I am genuinely sorry for the people who seem fixated on trying to tear you down in the comments. I don't think they realize how ironic it is to go out of their way to /bully/ a person on the internet sharing their story, and consider themselves "not abusers". Aside from this, thank you for sharing! It's a pretty rare opportunity to hear about someone's inner world this way.
I really appreciate this video. You rarely see videos on sociopaths and narcissists admitting that they are actually narcissistic so the fact that you openly accept and acknowledge your diagnosis is huge. Thank you for educating us on how you perceive things.
This was an extremely analytical, on-point and useful breakdown. I've never seen anyone self-analyse their ASPD this way and people (including mental health and psychiatry professionals) would gain much from viewing it. Amazing work.
I know someone who was diagnosed with this at 19, then showed no more sociopathic behaviors (criminality, impulsiveness, disregard for others) for decades and was eventually diagnosed with something else (major depression, PTSD). She's putting in the work and exhibiting self-awareness. These diagnoses are fluid in the young, have some grace.
I really appreciate these videos. I've known a couple sociopaths in my life, and have watched videos describing the condition, but there's nothing like hearing about what it's like, first hand, to help me understand the behaviour and mindset of those people I knew. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing. I worry about what might happen if your one and only human connection struggles in any way. It might be useful to discuss this in a calm thoughtful manner. It's good to be prepared for all eventualities. Good on you for working on yourself. I hope you are able to start feeling some of the prosocial emotions one day. I'm also glad to see more content like this online. It's important that everyone is represented and able to see themselves mirrored. You exist exactly the way you are for a reason. 😊
I forgot her name but you oddly sounds and talks very similar to an Australian woman who also was diagnosed ASPD, BPD and NPD. The way they talk, very monotone, no facial expressions. Thank you for sharing this.
It's ridiculous! People can't have personality disorders from the whole human emotional spectrum. I've seen some people putting all the cluster B labels on themselves. Probably all of them were Narcissistic. The personality disorder clusters are not scientific, so it will soon be outdated anyway. She made content about BPD celebrities.
Classical psychopath. Its not a shame, its just how some people are. we just need to be aware of that so we can better manage our relationships with others!
One of the most interesting videos on this topic I’ve seen, thank you for breaking it down and explaining! I don’t know if you read comments, or ever consider video requests…but if you do and are open, I am really interested to understand how bonding works for you, like what makes you feel safe/like you don’t have to shut down, and what it would take for people to genuinely accommodate that.
Thank you for sharing that with us. I can relate to this very much and thought it made me a bad person that I only care about myself and my happiness. I rarely care about others feelings or how my lack of emotion make them feel.
Thank you for being brave and sharing this! Mental health disorders have terrible stigma based off people's ignorance and unwillingness to understand anything outside of themselves...and they see themselves as different somehow. Ironic. ❤
@matthewmallan1995 I don't think you're so different. You're currently showing a lack of empathy. You spoke on her as if she truly isn't human. That's disordered thinking.
@@EarsofUnderstanding Empathy for what? She's a near empty vessel with no compassion, EMPATHY, sense of anxiety, sympathy, devoid of joy or any sense of fulfilment (which automatically means she has no sense of gratitude or respect). She is, technically (by her own definition) NOTHING. This lizard and a whole generation like her will die without ever having lived. I have no ability to 'empathise' with that, in fact she disgusts me. I live by gratitude and a respect for the life around me, I can't 'empathise' with this vile thing. 💐
Some of us have had very bad experiences with narcissists and sociopaths though so it's coming from a place of self preservation. We SHOULD be concerned about these people who do not feel empathy or guilt like the rest of us.
@Liz-wz8dh if they're in your life and causing problems... She, on the other hand, is educating the public about the same people who got you. That way, they don't have to find out how easily manipulated and insecure they are the hard way.
Thank you this was interesting. I also follow Kanika Batra who has aspd diagnosed, so, there really are differences , a lot. I have always read and heard that if a person has aspd, they cannot experience any kind of anxiety or panic attacks, so interesting that you have.
Oh just so you know, Kanika Batra is a horrendous person. She abused my friends, she and her husband support Epstien, attacked me for no reason when I didn’t know who she was, has NPD as well but lies about it, talked about hiring someone to “brutally r*pe” a minor, etc. Oh and she sensationalizes ASPD. I’m not just ripping on her either. There’s screenshots and screen recordings proving it.
