How to Speak So That People Want to Listen | Julian Treasure | TED

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

Комментарии • 11 тыс.

  • @MrDuck313
    @MrDuck313 9 лет назад +36412

    He didn't use any "uhm"s or "eh"s in his speech. Absolutely amazing.

    • @chawbok
      @chawbok 9 лет назад +691

      At 5:10 but aside from that... Lol

    • @rodrigosegura2400
      @rodrigosegura2400 9 лет назад +448

      +chawbok He noticed... look at his throat 5:13

    • @RonCorwin
      @RonCorwin 9 лет назад +248

      Amazing? That stuff is basic. Somebody didn't listen to the exaggeration portion of this talk. ;)

    • @SilentMover95
      @SilentMover95 9 лет назад +104

      +Niek de Gier Must have taken some time to master his speech. I need to learn this too.

    • @AntiComposite
      @AntiComposite 9 лет назад +260

      +SilentMover95 A good way to avoid filler words and increase effectiveness is to make eye contact with whomever you are talking to.

  • @meditationrelaxclub
    @meditationrelaxclub 6 лет назад +18799

    If everyone took an extra minute to think before speaking, the world would be such a better place.

    • @theb166-er3
      @theb166-er3 5 лет назад +234

      I wish to remember this one ... But there would be damn looooong cues everywhere. Not to mention all the phone calls that start with one-minute silence :D

    • @nomadequipment2177
      @nomadequipment2177 5 лет назад +34

      @@theb166-er3 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣good one❤

    • @oldhounddog57
      @oldhounddog57 4 года назад +99

      As my father used to say... make sure the brain is engaged before operating the mouth.

    • @eleventothesun1158
      @eleventothesun1158 4 года назад +19

      And the most awkward place lol

    • @sangto5385
      @sangto5385 4 года назад +6

      Eleven to the sun it will not be a problem as long as you’re not judging someone else.

  • @MysticsofIndia
    @MysticsofIndia Год назад +3617

    this is the shortest 9 minute that have passed. What a life-changing speech.

    • @mingyuhuang8944
      @mingyuhuang8944 Год назад +32

      Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
      Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢

    • @WHITE-pz8sv
      @WHITE-pz8sv Год назад

      Dead A** channel! Lol

    • @VSlingshot-xzx
      @VSlingshot-xzx 5 месяцев назад +2

      Ikr! I thought it had been like a coupla mins n the video ended!

    • @amenotejikara7589
      @amenotejikara7589 4 месяца назад

      meh

  • @lusamafatman1517
    @lusamafatman1517 Год назад +753

    His speech is like his head. Clean and smooth

  • @ondermetu
    @ondermetu 4 года назад +2994

    4:06 " If you are wishing somebody's well, it is very hard to judge them at the same time. " impressive expression, so real.

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 3 года назад +28

      Judgment is good but only as a starting point, that should follow with "but I can help you...."
      Unfortunately, most judgments are about: now go and fix your own problems.
      Like, if I could do it alone don't you think I wouldn't do it already?!

    • @Marmer
      @Marmer 3 года назад +2

      Agreed. I need to remember this.

    • @romanstryzhyk9156
      @romanstryzhyk9156 3 года назад +7

      It was written in Holy Bible two thousands years ago, interesting fact. All new is forgotten old

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 3 года назад

      @@romanstryzhyk9156 New Testament was written by Greeks and they were "smart ones" and philosophers of the ancient times. Problem is, Romans highjacked it and changed the meaning and turned metaphorical story to literal ones, it became the story of materialistic magic. But then Revelation was added, like the fairy in the Sleeping Beauty altered the witches curse, so did they added "Apocalypse" part in it. But Apocalypse literally mean "unveiling", finding something that was hidden - the hidden meaning and the truth that if you take story of Jesus as metaphor and not literal story of a man who died and then zombified, you still can make it all fit and meaningful. Like plot twist gives you the key to re-read the book or re-watch the movie and go through the same path but now there's completely different meaning. And that key, actually, is what brings the "destruction of the world as we know it" because once you see you cannot unsee and nothing is the same any more.. New Earth, but just from the cultural perspective, we'll still have to stop the bullshit we're doing in polluting everything around us. Because once we destroy the Paradise on Earth, there'll be nothing to enjoy. As for the "gnashing of teeth" (anger) and "weeping" (sorrow) - that's reserved for the people who'll realize that everything they thought they knew - was a lie.
      Unfortunately, Kubler-Ross realized anger comes way before sorrow, so you'd be stoned before they get to the "sorry" part. Better leave it as it is then, in a century it won't matter anyway. Everyone's back to the pre-birth realm, the void.

    • @isaacm4268
      @isaacm4268 3 года назад

      @@ScorpioHR I found that description very interesting.
      ...Also, confusing, but maybe that's because I am sleep deprived.

  • @swine13
    @swine13 4 года назад +4742

    "Theres nothing wrong with silence, is there?"
    This man has obviously never been to dinner with my family.

  • @Bitter_Biscuit
    @Bitter_Biscuit 4 года назад +13374

    Notes and summary for myself
    The seven deadly sins of Speaking
    1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about someone who is not present. People will not trust you because a while later, you will gossip about them.
    2. Judging: It is hard to listen to someone who consistently judge you during a conversation.
    3. Negativity: Having a negative viewpoint on things.
    4. Complaining: which is mere viral misery. Could be on anything, politics, sports, or the weather.
    5. Excuses: Not taking responsibility for our actions and being a blame-thrower
    6. Exaggeration: Drawing an imaginary image and inflating stuff excessively. It can get to the point of outright **lying**.
    7. Dogmatism: stating your opinions as if they are facts without consideration of an evidence to support your claims. In other words, Bombarding people with biased opinions on a certain topic.
    - Foundation of powerful speech (HAIL)
    1. Honesty: Being clear and straight. Not using deception and lies. But using brutal and unnecessary honesty could hurt people. "Honesty tempered with Love".
    2. Authenticity: Being yourself and not imitating a non-genuine persona. "Standing in your own truth".
    3. Integrity: Be your word. Do what you say. Be trustworthy, and take responsibility.
    4. Love: Wishing people well. No judgement.
    - Toolbox of Speech (Voice)
    1. Register: Talk from your chest, not the nose or throat. "We vote for the politicians with lower voices". People associate depth with power and authority.
    2. Timbre: The way the voice feels. "Rich, Smooth, Warm, like hot chocolate." It is a skill that can be trained.
    3. Prosody: Talking with enthusiasm, having a rhythmic voice, and not being monotonic like a robot. Avoid repetitive prosody as if every statement was a question.
    4. Pace: Talk normally and slow right down to... *Emphasize*. Talking fast or slow at the right time is key in conveying your point.
    5. Silence: A powerful tool to bring attention. Should not be filled with filler words such as UH's and UM's.
    6. Pitch: To deliver an idea or ask a question and being understood. (The caps-lock of speech)
    7. Volume: The quieter the better in bringing attention. But don't be too quiet all the time and don't be a broadcaster too. Pay attention to your loudness.
    - Warm up the toolbox of voice
    1. Arms up, take a deep breath and sigh.
    2. Lips: (BA BA BA)
    3. Lips: Horse sound
    4. Tongue: Exaggerated (LA LA LA)
    5. Tongue: Roll an R (RRRRR)
    6. The siren (WEEEE [High] yoooo [Low])
    Speaking is one part of the puzzle because having a good conversation also depends on being a good listener.
    Edit: Reconstructed the phrasing of the point of dogmatism.
    Thank you for all the beautiful replies.Happy to make your day a bit easier :)

  • @no_budie
    @no_budie 8 месяцев назад +41

    He such a good speaker. I like the way he spoke and his confidence. I love his speech

  • @hospitalcleaner
    @hospitalcleaner 4 года назад +7886

    "People prefer voices which are rich, smooth, warm like hot chocolate" Julian said, knowing his voice sounded rich, smooth and warm, like hot chocolate.

