How to Find Your Purpose | Robert Greene & Dr. Andrew Huberman

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @warrior_spt5541
    @warrior_spt5541 4 месяца назад +99

    35 years old now. Been playing this character for 27 years. My 8 year old self was forgotten. Its been there waiting. At all cost i will bring him out.

    • @searchrightthings.947
      @searchrightthings.947 16 дней назад

      Use this podcast if you wanna find your purpose in life and if you wanna find purpose of life not just in life go search the final revelation of Creator of life book Quran. And truth shall make you happy and free amen.

  • @leanneharrison5926
    @leanneharrison5926 8 месяцев назад +476

    I’m 79 and have connected with a new purpose through the diagnosis of a dear friend and a cousin with Alzheimer’s. Now learning to be a group facilitator for caregivers. This is a new lease on life for me.

    • @christophermayfield6043
      @christophermayfield6043 7 месяцев назад +13

      love this so much

    • @EllisBurton-uq1ms
      @EllisBurton-uq1ms 6 месяцев назад +13

      Fabulous comment. You have discovered a new passion and path to take. There is nothing like that boost of energy and new skills to master. I'm in my 50s and its lovely to know that it can happen in any decade.

    • @JordanGarza-z7q
      @JordanGarza-z7q 4 месяца назад +1

      yes, but there is a god out there right. Before you want to shut down this idea just think about it. We are human; beautiful complex system and only someone who is above us could only create DNA that is so unique. Read the gospels of Mark, Matthew, Luke and John and find out yourself; dont take it from me.. God bless. Ask me a question if you have ones ☺

    • @lalalovengun
      @lalalovengun 4 месяца назад

      🏆🏆🏆

    • @paestum70
      @paestum70 3 месяца назад

      What a wonderful comment to read. I wish you much happiness and am certain you will give the same to so many.

  • @eddiegarciajr6653
    @eddiegarciajr6653 7 месяцев назад +501

    I’m 32 years old, married, no children yet, and still haven’t figured out what I want to do for the rest of my adult life. I can’t find a focus, trade, or plan. I don’t know what I want in a job/career. I do know that I want financial stability, job security, & a growing field that will still matter 25 years from now.

    • @MuscleBandit
      @MuscleBandit 7 месяцев назад +178

      Don't worry bud, I'm a 38yr old single security guard in the same boat. The fact that we are consuming this content in order to create new ideas and get the creative juices flowing implies that there is hope for us yet. Be lucky.

    • @oskarkarrera
      @oskarkarrera 7 месяцев назад +28

      dont worry brody like my dude up ahead of me in 45
      the 25 of May
      Dont trip chocalate chip
      just life Ur life righteously day by day till sun up & sun down
      is not suppose to be easy
      I grew up wit no dad & its fkng wit me I have not even a pic or even had his touch or love
      so I just kneeled do my thang get back up just kneeled right now
      keep livijg life & staying away from were the devil is
      even thi I drank almost dayli
      so yeah
      there U go
      we all have issues & then some

    • @upstarter
      @upstarter 7 месяцев назад +35

      Guys I just turned 46, and I only got married and had a kid three years ago. Even though I started making actual money around 10 years ago and IT, which is really easy if you have a little gumption to take a few RUclips courses and pass a few certifications.anyway I say all that to say you can do it!

    • @macsueloliveira7281
      @macsueloliveira7281 6 месяцев назад +24

      Man, only live...one day at a time... believe.. it works

    • @khalidsafir
      @khalidsafir 6 месяцев назад +37

      Most people are confused in many ways nowadays. When people were religious they knew their job was to serve humanity. If you have that mindset you will pick a career where you can make a difference and be motivated to be good at it, automatically developing your career. When you think selfishly, you will keep second guessing your choices, not develop in any particular direction and constantly feel like a failure.

  • @SmrtSocial
    @SmrtSocial 8 месяцев назад +145

    I feel very lucky to have been able to find my purpose very early. As I grow I see more and more people who feel lost and my gratitude grows.

    • @erikmartinez9826
      @erikmartinez9826 8 месяцев назад +6

      What was it? What is your purpose?

    • @alenaadamkova7617
      @alenaadamkova7617 7 месяцев назад

      I think in every habit "compound pounding" effect is the best solution...
      People probably know this effect but forgot about it because of being too distracted by media or thoughts etc.
      in sport, in business, in relationships.
      1. If you use compound pounding in sport, (exercissing for an hour) you will see no results in 5 days,but you will see big results in 100 days.
      2. If you will say a good morning to people, you will see no effect in 5 days, but you will see a great difference in 100 days.
      3. If you will practice the compassion for your partner and make some good deed,
      you will see no or small difference in 5 days,
      but you will see a great difference in 50 or 100 days,
      you will see how much you mean to them.
      People see this compound pounding effect in the nature,
      the garden looks the same after few days, but after a 100 days it looks different.
      Therefore you can not tell if your values are working after one week, because you see the effect after 100 or 140 days.
      Maybe each couple should practice this technique,
      If I will make something small to make my partner happy, for a little moment, they will remember these little moments,
      and good calm or happy mood increases the immunity of the body by 50 percent in 4 days.
      So their kids will learn the same technique.
      They will learn that if they will read a book 10 minutes a day,
      it has a great impact on brain.
      Next time it may be 20 minutes a day.
      But if you stop doing the healthy habit now... after a week it makes no difference
      after 140 days the results change for worse, you loose muscles or you lose some skill or motivation etc.
      Good deed may be also making a pizza or small things.
      People actually enjoy small things much more than big gestures,
      because it´s about living in the moment......
      Big gestures (expensive car) mean that you actually burned out too much energy to make a small effect,
      rather than small gestures that after time create a great effect of connection, and people like you for your authentic personality.

