and sorry for what you've done, harm you've caused someone you profess to love, you're crying, you're begging. Even if you've gotten past the initial emotions, you'd still be eyes downcast, humble and there's none of that.
“This is minuscule.” Is that what she said. Yes, it is in comparison to world affairs, but it is everything to her husband and her family. Self absorbed.
Completely self absorbed yeh
"This is miniscule" is her saying "in the grand scheme of things, your hurt feelings mean nothing."
@@Robster-1970 👍🏼
The last clip is very revealing: she had no guilt, no sorrow, no reason to ask forgiveness, no, all the burden is on him, he had to pass a test, was his love for her big enough to survive her "entanglement"? And he asks how he's doing, seeking her approval.. "You're awsome," she said, her teeth clenched and her mouth twisted in contempt. This is so sad, I feel sorry for him. Your analysis was brilliant, as always!
Wow!!! Well said. I agree with you all the way. She showed no remorse. And that test annoyed me. 😒 August was MUCH more relatable and revealing in his interview.
@@bebenut123 Of course we don't know everything, we talk about what they themselves have made public. And I'm not a WS fan, in fact I think he was pathetic at the Oscar ceremony and they should have "invited" him to leave inmediately.
They Need to part ways. This Is a Toxic relationship. It is So damn obvious.
@@bebenut123 will was prob bonking august too
They both said they were over why would she need to feel guilt or sorrow ?
The “you’re awesome” and high five felt like she was treating him like a child. It’s something your kindergarten teacher would do when you are “being a good listener.”
He’s the one that up the high five first! Prolly their thing
But she don’t deserve him he deserves better 😢
Yes! I do that with my 2yo granddaughter.
I highfive for all good things
When she said she didn’t feel he had the capacity to love her, and him asking how he was doing, told me everything I needed to know about why he slapped Chris. Will sitting there laughing at Chris’ joke, somehow equated to Jada that he didn’t love her, so he had to do something grandiose to prove otherwise. 😳
She will say anything to him to manipulate him and his feelings. She will use any and all comments situations relationships to make will feel like he has hurt her and owes her so much back and constant reminding of any time (doubt there's very many) that he did or said something that hurt her
And i mean that was actually justified in both their eyes as being a mean or messed up thing to say or do. Have no idea how often she clings to every slight and microagression and just drills them into his concious so even as he is dreaming he'll be thinking he did some huge horrible actions that he must pay for with his soul and anything and everything she wants whenever she wants it
This is a dead marriage they are just staying in it as dysfunctional relationship it was from Day 1
Imagine if Will had slept with his daughter's friend.... The world would've cancelled Will Smith.
But because Jada is a woman and slept with her son's friend, people assume equal blame to them. Instead of a Jada seducing a young kid in vulnerable situation
As a woman I agree
So true
I see her as a predator. Maybe not as bad as Mary Kay Letourneau - but same ballpark.
Yup
And ironically enough, Will Smith is still getting cancelled for it.
I think she's actually comfortable. I believe she feels superior or in control of Will. In fact I think she wants to control him to overcompensate for her jealousy of his power and success.
It’s true cause I’m other videos she’s omitted to being bitter over his love for his career and how his life is while she became a stay at home wife when she didn’t want to be a mom in the first place
I bet she hates that he’s the centre of attention when they’re together.
I don’t think she even has alopecia, looks really even. She’s shown a micro scratch which looks like tight braiding/weave stress.
Not worth quite the hype imho.
I can just imagine how hurt he is, that sweet face he has, but really - we know very little. Perhaps he was unfaithful first (although she’d sure mention it if he had).
So this boy was ‘sick’ - kind of sounds like she took advantage. He seems to think Will gave his blessing too... I wonder who told him that.
Have to say... I see nothing of him in those kids.
yes like amber is jealous of depp's power and success -- clearly
She never apologizes. She never checks on him or how he is doing. She never acknowledges his pain. She is condescending to him at the end. She's just a nightmare. ( but quite possibly he is as well). The whole thing is PAINFUL to watch.
She even looks like she has eternal calmness, and like a psychopath, manipulates her surroundings to make them the way she wants.
Jadas disposition through this whole interview is very - I've done nothing wrong. I can justify all my actions. Where as Will's is like he is humiliated and broken. Jada reminds me of the kind of person that will hurt you and then say "I'm sorry you feel that way."
OMG. So on point. I see women say I'm sorry you feel that way to people deferring and DEFLECTING on you with no ACCOUNTABILITY in their brain. it's outright repulsive, super DISRESPECTFUL and EXTREMELY disgusting
Lol yup sicko!!!!!
I strongly agree
I knew someone who was like this. She was a beautiful narcissistic person who needed me to fill a void.
It's literally disgusting how she is being
You being aware of Will Smiths ability to defuse serious situations with humour is spot on. In his book he also talks about always being a “pleaser” starting from his youth in family relationships etc. Basically he himself has confirmed that he always just wants everybody to get along and be happy so he is in fact using humor as a sort of a tool in those hard situations.
My family has strife that goes way back too. And I have fulfilled the same role as will smith . Our love for others is more important than our love for our selves as we see it although it is also destructive. I’ve had to step away from my entire family some of it’s my fault and some of its not . However it’s the important lesson my soul came to learn in this life . Peace to you all .
It’s def an ability , but it can be a weakness in situations like this.. maybe for a tense business meeting it’s good . But here the power dynamic is already so off that I think doing that makes it even more lopsided.
What you're saying Makes me sad 😥. Why in the world did he have to do that!! He really is a great guy although i truly believe he should be cancelled for the next decade to set an example and for such a thing to never repeat again!!
He's a pleaser alright. Pleasing men, women and I'd hate to thinking of what else outside of his marriage.
It’s a classic adult child of alcoholics and dysfunctions trait. You can basically find that in any of the class clowns/comics you have met through life.
I think Jada's sitting comfortably because she doesn't believe she was in the wrong.
A narcissist would
She's giving big "we were on a break" vibes. Lol
Right she think this shit is justified
Why will she be if they were both separated? How many times did they have to say it in the video?
@@TonisonConstructson because they were. They said it clearly
I so agree. At the end I noticed how the high five gesture had a tight squeeze at the end before releasing hands. Obviously they are not on the same page emotionally, lending to the whole event as nothing more than a PR staged event. You're good as a behavioral analyst. I'm impressed. This being my compliment to you from a retired psychotherapist after 43 years working with sociopaths, serial predators etc. Keep up the good work. Sincerely, Sandi
Jada's sitting posture, broad, sweeping hand gestures conveyed to me "this is my territory, I am in control of the narrative". As much as she says it's private and she doesn't want to talk about it, here she's determined and getting comfortable as it may last a while. I don't know, just really struck me as a difference in their approach to this talk.