    • @pyaesama
      @pyaesama 4 года назад +84

      This is so funny

    • @hospitalcleaner
      @hospitalcleaner 4 года назад +24

      thanks bro haha

    • @patzchan1900
      @patzchan1900 4 года назад +17

      Yah that "see what i did there?" 🤣

    • @RuneKatashima
      @RuneKatashima 4 года назад +39

      That whole section is him proving it. He is literally implying he trained for that voice.

    • @sangamharsolia5069
      @sangamharsolia5069 4 года назад +27

      Exception : Severus Snape

  • @countmein5164
    @countmein5164 2 года назад +1537

    Did he just influence such a large group of people within 10mins to make them stand and do some warmups like that?
    He proved his technique to be true. Amazing!

    • @TheFogLakeshore
      @TheFogLakeshore Год назад +8

      Wow it's so amazing. People from all around want to hear and interact, they come and sit in silence with others to hear someone elevated on a stage with an electrically-amplified voice. Lo and Behold, they are listening to the person on an elevated stage with an amplified voice! IT MUST BE A MIRACLE!

    • @abderahmanedrai2122
      @abderahmanedrai2122 Год назад +3

      Its easy to do that actually

    • @mingyuhuang8944
      @mingyuhuang8944 Год назад +8

      ​@@TheFogLakeshore Always good to listen to these speeches to improve your own emotional intelligence, even if it's only a little bit of improvement.
      Charisma and communications are a real void for most people these days.😢😢😢😢

    • @deathbringersaurfang
      @deathbringersaurfang 6 месяцев назад

      He's like adolf h

  • @psgaming_443
    @psgaming_443 6 месяцев назад +8431

    anyone here 2024😂 ?

    • @ikraali172
      @ikraali172 5 месяцев назад +26

      Yeah hbbi; nd commenting, he said its had to listen when they’re negative but for me its had to talk to them.

    • @jovanventer1308
      @jovanventer1308 5 месяцев назад +10

      Yeah man

    • @rumitlepcha3601
      @rumitlepcha3601 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yes

    • @IshanLodh
      @IshanLodh 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yea bro

    • @alishaansari1138
      @alishaansari1138 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yes 😂

  • @ChristinaDunlap100
    @ChristinaDunlap100 4 года назад +1436

    Not one time did my mind wander or drift away. This was pure excellence.

    • @nanab3959
      @nanab3959 2 года назад +3

      Same here hope you're ok

    • @rjun152
      @rjun152 2 года назад

      mine did on the NEGAtivity

    • @carolinaquirosduran3447
      @carolinaquirosduran3447 Год назад

      ​@@nanab3959 😢

    • @deanmutusva2796
      @deanmutusva2796 Год назад

      🙈 Me reading this comment in the middle of watching the video

    • @Jinna_00
      @Jinna_00 Год назад

      Yes...what you say is true

  • @mathieublake1670
    @mathieublake1670 5 лет назад +2946

    The Dont's
    Habits to move away from -- Seven deadly sins of speaking:
    1. Gossip
    2. Judging
    3. Negativity
    4. Complaining
    5. Blame-throwing (Excuses)
    6. Embroidery, exaggeration --> lying
    7. Dogmatism (my way or the highway; conflating fact and opinion)
    The Do's
    H.A.I.L -- Four (4) cornerstones of powerful, change-making speech
    H - Honesty: Being true - straight and clear.
    A - Authenticity: Be yourself. [Standing in your own truth.]
    I - Integrity: Be your word. [Doing what you say.]
    L - Love: Wish them well.
    Toolbox (the voice) - Some tools
    Register - (P.s. Depth is associated with power and authority.)
    Timbre - The way your voice feels -- rich, smooth, warm (can be trained!)
    Prosody - the sing-song, the meta-language, the root 1 of meaning in cnversation.
    Pace - including silence (don't have to be filled with ums and ahs)
    Pitch - to indicate arousal, etc.
    Volume - excitement (loud), attention-grabbing (quiet)
    Warm up your voice!
    1. Arms up, deep breath in. Sigh out.
    Lips:
    2. Ba-ba-ba-na
    3: Brrrrrrr
    Tongue:
    4. Exaggerated la-la-la-la
    5. Roll an RRRRRR
    6 The siren - Weeee (high)... awwww (low) [Repeat] The only one if able to do only one.

  • @gilsukim
    @gilsukim 9 лет назад +6932

    Four things I learned from watching this talk
    1. "Seven deadly sins of speaking to avoid"
    1) gossip -> I need to work on this sin
    2) judging -> I need to work on this sin
    3) negativity -> I need to work on this sin
    4) complaining -> I need to work on this sin
    5) excuses
    6) lying (embroidery, exaggeration)
    7) dogmatism (confusion between fact and opinion)
    2. what I need to say: four powerful cornerstones of speech to make a change in the world
    c.f. "hail means to greet or acclaim enthusiastically"
    1) H: honesty (be clear and straight)
    2) A: authenticity (be myself)
    3) I: integrity (be my word)
    4) L: love (wish them well)
    3. how I need to say: tools to play with to increase power of my speech
    1) register: e.g. if wanting weight, lower pitch of voice
    2) timbre: the way voice feels e.g. breathing, posture
    3) prosody: rhythm (e.g. not monotone)
    4) pace: e.g. slow to emphasize
    5) pitch: e.g. make pitch high or low
    6) volume: e.g. louder to emphasize
    4. exercise the following before making a presentation
    1) arms up to sigh out with ahh
    2) lips with ba ba
    3) lips with brrr
    4) tongue with la
    5) tongue rolling an r
    6) siren from we to aww

    • @neuralnetwork17
      @neuralnetwork17 9 лет назад +528

      Gil Su Kim You made a summary and shared it with everyone. You must have been the nicest kid in class when you were in school. (Or, now that I think of it, maybe you still are. I don´t know your age.) Thank you, I appreciate it.

    • @gnouveli
      @gnouveli 9 лет назад +31

      :( _when I speak by action, then people only able to listen by perception_

    • @SearchBucket2
      @SearchBucket2 9 лет назад +12

      +Gil Su Kim
      Do all of that Gil and you will have become a robot!

