24H Jerusalem - Love, marriage and divorce in the Holy Land (6-7 p.m., Episode 13)
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- At a German protestant church, baby Helena is being baptized. A barber prepares a bride and her female relatives for the wedding. They talk about how courtship and relationships have changed over the years.
Yisrael Campbell is an Orthodox comedian who tours the world with his show. He was born in Los Angeles and converted to Judaism when he was 30 years old and moved to Israel. This was also when he changed his name from Chris to Yisrael.
Esther, 28, meets with a marriage broker and has to answer a lot of personal questions. Her biggest wish is to find a husband.
While waiting for her ex-husband, Moran has a fight with her young daughter who doesn't want to spend the night at her father's.
Ruth Bach visits a friend. Both of them have housekeepers from the Philippines. They can only stay in Israel for around five years or as long as their current employment lasts. As they only have a work visa, they are not allowed to start a family. If they give birth, their baby has to be sent to the Philippines after six months.
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24H Jerusalem: A multifaceted insight into Jerusalem's everyday life
The 24-hour TV show tells the story of the city through the eyes of the people who live in it and who are caught up in its contradictions: Jews, Muslims and Christians, Israelis, Palestinians and foreigners, women and men, immigrants and old-timers, believers and atheists, night owls and early risers. 70 film teams accompanied around 90 protagonists with the most diverse life stories at work and in their leisure time, in cramped apartments and spacious villas, in temples, mosques and churches, in Israeli settlements and Palestinian refugee camps.
Having lived there, this is so on point.
A very lovely, multi-faceted and well-presented documentary showing every day life of people living together. I hope it‘ll get back to this soon again. It breaks my heart every time unrest and conflict breaks out. It‘s such a beautiful and interesting place. 🙏🏻✨
The way Israel treats those Fillipino women is disgusting.
Blame religion for upheaval
@@davidestremera6003 if not religion then politics
People always want to blame something, but themselves. One mistake, people make, they don' t give the relationship time, to get to know each other, before the marriage, there is more to marriage, than just the m arrangement bed. The fellowship, appreciating each other's gifts, experiencing life together, thr trials stress and, the good times, grows the marriage, matures, each person, And, the marriage❤😊
Does anyone else's heart ache for the little girl who refuses to go to her dad's? Adults underestimate how hard it is for children of divorced parents. Children need stability and consistency. Shuffling between parents definitely does feel UNFAIR for a child. Poor sweet girl.
It's not that bad. The parents were unhappy with each other. No one should guilt adults staying in a relationship they're unhappy in.
My worry is WHY the kid doesn't want to go with her dad (?) Is he abusing her?
Yes, kids do need stability and consistency BUT if parents cannot be on the same platform any more, it is better to be off on two different tracks. I agree it is not good for kids to be torn apart on a weekly basis, but it might work out on a more balanced time schedule. Splitting the time on a two-week basis per month works pretty well. Also holidays split evenly on several weeks basis might be a good solution. It worked for my husband and his ex. Kids were happy too. If kids don't want to be with a parent at all, there must be a different reason. Should be paid attention and sought after.
I felt it was cruel to force her to continuously change house. Adults get anxious and depressed if they don't have stability, imagine a child.
@@jgunn03 children are not supposed to deal with stuff like this, it’s not about happiness. Marriages are not about happiness, it’s about denying ourselves….a huge problem is people are marrying for temporal reasons! There’s no solid foundation!
She doesn't want to go because at dad's she's disciplined where with her mother she gets to continue being dysfuntional. Her mother needs to get a backbone to her daughter's pushy ways.
Hairdresser: "you didn't get French kisses?"
Mom: "we didn't even get Arab kisses."😂
Moosa does have a great sense of humor and is a ray of sunshine where ever he goes - adore him!!
I sat and binge watched this entire show a couple of years ago.
I really enjoyed watching it.
What a brilliant series, I love things like this that show different cultures, people, and the way they live their lives. Thankyou, love Shar x
Holy cow that baby was well behaved in the church 🤣
yes true since most will cry or makes noises all the time since they want to go free instead of being locked up in mom embrace
The camel "bike", imagine if all the citi bikes were camels.lol On a serious note a well done film. Informative and entertaining.
@Samuele Ruffini SHE!!!!
