Body Language Analyst REACTS to Amber Heard NBC/Today Show Interview! Is She Lying?!
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- Опубликовано: 20 май 2024
- Amber Heard did some interviews this week to talk about her trial v Johnny Depp, but what does her body language reveal about how she really feels? What is she hiding? What major slip up gave her away? Find out now.
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01:07 What is Amber Heard REALLY Thinking?
06:15 The Hand Gesture Amber Heard needs to STOP Doing!
10:30 Was Amber Acting on the Stand?
14:15 She Slipped up HARD!
19:20 The Facial Expression of Contempt
21:33 What Did She Just Say?!
24:37 How To Catch a Liar
28:17 What is Happening in her Head?
33:00 What Does She Think of Johnny?
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I am a DV survivor. I left him 6 years ago but I was in the relationship for 4 years. When I first left him I still thought I loved him. After a few years, I found my self worth again and realized I couldn’t truly love someone that could hurt me so viciously. So her saying she still “loves” him doesn’t make sense after all these years. My ex had just broke me. He gaslighted me into believing many things. I had no interest in watching the trial, but what caught my attention was seeing a clip on TikTok and AHs behavior didn’t make any sense. I knew almost immediately that her behavior was not conducive to someone that had been horribly abused for years. When she couldn’t figure out a timeline of events, I knew something was off. And I do realize that some people forget moments during a traumatic event, however, if you remember some you most likely remember all. I can tell you every thought, smell, and noise during the abusive outbursts. During those moments, you are in fight or flight mode. When you are trying to survive everything is heightened. Your survival instincts seem to take over. So when she couldn’t tell the jury this happened, then this happened, I knew something was off. Also, if she still loves him and wishing no will ill on him, then why did she “act” so frightened to walk past him when she was walking off the stand? Her behavior and words are all over the place and nothing is consistent.
Very nicely said
Sorry you dealt with DV but glad you’re out now.
Very good points, thanks for your insight. Sorry to be the English police but where you said "conducive to" the correct words would be "consistent with". Conducive implies causality whereas consistent implies correlation. Not trying to be nitpicky, just trying to help.
I appreciate that you're going off your personal experience but you can't extrapolate that to be the same for everyone. Its very common for people to only remember snapshots or specific parts of an event. It is also quite common to continue loving people who abused you and many abuse survivors struggle with the push and pull of loving someone they have to stay away from for their own safety.
That’s so true! So glad you got out of that horrendous relationship 🙏🏻
"Camille : Have you donated the $7 million divorce settlement?
Amber : Yes
Camille : No you haven't
Amber : I use yes and no synonymously."
Perfect summation
🤣
Exactly!!!! She also uses truth and lies synonymously!
Bahahaha! Perfect!
The UK judge believed she donated the 7 million. Reason why he believed she didn't wrongly accuse Johnny.
The fact that she says this trial it's the worst thing that ever happened to her, proves Johnny didn't put her trough years of abuse because that would be a way worse experience.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Totally agree with this
Exactly! I’m a DV survivor and I can’t even imagine comparing that. Like… the abuse I experienced wasn’t as severe as her claimed abuse and I still recoil every single time I think about it.
I don't completely agree, although I don't think Johnny D. abused her, if you went through years of abuse and then people didn't believe you and the whole world agreed that that didn't happen to you it would add to the pain of the abuse making it worse
Good point!
Nobody in a violent abusive relationship would provoke their partner like Amber did. She wasn't frightened by him at all. She has no idea what walking on eggshells means.
True victims of domestic abuse don't antagonize their abusers.
She does know what walking on eggshells is, because she is usually the offender causing others to walk on eggshells…
Exactly my thoughts
@@NoOne-bp2jwhonestly you dont know wtf youre talking about either
@@user-ji8ll1qn6o I wish that were true
Thank you Amber for yet again proving how badly you lied under oath. I work with real DV survivors and not once in 25+ years have I heard a real victim say what she did.
I’m a dv survivor and not once did I ever worry about a dirty carpet and analyze how it got that dirty. I was trying to protect myself and looking for an escape route. I hate this woman for her lies and pleas for sympathy. Johnny kept it quiet for years because of what she might do if the truth came out. Johnny❤
@@sharrim658 when we as humans are hurt in anyway shape or form , our reptilian brain kicks in for survival. I'm not sure if you've been punched or slapped hard in the face .... it hurts . I can't believe she said I just laughed cause I thought he was joking ....that. was never said by a real survivor . Amber triggered so many people it should have been perjury charges .
This is what Johnny meant by " global humiliation"not that he was going to orchestrate something, that her own behavior would sink her
Yes and she just humiliates herself by pretending she didn’t understand that.
I agree! That's how I saw it.
Yea not to mention the fact that she pooped on d bed. Ewe.
So Tobey Maguire cant shoot spiderweb? Emotional damage right here!
How true
As a dv/sa survivor, just these snippets of her interview makes me sick! I’ve been states away from my abuser for almost 7 years and I’m just as terrified of him as the day I left. I’d never say “I still love him” nor would I ever apologize for what I was put through. Amber needs to go touch grass and then get some help!
Its been over 20 years since I moved state...It doesn't get "better"....
My heart goes out to you
@@victoriawilliams2786 Pains me to hear this. Hope you find comfort in those tough moments.
Ah needs to go through a gang violation of 20 or more on each side of her to get beat down to really know what hurt is all about. She's hurt to many people and got away with it for to long.
@no time left stop posting fake rando videos
The "perfect victim" line shows clearly that "victim" is just a role description for her, a tool she tries to wield for sympathy and in order to wield power. This is disgusting. My blood boils, and i am not even a victim
I'm not a victim of DV, but I am a victim of rape and honestly, no words on this planet can describe my rage towards her. There's just so much wrong with her, so much that not even 100,000 videos of amber analysis could even touch the surface of. Simultaneously, my heart also breaks for Johnny and for all the real "perfect victims" out there who are having to deal with all their own struggles resurfacing due to her actions.
I can actually understad this statement in the context of defending oneself in the court of public opinion or also in a legal court. If she feels constantly judged, she feels like she cant convince people she is a victim based on whether people like her or her own actions that make her unlikeable or harder to believe. I think she is acknowledging she is not a completely innocent victim, she did provocative and irresponsible things. I AM a victin of DV but if I ever had to go to court, I would also acknowledge that I was not completely innocent.
Secondly, I am SURE that her lawyers and PR people made it clear that she was not the "perfect" victim and they would have a harder time defending her based on some of her poor choices.
@@vanessaking8220 THIS! Thank u. I tried saying this in another video thread but got accused of being an Amber fan… But that’s not the case at all & what many ppl don’t know is that the word "perfect victim" is valid vocab and often used in many DV cases where the "victim" (the word victim isn’t used to describe oneself is a victim obv but unfortunately it’s part of the terminology & may be taken out of context by ppl not familiar with DV terms) ALSO abused the aggressor at some point during the relationship-usually bc they get fed up and retaliated NOT bc they are narcissists…
All in all I think Amber herself set many
dv survivors back bc now whenever a dv survivor uses the term "perfect victim" the masses will immediately associate that valid term with Amber and maybe even invalidate their experience, I mean if someone uses the same terms Amber does then clearly they are the narcissistic abuser & obviously they were inspired by her, right? …Wrong. Most ppl won’t know this tho. Ugh.
Thanks for nothing Amber🤦🏻♀️she’s the reason why we can’t have nice things
Acting
You might think she's full of it, but the evidence is clear that she isn't.
Johnny's bed was never the same.
I was a victim of domestic violence: my ex wife has borderline personality disorder and many of the things Amber said in the taped conversations and the way she said them ran chills down my spine. They were very much alike.
Bless ur heart!!
I agree, my little sister has BPD also. It has been eerily similar, Amber and her.
I really wish you well and am glad you found your way out of this relationship. I personally (as a woman with some psychologically issues) think men are too rarely heard on this matter.
Exactly how I felt when listening to the recordings mate
Happy you're out of it
@@MarcylalaI have my sister, who has BPD too, I guess, and this is how she speaks like Amber, and sadly, my sister is a liar and loves to make up stories to make herself look like a victim all the time. He even thrashed her ex-husband because she is very agile and physically strong. When my parents asked her why she did this, she cried, explaining that she had just defended herself and that she was being treated poorly by her husband. But she told a different story to me, and she was laughing while doing so, and she found it very funny that she beat her husband and pushed him down the staircase. Although I love my sister since we are close friends most of the time, I'm saying this because it's horrifying seeing her through Amber. As children, I recall her casually blackmailing me and our younger brother by telling our parents dirty little secrets like having a porn magazine if we didn't give her what she wanted as payment for upsetting her.
To have your abuser say “I love you” after you’ve broken free of them feels like them trying to push themself on you again. Almost like taunting you, “Look, I’m still here, you’ll never get rid of me. I still love you”. That’s what abusers do not survivors.
They never leave you alone. Not until they've secured themselves an alternate victim. Took mine years to finally let go and stop trying to get me back. I had to file harassment charges several times because no, abusers can't let go.
Well said and so true…
Thats exactly what she is doing. She know's she's out of pocket several million,,, of course being the insane gold digger she is, she would throw that line out to see if JD would take her back again and make all her shit " go away " and go back to her glorious blood sucking lifestyle she had when she was with JD..
She is mental and should seriously be institutionalised.
Mine did that. Fortunately, I had support that helped me get free of that malevolent manipulation. Someone who "loves" you doesn't abuse you like that.
@@karenk2409 Exactly. She “loves” JD’s money, fame, and lifestyle and that’s what she’s still fighting tooth & nail to steal, no matter what lie she has to tell or what depraved depths she has to sink to.
Justice does not require a “perfect victim” it just needs a truthful one.