Her "no, we were over" very much sounds like justification to me. Also, while Will does often smile, his eyes look incredibly sad.
I agree with her her sexual experiences should be private would you like an ex to put y'all's relationship on blast cheating or not
@@jessyncust76 I never said otherwise or meant it negatively, only that it looks to me like they are there for different reasons - she to hopefully give enough clarity to stop further media talk about this and he to gain some answers.
My heart breaks for him.,,he looks so sad and near tears. She has no idea the depth of his anguish.
good analysis of the talk; thanks for the tips on spotting a lie.
I agree
Her behavior--downplaying her indiscretions, refusing to apologize, justifying her wrongdoings, making light of something that clearly brought him a lot of sadness--reminds me so much of my narcissistic ex. Unfortunately I reacted so much like Will during the relationship, constantly seeking reassurance that I was doing a good job in the relationship and that I was loving him enough (even blaming myself for his bad behavior), and giving him way too much leeway.
Seeing everyone in the comments calling out how self-absorbed and abusive her behavior is is *so* reaffirming and so helpful to me right now, as I'm still struggling with understanding what the hell happened to me in my relationship. Thank you everyone and thank you Spidey for giving me the tools for spotting this kind of behavior in the future!
It took me 10 years almost after the breakup with my ex to realize what went wrong and WHY, and be okay with it, and realize it WASN'T my fault, but rather hers and stop blaming myself.
If you can try to get some therapy to work through it. Even though you’re out of the relationship being with a narcissist really affects you inside
You can tell Will has experienced a lot of trauma. He uses humor to deflect pain, a role individuals take on during childhood. The amount of attention their family has recieved has been too much for him, along with whatever personal betrayals. Jada seems to enjoy the attention despite the pain it causes him.
She's all to ,Jada!
@@dellagriego7032 imagine being attracted to an older, narcissistic and possibly psychopath woman when you have all the options on the world.
That makes absolutely no sense...
He could have done much better for a wife.
And what’s that lawn sprinkler laugh about at the beginning?
She makes my skin crawl.
@@fergoka it makes perfect sense when you’re dealing with a broken person who has low self esteem. I can speak from personal experience. Broken people don’t really understand that they’re broken. They have think they understand it… but until you’re healed, you can’t truly see just how broken you were. Narcissists feed off of brokenness. It’s like a magnet drawing them in. It’s a game. So they will give you the world while making themselves irresistible in the beginning to give you something to hold on to and long for. Once they’ve got you.. fully, that’s when they flip. They convince you that you’re worthless, you’re not a good person, no one wants you, and they’re doing you a favor by being with you. They constantly brag about themselves and build themselves up while they do this to you so it convinces you even more that you’re so lucky to have them. It’s just evil.. This cycle traps people. It causes those broken pieces to break down more and more over time. It honestly takes a lot for a person to take a step back and see what’s really going on. But even still, you have to be the one to ultimately decide if you’re worth more or are they worth the torment. Some never see it. Just my opinion, but I think Will has brokenness that has never healed from his childhood up until present day. Jada feeds on this brokenness and uses it to her advantage. Which in turn, keeps him holding on tight.
I could be completely wrong and they both could be toxic as hell. But I know that look in his eyes.. and I sure as hell know the look in hers. Another good example, Amber and Johnny. Johnny freaking Depp.. with a C lister Amber Heard. She abused him and drained his money. Mans could literally have anyone in the world. But instead he’s with her. Makes no sense on the outside looking in but to them, it makes the most sense.
If you read his auto biography, you would understand how true this is... Will has always been the man to diffuse with humor. He's acknowledged this. And despite his faults, I will always admire him. He is human. Doing the best he can in the spotlight of humanity.
How she totally humiliates will is disturbing
Peter you've become a pirate ☠️
At the end, when he asks "how am I doing?", it's striking how she high fives him from across the table like he's just some buddy of hers. It's not tender or warm, it's macho. Even when she says "you're awesome" her eyes are shifting AWAY from him. It's so dismissive and aloof, not like someone giving loving, sincere reassurance to a life partner expressing fear at losing her. She takes him fully for granted.
It looks like Will initiated that high five though
I like how you said it wasn't tender or warm, but macho. I felt the same while watching that episode
To me, for him to ask that. "How am I doing?" That statement comes from NEED. Its a needy statement. Like he is looking for approval from her, that everything is okay, and we can go back to normal. This is very telling of the power dynamic.
Exactly! She has no empathy for how hard this is for him
Yup, for me this point was so telling. Like someone patting a puppy for doing the right thing. Good job for towing my narrative and keeping my reputation. This is a very messed up relationship.
I like how you don't take sides, and how Respectful You are for People You Study & Analyze
Yes..exactly , the examples that he provides are the very best ..Eases in to a understandable way of explaining in addition to variety of clips. Loving it.
Maybe I can take sides;
it seems Jada ultimately wears the pants in this relationship, Will loved her and maybe she manipulated the relationship so she could boink August and maybe cause Will pain. Will is of course deeply hurt and the child in his soul doesn't trust her anymore, his innermost desire is for things to be the way they were before the rupture of their relationship, and the slap on Chris Rock was an exaggerated gesture by Will to reassert dominance over and possession of Jada in public.
By reacting like a Macho-Man in defense of his "Woman", he is, in reality, saying that this is really how I would like to slap Jada for all the shit she created.
I would go so far as to say Will is between a rock and a hard place with his feelings, on the one hand he is in danger of appearing to be pussy-whipped weakling in public and on the other hand his sense of self-respect demands a demonstration of machismo in response to his "Woman" being dissed in public by another man.
Remember that most men need the four women rolled into one, in the woman they are with,
i. the trophy wife
ii. the mother substitute,
iii. the homemaker, saintly mother of his children,
iv. the harlot, whore and debauched sex object.
I fear Will has had to share the fourth one and is never going to be happy with her or trust her again.
“Even though this is minuscule…” She has NO idea how betrayal affects others. To some it IS their whole world. Wills face said it all. I feel bad for him in this, he seems to be doing what I used to in my abusive relationships: hoping they’ll love me, laughing it off and making jokes when they don’t/can’t.
Minuscule is almost being non chalant or mediocre!!! Get out here with that cover your A** come back!!!