    • @kaemba.Inc.25
      @kaemba.Inc.25 6 месяцев назад +5

      When you see other people lost your gratitude grows ? You like it when they're lost don't you?

    • @mastermine1063
      @mastermine1063 6 месяцев назад +12

      @@kaemba.Inc.25 i think that person meant that as time goes on showing thanks and grace that the person has found life purpose ,i think anyone can agree that not finding purpose for years is a waste of time and depressing nothing wrong with being thankful you found purpose before others it shows gratitude

    • @tdragnet
      @tdragnet 6 месяцев назад +3

      There was never a field available to me at 6-14.. until I took MAN IN SOCIETY.
      I literally failed every class every subject, except gym, art , and this class that dealt with being human.
      The rest of my life while in highschool was extremely difficult. I dropped out and the voice in my head kept me sane. It's been 39 years and it took Jordan Petersons RUclips video and book 12 rules of life.. to finally understand that I should have taken up a position as a social worker or therapist... I would like to say I still have a chance to follow it. But I am better at being a friends advisor than a therapist.

  • @meetandinspire
    @meetandinspire 8 месяцев назад +231

    "It's not an intellectual thing, it's visceral, it's emotional, it's physical."
    "You feel that things are easy, everything clicks together, there's a delight."
    "Energy and motivation can come from either pressure, desire for something or desire to get away from something."

    • @searchrightthings.947
      @searchrightthings.947 16 дней назад

      Use this podcast if you wanna find your purpose in life and if you wanna find purpose of life not just in life go search the final revelation of Creator of life book Quran. And truth shall make you happy and free amen.

  • @QueenLover-j5i
    @QueenLover-j5i 8 месяцев назад +72

    By Yousum Live
    00:00:29 Discover your life's task for clarity and purpose.
    00:02:24 Childhood impulses guide towards innate talents and interests.
    00:02:58 Identify dominant intelligence type for optimal career alignment.
    00:06:48 Emotional engagement accelerates learning and skill acquisition.
    00:08:30 Reconnect with childhood passions to unveil life's path.
    00:12:37 Recognize the visceral, emotional pull towards your purpose.
    00:16:01 Early experiences shape preferences and career inclinations.
    00:17:52 Balance positive love for a field with negative experiences.
    00:19:02 Emotional engagement drives brain changes and personal growth.
    00:19:29 Positive and negative experiences contribute to personal development.
    By Yousum Live

    • @Hiep-yh5em
      @Hiep-yh5em 6 месяцев назад +1

      God bless you

  • @robertkhurmatuline4736
    @robertkhurmatuline4736 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks!

  • @9maymaymay
    @9maymaymay 22 дня назад +2

    This was such an interesting episode. I am 64, I recognised when Robert mentioned that being forced to study things that you hated could cause aversion to future need for discipline and study skills..and I feel this may be a reason why I grew up 'failing" despite really wanting to do certain things. I love people, communication, improving, educating...but hate education systems. Have lived as a serial procrastinator, frustrated to always feel I was sucked onto a wrong path to please orhers . At 60 I decided I'd had enough of the norm and started learning to build my own online business, which helps others do they same. I love being able to help, communicate but the learning discipline has been a barrier...I do 101 things to avoid and distract. I would love some advice if anyone resonates, because I really would love to embrace to pleasure of the passion ...without the critic in my head

  • @eleonorakavaliauskiene3888
    @eleonorakavaliauskiene3888 5 месяцев назад +158

    I am 43 and I started to study for my dream job.

    • @utkarshmahna370
      @utkarshmahna370 5 месяцев назад +1

      no way you're 43!

    • @songoffools4319
      @songoffools4319 5 месяцев назад +5

      44 and same here

    • @mikaelvilhjalmsson6941
      @mikaelvilhjalmsson6941 5 месяцев назад +4

      Awesome! I'm starting engineering school in august . I'm 51 ! =D Always wanted to do it in college but they wouldn't let me because of a sports scholarship then. I had to major in finances instead.

    • @reemh3133
      @reemh3133 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@utkarshmahna370yes some people live to reach 43😂😂😂

    • @Sara2016a
      @Sara2016a 4 месяца назад

      @@reemh3133He meant that she looks very young for 43, in her picture profile 😂

  • @hjb-1g8
    @hjb-1g8 8 месяцев назад +87

    Love Robert Green. So much to learn from him. Read most of his books. Makes you understand yourself and others

    • @dilsadjahanjerin3899
      @dilsadjahanjerin3899 4 месяца назад

      what's the books name he mention in the video??pls help

    • @skybeast2738
      @skybeast2738 3 месяца назад +3

      Frames of Mind by Howard Gardner.
      Mastery by Robert Greene

  • @barbaralopez265
    @barbaralopez265 6 месяцев назад +19

    Thank you Mr. Huberman - I really needed to hear this today - I am 69 and have been self employed successfully for 25 years. Downsizing now semi retiring - feeling lost before I listened to these wise words - will continue doing what I love being self employed but on a much slower and smarter basis - Thank you again for sharing your time with humanity - Namaste!

    • @sandrascott4685
      @sandrascott4685 5 месяцев назад +3

      Definitely can relate to your post…Good luck with your next chapter 😊

  • @andrewmacdonald9367
    @andrewmacdonald9367 5 месяцев назад +20

    This guy's books changed the way I see the human world around me and the way I operate within it. Thanks, Robert!

