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  • @Hellpharmacist1
    @Hellpharmacist1 5 лет назад +565

    My cousin is a dentist. When he was single and on the dating scene, when women (gold diggers) asked him what was his job, he always answered he was mopping the floor of one of the s* restaurant in town. The conversations never last more than 10 minutes. And one day he found one who didn’t care what his job was. They’ve been married for 20 years now ;)

    • @martinomarina
      @martinomarina Год назад +57

      He's a smart guy, i know a guy who owns a business. He lives on a private neightbourhood and drives an expensive car, he got tired of the goldiggers and bought an old Honda car. Istead of presenting himself as the owner of a company he said he was an electrician. Several women passed but finally he got one who didnt care about his job, they have 2 kids and still together after 10 years.

    • @stephenizzy1
      @stephenizzy1 Год назад +8

      😂, I found the same thing on a dating site here in the UK, I'm a mechanical engineer, as soon as I have said that it's the end of the conversation.

    • @JericMesa-MRA-1462
      @JericMesa-MRA-1462 Год назад +4

      When game and P.U.A goes out the window

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Год назад +14

      ​@@stephenizzy1Funny thing is, engineers are pretty much all rich guys, at least the engineers I know. And even electricians make 6 figures easy.

    • @nunofyourbusiness7176
      @nunofyourbusiness7176 Год назад +9

      I wonder if she secretly already knew he was a dentist.

  • @azzir325
    @azzir325 5 лет назад +447

    Man meets a woman in a bar. They have a conversation. During the chat, man asks "would you have sex with a stranger for a million dollars?" Woman reflects, then admits that yes, she would. Man then asks if she would do it for 20 dollars. Woman angrily responds "what kind of a girl do you think I am?" Man replies, "we've already established that. Now we are just haggling over the price."

    • @Courber99
      @Courber99 Год назад +15

      🤣😂🤣😁SAVAGE

    • @azzir325
      @azzir325 Год назад +14

      A very, very OLD joke, actually, with a hint or reality.

    • @cdj7887
      @cdj7887 Год назад +13

      Winston Churchill once said that to a woman.

    • @jakehorvath1201
      @jakehorvath1201 Год назад +2

      .. z

    • @kevinnorris6157
      @kevinnorris6157 Год назад +7

      That’s the best and most truthful joke ive heard all year. I will be using this. Thank you for the free ammo, brother

  • @jimcole6423
    @jimcole6423 5 лет назад +631

    The favoritism given to women by the court during a divorce is the purest form of sexual discrimination.

    • @elimccrae2273
      @elimccrae2273 5 лет назад +11

      That's what keeps the corrupt social money train rolling. lol

    • @CROOKEDALLIGATORMYSTIC
      @CROOKEDALLIGATORMYSTIC 5 лет назад +11

      And she's fucking the judge

    • @WonderBoy0403
      @WonderBoy0403 4 года назад +13

      @@CROOKEDALLIGATORMYSTIC And the bailiff

    • @Name1287I
      @Name1287I 4 года назад

      The favouritism in life to men in life in he recibido is the purest form in sexual discrimination

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 3 года назад +2

      @Rebe Pinete You're right. It's not "diacrimination".

  • @SenorTucano
    @SenorTucano 2 года назад +168

    I once had a tinder date tell me she was a feminist. I promptly stood up and walked out.

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Год назад +13

      Based

    • @feloniousmonk3049
      @feloniousmonk3049 Год назад +7

      Tinder isn't for dates.... it's for hookups.

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Год назад

      @@feloniousmonk3049 It's for both. You're dumb.

    • @765lbsquat
      @765lbsquat Год назад +1

      Tinder is for STDs, because they all have them. Remember herpes and HIV is for life

    • @CruceEntertainment
      @CruceEntertainment 11 месяцев назад +6

      Your first mistake was “Tinder”

  • @salemdunning5954
    @salemdunning5954 5 лет назад +796

    My ex wife loves saying how independant she is. How can anyone say that when they get 1,200 a month from me is psycho.

    •  5 лет назад +16

      Gotta live the MGTOW life style

    • @salemdunning5954
      @salemdunning5954 5 лет назад +11

      @ yes, exactly

    • @brandonb6384
      @brandonb6384 5 лет назад +36

      I overheard a woman at work like 2 weeks ago talk about how she gets half of what her husband makes a month (10k) plus child support. So this bitch makes 60k and some change a year and doesn't even have to work 😂😞

    • @Mcarthywasright
      @Mcarthywasright 5 лет назад +32

      Glad I don’t have an Ex wife, even luckier I never had kids

    • @philliploco5037
      @philliploco5037 5 лет назад +13

      @@brandonb6384 I would nt give the bitch a penny, Thank Satan I have no kids LOL

  • @McOuroborosBurger
    @McOuroborosBurger 5 лет назад +282

    My math teacher in high school also told us to check our potential partners credit score as it tends to be a good indicator of responsibility.

    • @saptab1344
      @saptab1344 3 года назад

      Can you do that without Ssn?

    • @LogicSword3675
      @LogicSword3675 2 года назад +9

      it only reveals how good you are at being in debt.

    • @Winterascent
      @Winterascent Год назад +6

      Interesting, as I knew a women a few years back, and she appears to have just been evicted from her apartment. While I feel bad for her, she also has 2 kids from 2 different men. Not exactly responsible. But, I knew that when she wrecked her car, had multiple 2 DUIs and so many other things. Fun though, but nothing ever more.

    • @dwightrenfield2241
      @dwightrenfield2241 Год назад

      @LogicSword3675 - wrong. It’s not nearly that simple.
      Learn about it before you comment on it. That would require you leaving your mom’s house.

    • @Winterascent
      @Winterascent Год назад +3

      @@dwightrenfield2241 Why do you feel the need to troll a comment over a year after it was left?

  • @bud8329
    @bud8329 5 лет назад +217

    In my lifetime of being single, married, and single, I've been hit on by many more married women than single ones.
    That was always the biggest red flag to me, not even worth messing with.

    • @GG-bi1xo
      @GG-bi1xo 5 лет назад +7

      I may have had a few one night stands with married women unaware. How do you tell the difference?

    • @GG-bi1xo
      @GG-bi1xo 5 лет назад

      @@nemo7782 exactly my point.

    • @carloleodoro4471
      @carloleodoro4471 5 лет назад

      The past i got last few year was.They going out on date.single during sex. At end of nite they need too get home too kids an husdand.

    • @Nattens767
      @Nattens767 4 года назад +1

      Although I've never been married (ain't happening), in my early 30s, I found myself being hit on by a plethora of married women, and some of them weren't even trying to hide that fact. Whether I was single or in a relationship during this time, they still did so and it says so much about them more than anything. I'm no shrink but it's easy to catch on to the fact that these women married a man they came to resent, disappointed that he didn't turn out to be what she wanted, and so finding side dick is their alternate route for some happiness.
      I can happily say I never once gave into any of them, and prevented myself from having a number of problems thrown my way by these twits. I mean, it's not my fault they married some guy they don't fancy anymore, or that it turns out he is a good guy, but even that's not enough. They made the wrong decision, and so it's on them to live with it. I won't be involved.

    • @blueskies1177
      @blueskies1177 3 года назад +2

      @@Nattens767 Good on ya fella! Keep the value of good decent men up, you’re a role model. Most simps wouldn’t say no to married pussy, because they have no self respect - let alone respect for their fellow Band of Brothers.
      You ALWAYS have a choice, not to think with your little head. Better to rub one out than to mess with a brother’s stuff, even if she is begging for it.
      Tell her to go crazy on her rabbit, rather than trying to break the brotherhood of men up.
      You sir, ARE the change we need in the world.
      Respect. 👊

  • @malnig1
    @malnig1 5 лет назад +72

    From my experience if a woman talks about her ex on the first date it's because she is not over him and is using you to get him back.

    • @rafaelriveroll3373
      @rafaelriveroll3373 2 года назад +9

      "If a woman shares a picture of both of you on her social media, is not for you, it's for her ex"

  • @jsabri6324
    @jsabri6324 5 лет назад +1714

    To all you (men) followers with daughters: Please spend a lot of time with your daughters!! Having an involved and loving father is a great antidote to third-wave feminism.

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 5 лет назад +51

      Oh I will don't worry. And for that matter, my father in law was extremely difficult about our first dates. I didn't like it back then, but looking forward I'd be the same for the best interests of my daughter in mind.

    • @eyesofitachi55
      @eyesofitachi55 5 лет назад +42

      @Julie Sabri and so would women who raise their kids instead of leaving them with strangers (single mothers) while going on on new dates 2-3 times a week. Also not dropping their kids on their heads once a month.

    • @erikwolfe2538
      @erikwolfe2538 5 лет назад +27

      I really appreciate your advice Julie! We men need more honest, strong women like you, to help best guide us.

    • @magburner
      @magburner 5 лет назад +51

      I am a male single parent, and this is exactly what I am doing with my daughter. I cannot emphasise how important it is for men to be that positive role model in their daughters lives, because the first relationship they will ever have with a man, is with you, not their first boyfriend, you. So it is important that you are the best man that you can possibly be. Their future life will depend on it.