She knows He puts up with it he allowing her to go as far as she would go!!! SHE HAS AN IDEA!! 😮OF WHAT SHE IS DOING!!!
Agree with you 💯
I’m currently learning how to process a betrayal & I’ll tell ya… it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to live daily with…
She knows. She is callus to it. She doesn't care how it affects others.
I feel sorry for their son, a loss of trust of his parents, loss of a friend, and media embarrassment that your parents organize. I dont know how she could sit through that interview and look at his hurt face
She had august on the red table talk . You could tell they were sleeping with each other then
I think it's very telling that when Will says "I was done with you" she turns it into "yeah we were finished". She's trying to claim some of that strong action for herself. She comes across as a narcissist to me
yes plus if they are "finished" it makes it ok for her to have done what she did with august -
She is!!!
@@vickiepeek2279 YES! if they were divorcing she was free to have a boyfriend. He also had girlfriends
Well he said he was done with her... to me that means OVER.. no?
@@a.m.9474 he has disappeared over to India - he needs to stay clear away from her
Yes! I paused the video to say, Will Smith clearly didn’t want Jada using the word “entanglement.” I believe he knew something was off about that word. It felt so wrong to me when she used “entanglement” and after learning about “distancing” words I knew why. I’m so glad you felt the same!
Also, you had me cracking up with the balloon animal. 👏🏻🤣
Entanglement is a synonym of adultery. Using the former word has a euphemism tone to it. Dig deeper with morality, it is adultery.
We all fall short of the glory of God. I can't judge her. However people such as Jada should just say it as it is-- "I committed adultery", period.
she used that word to 'lessen the guilt' for cheating on Will.. to make it like a lessor value of cheating. but hey, its still cheating!! she don't wana be wrong.
The props were GREAT. I love that it rested in the background on the shelf☺️
Narcissists take any expression of love as failure or weakness on your part.
The more he loves her, the more she will keep her distance and manipulate him.
Painful to watch. Hope Will gets it trough his skull that this fight can’t be won and cuts her loose.
It's difficult for those in such relationships to get out. They think they need to love more and show more understanding. In the meantime, they lose their families, friends, support network, reputation and self worth. Sometimes they even believe that the other person needs them. Whichever is the case, they would continue to have some lucid moments when their subconscious tells them to run 🏃♂️ but they simply have had their confidence eroded to the point where they are no longer certain about what they need to do.
@@fantasticmrfox7497 Sadly, Will thinks their relationship is fixable! Whenever you’re dealing with a narcissist, nothing is fixable.
you can see her withdraw every time he gives her what she's signaling that he's supposed to offer her.
I love body language analysis. I learned new concepts here but I am glad I knew a few great concepts, too! Great teaching style - powerful concepts with simplicity! I can see all of what you have said!
For me, when Will questions her "Entanglement" line, Jada gives a small yet telling smirk from one side of her mouth and then gives a child-like (teeheehee) laugh, which only gives away the fact that she knows she's doing and is trying to dismiss the whole thing and distance herself. Like when a child is caught with their hands in the cookie-jar but lies and says they're just putting more cookies in there and laughs it off when that lie isn't believed.
Another great body-language breakdown video! Thank you for your great insights!
The video where she's hounding and humiliating him, and he asks her not to record him, is heartbreaking. In this video, I took the "getting her back" as getting revenge. I don't believe Jada truly thinks she's done anything wrong. I think Will is trying to pretend everything is fine and he's come to terms with it, when he hasn't.
She should be friends with Amber Turd
I too took the “getting you back” in a different context than the presenter did. I took it as a revenge statement like you. Will’s ego needs to get that revenge. He gonna “get her back.”
@@deadpoolgaming997 Thanks I didn't want to use that name, but that, once I became aware of even who she was, will, as a result of that trial, I will now and FOREVER think of Amber Heard as, A.T. And yeah, I agree that Jada is just another Amber Terd.
Yes. She SURE DOESN'T want HIM to do to HER what SHE did to him.
This things gives me Amber Heard vives all around
i love how it ends with Will needing to be willing to find the deep capacity to love her. not even like his ability to forgive or something. she puts it all onto him for their willingness to repair. you didn't show it in this video but at some point when she talks about the affair, she basically says it was a healing experience for her. it's all so without thought for him and his pain. even if she actually felt like this somehow ended up being a positive experience, there is no reason to say that to your spouse. they don't need to know that the act that betrayed, hurt and angered them was also a great spiritually healing experience. she reads like a huge narcissist to me.
Thank you. I had the same thoughts. I was he honestly appalled, and I'm glad to know I wasn't the only one to see her behaviors at narcissistic.
I thought Will had admitted to having “flings”. They are rich, privileged people. They do not live as the rest of us do.
@@lindap.p.1337 i'm not sure how that's relevant to what i said at all. i'm sure he has been unfaithful to her in the past, it's pure assumption on my part but i would not be surprised. that being said, this was about her 'entanglement,' not his. whether or not they are privileged, financially, socially and otherwise, doesn't take away from the fact they are still human beings. they may not live the same way the rest of us do but they still have the same emotions and feelings as the rest of us.
Mind blowing... When all you see when you look into the mirror is 'I'm a victim', I think you can forget that anyone else is there and you don't feel the need to qualify your own actions, or apologize for things. Just explain it to them in whatever twisty way you feel they'll believe.
He doesn't love her anymore, I think what happened is because of Pride, Ego or proving his Masculinity. Because if I am Will, I have left Jada long time ago.
For personal reasons this is fascinating, because I learned something about myself. I say "honestly" A LOT. And your coverage of Jada made me think about that and why I do that? In my case, I think it's because in my childhood I was never believed when telling the truth. So, I always over-use and over-emphasize words like "actually"... "honestly"..."truly"..." in truth".
I honestly (lol 😊) was not consciously aware I did this until you mentioned it here. I'm actually really bad about it.
Me too..same reasons
I totally agree there’s no warmth it’s like they live in a competition. The thing that always bothered me about this interview is this; when she talks about her relationship with August and she says “ we were really really good friends“. You’re talking to your spouse about a man that you had a sexual relationship with. Even if you guys were broken up at that time it would still be painful to your husband to bring that up. Then on top of it to say that you and the other man were really really close that’s like cutting your husband with a knife.