    • @Gottenhimfella
      @Gottenhimfella 9 лет назад +17

      +Gil Su Kim
      I reckon he missed one: Defensiveness
      (and I did wonder if the list should include fake humility/the apology reflex, but I suppose that comes under Lying, with a hint of Excuses)

    • @realniqqa101
      @realniqqa101 9 лет назад +40

      Thank you angel of God. Note taker

  • @-skyandrainbows
    @-skyandrainbows Год назад +48

    I just wanna share something that happened to my voice, to see if others experienced this too. I used to have a higher pitched voice. But through the years where I have done a lot of self education, I saw that my voice was changing. It was going deeper. The more I found myself and felt better in this world, the lower my voice got. I literally have found my own voice now haha. Now when I speak I feel more calm, and people listen to me way more! 😊

    • @KoalaHtet
      @KoalaHtet Год назад +2

      Good for you.

    • @ZenAndPsychedelicHealingCenter
      @ZenAndPsychedelicHealingCenter Год назад +1

      You're either hitting puberty, or your inauthentic way of forced speaking is starting to damage your vocal cords.

    • @hihelloitsmo
      @hihelloitsmo 7 месяцев назад +1

      omg same!!! i notice it most when i laugh, it comes from my chest like he mentions in the video.

    • @dravenvise5833
      @dravenvise5833 9 дней назад +1

      I haven't found my voice yet sadly but this comment gives me hope

  • @MicahBuzanANIMATION
    @MicahBuzanANIMATION 9 лет назад +4221

    If these types of interpersonal skills along with mindfulness meditation were taught in schools, we would live in a much more sane world. Intelligence isn't just about memorizing facts.

    • @kazonikz
      @kazonikz 9 лет назад +71

      That's true man

    • @MatthieuAmherst
      @MatthieuAmherst 9 лет назад +77

      +Micah Buzan Yup :) Therapists would be out of a job.. and the world would be so different. I wonder at the possibilities

    • @trpessoa
      @trpessoa 9 лет назад +5

      +MatthieuAmherst That would be a real problem for status quo...

    • @wellesradio
      @wellesradio 9 лет назад +23

      +MatthieuAmherst Actually mindfulness meditation seems to be what is being called the third wave of therapy and is becoming more popular every year among therapists. Some are even saying it could overtake CBT. I've found both CBT and mindfulness to be very useful. It's a great tool for therapists, so I don't think it will put them out of a job. Remember that they work to help people, so many of them would do well to spread the word.

    • @Abulous1986
      @Abulous1986 9 лет назад +1

      +Micah Buzan Couldn't agree more

  • @ayaankhan5624
    @ayaankhan5624 Год назад +928

    Thank you for the great info, my takeaways:
    - Things to avoid:
    - Judging
    - Excuses
    - Gossip
    - Dogamatism
    - Complaining
    - Lying
    - Negativity
    - HAIL
    to greet or acclaim enthusiastically
    H - Honesty → Be clear and straight
    A - Authenticity → Standing in your own truth
    I - Integrity → be your word
    L - Love → Wish them well
    - Voice
    Register
    - Speak from the chest → Depth = Power and Authority
    Timbre
    - Way your voice feels → Rich-smooth-warm
    - Train your voice - Voice Coach
    - Breathing and posture
    Prosody
    - SIng song → Meta language
    - Monotonic tone is boring
    - Make it livilier with changing up the tones
    - Repeatative Prosody coming up
    Pace
    - Pace up
    - Slow down → Emphasize
    - Silence
    Pitch
    - High and low pitch signify different meaning
    Volume
    - Vary volume according to purpose
    - Warm Up Exercises
    Arms Up → Deep breath in and sigh out Aaaaahhhh
    Lips → Bupp Buppp Buppp
    → Brrrrrrr Brrrrr Brrr
    Tongue
    → La la la la
    → Thrrrrthhrr → Champagne for the tongue
    Pitch
    Weeeee - Oooooo

  • @Efalstrup
    @Efalstrup 2 года назад +98

    4:01 "Tempered with love, honesty is a great thing." What a powerful statement; so, so true.

  • @K-Black_Academy
    @K-Black_Academy 11 месяцев назад +119

    This video was posted 9 years ago but today (05-01-2024) I have been able to get a lot of value from it
    Absolutely amazing 💯
    Thank you.

    • @youcancallmedante
      @youcancallmedante 10 месяцев назад +2

      You watched it on 5-1 - my birthday 😍

  • @santoshraja2000
    @santoshraja2000 4 года назад +355

    "If you wish people with love its really hard to judge them" , its absolutely true . I try to do this everyday . No matter what wish people well and you will find yourself free of all the negativity. And a smile from that stranger will make your day

    • @neolam2362
      @neolam2362 2 года назад +7

      Very true! Heroic opportunities don't cross our path very often.

    • @raeighnisha428
      @raeighnisha428 Год назад

      A blatantly spurious assertion.

    • @pavnisingh-ep6vl
      @pavnisingh-ep6vl Год назад

      Just like ur comment made me smile😊

  • @IKY94Zac
    @IKY94Zac 8 лет назад +1803

    Now this gentleman here cuts right through the chase, I usually dislike long introductions to the real subject. A lovely lecture indeed.

  • @klashenkoff633
    @klashenkoff633 5 лет назад +2757

    I like his head it is shining

    • @axeaclick
      @axeaclick 5 лет назад +73

      Shining so bright i couldnt focus on the talk

    • @mahakala
      @mahakala 5 лет назад +10

      lubed fucking head

    • @vksherlockholmes
      @vksherlockholmes 5 лет назад +76

      His head is brighter than my future

    • @JodBronson
      @JodBronson 5 лет назад +4

      " Head Polish " - They sell " Bee Bald! 😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️😂❤️

    • @ragingbonercontrolcentre
      @ragingbonercontrolcentre 5 лет назад +6

      Cut it off and take it home- it's what I do

  • @carlosj.sanchezfalquez
    @carlosj.sanchezfalquez 3 месяца назад +114

    Anyone here on September 2024🔥🔥👀

  • @aeronaut7346
    @aeronaut7346 5 лет назад +2748

    Imagine someone being late and walking in at 8:49

  • @OHMyResistance
    @OHMyResistance 5 лет назад +1646

    I can just imagine a bunch of people applying for a job position, all gathered outside the boss' office going:
    "RRRRRRRRR"
    "BA! BA! BA! BA!"
    "WEEEEEYYOOOOOOOWEEE"

    • @Itsab1234
      @Itsab1234 5 лет назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/GkvqJmVMC3E/видео.html

    • @yveltal7012
      @yveltal7012 5 лет назад +12

      that's hillarious=))))

    • @hmmm4758
      @hmmm4758 5 лет назад +6

      dewie 🤣

    • @sarilangakhusi1350
      @sarilangakhusi1350 5 лет назад +2

      😂

    • @stephenlakin1828
      @stephenlakin1828 5 лет назад

      yes well that's why you would find a quiet place to practice I would hope lol

  • @LKonstantina915
    @LKonstantina915 5 лет назад +3876

    i feel like youtube recommendations are personally attacking me

  • @arghvl7141
    @arghvl7141 10 месяцев назад +1

    boy have I learned that public speaking is not just to simply speak in front of an audience, there are broader and deeper aspects that make one’s speech interesting; where you would actually listen to what they are saying. It is compelling to learn the many ways you could competently speak in front of an audience, more than just articulating words and thoughts but rather, the way you speak those words and thoughts. Great video! great speech!