If a matchmaker tells you to find a man to marry that you can then mould in to the kind of man you want then be prepared to fail. I can guarantee some matchmaker is also telling her future husband the same thing so you know how it all ends
Exactly!
Ditto!
It won’t end well when both people want to stay the same and make the other person change. You need to find someone who is happy with you as you are and you are happy with them as you are. If both people want the other person to change for them then no one will change and they will both just be unhappy.
To be honest she was looking for a unicorn and the matchmaker realized that. He had to be her age, good heart, very intelligent but emotional at the same time ¡? Plus very handsome.
She wasn't ugly but not exactly a stunner.
If the matchmaker said "you go girl, you deserve all that and more" she'd still be single at 60.
But yeah, you're right, no one changes very much after 18 or 20 years old, no matter how much you scold him/her.
The answer is love, the stick it out way! Noone is perfect. The longer you are with each other the stronger you become. Your love becomes stronger, it's called forgiveness. Then your love is genuine. You remember each other's weakness, have compassion on each other, forgive, before it turns into bitterness, and hatred
God will not forgive you, if you don't forgive, each other. You find yourself growing on each other, in love!!!!! Ask a 44year married couple, 1 man+1 woman, til death do you part. Divorce is selfish, on either side.× it hurts everyone, around you. Unless there is fornication or adultery, stay together, learn what life is about. Noone can make you happy, all the time. Try to free yourself, from selfishness, marriage, is not all about you, but the other, to give and take, for each other, and your children and family. Divorce, makes Noone, happy.😢I 😮😢---😊
These documentaries are so interesting!
Netflix has two seasons of Unorthodox to binge on if you enjoy this
@@gargoyle38 there's also shtisel which is the excellent
@@lporquai9048 yes, yes watched it. Promise me you will watch sometime ''1945,'' a 2017 Hungarian film co-written and directed by Ferenc Török. It takes place in a remote rural village in Hungary, just after the German surrender. It is depicting in a dramatic but understated way one tiny little fragment of the murder of perhaps 5% of Hungary's population
@@gargoyle38 thank you for recommendation, how and where can i view this film?
@@lporquai9048 For free with ads on tubi, or for $3.99 rental on Amazon Video obviously without ads
I just about fell on the floor laughing with the minister stepping in front of the young woman and leaving her to close the door...you could see her annoyance with it all! She seemed to roll her eyes as if to say, "Are you seeing this sh*t?, God"
timestamp pllllz !
If you've dealt with Germans long enough, this behaviour is not surprising.
I just love the fact that this documentary shows one thing, no matter religion or culture we are all the same in the end and it shows that we are met with exactly the same human problems, we are all the same and equal under God.
That hair dresser was funny
I watched 24H Jerusalem a long time ago on the TV. Thank you for uploading parts of it here.
Very well done and quite fascinating. Thanks !!
Matchmaker was like bish you are not 28. Hahaha
Did she think she was younger or older? She looks 28 to me.
Forget online dating. I think I need a marriage broker too. I wonder if they do business for a 46 year old divorced black Christian woman 🙈🙊
I love this comment! I wonder if they’ll do the same for a 53 year old divorced white atheist woman :)
@@DocBree13 we need one more person and tben we call it a club, 😁
yeah no men are interested
@@JS-it3dx lol. Always wanted to meet the one that speaks for all men. Glad to have found him 😂
@@QueenD75172 you are the best!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love and respect from America, you will always be in our hearts and prayers.
That little girl is so adorable
Wish they included the hair dresser more
Cool guy
He was the wonderful - would love to be his friend - I’d be laughing all the time :)
Same! I loved his attitude!
I want the recipe for the cauliflower boiled in oil. I've never seen that in 40 years.
Google maqloobeh, lots of recipes come up and each of them different. Most of them seem to have chicken, rice, and a veggie but I’m sure you can tweak any recipe you choose as needed.
That baby while she was getting baptized ❤️ so adorable
To add, it's such a shame that the difficulties are still on-going, I pray that one day soon there will be peace in these lands. Love Shar x
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Would love visiting Jerusalem! Walk the way our teacher did ✝️💗💗
Wait till the Covid horror is over and book a trip and have a great time.
