TobyMac - 21 Years

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  • @tobymacmusic
    @tobymacmusic  5 лет назад +37721

    “21 Years” is a song I wrote about the recent passing of my firstborn son, Truett Foster McKeehan. I loved him with all my heart. Until something in life hits you this hard, you never know how you will handle it. I am thankful that I have been surrounded by love, starting with God’s and extending to community near and far that have walked with us and carried us every day. Writing this song felt like an honest confession of the questions, pain, anger, doubt, mercy and promise that describes the journey I’m probably only beginning. The rest is yet to come. One thing I know is that I am not alone. God didn’t promise us a life of no pain or even tragic death, but He did promise He would never leave us or forsake us. And I’m holding dearly to that promise for my son as well as myself.

    • @nchrist511
      @nchrist511 5 лет назад +826

      We love you Toby. Prayers for you and your family. God bless.

    • @icylynx6067
      @icylynx6067 5 лет назад +416

      TobyMac Love you, your family, and all you do. Praying for you always! ❤️

    • @rudysega
      @rudysega 5 лет назад +822

      Toby, I too lost my son. I feel your pain, brother. Let us keep fighting the good fight of faith. Though weeping might last but a night, joy comes in the morning.

    • @lakepowell7
      @lakepowell7 5 лет назад +389

      TobyMac - what a beautiful tribute to your son and your God! May God walk with you in your grief and bless you for helping others with theirs.❤️🙏❤️

    • @wiechers77
      @wiechers77 5 лет назад +349

      Dear Toby, this is a beautiful tribute to your son. My heart aches for you and your family. The lyric about him being on loan really tugged at my heart, we never know how long we get to have our loved ones with us, but thank you Jesus that we will see them again one day. God bless you 🙏❤

  • @jordanfiggins2800
    @jordanfiggins2800 5 лет назад +4277

    He lost his son, made this song, and STILL is thanking God for his son. He is such a faithful person. Such an inspiration.

    • @mychristianmusicweekinreviews
      @mychristianmusicweekinreviews 5 лет назад +30

      Jordan Figgins, the response he showed in this song is awesome!

    • @horsecrazymorgan3409
      @horsecrazymorgan3409 5 лет назад +16

      Jordan Figgins hes toby mac what do you expect hes an amazing man

    • @jordanfiggins2800
      @jordanfiggins2800 5 лет назад +40

      Horse crazy Morgan a lot super faithful people lose their faith when things like this happen. For him to speak out and still be grateful just shows how strong he is.

    • @connorbradbury6093
      @connorbradbury6093 5 лет назад

      Ya

    • @XboxNinjaGamer360
      @XboxNinjaGamer360 5 лет назад +5

      @@horsecrazymorgan3409 so? My grandfather was a super religious person until my grandmother got sick and eventually passed. It happened when I was extremely young but my father said my grandfather lost all his faith the moment she fell ill and became bitter. The fact you cannot comprehend other individual's emotions just proves that you have never felt such sadness.

  • @dangibson66
    @dangibson66 5 лет назад +3832

    I watched this video with my son today and tonight he gave his life to Christ

    • @hollyfisher8811
      @hollyfisher8811 5 лет назад +104

      Now, I am crying💝~Just WOW!!
      Without a doubt, both Toby and Truett would say to your Son, "Welcome to God's FAMILY"🙏:)
      I wish SO many of HIS Blessings as you walk in Jesus together❣!!

    • @amy5206
      @amy5206 5 лет назад +41

      Wowwwwwww

    • @koredefagbola
      @koredefagbola 5 лет назад +98

      It's truly sobering that a song about the loss of a life would open way for the gain of another...
      The Father's heart is with you and your son.

    • @1snowboardbunny
      @1snowboardbunny 5 лет назад +36

      Praise God Dan Gibson.

    • @carao3147
      @carao3147 5 лет назад +29

      That is awesome!! Welcome to the family

  • @peggycox2479
    @peggycox2479 9 месяцев назад +79

    Lost my daughter in 4 months to an aggressive cancer in her later 20’s with 2 lil ones. But my faith never failed, because I knew God would heal her here or she would be healed with him. No more pain, or scars, just in his arms and each day I KNOW we will be together again ❤❤❤

    • @drumsralwaysbest9234
      @drumsralwaysbest9234 9 месяцев назад +1

      Blessings to you and your family be very careful with people claiming to be TobyMac, I don't think the real musician would write in little increments and keep coming at you.😮

    • @DanielMorrisHouston
      @DanielMorrisHouston 4 месяца назад

      God bless you and your family through your daughters passing. I pray she is fully healed in the arms of the Lord, and I pray that your heart finds rest, peace, comfort, in the arms of Jesus. He is there for you, always, forever. Bless you.

  • @tryphenarose384
    @tryphenarose384 4 года назад +1390

    I lost my baby brother at the age of 8 in a car accident. My parents crumbled mentally and physically after that. My childhood was rough and as a result, I became a broken atheist with no hope for my life. God was the ONLY thing that healed my heart and it's been 5 years since I've surrendered my life to Him. He healed me and I haven't cried for my brother since. This song however, brought me to tears, thinking of my bro being in the arms of Jesus. I'm so thankful for the hope that rests in Him alone! Praise God! Thank you Toby Mac for making this beautiful song.

    • @natsnet1234
      @natsnet1234 4 года назад +18

      I'm so sorry for your baby brother

    • @williamwest4049
      @williamwest4049 4 года назад +14

      I'm so sorry for your brother. Praise the Lord that you came to Jesus. Losing his son and still thanking God for him is true faith. See you in heaven.

    • @raja7712
      @raja7712 4 года назад +10

      Don't worry sis he is at god's care
      Godbless you
      lots of love from
      brother in Christ from India 🇮🇳❤

    • @daphigashnga174
      @daphigashnga174 4 года назад +9

      god always will be by your side n he will continue to shower his blessings to you and your family.

    • @justanaveragedude409
      @justanaveragedude409 4 года назад +8

      That's a deep comment. It brought tears to my eyes. I'm glad you were able to see the light and put that atheism away. God is so obviously real man. It breaks my heart when people make excuse after excuse to not believe.

  • @jeffflowers5489
    @jeffflowers5489 5 лет назад +2693

    I don't think anything can break a man's heart like losing his son. Stay strong brother.

    • @soldierintraining9014
      @soldierintraining9014 5 лет назад +29

      @Fuckyou EatshitDie He can recieve you too...just ask. You don't have to stay like this. You can make everyone hate you but never Him. Jesus bled out for you and He's coming back for you if you'll accept Him. You don't need to do a thing but open the door, He'll do the rest..He'll do the cleaning not you. All things inside you will change , the darkness will leave. He did it for me, He'll do it for you too.
      God bless you darling

    • @skooterkitty
      @skooterkitty 5 лет назад +11

      @Fuckyou EatshitDie Pay attention. Toby is singing the song. Did you not read the very first sentence? “21 Years” is a song I wrote about the recent passing of my firstborn son, Truett Foster McKeehan.

    • @adriamaral300
      @adriamaral300 5 лет назад +9

      Hurting with you...pray God wrap His arms around you and lift you up everywhere you go.

    • @laurawatts6420
      @laurawatts6420 5 лет назад +3

      Music speaks. Beautiful song. A song I rewrote the lyrics to after losing my dad suddenly. It was a faith journey I never wanted to take but there is blessing in the trial. ruclips.net/video/IHiUIkzNDA8/видео.html

    • @Gestrid
      @Gestrid 5 лет назад +2

      @Fuckyou EatshitDie No, his son died a couple months ago.

  • @jeremiahwhitmore3654
    @jeremiahwhitmore3654 5 лет назад +544

    What a legend. Loses his son but can still make a song praising God. We're here for you Toby.

    • @mychristianmusicweekinreviews
      @mychristianmusicweekinreviews 5 лет назад +9

      Amen!

    • @watermelonfriut6250
      @watermelonfriut6250 5 лет назад +7

      Facts

    • @tanyaeckert1670
      @tanyaeckert1670 5 лет назад +4

      His faith still sounds like a struggle though. Like he hasn't left God but he is asking why and where he is ?? He's shook. Holding onto his faith but still lost and confused. Love you Toby Mac

    • @watermelonfriut6250
      @watermelonfriut6250 4 года назад +2

      @@tanyaeckert1670 it's ok to struggle as long as you keep struggling

  • @chrisgant3409
    @chrisgant3409 10 месяцев назад +78

    I lost my 23 year old son to a motorcycle accident. I’ve felt such pain. God has met my in that pain but………… Thank you my brother Toby. Look forward to meeting you guys in heaven. You’ll see us right away! We’ll be the ones doing handstands on dirt bikes with Jesus on back.

    • @lmr9804
      @lmr9804 9 месяцев назад +4

      Sending prayers❤

    • @blast626
      @blast626 8 месяцев назад +1

      God is with you

  • @taramuhr6274
    @taramuhr6274 4 года назад +1235

    I cannot believe that TobyMac is singing to God even though his son just died that is called true faith

  • @elizabethgrandle7821
    @elizabethgrandle7821 5 лет назад +783

    Anyone can praise God through the easy and happy times but it takes a whole lot of courage to praise him though the hard times. God bless Toby.

    • @Victorious_909
      @Victorious_909 5 лет назад +2

      You aint never lie! Amen! 🙏

    • @patrickkugel5191
      @patrickkugel5191 5 лет назад +3

      Elizabeth Grandle well said.

