How to claim your leadership role: 1 - Don't blame. Blame triggers same parts of the brain as a physical attack. Blame triggers fight or flight response and blocks prefrontal cortex 2- Look in the mirror, most of us are good at pointing out other's blame but not ours. 3- Engineer the solution: our brain is prone to blame the person close to the mess, so make the solution instead of blaming
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:01:10 *🧭 Personal accountability is crucial in leadership; we must model it before expecting it from others.* 00:02:20 *🕰️ Environmental adjustments, like adding clocks, can significantly improve team punctuality.* 00:02:55 *🔄 The three habits of personal accountability: Don't blame, Look in the mirror, Engineer the solution.* 00:03:30 *🛑 Blaming others triggers defensive responses that hinder problem-solving abilities.* 00:04:10 *📚 High-performing teams are more willing to report errors when not blamed, fostering a culture of accountability.* 00:05:49 *🪞 Reflecting on one’s own contribution to a problem can reveal actionable insights for improvement.* 00:07:26 *💬 Leaders admitting their faults first encourages a culture where everyone feels safe to take responsibility.* 00:08:35 *🔧 Systems thinking helps identify process or environmental contributors to problems, leading to better solutions.* 00:10:18 *🚀 Inspiring accountability in others starts with demonstrating it yourself and applying a systematic problem-solving approach.* Made with HARPA AI
I loved the focus on personal accountability with the three key habits: Don’t Blame, Look in the Mirror, and Engineer the Solution. It's so true that blaming others shuts down problem-solving. Creating an environment where mistakes can be acknowledged leads to better results. The simple solution of using clocks and schedules is a great reminder that small changes can make a big difference.
Thank you,. This was so related to a very incident happened to me. No process, available to follow!! when I tried to fix, the leader asked me, why did you do that? I said this is what I did, do you have a better solution? Why it was not available yet as a process to follow! This is my way! Give me a better way, then I will follow to finish the job. Leader did not respond.
So true!!! Every time I talk to my workers, I think of any scenario that can be possible of them asking questions or even thinking of and trying to answer them ahead of time. Sometimes, I get the response that I am very detailed in the explanations but it's never the case. Everything done exactly how it should be done and everyone happy so no problem no mistakes. Great video!!! Thank you!
Powerful lessons indeed. When people are talking about controversial subjects and I want to invite them to bring the conversation back to the topic at hand, I realized that by inviting them, by commenting, by saying anything at all, I am adding energy to a tangent. Meaning I just looked in the mirror and realized that I contribute to the drama if I say anything.
Very much related to the example the speaker started with. Thanks it is an important topic to understand and apply at several places with several people at several different occasions.
- stop blaming, think how u involved in the problem. -> as a leader, share how u can make the next situation better, and then other would be more open to admit their fault and learned from it too. - after identify the problem, fix it. (considering how environment could effect the people performance in your problem)
I appreciate this Ted talk and I agree with it! But one question, does anybody else feel like these habits (furthermore this mindframe) is innate to us? Does that make us natural leaders?
The best way is to wait for others to blame the one caused the problem، and the end, you as a leader, "no don't blame him, it was my fault as well, this is how I contributed to the problem". Let him know that he led to the problem but the leader doesn't blame him.
I agree. In my experience, women tend to blame themselves more often than men, but many people automatically blame themselves first. It’s not helpful for two reasons: 1. Remember, there is usually more than one cause to problems. It’s probably not all your fault. 2. The point of looking in the mirror is not to beat yourself up for mistakes. It’s to help you diagnose the problem and move to a solution. Beating yourself up for your contribution to problems is not helpful because you are dwelling on the past rather than quickly looking back at it to glean insights and move on to solutions.
God loves you and cares for you so that this message reaches you. God is the one who created this large universe and controls it completely. The greatest loss a person loses in this life is that he lives without knowing God who created him and knowing the Messenger of Muhammad, the last of the messengers, and the Islamic religion, the last of the heavenly religions. Great intelligence, before you believe in something or not, is to read it, study it, and understand it well, and after that you have the choice to believe in it or not to believe in it. I advise you to do this now, before you no longer have time to do so. Life is very short. It is just a test, just a passage to eternal life. Great advice to those who... Understands
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Three habits ✨
Habit one : Don't blame
Habit two: Look in the mirror
Habit three: Engineer the solution
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I feel so grateful to have this information.
basic tips, anyone can say that, this is boring
How to claim your leadership role:
1 - Don't blame. Blame triggers same parts of the brain as a physical attack. Blame triggers fight or flight response and blocks prefrontal cortex
2- Look in the mirror, most of us are good at pointing out other's blame but not ours.