James Fallon a pro social psychopath and neuroscientist experienced anxiety, panic, and other mental health problems as a child and young adult. I have similar comorbidities with my psychopathy that often inhibit me acting on behaviors. Otherwise I'd probably be more in the criminal category.
Thank you for creating this content, to help people better understand what it feels like to have ASPD and NPD. Your lack of ability to feel prosocial emotions is possibly due to a genetic variation in your body’s oxytocin receptors. Read “Moral Molecule” by Paul Zak for more info. I’m curious, if you could take a medication to feel all emotions like a “neurotypical” feels, would you want to take the medication?
hey Delta !, questions for you: do you experience "your set of emotions" as a handicap ? - or do you rather feel superior by that ? - when in your life did you realize that you are differing in your emotional capacity and range ? - thank you for your openess.....
If sociopaths are not totally devoid of emotion; are psychopaths also not totally devoid of said emotion, or do they not have emotion at all? Pretty interesting!
All emotions are lowered down and some none existent. But is not like they’re completely numb to any emotions. Most of them can feel short happiness but not for the same reasons as most normal people would. Anger is one of the major traits. Most people believe that psychopaths are robots or they’re all murderers
Is this numbness and low prosocial emotions the result of trauma? Since you have been able to bond with safe people e.g. fiance seems like a defensive response to feel apathetic or low care for others rather than pure low arousal antisocial traits. Those kinds never feel any bond with others and would never even when young have anxiety or shame
Probably. CPTSD has a chronic impact, if not treated since childhood years. I'm not a psychologist, but I do know people with CPTSD that could struggle within the same categories.
Usually psychologists disintinguish psychopathy from sociopathy based on the origin -- psychopathy is given at birth while sociopathy is developed through child trauma or emotional neglect. But this is not consesual among all professionals (as the most part of psychiatry because its not a proper natural science).
New to this channel & haven’t seen any other videos yet, but a genuine question I have would be -how do you deal with impulse control? Like in the sense it seems it’s often stated that the apathy and or mind numbing boredom of aspd is one of the most challenging aspects of it as it’s pretty much always present?.. So in that case, it seems often times someone struggling with that experience will eventually also struggle with impulse control specifically in regard to making an attempt (or feeling an urge) to break out of that feeling, even if only for a while. How do you handle this post getting help??
Do you *want* to feel more joy/happiness? Like is it something you feel is missing, or long to experience more of? Or does the apathy mean it doesn't matter to you exactly how you feel (as long as it's not particularly unpleasant)?
@@Voydmusicthat’s not true. Joy is a natural emotion in humans, while anxiety and panic are most certainly not. I feel joy, and I never feel panic, and rarely experience anxiety. Mindfulness is key, but in this world, it’s very very difficult to develop this habit.
@@katieandnick4113 But since the body produces feelings of Anxiety and Panic naturally, doenst that make them natural emotions? Glad to hear you rarely experience anxiety.
That’d be interesting if there was a reverse psychopathy, like you only felt the inverse emotions that she does…. Just only felt good all the time lol how come there’s not????
Williams Syndrome would be similar to what you described. People with Williams Syndrome love to connect with everyone (in an innocent way), and really have no awareness/comprehension of aggressive or manipulative or malicious behaviors in others.
I have 2/3 insecure attachments according to a test and my mental health disorders. I hope that further research is underway. I did my part. One of the things it makes me think is that every personality disorder have at least 2 subtypes. For ASPD, it would be the dismissive and anxious subtypes. Please pay attention to the authors and don't mix up the results!
I also feel a lot of annoyance, anger and boredom and general apathy but the former need to be triggered, otherwise i'm pretty peaceful. Can't get attached to people, i barely even miss anyone and don't genuinely care about people, which frustrates me a lot. But strangely with all this apathy, i feel so much shame, guilt and empathy when something that triggers it happens. It's so confusing, like What am i?
Thank you for the channel. I have people in my life who have NPD and this helps with my radical acceptance to keep them in my life. I’m curious, have you ever been screened for Autism? I have Autism and sometimes you just remind me of someone who also has Autism. I know a lot of people with ASD get diagnosed NPD beforehand because some of the symptoms can overlap just they come from different places.
@@axewieldingmilena are you diagnosed by clinicians? Some people on the autism spectrum make too much or too little eye contact than what most people feel comfortable with.