    • @kaidenhedge9779
      @kaidenhedge9779 5 лет назад +2

      Elizabeth Grandle so true

    • @bitliferecords4011
      @bitliferecords4011 5 лет назад +4

      Elizabeth Grandle it does the pain from my ex came back to me i woke up from a nightmare about her and how she waa saying i was gonna be depressed im trying to hold on and be better even when its extremely rough

    • @eddierios2003
      @eddierios2003 5 лет назад +3

      Yep its like my pastors recent sermon saying when moneys good you can walk into the church with a biggo smile on your face but when its the opposite you walk into the church with no spirit lets stay and be strong for GOD!!

  • @caitlinscorner6884
    @caitlinscorner6884 5 лет назад +3670

    Who else cried or almost cried during this song

    • @valeriebrister9767
      @valeriebrister9767 5 лет назад +12

      CaitlinnnGrace my brother cried

    • @fastlyfebeats
      @fastlyfebeats 5 лет назад +25

      Each time i hear it

    • @cateslaura88
      @cateslaura88 5 лет назад +23

      The first time I heard it I cried the whole time 😢😢

    • @hdd6754
      @hdd6754 5 лет назад +33

      At 3:10 was when I cried even more. But this whole song was beautifully done and showed this man's emotions and his faith

    • @virginiaburrus6673
      @virginiaburrus6673 5 лет назад +13

      Ive seen this video three times and everytime it make me emotional.

  • @cherylwallace1398
    @cherylwallace1398 4 месяца назад +36

    I lost my son at 21 to a heroin overdose. I just discovered this song and cant stop listening. 😢I hope God wrapped his arms around my son, Chad. ❤

    • @butterfliesandcamo5975
      @butterfliesandcamo5975 2 месяца назад +2

      I am truly very sorry for your loss 😔 Please know that you are in my prayers Cheryl🙏🙏
      On 8/17/2005 I too lost my beautiful son at 21yrs old. I'm not going to tell you that you will heal bcuz as a grieving momma, I've never stop crying 💔😭

    • @AndreaMcAteer-fh8vr
      @AndreaMcAteer-fh8vr 2 месяца назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad you found this song. 💗

    • @billyruiz420
      @billyruiz420 2 месяца назад +1

      I lost my so to meth an police killed him I know how it feels

    • @michellehelget2089
      @michellehelget2089 2 месяца назад +1

      Sending prayers

  • @elvismartinez3918
    @elvismartinez3918 5 лет назад +1406

    When you praise God even in the worst moment of your life, it means that you are truly a Man of God.... Bless your heart Toby.... ✌🏻

    • @dannylantz3809
      @dannylantz3809 5 лет назад

      9

    • @akilahbrowne2623
      @akilahbrowne2623 5 лет назад +13

      So true, i lost my job, i lost my father but i still love God he gaves and take away, blessed be the name of the Lord.

    • @PilgrimsProgress7
      @PilgrimsProgress7 5 лет назад +9

      @@akilahbrowne2623 I pray you find work soon

    • @akilahbrowne2623
      @akilahbrowne2623 5 лет назад +6

      @@PilgrimsProgress7 thank you I trust God, he will provide.

    • @mistydhayes
      @mistydhayes 5 лет назад +2

      Exactly. Only God enables us to Praise Him IN the Pain 🙌 Our God is more Amazing than we can put to words. God is with us in EVERY moment. ❤ Father I ask that you let Toby and his family experience your Faithfulness like never before in Jesus Mighty Name Amen 🙌

  • @Lifeisshortmakeitcount
    @Lifeisshortmakeitcount 5 лет назад +878

    “Twenty one years what a beautiful loan”. Beautifully said.

  • @TheCherieAmourShow
    @TheCherieAmourShow 5 лет назад +860

    Father, we pray that You give TobyMac and his family peace that surpasses all understanding. This we ask in Jesus' Name, amen. Beautiful video.

    • @kaidensmith2770
      @kaidensmith2770 5 лет назад +9

      Amen and thank you god for all you do though toby and his family and bless him in these hard times

    • @natsu9594
      @natsu9594 5 лет назад +2

      Wow. Just wow

    • @BehindTCapture
      @BehindTCapture 5 лет назад +2

      Amen

    • @musicsweet2833
      @musicsweet2833 5 лет назад

      The Cherie Amour Show 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @VentiTimes
      @VentiTimes 5 лет назад +1

      Kaiden Smith God*

  • @MallorysNaturalBeauty
    @MallorysNaturalBeauty 11 месяцев назад +71

    I overdosed at 22 years old. God saved me and brought me back.
    Not everyone gets that heavenly blessing.
    I thank God for sparing the lives of my mother, father, and brother.
    The pain addiction can bring is SO PAINFUL.
    There is hope. Sober is perfect in Gods love.
    Thank you God, for saving me. I will forever praise Your name.
    Amen

    • @leedelmont4Yeshua
      @leedelmont4Yeshua 5 месяцев назад +1

      perhaps tell your story on Randy Kay channel then :)

    • @ElExorcista-qm8ls
      @ElExorcista-qm8ls 4 месяца назад

      🙏

    • @laflorna3483
      @laflorna3483 3 месяца назад

      @MallorysNaturalBeauty keep sharing your testimony of Jesus saving grace and God’s love for you. God bless you!🙏💝

  • @LauraReeves7
    @LauraReeves7 5 лет назад +464

    I lost my son at 7 years of age. I miss him terribly, every single day of my life. This song touched my heart - tears are falling. Blessings to anyone reading this who are missing their children.

  • @connorbradbury6093
    @connorbradbury6093 5 лет назад +713

    Toby I just want to say that I didn’t believe in Jesus even when everyone around me did but when I started to listen to your music I started to believe and I just want to thank u for that.
    I really appreciate you guys but I want Toby to respond because I want him to know how much he’s helped me

    • @nicholashill6224
      @nicholashill6224 5 лет назад +4

      If you also want to hear a moving song, look up no longer slaves, live at Harding prison

    • @azula2399
      @azula2399 5 лет назад +1

      Nicholas Hill yes!

    • @keithjohnson7484
      @keithjohnson7484 5 лет назад +2

      Connor Bradbury hey man good testimony bro. Proud of you fam!

    • @MineCraftDadnSon
      @MineCraftDadnSon 5 лет назад

      Read the bible

    • @ethanslifka3904
      @ethanslifka3904 5 лет назад +5

      Wow, thats awesome man! Lets give this man a round of applause!

  • @jadawalker4765
    @jadawalker4765 5 лет назад +720

    The part “God has you in Heaven, but I have you in my heart” cuts deep

    • @ruthmv98
      @ruthmv98 5 лет назад +4

      Me to 💔😭

    • @jadawalker4765
      @jadawalker4765 5 лет назад +5

      @Kevin Smith Well that is your belief. MY belief, and the belief of TobyMac, is that he does. So you can't knock how we feel.

    • @carissaruffcorn7097
      @carissaruffcorn7097 5 лет назад

      Yes

    • @jadawalker4765
      @jadawalker4765 5 лет назад

      Kevin Smith Yes....that makes so much sense....and I’m not a delusionist I’m a 12 year old Christian, you atheist.
      Quit or I will report u for child abuse

    • @weirdout4750
      @weirdout4750 5 лет назад

      Tobymac

  • @deniseguerrero8781
    @deniseguerrero8781 5 месяцев назад +3

    Mr, Toby Mac
    Sorry for your loss.
    Thank you for this song 🎵
    Someone killed my son 😪 he was 36 on July 8, 2020
    It's been 4 years now. I miss him so much. I do miss his calls 📞 😔 😪

  • @aidenwatson2663
    @aidenwatson2663 4 года назад +1551

    I don't know why ANYONE would dislike this video on purpose. Toby i'm so sorry for your loss you'll always be my favorite music artist.

    • @leoingle
      @leoingle 3 года назад +8

      Maybe ppl just don't like the song? Is everyone required to like it?

    • @HaloMusic17
      @HaloMusic17 3 года назад +78

      @@leoinglethen dont click either of them man, like come on have some common decency, our man Toby lost his son

    • @leoingle
      @leoingle 3 года назад +4

      @@HaloMusic17 I didn't click anything bro. All I did was giving the guy an answer to his question. Do you really think everyone that comes across and listen to this know what it's about??

    • @HaloMusic17
      @HaloMusic17 3 года назад +11

      @@leoingle ik I didn't directly to u, just those who decided to read it and yeah thats y the guy said "dislike this video on purpose"

    • @leoingle
      @leoingle 3 года назад +4

      @@HaloMusic17 all good bro

  • @kimblyrayford9607
    @kimblyrayford9607 4 года назад +844

    My daughter passed June 16, 2020. 14 days after my birthday and she was also 21. This is my first time hearing this song. I only listened and did not watch the video until just now as I am replaying it for the fourth time, and as I listened I thought of my beautiful angel as I do everyday. I miss her so much! I feel the pain of your family and my prayers go out to you.

    • @kimblyrayford9607
      @kimblyrayford9607 4 года назад +23

      @@raeljose4548 Because of her cerebral palsy she was often targeted by doctors for unnecessary surgeries and anything else that they could use to get money out of medicaid, even if it meant killing her to do it. I have intercepted a few attempts. Through a lot of deception and making a lot of weird medical mistakes that made no sense whatsoever and withholding information from me they killed my daughter. I believe that she is with Jesus in Heaven, but it still hurts because I feel like I failed her and could not protect her this time. Thank you for your condolences.