    • @alexcostan459
      @alexcostan459 5 лет назад +14

      This is a great idea Julie, but my mom is a feminist and is teaching my daughter to be one too. What to I do about that? I've already talked to mom about it...she's very proud of her feminism. So I'm kind of screwed.

  • @eduardedy100
    @eduardedy100 7 лет назад +86

    I was raised by a single mother and these vídeos are gold!

    • @dustinrobertson5416
      @dustinrobertson5416 6 лет назад +6

      So was I. He tells it like it is. I was raised by a single mother, but I'm still a MGTOW and an MRA.

  • @samdog8087
    @samdog8087 5 лет назад +204

    YOU are the prize gentleman, never forget that.

    • @poodlenz
      @poodlenz 5 лет назад +7

      This is the basics..

    • @nobs4689
      @nobs4689 4 года назад +4

      Hell yes sir 👍👍👍

    • @user-vr4ih6jg3n
      @user-vr4ih6jg3n 4 года назад +8

      No f**k that, don't be a prize, be a partner, employer, or a smart investor... something like that. Relationships is business.

    • @Denis-nu9od
      @Denis-nu9od 3 года назад +7

      @@user-vr4ih6jg3n If relationship is a business, then this business gives you constant losses in your time, money and property. No sane person would invest in business like that.

    • @user-vr4ih6jg3n
      @user-vr4ih6jg3n 3 года назад +2

      @@Denis-nu9od It could be profitable, after all, money isn't the only thing that holds value, but with the current laws, and a gynocentric society, no, thank you. It's like investing in a fraudulent business. Expecting to make profit is naïve if put nicely.

  • @rasarmusic1
    @rasarmusic1 5 лет назад +832

    1. Asks what kind of car you have.
    2. Asks how much $ you make.
    3. Asks if you want children.
    4. Asks what you want in a woman.
    5. Mostly talks bad about exes.
    6. “I don’t need a man”
    7. Says she’s a feminist.

    • @ohmytoshi
      @ohmytoshi 5 лет назад +32

      thanks, man. I was looking for the sum-up.

    • @JamesC1337
      @JamesC1337 5 лет назад +72

      Number 3 is actually perfectly reasonable, especially if you don't want to have children. If I was looking for a long term relationship I would ask that on the first or second date, because if she says yes then going on more dates with her would be a waste of both of our time.

    • @elnomareeves4401
      @elnomareeves4401 5 лет назад +7

      I always ask about what he drives - if he doesn’t drive an American made car or truck I want nothing to do with him. If he has a MAGA sticker on his Toyota he’s a LOOSER!!!

    • @britsaunders2151
      @britsaunders2151 5 лет назад +12

      There is one in particular here I need to ask about... What if this woman has a fascination for cars and studies them as a hobby? Like, the only reason I do not ask about cars is because the second they are mentioned my eyes glaze over. Sometimes women just like a topic, homie.

    • @clipclop7962
      @clipclop7962 5 лет назад +13

      @666sigma I'm a woman and I hate feminists!

  • @bulletstee9118
    @bulletstee9118 7 лет назад +26

    My father once said to me don't trust anything that bleeds for a week and still doesn't die .wise man he is

  • @haleberry5939
    @haleberry5939 6 лет назад +403

    I am a mom and IMO This was spot-on. One day I will show this to my boys. They deserve to know this!

  • @atnstn
    @atnstn 5 лет назад +51

    "She says nothing meaningless, and never will." My god, such a powerful quote! Incredible! It stopped me right on the spot! So true!

    • @MCMKids-hw2mi
      @MCMKids-hw2mi 2 года назад +3

      Its a very nice compliment lol

  • @projectleaf2724
    @projectleaf2724 5 лет назад +311

    Her: I don't need a man
    Me: I believe you. Waiter, that'll be two separate checks.

    • @lazywhale7364
      @lazywhale7364 5 лет назад +14

      Still picked up the cheque (it was at my invitation that she came to the restaurant) but considered it to be a very good investment since it meant that I would have skipped all future expenses.

    • @user-wm4je4ct8y
      @user-wm4je4ct8y 5 лет назад +2

      I cannot get a man to let me pay for my part of the check. They will not let me. The guys on this thread are very strange. But then I wouldn't meet men like these in the first place hopefully.

    • @projectleaf2724
      @projectleaf2724 5 лет назад +7

      @@user-wm4je4ct8y That's a red flag on his part then. I have nothing against offering to pay for someone else but, I won't prevent someone from paying if they want. If he was as insisting as you say, he likely has some insecurities that you're better off not dealing with.
      Also realise that most of the guys on this thread have likely had their balls dragged through a societal hell that we call a courtroom. The mindset is a reaction, or an adaptation to our "equal" environment and social norms.

    • @user-wm4je4ct8y
      @user-wm4je4ct8y 5 лет назад

      @@projectleaf2724 One who did that was a very nice male to female transexual. We had an expensive lunch together and she was very determined to be a woman in every way. However when the check came she absolutely wouldn't let me pay for my part of it. I told my mom about this and she said "that's the man in her". She described herself as a lesbian. No two women would ever do this, they would each pay for their own share. But men WANT to pay the check.

    • @projectleaf2724
      @projectleaf2724 5 лет назад +1

      @@user-wm4je4ct8y This person was likely raised on typical Male standards. Your mom is fairly accurate in her statement.

  • @walterwhite751
    @walterwhite751 7 лет назад +395

    this guy should be streamed through every male teenagers school in order to graduate.

    • @papermario2169
      @papermario2169 7 лет назад +27

      Walter White gynocentric education system wouldn't allow young boys to have this life changing information

    • @andrewmartin6217
      @andrewmartin6217 6 лет назад +5

      Here, here!

    • @cjparrotrecalcitrantkore202
      @cjparrotrecalcitrantkore202 6 лет назад

      Walter White
      there are two guaranteed success in sex
      for women ......travel with ugly women
      for men ...............travel with handsome men...
      ( not pretty men)

    • @SalsaColombiaUS
      @SalsaColombiaUS 6 лет назад +4

      And college and army and so on

    • @tressafranklin2437
      @tressafranklin2437 2 года назад

      🤮 horrible idea

  • @JohnDoe-pt7ru
    @JohnDoe-pt7ru 6 лет назад +211

    "How tall are you?"
    I'm a short guy (barely 5'5") and whenever a woman asks this, it's essentially over and she's just seeing how much she can taunt you. When I was younger and more naive, I would answer honestly and make the mistake of playing along.
    Now, I just simply reply with a question of my own: "How much do you weigh?"
    It's amazing how simple this is to both shut down them and embarrass them on the spot.

    • @threethrushes
      @threethrushes 6 лет назад +17

      John Doe It is impossible to engage with someone who acts in bad faith.

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 5 лет назад +13

      Sucks being born short. I only realized later how much of a thing it is to women. A thing that's a given and hard to change / camouflage. Great response on the question, keep it up.

    • @immortalsirens4644
      @immortalsirens4644 5 лет назад

      There r good looking short men out there to so all is not lost lols u r perfect no matter wat others r chasing just find liks minded ppl and theyl see u for u not just a hieght thing lols

    • @JayVal90
      @JayVal90 5 лет назад +6

      @@immortalsirens4644 well... THAT was delusional.

    • @immortalsirens4644
      @immortalsirens4644 5 лет назад

      @@JayVal90 how so f u short no offence lol

  • @fr8fr6dr69
    @fr8fr6dr69 5 лет назад +186

    I have a few first dates that I will never forget. One woman was apparently attracted to the fact that I conveyed in my online profile that I used to fly fighters. When we met, she continually hovered around that fact and believed I did not "look" like a fighter jock. Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer, BTW, neither look nor act like any operational pilot, but apparently this is what she believed. She spent a good 10 minutes "testing" me on this fact, very skeptically, following each of my answers with a "yeah, right" kind of sneer on her face. I was laughing inside. What she really needs to date is an actor, not a real warrior.

    • @theroom8989
      @theroom8989 5 лет назад +13

      That so messed up

    • @Random_Blip
      @Random_Blip 5 лет назад +19

      fr8fr6dr What a way to behave on a first date! She needs a taste of her own medicine ...
      her: "I've only been with a few guys."
      you: "Yeah right!"

    • @rachelgreer1518
      @rachelgreer1518 3 года назад +6

      Dude that's messed up, I'm sorry. I've experienced that sort of shit before being a female ice hockey player. All of us just need to start respecting each other.

    • @cedarbay3994
      @cedarbay3994 2 года назад +9

      “A real warrior” = cannon fodder for a corrupt government.

    • @marcusp905
      @marcusp905 2 года назад

      @@cedarbay3994 shhhhhhh numb nuts ,it's just the Western way of life .

  • @IRussian007
    @IRussian007 5 лет назад +70

    -"What do you do for a living?"
    -"Just trying to live."

  • @johnnycage8327
    @johnnycage8327 7 лет назад +468

    Oh man, i'm in my early 30s and oh boy i'm glad internet exists. I discovered this wise older man. So refreshing to hear man-to-man talk! Great job, pal. Subscribed.

    • @davidl3207
      @davidl3207 7 лет назад +26

      When I was in my early thirties, the Internet existed but not RUclips... with disastrous consequences for me.