  • @mu9608
    @mu9608 3 года назад +246

    He speaks so clearly, even I can understand almost whole words

  • @ysa7823
    @ysa7823 Год назад +192

    I assumed this would be your basic talk on vocal coaching, how to carry and conduct oneself in public speaking. But he went to a deeper level and emphasized how we should speak about goodness, light, and positivity ❤ A concise message that hit the mark precisely ❤

    • @SweetSagan
      @SweetSagan Год назад +6

      He absolutely demonstrated all of his techniques. Amazing.

  • @dannymacoi2287
    @dannymacoi2287 5 лет назад +778

    The trick is, whenever you're talking to people have confidence in yourself don't look shy, look into people's eye, don't bow your head down a minute unless you checking the shoes or down-wear.
    But first hit your throat, Mnmn Mnmm...
    •••Men speak with a little base in it, avoid speaking to fast.
    •••Ladies speak calmly men automatically like that.
    Avoid, Eh, ehm, etc in the middle of your speech.
    Just pause and continue with the next word,then everyone in the audience will automatically see you as an intelligent person subconsciously.
    It's a human trick.

    • @euphoria156
      @euphoria156 5 лет назад +12

      True. Also, How about just saying the TRUTH? Which DOES include Gossiping, Judging etc. How abt emphasizing that ppl who ONLY tak positive are Pretentious Liars and are NOT Truthful. Like this man- Julian Treasure could be one of them. I am sick of those "Wanna be a Good Human Hypocrites" !! Just be Truthful

    • @dannymacoi2287
      @dannymacoi2287 5 лет назад +10

      @@euphoria156 You're right, it's in the confidence bracket...Who ever speak the truth is confident and does not care about what anyone thinks.
      As long as it's the truth, it's done.
      *Some people also lie boldly tho

    • @anuoluwapoobipehin4894
      @anuoluwapoobipehin4894 4 года назад +8

      'Men automatically like that'🤣🤣🤣 i don't really care🤣🤣🤣

    • @dannymacoi2287
      @dannymacoi2287 4 года назад

      @@anuoluwapoobipehin4894 Same with some men being attracted to other men.
      Things don't seems all that okay with all humanity ,people got preference.

    • @ksxjjxdx5890
      @ksxjjxdx5890 4 года назад

      So Elon Musk is not intelligent because he stutters while talking?

  • @AkankshaMahajan-d1z
    @AkankshaMahajan-d1z 9 месяцев назад +4

    Teaching something after mastering it yourself is an art. And he’s an artist

  • @listenupmusicpeeps
    @listenupmusicpeeps 4 года назад +81

    I had saved this to ‘Watch Later’ for quite sometime now, but this morning, while still in bed, I had the sudden urge to watch it, and I am so glad I did. I now know why I have problem with getting people’s attention when I speak to them. Most of this applies to me, I put my hands up. I am grateful for this video. It has done me an immeasurable amount of good.

  • @coffeewithkyle1911
    @coffeewithkyle1911 8 лет назад +328

    Vocal Exercises begin at 7:50 :
    1. Raise arms above head, take a deep breath, sigh loudly. "AAaaaaaaahhhh."
    2. Warm up lips."Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop. Bop."
    3. Blow Raspberries. "Bbbbbrrlllthhhhh."
    4. Exaggerate LA's. "LA. LA. LA. LA. LA."
    5. Roll an R. Like champagne for the tongue. "RrrRrRrrRrRrrRrR."
    6. The Siren. The WE's are always high and the oo's are always low. "WWWEEEEEeeeeeeeeeooooooowwWWWEEEEEeeeeooooooooowwwwwwwwwww."
    I enjoyed writing this.

    • @Mor4dracoRules
      @Mor4dracoRules 8 лет назад +14

      CoffeeWithKyle lol I am sure you did

    • @yyeeye9
      @yyeeye9 8 лет назад +2

      CoffeeWithKyle I listen it every morning

    • @priyadharshini3941
      @priyadharshini3941 7 лет назад

      CoffeeWithKyle h

    • @bravitarey
      @bravitarey 7 лет назад +1

      Glad you did it!!! 😂👌🎊🎊

  • @footangnanglaaggg2827
    @footangnanglaaggg2827 8 лет назад +133

    he sound so professional. i did the warm up a minute in lobby before job interview. i passed but requiring psychological test.

  • @ahsan.06
    @ahsan.06 Год назад

    Man didn't take a single step throughout his speech of around 10 minutes, yet was sounded so perfect with everything he said. Julian Treasure, his name speaks for his class.
    This is by far the best TED talk ever. 💯

  • @javianjohnson8746
    @javianjohnson8746 3 года назад +155

    This is a really good demonstration on how you can be more impactful when talking to people. I sincerely feel like I just learned a whole lot

    • @cherylzaccone9685
      @cherylzaccone9685 2 года назад +2

      It's useless when you are surrounded by people for a lack of a better word "idiots"

  • @ChristinaCxo
    @ChristinaCxo 4 года назад +68

    "Understanding would be the norm" I love this and I live for this! It's so important to be present and always go into a conversation with the goal to understand as much as you can and if you can't -> accept.

  • @nitahudson343
    @nitahudson343 4 года назад +438

    He is an incredible professional speaker. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

    • @bawlstars7857
      @bawlstars7857 3 года назад +1

      same here! I also really love Andrew Solomon's talk about depression. Both him and Julian are professional and impactful speakers. :)

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 2 года назад

      How am I the only one who finds his voice grating?

  • @BS-detector
    @BS-detector Год назад +2

    Coming from a family who is high strung, intelligent, passionate and constantly talking over each other (remarkably well, I might add) this calm, deep voiced way of conversation not only seems hard, but would make me virtually invisible if I tried it with them. This might work on strangers, but still seems like a difficult adjustment to make into a habit..

  • @enigma3297
    @enigma3297 5 лет назад +3144

    Me to my crush: hey I wanna talk to you about something
    *Starts excercising my voice in front of her*
    Her: leaves in silence
    Me:*still excercising* wEeEEeOOoO

    • @AlexAnder-rv1gu
      @AlexAnder-rv1gu 5 лет назад +89

      LOL!!! You were supposed to do that BEFORE she came over

    • @jasontighe3927
      @jasontighe3927 5 лет назад +16

      I think the point is to do the exercises in private. That is, make it a morning ritual. Just as you would exercise your body.

    • @RuzoOwzy
      @RuzoOwzy 4 года назад +14

      @@AlexAnder-rv1gu They normally come uninformed. Suddenly she is there.

    • @leegyamfi8211
      @leegyamfi8211 4 года назад +1

      Crazy.......

    • @jeffrynaguirre5153
      @jeffrynaguirre5153 4 года назад

      LOL

  • @dr.alan.niemies
    @dr.alan.niemies 9 лет назад +119

    One of the best 10 minutes I spent in my life using RUclips.