    • @jaywade3860
      @jaywade3860 4 года назад +6

      Love and a prayer is being sent your way,may God give u strength and whatever u need

    • @crenee2007
      @crenee2007 4 года назад +7

      @@kimblyrayford9607 -
      Praying God wraps you in His Fatherly love ❤️ and peace.
      He has your baby until you reunite on the other side.
      Please warn others about the evil medical system. Some will listen and be saved much heartache. 👉And do NOT get the vaccine they are pushing.👈 Much 💕

    • @kimblyrayford9607
      @kimblyrayford9607 4 года назад +2

      @@jaywade3860 Thank you very much for your prayers. They are needed very much.

    • @kimblyrayford9607
      @kimblyrayford9607 4 года назад +2

      @@crenee2007 Thank you so much!!!
      Yes, I have warned some about how wicked some doctors can be. I have even encountered quite a few that got super vindictive towards us. The things we have encountered down through the years is baffling and absurd.

  • @lombo9090
    @lombo9090 5 лет назад +338

    Lost my daughter when she was almost 3, that was 14 years ago. This song is such a beautiful tribute for all of us who lost a child!

    • @chrispollock218
      @chrispollock218 5 лет назад

      I’m so sorry 😢

    • @sachamctootlewhitaker9813
      @sachamctootlewhitaker9813 5 лет назад +2

      Amen lost my 3rd child at 6weeks a tube baby .1 of Hardiest times ever. ThankGod His Grace is SUFFICIENT ENOUGHE AMEN

    • @chrispollock218
      @chrispollock218 5 лет назад

      I don’t believe In god anymore.......he has never done anything good to me or my family 😢

    • @tommycbaker65
      @tommycbaker65 5 лет назад +1

      I cant even fathom... and my heart breaks.

    • @lordcole5138
      @lordcole5138 5 лет назад +6

      Chris pollock and Luke pollock I continue to believe in god because I won’t be a victim to the devil.

  • @rhondaseguin7704
    @rhondaseguin7704 Год назад +117

    I lost my son 6-10-21. He struggled with addiction all his 29 years. He accepted Jesus in 2018 but his battle continued. He died from a seizure in a rehab facility. This song touched my heart. I have said many of those words to God the past year and a half. I too am grateful for my son and look forward to the day we can be together again. Prayers for you and the work you do Toby.

  • @Vade1220
    @Vade1220 5 лет назад +638

    “21 years, what a beautiful loan”
    Wow, that hits hard 😢

  • @willowscarlette3657
    @willowscarlette3657 5 лет назад +156

    “I believe in the sun even when it’s not shining.
    I believe in love even when I cannot feel it.
    I believe in God even when he is silent.”
    -written on the walls of a concentration camp during the holocaust

    • @yikesgina
      @yikesgina 4 года назад

      I thought it was "I believe in God even though I cannot see him."

  • @swordofhonor2
    @swordofhonor2 5 лет назад +236

    That's what real faith is. We ask questions and still believe.

    • @littygamer9008
      @littygamer9008 5 лет назад +1

      Thanks for that Rachael🙂

    • @Armelion1Music
      @Armelion1Music 5 лет назад

      @@FloridaMan23 yaa, i believe in that 2 !!!!!!!!

  • @amberesparza5046
    @amberesparza5046 Год назад +13

    Lost my 3 month old last year 2022. My baby Sammy #forever3months!! Always in mommy's heart!!! Rest in the Good Lords arms!!! U were too perfect for this ugly world!!!

    • @thomasmelton287
      @thomasmelton287 Год назад +3

      I lost my son in July of this year. He was 2. It is so hard to just keep breathing and without Jesus I wouldn't be

    • @Jesusistheanwser
      @Jesusistheanwser 6 месяцев назад

      It is a very ugly and cruel world

  • @savannahscott90
    @savannahscott90 5 лет назад +329

    Romans 8:18 “The pain you’ve been feeling can’t compare to the joy that is coming.” Stay strong. We love and support your family Mr. Toby.

  • @wht5764
    @wht5764 5 лет назад +427

    "God has you in heaven, but I have you in my heart" hit me hard

    • @melissaharmon3808
      @melissaharmon3808 5 лет назад +13

      This made me crying...I lost my loving Mom last summer...God loaned her to me for many wonderful years...some not so wonderful years...praying for all of people who've lost a close relative.

    • @beYOUtifulbyjulieta
      @beYOUtifulbyjulieta 5 лет назад +5

      Dude same almost started crying.

    • @beYOUtifulbyjulieta
      @beYOUtifulbyjulieta 5 лет назад +6

      I’m crying now😭

    • @johnsoto7414
      @johnsoto7414 5 лет назад +4

      Yes this verse has me thinking...

    • @gameender4828
      @gameender4828 5 лет назад +5

      Melissa Harmon so sorry for your loss

  • @danicah3588
    @danicah3588 5 лет назад +188

    I wasn't prepared for the way this song would affect me. I lost my brother when he was 21. This song gave me all the feels like a tsunami wave. My heart aches for the McKeehan family. Praying always.

    • @burgersbibles6872
      @burgersbibles6872 5 лет назад

      Right . I lost my cousin recently that I was close to . This is a such a powerful song . I'm sorry for your loss . One day you will be reunited .🙌

    • @ColoradosBackyard
      @ColoradosBackyard 5 лет назад

      I am so sorry. Your brother is in a better place

    • @jbugwatson8398
      @jbugwatson8398 5 лет назад

      Right I was fine now a complete mess..this reminds me to not take moments for granted eeeever with family

    • @jbugwatson8398
      @jbugwatson8398 5 лет назад

      I'm sorry Danica for your loss also

  • @justin10292000
    @justin10292000 9 месяцев назад +75

    THIS is how a Christian artist grieves. Christians have REAL hope in the face of tragedy. Thank you, brother, for your beautiful testimony. I look forward to seeing Truett in Heaven.
    ✝️ 🙏 ❤️

  • @Punisher5FDP
    @Punisher5FDP 5 лет назад +303

    “Told me that you were my prodigal son, but this isn’t home”. Man that hit hard...

    • @deannaford1116
      @deannaford1116 5 лет назад

      Punisher5FDP This isn’t home... Be ready... Come quickly Lord Jesus

    • @tobbiehaynes8380
      @tobbiehaynes8380 5 лет назад

      Truth,this isnt our home

    • @thebluebrick439
      @thebluebrick439 5 лет назад

      Punisher5FDP I’m sorry for what I’d did but I am a mess right now and half the time I do t know what I’m doing every thing u accused me of tonight was true always know your right I’m wrong I’m broken your strong don’t let anyone bring you down 😌 I am truly sorry. One other thing peri is not the bad friend am I am I don’t want u to think I want pity or attention. Just know I lied I told Henry. And yeah bye

  • @sophialapalme4945
    @sophialapalme4945 5 лет назад +567

    I can’t even imagine how hard it was to sing this...

    • @germainerysdahl5374
      @germainerysdahl5374 5 лет назад +3

      I know right

    • @RandomNamedHBK
      @RandomNamedHBK 5 лет назад +6

      He was choking on a lot of tears. I know this for sure.

    • @julesservantofjesus972
      @julesservantofjesus972 5 лет назад +7

      @@RandomNamedHBK Agree, I could literally feel his pain coming through....

    • @RandomNamedHBK
      @RandomNamedHBK 5 лет назад +12

      Jules Servant of Jesus exactly. This song reminds me that i dont have much friends at school. But the sound of this song also reminds me that God is the only friend that i need for He will never judge me, leave me, and always helps me in my best and certainly my worst moments in life. Amen to that. 🙏

    • @williamwest4049
      @williamwest4049 5 лет назад +2

      @@RandomNamedHBK Just be yourself and reach out. Someone will notice you. 👍 God already has so when someone needs you... they'll find you.

  • @JubileeBloom
    @JubileeBloom 5 лет назад +515

    The emotion in this song is powerful enough to make a childless teenage girl feel the pain of a father who lost his son. The line "catch you when you steal my shoes" probably hit me the hardest, as it reminded me of all the times I stole my mom's shoes before my feet got to be bigger than hers and all the times I continually "borrow" her leggings, socks, dance clothes, etc. I loved the ending, how even in the grief he was able to thank God for the years he did have with his son. It gives me hope that I'll be able to hold on to joy and not let all my insignificant little hurdles bog me down.

    • @lokalove8842
      @lokalove8842 5 лет назад

      Odina Rose اقفسييططذذ

    • @faithfulprofessional6886
      @faithfulprofessional6886 5 лет назад +5

      Yeah. I dont have a kid but i actually wept

    • @mariagardner9798
      @mariagardner9798 5 лет назад +1

      YOU GO GIRL!

    • @Godsmasterpiece1993
      @Godsmasterpiece1993 5 лет назад +1

      I cried. I haven’t experienced death or have children. Empathy!!!!

    • @alexandriadacosta2062
      @alexandriadacosta2062 5 лет назад +3

      Odina Rose I lost my beautiful 18 year old son just a few months ago. We buried him with my husband’s converse because he stole them every day during his high school days. They were scuffed, ripped and dirty- but so beautiful to me because of the understanding and story behind them. I mourn my son every single day and know that I will never ever be the same. To know my son was to LOVE HIM. God Bless anyone else going through something like this.