    • @kenkhan678
      @kenkhan678 7 лет назад +18

      mavishill Glad to hear your story, I went through the same thing and am only here because I had young children who needed me. male suicide after being fucked over bean entitled woman and the man-hating stem is, in fact one of the main reason for the difference in male and female life spans. It is also the cause of the FALSE STATISTIC that married men live longer than unmarried men.
      male suicide is not considered a problem in society today because men are expendable under feminist doctrine.

    • @Aseutester
      @Aseutester 7 лет назад +9

      Kenek M. Men have always been expendable, but it has got worse over time with the rise of the Gynostate!

    • @sharonserrano1644
      @sharonserrano1644 6 лет назад +2

      Anal Destroyer the Internet destroyed almost all of my husband prior relationships. The Internet is a horrible platform for whores and cheaters. My husband became a computer programer because of this. Smartest thing ever for a man to learn is how to program computers. You can get key logger programs put on the girls computer that you are interested in and see ever keystroke she makes.

    • @maxlisk80
      @maxlisk80 6 лет назад +2

      Sharon Serrano what in God's name are you talking about

  • @CannonballZ-rb7jo
    @CannonballZ-rb7jo 8 лет назад +161

    It is nice that women say some of these things in their online dating profiles, so we already know who not to date.

    • @hens0w
      @hens0w 7 лет назад +14

      its called economic efficiency

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 6 лет назад +1

      BB K
      So then, bars are out of the question? Some healthy stress reduction takes place in bars.

    • @randymorobitto5453
      @randymorobitto5453 6 лет назад

      Roky Erickson rocks - Too many legal risks now, too. "I was too drunk to consent!" You're toast.

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 5 лет назад +2

      Some even dye their hair pink to save us the flagging

    • @jerrybruckhart9134
      @jerrybruckhart9134 5 лет назад +5

      BB K I am 53, been hiking, camping, walking since I was a kid, have met exactly 2 women in 40 years, not buying that.

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 5 лет назад +68

    I like that line from tom cruise when a women sat next to him in one movie he said i cant afford you she says oh im not a hooker he says well then i realy cant afford you.

    • @PaulSmith-iw5zd
      @PaulSmith-iw5zd 5 лет назад +4

      That film is called Jack Reacher. It's based on one of a series of 20 books. You'd probably like them.

    • @aread7
      @aread7 3 года назад

      👍

  • @redbear4027
    @redbear4027 Год назад +18

    My last girlfriend was the worst narcissist I have ever met in my life, the woman I dated before her told me that she was a chameleon. Now I put everything women say through my red pill decoder ring, the clarity is unimaginable. If you listen closely most people will tell you exactly who and what they are you just have to know how to listen properly.

  • @scottclaudet
    @scottclaudet 7 лет назад +604

    "How much money do you make?"
    "I dont Know, how much do you cost?"
    ...lowkey savage

    • @Joe_Blo
      @Joe_Blo 5 лет назад +20

      If she asks, you obviously cannot afford her no matter how much you make.

    • @nazrulnadziruddin9641
      @nazrulnadziruddin9641 5 лет назад +6

      Thanks! Best answer ever. I was looking for answers to this question a long time ago.

    • @infinitetundra
      @infinitetundra 5 лет назад +3

      Jack Reacher

    • @user-wm4je4ct8y
      @user-wm4je4ct8y 5 лет назад

      I've never asked any man that in my life. I don't care.

    • @steezygaming1726
      @steezygaming1726 5 лет назад +1

      straight savage bro. love it. this guys a fucking g

  • @donzaloog1400
    @donzaloog1400 8 лет назад +692

    Woman: "What kind of car do you drive?"
    Me: "I can't tell you that, but I can tell you what's in my rearview mirror"
    Woman: "What?"
    Me: "You"

    • @tabletalk33
      @tabletalk33 8 лет назад +22

      +donzaloog1400 Any woman who asked me that I would get up and leave the dinner table and never look back, not even in my rear view mirror.

    • @sasquatch13ja
      @sasquatch13ja 8 лет назад +8

      I couldn't have responded to this question any better, this is way too funny.

    • @redstorm5184
      @redstorm5184 7 лет назад +15

      that was awesome dude

    • @valhar2000
      @valhar2000 7 лет назад +29

      Woman: "What kind of car do you drive?"
      Me: "Oh dear! I'm sorry sista', but I gotta go take a shit!"
      Me: _[Heads for the exit, gets in car, leaves without looking back.]_

    • @Jordan-Ramses
      @Jordan-Ramses 7 лет назад +29

      I went on a blind date with a woman and she was talking on her phone most of the time for the first 10 minutes. I got up and left. We hadn't even ordered food yet so it cost me nothing.

  • @elizabethhouser822
    @elizabethhouser822 5 лет назад +270

    Talking about money to anyone particularly someone you just met is crass and vulgar, shows poor breeding.

    • @jerrybruckhart9134
      @jerrybruckhart9134 5 лет назад

      @Sinister 1 I know you are asking her, but it doesn't look like she will be getting back here, I would tell them I am a civil waste engineer

    • @weekendpartier
      @weekendpartier 5 лет назад +5

      @Sinister 1 asking you what you do for a living is not the same as asking how much do you make... Are you unintelligent? You can reply in any variety of ways... It's just an ice-breaker question. I might reply, "after graduating from college, I worked in sales for over ten years which allowed me the opportunity to meet new and exciting people. Currently, I use my sales and people skills to run my own business." What do you do?

    • @jerrybruckhart9134
      @jerrybruckhart9134 5 лет назад +1

      @Sinister 1 Hi brother, sorry it took me so long to reply, I missed the notification.
      The reason I would say that is because it is a fancy way of saying garbage man.
      If you are the type that can't "lie" then there is nobody that can help you, your only option is to answer honestly no matter their reason for asking the question.

    • @jerrybruckhart9134
      @jerrybruckhart9134 5 лет назад +1

      @@weekendpartier No, he is not unintelligent, the problem is you are a female, you have NO business here.

    • @weekendpartier
      @weekendpartier 5 лет назад +2

      @Sinister 1 So you wrote: "The real correct response would be "why do you care?". I'm not the type who makes small talk , I make big talk..." Well, if you can't make small talk, then your conversation with a modern educated woman isn't going to go far. You're in a bar, you don't just walk up to a woman and start a conversation on the big question, mystery of life shit... It's all about small talk - it's evolution baby. She's gonna gauge your ability to converse...
      Then you wrote: "I don't give a fuck about your job, your house, your iPhone, or any of the bs most concern themselves with." So, essentially, you're saying you don't give a fuck about that person - you just wanna take them home and fuck them... because as you wrote..
      "None of it matters. I just want to be able to let them know where I stand without hurting there feelings, or explaining myself. I shouldn't have to. It's a dumb question."
      Explaining yourself is the conversation... that's the whole point of going out and conversing....

  • @Inquisitor6321
    @Inquisitor6321 Год назад +20

    Indexed for your convenience.
    1. She asks you what kind of car you drive. 1:52
    2. She asks you how much money you make. 2:41 (Seems like 1 above)
    3. She asks if you want to have kids. 3:38
    4. She asks what you want in a woman. 4:43
    5. She spends a lot of time on the first date telling how bad her ex's were. 5:42
    6. Anytime in the first 100 hours of talking she says she doesn't need a man. 6:58
    7. She's a feminist. 8:13

    • @thomaskingschillerlein7843
      @thomaskingschillerlein7843 Год назад +1

      I luv you. thx very much.

    • @reachlove6779
      @reachlove6779 11 месяцев назад

      How about if she only ask what size shoe do you wear and do you sleep with your Sox on?

  • @Audioholics
    @Audioholics 7 лет назад +612

    I was editing a video tonight and happened on this channel by chance. I literally almost fell off my chair regarding your answer to the question "What do you want in a woman?" Well played sir.

    • @silentwitness536
      @silentwitness536 6 лет назад +13

      You need to buy a man sized chair, not a wussy chair your wife bought for you because youre not allowed to spend money on yourself lol

    • @bandmarc141
      @bandmarc141 6 лет назад +1

      Audioholics Yep that was the highlight of this vid 😂😂😂😂🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @leenaysmith3672
      @leenaysmith3672 6 лет назад

      why?

    • @rdsginia7499
      @rdsginia7499 5 лет назад +4

      Please do not misinterpret "what do you want in a woman" to be a tactic used by women to pretend they are what you want. Women ask this question because they want to know if they meet your criteria. If they do not, they will move on, allowing you to find a woman who does meet your criteria. She's done you a favor by asking.
      Seriously, we're not desperate beings who have to adapt to a man's wants in order to "hook" a man. We know that there are many available men who will love us as we are. We do not need to change for them.
      And, really, when a man views women as such pathetic creatures, they will certainly fail in finding the love, companionship, and sex that they want and need.

    • @jameswalmsley5333
      @jameswalmsley5333 5 лет назад

      @@rdsginia7499 agreed. He seems really bitter. I respect when a woman or man makes them self vulnerable, because it actually shows strength.

  • @YousifNur
    @YousifNur 6 лет назад +1569

    If she tells you she's a feminist on the first date, RUN.

    • @SuperQdaddy
      @SuperQdaddy 6 лет назад +29

      tell her I'm a masochist. .

    • @Camo_Shadow
      @Camo_Shadow 6 лет назад +85

      On the first date? More like if she ever tells you she's a feminist.