  • @deltawave3045
    @deltawave3045 8 месяцев назад +37

    I'm mid life, and I have been feeling pretty much at a loss for what to do with myself, navigating internal conflict; healing from a pretty traumatic upbringing and still haven't figured out my 'life's task' (except for a love for nature and becoming a horticulturist, obtaining an official diploma document only to realize I cant do it forever, also health care) thinking about what to do next alot of my waking life and feel so grateful for the time I've been able to spend just healing and listening and learning about self-optimation / self love practices. yet here still, with this incessant need to make money for some reason...I have decided to do something practical, & discipline inducing, & feel with enough determination/ dunno about 'swimming with the current' but I hope to hell I feel a sense of success & accomplishment when I get there.

    • @matthewpaetz4725
      @matthewpaetz4725 7 месяцев назад +1

      Hi @deltawave, I just read your message and I wanted to take a moment and just acknowledge your courage. I've been in trauma work for several years now and can relate to what you're sharing. I'm intrigued, what lead you to becoming a horticulturist?

    • @TimToGim
      @TimToGim 6 месяцев назад

      Hi I don't know you at all but you seem to have a lot of knowledge about life and what it means to go through significant trauma. You said that you can't do Horticulture work forever but have you considered teaching it, specifically to trainees/apprentices? I feel maybe if you taught what you know and help develop others you may find great pride and satisfaction within yourself. I don't know if this helped but I think if you can help others it always helps you.

    • @deltawave3045
      @deltawave3045 6 месяцев назад

      @@matthewpaetz4725 just the love of nature and wanting to learn more about it. It was straight after high school, didn’t give it much thought then. It was actually a pretty whimsical decision.
      Then I fractured my wrist and also realized the profession is not a place for a Middle Aged woman.

    • @deltawave3045
      @deltawave3045 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@TimToGim wouldn’t I need a degree in education for that?
      I don’t know everything. I don’t study it often and plants don’t talk to you.
      I would not be a good teacher.

    • @TimToGim
      @TimToGim 6 месяцев назад

      I never thought I was a very social person but I find myself actively seeking social interaction in my jobs. Just depends what you would like to actively seek.
      You dont have to know everything you just have to understand the material your teaching and that comes with learning your role which if you call up any sort of organisation that specialises in training and teaching the can provide you with way more information I could. You can either teach the various sub categories of plants or move into the more machinery side of things for Horticulture. You can teach work health and safety. You dont need to know everything, starting from nowhere can still get you somewhere you know. BUT you also dont have to do teaching, what I am getting at is maybe your purpose lies outside your own train of thought at the moment because you've closed yourself in a box. Only you know what youre capable of my friend so don't hesitate to make a mistake and take a risk which could offer you something more then what you are already doing.

  • @heytherebarry
    @heytherebarry 8 месяцев назад +33

    I feel as though I have found my life's purpose, I wrote my first children's book during the pandemic, I hired an illustrator and worked with an editor to get it to a standard I'm really proud of. Then I hit a wall...supply chain, business development, PR, sales strategy 😑I find all these things so complicated. Whereas the creative side of things, I find myself in a flow, I alreday have three other stories started, all of which interlink. But the business side of things makes me question whether this truly is my purpose.

    • @Temperance369
      @Temperance369 8 месяцев назад +4

      I am a few steps behind you, still writing my first book, which was my childhood passion (reading, writing, learning about people and psychology).
      I also envision this future challenge when my book is ready. But as he says in the video, this is a less interesting / boring part that we endure so that we can achieve our goal. Maybe you could partner with someone who likes to deal with this part, like an editor / agent / publisher?

    • @SchraderDev
      @SchraderDev 8 месяцев назад +10

      Try and find a partner who handles the business side of things, a publisher

    • @burninglion2584
      @burninglion2584 8 месяцев назад +5

      IMO, creative types often need a manager of some kind - delegate if you can, your ability to create (more than management) definitely sounds like you are on the right path.
      Remember what Chris Willx says about being able to do something - it means that there will naturally be other things that you cannot/will not do.
      You have to choose, and for a creative, that answer is more often than not - some kind of management.
      Musicians are famous for NEEDING a manager, authors need publishers, painters need promoters, etc, etc...

    • @KeithHampson
      @KeithHampson 8 месяцев назад +1

      I get it. But it might be useful to consider just how unlikely it is that a line individual could be well suited to such a wide range of skills and interests. As others have suggested, it might be best to hand those functions over to others. Delegate, delegate, delegate. But if you can’t afford these services, don’t let it stop you. Get your first book out, no matter what. You’ll be in a better position after your first effort and ready to do better for your next one.

    • @matthewpaetz4725
      @matthewpaetz4725 7 месяцев назад

      @heytherebarry, your post caught my attention so I looked through your work and I love what you've created with Cara and The Giant. I'd love to know a little more about your goals with your books? Also, Koda is kryptonite! My wife and I rescue animals often and your little guy is awesome!

  • @ThuyNguyen-ji2qy
    @ThuyNguyen-ji2qy 13 часов назад

    I started a Saturday morning with this video, eyes closed.
    Beautiful, beautiful conversation. Thank you!

  • @JoaoBatista-yl3xc
    @JoaoBatista-yl3xc 8 месяцев назад +17

    My favorite episode so far.

  • @letstransform1012
    @letstransform1012 6 месяцев назад +8

    While listening to Robert sir, had many flashbacks and goosebumps about my past..We can't blame our parents they are victims too...I wish someone had been there to guide us better :)

  • @ichimokutrader1845
    @ichimokutrader1845 8 месяцев назад +12

    Your life's purpose can change. The importance of a purpose or goal is to make sure you improve yourself in pursuit of a goal and do not stay dormant and risk depression.
    You can change the coarse of your life every second.

