I work in a domestic violence work place & I can tell you right now, so many men don't come forward because of embarrassment. For Johnny to come forward it is something pretty serious.
Given your experience, what do you think about JD's alcohol/drug abuse allegedly changing him into a "monster"? I had an abusive childhood, and also had 8 yrs with a perpetual lying/cheating fiancé. Having watched the majority of this trial now, I feel that AH has been lying and exaggerating about just about everything, but I DO wonder what JD's behaviour was like when he was on sooo many drugs....obviously verbally abusive, with violent attacks on his surroundings. The testimonies from previous girlfriends stands up, but I don't think he was abusing drugs nearly so much then. Lots of people in the comment sections giving their personal testimonies to domestic violence, but nobody is mentioning if any of their abusers were high on multiple concoctions of drugs/alcohol.
@@Mortthemoose No I don't believe so. Many people have said that he's the same way intoxicated or on drugs. Amber's USING his weaknesses because she KNOWS it hurts him. I know because my see my ex husband in her. Now my ex isn't a sociopath ( we just weren't meant for each other we're better as friends for our kids.) Amber most definitely is a sociopath.
Eating in front of court while being questioned is in my eyes a big sign of disinterest and lack of respect. Who does this? Is it even allowed? I don't think it is allowed in my country. Maybe to have a sip of water, but definitely not eating.
@@MrMirage64 I was unaware the depositions were viewed in court. I was under the impression they were solely to assist the lawyers in building their cases. Still, she is not actually eating in a court room during proceedings. Which is the comment to which I was replying.
Amber has never been a "doormat" in her life. She comes off as a narcissist to me. She doesn't want to tell her story. She's not looking for help. She's haughty, contemptuous and focused on self preservation.
@@martinda7446 oh 10000% she’s a narcissist! My ex bff displayed her “emotions” just like Amber. Narcissistic people are reasonably good at faking emotions, but they have a really hard time hiding contempt, disgust, and anger.
They need to bring up JDs rings.. She claims that JD has beat her in a rage.. In a rage did he really stop to take off his rings? Because if he hit her in a rage with the rings on, she would have needed hospitalization, not makeup..
As someone who has dealt with depression and trauma for years, Johnny's behavior when answering the questions is easily recognizable. I catch myself smirking and even giggling when I think of the bad stuff from the past, cause it is so out there it doesn't feel it was real, like it was just a bad joke until you really remember it happened and then you get fidgety with brushing your hair touching your face. You often go from laughing about the absurdity of the situation to holding back tears and you can see that on his face.
Me too. We like to create distance from that emotion we felt when it first happened, usually by laughing or joking. I consider it like I’m telling a story, it’s factual not emotional. I tell it like i wasn’t there and it wasn’t me who sustained it. Makes it easier.
Having survived being with a narcissistic abuser that scarred me for life, seeing Amber's expressions chills me to the bone. Any time her eyes focus on the camera or she does the stuff like the slow head tilt, the glares, the intense stares, it is like looking into the eyes of my abuser again. It's just unmistakable for me. I've always had a thing with eyes, maybe because of that time in my life, but the feeling of fear I get just makes it hard to watch this whole thing. I realize I wasn't there and I'm no expert, but I can see it. When you've been through it, you know.
I understand, for me it was looking into his eyes, they turned black and I was so nervous that I'd get nauseous and my mind would just race. To this day I have only seen 2 other men whose eyes turn black and there's a look that you just know, it immediately sends me back. One of them was a friend of mine. We were talking in the hallway at work one day and he was very worked up/angry about a situation at work. He was angry and never yelled (we worked in a medical clinic with patients), but the tension was in his voice, and his eyes turned black. There was a nurse standing at her desk near to us and he turned around to her and gave her a warning regarding he would know it was her if any of our conversation came back. I really enjoyed him and he is an extremely intelligent man who's excellent at his work, and I'd never seen that side of him. I saw his eyes and heard the tension in his voice when he spoke to her and my heart started racing, I got nauseous, my breathing, everything went right back. I have the exact same physiological reactions that used to happen with my ex years before. The body really does keep the score and hers didn't show anything, she faked a startle response-which really got to me, because I love JD and I don't believe for one minute he's violent; but I still got nauseous, anxious, and dizzy watching the video. She didn't move, she egged him on--She was NOT someone who was afraid of him, she was poking at him! I would have been in another part of the house, somewhere I wouldn't have to listen to it, anything but stay there and poke at him and try to get him more worked up! She's a nasty piece of work!
That’s cell memory. Your body reacts even before your mind does on trauma. I hope you are safe and well now and things like that never happen to you again.
When she been asked “are you done?” Her face kinda screams like “excuse me? How dare you ask me with that tone.” It caught her off-guards with the question because i bet no one had said that to her face before.
Her attitude in these videos is SO starkly different from her attitude in the current trial. Which is 6 years later. That, alone, speaks to her deception. She knew she looked bad in this deposition, so she played a different role this time around. It makes no sense that, 6 years later, she would be more afraid and emotional than she was back then. 🙄
Iv watched these backwards for some reason , saw the deposition last. It's like she had a coach to help her sell her story more. Didn't help much. This looks like she's fresh out of acting school and currently she looks like she's got a couple bad movies under her belt. JD probably did hit that wall but definitely don't think he ever hit her.
She comes across as a spoiled teenager from an entitled family. Then, 6 years later - all her hairstyles and clothing and colors are matronly. And there's the awful acting that she's slapping on this new packaging. She wasn't "acting" during the deposition...she was just being her obnoxious entitled self.
Amber's head shaking, and looking for acceptance or reassurance from others in the room screams volumes of lying to me. Children do this when trying to escape punishment when knowing they did something and got caught.
As I watch Ms. Heard, I am reminded of a teenager in the principle's office lying and blaming others for their own wrong doing. It seems that she is a chronic liar and has no empathy or respect for others.
A sense I get from Johnny's expressions and smiling when he is describing something not funny is that he feels bad for having to bring the listener into a horrible situation, maybe not even feeling worthy of the attention he is receiving. His mannerisms seem to want to lighten the mood & ease the discomfort for listener - along the lines of people saying "I'm sorry" when they start crying. It's essentially, "I'm sorry that my pain is happening in front of you and making you uncomfortable."
Johnny's nervous laugh whilst going over dark things comes off as self-deprecating to me, like he's mocking himself and the situation he's talking about, making light of it, as a coping mechanism.
I see it similarly, but I reckon he feels bad for having to say something that will cast her in a bad light. Almost like he is trying to keep the words from coming out, but realizing he has to say them, because of the situation he is in, i.e. sworn to tell the truth.
Yeah I agree, in the clip of Johnny saying "I want to go home" at the end he has a similar smirk assuming what he said wasn't actually a joke. Here's the clip ruclips.net/video/ZDIDW-JtkTY/видео.html
She doesn’t seem to have fear when she talks about Johnny. If she was so abused and fearful I don’t think she would be speaking in such a cavalier way.
For those that have experienced real abuse, this is such an insult. Forget who she is, that is someone trying to sell something they have no bloody idea. What she is doing ain’t helping anyone. She should go to jail. Abuse is not a pr stunt….
While I think Amber Heard's lying about a lot of it, and has demonised too many people around her - including Depp - I don't think he's as much as a victim as we think he is (the lies perpetuated about him notwithstanding, ofc). It's a shame he hasn't been winning these court cases, though, as this could've already been over by 2020.
After hearing the recordings of them talking, I have no doubts. The way she argues the definition of "punch", without even denying she did it, constantly gaslighting and demeaning Johnny at every turn, justifying her rage and abuse. Watching her face as this is played back, the cold dead stare. I believe she's guilty of emotional abuse too, on a way higher scale than the ADMITTED physical abuse. She treats him like a boot treats an insect. Its revolting to behold.
And she only knows about the recording so she is probably saying untruths to seem like it is worse. You can even hear this in his reaction sometimes as he repeats her in disbelief of what she says.
What about women who were really abused by their husband's..? She's really damaging those women who are true victims of DV... It's already hard for women and men out here without Narcissistic Abusers gaslighting or minimizing their finally standing their ground and finally disclosing their point of the story here.
@@IsraelGodsImmovableRock The women are not an issue in this case. The women being abusers and getting away with it is an extreme issue in society. Women getting abused is an issue, yeah. But it's not as common as what we see where the female spouse is the abuser.
As a survivor of domestic violence and a person that has sat down with many other survivors, I can say from my experience that Amber is not acting like someone that has been a victim of the assaults that she claims happened. She speaks and acts more like the aggressor in those situations then the victim. I've seen victims become angry about what happened to them. But that anger always felt so raw when they would talk about the abuse (whether recent or many years later). It was/is almost always a tear filled anger that you can feel. Amber is not giving that. For me, it feels like she is giving anger at the fact that anyone would have the audacity to question her. I've also never seen a d.v victim smirk, eat and roll their eyes when discussing about what happened to them. Especially in a court/legal setting. Nervous humor yes, but not what I am seeing here with Amber Heard. I'm really not buying anything she is trying to sell here.
Your comment should be taken seriously because it comes from someone who knows what she's talking about and would be simpathetic toward another victim.
I agree. I totally don't get the "eating." When I think about my abuse, my stomach clenches in a fist and bile rises in my throat. And then my eyes begin to tear, either from the bile or the memories ... Geez, there is no way a dv victim could ever nonchalantly sit there and eat, looking at everyone in a Court of Law that has gathered to try her abuser, like she is bored and above them and doesn't know why she bothers wasting her time answering these stupid questions to which she can't remember the answers.
@@ds.nedsong She might as well be eating pop corn. That's what comes to mind for me. Honestly, don't know how Johnny restrained himself. I feel like slapping that smirk laced face and I'm not violent. Wow he had the patience of a Saint.
As a person who was in a dv marriage, since the case started, I’ve been saying that a person who is truly abused wouldn’t chase their abuser from room to room, banging on the door and yelling at them!! I’m sorry but Amber is a ridiculous liar
Yeah we literally try to get away and avoid fighting because it's overwhelming and dangerous. Just like Johnny was always doing. The abuser pursues and pushes and can't put an argument down.
@Chip in4seven ummm, what more foundation would you need than multiple dv people experiencing the same thing? I would even have to think of ways to say things to my spouse in hope it wouldn’t anger him
Not true. I’ve been abused, but also angry and follow my abuser trying to get them to act like themselves (drinking involved) even when it’s n my best interest to stop provoking a drunken abuser I have out of anger from feeling abused & pushed around. Of course then eventually they start to scare you & you stop or hide. But just because u are outraged about being abused doesn’t mean u r an abuser too. We expect no anger from being abused, just crying? People get angry as well as scared from abuse, that’s what’s abusers do push all your buttons-they WANT u to look like the unhinged one.
What's interesting about Depp's deposition is the consistency across his accounts of the bottle-smashing incident, between this and his testimony in court. In both statements, it's a vodka bottle. In both statements he demonstrates how he was positioned in the same way. In both statements he describes how the first bottle just missed his head, to the left side. In both statements, the second bottle is a larger bottle. In both statements, he says the fingertip was severed, with bone exposed and shattered. In both statements, he speaks calmly and factually. He is a lot slower in the trial but he's not hesitant, he's thoughtful about what to say, he's not looking like he wants to get out of answering the question. Meanwhile Heard can't remember exactly what part of her body was hit with broken glass.
probably worse. She couldn't recall exactly but 'some version' of her leg. that's a slip. mind was busy processing 'which version of story' while her tongue just slipped.
@@willchen2k I mean, this is the thing though, I don't know the full details of the alleged incident but I believe Depp was claimed to have thrown a wine glass and it shattered. Even in the heat of an argument, if one remembers the incident at all, one would know if they got hit with broken glass on their front or back, on their left or right side, or top half or bottom. They would be able to say which quadrant of their body was hit with the glass. It's true there are incidents where one sustains an injury and doesn't realise at the time. If one, for example, had a glass thrown at them, and one put up one's arms to protect one's face, one may not realise at the time that one's arms had been cut with glass, but if one discovered this injury later one would know when it occurred. Or if one knelt down on a piece of glass, not realising it was there, one would know the glass came from this particular smash and would know one's knees were injured from it. I'm inclined to agree. If she'd said "Some _area_ of my leg," that might have made sense. The cuts from the glass could cover a wide area. But something just doesn't add up here, does it?
@@adamheywood113 right, they don't add up. way too many contradictory allegation and testimonies. we can only wait til end of trial before we conclude prematurely. as for the full detail of the alleged incident (march 2015 australia incident) and subsequent events, there are extensive coverage (and analysis) from the deposition and UK trial, in these two video clips, very professionally done. ruclips.net/video/O3DBFiOw_mk/видео.html ruclips.net/video/VDP9NVQmiXw/видео.html second clip you can just watch the last 5 minutes if you find it too long.
As a survivor of domestic abuse from a narcissist, what I see in her is my abuser. Also from hearing and watching some of the videos in court , I’m sorry but I personally don’t know anyone that’s in an abusive relationship taunt constantly their abuser. I personally don’t believe one single thing she has accused JD of.
Exactly! No battered wife argues with or gaslights their abuser. It just doesn’t happen because they know they will get beaten if they even open their mouth. This, to me, is not a battered wife.
You are 100% dead on. No one who is in an abusive relationship taunts their abuser or laughs at them. She is so disrespectful and smug in this video, it's impossible for me to believe that she was ever in a situation with him where she was scared for her safety.
@@jamiepierce3834 And Depp is doing the exact opposite. In the clip of him shown he mentions Heard once and it wasn't belittling it was just what she said the severed finger was from.
Her face when the attorney asked if she was done - I’d call that expression “I wish I could punch you in the face, you tiny speck of a nobody.” Absolute lack of respect for the attorney, and she’s mad as hell.
I feel like she’s doing that constantly. She has this high and mighty attitude about her and even her ex assistant made it very clear she had this attitude.
jesus i just got to that part of the video and youre totally right. the eye flutters and eye movements, the head tilt, raising her brows and opening her mouth like she's about to hurl cusses but then remembers where she is and calms down again, the slow blinking following. wow
She was barely holding back her aggression most of the time. If this is what she's like in a controlled situation, where she's being filmed, I dread to think how she is in private.
I feel extremely uncomfortable watching Amber. I am not an analyst by any means, but I know & I believe what my gut feelings are telling me. Thank you for your analysis.
Right. When you've seen or experienced behavior that made you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, that stays with you. You can't always pinpoint who or what event in the past that's being evoked, but your body remembers and throws up red flags.
She is lying. I work with people with anti-social personality disorders. And she displays a lot of these symptoms. Lack of empathy, manipulation, narcissism. She is horrible.
If she’s narcissist it’s mental disorder and lack of sympathy and manipulative are symptoms, however abusive behaviour is the choice she made. Still, she’s not guilty, yet. I’m looking forward the conclusion.
@@bichen-up-ur No she isn't all bad. But notice how much judgment she is getting from women. This is because many women know what it's really like to be scared of a man. Also, Amber has used her beauty to get where she is. That's not a possibility for all women. Who have worked very hard to get where they are.
She’s a liar and it’s been obvious from the beginning. The fact that people are having problems knowing who’s the liar puzzles me. Everything she says and does screams lies to me.
Think they are both guilty of abuse. Just hers was way more physical/ child like. His seems more pain of being around someone who could do wonders in screwing with your head so much, that it ultimately leads to his ‘monster’ creeping into you. Just another example of the horrible toxic stories that plague the judicial system. The defamation case, after all is said, should shine light on the fact that this was a REALLY bad situation. And there is no way that those drug and alcohol fights didn’t turn bad in many ways. However, I still have to see all sides and evidence to know for sure. I didn’t start hearing any of this until this trail started.
@ pookiehoney, The more I’ve listened to their trial the clearer it is that she’s a lier like her father satan! No doubt in my mind now! I know Johnny’s memory is bad but he’s been a gentleman throughout this trial. I’m sure he’s no saint but compared heard, who is pure evil, Depp has my full support and sympathy!
@@kylejohnson6070 For any other person i would agree. However, anyone that knows Depp has purely possitive things to say about him, even his ex wife. Imagine an ex saying the guy was one of the nicest and sweetest guys she had met. While Amber has history of abuse. In the audio that was released of Amber and Depp talking about it, Amber explicitly says that she hits him and treats him that way because he doesn't want to confront her. She says, "then why do you run away? why do yo leave?" This tells me that Depp likes to avoid conflict. To me, that is quite telling that he didn't abuse her. Of course, abuse could have been emotional, we might never know. But, physical? I highly doubt it. Now we might never know the full story, but I do not buy it one bit that they both were guilty of abuse. Again, any other guy and I might be a bit skeptical, but Depp? And I am not a fan of his work, Jack Sparrow is his only character I actually liked. This is more looking into who Depp seems to be as a person. Amber Heard has history of being abuser, for crying out loud. While Depp, even his ex says he is great.
@@farrex0 I was just saying, I’m going to listen to the trail before I make a judgment. It’s only a week in. Today, there has already been some pretty eye opening evidence. Some of the things he wrote to his friends, while on a bender, were horrible. I couldn’t imagine what was being done behind closed doors. At this point, I stick with the they are both “guilty” of being horrible people to each other.
1. What was very interesting to me was the comment about not being a "doormat this happens to all the time." Especially as you point out she's very prideful. I think she considers Johnny a doormat. She thinks he is pathetic for letting her do these things to him repeatedly. 2. The eye rolling and smirking and such when they were playing the clip of her talking about hitting Johnny came across as her reliving a moment she was proud of, not fearful of. 3. When she talks about Johnny calling a touch a "hit" and being "overdramatic" feels like victim blaming. It invalidates his fear of the moment by belittling his emotional response. That to me was a clear statement from an abuser.
Yeah... I was gonna comment something like this. Like, I wouldn't even know what my partner would call being hit BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER HIT HIM. The fact that she knows what Johnny would call physical contact against him is beyond suspicious to me.
Alternately, she may be so insecure that she interprets anything other than compliance as an attack. If that's the case, she might very well believe, or at least convince herself she believes, that her actions were in some sense justified. If someone's thinking "I don't like how this person's making me feel, so they must be abusing me," then they would of course justify a lot of abusive behavior as "not being a doormat" -- it's the classic "you make me do this" line. Coupling that with her apparently not believing that physically attacking someone counts as abuse . . . I could absolutely see someone justifying horrific abuse, lashing out violently at imagined slights or because of their own mood swings, as sticking up for themselves and not being the victim.
@@chapachuu lol well yeah, he wont get his money if she does... and judging but how she fucked over her ex assistant and only paid her 50k while amber makes millions, i doubt his payday will even be that great.... lol lawyer is playing himself
I noticed that too she has a hell of a defense team cuz they have been super aggressive with the objections. That right there is a major red flag for me. They don't want their guilty client putting her foot in her mouth.
As someone who grew up in a chaotic and abusive household, Amber reminds me so much of the abusive people in my family. You can clearly see that she CAN answer 'yes/no' questions, but only the ones where she doesn't feel "threatened," basically only answers if they benefit her in some way. And Johnny's smirking and making sarcastic comments reminds me so much of someone who has been through the ringer of an abusive, self-entitled narcissist and he's amused at the level of bullshit she gives. It's like you get so tired of all the lies and stories that you have the choice to either laugh at it or get angry, and usually when the person is more interested in peace-keeping, they just laugh it off and make jokes about it. Anyway, awesome video! I love your content!
@Charity Jones Yes I agree with you Charity. What struck me the most is that she's eating while testifying under oath. I think that's really bizarre. Why on earth would she think that's appropriate? If I had to testify I certainly wouldn't want to be eating at the same time. I'd worry that I wouldn't be taken seriously. I immediately thought she was lying when she couldn't remember where her injuries were and when she said that thing about "some version of my legs"
I absolutely agree this guy nothing wrong with him but he even said im just here look at behavior so he is pretty playing devils advocate but his words and how long the video was about amber u can wat he really thinks he even told the view to tell each other how much of liar she is and yes Johnny Depp u can ethier laugh at pain or u can cry about Johnny depp decide to laugh at it amber choose nether so yeah it abovoius
Your spot on. I think she is lying about most of what she is testifying and the rest is embellished to make the victim's role more believable. I think her lawyers may have caught on to her fidgeting or "tells" and may have suggested for she eats something to keep her hands occupied. Just a theory. This seems to be a fairly informal courtroom or they may have been doing this via video because I have never seen anyone eat during a trial especially not while testifying and I watch a lot of Court cases. This tape and the others I have watched are at different times, this one appears to be earlier, perhaps when she first started this shit show in 2016. In the others, I've watched Mr. Deppstein have longer hair and a little bit fuller the face. He also spent showing the same cocky guy in this tape. You see the pain on his face as he recalls his childhood and when explaining his side of what went on. His sentences ate much more choppy, with a lot of hesitation while speaking. I watch recent interviews with him and there are pauses throughout the interviews and think this may be normal for him. It is a shame she is doing this to someone she once claimed to love. She may not have loved him at all. even in the tapes of them talking, she is in control of the conversation and says one thing and then denies ever saying it and gets very defensive if he says you just said....... There is something not right with her and wonder if she might be Bipolar due to her up and downs and almost manic behavior at times. Just my thoughts on this.
No he did not! His performance indicates he never heard of forensic science - the injury he got is recorded and a forensic scientist can tell if that injury was inflicted from a bottle or punching a wall or none of these..... but you will not find any of them at MIT. 🤫 He is selling BS 😎
Yeah his voice sounded attack like on Amber there's proof that he hit a staff member and has kicked things around and thrown things around and even video of him doing that when Amber's not even around he does have a drug problem drugs to make you more violent don't get me wrong Amber has her own issues I don't think they should have gotten together in the first place they both fall asleep grew up with domestic violence cuz of their issues and when I took woman supports shelter meetings we weren't supposed to judge each other cuz we all grew up with abuse and some not going to judge either of them but they both need help and drug rehab
I was an abused woman from someone who took everything from me, including my kids. We would be at a dinner with friends and I would over hear him telling a story but after a few words would realize that it was "my" story and experience that I told him about. The way she tells her story is how my ex would tell my story. Contents is there but emotions and experience is not. Karma always comes around...stay true and the truth will always come out. Side note: Pleasant end to my story after 13 years away from my kids they are back in my life and won't talk to him. AND they turned out good!
That's interesting. I overheard my late husband complaining to his therapist that he was soo "touched out", mimicking what I would say about breastfeeding and taking care of our daughter and wanting a moment to myself at the end of the day (she was one year old). Couldn't believe it. Literally nobody was touching him! I wonder what else he said from me. Its a pretty crazy experience.
I'm experiencing someone in my life repeating My stories. Why do you think they do this? More importantly, how do you get them to stop?! Anyone know? ( #SSchmid, Happy your kids have seen the light. Best wishes! 💗)
@@Valen_Wolf I was wondering the same thing. My ex used to steal the stories he did to me and tell them to people. So it’s like, they realize it’s not the right thing to do and make people pity them for the very thing they did to us?
I’m so proud of you dear human. I’m deeply sorry you went through that, & now watching a woman COMPLETELY dismiss SUCH a serious SITUATION, that changes a women’s lives forever & she’s using this to get money & ruin someone else’s life. THAT MUST BE HARD TO WATCH. I’m sending you virtual love & light ❤️🙏🏻🥹
I’ve served on a jury trial, and jurors don’t like witnesses who roll their eyes, over explain things, play games with the lawyers, etc. We have a serious job and we are looking for help to make an important decision, and when witnesses do that it wastes our time and makes the whole thing more confusing. That’s where we urgently want people to “tell” us, not to “sell” us.
Yes but did you see Alejandro Romero yesterday?? How would that have played with the jury, I’m so curious 🧐 He had me in splits, loved the guy! JD loved him too, won’t be surprised if he has him in a future movie if his career is allowed to bloom again
Eye rolling is the only thing that really made an impact when I served on a jury trial. Saw a lot of over explanation and games and it had little to no effect whatsoever on our decision-making... but the eye rolls certainly got people riled up
She is in not a witness though. Also, many ppl served as part of a jury trial, that does not make them qualified in that way at all. Most ppl (talking in general) are way too subjective to be qualified for any jury trial, yet they randomly select random ppl
She acts like this is such an inconvenience, has no respect for the court, is totally above all this, constantly searches for answers, has crazy facial expressions, and eye movements, constantly looking down. By far the perfect example of a narcissist. Between the two Depp's answers seem more accurate and honest. I wish a psychological exam was allowed in defamation cases.
Carol Morris you have copied your comment from another channel, which I watched earlier. you naughty girl......these are not your observations at all LOL
I love how at some point he just gives up and is like; "yeah na, that's just deception". Tried to stay neutral for as long as possible, but even he couldnt take all her bs haha.
She's banking on people believing her or, at the *very least* , being that person _like in the beginning of this video_ that says "I don't want to be the person that calls her a liar or doesn't take it seriously." I understand why someone would feel that way, but it's a very dangerous place for society to be in. It basically turns into "it's socially unacceptable to call me a liar, so they must believe I'm telling the truth." I'm really glad it didn't actually work out that way for her.