    • @zmaska
      @zmaska 9 лет назад +12

      +Alan Niemies REAL TALK
      respect

    • @paulden3158
      @paulden3158 7 лет назад +1

      Alan Niemies
      Suggest u watch more useful vids like this then! there certainly are plenty of them

    • @_harsshh0780
      @_harsshh0780 7 месяцев назад

      ⭐ really helpful

  • @jenkinomusic
    @jenkinomusic 2 года назад +715

    0:13 Intro
    0:33 7 deadly sins of speaking
    2:45 4 positive/powerful elements in speech
    4:22 The toolbox
    7:44 Vocal warmup
    9:05 Conclusion

  • @salmaimtiazsabri
    @salmaimtiazsabri 4 дня назад +1

    I don't know how many times I've watched this one in the course of 10 years. It's simply amazing!

  • @kingzeus36
    @kingzeus36 Год назад +41

    Conversation and speaking is truly an intricate art. The mastery of it takes discipline composure and consistency, among many other things. I now take every single interaction I have, whether it be a physical interaction or via any digital format text messaging, etc. I take it as a test for myself every time. I then rate my conversion based on how well I applied this great information to work on all my weaknesses each time I strive to do better than my last interaction. How to correctly apply this information is key. Thank you for sharing this information with us all. To anyone reading this comment, I really do wish you all the best. The more we practice, the better we all become so start now and take action immediately speak light and positivity all day every day. Children of the light stay close to all those who speak and live life positively.

    • @temenow
      @temenow 5 месяцев назад

      AWESOME 👌

  • @Brumfield85
    @Brumfield85 5 лет назад +338

    This was 10 minutes of my life well spent.

  • @ednafrench6269
    @ednafrench6269 3 года назад +373

    I was a professional pilot back in the days when carbon mikes were the only choice. As a female, I learned to lower my voice’s pitch in order to activate the carbon crystals. Discovered that I also got a lot more respect and was heard better when I used the deeper richer timbre. Also stopped ending all sentences like a question. That really eliminated a lot of confusion with air traffic control.

    • @dakotaridgek9
      @dakotaridgek9 2 года назад +8

      I know nothing of “carbon mikes”. Or activating carbon crystals. Do tell!

    • @thelordsportion1273
      @thelordsportion1273 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I worked with school age children, and was led by The All Knowing one to learn about these styles and forms of communicating. Really does make a difference!! Especially when shaping and cultivating a young humans learning experience. SHALOM

    • @channel-so2st
      @channel-so2st 2 года назад +5

      The technical term for ending sentences like a question is "upspeak".

    • @skippy6462
      @skippy6462 2 года назад +2

      When I was learning to fly (PPL) was told that I sounded like a mouse by my second instructor. I'd already done 13 hours with my first instructor. Lost my confidence to fly as easily as that. (1st instructor left as got a job with an airline). He was all the qualities needed to be an top class instructor because I flew my first solo under his guidance. My 2nd instructor wasn't and I gave up flying sadly. How to speak made all the difference to me. Will always appreciate the first instructor for an amazing life experience. Second instructor can't take that away.

    • @EinSofQuester
      @EinSofQuester 2 года назад +2

      @@channel-so2st You mean "Upspeak?"?

  • @MahendraPatel-j7b
    @MahendraPatel-j7b 7 месяцев назад +290

    Any one from 2024 ❤😂

  • @eyecamd
    @eyecamd 4 года назад +27

    I have never taken notes throughout an entire, first watch of a piece. I kept pausing and rewinding every couple moments to do so, it was honestly a fantastic speech.

  • @jeehyesa5160
    @jeehyesa5160 2 года назад +21

    Before mentioning his highly fluent speech I could feel how confident he is about himself. What an amazing speech I have ever seen! Love it!

  • @dannysunwantedopinions
    @dannysunwantedopinions 4 года назад +43

    I’m very pleased to see almost 30 million views for this video. I feel like healthy communication is a dying art form.

  • @james.atkins88
    @james.atkins88 Год назад +1056

    Engage your audience by simplifying complex stock concepts and incorporating relatable stories. Highlight the tangible benefits of stock investing, such as financial security and passive income. Use visuals and interactive discussions to enhance comprehension and maintain interest. Address potential risks transparently to provide a balanced perspective. Share personal experiences and stay attuned to your audience's needs, tailoring your approach accordingly. Cultivate enthusiasm and authenticity to make stock discussions both informative and captivating.

    • @edward.abraham
      @edward.abraham Год назад +4

      Amidst stock market fluctuations, precision in analysis remains crucial. Renowned financial outlets such as Bloomberg document instances where individuals have earned significant gains exceeding $250k within brief timeframes. Despite prevailing market uncertainty, those who navigate adeptly and identify favorable opportunities can still capitalize on potential wealth accumulation.

    • @andrew.alonzo
      @andrew.alonzo Год назад +3

      If you're not well-versed in market intricacies, seeking advice from a consultant or investment coach is the optimal route. Personally, consulting a professional has enabled me to navigate the market successfully, resulting in a portfolio growth of approximately 65% since January. While it might seem straightforward, I truly believe this remains the most potent strategy to enter the field effectively.

    • @Believer292
      @Believer292 Год назад +2

      I have been thinking about how to grow my reserve by at least 40% or more within months. I will be grateful if you can give tips or anything on how to make good market picks and how I can get my portfolio diversified and balanced in order to meet up my target.

    • @andrew.alonzo
      @andrew.alonzo Год назад +2

      @@Believer292 Do your homework and choose one that has strategies to help your portfolio grow consistently and steadily. ‘’Camille Alicia Garcia” is responsible for the success of my portfolio, and I believe she possesses the qualifications and expertise to meet your goals.

    • @rebecca_burns14
      @rebecca_burns14 Год назад +1

      @@andrew.alonzo I appreciate this advice, and I'd like to mention that "Camille Alicia Garcia" comes across as exceptionally well-informed. Upon discovering her online profile, I carefully reviewed her resume, educational history, and credentials, and I must admit, they left a strong impression. I took the initiative to get in touch with her, and I've successfully scheduled a session.

  • @Anastasia12344
    @Anastasia12344 4 года назад +3764

    How to be a great public speaker:
    Step 1. Have a British accent
    End of steps

    • @rajaaahmad2336
      @rajaaahmad2336 4 года назад +80

      that is so accurate lol

    • @Anastasia12344
      @Anastasia12344 4 года назад +5

      @@rajaaahmad2336 😁

    • @fieldkasrel3140
      @fieldkasrel3140 4 года назад +168

      If you have a British accent in America.... your immediately getting all the attention 😂😂

    • @goodnameidea7107
      @goodnameidea7107 4 года назад +19

      @@fieldkasrel3140 you're*

    • @hello-zf2fk
      @hello-zf2fk 4 года назад +43

      bruh i am british but i still can’t speak😭

  • @P4nzerk93
    @P4nzerk93 8 лет назад +11

    Julian Treasure sounds like an adult entertainer name. This is the best Ted video I have seen, and the only one I wanted to see twice.