Or a victim.
that is so F*ing infuriating to DV survivor like me - i never reported my abuser but i have some awesome friends support and i had counseling and that's how i was able to walkway - i was 19 i made a choice not to purse it through court but it was a choice because i had so much support that i knew i can come out it ok, but it wasn't because i though i wasn't a "perfect victim" - anyone who would say that is because the truth is not on their side
@@betitimas4725 💯. She’s stepping on the backs of real survivors to try and push her narrative. I’m so glad you had the support you needed to get out. ♥️♥️
The way she keeps saying we are just gullible bc we like a man’s movies. How many other men in the me too movement did we stand with??? That one triggers me.
Like we would support him regardless. Ugh
Beautifully said.
There was something about Amber’s face in court that instantly told me she was lying. I don’t know what it was, but I was sort of able to pin it down to this look of widened eyes and upturned eyebrows that she has a lot, especially when sat listening to others. It’s an expression that I recognise from my own abusers, almost like a way of saying “look how innocent I am, sitting here listening politely”, head tilted to show she’s listening and all of that stuff. I know nothing about body language but as a DV survivor I could instantly tell from that look that she was lying. She wanted to look innocent and respectful, but for me it was a massive tell that I picked up on immediately.
Same same. I have what I call my manipulative ex-girlfriend who made the same facial expressions. Fake innocence, hiding contempt, and her abusive personality.
YES me too !!!
@@hartwellcomedy I was just about to comment "it's a kind of snakelike contempt, hiding behind feigned innocence". And I saw your comment! So glad other people see this. I think it's pretty common with all cluster B personality disorders. The hatred and superiority behind the false meekness.
If she thought this interview was damage control she was wrong. She’s only making it worse. She really just needs to stop.
You mean she needs to continue lol
She can't stop. Her brain is far too hardwired to expect people to believe her lies. Every experience in her life to this point has proven that to her. She will never allow herself to believe that is no longer true. She will forever search for the correct words to throw together which will eventually make her lies believable.
The courts have set a stop to her...there's no other way she's going to stop
That's the problem now isn't it? She has gone out of her way to claim he was abuser. And blind media has supported her regardless of the truth otherwise. She has been supported and believed even when she lost. So she would not stop. If there were enough people who called her out like media or Hollywood celebs on this, she would have probably not tried to be everywhere giving interviews.
Yep. She needs to go TF away! I hope that biatch never gets another job ever!
When she says "it was the most humiliating and horrible experience of my life," she's describing the Trial not the Abuse. You can see the real emotion in her eyes. She is tearing up and her chin trembles. She was never Abused but this trial did Humiliate her, and she brought this on herself.
Her getting caught in her BS is what’s humiliating and then having to defend her lies is double humiliating and really stressful as it’s hard to keep track of all those lies.. I can’t with this chick! And the most horrible thing she’s ever gone through SHOULD be those excruciatingly detailed episodes of abuse, from 6 to 10+ years ago! And she calls herself a ‘victim’ now? WTF?? Johnny didn’t actually text that to her, right wasn’t it to his sister? And he said “she is BEGGING for global humiliation”. I don’t think Amber even knew about that until he submitted his phone records, ironically she didn’t submit hers. Yes, Amber is just digging herself in deeper and deeper and that must be because of her delusional high opinion of herself.. notice how she is educating us “average people”. She will never learn and never give up… something legal and very serious needs to be done because it’s obvious that even a trial and this verdict has not even slowed her down.. maybe worse now… she is her worst enemy…
Yes! I just commented the same thing. Such a BIG tell that she's lying.
Correct !
Yes, I keep thinking this all the time about her true sad feeling moments, ALL of it is self-pity. All I see is her being salty for getting caught in serious lies and (rightfully) losing. It's basic emotional manipulation and I've seen it way too much back when my mother emotionally and verbally abused me. It pisses me off knowing some people don't know better and actually mistake it for some sort of remorse. To clarify I'm pissed at Amber for continuing to abuse, not those who don't know better.
Exactly!!!
An abuser says " no one will believe you or nobody will care" this was said to me as a child from my abusive sister. Amber said these exact words to Johnny. This went off like fireworks when I heard it.
That is so true! Good point! They do say that!
Her interviewer deserves an award for keeping a straight face as she listened to Amber’s answers. What a skill.
As an abusive survivor, this all upsets me!
When I was 14 (I’m now 32) I was physically, mentally, & sexually abused by my 18 year old “boyfriend” until the age of 16. Everything AH has said from trial to interviews has offended me. My perception is that she tried to envision what a suspenseful movie about an abuse survivor would look like… then she built a character for court that suffered some of the worst pains imaginable. And finally at the end of the movie the survivor forgives & loves the abuser in the most dramatic format.
I would never express love for the person who abused me… he robbed me of so much in my youth & enjoyed every moment. AH has created a character in which the most traumatic experiences were endured & now she intends to perpetuate her role as “the wronged victim”… it hearts my heart & turns my stomach!
Thank you for sharing your story with us ❤️. Looks to me from your profile pic that you’ve left that frog in the past and found your prince. I wish you all the happiness in the world.
So sorry for your experiences and your pain
She is a malignant narcissist and this is the type of toxic and abusive behavior (just as you described) and is something you can count on from them. For example, she has no empathy so she has to create it by mimicking empathy in these scenes from "her" made-up movie. They do not respect authority or the law either. If they are proven wrong they will keep poking the bear no matter what. It's hard to get them to stop. Johnny shouldn't take the bate though. This is very triggering and I wonder if for him as well -- Cptsd can come from narcissistic abuse which is something I went through. The majority of the public already believes him. Pretty soon the MSM won't be interested and hopefully, they will move on to something else.
I can relate to your comment so much... sending love and light❤️
@@TheBehavioralArts … Thank you so much & yes, I have an amazing husband & 3 beautiful daughters & now have the ability to live in peace! Keep up your amazing work here💕
"I'm not a perfect victim". Excuse me, didn't she testify that she would NEVER call herself a victim? 🤔
She said a lot.. at this point no one can keep track of her nonsense 😑
🤣🤣🤣
Yup
She knows people don't see her as a victim because she's full of contempt, superiority complex...not what a victim sees self as.
Her team must have someone reading social medias and giving her feedback. That's why she stopped fake crying on the stand, because she was getting clowned -Dog, bee- among else, for her dry tears.
A liar with a bad memory.
I think she was telling the truth when she said “loaning her voice to a bigger cultural conversation at the time.” To me, that screams “i created a story to share during a bigger cultural conversation we were having at the time.” Shes telling on herself. She saw what was happening with women in the media, she saw the opportunity being with an A list celebrity with known problems, and she took the opportunity to feign an abuse story people would be willing to accept.
yes! She ws trying to ride the coattails of the "me,too" movement for some increased popularity and some interest in her. It didn't work!!! She is a very disturbed and very dangerous manipulator, and I am soooo glad that Johnny finally saw her for what she is, and escaped!!!!!!!!!!
She was not an A lost celebrity . Not by a long long long shot lol
@@Allyourbase1990”of being with an A list celebrity” meaning Johnny Depp. Not her being that celebrity
her friends are all activists too.
@@misshestermofet2288 and with true believers, the ends justify the means, even lying about an abusive marriage, by reversing the roles. Amber was the abuser.
I'm an abuse survivor, not in relation with DV, but during my childhood. I'm studying psychology right now, and that also sheds some light on everything for myself. There's a clear timeline in events or non-events for me. Sounds weird at first, but let me explain: as I was younger, around 4 to 8 maybe even 9 years old, there was stuff happening to me, I can't clearly remember, just parts of it, and even those are really blurry. It's often hard enough to believe myself that it happened, I would never paint an overly dramatic picture of it. The other thing is, at one point I started to consciously recollect abusive events in my life, which has two causes. The first one, I grew older, my brain started handling things differently, I developed more of a self-sense. The second thing was, it wasn't sexual abuse. Now, I know myself better than anyone else ever could, and I'm pretty sure, would it have been another act of sexual abuse, I would've gone back into the state that I was in as younger child; I'm sure I would struggle with my recollection just as much as I do for the few years earlier. That's something common, something that protects our brains from such horrible moments, and even though I hate the fact that everything is so blurry in my mind, I'm glad that I can't recall every single moment of it. What I effectively wanted to say is; You don't just forget some parts of the abuse and remember others randomly. It's just not how it works. I don't know. It was just something that came up out of a rarely visited place in myself, and maybe being heard is just something I always wanted. Oh well, that got emotional pretty fast. Still, thanks to everyone who took their time to read this, whether there is a response to it or not. And my final conclusion: Amber Heard's disgusting behavior triggered me. I'm sure that tells something, at least it does to me.
(Sorry if my phrasing or word choice seems weird at some point, English isn't my native language.)
I feel really seen by this comment and was just having the same thoughts as you earlier today!
*virtual hug offer*
@@FairyBogFather I'm glad it made you feel seen, because you are. I think a lot of abuse survivors had the same thoughts, therapists, people who are close with survivors, you name it - and like Amber Heard showed us more than clearly, no act in the world comes close to what people like us, who encountered abuse, really go through.
@@g.strobl4458 𝗢𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁𝗲𝗱
@@cheddarbeansoup *virtual hug* There you are :-)
Someone should explain to her that someone saying "you gave the performance of your life" doesnt necessitate it being a good performance
@F F And bee jewelry. 🤣
@no time left stop posting fake rando videos
🤣 That's so true!
@F F 🤣🤣🤣
Lol true
Amber says, the trial was the most humiliating and horrible thing she's ever been through. Well damn... i thought being emotionally, physically and sexually abused was the worst thing she's ever been through. Nice to know she has her traumas prioritized.