Psychopathy and sociopathy r 2 different disorders with a lot of differences. One of the major ones is that you are born a psychopath and u r made into a sociopath
Also she has a specific diagnosis, she doesn't "consider" herself anything. She went to an appropriate professional for treatment. Very different than just armchair tik tok researched "this might be me".
If you knew what her childhood was like, you wouldn't ask that question. Watch her older videos where she outlines that. Out of respect for her, i'm not going repeat it
@@MusiCatsKing I didn’t watch them because I didn’t know that they existed. She added no context to them existing. As for going through a lot. I was abused. My father tried to murder me and my entire family. We’re all different so her response might be different than mine.
@@FoodNerds Right. So, if i asked you "you don't have a bond with your father?" What would you think? Pretty stupid and judgemental question, right..? You don't need any context. Some people have good reason for not having family bonds (me included) and the societal pressure to do so only makes us feel worse.
@@MusiCatsKing Ok clarification she claimed to be a psychopath and could not feel anything for anyone. My father was a psychopath and he’s dead and while I had a bond with him as a kid, but I didn’t know about his mental illness. And no you can ask me what you want but I’ll decide if I want to answer and why are you working so hard to defend her? Don’t tell me my questions are stupid that’s disrespectful and I’m not having it! Anyway I’m done with this conversation. Buy bye!
@@heartfullyhonestexactly, put in the work. Nothing is set in stone, people change if they put in the effort and learning. Ive seen it with my own eyes dozens of times
I am genuinely sorry for the people who seem fixated on trying to tear you down in the comments. I don't think they realize how ironic it is to go out of their way to /bully/ a person on the internet sharing their story, and consider themselves "not abusers".
Aside from this, thank you for sharing! It's a pretty rare opportunity to hear about someone's inner world this way.
I really appreciate this video. You rarely see videos on sociopaths and narcissists admitting that they are actually narcissistic so the fact that you openly accept and acknowledge your diagnosis is huge. Thank you for educating us on how you perceive things.
This was an extremely analytical, on-point and useful breakdown. I've never seen anyone self-analyse their ASPD this way and people (including mental health and psychiatry professionals) would gain much from viewing it. Amazing work.
That’s the goal. Female sociopaths are especially under represented in research. I’d like to change that by speaking on it.
The lil smile after mentioning the bond with your cats 😊
What I find fascinating is how your face lights up just for a second and there's a tiny little smile when you mentioned your cats.
That was incredibly interesting for me, thank you, I subscribed. I have BPD and NPD, but no longer meet the diagnostic criteria for NPD.
Please be kind people. She’s clearly doing the work 😊
No she's not
"please be kind"
*Makes fun of abuse victim in therapy group*
😂be kind?Shes a sociopath🤦♂️
I know someone who was diagnosed with this at 19, then showed no more sociopathic behaviors (criminality, impulsiveness, disregard for others) for decades and was eventually diagnosed with something else (major depression, PTSD). She's putting in the work and exhibiting self-awareness. These diagnoses are fluid in the young, have some grace.
Being kind to a sociopath would be the biggest mistake of your life lmaoooooo.
You are brave for doing this. It’s very insightful and I hope you are going to heal the bad patterns.
Thanks for sharing so much of yourself with us.
I really appreciate these videos.
I've known a couple sociopaths in my life, and have watched videos describing the condition, but there's nothing like hearing about what it's like, first hand, to help me understand the behaviour and mindset of those people I knew.
Thank you.
You should get a job as a Human Resources officer.
Or at the Balkans - any job posting where there is a close work with people.
A sociopath is basically a super angry person who is usually angry all the time. (anger brings out the worst in people).
Blessings to you on your journey Delta, thank you for sharing xo
Do you experience social hyerarchical emotions?
Humiliation, respect, adoration, pride?
usually no, as confirmed by psychologists and by the author of the video when she said she lacks "pro-social emotions".
Thank you for sharing. I worry about what might happen if your one and only human connection struggles in any way. It might be useful to discuss this in a calm thoughtful manner. It's good to be prepared for all eventualities.
Good on you for working on yourself. I hope you are able to start feeling some of the prosocial emotions one day.
I'm also glad to see more content like this online. It's important that everyone is represented and able to see themselves mirrored. You exist exactly the way you are for a reason. 😊
I forgot her name but you oddly sounds and talks very similar to an Australian woman who also was diagnosed ASPD, BPD and NPD. The way they talk, very monotone, no facial expressions. Thank you for sharing this.