Johnny Depp’s deposition reads to me as someone who uses a lot of self-deprecating humor but also as someone who was FURIOUS about the “one more way for [Amber] to hurt you, huh?” comment. But he’s not furious at the interviewer. I think he’s furious at AMBER for doing that to him AND at HIMSELF for staying in that abusive situation. I think he’s got a lot of self-directed shame and self-directed anger that he wasn’t mentally or emotionally strong enough to leave her sooner. I think that when this was recorded he was still blaming himself for “allowing” it (which he shouldn’t because he was manipulated into staying with her), rather than blaming Amber for actually DOING it. I think he’s doing the mouth touching because he really just wants to cuss and rant about the situation but he can’t because it’s a recorded deposition. He’s still holding a lot of that anger inside at this time. And i think he mentions the scientists and physicians because he just really wants someone to believe him and can PROVE with indisputable FACTS that he didn’t do this to himself. He hasn’t had a chance to tell anyone the truth and feel like he was actually BELIEVED when he said that Amber did this. He’s still very much dealing the trauma of the situation and coming to terms with the fact that Amber did this because that’s just who she is, rather than because of anything he did. (Because guaranteed, Amber has told him “i wouldn’t hurt you if you didn’t make me so angry” and he’s STILL trying to unlearn that.)
I know this is a year later, you probably don't recall this comment. It's my first time reading it and I have to say, it really resonated with me. 2 of the reasons I touch my mouth: I'm trying to listen and reminding myself not to interrupt, or; I'm feeling emotions I don't want to express, rage,grief, shame. Neither time am I lying. I'm just actively trying to stop myself expressing emotion. Your explanation of Johnny's thoughts/actions made me relate and I've never heard it put so well. Thank you.
She’s lying. She’s lying. She’s lying. It’s funny how Johnny was in a 20 year plus relationship with someone who is now vouching for him, saying he’s not violent. All of a sudden he’s a monster?? I don’t think so. Many many many people that have known him his entire career say the same thing. He’s not a violent man. He’s chill and cares deeply about people close to him. Hes even had the same people on his staff for 20 some odd years… she’s lying. Straight up.
While I agree that Heard was abusive, I have seen the recordings of Depp where he is extremely intoxicated/high and violent. Smashing and breaking things, yelling, grabbing her phone etc. Not to mention the text messages of Depp talking about killing Heard. It seems like they were both abusing one another.
@@MariaGabrielle10 He grabbed her phone because his mother had just died & amber was filming him. How the fuck would you feel if your mother died and then your friend, instead of comforting you, took a video of you?
@@MariaGabrielle10 Bruh. If you’ve been abused, it does weird sh*t to your head and fucks up your mental health. It’s so obvious Amber’s someone who doesn’t care, a liar and a manipulator. And most of the “evidences” of Depp being “violent”, which is mostly him being violent to himself, instead of Amber helping him, she records him; so that she can have proof that she’s a good person, she’s just so disgusting. And those “bruises” that she shows as proof of abuse? Ain’t that sh*t just makeup? If those were “bruises” were real, it wouldn’t look like that. And not only that, don’t forget the make up company, and I repeat THE MAKEUP COMPANY said that the makeup she USED to hide her “bruises” didn’t even f*cking EXIST during the time of event. And Depp is backed up with his past wives ( one of such they were with for *20 years* ), multiple people, friends, etc; that he’s a good person, if he’s an abuser, his past wives would not defend him. And in the court room, Amber and her lawyer keeps on making annoying/frustrating actions like the lawyer repeating himself when he asks Depp questions, If I was in Depp’s place I would be so annoyed, like aren’t you a lawyer why you acting like a broken recorder? And if they have such a hard time trying to prove that Depp was abusive maybe, just *maybe* it was because he wasn’t abusive in the first place? TL;DR: Amber’s a liar and manipulator, who abused Depp with actual proof, instead of made up sh*t and lies. Her “bruises” that she hid with makeup, the Make-up company replied that it did not exist/made during the time of event. And if Depp was the abuser, he wouldn’t be backed up by multiple people that he’s a good person. Facts and proof always come through, than words with no proof nor evidence.
@@MariaGabrielle10 you like many people are comparing constant physical and mental abuse to a one time occurrence where depp was 1.intoxicated, 2. Deeply emotional because of his then recent mother's passing, 3. Assaulting household *items* / *furniture* . I am talking about the one video used as evidence, which I personally believe was manipulated to show depp as unstable and abusive while he was in a very bad state. The "assault" was not directed to Amber at all but Depp did get mad at her for recording him while he was in that state. Note that he grabbed her phone but did not assault Heard in any way. As for the texts, yeah those were pretty bad and they were also before marriage if I remember correctly, but they just show how rough the relationship was and it was one of the many instances where Depp was being over dramatic while intoxicated on texts.
Honestly, the fact that any person Johnny Depps been intimate with in the past has turned around and called this bullshit speaks volumes about his character. He literally carries around his Jack Sparrow costume so he can visit kids in hospitals. Then the whole recorded conversation where she threatened to do this exact thing to him. I hope Depp can get back some of his life, cause I honestly do believe she's completely lying.
I hear that, but his relationship with Heard was during the same time his addictions were getting completely out of control. Addiction can make good, gentle people behave in horrible, violent ways.
@@O2life why do you think his addictions became out of control? Are you aware he was actually clean and sober a few years before he got involved with Heard? She's a drug addicted alcoholic too but because she's got a pretty face pretty much everyone ignores that fact
@@O2life you weren't there. You don't know. Heard's personal assistant testified that Amber was a sloppy drunk and snorted cocaine and downed pills. Depp was pretty clean until he hooked up with her--he's pushing 60 and he's trying to keep up with a woman closer to his daughter's age. On top of that, she's a narcissist who flaunted her disdain for the law by smuggling two dogs into Australia and barely avoided jail. She's mistreated waiters at high end restaurants--all of whom talk and say they all hope she doesn't sit at one of their tables because she makes impossible demands and never leaves a tip, no matter how high the bill is. One waiter said that she ordered the most expensive wine on the menu, and he tried to advise her that the age of the wine might not suit her palate--she told him to shut up and get the wine. He did. She took one sip and spit it back out at him, staining his clothing, and after a string of expletives, demanded a different wine and said she wasn't going to pay for "that s**t." She had several of her friends at the dinner table and they all laughed, except for Depp, who had no friends with him, and seemed quite embarrassed by her disrespectful antics. At the end of the dinner Depp slipped the waiter the amount for the discarded wine and a generous tip. And these are just the stories I've been told.
@@feederdiaries4862 they certainly can, but you'd first need to prove he was dealing with addiction at that time to make the point relevant in any way.
I love how open- minded you are, and neutral you are. I hate how most cops, judges, investigators pretend to be human lie detectors. Being nervous, or anxious always make someone look deceptive so it’s good to consider these things.
i rarely take the time to 'like' a video, but this guy got one out of me early with how insightful and blatant he was about attributing the 'shifty eyes' thing to straight-up snobbishness. it was the kind of insight where you kind of already knew that, but then you hear someone articulate it so accurately and concisely it just makes you wanna say "EXACTLY!" i dont know why im even watching this in the first place, but that was a great intro to this man's content.
I just liked and subscribed right away. I rarely subscribe to people but this guy is the first guy that is actually correct. I see a lot of people who do videos like this that are horribly wrong and they are just running off at the mouth with BS. But this guy has hit it right on the head (no pun intended).
It just looks like a clear case of manipulation to me...from Ms Heard of course. She's been doing it for years to JD, and now she's trying it with the public. But she's not a particularly likeable character...so she's having to work harder, and it's not working. She's just not a very good actress at the end of the day.
What's For Tea? Amber is incredibly unlikeable. Especially for women & she must know this on some level. That's why she didn't want this trial televised.
Depp knew exactly where he was, how he was hit, even his posture at the time; Heard couldn't for sure say if she'd been hit, or how, or even where. Recalling traumatic memories will be linked to what we were sensing at the time. Amygdala in the brain deals with fear and memories tied with fear and what to avoid in the furure. Heard shows no fear or distress when thinking about her aledged abuser. Depp shows a lot of recollection about exactly how he ended up getting injured, ie. where his hand was placed at the time. Depp is specific, and clearly shows signs of revisiting memories. Heard is not very specific, and shows signs of telling a story. Whether true or not, it's a story rather than a memory.
Yeah, exactly. She recalled irrelevant information about who called out what and what the person's name was and stuff like that. Meanwhile, Johnny Depp, as you said, recalled very specific details that were about what *he* was feeling. Amber Heard said simply that she got hit, and she described how the glass shattered, but she didn't describe the way her injuries looked or felt OR EVEN WHAT INJURIES THEY WERE.
THANK YOU!!! I’m genuinely tired of ppl saying that professionals are wrong and bring up irrelevant information. Like Johnny being a narcissist. I’ve never seen that and they haven’t either so it’s a speculation bc he’s popular. On the other hand Heard shows a lack of caring about how she was effected other than “it may have cut some version of my leg” she is very clear in her non verbal communication that she’s trying to make herself seem the most believable while Johnny recounts the facts down to the exact position and type of injury sustained. She paints a big picture while Johnny paints smaller more detailed ones connecting to physical and emotional effects of situations. Sorry for the rant, just triggered the adhd brain and I LOVE psychology
@@katiekat1869 Psychology is certainly very interesting, especially in cases like this where we can guess / extrapolate information about the people based on their verbal and non-verbal choices. Unlike other celebrity cases, this one has proved to be interesting on a fundamental level, and not just because of who the people are.
@@ShockwaveDawn absolutely! Non-verbal communication is a crazy concept. Like I started learning about that last year and there is so much said without the use of words. Johnny’s smirks and facial movement alone can tell you whether he is being any kind of deceitful, sad, and when he feels like he’s giving an uncomfortable answer but is honest anyway. Heard literally has to fix herself after smirking several times as well as has to force her attention shown by constant note taking and forcing herself to look at Johnny with her shifting glances more than the deposition tape showed. Very interesting to me.
Plus his body language especially today correlates with a person having been abused and then having to sit across from their abuser. Avoided eye contact at all costs and dissociated through his drawing. Can’t blame him in the least.
As someone who grew up with a "wild" family dynamic I could tell from one minute of her testimony that she was lying about pretty much everything. It's so transparent that I can't fathom how anyone could take her seriously. I don't know how to describe it, but it's just blatantly obvious to me.
I know, when I recount my abuse its through a clenched jaw with blank eyes, I cannot allow myself to feel what I'm talking about , she is eating snacks and trying to convince people of her story because its exactly that, a story
I can see that .. however Depp is a MUCH better actor than Heard. Anyone that has worked with talent even on the lowest level like a news cast on up knows there is an on camera and off camera personality. Depp this might be his on camera personality while Heard it might be more of her off camera personality showing through. There are layers of entitlement and dismissiveness coming from her but at the same time Depp does not seem that far off from a talk show interview or even his selling cologne. Depp seems more convincing because he his specific to his finger being wounded and even showed it. While Heard doesn't remember where the bottle/glass hit her. Though to be fair she said it shattered so it likely hit her in multiple places if that happened and probably didn't really cause wounds or wounds that are worth remembering.
@@ronpetersen2317 Well, I guess with actors one has to always take that into consideration and look for the signs that are subconscious and hard to control or mimic.
As Heard tells her story, I feel like she’s daring the listener to disbelieve her. She also waffles with the “facts” - which makes me question if her experience was firsthand. When Depp relays his experience - his sarcasm invites the listener to ponder the ridiculousness of his tragic marriage to Heard. And he is spot on with the information he shares; as if he’s replaying the incident in his mind’s eye. IMO Depp’s testimony is the most credible.
Yes, she is SO confident that she will be believed… remember on the tape when she was taunting JD , saying “they’ll never believe you…” she’s that fucked in the head. Also didn’t this happen during the “me too” movement? That gave her even more arrogance
@@user-iu3cy2tx3c That incident happened right before the “me too” movement (AND they made Heard their poster child!!). Her narcissism is so evident in those recordings. Some scary stuff. I can’t wait ‘till she’s put on the stand. 😵
Johnny Depp doesn’t give a straight answer either. I don’t think he’s helping his case, even though it’s obvious Amber Turd is a liar. The way she talks reminds me of Casey Anthony.
Yes, she would have come across much better if she gave simple direct answers. Yes, no, how much so, etc. I felt like she was dancing around because telling a complete flat out lie made her uncomfortable, possibly because it could come back to bite her later. People like her know it's a lot easier to say "that's not what I meant" later, because they were not straightforward when explaining.
I would be doing the same thing he is doing if that were my only way to tell my side of it and not having been able to for so long. He does answer he just gives more than the answer. She skates around even answering.💝
I don't know why, but my gut feeling is always telling me that: She's dangerous. When I look at her, the way she presents herself, even today after 6 years, she scares me... like my primal instinct is telling me, don't mess with her. I just wanted to point it out there.
She doesn’t show any signs of trauma from domestic abuse. She’s laughing, smiling and eating and her eyes are revealing who’s lying. I’m not partial to JD because I don’t like some things he has said in the past but in his testimony I believe he’s sincere, honest about his failures which shows humility.
Do you know how ridiculous your comment is? My mother was abused by my father. She was regularly slapped, kicked and punched around the kitchen, along with the disgusting verbal assault. The next morning, she would have a smile on her face for us kids, fix her hair and put her lipstick on and go out and give a huge smile to the world. No one and I mean no one outside of our house knew my mum was being beaten up by my father. I am sure there are abused women who can relate to my mum's story..
@@TashaOrmiston exactly! This is not the face of an abused woman...it's the face of a narcissist. She's eating for God's sake!! If I wanted and needed someone to believe that I was being abused, that I was hurting to my core because of the abuse that has taken place, you better believe I'd put the m&m's down and look directly into the eyes of the authorities or anyone for that matter who would listen, and out of natural desperation, i would pour my heart out to them, begging them to believe, understand and feel, exactly what I'm trying to get across. There wouldn't be a question in anyone's mind whether or not I was being abused in whatever form you're being abused in, just by looking into my eyes, looking into the entire demeanor of my body itself. Yes, you may manage to put a happy smile on for your kids because with kids if you're a good strong mother that is what you do, or neighbors to avoid being the topic of neighborhood gosspi... but that is because victims of abuse keep their presence and verbal interactions they encounter with Sally the next door neighbor to a bare minimum, to escape the possibility of blowing their own cover and that of their abuser. Sadly, over time, the victim starts to slowly protect their abuser. If the victim has managed to become not just physically and emotionally abused, but mentally abused to that point of not knowing how to manage simple life tasks without fear ,then the abuse becomes so intolerable, that the victim does anything to avoid upsetting their perpetrator. Amber Heard had enough money to get herself on a private jet and hide on an island somewhere with private security...just like a truly abused person would do if they had that opportunity and privilege...but no, instead amber heard is eating pretzels, peanuts or whatever the hell she's snacking on, while making undeniably inappropriate smirks. She is shameless.she is calculated, and in my opinion, that's the worst type of abuser. When you can feel their narcissism in your veins... not that you too are becoming one, but that split second you realize that they hold so much power and controll over your mind, body and soul. That they have also now sunk to the level of sucking whatever little bit of life left in you out, until there is no life left to take. They still won't be finished with you. And you still will not satisfy the narcissists hunger for destruction.
I didn't know her, she seems pretty unstable to me, condescending to the point of being obnoxious and trying to hide tremendous insecurity, I think she is eating as a way of demonstrate that she is beyond all this questions and not nervous at all, but she only achieves to look weird. Didn't know she was an actress, and based on this acting, I guess she is not a particularly good one. As always, is a pleasure to watch your analysis!
I’m so thankful you are reviewing this case! I have rendered my own opinion, I can’t wait to finish this. I had to stop and show you some appreciation!🙏
I imagine she knows that all aspects of her performance will be judged and analysed, including facial tells, and by eating it hides many tells that people often look for. Maybe it's a mask?
I disagree about her not being a good actress. She managed to lure Johnny Depp , to a point where he married her. And managed to dupe the Mee Too movement. Into believing her narrative. Not that I believe her versions of events.
LMAO - that face when the lawyer asks "are you done"... her expression, if looks could kill. You don't miss anything my man! Officially a fan of this channel lol
Her most distracting habit is her blank-faced expression and wandering eyes, for me. I find her facial expression and way she holds her head to be VERY haughty, and just as you described it. She gives off a suffocating air of superiority and indifference to the people around her and the matters being dealt with. I'm amazed that an actress can't even mask that while she's under the microscope in a deposition. I'm amazed that she has the gall to SNACK too... that is the most gobsmackingly elitist behaviour I could never imagine someone doing in such a scenario... and it does not help if she is truly the victim of abuse, to be sitting there looking bored and shoving food into her mouth. I don't think there's a single person who has experienced abuse who would watch that and think that's something we could envision ourselves doing while discussing our trauma. Unless it's her personal way of dissociating as a coping mechanism, it is very odd behaviour that doesn't make many people want to sympathise with her. If you look up photos of her on the red carpet / event photographs where she's posing for the paparazzi / media, notice how often she poses with her chin up. Not many people do that. I'm by no means a behavioural analyst but find the field fascinating (so I'd consider it a fun hobby).. but doesn't that reflect her personality so well? That is not the posture of a beaten down individual. To me, nothing says "I'm better than you" than her subconscious mannerisms.
This will likely be my one and only defense of AH, and only regarding the SNACK. These depositions went on for hours & hours, probably days for AH & JD, so it’s not surprising that she was eating a snack. There are likely snacks in the room & other people eating too. However, it’s not a great look out of context.
@@stevenderushe8883 That's true. Surely they would've been allowed 10-15 min breaks though, if it went on for many hours? Just like in court - everyone needs breaks - food, hydration, toilet. Either way, I guess I just found it really jarring and an odd/poor choice of food given the circumstances. You'd want something more discreet, surely? Like a nourishing shake/drink.. something that wouldn't impede on your speech due to chewing, food getting stuck in your teeth, the sound of munching away, and the unfortunately blase way it looks to throw snacks into your pie hole lol. You'd think everyone would come prepared for a big day like that, with a bag packed with enough food and drinks to get you through it (like they have their own drinks at the trial). Could've brought protein shakes or something? But we all think differently.. maybe she didn't know what to expect...
His first clip: he is behaving as someone who has experienced trauma and has not healed. He is vulnerable. That small laugh I recognize as what I do when I feel vulnerable and emotional. To break up the tension within. The sadness. Helps stop crying. He paused because he was emotional. That’s how it *looked* to me. Second clip: he found what she said ridiculous. This is his reaction to what he considered absolutely ridiculous and he smirks/chuckles because he believes everyone would agree. And I personally do think it’s ridiculous and that most would agree. It was incredulous. To this day he can’t believe she said that/gave that explanation for what happened to his finger. He touched his face like someone that has had to deal with her gaslighting and lies for some time (overwhelmed). To me he is thinking , ‘Incant believe I’m living in this moment.’ That’s what it *looks* like to me. Amber cannot contain her aggression even during this interrogation which is, of course, a serious matter and no place for aggression. No matter if you’re innocent or not, you at least have the capacity to know you’re in the middle of something serious. Yet her wandering eyes and tones and expressions of condescending attitudes tells me she has little regard for people in general. She sees the interrogator as her enemy. At the same time she doesn’t “care.” At the same time, she wants to say the right thing. At the same time, it doesn’t matter. Very confusing in the way a person mentally unwell/dysfunctional takes other people to confusing spaces. I believe there is an underlying theme within her regarding this whole ordeal: she thinks it is open and shut that they are both going to lose something and she is most probably right. This is going to sound bold, but I think she seeks however many hits of dopamine from his suffering possible. In her head none of it matters because they both lose, but at least she’s not alone in that. She wants him to get the worse end of “the deal.”
Holy crap.... she looks exactly what my x-wife looked like in front of a domestic violence judge after we went to trial when she falsely accused me of striking her. I just thought she was a bad liar, now I understand a bit more about body language. My x would also give me that "dismissive" look with looking away and opening her mouth. For years I thought that was some type of facial tick. Man, learning soooo much after the fact. Fortunately for me my particular event was captured on video. But apparently the judge in my case must have been well versed in Reading body language because it seemed as if he had my ex figured out before he even saw the video evidence. In any event, studying body language is absolutely fascinating
You know you beat her up. Why would your wife take you to court for domestic violence. I highly doubt she woke up one morning and said oh I'll go to court and lie say my husband is abusive. The man I love I'll ruin him for the fun of it. That she thinks it's funny to see you in court to defend yourself from lies. Ya ok tell us a different tale. I think it's funny you beat your wife and you deny it just to make yourself look good to whoever reads this. Your wife took you in front of a domestic violence judge because she was fed up with the domestic violence caused by YOU and YOURSELF ONLY. a person especially a wife don't decide to bring the man she married and loves to court for domestic violence unless it's true. You should man up and admit your a wife beater. What was the outcome. You were found guilty. Of domestic violence. Obviously there was enough proof that it went as far as going to trial in Front of the judge. She filed a complaint with the police department and they investigated her claims and found enough evidence that she was telling the truth. She took pictures of the bruises you gave her not to mention witnesses to the violence. There needs to be enough evidence and proof of a crime being committed by anyone before they go on trial for said crime. And when your wife the brave soul she is went to the cops to report the domestic violence she was enduring by you they investigated her claims. But that is ok you can say she is lieing you believe that. But you know you beat your wife. I'm guessing on more than one occasion. She was scared of you. And you beat her. Did you feel like a big man everytime you battered her. Did you feel like a big man everytime she would cry for you to stop. Did you get off everytime she cried and screamed in fear of you. I'm sorry but a wife who is in a loving marriage don't decide out of the blue to make up false claims that her husband is a abusive to her and beats her daily. Your a coward. Hope you got what you deserved.
I have at times given that dismissive look when I have got so tired of the other person lying, or going on, and on about their own opinion as fact, and not being prepared or open to listening to the ideas and opinions of others. I need to learn how to deal with this kind of situation when I find myself in it, in a healthy way for myself and the other. I tend to avoid confrontation. I also want to add, that when I do so and also open my mouth, it's because I want to say something, but realise it's futile and I feel very frustrated, or even tired, and at times finally bored by it all, especially if it happens very often with the same person. Of course it's best to simply avoid them, but certain situations, or times make it literally impossible, and I feel trapped. I think it's my way of saying I want out of this, due to fear of verbalizing this. I want them to pick up on my signs and stop, or move on, or away. I really have much to learn.
Sometimes people for good or bad can have a belief they hold so strong although it is wrong it is based on their feelings, or their own world view in a way that isn't based on reality. They can become delusional and act as if it is the reality. Glad you got out the other side.
This woman is very, very unwell. Narcissism is impenetrable. Most are still unaware that to treat a narcissist as normal is a big mistake. In intimate relationship it is crazy-making beyond belief. There is no one there. The host of Behavioral Arts, on the other hand, is wonderfully alive, present and intelligent. A real pleasure to listen to his analyses.
@@TheDarkness1 Why is your comment not showing up? I can read it because I contributed to the thread but this and two other comments are hidden when I click on _replies._
Everything about her expressions and behavior makes my skin crawl. All the alarm bells in my gut are screaming "Liar!" Johnny feels real and trustworthy to me, even if he's not honest about everything.
I think that in Amber’s mind, she’s in the right even if she was the aggressor. She may very well be a narcissist and may also issues of self entitlement.
I am someone who gets "hunches" about bad people, some strange gut instincts, even from just seeing some pictures of them. I never know why, and I can never explain why, I just do, and sadly (yes sadly, because I don't *want* to be right about such a thing) I have never, ever been wrong. I saw clips and pictures of AH (I refuse to use her name) long before she was with Johnny Depp and immediately got that "hunch". Fast forward to now, seeing her behaviour in these clips makes me feel physically sick; I look at her, it's like looking at my abusers. The jeering, gleeful, sneering, butter-wouldn't-melt faces from my past. I have been abused in various ways many times in my life from when I was young - maybe this is why I developed my instincts - and I thought when this whole saga first came out, people would see through her facade. But no, she, for so many years, has got away with this twisted, manipulative bull that she's peddling. In contrast, I look at the clips of Johnny Depp and my heart actually breaks. The smirks, the smiles, the pushing the hair back, the little bits of sarcasm? That's someone who is a) goes into these things fighting and with a bit of spark, because he knows that he's on the back foot because AH plays up so well to the "poor little princess" story and he's been here so many times now, he knows how this is gonna go; b) smiles and laughs when talking about physical and/or mental pain that he has experienced because it's simultaneously embarrassing as it feels like you're complaining and drawing attention to youself, feels like you're opening yourself up to judgement and criticism, and feels like your soul is bleeding once more from recalling it again and you don't want to be emotional about it; c) is just so freaking tired of living this hell for the last however many years that it's become kinda comical now, almost like some kind of horror show that you just need to laugh at. Do I think he punched a wall? Absolutely. You know why? Because when you live in hell and you cannot escape no matter how hard you try and your emotions are shattered but you don't want to ask for help and you tell yourself you should be strong enough to take it but every way you look at it, you know you're gonna lose... a tiny bit of your sanity dissolves. And suddenly punching that wall seems like a great idea. But then you realise, in the long run, it's just something else for your manipulative abuser to use against you. Which is exactly what AH is doing; "I severed his finger by throwing a bottle at him? Oh no, pay no attention to that, LOOK! He punched a wall, he must be a psycho! And uuhhh, that's how his finger got severed!" Johnny knows this. He also knows if he admits he punched a wall, that would be all they want to hear. Never mind why he did it, never mind that it wasn't by doing that that severed his finger, never mind that he did it because he was dying inside. I look at Johnny, and I see the abused person; I see me.