Exactly. She never uses a word like a mistake or wrong doing or similar. It’s all positive about august while talking to will… of course that must have hurt him… just another proof she doesn’t love him…
@@MW-ob8jm yes! She disregards his feelings
Will and Jada both confuse me 🤦🏽♀️
What happened to the open marriage? They both allowed each other to have outside partners, so, why did this bother Will? I thought he was cool with having his wife sleep with other men.
Right! Rubbing salt in the wound!
I felt the same way when she describes how the “entanglement” started (I don’t think it was shown in this clip) and how she was so “broken and wounded” and being with him made her feel better. I’m paraphrasing but that’s basically what she said. How that must have hurt Will. Breaks my heart for him. I pray his eyes are opened and soon!!!
@@SweetTea742 I have no idea
Such a great analysis. At the end Will says “ How am I doing ?” to give her an entry point to praise him and say something affirming to HIM. He needed her affirmation and it was his only opportunity because throughout the interview it was all about
HER , her needs and his love for her. He even begins the interview ( not shown) by saying he told her in the beginning of their relationship “ I could love you through anything ?” The “ How am I doing ?” refers to this promise … his commitment, devotion, self sacrificing spirit , and love for HER as promised in his vow. It’s a little sad to watch.
Great analysis of this moment.
Wow nice!
Jada takes NO responsibility for HER actions. She was helping him, they were really, really good friends, bigger things in the world, we were having issues… etc. She has many excuses that blame other people and situations but I haven’t heard her say it was her fault in any way! She makes me sick how she doesn’t step up and how she doesn’t think it’s a big deal.
Shame on her,,,to face her husband and discus# her affair like she’s planning A party,, she makes a fool out of herself discussing personal business at her”red table”
she should be ashamed and embarrassed,,to admit to her husband and on tv her actions
Personally I think Will Smit slapping Chris Rock was meant mentally for Jada
she makes him look like a wimp shame on her can’t stand her I’m embarrassed for her children discussing such personal intimate entanglement in her children’s presence
Her mother doesn’t correct her Will should dump her
Unfortunately he will have to share his monies because she would starve otherwise
Bye Jada
Personally I think when Will was asking Jada, “Tell us what you did?” “An entanglement?” Will was trying to get Jada to admit on record that she cheated/had an affair. That way when he moves to divorce her she’s already admitted she was cheating.
But currently Jada can say, no I had an entanglement, meaning (fill in the blank with whatever gets her out of being guilty of cheating).
I grew up on The Fresh Prince, and seeing him in this situation is painful. The pain in his body is so obvious. He fought back the tears, and all she could say was, "you're doing great." I appreciate this video because it provides a glimpse into their relationship and how disconnected she is from her actions. She's taking no responsibility for cheating on her husband, AND she's used her child's friend to build up her self-esteem by taking advantage of this very sick friend at his lowest point. Maybe that is the reason for this "friend" to stop contacting her. Maybe he's realized how she didn't help him, that she took advantage of him, and used him to gain more power in her relationship with her husband. She is preying on people and it is scary to witness. I can only hope that the ones she has already harmed can find the strength to leave that toxic relationship.
U grew up on the set of Fresh Prince? Lol
I don't see a very bright future in this relationship. Jada is all about herself and she justifies her actions by putting everything on Will. And by trying to sound like a Hero by helping August. She makes me sick in my stomach. God Bless Will and Her bit hopefully she understands all the pain she is putting Will through.
Well said.
Yes she abusing him mentaly we could all se he is holding back the tears he is heartbroken
I'm glad you covered this. After their exchange at the Oscar's, it was exceptionally clear that there is some pretty hard-core psychology going on there
I can't help but feel that he'd be much better off just walking away and start the healing process. There's no greater waste of life than being in a one sided relationship. He's better off being single, processing the hurt and heartache, he'd eventually pull through the other side and see her in a totally different light.
I think you just said something.
He’s a single man with a bald millstone around his neck. She’s as cold as a marble slab.
I believe that will happen one day.
I bet he's tried many times, he was reeled back most likely with tears in jadas eyes, how many men melt at a woman's tears, then suckered back in with promises that never come true. Rinse and repeat it till you can't take it anymore strong men can go years before they are able to leave someone they love even if they don't like who their love turns into. If they were not rich with easy life this relationship would have been so over a long time ago. Of course maybe I'm wrong mind that iv never met any of them.
First time see your videos. Was attracted with this one in particular. I noticed couple of things . The way she sits tells not only that she is comfortable in this situation but also that she is a master of it . She is not faking it. This is what she is. She is relaxed and dominant like “who can tell me anything? I know better than all of you.”Her face is another story so much arrogance and pride, and she is obviously a narcissist. Her ego is bigger than her. I’m not a specialist at this field, but I’m naturally very sensitive and usualully I feel this kind of things. Poor Will.
If my wife cheated on me and we sat down and had a heart-to-heart talk like they did and she proceeded to give me a hi5 at the end instead of coming over to hug and kiss me it would be over, you can clearly see that there is no love on Jade is and she’s in the relationship for all the wrong reasons and I think everybody knows what I mean about that. On top of it she should be thanking him over and over again for giving her another chance after what she did not only did she cheat on him she did it with a family friend that they all knew and we’re spending time with as a family, it doesn’t get more messed up than that. Will is a weak man I don’t know if he will ever walk away from the hot mess that is named Jada
I don't think Will trying to protect himself or feeling hurt means he is weak. ...& just because he slapped Chris, it doesn't mean Will is violent.
Actually it talks a truly strong person to love a Jada Will is very strong
Hot that's a dude 😂
Allegedly they are in an open relationship. They both cheat...in agreement. However, I'm no expert, but one would think that you don't smash a guy who became/is a family friend. "Aug" should have been off limits. There has to be rules in the relationship, even when you have no rules.
It is difficult though, isn't it? I mean, Will agrees that he was done with her and they had agreed to go out and find what made them happy individually at the time. Is it hurtful if the first thing that happens after something like that is that your "partner" engages in a relationship with someone else? Definitely. But is it cheating? Is it cheating if even now, they both agree that they were separated at the time? Is it cheating just because they were still married? Even though that marriage was an open marriage? I don't know, that doesn't seem like as easy or obvious an answer to me as many people are making it out to be...
Totaly agree with the lack of real love and compassion between them. He said she was the one who wanted this subject at the red table. It was clearly her narrative driving here.
Thank you for all these great clues on checking out how someone can signal stressors. So helpful in my business life as well as personal interactions.
This is not a wife. This is an enemy under your own roof. This is terrible eye contact, discussion content and body language. This is more uncomfortable than dinner with in laws. I couldnt finish watching.