Kanika Batra?
@@themedjay358 yes! Her name is Linda hard to memorize for me
Kanika doesn't have BPD and she is indian by ethnicity.
@@Hizsoo she has. Look it up. And I only knew her nationality
It's ridiculous! People can't have personality disorders from the whole human emotional spectrum. I've seen some people putting all the cluster B labels on themselves. Probably all of them were Narcissistic. The personality disorder clusters are not scientific, so it will soon be outdated anyway. She made content about BPD celebrities.
If I had a pound for every time you blink... I WOULD HAVE NOTHING!
Lmaooooo
Classical psychopath. Its not a shame, its just how some people are. we just need to be aware of that so we can better manage our relationships with others!
How to spot a sociopath: the stare at you an never blink
I think that might be due to dissociation or something. I often forget to blink, but I don’t think that’s necessarily related to the ASPD.
@@dammitdelta I didn't know people had to think to blink
💯🤣
Not all the time.
@@dammitdeltaNot exactly about thinking, but about focusing. It's ASPD.
I can't read you at all, looking into your eyes leads me nowhere, it's a really unsual feeling. Hope you heal well, you're doing great!
Do people with ASPD (especially narcissistic ones) ever self-sabotage/destruct when they feel out of control?
Thank you for sharing this Delta!
That’s interesting she doesn’t get not only 1st but 2nd hand embarrassment…. That’s actually SO cool lolll
That's why they can do porn so easily.
One of the most interesting videos on this topic I’ve seen, thank you for breaking it down and explaining! I don’t know if you read comments, or ever consider video requests…but if you do and are open, I am really interested to understand how bonding works for you, like what makes you feel safe/like you don’t have to shut down, and what it would take for people to genuinely accommodate that.
Thank you for sharing that with us. I can relate to this very much and thought it made me a bad person that I only care about myself and my happiness. I rarely care about others feelings or how my lack of emotion make them feel.
Thank you for being brave and sharing this! Mental health disorders have terrible stigma based off people's ignorance and unwillingness to understand anything outside of themselves...and they see themselves as different somehow. Ironic. ❤
She's not being brave, she doesn't experience anxiety.
This doesn't matter to her.
...which is fascinating, it's like listening to a lizard talk.
🤣
@matthewmallan1995 I don't think you're so different. You're currently showing a lack of empathy. You spoke on her as if she truly isn't human. That's disordered thinking.
@@EarsofUnderstanding Empathy for what? She's a near empty vessel with no compassion, EMPATHY, sense of anxiety, sympathy, devoid of joy or any sense of fulfilment (which automatically means she has no sense of gratitude or respect).
She is, technically (by her own definition) NOTHING.
This lizard and a whole generation like her will die without ever having lived. I have no ability to 'empathise' with that, in fact she disgusts me.
I live by gratitude and a respect for the life around me, I can't 'empathise' with this vile thing.
💐
Some of us have had very bad experiences with narcissists and sociopaths though so it's coming from a place of self preservation. We SHOULD be concerned about these people who do not feel empathy or guilt like the rest of us.
@Liz-wz8dh if they're in your life and causing problems... She, on the other hand, is educating the public about the same people who got you. That way, they don't have to find out how easily manipulated and insecure they are the hard way.
Thank you this was interesting. I also follow Kanika Batra who has aspd diagnosed, so, there really are differences , a lot. I have always read and heard that if a person has aspd, they cannot experience any kind of anxiety or panic attacks, so interesting that you have.
Oh just so you know, Kanika Batra is a horrendous person. She abused my friends, she and her husband support Epstien, attacked me for no reason when I didn’t know who she was, has NPD as well but lies about it, talked about hiring someone to “brutally r*pe” a minor, etc. Oh and she sensationalizes ASPD. I’m not just ripping on her either. There’s screenshots and screen recordings proving it.
Oh and she also falsely accused me of doxxing her and sending her r*pist her address after publicly attacking me. She’s a fucking weirdo lol
@@dammitdelta Omg. I am so sorry did not know at all.
@@dammitdelta omg that's crazy...
James Fallon a pro social psychopath and neuroscientist experienced anxiety, panic, and other mental health problems as a child and young adult. I have similar comorbidities with my psychopathy that often inhibit me acting on behaviors. Otherwise I'd probably be more in the criminal category.
A brave video.