@@engelinaschuurmans7648 this is not gonna be over. Revelation of the end times is unfolding... mark of the beast. I’m only waiting for our Teacher to return ♥️
Why dø you call Jesus a teacher
@@florivalentina3400 this is how the disciples reffed to him. Jesus himself used the term when he said -You call me teacher and a Lord, and rightly so, for that is what I am (John 13:13) When Nicodemus come to Jesus by night, he said - We know that you are the teacher who came from God ♥️
I did visit Jerusalem always had a picture in my head since I was very young, When I got there it was all about money visiting the Holy sites was a big disappointment and very expensive left me dissolutioned I’m pleased I went but was sad at what I see.
Mum needs to find out why she doesn't want to go. There could be something more there...
She said something like it sounds like you’re having a terrible time there, her daughter said no, the problem is they keep changing her schedule, she needs her routine and they keep sending her to the other parents because of meetings and professional needs...
When it comes down to it, we are pretty much the same; with the same struggles and hopes doing the same things each day. I have to say the "mom" with the two girls is gorgeous. The daughters should help out more though. Ha
The patio looks like a prison . So sad for all women who have to life this way.
So many different roads to the same God
We are Catholic in our home. But our only daughter moved to New York to attend college @NYU. Graduated and stayed living in Brooklyn, NY
Guess what? She dated a smart and handsome Jewish man. Dated for 4 years and things didn't work out because she wanted to continued with her Master. We learned a lot about him in those years. Even do he came from an Orthodox background, he wasn't. Great documentary 👏
He wasn’t ??
My favourite part was the camel!!
Adorable Palestinian architect.Beautiful thinck about olive trees
The man who converted is 100% correct I am 100% Jewish by birth and my name is Christopher. I cant even begin to tell you Jewish peoples expressions when I tell them my name. But come on people it's a name.
Oh, I just realised is the problem with the name because of Christ? Jesus? I was wondering why the way he talked about it made them sound so offended at him being called Chris.
Excellent documentary
Kind of scary idea to marry someone you’re settling for, with the goal of making them who you want them to be. I don’t think that’s often successful, if ever, and even more insurmountable if both spouses want to reshape the other into their ideal. I guess you could each try to mold the other into a person who accepts you as you are…
Yes but who am I ,I don't think I understand myself even lol
I genuinely enjoy learning from this documentary.. culture in Jerusalem is beautiful
Me too... I've always found the Jewish faith and culture fascinating.
I'd love to visit one day
This isn't the culture of the middle east...
@@KenzieTawili what do you mean? There are lots of cultures in the middle east.
I was just meaning the Jewish culture
@@lporquai9048 Jewish dosen't equal middle eastern, where is jerusalem? in the middle east. Levantine culture is far from it
@@lporquai9048 way to complicated. The want you always consult with your Rabbi. I like to solve my own problems.
You lack an understanding of the Status Quo imposed on the Christian holy sites by the Ottoman Empire.
It is very cruel that foreign workers have to sent their babies away.
You should see how they are treated in Saudi Arabia
@@alsie1882 Both things can be true at the same time. The fact that they are ill-treated in Saudi Arabia does not cancel the fact that they are also treated cruelly in Israel. Both situations are wrong.
Stupid workers. All's they have to do is go to the American Embassy and ask for their baby to be sent to the US. Then of course the mother must accompany the baby. And absolutely the mother must then ask for free room and board.
@@lila2986 yes,Biden the war monger is so much better lol
They don't have to send their babies away - they always have the option to return to their home countries with their babies & leave their employment in Israel. If they're aware of the terms & conditions of their employment visa up front, they should be prepared to take their babies back to their home country & remain there - if they don't want to simply send their babies back to their home country themselves. But if they want to continue their employment in Israel - they really have no option but to comply with the terms & conditions of their Israeli employment visa.
I have been to Yisrael twice and have my Jewish friends who live there. Israel is a beautiful country. But they have many issues they need too adress. For me l think all people who have lived there five years and more should be able to live there premanently .Torah said you should treat the stranger as one of your own.
@Angela Söderström The whole world is not like Sweden, you lot pretend you don't have issues when in fact you have plenty
@@emmanuelle196 Yes and l agree with you on that
I agree Sweden as issues too.Didn't mean to upset you!
@@angelasoderstrom3736om det är mig du menar jag är inte det minsta upprörd, jag kan diskutera och dela opinion utan att blanda känslorna i det hela, har en trevlig dag : )
@@emmanuelle196 Ha en trevlig dag också
Whoever "invented"? Thought of? Made youtube? Had my type of attention disorder In mind. Love this "network"
Wow, what an accepting religion! Even after you've accepted their way of life, they still refuse to acknowledge you and won't bury you! Where do I sign up?