I hear you. She has a cold, smug, narcissistic gaze throughout all of this testimony. I know, without having had any body language training, that she is the abuser. I have always listened to my instincts about people, and I’ve never once been wrong when it comes to narcissists. This woman is selfish, controlling & abusive. And JD shows the emotional reactions of someone who had to deal with an absolutely impossible & cruel person. I even find myself wondering if this entire scenario was her plan all along: play on all his emotions, smear him, ruin him, and finally take as much of his money as she can. If she was a better actress, she may even have convinced everyone. But she’s really not (though probably thinks she is, as narcissists tend to do) - so an enormous number of us were able see right through what she’s done/is doing.
My heart breaks for the reasons behind your analysis...I'm so sorry for your experiences. You seem to be a real survivor though, the sort of person who will excel and succeed, no matter what you face and have faced in the past. I agree with everything you said (I'm still in the middle of the video, but I've seen the footage he's watching before). I seem to continually find myself in various cycles of abuse, my therapist has been teaching me how to trust my gut feelings, but the analytical side of me wants some measure of security and protection against falling into the same situations with different abusers...so I'm going to be watching all of the videos he makes on the trial and everything, because I also see myself reflected in varying degrees in Depp's experiences. The mind games and emotional manipulation in particular have been difficult to hear in some of the clips from the trial (to the point where I haven't even been able to finish watching big parts of AH's stuff). Anyway, all this to say I agree with you, and I hope he knows how helpful these videos are to people who have faced similar things and want to avoid falling into the same things in the future. Confirmation that I can trust my gut, I suppose, and that I'm not crazy, context clues to look back on and confirm I was right to leave those abusers behind, even when it was hard. Anyway...I think you're right, I agree with you, and I hope you are finding all the healing and peace that you deserve 💙
@Ara I wish I saw the signs before I got into a relationship with my abuser. Maybe now after it all happened I am able to recognise it more but I also doubt myself a lot. I was wondering what you think about the Marilyn Manson/ Evan Rachel Wood case. Do you have a hunch about that? I feel like Manson has an odd vibe, not just the make up and such. But now they say Evan is making it all up and linking it to this Depp/Heard case. Do you think she’s telling the truth?
When she recorded Johnny being sick and making those noises that he felt sounded like an animal when she recorded that most wives would be rushing to the aid of someone that sounded like they were in terrible distress instead she's laughing and recording him how despicable
*edit: Sorry for the rant to follow about shit like this I've heard about over the past year or two. Just had to comment and thank you for pointing that out. Sadly I find things like this occurring more and more often with less and less criticism, I don't know how so many people can laugh at a loved ones misery, even more so if they have the gall to record it. While it happens to both genders, I've seen an increase in toxic women (*disclaimer below) doing this and not facing criticism after degrading and humiliating their partners as if they're meant to be their entertainment, and laughing at their misery when something happens. Things like getting injured, sick, the worst were finding out a family member died- that one really pissed me off- and sadly quite often finding out they were cheated on/cucked. I don't know how some people can be so proud of hurting someone who was loyal and loved them. (*Disclaimer from in the statement above* Not all women, obviously, possibly either a larger portion compared to before or it's just become more apparent with the Internet. Sadly, I've seen a lot of women defend or support their behavior as acceptable or even commendable somehow which definitely makes me worry since in some way those women wish to act the same... Regardless, I still choose to believe there are many good women who would be repulsed by such actions.) It's important to note it's not the same as poking fun at a loved ones small mistake, trying to reduce the burden of it, I'm talking about sadistic like pleasure from the humiliation and suffering of someone they claim to love. Regardless of gender, it's vile and I don't get how it's becoming more and more acceptable/overlooked. While teasing someone over a small mishap or an old injury may be fine, blatant disregard for and deriving pleasure from others misery should be seen as a major red flags that something's wrong. It's especially significant because it often only gets taken seriously in hindsight when accusations come and serious mental and possibly physical damage has already been done. As an older sibling, if I caught their partner enjoying my sibling suffering, I'd be very worried and heavily pushing for them to watch for red flags and be careful, if not straight up leave or seek relationship counseling. I don't know how people can laugh or blow off such awful behavior. It honestly terrifies the shit out of me to see someone enjoying others suffering- whether it be mental, physical or both.
That's chick is too much. And she's ruining both of their careers. So I hope she's happy. Enough people love Johnny Depp so he might come back. But she's not that good at all. So this is going to finish her. Or I would think anyways
@@yro277 I think it's disgusting that she's done this. I married someone like this that wanted to destroy me for nothing but loving the wrong person. When they cheated & finally beat me up bad. I left but in his eyes the woman wasn't supposed to end the relationship he was. And I was supposed to fall apart without him. When I didn't...omg he made me pay. I've lost everything cuz of him. Including the daughter that him & shared. She was beautiful & only wanted a dad & he wasn't capable of it to her. He used her to hurt me. It did alot if damage til my daughter took her life a year ago next mth being May. So I feel what this man is feeling. Oh thank God my wasn't as public as what Depp is going through. I can't imagine what someone like him would go through with everything being made so publicly. It's terrible what she's doing. All man wanting to date her after this should proceed with MAJOR CAUTION...LOL
@@heathergatfield667 Sorry to hear that had happened, that kind of thing is something I wouldn’t wish any parent to go through, you have my sincere condolences. Really, I hate that anyone’s gone through these situations, thank you for sharing your story and insight. As I said before, it happens with both genders and I always find it appalling, I wish there was a way to forewarn others what kind of person they are, for the sake of those who can’t see the red flags for various reasons. The crazy and sad part is, people like that will almost never see themselves as the problem and will almost never change, damaging one good person after the other. It becomes even more tragic when many of their new partners won’t believe you until it’s too late, only to then realize you weren’t some clingy ex, and legitimately were just sharing your experience in the hopes they proceed with caution and awareness. Fortunately for men out there, at least with this case we’ve all got a clear warning about Amber Heard’s true self, so that’s at least one less monster to love and suffer for. Between Depp’s experiences and the stuff coming out about Will Smith’s relationship issues with his wife’s manipulation and humiliation of Will (which she feels no remorse for), it seems their fame draws in many manipulative, despicable women. I’m sure it also applies to female actresses/models attracting such repulsive men as well- maybe that’s why a lot try to marry other successful people who already have their status and hopefully aren’t seeking to use them, though that brings it’s own drama. Hopefully, we can reach a point where these individuals’ true nature in relationships are somehow known and revealed, leaving them stuck dating others like them (something like how some games have attempted matchmaking guides potential cheaters into lobbies playing other suspicious players, instead of ruining a match with players genuinely playing the game being demolished by hacks/cheats.) Sadly, a governing body or company doing such a thing sounds pretty terrifying in regards to privacy and discrimination.. For everyone out there, we all gotta be careful- look for red flags, consider the words of your family and friends, if you come across something with their ex partners, or they seem to be warning you, don’t just immediately assume they’re jealous. For family and friends, it can seem they are just against you being happy, and for some that may be the case. However, as in my case a few times, it’s also possible for them to legitimately see something you can’t as the person involved, so try to take in what they say and be aware of what they seem to pick up on. Hopefully doing these things will reduce the likelihood of missing early signs and preparing oneself to prevent getting burned. Honestly, I don’t know if what I said holds any value, it’s just what I believe could help or what I hope to keep in mind, should I pursue a relationship once (if ever) I’m no longer bedridden. Also, every relationship has their quirks so all of these things may not apply, and sometimes the other person is meticulous and careful, waiting until you feel you’re in too deep to back out over the first red flags showing themselves. I think there are plenty of people with their own more valid opinions based on far more significant experiences than my own, such as Heather whom I’ve wrote the first part of this reply to. Honestly, it’d be cool to see this become a feed of just red flags and what to do should you find yourself in a relationship steadily driving in that god-forsaken direction.
I am a body language expert and have taught classes on the matter. I am also a veteran interrogator for the military. I have sat in plenty of Reid's courses, among others. Love Paul Ekman! I love being a critic. This guy here is amazing! There was one thing I either missed or maybe you didn't cover it on the eye movement, not only accessing memory but also accessing imagination. People look around to access imagination; the artist within. Anyways! I love this gut. I am a bit rusty on my own skills these days, not using them much you sort of lose them. But, what a refreshing video.
One thing I thought was odd was that, when talking about the incident with her sister, she said, "I would've done what anyone would've done in that situation." Not "I did what anyone would've done". It makes it seem as if the events she described never happened and she is just saying what she *would've* done. Freudian slip?
That face is worth a million words. The smirk, the lack of real emotions, the way she takes no responsibility for anything, the disrespect she displays, boredom, fake concern, she looks so high it's rediculous. I was in an abusive relationship, do I think it was abusive, yes they are toxic together. Usually one person is more victimized than the other, however no one is innocent, especially when drugs and alcohol are involved. Even I got aggressive with my abusive ex, Bec after so long you are angry and you lash out at them too, especially if you are strong willed, you don't like being pushed around as she so points out.
@@dorothywillms115 Amber is way more lost than Mr. Depp is. This woman pooped in a bed! Who would even think this up? I wish I hadn't heard about that.
Would you call yourself a toxic person then?? An abuser as well?? You said you got aggressive in retaliation, so based on your experience, that would then make you an abuser?? Drugs and alcohol have been a part of Johnny and Amber's lives before they even met, yet the worst thing youve heard of Johnny doing was trashing a hotel room. Vs. Amber actually getting arrested on domestic violence before she even met him... i think he's a victim through and through. She used his substance use as an anchor to hold onto.
I'm not an expert however I've never seen someone actually eating during a deposition,water yes but food never. Johnny's cut seems to be likely from the bottle she threw. However this relationship was definitely not made in heaven. I believe they both should be in therapy, not for each other, but for their own personal growth.
@J. Atlin I saw it somewhere, not sure where, that her lawyer had been the one to give her food and it's suspected that he did so to give her time to think about her answers. In one answer she replied without hesitation though she had food in her mouth but in a more difficult question she acted as though she couldn't speak because there was food in her mouth, thus giving her time to think up an answer. Another body language analyst covered this that I watched.
@@D3ADxG1RL11 yes, actually you’re correct; Chase Hughes, a friend of this channel did a breakdown on his channel “the behavior panel” and explains it’s a technique used to give the person an “air of confidence” and can also be used to give them time to think before they speak. ruclips.net/video/04Cz-uOognU/видео.html
How someone can be so smug and condescending in one little eye roll blows my mind. She clearly believes she is too important for all this and everyone in that room. I can't wait for her to realize how everyone sees right through her.
I find it interesting that she said "and I would've done what anyone ... would have done." The sentence structure there is incredibly suspicious, almost implying a third person view of herself in the scenario. someone recalling events rather than telling a story should have said "I did" especially with the sort of aggressive attitude she had about how right she was
indicates she did NOT do what anyone would have done or she wouldn't have worded in that fashion...she would have instead of I did. It's getting caught up on her story & those kinds of tells definitely indicates lying.
Psychological distancing, dissociating herself from a personal situation & trying to trigger people’s empathy to put themselves in her shoes at that moment. She is basically manipulating the audience into judging her based on themselves & their own personal values, rather than hers.
I see Johnny’s mannerisms when answering these questions more like nervous tics or feelings of being uncomfortable at being in this specific situation. I think there are a lot of people including myself that tend to smile or make jokes when talking about things that are extremely uncomfortable to lighten the mood and try to find the humor in a crazy or scary situation we may have found ourselves involved in. This doesn’t mean someone who does this is lying or being deceptive. However, Amber’s behavior is different story. Just the fact that she keeps looking down and barely looks the interrogator in the eye when responding shows guilt and a way of trying to figure out how to answer the question in such a way that makes her appear more of a victim. As you stated that look on her face when she was asked if she was finished spoke volumes and I highly doubt that she has ever been abused by anyone!
I try to remind myself that they're both actors but with Depp's mannerisms while he's talking...I don't know, they just seem more organic and he's reacting for the reasons you said. When I watch her, hers just seem very cold and calculating and just so unbelievable. Maybe he's the better actor I don't know LOL
Johnny’s communication style including his mannerisms here seem to correlate with how he responds in talk show interviews. He seems more reserved and aware of his word choices in court (of course), but he comes across as the Johnny Depp we typically see.
Wow! Coming from a prior abusive marriage, I can tell you my honest opinion of this. Amber doesn't come across as honest, doesn't come across as a victim of abuse, and also, has total disrespect for the professionals asking the questions. She comes off as someone who is looking for attention, rather than someone who has been injured by the person she is speaking of. I get they are both actors, but I found her to be totally dishonest. Johnny seems more embarassed by the situation, and may be uncomfortable rehashing it all. Honestly, someone who was badly abused, is not going to get into another relationship, immediately after being in a bad one! There would be serious distrust. She also comes off as a manipulator, especially since she broke up Elon Musk's marriage. This is not the behaviour of an abused woman, but a manipulative one, and possibly a narcissistic one.
Yep. She comes across as COLD.Dismissive. Arrogant. Like she 'got better things to do' She had already moved on from Johnny. She had trapped him. And discarded. She don't care bout no one. Cold. Sociopath. That attempted dumb-ass sweet innocent little girl look on her piranha face & cold blood? 🤣😂😆😅 Lame ass as ever. Typical narcissist in sooo many ways. She's already sooo done before the said incident. Done. Discarded JD. Moved onto next victim supply. Clearly Johnny is embarrassed to be going through this. WTF is wrong with any guys being so interested in such a cold-ass?!? Johnny why did you leave Vanessa--momma of your kids? Or was it Vanessa who ended it?
she gets so “protective” about her sister when there’s a clip from a reality show of her sister having bruises from amber & not wanting to talk about the fight with her
@@Anne-zv3kp only Amber Turd can punch her "baby" sister. How dare anyone thinks they can physically protect her "baby" sister against her vicious blows when she gets angry. That was her message.
What really irritates me is the fact that she never answered a question with an answer. Rather just gave a story. AND was allowed to do so. Whereas Johnny Depp was cut off anytime he tried to explain. Very irritating.
Absolutely! I also don't understand why she can tell her fairy tales but everything Johnny says is weighed in gold. There are so much analysis about her behaviors and evidence that she is lying but Johnny always seems to be the perpetrator. May justice be done to Johnny after the court 🙏
Shouldve shown the clip of when she was talking with her lawyer and then started to smile and laugh a bit but then immediately put her head up and put on her sad face like she just caught herself breaking character. Just seeing her clearly fake feeling grief made me on Johnnys side.
So many thoughts about Johnny and Amber, but MAN... I've had to deal with narcissists/manipulators on too many accounts and listening to Amber sends chills up my spine... On another note I appreciate how people are recognizing Johnny's demeanor and coping mechanisms. I can relate. I'm sure Johnny has made mistakes but I know that those who have been there or witnessed abuse will recognize the truth and see through the bs. Thanks for the video!
I am an admirer of Johnny Depp, and I like him over Heard on any day of the week, but he is not so innocent himself. I think they were both toxic in that relationship
The way she's acting with soooo much entitlement and arrogance. That's NOT, the face of someone who's been abused. My goodness, it's almost painful to watch. I hate that smug look on her face.
Amber Heard seems to smile and smirk a lot through her testimony but, when she realizes she's doing it, she tries to control it since she knows it makes her look like she's lying. I truly can't imagine a woman who has been abused crunching on mixed nuts (or whatever she's eating) while testifying about it. It's also the epitome of arrogance. Johnny Deep making jokes about her slicing his finger off, honestly, seems like a man embarrassed that this happened to him. Women in abusive relationships, for example, will try to make a joke or act like the abuse wasn't so bad because they're embarrassed.
I agree completely, I watched the part of Johnny's childhood testimony about his mother, and you can tell how embarrassed he is to have people know that he was abused as a child. It's sad because he is such a private person.
I don't know either unless she has a sugar problem and has to eat to controll it. I can't believe her lawyer would let her eat while giving her testimony.
The thing is, his finger wasn’t “broken”. It was severed. They have pictures of it, and he had to have it sown back on. He is saying that “hey, could punching a wall (a drywall at that) , lead to your finger falling off by a straight cut?”. I would laugh at that too, honestly. You don’t really need a “wall-punching specialist” to see that. Also he has not denied punching inanimate objects , so be may have experience with it and or maybe breaking something because of it, but never severing. For him to have severed his finger by punching a wall, it would have had to be a glass wall, which if it happened, would have been apart of the story. But it wasn’t . Anyway, this is just my opinion. But it makes sense
I mean his security and their friends all saw the shattered bottles and things during and after their argument that resulted in his finger being severed. There's tons of articles and recordings of what happened online going back four years and the story has been the same.
On top of that, any injury received from punching drywall would only include the outside of his fist. Unless he's a complete moron that can't make a fist, the tip of his fingers would have been tucked inside his fist making it impossible for any of them to be severed.
As a wall-punching specialist, it's definitely possible to break a bone but not sever unless your punching a blade or something sharp. Which then would leave marks across all fingers
Every time she talks about the incidents of her hitting him, she minimizes it as much as possible and keeps trying to blame him or make him out to be overly dramatic. My ex did this ALL the time.
Is it possible that Amber is eating as a way to hide any "tells"? Like that she knows she is likely to show signs of stress and deception through un-conscience mouth movements, but by eating something it covers those markers. Also, it's a small individual grape, which doesn't require much appetite and will help to keep her mouth from drying due to stress. Another great, objective analysis! I'm really enjoying your breakdowns. I hope to see more from you as this case evolves
Yes! Very possible that she’s eating to give her hands and mouth something to do and appear less fidgety. I’m not sure it’s grapes she’s eating tho, not that it makes even a little bit of a difference lol.
I saw someone who analyzed this video too, he said that she was probably eating to get some time to answer. At a specific moment, she eats when she knows that she gonna have to answer, like, you dont eat if you know that you will have to talk very soon ?
The reason Johnny said "I'd love to see what an expert would say" is because he was told by a doctor it's clear that he couldn't have injured himself like that from punching a wall.
Yeah I think he’s talking about how doctors and others like police, social workers etc can tell how someone did or didn’t get a injury, think they’re even trained because of abusive parents or domestic abuse coming in and lying about how their kid or they got hurt. Like parents who shake or even punch & etc their baby come to the ER and say their baby “fell” off the changing table or something. They know how a injury for that would actually be and if it matches. I feel like Johnny was in disbelief like are you kidding me? Because seriously if he was punching a wall which would mean his fist would be closed like he said, how the hell would that cause that type of injury to his finger??? I think if u got Johnny’s X-rays and all details of the injury like the cuts etc and the type of wall and showed it all to doctors and other such professionals they would all agree that couldn’t happen. Like u could break a bone in ur hand but not cut ur finger off from punching a wall! He seemed uncomfortable and stuff because he’s talking about abuse from his ex wife from when she cut his freakin finger off! But he was also like laughing at the absurdity of her lie and it basically shows her being caught in a lie that she didn’t think through
One thing that I feel is really important to consider when analyzing johnnys behavior is the fact that he was brought up in an abusive household. He’s been a child of abuse & it made such a strong impact on him that he made sure to not repeat that same thing with his kids. Growing up with something like that makes you very uncomfortable in any situation that draws attention to you about any real life events that may be a cause for concern. You’re used to being in the background, neglected & invisible. Thats whats becomes your normal and what you’re most comfortable in. In this situation now, it makes sense he would feel very uncomfortable (which I believe is why he tries to crack jokes and lighten the mood, its an attempt to draw attention away from himself). He’s been dealing with it silently for as long as he could until it was all made public. It makes sense that he’s been driven up against a wall and has no other option than to publicly address everything. Its hard enough for a regular person to make their private lives completely public, open for scrutiny and risk being called a liar/not believed let alone for someone who is as private about their personal life as him. He’s completely and utterly vulnerable and that’s enough to make someone uncomfortable. At this point, he has no choice but to be as open as possible to get his truth out. If you see the court hearings, he’s uncomfortable at many occasions, slow when he speaks, takes his time gathering his thoughts and memories etc. These are all signs of someone who has seen so much and dealt with so much they don’t know where to begin addressing things. I’m all for women empowerment and agree that it is a global work in progress. There are far more crimes against women than men generally speaking but that doesn’t mean there’s none against men. Victims are victims regardless of their identity. The premise of the whole movement is to believe victims because they’re vulnerable and defenseless in majority of such cases. It just so happens that most cases are of violence against women. It doesn’t change the principle of believing victims. We have to afford male victims the same as female victims. This isn’t about gender. It’s a huge disservice to the real victims of domestic violence for people to lie & come up with false allegations. This is a very heavy & complex topic.
I completely agree. I could see and hear the young boy who was in his mind dealing with someone who was EXACTLY like his Mother. In the recordings you can hear him trying to calmly talk and deal with her outbursts the same as I’m sure he did with his Mother. It’s very sad…
The MeToo movement slogan should have been Listen to Women, not Believe Women. I suggested above that there needs to be a #MeToo movement for men. His childhood abuse also explains why he left tried to leave the room when she started verbally abusing him, according to his testimony. Her admission that he wouldn't stay and fight (also calling him a coward) is bullying and abusive.
@@gretamurphy3704 i would agree with you but starting another movement would be more divisive in an already pretty divisive world and it takes no time for movements to become politicized. Bottom line is all victims regardless of their gender, race/ethnicity, age etc MUST be listened to, believed and protected. We need to take a step back and look at everything from an impartial stance and try to find root problems. Maybe awareness campaigns to encourage the general public to come from a non-judgemental place if/when we come across victims and making help more accessible for the victims themselves & for people close-by to get them that help would do alot more than an additional movement
@@gretamurphy3704 also I completely agree with the leaving the room part, his sister testified that shes always had to book an extra room for him on their travels together after they got married (sth she never had to do before in his past relationships) & when asked why, her response was that it was a pattern she recognized. Its unfortunate really but it makes you realize just how blind we can be to situations we are in vs other ppl looking at them externally. Johnny recognized the pattern eventually but once that happened he resorted to helping her/staying by her side
I’ve watched a bajillion interviews w JD & when he gets shy or anxious, his hand goes to his hair (usually scratching or self-grooming). Also, his finger across his lips is very common (usually his left). Enough of this to consider it baseline as opposed to indications of deception. To be fair though, I do not think he would ever be honest about specific quantities of alcohol/drugs - this is extremely common among addicts for various reasons.
When Johnny Depp talks about Having his finger chopped off and laughed saying "by this woman that I was married to" I felt his disbelief on the situation , the shame, the obscurity of it all. I have similar reactions when I think of something bad that happened because I just can't process it. I come off a bit crazy laughing in wrong situations, but it's an uncomfortable laugh like a defence mechanism to make it feel like it didn't happen. I don't know, I believe him. He didn't deserve to be treated like that by that woman. I hope she does get a punishment. And as many people say, if he punched a wall instead of her it shows restraint and is not incriminating in my opinion.
I understand what you are saying about that Laugh mechanism some people have trying to express or talk about a bad situation, (after all someone knows someone who laughed at a funeral right?) it was his, (like the body expert mentions) joking about the idea it was from punching a wall.... I've punched Dry wall, and other walls. The Damages done from my experience is the Knuckles not the tip of any finger
@@djarumd5828 hello, I'd like to add my personal experience to this. I'm struggling with both mental health and an abusive mother with which I got angry multiple times as I started realising all the bad thing's she's done to me. I have had rage fits in which I broke things, threw things and/or punched walls. Multiple times I have punched walls with a lot of rage in me and using all my force. Damage to the walls is perfectly possible when a grown adult punches a wall. My walls aren't drywall, they are bricks covered by a layer of some stuff I don't know exactly what it is, and then painted. I have made dents with the shape of my knuckles in the wall by punching them. I believe it is possible to damage drywall with enough force. As for the damage, it all clusters around the knuckles. I have damager my secondary knuckles? The middle of the fingers? I don't know what the proper name is but you get the idea. But still, most of the damage is around the knuckles. You get bruises, blood, your knuckles may get larger and super sensitive as they accumulate blood from the damaged blood vessels. It hurts, some people might even get their finger tendons damaged. But there is no darn way in hell one can damage the tip of the fingers with that. That is a blatant lie by Amber. The only possible way that you could damage the tip of a finger by punching a wall is if you put your open palm on the wall, then punched the finger with the other hand as hard as you could and still it's super unlikely to ever get that level of damage from a punch. Also, if he did that, that would indicate self harming behaviour ether to deceive people into thinking she did it or to simply hurt himself, both things indicate mental health problems and Amber would have clearly used that as a defence against him in that case. The fact that she made a story up about him getting his finger damaged because he punched a wall indicates she has no idea how a punch works, and the mere fact that she lied, more than once makes me not be able to believe anything she says. Same could be said about Depp but I'm not entirely sure that he lied, more like hid some things but still that smells fishy.