    • @EarConscious2129
      @EarConscious2129 7 месяцев назад +1

      Great point.
      It's a balance of self-discovery and personal evolution.

  • @rontarrant
    @rontarrant Месяц назад +9

    When I was fifteen, I got that feeling of knowing what I wanted to do. I made the mistake of telling my father and spent the rest of my life derailed.

    • @LexingtonRules
      @LexingtonRules Месяц назад +1

      ❤ I understand.

    • @yumisage
      @yumisage 19 часов назад

      Happened to me but I got something better and I wouldn't have worked it out if I did what my father put me down for. It ended up being a blessing in disguise. You will find your life purpose and it's close to what you felt earlier to do 😃

  • @JowettWaldrum
    @JowettWaldrum 3 месяца назад +517

    There's a book called Hidden Time Wealth, and it talks about how using some secret techniques, you can overcome procrastination and accomplish anything in life. It's not just a bunch of empty promises; it's the real deal.

    • @mera5209
      @mera5209 3 месяца назад

      What is the author name

    • @paestum70
      @paestum70 3 месяца назад +2

      Can't seem to find that book. Does it have a different title? Would love to read it!

    • @pavankumarkachala509
      @pavankumarkachala509 2 месяца назад

      please tell me the author name

  • @terrielburrell5545
    @terrielburrell5545 8 месяцев назад +88

    I'm 67 and still confused. I can go back and pinpoint when I was a child what I wanted to do, but not having parents who listen or teachers/counselors at school who don't care set us up for failure. So sad.

    • @kirbykidsmith
      @kirbykidsmith 8 месяцев назад +8

      dont give up, elder.

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 8 месяцев назад +7

      63 here, feel same way. Being female felt always ‘in service’ first to obeying parents n teachers, then meeting needs of friends, then children and husband and now for my last surviving 94yo parent. I try to fit my interests n needs around my schedule of serving others. But I feel most others do same thing? Makes our world operate…You have to make or set aside time to fulfill your interests or things feel hollow then. We either go thru the motions on autopilot or we engage our emotions and interest. Have goals…before out of bed in the a.m., I ask myself what is my intention today? And we need to dig our perseverance & discipline out of our fortitude daily. Remembering our relatives before faced their challenges they couldn’t shirk puts it in perspective.

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@kirbykidsmithThe funny thing about being older, maybe yes in birth age. But in, in your brain you can feel 40, when it hits you, just how many things you still want to learn, achieve & travel to. Or even books to read…🎉 Or a 20 yo can wake & feel 100 because media has made the world look bleak, if one sees it that way…your attitude is what makes you or breaks you. ❤

    • @terrielburrell5545
      @terrielburrell5545 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@jelizabethpetrie6656 It's a challenge to do that every day. Some days are good, some make you want to run.

    • @curiouskitty7972
      @curiouskitty7972 8 месяцев назад

      School only sets us up to become sheeple. I'm 66 and it was worse when we were younger 😉

  • @АнастасіяСтепанова-г4о
    @АнастасіяСтепанова-г4о 8 месяцев назад +9

    I regularly listen to the words from coaches “you are unique”, but I was almost bursted in tears when I’ve heard this on first minutes of this video!! It is something ❤

    • @Gawa-Art
      @Gawa-Art 5 месяцев назад

      What the formula to find purpose?

  • @hatimboutros
    @hatimboutros 6 месяцев назад +10

    I was lost struggling with life. A friend told me to read a book! No book thought would help. I finally did and it changed my life. It’s called “Purposehood -Transform Your Life, Transform the World”. Step by step.

    • @asbeautifulasasunset
      @asbeautifulasasunset 6 месяцев назад +3

      thank you for sharing this information

    • @mysterydude6484
      @mysterydude6484 4 месяца назад

      @hatimboutros Hi,firstly thank you so much for sharing this information.I've seen the book and it has been changing my life too.But ı need to ask you something, have you managed to find a Purposehood Statement that has filled you with clarity?

  • @Joeyfryfogle
    @Joeyfryfogle 2 месяца назад +3

    I love and resonate with R Greene’s ideas on the importance of children learning what they like and don’t like without the unproductive of *most American public school systems , because they don’t always account for the various different ways people retain and understand new information and how if it is un interesting or presented in an uninteresting way, a young mind is less inclined to put forth effort to remember said information

  • @PhilosophiesinLife
    @PhilosophiesinLife 3 дня назад

    This video is a great reminder that finding your purpose starts with self-reflection and embracing your passions. It's about exploring what truly excites you and taking small steps toward it. Thanks you !

  • @EllisBurton-uq1ms
    @EllisBurton-uq1ms 6 месяцев назад +4

    Howard Gardener's book/theory changed my life - really helps cutting through the fluff and the things we try to hard to be good at. If you have forgotten what you loved at 7 or 8 have a look around at the things that have been with you for the last 20, 30 50 years.......Some you want to be better at and some you are already skilled at.....Emotional engagement is def the key. Would def recommend Myers Briggs, its a good jumping off point, but don't get too carried away.