Of course they are buried..only not in an Ultra orthodox cemetery.
(it would be in a different denomination of Judaism.
Ie, in a reform/conservative burial ground)
As the official Rabbinate in Israel is run by the orthodox branch of Judaism, it recognizes the conversion only if taught and consecrated through its own ministery.
Mr Campbell is a comedian, his mention of "not being allowed to die"..or "not being buried" was meant in humor and was 'tongue in cheek'!
Ps.
The idea of different branches in a religion,can be found in every faith.
If someone was to convert to Catholicism, they would not be considered 'true' Christians by the Protestant church.
Consequently, they would not be buried there either.
@@flms1234 Not every religion has the view of "true" vs "not true". For example, as soon as you declare that you believe in one God and in the final Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) you are considered a full, true Muslim. There's no one who would look at you as any less than another Muslim who was born into the religion. Any person in the world can easily be a true believer in God, which to me, makes far more sense for humanity than to have to be born in a certain land/certain race/certain family.
They're also ethnic cleansers, but we're not allowed to say that because they call you "antisemitic"
@@gothgalactic1664 no way would I accept Mohamed
@@Србомбоница86 At the end you will see what you should have.
Poor girl, her parents' divorce is literally fracturing her.
The Pilipino lady sounds thoroughly intelligent. I like the way she thinks.
Armenian services were left out...
Subtitles in white are unreadable unless background is dark. As a result I can only get a fraction of each sentence.
I found the same thing. Quite difficult for me.
I didn’t struggle with the subtitles at all. They were easy to read so i’m not sure what you mean.
Blessings to all my brothers & sisters
I love the music. Shazam can't seem to find Any of the songs. Anyone know?
Fantastic documentary. Happy Easter. Happy Passover.
Marriage is not a game This is what many celebrities think it is they dont take their marriages seriously
42:24 it’s a pity hearing this advice, you can’t change a human, and it’s disingenuous to go into a relationship planning to try. People grow and evolve, for sure, and are influenced by the forces around them, but you can be as good as can be and the other person still decide to be bad or rude or selfish, or just flat out grow even stranger to your rather than closer. Both of you have to have a foundational commitment to be kind to each other and to take the time and effort to understand one other. Both of you, man included, woman included, both.
So right, Beth! That is a common reason for marriage failures. Going into a relationship/marriage (especially women) thinking they will change the partner, or ignoring a disliked habit or trait that will doom the relationship to fail, or to like a partner's status and job, but then moan about the partner not being home as his/her work is not 9 to 5.
@@normamimosa5991 Sad thing is that in traditional arranged marriages (or semi-arranged, as depicted here) the women are told to 'settle' for the man they CAN get instead of a man they WANT to get. Methinks yenta just wants to get paid. It's all about money for her. She don't have to live with the man.
I'd be worried about why the little girl didn't want to go with her father...
A friend of mine told me she would cry bloody murder when her parents left her with her grandparents but they did and the grandfather molested her.
@Caite Smith YESSSSSS! I just commented the exact same thing. Also, that she phoned up to apologise to her Mum whilst she was at her Dad's. Normally a child would wait until they got home and were talking directly to their Mum, after reflection of the incident and having enjoyed their time, to apologise. I wondered whether the Dad told her to.apologise because of the documentary being filmed?
As a molestation survivor I am always on high alert. Well my kids often have to go to their moms (my husbands ex wife) and sometimes they don’t want to and I was concerned by that... then but they ended up telling me that it was because their moms dog sheds too much and she doesn’t sweep and so sometimes it gets on their clothes and in their food. And it was something as simple as pet hair in that instance. The other thing is she clearly verbalized she didn’t like that they always changed their custodial schedule and for kids structure is extremely important and some kids get very anxious or upset when plans change and they feel like they get no choices
@@retroreceptionist7571 That's so true on every point. Thank you.