"Punching a wall shows restraint" LOL you know what shows restraint? LEAVING. Punching a wall shows violent behavior. I don't think any abused wife ever in history punched a wall after being beaten up. And btw how is she gonna get some punishment when she was never sued for abuse? JD is gonna lose this case beyond tye shadow of a doubt. Yall seem to forget that being narcissistic is not a crime per se. And can I also ask why on Earth will you feel so sorry for a guy that owns a ducking private island in Bahamas 🙄🙄
@@vero9348 because having money doesn't mean you can't be abused. I'm feeling sorry for a person's career being ruined because of an accusation by a seemingly narcissistic liar who wants the attention it provides her. If it's a mutually abusive relationship still there have to be mutual punishments. Also they said in court that JD always wants to walk away from intense/violent situations and AH won't accept that, she would rather be in a fight than let him walk away. Beyond the physical there are signs of psychological abuse from ms. Amber's side and no matter what you own you can always be a victim of manipulative partners. People ask for equality and then ignore when men get abused every-single-time.
I've been watching the trial like a lot of people on here. As someone who was raised in a dysfunctional family and my father was an alcoholic abusive person, I believe that Ms. Heard was the aggressor towards Mr. Depp. It appears that Ms. Heard enjoyed taunting Johnny trying to get him riled up and engaged into the arguments they had. It seems to me that Ms. Heard took advantage of Johnny's calm nature and Amber didn't like it when he wouldn't fight back. A person can only be pushed so far and when you push someone over the edge they will most likely lash out whether it's verbally or physically. Johnny seems like he is more like his father who didn't hit his wife but instead, broke objects. My father broke objects and beat my mother all the while accusing her of cheating on him which she never did. It was my father who was cheating. The elevator video of Amber and James Franco clearly shows that she was cheating on Johnny. She is wrapped in a sheet and the two of them cuddle in the elevator then go to the penthouse. Amber Heard is a manipulative, hateful and mean-spirited person who will most likely always be this way no matter who she is with. I hope she loses this case and I hope the judge orders her to get anger management classes.
My best friend of over 20 years, who is un medicated bipolar as well as deals with substance abuse issues, would do the same regarding trying her damndest to rile up her bf at the time. Screaming, saying the meanest most spiteful things, getting in their face, hitting them. And she knew how to manipulate, how to make herself look like a victim. When the bf would finally break and be like I can’t take this anymore- THEN the whole ‘he was an abuser’ would come out. Not the whole time they were dating. I also lived with her for years, and I never saw what she’d claim or any marks. I cut her off years ago, the only thing she wouldn’t do with me was hit me, but other than that, I got the same treatment. Watching this trial and coverage reminds me of her so much that I’ve needed to stop and take breaks. I find myself infuriated at times.
Yes, the abusers will also never allow the victim to leave the fight. Something Amber has consistently done. The cheating is brutal. No matter who she was with, she’d still cheat on them. I know the type.
I've been in a situation similar to this as well and this woman makes my blood run cold. She is so manipulative and such a liar. I feel so bad for Johnny, I was with a woman very similar to Heard for 6 years, she would follow me from room to room trying to take arguments further and further, she would get violent with me and beat me hoping to try and make me hit her back, she would throw things and hit me with various objects and then when she calmed down or I was about to leave she would end up convincing me I made her get that angry, that it was my fault and that I hurt her worse than she hurt me for pushing her to hurt me. I've been away from her for years and now am with a good, sweet and beautiful woman but even still now I'll flinch if she's irritated and moves too fast and I still can't be near conflict without freezing up or trying to immediately walk away and escape.
Also, instincts as a therapist who works intimately with the emotional states of others. Here's my take on this. I imagine you or I would say something like this, because we would be reliving the fear of the moment: "I was afraid he was going to push her down the stairs, and I was so afraid she might be killed! I didn't really know what I was doing, but I jumped in there because I couldn't let that happen." Neither you or I would say, "He was about to push my sister down the stairs. (said calmly and matter of factly) She was attempting to break us up. (fluff stated calmly) I am protective of my baby sister. (absolutely unnecessary statement said calmly) When he laid hands on her, I don't know what I did. (selling you can't pin it on me because I wasn't really there). But (emphatic) I know I jumped in between the action (que?) of what I saw could lead to a fatal injury to my sister. She was standing on the top of a flight of stairs and she has never hurt anyone in her life and she does not deserve to be pushed down a flight of stairs." (absolutely unnecessary verbiage that serves only to change the subject to "just imagine, he pushed my innocent baby sister down the stairs!") None of that would be in a real statement of a real fear that someone might get seriously hurt if you or I didn't do something. Nah, you won't say it, but I will. She lied through her teeth. That girl has got some serious rage issues.
I think some of Johnny's hesitation is a sign of humiliation, especially when he said "the woman I married". You can hear the humiliation and shameful accountability in this particular sentence. Again we need to remember that celebrities also experience shame as we all do because they are human like you and me. I think he is shame of the partner he chose and where they are now.
A narcissist is never at fault. Everything is always happening “to them”. Everyone always makes them behave how they behave. No personal responsibility ever.
I just hope she is humbled and everything she has sought to gain from her manipulation and deceit will be taken from her. I hope she’s canceled. She’s just on another level of evil.
Amber is Definitely Pure Evil. She's Looking for Her Next Victim With Alot of $$$ Being That She's a Gold Digger Also...Her Little Pathetic Tiny Career is Done.
"Another level of evil" is the best description I have heard of her. I can feel Johnny's pain, and all for what he thought was love. Of course, one can say he is partly at fault, as, I believe, I could be wrong, but I believe he was in a long term committed relationship with the mother of his children when he started up with Amber [he cheated] and Amber was the reason for that split, which ruined his family unit, badly hurt his children, and, I am sure, after so many years together, caused enormous pain to his ex partner. But that doesn't mean he deserves this abuse and the demise of his career. I think he is at heart a decent person and every single one of us makes mistakes. There would be NO Pirates of the Caribbean movies without him. He IS those movies. Who else could have pulled off those roles as he did? It is obvious that he is gentle and shy. The substance abuse is to numb the pain he lives with constantly, due to childhood abuse [me, too, and I do the same, for the same reason]. It is very common, especially when alcohol is legal. People with narcissistic tendencies are never humbled. They don't play by the same rules as the rest of us. Jada P Smith is another good example of this.....see her smirking, smiling and laughing, while you see Will in pain? Will had 2 choices at the awards.......stay in his seat and face the wrath of Jada when they got home, or, "do something" to make her happy, and face the wrath of the world. Clearly, she is more scary to him than the world, so, he chose her, and then she said she wished he hadn't "gotten physical." Another liar, as evidenced by her body language............she WANTED Will to "do something" and never came to his defense when he did.. He is also a victim of abuse. Very very sad for both, and their kids, and all people who are abused. I'd love for her to be cancelled, or maybe shipped off to a deserted island, but you know Hollyweird......in a couple of years, all will be forgiven/forgotten. Look at all the evil humans who made a comeback.....Kelsey Grammar for his relationship with their babysitter who was a minor, Mel Gibson for his racist tirades, etc. She's gorgeous on the outside and will use that to her advantage. This may or may not be a small setback for her, as we don't know the outcome, and, I hope I am wrong, but, I bet she's not going anywhere. Maybe she could do adult films, she'd be popular in those!
She said, when speaking about defending her sister: “this is something I ‘WOULD do’”If YOU were relaying this story, wouldn’t you say: “This is what’ I DID’’,, something anyone would do”!
Good catch! Wow. Even that was a lie. You're correct. If she was telling the truth about what actually happened, she wouldn't say "I would have done." That means it didn't really happen, it's just the story she made up.
I wouldnt mistake her privelege and good conditions as being the indicators of being a victim of dv. Privelege and good conditions do support a person and good luck to those who have it - again doesnt mean there wasnt abuse - there is a distinction.
I agree. My sister is a domestic violence survivor and when she talks about to this day you can still see the fear in her eyes, as if she is reliving it. This seemed like a joke in her retelling and then striking her own answers.
I don’t need an analysis to understand these two. I was just like Amber all through my 20’s. Then I was diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder & found help for my aggression, anger & fears through therapy, medication & a LOT of self-reflection and meditation. Today I have been free of violence in my life for over a decade. It took my ex hitting back and knocking me out before I realized I needed help as the aggressor. I hope she finds the help she needs & I hope Johnny Depp finds relief from this circus she started. He truly seems a victim forced to remain in a toxic relationship through the continuous manipulation of self-harm. I wish them both a more peaceful future.
I applaud you for one of the most authentic and unbiased pieces of analysis I have seen so far. This is exactly the perspective that has been previously absent i.e. the motivation and meaning behind her behaviour and through this wider picture- a route we can begin to take in order to understand and validate this guy’s experience.
@@missoula5412 thank you 🙏🏻 I suspect many others that recognize this pattern are afraid to speak up because the stigma associated with BPD & how rare it is for someone to truly take their life back from that place once they get there. Many struggle their entire lives to regulate their emotions. And many more will never get a true diagnosis, especially since the popularization of Bipolar as a “spectrum” disorder; which I think detracts from these more serious personality disorders being properly diagnosed.
It takes a lot to be able to look at yourself and do the work. It’s unfortunate more people living with bpd do not commit to therapy or finding ways to regulate emotions as you said. Hopefully some may take inspiration from your comment and do the same.
The impression I get watching Johnny is that he's really embarrassed. I think he feels ashamed that he got himself into a relationship with Amber, that the whole world knows that he made such a huge mistake. I think he feels exposed but has no choice but to do this legal action because he has lost everything. He'd rather not be there talking about private things. I think that is why he does that chuckle. He's laughing at himself at the ridiculous circus his private life has become. Amber 🙄 I find something very off about her. I think its the eyes. She has the creepy eyes that scare me of a psychopath. Her eyes are pale but seem glittering with darkness. Falseness? I can't explain what I mean here, sorry! What is with the eating while being questioned in a legal case that could financially ruin her!? I think she's overconfident in winning and just doesn't care. She feels entitled. She thinks she is going to win, no matter what. So she's bored and eats. She feels the questions are beneath her. I think everything she says is a lie. Over time her lies become more exaggerated and ridiculous. Personally I think she's a very dangerous disturbing person. I feel so sorry for Johnny. I hope he wins 🙏 just my thoughts. 🤷♀️
Maybe 'actors' are really shy people, who 'hide' behind characters. Johnny appears to be embaressed and uncomfortable - Amber doesn't even try to hide her smug, over confident arrogant attitude. Maybe Johnny should get a medal for putting up for so long with the vile attitude that Amber is showing even in these court videos🤔
@@susansmith4784 Yes I think Johnny's natural shyness and that he's still a humble kind man despite his fame says a lot. He doesn't hide away from his alcohol and drug consumption. He admits his mistakes. That tells me that he is a person open to changing and correcting his mistakes. I think amber winning the case in the UK has only emboldened her even more. She appears to believe that she is untouchable. I hope Johnny wins this case. She is a very dangerous person. Horrible. I fear for that poor baby that she will no doubt harm when she is of no further use to amber.
I also think it's possible that she was coached to eat. Perhaps she does a lot of the lip smacking that this expert mentions is a common sign of deception. So her lawyer (or more likely, a coach hired by her and her lawyer) decided to have her eat to provide a plausible explanation for this "tell" in her facial expressions.
When she was ‘skating on glass’ in Australia but just took a sleeping tablet and went to sleep! She would’ve needed medical help to remove the glass! I literally hate this woman!
That was the first impression I had of her, condescending and disrespectful. And who eats in a deposition, or even just while in a court room? Her behaviour is disrespectful towards everyone.
Well I don't have to reserve judgement. After getting hooked to watching it, and having been stuck in a violent relationship myself I do not believe she was ever hit. Where's the embarrassment, the fear, pain, self disgust. These are dominant feelings. You lose all self respect and self esteem, you blame yourself, you hate what you're allowing to happen you fel a failure. I see NONE of these things in her. She thinks she's the cleverest person in the room. I'd go further than narcissist and suggest psychopath, as was my ex.
Some people need to eat regularly for medical reasons so it isn't exactly crazy for some to be eating while on the stand but I figured those would be exceptions. I was a bit surprised she was allowed more than water.
Wasn't she giving a deposition? I can't remember exactly. It was hard for me to tell or maybe I need to go back and watch it if she was actually in a courtroom because I feel like they were just in a conference room doing a deposition. I'm not sure...still super weird as far as the eating goes but at least it would be less weird if it was in a conference room and not the courtroom.
This was her deposition not a courtroom. A pretrial interview ment for gathering information. However it is not recommended the person being interviewed eat or drink anything during it at least with a camera on them. It reflects on their professionalism and it may be shown in court. So its not recommended at all. Perhaps she wanted to and they couldn't tell her no? Not sure 🤷♀️
I found it so strange the words she used when talking about her sister. “She has never hurt anyone and she does not deserve to be pushed down a flight of stairs”. If in a fight and trying to protect someone from harm I would say I was scared for her life or scared she was going to fall etc. not, she does not deserve.
Amber’s expression when the interrogator asks if she is done is pure hatred. She hates the interrogator and sees her as the enemy. Her demeanor throughout is condescending and dismissive and the only time we get a glimpse of how she really feels us when she is talking about her sister: she is super angry at him still and still wants to hurt him. Her eating is an expression of how ‘above this’ she feels. I believe his story about how his finger was injured. He clearly was lying during the wall punching story but like you I believe he really did punch the wall and was trying to play that off. He’s not worried about her story that this is what hurt his finger; he knows that can be disproven by a trauma specialist. But he doesn’t want to admit to the wall punching. On the whole, I think they both were violent, but I think she was worse. She still wants to hurt him right now, where I feel like he just wants her to be out of his life.
It's been my experience that men punch walls when their woman has made them so angry by her words/deeds in that moment that they strike the wall in frustration instead of hitting her. He's a guy who leaves the room when an argument gets too heated. What to do when the woman being argumentative and nasty won't get out of his way so that he can leave the room. Boom, hole in the wall. Sure, a guy who actually beats a woman can end up making holes in the walls too but it's far more likely that the woman will need to go to the hospital or at the very least, hide from the public for a week or so while the bruises heal up.
I would like to see what was said right before. The lawyer didn't sound like they had this tone but it came off like a couples argument thing to say. "Are you done" which tends to follow a verbal attack by the person asking if the other is done as they were waiting for their turn to pounce after the other is expending energy. I am imagining the possiblity of the lawyer previously interupting Heard.
Did you hear the recordings?? She admitted abusing him with no self defense present. This is not a matter of “I believe Johnny” she already admitted it herself.
@@Just-wiggling-thru-life in my experience it can also be used to intimidate when the person is not blocked in like I'm going to hit this wall and slam this door repeatedly to show how angry and powerful I am. Like you're lucky this isn't you I'm hitting.
The way she constantly snipes at Johnny in the recordings of their arguments seemed to me like she is a complete narcissist who wasn't getting enough attention and just got more and more outlandish with her accusations to him. She seems deeply insecure and I bet the fact that she couldn't get him to engage with her was intolerable to her ego. Good for him for defending himself and trying to not engage with her narcissist abuse as much as he did. She is toxic and is used to being able to manipulate every situation in her favor. When she cannot do so, it causes a narcissist injury, which will not be tolerated by a narcissist, hence the accusations and all the related drama. She's so smug, it grosses me out.
Oh how well I recognize her behaviors. 30 years of covert narcissist abuse helps one recognize a covert narcissist from a mile away. She followed the playbook and checked every box.
Having lived with a narcissistic mother and been psychologically abused by other narcissists throughout my life, these clips are raising one red flag after the other.
@@churrho Yes they do. By my estimation, at least 50% percent of a narcissist's offspring will grow up to be narcissists, especially if they are the 'golden child'. It's usually the "scapegoats" that go the other way and turn into empaths who unfortunately get drawn to narcissists as adults. The cycle is hard to break.
@@churrho I'm talking from personal experience and research. I grew up with a narcissistic mother, have C-PTSD which btw she has as well, having been raised and abused by her narcissist mother. Narcissism runs in both sides of my family tree, and the empaths all married narcissists. I know what I'm talking about. A child of a narc will either turn into a narc or become a codependent empath who partners up with a narc. Narcs also pair up with other narcs too, (although they are most attracted to empaths) which then becomes an interesting powerplay of a relationship. But at least an empath can work on themselves and change for the better. Has a chance to break the cycle. The narcissist doesn't due to their lack of self awareness and complete inability to self reflect. It's like a childhood trauma lottery, really. They will be either become this or that. One thing an abused traumatised child won't become is a well adjusted mentally and emotionally healthy adult. And another thing. Neurodiversity also runs in both sides of my family tree. There is a link.
Lawyer: "Do you understand what I'm asking you?" Amber: *nodds head* "no" Lawyer: "so do you dont understand?" Amber: "yes I understand" This is almost as silly as her laywer objecting to his own question
I can't stand her and she lies virtually any time that she opens her mouth.. but to be fair, they asked her a question then asked her that - she was nodding at the question of if she understood and answered verbally the first question. Her rhythm was thrown off by her lawyer objecting, telling her to go on, then the other lawyer asking the second question while she was mentally preparing to answer the first. This was actually one of the very few times where I can say that from the context, she was not giving conflicting answers to one question, but simultaneously answering two questions.
Rather narcissistic actually, and doesn't put her in the light of a victim. Not that narcissists cannot become a victim, but really, this one is pretty telling. Amber is someone I would never want to have an encounter with, LMAO
unless she's autistic! I point out as an autistic. Just to offer another reason a person mightn't be able to keep consistent eye contact for future encounters anyone who reads this happens to have. But... in this case, she's not autistic, and she is probably way in the cluster B's, and so, carry on!
@@p.e.zaccardo5578 I’ve lived all over the United States and I don’t know of anyplace where giving eye contact is considered disrespectful. To the contrary, lack of eye contact is generally considered an insult unless you’re a child, autistic, or mentally handicapped. Combined with her other mannerisms and facial expressions she comes off as VERY condescending and arrogant.
About Johnny talking about having scientist analyze his hand, I think that's totally possible. Forensics are able to identify so many aspects of injuries down to when it happened, how it happened, and if they were defense wounds or not. I've seen pictures of his mutilated finger, that's no injury from punching a wall.
I know one and she can be so cruel!! When I was first aware of her being like that was when I couldn’t believe that she would demean and humiliate a father in front of his kids. That’s just so low! All because she wasn’t getting her way one of the hundred things on her list of demands. When Johnny protested how she screamed at him in front of his kid, and how it could mess kids up for life, yeah… I thought of this woman I know and the two are so similar in how domineering they are and how inconsiderate they are of harming children. They just don’t care if their abuse effects kids.
I work in a domestic violence work place & I can tell you right now, so many men don't come forward because of embarrassment. For Johnny to come forward it is something pretty serious.
Given your experience, what do you think about JD's alcohol/drug abuse allegedly changing him into a "monster"?
I had an abusive childhood, and also had 8 yrs with a perpetual lying/cheating fiancé. Having watched the majority of this trial now, I feel that AH has been lying and exaggerating about just about everything, but I DO wonder what JD's behaviour was like when he was on sooo many drugs....obviously verbally abusive, with violent attacks on his surroundings. The testimonies from previous girlfriends stands up, but I don't think he was abusing drugs nearly so much then. Lots of people in the comment sections giving their personal testimonies to domestic violence, but nobody is mentioning if any of their abusers were high on multiple concoctions of drugs/alcohol.
True
@@Mortthemoose No I don't believe so. Many people have said that he's the same way intoxicated or on drugs. Amber's USING his weaknesses because she KNOWS it hurts him. I know because my see my ex husband in her. Now my ex isn't a sociopath ( we just weren't meant for each other we're better as friends for our kids.) Amber most definitely is a sociopath.
i know men get it all th etime it sjust not talked about enough equality doesnt exist
@@zaqueenzhane7744 It's truly sad.💔
Eating in front of court while being questioned is in my eyes a big sign of disinterest and lack of respect. Who does this? Is it even allowed? I don't think it is allowed in my country. Maybe to have a sip of water, but definitely not eating.
This is not in court. It's a deposition.
This is her 2016 deposition after filing for divorce. She shouldnt be able to eat when she is actually on the stand in a few weeks lol
@@cortecz ummm....you DO realize this is a COURT case, right? and guess who's seeing it....the court.
@@cortecz I mean… would you be eating at a deposition? A deposition is the process of giving sworn evidence. It’s a pretty big deal.
@@MrMirage64 I was unaware the depositions were viewed in court. I was under the impression they were solely to assist the lawyers in building their cases. Still, she is not actually eating in a court room during proceedings. Which is the comment to which I was replying.
Amber has never been a "doormat" in her life. She comes off as a narcissist to me. She doesn't want to tell her story. She's not looking for help. She's haughty, contemptuous and focused on self preservation.
Wow that rings so true.
Seems to me like she’s treats her own sister as HER own doormat
@@jenicdarling9425 and her personal assistant, she spit on her several times … A.H. is on a power trip .
Spot on!
@@martinda7446 oh 10000% she’s a narcissist! My ex bff displayed her “emotions” just like Amber. Narcissistic people are reasonably good at faking emotions, but they have a really hard time hiding contempt, disgust, and anger.
They need to bring up JDs rings.. She claims that JD has beat her in a rage.. In a rage did he really stop to take off his rings? Because if he hit her in a rage with the rings on, she would have needed hospitalization, not makeup..
Great point! I think she hit herself and caused the “bruises”, just to turn around and blame Johnny. She needed some proof.
Good call. That was one of the first things brought up on cross examination today!
Stitches, maybe 🤔
Yes he probably would have broken some of her facial bones. There is no way he hit her, let alone with the rings on.
Thankfully they do bring it up. She admits he apart always had the rings on 🤦♀️
As someone who has dealt with depression and trauma for years, Johnny's behavior when answering the questions is easily recognizable. I catch myself smirking and even giggling when I think of the bad stuff from the past, cause it is so out there it doesn't feel it was real, like it was just a bad joke until you really remember it happened and then you get fidgety with brushing your hair touching your face. You often go from laughing about the absurdity of the situation to holding back tears and you can see that on his face.
Me too. We like to create distance from that emotion we felt when it first happened, usually by laughing or joking. I consider it like I’m telling a story, it’s factual not emotional. I tell it like i wasn’t there and it wasn’t me who sustained it. Makes it easier.
Me too! You can tell right away
Yes. This. Humor is how many of us deal with trauma and mask the real pain we feel. It’s often self-deprecated.
Excellent feed back
That is actually a brilliant explanation. Exactly what I do/feel. Thank you! Hope you're healing :)
Having survived being with a narcissistic abuser that scarred me for life, seeing Amber's expressions chills me to the bone. Any time her eyes focus on the camera or she does the stuff like the slow head tilt, the glares, the intense stares, it is like looking into the eyes of my abuser again. It's just unmistakable for me. I've always had a thing with eyes, maybe because of that time in my life, but the feeling of fear I get just makes it hard to watch this whole thing. I realize I wasn't there and I'm no expert, but I can see it. When you've been through it, you know.
I'm sorry you had to go through that my man.
I agree! She reminds me so much of my abusive ex bf
Sorry you went through that
I understand, for me it was looking into his eyes, they turned black and I was so nervous that I'd get nauseous and my mind would just race. To this day I have only seen 2 other men whose eyes turn black and there's a look that you just know, it immediately sends me back. One of them was a friend of mine. We were talking in the hallway at work one day and he was very worked up/angry about a situation at work. He was angry and never yelled (we worked in a medical clinic with patients), but the tension was in his voice, and his eyes turned black. There was a nurse standing at her desk near to us and he turned around to her and gave her a warning regarding he would know it was her if any of our conversation came back. I really enjoyed him and he is an extremely intelligent man who's excellent at his work, and I'd never seen that side of him. I saw his eyes and heard the tension in his voice when he spoke to her and my heart started racing, I got nauseous, my breathing, everything went right back. I have the exact same physiological reactions that used to happen with my ex years before. The body really does keep the score and hers didn't show anything, she faked a startle response-which really got to me, because I love JD and I don't believe for one minute he's violent; but I still got nauseous, anxious, and dizzy watching the video. She didn't move, she egged him on--She was NOT someone who was afraid of him, she was poking at him! I would have been in another part of the house, somewhere I wouldn't have to listen to it, anything but stay there and poke at him and try to get him more worked up! She's a nasty piece of work!
That’s cell memory. Your body reacts even before your mind does on trauma. I hope you are safe and well now and things like that never happen to you again.
When she been asked “are you done?” Her face kinda screams like “excuse me? How dare you ask me with that tone.” It caught her off-guards with the question because i bet no one had said that to her face before.
Her former personal assistant said it to her face I hope lol
It just screams "I despise you because you're not on my side" all over the place...
Her attitude in these videos is SO starkly different from her attitude in the current trial. Which is 6 years later. That, alone, speaks to her deception. She knew she looked bad in this deposition, so she played a different role this time around. It makes no sense that, 6 years later, she would be more afraid and emotional than she was back then. 🙄
Iv watched these backwards for some reason , saw the deposition last. It's like she had a coach to help her sell her story more. Didn't help much. This looks like she's fresh out of acting school and currently she looks like she's got a couple bad movies under her belt.