  • @benni3100
    @benni3100 2 месяца назад +2

    I do feel, something that is worth mentioning or was worth mentioning here, is that people focus on equating their "Purpose" with a career or something they can make money from. Where in business and finance I have been fortunate in being successful but still felt there was something missing. I found my purpose in my son when I became a father 2 years ago. Nothing has ever fulfilled me more in life than being a dad and giving him my presence in a way my father never gave me

  • @YlvaBjarnson
    @YlvaBjarnson 8 месяцев назад +17

    I pray that you are blessed with kids, because my son is the most fun I've ever had.😇💜🙏

  • @miahaaliyah1
    @miahaaliyah1 8 месяцев назад +11

    One of the best clips I’ve ever watched ❤

  • @Dragon_heart233
    @Dragon_heart233 8 месяцев назад +13

    I generated a prompt using gpt about the power of celebacy, i told it to write in the style of teacher Robert, and it was the most amazing prompt ever generated by AI for me. Thank you!, your are a blessing to me. And the GOAT teacher Andrew. I have listened to so many of your podcast lectures. I love you both deeply with all my heart... 💚🐯

    • @MasonJLopez
      @MasonJLopez 8 месяцев назад +5

      do u mind sharing ?

    • @MichaelFlenderson
      @MichaelFlenderson 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yea man you gotta share that gpt response with us! It’s easy to copy and paste it 😊

    • @tomrado1687
      @tomrado1687 7 месяцев назад +1

      I hate AI. Why?
      Because it takes everything from human endeavour and without any soul, or experience, attempts to replace with single “perfect” responses. You can’t learn without mistakes

  • @TarnEylArt
    @TarnEylArt 4 месяца назад

    Robert, you are what I call a "landscape genius." You are able to see the "glimmers," create a masterpiece, and tie all the loose ends together to create unique resonance. I love seeing people who remind me of my tribe. Since childhood, I always wake up when I see a fellow high functioning but gracious and elegant wing to others. Well done, you.

  • @Madi_dak
    @Madi_dak 3 месяца назад +1

    As soon as clients clearly understand what they truly want, the problem is halfway solved.
    Often, we think we know our desires, but sometimes what we chase isn't what we actually need.
    For example, a client of mine wanted a peaceful and calm environment but unknowingly chose stressful tasks because they believed more money would bring tranquility-even though they already had enough. It's important to align our goals with our true needs.

  • @letsmountscape516
    @letsmountscape516 6 месяцев назад +2

    In an extremely difficult situation at this moment .. worked hard at every job , giving my 100 % , extremely professional hard working but now facing difficulties in office . Working from past 13 years , don’t know what type of curse that is but not even a single job I left like normal people. Happily , every time there is a politics involve to throw me out . I understand I am not social I am introvert and only focus on my work but idk what this is . Every job I have left is after arguments where I am not involved. Literally sobbing now.

    • @MichaelHeaney-gz6pr
      @MichaelHeaney-gz6pr 3 месяца назад

      Look into Dr Joe Dispenza

    • @cesartorres8096
      @cesartorres8096 2 месяца назад

      Hi, it honestly saddens me to hear about your situation being socially awkward myself and, of course, not knowing anything about your particular situation maybe you can learn a skill that gives you financial independence without the need to work at the social level. Although even if you have your own thing, you still need to "socialize" to find customers. Maybe the issue is the asymmetrical nature of work, where one side wants something and has "power" over the other side, the good side is that it is dynamic, meaning that the asymmetry works in both directions as there are times in when you as a worker has "power" over your employer because you have something that they want (the work you are doing) and you can leverage that so they let you be. Is not easy but is standing up for yourself.

  • @JohnnStr1
    @JohnnStr1 4 месяца назад +617

    I would tell you to try reading The 21 Former Doctor Secrets by Rachel Morgan

    • @alcott122
      @alcott122 4 месяца назад +1

      I just finished reading it bro it was amazing

  • @yumisage
    @yumisage 19 часов назад

    Robert Greene is a master mind and one of the best in the world.

  • @Change_O
    @Change_O 5 месяцев назад

    I had a situationship with a guy who is very high functioning autistic, he communicated with few words and mainly via other forms of communication. Facial, head and arm expressions, it has fast tracked my learning and understanding of non verbal communication.

  • @NSabcdefg
    @NSabcdefg 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks to both, especially to always inspiring and educating Robert! ❤

  • @sharonmurphyuk
    @sharonmurphyuk 23 дня назад

    Knowing about Dr Huberman's early love of animals helps explain his compassion in his video on grief where he included loss of a pet equal to loss of a human

  • @SOSM209
    @SOSM209 3 месяца назад +3

    Ever Since i completed my 8 yr Navy Contract. I miss the uniform. The Security, the Orders, standing my watch, the Challenge of Unknown. Im finding this more today. I need to move in that direction now.

  • @newday2637
    @newday2637 8 месяцев назад +21

    Some very good insights in this clip. I find it to be much more difficult to find the new path your life needs to go later in life. Many distractions through the years. Makes sense to look back to when you were young, when our likes and feelings were natural.
    I also agree somethings moves us good or bad , to let us know we need to change direction or our course.
    We can only hope to achieve the feeling that we are swimming on course. Great clip

  • @francorocket9908
    @francorocket9908 5 месяцев назад +1

    It's great that the interview is not interrupted by annoying comparisons about the guest

  • @Leonardokite
    @Leonardokite 8 месяцев назад +26

    We are all born as a blank page......we go from there and we CAN be in control of our destiny.

    • @jayachandranthampi4807
      @jayachandranthampi4807 8 месяцев назад

      Really???? That itself says, you are not blank....it's black

    • @Apollo440
      @Apollo440 8 месяцев назад +5

      This "born blank" approach leads to many problems, derived from us not being able to accept who we are, trying to become who we are not. And it's not me saying it, it's the legend himself, Carl Gustav Jung, who introduced the notion, that there's a lot that comes from our genes, from the generations of ancestors, passing on information to their children. It is stored in our subconscious and peaks out in ways of emotions, unnoticed behaviours and dreams. We can control our destiny inside of the borders, set by who we are upon birth. Who we are is to be discovered, individually.