    • @isaytheenay5961
      @isaytheenay5961 6 лет назад +101

      Even having signs of feminism makes it not worth the time. Colored hair. Thickened eyebrows. Shaved side of the head. Deliberate 'uglification'. I ditched a girl once just because she said "You don't know how hard it is to be a woman". She kept calling, and I kept letting it go to messages. Feminists are dangerous. We can't afford to fuck around with this. One single sign and it's not worth the risk.

    • @roysheaks1261
      @roysheaks1261 6 лет назад +11

      Thank her!

    • @gewgulkansuhckitt9086
      @gewgulkansuhckitt9086 6 лет назад +30

      Even if the woman denied being a feminist, I'd ask her if she'd ever been a victim of sexism. If she's got that victim mentality that blames others for everything, she'll have a long list of the injustices she thinks have been inflicted on her by men.
      Of course it's possible she really has been victimized, but one quick way to separate truth from fiction is to see how broad the perceived victimization is. A real victim is only going to be the victim of a small minority of men whereas a false victim will see injustice from many sources. A real victim might say, "I had a male boss at one job who didn't treat me right because I was a woman, but all the other jobs where I had a male boss, they were okay. My male co-workers agreed the guy wasn't fair to female employees." A false victim thinks they were mistreated everywhere, at least everywhere there was a man in authority over her.

  • @christiankrawczyn2511
    @christiankrawczyn2511 5 лет назад +54

    My Father told me once or perhaps several times until Mother laid into him.."if your stupid enough to get married.
    Don't be stupid enough to have kids"..I was 5 at the time..lol

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Год назад

      Ouch! Perhaps a better thing to say would have been - choose your parents wisely.
      Unfortunately, there are too many out there who are able, but not willing to be parents.

  • @jondspen
    @jondspen 4 года назад +31

    "They need men for money, enabling delusions, the repair of anything that has moving parts, for someone to blame when they don't want to own their shit, which is pretty much anytime they are conscious." - I am so glad I wasn't drinking soda when I heard this! LMAO It would have went shooting out my nose as I lay on the floor laughing!!! So true, so sad, and so true!!!

  • @crunchyrollser
    @crunchyrollser 6 лет назад +186

    You have been a strong role model in a man hating world, thank you.

  • @drgonzo3871
    @drgonzo3871 7 лет назад +79

    "She lives on Cluster B street at the corner of Borderline Avenue" I LOVE this guy! This mans words are the savage RED PILL that EVERY man NEEDS to hear!

    • @karlscheel3500
      @karlscheel3500 6 лет назад +1

      Borderline is located in the neighbourhood of Cluster B personality disorders.

  • @crosslink1493
    @crosslink1493 5 лет назад +186

    If she tells you she's a feminist, you tell her: "Fantastic! So you know how to take out the trash, change the oil in a car (and change a flat tire), clean a freshly-caught fish, and clean you're own guns after a weekend of shooting?" See how she responds.

    • @andrewm7213
      @andrewm7213 5 лет назад +5

      Ravin' Dave
      I love you man!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 I share this with you 😂😂

    • @elinsvanberg3026
      @elinsvanberg3026 5 лет назад +11

      Well yes i do 😏 Im Swedish and was growing up in the north. Kids in north of Sweden gets to know all these things.

    • @franknada8235
      @franknada8235 5 лет назад +5

      @@elinsvanberg3026 Well, why don't you use those skills on the invaders?

    • @elinsvanberg3026
      @elinsvanberg3026 5 лет назад +2

      @@franknada8235 invaders? I use them when ever i need and with my man. He loves that i can help him out with stuff like that

    • @franknada8235
      @franknada8235 5 лет назад +3

      I think YT's version of "deboosting" and "shadowban" is at work. Not showing my last comment.

  • @tittifck
    @tittifck 5 лет назад +360

    Where in the hell were you 15 years ago?!?!?! Lol
    This could have saved my over a 150k and decades of dealing with a wack job.

    • @alexcostan459
      @alexcostan459 5 лет назад +14

      IKR! would have saved me a long shit marriage and a stroke, and lots of pressure on my parents (because of her brats from first marriage, and "male co-workers giving me shit cause I didn't pile up ass count on a tally"). Society sucks.

    • @danielkokal8819
      @danielkokal8819 5 лет назад +7

      I was there too.... married a certifiable... in fact she was ruled mentally unfit to have custody. she cost me a fortune because I forgot the cardinal rule >> never go to bed with anyone crazier than you are.

    • @alroma5869
      @alroma5869 5 лет назад +1

      Mother of fucking God, did you seriously lost 150k to a bitch? Holy fucking shit.

    • @countdown2xstacy
      @countdown2xstacy 5 лет назад +2

      Gary Williams
      Haha!!
      Me too !!

    • @claudioserafino9910
      @claudioserafino9910 5 лет назад +4

      @The Heretic He probably didn't spend 150k on her, most likely he was forced to give it to her by the court of law.

  • @grayblackhelm6468
    @grayblackhelm6468 6 лет назад +465

    When she asks, “What do you want in a woman?”
    I hear, “Who do you want me to pretend to be?”
    Women who ask this can be fairly equated with a serpent in the grass.

    • @christinem9142
      @christinem9142 6 лет назад +20

      Gray Blackhelm I'm a woman and I hear, " I'm very insecure and don't feel comfortable in my own skin." Wouldn't want her even as a friend. Too desperate .

    • @grayblackhelm6468
      @grayblackhelm6468 6 лет назад +19

      Christine M In my experience, this kind of woman has always been the most dangerous- the most likely to kill their spouses. Emotionally or physically, there isn’t much difference.

    • @TheSergio1021
      @TheSergio1021 6 лет назад +8

      What if you say "Be yourself"?

    • @grayblackhelm6468
      @grayblackhelm6468 6 лет назад +11

      Sergio Ortiz This can be a non sequitor. If she becomes “That Chick”- (Mirroring everything you say and do) it’s time to leave.

    • @vie2210
      @vie2210 6 лет назад +4

      Gray Blackhelm this comment could have saved me 3 years of hell... I will pass this knowledge on to young men I see struggling.👍🏼

  • @OldNorsebrewery
    @OldNorsebrewery 6 лет назад +273

    She said on first date «what do you do for a living» and I answered truthfully and then she said «how are you going to provide for me» and I said Bye

    • @AlgoGuardianFX
      @AlgoGuardianFX 6 лет назад +17

      Old Norse brewery 0-100 real fast xD

    • @jimgallagher5902
      @jimgallagher5902 6 лет назад

      Good decision, as you don't make enough money at your job licking asses at a gay bar to support yourself!!

    • @OldNorsebrewery
      @OldNorsebrewery 6 лет назад +15

      Wendy Alien What’s that got to do with anything? Are you doing the first thing women do when men get to close to the truth? Shaming us?

    • @ak47modwarfare
      @ak47modwarfare 6 лет назад +1

      @@OldNorsebrewery i think he said the
      Girl who asked was the woman that asked what you do for a living since she tought your profession is worthless

    • @OldNorsebrewery
      @OldNorsebrewery 6 лет назад +2

      vulpes no matter how much you earn she will be able to spend it and you earn to little so if you want to be her man you better step up and take a second job

  • @dougs5406
    @dougs5406 3 года назад +13

    Should be a mandatory class in high school. I sure could have used it. Thank you for sharing your wisdom Paul!

  • @JohnnyTheGreek91
    @JohnnyTheGreek91 5 лет назад +16

    I just wanted to thank you for opening up my eyes to the MGTOW movement. I was and am kind to all human beings but I didn't like being exploited by the opposite sex. At first, I thought you were overreacting and hating women but after digging in deeper and talking with women who hated other women, I realized that your thesis was right. Thank you for opening up my eyes and changing my attitude towards women!

  • @goondocksaints9597
    @goondocksaints9597 6 лет назад +54

    I met a girl years ago and we discussed dating and nothing ever came of it and we both moved along in our lives. Seven years later we came into contact again. We decided to get together for some lunch and met one Saturday afternoon and it seemed pleasant enough. I had finished college in the time since we met and she had two more children with a man whom she describes as 'the scum of the earth' [Hall of fame relationship red flag]. Two days after our first official date she asked me how I feel about marriage. My reply was instant: "I think we don't know each other well enough to discuss marriage at this point in time". She replied that she wasn't proposing to me and that she thought we could talk about anything. I told her that I know she wasn't proposing to me but she did ask me [quote] "what I thought..." and that was an honest answer. I asked her 'doesn't 'talking about anything' include giving an honest answer to being asked what I thought? I spoke to her for a while but less frequently and started finding out about a number of deal breakers that she hid from me up to that point. Her oldest child had a real problem with me before he even met me - before he even heard my name or saw a photo of me and was already making demands of her time whenever there was a chance of us getting together, plus her youngest had been kicked out of two daycare centers in the last year. [A single mom who claims 'My children come first' can be translated as an invitation to sign up for the 'dead last' position in the household]. We drifted apart again because it was clear to me that she just wanted someone to help her raise some other man's kids. [That feeling when you realize you dodged a bigger bullet than you ever imagined]. I've watched that scenario unfold a handful of times in my life - he spends a decade or so helping her spoil her children, then once the last kid moves out, an avalanche of resentment hits him out of nowhere and he not only gets left behind, he gets a decade or so of stored up disrespect and animosity dropped in his lap. I won't go as far as saying *never* date a single mom, but I will say that men should *absolutely never* get involved with a single mom that hasn't been able to handle her life/situation on her own.