JD probably did hit that wall but definitely don't think he ever hit her.
Great point!
She comes across as a spoiled teenager from an entitled family. Then, 6 years later - all her hairstyles and clothing and colors are matronly. And there's the awful acting that she's slapping on this new packaging. She wasn't "acting" during the deposition...she was just being her obnoxious entitled self.
Yup. It would be MORE emotional closer to the event not 6 years later. And I know that from experience. She's so disgusting.
so well said
Amber's head shaking, and looking for acceptance or reassurance from others in the room screams volumes of lying to me. Children do this when trying to escape punishment when knowing they did something and got caught.
She is very immature 🙄, which is a huge factor in this whole fiasco.
i see this clinically in psyche when a pt age and maturity are incongruent. stunted growth due to early childhood trauma etc.
@@sew161 absolutely. this C of a lady literally defecate on his pillow. I hope she gets jail-time
But she breaks character so often, it's not really believable.
Ah yes, a reference to Kohlbergs precoventional stage
As I watch Ms. Heard, I am reminded of a teenager in the principle's office lying and blaming others for their own wrong doing. It seems that she is a chronic liar and has no empathy or respect for others.
The constant eye shift is so strange to me
Yup the popular girl who thinks they can walk off Scott free from anything lol
exactly!
A compulsive lying bully in grade school to me.
I swear I had the same feeling!
A sense I get from Johnny's expressions and smiling when he is describing something not funny is that he feels bad for having to bring the listener into a horrible situation, maybe not even feeling worthy of the attention he is receiving. His mannerisms seem to want to lighten the mood & ease the discomfort for listener - along the lines of people saying "I'm sorry" when they start crying. It's essentially, "I'm sorry that my pain is happening in front of you and making you uncomfortable."
Johnny's nervous laugh whilst going over dark things comes off as self-deprecating to me, like he's mocking himself and the situation he's talking about, making light of it, as a coping mechanism.
I see it similarly, but I reckon he feels bad for having to say something that will cast her in a bad light. Almost like he is trying to keep the words from coming out, but realizing he has to say them, because of the situation he is in, i.e. sworn to tell the truth.
Yeah I agree, in the clip of Johnny saying "I want to go home" at the end he has a similar smirk assuming what he said wasn't actually a joke. Here's the clip ruclips.net/video/ZDIDW-JtkTY/видео.html
This is a good description & I agree🙂
He laughs because as a child of extreme abuse we always try to make something not as bad as it really is. It is a coping mechanism.
She doesn’t seem to have fear when she talks about Johnny. If she was so abused and fearful I don’t think she would be speaking in such a cavalier way.
You are right. She seems to be disdainful of him. No fear there that I can see. Just BS drama.
For those that have experienced real abuse, this is such an insult. Forget who she is, that is someone trying to sell something they have no bloody idea. What she is doing ain’t helping anyone. She should go to jail. Abuse is not a pr stunt….
Absolutely!
Preach!!.
i mean if she was that yeah abolutely and i like johnny but i wouldnt say sommething before its clear
While I think Amber Heard's lying about a lot of it, and has demonised too many people around her - including Depp - I don't think he's as much as a victim as we think he is (the lies perpetuated about him notwithstanding, ofc).
It's a shame he hasn't been winning these court cases, though, as this could've already been over by 2020.
I totally agree. I believe they had her eating because they know when she lies she does those lip movements. So they needed to cover it up.
After hearing the recordings of them talking, I have no doubts. The way she argues the definition of "punch", without even denying she did it, constantly gaslighting and demeaning Johnny at every turn, justifying her rage and abuse. Watching her face as this is played back, the cold dead stare. I believe she's guilty of emotional abuse too, on a way higher scale than the ADMITTED physical abuse. She treats him like a boot treats an insect. Its revolting to behold.
100% agree, gaslighting and manipulation to the extreme
And she only knows about the recording so she is probably saying untruths to seem like it is worse. You can even hear this in his reaction sometimes as he repeats her in disbelief of what she says.
What about women who were really abused by their husband's..?
She's really damaging those women who are true victims of DV...
It's already hard for women and men out here without Narcissistic Abusers gaslighting or minimizing their finally standing their ground and finally disclosing their point of the story here.
@@IsraelGodsImmovableRock The women are not an issue in this case. The women being abusers and getting away with it is an extreme issue in society.
Women getting abused is an issue, yeah. But it's not as common as what we see where the female spouse is the abuser.
Tbh with everything ive heard of this whole mess i think they are both terrible people.
As a survivor of domestic violence and a person that has sat down with many other survivors, I can say from my experience that Amber is not acting like someone that has been a victim of the assaults that she claims happened. She speaks and acts more like the aggressor in those situations then the victim. I've seen victims become angry about what happened to them. But that anger always felt so raw when they would talk about the abuse (whether recent or many years later). It was/is almost always a tear filled anger that you can feel. Amber is not giving that. For me, it feels like she is giving anger at the fact that anyone would have the audacity to question her. I've also never seen a d.v victim smirk, eat and roll their eyes when discussing about what happened to them. Especially in a court/legal setting. Nervous humor yes, but not what I am seeing here with Amber Heard.
I'm really not buying anything she is trying to sell here.
Your comment should be taken seriously because it comes from someone who knows what she's talking about and would be simpathetic toward another victim.
I agree. I totally don't get the "eating." When I think about my abuse, my stomach clenches in a fist and bile rises in my throat. And then my eyes begin to tear, either from the bile or the memories ... Geez, there is no way a dv victim could ever nonchalantly sit there and eat, looking at everyone in a Court of Law that has gathered to try her abuser, like she is bored and above them and doesn't know why she bothers wasting her time answering these stupid questions to which she can't remember the answers.
That women just used him alcoholic sickness as a chance to fornicate and cheated him when he needed her the most. Such a toxic Women.🤢🤮🤮
@@ds.nedsong She might as well be eating pop corn. That's what comes to mind for me. Honestly, don't know how Johnny restrained himself. I feel like slapping that smirk laced face and I'm not violent. Wow he had the patience of a Saint.
Agreed. She's lying and acting out her biggest drama ever. She's a sham and has no shame. Disgusting, money grabber.
As a person who was in a dv marriage, since the case started, I’ve been saying that a person who is truly abused wouldn’t chase their abuser from room to room, banging on the door and yelling at them!! I’m sorry but Amber is a ridiculous liar
Yeah we literally try to get away and avoid fighting because it's overwhelming and dangerous. Just like Johnny was always doing. The abuser pursues and pushes and can't put an argument down.
@Chip in4seven ummm, what more foundation would you need than multiple dv people experiencing the same thing? I would even have to think of ways to say things to my spouse in hope it wouldn’t anger him
@@mujergata222 exactly Nata 💜
Not true. I’ve been abused, but also angry and follow my abuser trying to get them to act like themselves (drinking involved) even when it’s n my best interest to stop provoking a drunken abuser I have out of anger from feeling abused & pushed around. Of course then eventually they start to scare you & you stop or hide. But just because u are outraged about being abused doesn’t mean u r an abuser too. We expect no anger from being abused, just crying? People get angry as well as scared from abuse, that’s what’s abusers do push all your buttons-they WANT u to look like the unhinged one.
@@tinajeppesen5948 Oh wow! You’re braver than me! If I had done that to my husband it would have been lights out for me 😳
What's interesting about Depp's deposition is the consistency across his accounts of the bottle-smashing incident, between this and his testimony in court.
In both statements, it's a vodka bottle.
In both statements he demonstrates how he was positioned in the same way.
In both statements he describes how the first bottle just missed his head, to the left side.
In both statements, the second bottle is a larger bottle.
In both statements, he says the fingertip was severed, with bone exposed and shattered.
In both statements, he speaks calmly and factually. He is a lot slower in the trial but he's not hesitant, he's thoughtful about what to say, he's not looking like he wants to get out of answering the question.
Meanwhile Heard can't remember exactly what part of her body was hit with broken glass.
I’m pretty sure he even uses the same jokes in both. I can’t remember if he did the ‘Little Richard’ joke, but he definitely did the Vesuvius joke
@@tylercoon1791 Yeah I thought that part sounded familiar too
probably worse. She couldn't recall exactly but 'some version' of her leg.
that's a slip.
mind was busy processing 'which version of story' while her tongue just slipped.
@@willchen2k
I mean, this is the thing though, I don't know the full details of the alleged incident but I believe Depp was claimed to have thrown a wine glass and it shattered.
Even in the heat of an argument, if one remembers the incident at all, one would know if they got hit with broken glass on their front or back, on their left or right side, or top half or bottom. They would be able to say which quadrant of their body was hit with the glass.
It's true there are incidents where one sustains an injury and doesn't realise at the time. If one, for example, had a glass thrown at them, and one put up one's arms to protect one's face, one may not realise at the time that one's arms had been cut with glass, but if one discovered this injury later one would know when it occurred. Or if one knelt down on a piece of glass, not realising it was there, one would know the glass came from this particular smash and would know one's knees were injured from it.
I'm inclined to agree. If she'd said "Some _area_ of my leg," that might have made sense. The cuts from the glass could cover a wide area. But something just doesn't add up here, does it?
@@adamheywood113
right, they don't add up.
way too many contradictory allegation and testimonies. we can only wait til end of trial before we conclude prematurely.
as for the full detail of the alleged incident (march 2015 australia incident) and subsequent events, there are extensive coverage (and analysis) from the deposition and UK trial, in these two video clips, very professionally done.
ruclips.net/video/O3DBFiOw_mk/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/VDP9NVQmiXw/видео.html
second clip you can just watch the last 5 minutes if you find it too long.
As a survivor of domestic abuse from a narcissist, what I see in her is my abuser. Also from hearing and watching some of the videos in court , I’m sorry but I personally don’t know anyone that’s in an abusive relationship taunt constantly their abuser. I personally don’t believe one single thing she has accused JD of.
Exactly! No battered wife argues with or gaslights their abuser. It just doesn’t happen because they know they will get beaten if they even open their mouth. This, to me, is not a battered wife.
You are 100% dead on. No one who is in an abusive relationship taunts their abuser or laughs at them. She is so disrespectful and smug in this video, it's impossible for me to believe that she was ever in a situation with him where she was scared for her safety.
Same ! I see my abuser!
@@jamiepierce3834 And Depp is doing the exact opposite. In the clip of him shown he mentions Heard once and it wasn't belittling it was just what she said the severed finger was from.
I hear you x also if he was the abuser and she was so frightened..why would she gift him a knife?
Her face when the attorney asked if she was done - I’d call that expression “I wish I could punch you in the face, you tiny speck of a nobody.” Absolute lack of respect for the attorney, and she’s mad as hell.
I feel like she’s doing that constantly. She has this high and mighty attitude about her and even her ex assistant made it very clear she had this attitude.
Seems to me like the attorney knew she would answer this way and specially asked that question to make the jury not like her.
(Solid tactic)
Yep, that's Heard for sure
jesus i just got to that part of the video and youre totally right. the eye flutters and eye movements, the head tilt, raising her brows and opening her mouth like she's about to hurl cusses but then remembers where she is and calms down again, the slow blinking following. wow
Absolutel!
She was barely holding back her aggression most of the time. If this is what she's like in a controlled situation, where she's being filmed, I dread to think how she is in private.
I think you made a very good point there, I agree
I guarantee, she's worse in private, as I'm sure you know🥰
Depp cult follower alert!
Yeah at times it looked like she wanted to kill the lawyer asking her those questions!
In private. Ghost 👻
I feel extremely uncomfortable watching Amber. I am not an analyst by any means, but I know & I believe what my gut feelings are telling me. Thank you for your analysis.
Tbh I got a bad feeling from her. Just a gut feeling but I'm glad I ain't likely to come face to face with her.
Right. When you've seen or experienced behavior that made you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, that stays with you. You can't always pinpoint who or what event in the past that's being evoked, but your body remembers and throws up red flags.
@@mus0rmus1c3 Exactly
Nice. Always trust your gut!!
She seems very manipulative and vacuous of any real thought or emotion. She is an actress for sure.
She is lying. I work with people with anti-social personality disorders. And she displays a lot of these symptoms. Lack of empathy, manipulation, narcissism. She is horrible.
Note that people with these disorders are not inherently terrible...like amber heard.
She reminds me of an abusive woman I know who manages to believe that she's always the victim.
I have knows a couple of people with such disorders and one who tried something similar to amber and this is for sure deception
If she’s narcissist it’s mental disorder and lack of sympathy and manipulative are symptoms, however abusive behaviour is the choice she made.
Still, she’s not guilty, yet.
I’m looking forward the conclusion.
@@bichen-up-ur No she isn't all bad. But notice how much judgment she is getting from women. This is because many women know what it's really like to be scared of a man. Also, Amber has used her beauty to get where she is. That's not a possibility for all women. Who have worked very hard to get where they are.
She’s a liar and it’s been obvious from the beginning. The fact that people are having problems knowing who’s the liar puzzles me. Everything she says and does screams lies to me.
Think they are both guilty of abuse. Just hers was way more physical/ child like. His seems more pain of being around someone who could do wonders in screwing with your head so much, that it ultimately leads to his ‘monster’ creeping into you. Just another example of the horrible toxic stories that plague the judicial system.
The defamation case, after all is said, should shine light on the fact that this was a REALLY bad situation. And there is no way that those drug and alcohol fights didn’t turn bad in many ways.
However, I still have to see all sides and evidence to know for sure. I didn’t start hearing any of this until this trail started.
@ pookiehoney, The more I’ve listened to their trial the clearer it is that she’s a lier like her father satan! No doubt in my mind now! I know Johnny’s memory is bad but he’s been a gentleman throughout this trial. I’m sure he’s no saint but compared heard, who is pure evil, Depp has my full support and sympathy!
@@kylejohnson6070 For any other person i would agree. However, anyone that knows Depp has purely possitive things to say about him, even his ex wife. Imagine an ex saying the guy was one of the nicest and sweetest guys she had met. While Amber has history of abuse.
In the audio that was released of Amber and Depp talking about it, Amber explicitly says that she hits him and treats him that way because he doesn't want to confront her. She says, "then why do you run away? why do yo leave?"
This tells me that Depp likes to avoid conflict. To me, that is quite telling that he didn't abuse her. Of course, abuse could have been emotional, we might never know. But, physical? I highly doubt it.
Now we might never know the full story, but I do not buy it one bit that they both were guilty of abuse. Again, any other guy and I might be a bit skeptical, but Depp?
And I am not a fan of his work, Jack Sparrow is his only character I actually liked. This is more looking into who Depp seems to be as a person.
Amber Heard has history of being abuser, for crying out loud. While Depp, even his ex says he is great.
She lieing
@@farrex0 I was just saying, I’m going to listen to the trail before I make a judgment. It’s only a week in.
Today, there has already been some pretty eye opening evidence. Some of the things he wrote to his friends, while on a bender, were horrible.
I couldn’t imagine what was being done behind closed doors.
At this point, I stick with the they are both “guilty” of being horrible people to each other.
1. What was very interesting to me was the comment about not being a "doormat this happens to all the time." Especially as you point out she's very prideful. I think she considers Johnny a doormat. She thinks he is pathetic for letting her do these things to him repeatedly.
2. The eye rolling and smirking and such when they were playing the clip of her talking about hitting Johnny came across as her reliving a moment she was proud of, not fearful of.
3. When she talks about Johnny calling a touch a "hit" and being "overdramatic" feels like victim blaming. It invalidates his fear of the moment by belittling his emotional response. That to me was a clear statement from an abuser.
Shows how she really feels about any woman suffering domestic abuse as well. Yet she's an ACLU ambassador for abused women.
Great comment, I agree 🙌
Absolutely
Yeah... I was gonna comment something like this. Like, I wouldn't even know what my partner would call being hit BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER HIT HIM. The fact that she knows what Johnny would call physical contact against him is beyond suspicious to me.
Alternately, she may be so insecure that she interprets anything other than compliance as an attack. If that's the case, she might very well believe, or at least convince herself she believes, that her actions were in some sense justified. If someone's thinking "I don't like how this person's making me feel, so they must be abusing me," then they would of course justify a lot of abusive behavior as "not being a doormat" -- it's the classic "you make me do this" line. Coupling that with her apparently not believing that physically attacking someone counts as abuse . . . I could absolutely see someone justifying horrific abuse, lashing out violently at imagined slights or because of their own mood swings, as sticking up for themselves and not being the victim.
Her lawyer frantically blurts out before she answers as if he knows she's incapable of telling the truth.
So true
because hes being payed to make sure the truth doesnt come to light.
He doesn’t want her to tell the truth.
@@chapachuu lol well yeah, he wont get his money if she does... and judging but how she fucked over her ex assistant and only paid her 50k while amber makes millions, i doubt his payday will even be that great.... lol lawyer is playing himself
I noticed that too she has a hell of a defense team cuz they have been super aggressive with the objections.
That right there is a major red flag for me. They don't want their guilty client putting her foot in her mouth.
As someone who grew up in a chaotic and abusive household, Amber reminds me so much of the abusive people in my family. You can clearly see that she CAN answer 'yes/no' questions, but only the ones where she doesn't feel "threatened," basically only answers if they benefit her in some way. And Johnny's smirking and making sarcastic comments reminds me so much of someone who has been through the ringer of an abusive, self-entitled narcissist and he's amused at the level of bullshit she gives. It's like you get so tired of all the lies and stories that you have the choice to either laugh at it or get angry, and usually when the person is more interested in peace-keeping, they just laugh it off and make jokes about it.
Anyway, awesome video! I love your content!
@Charity Jones
Yes I agree with you Charity. What struck me the most is that she's eating while testifying under oath. I think that's really bizarre. Why on earth would she think that's appropriate? If I had to testify I certainly wouldn't want to be eating at the same time. I'd worry that I wouldn't be taken seriously. I immediately thought she was lying when she couldn't remember where her injuries were and when she said that thing about "some version of my legs"
This description is so dead center accurate.
I love this comment!👌❤
I absolutely agree this guy nothing wrong with him but he even said im just here look at behavior so he is pretty playing devils advocate but his words and how long the video was about amber u can wat he really thinks he even told the view to tell each other how much of liar she is and yes Johnny Depp u can ethier laugh at pain or u can cry about Johnny depp decide to laugh at it amber choose nether so yeah it abovoius
Your spot on. I think she is lying about most of what she is testifying and the rest is embellished to make the victim's role more believable. I think her lawyers may have caught on to her fidgeting or "tells" and may have suggested for she eats something to keep her hands occupied. Just a theory. This seems to be a fairly informal courtroom or they may have been doing this via video because I have never seen anyone eat during a trial especially not while testifying and I watch a lot of Court cases. This tape and the others I have watched are at different times, this one appears to be earlier, perhaps when she first started this shit show in 2016. In the others, I've watched Mr. Deppstein have longer hair and a little bit fuller the face. He also spent showing the same cocky guy in this tape. You see the pain on his face as he recalls his childhood and when explaining his side of what went on. His sentences ate much more choppy, with a lot of hesitation while speaking. I watch recent interviews with him and there are pauses throughout the interviews and think this may be normal for him. It is a shame she is doing this to someone she once claimed to love. She may not have loved him at all. even in the tapes of them talking, she is in control of the conversation and says one thing and then denies ever saying it and gets very defensive if he says you just said....... There is something not right with her and wonder if she might be Bipolar due to her up and downs and almost manic behavior at times. Just my thoughts on this.
I love and respect that you kept it scientific and didn’t place moral judgement on anyone
No he did not! His performance indicates he never heard of forensic science - the injury he got is recorded and a forensic scientist can tell if that injury was inflicted from a bottle or punching a wall or none of these..... but you will not find any of them at MIT. 🤫 He is selling BS 😎
I do too. Also, the call to MIT is hilarious.
Yeah his voice sounded attack like on Amber there's proof that he hit a staff member and has kicked things around and thrown things around and even video of him doing that when Amber's not even around he does have a drug problem drugs to make you more violent don't get me wrong Amber has her own issues I don't think they should have gotten together in the first place they both fall asleep grew up with domestic violence cuz of their issues and when I took woman supports shelter meetings we weren't supposed to judge each other cuz we all grew up with abuse and some not going to judge either of them but they both need help and drug rehab
Body Language analysis is a pseudo-science, not a science.
@@jasminefrichtl806 ,
I was an abused woman from someone who took everything from me, including my kids. We would be at a dinner with friends and I would over hear him telling a story but after a few words would realize that it was "my" story and experience that I told him about. The way she tells her story is how my ex would tell my story. Contents is there but emotions and experience is not. Karma always comes around...stay true and the truth will always come out.
Side note: Pleasant end to my story after 13 years away from my kids they are back in my life and won't talk to him. AND they turned out good!
Happy that you get to finally have the peace and happiness you deserve 🙂 Thankyou for the honesty
That's interesting. I overheard my late husband complaining to his therapist that he was soo "touched out", mimicking what I would say about breastfeeding and taking care of our daughter and wanting a moment to myself at the end of the day (she was one year old). Couldn't believe it. Literally nobody was touching him! I wonder what else he said from me. Its a pretty crazy experience.
I'm experiencing someone in my life repeating My stories. Why do you think they do this?
More importantly, how do you get them to stop?! Anyone know?
( #SSchmid, Happy your kids have seen the light. Best wishes! 💗)
@@Valen_Wolf I was wondering the same thing. My ex used to steal the stories he did to me and tell them to people. So it’s like, they realize it’s not the right thing to do and make people pity them for the very thing they did to us?
I’m so proud of you dear human. I’m deeply sorry you went through that, & now watching a woman COMPLETELY dismiss SUCH a serious SITUATION, that changes a women’s lives forever & she’s using this to get money & ruin someone else’s life. THAT MUST BE HARD TO WATCH. I’m sending you virtual love & light ❤️🙏🏻🥹
I’ve served on a jury trial, and jurors don’t like witnesses who roll their eyes, over explain things, play games with the lawyers, etc. We have a serious job and we are looking for help to make an important decision, and when witnesses do that it wastes our time and makes the whole thing more confusing. That’s where we urgently want people to “tell” us, not to “sell” us.
Lame
Yes but did you see Alejandro Romero yesterday?? How would that have played with the jury, I’m so curious 🧐 He had me in splits, loved the guy! JD loved him too, won’t be surprised if he has him in a future movie if his career is allowed to bloom again
eye roll and that " you are not at my level" is so disrespecting to other peope. rude.
Eye rolling is the only thing that really made an impact when I served on a jury trial. Saw a lot of over explanation and games and it had little to no effect whatsoever on our decision-making... but the eye rolls certainly got people riled up
She is in not a witness though. Also, many ppl served as part of a jury trial, that does not make them qualified in that way at all. Most ppl (talking in general) are way too subjective to be qualified for any jury trial, yet they randomly select random ppl
She acts like this is such an inconvenience, has no respect for the court, is totally above all this, constantly searches for answers, has crazy facial expressions, and eye movements, constantly looking down. By far the perfect example of a narcissist. Between the two Depp's answers seem more accurate and honest. I wish a psychological exam was allowed in defamation cases.
No she’s on drugs lol I thinks she’s on percs
" has crazy facial expressions, and eye movements, constantly looking down." Drugs........ hahaha
Carol Morris you have copied your comment from another channel, which I watched earlier. you naughty girl......these are not your observations at all LOL
good point!
Evil! Narcissistic
I love how at some point he just gives up and is like; "yeah na, that's just deception".
Tried to stay neutral for as long as possible, but even he couldnt take all her bs haha.
Lol
Was thinking exactly the same.
Where would he even start with the new testimony. The mind boggles.
22:03 I'm just going to put this here
She's banking on people believing her or, at the *very least* , being that person _like in the beginning of this video_ that says "I don't want to be the person that calls her a liar or doesn't take it seriously."
I understand why someone would feel that way, but it's a very dangerous place for society to be in. It basically turns into "it's socially unacceptable to call me a liar, so they must believe I'm telling the truth."
I'm really glad it didn't actually work out that way for her.
Johnny Depp’s deposition reads to me as someone who uses a lot of self-deprecating humor but also as someone who was FURIOUS about the “one more way for [Amber] to hurt you, huh?” comment.
But he’s not furious at the interviewer. I think he’s furious at AMBER for doing that to him AND at HIMSELF for staying in that abusive situation. I think he’s got a lot of self-directed shame and self-directed anger that he wasn’t mentally or emotionally strong enough to leave her sooner.
I think that when this was recorded he was still blaming himself for “allowing” it (which he shouldn’t because he was manipulated into staying with her), rather than blaming Amber for actually DOING it.
I think he’s doing the mouth touching because he really just wants to cuss and rant about the situation but he can’t because it’s a recorded deposition. He’s still holding a lot of that anger inside at this time.
And i think he mentions the scientists and physicians because he just really wants someone to believe him and can PROVE with indisputable FACTS that he didn’t do this to himself. He hasn’t had a chance to tell anyone the truth and feel like he was actually BELIEVED when he said that Amber did this. He’s still very much dealing the trauma of the situation and coming to terms with the fact that Amber did this because that’s just who she is, rather than because of anything he did. (Because guaranteed, Amber has told him “i wouldn’t hurt you if you didn’t make me so angry” and he’s STILL trying to unlearn that.)