  • @christineparma166
    @christineparma166 5 лет назад +63

    I love that quote: "Complaining is viral misery." Yes! It infects and debilitates the host (speaker) and the receiver alike. Absolutely amazing talk!

    • @Oleg_Ivanov.
      @Oleg_Ivanov. 5 лет назад +1

      But sometimes you need to complain a little😄.

    • @Altamisal
      @Altamisal 5 лет назад +3

      @@Oleg_Ivanov. I don't know. I haven't been able to stop it completely, but I feel that focusing on what we don't like just makes it bigger in our experience.

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 4 года назад

      oof this hits close to home now with a real virus on our tails

  • @Insighttutors
    @Insighttutors 5 месяцев назад

    Now this is some powerful lesson and 41 million viewers made a choice to listen wow even most of us did what he asked even behind the screen this is power of word 👏👏

  • @premachan7677
    @premachan7677 2 года назад +10

    Speaking is one thing but the tone in which you speaks with is of utmost importance. Such a confident and clear speaker: he catches your attn within the first 1 minute with his calm tone and eye contact. Alot to take away. 💯

  • @ichundmeinjayjay
    @ichundmeinjayjay 5 лет назад +3436

    "How to speak so that people want to listen"
    - Guy at 1:25 "sleeps"

  • @cherrysatin730
    @cherrysatin730 9 лет назад +26

    I felt like the video went for 2 to 3 minutes. Came to the realization that it was 9:59 minutes long.... This man wasn't lying.

  • @saifalizaky4112
    @saifalizaky4112 Месяц назад +2

    Treasure identifies several common issues that prevent people from feeling listened to when they speak, including:
    1. Gossip: Speaking negatively about those who are not present.
    2. Judgment: Forming judgments about others while they are speaking, which hinders true listening.
    3. Negativity: A pessimistic attitude that obstructs constructive communication.
    4. Complaining: Habitually complaining without offering solutions.
    5. Blame: Failing to take responsibility for one’s actions.
    6. Exaggeration: Using overly dramatic or inaccurate language.
    7. Dogmatism: Mixing facts with opinions irresponsibly.
    Solutions Offered
    Treasure presents four pillars for effective speaking:
    1. Honesty: Speaking truthfully and clearly.
    2. Authenticity: Being oneself and speaking with integrity.
    3. Integrity: Saying what you mean and meaning what you say.
    4. Love: Wishing the best for others, which creates a positive atmosphere in communication.
    Vocal Techniques
    Treasure also shares several vocal techniques to enhance speaking ability, including:
    - Adjusting pitch from high to low to add strength to the voice.
    - Using intonation and rhythm to capture the audience's attention.
    - Employing silence strategically for greater impact.
    Conclusion
    Treasure emphasizes that if we want our voices to be heard, we must pay attention to how we speak and the environment around us. By applying these principles, we can create a world where effective communication and mutual understanding are commonplace.
    NPM: 24083010004
    Name: Saif Ali Zaky Ashiblie

  • @saifayesh3385
    @saifayesh3385 3 года назад +807

    *Walks into the boss's office to ask for a raise*
    Boss: "Yes, How can I help you?"
    Me: "PRRRRRRRRRRRR WEEEEEEYOOOOOOOO WEEEE"

  • @レオナルドディカプリオ-s3c
    @レオナルドディカプリオ-s3c 4 года назад +19

    人を惹き付ける話し方
    このタイトルに惹き付けられてきました。

  • @darrelldavis9841
    @darrelldavis9841 4 года назад +14

    You don’t know how much I love and appreciate this video because I definitely wish the world was more lively so that way depression will decrease

  • @teal.miranty3422
    @teal.miranty3422 10 месяцев назад

    He is an focus man. He spoke briefly during speaking section, look like enjoying what he talk without making a concept. That's great...

  • @tommykiki5840
    @tommykiki5840 8 лет назад +40

    That was the fastest 10 min of my life. This guy is amazing.

    • @jaredkoehn1626
      @jaredkoehn1626 8 лет назад +30

      +Tomas Petkovski That's what she said!

  • @amirorvati3968
    @amirorvati3968 3 года назад +9

    This speech was actually so cool. To be more accurate, he spoke so well that we all wanted to listen.

  • @royalhighness8383
    @royalhighness8383 Год назад +204

    I'm learning more on the internet than I'm learning in school

  • @naimatnawabi7632
    @naimatnawabi7632 Год назад +6

    He is such a good speaker that I want to listen to him for days and days. I feel energized whenever I listening to him.

  • @jenjenwithyumi99
    @jenjenwithyumi99 9 лет назад +307

    His head is brighter than my future.

    • @_HsHProd_
      @_HsHProd_ 9 лет назад +6

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) lol this comment made me die of laughter

    • @anayamehta2000
      @anayamehta2000 9 лет назад +3

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) Great example of ... if you wanna gossip, be funny ;-)

    • @HiddenWen
      @HiddenWen 9 лет назад +3

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) I might quote this in the future xD.

    • @5uper5ubscriber4
      @5uper5ubscriber4 9 лет назад +1

      +Jen Tan (Jaye) You made my day XD

    • @zukodude487987
      @zukodude487987 9 лет назад +1

      +Home Sweet Home Productions Lol this comment made me lie of daughter

  • @zehansun1751
    @zehansun1751 4 года назад +2466

    1:25
    *How to speak so that people want to listen*
    the man with grey hair: sleeps...

    • @keerthidammu7700
      @keerthidammu7700 4 года назад +67

      Hahah...wat a observing skills...😂😂

    • @hujan2915
      @hujan2915 4 года назад +7

      lolz

    • @Flo-sw4hz
      @Flo-sw4hz 4 года назад +86

      maybe he was already dead and the staff forgot to carry him away :D And an old tale said that the man in grey is still lying in the hall until now

    • @KA-iv1ol
      @KA-iv1ol 4 года назад +32

      He was writing down notes

    • @potusumanbibingka
      @potusumanbibingka 4 года назад +6

      indead. 😂

  • @Buthyful
    @Buthyful 9 лет назад +135

    I had 4 cats sitting around me, I tried to do the Wee waaa and they all ran hehehe :)
    Very beautiful talk.. Thank you

    • @rosacutejenniely8339
      @rosacutejenniely8339 8 лет назад +1

      +Buthy ful What's the Wee waaa? oo.....00

    • @rosacutejenniely8339
      @rosacutejenniely8339 8 лет назад +2

      +Buthy ful Oh I get it now.... haahahaahahah!!! You're hilarious! xP

    • @Buthyful
      @Buthyful 8 лет назад +3

      +rosacute jenniely heheheheheh it also made me laugh loudly when they freaked out :-D hehehe

    • @gmoschwarz
      @gmoschwarz 8 лет назад +2

      +Buthy ful eruditefeline.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/crazy-cat-lady-color.jpg

    • @Buthyful
      @Buthyful 8 лет назад

      +gmoschwarz Hahahahhahahhahahahahahaha

  • @Zion-Summers
    @Zion-Summers 11 месяцев назад +3

    This was truly a great video to improve our skill in speaking especially giving a speech. The speaker giving us some tips how to deliver a powerful speech. He makes contact with the audience by giving a little joke while talking so that the audience isn’t bored and interested in the material. Such a confident and clear speaker because every words he says can be understood. In the last video he invites the audience to put into practice the tips that he has already given. Amazing!!!!️ thank you for the new knowledge

  • @dianaagiselle
    @dianaagiselle Год назад +20

    I’m a teacher and these are essential in being an engaging and effective teacher. Great talk.