"This is an enemy under your own roof" Spot On! I wrote what I thought she's done to her children in a reply to @Exotic Car Facts Official Challenge post above. I wrote more detail than I intended because I'd never witnessed anything like that before. It's heartbreaking.
Very insightful comment
But it's not as bad as amber turd... that's when shit gets really bad
This feels like it should have been a private conversation about where their relationship is and where they are going together. So frustrating seeing wife and husband pitted against each other.
Love how you put the "entangled" balloon dog in the back after you made it 😁
"We became really good friends. And it started with me wanting to help" no Jada. You became involved sexually, he became involved emotionally. That's not helping. I don't care if she helped him by talking to him or teaching him some coping skills or whatever. You should never enter into any kind of relationship with someone who is coming to you for guidance. Ever. She hurt that boy deeply, it's obvious he was in love with her and she considered him a sex toy essentially.
Thank you for realizing this. People don’t believe that women are completely capable of using men for sex especially when men are emotionally vulnerable and men easily get emotionally involved. She just wanted a younger dick.
"I wanted to help his health, so I let him hit the coochie." - Jada Pinkett
All jokes aside, you can tell Will is hurting throughout this whole thing. Just like Chris didn't deserve the slap, Will DID NOT deserve this treatment from Jada. It's obvious this happened so she could attempt to justify her sleeping with another dude.
Loooolll
ssexual healing hahhahha
Hurt people hurt people
She is only concerned about #1. Not even her SON. She had sex with her son's friend, & said it was MINISCULE???!! She did it to ""help him??? Lol!! Will, save yourself, chuck her out with trash.
She is only concerned about #1. Not even her SON. She had sex with her son's friend, & said it was MINISCULE???!! She did it to ""help him??? Lol!! Will, save yourself, chuck her out with trash.
I normally don't pay attention to body language analyses but this was incredibly done, very thoughtful, and you didn't jump to conclusions. I'm a new fan!
He’s really good best I’ve seen on RUclips.
When you are in a long relationship. You have tried loving the other person and meeting in the middle to make that relationship work. The other person in the relationship can only ever focus on themselves. It is time to take space for yourself. I was in a toxic relationship for 30 years and did everything I could to make it work. But little parts of you start to die. That is not ok. It is ok to take a step back and just work on yourself. At the end of the day, we live with ourselves. No one else is in our heads. If we stay somewhere, that just makes us angry and resentful. That is not ok. It is not good for us or the world. Thank you for your good work!
As someone who grew up with the Fresh Prince and loves Will Smith, I really feel sad for him for what he's going through.
He seems under a spell. They have kids. Those are the people I worry for
@@corimi7341 All of his kids are adults.
I mentioned in the Oscar slap video on this channel how emotionally distant they were, as represented by the physical distance and the fact her first response, after her double take, is fury and not turning to her husband simply to get some comfort. She felt angry and whether verbally or otherwise she communicated that anger to him. I don't think that he was just laughing without taking in what was said. He comes from a background of working with comedians and in comedy shows/movies where lots of quick witted people ad lib and you need to be quick off the mark to respond. Yes he was in the audience and not performing but surely his instincts in that regard are highly polished. I think he totally got the joke and didn't take offence until his wife conveyed that she did and then he felt like he let her down. But who did she say needs to learn from the incident? She hoped Chris Rock and her husband would move on and learn from the event! Not her! No, nothing to do with her! She totally takes no responsibility. It was quite a long walk from where they were sitting to where Chris Rock was standing. So I'm asking the question no one else seems to be asking. Why didnt she follow her husband and try and stop him? I would have stopped my husband, I know that my friends would have stopped theirs from making a choice that could damage their career, their reputation and their conscience. Instead she totally distanced herself from it as if it was nothing to do with her. That to me is the most telling fact of all. She knew it was going to happen. I hope I'm wrong, but I can't help feeling that, she probably wanted it to happen and she probably did something to ensure it did happen. If she had nothing to do with his actions she would have been trying to stop him. In fact if they were in a healthy relationship where they sought out each other for emotional support Will would be holding her hand not matching over and slapping another man. I admit a lot of this is supposition, but again I say why didnt she try to stop him? Why didn't she say I wished I stopped him? Perhaps she did but I haven't heard that. All of the quotes from her that I've read so far reference the behaviour of her husband and Chris Rock. As if she wasn't even there. But she was there and I saw nothing to indicate she tried to stop it happening.
Great point!
I agree 100% with your comment! I thought the same thing at the time. Almost looked like she egged him on. And look what it’s cost him. Very sad situation.
That's a very valid & observant point, that not many ppl have thought of or highlighted.
She wants him to look bad for any upcoming divorce settlement, that's why she was pleased and smiled after this happened at the oscars.
I am not surprised by her non-implication . It's absolutely normal for narcissist to create chaos and after only to step back and enjoy the spectacle.
She is a narcissist and is gaslighting the heck out of him while he is just sitting there displaying a misplaced loyalty to her. I know what this is like, and if it was me, I'd hit that afterburner button and disappear sooner rather than later.
Best advice--along with get therapy from those who specialize in this kind of abuse.
why y'all treat will like a child
@@katiebarber407 I can see how it might look like that. However, living with a narcissist (spouse, child, sibling, parent and whatnot - people you love) is a very very real challenge, and brings you all kinds of issues and problems.
Surviving one of those relationships coming out with head high and functioning after years to decades of constant gaslighting - that brings extra challenge.
The common for most of these relationship is that the narcissist will work hard to keep you around so that in practice they can keep on manipulating you because they are extremely insecure individuals.
I'm aware my description of a narcissist is lacking, but I assure you I know a lot about this, it's just not the platform to discuss it in great details. But feel free to ask any questions.
So are we treating Will like a child? I don't think so. I don't think so. Breaking a relationship can be a traumatic experience for all involved. I guarantee you breaking a relationship with a gaslighting narcissist, thats GONNA be EXTREMELY traumatic. Because until you're done and worked through it, you will constantly question your sanity.
So Will is facing very very real problems with this, that he needs help figuring out.
That's sound advice from one adult to another imho. Not treating him like a child.
I know you didn't ask for an elaboration, but since I know this is a real problem that needs real life solutions and it's not healthy to stay alone with them problems - I thought I'd clarify that.
I'm from Philly, and I have a family member that went to high school with him and I met him when I was younger watching him play my cousins and others in a basketball game....and his personality was all over the place and his persona was amazing and memorable... that person sitting at that table was a zombie from what I remember.... he need to kick her out the door, be by himself for a while to heal, then start back to dating casually until he heals through and through.