I agree with you and think you are so right. This is a insightful comment into the victim, Johnny Depp
I know this is a year later, you probably don't recall this comment. It's my first time reading it and I have to say, it really resonated with me. 2 of the reasons I touch my mouth: I'm trying to listen and reminding myself not to interrupt, or; I'm feeling emotions I don't want to express, rage,grief, shame. Neither time am I lying. I'm just actively trying to stop myself expressing emotion.
Your explanation of Johnny's thoughts/actions made me relate and I've never heard it put so well. Thank you.
She’s lying. She’s lying. She’s lying.
It’s funny how Johnny was in a 20 year plus relationship with someone who is now vouching for him, saying he’s not violent. All of a sudden he’s a monster?? I don’t think so.
Many many many people that have known him his entire career say the same thing. He’s not a violent man. He’s chill and cares deeply about people close to him. Hes even had the same people on his staff for 20 some odd years… she’s lying. Straight up.
This.
Abusers have a history.
While I agree that Heard was abusive, I have seen the recordings of Depp where he is extremely intoxicated/high and violent. Smashing and breaking things, yelling, grabbing her phone etc. Not to mention the text messages of Depp talking about killing Heard.
It seems like they were both abusing one another.
@@MariaGabrielle10 He grabbed her phone because his mother had just died & amber was filming him. How the fuck would you feel if your mother died and then your friend, instead of comforting you, took a video of you?
@@MariaGabrielle10 Bruh. If you’ve been abused, it does weird sh*t to your head and fucks up your mental health. It’s so obvious Amber’s someone who doesn’t care, a liar and a manipulator. And most of the “evidences” of Depp being “violent”, which is mostly him being violent to himself, instead of Amber helping him, she records him; so that she can have proof that she’s a good person, she’s just so disgusting. And those “bruises” that she shows as proof of abuse? Ain’t that sh*t just makeup? If those were “bruises” were real, it wouldn’t look like that. And not only that, don’t forget the make up company, and I repeat THE MAKEUP COMPANY said that the makeup she USED to hide her “bruises” didn’t even f*cking EXIST during the time of event. And Depp is backed up with his past wives ( one of such they were with for *20 years* ), multiple people, friends, etc; that he’s a good person, if he’s an abuser, his past wives would not defend him. And in the court room, Amber and her lawyer keeps on making annoying/frustrating actions like the lawyer repeating himself when he asks Depp questions, If I was in Depp’s place I would be so annoyed, like aren’t you a lawyer why you acting like a broken recorder? And if they have such a hard time trying to prove that Depp was abusive maybe, just *maybe* it was because he wasn’t abusive in the first place?
TL;DR: Amber’s a liar and manipulator, who abused Depp with actual proof, instead of made up sh*t and lies. Her “bruises” that she hid with makeup, the Make-up company replied that it did not exist/made during the time of event. And if Depp was the abuser, he wouldn’t be backed up by multiple people that he’s a good person. Facts and proof always come through, than words with no proof nor evidence.
@@MariaGabrielle10 you like many people are comparing constant physical and mental abuse to a one time occurrence where depp was 1.intoxicated, 2. Deeply emotional because of his then recent mother's passing, 3. Assaulting household *items* / *furniture* . I am talking about the one video used as evidence, which I personally believe was manipulated to show depp as unstable and abusive while he was in a very bad state. The "assault" was not directed to Amber at all but Depp did get mad at her for recording him while he was in that state. Note that he grabbed her phone but did not assault Heard in any way. As for the texts, yeah those were pretty bad and they were also before marriage if I remember correctly, but they just show how rough the relationship was and it was one of the many instances where Depp was being over dramatic while intoxicated on texts.
Honestly, the fact that any person Johnny Depps been intimate with in the past has turned around and called this bullshit speaks volumes about his character. He literally carries around his Jack Sparrow costume so he can visit kids in hospitals. Then the whole recorded conversation where she threatened to do this exact thing to him. I hope Depp can get back some of his life, cause I honestly do believe she's completely lying.
I hear that, but his relationship with Heard was during the same time his addictions were getting completely out of control. Addiction can make good, gentle people behave in horrible, violent ways.
@@O2life why do you think his addictions became out of control? Are you aware he was actually clean and sober a few years before he got involved with Heard? She's a drug addicted alcoholic too but because she's got a pretty face pretty much everyone ignores that fact
@@O2life you weren't there. You don't know. Heard's personal assistant testified that Amber was a sloppy drunk and snorted cocaine and downed pills. Depp was pretty clean until he hooked up with her--he's pushing 60 and he's trying to keep up with a woman closer to his daughter's age. On top of that, she's a narcissist who flaunted her disdain for the law by smuggling two dogs into Australia and barely avoided jail. She's mistreated waiters at high end restaurants--all of whom talk and say they all hope she doesn't sit at one of their tables because she makes impossible demands and never leaves a tip, no matter how high the bill is. One waiter said that she ordered the most expensive wine on the menu, and he tried to advise her that the age of the wine might not suit her palate--she told him to shut up and get the wine. He did. She took one sip and spit it back out at him, staining his clothing, and after a string of expletives, demanded a different wine and said she wasn't going to pay for "that s**t." She had several of her friends at the dinner table and they all laughed, except for Depp, who had no friends with him, and seemed quite embarrassed by her disrespectful antics. At the end of the dinner Depp slipped the waiter the amount for the discarded wine and a generous tip. And these are just the stories I've been told.
@@kyrilascully7828 his point stands that people can change for whatever reasons...
@@feederdiaries4862 they certainly can, but you'd first need to prove he was dealing with addiction at that time to make the point relevant in any way.
I love how open- minded you are, and neutral you are. I hate how most cops, judges, investigators pretend to be human lie detectors. Being nervous, or anxious always make someone look deceptive so it’s good to consider these things.
The fact that she can stomach food while retelling her 'abuse' speaks volumes to me.
She's definitely lying. However, it's important to remember that some people eat to comfort themselves.
i rarely take the time to 'like' a video, but this guy got one out of me early with how insightful and blatant he was about attributing the 'shifty eyes' thing to straight-up snobbishness. it was the kind of insight where you kind of already knew that, but then you hear someone articulate it so accurately and concisely it just makes you wanna say "EXACTLY!" i dont know why im even watching this in the first place, but that was a great intro to this man's content.
i read comments first before i watch
I just liked and subscribed right away. I rarely subscribe to people but this guy is the first guy that is actually correct. I see a lot of people who do videos like this that are horribly wrong and they are just running off at the mouth with BS. But this guy has hit it right on the head (no pun intended).
I agree with you 100! I could watch him all day long.. his depth of knowledge is fascinating to me.
It just looks like a clear case of manipulation to me...from Ms Heard of course. She's been doing it for years to JD, and now she's trying it with the public. But she's not a particularly likeable character...so she's having to work harder, and it's not working. She's just not a very good actress at the end of the day.
"She's just not a very good actress at the end of the day"
Ouch!
@@UnknownDino Just my opinion…based on what I’ve seen ☺️
Shes disrespectful. Point blank. Who eats at a deposition?
You got it
What's For Tea? Amber is incredibly unlikeable. Especially for women & she must know this on some level. That's why she didn't want this trial televised.
Depp knew exactly where he was, how he was hit, even his posture at the time; Heard couldn't for sure say if she'd been hit, or how, or even where.
Recalling traumatic memories will be linked to what we were sensing at the time. Amygdala in the brain deals with fear and memories tied with fear and what to avoid in the furure. Heard shows no fear or distress when thinking about her aledged abuser. Depp shows a lot of recollection about exactly how he ended up getting injured, ie. where his hand was placed at the time.
Depp is specific, and clearly shows signs of revisiting memories. Heard is not very specific, and shows signs of telling a story. Whether true or not, it's a story rather than a memory.
Yeah, exactly. She recalled irrelevant information about who called out what and what the person's name was and stuff like that. Meanwhile, Johnny Depp, as you said, recalled very specific details that were about what *he* was feeling. Amber Heard said simply that she got hit, and she described how the glass shattered, but she didn't describe the way her injuries looked or felt OR EVEN WHAT INJURIES THEY WERE.
THANK YOU!!! I’m genuinely tired of ppl saying that professionals are wrong and bring up irrelevant information. Like Johnny being a narcissist. I’ve never seen that and they haven’t either so it’s a speculation bc he’s popular. On the other hand Heard shows a lack of caring about how she was effected other than “it may have cut some version of my leg” she is very clear in her non verbal communication that she’s trying to make herself seem the most believable while Johnny recounts the facts down to the exact position and type of injury sustained. She paints a big picture while Johnny paints smaller more detailed ones connecting to physical and emotional effects of situations. Sorry for the rant, just triggered the adhd brain and I LOVE psychology
@@katiekat1869 Psychology is certainly very interesting, especially in cases like this where we can guess / extrapolate information about the people based on their verbal and non-verbal choices.
Unlike other celebrity cases, this one has proved to be interesting on a fundamental level, and not just because of who the people are.
@@ShockwaveDawn absolutely! Non-verbal communication is a crazy concept. Like I started learning about that last year and there is so much said without the use of words. Johnny’s smirks and facial movement alone can tell you whether he is being any kind of deceitful, sad, and when he feels like he’s giving an uncomfortable answer but is honest anyway. Heard literally has to fix herself after smirking several times as well as has to force her attention shown by constant note taking and forcing herself to look at Johnny with her shifting glances more than the deposition tape showed. Very interesting to me.
Plus his body language especially today correlates with a person having been abused and then having to sit across from their abuser. Avoided eye contact at all costs and dissociated through his drawing. Can’t blame him in the least.
As someone who grew up with a "wild" family dynamic I could tell from one minute of her testimony that she was lying about pretty much everything. It's so transparent that I can't fathom how anyone could take her seriously.
I don't know how to describe it, but it's just blatantly obvious to me.
As a formerly abused spouse, I see more (what seems like to me) honesty in his recounting of the abuse than in hers.
Me too.
Yup! I agree as a former abuse child and spouse. Its amazing what sime good therapy can do to see it.
I know, when I recount my abuse its through a clenched jaw with blank eyes, I cannot allow myself to feel what I'm talking about , she is eating snacks and trying to convince people of her story because its exactly that, a story
I can see that .. however Depp is a MUCH better actor than Heard. Anyone that has worked with talent even on the lowest level like a news cast on up knows there is an on camera and off camera personality. Depp this might be his on camera personality while Heard it might be more of her off camera personality showing through. There are layers of entitlement and dismissiveness coming from her but at the same time Depp does not seem that far off from a talk show interview or even his selling cologne.
Depp seems more convincing because he his specific to his finger being wounded and even showed it. While Heard doesn't remember where the bottle/glass hit her. Though to be fair she said it shattered so it likely hit her in multiple places if that happened and probably didn't really cause wounds or wounds that are worth remembering.
@@ronpetersen2317 Well, I guess with actors one has to always take that into consideration and look for the signs that are subconscious and hard to control or mimic.
As Heard tells her story, I feel like she’s daring the listener to disbelieve her. She also waffles with the “facts” - which makes me question if her experience was firsthand. When Depp relays his experience - his sarcasm invites the listener to ponder the ridiculousness of his tragic marriage to Heard. And he is spot on with the information he shares; as if he’s replaying the incident in his mind’s eye. IMO Depp’s testimony is the most credible.
Yes, she is SO confident that she will be believed… remember on the tape when she was taunting JD , saying “they’ll never believe you…” she’s that fucked in the head. Also didn’t this happen during the “me too” movement? That gave her even more arrogance
@@user-iu3cy2tx3c That incident happened right before the “me too” movement (AND they made Heard their poster child!!). Her narcissism is so evident in those recordings. Some scary stuff. I can’t wait ‘till she’s put on the stand. 😵
When asked yes/no questions, she didn’t give a one word response. Instead, she added more information to pivot and emphasize her version.
Johnny Depp doesn’t give a straight answer either. I don’t think he’s helping his case, even though it’s obvious Amber Turd is a liar. The way she talks reminds me of Casey Anthony.
Yes, she would have come across much better if she gave simple direct answers. Yes, no, how much so, etc. I felt like she was dancing around because telling a complete flat out lie made her uncomfortable, possibly because it could come back to bite her later. People like her know it's a lot easier to say "that's not what I meant" later, because they were not straightforward when explaining.
I would be doing the same thing he is doing if that were my only way to tell my side of it and not having been able to for so long. He does answer he just gives more than the answer. She skates around even answering.💝
I don't know why, but my gut feeling is always telling me that: She's dangerous.
When I look at her, the way she presents herself, even today after 6 years, she scares me...
like my primal instinct is telling me, don't mess with her.
I just wanted to point it out there.
Same. Scary!
She doesn’t show any signs of trauma from domestic abuse. She’s laughing, smiling and eating and her eyes are revealing who’s lying. I’m not partial to JD because I don’t like some things he has said in the past but in his testimony I believe he’s sincere, honest about his failures which shows humility.
Do you know how ridiculous your comment is? My mother was abused by my father. She was regularly slapped, kicked and punched around the kitchen, along with the disgusting verbal assault. The next morning, she would have a smile on her face for us kids, fix her hair and put her lipstick on and go out and give a huge smile to the world. No one and I mean no one outside of our house knew my mum was being beaten up by my father. I am sure there are abused women who can relate to my mum's story..
@@skygazer6898 you’ve totally missed the point. All of her body language shows she is a narcissist and not a victim. That is the point.
@@TashaOrmiston exactly! This is not the face of an abused woman...it's the face of a narcissist. She's eating for God's sake!! If I wanted and needed someone to believe that I was being abused, that I was hurting to my core because of the abuse that has taken place, you better believe I'd put the m&m's down and look directly into the eyes of the authorities or anyone for that matter who would listen, and out of natural desperation, i would pour my heart out to them, begging them to believe, understand and feel, exactly what I'm trying to get across. There wouldn't be a question in anyone's mind whether or not I was being abused in whatever form you're being abused in, just by looking into my eyes, looking into the entire demeanor of my body itself. Yes, you may manage to put a happy smile on for your kids because with kids if you're a good strong mother that is what you do, or neighbors to avoid being the topic of neighborhood gosspi... but that is because victims of abuse keep their presence and verbal interactions they encounter with Sally the next door neighbor to a bare minimum, to escape the possibility of blowing their own cover and that of their abuser. Sadly, over time, the victim starts to slowly protect their abuser. If the victim has managed to become not just physically and emotionally abused, but mentally abused to that point of not knowing how to manage simple life tasks without fear ,then the abuse becomes so intolerable, that the victim does anything to avoid upsetting their perpetrator.
Amber Heard had enough money to get herself on a private jet and hide on an island somewhere with private security...just like a truly abused person would do if they had that opportunity and privilege...but no, instead amber heard is eating pretzels, peanuts or whatever the hell she's snacking on, while making undeniably inappropriate smirks. She is shameless.she is calculated, and in my opinion, that's the worst type of abuser. When you can feel their narcissism in your veins... not that you too are becoming one, but that split second you realize that they hold so much power and controll over your mind, body and soul. That they have also now sunk to the level of sucking whatever little bit of life left in you out, until there is no life left to take. They still won't be finished with you. And you still will not satisfy the narcissists hunger for destruction.
@@skygazer6898 the type your mom and Miss Heard are apples and oranges. Miss Heard wants the world to think she was abused.
Can I just ask what you're referring to when you say: ' ' I don't like *some things* he said in the past' '. (Just curious)
I didn't know her, she seems pretty unstable to me, condescending to the point of being obnoxious and trying to hide tremendous insecurity, I think she is eating as a way of demonstrate that she is beyond all this questions and not nervous at all, but she only achieves to look weird. Didn't know she was an actress, and based on this acting, I guess she is not a particularly good one. As always, is a pleasure to watch your analysis!
I’m so thankful you are reviewing this case! I have rendered my own opinion, I can’t wait to finish this. I had to stop and show you some appreciation!🙏
I imagine she knows that all aspects of her performance will be judged and analysed, including facial tells, and by eating it hides many tells that people often look for. Maybe it's a mask?
I wondered if the eating was a cover for deceptive body language.
Shes an actor,and this is probley goining to need to pull of the best act ever,
I disagree about her not being a good actress. She managed to lure Johnny Depp , to a point where he married her. And managed to dupe the Mee Too movement. Into believing her narrative. Not that I believe her versions of events.
LMAO - that face when the lawyer asks "are you done"... her expression, if looks could kill. You don't miss anything my man! Officially a fan of this channel lol
Her most distracting habit is her blank-faced expression and wandering eyes, for me. I find her facial expression and way she holds her head to be VERY haughty, and just as you described it. She gives off a suffocating air of superiority and indifference to the people around her and the matters being dealt with. I'm amazed that an actress can't even mask that while she's under the microscope in a deposition.
I'm amazed that she has the gall to SNACK too... that is the most gobsmackingly elitist behaviour I could never imagine someone doing in such a scenario... and it does not help if she is truly the victim of abuse, to be sitting there looking bored and shoving food into her mouth. I don't think there's a single person who has experienced abuse who would watch that and think that's something we could envision ourselves doing while discussing our trauma. Unless it's her personal way of dissociating as a coping mechanism, it is very odd behaviour that doesn't make many people want to sympathise with her.
If you look up photos of her on the red carpet / event photographs where she's posing for the paparazzi / media, notice how often she poses with her chin up. Not many people do that. I'm by no means a behavioural analyst but find the field fascinating (so I'd consider it a fun hobby).. but doesn't that reflect her personality so well? That is not the posture of a beaten down individual. To me, nothing says "I'm better than you" than her subconscious mannerisms.
1000% agree
I thought the same
This will likely be my one and only defense of AH, and only regarding the SNACK. These depositions went on for hours & hours, probably days for AH & JD, so it’s not surprising that she was eating a snack. There are likely snacks in the room & other people eating too. However, it’s not a great look out of context.
@@stevenderushe8883 That's true. Surely they would've been allowed 10-15 min breaks though, if it went on for many hours? Just like in court - everyone needs breaks - food, hydration, toilet.
Either way, I guess I just found it really jarring and an odd/poor choice of food given the circumstances. You'd want something more discreet, surely? Like a nourishing shake/drink.. something that wouldn't impede on your speech due to chewing, food getting stuck in your teeth, the sound of munching away, and the unfortunately blase way it looks to throw snacks into your pie hole lol. You'd think everyone would come prepared for a big day like that, with a bag packed with enough food and drinks to get you through it (like they have their own drinks at the trial). Could've brought protein shakes or something?
But we all think differently.. maybe she didn't know what to expect...
You are SO right! 🥰
His first clip: he is behaving as someone who has experienced trauma and has not healed. He is vulnerable. That small laugh I recognize as what I do when I feel vulnerable and emotional. To break up the tension within. The sadness. Helps stop crying. He paused because he was emotional. That’s how it *looked* to me.
Second clip: he found what she said ridiculous. This is his reaction to what he considered absolutely ridiculous and he smirks/chuckles because he believes everyone would agree. And I personally do think it’s ridiculous and that most would agree. It was incredulous. To this day he can’t believe she said that/gave that explanation for what happened to his finger. He touched his face like someone that has had to deal with her gaslighting and lies for some time (overwhelmed). To me he is thinking , ‘Incant believe I’m living in this moment.’ That’s what it *looks* like to me.
Amber cannot contain her aggression even during this interrogation which is, of course, a serious matter and no place for aggression. No matter if you’re innocent or not, you at least have the capacity to know you’re in the middle of something serious. Yet her wandering eyes and tones and expressions of condescending attitudes tells me she has little regard for people in general. She sees the interrogator as her enemy. At the same time she doesn’t “care.” At the same time, she wants to say the right thing. At the same time, it doesn’t matter. Very confusing in the way a person mentally unwell/dysfunctional takes other people to confusing spaces.
I believe there is an underlying theme within her regarding this whole ordeal: she thinks it is open and shut that they are both going to lose something and she is most probably right.
This is going to sound bold, but I think she seeks however many hits of dopamine from his suffering possible. In her head none of it matters because they both lose, but at least she’s not alone in that. She wants him to get the worse end of “the deal.”
😨😨 Your last paragraph...wow. I think you nailed it.
I agree, you nailed it. Sick.
I totally agree with your observation.
Exactly my thoughts
She’s a narcissist & he is still her supply sadly, she will be revelling in his private life & difficulties being made public knowledge too!
Holy crap.... she looks exactly what my x-wife looked like in front of a domestic violence judge after we went to trial when she falsely accused me of striking her. I just thought she was a bad liar, now I understand a bit more about body language. My x would also give me that "dismissive" look with looking away and opening her mouth. For years I thought that was some type of facial tick. Man, learning soooo much after the fact. Fortunately for me my particular event was captured on video. But apparently the judge in my case must have been well versed in Reading body language because it seemed as if he had my ex figured out before he even saw the video evidence. In any event, studying body language is absolutely fascinating
congrats on having escaped...hope life is much better & happier -- & more peaceful -- for you.
You know you beat her up. Why would your wife take you to court for domestic violence. I highly doubt she woke up one morning and said oh I'll go to court and lie say my husband is abusive. The man I love I'll ruin him for the fun of it. That she thinks it's funny to see you in court to defend yourself from lies. Ya ok tell us a different tale. I think it's funny you beat your wife and you deny it just to make yourself look good to whoever reads this. Your wife took you in front of a domestic violence judge because she was fed up with the domestic violence caused by YOU and YOURSELF ONLY. a person especially a wife don't decide to bring the man she married and loves to court for domestic violence unless it's true. You should man up and admit your a wife beater. What was the outcome. You were found guilty. Of domestic violence. Obviously there was enough proof that it went as far as going to trial in Front of the judge. She filed a complaint with the police department and they investigated her claims and found enough evidence that she was telling the truth. She took pictures of the bruises you gave her not to mention witnesses to the violence. There needs to be enough evidence and proof of a crime being committed by anyone before they go on trial for said crime. And when your wife the brave soul she is went to the cops to report the domestic violence she was enduring by you they investigated her claims. But that is ok you can say she is lieing you believe that. But you know you beat your wife. I'm guessing on more than one occasion. She was scared of you. And you beat her. Did you feel like a big man everytime you battered her. Did you feel like a big man everytime she would cry for you to stop. Did you get off everytime she cried and screamed in fear of you. I'm sorry but a wife who is in a loving marriage don't decide out of the blue to make up false claims that her husband is a abusive to her and beats her daily. Your a coward. Hope you got what you deserved.
I have at times given that dismissive look when I have got so tired of the other person lying, or going on, and on about their own opinion as fact, and not being prepared or open to listening to the ideas and opinions of others. I need to learn how to deal with this kind of situation when I find myself in it, in a healthy way for myself and the other. I tend to avoid confrontation. I also want to add, that when I do so and also open my mouth, it's because I want to say something, but realise it's futile and I feel very frustrated, or even tired, and at times finally bored by it all, especially if it happens very often with the same person. Of course it's best to simply avoid them, but certain situations, or times make it literally impossible, and I feel trapped. I think it's my way of saying I want out of this, due to fear of verbalizing this. I want them to pick up on my signs and stop, or move on, or away. I really have much to learn.
@@elopez412 what a cruel and unnecessary thing to say Eddie Lopez
Sometimes people for good or bad can have a belief they hold so strong although it is wrong it is based on their feelings, or their own world view in a way that isn't based on reality. They can become delusional and act as if it is the reality. Glad you got out the other side.
This woman is very, very unwell. Narcissism is impenetrable. Most are still unaware that to treat a narcissist as normal is a big mistake. In intimate relationship it is crazy-making beyond belief. There is no one there. The host of Behavioral Arts, on the other hand, is wonderfully alive, present and intelligent. A real pleasure to listen to his analyses.
I can’t diagnose her but she demonstrates narcissistic and borderline personality disorder behaviors.
I hope Johnny knows he has support by so many.
Well said.
It's borderline personality disorder. Lights are on, but nobody's home. She's a lost child trying to cover up her lies.
@@TheDarkness1 Why is your comment not showing up? I can read it because I contributed to the thread but this and two other comments are hidden when I click on _replies._
I like how civilized your comment is
Everything about her expressions and behavior makes my skin crawl. All the alarm bells in my gut are screaming "Liar!" Johnny feels real and trustworthy to me, even if he's not honest about everything.
I think that in Amber’s mind, she’s in the right even if she was the aggressor. She may very well be a narcissist and may also issues of self entitlement.
Narcissists are always right lol
I thought she was diagnosed with BPD and ADHD, or least she took (abused) medication for ADHD.
She is a malignant narcissist.
Correction...she most definitely IS a narcissist.
yes she's a Narsassist
I am someone who gets "hunches" about bad people, some strange gut instincts, even from just seeing some pictures of them. I never know why, and I can never explain why, I just do, and sadly (yes sadly, because I don't *want* to be right about such a thing) I have never, ever been wrong. I saw clips and pictures of AH (I refuse to use her name) long before she was with Johnny Depp and immediately got that "hunch". Fast forward to now, seeing her behaviour in these clips makes me feel physically sick; I look at her, it's like looking at my abusers. The jeering, gleeful, sneering, butter-wouldn't-melt faces from my past. I have been abused in various ways many times in my life from when I was young - maybe this is why I developed my instincts - and I thought when this whole saga first came out, people would see through her facade. But no, she, for so many years, has got away with this twisted, manipulative bull that she's peddling.