    • @RocketLauncherwithInfiniteAmmo
      @RocketLauncherwithInfiniteAmmo 8 месяцев назад

      Not blank, very much pre-destined through genetics, however, consider that perhaps it is more that we are a product of our environments, but everyone starts with their own shape to some extent.

    • @Apollo440
      @Apollo440 8 месяцев назад

      @@RocketLauncherwithInfiniteAmmo see, we have a consciousness, which I would describe as a smartphone screen to look through, point and swipe on, to control part of our thoughts and body.
      Everything else, that is the body itself, feelings and emotions and, more often than we think, actions - are what we are born with and become conscious of.
      We can use our freedom of choice and willpower to activate some of our genes, we can also influence what genes are passed on further through repeated actions (i.e. going to the gym is equal to higher chances of passing on "muscle development" genes).
      So I wouldn't agree 100%, that everything is pre-destined 100%.

    • @RocketLauncherwithInfiniteAmmo
      @RocketLauncherwithInfiniteAmmo 8 месяцев назад

      @@Apollo440 so, would it be more along the lines of we have the ability to change or rather stretch the capabilities of our dna by eating and exercising differently is that what you mean?

  • @samar3634
    @samar3634 8 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing! love Robert Green. very informative discussion

  • @KarelChytilArt
    @KarelChytilArt 8 месяцев назад +11

    Thanks a lot. Great interview.

  • @MatthewChrisisOfficial
    @MatthewChrisisOfficial 8 месяцев назад +3

    This was very informative and inspiring. Thanks for sharing!

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 6 месяцев назад +1

    Robert Greene and Dr. Andrew Huberman offer invaluable guidance on finding our purpose, emphasizing the power of aligning with our interests and passions. This alignment can fuels motivation and fulfillment. 🔑

  • @freakturner6757
    @freakturner6757 3 месяца назад +1

    Look what made you happy as a child, mine was, I loved playing beats on lockers. Know I am learning music and cannot be more happy. It can be subtle, just look back and within, you will surely find the answer!

  • @gangakarapenan3365
    @gangakarapenan3365 8 месяцев назад +5

    Love both these guys ❤

  • @Gsp_in_NYC
    @Gsp_in_NYC 8 месяцев назад +5

    I have a high social intelligence but it created massive social anxiety in me and traumatized me at a young age.

  • @shenaniiigans
    @shenaniiigans 3 месяца назад +1

    Many would say that I'm still young, but I know time is passing every day. I'm not happy where I currently am and know I'm wasting my potential while I sit here unsure of myself.
    I love potential and opportunities, but eventually all things end and choosing one path closes off another. I'm so scared that I'll make the wrong choices and not tap into my full potential and end up dying unsatisfied and unhappy without contributing to the world like I could, yet I'm not happy where I am now. I just hope I make myself and my loved ones proud in the future and live a good life with whatever time I have.

  • @MuscleBandit
    @MuscleBandit 7 месяцев назад +3

    You guys are fascinating to watch, the mutual enthusiasm and respect is inspiring.

  • @w_dtb
    @w_dtb 3 месяца назад

    I am 23 years old and my childhood was 100% being controlled by my asian family till I was turning into 18 or 19 years old. Unluckily, I also dropped out of my university beause of covid19 and civil war in my country. I was feeling lost in those years and didn't even realize that I am losing my ways. After times, I am exploring for my purpose. I can feel that I am feeling something about my purpose. Wish me luck.

  • @sovvrong
    @sovvrong 8 месяцев назад +3

    Homie layin the "you're one of a kind" on me hit different

  • @athbhreith7391
    @athbhreith7391 8 месяцев назад +8

    Finally a great interview with Angus Young

    • @cypher3323
      @cypher3323 6 месяцев назад

      I don't understand, could you explain what you just said?

    • @athbhreith7391
      @athbhreith7391 6 месяцев назад +1

      Angus young is a world famous saxophone player known for his on stage antics. His signature sound changed the face of rock forever when he joined the band Ace of Base fronted by gravel throated legend Lemmy Killmongton. Angus is best known for his co writing contribution to rock classics such as “hey there Delilah”, “Rocketman” and the hit theme song from “Threes Company”.

    • @Quazzga
      @Quazzga 4 месяца назад

      LOL!

  • @Royal76679
    @Royal76679 25 дней назад

    I never thought a platform like 4RA could make IPL this special for us It's all about the community and shared experiences.

  • @MisanthropeGains
    @MisanthropeGains 3 месяца назад +1

    You and I will find what we are searching for. Stop worrying and start telling yourself you will change.

  • @bybengg
    @bybengg 4 месяца назад

    thank god for bringing Huberman to the world

  • @abetoews3235
    @abetoews3235 2 месяца назад

    I could listen to these guys all day

  • @fernandocalderon48
    @fernandocalderon48 8 месяцев назад +4

    What a beautiful talk

  • @hisStory-y2g
    @hisStory-y2g 6 месяцев назад +1

    I like the story about French ( 7:00 apx.). Real life situations were the actual catalyst for learning. ! Thanks great video..

  • @amitychu9511
    @amitychu9511 6 месяцев назад +2

    An episode everyone should watch.