    • @davidschomer9655
      @davidschomer9655 6 лет назад +4

      Agreed . . Everyone I know has multiple kids by different partners it's really sad for the children involved, they (we) get fucked up in the process of mom jumping from bed to bed with every swinging dick that comes her way.

    • @P9rkour90
      @P9rkour90 5 лет назад +3

      Jesus the wall hit her dearly.... LMAO

  • @Raegus
    @Raegus 6 лет назад +86

    Man, I was expecting wholesome, family friendly dating advice. Went from 0 to Savage in a moment. Good vid, man!

  • @StofStuiver
    @StofStuiver 2 года назад +11

    Well i was that guy. A couple of times even. Being raised by mom and having 3 sisters and no man around, didnt help me in any way.
    So ive been alone for 16 or 17 years. Its lonely. I dont have love, or sex, but i also dont have the misery they bring. And i can actually save a bit of money.
    When i was young, there were still women that i could respect. Nowadays its like all of them have gone crazy. Well, that wont be true, but lets put it this way; there are too many men for the amount of decent women. So those will all be taken. Whatever else is around is garbage. Really.
    I learnt very hard lessons along the way about women. Too late now, bc im 61.
    ALWAYS stay in control with women. ALWAYS. Convince yourself that YOU are responsible, bc women cannot be responsible. Well, not anymore with modern women.
    I am a very peacuful guy that never gets violent. But dealing with evil women did land me in jail. You have no idea how this works. And trust me, if you meet such succubi, you will go down. And the justice system is NEVER on the mans side.
    Realize that in the present day and age, you dont need to have done anything. If you go out with a woman, it gets to her appartment or whatever and something in her mind isnt right. You may go home and be arrested. Only to later find out she hit her head on the door after you left, called the police and said you did it.
    You dont even have to know the woman for this trick to work. Also, watch out for staturory rape charges if you are young and date around legal age women. Some look and say they are of right age, but arent. Ask for ID!
    etc etc.
    And the worst one of all is... dont believe in fairy tales and declare her holy, put all your heart in, bc none of them is worth it. If you do, you arent thinking anymore. You will miss all the obvious signs. And you will go down. And very far down. Rock bottom. Many a man died bc of this. I almost did.
    Oh another one; if they are seeing a therapist; run.
    If they talk about seeing a therapist; run.
    If they are, have done or want to do some form of human studies; run.
    i could go on for a bit.

  • @anon-nd6xn
    @anon-nd6xn 4 года назад +14

    Every time I start talking to a new girl I watch this video and I go down the checklist. I wish I would have paid attention to this for my last two relationships

  • @CapeBuffalo
    @CapeBuffalo 7 лет назад +37

    I'm just happy the next generation of men will have all this knowledge unlike most of mine.

    • @viktor1337w
      @viktor1337w 6 лет назад +1

      EveningGoDs im already 21 and never dated anyone ill probally only have to work until im 35

  • @TheThinkingMansTemplar
    @TheThinkingMansTemplar 8 лет назад +367

    Had a woman say she a feminist and that was last time i ever saw her lol ..

    • @mookie1247
      @mookie1247 8 лет назад +2

      I had this too if it happens to me again how should I respond? I'm new to it.. What do they mean or what are they trying to let me or any man when a women says this statement.. Advice would be appreciated pls

    • @pcwarduke2055
      @pcwarduke2055 8 лет назад +29

      just walk away.... fast

    • @FkthisSh1t
      @FkthisSh1t 8 лет назад +26

      If women say any of those things, no matter how hot they look, they are trouble and it will end in pain and suffering. Paul is giving young and naive men the heads up so that they can run away fast, avoid and DTB before there is any attachment. It's not even worth risking a pump n dump with any of them. Men have to wake up and screen these hoes.

    • @auzreal7725
      @auzreal7725 7 лет назад +24

      If a woman tells you they are a feminist they are basically telling you that they are a narcissist and an abuser. Just say "excuse me, but I'm sure as a strong independent woman you can get the bill" then get up from the table and run as fast and as far as you possibly can.

    • @atillerman
      @atillerman 7 лет назад +21

      Every woman in the west is a feminist to some degree, without even being aware.

  • @mackenziewhethers1257
    @mackenziewhethers1257 5 лет назад +90

    :how much money do you make.
    "well thats a bit rude, I mean I havent asked you what size bra you wear"

    • @yanissesegura
      @yanissesegura 5 лет назад

      TBH, men ask me that. I'm just honest about it and tell them. They even ask me how much I weight. I have no problem

    • @LunarLizard
      @LunarLizard 5 лет назад +3

      "How much do you make?" A lot more then what you're worth! *drops the mic and walks away*

  • @RJManeri1
    @RJManeri1 5 лет назад +18

    Found this random video and love it!!! Still happily single.

  • @wetwerd2003
    @wetwerd2003 7 лет назад +66

    thanks. you have saved a life and a future of court bills

  • @Saintnix69
    @Saintnix69 8 лет назад +682

    This should be REQUIRED VIEWING for ALL adolescent boys and young men.

    • @jrossofskb
      @jrossofskb 8 лет назад +9

      Agreed!

    • @thestaledog5481
      @thestaledog5481 7 лет назад +8

      should girls and young women also have 7 types of men to look out for?

    • @johnnyhyde9194
      @johnnyhyde9194 7 лет назад +8

      The Stale Dog sorry I hit send before typing.
      And yea sure there are some real peices of shit out there.

    • @Saintnix69
      @Saintnix69 7 лет назад +32

      The Stale Dog Don't women and girls have that info already in Cosmo? Glamour? Essence? Ebony? Or any other of a MYRIAD of gynocentric publications?

    • @thestaledog5481
      @thestaledog5481 7 лет назад +3

      I hadn't heard of these. I'll look into them. Thanks

  • @logantcooper6
    @logantcooper6 5 лет назад +57

    "They need men for the repair of anything with moving parts." 😂 sad but true lol.

  • @divinicus
    @divinicus 11 месяцев назад +3

    its impossible to not have a profound appreciation for the artistic sarcasm of this dude

  • @EntertainmentSupplyCo
    @EntertainmentSupplyCo 6 лет назад +227

    One thing I've noticed is that young girls are taught that they are incapable of being wrong ever, and will often gaslight men who have never been taught to put their own emotional/mental well being first. I've seen many relationships, including my own, become long drawn out cycles of abuse where the man is made to look like the abuser just for drawing a line in the sand.

    • @QED_
      @QED_ 5 лет назад +7

      @Half-Ass TV: You sum it up well. Props.

    • @HammerK99
      @HammerK99 5 лет назад +2

      Half-Ass TV true words

    • @kristenreplogle4630
      @kristenreplogle4630 5 лет назад +12

      I like him, tell it like it is!! I’m a 47 year old woman who has finally become accountable. I repeated my parents shitty choices, raising my daughter the same way I was empty lost scared no love just obedient.
      I set out to be what ever I thought you wanted me to be, that didn’t work out so well.
      I finally started to live, it hurt leaving a lost love failure of a relationship with love and wishing the best for.
      I left everything plus 60,000 I put down on the house that wasn’t in my name. I might have have done that part a bit differently

    • @taraswertelecki7874
      @taraswertelecki7874 5 лет назад +5

      That's two reasons why I am done with relationships and women.

    • @entiendemierda3849
      @entiendemierda3849 5 лет назад

      That's how you sum my 4 relationships in less than a thousand words. It's exactly what happens

  • @douglasjre
    @douglasjre 6 лет назад +52

    "How do you write so well about women? Take away reason and Accountability." Jack Nicholson in As Good As It Gets (the Movie)

    •  6 лет назад +6

      Men in audience chucked, women were silent. I wonder how that line made it past the Hollywood feminazi censors?

  • @Nawtion
    @Nawtion 5 лет назад +190

    Dude you got my respect for making a video 9:59 long.

    • @williammcarthur1966
      @williammcarthur1966 3 года назад

      Holy shit

    • @AR7271
      @AR7271 2 года назад +1

      For those who don't understand this comment. Prior to the year 2020 a video had to be over 10 minutes in length to run mid-roll ads. This changed to 8 minutes...so someone willing to make videos a second shorter than that cut off demonstrates integrity.

    • @Nawtion
      @Nawtion 2 года назад +1

      @@AR7271 Wait, that changed recently to 8 minutes? Didn't even know that. Thanks for the info

    • @AR7271
      @AR7271 2 года назад

      @@Nawtion yes, earlier this year I think.

  • @bettinakatsaros8719
    @bettinakatsaros8719 5 лет назад +3

    Funny...I was talking to a guy out one night. Half hour into the conversation, him to me "Omg...we have been talking for a while now and you have not asked me anything about what I drive, where I live, or what I do for a living. This is the first time in my life that has happened"

  • @julioestorga9546
    @julioestorga9546 7 лет назад +16

    My neighbor is borderline, and she was arguing with her husband, and ran out of the house straight naked. She shocked the whole neighbor hood.