Positive comment hair looks good
I like the way you explain how different you are.
She's a hurt repressor as she can feel anger but the hurt bubbles underneath it so that needs to be accessed more.
Hardly any depression or anxiety? Sounds nice, I guess the trade off being anger, boredom, disregard?
Thank you for creating this content, to help people better understand what it feels like to have ASPD and NPD. Your lack of ability to feel prosocial emotions is possibly due to a genetic variation in your body’s oxytocin receptors. Read “Moral Molecule” by Paul Zak for more info. I’m curious, if you could take a medication to feel all emotions like a “neurotypical” feels, would you want to take the medication?
hey Delta !, questions for you: do you experience "your set of emotions" as a handicap ? - or do you rather feel superior by that ? - when in your life did you realize that you are differing in your emotional capacity and range ? - thank you for your openess.....
If sociopaths are not totally devoid of emotion; are psychopaths also not totally devoid of said emotion, or do they not have emotion at all? Pretty interesting!
All emotions are lowered down and some none existent. But is not like they’re completely numb to any emotions. Most of them can feel short happiness but not for the same reasons as most normal people would. Anger is one of the major traits. Most people believe that psychopaths are robots or they’re all murderers
Is this numbness and low prosocial emotions the result of trauma? Since you have been able to bond with safe people e.g. fiance seems like a defensive response to feel apathetic or low care for others rather than pure low arousal antisocial traits. Those kinds never feel any bond with others and would never even when young have anxiety or shame
Probably.
CPTSD has a chronic impact, if not treated since childhood years.
I'm not a psychologist, but I do know people with CPTSD that could struggle within the same categories.
Usually psychologists disintinguish psychopathy from sociopathy based on the origin -- psychopathy is given at birth while sociopathy is developed through child trauma or emotional neglect. But this is not consesual among all professionals (as the most part of psychiatry because its not a proper natural science).
"Let's not forget boredom" xDD Made me laugh out loud haha
New to this channel & haven’t seen any other videos yet, but a genuine question I have would be -how do you deal with impulse control? Like in the sense it seems it’s often stated that the apathy and or mind numbing boredom of aspd is one of the most challenging aspects of it as it’s pretty much always present?.. So in that case, it seems often times someone struggling with that experience will eventually also struggle with impulse control specifically in regard to making an attempt (or feeling an urge) to break out of that feeling, even if only for a while. How do you handle this post getting help??
Do you *want* to feel more joy/happiness? Like is it something you feel is missing, or long to experience more of? Or does the apathy mean it doesn't matter to you exactly how you feel (as long as it's not particularly unpleasant)?
You should be in politics.
No !
Thank you for sharing this.
I honestly think life would be so much better without sone emotions. Some emotions are seriously outdated.
I'd sell my soul to never feel anxiety or panic. Pisses me off and runs in my family on both sides.
YEAH BUT IN TURN YOU WOULDN'T FEEL THE JOY :)
@@Voydmusic what joy
The joy of life :) in the video she described herself as having not a lot of positive emotions
@@Voydmusicthat’s not true. Joy is a natural emotion in humans, while anxiety and panic are most certainly not. I feel joy, and I never feel panic, and rarely experience anxiety. Mindfulness is key, but in this world, it’s very very difficult to develop this habit.
@@katieandnick4113 But since the body produces feelings of Anxiety and Panic naturally, doenst that make them natural emotions? Glad to hear you rarely experience anxiety.
How do you manage not to blink?
2:21-2:25!
@@yoohoo952 ?
@@gerafinali4384 there is one blinking :)
this was very interesting
That’d be interesting if there was a reverse psychopathy, like you only felt the inverse emotions that she does…. Just only felt good all the time lol how come there’s not????
There is hypomania and mania
Oh wait, me a bipolar II DOYYYYYYY
Williams Syndrome would be similar to what you described. People with Williams Syndrome love to connect with everyone (in an innocent way), and really have no awareness/comprehension of aggressive or manipulative or malicious behaviors in others.
Do you feel empty?
That's it. It's an emptiness
There’s a sense of lacking, yes.
Pretty much all cluster B’s feel that emptiness.
I have 2/3 insecure attachments according to a test and my mental health disorders. I hope that further research is underway. I did my part.
One of the things it makes me think is that every personality disorder have at least 2 subtypes. For ASPD, it would be the dismissive and anxious subtypes. Please pay attention to the authors and don't mix up the results!