3- Engineer the solution: our brain is prone to blame the person close to the mess, so make the solution instead of blaming
Thanks
I love how this can apply to so many different areas of life, thank you so much for this valuable insight!!
🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:01:10 *🧭 Personal accountability is crucial in leadership; we must model it before expecting it from others.*
00:02:20 *🕰️ Environmental adjustments, like adding clocks, can significantly improve team punctuality.*
00:02:55 *🔄 The three habits of personal accountability: Don't blame, Look in the mirror, Engineer the solution.*
00:03:30 *🛑 Blaming others triggers defensive responses that hinder problem-solving abilities.*
00:04:10 *📚 High-performing teams are more willing to report errors when not blamed, fostering a culture of accountability.*
00:05:49 *🪞 Reflecting on one’s own contribution to a problem can reveal actionable insights for improvement.*
00:07:26 *💬 Leaders admitting their faults first encourages a culture where everyone feels safe to take responsibility.*
00:08:35 *🔧 Systems thinking helps identify process or environmental contributors to problems, leading to better solutions.*
00:10:18 *🚀 Inspiring accountability in others starts with demonstrating it yourself and applying a systematic problem-solving approach.*
Made with HARPA AI
I loved the focus on personal accountability with the three key habits: Don’t Blame, Look in the Mirror, and Engineer the Solution.
It's so true that blaming others shuts down problem-solving. Creating an environment where mistakes can be acknowledged leads to better results. The simple solution of using clocks and schedules is a great reminder that small changes can make a big difference.
Such an important reminder! Blame might feel like a quick escape, but it actually keeps us from growth and improvement.
Thank you,. This was so related to a very incident happened to me.
No process, available to follow!! when I tried to fix, the leader asked me, why did you do that? I said this is what I did, do you have a better solution? Why it was not available yet as a process to follow! This is my way! Give me a better way, then I will follow to finish the job. Leader did not respond.
So true!!! Every time I talk to my workers, I think of any scenario that can be possible of them asking questions or even thinking of and trying to answer them ahead of time.
Sometimes, I get the response that I am very detailed in the explanations but it's never the case. Everything done exactly how it should be done and everyone happy so no problem no mistakes.
Great video!!! Thank you!
Powerful lessons indeed. When people are talking about controversial subjects and I want to invite them to bring the conversation back to the topic at hand, I realized that by inviting them, by commenting, by saying anything at all, I am adding energy to a tangent. Meaning I just looked in the mirror and realized that I contribute to the drama if I say anything.
I appreciate your example Jackie of how you are applying the three habits of personal accountability!
Wow! It was the one thing I really needed to hear in order to apply it to my daily work routine.
This is a great talk! Very useful for all aspects of life
I can't just move my eyes while watching this ! What amazing yet so simple principles !!
Fantastic motivation for team lead , I am really happy because usually and naturally I am following these steps in my work place.❤
Thank you for these strategies. It’s so refreshing to hear and truly inspiring.
I am so impressed with how he carried out his speech this was so cool to listen to this speech😊
Thanks so much for your kind words!
Thank you for this video I learned three point. And I will use in our life cycle 😊.
Be the change u want to see in others
Totally worth it session. Thank you.
Very much related to the example the speaker started with. Thanks it is an important topic to understand and apply at several places with several people at several different occasions.
This is me talking. I have fun doing this. Sometimes I have to remind myself ❤
Amaizing practical advice ever.
Great message easily delivered.
Great learning ❤❤
- stop blaming, think how u involved in the problem. -> as a leader, share how u can make the next situation better, and then other would be more open to admit their fault and learned from it too.
- after identify the problem, fix it. (considering how environment could effect the people performance in your problem)
Muchas gracias por tan váliosos consejos que podemos aplicar en nuestro entorno familiar y laboral.
Thank you so much for this amazing advice❤
he and his body language is very powerful
Thank you for this profound talk.
So true and so thoughtful. Thank you for this
Simple yet important thing
Look in mirror is best part of this speech.❤
I'm a firm believer that you lead by example.
Thank you for the great advice.