    • @airtec87
      @airtec87 6 лет назад +2

      that's disgusting, this isn't the first time ive heard of something like this, my best buddy's girlfriend at the time threaten to do the same thing after a argument? what the hell is the logic in this?

    • @JanikLitalien
      @JanikLitalien 6 лет назад +1

      If she weighed 300lbs...

    • @bonniebuckner3399
      @bonniebuckner3399 6 лет назад

      Sweetscience8ct hahahaha

    • @bonniebuckner3399
      @bonniebuckner3399 6 лет назад

      i feel like women are given a pass to be overly emotional and behave like they are mentally ill. no, lady, practice some self respect and emotional intelligence.

  • @jonesrbd1
    @jonesrbd1 8 лет назад +203

    Another deal breaker is when they talk about their exes sexual inadequacies, like how he was hung like a pinky and that he would always go limp. I know this pretty much falls into the same category as telling you what assholes their exes were, but this one is especially in poor taste. I've been on a date before where in the midst of her spewing out a bunch of boring non-stop verbal diarrhea for what seemed like an eternity, she topped it off with giving me all the details about his inability to please her. I'm sure she wondered why I never returned her calls after that.

    • @xkeepersvk
      @xkeepersvk 6 лет назад +4

      Johnny Jones when a guy goes limp its usualy womans fault cause she cant make him horny.

    • @supers0nic77
      @supers0nic77 Год назад +3

      My ex always ralked about other dudes wangs constantly

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 2 месяца назад

      @@supers0nic77they need a 8” by 5” girth to even fill them up these days, they are more perverted and obsessed with s3x then men are

  • @neshaun87
    @neshaun87 4 года назад +26

    you pretty much have to memorize one thing: if a woman talks about her bad life experience on first date, GTFO. Beginning of a relationship is the most fun and carefree part; if she's bumming you out at that time you can take a wild guess how the rest of that relationship is going to look like...

  • @comradeyuri8492
    @comradeyuri8492 5 лет назад +116

    " Finding a good decent woman is like trying to find a diamond by digging in a garbage land fill ! "

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph 5 лет назад +3

      This could be reversed to include men that don't hate the idea of "feminists"

    • @ITech2005
      @ITech2005 5 лет назад +12

      @@StephJ0seph Even women hate feminists. Today's "feminism" is nothing but destructive nagging. Hell they have more rights than men. Proof that women simple cannot be satisfied.

    • @miguelpereira9859
      @miguelpereira9859 5 лет назад +3

      @@StephJ0seph Sweetheart, feminism is a cancer ideology that spreads hate and bigotry. Why do you NEED a feminist man for a healthy relationship? There have been good relationships for millennia withought feminism

    • @StephJ0seph
      @StephJ0seph 5 лет назад +1

      @@ITech2005 What I'm trying to say is this, I'm not sure why any woman would want to marry a misogynist unless they're a masochist.

    • @marek9050
      @marek9050 5 лет назад +3

      @@StephJ0seph A guy can only be misogynist if he is unattractive so fuck off with your delusions.

  • @Em-im1yz
    @Em-im1yz 8 лет назад +56

    Another person should never " need" someone else. There's a difference between need and want. I would like a partner but I don't need one

    • @jerrybruckhart1807
      @jerrybruckhart1807 7 лет назад +7

      I agree, but also think you are missing context.

    • @QED_
      @QED_ 5 лет назад +1

      @Layla: You're just parroting something you heard somewhere, aren't you (?) You haven't actually THOUGHT about it for even a minute. If you have something you want to do or have in Life (family, sexuality, emotional growth, etc) . . . and that depends on another person . . . then you demonstrably NEED another person to do or have that in Life. QED.

    • @kominatoriku5483
      @kominatoriku5483 5 лет назад

      so you can provide food,shelter energy and other shit for yourself so go contruct a house kill a pig work in a factory to do this if you cant you WILL need another person in youe life

  • @derrabbit7289
    @derrabbit7289 6 лет назад +673

    Woman: I don’t need a man!
    Man: Two checks please!
    Woman: Huh?!?! But your supposed to pay for the meal!
    Man: You just told me you didn’t need me! Goodbye!

    • @jimgallagher5902
      @jimgallagher5902 6 лет назад

      Der Ratshit above is lying. He never dated a woman, unless you count his cross-dressing boyfriend.

    • @ladylightwalker8908
      @ladylightwalker8908 6 лет назад +8

      We woman don't need a man,just for sex,make kids,money.

    • @ladylightwalker8908
      @ladylightwalker8908 6 лет назад +12

      Man:I don't want single mothers.
      Woman:why?
      Man:cuz I Don't want baggage.
      Woman;so don't look for sex .BYE BYE.

    • @genharmer9380
      @genharmer9380 6 лет назад +54

      ladylight walker
      Man: there are women who aren't single mothers and will still open their legs for a free meal 😂😂😂

    • @ladylightwalker8908
      @ladylightwalker8908 6 лет назад +3

      @@genharmer9380 yes,and man will treat all kids of woman like a trash,also a virgin.

  • @MrAbsalomdavid
    @MrAbsalomdavid 11 месяцев назад +2

    “How much do you cost?” That is a perfect response.

  • @AdrianJayeOnline
    @AdrianJayeOnline 5 лет назад +30

    Modern Father's need to school there son's on how to deal with women, what OUR fathers told us is NOT what we need to tell our sons's AND DAUGHTERS

  • @tyrvaldfenrischain7967
    @tyrvaldfenrischain7967 6 лет назад +36

    "I don't need a man" is usually followed by the word "BUT". Remember that.

  • @redonkulaspopp
    @redonkulaspopp 8 лет назад +1997

    how much money you make. I always answer this with what is the serving temp of a pork roast

    • @davidlien7457
      @davidlien7457 8 лет назад +205

      The king has spoken!

    • @Edbrad
      @Edbrad 8 лет назад +209

      +Terrence Popp You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You are not your fucking khakis.

    • @redonkulaspopp
      @redonkulaspopp 8 лет назад +69

      what ever

    • @smelteddragon5052
      @smelteddragon5052 7 лет назад +30

      Is that meant to just throw her off cause... ohhhhh, yeah your right make me a pork roast.

    • @johnsturm3128
      @johnsturm3128 6 лет назад +91

      Terrence Popp, you are spot on. One or two of the others who commented adversely on your post couldn't dot the 'i's and cross the 't's to save their lives. Or, to put it to the females in a more direct way; "Ladies, if you cannot bring something to my life as a man in the nature of your utility - your usefulness to me - or to compliment my life in some way, (as I likewise do or provide for your sustenance and growth as a person), then you only have one function, namely, spreading your legs." But, of course, Terrence, men can get that from a common prostitute without all the emotional drama and control. Plus, at least from a hooker you get one valuable commodity - honesty. I bid you peace.

  • @wendellmadfinger2358
    @wendellmadfinger2358 5 лет назад +5

    I love you Paul and I mean that in the most brotherly and masculine way you are a barrel of wisdom when it comes to this and dead on with the execution of it

  • @danphillyman
    @danphillyman 5 лет назад +22

    I love your ability of communicating with humor and reality :)

    • @danphillyman
      @danphillyman 5 лет назад

      My ex was a borderline and after 11 years Im finally sticking up for whats right... not what I thought was important... the kids were left with me even though one was hers. These videos explain more than I hoped for.

  • @vanessahamilton6377
    @vanessahamilton6377 6 лет назад +648

    Man. I feel sorry for guys. I never thought about how shitty women can be. My first date with my husband was at a Denny's where we discussed movies, music, thoughts, beliefs, etc. for 4 hours. He asked how I was able to eat 3 huge pieces of apple pie w/ ice cream (I'm pretty skinny) and in my nervousness I blurted out, "I poop a lot.", which luckily he thought was hilarious. Best date ever. (And we each paid for our own food.) Second date was at my apartment laundromat where we drank some beers, ate pizza and made sure no one stole my clothes. He and I clicked instantly on a level I hadn't thought possible before I met him. Ten years later and we're still going strong. Message being - there is hope. Keep weeding out all the succubus women and you'll eventually find someone worth your time. And no, I'm not perfect. Most people think I'm an asshole. At least my husband loves me. 💜

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 5 лет назад +38

      You were honest about the pooping that's key! Happy for you that you are going strong for so long.
      Many women indeed don't consider dads don't raise their sons anymore. My dad was great in every aspect, he was always there at important moments, provided for the family, spent enough time with me and my brother, honest and loyal employee, won awards, etc. But one thing he never taught me or my brother is girls - and especially how to avoid them. I've had to self learn everything like many guys google around finding these kind of videos with the lessons our fathers should have taught. But don't. Because they outsource it to the state who only cares about population reduction. But don't worry about me I ended up okay married + kids now age 30 with a allright girl.
      I can imagine on the other side of RUclips there's this mom with this video about seven deal breakers with men too by the way.

    • @aggerts
      @aggerts 5 лет назад +37

      "I poop a lot" that's GOLD Vanessa, thanks for the laugh. Glad to see things worked out for you two.