  • @childofgod94
    @childofgod94 2 года назад +272

    It's been about 40 days and nights now since I lost my 21 year old baby boy and God has been right here with me through it all. This song is perfect, these are all the same thoughts and feelings I have had since it happened. Someday soon Toby we will be running to our baby boys and we'll never have to leave them again. I'm praying for you man.

    • @TheRealPomni827
      @TheRealPomni827 Год назад +7

      Love your name man

    • @vegas629am
      @vegas629am Год назад +4

      Beautiful comment.

    • @MySouvenirs
      @MySouvenirs Год назад +5

      God bless you and hold you ❤

    • @carolynjohnson8230
      @carolynjohnson8230 Год назад +9

      41 days since my son was murdered and this song is just what I needed to hear he had just turned 21 5 days prior. My heart is so heavy it’s like a bad nightmare that I pray god wake me up from .

    • @childofgod94
      @childofgod94 Год назад +2

      @@carolynjohnson8230 I am so deeply sorry that you are having to walk through such a horrible experience like this. I am praying for you tonight.

  • @ethanwilson8095
    @ethanwilson8095 5 лет назад +489

    Don't mind me, just crying my eyes out over here

    • @Juliehomevideo
      @Juliehomevideo 5 лет назад +6

      I think any red blooded human being is also.

    • @alissdiaz8881
      @alissdiaz8881 5 лет назад +1

      Me too 😢

    • @jplata3643
      @jplata3643 5 лет назад

      Im not but i find it really sad

    • @heidifrederick9802
      @heidifrederick9802 5 лет назад +5

      Gulp. I'm at work trying to hold it together with silent tears. Unimaginable. I'm in awe of Toby's strength to compose this song and share it with the world. I hope it brings him healing because we know it will help so many others.

    • @vanessagauna5834
      @vanessagauna5834 5 лет назад

      Same

  • @DOUBLEJOE850
    @DOUBLEJOE850 5 лет назад +475

    “God has you in Heaven, but I have you in my heart”
    😭😭😭😭

  • @ThePeeplesChannel
    @ThePeeplesChannel 5 лет назад +122

    I lost my 23 year old son in June 2019 and this song is a gift. Thank you!
    The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

    • @godfollower19
      @godfollower19 5 лет назад

      So sorry you have this heavy burden, 8/31/14 my son (29) crossed over.

    • @charleyb8423
      @charleyb8423 5 лет назад

      I'm sad to read such heartwrenching words. :-(

    • @carrichildress
      @carrichildress 5 лет назад

      My deepest condolences! Prayers that God draws you close and gives you three peace only He can give.

    • @magickitchen54
      @magickitchen54 5 лет назад

      My heart goes out to you and you have my prayers. They are never forgotten.

    • @bettycarmella1127
      @bettycarmella1127 5 лет назад

      Prayers for you beloved🙏💗🕊

  • @susanraburn7183
    @susanraburn7183 2 года назад +122

    I lost my son on August 6th 2022 due to accidental fentanyl overdose. He was 24 years old. I found the song 21 years when I was looking for the songs we played at his funeral. I listen to 21 years everyday now. This song has helped me so much. I thank the lord for letting me have my beautiful son for 24 years. And thank Toby Mac for recording it. I know I will see him again.

    • @fl_krake2874
      @fl_krake2874 Год назад +3

      Rest in peace

    • @katy61
      @katy61 Год назад +6

      I am so incredibly sorry for your loss…from one Mama to another, my heart aches for you. I have a 12 year old daughter and I just cannot imagine-I don’t want to imagine- losing her. I work as an Addictions Counselor and Fentanyl is just wiping out young lives so fast. It’s evil and so so dangerous. I’m also an addict in recovery (13years!) and I’m so grateful that Lord allowed me to make it through that time of my life. Again, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and the loss everyone who loved your son feels. I know I’m just a random stranger replying to your comment on RUclips, but please feel free to hit me up if you ever just need someone to listen, I’m here. Sending love from South Carolina ❤

    • @fl_krake2874
      @fl_krake2874 Год назад +5

      @@katy61 so proud of you for being 13 years clean my dad died from an od when I was 12 so I understand it can be hard but one quote he always said was recovery is hard but regret is harder

    • @susanraburn7183
      @susanraburn7183 Год назад +4

      Thank you so much 💓

    • @Redmemory1
      @Redmemory1 Год назад

      I just lost a really good friend. What can we do about our kids and young people getting killed by fentanyl!?!? I feel so lost right now. I love this song. And my heart goes out to you for your loss, Susan.

  • @creativeplanetentertainmen7868
    @creativeplanetentertainmen7868 5 лет назад +450

    #21 on trending
    Even RUclips itself is paying mad respect to this.
    Rest in peace Truett.

  • @jacobmcquarrie5596
    @jacobmcquarrie5596 5 лет назад +776

    I'm trying to figure out who would ever give this song a dislike..

    • @rociorosete4064
      @rociorosete4064 5 лет назад +42

      Who doesn't know jesus !! Pray for them brother!!

    • @mybb8831
      @mybb8831 5 лет назад +21

      Someone heartless

    • @iManual
      @iManual 5 лет назад +11

      Same why dislike😠

    • @n.martin8199
      @n.martin8199 5 лет назад +6

      thank you for sharing such a powerful time in your life with us

    • @suzannemarie1223
      @suzannemarie1223 5 лет назад +2

      me too!!!

  • @diamondnightsmusic
    @diamondnightsmusic 5 лет назад +432

    I was hoping Toby would put his grief into a song like this, but I didn't know it would be so beautiful. 😭😭
    We love you Toby and we're praying for you.

  • @stephengrasso1474
    @stephengrasso1474 9 месяцев назад +4

    I lost my son 6-8-17 life has never been the same I feel his pain and everyday I walk on this earth I pray God will allow me to walk with him again

  • @hannahmah
    @hannahmah 5 лет назад +375

    “You said you were my prodigal son. But this isn’t home” wow. Thank you for this amazing song and allowing us to grieve with you. Thank you.

    • @stephystuff2955
      @stephystuff2955 5 лет назад

      Did the son decide to repent?

    • @hannabelle7112
      @hannabelle7112 5 лет назад +1

      The Prodigal Son is a parable spoken by Jesus. It represents a person falling away from God for whatever reason, realizing their mistake, repenting and turning back to God. God is Home. Heaven is Home. A song by Philips, Craig, and Dean-“When God Ran” describes it beautifully.

  • @blksheepramirez
    @blksheepramirez 5 лет назад +303

    I lost my sister recently as well so the lyrics “God has you in Heaven but I have you in my heart” hits deep. Stay strong Toby

    • @davidjaw
      @davidjaw 5 лет назад +8

      Prayers for you.

    • @SageArishima
      @SageArishima 5 лет назад +6

      I lost my sister 7 years ago. This still hits home for me hard. It never really goes away. Waves is a good way to describe it, as Toby said. Sometimes the smallest ripple causes a new wave of grief.

    • @bubbles1168
      @bubbles1168 5 лет назад +3

      Me too ☹️ I know the feeling. Prayers go out to you and your family

    • @diangelobarbour7856
      @diangelobarbour7856 5 лет назад +2

      I know you however my condolences to you . God is in control be strong .

    • @diangelobarbour7856
      @diangelobarbour7856 5 лет назад +2

      Don't know you

  • @webdeb8814
    @webdeb8814 5 лет назад +590

    Our daughter Katelyn died at 21, 10 years ago. I have to be honest, I was very depressed, so much so that I found myself sitting on the side of my bed many times rocking, crying, and praying asking the Father why. Each day was I felt God's arms always wrapped around me and speaking peace into my spirit. Her dad felt the same way. We just didn't understand. We didn't realize that God was ministering to us the whole time. At some point, my oldest spoke words of truth to me. She said, "Mom, You don't need to understand why Kate went to be with the Lord right now, but the Lord and she would want you to live and give witness to what He's done since she's with Him in paradise. You will see her again!" Those words said in love broke the yoke of oppression that was like a dark cloud over my life. I reached out for help and through that help began to help others through the "club that no one wants to be in." We've been able to wrap our arms around other parents who will walk a similar path after they lost their child that we walked and how God began to not let us live the same life we lived before as a family, but a different one that totally changed our perspective. God's will be ministering to you along the way, Toby and family, and I pray you'll continue to feel his presence as you move forward one step at a time. Praying that the Lord would pour out his love in you. Much love, Deb

    • @webdeb8814
      @webdeb8814 5 лет назад +25

      @Kevin Smith Well Kevin, I choose not to think of my daughter as worm food. She gave her life to Christ, and he is with her Father in heaven. How can you be so cruel to someone you don't even know? I hope someday you know Jesus love. It shows that you need hope and going from one Christian's page to another is not helping your case. GOD bless you. I'll pray for you.

    • @timothynoth8272
      @timothynoth8272 5 лет назад +22

      Kevin Smith: hey Keven. Those are pretty heavy words to send to grieving parents whether you’re against Christianity or not. The good news is that there is a loving God and prayer is powerful. I’ve seen way too many miracles to not believe anymore.

    • @carsonjanzen8179
      @carsonjanzen8179 5 лет назад +19

      Kevin, I’m praying for you man whether you welcome it or not. I pray God evidently shows himself to you and that you are open to see it.