Good pick up.
Relative value statement.
A bit terrifying if you assume both events are real but I think it places real trauma over invented trauma and is thus actually honest and healthy.
That bothered me as well. But I also guess that she'd easily just say that "oh yeah, of course, that was way way worse, how could it not have been?" It's kind of her pattern (I guess) that every time something bad happens it's the most humiliating and dehumanising thing she's ever experienced.
For a narcissist, the revealing of themselves and the breaking of their carefully crafted public image is a nightmare. This is what they focus on the most. To lose it is to them the most horrible thing.
States that but then says she has absolutely no bad feelings towards Johnny! Like….what?!?! What?!
Being abused in childhood still creates anger in me even after therapy. It's the betrayal. How do you love someone who betrays you, mocks you and then blames you. Clearly a lie, it has to be
Exactly
Incredibly well said, and so true. The rage is the hardest thing for me to deal with when it comes to my childhood experiences
As an abuse survivor, this angers me that I was shouting at my screen while watching the interview. She clearly doesn't know how it is to be violently abused and it just makes my blood boil that she even has the audacity to separate herself from all of us DV victims, if she was indeed abused, which I highly doubt. She is just a liar and a gold digger who is using the pain of other women to get what she wants.
She admitted to using the pains of others by "becoming part of a larger conversation."
“ I still love him” are the words of an abuser trying to lure their victim back, the words of someone who is not done yet.
Exactly! It reeks of desperation and manipulation... It's not what a victim would say.
I wondered that, too. When she said that, I thought, “Is she hoping he’ll hear this and not ask for the money during sentencing?”
Yes, my reaction was "Eeeeeeeewwweww so gross"
I wondered the same thing!
Exactly. She's hoovering and love bombing even now. She's so toxic, I'm starting to wonder how Johnny got away from her alive.
I love how she’s magically a “VICTIM” now, but when Camille suggested she was trying to be seen as a victim, Amber lost her shit 🤷🏻♀️
And Savanna is channeling all of us when she touched on the “donated vs pledged” segment. Her face was everything!
Yes! I wanted Johnny's lawyers to jump all over the fact she was so angry about being called a victim.
I said the same thing! She was heated when she was called a “victim” during trial.🧐
@@susand me too!
Savannah Guthrie also put an provocative spin on the opening "the public is disgusted and has no sympathy for either of you." Amber went blank for a second trying not to get mad.
@@susand she bit Camille's head off at the inference. The jury had the best view of her in the room. There they were seeing her getting weepy without tears when she's being questioned by her own lawyers, turning it on and off like a switch if there was an objection. Terrible client. Terrible Witness. And by all accounts terrible person.
I love your passion when talking about her being a perfect victim. 100% truth. What blatant disrespect for real victims. I am glad this was publicized, so many people watched it. I think it opened a lot of eyes out there, and hopefully push some people that are victims to try to escape their situation.
I love how passionate you are when speaking about the "types" of victims. That speaks volumes to me about your morals.
On the stand a few weeks ago: "I NEVER wanted to be seen as a victim, nor have I ever called myself one."
Now: "I'm not a perfect victim, I'm not a likable victim."
👏🏾!!! You caught that. Thank you !
And as I've commented on this before, Amber, what in the world is a "perfect victim"
Woooow great catch!!!! 👏🏻
Every time I hear her say she's not a perfect victim I YELL "that's because you're NOT A VICTIM". No one but me hears me but I can't stand her saying those words. Trying so hard to elicit sympathy.
“I’m not a ______ victim, I'm not a _____victim.”
The problem with AH is that she thinks she’s smarter than she really is
She thinks she is superior to all others. She is the lion and all others are her bunnies to toy with.
To the jury, the judge, the lawyers, the court system, the common regular people, randos.
She’s used to drama queening and manipulating and seducing her way thru
Yep! Agreed! Lol! Like when she was screaming at JD in a recording, taunting him about him new girlfriend - told him to call her on the phone and she spells out phone as “F-o-n-n” the says “oh I’m sorry, I meant “f-o-n-e”....I laugh often over her apparent idiocy! She gaslights men to THINK she has independent thought and ideas and intelligence - but she’s only empty space that she fills with key phrases and words to get her through the next interaction and to get her way! She has no integrity at all!
@@cilandialane3084 ...men!
Love how she says she not there to all anyone names...when 5 minutes before she literally called witnesses “randos”....calling people names! Lol
The feeling I get is that she has never even once been afraid of Johnny. The image I'm getting is that she tries to invade his space and he tries to retreat. When she says she's not a perfect victim, I think what she means is that she's an aggressive victim. I'm not sure what that is, but I think that's what she's saying.
That would be a narcissist abuser
No matter what they do to others they're still somehow the victim
@@Pookiepossum That says it. It seems as if she views her aggression as self defense. I think people with disorders like this are out of touch with reality. They treat people a certain way out of force of habit, without recognizing what they are doing. People who are emotionally abusive don't know they are abusive.
Dude, you’re awesome! Thank you for sharing your well-educated insights, as well as getting upset at the things that matter. She is clearly a troubled individual, who is hurting, and has developed negative coping strategies to deal with her unresolved life tensions. But, to say she’s the voice or face of survivors of abuse because she was involved in a ‘cultural conversation at that time’ is OUTRAGEOUS!!! Thank you, again, for not remaining unbiased when you see injustice! 🧡
You got me choked up defending "there is no perfect victim". THANK YOU!!!!!!! She has been infuriating to watch. I saw so much of my abuser in her it's almost scary. THANK YOU again for everything you said!
I honestly felt like she was trying to make herself a victim again! “You’re saying I’m not a perfect victim…that makes me even more a victim cos you’re saying I’m not a good victim and you don’t like me…you’re a bully cos you don’t like me and I’m YOUR victim”.
Absolutely this.
@@maryfarrell9439 All the while we have her fantastic statement that she has never been wanting to be seen as a victim.. Well then love, what's this whole story about ?..
@@decay79 This trial has proved that personality is more attractive than physical beauty. I don't think there's a single self respecting man in this world who finds her attractive at all
YES to this whole comment. ❤️
It has taken me 3 decades and hundreds of hours of therapy to be able to say "I wish him well". And I am lying through my teeth when I say it, but at least I can get the words out now. And my abuser didnt do half the things she claimed Johnny did.
This whole thing has been very triggering. She was 100% correct when she said this was a setback for woman. It was and that's because she made a mockery out of us. How many victims are now going to be told "oK aMbEr HeArD"
I wonder how many of her current supporters are survivors. Not many I imagine.
Hopefully none.
Those prominent feminists who continue to support AH are hurting women equally bad. They paint feminism to be a war on all men and I can’t stand it. Several has stated that they’d wish we would support AH bc of the fact that she’s a woman, even tho if she’s lying about the abuse. I couldn’t believe my own eyes, when I saw this opinion being aired.
Why isn’t the truth the important part?? They’re guilty of what all feminists has bashed the patriarchy for: The caring, supporting and protecting a person due to their gender alone, regardless of the person’s abusive and rotten behavior. I thought this was exactly what feminists wanted to stop!
As a feminist I’m just as upset with those feminists, as I am with AH. Feminism is about equal respect, equal possibilities and the equal right to be heard as a victim. Not turning the tables and become what is wrong with patriarchy. Why would anyone want that?
I say this as a left feminist btw 😏
Exactly 💯 I'm a DV SV survivor as well, I've lived with severe PTSD and I can straight up tell you she's lying through her teeth about all of it!! She wouldn't know PTSD if it hit her in her arrogant forehead!!!! And she's so proud of her pathetic attempts at making big statements that make no sense at all, this woman is a real piece of work!!
So true and I am so sorry this person completely screwed any actual abuse survivors!!!
Thank you for this video. I never thought that I could receive so much purging and closure and strength from this trial. Dr. Curry's testimony, other therapists' analysis, body language videos, behaviorists, and particularly this very video led me to realize what happened to me was not my fault. I can stop feeling as though I failed and can stop wondering how I could have persuaded them to not do what they did to me. I now know that was never going to happen. I was in the presence of a very deceptive malignant narcissist in two of my former supervisors, a pity seeking vulnerable/malignant narcissist in my sister, and a grandiose narcissist in my ex friend. I'm still not able to talk about other experiences. It was all right in front of me. I just didn't know what to look for while reflecting on everything that has happened. I feel soooo much relief and extra power. Words can't come close to describing how freeing and empowering this video was.
I’m also a survivor who had to hide from my abuser. This was over 11 years ago and I’m still afraid, my heart raise to the roof every time I see someone who looks just like him. It didn’t take long to feel the hatred after I successfully freed myself.
I can’t believe that ANYONE feels any kind of love for someone who has hurt them that much so that she tried to get a restraining order against her abuser?! That for me is a big lie, even if it’s an attempt to gain sympathy from others by showing that she’s the bigger person… I don’t know?
I think Amber was trying to ride the coattails of the "me, too" movement by lying and trying to decieve the public into believing her lies and gaining herself some more popularity and intrest in her career. It didn't work!!! Thank God!!!!!!!!
When Amber said “I’m not a perfect victim” it confirmed my suspicion she was just playing a part for the cameras. Amber’s idea of a “perfect” victim is a fragile woman who breaks down in tears when recalling the abuse she suffered. Amber tried to play what she thought was a perfect victim and she failed miserably
I think she was just trying to manipulate.
I think she watched those Lifetime movies highlighting spousal abuse and took them to be documentaries.
but there are actual victims of dv or rape, who are denied to file a complaint at the police station... because the policemen don't take them seriously. because those victims don't look like the "good victim", they don't cry, they aren't bruised, or they're still drunk, their clothes aren't torn, or they're prostitutes... the prejudices are real.