I also feel a lot of annoyance, anger and boredom and general apathy but the former need to be triggered, otherwise i'm pretty peaceful. Can't get attached to people, i barely even miss anyone and don't genuinely care about people, which frustrates me a lot. But strangely with all this apathy, i feel so much shame, guilt and empathy when something that triggers it happens. It's so confusing, like What am i?
The point is.. what do you feel?
My guess would be Anger and indifference, which I feel a lot too.
Is there any evidence that absent pro social emotions can grow for people with ASPD?
that was awesome
'
but why don’t you blink?
Are you reading? Sounds robotic. 😢
She does
No. If you’re talking about my eyes moving, that’s just a medical condition
Interesting thank you!
Very interesting
How rubbish would that be
She is working on it and owning it fully - and that makes her hero despite the unfortune state she is experiencing.
Thank you for the channel. I have people in my life who have NPD and this helps with my radical acceptance to keep them in my life. I’m curious, have you ever been screened for Autism? I have Autism and sometimes you just remind me of someone who also has Autism. I know a lot of people with ASD get diagnosed NPD beforehand because some of the symptoms can overlap just they come from different places.
Guess I´m a sociopath lol
i had to google what is loneliness
you experience all that
Wenigstens ist sie ehrlich. Trotzdem macht das sie mir nicht sympathisch. Sie ist irgendwie gruselig.
Is the staring a feature? Does that translate to people?
@@axewieldingmilena I do the opposite. Avoid eye contact & blink a lot. Only time I tend to stare (without eye contact) is when dissociating a lot.
@@axewieldingmilena are you diagnosed by clinicians? Some people on the autism spectrum make too much or too little eye contact than what most people feel comfortable with.
Juu kissa on ainoa
Why do you consider yourself a sociopath and not a psychopath? Is it the lack of prosocial behaviors?
Psychopathy and sociopathy r 2 different disorders with a lot of differences.
One of the major ones is that you are born a psychopath and u r made into a sociopath
One is neurological condition: means people are born that way. The other is trauma and sociopaths are created through abuse in early childhood.
Also she has a specific diagnosis, she doesn't "consider" herself anything. She went to an appropriate professional for treatment. Very different than just armchair tik tok researched "this might be me".
🙄🙄
!!
You should try riding a motorcycle. I bet you will feel a lot of emotion. 100%
I’ve always wanted to try it
Why? Why algorithm, FUH KING WUH EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
Why would anyone believe pathological liar?
You don’t have a bond with your family?
If you knew what her childhood was like, you wouldn't ask that question. Watch her older videos where she outlines that. Out of respect for her, i'm not going repeat it
@@MusiCatsKing I didn’t watch them because I didn’t know that they existed. She added no context to them existing. As for going through a lot. I was abused. My father tried to murder me and my entire family. We’re all different so her response might be different than mine.
@@FoodNerds Right. So, if i asked you "you don't have a bond with your father?" What would you think? Pretty stupid and judgemental question, right..?
You don't need any context. Some people have good reason for not having family bonds (me included) and the societal pressure to do so only makes us feel worse.
@@MusiCatsKing Ok clarification she claimed to be a psychopath and could not feel anything for anyone. My father was a psychopath and he’s dead and while I had a bond with him as a kid, but I didn’t know about his mental illness. And no you can ask me what you want but I’ll decide if I want to answer and why are you working so hard to defend her? Don’t tell me my questions are stupid that’s disrespectful and I’m not having it! Anyway I’m done with this conversation. Buy bye!
1:54 you are an abuser. I hope your current partner realizes before it's too late.
She’s well aware of my disorders and that I’m trying to get better. I have made immense changes. We’ve been together for 5 years.
People don’t just decide to become abusers. Hurt people hurt other people. She is doing the work. You need to do yours.
@@heartfullyhonestexactly, put in the work. Nothing is set in stone, people change if they put in the effort and learning. Ive seen it with my own eyes dozens of times
@@Ryy22 I did it too. God knows what I’d be like if I had given into all my impulses and problems that I’ve got due to CT.
They probably have a much better relationship than the couples that refuse to go to therapy. Being willing to do the work is half the battle.
Instead of dying your hair red, you should paint your ceiling red instead! 😁
maybe you should take your own advice 🤷
You just want attention
Bs. Stop stigmatizing mental health. Its not for attention.
Be glad that you dont have problems goofy
Lmaooooo