@@moreofawave that’s so horrible and sad 😞 so Important to listen to children
Very interesting
German-russian girl; "He needs to be good looking, not much intelectual" - what if he wants a good looking girl and intelligent too? LOL
If the woman is being abused physically snd or emotionally then the marriage must end
Divorce is rotten; my heart broke for that little girl😢
Such an unusual situation. The gentleman born a Catholic and converted to Judaism. My son's paternal grandmother converted from Catholicism to Judaism to marry her husband in Belgium after the 2nd World War. She told me it was very difficult and that she was not encouraged to convert. I suppose that was because Judaism is passed down through the female line. It's very strange the way people need a religion in order to make a belief in god real. I'm sure it must be a great comfort, but not having a religion or a god is the only reality for me.
It's not about making God real. Religion is about traditions and people. Most Jewish peoples biggest reason for following Judaism is so that it doesn't die out. If it dies out, then all the evil people who tried to end them, win. They have been persecuted since before 0 A.D.
It's really hard to keep a culture going. Especially if it's a minority. Otherwise religions die out too fast. It's easy to be hedonistic and spiritual
It's not comfort ,its duty
@@hk2336 Its disgusting how baby boys are treated. To circumcise an infant like that is barbaric.
You need Islam
Sorry, good Putin. The sun sould have to come up in west and set in east before I 'do' Islam, but good luck to you.@@goodputin4324
sending a one month old baby away without its mom??? my god.
The mothers could always go with them if they wanted to - back to their home country - but many prefer to remain in Israel working for their employer. It's a choice they need to make, & one which they would have been aware of at the outset, as part of the terms & conditions of their Israeli employment visa.
Mamma should NOT be taking care of all that alone. Those girls are well old enough to help their mom!
That means you didn’t enjoy mama. That’s what mothers do and children love and admire mothers always because mothers can do so much for he kids
@@behuman3801 I enjoyed her very much, but as a mother of 6 who also works out of the home, my children love me enough that they see my needs as well....they help all they can....
@@nordicstarhomestead7314 damn ,your kids definitely miss you ,with 6 kids working out of home is crazy
@@Србомбоница86 it's not a full time job, we work TOGETHER as we should helping each other and showing true servanthood to each other. We are not raising children, we are raising adults... childhood is the process of learning how to behave and function as an adult! Not just to live as an age advanced child...
The child is not "lucky".
But God watches over her.
omg the house at 44.35 looks like jail :(
I’m sorry but why is a grown woman arguing and trying to reason with a child?!!!
Because children have needs and feelings. You're heartless.
It's a child not an animal for Godsake
@@Србомбоница86 It's not always a good idea to try & reason with a child - as sometimes they will not always understand, & the full circumstances may not always be able to be explained & understood. Sometimes it's just best to say "You have to go to see your Dad whether you like it or not, because the court order says you have to". No further discussion to be entered into.
Bc they are being filmed.
@@Србомбоница86 Still - there's no point trying to reason with a child of that age, because the child clearly has not yet developed the power to reason & think things through rationally & logically. So the mother should more or less just be saying to the child "you need to do this because I tell you to & I know what's best for you right now - whether you like it or not".
So grateful for this learning opportunity.
One sadness. Watching the mother making dinner for 2 teenage girls was so disappointing. THEY (the girls) should have made the dinner, completed the cleanup and should be evolving into competent women. They are spoiled and selfish (planning endless shopping).
I agree. those girls are lazy and when they leave home they will need to be able to cook for themselves to save money for education
What's really sad is never seeing a man make dinner. It always has to be women and you keep perpetuating the patriarchy with your attitude.
Yeah and the mom was gorgeous. Does anyone know her name?
Mum should be making those girls do some work!!!
the little girl doesn't want to go to her father, please listen to her and ask her why? im very worried about her
Did you read the translation, she explained the problem, they keep swapping their week with the other parent...
@@morganelusseau3012 Swapping weeks is not the root of the problem though. Kids won't just open up and tell you everything on the spot like that. Especially with the camera crew in your living room. I'm an elementary teacher. Her behavior is very concerning to me as well.
I taught the same thing.I won't force my child to go.no.she is a bad mother.is a reason why she cry so much to NOT go!!
@@alinagurt5857 they can't keep screwing up the weeks like that though. Children need routine and if they keep messing it up, it can affect them. If can affect their sleep pattern their adjustment to a well rounded childhood because their is no stability. I also don't think the mother should be making the child go if she doesn't want to but legally it can get messy if the father goes to court and says well the mother isn't letting me see my child too.