    • @tinachristine4573
      @tinachristine4573 5 лет назад +17

      Best story ever. I think you are cool too. Most people want to deal with shape-shifters

    • @vanessahamilton6377
      @vanessahamilton6377 5 лет назад +23

      Haha thanks guys. I think people could really do themselves and their future/current partners a favor my keeping it real. It's cliche as hell but YES "be yourself!". It's easier said than done because a lot of people don't yet truly know who they are so maybe do a bit of self discovery first, I dunno. I'm still trying to figure myself out but it's a constant progress sort of thing I think.

    • @jumbo4billion
      @jumbo4billion 5 лет назад +15

      @@vanessahamilton6377 Nice dating story and good advice. Big mistake men make is trying too hard; either by censoring our thoughts or by affecting the "Don't give a shit" attitude.

  • @GreatBirdOfHope
    @GreatBirdOfHope 6 лет назад +540

    #1 dealbreaker--- male "friends". Lived that lie. Never again. Ever.

    • @jonclarkson5911
      @jonclarkson5911 6 лет назад +27

      ertz mcgrackitz Heard that alot.

    • @robbyritter4245
      @robbyritter4245 6 лет назад +11

      John Galt yeah, me too, and in a way it's a bad thing because these women are physically attracted to me and when I don't reciprocate feelings they can get nasty, such as telling mutual friends I'm queer and whatnot because I won't sleep with them.

    • @GreatBirdOfHope
      @GreatBirdOfHope 6 лет назад +32

      Penalcrack you knew damn well what you wanted. That is if you are a straight man with a dick and balls. You are the same as the flies i am talking about. Just hanging around waiting for an opening.

    • @cynicalpenguin
      @cynicalpenguin 6 лет назад +12

      If your girlfriend is a decent human being male friends are fine.

    • @GreatBirdOfHope
      @GreatBirdOfHope 6 лет назад +21

      Unless you are a hideous beast, your male friend is actually just a lingering hopeful. Or gay

  • @achyuth3854
    @achyuth3854 3 года назад +5

    Thank you Paul for standing up for men . Love you ❣️

  • @Midnaighte
    @Midnaighte 5 лет назад +7

    This is why men raise children better than women do

  • @matteddie1717
    @matteddie1717 7 лет назад +83

    i have stood up and walked out n dates for being asked shit-test questions.

    • @grayblackhelm6468
      @grayblackhelm6468 6 лет назад +2

      Matt Eddie That in itself can be a shit test, in my experience. “Is she shit testing me?” If yes, that right there is a flag in itself.

    • @messyties
      @messyties 6 лет назад +1

      Thats how you fail a shit-test

    • @grayblackhelm6468
      @grayblackhelm6468 6 лет назад +1

      messyties You wanna know the #1 most successful shit test?
      You wait and see if they shit test you.

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 6 лет назад

      Gray Blackhelm
      LMAO, you stole my thunder!!!

  • @johnstewart6366
    @johnstewart6366 5 лет назад +111

    Take this post from an MS in Psychology, who is a counselor with a support group for the separated and divorced - THIS GUY REALLY DOES KNOW WHAT HE IS TALKING ABOUT !! Men should listen to him, and HEED his advice.

    • @littleredwritinghead3781
      @littleredwritinghead3781 5 лет назад

      Geez. I hope you're not using your real name. Of course, you know that comment will get you brought up on ethics charges, right? I mean, you're not LYING about being a counselor, right? SMH

    • @littleredwritinghead3781
      @littleredwritinghead3781 5 лет назад

      @Phi Pi Delta *eyeroll* Wow. You really got me.

    • @littleredwritinghead3781
      @littleredwritinghead3781 5 лет назад

      @Phi Pi Delta LOL Yeah, I'm really whining about this video in which an old, angry liar whines about how evil half the population is and then tells stories about how to treat other people badly to try to impress other lonely men who believe ANYTHING (including things like, "I'm a REAL doctor!"). Tell me "frat" boy, how long have you been giving these guys your money?

    • @littleredwritinghead3781
      @littleredwritinghead3781 5 лет назад

      @Phi Pi Delta Except no one is whining but you and the liars who have you brainwashed. Everyone else knows you're in a cult, and most of us are trying to warn younger,more vulnerable guys that this crap leads to mass shootings and suicides. You haven't seen me whining ANYWHERE, and to hear you tell it, I have nothing to whine about. Right, fake frat brother? The world works in my favor.
      You need to make up your mind which lie you're believing/selling. At least stick to one per comment.

    • @littleredwritinghead3781
      @littleredwritinghead3781 5 лет назад

      @Phi Pi Delta What are you, 14?
      Make a note, guys. This highly helpful frat bro tries to make facts disappear by hurting your widdle feelings (like his red pill mentors did to him). He's literally responding to a total stranger by calling her avatar ugly and fat. LOL. Don't be like lonely fake frat bro. Get some real friends.

  • @MUFF-VMD
    @MUFF-VMD 5 лет назад +9

    "Cluster B street on the corner of borderline avenue." I love that.

  • @MrAlpinab7
    @MrAlpinab7 5 лет назад +12

    They're always telling you what you NEED to know on the first or second date. If we only listened.

  • @BlckCloud73
    @BlckCloud73 6 лет назад +661

    Unfortunately, I learned all of these the hard way.

    • @charlesward3661
      @charlesward3661 6 лет назад +7

      Amen bro!!!

    • @ambis99
      @ambis99 6 лет назад +15

      A lot of men do!

    • @t.sewell1513
      @t.sewell1513 6 лет назад +4

      Me too brother

    • @stephengonzalez2997
      @stephengonzalez2997 6 лет назад +3

      BlckCloud73
      Most of us do. No worries bro

    • @mgtow-balance3409
      @mgtow-balance3409 6 лет назад +1

      +First Last
      fuck this gotta do with being black? most divorce raped men are white, leading to that group being the highest suicide category
      if you spend even a little amount of time reading comments you would know that ALL races of men go through this -- rich, poor, athletic, out of shape, good looking, not good looking, educated, not educated etc. etc. -- it doesn't matter which group
      you just CHOOSE to be a dumb fuck, don't ya?

  • @whateverwhatever3249
    @whateverwhatever3249 8 лет назад +30

    I understand this is partially humor, but the advice you gave was mostly based on really obvious shit... the kind of stuff only an idiot falls for (ah wait, this is 80% of male population)...
    Anyway, practical advice. Don't ever engage in a relation where your feet are glued to the ground:
    - Never sign any marriage contract.
    - If possible rent (ideally with most of the furniture), don't buy... if things start to go wrong, you can always notice the landlord and fuck off before things get really ugly. This also has professional advantages in case you ever find a better opportunity somewhere else.
    Women to skip:
    - Any sign of typical co-morbidities that comes with narcissists (history of eating disorders, self-harm, people to try to get your pity by playing the victim of previous abuses or financial issues).
    - If your income level is way higher than hers (like male engineer, female shop worker), there is a strong possibility that she will drop her job and try to make herself financial dependent and fuck up your life if you ever want to break free. Don't ever allow her to bitch about how nasty her boss is and how she wants to drop her job and if she does, fly out of it immediately.
    - If you ever hear the word "neglect", that is always the first word women try to play (guilt trip you with) if they are shitty... from there it can only get worse and typically does.

    • @1533ramsay
      @1533ramsay 6 лет назад

      Whatever Whatever
      BINGO

  • @stuartdamon3610
    @stuartdamon3610 5 лет назад +16

    I woke my neighbors laughing! 😆
    And I laugh because it’s true! 👍

  • @TheNationofIsrael613
    @TheNationofIsrael613 Год назад +2

    even when they ask what we do for a living in the first 30 minutes of the conversation...that's already a red flag.

  • @slowster2945
    @slowster2945 6 лет назад +23

    #7. I love it when a girl includes that on her Tinder profile, especially as their no. 1 point. It really helps to thin out the crowd.

    • @mmmohhh8567
      @mmmohhh8567 5 лет назад

      K

    • @USSResolute
      @USSResolute 2 года назад

      There is a lot of code on dating profiles today that women have no idea serves as red flag warnings to the discerning, amorously intended or not.

  • @okwaho5316
    @okwaho5316 6 лет назад +192

    I dated a girl who wanted kids and I explained to her my view was
    "It's more important for me to find someone who I care about and love enough to want to have kids with"
    She thought this was the craziest thing she ever heard...
    I never said this because I'm to nice a guy but my thought about her was
    "Maybe what you want in a man than is a sperm bank and a pay check"

    • @placetobelong
      @placetobelong 6 лет назад +4

      Okwaho the issue is not so much the question at hand but the timing and I intent behind it.

    • @davidsirmons
      @davidsirmons 6 лет назад +5

      Exactly. A psychologically unbalanced person will usually rush right into stating their true aim straight off the start. You got lucky. After a few dozen failures, the BPD person will begin to hide their intentions closer to their chest, allowing some slower progression if it serves their true goal.