  • @SandeepKumar-ts4yt
    @SandeepKumar-ts4yt 26 дней назад

    On 4RBT, I placed a bet for IPL Lottery, and the winnings were FAIR and square. No issues. It's awesome.

  • @chasinghappyxo
    @chasinghappyxo 15 дней назад

    this has given me so much to think about, thanks so much for this!!

  • @inlakech369
    @inlakech369 8 месяцев назад +5

    Bien dit monsieur!

  • @trenttimegod1
    @trenttimegod1 5 месяцев назад

    When I was like 18 i used to feel so alive, had drive and passion. I’m 23 now and being out here in adult life broke and disappointed with myself with the world, has just blown out my flame. I really want to change my life but I feel so incredibly burnt out and I’m stuck as a loser forever. I’m not good enough and it feels like I never will be. It sucks seeing everyone surpassing me and living life happy. It hasn’t gotten easier, things are only getting harder. I thought I knew my passions but I don’t really know anymore, being crap at the stuff I love most doesn’t help. At a certain point it all feels futile gamers

  • @kurgerbingog
    @kurgerbingog 8 месяцев назад +10

    Im a teenager with no life's purpose. Can someone please help me before I do something I don't want to do?

    • @vonsassy
      @vonsassy 8 месяцев назад +5

      Try everything, even the things you don't think you will like doing.
      Then start to pay attention to the things you are drawn to and that you are good at, because the more you explore the more you will learn about yourself.
      Never give up on the things that make you smile.

    • @jordansinsidevoice
      @jordansinsidevoice 8 месяцев назад +4

      Stop going on social media passively, it destroys any drive. Start working out, and taking care of yourself. That’s the bottom of the pyramid of purpose.
      Just follow the little thread of curiosity in your body. That tiny little voice that says “I wonder if..” or “I wonder what that would be like”
      And start exploring. You won’t know what your purpose is, truly, unless you’re looking backwards.
      But if you’re listening to your GUT and your HEART, over your mind, you will be in flow. Your body knows. Learn to listen to it. :)

    • @johnemanuels6175
      @johnemanuels6175 8 месяцев назад +3

      You are unique and needed in this world. Seek Jesus. Cry out to him. Hear hears you. He died for every mistake you have made. He wants you to live free.

    • @Mo-xm6zh
      @Mo-xm6zh 8 месяцев назад +2

      Forget finding your life’s purpose. What are you most curious about? What are your strengths? Focus on what intrigues you and start playing around with it. Just try things. Stop thinking there’s right and wrong things for you. Just try things you’re interested in. If it sticks, it sticks. If it doesn’t, now ya know. Good luck kid! Just keep moving your feet and you’ll do great. Move those feet!

    • @JylilReeder
      @JylilReeder 8 месяцев назад +1

      Give your life to the Lord get in the Bible and learn the word and continue to pray 🙏🏾🙏🏾 you are here for a reasons and still young

  • @dougtaylorband279
    @dougtaylorband279 5 месяцев назад

    The purpose talked about is a Secondary purpose. We already have a Purpose- To Be Here Now!
    The purpose talked about is a choice purpose NOT a given purpose. This gives relief and freedom- we need not find our purpose as it is already being done just by living.

    • @k.f.9875
      @k.f.9875 5 месяцев назад

      Here-now again? So what job to take?

  • @RB-hz2bf
    @RB-hz2bf 3 дня назад

    I’m glad I came across this

  • @DJ_JMIZZEL
    @DJ_JMIZZEL 8 месяцев назад +3

    Really great show !!!!!

  • @rrohmdr
    @rrohmdr 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great talk! Congrats! This enlightens us on this primary question of life purpose.😀

  • @davidwhitcher1972
    @davidwhitcher1972 Месяц назад +1

    I am about to retire, I'm not looking for another job. I want something better. Something that gives me a reason to get out of bed without the requirement of being on a time table.

  • @BigWheel1972
    @BigWheel1972 5 месяцев назад +1

    I'd love more podcasts on this topic. I don't have that inner compass-I was not allowed as a child to dream or express myself. How do I get on a fast track to discovering myself !?

  • @the_infinitelearning
    @the_infinitelearning 8 месяцев назад +4

    The hardest part of finding your purpose is being with people who dont understand what that means. Maybe its because of the chatter in their own minds, intellectual growth or even understanding and comprehension of finding their ikigai. does that make sense?

  • @jude_valueladderwizard
    @jude_valueladderwizard 4 месяца назад

    I enjoyed watching this today. Struggling to find my purpose and this has greatly helped

  • @forrmat
    @forrmat 5 месяцев назад +3

    I would say that the key to finding your happy destiny is to keep trying and searching. If you have a job but you are not happy, spend part of your salary on various courses, training sessions. Try a clay workshop, take a singing lesson, read a business book, learn how to repair a bicycle.
    Look for that feeling that will bring you joy. Even if it was just as a hobby. It is never too late. Even after 70.
    Also remember that if you find it, then it is natural to want to be the best at it. Competition arises. This is the moment when we can easily lose the joy of what we once loved. Don't compare yourself, learn from those who are better and teach those who need support.

  • @charlesdahmital8095
    @charlesdahmital8095 5 месяцев назад

    The one big get I got from this personally-
    Thanks to rote educational systems I learned to hate learning from being forced to learn things I had no desire for.