    • @NurillahTomo
      @NurillahTomo 10 месяцев назад

      I, ma teacher and these are essential in being an angaging and effective teacher. Great talk

  • @DanielMelogpi
    @DanielMelogpi 2 года назад +12

    This is one of my favorite talks of all time. The presentation itself is a testament of these techniques

  • @LetsLearnwithvigneshnow
    @LetsLearnwithvigneshnow 3 года назад +154

    I really loved the way, the idea for this talk, begin with a problem, suggest a solution, offer Hands-on experience for the audience. Beautiful sir, thoroughly enjoyed every frame of this video. The activity towards the end, I believe many of us will be a different speaker after that. Thank you for this.

    • @leticiachiok8057
      @leticiachiok8057 2 года назад +1

      This is an awesome talk...direct to the point, of being a conscious speaker. So love the tips and techniques. He's a great communicator, he got me glued.

  • @jahanzaibzafar6252
    @jahanzaibzafar6252 8 месяцев назад

    This is my first comment on any video over RUclips. Totally amazing. I would want to hear & practice this often.
    But I'm also sure that a good speaker may fail but a good listener would never fail.

  • @arthurkyriazis9497
    @arthurkyriazis9497 2 года назад +30

    I was a speech & debate champion in HS & college (Harvard) and then a debate and speech coach at the HS and college levels for more than 30 years, as well as a founder of urban speech and debate. Everything Julian Treasure says here is exactly what high school speech teachers try to convey to their students each and every day; policy debaters try to persuade by facts and logic, whereas events like oratory involve rhetorical methods (some of which are mentioned in the talk) for persuasion. These essentially are known to us as LOGOS and ETHOS; the best speakers can not only control register, timbre, prosody, pace, silence, pitch and volume, but also can start a speech with a hook, an introduction, a topic sentence, 2-3 arguments, surrounded by rhetorical flourishes (three words starting with the same consonant is a famous one) a conclusion and a closing hook.
    I'm lucky enough to have been teaching the last few years standardized tests, and getting across how to write, or how to speak, is a delight with young kids. They should all watch this You Tube!

    • @kimilivingston2521
      @kimilivingston2521 Год назад +1

      My daughter is a freshman in HS and is taking honors classes. We just watched this today for her homework project to study Pathos, Ethos and Logos. It was a pleasure working side by side with her. I am a little concerned because she is so focused on performance and the end goal of attending Brown University that I sometimes feel she is missing the value of effective communication and how empowering that can be in infinite circumstances. Do you have any words of wisdom that will honor her enthusiasm and allow for her to get her hand on the heart beat of the moment. I am only now going to college at age 54, so I'm a bit of a late bloomer and she is sure to pass me up academically.

    • @KoalaHtet
      @KoalaHtet Год назад

      ​@@kimilivingston2521I'm just 29 and not a communication coach. But I do agree with your view on how a good communication is more powerful and important than a single instance of getting into a good university. Great speakers may or may not have finished their college but they can get many great things done by simply communicating. Wars can be stopped, business deals can be brokered, true friends can be gained, experiences can be learned. To have such skills under your belt means you can walk through the world without the riches or the certificates but do not suffer a single day. I'm sure you're an amazing parent for seeing this point for your daughter. You don't need other people, just use your own words to teach her.

  • @erwars8195
    @erwars8195 7 лет назад +1419

    I think my neighbour saw me doing the warm up. Time to move

  • @ParadoxBassCube
    @ParadoxBassCube 8 лет назад +238

    1:24 that guy. So perfect

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 лет назад +42

      It costs like 6000$ to attend, lol
      That nap better be worth it

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 лет назад +7

      Aeonian Sybaritic
      Yes, it does
      www.ted.com/attend/conferences

    • @Felixkeeg
      @Felixkeeg 8 лет назад +2

      Aeonian Sybaritic
      please elaborate

    • @michaelbryansumner
      @michaelbryansumner 8 лет назад +1

      The old man with glasses at the right sleeping

    • @michaelbryansumner
      @michaelbryansumner 8 лет назад +3

      Maybe he's the kind who internalises his listening?

  • @Yu-eh3sm
    @Yu-eh3sm 7 месяцев назад +1

    I like how he speaks.
    He is the role model who can give a good speech.

  • @jarjarbinks4368
    @jarjarbinks4368 2 года назад +278

    I love this speech so much that I’m using it for an out of state declamation tournament
    Edit: I got second place overall with it😎

    • @NalaSweetlove
      @NalaSweetlove 2 года назад +7

      Congrats! 🎉

    • @noexcuses5524
      @noexcuses5524 2 года назад +5

      This is great insights especially the seven deadly sina of communications.
      The society, our parents ... we heard them gossiping so our brain functions in a way that this is normal but it is not. It is an illusion that fog up with negativity. People even gossips just to feel close to one another.
      It is okay to vent your problems but never gossips in day to day basis. It is very unhealthy.

    • @leek1002
      @leek1002 Год назад +1

      Awesome

    • @kwimms
      @kwimms Год назад +1

      @@noexcuses5524 Gossiping is what women do. Like hens in a coup.

    • @creaturemoon1546
      @creaturemoon1546 Год назад

      @@kwimms wrong. It's a soceital thing. Social media was made for gossiping.

  • @juandeleon5798
    @juandeleon5798 4 года назад +33

    I remember this was the first video I saw when I was learning English, now I can understand pretty must of it , almost everything what a huge difference, I'm pretty happy now

    • @mRrsx3
      @mRrsx3 3 года назад +1

      How did u learn it stronger? Do u have any tips to improve or extend my english skills. In my opinion i need to learn more vocabulary to understand the most phrases exactly. The most time I understand the sense, but i would like to get everything

    • @abdulkadirozek600
      @abdulkadirozek600 3 года назад

      How long have you been learning for English?

    • @minatohirano
      @minatohirano 3 года назад

      Instead of must it’s much

  • @adrineyanukhyan3121
    @adrineyanukhyan3121 Месяц назад

    Julian explains how our words, tone, and delivery shape whether people truly listen to us, emphasizing honesty and vocal variety. It made me realize how often I speak without much thought, and I’m excited to start applying her tips to see how they change the way people respond to me.

  • @VikramTV_FitnessFreaks
    @VikramTV_FitnessFreaks 2 года назад +59

    Clear , Crisp and Concise ..... Kudos Julian

  • @libby359
    @libby359 5 лет назад +17

    LOVE this. 10 minutes of my life well spent.

  • @AnthonyMonaghan
    @AnthonyMonaghan 8 лет назад +29

    Nice definition of Love....wishing someone well. I like that.