    • @bobthebuilder5779
      @bobthebuilder5779 5 лет назад +10

      @Kevin Smith hey Kevin are you always this mean and miserable?

    • @throughfaithandgrace2970
      @throughfaithandgrace2970 5 лет назад +5

      D.B.H. Hicks beautiful testimony ❤️ god bless yoy

  • @LorryG63
    @LorryG63 Год назад +29

    The way he looks toward heaven with the rain falling down... that's exactly how I feel after losing my son on 4/29. Are you happy where you are? I miss you Jon. Forever 29. Thank you Lord for my beautiful son.

  • @lasi8208
    @lasi8208 5 лет назад +970

    "Therefore you too have grief now; but I will see you again, and your heart will rejoice, and no one will take your joy away from you." John 16:22

    • @jenniferbrown-west782
      @jenniferbrown-west782 5 лет назад +7

      ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

    • @lareina4487
      @lareina4487 5 лет назад

      @@MarcelReuling Project Diffusion (Dehungerize)
      ruclips.net/video/bZ8SuE4bzvE/видео.html

    • @brandybell2910
      @brandybell2910 5 лет назад +9

      Thank you i needed this reminder. My son passed away in March this passed year.

    • @mattakastarkill3r402
      @mattakastarkill3r402 5 лет назад

      I mean he took himself away

    • @RandomNamedHBK
      @RandomNamedHBK 5 лет назад +1

      Brandy Bell im so sorry to hear. March is when my birthday takes place. I will pray for you to grow strong, for my dad lost her dad years ago and still feels such hurt in her heart. May God Bless u. Stay strong Brandy!

  • @TimiKomo
    @TimiKomo 5 лет назад +350

    “21 years, what a beautiful loan” 😭💕. That’s exactly what my mom said when we lost my brother. Our loved ones are on loan to us. What a beautiful thing that God gave TobyMac his son on loan and now he’s back to his Father in Heaven. I’m praying for God’s grace and comfort.

  • @kieran296
    @kieran296 5 лет назад +392

    "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death' or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
    Revelation 21:4

    • @mvp.89
      @mvp.89 5 лет назад +2

      Amen , Jesus reigns!

    • @etiblmca9267
      @etiblmca9267 5 лет назад +1

      @Kevin Smith I hope you find God's love, go to Catholic Mass.

    • @joblive3084
      @joblive3084 5 лет назад +4

      @Kevin Smith just because there is 4200 religions in the world doesn't mean one of them can't be true. one of the best ways to tell a religion is true or not is to look into the claims the religion makes to see if it's true. and just because Christianity started over 2000 years ago doesn't mean that it's false. the God who started Christianity been around forever. Christianity started as a Jewish sect.

    • @tyember6641
      @tyember6641 5 лет назад +1

      @Kevin Smith bro if I could put my hands on you and make you feel even an ounce of this man's pain... You're pathetici actually pitty how lesser of a human being you really are. His people are chossen, you are not. His people are eternal, you are not. His people may be struck down but never destroyed, you will be. As for T Mac and his family they will be reunited, you will only be United with darkness because you have no substance to your being. You're empty, void of light, and yet our Jesus still offers you salvation, yet you'd rather be a demon/troll who gets off on our there's pain. How low, vile like the serpent who sent you. Repent or be cast into hell.

    • @tyember6641
      @tyember6641 5 лет назад +2

      @Kevin Smith yes a child of the most high, you are a child of hate, you claim our truth is a fairytell but what is your truth? Is hate you're truth? Or suffering? Pain even? No that's this family's truth they lost a child and it brings him comfort to consult a God that actually loved him and you want to bash him. You're a bad person and you're going to suffer more from lesser things than tmacs family cause you're weak. You have no substance, bland and bitter.

  • @SylviaMedzo
    @SylviaMedzo 9 месяцев назад +13

    Just be courageous for every situation in our life.I Lost my 8years old daughter in may 2023.i miss her.😭

  • @Courtney54149
    @Courtney54149 5 лет назад +654

    The people who disliked this are the ones who wanted to see him turn his back on God because of this tragedy. But his faith is strong!!

    • @vale2852
      @vale2852 5 лет назад +12

      FearMustLose haters gonna hate. Trolls are always there and really don’t care about anyone.

    • @iManual
      @iManual 5 лет назад +9

      Praise the Lord

    • @evans8412
      @evans8412 5 лет назад +1

      Not happening as they can tell

    • @skrumbein3073
      @skrumbein3073 4 года назад +4

      Or they just didn’t like it...

    • @michaelchurch2957
      @michaelchurch2957 4 года назад +4

      Or they didn’t like the song

  • @stephencurlee3901
    @stephencurlee3901 5 лет назад +489

    “21 years, what a beautiful loan”... Toby has known the whole time that his son was God’s and not his. He’s been holding on to something that’s God’s and it’s time to give it back.

    • @ericsolberg8812
      @ericsolberg8812 5 лет назад +8

      Stephen Curlee beautiful

    • @12buster95
      @12buster95 5 лет назад +5

      Realest thing I’ve heard !

    • @ianbeilfuss7662
      @ianbeilfuss7662 5 лет назад +5

      Amen!!!!

    • @scotthollier3500
      @scotthollier3500 5 лет назад +9

      First time I ever heard someone Thank God for their loan was my mother-in-law at her sons funeral. One of the most selfless comments and acts imaginable. Lord push me down so that I May Lift You Up.

    • @Armelion1Music
      @Armelion1Music 5 лет назад +2

      @@scotthollier3500 i agree, its hard but with God everything becomes kinda possible !!! prayers and blessings your way!!!

  • @potterfreakg
    @potterfreakg 5 лет назад +420

    “Why would you give him and take him away” just cuts so deep. I can only imagine the pain from losing a child. I am so very sorry for your family’s loss.

    • @bradvincent2586
      @bradvincent2586 5 лет назад +26

      I commented this elsewhere but I’m sharing again because it really helped me to not be mad at God or question him about things:
      God didn’t take him! He received him. Huge difference! God is the author and giver of life and the devil only came to steal kill and destroy. It’s that simple. I know that doesn’t make it any easier, but it’s at least not complicated. God is truly good even though terrible things happen. Such a moving song! ✌🏼

    • @musicsweet2833
      @musicsweet2833 5 лет назад +5

      Brad Vincent Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @vilmabock478
      @vilmabock478 5 лет назад +3

      @@bradvincent2586
      Thank you for loving Truth! 🤗

    • @epiclilbeast4353
      @epiclilbeast4353 5 лет назад +1

      As a Christian is it also a gain bc now he's is heaven praising the most high!

    • @Libertygal74
      @Libertygal74 5 лет назад +1

      Job 1:21 Deuteronomy 32:39 1 Samuel 2:6-7
      God does indeed take life. But we trust in His sovereignty and His goodness.

  • @prancinfox15
    @prancinfox15 2 года назад +295

    I lost my dad a few weeks ago. I know this song is about your son but I think about my dad now whenever I hear it. Especially when this part plays, “God has you in Heaven but I have you in my heart.”

    • @vegas629am
      @vegas629am 2 года назад +11

      Me too. I lost my dad 22 years ago to hepatitis B. (He was 47 years old.) I still miss him.

    • @bicyclesammi079
      @bicyclesammi079 2 года назад +7

      Same. Sorry for your loss!

    • @melissaw5627
      @melissaw5627 2 года назад +11

      Me too. I lost my dad in August and now this song has new meaning for me. May the lord Jesus continue to comfort us all in our grief.

    • @melodywray2016
      @melodywray2016 2 года назад +7

      Same I lost my dad and it talks about his son but I remember my dad when I hear it

    • @joshuacalder8627
      @joshuacalder8627 2 года назад +4

      Praying for all you guys who lost loved ones. Losing your father and anybody that's close to your heart hurts deeply. It really does suck, and I don't know why it has to be like this.

  • @lysseeia
    @lysseeia 4 года назад +339

    I lost both of children to cancer 2 years and 17 days apart. Ruben was 21 and Armando just turned 22 . Toby it feels like your singing the lyrics from my heart. I'll pray for you and you pray for me

    • @kendalbucasas2994
      @kendalbucasas2994 4 года назад +5

      May God bless you and bring your heart some peace, that’s such a terrible thing to go though and feel, and i am so sorry.

    • @sharonr2121
      @sharonr2121 4 года назад +1

      How are you?

    • @sharonr2121
      @sharonr2121 4 года назад +4

      Hallo! Please read the Bible, spread the Gospel, and pray as much as you can every day. Don't stress yourself out or refuse to rest when tired, but with the virus, the prophecy of peace with Israel coming true, and legitimate celebration of sins, we don't know how late or soon God's children will be raptured, so surrender your worldly desires to God and ask Him for discernment and answers. When you are tempted, rebuke the evil within you in the Name of Christ. Bless your days by declaring that God will prosper you and others. Use your tongue only to bless, and not curse. Satan tells people that they are unable, and tries to condemn them and whisper excuses for sin to them. Remember that when he does so, and cast him out in the Name of Christ.

    • @FairyGothMotherG
      @FairyGothMotherG 4 года назад +5

      I too lost both of my son's 7 months apart this past year, Jake was 25 & DJ was 27..It is the worst pain ever... somedays I literally cannot breathe.

    • @paulettebarrow9791
      @paulettebarrow9791 4 года назад +2

      @LY,MY CONDOLENCES

  • @watermelonfriut6250
    @watermelonfriut6250 5 лет назад +185

    THIS GUY IS AMAZING. He thanks God for his son after he's been taken. I can't explain how much of a man of God this person is. May God bless you.