They jumped on Dr Spiegel saying "we don't expect our victims to be perfect" (one of the very little I agreed with him on), and ever since then she & Elaine etc have talked about her as "an imperfect victim" because they think it makes a great soundbite/sub-header etc.
The trouble is, that AH has trouble switching the perspectives and so the opposite of her being an imperfect victim is her being _not a perfect victim_, which to her means that she blieves a perfect victim exists (and we know from her court reaction what she thinks of victims). However, the wording doesn't translate like that for the reason Spidey highlights....there is "no perfect victim" because the connotations of thinking someone is a "perfect" for being a victim is abhorent to most of us - in fact, I'd go so far as to say, that her attitude is the way an abuser would think "this person will make the perfect target because they're a man & use drugs, so no on will believe him, i might even get him believing it himself if I convince him he did stuff when he passed out." = perfect victim to get their hooks in. Sickening.
However, she seems to have already forgotten her aggressive rebuttal of Camille calling her out on wanting to be seen as a victim, when she showed us what she actually thinks about victims (on top of the way she's talked the rest of the time about JD on the tapes when she hit him or he tried to remove himself from her physical fight etc), she thinks victims are weak, and even if it would have bolstered her story in the heat of that moment in court she showed us that _she's_ not weak & so not a victim. If at the time she'd said "I'm not a victim, I'm a survivor," then the conversation would have been different.
She's all about her soundbites though, that's why we have this "I'm not a good victim, I'm not a perfect victim" response, it's like she thinks she's in an episode of Law & Order SVU. You can almost hear their dramatic transition noise they make on the show whenever she pauses.
Exactly and there’s no such thing as a “perfect victim” LMAO.
I am very empathetic. I am a sympathy crier, big time! Every time AH shows “sadness” I only feel embarrassment. I cringe. It’s not real. I’ve felt nothing but embarrassment and anger when watching her.
The “perfect victim” comment had me hot! Didn’t she say she never saw herself as a victim? And now she is saying she wasn’t the “perfect victim” and that’s why she wasn’t believed?! Ugh this woman makes me angry. She is her own worst enemy. The more she talks, the deeper the hole she digs.
same!! Except I felt confusion for whatever reason. I caught myself having to relax my face because I had WTF lines BAD.
Isaac on the stand saying how awful this has been for everyone brought a tear to my eye. never once did she.
Spidey nearly made me cry a few times in this video. Not Amber though.
I am extremely empathetic too and Amber wasn’t able to get any sad emotional reactions from me. She is so fake.
This hole she is digging cannot be deep enough! I think she is suffering from schizophrenia! Not one sentence make sense and it's more or less word salat... fire! 🥵🥵🥵
As an abuse survivor, this whole circus of a trial was enraging, as I’m sure it was for most survivors and those close to them (and pretty much most other people who watched it as well!). Watching her try to cry on the stand made me so angry I didn’t even know what to do with myself. Seeing her smirks so inconsistent with the weight of any given situation and hearing not only her constant lies but the way her voice sounds when she thinks she convinced us she’s telling the truth; or the way she looks so pompous in her attempts to look like she’s putting on a brave face…sure, she’s had to put on a brave face, a brave face in the wake of the “global humiliation” and intense public scrutiny that she’s created for herself…but she’s never, ever had to live with somebody who was both the person she thought she loved and her abuser, never had to look somebody in the eyes and feel the intense anxiety of not know whether she’ll make it through the day without being hurt physically or mentally by the person she thought she trusted, never had to go day after day with less and less hope that things will ever change or get better and wondering when the day might be that it’s too much to handle anymore, never been truly, purely afraid of the person she called her partner…(and of course everybody’s personal situation and journey is different, not exclusive to what I just wrote out which is just a very basic portrayal of my own experience and understanding…though apparently Ms. Heard thinks there’s a cookie-cutter shape of an abuse victim…when really there’s such a wide scope of what people have to live with in an abusive situation)…
she’s never had to stand up and tell others (truthfully) about the terrible things she had to live through for the sake of possibly helping others, because, and this just makes me sick, not even angry, just sick, she’s not helping people living with or who have lived with abuse in heir lives, we all know that, but the fact that she genuinely thought she would be our voice…not because she’d lived through it and felt some sort of continuity with us, but because she thought it looked good on her…that’s literally the reason…she loved the attention, the idea of this “victimhood” I like to call it…it’s so obvious and the one thing that makes the rage I feel toward her manageable is the fact that people were able to see through her lies, thankfully.
That, and the fact that this case has shone light on what a survivor of abuse actually is, not this character she played, but what it all actually means, and has extended that consideration to men who are survivors of abuse, which is so very important.
Anyway, I don’t know if any of that made a whole lot of sense…I just feel so strongly about this in particular. And I do try to remain open minded and remind myself that she’s a person, nobody is perfect, surely she’s had her own personal struggles and this all must be very stressful for her…but none of that excuses the disgusting disservice she’s done for those she claimed to stand up for-in solidarity with-it’s almost unforgivable…
On a lighter note 😮💨🙂I’ve been watching your videos since the start of this whole debacle and I genuinely appreciate your analysis of behavior and body language. You’re so entertaining to watch and you’ve also helped shed a light on how it is we know somebody is lying, when so often all we know is that the lies are being told! That context and background knowledge is so beneficial. Thank you for sharing it with us. And thank you for being considerate with the time stamp in this video. Your ability to empathize while remaining professionally objective is one of the several reasons I very much enjoy your videos :)
Well said, Rebecca! Well done! 👏 👏 👏
Well said for sure, what breaks my heart about all this. Is Johnny was the victim, can you imagine being the victim...but getting accused of being the abuser?!?!?!? I mean my world would have been absolutely crushed to pieces if that happened to me. I mean devastation at its highest power, id feel so unheard and small and helpless. It's too much for me to think about sometimes!
@@TEEEEEEPEEEEEE101 you’re absolutely right. I think especially for people with lots of insecurities and low self-esteem (which people living with an abusive partner often relate to), this would absolutely be devastating. I personally hate it when I’m falsely accused of something (doesn’t happen often) or even when somebody misunderstands me or some aspect of myself (happens quite often) and I know how deep the urge runs to clear my name or correct somebody who might be mistaken about me.
Then, imagine being uber-famous and having virtually the entire world think something awful about you, that you committed heinous crimes against not only another human being, but a domestic partner…I don’t know how he stayed sane, to be honest. And to have literally his entire life put on blast in order to clear his name…he did so with poise and grace and I, along with many, many others I’m sure, commend him.
From another perspective though, being a famous actor may have had its benefits in this situation, which your normal, everyday person may not have had. As simplistic and shallow as this may sound, money does make things easier (of course it doesn’t buy happiness, but if we’re being totally honest, having complete financial security eases people of the stresses that money can bring, therefore making it just a bit easier to potentially enjoy life…). Plus, I’m sure he’s used to people thinking all kinds of things about him which aren’t true, good or bad. He’s been in his field of career for quite some time now, and to be able to stick it out like he has, I’m sure he’s had to grow some thick skin when it comes to the comments and beliefs and judgments of others.
Although, this is on a scale which I’m not sure has really been seen in some time, and no similar examples come to mind (though I’m not all too knowledgeable about the goings-on of celebrities, to be honest).
When it comes down to it, I obviously can’t comment accurately as I’m not in his shoes. It would be very interesting to pick his brain on what his experience was like…he’s already given extensive details of his time with Amber Heard, but I’d like to know how he felt facing public scrutiny that was all based on lies and how he felt during the process of clearing his name.
@@rebeccacloud-heinle6863 you're so right again! It most definitely had its advantages being what he is! That is for sure! ... have you listened to any of their recorded conversations? Of them trying to like fix their marriage? That's the heart breaking ones. She's manipulative beyond belief it just kills me thinking about
As a survivor of emotional and psychological abuse, I have never once said I loved my ex or missed him. It’s soo extremely weird and uncomfortable that she says that. Usually abusers will say that about the person they abused while also trying to save face and say how much better they are without them.
Her to say " I understand that the average person.." vs "I understand how people would.." just indicates that she's in a class of her own in her own mind. People , of all walks of life (Hollywood stars included) looked at her and thought the same , not just "the average person".
Exactly!!! Her delusions of grandeur are so embarrassingly off the charts it’s truly just mind boggling.🤦🏻♀️
Because she's so above average, obviously. We poors just couldn't understand her high level intellect.
@no time left stop posting fake rando videos cringe
That is exactly what I though , when she says “ the average person “ is because she thinks she is superior as the rest of the world. Very common of a narcissist behavior.
At least most of us "Average people" know about "Parakeet" and "Parquet" flooring...that still makes me laugh so hard.
Your point about her being genuinely affected by the term "global humiliation" makes a lot of sense to me. If you pay attention, the times during her testimony where she felt the most sincere, were the times when she was talking about how this whole thing has bruised her ego - not when she was describing how she was abused.
That's true, and kinda disgusting..
@@fil0sofia Does kinda means a litlle?
Maybe she's just trying to claim emotions she doesn't have, never has had and never will have. Psychopaths often fake the emotions they cannot feel.
@no time left stop to bully us with your commercial contents!
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My abuse happened over 15 years ago and it still sticks with me to this day. In the way I still flinch when my husband (who has never laid a finger on me) reaches over my head to grab something from a shelf, to when I can become inconsolably upset just hearing or seeing abusive treatment on movies and tv. My abuser even passed away almost 3 years ago in a motorcycle accident and I still feel fear when I think about my past. Idc how much time will pass, I know I will never be the same because of it and that is something I will never be able to forgive him for. For the longest time I blamed myself for “allowing” myself to be in that position and most of my anger was toward myself and I put a lot of the blame on me, sometimes I still do. It has taken me many many years to understand that it wasn’t my fault and I didn’t deserve it. No one does. There is no doubt in my mind that AH does not truly believe she is a victim.