    • @samwallaceart288
      @samwallaceart288 7 лет назад

      Yeah; that's what love is. I can't believe you millenials; what with sleeping couples in bed that are weirded out with saying "I love you" like it's perverted; damn kids need to get off the lawn that is the English language and metaphysical concepts of altruism.

  • @madry380
    @madry380 5 месяцев назад +1

    Forced to watch this video in order to improve my English skills, but now I'm grateful for my low-English-skills.

  • @leftyfourguns
    @leftyfourguns 8 лет назад +14

    What's amazing to me about this is that the exercises he has the audience do at the end are the exact things my 1 year old nephew does all the time. He's literally teaching himself how to talk!

  • @nivajain6006
    @nivajain6006 3 года назад +405

    Me: *Going to an interview*
    Me:*Remembers Julian saying warm up your voice*
    Me: Lets go Brrrrrrrrr and WEeeee Awwww and Lalalalalala
    People waiting in the room for their turn:*What the Fawk is wrong with her?!*

  • @zaheersiddiqui4678
    @zaheersiddiqui4678 Год назад

    Couldn't find that comment anymore - he said " like honey, knowing full well his voice is like honey." Exceptional Speech.

  • @hectorn.6137
    @hectorn.6137 5 лет назад +38

    My experience is that most say they want honesty, but you then realize that it's only true if it aligns with their opinions.

    • @Real_MisterSir
      @Real_MisterSir 4 года назад +4

      People want honesty, but they don't wanna have to respond to that honesty if it doesn't fit their interests.

    • @najmasultana3736
      @najmasultana3736 4 года назад +1

      Yup.. so true

    • @VladislavDerbenev
      @VladislavDerbenev 4 года назад +1

      @@Real_MisterSir people don't want anything if it doesn't fit their interests by definition of sanity

  • @MsJanetWood
    @MsJanetWood 7 лет назад +140

    I'll listen to this later.

  • @donnarodriguez4026
    @donnarodriguez4026 4 года назад +19

    Our public speaking teacher taught us that to be able to conquer your fear of public speaking is to be (obviously) be confident, BUT for you to be confident you also have to totally KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT. Tried that, and personally that is sooo effective. 😉

    • @puppergump4117
      @puppergump4117 Год назад

      It's also fun to have no clue what you're talking about and having to make up everything on the fly but still sound super smart

  • @novahelerifriskila
    @novahelerifriskila 9 месяцев назад

    I've been watching videos of Ted Talk for several times, but I stopped because I was busy. And I just realized that this video was uploaded almost 10 years ago, and today March 26 I just watched it. I really love his ideas, the way he talked. Especially when the warm up voice "Ba Ba Ba and La La La" i followed him and practiced, it's really helpful 👏

  • @lifelessons1594
    @lifelessons1594 4 года назад +15

    Communication is about human connection. Being able to communicate effectively is one of the best life habits. Good listening is among the most important principles of great communication. It is common for most people to listen not with the intent of understanding, but with the intent of replying. Listening with the intent to understand is to fully understand that person intellectually and emotionally. You ensure that you understand by repeating back to them what they said and mirroring their emotions. By doing so, you help them structure their own thoughts and feelings. This type of listening can lead to truly open and trusting communication.

  • @JeffreyRufino
    @JeffreyRufino Год назад +32

    I love this!❤😊❤
    I love seeing people be able to speak confidently, and to use their voice in a way which is both powerful, but also compassionate and empathetic.❤😊❤
    I love Julian's point about how when we're speaking, we can really use our voice to create an environment of warmth and connection - by changing our delivery and tone. I love how that is able to help people feel so much more understood ❤😊❤

  • @GABE5150GARCIA
    @GABE5150GARCIA 9 лет назад +7894

    How to speak so people will listen: Have a British accent

    • @LuckyLegionN7
      @LuckyLegionN7 9 лет назад +141

      And say it twice apparently

    • @TrippedTheFuckOut
      @TrippedTheFuckOut 9 лет назад +18

      +Gabriel Garcia BAAAAAAAAAAALD MY EYES!!!!!!!!!

    • @artihlec
      @artihlec 9 лет назад +16

      +Gabriel Garcia haha ... Actually it's a good point.

    • @juanr9446
      @juanr9446 9 лет назад +4

      +Gabriel Garcia but maybe it's most credible than exaggerated american, didn't ya?

    • @izzard
      @izzard 9 лет назад +79

      +Deos That's like saying "there's no such thing as fruit" just because there are lots of different types of fruit. If you see an apple or an orange, that's a fruit. Just like if you hear a Yorkshire accent or a Dorset accent, that's a British accent.

  • @RoselyneNiyo
    @RoselyneNiyo 4 месяца назад +2

    This is really helpful. I have once used some of the tactics but without knowing the full set. I think that I must repeat this video before each speech I need to deliver. May God bless you!

  • @LearnWithHaJarhgs
    @LearnWithHaJarhgs 7 лет назад +16

    You are a great public speaker. You did something great that emphasises the fact that you are a great public speaker: letting the audience participate.

  • @justlikeyouful
    @justlikeyouful 5 лет назад +634

    Do the warmup exercises right on stage without explanation. That will get"em interested.

  • @rafadydkiemmacha7543
    @rafadydkiemmacha7543 5 лет назад +714

    I learned a while ago that most people don't really listen to what a person has to say. Speakers with either natural or trained voice dynamics can say complete bullcrap and people will swallow it. How things are said change the way the content is understood. Even if somebody says the most fascinating things in the world, but with a dull voice, he won't be listened by most. People assume that dull voice comes from a person who doesn't believe what he's saying, so any message is lost.

    • @fakenoose8978
      @fakenoose8978 5 лет назад +33

      Rafał Dydkiem Machał nobody listens to words, only tone. Like dumb dogs.

    • @rafadydkiemmacha7543
      @rafadydkiemmacha7543 5 лет назад +43

      GG T87 there are also people with traumatic experience, which freezes their energy and makes their voice monotonous. Almost nobody listens to these people, even though they have a lot to say. It’s pretty sad that we idolize mediocre RUclipsrs, who have only one talent - talking dynamically. Their content is often very shallow.

    • @CJ-hz1uj
      @CJ-hz1uj 5 лет назад +1

      Rafał Dydkiem Machał, agree especially about shallow RUclipsrs (who seemed to have learned it from this guy, or guys like him) and as was the content of this guy’s TED talk, too much emphasis on cliches and techniques rather than harmonizing with the soul of what you want to share and then bringing that out. I could have done a better job than this guy and I don’t fancy myself some great expert on public speaking.
      If this TED talk was to give the speech of his life in 18 minutes, as it says about TED talks in the description, i.e. the best short speech of his life about something his life is centered on or is emblematic of him, he must have a very dull and stupid life. It’s more emblematic of some stuffy Brit deigning to patronize us, even to gaslighting people, with his precious cliches while telling us something that actually adds nothing.

    • @davidlatter5798
      @davidlatter5798 5 лет назад

      Copy that

    •  5 лет назад +2

      Illogical, and sadly, true