    • @Bike_Lion
      @Bike_Lion 6 лет назад +2

      Evolutionarily though, men who are less picky about whom they impregnate are at an advantage. The genes which predispose men to do this will always be in abundance :D

    • @mgtow-balance3409
      @mgtow-balance3409 6 лет назад +1

      +BikeLion
      true enough, but then again, cavemen didn't have to worry about a gynocentric society. so nowadays, slipping your sperm everywhere will have you being a financial slave (to the woman AND the state)

    • @Bike_Lion
      @Bike_Lion 6 лет назад +2

      @MGTOW-Balance -
      Fair enough, but evolution doesn't care about any of that.
      Evolution doesn't care if your life is miserable, simply that you pass on your genes one way or another.
      In fact evolution infinitely favors the lifestyle of a man or lives a miserable life but passes on his genes over that of a man who lives a life that's full of joy and fulfillment for him but who never passes on his genes.
      ....My point is that the evolutionary drive to survive and reproduce is incredibly strong - dating back to the very beginning of life on earth. So for every man that voluntarily curtails his reproduction there will always be plenty more who are ready to do it prolifically.

  • @zompoanie4040
    @zompoanie4040 5 лет назад +4

    I have a friend who is a woman (we are not dating and never will) who has asked questions like "how much do you make" and "how much was your house". Those questions told me NOPE. We are both divorced and close in age but those questions made me unwilling to move forward.

  • @dornelli1
    @dornelli1 2 года назад +2

    here in Brazil women have a hard time keeping their mouth shut on the first date about how bad their finances are and what an asshole her ex used to be and how he mistreated them, and after awhile i decided im better off on my own and keeping a distance

  • @InSpadez
    @InSpadez 8 лет назад +42

    Elam, this is out of control. You are an absolute KILLER! Great content!!!

  • @tb48bt
    @tb48bt 6 лет назад +13

    The first two questions a woman asks to a man are always the same :
    1) What's your job ? (digging your incomes, smarter than "How much money you make?")
    2) Where are you living ? (digging your standing and patrimony, equivalent to "What ressources do you already have?")

  • @spctr_.
    @spctr_. Год назад +2

    God bless this man, protect him at all cost! 🙏🏻🕊️

  • @joeblack1754
    @joeblack1754 5 лет назад +3

    8. She tells you that you shouldn't date her. This is a warning. She knows she's a piece of shit, and that she is going to hurt you. She tells you, so that if she does hurt you, at least she can tell herself that she warned you.

  • @randymorobitto5453
    @randymorobitto5453 6 лет назад +173

    "How much money do you make?" "Dunno; my people handle that." 😀

    • @RogerRoger182
      @RogerRoger182 5 лет назад +29

      "Dunno, I have to ask my mom"

    • @marlonmoncrieffe0728
      @marlonmoncrieffe0728 5 лет назад

      Oh these are great!

    • @Treeesmith
      @Treeesmith 5 лет назад +3

      RICK Killmonger game in reality, it's called life

    • @leojanuszewski1019
      @leojanuszewski1019 5 лет назад

      Or: "i was just about to ask YOU the same thing!"

    • @700mobster
      @700mobster 5 лет назад

      @RICK Killmonger gaming is good once in a while, if you play more than 2-3 hours a day you need to get your shit together.

  • @michaelwalter5703
    @michaelwalter5703 6 лет назад +60

    I've never experienced so much truth with so much humor.Great material.Thanks so much.

  • @SaturnRooster81
    @SaturnRooster81 3 года назад +3

    Great one liners mate ! Cracking me up

  • @cheknecht3092
    @cheknecht3092 4 года назад +6

    He says the word skank LOL. In one of his other videos he uses the word skeezer! This guy is completely Savage.

  • @6672rock
    @6672rock 7 лет назад +81

    I had a similar experience with this woman who years ago wouldn't give me the time of day. Now that she's a single mom in her mid 40's with drug and alcohol issues and kids from at least 2 different fathers that I know of, all of the sudden, she's got me in her crosshairs. Thanks but no thanks hun! I'm not a sucker for punishment and don't feel like being her next victim / source of alimony and child support payments. To call a woman like her wretched and vile would be the understatement of the year.

    • @chrisduhaime5689
      @chrisduhaime5689 7 лет назад +15

      6672rock run Forrest run

    • @osamabinbehedin5928
      @osamabinbehedin5928 7 лет назад +6

      6672rock At least beat it up so you can fulfill your younger man fantasies and move on.

    • @surality
      @surality 6 лет назад

      Hello @Blake Q, let's not forget that these females were and still are feminists and have treated men like dirt with their expectations, they expect to be treated like princess's how their father treated them(spoiled little bitches) because they manipulated the father and he fell for it, now these women expect the same treatment from every man they meet, basically a YES man. Speaking from experience, Thank-you.

    • @stalledimagination
      @stalledimagination 6 лет назад

      Ditch the bitch and run

  • @janesmith167
    @janesmith167 7 лет назад +44

    Any woman asks you "What do you do for a living?"
    Answer them "I'm a bus driver. And I love my job."
    If she stays with you, she is a keeper.
    What is wrong being a bus driver? >>> Nothing
    That's why being a bus driver shouldn't be a deal breaker or a turn off.
    If being a bus driver is a deal breaker for her, she is not the girl you would want to be with.
    A lot of guys are a sucker for hot pretty women... just realize that pretty women will get old and wrinkly one day.
    And realize that a lot of women aren't really pretty without makeup, hair dye, and other covers.
    Stop this male peacocking and showing all these flashy things to attract women, because you are attracting the wrong person.

    • @yasminredhead4914
      @yasminredhead4914 6 лет назад +2

      That's wisdom

    • @McDnyss
      @McDnyss 6 лет назад

      Jane Smith Well I think that being a bus driver means you are a lazy person to actually get a real job. Bus drivers don’t earn enough to fund the family and you get limited opportunities if you want to travel abroad since you lack capital to do so. Overall, proffesions such as bus drivers, janitors, cashiers are basically for lazy people who do not want to put in work to be something better. I mean if you are actually a bus driver and you enjoy it then it’s kind of sad but hey, whatever makes you happy. My point is that telling a person that you are a bus driver may possibly indicate to them that you are 1.low IQ, 2.lazy and not passionate 3. Don’t earn a lot of money thus limiting your life expences.

    • @McDnyss
      @McDnyss 6 лет назад +1

      Jane Smith also if you happen to say that you are a bus driver (which you are not) to an actual nice person and then they figure out that you lied, it would basically fuck up everything. I mean why don’t you just say what your real proffesion is? If you are a surgeon or a chemical engineer i’m pretty sure those gold diggers will not really hook in to you even though you make a bargain of money because they would know they couldn’t use you for a long time because of your smarts. My theory is just be honest about everything and just be yourself, eventually you will attract people that like you being you.

    • @nelsondeoliveira7076
      @nelsondeoliveira7076 6 лет назад

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏻👍🏻👍🏽😀

    • @nelsondeoliveira7076
      @nelsondeoliveira7076 6 лет назад

      +Lucky Roux you are sad and I feel sorry for you, you lonely forever peace is shit😪

  • @Subcritical96
    @Subcritical96 Год назад +1

    So true. I have 86’d several women over my lifetime. Found a woman that I have been happily married for almost 20 years now.

  • @lightdx7008
    @lightdx7008 5 лет назад +42

    She: I don't need a man
    Me: That's too bad, because what i want in a relationship is someone who needs me as much as i need her so, good bye.

  • @honestycounts9352
    @honestycounts9352 8 лет назад +142

    Wow, if I follow your advice then I will have to run away from practically 100% of the women out there.

    • @Paul_Elam
      @Paul_Elam  8 лет назад +52

      if you really follow my advice most of them will be running from you.

    • @wetwerd2003
      @wetwerd2003 7 лет назад +4

      100% OF THE WOMEN ANIT WORTH SHIT

    • @sinclairbankston2708
      @sinclairbankston2708 7 лет назад +2

      Wet Ward 84% of women ain't shit!

    • @wetwerd2003
      @wetwerd2003 7 лет назад +2

      yhea, i guess there's a few unicorns...

    • @gamingsuit
      @gamingsuit 7 лет назад

      lol

  • @allenbauman8782
    @allenbauman8782 5 лет назад +147

    Relationships are simply doomed in the Western world unless you find a unicorn

    • @gnomonthegnomelover7006
      @gnomonthegnomelover7006 5 лет назад +1

      And unicorns ale symbol of gay.

    • @user-pd4rc9yz9t
      @user-pd4rc9yz9t 5 лет назад +16

      Unicorns don’t exist. Never make the mistake considering otherwise.

    • @gnomonthegnomelover7006
      @gnomonthegnomelover7006 5 лет назад +1

      @@user-pd4rc9yz9t
      Woooooooshhhhhh.

    • @SnootchieBootchies27
      @SnootchieBootchies27 5 лет назад +7

      @@gnomonthegnomelover7006 whoosh yourself, man. He's saying the female human that's super hot, super supportive, and not crazy in any way simply doesn't exist.

    • @gnomonthegnomelover7006
      @gnomonthegnomelover7006 5 лет назад +1

      This is the first time I hear that definition of unicorn -_-

  • @nicholasturner7931
    @nicholasturner7931 4 года назад +5

    I love this guy, he’s funny yet truthful.

  • @TheFluffyWendigo
    @TheFluffyWendigo 5 лет назад +2

    A few years ago I said fuck it and placed my career and finances first and I've never been happier. I just paid cash for a new car two months ago and started collecting high end watches that I can enjoy for me and no one else.

    • @rachelgreer1518
      @rachelgreer1518 3 года назад

      You do you man, being in an unhappy relationship fucks both parties over. Cheers to the single life!