No, you're right. She is infuriating and does nothing but hurt people who have actually been abused and not believed.
As a domestic violence survivor of over 50 years, and as an older woman (67), I can say this. Whenever asked by my therapist to speak about how I feel about my abuser, she knows to prepare for PTSD flashbacks, tears, flushing of my face, profuse sweating and EXTREME nausea...some of the many TRUE symptoms of recalling the person who abused you. I would NEVER say I still loved him. She showed no signs of a true DV survivor and has made a mockery of all the women and men who are.
Exactly what I’m saying! I’m racking my brain for no reason, I feel so bad for Johnny him being a DV survivor, and all actually sexual assault survivors who can’t even get someone to believe them because of people like amber heard who have openly lied about it.
Yes, and sometimes we feel shy about, shame of ourselves, sad, angry, .. this girl has nothing of this, she only wants to look like a hero, the strong one that face her abuser. Blá blá blá. Gives me stress to it. I still think that she's trying go into his mind to try manipulate.
Bless you ❤️
Power to you Linda, thanks for sharing and stay strong. I know nothing of the DV perspectives, I haven’t been involved in it, or nor have I seen it, thank God. Thank-you for sharing your insight.
My friend doesn’t speak out the name of her abuser, nothing would make her mention that name and she wouldn’t look the direction of her abuser too. But Amber mentioned Johnny’s name on countless occasions throughout the trial and was continuously looking at him. It was a complete reverse in Johnny’s case, he wouldn’t look at her or mention her name, he’d rather refer to her as Ms Heard. That made it clear to me who she was
Thank you!!!! I've literally been screaming at the television regarding AH "I love him". I am a survive abuse victim, both DV & SV, & still to this day, over 25 years later, wish nothing on him except for him to rot - I loathe him in every possible way. I am no expert but during the trial it was painfully obvious to me she was lying & I loathe her for her pretence - how dare she - she makes my blood boil.
This was excellent!!! Thank you Spidey!! I appreciate the breakdown you give; i understand now why AH comments made me sooooo angry. With intelligent analysis like this, I don't have to spin out on her bs. Starting my behavioral arts library...thank you.
~another grateful survivor.
She forgave him already
All of us who have experienced abuse, even rape, know that she is not telling the truth. I grew up in domestic violence with my mom as the abusive one, she still is at almost 80s years old. Like Johnny with his childhood trauma the first instinct is to run from it, like he did. It's obvious she's the abuser, but that she puts the jurors down...it's just narcissism, like she thinks if she badgers people enough, beats them down, they'll believe her. Not the way it works.
Especially the bottle part. I would never get over that & I would have gone straight to the hospital and reported it.
DITTO!
I am an abuse survivor. Everything she said made me angry and upset. I truly feel in my heart that she is the biggest and worst liar. She wanted to join the conversation of the me too movement, not "lend her voice"... but to be included for notoriety. Perhaps, moreover, to be close to that side instead of the opposite one that she should have been on, like a murderer trying to help find the missing person he or she kidnapped and killed.
I guess it's possible to have loved the abuser, but to love him or her in present day and not wish any "ill will" towards them is a bit extreme- I feel it's another moment where she tried to paint herself in a positive light, as this all forgiving soul. That's just not real. Again, she's trying to take advantage of her viewers.
I appreciated the warning before her perfect victim comment. I wonder what a perfect victim looks like. What an awful thing to say. As a survivor, she is insinuating that I should look and act a certain way. Why? Very weird thing to say. The only thing that does make sense about that, is what you said in your video. Because she has an idea in her head of what a victim is "supposed to be" and she is trying to exemplify that. Shame on her.
Also, I know it's not discussed in this interview, but the recording where she said over and over "go ahead, tell the world you're an abused man", insinuating that no one would ever believe him, is so telling. Something similar was said to me as a child throughout years of abuse, by my abuser. She is the abuser and I'm glad she has been exposed as such. Johnny is the survivor and I'm so happy he prevailed.
I’m a survivor, everything Amber said and continues to lie about makes my skin crawl. It’s insane how someone can paint themselves to be a victim of abuse (and make it seem like it’s an amazing and heroic thing), but is clearly the abuser. I can’t help but laugh at her petty and sad attempts at fake crying, pointing blame at other people and flat out contradicting herself in the same sentence. My heart goes out to all the other angry survivors 💜 I appreciate your videos and your point of view, you truly brighten my day!
I am with you!
Well said. I agree completely.
Omg, that was the worst fake crying I've ever seen in my life! It was painful to watch.
"Perfect victim" infuriates me as well. She is so consumed with what people "think". It's gross.
Also, as a survivor, I can't even speak my abuser's name without feeling sick. No love for him. Just typing this out is making my stomach hurt. When I meet a stranger with the same first name, I instantly don't trust them. Unfair, yes, but I can't help it.
I thought I was the only one who didn’t trust strangers with the same first name. Sending you peace. ❤️
agree and I relate to everything you said
Thank you for sharing, you made it threw with a stronger heart. Proud of you, keep healing.
Yes, one want to throw up.... If I hear about a person even from the same country as him.... or yes a similar name.... I get sick to my stomach as well.
If I ever had to go to court - I would sit like Johnny did! Not ever see that f***** face again!
Funny how on the stand it was Johnny this and Johnny that. Then in these interviews it's Jack Sparrow... hmm has she been reading DV survivor's comments on social media? Surely not! 🤔
As a survivor, her entire testimony upset me. I've never seen a true survivor look in the eyes of someone questioning them. It took me years to do that after years of intense therapy. She makes my blood boil with her statements.
I can’t watch or listen to her any more, and don’t think I’m alone in that.
I feel the exact same way
As a survivor, could you say that you still love your abuser?
My thoughts exactly!
@@davidmehnert6206 Well I think her poor performance and chaotic logic is quite hilarious to watch lol
I was with someone for over four years and in that time, he went from being so charming and lovable to a mr. Hyde monster. Now a monster is not someone who falls asleep with icecream dribbling over them, or someone who curls up in a ball on the floor, or walks away from a fight if it gets physical. A monster is someone who will hurl your things against a wall, come after you with a fury, constantly belittle you in an argument with the most obscene language, debase your looks, your family, threaten your safety both physically and emotionally, throw you out then ask you what's the problem. That's a monster.. a Jekyll to Hyde character. The only monster I saw in the AH/JD relationship was AH. She has the cackle to go with it and her twisted face as she tries to imagine emotions felt by someone who was actually abused is very ugly to watch. And the arrogance of her, still trying to make people believe her lies, is beyond belief. A horrible person, as I said to the monster I left. Luckily I got away. Thing is, he's also completely unaware of his monstrosity. They have personality disorders - in effect she possibly can't help it but that is no excuse to continue the facade. Get help. Stop playing the victim when you're the monster.
Ironically Amber did pretty much every single thing you listed as what a monster actually does lmao. She even summited " evidence" that literally proved she was abusing him. She's honestly beyond dumb
She said on the stand that she never called herself a victim. Now she’s calling herself a victim.
So I'm a survivor of rape and sexual assault by over 5 different men. I've never told my story anywhere, and only a few people in my life know about it. I can't connect with Amber on her allegations of physical abuse, but when she accused Johnny of sexual abuse, it became personal for me. One of the people that raped me was an ex-boyfriend who I thought I had loved. The day he did that to me, I lost every romantic feeling I'd ever felt with him. Sure, the memories of feeling in love were still there, and I could even recall them today, but never in a million years would I ever say "Yes, I still love him" if someone asked me that question.
Also, I just wanted to say from the bottom of my heart, thank you for the genuine empathy and anger you expressed in this video for every victim of abuse out there. It wasn't hearing Amber say horrible things like "I'm not a perfect victim" that made me cry, it was seeing that there are people like you who care so deeply that it brings them to deep emotion. Your videos have become much more than reactions to body language for me. They've made me feel seen and loved and that there are people willing to fight for the victims. Thank you
I’m very touched by your story, and hope you find strength, love, peace and healing ❤️🩹. Sending you love and hugs (from Canada) 🇨🇦♥️
You are exactly right, abuse and rape kills any previous respect or affection that you had for that person
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing your view and experience with us
I am so sorry that happened to you. Thanks for sharing your experience! Sending love!❤️
@syd vischer stay strong
If she had been sexually abused in the way she stated, there is NO way on earth she could have no ill feeling towards him. And you're right, all through the trial she tried to paint him as a 'monster'. Where did that go? She is a very sick and deluded woman. No wonder so many DV victims are angered by her. In this interview, she even admits that she's not part of that 'group'.
yes, because she is the type of woman that will keep people from believing true abuse survivors in the future. she did not only use JD, she also used all survivors.
In the trial, she had audacity to say she never called herself a victim 😳 what the actual
}*€k ?! Sorry, but seriously!
She apparently has no ill will to any of his witnesses either.., not even the 'Randos'
Facts 💯 She keeps exposing her lies...lol 🙄🤣
Yess that part was so shocking!
Holy cow! I am an abuse survivor and I can't stand my ex. If anyone asks me, I will even tell you why I can't stand him. In fact, if he left this earth tomorrow I wouldn't shed a tear nor would I ever say I love/loved him because I know that is NOT love in any way, shape or form. She even believes her lies which makes her narcissistic.
I was in a very toxic and mentally abusive “relationship” (I say relationship in quotes bc we were never official) so her saying “I loved him” and changing it to “I love him” was not only inconsistent, it made no sense! When I ended the situation I had a long road of healing and I still am! The fact that she thinks it’s ok to say things like “I’m not the perfect victim” is not only insulting it’s ridiculous! When I ended the situation, I was angry and felt humiliated that I could fall for some trap!