😂 This man brought out the charging cables to get his point across about entanglement. I really appreciate it, I am a visual learner. Thank you for the analysis ❤️
Loved it too. Hilarious
Still un-entangling that 😆
@@TheBehavioralArts 😂
Yeah it disturbed me she kept using that word. I'm guessing it's again, another distancing tactic, entanglement sounds like it's something that happens by accident, like whoopsie!
I think when Will said "I really thought we COULD be over" it shows that even though they were in a rough patch he wanted to work on things and she shut all hope of that just to save face by saying "NO we WERE over" it doesn't make what she did okay at all doesn't matter if your over or not you're still married and you're an adulterer
He said that he was done with her but I wonder if he still expected her not to move on and she reminded him that he had really ended things.
@@kittkattkiddy I don't know you can tell by his face and his reaction to what he said that it affected him I don't think he thought they were totally over and I wouldn't put it past Jada to coach him on what to say at this point and even if they were over it doesn't mean anything if you aren't divorced. In the eyes of the law, the public, and God she is an adulterer
We were on a break!!!!
@@Christine_GoBills that doesn't exist if you're married. Doesn't excuse cheating
@@nunyabizness6113 that's a quote from "Friends".
Will is codependent with both his kids and his wife. Too afraid to set reasonable boundaries on any of them for anything no matter how much it hurts him, even going as far as to say that he wants them to behave the way they do. At his very core, Will is afraid that he can't be loved, and afraid they will reject him, and THAT FEAR is his violent dad's fault.
💥 boom point blank period!
Spot on! I relate to Will ..my ex was a male version of Jada.
I am addicted to your videos! I would love it if you could voice over the parts where you're talking about something I want to see and point it out by seeing the action or expression as you describe it.
Thanks so much for doing these!
You made me giggle when you held up the ENTANGLED phone cable and balloon dog 😂😂😂 You’re REALLY so good at what you do and I really appreciate how you don’t exaggerate or inflate your points for dramatic intent. Thank you 🙏
One of the best (if not the best) behavioral analysis that I've watched on RUclips. I couldn't believe that I had watched the entire clip which I initially intended to watch only a couple of minutes of! Everything you analyze in this video makes complete sense. Half an hour well spent! Just wanted to say thank you 🌹🙏
I'm sure this has already been said in the comments, but August was struggling with addiction, that's what they were referring to. The whole family helped him through it and then will and jada had troubles and she began her "entanglement " with him. Which he describes very differently. One part you left out was her going on about how great it felt for her "to heal somebody ", which he also describes quite differently saying that the heartbreak of his relationship with jada almost killed him. More narcissist Jada. You also skipped over the part where she corrects will for calling it transgression saying she didn't see it that way. But you were spot on about the rest. All about Jada.
Yes I thought the same thing.... your right 100%
He8
It doesn't matter what he says about her she can only tell what she feels she didn't feel shit for him but lust he's mad she dumped his ass
Wasn't August also dealing with a physical ailment of some sort in addition to the addiction & grief? I really feel bad for that dude. Hopefully he recovers from this disaster area and will be able to have healthy relationships in the future.
@@JustIn-op6oy You're absolutely right. August has made it public that he has an autoimmune disorder, along with his mental health issues. He had to be put in a medically induced coma after getting injured falling off a stage. The pain killers he was given, let to yet another addiction. August is really the reason I started to dislike Jada
Wills face when she said “Entanglement” summed up that whole situation. She didn’t seem uncomfortable talking about it which was a bit of a surprise to me. And I think it’s something she’s trying to convey.
Brilliant analysis! I’m a new subscriber…very impressed. I don’t put a lot of stock in most of these body language experts, but I think you hit all the nails on their heads. I like how you point out Wills subtle rebellion at certain points. It’s obvious he doesn’t want to be there but he will do any and everything to please her (which would be such a beautiful thing if he had a wife that deserved that loyalty) You can tell by the look on her face that she’s surprised that he went “off script.” Like you pointed out that nervous laughing and side eyes at the camera was very telling. Way to go Will for that…he wasn’t going to completely conform to her bullshit. This is literally heart wrenching to watch. He loves her so much and she could care less. You can see how much he’s hurt all over his face. I hope he finally leaves her…he deserves so much better.
DITTO THAT!!! & to think, this REDTABLE talk is taped..... for life!!!
Obsessed with your channel since the smith/rock incident. Recent subscriber - thanks for your amazing content. Just watched Dr. Phil today and could have sworn the ideas of the analysis were directly from your viral video. Hope they consulted you or offered you credit or a guest spot. It was a direct copy 😳
Haha thanks! Dr. Phil uses the behavior panel for his body language analysis and I’m very close with Chase Hughes from the panel, we often see very similar things, he’s also taught me a lot. I’m very happy when analysts say the same things because it goes to show that we’re not making this stuff up. So no credit necessary 😊
@@TheBehavioralArts whew! I am a fan of Doc so I was shook. Good to know. Well, you are amazing nonetheless - off to binge some more 🎉
@@FREETOFAMILY haha thanks
@@TheBehavioralArts much success to you!!!🙏🏾✨✨
Would love if you could do a follow up to the Dr. Phil episode and how the response is the same 😉 You should toot your horn! 🚂
ETA: Now that I've finished watching this whole video.
At 25:00 when he asks how he's doing, she does that head shake again that she did earlier. I don't think she really feels that he loves her the way she wants him to love her. That probably explains their whole marriage. He does his best to show his love for her, but either she doesn't feel that it's enough or it's not the kind of love that makes HER happy.
I think she's comfortable because she already has a game plan. She knows how she's going to spin it, she knows exactly what to say and what not to say (hence, using the word entanglement). This is all a role for her, the script is memorized, she's just reading the lines.
Her face also says "Duping delight" she's a sociopath.
I caught that head shake to at the end when she says he's doing great..awesome. 😬
In his book he pretty much admits he didn’t love her the way she would feel it, he loved her the way he wanted to.
SHE PINING OVA 2PAC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The way they ended this conversation was sad, man. Thanks for breaking this down.
Jada is an absolute control freak. Of course she seems comfortable, this was her way of handling public perception for her own image before it got out of control. Will is in love with her and looks very uncomfortable and nervous, but has to do this to keep her happy. A toxic relationship, and very sad IMO. He will never be enough for her.
NOBODY will EVER be enough for her.
@@jlmurray9988 Truth.