@@michelleg7 you're so right. Kids like routine and they can't keep changing times it's not fair to her
Yisrael Campbell... How interesting! I'm related to the Campbells from Pennsylvania. You don't hear that last name in the Hasidic community often. I read he is a limited from Philly.
table for 36: small family circle...
wait the comedian is ultra orthodox but he shook that lady's hand? I thought in the hasidic community you're not allowed to touch any other woman besides your wife? My landlord in brooklyn told me he couldn't shake my hand after signing the lease becayuse of religious rules. Is the touching thing only within the Hasidim?
You are correct; Orthodox Jews do not touch the opposite sex before marriage nor can they be in the same room alone with the opposite sex. But some people are more strict about it than others.
@@twinmothz gotcha, thank you :)
Weird choices. Nothing typical of life in Jerusalem.
She’s a mother but is she happy?
The Palestinian mum “girls shouldn’t think about hormones, boys boys boys” 😂😂😂
I was very disappointed in the Palestinian mum as well as her teenage daughters. Mum does all the work, and the daughters sit there with their phones, waiting for food. Table manners of the 2 daughters were terrible as well. The mum should teach them bout these things, before it's too late. What kind of future wives is that mum raising?
@@CatsRule would you still say that if it were two boys❓🤦🏾♀️
@@tabbypanda82 probably not. Boys always get away with doing less. I do think they should help more, just so they can be more independent. Not to prepare then to be wives or mothers.
@@tabbypanda82 no
@@bellona6356 well that is a pretty limited mindset. Girls are only as limited as the culture that wants to imprison and control them.
The slave work of the poor Asian workers and the rules I'm sick and tired of the rules against domestic workers
I guess if you want a visa to be able to work in another country apart from your own - you have to be prepared to abide by the rules of that visa. And if such foreign workers don't believe they are being treated fairly by their employer (or not in accord with their employment contract) in Israel - there are organisations they can go to to appeal. They did mention that she gets 2 days off a week - which is a good start, at least.
the guy from the beginning at the airport looks like marc zuckerberg
“Deep down inside, all girls want to get married” Whaaat?! Um.. NO
I can never forgive the way Israel is treating the Palestinians. They come from a war where a tyran tried to kill all of them, and move to a country already inhabited, throw them out of their homes and settle down. And still today they treat Palestinians like dirt. We, the Danish people, helped rescue Jewes during the war and this is how you show your appreciation!!
Well. Thank you for saving Jews. I would say this regardless of my ethnic background.
BUT this does not give you any right to dictate to Jewish people your belief.
This is not the concern of you Danes
The Israeli government only installed the wall & the checkpoints as a protective/safety measure for Israel, after previous rocket attacks from Palestine on Israel/Jerusalem, & also the bombing of at least 1 Jerusalem passenger bus. You can't eally blame them for wanting to protect themselves & their country/citizens.
in which church the little girl was baptized?
I think he said German Lutheran. Built before WW1 with donations from the German Empire.
Did you see that 90 years old?!))
It seemed REALLY strange to me how that little girl was making a scandal about staying with her Dad. And when she was at her Dad's she phoned up to apologise to her Mum. That is something a child would normally do when they are back home!🤔
no not really. Children like their routine. The little girl was crying and clearly the dad told her to apologise to her mum. Which is very nice of her ex husband as no mother likes to see her child unhappy. So she called to say that she is fine. Small children aren't adults its not like she will think oh I made my mum upset I better apologise.
@@MissCocoSays That is my very point! Didn't I say above that that's not something a child would normally do on their own? 🙄. So your last sentence was totally redundant and unnecessary. You basically just regurgitated what I'd already said.
The only reason why she apologised was because she was under direction to do so from her Father. But her Dad wasn't saying a word to intervene when his daughter was making a scandal not to go with him when she was at her Mum's home. He was very passive, even though the Mother needed support in dealing with their daughter.
And yes, I agree. The purpose was to reassure the Mum she was Ok. But I wonder if she was actually Ok, it all seemed a slight bit off to me.
I think her father forced her to apologize to her mother.
@@nomad9338 it’s the right thing to do after her fit over something like that she’s too young to fully understand yet . I’m sure as she got older and I’m definitely sure if she watched this back as a teenager and see how she acted she’d be embarrassed and apologize again over causing her mom stress over it but that doesn’t change the fact she’s a CHILD (I’ll also say it’s NORMAL for a father or any PARENT OR guardian with common sense to teach her that it wasn’t right of her to react the way she did) and she’s reacting normally to one who’s life is unstable and feeling overwhelmed jumping around
Knowing the teachings of the orthodox oral tradition regarding small children, makes my stomach cringe in worry for the little girl. I pray those things are not practiced in this day and age.