I am a survivor of verbal and physical abuse from my ex husband, and have C-PTSD from it. A lot of things AH has said trigger me in the wrong way. I think, most of all, her statement of "Why would I?" on the stand, so nonchalantly, about whether she'd be afraid of the repercussions of sharing a disrespectful photo of "her abuser". I would NEVER. EVER. Because my very first thought would be how severely I would be beaten after doing something like that. You can't do that to a real abuser without knowing you'd be violently attacked. That was the defining moment for me.
Her stating she still loves him and smiling when discussing their relationship proves he was a good man to her and never an abuser. I always think, was I even in love? Or was it simply trauma bonding? For me, I have zero positive feelings for him. My stomach churns at the very thought of being with him and I feel physically sick. She's only proving he's never touched her, she was the abuser, and she longs for the times when someone was good to her. You never long for times when you were abused. And when you're out of a relationship like that, no amount of good times will overshadow the reality of the bad. Every time I watch her, I feel sick. Because she is the one who reminds me of my abuser, not JD. The abuser is the one who wants back in, not the victim.
Thank you for raising your voice.
I thought that comment was incredibly telling as well...
@@jessicacortese1168 There are so many survivors out there that need to. We need to stand up and protect each other. It's the only way to move forward.
I just replied to someone else’s comment about this. I’m reading through all of these from the top and at least three of us so far have listed “Why would I?“ in it’s quoted form FIRST! We get it!! I wanted to scream at some of the LawTubers that “wait, you’re missing something extremely important here.” Abuse survivors get it.
"The abuser is the one that wants back in, not the victim." This is absolutely correct.
As someone who has experienced abuse, her lies are insulting in my opinion. Gaining sympathy on the backs of real victims to prop herself up. Terrible 😢
And yet she’s disgusted by us really. Thinks real survivors are weak. Like men who can express their emotions.
She’s delusional
My sentiments exactly.
@@Jezebel066 Exactly! 💯 She is truly, truly unbelievable. I truly hope & pray that she gets much therapy, especially as she's now a Mother! I'm a Psychologist, and let me say, there is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with getting therapy. And I'd say, she would be doing the correct thing, if she starts getting therapy again, and especially geared toward not only her personality issues, but for her to become a much safer & loving new Mother.
I learn so much too, from you, as well, The Behavioral Arts!!! I would love to work with you at different times. Especially with you having the Mentalist abilities, and then myself having 2 degrees in Clinical Psychology, Abnormal Psychology, & then too, having certificates The, in The Art Form of Abnormalities in Psychology. Is there another media that may have your email, or other way to contact? Thank you so very much hun! Kristin 😘😓😱🔥🙏
At this point (and for weeks now), she's making a majority of us, real victims, sick to our stomachs.
Can't imagine what it all was for Johnny, the whole trial, the choice to have to expose himself so thoroughly in order to have a chance to win, and now this...
I'm so glad he's now able to feel the wide, deep support, worldwide, of other abuse victims, and his fans.
He's moving on.
She's not.
And that on itself tells a lot too.
This is short, concise, and powerful. Thanks Lauren
The Edward Scissorhand thing enraged me!! So glad that you touched on that & so many other amazing points!!
As someone who has been in an abusive relationship, I don’t believe a single word that comes out of her mouth. And so many moments in this interview just made me so angry. Even before I watched the behavioural analysis of her, I always felt like her body language and choice of words wasn’t just off… but even cringeworthy. And as for her words, I feel a lot of things toward my ex boyfriend but love is definitely not a word I would use after so many years free of that relationship. It still keeps my up at night wondering if my ex is out there abusing another young girl because I was too weak and naive to know that I should have pressed some kind of charges against him (I was 17-18).
The "perfect victim" is the role she was and still is trying to play. And she's sad and angry that people didn't appreciate her efforts. There are many lines that she borrowed almost word by word from actually victims on trials. Which is beyond horrible.
Exactly! She must think... Man, i can act, so why didn't they believe me? They must be stupid.
Like Riahnna's testimony
Yes! She has found an identity to be.
didn’t she use the story from the movie “Bad Girl” in court ?
Exactly or she gets upset when it gets recognized and she gets called out for it.. How sick do you have to be to mimic someone else horrific DV/SA Story..
Savanna’s face this whole time is like “I hate my life, this woman is awful, this was a mistake”. It was interesting watching her face progress from somewhat neutral to a more clenched lower face as AH keeps lying and lying. Its probably even more irritating for Savanna since she’s a lawyer and can definitely see all the signs of AH lying and dodging her questions. It started to feel like a interrogation which is nice
I expected a soft ball game tbh, I didn't think she'd receive any push at all. The interviewer definitely deserves some praise.
@@jensenchavez265 But still, takes no accountability for anything and expects us all to believe her lies after we've all heard enough of them? What a piece of work!
Savannah did a good job. You could tell she was frustrated with Amber.
I 100 percent guarantee you she doesn't hate her life.
Don't project your self lol
This interview will benefit the interviewer what are you talking about???
You clearly dont know about an opportunity like this is ... she don't hate her life. She took an opportunity d.a.
@@DogSerious Yeah but I'm not talking about AH.
As an dv survivor I have to say this video was very hard for me to watch, and I should have listened when you gave the warning because I literally couldn't stop shaking and I felt like I was hyperventilating! There was no part of her interview that wasn't a lie as far as I'm concerned!
I have often contemplated the idea that Amber is emotionally abusing every DV survivor out there with her lies and trying to become part of the conversation/community. I feel for you.
a few months ago (at 34 years old) I was able to acknowledge (for the first time) that I grew up with an abusive parent. I've always said to myself: You have no time no time to deal with it now. No one will listen to you anyway... Put it aside and move on. And by putting it aside, it didn't happen at all. Even though my friends told me my experiences weren't normal, to me it was perfectly normal...until it became too much. You were right in saying the 'perfect victim' comment would piss me off. it reminded me of something my parent said "I'm sorry I'm not perfect, and that what I say and do is hurting you". So once again, the survivor is being blamed for surviving, and the abuser is playing the victim because they weren't perfect enough. it seriously pisses me off
Funny how she strongly denied being a victim or calling herself a victim during the trial, and then refers to herself as such 3 times within 30 seconds in her very first interview 🤔
A detail I haven't let go of is, during the trial, she never denied the "honorable" part of victim. It boils my blood to know, even subconsciously, she sees her self as an "honorable victim".
She does have minimal awereness of this. If you look at the recordings, she's laughing at Johnny and saying that the world believed her "bullshit," as she put it. You would imagine that she doesn't think about it, but that would be unlikely: she's got nothing else to do.
She goes through what Frued calls introjection and projection.
Most interestingly, a victim would not want to sit through and relive all of these experiences. I imagine she's got a sadistic sense to it, but then again, I don't need to imagine or come to that using logic: there are clips of her smiling in COURT while Johnny Depp recounts not only the abuse he suffered, but his pain in general. Body language has already sorted that out.
These clips would have been worth more to her psychiatrist for diagnosis, than her own view of the world: I would say she does know, judging by these clips, but that she does like what she's done, and can easily see herself as victimized, and entitled to more.
I was sexually abused by my father as a child and also groomed by him throughout my entire childhood and listening to Amber Heard give her testimony was extremely traumatic and distressing for me to hear. I even started having nightmares throughout the trial as it resurfaced so much pain from my childhood but this wasn't because I believed her. It's because I don't. Amber is extremely triggering to those of us who are true survivors but once justice was granted I decided that I wouldn't let her affect me like that ever again. I'm relieved I can now watch these interviews after she lost the case and no longer feel traumatised by her lies or malice. She ultimately lost and her victim became a survivor because of it.
I am so sorry for what you went through! Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you virtual hugs from Norway!
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I thought it was just me that started having nightmares from watching the trial when I thought I had long since put my abuser and the effects in my past! I'm the same now. She is just pathetic and needs to get back in touch with reality
So well said,please look after yourself hope ya doing OK 🫂
Hope you are doing well ❤️
I am a survivor of abuse from 2 relationships. The first I was with for 10 years of hell. The way she blamed and lied reminding me of exactly the way my ex was like. The second abuser used to make up rubbish about me to my family and friends and acted like everything was my fault. The moment I saw her testimony I knew straight away what a huge liar and how abusive she was and how much she reminded me of those two abusers. She is a clear narcissist!, and I can truly show her what an abuse victim is like!. It has taken me 15-20 years to not panic so much as a passenger in a car. I will never forget what I was constantly called, told and made out to be by them.
I truly feel sorry for her daughter I really do!!
I am finally free of a long and miserable time with an emotional abuser. A narcissist. And this makes me feel so angry. It makes me feel like she is trying to gaslight Johnny for as long as she can in the only way she can because she has lost control of being able to do it in person at her own will. It makes me so sick and angry! Everything she says I hear his voice. And she is not any type of victim from that man!
“I am not here to call them any names”- but calls them paid staff and randos… discrediting every one of them
When she says "you and I" to Savannah, I believe it's because her status and being above the "average person" is more important to her than being consistent with her abuse narrative. Shes a narc. Given the chance to push out superiority or the "truth", someone like her will pick superiority every single time.
It's truly insane how full of herself she can still be after all that.
an d saying you and I means it never happened to her
Yup yup
My exact thoughts, she’s saying they’re celebrities & we’re just rando peasants.
Right? There is twice there when she separates herself from the "average person". It's so uncomfortable.
Perfect tour! Thanks for all those artists you speak about.
I've already left a comment with my story in it and just wanted to say that I really love your behavioral analysis Mr Spidey. I find your way of introducing the subject of behavioral psychology very interesting. Keep up the good work ^^
I was told by my Dad that if you don't have something sensible to say don't say anything at all.