    • @jayco2309
      @jayco2309 4 года назад +1

      he wasn't taken !!! But i hear u

  • @simondaka4909
    @simondaka4909 5 лет назад +177

    "21 years what a beautiful loan" This breaks my heart.

  • @tgailw1982
    @tgailw1982 7 дней назад +1

    I lost my 21 year old daughter in a car accident on January 18th, coming up on the one year mark in 2 weeks. I’m grateful she got to live her life as an adult, found love & had a little baby who was in the car with her during the accident (Jules was fine) but the constant feeling that you have to miss out on so much that you thought was promised to you is the worse part. You just wanted to see them blossom like you always knew they would but you never got the chance. I felt what you meant in that interview when you said you’ll never laugh as deep or enjoy life as deep as you did before. It’s the shackles that we must endure until we meet again; how can one love fully with all their heart when part of it will always be missing?

  • @littygamer9008
    @littygamer9008 5 лет назад +177

    It's awesome to see this Christian dude in his 50s on trending! R.I.P. Toby's son😔

  • @juliegoldsmith6831
    @juliegoldsmith6831 5 лет назад +155

    This wasn't even my son and this song brought me to tears thinking how hard each day has been and will be as you and the Mrs. wait to see your child again, God bless your family and I'm sure this song will help others.

    • @justindono
      @justindono 5 лет назад +3

      MusicCharts TV not the time dude....

  • @82heartofalion
    @82heartofalion 4 года назад +568

    "God has you in heaven but I have you in my heart" 😭😭♥️

  • @jameskennedy673
    @jameskennedy673 Год назад +28

    This one brought tears to my eyes also, God has my wife of 48 years in Heaven, but her memories are in my heart. She lost the cancer battle 11/29/23. I know that one day we’ll be together again

  • @utdchris
    @utdchris 5 лет назад +342

    This song is going to bring a lot of people peace.

    • @ReallyReall
      @ReallyReall 5 лет назад +1

      I agree

    • @lyndseycaughron6878
      @lyndseycaughron6878 5 лет назад +1

      It did for me after my great uncle passed Praying for everyone who lost someone here 🙏🙏

    • @mikedegen2384
      @mikedegen2384 5 лет назад +1

      Lost my 27 year old son to suicide this really hits home . Was sent to me by a dear friend . I love the song but at the same time sure pulls on my heart strings. Brandon I live and miss you dearly hope your in God's arms .

  • @shurenacarmona3883
    @shurenacarmona3883 5 лет назад +236

    I just lost my father yesterday. He was only 59. I cried a lot hearing this song. I needed it and I love this song.

    • @ava165
      @ava165 5 лет назад +2

      yesterday??

    • @alinacloss3254
      @alinacloss3254 4 года назад +4

      Praying for you and your family. I lost my mom 6 months and I know it’s hard but God will comfort you.

    • @sandycruz3696
      @sandycruz3696 4 года назад +2

      so sorry for you loss praying for you

    • @TheTamedHighSky777
      @TheTamedHighSky777 4 года назад +1

      I’m so terribly sorry for your lost, I pray that you receive spiritual hugs and comfort from Jesus himself, god bless 🙏

    • @qwertyrchl
      @qwertyrchl 4 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. May God bring you comfort in a hard time. 💕

  • @darrell3030
    @darrell3030 10 месяцев назад +2

    God bless him. So sad and devastating. My friend is an addict and I fear every day for the phone call telling me that he's overdosed or his body has been found somewhere and he's died all alone in the streets. I worry so much that I barely eat or sleep. I only pray for mercy and grace that he will be saved. Because there's nothing I can do and no one else will help. I guess its just up to God now.

  • @alexismurphy7170
    @alexismurphy7170 5 лет назад +176

    We lost our 2 month old at the beginning of 2019 in January. Running up on a year. Baby Zane death has changed our lives. Yet, I don't understand why so soon he had to die, we are trusting God's plan.. Zane had a purpose...and each day as we grieve him, I am watching it unfold. Rest in peace to your son Tobymac....and rest in peace to our Zane as well. God has us through this painful journey.

    • @coop98
      @coop98 5 лет назад +8

      ALEXIS Murphy hang tough!! Our twin baby boys passed away from this earth early as well. God has them now, and when our time comes we will be with them forever! On their head stone we had “safe in the arms of Jesus” put on it.

    • @carlawinter8596
      @carlawinter8596 5 лет назад +2

      So very sorry for your loss💙🙏🏽

    • @alexismurphy7170
      @alexismurphy7170 5 лет назад +2

      @@coop98 I'm soo sorry for your loss!!! We are hanging on to our faith!!! It has not been easy...

    • @coop98
      @coop98 5 лет назад +4

      ALEXIS Murphy keep hanging on! The dr told us that the reason was weak cervix and that we would always have pre mature births. Well we just held on to God, but nervous in the flesh sometimes that it would happen again. The thought of that pain again was indescribable! Well we stayed close to God, and didn’t give up. Our next baby we had a healthy baby girl full term on a Christmas morning! And Now God has blessed us with 4 full term baby girls. Two of which my wife had to be induced on. Don’t let the enemy tell you lies, keep moving forward and block him out with Gods word when he try’s!

    • @alexismurphy7170
      @alexismurphy7170 5 лет назад +2

      @@coop98 thank you! I was just praying that God restore to us what we lost! Never to replace Zane, but to fill the void.❤

  • @WhatzItFeelLike
    @WhatzItFeelLike 5 лет назад +293

    TobyMac this is absolutely beautiful.
    “21 years, what a beautiful loan”
    I was so deeply saddened by the news. Your openness and honesty about the grief you are experiencing will help others feel less alone. God bless you and your family as you make your way through this unspeakable journey of grief. I am so grateful your faith remains strong. He is with you. Always.

  • @lucyharrison4408
    @lucyharrison4408 5 лет назад +220

    "God has you in heaven but I have you in my heart"
    This part made me cry really hard😭

  • @janiemaldonado6765
    @janiemaldonado6765 10 месяцев назад +8

    True faith sings through the greatest of losses. I commended my children to God. They are His, and my oldest is with Him. He will no longer come to me, but I will one day go to him. I've seen him in my dreams. Such a blessing. The waves of pain most soft and easy now but every now and then, a tsunami. Keep on singing Toby, you're a blessing.

  • @aimeeyup564
    @aimeeyup564 5 лет назад +45

    My only child, Cordell Keaton Smart was 19 when he was murdered on May 20th of 2019. He was an innocent bystander and was shot when a gun fight erupted. It's been the toughest journey of my life. If it wasn't for God's ever present love, I would be lost right now.
    Music is what we bonded over the most. He would let me listen to his beats and lyrics....that part of your song touched me so deeply. He was truly a talented young man and I love him with every ounce of my being.
    Thank you for pouring your heart out into this song. I hope you find healing and peace through this journey. May God bless you

    • @heatherhismrs7518
      @heatherhismrs7518 5 лет назад

      Wow what a sad story..i hope you are doing ok.

    • @tarapoole07
      @tarapoole07 4 года назад +1

      I am sorry for your loss. And yes, God is so powerful. I don't know how people can handle losses with out him. I just pray comfort for you and anyone struggling from his loss.

  • @danabeauchemin5559
    @danabeauchemin5559 4 года назад +235

    My One True Love, My Son, went to heaven on February 3, 2019. I heard your song only 1 time on KLOVE & it touched my heart. I actually broke down on my drive. Today I watched the video & the only comfort I have is knowing my Jacob was & is a child of God! He is in Gods arms & in my heart forever. This is by far the worst my heart has ever had to face. He was my only child, my mothers only grandchild and the 1st person in ALL my family to go to heaven. This is so hard, every day, but I honestly feel if it wasn't for the love & peace that was given to me by Jesus, I would probably be so miserable. I know Jacob is dancing on streets of gold & this is the only thing that comforts me. I trust you Lord, I love you Lord & I thank you for blessing me with 19 beautiful years with my Jacob Reino Montgomery. All my Hope is in you Lord.

    • @ernestomagallanes7341
      @ernestomagallanes7341 4 года назад +3

      May god comfort your heart and place his healing hand upon your heart ❤️

    • @PuyDstryr-fc4sn
      @PuyDstryr-fc4sn 4 года назад +2

      God and Jesus Christ will keep you going and getting through your pain! Just think about how happy he is up in heaven with our savior and creator! Looking down at you as well from heaven🙌🏽🎚

    • @derrickcochrane9250
      @derrickcochrane9250 4 года назад +2

      A big warm hug to you and your family in Jesus name amen. Psalm 34:18 The Lord is near tho those who have a broken spirit and saves such as have a contrite spirit. 19 Rest In Peace Jacob!

    • @bekahbuggy9688
      @bekahbuggy9688 4 года назад +1

      I’m sorry to hear, let God put his hand of peace on your heart. Lord bless you and keep you happy, Christ will heal you

    • @paulettebarrow9791
      @paulettebarrow9791 4 года назад

      @DANA,SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,MY CONDOLENCES

  • @whubble
    @whubble 4 года назад +278

    This song really hits me hard. We lost our son 6/14 after several years battling depression. He was 21. Would have been 22 on 8/6. The rememberances from friends, family, and strangers have been very humbling to know just how big his heart is. It was easy for him to be there for those that were hurting, since he knew what they were feeling. Nothing hurts worse than the parents left on earth without their child. But my faith is stronger than ever as it really shows what a blessing from God we had to be chosen as his parents...