In contrast, I look at the clips of Johnny Depp and my heart actually breaks. The smirks, the smiles, the pushing the hair back, the little bits of sarcasm? That's someone who is a) goes into these things fighting and with a bit of spark, because he knows that he's on the back foot because AH plays up so well to the "poor little princess" story and he's been here so many times now, he knows how this is gonna go; b) smiles and laughs when talking about physical and/or mental pain that he has experienced because it's simultaneously embarrassing as it feels like you're complaining and drawing attention to youself, feels like you're opening yourself up to judgement and criticism, and feels like your soul is bleeding once more from recalling it again and you don't want to be emotional about it; c) is just so freaking tired of living this hell for the last however many years that it's become kinda comical now, almost like some kind of horror show that you just need to laugh at.
Do I think he punched a wall? Absolutely. You know why? Because when you live in hell and you cannot escape no matter how hard you try and your emotions are shattered but you don't want to ask for help and you tell yourself you should be strong enough to take it but every way you look at it, you know you're gonna lose... a tiny bit of your sanity dissolves. And suddenly punching that wall seems like a great idea. But then you realise, in the long run, it's just something else for your manipulative abuser to use against you. Which is exactly what AH is doing; "I severed his finger by throwing a bottle at him? Oh no, pay no attention to that, LOOK! He punched a wall, he must be a psycho! And uuhhh, that's how his finger got severed!" Johnny knows this. He also knows if he admits he punched a wall, that would be all they want to hear. Never mind why he did it, never mind that it wasn't by doing that that severed his finger, never mind that he did it because he was dying inside. I look at Johnny, and I see the abused person; I see me.
I hear you. She has a cold, smug, narcissistic gaze throughout all of this testimony. I know, without having had any body language training, that she is the abuser. I have always listened to my instincts about people, and I’ve never once been wrong when it comes to narcissists. This woman is selfish, controlling & abusive. And JD shows the emotional reactions of someone who had to deal with an absolutely impossible & cruel person.
I even find myself wondering if this entire scenario was her plan all along: play on all his emotions, smear him, ruin him, and finally take as much of his money as she can. If she was a better actress, she may even have convinced everyone. But she’s really not (though probably thinks she is, as narcissists tend to do) - so an enormous number of us were able see right through what she’s done/is doing.
My heart breaks for the reasons behind your analysis...I'm so sorry for your experiences. You seem to be a real survivor though, the sort of person who will excel and succeed, no matter what you face and have faced in the past.
I agree with everything you said (I'm still in the middle of the video, but I've seen the footage he's watching before). I seem to continually find myself in various cycles of abuse, my therapist has been teaching me how to trust my gut feelings, but the analytical side of me wants some measure of security and protection against falling into the same situations with different abusers...so I'm going to be watching all of the videos he makes on the trial and everything, because I also see myself reflected in varying degrees in Depp's experiences. The mind games and emotional manipulation in particular have been difficult to hear in some of the clips from the trial (to the point where I haven't even been able to finish watching big parts of AH's stuff).
Anyway, all this to say I agree with you, and I hope he knows how helpful these videos are to people who have faced similar things and want to avoid falling into the same things in the future. Confirmation that I can trust my gut, I suppose, and that I'm not crazy, context clues to look back on and confirm I was right to leave those abusers behind, even when it was hard.
Anyway...I think you're right, I agree with you, and I hope you are finding all the healing and peace that you deserve 💙
@Ara I wish I saw the signs before I got into a relationship with my abuser. Maybe now after it all happened I am able to recognise it more but I also doubt myself a lot. I was wondering what you think about the Marilyn Manson/ Evan Rachel Wood case. Do you have a hunch about that? I feel like Manson has an odd vibe, not just the make up and such. But now they say Evan is making it all up and linking it to this Depp/Heard case. Do you think she’s telling the truth?
you speak my mind here
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. Hope you are feeling great and much better now.
When she recorded Johnny being sick and making those noises that he felt sounded like an animal when she recorded that most wives would be rushing to the aid of someone that sounded like they were in terrible distress instead she's laughing and recording him how despicable
*edit: Sorry for the rant to follow about shit like this I've heard about over the past year or two. Just had to comment and thank you for pointing that out.
Sadly I find things like this occurring more and more often with less and less criticism, I don't know how so many people can laugh at a loved ones misery, even more so if they have the gall to record it.
While it happens to both genders, I've seen an increase in toxic women (*disclaimer below) doing this and not facing criticism after degrading and humiliating their partners as if they're meant to be their entertainment, and laughing at their misery when something happens. Things like getting injured, sick, the worst were finding out a family member died- that one really pissed me off- and sadly quite often finding out they were cheated on/cucked. I don't know how some people can be so proud of hurting someone who was loyal and loved them.
(*Disclaimer from in the statement above* Not all women, obviously, possibly either a larger portion compared to before or it's just become more apparent with the Internet. Sadly, I've seen a lot of women defend or support their behavior as acceptable or even commendable somehow which definitely makes me worry since in some way those women wish to act the same... Regardless, I still choose to believe there are many good women who would be repulsed by such actions.)
It's important to note it's not the same as poking fun at a loved ones small mistake, trying to reduce the burden of it, I'm talking about sadistic like pleasure from the humiliation and suffering of someone they claim to love.
Regardless of gender, it's vile and I don't get how it's becoming more and more acceptable/overlooked.
While teasing someone over a small mishap or an old injury may be fine, blatant disregard for and deriving pleasure from others misery should be seen as a major red flags that something's wrong. It's especially significant because it often only gets taken seriously in hindsight when accusations come and serious mental and possibly physical damage has already been done. As an older sibling, if I caught their partner enjoying my sibling suffering, I'd be very worried and heavily pushing for them to watch for red flags and be careful, if not straight up leave or seek relationship counseling.
I don't know how people can laugh or blow off such awful behavior. It honestly terrifies the shit out of me to see someone enjoying others suffering- whether it be mental, physical or both.
Or her recording him when he was distraught over his mother's death.
That's chick is too much. And she's ruining both of their careers. So I hope she's happy. Enough people love Johnny Depp so he might come back. But she's not that good at all. So this is going to finish her. Or I would think anyways
@@yro277 I think it's disgusting that she's done this. I married someone like this that wanted to destroy me for nothing but loving the wrong person. When they cheated & finally beat me up bad. I left but in his eyes the woman wasn't supposed to end the relationship he was. And I was supposed to fall apart without him. When I didn't...omg he made me pay. I've lost everything cuz of him. Including the daughter that him & shared. She was beautiful & only wanted a dad & he wasn't capable of it to her. He used her to hurt me. It did alot if damage til my daughter took her life a year ago next mth being May.
So I feel what this man is feeling. Oh thank God my wasn't as public as what Depp is going through. I can't imagine what someone like him would go through with everything being made so publicly. It's terrible what she's doing. All man wanting to date her after this should proceed with MAJOR CAUTION...LOL
@@heathergatfield667
Sorry to hear that had happened, that kind of thing is something I wouldn’t wish any parent to go through, you have my sincere condolences. Really, I hate that anyone’s gone through these situations, thank you for sharing your story and insight.
As I said before, it happens with both genders and I always find it appalling, I wish there was a way to forewarn others what kind of person they are, for the sake of those who can’t see the red flags for various reasons. The crazy and sad part is, people like that will almost never see themselves as the problem and will almost never change, damaging one good person after the other. It becomes even more tragic when many of their new partners won’t believe you until it’s too late, only to then realize you weren’t some clingy ex, and legitimately were just sharing your experience in the hopes they proceed with caution and awareness.
Fortunately for men out there, at least with this case we’ve all got a clear warning about Amber Heard’s true self, so that’s at least one less monster to love and suffer for.
Between Depp’s experiences and the stuff coming out about Will Smith’s relationship issues with his wife’s manipulation and humiliation of Will (which she feels no remorse for), it seems their fame draws in many manipulative, despicable women. I’m sure it also applies to female actresses/models attracting such repulsive men as well- maybe that’s why a lot try to marry other successful people who already have their status and hopefully aren’t seeking to use them, though that brings it’s own drama.
Hopefully, we can reach a point where these individuals’ true nature in relationships are somehow known and revealed, leaving them stuck dating others like them (something like how some games have attempted matchmaking guides potential cheaters into lobbies playing other suspicious players, instead of ruining a match with players genuinely playing the game being demolished by hacks/cheats.) Sadly, a governing body or company doing such a thing sounds pretty terrifying in regards to privacy and discrimination..
For everyone out there, we all gotta be careful- look for red flags, consider the words of your family and friends, if you come across something with their ex partners, or they seem to be warning you, don’t just immediately assume they’re jealous.
For family and friends, it can seem they are just against you being happy, and for some that may be the case.
However, as in my case a few times, it’s also possible for them to legitimately see something you can’t as the person involved, so try to take in what they say and be aware of what they seem to pick up on. Hopefully doing these things will reduce the likelihood of missing early signs and preparing oneself to prevent getting burned.
Honestly, I don’t know if what I said holds any value, it’s just what I believe could help or what I hope to keep in mind, should I pursue a relationship once (if ever) I’m no longer bedridden. Also, every relationship has their quirks so all of these things may not apply, and sometimes the other person is meticulous and careful, waiting until you feel you’re in too deep to back out over the first red flags showing themselves.
I think there are plenty of people with their own more valid opinions based on far more significant experiences than my own, such as Heather whom I’ve wrote the first part of this reply to.
Honestly, it’d be cool to see this become a feed of just red flags and what to do should you find yourself in a relationship steadily driving in that god-forsaken direction.
I am a body language expert and have taught classes on the matter. I am also a veteran interrogator for the military. I have sat in plenty of Reid's courses, among others. Love Paul Ekman! I love being a critic. This guy here is amazing! There was one thing I either missed or maybe you didn't cover it on the eye movement, not only accessing memory but also accessing imagination. People look around to access imagination; the artist within. Anyways! I love this gut. I am a bit rusty on my own skills these days, not using them much you sort of lose them. But, what a refreshing video.
One thing I thought was odd was that, when talking about the incident with her sister, she said, "I would've done what anyone would've done in that situation." Not "I did what anyone would've done". It makes it seem as if the events she described never happened and she is just saying what she *would've* done. Freudian slip?
Yaaaassss!!!
I caught that too!!
I thought that was very weird too.
Yes!!
Yes !
That face is worth a million words. The smirk, the lack of real emotions, the way she takes no responsibility for anything, the disrespect she displays, boredom, fake concern, she looks so high it's rediculous. I was in an abusive relationship, do I think it was abusive, yes they are toxic together. Usually one person is more victimized than the other, however no one is innocent, especially when drugs and alcohol are involved. Even I got aggressive with my abusive ex, Bec after so long you are angry and you lash out at them too, especially if you are strong willed, you don't like being pushed around as she so points out.
Now you sound honest,,,,,,,,these two souls are lost.
@@dorothywillms115 Amber is way more lost than Mr. Depp is. This woman pooped in a bed! Who would even think this up? I wish I hadn't heard about that.
Would you call yourself a toxic person then?? An abuser as well?? You said you got aggressive in retaliation, so based on your experience, that would then make you an abuser?? Drugs and alcohol have been a part of Johnny and Amber's lives before they even met, yet the worst thing youve heard of Johnny doing was trashing a hotel room. Vs. Amber actually getting arrested on domestic violence before she even met him... i think he's a victim through and through. She used his substance use as an anchor to hold onto.
Every gal has some sort of abusive ex i guess. If you change the variables but the result stays the same it is probably you ladys
Typical of most younger women these days. I see it every day. Thy serve u in shop with smirks.
I feel like eating during the questioning contributes to her “disinterest in being there”, her “high society” attitude.
Yep
I'm not an expert however I've never seen someone actually eating during a deposition,water yes but food never. Johnny's cut seems to be likely from the bottle she threw. However this relationship was definitely not made in heaven. I believe they both should be in therapy, not for each other, but for their own personal growth.
@@TheBehavioralArts what if she has a history of an eating disorder? This could be much more complex.
@J. Atlin I saw it somewhere, not sure where, that her lawyer had been the one to give her food and it's suspected that he did so to give her time to think about her answers. In one answer she replied without hesitation though she had food in her mouth but in a more difficult question she acted as though she couldn't speak because there was food in her mouth, thus giving her time to think up an answer. Another body language analyst covered this that I watched.
@@D3ADxG1RL11 yes, actually you’re correct; Chase Hughes, a friend of this channel did a breakdown on his channel “the behavior panel” and explains it’s a technique used to give the person an “air of confidence” and can also be used to give them time to think before they speak. ruclips.net/video/04Cz-uOognU/видео.html
How someone can be so smug and condescending in one little eye roll blows my mind. She clearly believes she is too important for all this and everyone in that room. I can't wait for her to realize how everyone sees right through her.
I find it interesting that she said "and I would've done what anyone ... would have done."
The sentence structure there is incredibly suspicious, almost implying a third person view of herself in the scenario. someone recalling events rather than telling a story should have said "I did" especially with the sort of aggressive attitude she had about how right she was
indicates she did NOT do what anyone would have done or she wouldn't have worded in that fashion...she would have instead of I did. It's getting caught up on her story & those kinds of tells definitely indicates lying.
I kind of feel the construction of that sentence is too obviously perfect as a call for sympathy.
Psychological distancing, dissociating herself from a personal situation & trying to trigger people’s empathy to put themselves in her shoes at that moment.
She is basically manipulating the audience into judging her based on themselves & their own personal values, rather than hers.
I see Johnny’s mannerisms when answering these questions more like nervous tics or feelings of being uncomfortable at being in this specific situation. I think there are a lot of people including myself that tend to smile or make jokes when talking about things that are extremely uncomfortable to lighten the mood and try to find the humor in a crazy or scary situation we may have found ourselves involved in. This doesn’t mean someone who does this is lying or being deceptive. However, Amber’s behavior is different story. Just the fact that she keeps looking down and barely looks the interrogator in the eye when responding shows guilt and a way of trying to figure out how to answer the question in such a way that makes her appear more of a victim. As you stated that look on her face when she was asked if she was finished spoke volumes and I highly doubt that she has ever been abused by anyone!
Yes
Making jokes while recalling personal trauma is a coping mechanism. He's probably been doing this since childhood. :( I sure have.
this is particularly likely given his mother was abusive, and humor was probably how he coped with that
I try to remind myself that they're both actors but with Depp's mannerisms while he's talking...I don't know, they just seem more organic and he's reacting for the reasons you said. When I watch her, hers just seem very cold and calculating and just so unbelievable. Maybe he's the better actor I don't know LOL
Johnny’s communication style including his mannerisms here seem to correlate with how he responds in talk show interviews.
He seems more reserved and aware of his word choices in court (of course), but he comes across as the Johnny Depp we typically see.
Wow! Coming from a prior abusive marriage, I can tell you my honest opinion of this. Amber doesn't come across as honest, doesn't come across as a victim of abuse, and also, has total disrespect for the professionals asking the questions. She comes off as someone who is looking for attention, rather than someone who has been injured by the person she is speaking of. I get they are both actors, but I found her to be totally dishonest. Johnny seems more embarassed by the situation, and may be uncomfortable rehashing it all. Honestly, someone who was badly abused, is not going to get into another relationship, immediately after being in a bad one! There would be serious distrust. She also comes off as a manipulator, especially since she broke up Elon Musk's marriage. This is not the behaviour of an abused woman, but a manipulative one, and possibly a narcissistic one.
I agree with everything you said 100%
Possibly? Definitely.
Yep.
She comes across as COLD.Dismissive. Arrogant. Like she 'got better things to do'
She had already moved on from Johnny. She had trapped him. And discarded.
She don't care bout no one.
Cold. Sociopath.
That attempted dumb-ass sweet innocent little girl look on her piranha face & cold blood? 🤣😂😆😅
Lame ass as ever.
Typical narcissist in sooo many ways. She's already sooo done before the said incident. Done. Discarded JD. Moved onto next victim supply.
Clearly Johnny is embarrassed to be going through this.
WTF is wrong with any guys being so interested in such a cold-ass?!?
Johnny why did you leave Vanessa--momma of your kids? Or was it Vanessa who ended it?
I totally Agree, I came out of an Abusive Marriage as well
You said that very well! I completely agree.
she gets so “protective” about her sister when there’s a clip from a reality show of her sister having bruises from amber & not wanting to talk about the fight with her
And Johnny testified that she was controlling and abusive (physical and emotionally) to her sister.
@@Anne-zv3kp only Amber Turd can punch her "baby" sister. How dare anyone thinks they can physically protect her "baby" sister against her vicious blows when she gets angry. That was her message.
What really irritates me is the fact that she never answered a question with an answer. Rather just gave a story. AND was allowed to do so. Whereas Johnny Depp was cut off anytime he tried to explain. Very irritating.
Hmm, slightly similar to Chris Wallace in the presidential debate between Biden and Trump. Clearly taking sides!
So true
That’s exactly what baffles me too !!! Why do they seem to give her more allowance ??
@@MHda-p4g Sexism obviously
Absolutely!
I also don't understand why she can tell her fairy tales but everything Johnny says is weighed in gold. There are so much analysis about her behaviors and evidence that she is lying but Johnny always seems to be the perpetrator.
May justice be done to Johnny after the court 🙏
Shouldve shown the clip of when she was talking with her lawyer and then started to smile and laugh a bit but then immediately put her head up and put on her sad face like she just caught herself breaking character. Just seeing her clearly fake feeling grief made me on Johnnys side.
This is just a method acting challenge for her tbh
So many thoughts about Johnny and Amber, but MAN... I've had to deal with narcissists/manipulators on too many accounts and listening to Amber sends chills up my spine... On another note I appreciate how people are recognizing Johnny's demeanor and coping mechanisms. I can relate. I'm sure Johnny has made mistakes but I know that those who have been there or witnessed abuse will recognize the truth and see through the bs. Thanks for the video!
I am an admirer of Johnny Depp, and I like him over Heard on any day of the week, but he is not so innocent himself. I think they were both toxic in that relationship
@@skygazer6898 yes exactly
@@skygazer6898 that’s what I think .
@Jedimaster420 the same as her
This woman is a bullshitter!
The way she's acting with soooo much entitlement and arrogance. That's NOT, the face of someone who's been abused. My goodness, it's almost painful to watch. I hate that smug look on her face.
Amber Heard seems to smile and smirk a lot through her testimony but, when she realizes she's doing it, she tries to control it since she knows it makes her look like she's lying. I truly can't imagine a woman who has been abused crunching on mixed nuts (or whatever she's eating) while testifying about it. It's also the epitome of arrogance. Johnny Deep making jokes about her slicing his finger off, honestly, seems like a man embarrassed that this happened to him. Women in abusive relationships, for example, will try to make a joke or act like the abuse wasn't so bad because they're embarrassed.
I agree completely, I watched the part of Johnny's childhood testimony about his mother, and you can tell how embarrassed he is to have people know that he was abused as a child. It's sad because he is such a private person.
She is a very bad actress
Agree
I don't know either unless she has a sugar problem and has to eat to controll it. I can't believe her lawyer would let her eat while giving her testimony.
I agree I thought reliving your abuse would be terrifying
I’m so happy you’re covering this story,I was hoping you would😀
I think I'm the most excited about this one! Even though I've been binge watching! He is FABULOUS
Yet this is NOT science, its not recognized as beeing one its just opinions!
The thing is, his finger wasn’t “broken”. It was severed. They have pictures of it, and he had to have it sown back on. He is saying that “hey, could punching a wall (a drywall at that) , lead to your finger falling off by a straight cut?”. I would laugh at that too, honestly. You don’t really need a “wall-punching specialist” to see that. Also he has not denied punching inanimate objects , so be may have experience with it and or maybe breaking something because of it, but never severing. For him to have severed his finger by punching a wall, it would have had to be a glass wall, which if it happened, would have been apart of the story. But it wasn’t .
Anyway, this is just my opinion. But it makes sense
I mean his security and their friends all saw the shattered bottles and things during and after their argument that resulted in his finger being severed. There's tons of articles and recordings of what happened online going back four years and the story has been the same.
The worst part is that they had to borrow some of his skin on his hand to remake that finger
On top of that, any injury received from punching drywall would only include the outside of his fist. Unless he's a complete moron that can't make a fist, the tip of his fingers would have been tucked inside his fist making it impossible for any of them to be severed.
If you punch a wall and hit studs it could break your hand but it would most likely not cut your finger tip off
As a wall-punching specialist, it's definitely possible to break a bone but not sever unless your punching a blade or something sharp. Which then would leave marks across all fingers
Every time she talks about the incidents of her hitting him, she minimizes it as much as possible and keeps trying to blame him or make him out to be overly dramatic.
My ex did this ALL the time.
Is it possible that Amber is eating as a way to hide any "tells"? Like that she knows she is likely to show signs of stress and deception through un-conscience mouth movements, but by eating something it covers those markers. Also, it's a small individual grape, which doesn't require much appetite and will help to keep her mouth from drying due to stress.
Another great, objective analysis! I'm really enjoying your breakdowns. I hope to see more from you as this case evolves
Yes! Very possible that she’s eating to give her hands and mouth something to do and appear less fidgety. I’m not sure it’s grapes she’s eating tho, not that it makes even a little bit of a difference lol.
EQ trtrwt
I saw someone who analyzed this video too, he said that she was probably eating to get some time to answer. At a specific moment, she eats when she knows that she gonna have to answer, like, you dont eat if you know that you will have to talk very soon ?
@@shiminisillters1848 yep. And if you time how long it takes her to eat each one it varies enormously lol
I thought this too, glad someone else pointed it out.
The reason Johnny said "I'd love to see what an expert would say" is because he was told by a doctor it's clear that he couldn't have injured himself like that from punching a wall.
Yeah I think he’s talking about how doctors and others like police, social workers etc can tell how someone did or didn’t get a injury, think they’re even trained because of abusive parents or domestic abuse coming in and lying about how their kid or they got hurt. Like parents who shake or even punch & etc their baby come to the ER and say their baby “fell” off the changing table or something. They know how a injury for that would actually be and if it matches.
I feel like Johnny was in disbelief like are you kidding me? Because seriously if he was punching a wall which would mean his fist would be closed like he said, how the hell would that cause that type of injury to his finger??? I think if u got Johnny’s X-rays and all details of the injury like the cuts etc and the type of wall and showed it all to doctors and other such professionals they would all agree that couldn’t happen. Like u could break a bone in ur hand but not cut ur finger off from punching a wall!
He seemed uncomfortable and stuff because he’s talking about abuse from his ex wife from when she cut his freakin finger off! But he was also like laughing at the absurdity of her lie and it basically shows her being caught in a lie that she didn’t think through
One thing that I feel is really important to consider when analyzing johnnys behavior is the fact that he was brought up in an abusive household. He’s been a child of abuse & it made such a strong impact on him that he made sure to not repeat that same thing with his kids. Growing up with something like that makes you very uncomfortable in any situation that draws attention to you about any real life events that may be a cause for concern. You’re used to being in the background, neglected & invisible. Thats whats becomes your normal and what you’re most comfortable in. In this situation now, it makes sense he would feel very uncomfortable (which I believe is why he tries to crack jokes and lighten the mood, its an attempt to draw attention away from himself). He’s been dealing with it silently for as long as he could until it was all made public. It makes sense that he’s been driven up against a wall and has no other option than to publicly address everything. Its hard enough for a regular person to make their private lives completely public, open for scrutiny and risk being called a liar/not believed let alone for someone who is as private about their personal life as him. He’s completely and utterly vulnerable and that’s enough to make someone uncomfortable. At this point, he has no choice but to be as open as possible to get his truth out. If you see the court hearings, he’s uncomfortable at many occasions, slow when he speaks, takes his time gathering his thoughts and memories etc. These are all signs of someone who has seen so much and dealt with so much they don’t know where to begin addressing things.
I’m all for women empowerment and agree that it is a global work in progress. There are far more crimes against women than men generally speaking but that doesn’t mean there’s none against men. Victims are victims regardless of their identity. The premise of the whole movement is to believe victims because they’re vulnerable and defenseless in majority of such cases. It just so happens that most cases are of violence against women. It doesn’t change the principle of believing victims. We have to afford male victims the same as female victims. This isn’t about gender.
It’s a huge disservice to the real victims of domestic violence for people to lie & come up with false allegations. This is a very heavy & complex topic.
I completely agree. I could see and hear the young boy who was in his mind dealing with someone who was EXACTLY like his Mother. In the recordings you can hear him trying to calmly talk and deal with her outbursts the same as I’m sure he did with his Mother. It’s very sad…
his grandparents were slave owners for my child's father's family.
The MeToo movement slogan should have been Listen to Women, not Believe Women.
I suggested above that there needs to be a #MeToo movement for men.
His childhood abuse also explains why he left tried to leave the room when she started verbally abusing him, according to his testimony. Her admission that he wouldn't stay and fight (also calling him a coward) is bullying and abusive.