@@greenery03 She was young. Who can say what would’ve happened. My guess is they would’ve bumped into choppy relational waters … most couples cycle around with it. I have never cared for JPS.
@@greenery03 She’s always affiliated … what has SHE done?
@@jlmurray9988 she would be nothing without him, keeps him thinking he's lucky to have her when she's the lucky one
I laughed out loud when you brought out the red “entangled” balloons 🎈
Jada reminds me of my husband who I’m separating from. After his affair he tried blaming it on me and justifying it with words that made it seem smaller than it was. I love all of your videos!
Of course you divorced him...90% of divorce rate come from Women
Outstanding analysis! You’re extremely talented. Thank you.
She never once says she is sorry. I think that is the most telling thing about this whole interaction. It just seems like their relationship is very imbalanced. Unfortunately Will wants this more than Jada does which is why he chose the behaviour he did at the Oscars. Loved the analysis!!
Maybe she's not sorry. Will said he was DONE with her
She takes advantage of his moments of diffusing with humor by “laughing along” with him instead of empathizing with his underlying emotions.
Yuppp, narcissists do not care about your emotions. They actually use it against u
Throughout this whole conversation Jada shows narcissistic traits, she's shows no remorse over her 'entanglement' with a young, vunerable boy, or that she has clearly hurt her husband.
She is manipulative, cunning and calculating.
Typical narcissist who thinks she is right in every situation and has no right to be questioned.
Will needs to get away from this thing ASAP!!
But he won't, of course. He is completely under her control.
She definitely is self centered, and very self involved....full of herself,and always will be.
Jada is exceptionally vain. Will should’ve left her for Charlize Theron long time ago.
Amazing, this was a great watch. Favorite part…the “entangled” ballon dog popping up after he was made ❤️🤣👍
Everybody knows by now that Jada doesn’t care about Will, she just want all the attention to herself and uses Will to have it.. she doesn’t even care if her entire family is destroyed in the process
I just watched a music video to a song called "A Thousand Kisses" that Will and Jada made back in the early 2000s I think. In the lyrics, Will is professing his unconditional love and affection to Jada in most of his lyrics, but when Jada sings her verse, all she talks about is how much Will adores her and how funny he is. That one song pretty much encapsulates their entire relationship through the years. Jada has never been in love with Will. She has only been in love with the idea of having someone worship her. Will left his first wife for her.
Yip…my eyes are opened now!
I saw an interview where Will admitted he equates success with hard work. He he said he only takes off two weeks per year! That is absolutely ridiculous, ESPRCIALLY for a multi-millionaire! Anyway, while he's on the other side of the country filming a movie, Jada is at home with her two kids being a semi- single mom and sleeping with Marc Anthony and then her son's friend August.
I'm sure he will now admit that the extra money wasn't worth it. They have enough for five lifetimes. That is, before he has to pay Chris Rock for the adsault!
Narcissists do that. They don’t care about others.
Spot on observation. Yes everyone is aware of it. Everyone but Will. So sad.
Stumbled upon your channel and I’m loving it! As a psychologist it’s truly fascinating to hear your perspective and expertise on body language.
That’s awesome! Thanks for watching 😊
Heck yeah she's sitting comfortably. She's comfortable being the bully.
There's not enough focus on how young that kid was...it's sick. She's the kind of abusive bully that literally just scrambles your brain and you just don't even know how to respond after a while you just give up
Yep! And no one knows more than Jada how DESPERATLY Will Smith has wanted to be the quintessential Husband & Father since he was a kid. To fail at that is not an option. ESPCLY since he (in his perception, Im sure) failed with his first child's mother. A 2nd "failure" is not an option; even if he has to talk himself into being okay with an open relationship. He's even participated in seeing other women. I dont believe FOR ONE SECOND its for the reason Jada steps out.
Small thing..as a young waitress, I was taught to nod up and down (subtlelty) when I asked customers if they wanted appetizers, the specials or desserts. It worked probably 80% of the the time. Jacked up the bill. People respond innately to our body/facial language. As a clinician, I have learned to steer aggressive patients and some with attitude, by commanding my voice, posture and facial expressions to help them to be open to receiving the treatment recommended, and to help them to feel safe in our care. Just a side note on human relations.
That word Salad and manipulating behavior is unreal.
He's trying so hard to forgive her. But she's not sorry. He's trying so hard to be loved and valued; trying to"earn" it. He's shoving himself into a box. This conversation is full of fear
The entire relationship is filled with fear. She never wanted to marry HIM, her mom forced it.(baby bump).
And she has been holding Tu-pac over his head since day one.
It’s incredible how you link the actors personality (Will, Johnny( with the roles they play! That is DEEP!!!
What I've learned about being with a narcissist or having one in the family is that the “victim“ (children or partner) always try so hard to gain the narcissist's love. It's like a mission: “I have to become better, and one day he/she will finally love me“. They depend so much on the narcissist's approval. I can see it here, too. Will asks her “How am I doing?“ regarding her statement whether he is willing to find enough deep capacity to love her (again, it's all about her; nothing about “I'm truly sorry, how can I show you that I love you?). And she answers with “You're doing...great“ while shaking her head. Looks like Will is still not showing enough effort in her opinion. I feel sorry for him...
It's really heartbreaking to see others be so dejected and desperate for that connection.. Narcissist strategy is to lovebomb their victim in the very beginning. Then they abruptly turn on their target and blame them for the withdrawal of love/approval, so the victim scrambles to fix their "flaws" so they can get that "amazing" relationship back. The method is sickening
That is so brilliantly put. That's exactly what I see in his behaviour. The strain of being good enough for a narcissist. I think that's exactly what drove him to getting violent at the Oscars. And it shows you how lost he is, a mere glance of disapprovel from her was enough for him to completely disconnect from himself and try to get her to be satisfied with him. At the end of the red table talk, he was almost teary eyed when he asked how he is doing. It was the child asking for his mother's love. Him growling through his teeth that he basically will endure anything " the hole bad marriage for life" thing is trauma bonding at its finest. He is aggressive because he is so determined to get her to approve of him, and so angry at the same time but the child in him is after all not able to turn away from the mother, its life depends on winning her over. And he is fighting for his life, he will not be abandoned no matter what. Ironic how well suited it was for him to play the ginie. He seems to be as powerfully bound in this life as well.
@@sarahalessa78 Wow. Brilliant insights!!
Nothing he does will ever be good enough for her.