  • @Bl636_
    @Bl636_ 3 месяца назад

    Love this conversation!
    I’m 23 years old and i learned a lot about my self i kinda have some clear vision because i know what i like and what i dislike .. also i've been through depression and i've seen the bottom ... and i just start know what my purpose is i really hope i get it

    • @Bl636_
      @Bl636_ 3 месяца назад

      Many things don’t interest me and i see a lot of things are just boring i can sit alone all day doing what i like

  • @alimajansuleimen6153
    @alimajansuleimen6153 4 месяца назад

    Hi everyone, this is such an incredible and inspiring podcast. Moreover, I began to recall my childhood, some memories surfaced from my subconscious. I try to keep listening to my inner voice, but otherwise I get distracted by a lot of things, like wasting time on social media, browsing Instagram, and other things. It annoys me, it confuses me.

  • @reisschancellor9753
    @reisschancellor9753 22 дня назад

    I dont feel discontent at all. I feel purposeful and full of life. I dont keep checking how i feel but i do care for the people around me and that makes me happy. Ive been poor, im ok now. Scenarios are temporary. They are little life puzzles. Welcome each one. At the end of solving many of them, all we really need is to give love and allow love in. If u cant find a spouse, try dating a completely different kind of person. Its all just a pile of puzzles.

  • @Sixpoint7five
    @Sixpoint7five 3 месяца назад +2

    I think this is one of the most valuable videos on RUclips almost ever, which is obviously a ridiculous thing to say, but honestly, knowing what grain you should be following could change this world beyond measure. Imagine if more people were happy with their job or career and didn't beat their kids or piss everyone off in traffic just cause they hate their life and they take it out on everyone else? More content people = more content people, I would guess?

  • @ericklunalpz
    @ericklunalpz 7 месяцев назад

    Just because you are able to find a job you’re good at and passionate about doesn’t mean you’ll feel fulfilled if it doesn’t pay you enough to live comfortably. You have to be realistic at the same time. Your job doesn’t need to be your main source of passion and fulfillment. I’d rather work a job I can tolerate that pays me well than one I love and I struggle to pay the bills. You can find purpose in your hobbies and relationships with others not just in your career.

  • @glennramos4371
    @glennramos4371 22 дня назад +1

    I’m 22 years old and I still haven’t found out what i want to do. I really don’t wanna waste my life

  • @dinviata4799
    @dinviata4799 26 дней назад

    Robert Greene, a really really intelligent and interesting human being

  • @DandillionJeff
    @DandillionJeff 2 месяца назад +1

    you must also read the kindle book "The Death of Your Hindrances: The Birth of Your Success Through Enchanting Affirmations"

  • @haotang2638
    @haotang2638 6 месяцев назад

    man, I don't remember anything when I was 4-7 years old, except that I loved reading travel books, but I was never obsessed over anything.

  • @jvlp2046
    @jvlp2046 2 месяца назад +2

    Analogy... if a person decides to create or buy something, that something must SERVE him/her first before sharing it with others... the same analogy... God created/made our LIFE to SERVE God first before we can serve our life with others.... "WHATEVER YOU DO PUT GOD FIRST." ...(ref. Proverbs 3:6)... Praise be to God in Christ Jesus... Amen.

  • @rodrigodiaz9472
    @rodrigodiaz9472 3 месяца назад

    Long live Robert Greene ❤️

  • @arandomlu
    @arandomlu 22 дня назад

    22 y.o. here... I know I want to do arts, but people are against me going that path bc office work and similar things earn more. But I feel like I'm wasting my life doing office work. I don't wanna waste my life, but I'm afraid I won't succeed if I follow what I want instead of what people say is the way to success.

    • @PurposeIsEverything
      @PurposeIsEverything 21 день назад +1

      Money means nothing if you don't have purpose to be honest.

  • @rossco12
    @rossco12 8 месяцев назад +4

    Love this 👏🏻

  • @snorrisaurus4107
    @snorrisaurus4107 5 месяцев назад

    This video makes me want to burst into tears.

  • @Joegolberg1
    @Joegolberg1 6 месяцев назад +3

    If you wanna be successful, you most take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life>>

    • @Justinfred11
      @Justinfred11 6 месяцев назад

      The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional like I did. If you get the facts about saving and investing and follow through with an intelligent plan, you should be able to gain financial security over the years and enjoy the benefits of managing your money.

  • @yolanda5756
    @yolanda5756 3 месяца назад

    😯Wow! I needed to hear this. Glad the video was recommended, though I was not searching for it.😕🤔

  • @ArvindSisodiya-zm6dg
    @ArvindSisodiya-zm6dg 25 дней назад

    4RA's transparency is very good, no hidden charges. Trust is maintained. Always feel secure.

  • @QuantumManifest1
    @QuantumManifest1 4 месяца назад

    prof Huberman is amazing

  • @rykarose4
    @rykarose4 4 месяца назад +6

    So this entire conversation can be summed up to "do what you loved as a child". I think everyone knows this.

    • @rykarose4
      @rykarose4 3 месяца назад

      @@THINKforYOURSELFinstead That's exactly what I loved as a kid too!

  • @DeeplyBlissed369
    @DeeplyBlissed369 8 месяцев назад +1

    So insightful!

  • @noahleykun1556
    @noahleykun1556 3 месяца назад +1

    Love this guy

  • @Tha_Big_G
    @Tha_Big_G 12 дней назад

    This man's very knowledgeable

  • @christinedonnelly5444
    @christinedonnelly5444 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow Andrew!! You popped up in my utube feed and , by the look in your eye, I knew you were honest and an excited explorer. I wanted more. But Robert Greene! “Profound” is the word. And you encapsulate his message so beautifully. Thankyou Andrew and Robert❣️

  • @Aiming4Success2024
    @Aiming4Success2024 6 месяцев назад +1

    Keep aiming for success in 2024❤🎉