My religion is No religion, believe me is truly good
I would love to go to turkey, Israel, telavive (which I heard was *live*) but mostly as a 20 year old so i could have deplaned and started like, hooking up with locals to get a "real" experience like I did in Ghana and when I studied in france. How *does* one visit internationally and like, *not* tour the boys as a portal to a true "native" experience?? When I landed in Ghana? Damn near had an entire family 2 hours in
If any country fascinated me it is 'Jerusalem' but unfortunately, the Prophet Abraham WS ummah made it difficulty for themselves. I meant Jews, Christians and Muslims. Please co-exist peacefully
Even though Jews, Christians, & Muslims are all said to follow "Abrahamic" religions, the "Gods" that they follow are all very different, as described in the scriptures of each of those religions.
This matchmaking lady is a miracleworker.
She introduced 200 guys to a girl and the girl came crying several times. She told her what is important for a good match in a
marriage.
Now this girl is married and mother of a baby.
This red haired girl Esther had strange expectations at first meeting with the matchmaker.
Good heart and handsome guy, clever but not too intellectual.
At age 28 she is considered old for marriage in Israel.
She was picky because one match was 38 years. Then handsome looks were very important for her as well but she can not even say what it means.
The matchmaker said that they will need three more sessions to get realistic requirements there.
I think so, too.
She concentrated on surface only and doesn't have a clue what is really important when two people live together.
I have seen other jewish episodes where as young as 19 yr old girls describe their requirements too realistically.. like what kind of job .. which family he should be from.. what hobbies they prefer.. age bars.. it's interesting to watch both totally different point of views
@@shortyshort6518 well, at age 19 the girls can have a choice of 200 available young men between 19 to 25.
The red haired girl is 28 tears old, so all men her age are married for some years already.
I am sure in New York she could find her match much better.
Would be interesting to see how she is doing now.
Rather than "handsome" - I think she just said the guy should be "good looking". In later episodes of this documentary there were at least 2 single Jewish guys around her age who were still looking for wives - both I would have described as "reasonable looking" - perhaps she could have gotten in touch with them.
I would love to have a beautiful intelligent Jewish woman in my life, what a treasure that would be.
45:51 min was that the cauliflower she made? Looks good anyone got a recipe? Or what the name is again?
Its called maqloubeh
Look it up on google
@@elmajahic783 Thank you very much! :*
@@susanbreckenridge57 I would be searching for a long time...so I really needed the name...but Thank you.
I don’t understand how a widowed mother who works full time, cleans the home, does the laundry and has all the responsibilities doesn’t ask her teenage children to at least help make dinner. Is this a culture thing where they do everything themselves and don’t ask for help?
The urinal joke😃
Wow so the marriage broker completely took everything she was looking for in a husband and convinced her otherwise. She’s going to end up with a husband she doesn’t love
She just was about getting paid even at the expense of making a mess of someone's life.
I thought divorce was frowned upon in the Jewish community?
That doesn't mean people don't get divorced. If you look at the statistics released by the Chief Rabbinate, 11,145 Jewish couples divorced via the Israel Jewish religious courts in 2018 and the trend is upwards.
@@Sparrowdean interesting! I was thinking the divorcing parties need to seek guidance from their Rabbi first.
Divorce is actually frowned upon by all 3 Abrahamic religions - Judaism, Christianity, & Islam - if one is a practising believer of any of those religions. But it still happens in all 3 religions. In Judaism & Islam, it is usually the husband who can agree to or initiate the divorce. In Judaism, if the husband does not agree to the wife's request for a divorce - she can literally remain tied to him for years, in the eyes of the religion, because there is no such thing as a "secular" divorce in Israel - just as there is no such thing as a secular marriage in Israel. But for those Jews who may have gotten married & live outside of Israel, a secular divorce & secular re-marriage may be possible - but they may not be allowed to have a Jewish re-marriage, without the Get (ie Jewish divorce) - even outside of Israel.
If I live to be 100 years old I'll never understand people's religious beliefs, they just make no sense at all.