"Intertwined" is a word that provokes thoughts of weaving/endearment, I hear "Entanglement" and I immediately think spider legs weaving a web of deceit. You brought out so many cool points I totally missed.
What's that phase,,, Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Can't wait for your next breakdown!
Another word often used is "enmeshed". It's used to excused inappropriate relationships and to explain it as involuntary, like an insect getting caught in a web through no fault or intention of its own.
@@andoletube Great description, "it wasn't me" to quote Shaggy.
When he said, "There's a real POWER in knowing someone is riding with you no matter what." I feel like he spat that at her because he's angry and hurt that he was and still is that person for her, but she can't do the same for him. He doesn't know what that feels like, and she does, buy she takes it for granted every day. I don't condone what he did to Chris Rock, but I feel awful about what this woman has turned him into.
I died laughing with your props for entanglement. I really enjoyed your analysis, fascinating as always!!
😂 gotta keep you guys entertained right? 🤗
Wow. What the f*ck! Why does a superstar actor need a toxic relationship like this?! This is wrong. Get the hell out of this, Will, respect yourself, you can see what it lead to in the Oscars. Let this ship sail! ⛵
A whole lot of drama from two intense actors. And they're doing it all the way to the bank. Don't waste your time wagging your fingers at either one of them. After all they got you to watch whatever crazy ass shit that's going on between them. Every second, a sucker's born.
Just Like Johnny depp and Amber heard relation 🙃
I know he has sooo much financial stability! He needs to leave the relationship as hard as it might be!
I think you're forgetting that they're human beings just like the rest of us. None of us "NEEDS" this type of relationship. But just like all the rest of us, they aren't truthful and they are not protective enough of their hearts individually nor as a couple.
Cause if divorce happens, will gonna be paying 50% of his assets to that witch till death. Divorce courts commonly favor women.
The moment he showed 3 examples of entanglements…I laughed deep inside my soul 🤣🪢🔌🎈
Knowing now that they were separated and they were covering it up the whole time… this was SPOT ON.
6:36 I think she was definitely trying to convey comfort
9:37 august was struggling with drug addiction
15:11 he was angry he wanted to divorce and she didn’t but she started dating other people
24:10 definitely didn’t get her back because they were no longer a romantic couple
26:41 definitely lacked togetherness because they were not *together*
1:04 Jada: "This is miniscule." And in the next frame, Will's face says it all. Heartbreak and helplessness. It's in the eyes that reach out as the chest sinks in.
"my infidelity is miniscule"
Yes so true when I saw him slap Chris I thought of this red table
He is about to cry
I watched this interview shortly after it happened and I thought he looked pissed throughout the entire thing.
IMO, she played him with this interview and it didn’t dawn on him until mid-way through it.
She wanted the world to know her “entanglement” was ok because Will was “ok” with it.
Jada is no dummy - she knows she is married to a very popular man, a beloved celebrity and if she “wrongs”
him, she’s the one who will be on the outs.
She needed Will to do this red table nonsense in order to save her reputation.
RUN WILL RUN
Yesssss !
Pissed, sad and ashamed is what I saw. It was awkward as hell..like his physical actions weren't matching his words.
@@watamutha she publicly cuckolded him
same. his pursed lips- anger and disapproval
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She is an intelligent woman, but she is obviously able to throw anyone under a bus to save herself, her family will be harmed and she will always be safe. I think she downplays her actions, and that's narcissist abuse.
And that exact word, "abuse", is what he spit out with disgust and obvious pain. I think you are absolutely right.
@@tiamaria2241 he wadnt talking about Chris, he was talking about his children and himself.
Intelligent…. Lmaooo
@@Mixed-Media-Arts she has kept a fine man like Will Smith somehow
Abusive is a bit of a weak word for how this evil succubus acts.
Seriously so happy I found this channel... You - and the commenters - are a breath of fresh air!
Listening to you explain this makes me think Jada is really deranged. You're the first one to really give a detailed perspective about this relationship. I didn't know August was sick. Who has a sexual relationship with someone who is dealing with very serious mental issues, much less someone who is the age of your son. It's borderline abuse, right? I'm starting to think she gets off on being with wounded men. Either she met them wounded, or she creates the damage in the people she claims to love. It's really messed up! I read Will's book and felt it gave a good perspective of who he is and why he does the things he does. I wonder if that slap was really him unleashing all the anger he's had over August, Tupac, Chris trying to get with his wife, and the stress of keeping up appearances, and constantly trying to be the good guy. He said in his book, that he often felt like a coward. I think he wanted to empower himself in that moment. It's too much pressure for anyone, especially someone who is constantly in the public eye. His explosion was long overdue. I view that slap now as the culmination of everything that was pent up inside. He needed to explode. It's just unfortunate that it played out the way it did. I feel bad for Chris too. He definitely didn't deserve that. But Will deserved that Oscar, and he deserved to get it without the drama. Jada is drama. We've learned it follows her everywhere. I wish Will could have a do-over. He should of just taken one of his kids or his mom to the Oscars. How great would that night have been with the woman who raised him by his side. All the years of hard work, the wonderful brand Will has created for himself, would have been celebrated. I still root for Will, and wish him continued success. I hope he's able to earn another Oscar when his 10 yr. ban is up, and he gets to do it the way he had intended. I will NOT be reading Jada's book. She's used men to make a name for herself, and she's proved she is NOT "worthy."
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I see pain and hurt in Wills eyes and Jada is she controls everything in their relationship. She controls him. She doesn't take responsibility for her actions. She believes she's done no wrong.
This was a powerful and insightful read. As a Reiki Master I look a body language as well as read the energy centers (Chakras) of the body. People tend to cover and block where energy leaks are happening in their bodies caused by the physical/emotional/ psychological and spiritual trauma that occurred in their lives. Another thing with Jada, her putting up her hands as she did was not only to shut her husband down, but to also block the anger and energetic attack being put off by Will. Not to mention to subconsciously say, "You have have nothing to say that is going to convince me that I did anything wrong. Your opinion on this situation is invalid. "
Yes!!! Thank you! This is a very interesting perspective. I as an intuitive, interpret body language unconsciously for the most part. But I’ve noticed, with a Narcissist, they believe their own lies, so it’s almost impossible to get a read. I agree she is putting up a block to his anger and stopping him from
Convincing her she did anything wrong. I also believe Will did get her back by possibly going out and having one night stands 🤷♀️ or really making her feel extremely guilty. I also have heard people say they had an open relationship. I believe the reason this hurt Will so bad is because her and August did get very close and intense emotional feelings developed between them.