    • @paulettebarrow9791
      @paulettebarrow9791 4 года назад +4

      @BILL. SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, MY CONDOLENCES

    • @realrogue
      @realrogue 4 года назад +2

      Oh dear one that is the hardest way to lose someone, and you say it in the very best and kindest way to your child's memory. My heart goes out to you today, and I am blown away by the faith your comment shows.
      If anyone else is suffering with depression, and reads this, please remember the crisis help line in the US is 1-800-273-8255, and Crisis text line: Text HOME to 741741 in US; Text 686868 in Canada.

    • @juliannewylie2048
      @juliannewylie2048 4 года назад +3

      sorry for your loss

    • @ayvahbell
      @ayvahbell 4 года назад +5

      Dear God. I feel bad for what people have to go through. I want to pray that people with depression can beat it. However, it’s hard to do alone. God I pray that you will help him. I know you will always have a place for them, lord. And please help whoever needs it. Amen

    • @joshbrown7935
      @joshbrown7935 3 года назад +1

      You are so strong ❤

  • @islapierre8139
    @islapierre8139 Год назад +18

    I’m crying now , beautiful song , lots of courage to you and your family

  • @photobombchamp
    @photobombchamp 5 лет назад +85

    I can’t even imagine the amount of strength it took to write and perform this. RIP Tru

  • @jdschellstar5986
    @jdschellstar5986 3 года назад +461

    My parents died in their early 20s when I was in elementary school, both suicide. I have them in my heart everyday. EVERYDAY, 40 years later. I am blessed to carry them with me. Much love to you and yours.

    • @Cookie-ks1lq
      @Cookie-ks1lq 3 года назад +24

      oh my gosh that must’ve been so hard since you were so young I’m so sorry

    • @daynarew356
      @daynarew356 2 года назад +16

      @TobyMac I lost my son 12 and a 1/2 years ago he was 31and knew Jesus is his savior. I lost my daughter November 19th 2021 She was 41 I lost my sister my best friend 2 weeks later she was 61. They all knew Jesus as their savior and I will see them again Hallelujah praised the Lord thank you Jesus.... We will celebrate happy heaven day for my 2 newest losses like we have for my son the past 12 years!! They were tragic losses and they weren't surprising but still shocking talking making the choices if they did I'm did I am glad they are out of their torment their torture and their pain And are now healed and with the Lord.

    • @levernis5753
      @levernis5753 2 года назад +6

      @@daynarew356 that's not Toby Mac that's a scammer

    • @jennie7599
      @jennie7599 2 года назад +3

      @@levernis5753 I'm curious how you know because I leave comments on different youtube channels after a song or video and I've gotten artists asking me to email them or how to talk to me personally. I'm embarrassed I was so nieve. Does this happen alot? Their pictures are the same but 1 or 2 or 24 subscribers...instead of their millions on other site.. How do I prevent getting scammers posting these things on RUclips? I feel dumb...

    • @levernis5753
      @levernis5753 2 года назад +5

      @@jennie7599 if the reply if from the original channel the reply section at the beginning will have "reply from(channel namefor e.g. TobyMac) written over there. The reply of the channel's name will be highlighted with grey colour. I hope this helps you sister. Have a great day.

  • @lindaburgess8669
    @lindaburgess8669 4 года назад +287

    My daughter Amber overdosed at 21. These lyrics are the cry of my heart. 💔

    • @susanmcguire4664
      @susanmcguire4664 3 года назад +8

      I am very sorry for your loss. Sending you my deepest sympathy xxoo

    • @lindaburgess8669
      @lindaburgess8669 3 года назад +5

      @@susanmcguire4664 thank you so much

    • @knockoutchronicles695
      @knockoutchronicles695 3 года назад +3

      So sorry for your loss, Although rejoice, because she may be in heaven.

    • @knockoutchronicles695
      @knockoutchronicles695 3 года назад +3

      Praying for your comfort for your family

    • @xenathargo1227
      @xenathargo1227 3 года назад +2

      I have you in my prayers sister.

  • @rashidahwiggins7721
    @rashidahwiggins7721 2 года назад +6

    God is good amen blessing will come your way🙏🙌🙌🙏🙏🙌🙌amen!!!

  • @realrogue
    @realrogue 4 года назад +216

    My little brother died not long before Truett did, at the same age. He died not far from your alma matar, and one of the later pictures taken of him was with you after a concert. We all suffered when Jonathan died, but no one like my parents--having seen first hand what it does to a parent to lose their young son, with all the world ahead of him, I really feel for you. Through tears, though, I am struck by the hope and the joy in this song. It is absolutely amazing how you have imagined and pictured God's love for your child, and I know that hope of things not seen carries other parents suffering the same thing. "21 years, what a beautiful loan...thank you Lord for my beautiful son." Amen, man.

    • @tristanfuller8151
      @tristanfuller8151 3 года назад +4

      I feel for you😥😥😥

    • @wendyray1013
      @wendyray1013 3 года назад +5

      What a testimony...you definitely touched my heart as well as many others im sure. May God bless your family always!

    • @mariannesouthward5676
      @mariannesouthward5676 3 года назад

      Please GOD let that be true please I so want to believe 🙏.

  • @hannahsandoe7645
    @hannahsandoe7645 5 лет назад +68

    "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."
    Matthew 5:4🙏❤

  • @juliagalvez5633
    @juliagalvez5633 4 года назад +575

    I got saved on Sunday March 1st 5:36 pm

    • @kimberlybutler1155
      @kimberlybutler1155 4 года назад +33

      You go girl, stay strong with him and pray every day because he's coming back soon to take his children soon. God Bless and stay strong.

    • @kishorenandra1413
      @kishorenandra1413 4 года назад +24

      Grand welcome into the believer's family

    • @noahd.2167
      @noahd.2167 4 года назад +21

      I'm glad you got saved 😁

    • @stefaniej8597
      @stefaniej8597 4 года назад +22

      Welcome to the fam! Sis stay close and strong with God ❤️

    • @livviebattaglia
      @livviebattaglia 4 года назад +10

      Congrats!!❤️❤️

  • @faithbanda4314
    @faithbanda4314 Год назад +43

    I lost my brother year. He took his own life. This song calms me down. Thank you TobyMac 🙏🏽

    • @Wood-px3nq
      @Wood-px3nq Год назад +1

      Don't give up.

    • @melissac6774
      @melissac6774 11 месяцев назад +5

      I lost my son to suicide in September of 2019 The pain is always going to be there, it just adds and flows up and down. Hold on to Jesus!

  • @trouble3294
    @trouble3294 5 лет назад +351

    No parent should have to bury their child. - J.R.R. Tolkien
    One of the worst tragedies I could imagine. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @Armelion1Music
      @Armelion1Music 5 лет назад

      prayers and blessings to everyones struggle!!! God bless bless y'all and you Dylan !!!!

    • @evans8412
      @evans8412 5 лет назад

      Happened in my family 24 years old brother of my son in law I saw that family go through the unimaginable sadness and it’s broken now but make every day as great as possible this song fits except it be 24 years

    • @Armelion1Music
      @Armelion1Music 4 года назад

      Joelle Evans may God bless all of your hearts and spirits!! 🙏 got out to each day you guys tribute to you your loved ones!!!!

    • @youtubegirl2.058
      @youtubegirl2.058 4 года назад

      It is supostet to be the other way around

    • @heathersullivan3714
      @heathersullivan3714 4 года назад

      amen dylan amen

  • @ellalange1407
    @ellalange1407 5 лет назад +626

    Who could dislike such a Beautiful song

  • @educationalporpoises9592
    @educationalporpoises9592 4 года назад +162

    3 teenage boys at my church were murdered last month and this song was played at their Celebration of life. It was an incredibly touching event. I had no idea that this was written by Toby Mac, but now knowing that the passing of his son is what inspired him to write it makes the song all the more appropriate for the passing of those boys. God Bless you Toby Mac.

    • @feliciaabrams9604
      @feliciaabrams9604 4 года назад +3

      💔

    • @b.hepworth3669
      @b.hepworth3669 4 года назад +3

      So horrible, unimaginable! I never heard of this in the news. I am now praying for all the family and friends affected by this tragedy you reported...

    • @marykobzar3929
      @marykobzar3929 4 года назад +1

      oh my goodness thats so sad I'm sorry for both of you

    • @yikesgina
      @yikesgina 4 года назад +2

      @@feliciaabrams9604 good grief. Praying for their families and you guys as a church.

    • @avaryan8470
      @avaryan8470 4 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry! :(

  • @suzannejambo1254
    @suzannejambo1254 2 года назад +77

    Saturday it’s been exactly 2 weeks since Dri left us. My only child, my son Dri was 21. He was my world, we lived and did everything together, we travelled the world and dreamt together. He was my son, best friend, soulmate and advisor. Your song “21 Years” is a masterpiece of solace, every word consoles me. “God has you in heaven, but I’ve you in my heart…thank you Lord for my beautiful son.” My Dri was a kind hearted, a most loving being, humble, hard working goals-oriented focused kid. Why did he have to go so soon and tragically so?! Nothing makes sense, but prayers and music. Till we meet again my Dri. Mama loves you forever. Help me God💔😭❤️🤲🏽

    • @torquegolf
      @torquegolf 2 года назад +3

      I totally relate. I am running hard to hide behind Jesus.