There's also a saying that goes something like this.
"Better to stay quiet and have people think you are stupid rather than open your mouth and remove all doubt"
And if you cannot say something nice about anyone, say nothing at all.
Hi all, I was abused physically as a child, and watched my mother get abused by an alcoholic father. At no point did either of us ever talk to him the way AH talked to JD. We were walking on egg shells at all times, and would do anything to not set him off. We would apologies for things we didn't even do so as to not contradict him. When I heard the tapes of AH interacting with JD, it was obvious she was not being abused by him at all or ever. She makes me so angry for faking being a victim of abuse. And I know in my heart she is faking and is a liar.
You are absolutely right. AH antagonizes JD. This is the last thing a victim of DA would ever do. Victims are in survival mode, and do not want to set off the abuser.
I agree. She recorded the stuff to make him look bad and all it did was show it wasn't as she said at all. Her own recordings began digging her own grave and she's carried on since. I think she didn't bank that he'd admit she did it to him and she even taunts him that he won't do that
I can only agree. I was also abused in my childhood too (but not "too much" - dunno how to express it... I just know... well some ppl suffered more)... her obvious lies make me so mad... when you are a victim, you learn to avoid confrontation, you learn to read signs to... flee or whatever you can do when you need, you even learn to get deceptive not to provoke any bad reaction or... some retaliation. And now she talks about "a good victim" ? "a perfect victim" ? ... the only ppl talking about good victims or perfect victims are either the predators... or ppl trying to act perfectly like a victim. PERIOD !!!
She claims she is reacting to abuse ..and it took her a long time because she didn’t know how to respond to it. BUT that doesn’t make any sense because she grew up in a home with an abusive, alcoholic father -to her, her sister, and her mom-so she KNOWS what abuse is. She claims she didn’t know how to respond to abuse so she had to get “used to it” and then knew how to respond back? That doesn’t make sense! She Abused her ex, abused her sister. Friends/people around her..it doesn’t make sense!!
@@kerrysullivan6503 I understand your comment, but I did antagonise an abuser, because I was so angry and they were a coward, when I got stronger and they were weaker, but only when I was in a stronger position, but she's lying through her teeth and the tears are fake x
this is so so interesting! I’ve learnt so much and really admire the clarity of your analysis. great video! 👍🏻
I didn’t know you’re a professional interrogator too! So much knowledge 🤯 That’s amazing.
I'm a DV Survivor and when I watched Amber Heard's interview, I felt sickened to my core. In fact, the entire trial I had a very hard time watching her because it was so triggering for me. She paints a story in her head of what she thinks it's like to be a real DV victim, but anyone that's been TRULY involved in abuse can see right through all of her inconsistencies. Thank you for reflecting on what SO many of us feel, but have a hard time explaining. You make it a lot more manageable.
Yes!! Exactly how I felt too!
Same. I get triggered into anger every time she speaks. And her trying to gaslight the world infuriates me. She only reminds me of my abuser.
Yeah. The perfect victim quote here is utterly disgusting. I've been in situation where my partner was physically abusive (I'm male) and I'm actually offended, not angry per say but deeply saddened by this. The nerve that amber truly believes she is a representative of DV survivors, and by her taking our experiences to be put on a pedestal just to feed her ego and narcissism is abhorrent.
If anything that quote alone proves in my mind amber is a parasite, and a leech that ironically screams abusive and controlling. Smh.
Petiton to remove her as a DV ambassador. she should stop dragging women with her loss!
Yes!
I'm a survivor and Amber has triggered my PTSD since I started observing some of the trial. This interview had me yelling at the screen too. The way she talks about how she loves Johnny and wishes him no ill will - I can't even think back to when my relationship with a psychopath started and seemed wonderful without feeling sick to my stomach! When I discovered the patterns of his behavior, learned what exactly gaslighting was and how it was happening to me, discovered ALL the lies, etc...I have never fallen out of love with someone so quickly. When I realized that I was in very dangerous territory because he was talking about me "disappearing", I couldn't cut ties with him quickly enough.
Thank you for your insight. I see you have a channel for MH and healing. Paying it forward!!! Courage!!! Can’t wait to check it out
Yikes.! Scary stuff. Hope you are doing okay now.
I'm glad you're out of that now!
I agree though, I have lots of ill will and bad feelings towards my abusive ex. There was a couple things from the trial that AH did/said that reminded me of things he had done to me that I had TOTALLY forgotten about.
I am sorry you went thru this. I agree. I once loved my abuser, before he began to beat me. The first time he hit me I "forgave" him. We had been living together a year no abuse at all, we got married and he hit me for the first time on our wedding night. I had hoped it was some isolated freak incident..i justified it as stress, thought it *was just* a one time thing, after all he never did that before, never put me down etc, I couldnt see how he was an abuser yet held it in over a year. I also believed his "I'm sorry" and all that stuff... I honestly didnt want to believe that was the type of man he was. however about a month later he literally kick the shyt out of me.. I knew then he *was* an abusive a$$hole.. I stopped loving him right then and there and now when I look back at the time before the abuse began, I don't see the love I thought was there, I don't feel he "was a great guy", I never look at that first year and a half we were together (before the abuse began) as a magical time... I look back at it as all BS, it wasn't real. I don't know one DV survivor that looks at the time before the abuse as anything positive at all. I have never heard a DV survivor speak of how they loved their abuser (past or currently loving them) I speak at battered women shelter, fundraisers, high schools etc telling my story (I've even spoken before congress) and many many people come up to me afterwards and tell them their stories .. either past or what they are currently going thru... not one has ever spoke of love for their abuser.
Sorry long comment didn't mean to write a book here
I've been severely triggered as well! My mother and brother and 2 long term exes were exactly like AH and it has made me sick to my stomach too. Especially this interview with her being the martyr. She's so sick I really hate her.
Love that you have all the links and sources to back up your points. Which are pretty darn profound dude.
I am an overcomer/survivor with complex PTSD. Being abused by an extreme grandiose narcissist, I see so many similarities in Amber. Those of us who have learned to be hyper intuned to every person in the room in order to dissolve potential conflict or further abuse can clearly see right through Amber's lies and narcissism. She's no victim, but tries to portray one to manipulate others. She's scary to me. I'm so thankful Johnny is finally free of her. 🙌
She doesn’t love him!!! She is obcessed and wants control of him. She needs serious help
yes!! she should stay far away from him..
she wants to control him and take advantage of his fame and $$
Amen!
I’ve seen many comments on other videos by women who were abused. And almost all of them said they could never still love that person. That even hearing that persons name makes them feel sick.
Pretty sure she doesn't know the difference...
I grew up with a mother who has borderline personality disorder and so much of what Amber says reminds me of my mom. Even her facial expressions and gestures are triggering to me. My mom will always paint herself as the confused victim who just wants to love people and be loved in return. My mom is a serial liar who will say whatever she needs to say in order to get her way and get people on her side. I’ve seen people shocked that amber could have lied about everything bc it’s such crazy behavior, but I’ve lived with someone who has behaved in the same way and I know it’s possible.
So terrible what you grew up with.
This this this! I too have a borderline mother and have had relationships with borderlines. Just because one is nice and would never sink so low, does NOT mean others are the same. I mean sheesh, people can be nasty AF. Some women do lie about being abused. "Oh come on, what would a woman gain from that?" Are u f*****g kidding me?! And yes, I too find this triggering. My mum is seriously manipulative. I'm well into adulthood and still suffer the consequences.
Thank you for sharing and I am sorry for what you suffered. I worry about her daughter and what having a parent like that will mean for her...
Sending love and best wishes for you.
What always surprises me is people thinking at some point Amber will admit what she did and admit to her lies, but that's normal people using normal logic on a very troubled person. What someone like Amber will do is double down, which she did with this interview and continue to paint herself in a certain light, which she did.
People forget that for a very long time, Amber's behaviour worked for her. She could convince people she's a good person, a victim or however she likes, but at some point the very behaviour that kept her afloat is her downfall. Problem is, Amber and people like her cannot admit defeat or change. Quite often people suffering from narcissism and borderline personality disorder will commit suicide when they feel the jig is up or continue believing they will eventually win.
Feels this soooo much. Hope everyone who relates can find some healing and know: you're not alone. 💕
I’m an abuse survivor.
While watching this interview, I was so upset that my tear went out.
Because how she expresses things, how she smiles, how she reflect the questions.
Reminds me exactly how my abuser was when he is in front of everyone else.
No one, until today, no one believed that he is an abuser.
I tried… but none of the ways helped…
And I’m a petty person who talked behind his back…
You're so absolutely a genius of analysis please we need more videos of you in every matter!
I’m a DV survivor and AH reminds me so very much of my abuser who was obsessed with controlling me. I started watching the trial as an impartial observer…but it didn’t take me long to realize who was the instigator in the abuse and who was the abused. And watching her during the trial and in these interviews it is apparent to me that she’s trying her very best to get and hold his attention. Unfortunately these antics are at her own expense and making her a pariah to the whole world.
She said in trial that she “NEVER CALLED HERSELF A VICTIM” yet in her interview she states she is “not the perfect victim”. Did anyone else catch this?
Good catch !
I did. !
Because she isn't a victim
She said the op Ed was not about Johnny in this interview. To me that is crazy because I thought all along the op ad was about Johnny!
She contradicts herself all the time! In her testimony she same the op-Ed was about Johnny…. But the interview it’s not. She says she’s not a victim but then talks about how she’s not the perfect victim…. Yes in trial she she I never want to be seen as a victim. She doesn’t know if she’s coming or going. Inconsistent, lying on lies. Not a good look. And I believe this interview made it all worse.