I really enjoy watching it. Thanks 🔥🙏
This was enlightening. Thank you for sharing 😊
This is *so good*. Thank you for your wisdom.
Thank you for sharing this knowledge. ❤
Thank you for your advice. 🙏
Very impressive!
Than you, very much for this sound principls
Very inspiring piece
Thank you so much sir😊
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So my mother language is Arabic but it's good for experience and learn
superb ted talk.. makes total sense
The pilot example was fabulous❤
Take responsibility for your actions😊
It’s Michael Timms’ fault I enjoyed this TED Talk
It's his fault i am replying you
I really enjoy watching it thanks
Great vid! Deserves more views!
This is gold !
Incredible tips
Really helpful Talk, thank you.
Superb, Best advice for leaders
Well said
That was amazing
good lessons ❤❤
I appreciate this Ted talk and I agree with it! But one question, does anybody else feel like these habits (furthermore this mindframe) is innate to us? Does that make us natural leaders?
Very true.... SoP based thinking
This is impressive
Excellent
The best way is to wait for others to blame the one caused the problem، and the end, you as a leader, "no don't blame him, it was my fault as well, this is how I contributed to the problem". Let him know that he led to the problem but the leader doesn't blame him.
🖐 Thank you. 🙏
Thankfully
wow, God really wanted me to see this.
Three habits
Habit one : Don't blame
Habit two: Look in the mirror
Habit three: Engineer the solution
This is soo cool.
1.Don't blam
2. Look into mirror
3. Engineer of problem solving .
Simple things are profoundly impactful… Don't blame… Look in the mirror… Engineer the solution
“Where did the process break?”
> Don't blame
> Look in the mirror
> Engineer the solution
Super 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Sounds good...makes sense
it is a kind of magic
May didn't walk us to the bus stop so we skipped school..lol. the librarian brought us some books.... 📖
Profound..
Great..
We point at someone else and pretend that the situation was not our business😅
How interesting
Don't blame
Look in the mirror
Engineer the solution
6:25 the basics of law of karma?
8:30 this is called escaping the Consequences?
Not YOUR problem! YOU GET OUT IN 5!
why people comment like “who is watching in november ”? , “who else is watching after saw the reels ”??? What they want to prove??
It’s frustrating but it easily gets likes or replies.
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This is like a PG version of Jocko's Ted Talk
This is common sense
Micheal Timms🥹
This reminded me of what Jesus said: Do to others as you would like them to do to you.
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What's wrong with politics?
Is this comedy or what we all go through
I am wondering whether it is human brain wiring of male brain wiring. My female brain automatically jumps to conclusion it must have been my fault ;)
I agree. In my experience, women tend to blame themselves more often than men, but many people automatically blame themselves first. It’s not helpful for two reasons:
1. Remember, there is usually more than one cause to problems. It’s probably not all your fault.
2. The point of looking in the mirror is not to beat yourself up for mistakes. It’s to help you diagnose the problem and move to a solution.
Beating yourself up for your contribution to problems is not helpful because you are dwelling on the past rather than quickly looking back at it to glean insights and move on to solutions.
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Look in the mirror
If you are a man and apply this method to a relationship you already know where this is going 😂
God loves you and cares for you so that this message reaches you. God is the one who created this large universe and controls it completely. The greatest loss a person loses in this life is that he lives without knowing God who created him and knowing the Messenger of Muhammad, the last of the messengers, and the Islamic religion, the last of the heavenly religions. Great intelligence, before you believe in something or not, is to read it, study it, and understand it well, and after that you have the choice to believe in it or not to believe in it. I advise you to do this now, before you no longer have time to do so. Life is very short. It is just a test, just a passage to eternal life. Great advice to those who... Understands
Bro islam may be correct in everything but when it comes to the diety of jesus christ its false... Jesus indeed existed died and rose from the dead. And he is GOD in flesh and he died for our sins, and also said many come in my name and deceive
Many people acc to Bible muhhamed is a false prophet, and preached a different jesus other than the apostles preached which they knew personaly and the disciples also said if any one came preaching a differen jesus than this he is a curse even it's an angel from heaven...... Have an open mind an do some research about jesus..... Not for winning argument but with a genuine heart to seek the truth.... A research wouldn't hurt right? 🙂
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really boring and basic
Hlo please tell me in hindi i cant understand your language "English"😢