@@gretamurphy3704 i would agree with you but starting another movement would be more divisive in an already pretty divisive world and it takes no time for movements to become politicized. Bottom line is all victims regardless of their gender, race/ethnicity, age etc MUST be listened to, believed and protected. We need to take a step back and look at everything from an impartial stance and try to find root problems. Maybe awareness campaigns to encourage the general public to come from a non-judgemental place if/when we come across victims and making help more accessible for the victims themselves & for people close-by to get them that help would do alot more than an additional movement
@@gretamurphy3704 also I completely agree with the leaving the room part, his sister testified that shes always had to book an extra room for him on their travels together after they got married (sth she never had to do before in his past relationships) & when asked why, her response was that it was a pattern she recognized. Its unfortunate really but it makes you realize just how blind we can be to situations we are in vs other ppl looking at them externally. Johnny recognized the pattern eventually but once that happened he resorted to helping her/staying by her side
I’ve watched a bajillion interviews w JD & when he gets shy or anxious, his hand goes to his hair (usually scratching or self-grooming). Also, his finger across his lips is very common (usually his left). Enough of this to consider it baseline as opposed to indications of deception. To be fair though, I do not think he would ever be honest about specific quantities of alcohol/drugs - this is extremely common among addicts for various reasons.
When Johnny Depp talks about Having his finger chopped off and laughed saying "by this woman that I was married to" I felt his disbelief on the situation , the shame, the obscurity of it all. I have similar reactions when I think of something bad that happened because I just can't process it. I come off a bit crazy laughing in wrong situations, but it's an uncomfortable laugh like a defence mechanism to make it feel like it didn't happen. I don't know, I believe him. He didn't deserve to be treated like that by that woman. I hope she does get a punishment. And as many people say, if he punched a wall instead of her it shows restraint and is not incriminating in my opinion.
I understand what you are saying about that Laugh mechanism some people have trying to express or talk about a bad situation, (after all someone knows someone who laughed at a funeral right?) it was his, (like the body expert mentions) joking about the idea it was from punching a wall.... I've punched Dry wall, and other walls. The Damages done from my experience is the Knuckles not the tip of any finger
@@djarumd5828 hello, I'd like to add my personal experience to this.
I'm struggling with both mental health and an abusive mother with which I got angry multiple times as I started realising all the bad thing's she's done to me.
I have had rage fits in which I broke things, threw things and/or punched walls. Multiple times I have punched walls with a lot of rage in me and using all my force.
Damage to the walls is perfectly possible when a grown adult punches a wall. My walls aren't drywall, they are bricks covered by a layer of some stuff I don't know exactly what it is, and then painted.
I have made dents with the shape of my knuckles in the wall by punching them.
I believe it is possible to damage drywall with enough force.
As for the damage, it all clusters around the knuckles. I have damager my secondary knuckles? The middle of the fingers? I don't know what the proper name is but you get the idea.
But still, most of the damage is around the knuckles. You get bruises, blood, your knuckles may get larger and super sensitive as they accumulate blood from the damaged blood vessels. It hurts, some people might even get their finger tendons damaged. But there is no darn way in hell one can damage the tip of the fingers with that. That is a blatant lie by Amber.
The only possible way that you could damage the tip of a finger by punching a wall is if you put your open palm on the wall, then punched the finger with the other hand as hard as you could and still it's super unlikely to ever get that level of damage from a punch. Also, if he did that, that would indicate self harming behaviour ether to deceive people into thinking she did it or to simply hurt himself, both things indicate mental health problems and Amber would have clearly used that as a defence against him in that case. The fact that she made a story up about him getting his finger damaged because he punched a wall indicates she has no idea how a punch works, and the mere fact that she lied, more than once makes me not be able to believe anything she says.
Same could be said about Depp but I'm not entirely sure that he lied, more like hid some things but still that smells fishy.
"Punching a wall shows restraint" LOL you know what shows restraint? LEAVING. Punching a wall shows violent behavior. I don't think any abused wife ever in history punched a wall after being beaten up. And btw how is she gonna get some punishment when she was never sued for abuse? JD is gonna lose this case beyond tye shadow of a doubt. Yall seem to forget that being narcissistic is not a crime per se. And can I also ask why on Earth will you feel so sorry for a guy that owns a ducking private island in Bahamas 🙄🙄
@@vero9348 You hate men, right?
@@vero9348 because having money doesn't mean you can't be abused. I'm feeling sorry for a person's career being ruined because of an accusation by a seemingly narcissistic liar who wants the attention it provides her. If it's a mutually abusive relationship still there have to be mutual punishments. Also they said in court that JD always wants to walk away from intense/violent situations and AH won't accept that, she would rather be in a fight than let him walk away. Beyond the physical there are signs of psychological abuse from ms. Amber's side and no matter what you own you can always be a victim of manipulative partners. People ask for equality and then ignore when men get abused every-single-time.
I've been watching the trial like a lot of people on here. As someone who was raised in a dysfunctional family and my father was an alcoholic abusive person, I believe that Ms. Heard was the aggressor towards Mr. Depp. It appears that Ms. Heard enjoyed taunting Johnny trying to get him riled up and engaged into the arguments they had. It seems to me that Ms. Heard took advantage of Johnny's calm nature and Amber didn't like it when he wouldn't fight back. A person can only be pushed so far and when you push someone over the edge they will most likely lash out whether it's verbally or physically. Johnny seems like he is more like his father who didn't hit his wife but instead, broke objects. My father broke objects and beat my mother all the while accusing her of cheating on him which she never did. It was my father who was cheating.
The elevator video of Amber and James Franco clearly shows that she was cheating on Johnny. She is wrapped in a sheet and the two of them cuddle in the elevator then go to the penthouse.
Amber Heard is a manipulative, hateful and mean-spirited person who will most likely always be this way no matter who she is with. I hope she loses this case and I hope the judge orders her to get anger management classes.
My best friend of over 20 years, who is un medicated bipolar as well as deals with substance abuse issues, would do the same regarding trying her damndest to rile up her bf at the time. Screaming, saying the meanest most spiteful things, getting in their face, hitting them. And she knew how to manipulate, how to make herself look like a victim. When the bf would finally break and be like I can’t take this anymore- THEN the whole ‘he was an abuser’ would come out. Not the whole time they were dating. I also lived with her for years, and I never saw what she’d claim or any marks.
I cut her off years ago, the only thing she wouldn’t do with me was hit me, but other than that, I got the same treatment. Watching this trial and coverage reminds me of her so much that I’ve needed to stop and take breaks. I find myself infuriated at times.
Yes, the abusers will also never allow the victim to leave the fight. Something Amber has consistently done.
The cheating is brutal. No matter who she was with, she’d still cheat on them. I know the type.
Having been a victim of spousal abuse myself, there is so much about her demeanor and verbalization that rings false.
Me too She seems very fake and lying
Can you specify your observations? Would love to learn from you
I've been in a situation similar to this as well and this woman makes my blood run cold. She is so manipulative and such a liar. I feel so bad for Johnny, I was with a woman very similar to Heard for 6 years, she would follow me from room to room trying to take arguments further and further, she would get violent with me and beat me hoping to try and make me hit her back, she would throw things and hit me with various objects and then when she calmed down or I was about to leave she would end up convincing me I made her get that angry, that it was my fault and that I hurt her worse than she hurt me for pushing her to hurt me. I've been away from her for years and now am with a good, sweet and beautiful woman but even still now I'll flinch if she's irritated and moves too fast and I still can't be near conflict without freezing up or trying to immediately walk away and escape.
Also, instincts as a therapist who works intimately with the emotional states of others. Here's my take on this. I imagine you or I would say something like this, because we would be reliving the fear of the moment: "I was afraid he was going to push her down the stairs, and I was so afraid she might be killed! I didn't really know what I was doing, but I jumped in there because I couldn't let that happen." Neither you or I would say, "He was about to push my sister down the stairs. (said calmly and matter of factly) She was attempting to break us up. (fluff stated calmly) I am protective of my baby sister. (absolutely unnecessary statement said calmly) When he laid hands on her, I don't know what I did. (selling you can't pin it on me because I wasn't really there). But (emphatic) I know I jumped in between the action (que?) of what I saw could lead to a fatal injury to my sister. She was standing on the top of a flight of stairs and she has never hurt anyone in her life and she does not deserve to be pushed down a flight of stairs." (absolutely unnecessary verbiage that serves only to change the subject to "just imagine, he pushed my innocent baby sister down the stairs!") None of that would be in a real statement of a real fear that someone might get seriously hurt if you or I didn't do something. Nah, you won't say it, but I will. She lied through her teeth. That girl has got some serious rage issues.
For real, her rage is palpable.
I think some of Johnny's hesitation is a sign of humiliation, especially when he said "the woman I married". You can hear the humiliation and shameful accountability in this particular sentence. Again we need to remember that celebrities also experience shame as we all do because they are human like you and me. I think he is shame of the partner he chose and where they are now.
A narcissist is never at fault. Everything is always happening “to them”. Everyone always makes them behave how they behave. No personal responsibility ever.
Great description
Spot on
100%
And if you ever get an “I’m sorry” it’s always followed by a “but”.
Perfectly stated.
I just hope she is humbled and everything she has sought to gain from her manipulation and deceit will be taken from her. I hope she’s canceled. She’s just on another level of evil.
Amber is Definitely Pure Evil. She's Looking for Her Next Victim With Alot of $$$ Being That She's a Gold Digger Also...Her Little Pathetic Tiny Career is Done.
She's done for. No way she gets out of this unscathed
"Another level of evil" is the best description I have heard of her. I can feel Johnny's pain, and all for what he thought was love. Of course, one can say he is partly at fault, as, I believe, I could be wrong, but I believe he was in a long term committed relationship with the mother of his children when he started up with Amber [he cheated] and Amber was the reason for that split, which ruined his family unit, badly hurt his children, and, I am sure, after so many years together, caused enormous pain to his ex partner. But that doesn't mean he deserves this abuse and the demise of his career. I think he is at heart a decent person and every single one of us makes mistakes. There would be NO Pirates of the Caribbean movies without him. He IS those movies. Who else could have pulled off those roles as he did? It is obvious that he is gentle and shy. The substance abuse is to numb the pain he lives with constantly, due to childhood abuse [me, too, and I do the same, for the same reason]. It is very common, especially when alcohol is legal.
People with narcissistic tendencies are never humbled. They don't play by the same rules as the rest of us. Jada P Smith is another good example of this.....see her smirking, smiling and laughing, while you see Will in pain? Will had 2 choices at the awards.......stay in his seat and face the wrath of Jada when they got home, or, "do something" to make her happy, and face the wrath of the world. Clearly, she is more scary to him than the world, so, he chose her, and then she said she wished he hadn't "gotten physical." Another liar, as evidenced by her body language............she WANTED Will to "do something" and never came to his defense when he did.. He is also a victim of abuse. Very very sad for both, and their kids, and all people who are abused.
I'd love for her to be cancelled, or maybe shipped off to a deserted island, but you know Hollyweird......in a couple of years, all will be forgiven/forgotten. Look at all the evil humans who made a comeback.....Kelsey Grammar for his relationship with their babysitter who was a minor, Mel Gibson for his racist tirades, etc. She's gorgeous on the outside and will use that to her advantage. This may or may not be a small setback for her, as we don't know the outcome, and, I hope I am wrong, but, I bet she's not going anywhere. Maybe she could do adult films, she'd be popular in those!
She isn’t evil she is mentally ill.
The whole world is with Johnny bruh
Cancelled ? Boi it would be difficult for her to walk on public.
She said, when speaking about defending her sister: “this is something I ‘WOULD do’”If YOU were relaying this story, wouldn’t you say: “This is what’ I DID’’,, something anyone would do”!
Good catch! Wow. Even that was a lie. You're correct. If she was telling the truth about what actually happened, she wouldn't say "I would have done." That means it didn't really happen, it's just the story she made up.
Her face and expressions looks as though she might burst out laughing at any moment. That without a doubt is not how a victim of dv reacts.
I wouldnt mistake her privelege and good conditions as being the indicators of being a victim of dv. Privelege and good conditions do support a person and good luck to those who have it - again doesnt mean there wasnt abuse - there is a distinction.
She looks like an insolent child most of the time
Agreed, or she’s about to climb over the table and scalp the deposing attorney 😅
She looked like she wanted to hit the person asking the questions
I agree. My sister is a domestic violence survivor and when she talks about to this day you can still see the fear in her eyes, as if she is reliving it.
This seemed like a joke in her retelling and then striking her own answers.
I don’t need an analysis to understand these two. I was just like Amber all through my 20’s. Then I was diagnosed with Borderline personality disorder & found help for my aggression, anger & fears through therapy, medication & a LOT of self-reflection and meditation. Today I have been free of violence in my life for over a decade. It took my ex hitting back and knocking me out before I realized I needed help as the aggressor. I hope she finds the help she needs & I hope Johnny Depp finds relief from this circus she started. He truly seems a victim forced to remain in a toxic relationship through the continuous manipulation of self-harm. I wish them both a more peaceful future.
I applaud you for one of the most authentic and unbiased pieces of analysis I have seen so far. This is exactly the perspective that has been previously absent i.e. the motivation and meaning behind her behaviour and through this wider picture- a route we can begin to take in order to understand and validate this guy’s experience.
@@missoula5412 thank you 🙏🏻 I suspect many others that recognize this pattern are afraid to speak up because the stigma associated with BPD & how rare it is for someone to truly take their life back from that place once they get there. Many struggle their entire lives to regulate their emotions. And many more will never get a true diagnosis, especially since the popularization of Bipolar as a “spectrum” disorder; which I think detracts from these more serious personality disorders being properly diagnosed.
Wow. that was a powerful comment to read. Glad and hopeful for your continued healing and future success. Take care!!
That was a really brave thing to say.
It takes a lot to be able to look at yourself and do the work. It’s unfortunate more people living with bpd do not commit to therapy or finding ways to regulate emotions as you said. Hopefully some may take inspiration from your comment and do the same.
The impression I get watching Johnny is that he's really embarrassed. I think he feels ashamed that he got himself into a relationship with Amber, that the whole world knows that he made such a huge mistake. I think he feels exposed but has no choice but to do this legal action because he has lost everything. He'd rather not be there talking about private things. I think that is why he does that chuckle. He's laughing at himself at the ridiculous circus his private life has become.
Amber 🙄 I find something very off about her. I think its the eyes. She has the creepy eyes that scare me of a psychopath. Her eyes are pale but seem glittering with darkness. Falseness? I can't explain what I mean here, sorry! What is with the eating while being questioned in a legal case that could financially ruin her!? I think she's overconfident in winning and just doesn't care. She feels entitled. She thinks she is going to win, no matter what. So she's bored and eats. She feels the questions are beneath her. I think everything she says is a lie. Over time her lies become more exaggerated and ridiculous. Personally I think she's a very dangerous disturbing person. I feel so sorry for Johnny. I hope he wins 🙏 just my thoughts. 🤷♀️
Maybe 'actors' are really shy people, who 'hide' behind characters. Johnny appears to be embaressed and uncomfortable - Amber doesn't even try to hide her smug, over confident arrogant attitude.
Maybe Johnny should get a medal for putting up for so long with the vile attitude that Amber is showing even in these court videos🤔
@@susansmith4784 Yes I think Johnny's natural shyness and that he's still a humble kind man despite his fame says a lot. He doesn't hide away from his alcohol and drug consumption. He admits his mistakes. That tells me that he is a person open to changing and correcting his mistakes.
I think amber winning the case in the UK has only emboldened her even more. She appears to believe that she is untouchable. I hope Johnny wins this case. She is a very dangerous person. Horrible. I fear for that poor baby that she will no doubt harm when she is of no further use to amber.
Absolutely
I also think it's possible that she was coached to eat. Perhaps she does a lot of the lip smacking that this expert mentions is a common sign of deception. So her lawyer (or more likely, a coach hired by her and her lawyer) decided to have her eat to provide a plausible explanation for this "tell" in her facial expressions.
When was this with her testifying? The ones going on now she looks uglier a older
When she was ‘skating on glass’ in Australia but just took a sleeping tablet and went to sleep! She would’ve needed medical help to remove the glass! I literally hate this woman!
That was the first impression I had of her, condescending and disrespectful. And who eats in a deposition, or even just while in a court room? Her behaviour is disrespectful towards everyone.
Well I don't have to reserve judgement. After getting hooked to watching it, and having been stuck in a violent relationship myself I do not believe she was ever hit. Where's the embarrassment, the fear, pain, self disgust. These are dominant feelings. You lose all self respect and self esteem, you blame yourself, you hate what you're allowing to happen you fel a failure.
I see NONE of these things in her. She thinks she's the cleverest person in the room. I'd go further than narcissist and suggest psychopath, as was my ex.
It’s scary thinking what she’ll do if she loses the case. JD better get extra bodyguards
Wow !
After hearing about the boots, and the other things she did, I'd say psychopath.
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Ruth Ingle....You are spot on. As somebody who has experienced domestic abuse, I feel every emotion you mention. Thank you for pointing out the TRUTH.
I did not realize people were allowed to snack on the stand while testifying at a court trial. I feel that alone was disrespectful of Ms.Heard.
Some people need to eat regularly for medical reasons so it isn't exactly crazy for some to be eating while on the stand but I figured those would be exceptions. I was a bit surprised she was allowed more than water.
Wasn't she giving a deposition? I can't remember exactly. It was hard for me to tell or maybe I need to go back and watch it if she was actually in a courtroom because I feel like they were just in a conference room doing a deposition. I'm not sure...still super weird as far as the eating goes but at least it would be less weird if it was in a conference room and not the courtroom.
This was her deposition not a courtroom. A pretrial interview ment for gathering information. However it is not recommended the person being interviewed eat or drink anything during it at least with a camera on them. It reflects on their professionalism and it may be shown in court. So its not recommended at all. Perhaps she wanted to and they couldn't tell her no? Not sure 🤷♀️
@@brattrox2939 She doesn’t have any medical issues other than her brain which is filled with hatred
I found it so strange the words she used when talking about her sister. “She has never hurt anyone and she does not deserve to be pushed down a flight of stairs”.
If in a fight and trying to protect someone from harm I would say I was scared for her life or scared she was going to fall etc. not, she does not deserve.
Amber’s expression when the interrogator asks if she is done is pure hatred. She hates the interrogator and sees her as the enemy. Her demeanor throughout is condescending and dismissive and the only time we get a glimpse of how she really feels us when she is talking about her sister: she is super angry at him still and still wants to hurt him. Her eating is an expression of how ‘above this’ she feels.
I believe his story about how his finger was injured. He clearly was lying during the wall punching story but like you I believe he really did punch the wall and was trying to play that off. He’s not worried about her story that this is what hurt his finger; he knows that can be disproven by a trauma specialist. But he doesn’t want to admit to the wall punching.
On the whole, I think they both were violent, but I think she was worse. She still wants to hurt him right now, where I feel like he just wants her to be out of his life.
It's been my experience that men punch walls when their woman has made them so angry by her words/deeds in that moment that they strike the wall in frustration instead of hitting her. He's a guy who leaves the room when an argument gets too heated. What to do when the woman being argumentative and nasty won't get out of his way so that he can leave the room. Boom, hole in the wall. Sure, a guy who actually beats a woman can end up making holes in the walls too but it's far more likely that the woman will need to go to the hospital or at the very least, hide from the public for a week or so while the bruises heal up.
I would like to see what was said right before. The lawyer didn't sound like they had this tone but it came off like a couples argument thing to say. "Are you done" which tends to follow a verbal attack by the person asking if the other is done as they were waiting for their turn to pounce after the other is expending energy. I am imagining the possiblity of the lawyer previously interupting Heard.
@@seashell4327 I agree 💯 % in my experience Q wall punching is most often done when there is nowhere to go and they don’t hit their spouse or partner
Did you hear the recordings?? She admitted abusing him with no self defense present. This is not a matter of “I believe Johnny” she already admitted it herself.
@@Just-wiggling-thru-life in my experience it can also be used to intimidate when the person is not blocked in like I'm going to hit this wall and slam this door repeatedly to show how angry and powerful I am. Like you're lucky this isn't you I'm hitting.
The way she constantly snipes at Johnny in the recordings of their arguments seemed to me like she is a complete narcissist who wasn't getting enough attention and just got more and more outlandish with her accusations to him. She seems deeply insecure and I bet the fact that she couldn't get him to engage with her was intolerable to her ego. Good for him for defending himself and trying to not engage with her narcissist abuse as much as he did. She is toxic and is used to being able to manipulate every situation in her favor. When she cannot do so, it causes a narcissist injury, which will not be tolerated by a narcissist, hence the accusations and all the related drama. She's so smug, it grosses me out.
Oh how well I recognize her behaviors. 30 years of covert narcissist abuse helps one recognize a covert narcissist from a mile away. She followed the playbook and checked every box.
@@MissaPality 💯
Having lived with a narcissistic mother and been psychologically abused by other narcissists throughout my life, these clips are raising one red flag after the other.
Amber screams raging narcissist.
I’m surprised you didn’t turn into an abuser to be honest with you. That would be a lot to deal with. 🙁
@@churrho Yes they do. By my estimation, at least 50% percent of a narcissist's offspring will grow up to be narcissists, especially if they are the 'golden child'. It's usually the "scapegoats" that go the other way and turn into empaths who unfortunately get drawn to narcissists as adults. The cycle is hard to break.
@@annmarie6870 I'm also autistic, so I'm often not good at spotting the game playing narcissists embark on, usually until it's too late.
@@churrho I'm talking from personal experience and research. I grew up with a narcissistic mother, have C-PTSD which btw she has as well, having been raised and abused by her narcissist mother. Narcissism runs in both sides of my family tree, and the empaths all married narcissists. I know what I'm talking about. A child of a narc will either turn into a narc or become a codependent empath who partners up with a narc. Narcs also pair up with other narcs too, (although they are most attracted to empaths) which then becomes an interesting powerplay of a relationship. But at least an empath can work on themselves and change for the better. Has a chance to break the cycle. The narcissist doesn't due to their lack of self awareness and complete inability to self reflect. It's like a childhood trauma lottery, really. They will be either become this or that. One thing an abused traumatised child won't become is a well adjusted mentally and emotionally healthy adult. And another thing. Neurodiversity also runs in both sides of my family tree. There is a link.
Lawyer: "Do you understand what I'm asking you?"
Amber: *nodds head* "no"
Lawyer: "so do you dont understand?"
Amber: "yes I understand"
This is almost as silly as her laywer objecting to his own question
I can't stand her and she lies virtually any time that she opens her mouth.. but to be fair, they asked her a question then asked her that - she was nodding at the question of if she understood and answered verbally the first question. Her rhythm was thrown off by her lawyer objecting, telling her to go on, then the other lawyer asking the second question while she was mentally preparing to answer the first. This was actually one of the very few times where I can say that from the context, she was not giving conflicting answers to one question, but simultaneously answering two questions.
In this instance I think the nodding answered the "do you understand?" And the verbal "no" was in answer to the original question "did you hit him?".
She’s so disrespectful when someone is talking to her, she doesn’t look at them, wow!
Rather narcissistic actually, and doesn't put her in the light of a victim. Not that narcissists cannot become a victim, but really, this one is pretty telling. Amber is someone I would never want to have an encounter with, LMAO
unless she's autistic! I point out as an autistic. Just to offer another reason a person mightn't be able to keep consistent eye contact for future encounters anyone who reads this happens to have. But... in this case, she's not autistic, and she is probably way in the cluster B's, and so, carry on!
That might be cultural. In some cultures, depending on her upbringing, it is considered rude to look at someone in the eye.
@@p.e.zaccardo5578 Don't think Amber is from Somalli or Asian countries. She was born in the U.S. -- Texas-
@@p.e.zaccardo5578 I’ve lived all over the United States and I don’t know of anyplace where giving eye contact is considered disrespectful. To the contrary, lack of eye contact is generally considered an insult unless you’re a child, autistic, or mentally handicapped. Combined with her other mannerisms and facial expressions she comes off as VERY condescending and arrogant.
About Johnny talking about having scientist analyze his hand, I think that's totally possible. Forensics are able to identify so many aspects of injuries down to when it happened, how it happened, and if they were defense wounds or not. I've seen pictures of his mutilated finger, that's no injury from punching a wall.
His finger literally splintered and exploded. That's a high velocity injury. Totally in line with what he said happened.
When the female lawyer asks her if she committed domestic violence, her head shakes yes but her answer was no.🤷🏼♀️
i noticed that too
Yes I noticed that as well. Body language says so much more than words & in that instant I thought " lies"!
She asked her if she understood what she was saying, nodded and said no. Funny af tho
I caught that too.
@@watermelon5896 yeah I mean I think she lied a lot but that answer was normal lol
As a woman, I’ve met a bunch of extremely narcissistic and scary women who abused their male partners. Scary.
I know one and she can be so cruel!! When I was first aware of her being like that was when I couldn’t believe that she would demean and humiliate a father in front of his kids. That’s just so low! All because she wasn’t getting her way one of the hundred things on her list of demands.
When Johnny protested how she screamed at him in front of his kid, and how it could mess kids up for life, yeah… I thought of this woman I know and the two are so similar in how domineering they are and how inconsiderate they are of harming children. They just don’t care if their abuse effects kids.