The Amber Heard magic trick was freaking hilarious! “That’s right, synonymously” 🤣
Such an amazing analysis! Loved every word that you had to say. Subscribed
I like how she calls herself a victim and in the court room, insisted she's never called herself a victim
She and her team made up the term “perfect victim” to make excuses for her inconsistent stories that contradicted themselves. “Sure, I bought him a knife, but that’s because I’m not the average / perfect victim.” “Sure, I begged him to come back after I got the restraining order, but that’s because I’m not the perfect victim.” They use it to cover up her lies. Shameful.
They swiped it from Law tube when Hogue said they’re going to have to rely on the “no perfect victim” argument.
Very shameful
Elaine alluded to this too in her interviews
It goes back to the recent past when it was automatic to talk about a woman's entire life history, right down to her choice of underwear, in lurid detail in open court when defending a man on a rape charge. I'm sure no one at the time could describe for you what a 'perfect victim' was, but they sure as hell knew an imperfect one when they saw it's red lacy knickers waved around in court.
I also saw her this on Twitter, her best friend using these terms. The same friend that used the term "scissors for fingers".
I really appreciate your work. I am learning so much. Just today, I pointed at my chiropractor, who is an expert in his first, when I said I wanted to ask him his professional opinion about my health. I’ll practice my index finger to my thumb. Thank you for the time stamp. You are so thoughtful! It’s so nice to be able to skip triggering comments. 🙏🏼🙌🏼💜. I didn’t believe that Amber loves Johnny. I also noticed her use of the past tense. I definitely don’t love my ex’s who were abusive. I’m still angry at their actions and my actions of putting up with it as long as I did.
Been watching for a couple of months mate and loving it to bits. You truly wear your emotions on your sleeve and I love you for it.
Keep it up mate, learning a lot from you. Thank you these videos
As someone who has personal experience with survivors of DV and SA, her statement that she has no hard feelings or ill will feels off, especially after 6 years and a lawsuit. I can see feeling conflicted, especially right after the end of the relationship, feeling some attachment along with anger and hurt and fear and disgust. But nothing but love 6 years later? Absolutely not. Also, the fact that she never once expressed concern that he may hurt someone else was a red flag for me. Speaking out is hard, and from what I've seen, a big motivating factor for survivors to speak out is preventing harm to others in the future. The idea that JD is as violent as she has described, but yet she's not worried about him hurting others seems more than a little off to me. Just my two cents.
Now you mentioned it, "prevent harm to others in the future" if she didn't speak out. Yes, she never made that statement. No concern for other victims.
I agree very much I worry all the time about my ex-husband's new children and his wife I can't even imagine.
Literally said she got a bottle forced inside her, got a broken nose, beaten with heavy rings, dragged across the floor. As any true victim knows, you often want them to get a taste of their own medicine.
Spot on Nichole!
actually didn’t think about that but that’s such a huge point! thanks I totally see it
I can say as a DV survivor...she is full of it, especially saying she has "no ill will toward him." The statement of a "perfect victim" makes my blood boil also!
Where to start with her lies?! The nightmares of being beaten and raped by my first husband are enough for me to still have ill will! The fact that I still deal with those nightmares occasionally makes me still have ill will toward him. The fact that I was terrified of relationships for so long makes me still have ill will still toward him. The fact that he made me believe I was not worthy of love or happiness makes me still have ill will toward him. The fact that I was told every day by him that I was ugly and stupid still makes me have ill will toward him. I could name many other reasons.
Thank God today I know my worth and strength. He was the weak and ugly one...not me! I was a victim...period! She has mocked us DV victims with her lies and she should be ashamed! I truly pray for her ugly heart...she sure needs it.
The way she ferociously claimed in court that she isn't a victim didn't sit well with me. This term of "perfect victim" has been on my mind for days. It makes my blood boil too!!
@@hughmungus431 A survivor, thriver or whatever word one who has been assaulted and abused uses to describe themselves as, whether you like it or not, was indeed a victim. Too bad if you don't like that word! It doesn't make it any less true! The OP had the courage to share their story and you're shutting them down. Your comment actually feels like emotional manipulation!
@@hughmungus431 you are certainly entitled to your opinion....but the word victim is not tied to just women. There are male victims, as well. If that word makes you "feel gross" I really don't know what to tell you. I WAS A VICTIM OF DV! You know what I find gross?! A man or woman thinking it is ok to beat the shit out of their partner, mentally and verbally abuse them, and sexually assault them...that is what I call gross! What I also find gross is any man or woman who accuses an innocent person of these things, when it is not true...that is equally as gross in my opinion. If that is what you took out of my comment, you totally missed the point of it! I have never been told by a male or female that using the word "victim is gross." I will continue to say that I was a victim and survivor of DV! My support group and counselor use the word, as well. You can use whatever word your heart desires, but....so can I! Not trying to be a "prick" either. Your opinion of me is none of my business! Have a great day!
@@thingsthatmakeyagohmmm2291 EXACTLY 💯! Thank you!
@@kellyj79 You are very welcome. As a survivor I can relate to everything you have said. I'm still dealing with the aftermath. I don't feel worthy of love either and the thought of another relationship scares me. I don't know if I could ever be in one again and I most definitely have ill will towards my ex.
23 minutes in... love you!!! 🤣excellent stuff. Thanx for creating & sharing!
I want to thank you, first of all for your videos and your advocacy for victims. I am a survivor of physical/sexual/emotional/mental abuse. I could not be more disgusted by another human being, than I am by Amber. I was completely outraged by the whole "I'm not a perfect victim" thing. There is no such thing as a perfect victim... those two words should never go together in the same sentence or conversation of such. Aside from that, how could anyone that has gone through what so many women have, what Amber claims to have gone through, not have any bad feelings about the person who caused them so much pain physically or mentally? It took me 12 years of a lot of prayer to finally forgive my abuser, but I still harbor bad feelings about what happened to me. How could she not? How could anyone not? Johnny may not have been the perfect partner, but I don't believe for a single moment that he was this horrible monster to her that she tried to make people believe. If he was, I strongly doubt that she wouldn't have any bad feelings about him. 12 years later I still suffer from PTSD because of everything I have gone through. I am so offended by her... She has no right to sit there trying to act like a victim. She has no idea what it feels like to be a real victim of abuse, or what it's like to survive and work every day to overcome such pain. Everytime I watch anything of her, it absolutely infuriates me that she can sit there and try to portray herself as any sort of victim.
❤️ & 🙏🙏🙏 to all the survivors out there... especially for the women who haven't been able to safely leave their situation.
When Amber changed the locks on the penthouse then had James Franco over, I knew she’d never been abused. No abuse victim would attempt that! I’m still scared to death of my ex, who was physically abusive. I moved over 20 years ago to another city, across the country, and for years had unlisted address / phone number so that he had no clue where I was. Abuse victims will leave with NOTHING and not care as long as they can get away. You can tell Amber isn’t afraid of JD. In the last tape of them together, she’s saying she wants a hug from him! She still wanted to stay in his penthouse! She’s not afraid of being around him.
Right, cause she was never the victim.
No victim would want to stay near the abuser! One leaves town and country if necessary - you are so right!
I know exactly how you feel. I agree.
Yes and it was HIS FLAT! can you imagine the results that’d incur if Johnny was really abusive?!
No shit… Did you see how she was staring him down throughout the trail, snoring and smirking almost every time the cameras on her except when she was on the stand! Sickening. Anyone who has been abused knows very well these tactics and move the only abusers do.
I'm a survivor. This interview had me yelling at the walls in frustration. Putting myself in her shoes after she described her alleged abuse at the hands if her husband and then hear her say she still loves him and hold no ill will? No...sorry... that is not how it works. She really must believe that the general public is stupid to think we would believe this tripe.
Don’t worry. Next interview she will get this straightened out and say she hates him for chopping off her big toe.
I am also a survivor. Also do not believe really anything she says but I was in a very emotionally and physically abusive relationship with my ex husband for 7 years and I can still say I have love for him. I dislike (almost hate) the type of person he is but I still have love for him for some reason. We’ve been separated since 2014. He is a horrible father and partner but he was my first real boyfriend and for a long time he was my only friend (he made sure of that). He was the type that when things were good they were really good. He made me feel like the most special person in the world. But when they were bad they were really bad. And of course there were more bad times than good.
She’s OBVIOUSLY never been a victim of DV or SA. “I still love the man that raped me with a glass bottle.” How fucking ridiculous.
@@abigaillimbert6619 …as a wise person once said, “you can’t love a personality disorder - it’s like saying you love untreated diabetes.”
Me too. She's a manipulator and a user, using other people's misery to aggrandize herself. What an AH.
Your analysis is amazing, it was so interesting to follow along with you
I am a DV survivor. Having been a huge Johnny Depp fan for many years, I was shocked by Amber’s allegations as I didn’t want to believe that Johnny could have abused her the way I had been abused. I watched a lot of the trial and it struck me very early on in Amber’s testimony that whatever she considered to be abuse, was nothing like the abuse that I endured for many years. You can’t fake true fear unless you’ve experienced it, and you never forget that fear even years later. For example, my husband suffocated me with a pillow until I passed out. That was 24 years ago and to this day, I’ve never been able to cope with my face being covered up. That includes not being able to wear a face covering during Covid lockdown or even to have an oxygen mask put on in hospital when I required it. Another time he strangled me and I’ve never been able to wear a scarf or any clothing that touches even the bottom of my throat. The police attended my home way too many times to count but I never testified in court because I was too afraid to even be in the same room as him. I would never wish for anyone to endure what I and many others have survived, but to falsely accuse someone, (and someone she claims to love) and declare yourself a victim…wow, that’s low.