Lol. You can’t expect just... being in this world and “light from above” would guide you 🤣🤣🤣. At least study their doctrines (they are all documented) or at least live their traditions. People in religions just try to find a purpose of life, or something to believe in (since how can you live without a moral standard? Being a swinger every time? 😅😅😅)
learn about history,events and books of all 3 abrahamic relegíons and you will find truth and God just like abraham!
@@beut6151 Don't be so idiotic, it's because I've studied different religions that I know they don't make sense.
@@Musman-vr2mu You are deluded. From my own observations the most immoral, wicked and corrupt people always profess to have religious beliefs. And, the kindest, most considerate and non-judgemental people will generally claim to be areligious.
It's entwined with culture and the need to belong in cultures that put is much emphasis on this. But I agree it doesn't make sense. Especially in multi cultural context.
I WOULD NOT send my child to my ex if she having that much reluctance to go. There must be more to it. Girls usually adore thier dad! Especially at that age so it's a bit worrying to see her refusing over and over to go to her dad.
The girl feels rejected and like a ping pong ball between parents. Divorce messes up children. I wouldnt blame the father. Both are to blame
@@etcwhatever hmmm thats another way to look at it true
To me it didn’t seem like she didn’t want to see her dad, she just didn’t want to have to move houses again. She was tired of having to constantly move between houses and that she doesn’t know when she will have to go because her parents are constantly changing plans. It sounds like she just really wanted a stable routine so she can know what’s happening. At that age kids are becoming more aware of the world around them so they don’t like being left in the dark, they like to know what’s happening and what to expect. And when you’re in those developmental years it’s important to feel comfortable and secure so you can develop well.
@@rachelcookie321 In my country divorced parents move out of the house every 2 weeks and the kid stays always in the family house. I think that's more expensive but better for the kid.
@@asdzt123 really? What county are you from? I feel like the parents having to share a house while divorced and not seeing eachother would be a mess. Like either just live together in the house full time or move out.
What is the matter with the subtitles??
Orthodox Jewish men don’t shake women’s hands - ever, so he is a real joker... 🎪
I wondered about that!
I thought that too.
He’s a convert, he’s talking about it in the first 20 minutes of the doc
He never said he was orthodox. He said his conversion was Conservative not Orthodox.
I saw that, I'm orthodox and it was noticeable. We do not touch women at all.
Say no to apartheid!!!
Free Palestine.
That’s apartheid in its proper dressing.
Omgosh Yisrael 😲 I can't believe you're in this documentary
Do you know him?
"All I want is a guy who has a good heart, is smart, and good looking." 🙄 For some unknown reason, “God” favors people who have good DNA. The people with good genes always seem to get the first choice of attractive partners. It’s fascinating how that works.🤔
The wife did such a good job molding him,that someone else took him.Need table manners ,.48
The things about religion, especially when different ones are packed so closely together in one small space geographically, is that whilst they follow strict rules according to their faith, only one of these faiths can be right. Jews do not believe that Jesus is the messiah or son of God, Christians do, Muslims believe that Jesus was a prophet, but that Mohammed who came later was the chosen one. These are exclusive beliefs with some different core beliefs and rules,, even if they all share the same foundation. Does this not inspire doubt rather than conviction?
The Palestinian mother with 2 daughters should seriously ask them to help her
Filipinos are nice people anyway that was a dumb question by the reporter they take care of your old people because you yourselves have neglected them
It's not always the case that they are being neglected - but often that they just don't have any family members or relatives who are themselves capable of looking after them. The Israeli lady featured in this documentary was a spinster (never married) - so she had no children or husband who could have looked after her. All she had was 1 brother who was also quite elderly & probably not in a position to care for her.
7 minutes in, when they’re at the church (speaking German i believe) my phone was doing English subtitles. Gibberish 😂😂😂😂
Roland must be rich.
The mother needs to ask her little girl why she does not want to go with her father not get mad at her there may be a good reason, put your listening ears on.
Youre reading too much into it. Divorce is bad for children thats all. They dont like to move around
The girl already stated the reason - it was because there had been a few changes to the custody schedule - they had a bit of an argument about it.
Sad to see that the little girls mother is a smoker. That little girl is a smart one and those parents better be on their toes around her.
34:00 А почему дочери не готовят?
Why aren't her daughters making dinner?
Agreed.
EXACTLY WHAT I SAID!!
This is very disjointed, doesn't make sense.
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