    • @dianemarie1880
      @dianemarie1880 2 года назад +5

      God bless you Momma, I will pray each day for you. I lost Jared at 21. Om 3/20/22
      Draw close to God, he will heal us. DeeDee

    • @aarynlazdans3106
      @aarynlazdans3106 2 года назад +1

      Thinking of you

    • @psychshell4644
      @psychshell4644 2 года назад +2

      My deepest condolences. May God comfort you.

  • @lisajorgensen6447
    @lisajorgensen6447 4 года назад +58

    I lost my son to an accidental overdose one month ago. A friend shared this song with me and it spoke all the words I could not say. Thank you for sharing your loss and helping those of us in a similar situation find healing and keep the faith.

    • @TheScorched
      @TheScorched 4 года назад +1

      I'm sorry to hear you lost your son. I'll be praying for you, and your family. May God bless you!

    • @lisajorgensen6447
      @lisajorgensen6447 3 года назад

      @@TheScorched Thank you

    • @kimblyrayford9607
      @kimblyrayford9607 3 года назад

      I know that this is late but, my deepest condolences for your loss. Prayers to God for you.

    • @lisajorgensen8663
      @lisajorgensen8663 3 года назад

      @@kimblyrayford9607 thank you 💔

    • @kimblyrayford9607
      @kimblyrayford9607 3 года назад

      @@lisajorgensen8663 You are so welcome. We have to support each other. I don't know what I would have done without the prayers and encouraging words of the people under this feed and others when I lost my daughter. I praise God for each and every one.Be blessed Lisa.

  • @kingofkings5175
    @kingofkings5175 5 лет назад +219

    Dear God,
    I know I’m a sinner, and I ask for your forgiveness.
    I believe Jesus Christ is Your Son. I believe that He died
    for my sin and that you raised Him to life.
    I want to trust Him as my Savior and follow Him as Lord,
    from this day forward. Guide my life and help me to do your will.
    I pray this in the name of Jesus. Amen."
    Did you pray this prayer?
    FEEL U T MAC WITH LOVE MY BROTHER
    PASS ON THE MESSAGE OF JESUS
    WE ARE WITH YOU AMEN AND BE SAVED AND WE HAVE ALL SINNED AND START OVER WITH JESUS AND PASS ON THE MESSAGE OF JESUS THAT'S WHY WE ARE HERE AND UPS AND DOWNS JUST NEVER STOP BELIEVING AMEN

    • @justcynic2492
      @justcynic2492 4 года назад +2

      King of Kings amen man 🙏

    • @lorenphillips8952
      @lorenphillips8952 4 года назад +5

      "Jesus, come and break my fear
      Awake my heart and take my tears
      Find Your glory even here."
      - lyrics from The Hurt and The Healer by MercyMe
      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
      I❤Jesus!
      Jesus Christ IS God! Here's some encouragement for everyone of you reading this no matter who you are:
      Matthew, Mark, Luke, John;
      John 3:1-36, [John 3:15];
      Romans 12:2;
      1 Timothy 4:15-16;
      2 Timothy 2:23-26; 2 Timothy 3:1-17, 2 Timothy 4:1-9;
      John 3:1-21, 1 John 4:1-21,
      1 Corinthians 13:1-13; 2 Corinthians 10:4
      Psalms 23:1-6, Psalms 118:6

    • @jclewisisimo
      @jclewisisimo 4 года назад +1

      🙏 amen

    • @joshishuman3145
      @joshishuman3145 4 года назад +3

      I can hardly read this because Every time I listen to this song I burst into tears knowing that tobymac lost a son and that's how life goes but it hits you in the heart 💓💓💓

    • @jaelyn7133
      @jaelyn7133 4 года назад +1

      Amen🙏🏽

  • @Titus-jd3yw
    @Titus-jd3yw 5 лет назад +64

    An anthem to anyone who has lost someone special in their life. Thank you, God bless you and stay strong.

  • @tanyawalker5380
    @tanyawalker5380 2 года назад +95

    We are having our sons memorial service today. He was only 25. While I know our sweet boy is in Heaven in the arms of Jesus, we still miss our sweet Nicholas Andrew Looney. This song has been a comfort to this Mama’s heart. “I’m just straight missing him”…

    • @psychshell4644
      @psychshell4644 2 года назад +1

      My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your son. May God comfort.

    • @ichoosehope
      @ichoosehope Год назад +1

      ❤️

    • @rb5344
      @rb5344 Год назад +1

      Nicholas Andrew Looney.❤️🙏🏽🌻

  • @ritterjon
    @ritterjon 5 лет назад +65

    I can’t imagine how difficult is was for you to write and then sing this song so beautifully. I pray that God continues to give you strength.
    God bless

  • @timothy4471
    @timothy4471 4 года назад +921

    Who would dislike a song that was written for someone's dead son? That's just cruel.

    • @lyndagruen2047
      @lyndagruen2047 4 года назад +9

      Depends on your perspective. Some folks might not find it appropriate to have children placed so much in the limelight. Y'know, the appearance of exploitation or a denied childhood. It may not have been like that - I don't know - but when someone is a high-profile artist, folks are going to pay more attention to the public image than the whole picture.

    • @timothy4471
      @timothy4471 4 года назад +67

      @@lyndagruen2047 So if you had a kid and they died you would be fine if someone disliked a song you wrote about them?

    • @zewudefitamo523
      @zewudefitamo523 4 года назад +23

      You right do not dislike that is CRULE

    • @matth6783
      @matth6783 4 года назад +15

      YOU DON'T CARE LYNDA GRUEN???!!! THAT'S SO UNBELIVBLY CRUEL

    • @bluehoodieguy7568
      @bluehoodieguy7568 3 года назад +3

      Ive heard people say that the dislikes are automatically generated

  • @viamendes1621
    @viamendes1621 5 лет назад +218

    Why am I already crying? The vid hasn’t started yet

    • @TheEHouse
      @TheEHouse 5 лет назад +1

      Via Mendes I’m right there with you!!! 😭❤️

    • @incorvaiac
      @incorvaiac 5 лет назад +2

      Them last few lines got me .. crying like a baby.

  • @Hihiiihihi129
    @Hihiiihihi129 11 месяцев назад +12

    Every time i listen to this song I cry. I recently lost my big brother on Christmas morning. He was 18. He died peacefully in his sleep and we still don’t know what happened to him. I know that god wanted to spend his birthday with him though. And he welcomed him home into heaven.

  • @CandaLee
    @CandaLee 5 лет назад +162

    I can't imagine. Sobbing during this song. He was sent for a reason, a reason for him, a reason for you and when we get to the other side we'll understand. Love and God's comfort to you and your family.

    • @woozy2562
      @woozy2562 5 лет назад

      Canda I didn’t but it was a sad song but it speaks to me

  • @jacobwelch7149
    @jacobwelch7149 5 лет назад +108

    My wife passed away on September 23rd 2019 due to health issues and all these lyrics make me wonder truly an great song thank you TobyMac

    • @annomaly751
      @annomaly751 5 лет назад +3

      so sorry to hear about your wife’s passing in September Jacob

    • @romaniangal
      @romaniangal 5 лет назад +2

      so sorry for your loss! 😢

  • @Thinkspamming
    @Thinkspamming 5 лет назад +168

    This song came out in the perfect timing. I thought all my Joy was over and life would be nothing but living. But this song just reminded me that I have my dad and mom and friends waiting for me.

    • @tabbyswanson8591
      @tabbyswanson8591 5 лет назад +8

      Mustard Gas yessss, God loves you so much. The plans he has for you are unimaginable. Trust in his timing.

    • @DK-jw4vf
      @DK-jw4vf 5 лет назад +7

      Whatever you're going through, remember that someone is always there, and you just have to remember they're there.Whatever you're going through, I pray God will help you through it and that life will get better 🙏

    • @Thinkspamming
      @Thinkspamming 5 лет назад +5

      @@DK-jw4vf Sometimes my dad just doesn't realize the fact that I get home safely, but he just doesn't seem to care. but I forgive him for the fact that he treats me the way he would like to. It doesn't matter to me, I just want him to be happy and know that I love him.

    • @Thinkspamming
      @Thinkspamming 5 лет назад +3

      @@tabbyswanson8591 Thank you, I really have been struggling to remember him. . . If I'm going to be honest.

    • @lovealways3687
      @lovealways3687 5 лет назад +3

      Prayers for you ❤❤❤❤

  • @cassandramena4166
    @cassandramena4166 7 дней назад +1

    I lost my dog back in April 2024. My mom showed me this song. I try to make peace and I cry to this song for my loss of him. But every word you say is what I scream out to God. But, I’m so fortunate to have my new baby puppies, but I still miss him.

  • @christieriley8430
    @christieriley8430 5 лет назад +50

    I almost started crying when I read the title. Knew immediately what it was about. Will have to watch it later because I know I will be in tears. God is using you in so many ways. My heart breaks for you and your family. Makes me hug my little boy even tighter ♡

    • @ddavis4730
      @ddavis4730 5 лет назад +2

      I couldn't stop crying while listening

    • @heylex2289
      @heylex2289 5 лет назад +1

      Same, I saw the title and I instantly knew

    • @Mars0984
      @Mars0984 5 лет назад +1

      christie millett same